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Speaker 1: Welcome to decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you should say decisions decisions.

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Speaker 3: It sounded like you was talking to Kirsten.

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Speaker 1: You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 1: You want to say together the decisions decisions.

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Speaker 2: Boy, it has been a hill of a week.

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Speaker 1: Listen, we're recording this a little bit before today. If

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Speaker 1: the Purge didn't happen today, y'all great for us.

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Speaker 4: You know what I and I said it over on

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Speaker 4: the on the Patreon. What if this doesn't even entr

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Speaker 4: but what if we're not gonna do that?

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Speaker 3: Don't do that?

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Speaker 4: January twenty, I told you whenever the Purge happened, bitch's

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Speaker 4: another country.

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Speaker 2: Are you gonna beet let's predict where am I gonna be?

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Speaker 1: I do want to be somewhere where I could probably

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Speaker 1: get fucked because I need to.

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Speaker 2: Give little Jamaican Ralph.

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Speaker 4: I don't bro my daddy Jamaican. I don't really be

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Speaker 4: wanting Jamaican dick like that. It's too aggressive. They don't understand.

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Speaker 3: No croixa talk with that.

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Speaker 5: The other day what we were talking about, because y'all

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Speaker 5: was talking about fucking Western Islanders or some show like that.

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Speaker 2: You know what we're not doing.

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Speaker 1: What is someone from I got?

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Speaker 2: I got.

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Speaker 4: I got to spend the New Year's there, so I

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Speaker 4: know I didn't ask them. But yeah, No, for the purge,

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Speaker 4: where would I want to go? I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 4: Tokyo That's that's the place I want to go.

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Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold.

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Speaker 4: You if I am at the at the end of God,

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Speaker 4: damn humanity, the damn skippy.

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Speaker 2: I want some sushi.

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Speaker 3: I want to They're gonna make you to sushi. Don't

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Speaker 3: do that.

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Speaker 4: They not know the purge is only happening in the

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Speaker 4: noted states of a man.

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Speaker 2: Oh my, what that's the problem.

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Speaker 3: No, that's not problem matter.

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Speaker 1: You've never been to a Roman restaurant.

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Speaker 4: That's okay. And now we're going to that one Asian girl.

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Speaker 4: You could have got some ship out of this.

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Speaker 2: Don't do that.

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Speaker 4: She was Filipino. Well I didn't know. Damn AnyWho. I

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Speaker 4: guess we'll start with a quick catch up. Damn not

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Speaker 4: to damn for the mood.

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Speaker 1: But basically I am dealing with like how to be

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Speaker 1: like the support system for friends dealing with infertility.

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Speaker 2: And it's a problem because I'm like, man, fuck them kids,

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Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 4: What I mean, and I'm just like, who cares, You're

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Speaker 4: not gonna have a baby ever, Like, I'm really battling

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Speaker 4: with my own views on motherhood with also being empathetic

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Speaker 4: to women who would like to be mothers and who

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Speaker 4: would like to carry and they're having the difficulty either conceiving, caring,

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Speaker 4: or the doctors are like, bitch, I don't know if

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Speaker 4: this is gonna be possible for you, And so here

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Speaker 4: I am like, you know, it's not the worst thing

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Speaker 4: that can happen, but to them, of course, for a

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Speaker 4: lot of women, motherhood is kind of ingrained in us.

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Speaker 4: And so I think right now dealing with me just

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Speaker 4: wanting all my friends to live and being like that's

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Speaker 4: not the worst thing. I'm like really dealing with the

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Speaker 4: empathy around women wanting to be moms.

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Speaker 1: Well, but not like I was gonna ask you about

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Speaker 1: how you feel about children the other day because we

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Speaker 1: were talking about how, you know, evolving from horrible to

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Speaker 1: decisions decisions, and all the baby jokes at me, and

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Speaker 1: Rihanna said something to me like, wouldn't be crazy for

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Speaker 1: you and Maandy did at the same time for my baby.

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Speaker 1: At the same time, I was.

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Speaker 2: Like, pregnancy so I can't do with each other with

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Speaker 2: regular horribles.

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Speaker 1: Pregnancy hormones fits the shows on you know I'm any

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Speaker 1: more and yeah, no, so she goes I said she

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Speaker 1: don't want kids. She's like, well, oh, I was like.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know, she's not really like

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Speaker 4: She was like, yeah, she is, no, But I'm not like, no,

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Speaker 4: why would she say that she ain't been around me

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Speaker 4: with kids or no.

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Speaker 1: But I think it's when we consider someone to be

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Speaker 1: like a happy person or something like that. When someone

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Speaker 1: says they don't like kids, I have an image of

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Speaker 1: them and it's not necessarily so when she said it,

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Speaker 1: I understood why.

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Speaker 2: She was like, no, Mandy doesn't like.

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Speaker 1: I don't even think attracted you really, So now I

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Speaker 1: was gonna ask you, do you really not enjoy the

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Speaker 1: company of a baby, the innocent of the company of

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Speaker 1: Do you.

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Speaker 3: Enjoy the company of a baby?

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Speaker 5: Joy?

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Speaker 3: The company of a bent? I love my nephew, hate

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Speaker 3: his company.

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Speaker 1: I absolutely enjoy being around kids.

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Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie any kid. No, bro, they stay, Oh,

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Speaker 2: there could be terrible kids, but like they.

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Speaker 4: Think, they don't even talk back when I see and

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Speaker 4: I see babies.

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Speaker 1: You walk like, oh wow, hold on, Danny, you're single.

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Speaker 1: We don't have to bring up the divorce. Damn. Wow,

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Speaker 1: this isn't for facts sake, joke. Danny's on for fact sake,

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Speaker 1: and that's a safe space to make fun of him

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Speaker 1: being divorced with no dog and wife.

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Speaker 3: Damn, I want kids.

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Speaker 6: I'm thirty two now, whatever I got by, like thirty seven,

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Speaker 6: I'm done after that.

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Speaker 2: Are you gonna get a baseect to me?

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Speaker 5: Na?

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Speaker 2: See, this is the fucking bullshit.

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Speaker 3: If you get of a sect to me, I mean everybody.

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Speaker 2: Do you want kids?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: But he said after thirty seven, that's it? But why

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Speaker 4: would you not get a aseex to me? If you

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Speaker 4: no longer would want kids?

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Speaker 6: If I was in their committed relationship, sure I'd get one. Sure,

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Speaker 6: I'm not like totally again.

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Speaker 1: Set it in like a car. Sure, I guess I

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Speaker 1: guess she wants one. I guess I'll give it to

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Speaker 4: No if you if men don't want kids, but wait,

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Speaker 4: he does want kids? No, but he said after thirty seven.

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Speaker 4: So I'm saying, if you are a man who is like,

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Speaker 4: understand why there's not more support groups supporting the efforts

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Speaker 4: of aasectomy. I need that to like because that conversation,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Because then we're dealing with

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Speaker 4: seeing all the men on the internet and all these

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Speaker 4: other things that are like I want the kid, I

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Speaker 4: told you not to have it.

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Speaker 2: Well, baby, do you see who's in the office. We

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Speaker 2: might not even be able.

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Speaker 3: To abort it. Right.

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Speaker 6: So it's also like not a hard and fast it's

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Speaker 7: Looking at it.

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Speaker 4: But I started looking at what countries give the best abortions,

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Speaker 4: and if I can't get it here, and now I

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Speaker 2: I got the money, little ticket. I just started looking.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know who's like where you know,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna go to my home lane, but I know.

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Speaker 1: Like the other, like the other, the beach for a

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Speaker 1: few days, and then when it happened, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Just other countries definitely do abortions.

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Speaker 4: But I want to go to the place like that's

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Speaker 4: the most like the most safe, like I don't want to.

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Speaker 2: You know what, let me look up right now, the

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Speaker 2: safest because I.

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Speaker 3: Want to give this information. I'm trying to figure out

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Speaker 3: how to type abortion country.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what's the best country for abortions? Come on, ladies,

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Speaker 4: Sweden of course, of course. Oh and I see here

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Speaker 4: Argentina and Thailand.

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Speaker 5: No, I think those are just the highest rates. Whoa, whoa,

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Speaker 5: So that's my thing.

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Speaker 3: No, No, that's what I saw, Hi, girls, I saw.

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Speaker 2: Hey, that's very jas funny of you.

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Speaker 1: Let's go which country has the best abortion laws? Argentina

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Speaker 1: and Thailand right under there has the highest abortion rate?

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Speaker 3: Greenland, Bennam, Madagascar.

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Speaker 2: Greenland's damn near Sweden. That means the safest. No, no, no,

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 3: So that's why I said, I still have to do

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Speaker 3: some goddamn research.

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Speaker 1: But abortions are really like generally safe, so they're not

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Speaker 4: No, there's actually a lot of countries with very restrict

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Speaker 4: abortion laws, which is that's the thing.

