1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,240 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:10,719 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: and we could be reading your letter live on the 5 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: air bop, just like we're going to read this one 6 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: right here, right now, and you never know it could 7 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 1: be yours. 8 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 2: You never know it could be buckle love and hold 9 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 2: on tight. We got it for you here It is 10 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:26,319 Speaker 2: Strawberry Letter. 11 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject the jump off jumped on him. 12 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty two years old and I've 13 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:36,560 Speaker 1: been dating this guy for almost eight months and We've 14 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: had fun getting to know each other. He was honest 15 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 1: in the beginning and told me he had some loose 16 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 1: ends to tie up before we got serious, and I 17 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 1: appreciated that honesty. The fact that he didn't hide his 18 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 1: phone or turned his ringer off made me feel that 19 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: he was ready to be in a relationship with me, 20 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: so I didn't trip. We went all we went out 21 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,279 Speaker 1: all over town, and I stayed at his home all 22 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 1: of the time. The only thing that made me suspect 23 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: suspects he was up to something was a few nights 24 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 1: I couldn't reach him, but I let it go. I 25 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: invited him to visit my parents with me. My parents 26 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: live about two hours from us, so we went on 27 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:20,399 Speaker 1: an overnight trip to visit them. They cooked dinner for us, 28 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: and after dinner, my man and I went out to 29 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: a hookah spot to unwind. My boyfriend got a phone 30 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: call and walked away to take it. He got upset 31 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 1: and he was ready to go back to my parents' house. 32 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,479 Speaker 1: We got to his car and there was a car 33 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: blocking us in. He asked the car to move and 34 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 1: the lady flipped him off. I didn't think anything of it. 35 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 1: When we got to my parents' house, that same car 36 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 1: pulled up in the driveway. This same lady got out 37 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: and ran up and start started hitting on my man. 38 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: My dad heard the commotion and came outside to pull 39 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: her off my man. The lady said she's been seeing 40 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: my man for a few months and she followed us. 41 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: I was very embarrassed and reluctantly took him to the 42 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 1: er to get stitches. In her words, she told police, 43 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 1: says she knew she was the jump off, but she 44 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 1: fell in love with him and he wouldn't leave me 45 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:20,920 Speaker 1: for her. He said he got caught up slept with her, 46 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: but he wants me. Can I trust this man and 47 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 1: continue this relationship despite just what happened? What just happened, Well, 48 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: he certainly has no control over what crazy did. I mean, 49 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: she did that all on her own, gave him stitches 50 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: and all of that. But the crazy part is that 51 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 1: this really happened. I mean, she's fatal attraction crazy like 52 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: the movie. You do know that, right, And now she 53 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: knows where your parents live. She stalked you guys from 54 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: the restaurant, beat your man so badly that he needed stitches, 55 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 1: and she's only been seeing him for a few months. Well, 56 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 1: I'm sure your parents would tell you to run, and 57 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: I'm probably good. I'm gonna tell you the same thing. 58 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:06,399 Speaker 1: I mean, your safety is way more important. Even though 59 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 1: she didn't do anything to you. She just did it 60 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 1: to your man. But you don't want to wait around 61 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:14,399 Speaker 1: and see how crazy she really is. Again, I think 62 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 1: your safety is very important, And even if you were 63 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 1: to keep seeing him, you would always be looking over 64 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 1: your shoulder wondering if crazy could be lurking in a 65 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: corner somewhere. So you know, I'm going to say, it's 66 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 1: a no for me for you as far as this 67 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 1: relationship goes, because this woman is too crazy. She's just 68 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 1: too crazy. 69 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 3: Steve, Well, I don't have the letter in front of 70 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 3: me because of my whereabouts again, so we're going to 71 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 3: have to deal with this letter just a little bit differently. 72 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 2: The title of the letter again, Shirley. 