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Speaker 1: heard radio podcast What's Up? Everybody? Back with another episode

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Speaker 1: of How Men Think? It's Gavin DeGraw. Unfortunately, my beautiful

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Speaker 1: co host, Brooks like is unavailable today to do the show.

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Speaker 1: But fortunately we have another beautiful, beautiful step in for

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Speaker 1: the day. My good friend Mr Wills Adams is here

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Speaker 1: and we're gonna go through and talk to some professionals

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Speaker 1: about what's going on in the world. Wellsi there, man, man,

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Speaker 1: thanks for having me. What in the hell could Brooks

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Speaker 1: be doing? Right? No one has anything to do right now.

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Speaker 1: I have no idea, but apparently during the gigantic worldwide

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Speaker 1: pause of action, Brooks has a very busy schedule and

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Speaker 1: can no longer be here with us today. Well good

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Speaker 1: for him, and I'm glad someone's making some money out there.

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Speaker 1: I guess he must be working on the cure. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well good, hurry up because I'm getting a little uh

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Speaker 1: stir crazy. But thank you so much for be on

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Speaker 1: the show. How are you now? I haven't seen you

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Speaker 1: sense man and Pebble Beach for the uh, the A,

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Speaker 1: T and T pro and how you been man? Been great? Man,

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Speaker 1: been great? And then not so great because this whole

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna see anybody for quite some time, except

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Speaker 1: unless I have to go to the grocery store. Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: It is Nashville, bananas. Is Nashville completely shut down? Like

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Speaker 1: Los Angeles is a ghost town right now? Oh? Man,

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Speaker 1: I forget about it. It's crazy. I mean, usually if

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Speaker 1: out taking a a little loper. Yeah. Well, we're definitely

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Speaker 1: raising We're living in some weird times, man, And I

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Speaker 1: think this show is going to be helpful for a

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Speaker 1: lot of people out there feeling the same thing that

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Speaker 1: this situation coming up in a little bit we're gonna

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Speaker 1: talk to Dr abe Um. I mean this guy is

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Speaker 1: ask him all those questions, um that you probably have yourself,

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Speaker 1: and then very excited, a little bit later, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: have Candice Cameron. You know her from DJ from Full House,

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Speaker 1: and Cannis Cameron are putting on this thing called Hope Rising,

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Speaker 1: which is basically just raising money um for the people

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Speaker 1: trying to get this pandemic behind us. We're gonna find

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Speaker 1: we're gonna have Dr Vivan. She is the doctor of

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Speaker 1: So for all of you, uh you know, crazy cool

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Speaker 1: shouldn't do that. I'm very excited to be guest hosting

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Speaker 1: this episode of How Men Think. Um Man, We're lucky

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Speaker 1: to have you, man, lucky to have you. Let's take

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Speaker 1: a quick break and when we come back, let's talk

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Speaker 1: to dr Ab. Yeah, perfectly, let's get to it and

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Speaker 1: we are back on the How Many Think Podcast. Wells

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Speaker 1: bringing into bringing into the show right now, dr Abe

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Speaker 1: opposed to sick care. We've got a lot of questions,

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Speaker 1: Doc about this pandemic. Why does vaccine? That's a good question.

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Speaker 1: There's multiple steps that go into creating a vaccine. So

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Speaker 1: So essentially all laboratories are diverting their efforts from other

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Speaker 1: and then along with other inspirational messages and it's gonna

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Speaker 1: be a really fun, wonderful night and all the proceeds

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Speaker 1: are benefiting from Yeah, we're really excited about it. And

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Speaker 1: this one just feels different from everything else that's out there,

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Speaker 1: and I hope that people find a lot of encouragement

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Speaker 1: and strength and comfort watching the show. Well, let me

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Speaker 1: know if you want me to do a little guests

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Speaker 1: but I'm gonna pull out a little song for you.

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Speaker 1: Might be the Sooiler House theme song. I love it.

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Speaker 1: I can do that. Um uh. I wanted to talk

436
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Speaker 1: to you, like, if full House was a real place,

437
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Speaker 1: how do you think the Tanner family would be dealing

438
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Speaker 1: with this? I love? This question? Is ever question I've

439
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Speaker 1: ever heard. Well, wait, are you telling me that? Am

440
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Speaker 1: I living in fantasy Leanna or something? I thought it was.

