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Speaker 1: This is John.

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Speaker 3: We have some rocking stories for you coming up.

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Speaker 3: My boyfriend chose another girl over me.

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Speaker 1: Shit happens.

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Speaker 3: My twenty one female boyfriend twenty three male of almost

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Speaker 3: five years kicked me out of an online game to

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Speaker 3: play with another girl. This might sound stupid and insecure,

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Speaker 3: but it is what it is. There's this mobile game

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Speaker 3: my boyfriend and I play together. He taught me how

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Speaker 3: to play it a few months ago. It's a multiplayer

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Speaker 3: game with teammates. Sometimes you play together and often he

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Speaker 3: plays with his friends. Are we talking about Clash of

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Speaker 3: Clans right now?

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Speaker 1: Is that multiple Class Royal? I've been playing Class Royal

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Speaker 1: my girl, she's better than me. It's kind of frustrating.

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Speaker 3: He's slightly addicted to it, but it makes him happy,

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Speaker 3: so I don't mind. By the way, this comes from

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Speaker 3: user kicked me out of the game. And if you

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Speaker 1: I'm Dakota and I'm baby, no money.

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Speaker 3: And we're here to give you good advice, but we

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Speaker 3: don't always have all the answers.

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Speaker 1: Or really bad advice. Depends what you want.

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Speaker 3: So we'd only know what we'd do if you would

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Speaker 3: do something different. Let us know in the comments. Op says,

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Speaker 3: a few weeks ago, my boyfriend added this random girl

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Speaker 3: from his town on Facebook.

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Speaker 1: Cringe, that's big red.

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Speaker 3: Flag, maybe a little red flag. And then I saw

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Speaker 3: him playing with her in matches. Right, the red flag

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Speaker 3: is getting bigger. I thought it was weird that he

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Speaker 3: didn't ask me to play, because he usually does, so

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Speaker 3: I asked about it. He said, she's just someone he

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Speaker 3: met on Facebook and it's no big deal. Whatever.

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Speaker 1: Facebook market plays link up on the game bro come on.

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Speaker 3: Later that day, while he's playing with her, he decides

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Speaker 3: to add me to the team. The game allows you

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Speaker 3: to use the microphone to talk with teammates, and the

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Speaker 3: second I got in, she saw and she said, very

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Speaker 3: shrilly and obnoxiously, who is this? Who's Ashley? Ashley being

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Speaker 3: my name? He told her I'm his girlfriend. And what

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Speaker 3: does she do? She leaves the game?

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Speaker 1: Oh? How old are they?

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Speaker 3: I think they're like early twenties.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if it's PUBG. My brother plays PUBG all

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Speaker 1: the time. PUBG Mobile is actually really fun on mobile.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, wow, I had no idea. I thought they were

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Speaker 3: like a dead platform.

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Speaker 1: Now OBG, and they're back, No, they've been back. Wow.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Pubg's cooking.

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Speaker 1: I mean if I was her, I mean, like, how

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Speaker 1: do you get linked up on Facebook? This must be

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Speaker 1: some middle of America shit, But like, yeah, you should

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Speaker 1: be worried. Yeah, I think she's she's coming to steal

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Speaker 1: your man's as soon as she.

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Speaker 3: Like goes who is this and then logs out, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's like the alarms should be at full blast.

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Speaker 1: She's probably just trying to mess with her head.

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Speaker 3: She's the proto girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the worst.

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Speaker 3: So Opie says. I got mad. I asked him what

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Speaker 3: that f was that about? How she just left without

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Speaker 1: So I let it go.

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Speaker 3: Oh, don't let it go next time. A side note,

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Speaker 3: I fully trust my boyfriend. Bad decision, that's not the

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Speaker 3: issue here. Fast forward to today, my boyfriend and I

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Speaker 3: me by saying, Ashley, this is X. She's a great girl.

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Speaker 3: try to make jokes and she wouldn't respond. Anything my

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Speaker 1: WHOA okay sas this is past.

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Speaker 3: The point of no return already they got a nickname.

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Speaker 3: They were bantering throughout the game, while I felt stupid.