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Speaker 2: So you want to look at like laws that are.

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Speaker 4: Pro abortion, then you have to look at the medical

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Speaker 4: care system of that country or save abortions. But then

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Speaker 4: like there's restriction to abortions, which is what we're witnessing

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Speaker 4: right Like first off, the six week band bullshit baby,

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Speaker 1: So I'm just like, they're not even missing in four weeks,

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Speaker 4: Like when I went in and had my abortion at

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Speaker 4: sixteen years old, I knew the exactly I said, bitch.

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Speaker 4: I knew it happened on mother fourth of July, right

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Speaker 4: I was six weeks. I said, I didn't have sex

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Speaker 4: two weeks before I had sex.

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Speaker 2: This date.

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Speaker 4: They would not tell. They would not let me tell

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Speaker 4: them my date of conception. And I was like, bitch,

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Speaker 4: I was there, you.

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Speaker 1: Know what I's it was literally wait till this book

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Speaker 2: But like, yeah, it's crazy, it's crazy. What's been up

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Speaker 2: with you though?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I'm gonna be I've been filming sex cells

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Speaker 1: We're heading to Vegas in a few days.

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Speaker 2: What else Christmas, Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Hanaka, all the things happened honestly this

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Speaker 1: year twenty twenty five. I'm coming, you know, working on

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Speaker 1: a new business and kind of putting my footing more

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Speaker 1: in New York. Like there was even a moment recently

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Speaker 1: where I was like, should I just moved on here

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Speaker 1: as to New York? But then I just did this,

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Speaker 1: Like it's harder in New York too, I know, but

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Speaker 1: I was getting around. I just moved them to La

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Speaker 1: it's so warm, like but then I even think like

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Speaker 1: be with family, I get to work, and then it's like,

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Speaker 1: all right, many And.

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Speaker 2: What if I had jewel every day? What would you

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Speaker 2: be asking me every day? Girl?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 1: She asked me on the way to Horrible what I

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Speaker 1: literally said her after a horrible decision that I'm thirty

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Speaker 1: it was twelve twenty Can you run me to CBS? Mom?

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Speaker 1: That make me a homosexual? A what that I'm looking

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Speaker 1: Want to want some tea? My homewo was just fucking

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Speaker 1: If you friends will be the your story's gonna be told?

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Speaker 4: He didn't know that she was coming to dance, right,

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Speaker 1: I was like, I click on her Instagram because I

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Speaker 1: I was like, damn, dude, you going through this hard

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Speaker 2: She's still beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Sure it don't mean you can't post your work or

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Speaker 1: doing whatever living life. I'm sure you already had these

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Speaker 1: It's been like two months of this. I was like, yo,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, low key invested. I was thinking about meting

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, she's like in transition right now. But

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Speaker 1: She's been in a transition for two months minimums jesus.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, she's no money, she's making no money.

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Speaker 1: She dripping, is going in the club and seeing is

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Speaker 2: What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Let's talk about it?

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Speaker 2: And yeah, I was shocked.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, well, now you know, she really ain't selling

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Speaker 3: Was selling pussy.

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Speaker 1: She got that right back. Well, no, maybe she sells

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Speaker 1: It still takes a lot of time to make money.

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Speaker 4: Plussy too. The pussy rates alow. Now, hey, they say

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Speaker 1: They're in between this thing of So when she goes

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Speaker 1: she's not really lying to me, though, is she. I'm like, well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: So now he's like, do I just stick with him?

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Speaker 6: Nah?

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Speaker 4: No, No, what you just said problematic as fucked. We

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Speaker 2: We understand the shame of lies.

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Speaker 1: We cannot I understand someone not telling you that they

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Speaker 1: don't have a home. I do not like she had

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Speaker 2: Who knows you's gonna be judged?

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Speaker 1: Bro, Let me tell you this, the shame of I

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Speaker 1: I know everybody says you should never do this. I

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Speaker 1: I feel like, how you know, like it is what

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Speaker 3: Not?

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Speaker 2: And literally it's been dating to homeless person.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I mean he's enjoying himself, right, yeah, I

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Speaker 4: mean to me though, a lot of men realistically don't

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Speaker 4: give a fuck with a bitch guy.

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Speaker 1: She can have a penthouse or live with ten roommates.

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Speaker 1: Niggas do not care. But anyway, I brought that up.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of like what you want to do in

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Speaker 4: You know it, ain't you got up? I say, no, Okay,

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Speaker 4: let's get into our hypothetical again. Y'all if you had

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Speaker 4: to fuck for the apartment, well, I'm not gonna hold you.

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Speaker 4: I don't mind second little dick to have a place

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Speaker 4: to stay while I come up how many days?

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Speaker 3: That's only if I stay more than how many digs?

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Speaker 3: Whoa just one day?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Sorry, I just said I want.

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Speaker 1: To boot and you're in a hypothetical portion. He didn't

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Speaker 1: know what to ask me to do. Yeah, I just thought, okay,

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Speaker 1: now you're we're getting a little extreme.

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Speaker 2: I have the Ariatt discount.

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Speaker 1: I can no, I ain't gonna hold you. I will

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Speaker 1: stay by at the airport. If I have the airport

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Speaker 1: discounts me hidden. Maybe when you want to come to

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Speaker 1: the city, it'd be like.

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Speaker 3: Honey, that was a night we talked about.

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Speaker 1: Bro.

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Speaker 4: That'sk now that them New York prices is crazy. Let

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Speaker 4: me tell you how I know about this.

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Speaker 1: So I've lived in the same spot for four years

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Speaker 1: Danny stayed there. If you don't live in New York

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Speaker 1: and we know each other by proxy, you probably staying right.

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Speaker 1: Like my man was like, bro, the door just be open.

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Speaker 1: I don't like this, but I'll be making brand on

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Speaker 1: the shit, like low key. Like the most I've charged

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Speaker 1: for my spot, not even kidding, was five thousand dollars

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Speaker 1: ain't talking to many girl. I'm like, what's going on

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Speaker 1: you okay? She's like Marianna hitting Bruh Hilton name day

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Speaker 1: my first shoar, Like this shit is like hundred dollars, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I give you a few hundred. I'm like, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm never getting rid of a two bedrooms. This is

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Speaker 2: I ain't gonna heared you body be fucking up me.

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Speaker 4: I can't even charge nobody because you may have to

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Speaker 4: leave with band aids and alcohol swabs cause that nobody

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Speaker 4: scratched your ass stuff. I'd be like, my bad, I'm sorry, listen,

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Speaker 4: and I don't even charge you. Mich sron Is to

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Speaker 4: stay at my house before I'm like sure, I'm not

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Speaker 4: gonna be like there's a cat. You gotta deal with

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Speaker 4: body and body, even though you don't pay no goddamn rent.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, motherfucker. He the man of the house.

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Speaker 1: So I don't charge for forty eight seventy two. I

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Speaker 1: ain't hug you, Danny Wright, forty is only above three days. No,

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Speaker 1: like people got above three days. If you try to

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Speaker 1: That's why I'm a.

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Speaker 4: Little But Danny owes me a favor now, so that's

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Speaker 4: a good I'm not even telling nobody my new spot

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Speaker 4: got two bits. Oh yeah, it's a closet.

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Speaker 1: You already. You're too late, baby. All you know, all

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Speaker 1: you've been talking about.

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Speaker 3: Is told thousands of people.

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Speaker 2: It's about it's so big. It's so big for it's

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Speaker 3: I need a room, God damn it.

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Speaker 2: But if you have two floors, I don't know a fuck.

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Speaker 2: You can't get a corner, bitch here, you're down the street.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be so excited to have people come visit.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not. I'm not.

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Speaker 4: I got shout out to Berry. I got my little

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Speaker 4: dick charcooterie board just for me. It's gonna have my cheeses,

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Speaker 4: my meat, just for me and me.

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Speaker 2: She's a meat bitch.

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Speaker 4: I found this hypothetical, and of course it made me

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Speaker 4: think of how much we consider looks. And so you

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Speaker 4: find I made superhero. I go on the reddit thread.

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Speaker 4: I mean sometimes I think hypothetical, but I be on Reddit. Oh,

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Speaker 4: and people's minds were different out here. Reddit's good, it's good.

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Speaker 4: So here's one and I want both of y'all to answer.

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Speaker 4: So you're stuck on a deserted island and you come

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Speaker 4: across and meet a mermaid or mermaid?

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Speaker 3: Okay, would you rather mind you?

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Speaker 4: You're deserted here, this is where you're at for a while.

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Speaker 4: It's only you, but you come across this sea serpent.

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Speaker 4: Would you rather the mermaid be top half fish or

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Speaker 4: bottom half fish?

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Speaker 2: Bottom?

