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Speaker 1: for coming to seek culture at Murmur Theater. Please help me.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the stage, Bowen Yang, Cat Cohen, Matt Rogers,

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Speaker 1: and Pat Reagan. All right, why didn't we get those

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Speaker 1: My Life podcast show. That's not what um, that's not

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Speaker 1: What had happened was Katherine sneezed a little hard this morning,

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Speaker 1: I think learned teachable moment for all the young girls

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Speaker 1: my god? And is that is that you hating what?

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Speaker 1: are until homophobic to be honest, Yeah, and so anyways,

421
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Speaker 1: like he's like definitely oiling, oiling, oiling takes towel off.

422
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Speaker 1: Oil is actually in the crack, and it kind of

423
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Speaker 1: introduces this idea of like what if something touched your

424
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Speaker 1: crack and then um, and that's kind of even foreshadowing,

425
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 1: and then um, obviously it's signed them to flip over.

426
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: And then we get hands in the crotch and then

427
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 1: we get up real close to the face of wall.

428
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 1: We're on the crotch and we say, do you like this?

429
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 1: Should I keep going? Start making out, go on the

430
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Speaker 1: couch and they do riding into Doggie into Missionary. I

431
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 1: prefer start with doggie, get it out of the way,

432
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 1: then riding not necessarily, but won do it. I think

433
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 1: it's the middle, and then I want to end with missionary.

434
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Speaker 1: Im dissertation vibes dissertation vibes mine is not a specific narrative.

435
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 1: I'm just like, Okay, so maybe you guys go on

436
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Speaker 1: porn hub dot com and h and so did you

437
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Speaker 1: ever type in hot guys fuck? So okay, so I

438
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 1: guess one time I typed in hot guys fuck, because

439
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 1: that's how general I was feeling on the day. And

440
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 1: so there's a whole channel called Hot Guys Funk, which

441
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 1: is just it's porn. It's straight. I love straight porn.

442
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 1: Sorry I'm here, Um, I mean the reverse that the

443
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Speaker 1: reverse kids are all right, yeah, exactly. So I love

444
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Speaker 1: straight porn and I love I love straight porn where

445
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 1: the the guys are like they sit it's like a

446
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 1: guy on a girl and they're sitting on the couch

447
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,080
Speaker 1: and they're like fully closed and they're like sitting next

448
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 1: to each other, and the camera guys like, so I'm

449
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 1: here with Stephen and Kelly. What's up, guys? And they're

450
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 1: like hey, and he's like, all right, so how do

451
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 1: you How long have you guys known each other? And

452
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, we just I think you just met.

453
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 1: And then they're like, oh, for sure, for sure, So Kelly,

454
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 1: we've had you, we've we've had you in here a

455
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 1: couple of times, we've seen you get realed a couple

456
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: of times. And she's like, yeah, I for sure have

457
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 1: I stand Kelly. And then he's like Kelly his goals.

458
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: He's like Stephen, y, you're either Kelly or Stephen. That's

459
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 1: that's another binary. That's when they're binary Kelly, and and

460
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: then and then he's like, Stephen, still, what do you

461
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 1: think of Kelly? He thinks she's got like pretty pretty,

462
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 1: pretty hot, right, And he's like, yeah, I think she's

463
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 1: pretty hot. And she's like, yeah, I think you think.

464
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 1: I think he thinks I'm hot. She'll reach his dick

465
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,479
Speaker 1: he's and she's like, yeah he does, he does. I can,

466
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 1: I can tell. And then Ken, it goes like okay,

467
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 1: I guess like I'll let you guys just like get too,

468
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: let's see if there's chemistry. I love when the camera

469
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 1: guy lets them just get to it and see and

470
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: then there is chemistry and then they fuck, but the

471
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 1: camera is fully on the guy's button. It's like not

472
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 1: about Kelly at all. It's entirely about like Stephen, like fucking.

473
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 1: And it's just like straight porn that's about like these hot,

474
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 1: like hairless straight men fucking women and then the women. Honestly,

475
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 1: they're the best actors because they have to do the

476
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Speaker 1: most to be seen because the scene is not about

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Speaker 1: the sound familiar sound familiar, familiar that most to be seen,

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Speaker 1: the most to be heard, because we mena machines. I

479
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Speaker 1: watched one recently where the girl came five times and

480
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 1: everyone was like, Oh, it's gonna happen again. Like everyone

481
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Speaker 1: on set gathered around and was like yes, audibly, they're like.

482
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Speaker 1: She was like, I can't believe that. I don't like that.

483
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Speaker 1: I love I think that. I think the crew is

484
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Speaker 1: just as important as the cast. But I want them

485
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Speaker 1: just I want them off screen and porn. No, they're

486
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Speaker 1: all in it together. No, for me, they're not in

487
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Speaker 1: it together. I think for me it's about the cast. Well,

488
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Speaker 1: the cast was having the thrill of a lifetime. Also,

489
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Speaker 1: the way that some people come in these porns, that

490
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 1: wasn't an exaggeration when I did. Look, that's my favorite

491
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Speaker 1: one is when they go I'm gonna come, I'm coming, Pirate,

492
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Speaker 1: bid come pirates. Katherine and your machine, Katherine and the machine,

493
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Speaker 1: Katherine and the technicolor machine. I have to say something.

494
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Speaker 1: She's gonna drag Pat. Are you serious? I was just listening.

495
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Speaker 1: For once, you could take a lesson from me. You

496
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Speaker 1: could take a lesson from me. I know you're going

497
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: through so much right now, so I'm praying for you.

498
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I thought you guys were like had

499
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Speaker 1: each other's back. It's crazy. The way you guys just

500
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Speaker 1: turn on each other. Everyone should pray for me, pray this.

501
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Speaker 1: This is my fantasy. This it's it's just it's just

502
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Speaker 1: environmental because um, there's it's gretivibes, it's it's, it's it's

503
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Speaker 1: it's only fans, just for fans. Videos that um where

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Speaker 1: the apartment has like a lot of greenery and it's

505
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Speaker 1: like a well, you know how like some of these

506
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Speaker 1: amateur videos like the fucking places are dumps. Yeah, that's like, no,

507
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Speaker 1: you know what I want now on our your time.

508
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Speaker 1: There's there's just one guy who lives in London and

509
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Speaker 1: he has this really clean line room and he's got

510
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: a lot of lush plants and I love that. See

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Speaker 1: I would never want so many plants in porn, but

512
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Speaker 1: I am. That's why we're so different. Um, it's a

513
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514
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Speaker 1: I want in my own when I want environmentally for well,

515
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Speaker 1: Kathy made me take your own advice? Is oh my god,

516
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Speaker 1: I say take you on advice. It's just kidding that

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Speaker 1: section best section section, I can only come to your

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Speaker 1: mahogany and built in bookcases. I like that. I'm standard

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Speaker 1: chid into it's like that kind of finished basement that

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Speaker 1: a lot of Sean Cody happens in, where it's like

521
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Speaker 1: the same kind of white carpet sectional sofa. At that

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Speaker 1: like nice like uh, deck ac decorative accents um deck

524
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Speaker 1: and deck ac figures and it's deck ac um. I

525
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: just blacked out, all right. Now get to the sex. No,

526
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Speaker 1: here's the thing. The sex can be anything. The only

527
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528
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Speaker 1: everything else. It can be so variable. Thank you, thank you.

529
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Speaker 1: And that in in in a way is verse. It's verse. Now.

530
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Speaker 1: I think it's time to open it up. It's tidy

531
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Speaker 1: to open up the floor. You can ask us advice

532
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Speaker 1: questions about boys, sex, fucking, dating, love or culture. So

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Speaker 1: please that I think it is time to open up

534
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Speaker 1: the floor. What's that. It's time to open up the floor.

535
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Speaker 1: Thank you. Literally you have to because once one comes,

536
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 1: they'll come. This is the first brick. I love this girl.

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00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 1: HI love this girl, And I love your pack. Thank you.

538
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 1: It's very good. I love your pack. Thank you. Um.

539
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 1: A psychic told me one of my friends is super

540
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 1: in love with me. How do I find out who

541
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 1: it is. As told you that one can I ask

542
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 1: you a question. Has anything your psychic has told you

543
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 1: ever been real? I don't regularly have a psychic. This

544
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 1: was like a free experience. Yea? Was it at a party?

545
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:46,919
Speaker 1: And she just was like, by the way and me psychic?

546
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:49,400
Speaker 1: Your friends in love? Or was it? I went to

547
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:53,120
Speaker 1: a friend's work event and there was a chocolate psychic.

548
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:57,840
Speaker 1: There was a chocolate chocolate. He made me drizzle chocolates

549
00:36:57,840 --> 00:36:59,360
Speaker 1: are about a piece of paper. He looked at it

550
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 1: like a rush chest. Did she looks like me in

551
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:14,360
Speaker 1: a wig? Like me in a wig? How do we go? Ahead?

552
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 1: All right? Keep going? We know we I know that

553
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 1: you said that's it, but we need more context. So

554
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 1: there was something was a sort of chocolate psychic looking

555
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 1: at a chocolate raw sky. He made us like meditate

556
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 1: and then we drizzle chocolates are upon a piece of

557
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 1: paper and folded it in half and then gave it

558
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 1: to him and that your friends work? Are you? Are

559
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 1: you listening to yourself? And you're starting to like you know,

560
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 1: I'm the practical one of the four, and it was free.

561
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 1: I really want to stress, So let me ask, are

562
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: you getting vibes for many of your friends are do

563
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:55,320
Speaker 1: you are you in love with then your friends? So

564
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:57,359
Speaker 1: then it doesn't matter. I'm not in love with them,

565
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 1: this chocolate, the chocolates. Like I said, you're not in

566
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 1: love with them, but they're in love with you. Okay,

567
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:03,400
Speaker 1: So then what what do you? What's in it for

568
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:04,840
Speaker 1: you to find out? I just kind of want to know.

569
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:07,320
Speaker 1: I think that's a way for this chocolate psychic to

570
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:10,360
Speaker 1: kind of make a really safe guess, you know, like

571
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 1: someone's in love with you but doesn't honor. But it's

572
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 1: low stakes. Um, I need the stakes to be higher.

573
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 1: But I love your work a still. One thing. One thing,

574
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Speaker 1: did you come with anyone here tonight? No, my friend

575
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Speaker 1: broker foot and couldn't come. I sold my ticket than you.

576
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: But also, police, we have a scalper and if you

577
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:37,759
Speaker 1: can take her to down. Can I tell you what

578
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 1: I would do if I were you. I would just

579
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 1: start like going up to your friends and like kind

580
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 1: of doing it like small things, like just small things

581
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: to let them know like we can. I can I

582
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 1: ask you a question just sort of like make yourself known.

583
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 1: You could buy one of these? I would say, definitely

584
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Speaker 1: buy one of these dresses. Um, now are you only

585
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Speaker 1: answer you the soas it was safe? Are you G? S? B?

586
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 1: Or where are you whatever? It just doesn't narrow it

587
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: down at all. M M I think um, definitely the

588
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: dress with hell. Do you have any interest in striking

589
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 1: up a friendship with the chocolate piic? No, he's also

590
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:31,359
Speaker 1: a fire dancer. I found his instagrams. Can I tell

591
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 1: you what I think? I think he wanted you to

592
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:36,800
Speaker 1: be interested enough to go to his instagram and follow

593
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:38,879
Speaker 1: him and tell us all that he was a fire

594
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: dancer so that we all go to Instagram and look

595
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,760
Speaker 1: for the psychic fire dancer who works exclusively with chocolate,

596
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:48,320
Speaker 1: so that he could pop absolutely off. I did not

597
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:51,320
Speaker 1: follow him. If he didn't follow him, I think reach

598
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 1: for the moon, even if you miss you land among

599
00:39:53,920 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 1: the stars? Is that the psychic where? Oh my god?

600
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 1: If you shoot for the movie, I think someone's visiting

601
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 1: us Chocolate. Oh my god. Wait, Katherine, you're not even

602
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 1: touching your computer Chocolate Psychic. Great, Katherine, you've exed out

603
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 1: of the app. What's your name? What's her name? Leah?

604
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 1: Leah Chocolate Psychic. Which of Leah's friends is it? Please

605
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 1: give us a sign anything. He's French. Do you have

606
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 1: a friend name? Um Joe, No, that was the psychic name.

607
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 1: I'm psychic. I'm a little psychic. Oh my god, that

608
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:02,279
Speaker 1: just came into I had. I swear to god, you

609
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:05,400
Speaker 1: have never met this woman. I've never met this chocolate

610
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 1: psychic that came into my hand. I am so proud

611
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 1: of my friend, Leah. I think that we asked, we

612
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 1: answered your questions. Thank you for seking culture. But Leah,

613
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:24,360
Speaker 1: I want um take a huge dress and ask the

614
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,720
Speaker 1: chocolate psychic out on a date. If that's not ethically

615
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:31,440
Speaker 1: weird because you were his client, he is the one. Okay,

616
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:33,479
Speaker 1: we can have our next person to the MI guess

617
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Speaker 1: it's it's you. It's you. It's you. I love this

618
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Speaker 1: girl before me. We love her. Hey. Hey, that's why

619
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Speaker 1: I sounds like um I am. My question is I'm

620
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Speaker 1: twenty four. Congratulations, Sorry, it's huge. Okay. My question is

621
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Speaker 1: it's amazing for you. Hang on to that. I will.