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Speaker 3: Whenever he said something nice about me to his other

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Speaker 3: feel that something was off. He said, there's no girl

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Speaker 3: She clearly has something against me, and I'm annoyed that

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Speaker 3: go ahead and study. We're gonna call Jack to come

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Speaker 3: play with us. Jack is a friend of his that

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Speaker 3: I had studying to do, so he kicked me out.

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Speaker 3: I didn't even have any studying to do, because I

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Speaker 3: told him twenty minutes earlier I'm on top of things

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Speaker 3: that was a cop out. He said, I'm overreacting. He's

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Speaker 3: just like, bab I'm just just trying to keep you responsible.

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Speaker 3: Man just wants you to be the best version of

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Speaker 3: yourself you can be. Well, I flirt with Jenny from

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like. I feel like it really depends

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Speaker 1: if he drops his you know, like the valorant like voice,

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Speaker 1: like guys drop their voice like the cooler Hey, man,

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Speaker 1: you got to join the lobby. So if he's doing that,

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Speaker 1: then it's definitely red flags and he's trying to impress her.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean it does seem pretty suss specifically

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Speaker 1: Facebook marketplace dating, like not that big of a fan,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, I mean you should be. He's on thin

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think the big honestly, the biggest red flag

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Speaker 3: is that because there's sure there's a reality where maybe

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Speaker 3: he doesn't like actually want, like he's not trying to

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Speaker 3: flirt with this girl. Yeah, but the moment you're like,

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Speaker 3: partner is like, yo, she's got like beef with me

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Speaker 3: that's actually a red flag.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean if you're doing nothing, like let's say

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Speaker 1: exact in your own behavior. So yeah, he needs to

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Speaker 1: be taken out for a spanking.

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Speaker 3: Let's see if OP gives him one. So he says,

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Speaker 3: I'm overreacting and I probably am. You're not, girl, No,

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Speaker 3: you're not, You're right on top of it. But I'm

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Speaker 3: thinking of just leaving it be, but I'm so damn

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Speaker 3: realized I probably sound ridiculous, but maybe it's because there's

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Speaker 3: nothing else to worry about right now. I just feel

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Speaker 3: like he doesn't care about my feelings. That's the nail

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Speaker 3: I'll admit I have been jealous lately and it annoys him.

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Speaker 3: But what is the right course of action here? Should

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Speaker 3: I let it go? Or do I have a right

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Speaker 3: to talk to him about it again? We have an

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Speaker 3: update after this. Honestly, I think you just need to

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Speaker 3: hop in the lobby on the other side and just dominate.

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Speaker 3: Yeah on once you get that.

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Speaker 1: Like if you she already has had the like actual

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Speaker 1: conversation with him, right yeah, Yeah, So I think just

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Speaker 1: he can go fuck himself. But yeah, I mean, when

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Speaker 1: it comes to a relationship, I mean it's just the

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Speaker 1: open communication and like understanding what the partner needs right,

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Speaker 1: so it doesn't seem like the boyfriend is doing that

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Speaker 1: good of a job of like mending your insecurity here,

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Speaker 1: and it's totally fine to be insecure if this is

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Speaker 1: upsetting you, and set a boundary and be like, look,

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Speaker 1: she's whack. I'm in real life, she's on Facebook marketplace,

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Speaker 1: So that would be my best take is like, you know,

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Speaker 1: then make it serious and make it like, you know,

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Speaker 1: don't downplay your feelings because that's cringe, because if it is,

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Speaker 1: it upset you enough to write the story. So you

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Speaker 1: could also send him these clips of all both of

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Speaker 1: us saying like, hey, stopping a douchebag bro, and hope

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Speaker 3: You. Got to listen to your partner, Yeah, you gotta

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Speaker 3: listen to your partner's got a problem with somebody. You

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Speaker 3: kind of have a problem with somebody, Yeah, you know

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Speaker 3: to some level. All right, we've got the update. I

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Speaker 3: do want to say, though, you hit the clear communication.

