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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Jamie,

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Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: How are you hey, good guys, how are you doing

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Speaker 2: all right? Man?

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Speaker 1: What's going on with this woman? What's going on with

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Speaker 1: what is it with me? And like some sort of

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Speaker 1: fake New York accents? I have even been there recently.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what that's about. What's going on

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Speaker 1: with you? In Cassandra? I got to know how you met,

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Speaker 1: tell us about any dates you've been on, and then

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Speaker 1: what's going on now?

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Speaker 2: Where the problem is? Sure? Basically, yeah, I want help

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Speaker 2: figure out what happened with Cassandra.

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Speaker 3: We met on we went on the apps, exchange numbers, like.

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Speaker 4: We hit it off, started texting like a bunch.

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Speaker 2: I asked her off for drinks, and.

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Speaker 4: Man, she was even hotter in person, which is usually

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Speaker 4: not the case.

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Speaker 2: And I felt like we were viving. And now she's

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Speaker 2: ghosting me and I'm hoping we can reconnect.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I get that. So, yeah, she's more attractive

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Speaker 1: in person. You had a great time. You're excited about

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Speaker 1: where things were going, you know, after the date, you thought,

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Speaker 1: you know, everything was flowing. The conversation was good and

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Speaker 1: chemistry and all that. So so here you are. You

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Speaker 1: leave the date, You're like, great, I'm gonna text her

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Speaker 1: tomorrow or the next day or whatever, and I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: set up another date and we're gonna go out.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna have a great time.

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Speaker 1: Accept she you did that, and she hasn't responded to

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Speaker 1: you at all. Yep, huh okay, all right, well that's puzzling,

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Speaker 1: and that's where we come in. We're gonna play a song.

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Speaker 1: Come back, well call Cassandra.

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Speaker 2: Jamie.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone at the same time. And

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Speaker 1: the hope is that we can figure out what's going on,

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Speaker 1: straightened things out, and set you guys up on a

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Speaker 1: second date that we pay for.

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Speaker 2: All right, yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Let's see what happens next. Part two of waiting by

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Speaker 1: the phone. After the weekend, we're back in two minutes

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Speaker 1: on the Fred Show. Stay right here the weekend. He's

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Speaker 1: on the Fred Show. Good morning. Thanks for having us

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Speaker 1: on the radio. Live at anytime on the iHeart app

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Speaker 1: as well, search for the Fred Show and make us

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Speaker 1: a pre set.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. Hey Jamie, all right, welcome back.

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Speaker 1: Let's call kiss SAand you guys met out one of

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Speaker 1: the dating apps, and you went on a date that

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Speaker 1: you thought went really well tales oldest time, Paulina.

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Speaker 2: And yet you have.

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Speaker 1: Reached out since that day trying to plan date number two,

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Speaker 1: and Cassandra has not responded to you in any way.

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Speaker 1: You feel like you're being ghosted and you're puzzled, and

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Speaker 1: you want to know why.

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Speaker 2: Yep, exactly, all right, let's call her now. Good luck, Jamie.

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Speaker 2: Thank you guys.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi is this Cassandra. Yes, hey, Cassandra, good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,

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Speaker 1: the Morning radio Show, and I have to tell you

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Speaker 1: that we are on the radio right now. I would

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Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Can we

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Speaker 1: ch out for just a couple of minutes about something?

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Speaker 1: You can hang up anytime.

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Speaker 2: Sure. What's the occasion? Well, thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: The occasion, you say, Well, it's about a guy named

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Speaker 1: Jamie who reached out to us. I guess you guys

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Speaker 1: recently met on a dating app and went on a date.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember Jamie? I hope h I remember Jamie. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: see that right there. You know, I'm a professional. We've

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Speaker 1: all been doing this for a long time. And when

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Speaker 1: I get there. Ah, I know something's not something is

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Speaker 1: a miss? But what happened with this guy? Because, Cassandra,

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Speaker 1: he reached out to you us, he had nice things

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Speaker 1: to say about you. He said you were better looking

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Speaker 1: in person than your pictures and that he was into

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Speaker 1: you and was you know, really enjoyed the date, was

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Speaker 1: hoping to see you again.

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Speaker 2: But he says he can't get a hold of you.

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Speaker 1: And it sounds like there's a story there always is.

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Speaker 4: Jamie doesn't know why.

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Speaker 2: I'm ghosting him. They never do, They never do, Cassandra,

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Speaker 2: So what happened?

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Speaker 4: Oh gosh, all right, so.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure what you know? We know what we

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Speaker 1: We know that he thought you were good looking and

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Speaker 1: he had a good time and he's surprised he can't

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Speaker 2: Oh boy.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So Jamie, I we met on the apps and

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Speaker 3: he invited me out to a bar to get drinks

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Speaker 3: and I did go, and after a couple of the drinks.

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Speaker 4: He told me that he left his wallet in his

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Speaker 2: That he could pay.

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Speaker 3: Now, I you know, I thought, maybe, okay, he's.