622
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:07,319
Speaker 1: I'm twenty four and I'm hooking up with a thirty

623
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Speaker 1: six year old. What's your take? What? Yeah, I just

624
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Speaker 1: want to know your opinion. I am Harney, forty six

625
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Speaker 1: is kind of it's like one of those beautiful like

626
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Speaker 1: when those ratios like the natural we also work together?

627
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Speaker 1: Oh okaya? Is he in a position where he's your

628
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Speaker 1: superior sa not? Are do you guys work in different departments?

629
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Speaker 1: Are you were in the restaurant industry? So it's pretty

630
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:41,719
Speaker 1: restaurant industry? Is he also? Are you a server? I'm

631
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 1: a host's you're a hostess? Okay? What does he do

632
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 1: with the restaurant? Is he a chef? He's a waiter.

633
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,479
Speaker 1: He's a waiter. Would be hot if he was a chef.

634
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:53,319
Speaker 1: He wears a three piece suit. It's yeah. Party. Could

635
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 1: he go to Connery School? He could? I was going

636
00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 1: to ask, are there any hot chefs at your job?

637
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 1: Could be a very scary too scary. Well, how do

638
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 1: you feel about the thirty six year old? I mean

639
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 1: I don't notice it because he's pretty mture for his

640
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: age in a good way. He I mean, I don't know.

641
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 1: He acts like he's more not thirty six. So what

642
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:18,800
Speaker 1: we're hearing is it's not that you're mature that he is.

643
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I would say so, I'm pretty much. Is

644
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 1: he an actor? No? Cool? That's look, I mean, that's huge.

645
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 1: I made sure of that. Are there are red flags

646
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 1: that have nothing to do with his age or like, sure,

647
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 1: sure detail those Oh I don't know. Okay, that's what.

648
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:47,280
Speaker 1: In a few years, you'll be like having a glass

649
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 1: of orange wine with your grandline. You will be like,

650
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 1: I used to hook up with this old guy, and

651
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:56,719
Speaker 1: that's why we do things. Ultimately, life is about collecting

652
00:43:56,880 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 1: story socks. So I love your talk. It's a good

653
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 1: it's a good talk. I would is this is this

654
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 1: sex good? It's great, It's really it's very generous. I

655
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:13,759
Speaker 1: may say so like he goes out of his way.

656
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 1: He goes out of his way without needing to us. Well,

657
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 1: let me say, you seem a very statistic five. Okay,

658
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 1: I think we say that we actually as a counsel,

659
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 1: I'll say it's okay, we think it's great. So it's okay,

660
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 1: it's okay, okay from everyone. When I was five years

661
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 1: younger than you, I was sucking someone at my job

662
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 1: and I was also in the service industry, and it

663
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 1: was a real thrill. Just make sure that you don't

664
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 1: give him your phone number, because in ten years he

665
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 1: will try to call you. At four I am telling

666
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 1: you that he wants took up with you again. And

667
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: you will have to block his number. I'll do that.

668
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 1: Do that? Thank you so much. Do you approve? No,

669
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 1: do you approve to borrow my phrase from earlier? Okay,

670
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 1: thank you for speaking culture. Thank you so much for

671
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:10,480
Speaker 1: speaking culture towards us. So much for speaking culture towards us. Hello, Hello, Hi, welcome,

672
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 1: make yourself at home. The terrorist over everyone. Um, I

673
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 1: actually know my disease. I am still in love with

674
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 1: the first person I ever had a crush on. Okay,

675
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: and so when did you first have that feeling? Oh?

676
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:31,440
Speaker 1: Literally like second grade? It's yeah, um, well this is

677
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 1: how women's the last time is tom or like high school?

678
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 1: Are now I'm a college freshman, you're a college freshman.

679
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 1: So thirteenth grade. I'm inte grade grade. So Catherine is

680
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:53,960
Speaker 1: actually joking out what grade? But you're actually really a

681
00:45:54,080 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: young person at this point. It's like at this point,

682
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:04,880
Speaker 1: at this point, it's like, all right, did you go

683
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 1: to your high school? Obviously a question? Okay, was he? Um?

684
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 1: Was he at your captain in your in that I

685
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:15,880
Speaker 1: was literally narrative kind of except for I didn't go

686
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 1: to a single football game. Okay, look, I mean neither

687
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 1: didn't Taylor. Was he Um, was he like a like

688
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:33,520
Speaker 1: a jockey quarterback type? Yeah, well is there a quarterback

689
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 1: for volleyball? Because that's what he was. Yeah, they're called

690
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 1: they're called the spiker. Yeah, oh you're you're so you're

691
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,320
Speaker 1: a zygo like you'll you will forget about him in

692
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 1: like four years. Yeah, really, he won't matter. You will

693
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:52,440
Speaker 1: meet someone and you'll be like, oh that guy, Um

694
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:56,319
Speaker 1: had nice hair, but now I have a different person

695
00:46:56,440 --> 00:47:00,359
Speaker 1: hair did It was like blonde, curly hair. It was good.

696
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 1: Well do you go where does he go to college? Oh? God,

697
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:10,919
Speaker 1: University Wisconsin. Okay, he's gonna lose that hair really quick.

698
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 1: But oh my god, I think, oh my god, I

699
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 1: remember the guy that I crushed on in high school.

700
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 1: I actually don't remember the guy crushed on in high

701
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: school because because enough time passes that you just they

702
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 1: just get out of your rolodex at a certain point.

703
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 1: And yeah, sometimes even relies you hate them. Yeah, do

704
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:35,400
Speaker 1: you stand Taylor? I hate her new album. You're not

705
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:47,720
Speaker 1: offending me? Yeah, but like Fearless, am I wrote that album?

706
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 1: She likes that album. She said I wrote that album.

707
00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:55,360
Speaker 1: All right, I'm sorry, he said I wrote that album.

708
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 1: Oh wait, Katherine can we can we get ahold of

709
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:01,359
Speaker 1: this guy? Can we get ahold of this guy? Can

710
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 1: we speak to her? You see, if you can get

711
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 1: him on mine? Well, what would you say to him

712
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 1: if you let me have the mainframe? What would times?

713
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:24,319
Speaker 1: I may see you get out six seconds? I need

714
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:27,279
Speaker 1: six seconds? What would you say to him if you

715
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 1: could speak to him? Because he might show up? I mean,

716
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 1: I have no idea. I haven't said a word to

717
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:40,000
Speaker 1: him since like freshman sophomore year of high school. So

718
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:43,759
Speaker 1: what's what you went in Softmore high school? I have

719
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 1: been said a word intin sophomore year of high school

720
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 1: when he was in my English class and we had

721
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 1: to be partnered and it was awful. That was he

722
00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 1: spoke to him. I wrote you every day for you.

723
00:48:55,360 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I have to say, no matter what

724
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:05,399
Speaker 1: this machian says to you, Um, I think he missed

725
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 1: his chance. I think that I agree with Bowen that

726
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 1: you'll meet someone else for sure. And did you just

727
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: did you just moved to the city? Is that? Did you? Yeah?

728
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:14,839
Speaker 1: I go to a school around here. Oh great, Oh

729
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 1: my god. I want you to know there's actually a

730
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 1: lot of single straight guys here tonight totally I bet okay,

731
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 1: we have a queue. I think we all believe in

732
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:29,640
Speaker 1: you and we want to thank you so much. I

733
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 1: still have feelings for someone I met ten years ago

734
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,800
Speaker 1: and one time I saw them at Zara? Was that helpful?

735
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 1: Is that helpful? That is so helpful? Thank you so much,

736
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:52,359
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for so suet you more. Yeah, Hello, hello, Hi,

737
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:55,800
Speaker 1: how are you all? I've been laughing so hard and

738
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:57,800
Speaker 1: now I climbed all the way down from the balcony

739
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 1: down here too. Thank you. Thank you bring word back

740
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 1: to your community that she's a girl's girl. She's a

741
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:12,239
Speaker 1: girl's girl. Um. So I think maybe I'm trying to

742
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:14,439
Speaker 1: like black out when it happened, but I think maybe

743
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:16,239
Speaker 1: a month and a half ago, I got stood up

744
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 1: so insane. Thank you, and I just want to know,

745
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:29,799
Speaker 1: right it's like very like movie like sitcom, wouldn't ever

746
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 1: happen in real life, but then it did. So I

747
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:34,479
Speaker 1: want to know if you guys can help me find

748
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:37,800
Speaker 1: out what happened to him within a first date? No,

749
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:41,560
Speaker 1: it was our third date was okay? So maybe did

750
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 1: you check in and say like are you okay? Um?

751
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:46,880
Speaker 1: I know I checked gothamss I checked like a lot

752
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:48,800
Speaker 1: of things to make sure he was actually alive. But

753
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 1: he is because he's sending Venmo transaction. So smart smart,

754
00:50:56,160 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 1: You're very smart, very smart. You're very smart. That is

755
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:07,399
Speaker 1: the realty. That is the real that was and he's

756
00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:10,520
Speaker 1: not and he's not mendoring people for like, uh, surgery

757
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 1: for my car today, no rent, rent, utilities, WiFi, the usual. Yeah, okay,

758
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:21,880
Speaker 1: So I think that what you should do is you

759
00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:24,759
Speaker 1: should showed up at his house or his work. I

760
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:27,279
Speaker 1: think I think you should go to his work. I mean,

761
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 1: he works at Salesforce. Wait, what was the vibe on

762
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 1: the first two days. Was this surprising to you? Yes,

763
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 1: it was extremely surprising to me. He also he was

764
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:43,959
Speaker 1: like a nice person. He portrayed himself as a good person.

765
00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:47,000
Speaker 1: He works at the soup kitchen every Saturday. Oh that's

766
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:51,239
Speaker 1: what he told you. That's that's what they do. That's

767
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:55,360
Speaker 1: what they do. They lie. Lie. No one a soup kitchen.

768
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:59,520
Speaker 1: They don't exist their myths. I don't time. A guy

769
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:04,320
Speaker 1: told me he was a pediatrician, and there's no doctors

770
00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 1: for kids. There's doctors. It was very surprising. Our first

771
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 1: two dates were Honestly, I think maybe I am maybe

772
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:16,279
Speaker 1: too intense of a person. I think, um, no, you've

773
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 1: seen very good. I'm not that intense, but we you

774
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 1: are perfect. Thank you, perfect girls. You didn't deserve that

775
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:30,240
Speaker 1: at all. Thank you. I was standing outside of the garret,

776
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 1: in where the garret, it's like, where the five guys

777
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 1: is there? Did you get five guys? I did? I

778
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 1: left my bag a prize. But yeah, it was very

779
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 1: It was strange. It was very surprising, and I just

780
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:47,840
Speaker 1: I don't know where he could have happened to he

781
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 1: he was like, I love five guys. I know I

782
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:55,800
Speaker 1: love five guys too. It was strange. But it's for

783
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 1: something like that to happen and for you to try

784
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 1: to rationalize that there's no it's a complete, letely irrational

785
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 1: to do. So I wouldn't try to trace it back

786
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 1: to like you did. I It's not you, I promise

787
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:11,840
Speaker 1: it's not you. It's definitely him being an illogical, probably

788
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:15,880
Speaker 1: crazy person works at a soup kitchen. Now I have

789
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 1: an idea. I think I think that you should veno

790
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 1: him fifteen dollars listen and be like, this is the ticket.

791
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 1: This is the ticket to the garrett. Get there whenever

792
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:32,480
Speaker 1: you can. Cancelation fee and invoice. I've I've heard of

793
00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:34,720
Speaker 1: doing that. It feels a little distant though it happened

794
00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:42,920
Speaker 1: like almost two months ago, my time saying vamo quass

795
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:46,800
Speaker 1: I think you should Veno pay him him money for

796
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 1: a year of therapy, be like be like for the

797
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:56,120
Speaker 1: soup kitchen fund Um. I know I think that honestly, Sorry, no,

798
00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:58,759
Speaker 1: I said I should. Honestly I should have since, but

799
00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:02,399
Speaker 1: you should definitely like one of Venmo payments. Right, It's

800
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:07,280
Speaker 1: just enough, It's just passive aggressive enough. Yeah, are even funny?

801
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:12,759
Speaker 1: Ob he sounds like a waste. But can I ask

802
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 1: you something? Can I ask you something? This will really

803
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 1: inform um if this guy's even worth the air we breathe? Um,

804
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,759
Speaker 1: are the Venmo payments not funny in that like they're

805
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 1: not even trying to be just like a sandwich? Or

806
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:28,080
Speaker 1: is it like he's trying to be funny and it's not. No,

807
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:31,319
Speaker 1: they're literal, They're exactly what they do. And know I'm

808
00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:33,719
Speaker 1: on your side with thousand or some, but that is

809
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 1: erotic to me when someone's like, yeah, like this is

810
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 1: what I'm paying you for and I have nothing comedic

811
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:45,960
Speaker 1: to say about that, I'm like, raise my kids. We

812
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:48,719
Speaker 1: all agree this. This can be stopped on Venmo. Thank

813
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:53,759
Speaker 1: you so much for speaking culture. Thank you. I think

814
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:56,320
Speaker 1: we can get through everyone here if it's super quick.

