WEBVTT - Gavin an Important Conversation

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<v Speaker 1>This is How Men Think with and Gavin and I

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<v Speaker 1>heard radio podcast What's Up? Everybody? Back with another episode

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<v Speaker 1>of How Men Think? It's Gavin DeGraw. Unfortunately, my beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>co host, Brooks like is unavailable today to do the show.

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<v Speaker 1>But fortunately we have another beautiful, beautiful step in for

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<v Speaker 1>the day. My good friend Mr Wills Adams is here

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna go through and talk to some professionals

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<v Speaker 1>about what's going on in the world. Wellsi there, man, man,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for having me. What in the hell could Brooks

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<v Speaker 1>be doing? Right? No one has anything to do right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea, but apparently during the gigantic worldwide

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<v Speaker 1>pause of action, Brooks has a very busy schedule and

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<v Speaker 1>can no longer be here with us today. Well good

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<v Speaker 1>for him, and I'm glad someone's making some money out there.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess he must be working on the cure. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well good, hurry up because I'm getting a little uh

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<v Speaker 1>stir crazy. But thank you so much for be on

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<v Speaker 1>the show. How are you now? I haven't seen you

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<v Speaker 1>sense man and Pebble Beach for the uh, the A,

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<v Speaker 1>T and T pro and how you been man? Been great? Man,

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<v Speaker 1>been great? And then not so great because this whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing hit and first I was awesome, and then I realized,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna see anybody for quite some time, except

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<v Speaker 1>unless I have to go to the grocery store. Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>It is Nashville, bananas. Is Nashville completely shut down? Like

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<v Speaker 1>Los Angeles is a ghost town right now? Oh? Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I forget about it. It's crazy. I mean, usually if

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<v Speaker 1>you were on Broadway in Nashville, which is really the

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<v Speaker 1>the epicenter of activity and nightlife, it's sort of like,

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<v Speaker 1>uh an amusement park of drunkenness and partying. Uh. Usually

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<v Speaker 1>you'd see just an absolute sea of people having the

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<v Speaker 1>time of their lives. Uh. And now if you go

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<v Speaker 1>down there to that same street, it's basically just a

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<v Speaker 1>jogging path for the occasional person who wants to be

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<v Speaker 1>out taking a a little loper. Yeah. Well, we're definitely

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<v Speaker 1>raising We're living in some weird times, man, And I

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<v Speaker 1>think this show is going to be helpful for a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people out there feeling the same thing that

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<v Speaker 1>we're feeling. And so we've lined up a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>really good guests to kind of like get us through

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<v Speaker 1>this situation coming up in a little bit we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>talk to Dr abe Um. I mean this guy is

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<v Speaker 1>uh super like into knowing everything that's happening with the pandemic,

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<v Speaker 1>how people are dealing with it, what people should be who,

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<v Speaker 1>what people should be getting tested out there. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>ask him all those questions, um that you probably have yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>and then very excited, a little bit later, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have Candice Cameron. You know her from DJ from Full House,

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<v Speaker 1>full Er. He's amazing. Her brother and her, Kirk Cameron

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<v Speaker 1>and Cannis Cameron are putting on this thing called Hope Rising,

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<v Speaker 1>which is basically just raising money um for the people

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<v Speaker 1>that are really on the front lines helping out and

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get this pandemic behind us. We're gonna find

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<v Speaker 1>out all about that, and then a little bit later

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna have Dr Vivan. She is the doctor of

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<v Speaker 1>Marriage and Family therapy, uh and the certified sex therapist

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<v Speaker 1>and the expert on the show Married at First Sight.

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<v Speaker 1>So for all of you, uh you know, crazy cool

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<v Speaker 1>cats and kittens out there who are wanting to kill

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<v Speaker 1>your spouse, Dr Viv is going to explain why you

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't do that. I'm very excited to be guest hosting

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<v Speaker 1>this episode of How Men Think. Um Man, We're lucky

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<v Speaker 1>to have you, man, lucky to have you. Let's take

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<v Speaker 1>a quick break and when we come back, let's talk

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<v Speaker 1>to dr Ab. Yeah, perfectly, let's get to it and

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<v Speaker 1>we are back on the How Many Think Podcast. Wells

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<v Speaker 1>Adams uh philling in for Brooks. Gavin is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone all the way over in Nashville, and we are

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<v Speaker 1>bringing into bringing into the show right now, dr Abe

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<v Speaker 1>malc And he's a founder and medical director of Concierge

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<v Speaker 1>m d l A. It's a home based concierge medical

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<v Speaker 1>practice in Los Angeles that focuses on well care as

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<v Speaker 1>opposed to sick care. We've got a lot of questions,

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<v Speaker 1>Doc about this pandemic. Why does vaccine? That's a good question.

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<v Speaker 1>There's multiple steps that go into creating a vaccine. So

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<v Speaker 1>it starts with identifying the virus, sequencing the viral genotype,

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<v Speaker 1>replicating that into a lab. These are steps that we've

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<v Speaker 1>actually gotten fairly good progress on so far. The next

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<v Speaker 1>step off to that is to figure out what delivery

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<v Speaker 1>mechanism to get it into animal studies, which is the

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<v Speaker 1>first step, and then you need to do uh, small

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<v Speaker 1>scale human trials where you test this efficacy and the

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<v Speaker 1>safety of the virus, of the of the vaccine, and

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<v Speaker 1>then ultimately can be widely distributed. But we all know

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<v Speaker 1>that with vaccines there's a ton of controversy and we

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<v Speaker 1>has to be done safely because the last thing you

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<v Speaker 1>want us to create a vaccine where actually infects people

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<v Speaker 1>and doesn't give them immunity. This is I don't know, unprecedented.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it's like nineteen eighteen or whatever. But um,

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<v Speaker 1>are we or is the medical community kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>skipping steps in the creation of this vaccine because they

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<v Speaker 1>want to get this thing fixed sooner rather than later.

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<v Speaker 1>So essentially all laboratories are diverting their efforts from other

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<v Speaker 1>vaccines to the coronavirus vaccine. So there's vaccines that are

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<v Speaker 1>being worked on for malaria and other drugs that all

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<v Speaker 1>those resources are now being imported into coronavirus. So in

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<v Speaker 1>that sense, yes, So I have a question regarding that

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<v Speaker 1>how how much information sharing is there between in each

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<v Speaker 1>of those labs or as each one of these labs

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<v Speaker 1>kind of working independently trying to come up with their

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<v Speaker 1>own uh solution. Yeah, I don't know. The exact answer

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<v Speaker 1>to that question. But you know, you do see reports

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<v Speaker 1>of like Bill Gates Foundation, for example, working with government

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<v Speaker 1>agencies because he's got a very robust infrastructure for developing vaccines.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm sure there's some inter disciplinary into government agencies cooperation. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But that being said, I would imagine countries are trying

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<v Speaker 1>to win the race of developing a vaccine because it's

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<v Speaker 1>very you know, uh impactful for their own country and

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<v Speaker 1>their reputation in the world. Right h. I don't know if,

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<v Speaker 1>if if this has been like confirmed, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the news that I watch, you know, talks about these

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<v Speaker 1>wet markets in China, and like there's a good chance

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<v Speaker 1>that's where this thing derived from, whether that's a reality

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<v Speaker 1>or not, Like how just dangerous are those places? And

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<v Speaker 1>like why is it if they are dangerous, why is

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<v Speaker 1>it acceptable for them to continue to be operating. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a really good question, and I don't think the copy

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<v Speaker 1>utit this answer. I don't we don't know exactly when

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<v Speaker 1>the virus came from, you know. There I'm not a

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<v Speaker 1>conspiracy theorist by any means, but there is actually bio

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<v Speaker 1>laboratory in Wuhan Infectious which is doing infectious disease studies.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's a coincidence that that city happened to be

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<v Speaker 1>the city where this all started. So I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know if it started in the wet market, but the

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<v Speaker 1>theory with behind wet markets is that, yeah, you're bringing

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<v Speaker 1>in animals who have diseases and there's unsanitary conditions. Most

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<v Speaker 1>diseases don't transfer from animals to humans, but clearly COVID can,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know stars before it. Uh. So the answer

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<v Speaker 1>your question is if we had the control to shut

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<v Speaker 1>down wet markets, I'm sure we would, but they're in

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<v Speaker 1>a sovereign country that we can't control, so there's not

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<v Speaker 1>much we can do about that. So so what can

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<v Speaker 1>we as the average UH citizen due to bolster our

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<v Speaker 1>immune system? Is there other than eating healthy? I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there? I mean, is is there anything we can

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<v Speaker 1>really do other than just isolating ourselves? Yeah? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>and now, and I'll give you some context. So I

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<v Speaker 1>have a concierge medical practice, and part of the concierge

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<v Speaker 1>practices that my patients checking with me regularly, not only

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<v Speaker 1>when they get sick, so they tend to be a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit healthier throughout the year and all of those

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<v Speaker 1>patients who have gotten this virus have have been fine

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<v Speaker 1>and had none of them that had to go to

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<v Speaker 1>the hospital. So having a strong immunitis have definitely makes

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<v Speaker 1>a difference here. Uh. There are oral vitamins you can take,

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<v Speaker 1>like vitamin C and zinc which are really helpful for

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<v Speaker 1>your immune system. Small things like making sure to get

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<v Speaker 1>enough sleep at night is really important. Avoiding alcohol and tobacco,

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<v Speaker 1>especially tobacco products now that the disease seems to affect

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<v Speaker 1>the lungs. Um. I'm not going to get into too

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<v Speaker 1>about the medications that you can take, but you've all

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<v Speaker 1>heard there's there's you know, a couple that are out there.