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Speaker 1: I'm not actually d J Tiana all the time. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I guess it makes sense. It's a reality show. I

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Speaker 1: like it much better that one. See. Um So, So

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Speaker 1: to answer your question, which is a funny one actually,

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Speaker 1: other than my own home, if I were to be

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Speaker 1: quarantined anywhere else, I'd want to be quarantined in the

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Speaker 1: full House House with all the full House and Fuller

448
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Speaker 1: House people. Because it's a wild and crazy group. And uh,

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Speaker 1: we know that everything would be completely organized and sanitary

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Speaker 1: and just infested with Between Danny and Er and DJ Tanner, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we would be good to go. Like what character would

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Speaker 1: thrive in this situation and what character would lose it

453
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Speaker 1: the quickest? Um? DJ Tanner would thrive because she is

454
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Speaker 1: a perfectionist and she loves planning everyone's life, so she

455
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: would be like in heaven planning what everyone's gonna do

456
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Speaker 1: every single day, every minute of every hour. And um,

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Speaker 1: I think the probably like I think the kids. The

458
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Speaker 1: kids are just gonna lose it. That's it, all the kids,

459
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Speaker 1: because who wants to be with an over you know,

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Speaker 1: an over perfectionist parents. I couldn't agree more. Hey do

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Speaker 1: you Wand if I ask you another question about about

462
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Speaker 1: college in your other real life? Yes, um, when they

463
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Speaker 1: send the kids home from school because of the pandemic, right, Um,

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Speaker 1: as a parent, what is your perspective on that of

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Speaker 1: you know, paying for tuition and things like that. Are

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Speaker 1: you expected to still continue to pay the full the

467
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Speaker 1: full price? There is there some sort of refund or

468
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Speaker 1: is there some sort of of of you know, a

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Speaker 1: payment sort of adjustment due to the fact that this

470
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Speaker 1: thing has happened during the school year. It's a it's

471
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Speaker 1: a great question. It's interesting. My kids actually are going

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Speaker 1: to school online. They're getting their degrees online on online college.

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Speaker 1: So for that there there's there's no refund needed because

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Speaker 1: they're doing it on their computer anyway. Although you know

475
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Speaker 1: with Sun with Hockey, who is in high school ability

476
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 1: with a family. He's home now, but they are refunding

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Speaker 1: money for the end of the school year that they

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Speaker 1: haven't been able to fulfill. And I think that's reasonable

479
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Speaker 1: and responsible, and especially if you know you are being

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Speaker 1: housed on college campuses and you're not any more. I

481
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 1: absolutely think that refunds should be given right now. It's

482
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Speaker 1: interesting you mentioned the online thing because I saw a

483
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Speaker 1: projection that ten of universities in the United States are

484
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Speaker 1: going to shut down permanently, not just because of how

485
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Speaker 1: they're affected immediately due to the impact of the virus,

486
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Speaker 1: but but because so many students are going to see

487
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Speaker 1: that they can get the same the same criteria online

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Speaker 1: rather than paying a fee to go to an actual campus.

489
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Speaker 1: And there's so many ways that they can essentially get

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Speaker 1: their you know, their their validation. I found that fascinating.

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Speaker 1: It is fascinating while to shut down permanently. Um, it

492
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 1: is interesting. And that was a big discussion and reason

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Speaker 1: why my son wanted to get his degree online. He's

494
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Speaker 1: a smarting pants, you know, he's like self motivated, diligent student.

495
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Speaker 1: And he was like, he didn't even want the college

496
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Speaker 1: experience in the sense of all the extracurricular activities. He

497
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: was like, I want to work. I want to have

498
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: a full time job, so I'm going to do my

499
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Speaker 1: school online. And I He's like, I think more productive

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Speaker 1: without actually living on campus. But you know, it does

501
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 1: take a specific personality to do that because you have

502
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Speaker 1: to be self motivated, like one of my other kids.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that that would happen right right different persons.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to I wanted to ask a little bit

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Speaker 1: more about the the benefit Hope rising. Um. You mentioned

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Speaker 1: that a portion of the of the proceeds for the

507
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Speaker 1: event are going to Samaritan's Purse or Samaritans. Well, I

508
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 1: don't know what what is that? So Samaritans Samaritans Purse

509
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 1: has been an organization that's been around for a very

510
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 1: long time, but they literally are boots on the ground

511
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Speaker 1: right now. In New York City. They've got the big

512
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Speaker 1: white tents in the middle of Central Park. Uh, they

513
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 1: have much hospitals and they I mean, they just do

514
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 1: work all over the world. And you know they're they

515
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 1: also have other mobile hospitals and hotspots where it's needed.