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Speaker 4: Top bottom half top wait top bottom, The bottom is human,

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Speaker 4: the bottom is human.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, if I got a fuck it right. So

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Speaker 2: that's where I wanted to have this conversation.

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Speaker 5: I want so you would fuck a fish if it

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Speaker 5: got a pussy, it got a pussy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know what a pussy feel like. I don't

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Speaker 3: know what I'm not going.

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Speaker 1: So the fact I'm notagine sucking a fish and it's

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Speaker 1: still smells like that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: No but no, no, no, but what what?

444
00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:07,040
Speaker 3: What?

445
00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:07,520
Speaker 2: Okay?

446
00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:09,000
Speaker 4: So here's where I have the problem with. So I

447
00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:11,800
Speaker 4: was thinking about this long, long and hard, right, and

448
00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:15,639
Speaker 4: I'm like, shut up. I was because, first off, fucking

449
00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:18,120
Speaker 4: a fish is crazy. The idea of fucking you're looking

450
00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:20,560
Speaker 4: at a fish even though you're fucking vagina, even though

451
00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:23,760
Speaker 4: you're sucking a dick. So to me, I'm like, okay,

452
00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:27,280
Speaker 4: I could have him eat me out, I could have

453
00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:29,679
Speaker 4: him finger me and then we could talk. This is

454
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Speaker 4: where I'm really getting to my mind.

455
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Speaker 1: Shelfish Tum.

456
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Speaker 3: Followed the font here.

457
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Speaker 4: Okay, well wait, would you guys not if you're deserted,

458
00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,399
Speaker 4: actually be happy that you could have a conversation with

459
00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:52,840
Speaker 4: somebody because you can't talk to me.

460
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Speaker 2: Your face is crazy. You don't want conversation with someone.

461
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Speaker 5: How long am I deserted? You're deserted, bitch, ever, I'm

462
00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:03,800
Speaker 5: dying there. Oh, I get what you're Oh, you want

463
00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:05,280
Speaker 5: me to have compassion with the fish.

464
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Speaker 1: If you're on a certain deserted island, you just want

465
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Speaker 1: to pussy there, or a face to talk to you.

466
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Speaker 3: Because I guess you could sit on that.

467
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Speaker 2: You can sit on the face.

468
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Speaker 1: Okay, I kind of missed the desert island thing. I

469
00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:19,919
Speaker 1: thought it was like, one night, you're on an island.

470
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Speaker 3: What do you do? Yeah, that's what I'm thinking, island.

471
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Speaker 4: Okay, I was stranded, like fucking old boy that had

472
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Speaker 4: the the what was the Tom Hanks.

473
00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:32,760
Speaker 2: With the goddamn So that's what I'm saying.

474
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Speaker 4: Say he didn't have the volleyball, but you see how

475
00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:36,159
Speaker 4: important it was for him to talk.

476
00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:39,440
Speaker 5: To Okay, in that light, Yes, I would have human top,

477
00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:44,240
Speaker 5: human top, like I'd rather human top.

478
00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:46,080
Speaker 2: The fact that both of y'all were willing to just

479
00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:49,520
Speaker 2: fuck fish is crazy, But I thought that was the hypothetical.

480
00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:50,880
Speaker 2: Like I thought it was some kookie thing.

481
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Speaker 3: We're gonna be like you were about to have fish stick.

482
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Speaker 1: No. I just wasn't gonna have sex. I was just

483
00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:58,320
Speaker 1: gonna have oral sex, fingering and conversation. Oh my god,

484
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Speaker 1: imagine if you funk that, you can call it a fish.

485
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Speaker 2: Thick I'm not.

486
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Speaker 3: I don't want to fish it like fish stick? Do

487
00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:05,360
Speaker 3: you like fish stick?

488
00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:07,639
Speaker 1: You know what?

489
00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:10,359
Speaker 4: It's crazy if we really want to talk to the people,

490
00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,840
Speaker 4: if you are over the age of nineteen, that's what

491
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Speaker 4: I'm giving.

492
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Speaker 2: And you eat fish sticks or chicken tenders? Who what's

493
00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:22,400
Speaker 2: wrong with watching bro or chicken? How old are you?

494
00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:23,399
Speaker 2: My nigga?

495
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Speaker 4: Do not order no fish sticks or chicken tens. That's

496
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Speaker 4: the restaurant period. Well at the piece of damn.

497
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Speaker 2: So better not go a nigga house, open a freezer

498
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Speaker 2: and I see fucking.

499
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Speaker 3: Fish you know how.

500
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Speaker 2: I know it's ridiculous.

501
00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:37,800
Speaker 1: Me and my man were out somewhere where there's like

502
00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:39,399
Speaker 1: three options left, you know, when it's like a late

503
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Speaker 1: night venu.

504
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Speaker 3: Don't give a fun don't kill no.

505
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Speaker 1: It's like so it's like three am we ate chicken tenders?

506
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Speaker 6: Right?

507
00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:48,120
Speaker 2: He's like, yo, this is someone becoming.

508
00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:52,600
Speaker 3: And I was like, yo, I don't know to laugh.

509
00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:58,560
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm gone a chicken there.

510
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Speaker 4: If there's three out of the gallop in you and

511
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:02,720
Speaker 4: there's three out of of the menu and one is

512
00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:05,480
Speaker 4: a chicken tender, best believe there's a there's a French

513
00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:09,119
Speaker 4: do not order no goddamn tenders or no fish sticks

514
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:11,920
Speaker 4: with your grown age nuggets is even worse.

515
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Speaker 2: Baby, those are for children.

516
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Speaker 1: Okay, Jenny, what's the meal you could take one of

517
00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:19,400
Speaker 1: these lovely ladies since you're divorced.

518
00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:23,399
Speaker 2: That's crazy on a date and where could she eat them?

519
00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:29,320
Speaker 7: Make you be like, bitch, chicken fish sticks is crazy?

520
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 7: It's crazy. That's crazy.

521
00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:32,800
Speaker 1: Okay. If you took a girl to a nice spot

522
00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:37,240
Speaker 1: and she ordered pizza, would be like, well, yeah.

523
00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:38,240
Speaker 2: There's pizza on the menu.

524
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Speaker 4: It's probably a wood oven if it's if you're at

525
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:47,880
Speaker 4: a nice restaurant that fucking pershudo ands and like fancasoms.

526
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Speaker 6: You know what I mean.

527
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:50,320
Speaker 2: But is there like anemo?

528
00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:53,879
Speaker 7: What's it like the chicken alfredo or something like that.

529
00:21:54,000 --> 00:22:00,919
Speaker 3: Basic that's hilarious. I love that chicken. That's I'm a nigga.

530
00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 6: But if you go to apasta spot and let me

531
00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 6: get the chicken afraid of that's crazy.

532
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:06,320
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie.

533
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:07,440
Speaker 1: It's like ordering shripp.

534
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:10,640
Speaker 2: I just said that on Instagram Live.

535
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:12,080
Speaker 3: Don't you dare.

536
00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:17,360
Speaker 4: Nigglets be with me at a Japanese restaurant and you

537
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,240
Speaker 4: order a motherfucking ships and poora or a motherfucker.

538
00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 2: California roll.

539
00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:22,920
Speaker 3: That's it, that's being done.

540
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 2: California rolls like you're gonna order the invitation. Bro, what

541
00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 2: are we talking about? I don't do crab with a cat.

542
00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 1: But also the fact that you want your ship fry

543
00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 1: hard deep fried.

544
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,479
Speaker 3: What if people don't like raw fish, let's not eat here.

545
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:37,119
Speaker 6: We shouldn't.

546
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Speaker 1: I don't want to say you know how to give

547
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:44,720
Speaker 1: so let me, But basically I took him to his

548
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 1: knights on a passe. We do this thing. By the way,

549
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 1: this is like a little horror derrive, but we're gonna

550
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:50,400
Speaker 1: throw back the decision like horrible decisions.

551
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Speaker 3: Uh.

552
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:53,399
Speaker 1: He had this idea that each month we plan a

553
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:56,359
Speaker 1: date completely, not like going to dinner and ship, but

554
00:22:56,440 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 1: like a really intentional night. So we did this little

555
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,440
Speaker 1: Asian knight thing, not like the girl you dated.

556
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 2: In real Japanese. She was a Filipino, a real Japanese night.

557
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 1: So I took it on Ma cassea And it's so

558
00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:11,439
Speaker 1: crazy because the more high end on my casa is

559
00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 1: fish maybe three hundred dollars person, the more fucking disgusting

560
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 1: the food looks.

561
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,399
Speaker 3: You're thinking, my nigga eats suya.

562
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 1: If you don't know that, like the they're well done

563
00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: steak for you know, African food, like, but he eats

564
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 1: sushi with me. They bringing out the salmon road and

565
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 1: I just wait.

566
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 2: Shit, that was moving.