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<v Speaker 1>There's some controversy around them. But in my practice, I

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<v Speaker 1>am prescribing into my patients, so I think there's the

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<v Speaker 1>benefit outweighs the risk. Well, which which are you which

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<v Speaker 1>are you recommending? I mean not as a solution, but

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<v Speaker 1>as a suggestion. Yeah, the hydroxy chloroquine UM, I'm prescribing

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<v Speaker 1>at a very low dose for patients as a prevention

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of side effects that people are getting. Someone

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<v Speaker 1>are actually at the treatment doses which are quite quite

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<v Speaker 1>a lot higher than than the preventive doses. Um at

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<v Speaker 1>the challenge of that. A. It's hard to get and

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<v Speaker 1>be you may be taking medication away from someone who

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<v Speaker 1>needs it for the rumor torred arthritis or another issue.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'd say that very carefully. Well, you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to talk with the physician first about taking it.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the thought process and the reasoning for hydro flee

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever working hard. So essentially an immune modulator, so

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<v Speaker 1>it modulates your immune system. The idea is that the

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<v Speaker 1>same way it prevents malaria from affecting your cells, perhaps

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<v Speaker 1>it could prevent coronavirus from effecting yourselves. Got it and

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<v Speaker 1>did didn't They didn't? They sort of accidentally uh uh.

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<v Speaker 1>In essence, there's sort of an accidental sort of discovery

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<v Speaker 1>when they were looking at people who were I can't

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<v Speaker 1>recall the exacts, but weren't people with lupus not getting

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<v Speaker 1>infected or something like that because they were kind of

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<v Speaker 1>on something like this or something some sort of story

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<v Speaker 1>like this I read. I don't know if that's exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>but isn't that kind of how they Yeah, the Chinese

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<v Speaker 1>were really you know, early in the kind of the

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<v Speaker 1>usage of experimental treatments. Obviously they had. I don't recall

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<v Speaker 1>exactly how they came across that actually colorquin, but they

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<v Speaker 1>were they had done early studies on it, and I

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<v Speaker 1>believe in South Korea Japan it was used as well.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was really really right experiments in Asia? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Not interesting? So what does our new normal look like

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<v Speaker 1>like going forward? How is the world going to change? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>What what are we gonna need to do now going

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<v Speaker 1>forward after kind of dealing with this? Yeah, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have a crystal ball, but my sense is

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<v Speaker 1>that what's going to happen is eventually this will die

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<v Speaker 1>down around you know, July or August in the summertime,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we'll probably have some like some some semblance

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<v Speaker 1>of return to normalcy. Obviously we likely won't have group

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<v Speaker 1>events like basketball games or music festivals or things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think essential businesses will reopen, uh, And then I think, sadly,

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<v Speaker 1>this may cycle back again in November, December, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>in the wintertime, and we'll have to kind of go

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<v Speaker 1>back to doing some level of quarantining to help prevent

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<v Speaker 1>the spread. Ultimately, once we have a vaccine, we can

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<v Speaker 1>then treat this similar to the flu. Life goes on

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<v Speaker 1>every year we have a flut, we get a vaccine.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's unbelievable. I mean, those numbers are those projections

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<v Speaker 1>are just just crazy. I mean, so, you do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like this, this will be sort of our normal

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<v Speaker 1>at least to the month of July, UM, this sort

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<v Speaker 1>of self quarantine UM lifestyle. Well, I think it's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a gradual reintegration into normal behavior. So I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you'll have group events for a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>if if at all, this summer. I think, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll have, you know, interactions with our friends and loved ones.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe restaurants may reopen, but I think beyond that, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't see anyone taking steps to to reopen society completely.

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<v Speaker 1>That's absolutely crazy. Yow, I hope I'm wrong, man, dog,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you're so wrong. Man, that's crazy. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's like the opposite of being a human. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we're we're we're supposed to socialize, We're supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>near near each other. You know, it's a pretty incredible

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<v Speaker 1>social experiment we've done here, because for the most part,

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<v Speaker 1>this disease really isn't that deadly for for most young people.

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<v Speaker 1>But we as a society and made the choice that

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna support our elderally, are are the sick those

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<v Speaker 1>with chronic conditions to ensure that they don't offer and

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<v Speaker 1>we're all taking the brunt of it. In a way,

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<v Speaker 1>it really speaks volumes to to our our perspective as society.

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<v Speaker 1>So is there such a thing as herd immunity for

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<v Speaker 1>something like this? Yeah? But the issue, the problem with

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<v Speaker 1>herd immunity is that in order for that to happen,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people have to get infected very quickly,

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<v Speaker 1>and our our hospital the capacity to handle that many

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<v Speaker 1>uh sick patients. If we had five to ten times

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<v Speaker 1>the number of hospital beds and I see you beds,

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<v Speaker 1>we could do something like that and then everyone would

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<v Speaker 1>get yea. So so not not not to get to

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<v Speaker 1>the nitty gritty, but you said hospital beds. But even

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<v Speaker 1>if we did, would we have the hospital staff to

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<v Speaker 1>cater to those beds? Right? So? Yeah, I would throw

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<v Speaker 1>into that, you know, protective equipment, inventil later staff. I meaning,

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<v Speaker 1>if we had the five times the amount of capacity,

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<v Speaker 1>we we can handle this very different than that we're

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<v Speaker 1>handling it now right right? Interesting, that's just crazy stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>is there? Any more information out there about like, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if you get it, how long you are

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<v Speaker 1>contagious with it? Can you get it again? That kind

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff. So I don't think the CDC or anyone

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<v Speaker 1>has given you know, significantly accurate guidelines for this. I

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<v Speaker 1>can only speak anecdotally where I've had patients who have

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<v Speaker 1>tested positive on nasal swab for up to a month

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<v Speaker 1>after getting it, meaning they still have active viral RNA

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<v Speaker 1>in their nasal passages. That being said, there's spouse or

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<v Speaker 1>loved one who were with them after they quarantined for

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<v Speaker 1>two weeks hasn't gotten it, So it lends. It leads

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<v Speaker 1>me to believe that it may stay in your system

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<v Speaker 1>for for up you know, weeks or more, but you

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<v Speaker 1>may not be as infectious after a week or two. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So do you think less importantly that this uh will

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<v Speaker 1>open up the idea of carpool lanes two single drivers

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<v Speaker 1>because no one is allowed to be to each other anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen it for a doctor that does house, cause this

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<v Speaker 1>is the greatest thing in the world for me. There's

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<v Speaker 1>no one on the freeways, so I hope the trauma

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<v Speaker 1>well at some point I've never seen I'm so beautiful. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I got better report that at Yosemite has now been

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<v Speaker 1>coming overrun by animals and wildlife, and it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a nice thing, you know, to see that happened. Wow, incredible. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, like I'm so I'm like, I'm so speechless.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's hard for me to even I'm still processing

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<v Speaker 1>even to your the information that you gave about about

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<v Speaker 1>those those timelines are so um, they're not even palatable

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<v Speaker 1>to me, you know what I mean, just because my

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<v Speaker 1>life is so my whole world is so is social essentially,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. My business is social, my

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<v Speaker 1>career is social. So it's so it's it's so outrageous

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<v Speaker 1>to hear these uh, these these projections are just so unfathomable.

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<v Speaker 1>The one thing that could could affect that is the

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<v Speaker 1>is the availability of widespread testing. So right now we're

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<v Speaker 1>more but with very little data as to who has

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<v Speaker 1>the virus and who doesn't. But if you can imagine

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<v Speaker 1>a world where tests were available at any time, anywhere

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<v Speaker 1>you went, we could essentially have group outings as long

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<v Speaker 1>as everyone tested negative prior to coming to the outing.

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<v Speaker 1>So what called you at What I said is that

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<v Speaker 1>if the government gets his act together and to get

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<v Speaker 1>a coordinated effort to massively expand the use of testing,

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<v Speaker 1>then theoretically we could have some of those larger social events.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there is there? Is there? This is outrageous, but

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<v Speaker 1>um could you ever foresee some version of a UM

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<v Speaker 1>But it's sort of a quilted version of an approach

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<v Speaker 1>of her immunity where you take counties and you say

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to try to grow a herd and make

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<v Speaker 1>a herd immunity happen in this region. Everybody, go about

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<v Speaker 1>your business, go socialize, tuck away all the people who

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<v Speaker 1>are immuno compromised before that, get them out of town,

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<v Speaker 1>put them somewhere else for a temporary amount of time

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<v Speaker 1>a month, two months, let that area essentially intentionally self contaminate,

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<v Speaker 1>go through the process, develop a herd immunity, and then

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<v Speaker 1>send the immuno compromise people back into the region. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we'll probably see something along those lines with

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<v Speaker 1>immunity bracelets, perhaps where you know you can't just community

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<v Speaker 1>bracelet and now you are you can go to green zones,

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<v Speaker 1>but you can't go to red zones or yellow zones

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<v Speaker 1>or something along those lines. I don't know. How that

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<v Speaker 1>would look exactly, But that is for reopening society. Crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>How do we get involved with the manufacturing of that

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<v Speaker 1>bracelet company? Exactly? Well, no one's They can probably make

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<v Speaker 1>these respense instead. That's incredible. Hey, Doc, is there anything

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<v Speaker 1>that we didn't ask you that we should have? Uh? Now,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys covered all the main The main things you know,

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<v Speaker 1>are testing that's really important to to really overcome this

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<v Speaker 1>quarantuning in the meantime and eventually a vaccine um. So

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<v Speaker 1>you guys touch and I would I would, I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to calm some of the hysteria for people that

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<v Speaker 1>that what I've seen in my practice is this is

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<v Speaker 1>not as deadly ash as maybe as first reported. So

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<v Speaker 1>while it's really important to quarantine landing the curve, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think people don't need to buy seventeen rolls of

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<v Speaker 1>toilet paper when they go to the grocery store. I

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<v Speaker 1>think we can calm some of that hysteria. I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>agree more with you there. Well, Dr thanks still much

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<v Speaker 1>for being on the podcast. If people want to find

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<v Speaker 1>out more about you and your practice, where should they go?