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Speaker 3: That's like our cornerstone Yeah, ninety nine percent of all

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Speaker 3: problems in a relationship completely by just like clear, upfront, honest,

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Speaker 3: vulnerable communication early not late.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so, because you don't want to build a resentment

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Speaker 1: and then then you're you're just holding two l's because

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Speaker 1: you're resentful, and then you didn't communicate properly. But sometimes

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Speaker 1: two l's equals a W, but not very often.

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Speaker 3: All right, let's hit the update. So first of all,

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Speaker 3: thank you everyone for your responses. I read every single

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Speaker 3: one and took everyone's insights into account. You were all

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Speaker 3: very kind. Oh nice. That does not always.

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Speaker 1: Have positive, positive reinforcement, crazy online insane.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, this is a positive update. Okay, I know in

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Speaker 3: my original replies I seemed set on breaking up with him,

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Speaker 3: but I'll explain what happened.

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Speaker 1: After we both.

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Speaker 3: Calmed down, I told him we needed to actually have

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Speaker 3: super upset and I cried. There's nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 3: Once he realized how bad it was making me feel,

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Speaker 3: he apologized profusely and admitted it must have made me

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Speaker 3: feel like crap. He said, she truly means nothing to him.

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Speaker 3: Nothing to him, She's just a Facebook market place girlfriend. Babe,

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Speaker 3: I just needed a teammate. She just became a part

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Speaker 3: of the gaming group with him and his friends. He

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Speaker 3: I had work to do. I told him that wasn't

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Speaker 3: if I felt I had work to do, and he

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Speaker 1: You gotta get Escape up please? Yeah? Nine nine everything

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Speaker 3: I also told him her disrespectful attitude towards me bothered me,

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Speaker 3: He said to me, Babe, aren't you beautiful? Aren't you smart?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like you know something's going on there. It's not

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Speaker 3: Then you know, for a fact, if he continues communication

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Speaker 3: with her after, it's like all right, now you're you're

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Speaker 1: It also depends on how long this relationship has been

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they've been together for five years, so I feel

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, totally totally. I think the issue is is

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Speaker 3: He apologized for telling me to leave if it bothered

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Speaker 3: but I feel better about the whole situation. Thank you

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Speaker 3: everyone for your help. And there's a second update. O.

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Speaker 3: What's the over under on a breakup?

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Speaker 1: Here?

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Speaker 3: Is it a?

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Speaker 1: I mean from we had the second update the third up?

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Speaker 3: Biggest thing with stuff like this when somebody like makes

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Speaker 3: hanging around Facebook Marketplace update number two. I deleted the

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Speaker 3: Quick recap for those who didn't see it. Boyfriend of

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Speaker 1: Damn, my god, it's game over.

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Speaker 3: We got back together shortly after my post, Oh hit

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Speaker 3: I continued to be suspicious of this girl, strange comments

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Speaker 3: I'd find him on the phone late at night and

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Speaker 3: and I shouldn't worry. In my original post, I mentioned

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Speaker 3: Oh God, she had the guilty conscience. She came out

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Speaker 3: they were in a relationship. The whole time. No way,

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Speaker 3: he told her he only talks to me once a month.

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Speaker 1: Whoa, you've been.

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Speaker 1: They lived together?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. When he would offer to delete her

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Speaker 1: Bro, how do you have that much time? Like I

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Speaker 1: Solution is just so yeah.

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Speaker 3: And you're just like going to work around anything else.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever been in a situation where

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Speaker 1: So, yeah, I'm sorry that this happened to you. It's

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Speaker 1: I don't really have you been cheated on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so it's so easy, and if you want to,

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Speaker 1: So it's like I've never really understood why people cheat,

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Speaker 1: I didn't have any friends. I was raised in this household,

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Speaker 1: But it's just it is interesting why people want to

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Speaker 1: was just like, hey, like I want to be like

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Speaker 1: all of my insecurities in our relationship, then why not

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Speaker 3: So you could just buy those on Facebook market, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Or yeah, you know, you can go make a whatever

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Speaker 1: you are watching this, ca.