516
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Speaker 1: So they're actively helping the people that are dealing with

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Speaker 1: COVID nineteen. And but they do it all in Jesus name.

518
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Speaker 1: And as we produced Hope Rising, these this is the

519
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Speaker 1: faith community coming together. This isn't about a particular denomination.

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00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 1: It's not about politics. It's just about people of faith

521
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 1: in general coming together. And so it was important for

522
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Speaker 1: us to pick a charity that was also giving God glory.

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00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 1: So how do you how do you do they pay

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00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: to go to Hope Rising? Um, they donate on demo?

525
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 1: How does it work? Yeah? You you please know that

526
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 1: you can watch Hope Rising for free. All of us

527
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 1: did it for free. We've produced it for free. Every

528
00:32:56,160 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: artist is singing from their home. They are giving us

529
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 1: everything for free. So no one is profiting one penny

530
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 1: from this event. We all did it out of the

531
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Speaker 1: goodness of our knowing that the world needs hope, and

532
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: so we are When you watch it. Thank you when

533
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 1: you do watch it, if you feel led to give

534
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 1: Samaritan's purse, will have the information on the website on

535
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 1: Hope Rising dot Live throughout the show or you know,

536
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 1: when you're watching it or online just through the website.

537
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: And uh, it's totally up just doing what we can

538
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 1: and isn't Franklin Graham also affiliated with that particular organization.

539
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Speaker 1: He is Franklin Graham, dost know. I mean he's he's

540
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Speaker 1: a wonderful person, best known as Billy Grandson. So you

541
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 1: guys can he's affiliated with Samaritans person. You know, they

542
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 1: just do such a great job. Yeah, this is such

543
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 1: a cool thing Hope Rising dot Live. It's coming up

544
00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 1: on Sunday, April nineteen pm Easter and five pm over

545
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 1: here on the West Coast. You and your brother Kirk

546
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: are putting this thing on such a great idea because

547
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:11,840
Speaker 1: we're all like, we're all looking to like help, but

548
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 1: we don't know how to do it. And I think

549
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,319
Speaker 1: it's awesome that you were able to do, you know,

550
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: use your voice and uh and put this together. So

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00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:22,879
Speaker 1: thank you so much for that. Thank you, I really

552
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 1: appreciate it. And fined to just say one one last thing,

553
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,840
Speaker 1: because it's truly a grassroots effort on our part to

554
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: get the word out. We actually had had a network

555
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,879
Speaker 1: secured to air this on Easter and they pulled out

556
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 1: three days before because of the faith content, which kind

557
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 1: of is mind blowing to me. So we were very

558
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:47,319
Speaker 1: happy to Facebook Live jumped on board. But we're just

559
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 1: asking everyone to please spread the word, share it that

560
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 1: this is going to be on because even if you're

561
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 1: not a person of faith, if you just have an

562
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:57,279
Speaker 1: inkling of it, but you are questioning what's going on

563
00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:00,120
Speaker 1: in the world, I promise you you are going to

564
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 1: be given hope by watching you this this live event

565
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,319
Speaker 1: on Sunday. It's great. Well, thank thank you so much.

566
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:08,279
Speaker 1: We love what you're doing and we think it's a

567
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 1: great idea and it's a it's a wonderful cost. So

568
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 1: thank you for that. Thank you so much, guys, I

569
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Speaker 1: appreciate it. Thank you. Now for house same song. Okay,

570
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Speaker 1: are you going We're gonna do the empty house? Okay,

571
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Speaker 1: the house? What the millman? The boy? Even now, here's

572
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: the thing that song and then you have it's a

573
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:44,320
Speaker 1: rare condition in this day and age, reading the good

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Speaker 1: news on the newspaper page. By the way, Big t

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Speaker 1: G I f fan over here. Just gonna say it,

576
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 1: bucket list thing to get to talk to you, So

577
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 1: thank you so much for making that possibility. Guys, this

578
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,040
Speaker 1: is going to go down. Is like the best of

579
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 1: you of the week for sure. We love it. We

580
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 1: love it. Thanks, guys, have a good one all right,

581
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 1: back on how men think. Very excited for our next

582
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 1: guest because well, I've got a lot of questions for her.