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<v Speaker 1>My practice called Concierge I'm Los Angeles. Website is Concerge

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<v Speaker 1>m d l a dot com and on Instagram Concierge

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<v Speaker 1>M d l A got it, Kayler, Thanks for your time, man.

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<v Speaker 1>My pleasure is pleasure talking to you guys here you

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<v Speaker 1>too many, Bud all right, welcome back to what's the

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<v Speaker 1>name of your podcast? How Man Think? Well? Um so good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm alongside Gavin the gra Um. It's up. Well, thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for coming on today. Man, you are guest hosting. Is

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<v Speaker 1>what you're doing? Well, here's my question to you, man,

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<v Speaker 1>what guys that are on your show doing? Like what

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<v Speaker 1>could they possibly be doing right now that makes it

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<v Speaker 1>so they can't do this show? I think what happened

0:20:11.359 --> 0:20:13.040
<v Speaker 1>was they heard that I was going to be part

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<v Speaker 1>of it, so they all bailed and you were like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see the problem, I'll do it, and they

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<v Speaker 1>were like, oh, he doesn't know what he's in for.

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<v Speaker 1>Al Right, Well, I'll tell you what. I am excited

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<v Speaker 1>about the next guest we have, because well, I am

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<v Speaker 1>a huge I grew up a huge T G I

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<v Speaker 1>F fan and a huge fan of the show Full House,

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<v Speaker 1>So have didn't we all? Dude? I mean, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>can you still sing the Full House theme song? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know all the words. M I don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think. I don't think I can match you on

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<v Speaker 1>that one. Can you actually a singer? Bro? Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a singer with a bad memory. I be it. It

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<v Speaker 1>It went whatever happened to predictability, The Milkman, the Papa Boy,

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<v Speaker 1>Evening TV. I miss my old familiar friends. Um yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're welcome everybody. Bravo, bravo. I mean the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>people pay money to see you sing and not me

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<v Speaker 1>is well, that's one of the problems that we have

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<v Speaker 1>in this world. The other problem right now is covid

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<v Speaker 1>n um. Can we can we bring in Candice Cameron

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<v Speaker 1>to having think because I gotta talk to him. Hey, hey, hello,

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<v Speaker 1>h okay, I'm sorry, but you just missed me sing

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<v Speaker 1>the theme song to Full House. Um, yeah, don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>think at the end of it, I'll do it again

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<v Speaker 1>for you. I can also do the theme song for

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<v Speaker 1>Family Matters, which is weirdly similar, and if you sing one,

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to sing the other one. Um, but I digress. Uh, Candice,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you good? For you? So it seems like

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<v Speaker 1>you're good if you're singing in the Full House theme song?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know in times like this, you got

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<v Speaker 1>to find the thing that brings you joy, that brings

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<v Speaker 1>light to your soul. And dad Nabbit, if the full

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<v Speaker 1>House theme song doesn't do that for you, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what will. What are you doing in these weird

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<v Speaker 1>end times to kind of keep your spirits up? Goodness,

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<v Speaker 1>We've been spending a lot of time together as a family,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I last year I became an empty nester.

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<v Speaker 1>I three kids and they all left the house and

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<v Speaker 1>now they're all back now, so I have a full house. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually been it's been really great. Like as a mom,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm my kids, so I'm happy that their home. But

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<v Speaker 1>we've been cooking a lot and taken walks and we

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<v Speaker 1>have gorgeous weather right now, so I ad met. We've

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<v Speaker 1>been laying at the pool and you know, playing board

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<v Speaker 1>games and watching Netflix. That's like the basis of what

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<v Speaker 1>we've been doing in between the work that we're actually

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<v Speaker 1>trying to do during the day, which as a performer

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<v Speaker 1>and entertainer, I'm still working my butt off every day,

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<v Speaker 1>just doing it from home and and in my bedroom,

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<v Speaker 1>which is kind of weird, but making it happen. So

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<v Speaker 1>do you have you have college age children I do

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<v Speaker 1>one is uh two and twenty and eighteen. I still

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<v Speaker 1>have one in hypo. Have you have you taken any

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<v Speaker 1>evenings where you've allowed them to do the cooking, to

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<v Speaker 1>taste some of that patented college cuisine for the family.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, my husband is like a gourmet chef.

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<v Speaker 1>He is like a master chef. No joke. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>talking just like, oh you you can grow up the

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<v Speaker 1>barbecue like he's an incredible chef. So my kids had

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<v Speaker 1>actually learned how to cook pretty well, and they've even

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<v Speaker 1>living where they have and with other families. My one

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<v Speaker 1>son played hockey in Minnesota, so he was living with

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<v Speaker 1>a billet family and um, you know, they'll take over

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<v Speaker 1>cooking and everyone's pretty impressed because they got their dad's

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<v Speaker 1>not not from me. I care not nearly as good

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<v Speaker 1>as my husband. Do you have room to adopt another child?

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<v Speaker 1>He's talking about me. Actually, I didn't ask that a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I wish that we weren't in quarantine because

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<v Speaker 1>I'd tell everyone, come over, come over, come over, Like

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<v Speaker 1>we love cookie and we love entertaining and having people over.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like our specialty. Um, we heard that you are

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<v Speaker 1>doing a really cool thing, a benefit con cert, Hope

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<v Speaker 1>Rising Rising COVID nineteen. Tell us about that. Yeah, so,

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<v Speaker 1>my brother and I have put together a benefit concert.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we were watching some of the online concerts

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<v Speaker 1>that have happened over the last few weeks, and while

0:25:15.520 --> 0:25:19.080
<v Speaker 1>they have been really great, uh, we we felt that

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<v Speaker 1>there was something missing from all of them, and that

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<v Speaker 1>was a source of real hope, and we believe that

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<v Speaker 1>comes from God. So we wanted to put together a

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<v Speaker 1>concert that had really uplifting lyrics and songs and worship

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<v Speaker 1>music and some inspirational messages from from pastors and authors

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<v Speaker 1>and teachers that would just really encourage and give grounded

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<v Speaker 1>hope to people. So we put together Hope Rising. It's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be a live benefit concert coming this Sunday. It's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be on Safe for the Lives. You can go

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<v Speaker 1>to Hope Rising dot live and that will take you

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<v Speaker 1>to the link to watch it for We have like

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<v Speaker 1>pre of the crops contemporary Christian artists. We have Mercy

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<v Speaker 1>Me and cartinan Country and Casting Crowns and Natalie Grant

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<v Speaker 1>and Kirk Franklin like he was just gonna bring it

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<v Speaker 1>and then along with other inspirational messages and it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be a really fun, wonderful night and all the proceeds

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<v Speaker 1>are benefiting from Yeah, we're really excited about it. And

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<v Speaker 1>this one just feels different from everything else that's out there,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope that people find a lot of encouragement

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<v Speaker 1>and strength and comfort watching the show. Well, let me

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<v Speaker 1>know if you want me to do a little guests

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm gonna pull out a little song for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Might be the Sooiler House theme song. I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I can do that. Um uh. I wanted to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you, like, if full House was a real place,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you think the Tanner family would be dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with this? I love? This question? Is ever question I've

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<v Speaker 1>ever heard. Well, wait, are you telling me that? Am

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<v Speaker 1>I living in fantasy Leanna or something? I thought it was.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not actually d J Tiana all the time. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it makes sense. It's a reality show. I

0:27:30.760 --> 0:27:35.239
<v Speaker 1>like it much better that one. See. Um So, So

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<v Speaker 1>to answer your question, which is a funny one actually,

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<v Speaker 1>other than my own home, if I were to be

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<v Speaker 1>quarantined anywhere else, I'd want to be quarantined in the

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<v Speaker 1>full House House with all the full House and Fuller

0:27:47.960 --> 0:27:52.280
<v Speaker 1>House people. Because it's a wild and crazy group. And uh,

0:27:52.440 --> 0:27:56.680
<v Speaker 1>we know that everything would be completely organized and sanitary

0:27:56.720 --> 0:28:02.240
<v Speaker 1>and just infested with Between Danny and Er and DJ Tanner, yeah,

0:28:02.400 --> 0:28:06.560
<v Speaker 1>we would be good to go. Like what character would

0:28:07.080 --> 0:28:10.520
<v Speaker 1>thrive in this situation and what character would lose it

0:28:11.160 --> 0:28:17.000
<v Speaker 1>the quickest? Um? DJ Tanner would thrive because she is

0:28:17.040 --> 0:28:20.600
<v Speaker 1>a perfectionist and she loves planning everyone's life, so she

0:28:20.600 --> 0:28:23.760
<v Speaker 1>would be like in heaven planning what everyone's gonna do

0:28:23.960 --> 0:28:29.400
<v Speaker 1>every single day, every minute of every hour. And um,

0:28:29.520 --> 0:28:34.919
<v Speaker 1>I think the probably like I think the kids. The

0:28:35.000 --> 0:28:37.560
<v Speaker 1>kids are just gonna lose it. That's it, all the kids,

0:28:37.840 --> 0:28:40.560
<v Speaker 1>because who wants to be with an over you know,

0:28:40.840 --> 0:28:45.320
<v Speaker 1>an over perfectionist parents. I couldn't agree more. Hey do

0:28:45.320 --> 0:28:47.720
<v Speaker 1>you Wand if I ask you another question about about

0:28:47.760 --> 0:28:52.160
<v Speaker 1>college in your other real life? Yes, um, when they

0:28:52.200 --> 0:28:58.800
<v Speaker 1>send the kids home from school because of the pandemic, right, Um,

0:28:58.840 --> 0:29:02.280
<v Speaker 1>as a parent, what is your perspective on that of

0:29:02.600 --> 0:29:05.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, paying for tuition and things like that. Are

0:29:05.240 --> 0:29:08.920
<v Speaker 1>you expected to still continue to pay the full the

0:29:08.960 --> 0:29:11.560
<v Speaker 1>full price? There is there some sort of refund or

0:29:11.600 --> 0:29:15.959
<v Speaker 1>is there some sort of of of you know, a

0:29:16.000 --> 0:29:18.960
<v Speaker 1>payment sort of adjustment due to the fact that this

0:29:18.960 --> 0:29:22.200
<v Speaker 1>thing has happened during the school year. It's a it's

0:29:22.200 --> 0:29:25.480
<v Speaker 1>a great question. It's interesting. My kids actually are going

0:29:25.520 --> 0:29:30.800
<v Speaker 1>to school online. They're getting their degrees online on online college.