436
00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:03,760
Speaker 3: Yep, and you're up now, and you're up now. He's broke,

437
00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:05,680
Speaker 3: you got the baby, no money, seal of approval there

438
00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:09,199
Speaker 3: is all right, let's finish this story. So he broke

439
00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:12,560
Speaker 3: down when I confronted him, pathetic. He cried more than

440
00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:14,920
Speaker 3: I've ever seen him cry before. He said he was

441
00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:17,119
Speaker 3: gonna attempt to herself unalive with me on the phone,

442
00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:19,040
Speaker 3: so I had to call for help to get him

443
00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:23,920
Speaker 3: medical attention over Facebook marketplace, shame from the block. Come on, man,

444
00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:26,119
Speaker 3: He said he couldn't imagine a world without me in it.

445
00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:28,879
Speaker 3: He should have thought about that before. I am destroyed.

446
00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:31,719
Speaker 3: Is my worst nightmare. I never dreamed he would do

447
00:19:31,760 --> 00:19:33,680
Speaker 3: this to me. He says, it was all big mistake.

448
00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:37,600
Speaker 3: But for six months, six months of phone calls and

449
00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:41,240
Speaker 3: romantic exchanges, a couple of outings, so they did meet

450
00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:46,440
Speaker 3: in photo exchanges, late night video calls, straight up directly

451
00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:49,200
Speaker 3: lying to me and making me feel like I was crazy,

452
00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:52,000
Speaker 3: gaslighting me this whole time. I can't believe it. I

453
00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,800
Speaker 3: feel like I'm dreaming trust your gut for the love

454
00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:58,960
Speaker 3: of God, don't let anyone tell you you're overthinking or jealous.

455
00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:02,679
Speaker 3: If you feel like something is off, it is and

456
00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:03,760
Speaker 3: that is the end of that story.

457
00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:04,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

458
00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:06,760
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, if your gut checked and you're like

459
00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:10,160
Speaker 3: something is wrong, you just gotta talk about it.

460
00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:13,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, every single time I've had a gut

461
00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:17,280
Speaker 1: feeling in a relationship historically, I've been like, something does

462
00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:20,639
Speaker 1: not feel right here, and then I progressively like start

463
00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:23,520
Speaker 1: crashing out more and more and more and more, and

464
00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:25,399
Speaker 1: then it just gets to a point where I'm like

465
00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:28,959
Speaker 1: so unhealthy in the relationship that I'm just like, this

466
00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:30,879
Speaker 1: is not healthy for me, so I just kind of

467
00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:33,639
Speaker 1: give up on it. But yeah, definitely, if you have

468
00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:37,159
Speaker 1: any sort of feeling and it progressively gets worse, you

469
00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:40,720
Speaker 1: gotta just either cut it off or tell them about it.

470
00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:42,639
Speaker 1: If they don't do anything about it, you gotta just ditch.

471
00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:43,760
Speaker 1: That's it.

472
00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:46,560
Speaker 3: That's the biggest enemy of that is uh, we call

473
00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:51,840
Speaker 3: the chronic people please the CPPs. Yeah, theppppiece. If you're

474
00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:55,080
Speaker 3: a chronic people pleaser, you cannot you can't. You just

475
00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:57,000
Speaker 3: push everything down. You're like, I don't need to care

476
00:20:57,040 --> 00:21:00,000
Speaker 3: about that feeling whatever that would probably rock the boat.

477
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,119
Speaker 3: I used to kind of be that guy honestly for

478
00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:06,160
Speaker 3: a while, but uh, you just gotta it doesn't help anybody. Yeah,

479
00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 3: trying to be like, oh well, I'll just put my

480
00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:09,879
Speaker 3: stuff to the side, because then it just like, I

481
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,679
Speaker 3: don't know, it's like this little gnarled up ball of

482
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:16,240
Speaker 3: like the snowballs, bad stuff, and it just like pops.

483
00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:18,679
Speaker 3: One day, You're like, I can't take it anymore. I

484
00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,359
Speaker 3: got I gotta get all this off my chest. And

485
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:23,200
Speaker 3: now it's like an avalanche instead of just like a Hey,

486
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:26,200
Speaker 3: let's have a maybe a frank discussion. Yeah, gotta be

487
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:29,359
Speaker 3: open to whatever could happen. All right, how are we doing? Chat?