583
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 1: Uh into the show. We have Dr Viv, Dr Viv,

584
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:39,279
Speaker 1: how are you hi? Thanks so much for coming on

585
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 1: the show. Um, I'm excited to talk to you because

586
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:48,959
Speaker 1: I am currently quarantining with my fiance and I have questions. Well,

587
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 1: congrats on being engaged. Well we'll see if we make

588
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 1: it through this thing. I'll be honest with you. So yeah,

589
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 1: as I said, we saw that you reached out to

590
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:04,280
Speaker 1: us on Instagram and said that you're working double time

591
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 1: helping couples deal with new problems. So what is the

592
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 1: most common new problem that you're seeing right now? Trying

593
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,880
Speaker 1: to figure out a balance between what is too much

594
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: time together and what isn't enough time together. It's it's

595
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 1: like everybody has this gauge right now of okay, what

596
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 1: do we do with this time? It's a gift, but

597
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 1: it's also pressure. And then if they just want to

598
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,839
Speaker 1: lounge around, are they judging each other? Are they think,

599
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:33,760
Speaker 1: you know, we should be having sex all the time,

600
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 1: We should be communicating, we should be connecting. And that's

601
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 1: the part that I think people need to give you

602
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: to there, some grace, to give you to this, some leeway.

603
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:47,399
Speaker 1: There's no right way to quarantine. Is there a right

604
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: way to have sex in a hazmat suit? Well, the

605
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 1: rug round rubber probably isn't going to go very well

606
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,759
Speaker 1: hold there, But yeah, no, I think that it's really

607
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,760
Speaker 1: partant for everyone to make sure that they are checking

608
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 1: in with themselves more. Now, Um, we can learn a

609
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:08,839
Speaker 1: whole lot about ourselves and what makes us tick. And

610
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 1: that's all information that's really valuable to our Beyonce's partners,

611
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 1: potential partners in the future. I mean, obviously there's there's

612
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:24,320
Speaker 1: this is causing a lot of strain and stress on relationships. Um,

613
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 1: what good is coming out of this though? Like, what

614
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 1: are the positives that people maybe aren't even realizing but

615
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,840
Speaker 1: are you know, right under their noses. I think the

616
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 1: good that's coming out of this in relationships is that

617
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 1: people are realizing that they can just to be together.

618
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 1: They don't have to constantly have romance um every time

619
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:48,360
Speaker 1: they're together, they don't constantly have to do anything. To

620
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: know that you can rely on your partner, but have

621
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: it be from afar is really important. But then to

622
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 1: also be able to say, hey, having us be just

623
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 1: comfortable next to each other, that's huge. To be able

624
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,880
Speaker 1: to just chill with someone and like it and not

625
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,440
Speaker 1: be judgy and not be an each of the spaces

626
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:12,240
Speaker 1: about it. I think that that's huge. So it's okay

627
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 1: to be like, hey, I don't want to watch RuPaul's

628
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:17,799
Speaker 1: drag Race with you again, so I'm gonna go to

629
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:22,919
Speaker 1: a different room and watch reruns of The Masters. Yes,

630
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:25,479
Speaker 1: if you have the luxury to be able to say,

631
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:29,320
Speaker 1: I want to go watch Married at First Sight, like tonight,

632
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 1: it's decision day, Gotta watch it. Um. If you have

633
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 1: the luxury to be able to go and have your

634
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:38,239
Speaker 1: own space somewhere, take it and then do what a

635
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 1: lot of people are starting to do in switch up

636
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 1: locations every day. You don't claim the dining room as

637
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 1: your own, and then that's it. Um, you want to

638
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:48,839
Speaker 1: make sure to switch things up a bit, that's just

639
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: to keep your sanity. I mean, the truth is, we're

640
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,839
Speaker 1: all just trying to stay samee through this. We're all

641
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 1: trying to do our best to flatten the curve and

642
00:39:56,440 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 1: to not have this go on forever. And we we've

643
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,440
Speaker 1: never been through this before. So if you're doing it

644
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:05,360
Speaker 1: in a way that is as stress free as possible,

645
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,560
Speaker 1: you're doing it right. You should encourage that. What's an

646
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 1: appropriate amount of sex you should be having. I'm a

647
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 1: big fan of twice a week having some sort of

648
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 1: sexual encounter. When people say sex, they tend to mean intercourse,

649
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: but you know, there's a lot of other fun things

650
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 1: you can be doing, and variety is the spice of life.