815
00:54:57,200 --> 00:55:01,279
Speaker 1: If I know us for it'll be super quick. Yeah. Absolutely.

816
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:03,960
Speaker 1: So my first question is why everyone has regular Red

817
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:09,840
Speaker 1: Bull not sugar free. It's kind of worrisome. Can you

818
00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:13,440
Speaker 1: hear you hear? Yes, he's he's calling us out for

819
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 1: only having regular Red Bull not sugar What you need

820
00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:18,440
Speaker 1: to know actually is that we had all sugar free

821
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 1: before and there was no more. Okay, So my question is,

822
00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:25,280
Speaker 1: let's say I work with someone named let's say Bob,

823
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:28,719
Speaker 1: and Bob has a boyfriend that's us. Let's say name Jim,

824
00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 1: and Jim has been hitting me up on dating apps.

825
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 1: What is the move there? Are you friends with Bob? Um?

826
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:42,560
Speaker 1: We are work friendly, but not in the way we're

827
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:46,480
Speaker 1: like we text outside of work, and obviously is Jim hot?

828
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 1: Would be the other question. I mean, I would definitely

829
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:53,080
Speaker 1: sleep with Jim and then bring it to Bob. Is

830
00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: like a fun story. Yeah, and that's kind of speaks

831
00:55:56,000 --> 00:56:00,160
Speaker 1: to Katherine's ethos of kind of collecting stories to how

832
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:07,160
Speaker 1: um they seem open. They're open though you know, no

833
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:11,359
Speaker 1: no one tv D. It doesn't seem like the person

834
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:13,839
Speaker 1: I work with knows that they are open. If they are,

835
00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:17,719
Speaker 1: so that don't even call that not open. Yeah, well

836
00:56:17,800 --> 00:56:21,239
Speaker 1: that not open. And he's also the person I work

837
00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 1: with is moving to California to be with this boyfriend

838
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:28,760
Speaker 1: who's cheating on him? Who is what? Who's Jim who's

839
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:32,799
Speaker 1: like maybe cheating on him? Sounds like a fucking mess.

840
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 1: And I think you should get all new friends, get

841
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:38,600
Speaker 1: a job like Jim, but Jim lives here, but he's

842
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:42,360
Speaker 1: moving to California and here, but Jim is hitting up

843
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 1: on dating apps from California. He's like back and forth.

844
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 1: People who people who are by coastal who already have

845
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 1: a fucking boyfriend, who like try to like dip dip

846
00:56:56,280 --> 00:57:00,319
Speaker 1: a chip into different bowls, Like, you can't have both

847
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:04,359
Speaker 1: coasts and a boyfriend, exactly and beyond. That's the rule

848
00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 1: of Culture Act. That's the rule Coature number thirty. You

849
00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:12,320
Speaker 1: can't have both coast East coast West coast a boyfriend

850
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:19,720
Speaker 1: picked two ye wait, yeah, I wouldn't touch it, don't

851
00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:25,400
Speaker 1: engage with it. I mean, are you asking questions? What

852
00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 1: would you say? Sorry? Sorry, Sathers Wining in Go obviously

853
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:35,440
Speaker 1: East Coasting boyfriend. Oh, yes, I disagree. Oh for me?

854
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 1: For me boyfriends boyfriends, says Coast. My question isn't whether

855
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 1: or not I should sleep with the boyfriend, because obviously

856
00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 1: I would do that. My question is should I tell

857
00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:50,440
Speaker 1: the person I work with? Oh, that's your question, sweetheart.

858
00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 1: I let him know that his boyfriend's you know, like,

859
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 1: should I tell the personal I work with his boyfriend? Can't?

860
00:57:55,720 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 1: He says? Can I tell you something? I think it's

861
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 1: it depends such on the nuance of your relationship with

862
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 1: Bob and if you care if he lives or dies

863
00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:09,880
Speaker 1: when he moves to California will not be good for

864
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 1: his a Is he an actor? Ultimately? Is the question? Again? Also,

865
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 1: I think you need to stop thinking about this because

866
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 1: the more you think about it, the hotter it's gonna

867
00:58:19,240 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 1: feel between you and this guy, and it's going to

868
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:25,840
Speaker 1: become unbearable and you're gonna suck him. Sweetie. I feel like,

869
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:31,600
Speaker 1: don't be a randomista, don't get in their business. Don't

870
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 1: be a randomista. Don't random don't get in their business.

871
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:40,080
Speaker 1: And thank you so much for thanking much. Thank you

872
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:50,800
Speaker 1: cole More. Hello, Hello, So I know you said, you

873
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 1: wanted this to be sure, but my friends kind of

874
00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 1: in a complex situation, you might be in this room

875
00:58:56,360 --> 00:59:00,680
Speaker 1: even actually, but so we started seeing this guy and

876
00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:09,080
Speaker 1: he makes phallic sculptures. He makes vallet phalla sculptures, not

877
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:20,440
Speaker 1: valets soldiers. Great, I hope I sitcom. She's a pax.

878
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 1: Sounds like it would be in a sitcom, but it's

879
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:25,600
Speaker 1: real life. He's a really nice guy. I've met him. Okay,

880
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 1: but there's this other situation where he had a summer

881
00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:33,320
Speaker 1: fling and this boy started texting him again and he's

882
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:35,960
Speaker 1: unsure whether he should open that can of worms. Well,

883
00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:38,120
Speaker 1: is the only bad not even bad? Is the only

884
00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 1: thing about him that gives you concern that he's a

885
00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:47,560
Speaker 1: phallic sculptor? I mean, is it concerning? Not to me?

886
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 1: I once had a huge crush on I once had

887
00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:57,440
Speaker 1: a huge crush on someone that did extremely erotic tattoos.

888
00:59:58,640 --> 01:00:01,720
Speaker 1: Not the same. I mean, don't you have a question,

889
01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:09,440
Speaker 1: which is that are you involved in this situation? No,

890
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:14,800
Speaker 1: I'm not, But you've been sent here as a proxy? Yes, yes, okay,

891
01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:18,400
Speaker 1: So this gentleman that's here is dating someone who's a

892
01:00:18,440 --> 01:00:21,000
Speaker 1: phallic sculptor. However, the fling from the summer is now

893
01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 1: appearing and he wants her. You want to know if

894
01:00:23,160 --> 01:00:27,200
Speaker 1: you should open that can of worms precisely? Okay, wait,

895
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:30,240
Speaker 1: so wait, sorry, just to clarify, the phallax sculptor is

896
01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:32,840
Speaker 1: from the summer and now he's coming back or yeah,

897
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:34,520
Speaker 1: so the flat no no, no, no no, the fallax

898
01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:38,479
Speaker 1: sculptor is right now, he is a fall, he's the fall.

899
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:45,040
Speaker 1: But another another layer to this is that the fall fling,

900
01:00:45,320 --> 01:00:51,760
Speaker 1: So we go to sculptu Vagina, we go to so

901
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:55,800
Speaker 1: the fall fling is local and the summer fling would

902
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:59,400
Speaker 1: have to be long distance. Okay, so not that. Yeah,

903
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 1: it's exclusive with the sculptor the fall sculpture to say,

904
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 1: I would say winter is coming. Yeah, I would love

905
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:25,000
Speaker 1: to be exclusive with a sculptor. Up. This sounds so

906
01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 1: manifold and crazy and I'm sorry I'm using terrible words.

907
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:37,080
Speaker 1: I think you Yeah, open that canni worms. In terms

908
01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 1: of like confronting him about this guy who's texting him again, yes,

909
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:45,480
Speaker 1: in terms of becoming romantically involved again with Summer Boy.

910
01:01:46,080 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 1: How good was it was? Summer Boy? Was it good? Where? Yeah?

911
01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 1: This is what are you waiting by? If he wants

912
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:59,200
Speaker 1: to expose himself. I will not explore. I think that

913
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:01,320
Speaker 1: he assured were ever you are if you can hear

914
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 1: me right now, I think you should. Um, I say

915
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:10,560
Speaker 1: East Coast boyfriend's day with the ball sculptor. O. No, no,

916
01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 1: that was good. And we want to thank you when

917
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:14,600
Speaker 1: this person for speaking coach trying to give my friend

918
01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:17,360
Speaker 1: Julia shout out because she loves you guys so much

919
01:02:17,440 --> 01:02:19,960
Speaker 1: and she's been waiting, like for the months since we've

920
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:26,520
Speaker 1: had these tickets. She's been excited every single day. Thank you,

921
01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:34,560
Speaker 1: thank you for the question. Okay, yes, hello, go ahead. Sorry.

922
01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:41,000
Speaker 1: So I recently match with someone unhinge while in New York. Yes,

923
01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:44,000
Speaker 1: he's not from New York. He's living in Chicago, moving

924
01:02:44,040 --> 01:02:46,200
Speaker 1: to l A. We start talking a few weeks ago.

925
01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 1: I go to l which is famously part of New

926
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:53,800
Speaker 1: York City. Uh, and I go camping with him in

927
01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:59,400
Speaker 1: Joshua Tree. Um. Not a popular decision amongst my friends.

928
01:02:59,640 --> 01:03:02,080
Speaker 1: What's so ever? So? I was told you may be killed,

929
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 1: you may like come back to us, and they were

930
01:03:04,960 --> 01:03:07,520
Speaker 1: all very concerned. I do it anyway. It was great.

931
01:03:07,680 --> 01:03:10,600
Speaker 1: We like hit it off, had the best time. I'm

932
01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:15,880
Speaker 1: going to Chicago this week. To see him again plot twist.

933
01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:20,200
Speaker 1: He's not Minogue. I don't know the first time. I

934
01:03:20,320 --> 01:03:23,160
Speaker 1: don't know, and I guess I am looking for advice,

935
01:03:23,400 --> 01:03:26,280
Speaker 1: like do I keep doing this? He's not going to

936
01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:31,560
Speaker 1: kill me. We talked pretty regularly. So do you think

937
01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:33,960
Speaker 1: it would bother you to be in a non monog

938
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:39,000
Speaker 1: situation right now? And he's in l I have no problem.

939
01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:42,120
Speaker 1: He's so far away. And but if you're in the

940
01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:44,680
Speaker 1: same city, like you think that will bump you out?

941
01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:48,360
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think you should say when we

942
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:51,480
Speaker 1: get in the same city, won't we assess you? Also,

943
01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:53,240
Speaker 1: you're saying where it's like New York, l A, Chicago.

944
01:03:53,320 --> 01:03:56,640
Speaker 1: I have to ask is an actor? Is an actor?

945
01:03:56,760 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 1: Is a comedian? No, he's like start up? Okay, he's

946
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:05,040
Speaker 1: a startup. It's like a start up. He does like

947
01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:08,400
Speaker 1: the I don't know. He sets up small companies too,

948
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:22,120
Speaker 1: and we all start ups in a way. I'm Australian

949
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:30,920
Speaker 1: now this part, we all start up, and we all

950
01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:34,160
Speaker 1: start up in a this I think, keep seeing him

951
01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 1: until it feels bad. Yeah, I would always this has

952
01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 1: this has this has too many layers, and then do

953
01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:52,360
Speaker 1: it just a bit longer. Thank you? Thank you for speaking.

954
01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:55,480
Speaker 1: We're gonna just speed round so we can get to everyone.

955
01:04:55,880 --> 01:05:01,360
Speaker 1: Speed round. Hi, So this is gonna be for Catherine?

956
01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:08,240
Speaker 1: Then love it? Love it great? So I oh, okay whatever. Um. So,

957
01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:10,520
Speaker 1: I was in high school, I had a boyfriend, we

958
01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:14,200
Speaker 1: dated great. I went off to college, didn't speak to

959
01:05:14,360 --> 01:05:17,720
Speaker 1: him for three years. I'm now a senior and I

960
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 1: got this message from his now girlfriend and I have

961
01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:27,120
Speaker 1: no idea what it means. Um context, my freshman year,

962
01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 1: I was on Facebook looking at his account, and uh,

963
01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 1: there was a picture of this girl next to him,

964
01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:35,960
Speaker 1: and she's sitting in her skirt like was sort of

965
01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 1: pulled up and her legs were together and it looked

966
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:41,560
Speaker 1: like her vagina was on the internet. And so I

967
01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:43,920
Speaker 1: like messaged him. I guess I don't really remember. This

968
01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:46,200
Speaker 1: was three years ago. And so she messages me this

969
01:05:46,480 --> 01:05:50,200
Speaker 1: from his Facebook account and i'ven't talked to him three years.

970
01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 1: She goes, Hey, Sally, that's me. I needed to let

971
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:55,560
Speaker 1: this out, even though it's been three years since it

972
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 1: has happened, but I need this to have a closure.