488
00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:31,520
Speaker 1: Yeah? Chat? How are we feeling? Are we go toed

489
00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:34,080
Speaker 1: or yeah? Are we go to with the sauce? Great advice.

490
00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:36,200
Speaker 1: People need to listen to their gud and feelings more often.

491
00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:39,680
Speaker 3: Yeah that guy. Guys, that's the peril of Uh, don't

492
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:42,640
Speaker 3: let the Facebook marketplace girl join your squad and ruin

493
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:45,000
Speaker 3: your whole life. All right, we've got another story here.

494
00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:48,000
Speaker 3: Let's go ahead and get into it. I deleted my

495
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 3: girlfriend's game so she would pay attention to me.

496
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 1: I mean.

497
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:55,240
Speaker 3: What game though?

498
00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,280
Speaker 1: Yeah? Really what game? Which?

499
00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:00,720
Speaker 3: Which game? There's a trigger warning here for abuse, which

500
00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,439
Speaker 3: that's a bad sign. Let's just start by saying that I,

501
00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 3: twenty four male, love my girlfriend Aliyah, twenty female very much.

502
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,879
Speaker 3: She's a super hard working girl and she spends a

503
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:13,840
Speaker 3: lot of time on classes trying to get the highest

504
00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 3: grades possible for applying to nursing a school in the

505
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:19,119
Speaker 3: near future. When she's not doing that, she's doing chores

506
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 3: or cutting down on her ever growing to do list.

507
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 3: And when she's not doing that, she's spending two hours

508
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:28,160
Speaker 3: a day playing the SIMS. This is where the problems

509
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 3: come in playing the Sims. Okay, so this comes from

510
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 3: user Jiffy Biscuits, And if you want to submit your

511
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:36,960
Speaker 3: own stories, go to the r slash Okay storytime stubber

512
00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:37,159
Speaker 3: at it.

513
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 1: I'm Dakota and I'm baby no money, and we're here to.

514
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:42,639
Speaker 3: Give you some good advice, maybe a little goofly. But

515
00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:45,160
Speaker 3: we're not the all knowing, all seeing eye. We don't

516
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 3: have all the answers. So if you would do something different,

517
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,280
Speaker 3: let us know in the comments, because we only know

518
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:51,359
Speaker 3: what we would do. Ohp he says, After all the

519
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:54,960
Speaker 3: stuff she does, Aliyah doesn't have as much time to

520
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,480
Speaker 3: spend with me as she could. She's a perfectionist too,

521
00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 3: so when she's doing the more serious stuff like school,

522
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:05,160
Speaker 3: she puts in more effort than necessary, which is time consuming.

523
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:08,200
Speaker 1: Classic dude, classic.

524
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:10,440
Speaker 3: Who is this guy? It's like, Babe, you could get ds,

525
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,159
Speaker 3: you can get c's, like they're gonna give you the degree.

526
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 1: Honey, just fail for me.

527
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 3: Please fail for me, bab. I love a failure and

528
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 3: we can fail up together. We're gonna fail fail up

529
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:23,000
Speaker 3: to the top. It really got to me that, even

530
00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 3: knowing this, she'll spend so much time on the SIMS.

531
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 3: It's something frivolous she's doing when we already only get

532
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 3: so little time together. She's also an adult, so essentially

533
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,679
Speaker 3: playing digital dolls almost every day is kind of something

534
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,000
Speaker 3: she ought to grow out of by now.

535
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 1: Or you're setting yourself up for a disaster, bro dude, and

536
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,680
Speaker 1: the trigger warning with abuse on this too, it's kind

537
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 1: of crazy. What Yeah, I don't even know why I

538
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 1: want to listen to this story.

539
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,080
Speaker 3: This is gonna I don't know where this is gonna turn.