73 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: Is the jump off jumped on him. 74 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 3: Steve jump Off jumped on him. The jump off didn't 75 00:03:55,920 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 3: jump on you. He didn't jump on you. His daddy 76 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 3: jumped on the jump off. It's just a lot of 77 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 3: jumping going on here. I appreciate it. It none to me 78 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 3: like a good old ass whooping type letter to deal with. 79 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 3: So I specialize in this because I have been jumped 80 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 3: on before by the jump off, the jumpy, and the jumper. Wow, 81 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:26,479 Speaker 3: I've had all three ass whoopers in my life, the jumper, 82 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 3: the jumpy, and the jump off, and then I ended 83 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 3: up as the jump. 84 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 2: So it's all all so relative here. 85 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 3: The wonderful thing about having a sixty five year old 86 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 3: famous radio show holds with means. 87 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 2: It means that he has had a full life. 88 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 3: The beauty of the Steve Harvey Morning shows that I 89 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:57,719 Speaker 3: don't mind being transparent in my full life. 90 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 2: Now can I tell everything? 91 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 3: Ain't absolutely not, but will I share with you a lot? 92 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 3: Of course it makes for more interesting radio. I happen 93 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:13,039 Speaker 3: to be one of the most compelling radio personalities on 94 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 3: radio today. The Steve Harvey Marting Shaw is more compelling 95 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 3: than most shows because I don't really care about the 96 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 3: damn issues more than I care about. 97 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 2: Myself issues and make them about me. 98 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 3: That way you can understand from a personal standpoint. 99 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 2: Wise, this letter right here is very easy for me 100 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 2: to do. 101 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:41,799 Speaker 3: I'm gonna wait the second half to give you resolution, 102 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:44,600 Speaker 3: but I'm just giving you a little strawberry letter history here. 103 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 3: The jump off jumped on him. Well, all I can 104 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 3: see you glad she didn't get the r ass. 105 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:59,720 Speaker 2: You don't seem like the type that can hand them 106 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 2: much jumping. 107 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:04,480 Speaker 3: I do appreciate your ladder, your daddy, and this letter 108 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 3: for coming out and on the porch and jumping on 109 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 3: the jump fur to see the jump off. Didn't know 110 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 3: that to jump off you was gonna come in there 111 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 3: and get jumped. 112 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 2: See. 113 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 3: I wrote a book called Jump When You next me 114 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 3: an expert on this here, jump off this. 115 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 2: It is amazing how this works. Don't you see it? 116 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 3: Fans, friends hate us Internet trolls. 117 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, because that's who listened to the show. 118 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 3: We got fans, we got friends, we got loyalty people. 119 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 2: And then we got haters that listen to the show. 120 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 3: So I will be giving out internet advice when we 121 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:51,039 Speaker 3: come back on. The jump off jumped on him. He 122 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 3: got stitches. 123 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:55,160 Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show? 124 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:55,720 Speaker 3: All right? 125 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:58,839 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject 126 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 1: the jump off jumped on him. 127 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 3: Very quickly. In recap, we've learned that this jump off 128 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 3: jumped on him. To set this letter up, you are 129 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 3: dealing with someone who has been jumped on by the jumper, 130 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 3: the jump off and the jumpy. I have been all 131 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 3: of it, and I've written a book called jump So 132 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 3: we are dealing with an expert on this letter right here. 133 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 2: So let us begin. 134 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 3: Shirley, read the letter quickly and I'll tell you the 135 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 3: points I need for you to stop because this is 136 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 3: the letter in the nutshell. 137 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 1: Okay' Stephen, Shirley, I'm thirty two years old and I've 138 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: been dating this guy for almost eight months, and we've 139 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: had fun getting to know each other. He was honest 140 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 1: in the beginning and told me he had some loose 141 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: ends to tie up before we got serious, and I 142 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: appreciated that honesty. 143 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 3: The loose ends is what jumped on his ass. The 144 00:07:56,720 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 3: loose ends. He's the one that jumped on his go ahead, 145 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 3: shall read all right. 146 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 1: The fact that he didn't hide his phone or turn 147 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: his ringer off made me feel that he was ready 148 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: to be in a relationship with me, so I didn't trip. 149 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 2: Stop right there. 