651
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 1: And all couples to try to do something sexual or

652
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:33,920
Speaker 1: sexy together at least twice a week. So also at

653
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 1: least twice a week. Yeah, I mean, if you if

654
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,800
Speaker 1: you have the drive to do more, and that's something

655
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: that both of you are on the same cage about,

656
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 1: especially right now. I put out like a execty self

657
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 1: isolation challenge, and I challenged my couples to the seven

658
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 1: different out of the fifteen that I've posted to do

659
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 1: seven different of these challenges. If you want to knock

660
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 1: those out in a week, that's fine. Well, we don't

661
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 1: know how long we're going to be doing it. To

662
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 1: take your time, make sure you're not like overdoing it.

663
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 1: And again, you don't want to create pressure. This is

664
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:09,319
Speaker 1: something where I just try to chill out as much

665
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: as you can. Dress is not sexy, and there's a

666
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 1: lot of things that are worth being stressed about right now.

667
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:20,840
Speaker 1: Whether or not you're connecting on a daily basis in

668
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 1: a quality way, in a sexy way all day long

669
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 1: is not one of them. We don't need to put

670
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 1: that on ourselves right now. Have you ever told a

671
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: couple that they need to experiment more and then they

672
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:35,319
Speaker 1: come back to you and tell you what they did

673
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: and you think gross? Gross? Have I had a gross moment? Well,

674
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:49,839
Speaker 1: let me think. I probably have thought at some point like,

675
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: oh okay, I would have never thought that that would

676
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,399
Speaker 1: turn someone on. But I don't know that I've had

677
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 1: a gross um I felt like you've got something on

678
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 1: the line. Have you, ever, as a relationship doctor, thought

679
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 1: sometimes no relationship is the best relationship at all. Oh,

680
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 1: for sure, if you can't be healthy. If you can't

681
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:19,799
Speaker 1: be respectful, if you can't be confident enough to be

682
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:22,360
Speaker 1: able to just be you, then it's probably not the

683
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 1: relationship for you. But I do believe that there's probably

684
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 1: a different relationship out there that will enhance who you are,

685
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: that will highlight all of the wonderful things that you bring. Now,

686
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: if you continue to be in relationships that do not

687
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 1: feel good to you, you're probably the common factor, right,

688
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 1: So it's important to make sure that you're looking within yourself,

689
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 1: and now is the perfect time to do that, especially

690
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 1: if you're alone in isolation. This is your chance to

691
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 1: really figure out do you like? I always ask people

692
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: would you want you? And if the answer is no,

693
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 1: like that's a tough thing to come to. But if

694
00:42:58,000 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 1: the answer is no, this is the perfect time to

695
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:01,720
Speaker 1: work on that. And there's lots of big ways online,

696
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:05,319
Speaker 1: especially if you're following me um to figure out how

697
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:07,439
Speaker 1: to get to a place where you are attractive, where

698
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 1: you are attached, not just in your online The problem

699
00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 1: is is that quarantine, the quarantine version of me is disgusting.

700
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 1: I have it showered in a couple of days. Okay,

701
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 1: you're right, and we're all kind of struggling with that

702
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 1: right now, we're like that quarantine fiftine is there and

703
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 1: maybe our hygiene isn't like on point. Um, but you

704
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 1: have to know that there's an end to that, right

705
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:36,360
Speaker 1: Like you have to know that you're gonna have to

706
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:39,880
Speaker 1: start cutting those toails soon or else your fiance is

707
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 1: going to be like, you need to sleep in another bed. Yeah.

708
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:45,839
Speaker 1: I mean, if you're aware of it, and you're aware

709
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 1: that you're being gross right now, we've got to make

710
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:49,759
Speaker 1: sure that you're on top of that because when we're

711
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 1: out in the same worlds apply. Yeah, so sorry, go

712
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 1: for it. I'll just say, what what if it's been

713
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 1: so long since you cared that you don't even remember

714
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 1: where your toothbrush is? Okay, you're gonna have to quarantine

715
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 1: a little longer than everybody else. Um, somebody needs to

716
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 1: check on him right now, go check onto. You have

717
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 1: another question, doc, Doc. Are you in a relationship right now?