973
01:05:58,400 --> 01:06:01,760
Speaker 1: F I. I this is Dylan's g F who's vagina

974
01:06:02,080 --> 01:06:06,960
Speaker 1: was on Facebook? Were you yeah? Yeah? Were you were

975
01:06:07,080 --> 01:06:10,640
Speaker 1: you a dumbass or needed glasses because of your miserable

976
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:14,920
Speaker 1: soul back, needed an outlet, whatever fucked up ship happened

977
01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:17,280
Speaker 1: to you, you felt like you had the right to

978
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:20,160
Speaker 1: comment about someone you didn't even know. Just letting you

979
01:06:20,280 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 1: know that you can reflect on yourself in your words

980
01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:24,600
Speaker 1: so that you won't do that to someone else in

981
01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:30,080
Speaker 1: the future. Sending you prayers that you will learn self love. Yeah,

982
01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:38,680
Speaker 1: so that you won't be so toxic to other people. Yeah, So, like,

983
01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:45,520
Speaker 1: what what's that mean? What's that mean, Sally? This girl

984
01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:50,160
Speaker 1: needs so much treatment. If you're ignored nor never change,

985
01:06:51,120 --> 01:06:54,200
Speaker 1: ignore her, ignore her? Oh yeah, you know you don't.

986
01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:59,680
Speaker 1: Don't engage you do you don't have to respond? That's bad?

987
01:07:02,200 --> 01:07:05,280
Speaker 1: Oh God? Or answer her question? Are you a dumbouk

988
01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:09,560
Speaker 1: or need and everyone? To me, I'd be like amazing

989
01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:13,120
Speaker 1: to meet you digitally. I am a dumbass, but I

990
01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:14,760
Speaker 1: have to be honest with the fact that I've seen

991
01:07:14,800 --> 01:07:22,640
Speaker 1: your vagina on Facebook dot com. Yeah yeah, Oh, hold

992
01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:29,600
Speaker 1: on one more thought. Anyone who uses Facebook is spiritually

993
01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 1: sick and needs go. Thank you for culture. Thank you? Wow? Okay,

994
01:07:38,080 --> 01:07:42,320
Speaker 1: math Part math PARTA. I'll try and be really fast Okay,

995
01:07:42,560 --> 01:07:50,520
Speaker 1: so outline, m hm, really fast bullet point. I'm best

996
01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:54,120
Speaker 1: friends with this guy. Yeah, Um, he has a serious girlfriend.

997
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:57,080
Speaker 1: While he has a girlfriend, we accidentally kind of fall

998
01:07:57,120 --> 01:08:00,480
Speaker 1: in love. Okay, accidentally in love. It's accounting Crows song,

999
01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 1: so we know exactly what you mean. He breaks up

1000
01:08:07,040 --> 01:08:10,400
Speaker 1: with his girlfriend. After they break up, Um, we all

1001
01:08:10,440 --> 01:08:15,240
Speaker 1: go out drinking together, and he and I spontaneously decided

1002
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:18,439
Speaker 1: to get a hotel room together. Okay, what to get

1003
01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:22,320
Speaker 1: a hotel room together? They were broken up, they're broken up.

1004
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:27,400
Speaker 1: A week later, I find out that he's talking to

1005
01:08:27,439 --> 01:08:29,439
Speaker 1: his girlfriend again and they're probably going to get back together.

1006
01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:33,640
Speaker 1: Is he a scumbag? Or is he just confused? I

1007
01:08:33,680 --> 01:08:41,240
Speaker 1: gotta be honest with you. Yeah, but are you? Are you?

1008
01:08:41,400 --> 01:08:45,320
Speaker 1: Mad am? I mad about which part? You don't even

1009
01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:48,800
Speaker 1: seem that bothered? You look fucking cute. You're out of

1010
01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:53,360
Speaker 1: the show in this audience. There's so many straight guys here,

1011
01:08:53,400 --> 01:08:56,880
Speaker 1: who are you ready to absolutely mingle and crush and slam?

1012
01:08:57,840 --> 01:09:01,160
Speaker 1: I just said a dog whistle was counting Crows. They're

1013
01:09:01,200 --> 01:09:04,240
Speaker 1: so fucking horny right now. All the straight guys in

1014
01:09:04,320 --> 01:09:08,120
Speaker 1: here are so hard, I said, counting Crows, And you

1015
01:09:08,360 --> 01:09:17,200
Speaker 1: you can hear the dicks rise cheer. Is you straight? Cheer?

1016
01:09:17,560 --> 01:09:21,160
Speaker 1: If you're a straight guy. If you're here, my god,

1017
01:09:23,720 --> 01:09:26,400
Speaker 1: thank you for a speaking culture. Thank you so much,

1018
01:09:27,439 --> 01:09:31,000
Speaker 1: straight man. This question is for Pat. I am so

1019
01:09:31,240 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 1: glad I got you? Are you glad you got me?

1020
01:09:35,360 --> 01:09:37,200
Speaker 1: I think we shared in the voice where we all turns.

1021
01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:39,720
Speaker 1: We hear a question we want to advise on. We

1022
01:09:40,000 --> 01:09:43,240
Speaker 1: turn around. Oh that's for next show. Next we're doing

1023
01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:45,479
Speaker 1: the voice. I'm sorry, this is your moment you had

1024
01:09:45,520 --> 01:09:48,880
Speaker 1: the floor. Okay, So last year, I'm fortuning tested positive

1025
01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:52,439
Speaker 1: for HIV and I immediately after I went on my

1026
01:09:52,600 --> 01:09:58,160
Speaker 1: apps and changed my status because I'm honest, And within

1027
01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:03,880
Speaker 1: a couple of days of doing that, I started getting solicitations. Um. Yeah,

1028
01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:08,519
Speaker 1: And the issue I'm having is, you know, some of

1029
01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:11,720
Speaker 1: these guys are kind of hot. I probably wouldn't get

1030
01:10:11,760 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 1: them in a million years, and some of them have

1031
01:10:14,240 --> 01:10:19,959
Speaker 1: offered me money. Okay, are they like buck chasers? Basically?

1032
01:10:20,080 --> 01:10:22,479
Speaker 1: Like yes, like they're they're they're they're negative. But I

1033
01:10:22,520 --> 01:10:24,720
Speaker 1: get I get these every I get two of them

1034
01:10:24,760 --> 01:10:27,960
Speaker 1: a week. I'm scared. How does that make you feel?

1035
01:10:28,560 --> 01:10:30,679
Speaker 1: I don't know how to feel about it. Like it's

1036
01:10:33,000 --> 01:10:36,439
Speaker 1: I try to be non judgmental about people's sexual interests,

1037
01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:41,400
Speaker 1: but I'm always I'm always saying, they're typing to them.

1038
01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:45,640
Speaker 1: Why you know what I would do? It's impossible to know.

1039
01:10:45,880 --> 01:10:50,639
Speaker 1: That's such a unique situation. I think that, for one,

1040
01:10:50,840 --> 01:10:52,560
Speaker 1: I think you should just take a break from it

1041
01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:56,120
Speaker 1: so you understand your relationship with your with what your

1042
01:10:56,720 --> 01:10:59,599
Speaker 1: situation is, and then when you know how to even

1043
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Speaker 1: feel at it, you can start dealing with it again

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01:11:02,360 --> 01:11:04,880
Speaker 1: if you want to. But I think, like even the

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01:11:04,920 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 1: fact that you're a little confused about how you feel

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01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:10,160
Speaker 1: about it and it's a sensitive thing, I would just

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01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:11,760
Speaker 1: block it out for a little bit n till you

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Speaker 1: have some more clarity. All right, Yeah, thank you, that's

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Speaker 1: so thank you. Last one, hie. Hi guys, before I start,

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01:11:26,360 --> 01:11:38,800
Speaker 1: can I take a selfie with you? Yeah? Thank you?

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01:11:39,120 --> 01:11:46,920
Speaker 1: You look amazing. Thank you. If I I said no, okay,

1052
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Speaker 1: so you all might be unqualified to answer this, Okay,

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Speaker 1: Cat might be the most thanks for coming. Cat might

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Speaker 1: be the most qualified because she was b for a

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Speaker 1: little bit on New Year's Eve. She was I'm in theory,

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01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:18,439
Speaker 1: not in practice. She was open to it. So I

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01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:21,320
Speaker 1: am b and I'm recently out of a relationship long

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01:12:21,400 --> 01:12:24,600
Speaker 1: term relationship with a man, and I want to casually

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01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:28,639
Speaker 1: date women. But all of the lesbians in New York

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01:12:28,960 --> 01:12:34,280
Speaker 1: love monogamy, so I need advice on how to find

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01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:41,000
Speaker 1: a casual female lover. Um. I literally see a raised

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Speaker 1: hand and someone someone be commoted to become friend. To

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01:12:51,680 --> 01:12:55,599
Speaker 1: get the case, people, I know that's not the only

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01:12:55,720 --> 01:13:02,560
Speaker 1: JUNI lesbian up in here tonight. I mean, congratulations on,

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Speaker 1: congratulations on being ah, yes, this is this is not

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Speaker 1: pejorative a slutty by person. That's that's like like the

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01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:16,920
Speaker 1: world's your oyster. I they love monotomy, but that doesn't

1068
01:13:16,960 --> 01:13:20,200
Speaker 1: preclude you from like having sex with him and then

1069
01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:26,840
Speaker 1: not paying attention to them after hers right it is

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01:13:28,040 --> 01:13:31,639
Speaker 1: to take into account their feelings this much, Oh my god,

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01:13:31,800 --> 01:13:33,679
Speaker 1: I mean people get away with it all the time.

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01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:37,840
Speaker 1: And for you, as a queer woman to exercise that

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01:13:38,080 --> 01:13:41,639
Speaker 1: revolutionary I say, duett, break as many hearts to see

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01:13:42,520 --> 01:13:46,720
Speaker 1: and then go talk to her. It's also not your

1075
01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:51,800
Speaker 1: problem that they didn't understand when you say that you're like,

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01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:55,080
Speaker 1: just fuck him and just just be up front, just like, hey,

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01:13:55,160 --> 01:13:56,920
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I just got out of a relationship with

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Speaker 1: with the student. And I think I'm just I think

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01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:03,760
Speaker 1: I want to do a fun little tour and that's

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01:14:03,880 --> 01:14:06,599
Speaker 1: that's it, you know. Yeah, I keep getting friend zoned

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01:14:06,640 --> 01:14:10,880
Speaker 1: when I say that. Really after after after you hook up, though,

1082
01:14:12,320 --> 01:14:14,879
Speaker 1: don't just just just don't bring it up until afternoon.

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01:14:18,800 --> 01:14:21,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, there's nothing I've done with you a

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01:14:21,080 --> 01:14:24,120
Speaker 1: truth teller, thank you. There's there's nothing like inethical about that.

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01:14:24,280 --> 01:14:26,080
Speaker 1: Unless they say, before you woke up, do you want

1086
01:14:26,080 --> 01:14:32,679
Speaker 1: a relationship? I can't tell you for forty five minutes. Wow,

1087
01:14:32,800 --> 01:14:37,000
Speaker 1: that's long. Um, well, I think I think that's it.

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01:14:37,080 --> 01:14:40,280
Speaker 1: That's my honest that's my honest answer. Have less of

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Speaker 1: a conscience that sure cares taking dank dank anky Dan,

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Speaker 1: thank you for culture. Okay, I think this is this

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01:14:50,000 --> 01:14:51,920
Speaker 1: is this is the time of the night where we

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01:14:52,240 --> 01:14:57,519
Speaker 1: bring on a guest. We bring a guest on stage, um,

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01:14:58,080 --> 01:15:00,680
Speaker 1: and they're going to give us advice because we we

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01:15:01,080 --> 01:15:03,479
Speaker 1: we in our first act we didn't really we explore

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01:15:03,479 --> 01:15:05,519
Speaker 1: each other's diseases, but no one really ever gave us

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01:15:05,600 --> 01:15:08,000
Speaker 1: or conferred upon us any advice. So you could almost

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01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:12,600
Speaker 1: say we didn't accomplish anything in the first section. So

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Speaker 1: at this time, we are going to be welcoming to

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Speaker 1: this stage a very special guest of ours that's going

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01:15:19,600 --> 01:15:22,639
Speaker 1: to give us some advice and give you all advice

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01:15:22,760 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 1: really truly by proxy. He is a Tony Award winning actor. Um.

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Speaker 1: He was just in the Netflix show The Politician. Um.

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01:15:34,000 --> 01:15:38,040
Speaker 1: He's just a lovely, lovely person. Please welcome to the stage, Bena,

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Speaker 1: Mr Bad Yeah Ben, what Oh my god? A throw Wow.

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Speaker 1: I just want to say that I feel really at

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Speaker 1: home because we are in a house of Jewish worship

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01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:09,400
Speaker 1: yea um. But at the same time, I feel really

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Speaker 1: sad because if this was an Orthodox house of worship,

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01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:14,679
Speaker 1: all the women would have to sit up there. I know, lady,

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01:16:15,080 --> 01:16:17,920
Speaker 1: and I don't like that. Ladies come down from there,

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01:16:18,520 --> 01:16:23,080
Speaker 1: Ladies get down from there. It's nineteen Uh. Well, I

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01:16:23,120 --> 01:16:25,160
Speaker 1: guess before we get before we really get into it,

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01:16:25,240 --> 01:16:28,360
Speaker 1: do you are you taking treatment or seaking culture for anything?