567
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:32,200
Speaker 1: They had a fish like that moved and I just

568
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 1: remember he was like, oh yeah, I feel like sugar

569
00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 1: fish is better than this, so like sugar dude, like

570
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, but like I was like okay, and

571
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 1: then like tuna belly but this part is the tuna

572
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 1: and he's just like, but it's crazy because literally I'm like,

573
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 1: but you fishhead like Caribbean people do too, but there

574
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 1: is something about fish when it's wrong and you're just

575
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 1: looking at it and it's slimy and you're like, I don't.

576
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 2: Get fuck if you don't like is discussed, if you

577
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 2: don't like raw fish.

578
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:02,520
Speaker 3: Being going out.

579
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 1: I don't want to hypocrite as nigga, like how you

580
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:06,439
Speaker 1: don't like raw fish but you eat couci.

581
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 4: You know what else will piss me off to? And

582
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 4: I'm in Atlanta now, so you know niggas go to

583
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:15,120
Speaker 4: the strip club. It's the wings that don't order your

584
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:19,879
Speaker 4: wings fried hard and then ask for extra wet that

585
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 4: don't make no goddamn sense, niggas be like an extra wet,

586
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 4: motherfucking lemon pepper.

587
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 2: But you want it fried hard. Now it's about to

588
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:27,160
Speaker 2: make it make sense.

589
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 1: I need you to know what make it fried hard? Hold,

590
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:32,680
Speaker 1: I really want to see what is oonie?

591
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:35,359
Speaker 3: Like what? It's sea urchin.

592
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:40,119
Speaker 4: It's the sea urch kind of like the muscle is

593
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:43,880
Speaker 4: the inside of the shell. That's heart at the bottom

594
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,680
Speaker 4: of it. You don't like, we don't know the gonads,

595
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,360
Speaker 4: That's what I mean, because it's not just the sea urchin.

596
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 3: It's a handful.

597
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 1: It's the inside, including the reproductive ordin that has the

598
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Speaker 1: eggs in it.

599
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 3: I'm sure you've had words, right you didn't that?

600
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 1: No, any way, you're outline.

601
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:03,640
Speaker 2: Let's go keep wow wow.

602
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,199
Speaker 4: Anyways, glad to know that y'all would fuck fish and

603
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 4: don't care about conversations.

604
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:13,159
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm talking to you. Okay.

605
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,679
Speaker 1: So for this one, I really like this because I

606
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 1: constantly blame Neo and also a little Boosy for this

607
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:24,679
Speaker 1: movement that happened around twenty two thousand and seven to

608
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Speaker 1: like twenty ten, so our primitive years.

609
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Speaker 2: Especially as millennial women leaving the nests.

610
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Speaker 4: Of high school and going into adulthood, and so I

611
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 4: want to play this clip for us to dissect here.

612
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 2: So here we go.

613
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Speaker 8: I want to dismantle this thought that it's too late, yes,

614
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 8: because I think that I'm a millennial, and like millennial

615
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,360
Speaker 8: women would really set up for the okido because they

616
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 8: told us from when we were little, don't depend on anybody,

617
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 8: make sure you get your own, always be independent, go

618
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:57,159
Speaker 8: to college, get an education, don't have a bit butcher,

619
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Speaker 8: don't put don't put a man before your like we

620
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Speaker 8: were ham. The messaging was go to college, have something

621
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 8: that you can stand on, and then think about.

622
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Speaker 1: A man and a baby.

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Speaker 8: And a lot of us did that. And what that

624
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 8: did was it made us older entering motherhood or age,

625
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 8: you know, like we started thinking about it making a

626
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:17,440
Speaker 8: family later. And then I feel like we just got

627
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Speaker 8: shamed on the back end and we were like, wait

628
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Speaker 8: a minute, But I thought this is what we were.

629
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Speaker 3: To shout out.

630
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Speaker 1: That was from the love Seat podcast and I saw

631
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Speaker 1: this and clearly I opened the episode with a lot

632
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Speaker 1: of my friends dealing with infertility, but this was definitely

633
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 1: and maybe it was more encouraged because I grew up

634
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Speaker 1: in a single parent household.

635
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 2: But yeah, as.

636
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Speaker 4: Soon as I got out, I literally, even in my twenties,

637
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 4: felt like I couldn't be a wife or wasn't girlfriend

638
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,119
Speaker 4: even material because my shit wasn't together.

639
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 2: I think missing depended. That's why I love her.

640
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,639
Speaker 4: Like we didn't I in d e PTE all the

641
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 4: shit that we was in the club, like ah, we

642
00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:00,679
Speaker 4: got a little. No, it fucked up our mind to

643
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:03,719
Speaker 4: really thinking that as women. And maybe it was like

644
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 4: this movement of liberation. Maybe it was growing up in

645
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:09,360
Speaker 4: a lot of our single parent households. But I do

646
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 4: feel like if I could go back to my younger self,

647
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:16,399
Speaker 4: I would say that niggas don't give a fuck how

648
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 4: much money, it doesn't matter, like what and again, what's

649
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 4: your apartment?

650
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 1: I think you're speaking around rich No no, no.

651
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:29,359
Speaker 4: I mean, well, right now there's the cohabitating of us

652
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 4: going into both splitting bills. But then no, if we

653
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 4: lean into that narrative, right, I think there's still a

654
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 4: lot of men that want to be providers, that don't

655
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 4: want to make less than a woman that they do.

656
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:40,879
Speaker 2: They want to be providers.

657
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 1: But like at the end of the day, teammateshit is

658
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:46,679
Speaker 1: really almost every married couple in my life that I know,

659
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 1: except for someone that's married to a ballplayer.

660
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 2: I can't.

661
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 1: Maybe they're not splitting down the middle. This is your

662
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:59,360
Speaker 1: portion of the life bill, but they're contributing to their homes.

663
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 1: Like I just I wonder even those women, how long

664
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Speaker 1: it took them to a either get married or if

665
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 1: they did choose marriage and motherhood after college, after getting

666
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 1: a career. So most some of them, Yeah, most of

667
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 1: my friends I got married. Did I'm just even thinking

668
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 1: of someone now, like Josie, my homegirl in London, who

669
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:20,880
Speaker 1: got married, had a baby, like after she was had

670
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 1: her career in order, and it's a lot of her

671
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 1: own money. But she was dating that whole time. She

672
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,440
Speaker 1: got married once before, but like was dating that whole time.

673
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 1: And I don't know, Like Josie moved to London for

674
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 1: her career, right, she was a district managing Miami and

675
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:37,399
Speaker 1: doing all this shit and her shit is popping, and

676
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: like moved to London for the popping career. I never

677
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:43,239
Speaker 1: thought for a moment if Josie met a man that

678
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: was great, she would have left Miami again. I really

679
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 1: don't think. I think we just and I think she

680
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 1: did it the right way. I actually use Josie as

681
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: an example a lot. I know you guys might not

682
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 1: hear her name a lot, but when my friends that

683
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: are younger are feeling like they can't by younger, I

684
00:28:57,080 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: meet my age, can't meet someone. When I said down

685
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: with Josie and her husband, he literally was like, yeah,

686
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 1: I met my sol made a thirty seven thirty eight

687
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 1: and she was like, I've found love later, Like we're

688
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 1: so pressured right now, But like that bitch was making

689
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 1: mad bread travel in the world and if it happened

690
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 1: to happen, and it did, she would have came back

691
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 1: to the States eventually, but she didn't. She had a baby,

692
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: she got married, she's in London. But like, I think

693
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 1: that if we focus on our own shit, that person

694
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 1: will come along the way. That's when we're the happiest,

695
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: that's when things just naturally come. I do believe what

696
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 1: this girl said is completely correct. I think the only

697
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: issue that we have as independent women is the same

698
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 1: reason women have called me a pick mee before. I

699
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 1: think hyper independence, not on some doctor Umar's Kevin Samuel shit.

700
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: Hyper independence. It's not that you're turning men off. It's

701
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 1: that you really make someone feel like they have no place.

702
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 2: I think that.

703
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 4: And so I have a chapter in the book around

704
00:29:56,120 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 4: the notion of a man needing to feel needed in

705
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 4: the dynamic of specifically a heterosexual relationship. And there are

706
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 4: so many men currently that I think, And I mean

707
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 4: we talked about it, even with that clip with Nick Cannon,

708
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 4: with when we sat with Jacquez, like, there's still this

709
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 4: main character thing.

710
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 2: There's still like this.

711
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 4: Manhood element of a woman not necessarily needing quote unquote

712
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 4: their male their male partner.

713
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 3: But we do have two met on the mic.

714
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 4: So I want to ask you guys, in terms of

715
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 4: dating and the women, is independence viewed as a turnoff?

716
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 4: Can a woman be too independent?

717
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 3: Or what has been.