0:29:31.240 --> 0:29:35.760
<v Speaker 1>So for that there there's there's no refund needed because

0:29:35.760 --> 0:29:39.120
<v Speaker 1>they're doing it on their computer anyway. Although you know

0:29:39.200 --> 0:29:43.160
<v Speaker 1>with Sun with Hockey, who is in high school ability

0:29:43.160 --> 0:29:46.560
<v Speaker 1>with a family. He's home now, but they are refunding

0:29:46.680 --> 0:29:49.760
<v Speaker 1>money for the end of the school year that they

0:29:50.000 --> 0:29:53.080
<v Speaker 1>haven't been able to fulfill. And I think that's reasonable

0:29:53.160 --> 0:29:57.120
<v Speaker 1>and responsible, and especially if you know you are being

0:29:57.200 --> 0:30:00.120
<v Speaker 1>housed on college campuses and you're not any more. I

0:30:00.200 --> 0:30:05.200
<v Speaker 1>absolutely think that refunds should be given right now. It's

0:30:05.200 --> 0:30:07.920
<v Speaker 1>interesting you mentioned the online thing because I saw a

0:30:08.000 --> 0:30:12.920
<v Speaker 1>projection that ten of universities in the United States are

0:30:12.920 --> 0:30:16.440
<v Speaker 1>going to shut down permanently, not just because of how

0:30:16.480 --> 0:30:19.640
<v Speaker 1>they're affected immediately due to the impact of the virus,

0:30:19.760 --> 0:30:23.000
<v Speaker 1>but but because so many students are going to see

0:30:23.040 --> 0:30:29.080
<v Speaker 1>that they can get the same the same criteria online

0:30:29.200 --> 0:30:32.080
<v Speaker 1>rather than paying a fee to go to an actual campus.

0:30:32.080 --> 0:30:34.160
<v Speaker 1>And there's so many ways that they can essentially get

0:30:34.200 --> 0:30:38.640
<v Speaker 1>their you know, their their validation. I found that fascinating.

0:30:39.520 --> 0:30:43.480
<v Speaker 1>It is fascinating while to shut down permanently. Um, it

0:30:43.600 --> 0:30:46.760
<v Speaker 1>is interesting. And that was a big discussion and reason

0:30:47.040 --> 0:30:51.640
<v Speaker 1>why my son wanted to get his degree online. He's

0:30:51.640 --> 0:30:56.600
<v Speaker 1>a smarting pants, you know, he's like self motivated, diligent student.

0:30:56.800 --> 0:30:59.800
<v Speaker 1>And he was like, he didn't even want the college

0:31:00.000 --> 0:31:04.240
<v Speaker 1>experience in the sense of all the extracurricular activities. He

0:31:04.320 --> 0:31:05.520
<v Speaker 1>was like, I want to work. I want to have

0:31:05.560 --> 0:31:06.960
<v Speaker 1>a full time job, so I'm going to do my

0:31:07.000 --> 0:31:10.040
<v Speaker 1>school online. And I He's like, I think more productive

0:31:10.080 --> 0:31:13.280
<v Speaker 1>without actually living on campus. But you know, it does

0:31:13.360 --> 0:31:16.480
<v Speaker 1>take a specific personality to do that because you have

0:31:16.560 --> 0:31:19.320
<v Speaker 1>to be self motivated, like one of my other kids.

0:31:19.360 --> 0:31:25.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't know that that would happen right right different persons.

0:31:26.200 --> 0:31:28.080
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to I wanted to ask a little bit

0:31:28.120 --> 0:31:33.960
<v Speaker 1>more about the the benefit Hope rising. Um. You mentioned

0:31:34.000 --> 0:31:38.040
<v Speaker 1>that a portion of the of the proceeds for the

0:31:38.080 --> 0:31:43.320
<v Speaker 1>event are going to Samaritan's Purse or Samaritans. Well, I

0:31:43.320 --> 0:31:48.800
<v Speaker 1>don't know what what is that? So Samaritans Samaritans Purse

0:31:48.840 --> 0:31:51.040
<v Speaker 1>has been an organization that's been around for a very

0:31:51.080 --> 0:31:53.560
<v Speaker 1>long time, but they literally are boots on the ground

0:31:53.720 --> 0:31:56.160
<v Speaker 1>right now. In New York City. They've got the big

0:31:56.200 --> 0:31:59.000
<v Speaker 1>white tents in the middle of Central Park. Uh, they

0:31:59.040 --> 0:32:04.160
<v Speaker 1>have much hospitals and they I mean, they just do

0:32:04.320 --> 0:32:06.880
<v Speaker 1>work all over the world. And you know they're they

0:32:06.920 --> 0:32:09.920
<v Speaker 1>also have other mobile hospitals and hotspots where it's needed.

0:32:10.280 --> 0:32:13.240
<v Speaker 1>So they're actively helping the people that are dealing with

0:32:13.400 --> 0:32:16.960
<v Speaker 1>COVID nineteen. And but they do it all in Jesus name.

0:32:17.320 --> 0:32:20.080
<v Speaker 1>And as we produced Hope Rising, these this is the

0:32:20.120 --> 0:32:24.240
<v Speaker 1>faith community coming together. This isn't about a particular denomination.

0:32:24.560 --> 0:32:27.840
<v Speaker 1>It's not about politics. It's just about people of faith

0:32:27.960 --> 0:32:30.920
<v Speaker 1>in general coming together. And so it was important for

0:32:31.000 --> 0:32:34.280
<v Speaker 1>us to pick a charity that was also giving God glory.

0:32:35.800 --> 0:32:41.080
<v Speaker 1>So how do you how do you do they pay

0:32:41.200 --> 0:32:47.040
<v Speaker 1>to go to Hope Rising? Um, they donate on demo?

0:32:47.120 --> 0:32:50.680
<v Speaker 1>How does it work? Yeah? You you please know that

0:32:50.760 --> 0:32:52.880
<v Speaker 1>you can watch Hope Rising for free. All of us

0:32:52.920 --> 0:32:56.080
<v Speaker 1>did it for free. We've produced it for free. Every

0:32:56.160 --> 0:33:00.200
<v Speaker 1>artist is singing from their home. They are giving us

0:33:00.200 --> 0:33:03.280
<v Speaker 1>everything for free. So no one is profiting one penny

0:33:03.440 --> 0:33:05.320
<v Speaker 1>from this event. We all did it out of the

0:33:05.360 --> 0:33:10.040
<v Speaker 1>goodness of our knowing that the world needs hope, and

0:33:10.120 --> 0:33:13.400
<v Speaker 1>so we are When you watch it. Thank you when

0:33:13.440 --> 0:33:15.640
<v Speaker 1>you do watch it, if you feel led to give

0:33:15.760 --> 0:33:20.200
<v Speaker 1>Samaritan's purse, will have the information on the website on

0:33:20.400 --> 0:33:24.840
<v Speaker 1>Hope Rising dot Live throughout the show or you know,

0:33:25.080 --> 0:33:28.080
<v Speaker 1>when you're watching it or online just through the website.

0:33:28.320 --> 0:33:31.480
<v Speaker 1>And uh, it's totally up just doing what we can

0:33:32.600 --> 0:33:36.800
<v Speaker 1>and isn't Franklin Graham also affiliated with that particular organization.

0:33:38.160 --> 0:33:41.720
<v Speaker 1>He is Franklin Graham, dost know. I mean he's he's

0:33:41.720 --> 0:33:44.640
<v Speaker 1>a wonderful person, best known as Billy Grandson. So you

0:33:44.680 --> 0:33:49.080
<v Speaker 1>guys can he's affiliated with Samaritans person. You know, they

0:33:49.120 --> 0:33:52.960
<v Speaker 1>just do such a great job. Yeah, this is such

0:33:52.960 --> 0:33:57.560
<v Speaker 1>a cool thing Hope Rising dot Live. It's coming up

0:33:57.560 --> 0:34:02.520
<v Speaker 1>on Sunday, April nineteen pm Easter and five pm over

0:34:02.560 --> 0:34:05.440
<v Speaker 1>here on the West Coast. You and your brother Kirk

0:34:05.440 --> 0:34:08.600
<v Speaker 1>are putting this thing on such a great idea because

0:34:08.640 --> 0:34:11.840
<v Speaker 1>we're all like, we're all looking to like help, but

0:34:11.920 --> 0:34:14.040
<v Speaker 1>we don't know how to do it. And I think

0:34:14.040 --> 0:34:16.319
<v Speaker 1>it's awesome that you were able to do, you know,

0:34:16.960 --> 0:34:20.560
<v Speaker 1>use your voice and uh and put this together. So

0:34:20.680 --> 0:34:22.879
<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for that. Thank you, I really

0:34:22.960 --> 0:34:26.239
<v Speaker 1>appreciate it. And fined to just say one one last thing,

0:34:26.719 --> 0:34:29.840
<v Speaker 1>because it's truly a grassroots effort on our part to

0:34:29.880 --> 0:34:33.200
<v Speaker 1>get the word out. We actually had had a network

0:34:33.280 --> 0:34:35.879
<v Speaker 1>secured to air this on Easter and they pulled out

0:34:36.000 --> 0:34:39.640
<v Speaker 1>three days before because of the faith content, which kind

0:34:39.680 --> 0:34:43.040
<v Speaker 1>of is mind blowing to me. So we were very

0:34:43.040 --> 0:34:47.319
<v Speaker 1>happy to Facebook Live jumped on board. But we're just

0:34:47.440 --> 0:34:50.719
<v Speaker 1>asking everyone to please spread the word, share it that

0:34:50.840 --> 0:34:52.560
<v Speaker 1>this is going to be on because even if you're

0:34:52.560 --> 0:34:54.279
<v Speaker 1>not a person of faith, if you just have an

0:34:54.320 --> 0:34:57.279
<v Speaker 1>inkling of it, but you are questioning what's going on

0:34:57.320 --> 0:35:00.120
<v Speaker 1>in the world, I promise you you are going to

0:35:00.120 --> 0:35:03.840
<v Speaker 1>be given hope by watching you this this live event

0:35:03.880 --> 0:35:06.319
<v Speaker 1>on Sunday. It's great. Well, thank thank you so much.