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Speaker 4: Telling me a story. So that he can go to

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Speaker 4: going through all these different scenarios in my head as

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Speaker 4: a text from him and it's not anything like I imagined.

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Speaker 4: The text said, do you want to come out to

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Speaker 4: my car and hook up? I can put the.

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Speaker 2: Seeds down all the way?

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Speaker 4: Oh well at the bar, and he's out in his

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Speaker 1: Wow, go all the way? Huh, you can put him flat.

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Speaker 1: That's a nice feature. I'm not sure if I could

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Speaker 2: Actually.

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Speaker 1: So, by the way, the bill was never paid, right, Like,

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Speaker 1: a high school makeout or I mean, what is that?

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Speaker 2: What is that? Do I is that correct? I mean yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's like that. What a guy he was.

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Speaker 1: Wow, he was going to take care of you, all right.

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Speaker 1: So you were supposed to pay the bill and then

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Speaker 4: I guess that's what he thought.

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Speaker 2: I didn't end up doing it.

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Speaker 4: I was so shocked and caught off guard, and I

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Speaker 1: Pay the bill first, okay, and then if you want

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Speaker 1: to get you want to get cute, then I you know, I.

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Speaker 2: No, don't do that. Well, I mean.

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Speaker 1: Maybe not first date, but I've I've been on a

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Speaker 1: and like hook up right, Like that's hot, but like

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Speaker 1: I feel like this was this was a scheme to

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Speaker 1: not only get some but also to not pay, which

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Speaker 1: I don't like you to. But let me bring Jamie in.

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Speaker 1: I forgot to mention that Jamie's lurking. Not surprisingly, of

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Speaker 1: course he's lurking. He sounds like that's what you're into, Tamie.

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Speaker 1: What what are you doing? Man? Like?

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Speaker 2: What was what was the strategy here?

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Speaker 1: Not get a free date and get her to come

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Speaker 2: Wait?

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Speaker 3: Look, I don't think I was in the wrong.

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Speaker 2: I was being spontaneous.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, you could spontaneously pay the bill and then

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Speaker 1: spontaneously you can shoot your shot, I guess, but I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's a little early for that, don't you think. I

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Speaker 1: guess you don't, but everyone else seems to think.

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Speaker 2: I mean, no, just a no, like it's just a

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Speaker 2: human Well, I think you didn't have to go.

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Speaker 1: I think she kind of did say no, bro, Like

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Speaker 1: I think I think her not calling you ever again

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Speaker 1: is a no. I mean, Cassandra, are you into him otherwise?

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Speaker 1: Until he invited you for a little throwdown in.

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Speaker 4: The car, yeah, I mean the conversation was going well enough,

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Speaker 4: I'm sitting at the bar and now I've got to

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Speaker 2: Is there ever a world where that would have worked?

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Speaker 1: Like? Is there ever a world where a guy could

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Speaker 1: pull that off? So I'm trying to figure out, is

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Speaker 4: Oh gosh, I don't know if it would have ever

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Speaker 1: Now, Okay, Wow, So you were just being spontaneous, Jamie.

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Speaker 1: That's it. You were you were you were trying something new.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean people do this all the time. I

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Speaker 2: don't get what's.

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Speaker 1: Wrong, they jump the check and then they try and

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Speaker 1: get you to a high school makeout in your car

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Speaker 1: because hey, guys, the seeds go all the way flat.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. It sounds like it would

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Speaker 2: work on Jason, it would. Hey, the gay culture is

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Speaker 2: a whole different beast. Okay, well there are been times

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Speaker 2: you just look at somebody I was gonna there wouldn't

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Speaker 2: that's understood. There's a pre mike me, that is why.

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Speaker 1: But that's understood, right, Like, that's that's the culture. In

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Speaker 1: some cases, not all, of course, that was the culture

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Speaker 1: that you were involved, Like everybody kind of understood who

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Speaker 1: was about the point, But you weren't going on a

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Speaker 2: Like, I'm in the car. I took my pants off,

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Speaker 2: you know, like a weird It's weird. That's a car

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Speaker 2: in three to five minutes, however long it takes me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, Jamie, it sounds like Jason's open to it

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Speaker 1: if if you, you know, if you're interested in that, Jamie.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know, Cassandra, I'll ask since we called

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Speaker 1: to try and you know, mend things with you. Would

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Speaker 1: you like to go out with him again? We'll pay

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Speaker 1: for it, So that's problem is solved.

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Speaker 3: Oh gosh, I'm going to say I'm good on this one.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate it though.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Jamie, any last final words or thoughts. No, I'm okay,

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Speaker 1: he's okay, okay, all right, Well there you go.

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Speaker 2: Surprise you forgot about that part.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, whatever, guys, Jamie Cassandra, thank you for your time.

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Speaker 1: Best of luck to both of you. The Entertainment Report

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Speaker 1: and thirteen hundred bucks Kiki in the Showdown five Questions,

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Speaker 1: both next French show back in Jewe