1114
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:35,960
Speaker 1: You know what? Yes, it's a mutual jerk, yes, sure.

1115
01:16:36,320 --> 01:16:38,720
Speaker 1: I mean it's kind of a weirdly specific thing that

1116
01:16:38,840 --> 01:16:41,559
Speaker 1: I'm like seeking. I'm in this weird kind of moment

1117
01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:45,920
Speaker 1: where I, for the first time have like some agency creatively. Um,

1118
01:16:46,080 --> 01:16:49,320
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to figure out like how irresponsible it

1119
01:16:49,439 --> 01:16:51,800
Speaker 1: is to purely only do things that like make me

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Speaker 1: very happy and fulfilled as a person, but aren't necessarily

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01:16:55,400 --> 01:16:58,120
Speaker 1: like the smart moves to make, or to only be

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01:16:58,240 --> 01:17:00,519
Speaker 1: making the very smart moves that I'm acted to make

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Speaker 1: by the people around me, if they're not sort of

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01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:05,280
Speaker 1: as fulfilling to me as the like other stuff. So

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to juggle those two worlds. So we'll

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01:17:07,760 --> 01:17:12,479
Speaker 1: just quickly give you career advice. Yeah, yeah, because I

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01:17:12,560 --> 01:17:25,559
Speaker 1: want to be where you are. Okay, Cathol's type while

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Speaker 1: she's going off, I feel like it's like I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to think, what if I were as talented as Ben Plat, well,

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Speaker 1: would I do? I think I would do literally anything

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01:17:34,680 --> 01:17:37,320
Speaker 1: I wanted because it doesn't matter because like even if

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Speaker 1: you were to do something that wasn't like there was

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Speaker 1: a little off the beaten path or whatever, you could

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01:17:41,360 --> 01:17:44,559
Speaker 1: always come back and literally do anything you wanted. Because

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Speaker 1: I think you're in a unique position of being talented

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Speaker 1: at everything. And I think, um, well, it depends like

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01:17:53,880 --> 01:17:56,719
Speaker 1: whose career. I think you look at other people's careers,

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01:17:56,800 --> 01:17:59,400
Speaker 1: like for me, I would like when I think about

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01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:02,559
Speaker 1: like a career aren't like Amy Sedarius is so appealing

1140
01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 1: because it feels like she truly does whatever she wants.

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01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:10,639
Speaker 1: Are a sus Jerry. He's a combination of David Sedaris.

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01:18:11,840 --> 01:18:17,000
Speaker 1: Let me, no, you're not. He's wrong. He's talented, but

1143
01:18:17,120 --> 01:18:19,120
Speaker 1: that was wrong. I think it sounds fun to be

1144
01:18:19,240 --> 01:18:21,439
Speaker 1: able to like pay run to like a nice place,

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01:18:21,520 --> 01:18:25,640
Speaker 1: but then also like be quirky over once. But is

1146
01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:27,920
Speaker 1: it like an either or situation, like purely or is

1147
01:18:27,960 --> 01:18:30,240
Speaker 1: it like a is it like I'm trying to think

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01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:31,880
Speaker 1: of a good example, is like a Natalie apartment who

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01:18:31,880 --> 01:18:34,120
Speaker 1: does like one for you one for me? Altern can

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01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:35,799
Speaker 1: you do a Mark? It's an option to a Marvel

1151
01:18:35,920 --> 01:18:39,519
Speaker 1: movie every four years. Yeah, when Marvel calls me, I'll

1152
01:18:39,560 --> 01:18:42,320
Speaker 1: let you know. But it hasn't happened. Is that option

1153
01:18:42,360 --> 01:18:44,000
Speaker 1: now where you like, you do one thing that's like

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01:18:44,040 --> 01:18:46,479
Speaker 1: fulfilling for you and then you just you set some

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01:18:46,600 --> 01:18:48,519
Speaker 1: powdern around it? I think, yeah, I think so. I

1156
01:18:48,600 --> 01:18:50,120
Speaker 1: think that the thing I keep running into is that

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01:18:50,280 --> 01:18:52,000
Speaker 1: when I say the thing I love, the thing fills

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01:18:52,000 --> 01:18:54,639
Speaker 1: me up or whatever. Usually I mean theater and musical theater,

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01:18:54,720 --> 01:18:57,280
Speaker 1: and that requires like at least like a six seven

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01:18:57,320 --> 01:19:00,439
Speaker 1: month situation so I'm just trying to like not you know,

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01:19:00,880 --> 01:19:04,040
Speaker 1: be an idiot, but also like do what I love. Yeah,

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01:19:05,160 --> 01:19:08,799
Speaker 1: anyway I feel do you feel like, yeah, well Catherine

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Speaker 1: has a whole thing. Oh my god, I'm so excited.

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01:19:11,520 --> 01:19:16,439
Speaker 1: Here we go. Thanks for asking, Ben Plat. My advice

1165
01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:19,040
Speaker 1: is to do whatever you want, whenever you want to

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01:19:19,120 --> 01:19:22,799
Speaker 1: do it. That's what I do. And now I'm typing

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01:19:22,880 --> 01:19:25,600
Speaker 1: on a computer near some of my best friends on

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01:19:25,800 --> 01:19:31,439
Speaker 1: stage in Brooklyn. Anything is possible. That being said, musical

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01:19:31,600 --> 01:19:45,640
Speaker 1: theater is life ruining. H Yeah, So is there is

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01:19:45,680 --> 01:19:48,839
Speaker 1: there anything that you want to do that's like absolutely freaky?

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01:19:49,280 --> 01:19:51,120
Speaker 1: Like if if if you told us right now, we

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01:19:51,160 --> 01:19:58,960
Speaker 1: would be like, oh that is that legal? No? I

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01:19:59,120 --> 01:20:02,840
Speaker 1: wish really, I mean, do you have any suggestions? But no,

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Speaker 1: I thought you were like like, I don't know. Like sometimes,

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01:20:07,800 --> 01:20:11,639
Speaker 1: do you guys remember on American Idols Season one? Um,

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01:20:12,520 --> 01:20:17,160
Speaker 1: do you guys remember Ryan's starr? Okay, do you remember

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Speaker 1: here Ryan? It's a she is stupid bit. Her name

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01:20:23,120 --> 01:20:26,920
Speaker 1: was Ryan with two ends Star with two rs? And

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Speaker 1: do you remember when she she did the first few

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01:20:29,680 --> 01:20:32,160
Speaker 1: weeks and Simon Calli said to her, you could be

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01:20:32,240 --> 01:20:35,920
Speaker 1: Britney Spears and then she came out and she's saying, yeah,

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01:20:36,439 --> 01:20:39,840
Speaker 1: you really got me now, and she didn't like like that,

1183
01:20:41,920 --> 01:20:45,559
Speaker 1: and she got out. So what I'm saying is, don't

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01:20:45,680 --> 01:20:48,320
Speaker 1: take risks, be Britney Spears or else you're gonna be

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01:20:48,439 --> 01:20:52,000
Speaker 1: Ryan Star and you're gonna be shooting up in bed

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01:20:52,120 --> 01:20:55,120
Speaker 1: because you your face finally flushed because some fags said

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Speaker 1: your name in Brooklyn tonight. Just kidding, take risks, it's

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01:21:01,640 --> 01:21:10,240
Speaker 1: me Ryan Stark. Anyway, then I think I think you've

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01:21:10,240 --> 01:21:11,800
Speaker 1: already I think it's this is this is going off

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01:21:11,840 --> 01:21:14,559
Speaker 1: with Matt, what Matt was saying earlier, but maybe it's

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01:21:14,560 --> 01:21:17,360
Speaker 1: adding this extra thing where I think you've already established

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01:21:17,400 --> 01:21:20,360
Speaker 1: yourself in a very very very very very good way,

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01:21:20,400 --> 01:21:23,120
Speaker 1: an impressive way. And I think you can't straight too

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01:21:23,200 --> 01:21:25,599
Speaker 1: far from that center. I mean, no matter how far

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01:21:25,720 --> 01:21:28,200
Speaker 1: off you've hear, that's always going to be accessible to you.

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01:21:28,479 --> 01:21:30,599
Speaker 1: Just keep just just do what you want and then

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01:21:30,640 --> 01:21:32,640
Speaker 1: if it feels wrong and then you just you just

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01:21:32,880 --> 01:21:36,720
Speaker 1: just change. Yeah. Or I think, um, something about my

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Speaker 1: gorgeous human brain, which say it with me belongs in

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Speaker 1: a trash ball. Um. I think the idea of like

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01:21:45,040 --> 01:21:46,920
Speaker 1: if I was if I was you. I wake up

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01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:50,680
Speaker 1: one day, I'm like, okay, I'm randomly Ben Plat, I

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01:21:50,880 --> 01:21:55,120
Speaker 1: would um uh and someone and someone like even Bowen

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01:21:55,200 --> 01:21:57,080
Speaker 1: Yang was like, don't straight from the course like that

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01:21:57,120 --> 01:21:59,280
Speaker 1: would make me. I would be like, actually, like I'm

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01:21:59,280 --> 01:22:01,360
Speaker 1: going to do something psychotic, you know what I mean?

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01:22:01,560 --> 01:22:03,960
Speaker 1: Like um, I was saying, he can straight from right

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01:22:04,400 --> 01:22:06,360
Speaker 1: right right, but you'll end up back on some like

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01:22:07,520 --> 01:22:09,439
Speaker 1: it'll all look looking back, it'll all make sense. I

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01:22:09,479 --> 01:22:11,519
Speaker 1: think there's like one thing you really want to do

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01:22:12,160 --> 01:22:14,040
Speaker 1: that you should do it. But if it's like nothing

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01:22:14,120 --> 01:22:16,360
Speaker 1: and it just would be to be random, then don't.

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01:22:19,479 --> 01:22:23,599
Speaker 1: Thanks you guys, Yeah, don't be a random mista. Um Ben,

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Speaker 1: do you have advice for us? Please be as candidates.

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01:22:27,479 --> 01:22:29,280
Speaker 1: Can I get like an area or like a question

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01:22:29,520 --> 01:22:31,839
Speaker 1: or like what you're like, yes, should I have children?

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01:22:34,439 --> 01:22:37,000
Speaker 1: Here's the thing, given what you said before, I feel

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01:22:37,000 --> 01:22:39,439
Speaker 1: I could get into some legal trouble for saying yes.

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01:22:39,640 --> 01:22:42,200
Speaker 1: But I know, but you're you. I think you'd be

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01:22:42,240 --> 01:22:44,760
Speaker 1: a wonderful dad from the little that I know. Can

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01:22:44,800 --> 01:22:47,760
Speaker 1: I tell you something. One of the things that is

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01:22:47,800 --> 01:22:49,720
Speaker 1: like a weird thing I think about sometimes is I

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01:22:49,760 --> 01:22:54,920
Speaker 1: actually I do feel like I I know, and so

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01:22:55,800 --> 01:22:59,120
Speaker 1: I know that there's kids out there that like need

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01:22:59,200 --> 01:23:03,360
Speaker 1: a dad and so, and some of my best friends

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01:23:03,360 --> 01:23:06,040
Speaker 1: are adopted, and so I just feel like it kind

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01:23:06,080 --> 01:23:09,320
Speaker 1: of makes me feel like, why would I not if

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01:23:09,360 --> 01:23:12,720
Speaker 1: I'm able to and capable of doing it, Why would

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01:23:12,760 --> 01:23:17,400
Speaker 1: I not give a child a loving home? And I

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01:23:17,520 --> 01:23:21,320
Speaker 1: know that, like with the way that I feel about

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01:23:22,040 --> 01:23:24,760
Speaker 1: the things I care about, I know I would. I

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01:23:24,800 --> 01:23:27,120
Speaker 1: would obviously commit to being a father, like you can't

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01:23:27,160 --> 01:23:28,760
Speaker 1: just be a father. And it's like, well, this is

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01:23:28,840 --> 01:23:32,479
Speaker 1: my Tuesday through Wednesday thing. Um, but it's it is

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01:23:32,600 --> 01:23:38,880
Speaker 1: like it is, but it is a thing. And it's

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01:23:38,920 --> 01:23:41,000
Speaker 1: like he said he didn't want children and I was

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01:23:41,080 --> 01:23:42,519
Speaker 1: like oh, and I was like, well I don't want

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01:23:42,640 --> 01:23:44,759
Speaker 1: kids either. But then it's like is that a selfish

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01:23:44,800 --> 01:23:46,760
Speaker 1: way to think? And then ultimately am I like a

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01:23:46,800 --> 01:23:49,800
Speaker 1: selfish person? Blah blah blah. I don't think I would

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01:23:49,800 --> 01:23:52,880
Speaker 1: have like a natural child because if you're gay and

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01:23:53,000 --> 01:24:01,479
Speaker 1: we aren't rats, Yeah, but what I a child with you? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I have a child with you? Yes, Kelma or an

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01:24:06,120 --> 01:24:10,040
Speaker 1: your child? Kel So, I don't know. It's it's it's

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01:24:10,080 --> 01:24:14,200
Speaker 1: interesting to think about do you have a child with Katherine,

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01:24:14,280 --> 01:24:16,120
Speaker 1: I would, but I have to have with with Beanie

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01:24:16,120 --> 01:24:20,560
Speaker 1: Felstine first. Yeah, Beanie first, And then you get in

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01:24:20,680 --> 01:24:25,720
Speaker 1: line Cohen, do you want children? Here's the thing, really

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Speaker 1: really badly and I always have and like the only

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01:24:27,840 --> 01:24:29,519
Speaker 1: thing I've known that I wanted to do besides like

1251
01:24:29,640 --> 01:24:32,320
Speaker 1: sing around and beyond people's stages, is like be a father.