0:35:06.320 --> 0:35:08.279
<v Speaker 1>We love what you're doing and we think it's a

0:35:08.280 --> 0:35:10.520
<v Speaker 1>great idea and it's a it's a wonderful cost. So

0:35:10.600 --> 0:35:13.400
<v Speaker 1>thank you for that. Thank you so much, guys, I

0:35:13.400 --> 0:35:21.400
<v Speaker 1>appreciate it. Thank you. Now for house same song. Okay,

0:35:21.440 --> 0:35:26.560
<v Speaker 1>are you going We're gonna do the empty house? Okay,

0:35:26.440 --> 0:35:37.120
<v Speaker 1>the house? What the millman? The boy? Even now, here's

0:35:37.120 --> 0:35:40.120
<v Speaker 1>the thing that song and then you have it's a

0:35:40.480 --> 0:35:44.320
<v Speaker 1>rare condition in this day and age, reading the good

0:35:44.360 --> 0:35:47.920
<v Speaker 1>news on the newspaper page. By the way, Big t

0:35:48.040 --> 0:35:49.920
<v Speaker 1>G I f fan over here. Just gonna say it,

0:35:50.640 --> 0:35:53.840
<v Speaker 1>bucket list thing to get to talk to you, So

0:35:54.120 --> 0:35:58.160
<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for making that possibility. Guys, this

0:35:58.239 --> 0:36:00.040
<v Speaker 1>is going to go down. Is like the best of

0:36:00.160 --> 0:36:03.200
<v Speaker 1>you of the week for sure. We love it. We

0:36:03.280 --> 0:36:22.319
<v Speaker 1>love it. Thanks, guys, have a good one all right,

0:36:22.400 --> 0:36:26.960
<v Speaker 1>back on how men think. Very excited for our next

0:36:27.000 --> 0:36:31.040
<v Speaker 1>guest because well, I've got a lot of questions for her.

0:36:31.520 --> 0:36:35.200
<v Speaker 1>Uh into the show. We have Dr Viv, Dr Viv,

0:36:35.239 --> 0:36:39.279
<v Speaker 1>how are you hi? Thanks so much for coming on

0:36:39.400 --> 0:36:42.520
<v Speaker 1>the show. Um, I'm excited to talk to you because

0:36:42.560 --> 0:36:48.959
<v Speaker 1>I am currently quarantining with my fiance and I have questions. Well,

0:36:49.000 --> 0:36:52.239
<v Speaker 1>congrats on being engaged. Well we'll see if we make

0:36:52.280 --> 0:36:57.759
<v Speaker 1>it through this thing. I'll be honest with you. So yeah,

0:36:58.920 --> 0:37:00.640
<v Speaker 1>as I said, we saw that you reached out to

0:37:00.760 --> 0:37:04.280
<v Speaker 1>us on Instagram and said that you're working double time

0:37:04.440 --> 0:37:07.719
<v Speaker 1>helping couples deal with new problems. So what is the

0:37:07.760 --> 0:37:11.880
<v Speaker 1>most common new problem that you're seeing right now? Trying

0:37:11.920 --> 0:37:14.880
<v Speaker 1>to figure out a balance between what is too much

0:37:14.920 --> 0:37:18.040
<v Speaker 1>time together and what isn't enough time together. It's it's

0:37:18.080 --> 0:37:23.440
<v Speaker 1>like everybody has this gauge right now of okay, what

0:37:23.480 --> 0:37:25.640
<v Speaker 1>do we do with this time? It's a gift, but

0:37:25.640 --> 0:37:28.880
<v Speaker 1>it's also pressure. And then if they just want to

0:37:29.200 --> 0:37:31.839
<v Speaker 1>lounge around, are they judging each other? Are they think,

0:37:31.880 --> 0:37:33.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, we should be having sex all the time,

0:37:33.920 --> 0:37:37.640
<v Speaker 1>We should be communicating, we should be connecting. And that's

0:37:37.680 --> 0:37:40.000
<v Speaker 1>the part that I think people need to give you

0:37:40.040 --> 0:37:42.600
<v Speaker 1>to there, some grace, to give you to this, some leeway.

0:37:42.760 --> 0:37:47.399
<v Speaker 1>There's no right way to quarantine. Is there a right

0:37:47.440 --> 0:37:52.600
<v Speaker 1>way to have sex in a hazmat suit? Well, the

0:37:52.680 --> 0:37:55.000
<v Speaker 1>rug round rubber probably isn't going to go very well

0:37:57.200 --> 0:37:59.759
<v Speaker 1>hold there, But yeah, no, I think that it's really

0:38:00.000 --> 0:38:02.760
<v Speaker 1>partant for everyone to make sure that they are checking

0:38:02.840 --> 0:38:05.799
<v Speaker 1>in with themselves more. Now, Um, we can learn a

0:38:05.840 --> 0:38:08.839
<v Speaker 1>whole lot about ourselves and what makes us tick. And

0:38:08.840 --> 0:38:13.040
<v Speaker 1>that's all information that's really valuable to our Beyonce's partners,

0:38:13.440 --> 0:38:19.640
<v Speaker 1>potential partners in the future. I mean, obviously there's there's

0:38:19.760 --> 0:38:24.320
<v Speaker 1>this is causing a lot of strain and stress on relationships. Um,

0:38:24.440 --> 0:38:26.440
<v Speaker 1>what good is coming out of this though? Like, what

0:38:26.480 --> 0:38:29.759
<v Speaker 1>are the positives that people maybe aren't even realizing but

0:38:30.000 --> 0:38:32.840
<v Speaker 1>are you know, right under their noses. I think the

0:38:32.960 --> 0:38:36.520
<v Speaker 1>good that's coming out of this in relationships is that

0:38:36.600 --> 0:38:40.120
<v Speaker 1>people are realizing that they can just to be together.

0:38:40.400 --> 0:38:45.200
<v Speaker 1>They don't have to constantly have romance um every time

0:38:45.200 --> 0:38:48.360
<v Speaker 1>they're together, they don't constantly have to do anything. To

0:38:48.520 --> 0:38:52.160
<v Speaker 1>know that you can rely on your partner, but have

0:38:52.360 --> 0:38:56.160
<v Speaker 1>it be from afar is really important. But then to

0:38:56.239 --> 0:38:59.080
<v Speaker 1>also be able to say, hey, having us be just

0:38:59.280 --> 0:39:03.080
<v Speaker 1>comfortable next to each other, that's huge. To be able

0:39:03.080 --> 0:39:05.880
<v Speaker 1>to just chill with someone and like it and not

0:39:06.000 --> 0:39:08.440
<v Speaker 1>be judgy and not be an each of the spaces

0:39:08.480 --> 0:39:12.240
<v Speaker 1>about it. I think that that's huge. So it's okay

0:39:12.280 --> 0:39:15.640
<v Speaker 1>to be like, hey, I don't want to watch RuPaul's

0:39:15.680 --> 0:39:17.799
<v Speaker 1>drag Race with you again, so I'm gonna go to

0:39:17.840 --> 0:39:22.919
<v Speaker 1>a different room and watch reruns of The Masters. Yes,

0:39:23.080 --> 0:39:25.479
<v Speaker 1>if you have the luxury to be able to say,

0:39:25.560 --> 0:39:29.320
<v Speaker 1>I want to go watch Married at First Sight, like tonight,

0:39:29.400 --> 0:39:32.799
<v Speaker 1>it's decision day, Gotta watch it. Um. If you have

0:39:32.880 --> 0:39:34.640
<v Speaker 1>the luxury to be able to go and have your

0:39:34.640 --> 0:39:38.239
<v Speaker 1>own space somewhere, take it and then do what a

0:39:38.280 --> 0:39:40.799
<v Speaker 1>lot of people are starting to do in switch up

0:39:40.920 --> 0:39:44.160
<v Speaker 1>locations every day. You don't claim the dining room as

0:39:44.239 --> 0:39:47.080
<v Speaker 1>your own, and then that's it. Um, you want to

0:39:47.080 --> 0:39:48.839
<v Speaker 1>make sure to switch things up a bit, that's just

0:39:48.880 --> 0:39:51.200
<v Speaker 1>to keep your sanity. I mean, the truth is, we're

0:39:51.200 --> 0:39:53.839
<v Speaker 1>all just trying to stay samee through this. We're all

0:39:53.840 --> 0:39:56.440
<v Speaker 1>trying to do our best to flatten the curve and

0:39:56.440 --> 0:40:00.319
<v Speaker 1>to not have this go on forever. And we we've

0:40:00.320 --> 0:40:02.440
<v Speaker 1>never been through this before. So if you're doing it

0:40:02.480 --> 0:40:05.360
<v Speaker 1>in a way that is as stress free as possible,

0:40:05.440 --> 0:40:08.560
<v Speaker 1>you're doing it right. You should encourage that. What's an

0:40:08.600 --> 0:40:11.920
<v Speaker 1>appropriate amount of sex you should be having. I'm a

0:40:11.960 --> 0:40:15.719
<v Speaker 1>big fan of twice a week having some sort of

0:40:15.760 --> 0:40:19.880
<v Speaker 1>sexual encounter. When people say sex, they tend to mean intercourse,

0:40:19.960 --> 0:40:23.040
<v Speaker 1>but you know, there's a lot of other fun things

0:40:23.080 --> 0:40:25.800
<v Speaker 1>you can be doing, and variety is the spice of life.