718
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:22,760
Speaker 1: Oh for sure. I've been married to my husband's almost

719
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 1: thirteen years now. I'm hoping we don't have to celebrate

720
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: in quarantine, but yeah, I've my So, when you guys

721
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 1: argue about something in the relationship, do you assume you're right,

722
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:40,759
Speaker 1: because you're the professional. I always assume that I'm right,

723
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 1: but do I express that. No, No, I The truth

724
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 1: is he has some insights just I mean, we're an

725
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 1: opposite text couple, so he has some insights into um,

726
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 1: just the way that men look at things a little

727
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:58,320
Speaker 1: bit different. Of course, I'm learning from podcasts as well,

728
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:00,839
Speaker 1: but I think it's always a important to know that

729
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 1: his his viewpoint is valid. It's just up to me

730
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 1: to figure out with my skills, how to make sure

731
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 1: that I'm listening to him and and that we're getting

732
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 1: to the the part, you know, the goal, which is

733
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 1: to understand each other better and then change our behavior

734
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:20,800
Speaker 1: to help each other feel like our needs to being met. Um.

735
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 1: But it's funny because most people ask him what it's

736
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 1: like to be married to a relationship therapist, and he

737
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 1: said that the main thing is that we tend to

738
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 1: see things from a mile away, like we don't let

739
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 1: things just sweep under the rug and lets because we

740
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:36,839
Speaker 1: know I see it every day, and you know, him,

741
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 1: having been with me for so long, he knows that

742
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 1: things can go really bad, very rickly. So we want

743
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 1: to make sure that we're always this kind of like

744
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 1: on top of things and talk about things immediately versus

745
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:51,320
Speaker 1: waiting a week, month, years. I wanted to ask a

746
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 1: question because obviously you're getting a lot of work for

747
00:45:54,280 --> 00:46:00,359
Speaker 1: people who are in relationships quarantining together, um, But there's

748
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 1: a whole another group of people who are single during

749
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 1: this quarantine situation. How are they dealing with trying to,

750
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 1: you know, go on I guess you go on like

751
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 1: face FaceTime dates or something like. I don't even know

752
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:19,399
Speaker 1: process looks like. But do you have any advice for

753
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 1: those people out there? Yeah? I mean they are. They

754
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 1: are doing these virtual dates, um, which it's not all

755
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:31,799
Speaker 1: that different than a real in person date because you're

756
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,400
Speaker 1: still hopefully talking about the same things that you would.

757
00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 1: You would present yourself. You'll probably have to rush your teeth, um,

758
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:41,399
Speaker 1: just because there might be stuff in them, but like

759
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:44,319
Speaker 1: you want to make sure that you are presenting your

760
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:46,760
Speaker 1: best self now. It's funny when I was getting ready

761
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 1: for this and I just like habitually put perfume on,

762
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:52,719
Speaker 1: so just say, oh no, I smelled really good. But

763
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 1: it's like the same, you gotta put this, You've gotta

764
00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: put your best self out there. They're all circumstances. I

765
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 1: think it's important to be mindful of what you look

766
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 1: like and how you are perceived by others. That said,

767
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 1: you don't want it to be fake. So please don't

768
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 1: be using filters when you're doing these virtual dating Please

769
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 1: don't use virtual backgrounds to show that you're in like

770
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 1: an amazing lot when you're not that. I mean, don't

771
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: pit people out, don't turn this around into a fake thing.

772
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 1: But to get the ball rolling, to get some you know,

773
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:28,279
Speaker 1: some dates out there while you're going through this. Sup Again,

774
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 1: I don't know how long this is going to be,

775
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:31,879
Speaker 1: and some people really want to be in love get

776
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 1: out there now. So question, um, do you do you

777
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 1: have single clients? Do you want to start dating somebody?

778
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 1: The vast majority of my clients are in relationships, but

779
00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 1: the ones who aren't have either come out of a

780
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 1: breakup and want to learn about what could have happened differently,

781
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 1: or they want to make sure that if that they

782
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 1: don't go into like the next dating scene too soon.