718
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 4: Your your experience with overly or hyper independent women?

719
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 5: I don't know, you know, too independent to me sounds weird, Okay,

720
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 5: I don't see that as like a woman be independent

721
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 5: sounds like a great thing to me. Do I look

722
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 5: for women to be quote unquote fully independent to be

723
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 5: available for me to date her?

724
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 8: No?

725
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 3: But you know, yes, I do think That's what's.

726
00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 2: Like when we are here asking for bill money, niggas

727
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 2: be acking up.

728
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 3: That's gig. You don't want me to bed.

729
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 2: I'm asking about all money.

730
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: So wait, let me ask this how how uh do

731
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 1: you like to feel needed for a man? Do you

732
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: enjoy feeling needed?

733
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 3: That's a great question.

734
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 4: I enjoy us not being co dependent in each other,

735
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 4: so even like my partner, I enjoy him wanting me

736
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 4: around him, desiring me, us pleasing each other. I actually

737
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 4: I didn't spin a baby out my Kouchi on purpose.

738
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 4: I don't think I would be turned on by a

739
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 4: man feeling like he needs me.

740
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 2: And I think that was again, it's not really a.

741
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 1: Word than is because I feel needed, not in a

742
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 1: needy way, but like right.

743
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 2: Uh.

744
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: It could be small things like I'm out of town

745
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: a lot, and it could be like damn, there's this

746
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 1: event you're like damn, I need my baby with me,

747
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 1: or like knowing that I want right right, But maybe

748
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: the word need is used right right. One particular conversation

749
00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 1: that I can remember having about me wanting to feel

750
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 1: more needed.

751
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 6: Uh.

752
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 1: My partner is not one to share things, so it

753
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 1: takes a while for them to come out, and I'm like, yo,

754
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: I really wish that you would lean on me more.

755
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: That is something I feel like I need in a relationship.

756
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 1: I want to feel needed as like a companion for you,

757
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 1: like I want to know that you could turn to me. However,

758
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,719
Speaker 1: if that makes me sound codependent, I'm not sure how

759
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 1: someone will feel about that, but like I do want that.

760
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 3: I want to know that if you're.

761
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 1: Going through something, you do pick up the phone and

762
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 1: call me and instead of trying to like figure it out,

763
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: like lean on me.

764
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 2: I get that. That to me is what I mean

765
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 2: by like need you, But it needs to be fair too.

766
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 4: I have a I guess PTSD around the word need

767
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 4: as well, which I dealt with through therapy, especially with

768
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 4: writing the book, and I realized like I needed niggas

769
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 4: to pay my bills. At one point, I needed niggas

770
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 4: to validate me because I was insecure because.

771
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 2: Of my weight or what I did. I needed a.

772
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 4: Man to experience going overseas and traveling and experiencing life

773
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 4: because I couldn't afford it, and so having that those

774
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 4: needs throughout my twenties and then reaching this level that

775
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 4: I think is great of independence from that, I love

776
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 4: wanting a man. I love a man choosing me. I

777
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 4: love me being able to choose a nigga. I used

778
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 4: to bought niggas that I didn't even think was all that,

779
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 4: but they had money. I love that I get to

780
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 4: choose to fuck you because I want you, I desire you,

781
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 4: and I'm not here out of any outside variables that

782
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 4: you have to.

783
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 1: Put in a committed relationship, like for a man to

784
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:36,239
Speaker 1: say they feel like they're not needed. For example, I

785
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 1: don't think I gave my ex enough ways to show

786
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 1: up for me other than finance, maybe, like to pay

787
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: for something like if I needed something done and he

788
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 1: would take too long, I'll cast grab it or something

789
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: like that. I never let him really do things for me.

790
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 2: Oh bit hing told you.

791
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 4: I'm testing all the nigga's hand building my shit in Atlanta.

792
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 3: Y'all better be a man.

793
00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 4: Ain't a hearty big apartment sign. Oh girl, I been.

794
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 4: That's the that's the interview process. Oh bitch, I'm ordering ship.

795
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 4: I want to see you redonstructions and use them hands.

796
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 4: I ain't got no goddam spark plugs because I ain't

797
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:12,280
Speaker 4: got a car, but I want to see you build

798
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 4: some shit being man.

799
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 2: Okay, you know what I'm thinking about, build some shit.

800
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 1: A few months ago, doctor Cheyenne was on the Breakfast

801
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 1: Club talking about Jazmine. He came new Yeah, and the

802
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 1: old clip of sham Booty came up when she was like, oh,

803
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 1: I like to be completely submissive, like packing the bag,

804
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 1: doing all that stuff. I don't speak that way because

805
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 1: but you are that way, not completely, I don't know,

806
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 1: but man, let me try to laborate. I don't speak

807
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:36,799
Speaker 1: that way because I really believe it makes you look

808
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 1: fucking weak and embarrassing. And to be submissive to talk

809
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 1: like that, oh, he like he's well, he doesn't do anything.

810
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 1: I'll do everything. It's like I just I really do

811
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 1: feel like it looks weak. Now maybe that's because of

812
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 1: my slight hyperindependence, but knowing especially a man like that

813
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 1: who'll be talking about how you fuck out the big

814
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:56,279
Speaker 1: it is and just kind of out here like there's

815
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:56,800
Speaker 1: no way.

816
00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 2: But I close the door.

817
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 3: Bit okay.

818
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:03,399
Speaker 1: I love my nigga hungry. I'll be like, oh my god,

819
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,319
Speaker 1: and he'd be like, no, you're tired, recorder something. I

820
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 1: want to get up. I want to make it. I

821
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: want to get the little tray out. I really enjoy that, however,

822
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 1: and there's a lot of reciprocity in the things that

823
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 1: he does for me, right, So I would ask you,

824
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 1: how are ways that you felt needed, even in a

825
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,280
Speaker 1: marriage that made you feel content.

826
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 3: Need it.

827
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:25,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean just when you're especially when you're doing

828
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 6: entrepreneurial stuff like we you know, freelance and stand up whatever,

829
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 6: Just to have someone that respects the process and not

830
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:34,320
Speaker 6: just the end result.

831
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:35,439
Speaker 7: Like now I'm.

832
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 6: Working with dope creators, produce dope shows, do dope things

833
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 6: and on my way. So it looks cooler now than

834
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 6: they did two years ago. So if you can like

835
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 6: invest in the this person's working their ass off and

836
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 6: I know their hard work will lead to something. So

837
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 6: let me not put the pressure of the immediate. But

838
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 6: like I see my nigga or my girl to the

839
00:35:57,880 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 6: back to the independent point. Maybe she doesn't have it

840
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,240
Speaker 6: all right now, but she's starting her own lash business

841
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 6: or he's starting his own x y Z business.

842
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 1: That only becomes hard when you really got bills today,

843
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 1: Like how long? How long do you accept the.

844
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 2: Grind right until you like, nigga, go get a jaw

845
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:15,439
Speaker 2: right right, you know what I mean?

846
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 3: Like how long? I mean?

847
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 7: I think I think it depends.

848
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 6: I think I was in a relationship when I did it,

849
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:23,359
Speaker 6: so it was like as long as I can pay

850
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:26,360
Speaker 6: at least half of what I am responsible for the

851
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 6: house cool at that point. Also, minds you I was

852
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 6: paying most of the bills prior. Okay, so if I

853
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 6: need to take a step back and you're now doing

854
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 6: way better than I am now, then you would thinking theory.

855
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 2: That would real grown conversation.

856
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:40,759
Speaker 7: Right exactly. It's not easy, for sure, It's not easy,

857
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 7: you know.

858
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 1: I think about that now as I'm dating someone that

859
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 1: I've never dated, someone I've talked about marriage to this

860
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,839
Speaker 1: extent with. And he's a real estate investor, and I

861
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:53,399
Speaker 1: remember thinking to myself, if he really wanted to buy

862
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 1: a property that cost a lot of money down, but

863
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: he knew.

864
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 3: This was to go.

865
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:58,480
Speaker 1: I want to buy this commercial building. I need to

866
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 1: spend a quarter million dollars down on this something. How

867
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,959
Speaker 1: long do I handle holding it down. I've really thought

868
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:07,360
Speaker 1: about this because now that I'm starting a new business,

869
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,959
Speaker 1: he's offered me money. It's funny, I actually thought about

870
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 1: you because when you opened your studio, i'd turned that

871
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:13,800
Speaker 1: nigga's money down. He didn't ask me for equity.

872
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 4: I don't think he asked me for equity, but I

873
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 4: think it was an idea of your doing this just

874
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 4: a return like interest.

875
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 2: I didn't feel.

876
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 3: I don't know.