0:40:25.960 --> 0:40:29.120
<v Speaker 1>And all couples to try to do something sexual or

0:40:29.200 --> 0:40:33.920
<v Speaker 1>sexy together at least twice a week. So also at

0:40:34.000 --> 0:40:37.239
<v Speaker 1>least twice a week. Yeah, I mean, if you if

0:40:37.280 --> 0:40:40.800
<v Speaker 1>you have the drive to do more, and that's something

0:40:40.840 --> 0:40:42.680
<v Speaker 1>that both of you are on the same cage about,

0:40:43.080 --> 0:40:47.200
<v Speaker 1>especially right now. I put out like a execty self

0:40:47.239 --> 0:40:51.560
<v Speaker 1>isolation challenge, and I challenged my couples to the seven

0:40:51.600 --> 0:40:53.840
<v Speaker 1>different out of the fifteen that I've posted to do

0:40:53.920 --> 0:40:56.520
<v Speaker 1>seven different of these challenges. If you want to knock

0:40:56.560 --> 0:40:58.799
<v Speaker 1>those out in a week, that's fine. Well, we don't

0:40:58.800 --> 0:41:00.640
<v Speaker 1>know how long we're going to be doing it. To

0:41:00.760 --> 0:41:04.040
<v Speaker 1>take your time, make sure you're not like overdoing it.

0:41:04.160 --> 0:41:07.000
<v Speaker 1>And again, you don't want to create pressure. This is

0:41:07.040 --> 0:41:09.319
<v Speaker 1>something where I just try to chill out as much

0:41:09.400 --> 0:41:13.200
<v Speaker 1>as you can. Dress is not sexy, and there's a

0:41:13.200 --> 0:41:15.680
<v Speaker 1>lot of things that are worth being stressed about right now.

0:41:16.080 --> 0:41:20.840
<v Speaker 1>Whether or not you're connecting on a daily basis in

0:41:20.880 --> 0:41:24.000
<v Speaker 1>a quality way, in a sexy way all day long

0:41:24.160 --> 0:41:26.000
<v Speaker 1>is not one of them. We don't need to put

0:41:26.040 --> 0:41:29.480
<v Speaker 1>that on ourselves right now. Have you ever told a

0:41:29.680 --> 0:41:33.000
<v Speaker 1>couple that they need to experiment more and then they

0:41:33.000 --> 0:41:35.319
<v Speaker 1>come back to you and tell you what they did

0:41:35.440 --> 0:41:46.120
<v Speaker 1>and you think gross? Gross? Have I had a gross moment? Well,

0:41:46.200 --> 0:41:49.839
<v Speaker 1>let me think. I probably have thought at some point like,

0:41:50.800 --> 0:41:53.200
<v Speaker 1>oh okay, I would have never thought that that would

0:41:53.280 --> 0:41:55.399
<v Speaker 1>turn someone on. But I don't know that I've had

0:41:55.400 --> 0:41:59.719
<v Speaker 1>a gross um I felt like you've got something on

0:41:59.800 --> 0:42:06.880
<v Speaker 1>the line. Have you, ever, as a relationship doctor, thought

0:42:06.960 --> 0:42:11.040
<v Speaker 1>sometimes no relationship is the best relationship at all. Oh,

0:42:11.080 --> 0:42:14.080
<v Speaker 1>for sure, if you can't be healthy. If you can't

0:42:14.080 --> 0:42:19.799
<v Speaker 1>be respectful, if you can't be confident enough to be

0:42:19.880 --> 0:42:22.360
<v Speaker 1>able to just be you, then it's probably not the

0:42:22.480 --> 0:42:25.360
<v Speaker 1>relationship for you. But I do believe that there's probably

0:42:25.400 --> 0:42:28.440
<v Speaker 1>a different relationship out there that will enhance who you are,

0:42:28.520 --> 0:42:32.120
<v Speaker 1>that will highlight all of the wonderful things that you bring. Now,

0:42:32.480 --> 0:42:35.200
<v Speaker 1>if you continue to be in relationships that do not

0:42:35.360 --> 0:42:39.279
<v Speaker 1>feel good to you, you're probably the common factor, right,

0:42:39.480 --> 0:42:42.440
<v Speaker 1>So it's important to make sure that you're looking within yourself,

0:42:42.480 --> 0:42:45.160
<v Speaker 1>and now is the perfect time to do that, especially

0:42:45.160 --> 0:42:48.120
<v Speaker 1>if you're alone in isolation. This is your chance to

0:42:48.120 --> 0:42:51.680
<v Speaker 1>really figure out do you like? I always ask people

0:42:51.760 --> 0:42:55.200
<v Speaker 1>would you want you? And if the answer is no,

0:42:56.080 --> 0:42:58.000
<v Speaker 1>like that's a tough thing to come to. But if

0:42:58.000 --> 0:42:59.719
<v Speaker 1>the answer is no, this is the perfect time to

0:42:59.760 --> 0:43:01.720
<v Speaker 1>work on that. And there's lots of big ways online,

0:43:01.800 --> 0:43:05.319
<v Speaker 1>especially if you're following me um to figure out how

0:43:05.360 --> 0:43:07.439
<v Speaker 1>to get to a place where you are attractive, where

0:43:07.480 --> 0:43:11.120
<v Speaker 1>you are attached, not just in your online The problem

0:43:11.239 --> 0:43:15.160
<v Speaker 1>is is that quarantine, the quarantine version of me is disgusting.

0:43:15.640 --> 0:43:20.680
<v Speaker 1>I have it showered in a couple of days. Okay,

0:43:21.440 --> 0:43:24.560
<v Speaker 1>you're right, and we're all kind of struggling with that

0:43:24.680 --> 0:43:27.440
<v Speaker 1>right now, we're like that quarantine fiftine is there and

0:43:27.760 --> 0:43:31.880
<v Speaker 1>maybe our hygiene isn't like on point. Um, but you

0:43:31.920 --> 0:43:33.759
<v Speaker 1>have to know that there's an end to that, right

0:43:33.880 --> 0:43:36.360
<v Speaker 1>Like you have to know that you're gonna have to

0:43:36.400 --> 0:43:39.880
<v Speaker 1>start cutting those toails soon or else your fiance is

0:43:39.880 --> 0:43:43.080
<v Speaker 1>going to be like, you need to sleep in another bed. Yeah.

0:43:43.160 --> 0:43:45.839
<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you're aware of it, and you're aware

0:43:45.880 --> 0:43:48.040
<v Speaker 1>that you're being gross right now, we've got to make

0:43:48.080 --> 0:43:49.759
<v Speaker 1>sure that you're on top of that because when we're

0:43:49.760 --> 0:43:54.880
<v Speaker 1>out in the same worlds apply. Yeah, so sorry, go

0:43:55.000 --> 0:43:58.120
<v Speaker 1>for it. I'll just say, what what if it's been

0:43:58.200 --> 0:44:00.600
<v Speaker 1>so long since you cared that you don't even remember

0:44:00.640 --> 0:44:06.360
<v Speaker 1>where your toothbrush is? Okay, you're gonna have to quarantine

0:44:06.400 --> 0:44:10.160
<v Speaker 1>a little longer than everybody else. Um, somebody needs to

0:44:10.239 --> 0:44:15.080
<v Speaker 1>check on him right now, go check onto. You have

0:44:15.320 --> 0:44:19.120
<v Speaker 1>another question, doc, Doc. Are you in a relationship right now?

0:44:20.080 --> 0:44:22.760
<v Speaker 1>Oh for sure. I've been married to my husband's almost

0:44:22.800 --> 0:44:25.200
<v Speaker 1>thirteen years now. I'm hoping we don't have to celebrate

0:44:25.200 --> 0:44:31.160
<v Speaker 1>in quarantine, but yeah, I've my So, when you guys

0:44:31.360 --> 0:44:35.000
<v Speaker 1>argue about something in the relationship, do you assume you're right,

0:44:35.040 --> 0:44:40.759
<v Speaker 1>because you're the professional. I always assume that I'm right,

0:44:40.960 --> 0:44:45.120
<v Speaker 1>but do I express that. No, No, I The truth

0:44:45.200 --> 0:44:49.160
<v Speaker 1>is he has some insights just I mean, we're an

0:44:49.160 --> 0:44:53.920
<v Speaker 1>opposite text couple, so he has some insights into um,

0:44:53.960 --> 0:44:55.560
<v Speaker 1>just the way that men look at things a little

0:44:55.560 --> 0:44:58.320
<v Speaker 1>bit different. Of course, I'm learning from podcasts as well,

0:44:58.719 --> 0:45:00.839
<v Speaker 1>but I think it's always a important to know that

0:45:01.280 --> 0:45:05.640
<v Speaker 1>his his viewpoint is valid. It's just up to me

0:45:05.760 --> 0:45:08.279
<v Speaker 1>to figure out with my skills, how to make sure

0:45:08.320 --> 0:45:11.560
<v Speaker 1>that I'm listening to him and and that we're getting

0:45:11.600 --> 0:45:14.440
<v Speaker 1>to the the part, you know, the goal, which is

0:45:14.480 --> 0:45:17.400
<v Speaker 1>to understand each other better and then change our behavior

0:45:17.480 --> 0:45:20.800
<v Speaker 1>to help each other feel like our needs to being met. Um.