540
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:52,120
Speaker 3: I decided to step in and have her cut back

541
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:56,200
Speaker 3: on this sim playing. I obviously didn't delete the whole game,

542
00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 3: but I think you're deleting little save files she was

543
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,399
Speaker 3: working on would deter her from spending so much time

544
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 3: on it. Crazy that decision backfired tremendously, dude. I can't

545
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,640
Speaker 3: imagine how upset I if anyone deleted like a little

546
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 3: save I had it. I'm like, wait, where do where

547
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:14,359
Speaker 3: my progress go?

548
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,199
Speaker 1: Dude? Yeah? I used to play so Mu's World of Warcraft,

549
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:18,919
Speaker 1: and if my mom like deleted my main character with

550
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 1: like three hundred days played, I think I would actually

551
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 1: run away. I would run away from home. I would

552
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 1: be like, I don't know, I don't know how to

553
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 1: deal with this. Dude.

554
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 3: That was like my first addiction. Like nine years old.

555
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:30,119
Speaker 3: I started playing World of Warcraft.

556
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

557
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 3: I was like, I need me a mount yeap yesterday.

558
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 3: I'm on the grind. When she logged onto her game,

559
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:40,719
Speaker 3: she thought there was some kind of glitch going on

560
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 3: and kept restarting it until I explained to her that

561
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 3: I removed the saves.

562
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 1: Bro, you are a demon.

563
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,200
Speaker 3: Is where do they make you? Dude? You were built

564
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 3: in a SIMS laboratory. She absolutely flipped out on me,

565
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 3: saying she'd been playing in that save file since like

566
00:24:56,480 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 3: twenty seventeen, and I had ruined years of game progress.

567
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,120
Speaker 3: But like SIMS isn't even a gold game, Like there's

568
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 3: no goals, Like there's no progress, Bro.

569
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 1: Who are you brother?

570
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 3: I told her she was overreacting because she still has

571
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 3: the game and she could just remake her same little

572
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:16,479
Speaker 3: characters if it mattered so much, but it doesn't need to,

573
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:20,359
Speaker 3: and maybe now she can focus more on adult interest

574
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 3: like her loved ones.

575
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:23,879
Speaker 1: Wow, how old is this guy?

576
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 3: This guy is like twenty five. This guy he's doing,

577
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 3: this guy is twenty four. Okay, I'll give him.

578
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 1: Imagine even just solved the issue of him not having

579
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 1: time with her and being like more invested in her

580
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 1: interests and just playing SIMS with her exactly, Like crazy,

581
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 1: how hard that is?

582
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 3: Crazy? Idea, Maybe just play the game your girlfriend's been

583
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:45,399
Speaker 3: playing for like I don't know what six or seven

584
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 3: years at this point the inventor folks bet she didn't know. God,

585
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to think of what I would actually

586
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:55,719
Speaker 3: do if I had a partner who like I've heard

587
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:57,719
Speaker 3: the stories of like people playing two K, you know,

588
00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:59,919
Speaker 3: and it's like their partner like deletes like they're like,

589
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 3: you know, their career profile or something, and then it's like, well,

590
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 3: it's like and it's like an April Fool's joke or something, right,

591
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,439
Speaker 3: like yeah, that's usually the context of people doing it

592
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 3: is like aha, like I praying to you, but this

593
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 3: guy's just being like, actually, I just know what's best

594
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 3: for you, and the SIMS is getting in the way

595
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 3: of you holding my hand.

596
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 1: What were the comments like on this post? I feel

597
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 1: like everyone would have cooked his ass.

598
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh, we've got something better than the comments. Uh oh,

599
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 3: I think we've got her response on it, Aliyah bruh,

600
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 3: I think we do. Okay, Well, let's okay. Basically, Aliah

601
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 3: left immediately saying she was so stupid to leave her

602
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 3: gaming laptop at my place and now she won't answer

603
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 3: my calls. I know that this is a total overreaction,

604
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 3: but I started to feel a little bad once I

605
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,399
Speaker 3: realized it may not be as easy to redo her

606
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 3: characters as I initially thought. So am I the a

607
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 3: hole for deleting my girlfriend's Yeah, SIMS saves one hundred

608
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,880
Speaker 3: thousand percent my guy, No, you are not my guy.