783
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 1: Maybe they're not ready for that. Or it's people who

784
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 1: have been out of the game for a long time

785
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 1: and just want to make sure that they're ready to

786
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 1: get out there and know how to date, how to

787
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 1: what love is, what their goals are for relationships, because

788
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 1: a lot of people don't think about that. All they

789
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 1: think about is I want to be coupled up. I

790
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 1: want to be carried up with someone, but they don't

791
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 1: really know why. It's more like, what's because everybody does that? Well, Now,

792
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:28,360
Speaker 1: if you don't know why you're doing something, it's probably

793
00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 1: not going to be within your control to guide it

794
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 1: and to fix it if it goes astray. Right, What

795
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:40,800
Speaker 1: is the difference between role playing the fine line between

796
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 1: role playing and realizing someone just wants to be with

797
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 1: someone else. Yeah, I think it's how consistent it is.

798
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 1: If you, um, if you're feeling like you're putting on

799
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: a persona or you think that this person isn't going

800
00:48:56,840 --> 00:49:01,080
Speaker 1: to like what you really think, then you're just setting

801
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 1: yourself up for the end of the relationship is going

802
00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 1: to happen if you feel like you're constantly working at something.

803
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:13,360
Speaker 1: I know. We all say relationships are hard work, their work,

804
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:15,720
Speaker 1: and you have to do it forever. There's a difference

805
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 1: between working through communication, working through a problem, versus working

806
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 1: through personality differences, and that's something that a lot of

807
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 1: people do end up coming into therapy to figure out

808
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 1: like is this incompatibility something that we can work through

809
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: or is this something that is going to continue to

810
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 1: be around the corner all the time? Right right? I

811
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,760
Speaker 1: wanted to ask you about Married at First Sight because

812
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 1: obviously everyone is binging everything right now and you are

813
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 1: the certified sex therapist and expert on that show. Tell

814
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:56,839
Speaker 1: us about that show. So Married at First Site it's

815
00:49:57,120 --> 00:50:01,840
Speaker 1: it's again this very radical social experiment. We pick five

816
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 1: and the five couples out of hundreds of thousands of applicans,

817
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:11,959
Speaker 1: hundreds of people, thousands of applications, and what we do

818
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:14,759
Speaker 1: is based off of what we see on paper and

819
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:18,720
Speaker 1: who we meet in person. Um. We also be background checks,

820
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 1: We do uh psychological evaluations, multiple rounds of that, and

821
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:26,239
Speaker 1: based off of the information that we gather, we put

822
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:29,799
Speaker 1: together these five couples and they meet and marry at

823
00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 1: the altar, and then we follow them for eight weeks.

824
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:36,719
Speaker 1: We help them, um, I mean, we don't hold their

825
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 1: hands through it, because we want them to really be themselves,

826
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 1: like what we're talking about. We want them to be

827
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:44,799
Speaker 1: themselves that at the end of the eight weeks they

828
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 1: can decide whether they want to remain married. Or get

829
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:52,360
Speaker 1: a divorce, and it's um, I mean, it's it's always

830
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 1: mind blowing what you can learn from watching two strangers

831
00:50:56,440 --> 00:51:01,440
Speaker 1: try to be married, like literally within it um. And

832
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 1: I think that's what people are really attracted to when

833
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 1: it comes to the show, is the idea that these

834
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:10,839
Speaker 1: people are jumping into this marriage club without ever having

835
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:14,239
Speaker 1: been there, without um, maybe sometimes even having good role

836
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:17,439
Speaker 1: models about what marriage is. So some people need more

837
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:20,359
Speaker 1: help than others when it comes to being married, and

838
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 1: we just don't. We don't really know what's going to

839
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:26,960
Speaker 1: happen until it'squality done. Where can people watch it? It's

840
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 1: on Lifetime. Tonight is our Decision Day, which is not

841
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:33,200
Speaker 1: our finale. Next week is our finale, but it's on

842
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:39,280
Speaker 1: Lifetime Network and it shows at eight pm Eastern times,

843
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:42,239
Speaker 1: so I hope everyone's going to tune in. I'm so

844
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 1: excited we are filming. We filmed this one in Washington,

845
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:49,239
Speaker 1: d C. It's an interesting group, all right. I don't

846
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:51,520
Speaker 1: know if they told you, but I came from the

847
00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 1: Bachelorette and the Bachelor in Paradise World. So psych evaluation

848
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:03,920
Speaker 1: six times, and uh, it's weird. It's a very weird.

849
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:10,239
Speaker 1: Test questions that's wonderful. Your fiance should be thrilled. I know,

850
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Speaker 1: it's very It's very funny. Every show I've done, I've

851
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,160
Speaker 1: you know, they you go and talk to the therapist

852
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 1: after the show. UM, and I always say, hey, am

853
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 1: I more or less crazy than the last time I

854
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 1: took the test? That's interesting that most people haven't taken

855
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 1: six of you. So there's got to be some kind

856
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 1: of study we can do with you. Yeah, getting worse.