0:45:20.840 --> 0:45:23.000
<v Speaker 1>But it's funny because most people ask him what it's

0:45:23.080 --> 0:45:26.640
<v Speaker 1>like to be married to a relationship therapist, and he

0:45:26.680 --> 0:45:29.000
<v Speaker 1>said that the main thing is that we tend to

0:45:29.000 --> 0:45:31.160
<v Speaker 1>see things from a mile away, like we don't let

0:45:31.160 --> 0:45:33.680
<v Speaker 1>things just sweep under the rug and lets because we

0:45:33.760 --> 0:45:36.839
<v Speaker 1>know I see it every day, and you know, him,

0:45:36.920 --> 0:45:38.960
<v Speaker 1>having been with me for so long, he knows that

0:45:39.400 --> 0:45:42.560
<v Speaker 1>things can go really bad, very rickly. So we want

0:45:42.560 --> 0:45:44.120
<v Speaker 1>to make sure that we're always this kind of like

0:45:44.239 --> 0:45:47.040
<v Speaker 1>on top of things and talk about things immediately versus

0:45:47.080 --> 0:45:51.320
<v Speaker 1>waiting a week, month, years. I wanted to ask a

0:45:51.400 --> 0:45:54.239
<v Speaker 1>question because obviously you're getting a lot of work for

0:45:54.280 --> 0:46:00.359
<v Speaker 1>people who are in relationships quarantining together, um, But there's

0:46:00.400 --> 0:46:04.840
<v Speaker 1>a whole another group of people who are single during

0:46:04.920 --> 0:46:09.759
<v Speaker 1>this quarantine situation. How are they dealing with trying to,

0:46:10.440 --> 0:46:12.239
<v Speaker 1>you know, go on I guess you go on like

0:46:12.320 --> 0:46:16.040
<v Speaker 1>face FaceTime dates or something like. I don't even know

0:46:16.680 --> 0:46:19.399
<v Speaker 1>process looks like. But do you have any advice for

0:46:19.440 --> 0:46:22.960
<v Speaker 1>those people out there? Yeah? I mean they are. They

0:46:23.000 --> 0:46:27.359
<v Speaker 1>are doing these virtual dates, um, which it's not all

0:46:27.400 --> 0:46:31.799
<v Speaker 1>that different than a real in person date because you're

0:46:31.840 --> 0:46:34.400
<v Speaker 1>still hopefully talking about the same things that you would.

0:46:34.719 --> 0:46:38.480
<v Speaker 1>You would present yourself. You'll probably have to rush your teeth, um,

0:46:39.400 --> 0:46:41.399
<v Speaker 1>just because there might be stuff in them, but like

0:46:41.880 --> 0:46:44.319
<v Speaker 1>you want to make sure that you are presenting your

0:46:44.360 --> 0:46:46.760
<v Speaker 1>best self now. It's funny when I was getting ready

0:46:46.800 --> 0:46:50.120
<v Speaker 1>for this and I just like habitually put perfume on,

0:46:50.480 --> 0:46:52.719
<v Speaker 1>so just say, oh no, I smelled really good. But

0:46:52.880 --> 0:46:57.680
<v Speaker 1>it's like the same, you gotta put this, You've gotta

0:46:57.719 --> 0:47:01.680
<v Speaker 1>put your best self out there. They're all circumstances. I

0:47:01.719 --> 0:47:03.960
<v Speaker 1>think it's important to be mindful of what you look

0:47:04.040 --> 0:47:07.520
<v Speaker 1>like and how you are perceived by others. That said,

0:47:07.760 --> 0:47:10.000
<v Speaker 1>you don't want it to be fake. So please don't

0:47:10.000 --> 0:47:12.920
<v Speaker 1>be using filters when you're doing these virtual dating Please

0:47:12.920 --> 0:47:15.239
<v Speaker 1>don't use virtual backgrounds to show that you're in like

0:47:15.320 --> 0:47:19.040
<v Speaker 1>an amazing lot when you're not that. I mean, don't

0:47:19.280 --> 0:47:22.160
<v Speaker 1>pit people out, don't turn this around into a fake thing.

0:47:22.840 --> 0:47:25.400
<v Speaker 1>But to get the ball rolling, to get some you know,

0:47:25.520 --> 0:47:28.279
<v Speaker 1>some dates out there while you're going through this. Sup Again,

0:47:28.320 --> 0:47:29.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how long this is going to be,

0:47:29.600 --> 0:47:31.879
<v Speaker 1>and some people really want to be in love get

0:47:31.920 --> 0:47:36.759
<v Speaker 1>out there now. So question, um, do you do you

0:47:37.160 --> 0:47:43.920
<v Speaker 1>have single clients? Do you want to start dating somebody?

0:47:44.520 --> 0:47:48.759
<v Speaker 1>The vast majority of my clients are in relationships, but

0:47:48.880 --> 0:47:51.719
<v Speaker 1>the ones who aren't have either come out of a

0:47:51.800 --> 0:47:55.759
<v Speaker 1>breakup and want to learn about what could have happened differently,

0:47:56.440 --> 0:47:58.920
<v Speaker 1>or they want to make sure that if that they

0:47:58.960 --> 0:48:02.160
<v Speaker 1>don't go into like the next dating scene too soon.

0:48:02.280 --> 0:48:05.080
<v Speaker 1>Maybe they're not ready for that. Or it's people who

0:48:05.080 --> 0:48:06.600
<v Speaker 1>have been out of the game for a long time

0:48:06.800 --> 0:48:09.080
<v Speaker 1>and just want to make sure that they're ready to

0:48:09.120 --> 0:48:12.000
<v Speaker 1>get out there and know how to date, how to

0:48:12.640 --> 0:48:15.960
<v Speaker 1>what love is, what their goals are for relationships, because

0:48:15.960 --> 0:48:17.600
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people don't think about that. All they

0:48:17.600 --> 0:48:19.440
<v Speaker 1>think about is I want to be coupled up. I

0:48:19.440 --> 0:48:21.640
<v Speaker 1>want to be carried up with someone, but they don't

0:48:21.640 --> 0:48:25.239
<v Speaker 1>really know why. It's more like, what's because everybody does that? Well, Now,

0:48:25.320 --> 0:48:28.360
<v Speaker 1>if you don't know why you're doing something, it's probably

0:48:28.360 --> 0:48:30.640
<v Speaker 1>not going to be within your control to guide it

0:48:30.640 --> 0:48:35.160
<v Speaker 1>and to fix it if it goes astray. Right, What

0:48:35.360 --> 0:48:40.800
<v Speaker 1>is the difference between role playing the fine line between

0:48:40.920 --> 0:48:43.600
<v Speaker 1>role playing and realizing someone just wants to be with

0:48:43.640 --> 0:48:49.200
<v Speaker 1>someone else. Yeah, I think it's how consistent it is.

0:48:49.520 --> 0:48:53.040
<v Speaker 1>If you, um, if you're feeling like you're putting on

0:48:53.080 --> 0:48:56.680
<v Speaker 1>a persona or you think that this person isn't going

0:48:56.840 --> 0:49:01.080
<v Speaker 1>to like what you really think, then you're just setting

0:49:01.120 --> 0:49:04.560
<v Speaker 1>yourself up for the end of the relationship is going

0:49:04.600 --> 0:49:09.680
<v Speaker 1>to happen if you feel like you're constantly working at something.

0:49:10.320 --> 0:49:13.360
<v Speaker 1>I know. We all say relationships are hard work, their work,

0:49:13.400 --> 0:49:15.720
<v Speaker 1>and you have to do it forever. There's a difference

0:49:15.760 --> 0:49:21.120
<v Speaker 1>between working through communication, working through a problem, versus working

0:49:21.160 --> 0:49:24.560
<v Speaker 1>through personality differences, and that's something that a lot of

0:49:24.560 --> 0:49:27.319
<v Speaker 1>people do end up coming into therapy to figure out

0:49:27.440 --> 0:49:31.239
<v Speaker 1>like is this incompatibility something that we can work through

0:49:31.400 --> 0:49:34.120
<v Speaker 1>or is this something that is going to continue to

0:49:34.160 --> 0:49:40.520
<v Speaker 1>be around the corner all the time? Right right? I

0:49:40.600 --> 0:49:43.760
<v Speaker 1>wanted to ask you about Married at First Sight because

0:49:43.800 --> 0:49:49.120
<v Speaker 1>obviously everyone is binging everything right now and you are

0:49:49.600 --> 0:49:53.480
<v Speaker 1>the certified sex therapist and expert on that show. Tell

0:49:53.560 --> 0:49:56.839
<v Speaker 1>us about that show. So Married at First Site it's

0:49:57.120 --> 0:50:01.840
<v Speaker 1>it's again this very radical social experiment. We pick five

0:50:02.120 --> 0:50:08.279
<v Speaker 1>and the five couples out of hundreds of thousands of applicans,

0:50:08.400 --> 0:50:11.959
<v Speaker 1>hundreds of people, thousands of applications, and what we do

0:50:12.480 --> 0:50:14.759
<v Speaker 1>is based off of what we see on paper and

0:50:14.800 --> 0:50:18.720
<v Speaker 1>who we meet in person. Um. We also be background checks,

0:50:19.520 --> 0:50:23.480
<v Speaker 1>We do uh psychological evaluations, multiple rounds of that, and

0:50:23.600 --> 0:50:26.239
<v Speaker 1>based off of the information that we gather, we put

0:50:26.280 --> 0:50:29.799
<v Speaker 1>together these five couples and they meet and marry at

0:50:29.920 --> 0:50:33.680
<v Speaker 1>the altar, and then we follow them for eight weeks.