150 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 3: You can't cut your phone off when your jumpee is crazy, 151 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 3: because if. 152 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 2: They can't contact you, huh, that elevates the craziness. Ree. Okay. 153 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: We went out all over town and I stayed at 154 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: his home all of the time. The only thing that 155 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: made me suspect suspect that he was up to something 156 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 1: was a few nights I couldn't reach him, but I 157 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:37,679 Speaker 1: let it go. 158 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 3: I invited him stop right there once again, this is 159 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:48,559 Speaker 3: the loose ends. He over there trying to tie not 160 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 3: in it, and obviously it don't work. Ree. 161 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 1: I invited him to visit my parents with me. My 162 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:58,960 Speaker 1: parents live about two hours from us, so we went 163 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 1: on an overnight tree to visit them. They cooked dinner 164 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 1: for us, and after dinner, my man and I went 165 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 1: out to a hookah spot to unwind. My boyfriend got 166 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 1: a phone call and walked away to take it. 167 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:12,199 Speaker 2: Stop. 168 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:14,839 Speaker 1: He got upset and he was ready to stop right there. 169 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 3: Okay, phone call, got up from the table to take it. 170 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 2: Once again. 171 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 3: This is the loose end, and the loose end is 172 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 3: very loose now because he's calling at inappropriate moments. 173 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 2: Read. 174 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:37,719 Speaker 1: He got upset and he was ready to go back 175 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:38,839 Speaker 1: to my parents' house. 176 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 2: Stop right there. 177 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 3: He faresaw something that the jumpee was about to do. 178 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 3: The jump off has discovered his location. He ready to 179 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 3: go back to your mama house right now because he 180 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 3: know what's coming. 181 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 2: Read. 182 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 1: We got to his car and there was a car 183 00:09:57,760 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: blocking us in. 184 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 2: Stop up right there. It's too late. 185 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:07,720 Speaker 3: The damn jump off is killed and she's blocking the car. 186 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 3: He tried to get back to your mama's house in time. 187 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 3: She was circling the block. She found the car. Oh lord. 188 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 2: Read. 189 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: He asked the car to move and the lady flipped 190 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 1: him off. 191 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 3: Stop right there. You can't ask the jump off to 192 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 3: do no favors. When they let you jump on them 193 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 3: and became the jump off, that was all the favor 194 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:40,839 Speaker 3: you get read. 195 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: I didn't think anything of it. 196 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 3: We want to stop right there, you stupid. 197 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 1: Read When we got to my car to hell, you. 198 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 3: Didn't think nothing of a woman blocking the car, flipping 199 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 3: your hand. 200 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 2: Read. 201 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: When we got to my parents' house, that same car 202 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 1: pulled up in the driveway. 203 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 3: Stop right there, jump off the loose ends. All in 204 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 3: one to jump off in the loose end. It ain't 205 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 3: working all this time. Uf the loose ends, it hasn't worked. 206 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 3: The jump off is loose. She at your mama house. 207 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 1: Read this same lady got out and ran up and 208 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 1: started hitting on my man. 209 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 2: Stop right there. The loose end is as loose as 210 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 2: it can get. Right now. 211 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 1: Read My dad heard the commotion and came outside to 212 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 1: pull her off of my man. 213 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 3: Stop right there, Dad, tend and rescue it's underdog. 214 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 2: He tried to come in to say today it was 215 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 2: too late. 216 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 3: I ain't saying that the loose hands is a problem, 217 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 3: but this hell for got hands. 218 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 2: Read. 219 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 1: The lady says she's been seeing my man for a 220 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:56,599 Speaker 1: few months, and she followed us. I was very embarrassed 221 00:11:56,640 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 1: and reluctantly took him to the er to get stitches. 222 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 2: Stop right there after your daddy pulled her off. 223 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:12,479 Speaker 3: She said she had been seeing him for a few months. 224 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 3: One thing I can tell you about this man right here, 225 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 3: this boy bringing it, yeah, and you're following him. 226 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 2: Jumping on him? Her read quickly, Shirley. 