609
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,159
Speaker 1: How out of touch do you have to be? Like

610
00:26:56,520 --> 00:27:00,280
Speaker 1: if it's something that is her like pastime, that's like, hey,

611
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,639
Speaker 1: that's like let's say you liked going on walks and

612
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 1: sniffing bushes and then you went around the whole city

613
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:10,199
Speaker 1: and burned all the bushes. Yeah, yeah, you know what

614
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 1: I mean. It's like, well, there goes all the bushes. Honey,

615
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: spend more time with me.

616
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, now we can read books together.

617
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 1: With me.

618
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,679
Speaker 3: You can just sit in my proximity as my girlfriend

619
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 3: does pottery, and I just I can't imagine like if

620
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 3: I walked in and just like smashed all the pottery

621
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 3: she made and I was like, yeah, no, I just

622
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,920
Speaker 3: figured now we can, like I don't know, go on a.

623
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 1: Walk like all the clay in the world. She's like

624
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:38,119
Speaker 1: started protesting against clay. Yeah, and got clay ache in

625
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: there too. Why not o clay aching?

626
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 3: That's the deep cut clay aching. Wherever you are, brother,

627
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 3: I hope you're doing good. Now we have Aliyah's response,

628
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 3: not in the flesh, but digitally in the flesh. Here

629
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,679
Speaker 3: we go, folks, strap in. I love it when we

630
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:56,639
Speaker 3: have both sides. She starts, did you really think I

631
00:27:56,680 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 3: wouldn't find this post? Did you really think I wouldn't

632
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 3: see how you've been talking about me. I shudder to

633
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,400
Speaker 3: think what you've said in what you deleted. Why don't

634
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 3: you tell them the real story? Ooh, about how you

635
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 3: not only deleted the save files but also hammered the

636
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 3: backup thumb drive so hard there's a dent on your

637
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:22,880
Speaker 3: countertop now while I cried for you to stop. You're

638
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,640
Speaker 3: a monster, bro, a demon. Why don't you tell them

639
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 3: about how you tag along to my school groups after

640
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:30,919
Speaker 3: bio because you don't want me to be out of

641
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,159
Speaker 3: your sight. Why don't you tell them about how my

642
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 3: best friend who's so called in love with me literally

643
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 3: lives in another state and only visits once or twice

644
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 3: a year.

645
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:41,360
Speaker 1: Why don't you tell them about how.

646
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 3: When my mother was sick a few months ago, you

647
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 3: were blowing up my line all day every day for attention,

648
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 3: knowing I was her primary caregiver twenty four to seven.

649
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 3: Why are you telling them you work full time or

650
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 3: that you manage a grocery store when you part time

651
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 3: manage the fast food place inside it. Ooh, this guy's

652
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 3: being like, yeah, I like I'm the manager of the Walmart.

653
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 3: It's like, no, you're like the assistant manager at the

654
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 3: McDonald's in the Walmart.

655
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 1: B Uh, this guy is absolutely cooked. I love it.

656
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 3: I love it. I want you to take this to

657
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 3: heart when I say this, I genuinely have been so

658
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 3: much worse off for knowing you.

659
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 1: Oh dude, honestly, Oh, you just laid him to rest

660
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 1: six feet deep.

661
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 3: There's no coming back from that. I don't think anyone's

662
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 3: ever said something that brutaled me in my whole life.

663
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 3: Just like, look at you, dead in the eyes, me like,

664
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 3: my life is worse ever since I knew you, I.

665
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 1: Mean fair enough. Oh how long were they together? I'm

666
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 1: not sure.

667
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 3: I don't think there were dates on this one. Yeah, uh, okay.

668
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 3: You've destroyed my self esteem with your constant criticisms of

669
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 3: what I enjoy. You've controlled me in every way for

670
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 3: as long as I've known you. You don't understand boundaries

671
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 3: or when no means no. Your family treats me like

672
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 3: I'm a dog, and your friends are equally punk a holes.

673
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 3: You ruined something I spent years of my life growing

674
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 3: up with, and I could never bring myself to forgive

675
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 3: and forget that, no matter how much love I've poured

676
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 3: into you. And She's like actively mourning her SIMS.