1252
01:24:32,400 --> 01:24:34,320
Speaker 1: But now I feel like a deep existential terror of

1253
01:24:34,400 --> 01:24:35,840
Speaker 1: like can I bring a child into a world that

1254
01:24:35,960 --> 01:24:38,360
Speaker 1: is slowly ending? I know that's a thing, that's a thing,

1255
01:24:38,600 --> 01:24:40,200
Speaker 1: but you wouldn't be bringing it in. I feel like

1256
01:24:40,439 --> 01:24:43,080
Speaker 1: gay Manner in a position where it's like you're it's

1257
01:24:43,080 --> 01:24:45,000
Speaker 1: almost a gift to be able to adopt a child

1258
01:24:45,080 --> 01:24:47,679
Speaker 1: because there's so many children in the world. You need families.

1259
01:24:47,880 --> 01:24:51,320
Speaker 1: That is true. That is true, so hopefully yeah maybe,

1260
01:24:52,160 --> 01:24:56,000
Speaker 1: um and we get that. In writing, Katherine has a

1261
01:24:56,120 --> 01:25:00,320
Speaker 1: question should I get a boyfriend? Child? You want to

1262
01:25:00,360 --> 01:25:04,280
Speaker 1: get my voice back? The first part where should I what?

1263
01:25:04,520 --> 01:25:06,280
Speaker 1: Should I have a boyfriend? Should I get a boyfriend?

1264
01:25:06,320 --> 01:25:08,720
Speaker 1: Should get a boyfriend? And how do I get my

1265
01:25:08,880 --> 01:25:12,400
Speaker 1: voice back? Um? Don't only if it's like undeniable you

1266
01:25:12,400 --> 01:25:14,840
Speaker 1: should get a boyfriend. I feel like if if you

1267
01:25:14,920 --> 01:25:17,160
Speaker 1: wake up in the morning feeling anything other than all

1268
01:25:17,240 --> 01:25:18,840
Speaker 1: I wanted to do is be with this person. Then like,

1269
01:25:18,960 --> 01:25:21,120
Speaker 1: no need to have a boyfriend. I think I'm trying

1270
01:25:21,240 --> 01:25:23,920
Speaker 1: myself also to get like more comfy in the gray area.

1271
01:25:24,160 --> 01:25:26,240
Speaker 1: So I think, like, live in that area until your

1272
01:25:26,240 --> 01:25:29,160
Speaker 1: heart is saying, honey, no more living in the gray area. Um.

1273
01:25:29,560 --> 01:25:32,120
Speaker 1: And then about your voice, I mean, get a good

1274
01:25:32,320 --> 01:25:33,640
Speaker 1: n T. We talked a little bit about who your

1275
01:25:33,640 --> 01:25:35,240
Speaker 1: e n T is. I don't I've never heard of him,

1276
01:25:35,240 --> 01:25:43,400
Speaker 1: but he sounds lovely. Um. Um. If there's one thing, Yeah,

1277
01:25:43,400 --> 01:25:44,680
Speaker 1: if there's one thing I know, it's my e NT.

1278
01:25:45,080 --> 01:25:46,920
Speaker 1: I spend more time in there than anywhere else. He

1279
01:25:47,000 --> 01:25:50,639
Speaker 1: lives around the corner for me. Um, A lot of water,

1280
01:25:50,800 --> 01:25:52,759
Speaker 1: a lot of quiet. What you're doing now is amazing,

1281
01:25:52,840 --> 01:25:55,080
Speaker 1: And the fact that you have the talents and faculties

1282
01:25:55,120 --> 01:25:58,320
Speaker 1: to still be incredible without your voice is amazing. Catherine

1283
01:25:58,360 --> 01:26:00,679
Speaker 1: almost wasn't kind of come, and we were all I come.

1284
01:26:01,640 --> 01:26:03,360
Speaker 1: They would have been so mad if you didn't come

1285
01:26:04,520 --> 01:26:08,640
Speaker 1: and enjoy this time of silence and joy. I had

1286
01:26:08,640 --> 01:26:09,920
Speaker 1: to be silent for a couple of weeks because of

1287
01:26:09,960 --> 01:26:11,519
Speaker 1: a very similar thing. I had to pole up and

1288
01:26:11,840 --> 01:26:13,960
Speaker 1: I found that I like observed things about my friends

1289
01:26:14,000 --> 01:26:15,680
Speaker 1: and family that I had never noticed before because I

1290
01:26:15,760 --> 01:26:19,640
Speaker 1: couldn't be opening my mouth all the time. So I

1291
01:26:19,760 --> 01:26:26,280
Speaker 1: feel very connected. And Manuka honey, yes, Manuka honey, that's correct.

1292
01:26:26,320 --> 01:26:29,560
Speaker 1: It's very good for you. Um what do I do

1293
01:26:29,720 --> 01:26:33,559
Speaker 1: about what I do about seeking out like specifically bad

1294
01:26:33,960 --> 01:26:37,560
Speaker 1: like negative feedback about myself? You want it? Well, no,

1295
01:26:37,640 --> 01:26:39,160
Speaker 1: it's not that he wanted. It's just but it's just that,

1296
01:26:39,280 --> 01:26:42,720
Speaker 1: like it's it's like this I can't help you with

1297
01:26:42,800 --> 01:26:44,840
Speaker 1: because I'm the same way. Like if if I read

1298
01:26:44,960 --> 01:26:46,600
Speaker 1: like ten things and one of them is bad, the

1299
01:26:46,680 --> 01:26:47,880
Speaker 1: only thing I think about is a bad one, and

1300
01:26:47,920 --> 01:26:50,200
Speaker 1: I look for more like that, Like when the politician

1301
01:26:50,280 --> 01:26:51,760
Speaker 1: came out and I was reading like some people saying

1302
01:26:51,800 --> 01:26:53,280
Speaker 1: things all over on line. Then one person was like,

1303
01:26:53,560 --> 01:26:55,840
Speaker 1: that guy looks throughty. He's not in high school. And

1304
01:26:56,680 --> 01:26:59,160
Speaker 1: then and then I literally searched in Twitter like Ben

1305
01:26:59,280 --> 01:27:04,040
Speaker 1: Plat two and just like anything and somebody who is

1306
01:27:04,120 --> 01:27:06,200
Speaker 1: five years older than Ben Platt, I feel like those

1307
01:27:06,200 --> 01:27:13,880
Speaker 1: comments are pejorative to me. Your ageless stop that right now.

1308
01:27:13,880 --> 01:27:16,080
Speaker 1: I think it's in our nature somehow to want to know,

1309
01:27:16,439 --> 01:27:18,439
Speaker 1: like I think I always want to have the information

1310
01:27:18,560 --> 01:27:20,599
Speaker 1: rather than to imagine what the information could be, because

1311
01:27:20,640 --> 01:27:22,599
Speaker 1: it's always worse. Whatever imagine in my head is always

1312
01:27:22,640 --> 01:27:25,559
Speaker 1: worse than the reality, even if the reality is like shitty. Um.

1313
01:27:25,720 --> 01:27:27,880
Speaker 1: But if you're so, if we're already doing this, then like,

1314
01:27:28,120 --> 01:27:30,080
Speaker 1: what is your coping mechanism around this now? Because I

1315
01:27:30,080 --> 01:27:32,360
Speaker 1: don't know how to like, I think I'm just getting

1316
01:27:32,360 --> 01:27:34,160
Speaker 1: a thicker skin and that's good, but I'm also like,

1317
01:27:34,400 --> 01:27:36,880
Speaker 1: but I still think about it constantly. Here's my like,

1318
01:27:37,680 --> 01:27:40,320
Speaker 1: um coping like healthy coping mechanism. It's just like a

1319
01:27:40,680 --> 01:27:42,559
Speaker 1: like really paying attention to the nice things and also

1320
01:27:42,680 --> 01:27:44,400
Speaker 1: the people that I actually who's who are in my

1321
01:27:44,439 --> 01:27:46,240
Speaker 1: life and whose opinions I really do value, and my

1322
01:27:46,320 --> 01:27:48,040
Speaker 1: friends who will like tell me the truth, be like

1323
01:27:48,560 --> 01:27:50,320
Speaker 1: that was shitty or like that was beautiful, and like

1324
01:27:50,400 --> 01:27:52,280
Speaker 1: really tell me to my face. And then the bad

1325
01:27:52,320 --> 01:27:54,680
Speaker 1: coming mechanism is that I'll look at whoever's account it

1326
01:27:54,800 --> 01:27:56,559
Speaker 1: was that was mean, and I'll find out that they're

1327
01:27:56,560 --> 01:27:59,479
Speaker 1: either not very intelligent or they love Trump. Yeah yeah,

1328
01:28:01,640 --> 01:28:05,720
Speaker 1: it's beautiful. Yeah he um, I don't know how do

1329
01:28:05,920 --> 01:28:08,639
Speaker 1: I um stop right now? So I'm gonna be really

1330
01:28:08,800 --> 01:28:11,280
Speaker 1: vulnerable right now kind of if we can have um

1331
01:28:11,680 --> 01:28:14,280
Speaker 1: all the everyone pass out some tissues, that would be amazing.

1332
01:28:14,800 --> 01:28:17,040
Speaker 1: I don't know. I've been freaking out lately about my

1333
01:28:17,080 --> 01:28:21,160
Speaker 1: physical pearance because my belt wouldn't fit even this night

1334
01:28:21,280 --> 01:28:25,040
Speaker 1: that we are in and I just wanted to vote

1335
01:28:25,240 --> 01:28:30,679
Speaker 1: less emotional energy. It's been like a lifelong fucking struggle

1336
01:28:30,760 --> 01:28:34,000
Speaker 1: to like and it's so weirdly tied up in gay

1337
01:28:34,200 --> 01:28:37,280
Speaker 1: I don't know if you've ever heard of it, and um,

1338
01:28:38,120 --> 01:28:41,120
Speaker 1: I just don't know where it began or how to get.

1339
01:28:41,280 --> 01:28:43,120
Speaker 1: Every time I think I'm doing better with it, I'm like,

1340
01:28:43,160 --> 01:28:46,360
Speaker 1: oh my god, I've only like beaten the ship out

1341
01:28:46,400 --> 01:28:47,760
Speaker 1: of myself in my head for how I look for

1342
01:28:47,840 --> 01:28:49,960
Speaker 1: the past like thirty six hours and I don't know

1343
01:28:50,040 --> 01:28:52,280
Speaker 1: how to stop. And my therapist is name Daniel, and

1344
01:28:52,360 --> 01:28:56,240
Speaker 1: he only sometimes is helpful, and whenever I excited a

1345
01:28:56,280 --> 01:28:57,920
Speaker 1: question to him, he says, what do you think that

1346
01:28:58,080 --> 01:28:59,760
Speaker 1: I asked if he watched to be a Housewives? And

1347
01:28:59,840 --> 01:29:01,720
Speaker 1: he You're gonna get a load of this. He goes,

1348
01:29:02,720 --> 01:29:05,560
Speaker 1: what do you think if I watch for Housewives? And

1349
01:29:05,640 --> 01:29:07,479
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know, Daniel, I'm trying to

1350
01:29:07,560 --> 01:29:11,439
Speaker 1: be a human for one. So to all of that,

1351
01:29:13,320 --> 01:29:15,280
Speaker 1: I mean, all I can say, I think is that

1352
01:29:15,400 --> 01:29:16,880
Speaker 1: I see you and then I feel the same way,

1353
01:29:16,960 --> 01:29:18,439
Speaker 1: and then I have the same experience and the body

1354
01:29:18,479 --> 01:29:20,639
Speaker 1: just smore feels so real, and that like from where

1355
01:29:20,640 --> 01:29:25,200
Speaker 1: I'm sitting, you're very beautiful and very handsome, and that

1356
01:29:26,120 --> 01:29:28,760
Speaker 1: means nothing because that's the response that you get when

1357
01:29:28,800 --> 01:29:30,559
Speaker 1: you ask something like that. And I feel the same way.