0:50:33.840 --> 0:50:36.719
<v Speaker 1>We help them, um, I mean, we don't hold their

0:50:36.760 --> 0:50:40.160
<v Speaker 1>hands through it, because we want them to really be themselves,

0:50:40.239 --> 0:50:42.319
<v Speaker 1>like what we're talking about. We want them to be

0:50:42.440 --> 0:50:44.799
<v Speaker 1>themselves that at the end of the eight weeks they

0:50:44.800 --> 0:50:47.680
<v Speaker 1>can decide whether they want to remain married. Or get

0:50:47.680 --> 0:50:52.360
<v Speaker 1>a divorce, and it's um, I mean, it's it's always

0:50:52.440 --> 0:50:56.279
<v Speaker 1>mind blowing what you can learn from watching two strangers

0:50:56.440 --> 0:51:01.440
<v Speaker 1>try to be married, like literally within it um. And

0:51:01.480 --> 0:51:03.480
<v Speaker 1>I think that's what people are really attracted to when

0:51:03.520 --> 0:51:06.680
<v Speaker 1>it comes to the show, is the idea that these

0:51:06.719 --> 0:51:10.839
<v Speaker 1>people are jumping into this marriage club without ever having

0:51:10.880 --> 0:51:14.239
<v Speaker 1>been there, without um, maybe sometimes even having good role

0:51:14.280 --> 0:51:17.439
<v Speaker 1>models about what marriage is. So some people need more

0:51:17.440 --> 0:51:20.359
<v Speaker 1>help than others when it comes to being married, and

0:51:20.680 --> 0:51:22.239
<v Speaker 1>we just don't. We don't really know what's going to

0:51:22.320 --> 0:51:26.960
<v Speaker 1>happen until it'squality done. Where can people watch it? It's

0:51:27.040 --> 0:51:30.840
<v Speaker 1>on Lifetime. Tonight is our Decision Day, which is not

0:51:30.880 --> 0:51:33.200
<v Speaker 1>our finale. Next week is our finale, but it's on

0:51:33.280 --> 0:51:39.280
<v Speaker 1>Lifetime Network and it shows at eight pm Eastern times,

0:51:39.520 --> 0:51:42.239
<v Speaker 1>so I hope everyone's going to tune in. I'm so

0:51:42.360 --> 0:51:44.719
<v Speaker 1>excited we are filming. We filmed this one in Washington,

0:51:44.760 --> 0:51:49.239
<v Speaker 1>d C. It's an interesting group, all right. I don't

0:51:49.239 --> 0:51:51.520
<v Speaker 1>know if they told you, but I came from the

0:51:51.640 --> 0:51:58.560
<v Speaker 1>Bachelorette and the Bachelor in Paradise World. So psych evaluation

0:51:58.760 --> 0:52:03.920
<v Speaker 1>six times, and uh, it's weird. It's a very weird.

0:52:04.040 --> 0:52:10.239
<v Speaker 1>Test questions that's wonderful. Your fiance should be thrilled. I know,

0:52:10.320 --> 0:52:13.960
<v Speaker 1>it's very It's very funny. Every show I've done, I've

0:52:14.040 --> 0:52:16.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, they you go and talk to the therapist

0:52:16.160 --> 0:52:20.600
<v Speaker 1>after the show. UM, and I always say, hey, am

0:52:20.640 --> 0:52:23.600
<v Speaker 1>I more or less crazy than the last time I

0:52:23.640 --> 0:52:28.160
<v Speaker 1>took the test? That's interesting that most people haven't taken

0:52:28.200 --> 0:52:30.080
<v Speaker 1>six of you. So there's got to be some kind

0:52:30.080 --> 0:52:33.040
<v Speaker 1>of study we can do with you. Yeah, getting worse.

0:52:33.120 --> 0:52:40.919
<v Speaker 1>I think I'm the Bachelor impaired show, which is different. Well,

0:52:40.960 --> 0:52:42.839
<v Speaker 1>I can help. I'll try to do what I can,

0:52:43.000 --> 0:52:44.960
<v Speaker 1>especially right now. I mean, come on, let's get you

0:52:45.000 --> 0:52:48.560
<v Speaker 1>set up for when we's all let loose. Speaking of

0:52:49.000 --> 0:52:52.799
<v Speaker 1>people find out more about you and and like reach

0:52:52.840 --> 0:52:55.640
<v Speaker 1>out to and stuff. Yeah. Well, my website is Dr

0:52:55.800 --> 0:52:58.279
<v Speaker 1>Viviana d O C T O R v I V

0:52:58.400 --> 0:53:01.439
<v Speaker 1>I A and a dot com. I'm Oliver social media

0:53:01.520 --> 0:53:03.840
<v Speaker 1>with Dr Brivianna. I just want to help people and

0:53:04.360 --> 0:53:06.759
<v Speaker 1>who want to find love or in love want to

0:53:06.840 --> 0:53:10.000
<v Speaker 1>keep their love. That's my thing and um intimating the

0:53:10.120 --> 0:53:12.600
<v Speaker 1>huge part of that. So lots of fun ways to

0:53:13.040 --> 0:53:18.680
<v Speaker 1>do that online. That's great. Well, Dr viv thanks so

0:53:18.760 --> 0:53:22.000
<v Speaker 1>much for taking the time. And uh and talking to

0:53:22.080 --> 0:53:25.480
<v Speaker 1>us during this these uh, these weird these weird times.

0:53:25.640 --> 0:53:28.600
<v Speaker 1>We really appreciate it. And everyone don't forget to watch

0:53:28.760 --> 0:53:33.040
<v Speaker 1>Married at First Sight on Lifetime. Thank you, y'all, Stay

0:53:33.040 --> 0:53:44.719
<v Speaker 1>safe and stay sane. Thanks, Thanks Doc, Thanks Gavin, Thanks

0:53:44.760 --> 0:53:47.200
<v Speaker 1>so much for letting me be on your show today.

0:53:47.200 --> 0:53:49.680
<v Speaker 1>This has been a lot of fun. You're not just

0:53:49.760 --> 0:53:53.080
<v Speaker 1>on the show, bro, you're running this show. Well, I

0:53:53.120 --> 0:53:57.560
<v Speaker 1>gotta say, Um, one of the most popular episodes of

0:53:57.719 --> 0:54:01.600
<v Speaker 1>my podcast, The Wells Cast, is the one where you

0:54:01.640 --> 0:54:04.280
<v Speaker 1>are the guest of honor. And so if anyone wants

0:54:04.280 --> 0:54:11.879
<v Speaker 1>to I'm serious, people love that interview, UM. And I

0:54:11.920 --> 0:54:16.640
<v Speaker 1>constantly am getting like d ms about how awesome UM

0:54:16.719 --> 0:54:19.160
<v Speaker 1>that episode was. And so I think maybe I'm at

0:54:19.200 --> 0:54:22.440
<v Speaker 1>to have you on again. Maybe we'll like, let I

0:54:22.440 --> 0:54:26.680
<v Speaker 1>don't know, the world settled back. I'd love you, man,

0:54:26.719 --> 0:54:29.520
<v Speaker 1>I'd love I'd love to Well. You run a great interview, man.

0:54:29.840 --> 0:54:33.000
<v Speaker 1>You know you're just you're very Sincerian event and you

0:54:33.040 --> 0:54:36.000
<v Speaker 1>know you uh, you just tap in and you're you're

0:54:36.000 --> 0:54:39.080
<v Speaker 1>good at it. You're just natural, very very very natural

0:54:39.160 --> 0:54:41.960
<v Speaker 1>at it. Well. I've been up fan of yours for

0:54:42.000 --> 0:54:45.799
<v Speaker 1>a long time and I mean this sounds saying you're

0:54:45.840 --> 0:54:49.319
<v Speaker 1>put your posting videos on Instagram and stuff of you

0:54:49.480 --> 0:54:54.320
<v Speaker 1>performing and stuff. And it's so nice to be able

0:54:54.360 --> 0:54:57.560
<v Speaker 1>to kind of like during this these weird times check

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<v Speaker 1>out and you know, just kind of enjoy a ways

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<v Speaker 1>some of your music on Instagram. Thank you. I appreciate that. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I need that because all these vine dances are what

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<v Speaker 1>have TikTok dancer. I'm losing my mind. I need some

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<v Speaker 1>actual talents. So thank you for that. Well, I'm upset

0:55:17.520 --> 0:55:20.080
<v Speaker 1>you say that because I was about to release my

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<v Speaker 1>um my dance video and now I think maybe I'll

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<v Speaker 1>pull it because I was gonna. I wanted you to

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<v Speaker 1>see my new moves I've been working on. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>really hot. It's really hot quarantine pole dance. Yeah, I'm right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited. You should do it. Just do the TikTok

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<v Speaker 1>dance and I'll be supportive of it. I thank you

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<v Speaker 1>means a lot, means a lot um all right, buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>Well thanks for letting me be up today and be

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<v Speaker 1>safe out there. Yeah? Are you kidding me? Man? You

0:55:52.160 --> 0:55:54.480
<v Speaker 1>ran it, dude, you took it to you took it

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<v Speaker 1>to a new level. Man, and let's let's connect. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do another show anytime, any time, dude. I'd love

0:56:00.920 --> 0:56:03.799
<v Speaker 1>to come back on and I'd love to be back

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<v Speaker 1>on here. So you just let me know. Man, done done,

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<v Speaker 1>see wells see in quarantine mh