877
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:26,319
Speaker 1: Basically, I was looking up he wasn't getting I was

878
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 1: looking up loans and he was asking me the APR

879
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 1: and then he was looking at me. We're at dinner

880
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 1: and he was like, how would you feel if I

881
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 1: gave it to you? And I actually felt nothing. I

882
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 1: thought he was gonna say equity and he was like, yeah,

883
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:41,759
Speaker 1: like why would you pay back ten percent to the

884
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 1: second place?

885
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 2: Like that's ridiculous.

886
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what for someone to

887
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: have that cash on hand to give you an offer

888
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 1: with nothing give you or borrow like borrow borrow, but

889
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 1: like to lend you, excuse me, lend you. I thought

890
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 1: that was amazing. And when I saw that he did

891
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 1: that for me because I don't need the money. I

892
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 1: want to build something else, right, I really thought the

893
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:05,399
Speaker 1: what he just said made me realize I would probably

894
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 1: do it too, because what if that quarter million was

895
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: I could put in a hundred to it? Would I

896
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 1: do that for my partner in a marriage? I think so,

897
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 1: and I'm not married to him, but we talk about it.

898
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:16,879
Speaker 1: I think that's why he offered that to me. And

899
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 1: what you're saying, Danny, made me start thinking. I was like,

900
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 1: I really do think I would hold somebody down. I

901
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: don't know how long the grind is, but I gotta

902
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 1: really believe, right, I think in my head, you're buying

903
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: a property that's a few million dollars. That's our family.

904
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 1: It's gonna be coming back to the household. Why wouldn't

905
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,840
Speaker 1: I let you get this time off to build?

906
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 2: Right?

907
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:40,960
Speaker 1: However, I don't believe it comes with empty dreams. The

908
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 1: problem this is no shade you because you are a

909
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 1: successful comedian. You put out amazing shit. So I think

910
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,360
Speaker 1: that creatives don't get that respect.

911
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,800
Speaker 7: Oh it is because yeah.

912
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to fucking go on stage and be funny

913
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 1: and you just gotta trust it.

914
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 3: I'm gonna blow.

915
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 7: Even producing podcast is not necessarily seen, you.

916
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 6: Know, as like a real thing.

917
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 1: But to me, like for your name, you're a big

918
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 1: podcast producer, so it's like, but maybe even just hearing

919
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 1: the names you work with ain't enough, Like you gotta

920
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:13,439
Speaker 1: really think also, not just.

921
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 2: Think, but it ain't even the name what them checks him?

922
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 4: No, it's it's the checks right now that now you

923
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 4: could be as funny as you want to age. No, no,

924
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 4: but you could be as funny as you are on stage,

925
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 4: I could think you're funny as fun But if you're

926
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 4: telling me I'm missing out being with you at night

927
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:29,880
Speaker 4: for you to go make eighty dollars at the lab Factory,

928
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:31,880
Speaker 4: I don't go a fuck out funny you are that

929
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 4: ain't paying the goddamn bill.

930
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 2: However, what if it became eighty.

931
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:38,239
Speaker 1: It could, and it could what it becomes a eight

932
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 1: thouand when you're on tour and.

933
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:42,240
Speaker 4: Shit, But I think, but I think for creatives and overall,

934
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:46,320
Speaker 4: when you look at supporting a partner in their dreams,

935
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 4: the odds and the stacks are are literally stacked against

936
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:52,839
Speaker 4: you as someone who's going to succeed. There's a lot

937
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 4: more people who have sat here and rode for their creative,

938
00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 4: their upcoming artists, they're upcoming person that never amounted to anything.

939
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,399
Speaker 2: And then there's the resent of bitch. Now I'm left

940
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 2: in debt.

941
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:04,719
Speaker 4: Now I sat or I sat here, and we see

942
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 4: what a lot of the celebrities, Now I sat here

943
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,879
Speaker 4: and rode through the ship. As soon as they got on,

944
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 4: they left me for somebody else. We saw that happen

945
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 4: with no. But it's not even it's not even it's

946
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:17,959
Speaker 4: not even going white. We've seen it happen with Kevin Hart.

947
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 1: We've seen it happen with like Chris Bosh, like even

948
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 1: don't do that podcast.

949
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 4: That's fine, But I mean we see Tory Hart now

950
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 4: you know she's on stage now, but expressing that we

951
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 4: saw it happen with Neo, right, And so I think

952
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:37,279
Speaker 4: that that's the tough part and that's the reality. Like

953
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 4: I don't I don't know if I would blame a

954
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 4: partner for not wanting to hold it down a life

955
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 4: for the part.

956
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 6: And I think it's also too about how you go

957
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 6: about it. For me was stand up and podcasting, so

958
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:49,879
Speaker 6: like there's a lot more guaranteed money hints me even

959
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 6: being here in producing podcasts and just stand up. So

960
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 6: it's like you've seen this person to your point that

961
00:40:55,760 --> 00:41:00,200
Speaker 6: might make fifty bucks at a spot and exactly.

962
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:02,919
Speaker 3: Going down exactly that's that's what you used to eat.

963
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 7: Right.

964
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,800
Speaker 6: But then if you see, all right, this niggas also

965
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:09,880
Speaker 6: producing Kevin Hart or Horrible Decisions or whatever's podcast, Okay,

966
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:13,400
Speaker 6: well he's a real well rounded creative and even if

967
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:16,760
Speaker 6: it's not two hundred thousand dollars now it's at least

968
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 6: a strategy around the creative.

969
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 7: I think you have that strategy. That's it, you have

970
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 7: that state.

971
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 1: So for me, if someone really came to me, it

972
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,800
Speaker 1: was like, babe, I'm gonna fucking do whatever. For example,

973
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:29,879
Speaker 1: my dude, because he's in investing homes, he's very well

974
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: versed in architecture and design.

975
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 2: If he told me he really wanted to start a.

976
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 1: Design farm and take a step back because he's good

977
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 1: at it, right, I would hold it in. Right, ain't

978
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 1: but that that would have to come with strategy, Right,

979
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 1: what are we gonna do? How long is this gonna take?

980
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 1: In your case, it's like do you really admire my craft?

981
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:49,400
Speaker 1: What if you fucking hate what I do? Because I

982
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 1: can't imagine if I had a boyfriend when I started Horridable,

983
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 1: that was like, I don't really like house? Well, then

984
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 1: when the whole time, I just never pursue that. Yeah,

985
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:56,840
Speaker 1: are you gonna hold you?

986
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:01,399
Speaker 4: Especially since it's the week of the inauguration inaugurat, it's

987
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:05,400
Speaker 4: the day hold let me tell you. I didn't vote

988
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:08,359
Speaker 4: or a nigga with concepts of a plan. I don't

989
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 4: know if I'm dating nigga with concepts of a.

990
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 3: Plan, But you are with them.

991
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I don't have a new plan,

992
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:15,240
Speaker 2: but that's oh see who.

993
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 1: You have new ideas? Man?

994
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 2: I do, and I'm set right now.

995
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 4: I have ways to invest because I'm settled, so my

996
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 4: new plans are warranted.

997
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:23,879
Speaker 3: Great.

998
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,120
Speaker 4: I love a man who has ambition to do more

999
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 4: when he already set, when he ain't got a pot

1000
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 4: to piss in, and now he got concepts of a plan.

1001
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 2: I don't know how long I could say this.

1002
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 1: Is why to me, marriage, dating, commitment, This is fucking levels.

1003
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 1: If I need a dude a few months in and

1004
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: he liked this right right, right right, But we're married.

1005
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 3: This is what we do.

1006
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 1: I believe, just honestly, this is what we owe each other.

1007
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:51,879
Speaker 1: I really believe that this.

1008
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 2: Is what we owe each other.

1009
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:54,960
Speaker 4: Every time we talk about marriage and we say like this,

1010
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:56,320
Speaker 4: like why y'all want to do that?

1011
00:42:56,600 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 3: So I why y'all want to? I owe it to

1012
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 3: you to be with a B That's crazy.

1013
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:05,840
Speaker 1: Why don't we want to get married to be stuck

1014
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:10,319
Speaker 1: to these expectations? Decision follow up?

1015
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 2: What if we like you know what I'm saying.

1016
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 1: What if they're like, I don't, I don't like the

1017
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 1: decisions like we don't.

1018
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 4: Know, like y'all gout listen, y'all got a three years

1019
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 4: we said were making decision.

1020
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: I ain't talking about the calm that went in my

1021
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 1: house last night, but I'm just talking about Yeah.

1022
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 2: I'm just saying I want to get to y'all know.

1023
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 2: We're doing the love history.

1024
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 4: And I found y'all the weirdest sex stories of the

1025
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 4: ancient world, and I wanted to get into a few

1026
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 4: all bomb because what the fuck?

1027
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 3: Baby?

1028
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 4: Sex has been twisted, sex has been weird, sex has

1029
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 4: been funny, sex has been crazy, It's been a little

1030
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 4: it's just been.

1031
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 3: All over the place.