1358
01:29:30,600 --> 01:29:32,760
Speaker 1: And I feel like I dissect my appearance as well,

1359
01:29:32,800 --> 01:29:35,120
Speaker 1: particularly because I'm like on camera and things like that

1360
01:29:35,200 --> 01:29:37,439
Speaker 1: and like pictures and like I think digital stuff in

1361
01:29:37,520 --> 01:29:42,840
Speaker 1: my face and I'm on the web. Yeah no, I

1362
01:29:42,960 --> 01:29:47,240
Speaker 1: know we have podcasts, but I mean, because then the

1363
01:29:47,320 --> 01:29:49,759
Speaker 1: voice comes in where it's like, of course, then plasts

1364
01:29:49,760 --> 01:29:51,040
Speaker 1: gonna say that we're on a stage in front of

1365
01:29:51,080 --> 01:29:53,040
Speaker 1: seven Hondo, like he would have to be have a

1366
01:29:53,120 --> 01:29:55,640
Speaker 1: true so psychopath to be like you know what I mean,

1367
01:29:55,680 --> 01:29:58,160
Speaker 1: Like those voices all keep undermining everything you think and

1368
01:29:58,200 --> 01:30:00,599
Speaker 1: then you're like, oh my god, it's literally too hours later,

1369
01:30:01,200 --> 01:30:03,599
Speaker 1: and um I'm late to murmur and bo and young

1370
01:30:03,720 --> 01:30:05,080
Speaker 1: is gonna be mad at me when I get there.

1371
01:30:06,960 --> 01:30:08,200
Speaker 1: But whatever, I just I don't know how to make

1372
01:30:08,240 --> 01:30:09,920
Speaker 1: the voices stop and I'm pro exactly trying to make

1373
01:30:09,960 --> 01:30:12,760
Speaker 1: me stop lifting up my shirt in public, and uh

1374
01:30:13,720 --> 01:30:15,960
Speaker 1: it doesn't. I have a joke in my stand up

1375
01:30:16,120 --> 01:30:18,599
Speaker 1: where I stay Prozac is supposed to help my body

1376
01:30:18,640 --> 01:30:20,880
Speaker 1: just morphia, but I'm gonna place for either prozact doesn't

1377
01:30:20,880 --> 01:30:25,840
Speaker 1: work or my body looks like that. Do you mean

1378
01:30:25,920 --> 01:30:27,519
Speaker 1: lifting up your shirt in public to like check yourself?

1379
01:30:27,760 --> 01:30:29,160
Speaker 1: It's like a weird o c D where I I

1380
01:30:29,280 --> 01:30:30,640
Speaker 1: never thought I had o c D because I'm a

1381
01:30:30,760 --> 01:30:34,400
Speaker 1: slovenly pig who lives in Felth, but um, I um

1382
01:30:34,880 --> 01:30:37,880
Speaker 1: have all these weird o c D things like checking,

1383
01:30:38,000 --> 01:30:39,960
Speaker 1: like I have to check all the time. Me too,

1384
01:30:40,200 --> 01:30:42,080
Speaker 1: Me too all the time. And after like I've eaten

1385
01:30:42,120 --> 01:30:43,960
Speaker 1: to like some like a meal or something. It's always

1386
01:30:44,000 --> 01:30:45,679
Speaker 1: like before I go to bed, just like where where where?

1387
01:30:45,680 --> 01:30:47,559
Speaker 1: What's the status? Quote? Now? Like where are we at today?

1388
01:30:47,760 --> 01:30:50,760
Speaker 1: Which is awful, but like it's when we have you know,

1389
01:30:51,120 --> 01:30:52,760
Speaker 1: I mean I can't speak for like who you're sort

1390
01:30:52,800 --> 01:30:54,280
Speaker 1: of comparing yourself to you, but for me it's like

1391
01:30:54,520 --> 01:30:56,400
Speaker 1: I look at like you know, Timmy shallow May and

1392
01:30:56,560 --> 01:30:59,280
Speaker 1: Lucas Edges and like all of these beautiful anti l Gore,

1393
01:30:59,400 --> 01:31:02,280
Speaker 1: you know, like all these very beautiful and for man

1394
01:31:02,720 --> 01:31:04,120
Speaker 1: and you feel like either I need to be like

1395
01:31:04,280 --> 01:31:06,760
Speaker 1: stacked or need to be like a pin, right, Yeah,

1396
01:31:07,120 --> 01:31:08,840
Speaker 1: And I just was running a lot, so I was like, Okay,

1397
01:31:08,840 --> 01:31:11,400
Speaker 1: I guess probably going with Pin for the summer. But

1398
01:31:12,800 --> 01:31:15,200
Speaker 1: now and then I hurt my friends. I can't runtil

1399
01:31:15,200 --> 01:31:18,000
Speaker 1: my should I go for stacks? Like should I pay

1400
01:31:18,280 --> 01:31:24,479
Speaker 1: blank Fitness back to actually like oh them? Um um?

1401
01:31:25,080 --> 01:31:26,960
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's one together, like the every day I

1402
01:31:27,040 --> 01:31:28,720
Speaker 1: was talking to Katherine's lover and he was like, well,

1403
01:31:28,720 --> 01:31:30,160
Speaker 1: how small are you trying to get? And I was like,

1404
01:31:30,200 --> 01:31:33,080
Speaker 1: it's not about small, Like, uh, it's like right now,

1405
01:31:33,320 --> 01:31:35,880
Speaker 1: I'm closer to Pin than Stacks, so we should be small.

1406
01:31:36,280 --> 01:31:37,840
Speaker 1: But if I was trying to be stacked, then it's

1407
01:31:37,880 --> 01:31:39,280
Speaker 1: like we don't have to be small, but like we

1408
01:31:39,360 --> 01:31:42,240
Speaker 1: better have shoulders. I feel like the answers that you

1409
01:31:42,320 --> 01:31:44,160
Speaker 1: and I should just go out and eat together, Like

1410
01:31:44,200 --> 01:31:47,040
Speaker 1: I feel like that's the answer for both of us. Yeah,

1411
01:31:47,520 --> 01:31:51,240
Speaker 1: I would love that. Uh yeah, I just do a

1412
01:31:51,320 --> 01:31:54,760
Speaker 1: lot of people feel like that. It honestly makes yeah, right.

1413
01:31:57,960 --> 01:32:00,400
Speaker 1: I think probably every human being looks in the mirror

1414
01:32:00,439 --> 01:32:05,080
Speaker 1: and they're like, well, no, and I every day it's

1415
01:32:05,160 --> 01:32:09,160
Speaker 1: hill in the cool way. Yeah, but I always I

1416
01:32:09,200 --> 01:32:12,120
Speaker 1: always feel like no one's looking at you as closely

1417
01:32:12,200 --> 01:32:15,559
Speaker 1: as you were looking at and that's you. And Kather

1418
01:32:15,720 --> 01:32:17,560
Speaker 1: knows my stance on this is whenever you're like, I

1419
01:32:17,640 --> 01:32:20,639
Speaker 1: think that personates me, and everyone's like, no one's thinking

1420
01:32:20,680 --> 01:32:22,680
Speaker 1: about you as much as you are. I'm like, I

1421
01:32:22,840 --> 01:32:24,800
Speaker 1: spend my entire day thinking about other people and if

1422
01:32:24,800 --> 01:32:27,479
Speaker 1: I hate them or not. So it's like, you don't

1423
01:32:27,520 --> 01:32:31,840
Speaker 1: invalidate me, bitch, absolutely cut me off with the nag

1424
01:32:33,160 --> 01:32:37,160
Speaker 1: people say. One time sometimes someone told me that gave

1425
01:32:37,200 --> 01:32:38,800
Speaker 1: me that advice, and then we went on the next

1426
01:32:38,840 --> 01:32:40,559
Speaker 1: second to talk about how this girl was being annoying

1427
01:32:40,600 --> 01:32:42,680
Speaker 1: with her dog and the place me just where, and

1428
01:32:42,720 --> 01:32:44,640
Speaker 1: I was like, someone's telling that girl right now that

1429
01:32:44,680 --> 01:32:46,679
Speaker 1: no one's thinking about her the dog, and they're wrong.

1430
01:32:47,920 --> 01:32:50,479
Speaker 1: They're wrong. People are thinking about you. I'm sorry, it's

1431
01:32:50,479 --> 01:32:54,760
Speaker 1: an ugly true. Everyone's thinking about you all the time, Okay,

1432
01:32:54,840 --> 01:32:58,519
Speaker 1: but specifically this stuff though, this is I think this

1433
01:32:58,680 --> 01:33:04,040
Speaker 1: is probably like all pseudoscience stuff like armchair analysis nonsense,

1434
01:33:04,080 --> 01:33:07,280
Speaker 1: but I think like limbic brain stuff where it's just

1435
01:33:07,439 --> 01:33:09,720
Speaker 1: like you're it's lizard brain stuff where that that's just

1436
01:33:09,800 --> 01:33:11,439
Speaker 1: telling you that like you're worth This is like Martha

1437
01:33:11,479 --> 01:33:14,320
Speaker 1: beck kind of right to the bonus, pointing towards Tammy

1438
01:33:14,400 --> 01:33:19,240
Speaker 1: Seger in the front row. We're all renounced therapist. Is

1439
01:33:19,439 --> 01:33:21,679
Speaker 1: this like kind of Martha Becky where she's like Nate

1440
01:33:21,760 --> 01:33:26,200
Speaker 1: like like literally draw out a little tiny lizard and

1441
01:33:26,320 --> 01:33:29,440
Speaker 1: that is your lizard brain like feeding you like disgusting

1442
01:33:29,520 --> 01:33:33,280
Speaker 1: thoughts throughout your day about yourself. Name it, draw it,

1443
01:33:33,640 --> 01:33:36,600
Speaker 1: characterize it. You cannot take it seriously. And then like

1444
01:33:36,720 --> 01:33:39,839
Speaker 1: it's perched on your shoulder like it's whispering like shitty

1445
01:33:39,920 --> 01:33:41,960
Speaker 1: things to you all day and you you literally just

1446
01:33:42,120 --> 01:33:44,559
Speaker 1: like brush it off as often as you can because

1447
01:33:44,560 --> 01:33:47,240
Speaker 1: there's no there's no use in like holding onto it.

1448
01:33:47,400 --> 01:33:49,560
Speaker 1: This is actually anti Jone diddion. There's no use in

1449
01:33:49,640 --> 01:33:51,840
Speaker 1: holding onto it and examining it. It's actually you just

1450
01:33:51,920 --> 01:33:53,719
Speaker 1: you just you just brush it off and there's there's

1451
01:33:53,800 --> 01:33:57,040
Speaker 1: no function in like holding It's this and this is

1452
01:33:57,080 --> 01:34:00,360
Speaker 1: burnet brown stuff, where it's like there's there's there's no

1453
01:34:00,600 --> 01:34:02,840
Speaker 1: use in like people are gonna fling sh it you

1454
01:34:02,880 --> 01:34:04,320
Speaker 1: from the cheap seats all the time and there's no

1455
01:34:04,479 --> 01:34:06,479
Speaker 1: use in picking it up and looking at the ship.

1456
01:34:06,640 --> 01:34:08,840
Speaker 1: You just let it, let it, don't even let it

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01:34:08,920 --> 01:34:10,280
Speaker 1: hit you, and then when it does, just let it

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01:34:10,320 --> 01:34:13,000
Speaker 1: slide off. There's no there's no use in just picking

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01:34:13,040 --> 01:34:15,000
Speaker 1: it up. That's the medicine for your own disease. But

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01:34:15,080 --> 01:34:18,559
Speaker 1: that's so interesting about lizard because, um, because I told

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01:34:18,640 --> 01:34:20,280
Speaker 1: Catherine the other day in a car, I said, if

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01:34:20,320 --> 01:34:22,760
Speaker 1: I had Virginia gave me three wishes, one of my

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01:34:22,800 --> 01:34:26,519
Speaker 1: wishes would be that lizards didn't exist because I hate lizards.

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01:34:26,840 --> 01:34:28,960
Speaker 1: You would say that I met, lizards are not snakes.

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01:34:29,080 --> 01:34:32,040
Speaker 1: You're fucking wacko. Yeah, if I had to pick one

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01:34:32,080 --> 01:34:34,600
Speaker 1: to not exist, to be lizards and no until lizard brain,

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01:34:35,280 --> 01:34:37,160
Speaker 1: Can I just ask an irelevant question because I always

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01:34:37,160 --> 01:34:38,920
Speaker 1: wanted to ask. I I know two of the answers

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01:34:38,920 --> 01:34:40,479
Speaker 1: because I got to find out earlier today. But what

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01:34:40,640 --> 01:34:44,760
Speaker 1: are our caton pats um Hogwarts houses? So how do

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01:34:44,800 --> 01:34:49,560
Speaker 1: you know? Yeah? Mine, I think I can be a

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01:34:49,600 --> 01:34:52,920
Speaker 1: Slytherin for sure. Um. I then I have like raven

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01:34:53,000 --> 01:34:58,200
Speaker 1: cloth because I'm so quick. Um. And then so it's hardy.