857
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:40,919
Speaker 1: I think I'm the Bachelor impaired show, which is different. Well,

858
00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 1: I can help. I'll try to do what I can,

859
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:44,960
Speaker 1: especially right now. I mean, come on, let's get you

860
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:48,560
Speaker 1: set up for when we's all let loose. Speaking of

861
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 1: people find out more about you and and like reach

862
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 1: out to and stuff. Yeah. Well, my website is Dr

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Speaker 1: Viviana d O C T O R v I V

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Speaker 1: I A and a dot com. I'm Oliver social media

865
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:03,840
Speaker 1: with Dr Brivianna. I just want to help people and

866
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:06,759
Speaker 1: who want to find love or in love want to

867
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: keep their love. That's my thing and um intimating the

868
00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 1: huge part of that. So lots of fun ways to

869
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 1: do that online. That's great. Well, Dr viv thanks so

870
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 1: much for taking the time. And uh and talking to

871
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:25,480
Speaker 1: us during this these uh, these weird these weird times.

872
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 1: We really appreciate it. And everyone don't forget to watch

873
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 1: Married at First Sight on Lifetime. Thank you, y'all, Stay

874
00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 1: safe and stay sane. Thanks, Thanks Doc, Thanks Gavin, Thanks

875
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 1: so much for letting me be on your show today.

876
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 1: This has been a lot of fun. You're not just

877
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 1: on the show, bro, you're running this show. Well, I

878
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:57,560
Speaker 1: gotta say, Um, one of the most popular episodes of

879
00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: my podcast, The Wells Cast, is the one where you

880
00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:04,280
Speaker 1: are the guest of honor. And so if anyone wants

881
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:11,879
Speaker 1: to I'm serious, people love that interview, UM. And I

882
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 1: constantly am getting like d ms about how awesome UM

883
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 1: that episode was. And so I think maybe I'm at

884
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 1: to have you on again. Maybe we'll like, let I

885
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 1: don't know, the world settled back. I'd love you, man,

886
00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 1: I'd love I'd love to Well. You run a great interview, man.

887
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 1: You know you're just you're very Sincerian event and you

888
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:36,000
Speaker 1: know you uh, you just tap in and you're you're

889
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 1: good at it. You're just natural, very very very natural

890
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 1: at it. Well. I've been up fan of yours for

891
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:45,799
Speaker 1: a long time and I mean this sounds saying you're

892
00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:49,319
Speaker 1: put your posting videos on Instagram and stuff of you

893
00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:54,320
Speaker 1: performing and stuff. And it's so nice to be able

894
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 1: to kind of like during this these weird times check

895
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:00,239
Speaker 1: out and you know, just kind of enjoy a ways

896
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 1: some of your music on Instagram. Thank you. I appreciate that. Man.

897
00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 1: I need that because all these vine dances are what

898
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 1: have TikTok dancer. I'm losing my mind. I need some

899
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Speaker 1: actual talents. So thank you for that. Well, I'm upset

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Speaker 1: you say that because I was about to release my

901
00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:24,759
Speaker 1: um my dance video and now I think maybe I'll

902
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:26,840
Speaker 1: pull it because I was gonna. I wanted you to

903
00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:32,239
Speaker 1: see my new moves I've been working on. Yeah, it's

904
00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:36,839
Speaker 1: really hot. It's really hot quarantine pole dance. Yeah, I'm right,

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Speaker 1: I'm excited. You should do it. Just do the TikTok

906
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 1: dance and I'll be supportive of it. I thank you

907
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:46,880
Speaker 1: means a lot, means a lot um all right, buddy,

908
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 1: Well thanks for letting me be up today and be

909
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 1: safe out there. Yeah? Are you kidding me? Man? You

910
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 1: ran it, dude, you took it to you took it

911
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:57,200
Speaker 1: to a new level. Man, and let's let's connect. Man,

912
00:55:57,280 --> 00:56:00,880
Speaker 1: let's do another show anytime, any time, dude. I'd love

913
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:03,799
Speaker 1: to come back on and I'd love to be back

914
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 1: on here. So you just let me know. Man, done done,

915
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Speaker 1: see wells see in quarantine mh