1032
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 4: So and y'all, I don't know why they made like

1033
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 4: names harder back in the day. I don't know what

1034
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:57,280
Speaker 4: they was looking at while they was putting letters babies

1035
00:43:57,280 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 4: because they were all in other countries. But these these names,

1036
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:02,279
Speaker 4: when I get to the names, like these emperors and shit,

1037
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:03,919
Speaker 4: I don't know their names.

1038
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 2: So if I fuck it up, sorry, Quintavious.

1039
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:11,360
Speaker 4: So the first one we're gonna get into is Emperor

1040
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:17,919
Speaker 4: Nero or Caligula mirror runners up two. Emperor Emperor who

1041
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 4: had to brace the that shut up beach Tiberius. No,

1042
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:30,319
Speaker 4: what Tiberius, bitch, it's Tiberius. That's that's Tiberius, Tiberous, one

1043
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 4: of them.

1044
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:33,560
Speaker 2: I think it's Tiborous. So he Hiberius. He ranged, y'all

1045
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 2: like we know him. He reigned between a D.

1046
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:39,839
Speaker 4: Four thirty seven, and he holds the dubious honor of

1047
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 4: the most sexually twisted ruler, according to his biographer Suetonius.

1048
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:49,800
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, what idiot?

1049
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 4: That later life Tiberius built himself a porn central on Capri.

1050
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:58,840
Speaker 4: There youngsters, and I'm hoping youngsters is at least above eighteen.

1051
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 2: But y'all know this is back in the day, so

1052
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:02,319
Speaker 2: I'm assuming children.

1053
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:07,239
Speaker 4: Performed elaborate daisy chains of sexual acts the emperor, by

1054
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 4: turn voyeur and participant, participant, and even grosser activities took

1055
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 4: place in his bathing pools, where toddlers were trained to

1056
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 4: nibble and pilate him underwater.

1057
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:30,280
Speaker 1: So these are the old perb called them his little fishes.

1058
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:31,880
Speaker 3: Did you do that on pros?

1059
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 8: No?

1060
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 3: I didn't, but it just listen crazy.

1061
00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:42,360
Speaker 1: So he would literally opened their mouths and put his

1062
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: dick in his mouth underwater.

1063
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,359
Speaker 4: So yeah, this is crazy. This isn't no way were

1064
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:48,479
Speaker 4: going there, buddy, baby, this is the weird ship. Okay,

1065
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 4: let's get into another one. We're taking our trip now

1066
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:56,880
Speaker 4: to Greece and Rome, so relaxed about nudity. Greeks and

1067
00:45:56,960 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 4: Romans adored the human form, where Greeks especially admired the

1068
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 4: beautiful butticks you ready of both men and women. Gorgeous

1069
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 4: rear ends even had their own goddess. Could now y'all

1070
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 4: be acting like it's weird when I be looking at

1071
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 4: niggas aasses.

1072
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 2: It is a thing, It's been a thing. Let me

1073
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:16,720
Speaker 2: enjoy a nice round ass on a man. Okay.

1074
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:22,720
Speaker 4: Nevertheless, no one tinkered with human bodies after death. Result

1075
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:27,320
Speaker 4: of this taboo human anatomy, largely unexplored was guesswork. However,

1076
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:30,880
Speaker 4: one of the most bizarre beliefs held that women's wombs

1077
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 4: vagabonded about the body, causing hysteria. Thus, doctors applied bad

1078
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 4: smells and loud noises to square to scare wombs back

1079
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:47,320
Speaker 4: into position. Ew medicos and intimidated husbands also had dire

1080
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,719
Speaker 4: opinions about the female glitterists.

1081
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 3: The diminutive was dandy.

1082
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 4: Anything larger called for surgery, so they literally they said

1083
00:46:57,200 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 4: you a half and half, they said, bitch yok, clit

1084
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 4: is a little bit too gorgeous.

1085
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 1: Have y'all ever seen a really big click? I have.

1086
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 3: I watched one. Yeah, no, no, no in.

1087
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 1: Person, No me too. I saw it for the first

1088
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 1: time and it was a stripper and I remember seeing

1089
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 1: it and being like, yeah, you seen it.

1090
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:16,719
Speaker 3: Really big clip?

1091
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 8: For what.

1092
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 1: She cannabis oil. That's happening to me. Not the clip,

1093
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 1: but the vulva got to you. I didn't try the

1094
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:35,240
Speaker 1: little ts THHC tink shoes.

1095
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 4: I don't want my pussy high. It don't feel good

1096
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:40,440
Speaker 4: the ship be like doing it, so I don't like it.

1097
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:42,919
Speaker 3: Don't high. No, it don't make me high.

1098
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 4: But it got my pussy doing something, and I was like,

1099
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,719
Speaker 4: I don't like this feeling. I don't want that thing

1100
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:51,600
Speaker 4: getting high without me like I like to be high,

1101
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 4: and then I just feel it throughout my whole body.

1102
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 1: I don't want no TC, tink shure, none, none of that.

1103
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 1: I'm not a THHD fan, no mean. And for those

1104
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 1: of you in like oil, that's those of you who

1105
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 1: do not know. Normally, when THHC is in tinctures or

1106
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:06,879
Speaker 1: any lubes.

1107
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 4: It will eat at a condom, So you can't have

1108
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,320
Speaker 4: protected sex normally with anything.

1109
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 2: Thhd imfused the next one, y'all.

1110
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 1: Walk to history. How many more days to your celebraies?

1111
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 2: The next one.

1112
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:21,920
Speaker 4: So here's the curious role of kissing male female Public

1113
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 4: kissing was actually frowned upon among Greek and Roman Arisicats.

1114
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:29,800
Speaker 4: Although husbands did routinely kiss their wives upon returning home

1115
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 4: or after a hard night of male partying it partying,

1116
00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 4: it was still frowned upon their goal female women with

1117
00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 4: wine detection not affection, So kissings innocent pleasures really lost

1118
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 4: popularity after the bedroom habits of the Roman citizens from

1119
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:51,840
Speaker 4: Spain became common knowledge, and basically a great many brushed

1120
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 4: their teeth. You ready to keep from kissing? Do you

1121
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:57,400
Speaker 4: want to know what they did? They brush their teeth

1122
00:48:57,440 --> 00:49:01,399
Speaker 4: with human urine. That's that's what they did.

1123
00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:03,760
Speaker 2: And weezy. I know you. You said you've had pissed

1124
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:08,440
Speaker 2: sprinkled in your right. I just want to know if

1125
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 2: you can't was your mouth? How did they.

1126
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 3: Liked?

1127
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:18,920
Speaker 1: I was like, I was tight lived, That's why he

1128
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:22,320
Speaker 1: was about I was like ni.

1129
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 4: Now, the last one I want to talk about is

1130
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 4: one that became popular.

1131
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:28,800
Speaker 2: I would say, over the last decade.

1132
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 3: And it wasn't we call it?

1133
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:32,839
Speaker 4: You know, well, I don't even know where it started.

1134
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:34,839
Speaker 4: Where does eating groceries and tossing.

1135
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 3: Salad come from?

1136
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 2: Are we really giving that to geniic.

1137
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:41,839
Speaker 1: Salad?

1138
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 2: Probably white? But eating I thought sounding salad came from prison.

1139
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 1: It's as an etymology.

1140
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 2: Could you look up where because I think it came

1141
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:51,399
Speaker 2: across more.

1142
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 4: When I was like an adult, I never heard of

1143
00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:58,400
Speaker 4: eating groceries or tossing salad like before eighteen and clearly

1144
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 4: because maybe we weren't doing that under that we were

1145
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:03,879
Speaker 4: just trying to put the dick in the vagina, that's

1146
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:05,040
Speaker 4: all we knew, and put it in the mouth.

1147
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess we were just right. Yeah, we didn't

1148
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:09,160
Speaker 1: really talk about eating ass or I.

1149
00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 2: Remember the first time a guy made me do it.

1150
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 2: I was so scaring. Wait, he made you eat it up?

1151
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:15,040
Speaker 2: Made okay, he requested.

1152
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:19,640
Speaker 5: Here's a potential reference from Reddit in prison, where prisoners

1153
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:23,320
Speaker 5: had their bitch licked their assholders show them their place

1154
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:25,799
Speaker 5: in the animal world. They were allowed to use salad

1155
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 5: dressing on a higher animal's anus in order to make

1156
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 5: the taste and act someone bearable. That's this issing.

1157
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:37,960
Speaker 1: I heard trombone from forty year old version when I

1158
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:38,359
Speaker 1: was a kid.

1159
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 2: Okay you heard that?

1160
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was eat ass.

1161
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 4: Okay, so let me get it to the erotic salads

1162
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 4: pros and cons.

1163
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:47,480
Speaker 3: To maintain their manly well.