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01:34:58,200 --> 01:34:59,640
Speaker 1: I think the one that I know that I'm not

1475
01:35:00,320 --> 01:35:03,160
Speaker 1: is Griffin door and I'm okay with that. Um, I

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01:35:03,720 --> 01:35:06,800
Speaker 1: only say Hufflepuff because I am guy, but I mean,

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01:35:08,000 --> 01:35:11,000
Speaker 1: but besides that, I think it's like routing out. I

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01:35:11,000 --> 01:35:13,519
Speaker 1: would be like raving horr Suther and raven horror slyther End.

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01:35:14,000 --> 01:35:18,479
Speaker 1: I think ultimately raven claw. I would agree you think

1480
01:35:18,520 --> 01:35:23,040
Speaker 1: he's a raven Claw. Yes, if those are my two options, yes, sorry,

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01:35:23,080 --> 01:35:25,240
Speaker 1: I am a Hufflepuff and my Slytherin just came out

1482
01:35:25,400 --> 01:35:29,080
Speaker 1: and it's in there. I think I'm huff. Ben is

1483
01:35:29,080 --> 01:35:32,920
Speaker 1: a Hufflepuff. People think that Slytherin means you're mean. It's

1484
01:35:32,920 --> 01:35:39,639
Speaker 1: justus ambitious, loyalty, bravery, connect, connect strategy. I think him.

1485
01:35:42,600 --> 01:35:46,640
Speaker 1: Catherine says, I think I'm Griff. I would say you

1486
01:35:47,280 --> 01:35:53,160
Speaker 1: have griff energy. Being a Leo was very Griffin. Door Scorio.

1487
01:35:53,200 --> 01:35:55,200
Speaker 1: What do they say? What is the say about Katherine?

1488
01:35:56,560 --> 01:35:59,000
Speaker 1: Everyone shout out, shout out the signs that you think

1489
01:35:59,040 --> 01:36:12,599
Speaker 1: everyone is Catherine, Matt okay, Pat, Oh my god, are

1490
01:36:12,640 --> 01:36:22,960
Speaker 1: we the four Houses or Hufflepuff, Slytherin, Ravelo gorgeous? That's amazing,

1491
01:36:23,080 --> 01:36:27,439
Speaker 1: that's actually amazing. And Ben is our headmaster, who is

1492
01:36:27,479 --> 01:36:30,679
Speaker 1: not Dumbledore. Dumbledore. I can feel God and here didn't

1493
01:36:30,680 --> 01:36:37,320
Speaker 1: know it. I can feel God in here tonight. That's

1494
01:36:37,360 --> 01:36:39,400
Speaker 1: like reminiscent of when I said, is one of your

1495
01:36:39,400 --> 01:36:46,960
Speaker 1: friend's named She's beautiful? She's beautiful? Is beautiful? I think?

1496
01:36:47,080 --> 01:36:50,200
Speaker 1: I think wait, hold on, weight, I feel psychotic about

1497
01:36:50,280 --> 01:36:53,040
Speaker 1: something that I've been dating someone for five months and

1498
01:36:53,120 --> 01:36:56,840
Speaker 1: I was like, what about kids? What the fuck is that? Yeah,

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01:36:56,920 --> 01:37:03,280
Speaker 1: that was kind of what we were all thinking. I

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01:37:03,360 --> 01:37:09,160
Speaker 1: feel like a lesbiyan Um. Okay, they moved so fast.

1501
01:37:10,200 --> 01:37:14,719
Speaker 1: I do that. I'm I'm a Charlotte. I'm a Charlotte

1502
01:37:14,800 --> 01:37:17,080
Speaker 1: for like a sex in the city Charlotte to pick

1503
01:37:17,080 --> 01:37:19,760
Speaker 1: out the China right away. You move fast, very That's

1504
01:37:19,800 --> 01:37:21,920
Speaker 1: what I'm trying to not do that. Now you're trying

1505
01:37:21,960 --> 01:37:24,080
Speaker 1: to stay in gray zone. So if you're trying to

1506
01:37:24,080 --> 01:37:26,640
Speaker 1: stay in Grayson right exactly, and you're already Jewish, so

1507
01:37:26,800 --> 01:37:30,439
Speaker 1: that's fun exactly. Someone. Yeah, everybody in my family has

1508
01:37:30,479 --> 01:37:32,759
Speaker 1: been married so far in order and like had children

1509
01:37:32,800 --> 01:37:34,840
Speaker 1: in order. I'm talking like extended family cousins, Like if

1510
01:37:34,840 --> 01:37:36,960
Speaker 1: you line them up by age, it's literally gone like

1511
01:37:37,160 --> 01:37:39,679
Speaker 1: in order. So like I better hurry out. Oh my god,

1512
01:37:39,760 --> 01:37:43,519
Speaker 1: why when was your last relation? Oh my goodness, my

1513
01:37:43,720 --> 01:37:48,560
Speaker 1: last like proper relation ended like in like summer of

1514
01:37:48,640 --> 01:37:51,680
Speaker 1: last year, and it was a long distance situation with

1515
01:37:51,760 --> 01:37:55,160
Speaker 1: an Australian person, so very long and you don't get

1516
01:37:55,240 --> 01:37:57,800
Speaker 1: longer than that, you don't. Me and Katherine get very

1517
01:37:57,840 --> 01:38:00,880
Speaker 1: angry when someone very easy lead and having an oshaw

1518
01:38:01,160 --> 01:38:04,519
Speaker 1: lover is the lead. Yeah, you know what the thing

1519
01:38:04,680 --> 01:38:08,840
Speaker 1: is about Charlotte's. The reason they're so Charlotte is because

1520
01:38:08,920 --> 01:38:11,439
Speaker 1: they have a side of them that's Samantha, I thought,

1521
01:38:11,479 --> 01:38:14,760
Speaker 1: And they're scared of their Samantha side. Are you identifying

1522
01:38:15,280 --> 01:38:19,160
Speaker 1: with this very much? So? Yeah, bitch, And that's why

1523
01:38:19,200 --> 01:38:22,479
Speaker 1: I'm like, I should have kids first time because the

1524
01:38:22,520 --> 01:38:26,800
Speaker 1: Samantha and me is like, for some reason, I thought

1525
01:38:26,800 --> 01:38:30,519
Speaker 1: you were gonna say Charlotte, Charlotte's know that they have

1526
01:38:30,600 --> 01:38:34,640
Speaker 1: a side pony towel. I was like, I'm never I

1527
01:38:34,680 --> 01:38:38,120
Speaker 1: didn't think it was about hair. I wish I could

1528
01:38:38,120 --> 01:38:39,880
Speaker 1: do a side pointy tail. Oh my god, what I

1529
01:38:39,920 --> 01:38:42,880
Speaker 1: would give to wear my hair a high. I had

1530
01:38:42,960 --> 01:38:45,559
Speaker 1: my nails painted for Halloween and it's the first time

1531
01:38:45,560 --> 01:38:47,360
Speaker 1: I've had color on my nails and now I never

1532
01:38:47,439 --> 01:38:49,800
Speaker 1: want to not have color on my naise I loved it.

1533
01:38:50,520 --> 01:38:54,400
Speaker 1: My toe nails are currently teal really yes, show for

1534
01:38:54,520 --> 01:39:02,680
Speaker 1: Wiki Feed. Should I do on my foot? No, I'm not. No.

1535
01:39:03,160 --> 01:39:08,240
Speaker 1: Who here's a who. Here's a little piggy freak. Do

1536
01:39:08,320 --> 01:39:18,120
Speaker 1: you love little piggies? Oh my god, envy a sound?

1537
01:39:20,320 --> 01:39:25,120
Speaker 1: Um Anyway, I'm so happy we found out our real houses. Yes,

1538
01:39:25,240 --> 01:39:27,400
Speaker 1: and I love and I love me with black nails

1539
01:39:27,520 --> 01:39:29,639
Speaker 1: is really fun and it makes me not bite my nails,

1540
01:39:29,640 --> 01:39:32,320
Speaker 1: which is amazing. Yes, me too. I'm really I bite

1541
01:39:32,320 --> 01:39:38,000
Speaker 1: a lot. These people stand back Calvin colored nails keeps

1542
01:39:38,000 --> 01:39:41,439
Speaker 1: you from biting them, that's and that's why. And that's

1543
01:39:41,520 --> 01:39:44,400
Speaker 1: every one day at a time. Babe. Yeah, it's one

1544
01:39:44,439 --> 01:39:50,639
Speaker 1: of those like dog cones of cosmetics. Yeah, it is. Um. Well,

1545
01:39:50,800 --> 01:39:52,680
Speaker 1: I think I think it's time for us to really

1546
01:39:52,720 --> 01:39:55,719
Speaker 1: close out the show with something that could be beautiful.

1547
01:39:55,800 --> 01:39:58,760
Speaker 1: It could be a disaster, could be both. And I

1548
01:39:58,920 --> 01:40:04,519
Speaker 1: think we're gonna sing a song to Ben. We're gonna

1549
01:40:04,560 --> 01:40:07,960
Speaker 1: sing a song to Ben, and I just want to

1550
01:40:08,080 --> 01:40:16,800
Speaker 1: see thank you for accepting that in a machine now welcome, Hey, listen,

1551
01:40:18,320 --> 01:40:21,960
Speaker 1: thanks for coming to see Culture Alive. This is really fun,

1552
01:40:25,160 --> 01:40:28,799
Speaker 1: and thank you Ben Platt for being our esteemed Tony

1553
01:40:28,880 --> 01:40:32,519
Speaker 1: winning guest who can do whatever projects he wants because

1554
01:40:32,560 --> 01:40:36,680
Speaker 1: he has longevity in this town. She's got longevity. Um

1555
01:40:36,840 --> 01:40:39,439
Speaker 1: this this show tonight was really about people coming together

1556
01:40:39,680 --> 01:40:43,760
Speaker 1: and about two podcasts coming together. So this is a

1557
01:40:43,840 --> 01:40:49,719
Speaker 1: song that really explores that theme. Sure does and justin

1558
01:40:49,760 --> 01:40:52,040
Speaker 1: ay ready let's hit it. This is a song called

1559
01:40:52,080 --> 01:41:03,120
Speaker 1: to become One Scary Spice ginger by Sporty Spice, Hash Spice,

1560
01:41:03,680 --> 01:41:13,479
Speaker 1: Baby Spice Soul Forever, dream of you and together, say

1561
01:41:13,640 --> 01:41:23,439
Speaker 1: you beleeve, They believe me, your mind down, danger bee

1562
01:41:23,640 --> 01:41:30,000
Speaker 1: for real, don't be stranger. We can't achieve it. We

1563
01:41:30,360 --> 01:41:37,679
Speaker 1: can't achieve Come on, it'll be closer men, get it all,

1564
01:41:38,160 --> 01:41:43,640
Speaker 1: get it all. Tonight is the night when to be

1565
01:41:44,040 --> 01:41:56,280
Speaker 1: Come on, baby, I had a little Now I'm back far.

1566
01:41:58,479 --> 01:42:03,080
Speaker 1: We're a baby at your star its breath. It's the

1567
01:42:03,320 --> 01:42:09,080
Speaker 1: only way to be set the games if you play

1568
01:42:09,200 --> 01:42:15,639
Speaker 1: in empty words, we both and work it out. Boy.

1569
01:42:16,560 --> 01:42:24,360
Speaker 1: Let's work it out boy, anyway to or then girls

1570
01:42:24,520 --> 01:42:30,439
Speaker 1: a good together, take it all, leave it, take it

1571
01:42:30,760 --> 01:42:37,719
Speaker 1: a lead you as good as I remember. Get it off,

1572
01:42:38,200 --> 01:42:43,680
Speaker 1: Get it off. Tonight it's the nice when to be.

1573
01:42:44,080 --> 01:42:52,120
Speaker 1: Come Oh, I want to make love to re a

1574
01:42:52,400 --> 01:43:01,679
Speaker 1: baby No, this is gonna sound so bad. That's just it. Free.

1575
01:43:02,800 --> 01:43:12,000
Speaker 1: It's the only way to be Yes, everyone, check your

1576
01:43:12,040 --> 01:43:18,840
Speaker 1: own diseases. This is the condom party. Here we go.

1577
01:43:20,320 --> 01:43:25,160
Speaker 1: Be a little bit wiser, be put it on. Put

1578
01:43:25,240 --> 01:43:30,920
Speaker 1: it on, because tonight it's the night when you become

1579
01:43:34,960 --> 01:43:53,519
Speaker 1: never laugh Before I loved you, baby, I had a

1580
01:43:53,680 --> 01:44:01,639
Speaker 1: little love. That we have famous that shuts staring free.

1581
01:44:02,840 --> 01:44:11,360
Speaker 1: It's the only way to be latus here everyone, thank

1582
01:44:11,400 --> 01:44:13,880
Speaker 1: you so much. My name is bow Again. I'm not

1583
01:44:14,120 --> 01:44:48,720
Speaker 1: rogers him. Hurry again never Forever. This has been a

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01:44:48,800 --> 01:44:53,120
Speaker 1: Forever Dog production executive produced by Brett Baum, Joe Cilio,

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01:44:53,479 --> 01:44:57,960
Speaker 1: and Alex Ramsay. For more original podcasts, please visit Forever

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