227 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:31,960 Speaker 1: All right, I was very embarrassing, reluctantly took him to 228 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 1: the er to get stitches. In her words, she told 229 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 1: police that she knew she was the jump off, but 230 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 1: she fell in love with him and he wouldn't leave 231 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 1: me for her. 232 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:42,840 Speaker 2: Stop right there. 233 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:46,440 Speaker 3: I know I'm to jump off, but he's bringing is 234 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:49,559 Speaker 3: so good. I'm in love with him now, and he 235 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 3: not giving the jumpy product to a new jump off. 236 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:55,720 Speaker 2: I'm finished, state to jump off read. 237 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 1: He said he got caught up slept with her, but 238 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 1: he wants me. Can I trust this man and continue 239 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:06,080 Speaker 1: this relationship despite just what happened, What just happened. 240 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 3: When we come back, I will close it out very 241 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 3: very quickly. 242 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 2: Here's the solution to this letter. At the end. 243 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening morning show. All right, Steve, 244 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:19,840 Speaker 1: here we go with part three of today's Strawberry letter. 245 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 1: The subject is the jump off jumped on him. 246 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 3: We all know that this dude is the Uh, he 247 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:30,840 Speaker 3: had some lucians when he started dating the letter that 248 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,839 Speaker 3: wrote to dating the lady that wrote the letter, and 249 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 3: he said, hey, listen, I'm gonna be honest, which I 250 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:37,920 Speaker 3: got some lucians. He was trying to get these lucians 251 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 3: tied up with the jump off chick, but it didn't 252 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 3: work out. The Lucians was two lists. He's bringing it 253 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:46,840 Speaker 3: too good. I mean, this boy's doing some things to 254 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 3: people that's got them all twisted up. You included in 255 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:53,320 Speaker 3: this letter to the point where she then jumped on 256 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 3: his ass and gave him stitches. That's a ferocious ass 257 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 3: because he doing something. I'm talking about outstanding. This dude 258 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:06,439 Speaker 3: right here is bringing it. Here's the problem line. You 259 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:10,080 Speaker 3: want to know should you continue in this relationship as 260 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 3: Surely told you to run, You want to know if 261 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 3: you should stay with him, and Surely told you to 262 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 3: get out. Now, Surely gave you good advice. My take 263 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 3: is different. Shirley was almost there with me, but then 264 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 3: she switched. He told you it was some problems he had. 265 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 3: The problem he dating a crazy. Now he's probably a 266 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 3: good man, but he dated a crazy and he put 267 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 3: it on the crazy person too good. See when you're 268 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 3: dating a crazy person. You can't give him your all 269 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 3: in all, but he don't know that because he young, 270 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 3: y'all in your thirties, he don't know that. See, you 271 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 3: have to portion it out based on sanity. You can 272 00:14:55,160 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 3: only what you have to portion it out based on synate. 273 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 3: Crazy people, you can't give them your all. You have 274 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 3: to wait until you meet a calm, sensible woman before 275 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 3: you start giving it your all. You give it all 276 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 3: to a crazy person, they already crazy. Now you in 277 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 3: here touching spots and causing chemical reactions and stuff, and 278 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 3: they already crazy. Now you're just set up here and 279 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 3: slept with this bipolar helfe. Now here come hell. 280 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:32,160 Speaker 1: Stitches, Steveches. 281 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 3: That's how good it is to bust you outside your 282 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 3: head and give you stitches. Jasmine Sullivan was breaking our 283 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 3: car winders, she was busting faces. 284 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 2: It's all the same. 285 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 3: I bust the windows out your car. I put some 286 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 3: stitches on your head, I spin open your phone head, 287 00:15:56,240 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 3: send you to the doctor, may cause you just indeed, I'll. 288 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 2: Put some stitches in your head. Sing it too much? Yes, 289 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 2: based on what you say it all. 290 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 1: Right, Leady Tom Stubbery letter and Instagram and Steve Harvey 291 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 1: FM dot com. Check out the Shubbery Letter podcast on demand. 292 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, a woman 293 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 1: wants to know if she's wrong for cursing out her 294 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 1: sister in law. She needs some advice, all right, we'll 295 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 1: try to help her. 296 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 2: Right after this, you're listening 297 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.