1164
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:51,320
Speaker 4: Being, males around the ancient medieval times had to watch

1165
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:51,960
Speaker 4: what they ate.

1166
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:54,840
Speaker 2: The Greeks believed that anti.

1167
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:57,440
Speaker 4: Oh this is giving, that salads are actually an afrogiciac,

1168
00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 4: which is crazy.

1169
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 2: So the Greeks believe that ants high aprodisiac. Lettuce instantly

1170
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:06,239
Speaker 2: withered an erection not They said, if your salad is

1171
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 2: with it, I found it. Wait which one you found?

1172
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:11,400
Speaker 2: What the origins of it? It's an author from the

1173
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 2: s word telling vice.

1174
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 1: The word came from a seventies gay slang glossary and

1175
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:21,360
Speaker 1: basically saying, because of the hairs on the butt, resembled salad.

1176
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 2: The hair little don't resemble. No, what salad shot a

1177
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:26,840
Speaker 2: chicken salad?

1178
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:32,360
Speaker 4: Maybe it's just like salad that you really try to

1179
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 4: think what salad I ever ate that resembled a.

1180
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 3: Harry as salad? Nik?

1181
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: That ain't that mazzarella? And fucking I'm still finding another one.

1182
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 1: I mean, balsamic is not given ass bro. I'm seeing

1183
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:48,399
Speaker 1: the other thing that Eddin said. They say that one

1184
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 1: could be a rumored could wait.

1185
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:54,760
Speaker 4: They was putting salad dressing all men, Oh.

1186
00:51:54,719 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 2: We need to get a prisoner all hill. We didn't

1187
00:51:57,640 --> 00:51:58,240
Speaker 2: talk about.

1188
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 4: Remember I want to we gotta get second jail because

1189
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:03,720
Speaker 4: JT from City Girls wasn't given what we wanted to

1190
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:07,280
Speaker 4: have had God damn it. Okay, so let me finish

1191
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:10,360
Speaker 4: in Egypt. Now we're taking this to Egypt. Away from Greece.

1192
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 1: Men were equally certain that Lascibus Lettuce gave their organs

1193
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 1: women bigger serving romane at their orgiastic festivals for the

1194
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 1: fertility God. This is so crazy something we just did

1195
00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 1: ancient Egypt yesterday and for fact sake.

1196
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:28,840
Speaker 2: Really in fact, and this is one of the facts.

1197
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:30,719
Speaker 1: I looked up the history of orgies and there was

1198
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:34,919
Speaker 1: Greek and Roman and the ancient Egypt. Egyptian orgies were

1199
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 1: for fertility, so people would go out, get naked basically,

1200
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 1: drink and dance and let it flow. And we were

1201
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:45,840
Speaker 1: joking about basically like how do you know who you

1202
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 1: fucked and whose baby it is when it come out?

1203
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 1: Because these orgies were a whole thiting. So I was

1204
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 1: like they probably held a baby up and it was like, Mohammed,

1205
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: I'm not playing with you.

1206
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:57,879
Speaker 4: It's crazy because they say that Romans and Greeks put

1207
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 4: a lot of their aprodisiac faith in other vegetables, and

1208
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 4: they actually called carrots the deadly carrot. But when salad

1209
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 4: supplies ran low, like during the winter months, olive oil

1210
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:12,360
Speaker 4: was the everyday erotic opra.

1211
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not a surprise. You ever run out of lotion?

1212
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 2: That's what I use.

1213
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:18,319
Speaker 3: Olive oil.

1214
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 2: Have you ever used olive oil in the bedroom though?

1215
00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:22,319
Speaker 1: No, I've used coconut oil in the bedroom though.

1216
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:25,719
Speaker 2: Wait, you have coconut cocaine, but that's a black thing. No,

1217
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 2: but oil. We all got coconut oil at the house

1218
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 2: and we'll be putting into running.

1219
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:33,840
Speaker 1: I've used almond oil, olive oil, coconut oil on my body,

1220
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 1: I mean anything else.

1221
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 4: What other vegetables are afrodiziaks because I know we've talked

1222
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:41,320
Speaker 4: about afrodiziaks here before, but it's like chocolate and oysters.

1223
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 4: I don't know of any vegetables to be Fruit is

1224
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:47,120
Speaker 4: an afrodzix to me, But fruit and vegetables.

1225
00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 5: So other vegetables that would be Africa. Asparagus, Avocado, not.

1226
00:53:52,239 --> 00:54:00,600
Speaker 2: Asparagus, bro your peace state? No the really? But yeah?

1227
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 4: And I was like, after he eat asparagus, this could

1228
00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:09,920
Speaker 4: be for horrible for research purposes, for patriot horrible decisions.

1229
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 2: Would you do it for research?

1230
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:12,520
Speaker 1: Are trying to get your money?

1231
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:14,920
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie from the account. I'll let you

1232
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 4: buy as much as sparagus as you want. It could

1233
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:20,320
Speaker 4: be a business expensive, it can't.

1234
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 1: Be dependent on I'm gonna see this if I all grow,

1235
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 1: if I can fight in a restaurant in my restaurant, Bill, No,

1236
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 1: no that. And I was like, I'm.

1237
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 4: Already got a little conna all get wait wait wait,

1238
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 4: we're in La. You could go to what's that little

1239
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 4: arawuan and get your girl.

1240
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:38,840
Speaker 1: I'm going to some place tonight, if at least the

1241
00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:43,239
Speaker 1: new ship called Boulevard Steak, I think my wait then,

1242
00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:44,799
Speaker 1: now let's talk about this little hord dress.

1243
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:47,240
Speaker 4: I'm gonna get this. You're always dressing a horror dress.

1244
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 4: I look like a wife. But I'm not gonna stay

1245
00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 4: with it. Actually, I was thinking, like on this, on

1246
00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:54,839
Speaker 4: this for your date.

1247
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, so y'all go over to Patreon.

1248
00:54:57,560 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 1: If you're not gonna no I have.

1249
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 2: Well, it depends if we go.

1250
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:02,920
Speaker 1: I like the other one look better than the other one.

1251
00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 4: It depends I'm not wearing that. It's a bondage dress. Bro,

1252
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:08,120
Speaker 4: he already knows I have a fucking horror podcast. Let

1253
00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:10,719
Speaker 4: me not go to him like dressed like a bondage slut.

1254
00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 3: You we.

1255
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 1: Your tits out.

1256
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,720
Speaker 2: That said it was giving. It's giving a housewife.

1257
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:18,439
Speaker 1: I don't think it's easy for you to ignore this.

1258
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 3: I don't you know what.

1259
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 1: The pearls aren't doing anything for your honey. See it's

1260
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:26,880
Speaker 1: the pearls, right, it's it's giving. No one ever forgot

1261
00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 1: that one time on O G War, we're not doing that.

1262
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 2: On your neck?

1263
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 4: I did so if you guys, uh so we talked

1264
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:36,920
Speaker 4: about the pearl necklace in sex terms, it's when a

1265
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:38,600
Speaker 4: guy comes on your neck and it dries up.

1266
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:43,280
Speaker 2: And I went to brunch not knowing that. Yeah, leftover Nigga,

1267
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:46,239
Speaker 2: I was about frank cars just like it all over her.

1268
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:48,080
Speaker 3: What a time?

1269
00:55:48,400 --> 00:55:51,399
Speaker 2: What a time? I don't do that back then? Who

1270
00:55:51,560 --> 00:55:51,879
Speaker 2: was she?

1271
00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:54,839
Speaker 1: There are moments where I shared that to the world.

1272
00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:57,799
Speaker 1: Sometimes Monday, he has an attitude me.

1273
00:55:57,800 --> 00:55:59,279
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm not gonna lie I want to go

1274
00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 4: back to an art time. I don't want to go

1275
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:01,640
Speaker 4: back to the archives.

1276
00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 1: So I'm not even joking, man, I really sometimes I

1277
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 1: just look at me like he mad, and I'm like.

1278
00:56:05,680 --> 00:56:06,800
Speaker 2: He clicked on twenty eighteen.

1279
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:13,880
Speaker 1: Nah, I really believe he clicked on twenty eighth I

1280
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:15,759
Speaker 1: really believe it. And then I'd be like, damn, what

1281
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 1: if I do something with him? And I said it

1282
00:56:17,640 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 1: to anohing, I'm just like, it's just too much of

1283
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:21,759
Speaker 1: an archives. Let's we should have wiped the Instagram. We

1284
00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 1: should have fucking wiped it.

1285
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 2: Anyways, y'all, thank you for tuning in.

1286
00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:29,799
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1287
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:33,680
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1288
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:38,600
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1289
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:42,960
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1290
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:48,359
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1291
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:51,120
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1292
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:54,520
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1293
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:57,680
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1294
00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:00,600
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1295
00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:02,960
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1296
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1297
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:11,439
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1298
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1299
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