677
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 1: Wow, that's crazy.

678
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 3: I mean she's like there was Johnny, there was Tommy,

679
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 3: there was Timmy.

680
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 1: There was the baby that I threw in the in

681
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 1: the trash case. Yeah, and all those.

682
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 3: People in that pool they can't get out.

683
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: I just don't understand what the how is this guy?

684
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe their relationship wasn't great. It clearly wasn't

685
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:33,800
Speaker 1: saying you go that far to like ruin her only enjoyment,

686
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?

687
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, it's just like the school principal vibes. It's

688
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 3: like not like a like a relationsis like we're just like, well,

689
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 3: I clearly am the adulting renal what's best? And I'm

690
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 3: gonna ground you from your SIMS profile because I think

691
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 3: honestly he's probably like somewhat jealous of the Sims.

692
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 1: He literally is.

693
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 3: He's like she like she plays for two hours and

694
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 3: there's like men in that game. Yeah, and like should

695
00:30:57,760 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 3: I be the only one.

696
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:01,480
Speaker 1: They don't really talk back to her? Yeah, Like I

697
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: wonder why? Yeah, I mean I feel like, have you

698
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 1: ever been in a relationship where like you kind of

699
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 1: wish you had more time with them? No? Yeah, of

700
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: course I get it. But then it's a simple conversation.

701
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 3: But yeah, it's just something you like work around. It's

702
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 3: not something you're like, all right, you need to start

703
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 3: giving up all of the things that you enjoy so

704
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 3: you can spend more time with me. It's more like,

705
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 3: all right, so like okay, we've got a window on

706
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 3: like Thursday, Like you.

707
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 1: Know, maybe, bro, you just weren't that fun.

708
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, if this guy's secretly deleting save files, this

709
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 3: guy's not fun at.

710
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 1: All, dude.

711
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 3: This guy he's the school principal. Okay, op continues, I

712
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 3: hate you for what you did to me, dude. Honestly,

713
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 3: I think I think I don't know how long they've

714
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:45,720
Speaker 3: been together, but for this level of response, I feel

715
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 3: like it had to have been for a minute, like

716
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 3: they might have been like high school sweethearts or something.

717
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 3: Because this, like that level of resentment has to build

718
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 3: up over all.

719
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 1: What if the story was fake could be.

720
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 3: It doesn't feel fake though. This feels like very real

721
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 3: hatred coming person. I I hate you for what you

722
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 3: did to me and for what you've been doing, and

723
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 3: I mean that. I'm gonna make this so crystal clear.

724
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 3: Since you didn't understand it. The first time we are through,

725
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 3: go f yourself, and there's an update from Alia. Oh

726
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 3: my lord, all right, yeah, sometimes you need to absolutely

727
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 3: know when to cut your losses, and this is one

728
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 3: of those moments.

729
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 1: It would be like, I feel like not replying Elia,

730
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 1: not replying would be like power movement. She won. Ye,

731
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 1: but I'm excited to hear this one.

732
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 2: Hey, it's John here, og host of the show. We're

733
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 2: gonna get back to these juicy stories. But here's a

734
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 2: quick three minutes of ads from our sponsors.

735
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 3: Okay, Hi there, it's Alah here. From the infamous post

736
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 3: about my sims fly getting deleted. I just wanted to

737
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 3: put a little placeholder update on my page for anyone

738
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 3: who's read that post. Our ages. For one, there was

739
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 3: some confusion about when my ex and I got together.

740
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 3: We knew each other all our lives since our families

741
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 3: are close, but we started dating when I was twelve

742
00:32:56,560 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 3: and he was sixteen. Oh my lord, I know that

743
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 3: that is. That's like a that feels like it might

744
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 3: as well be like twelve and thirty at that point.

745
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 3: Like the difference the difference between twelve and sixteen is

746
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 3: kind of like absurd? Am I wrong?

747
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 1: Like? Yeah, I mean I went to high school. When

748
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 1: I once I went to high school, I remember everyone

749
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:18,719
Speaker 1: in like grade twelve, and I was just like, damn, bro,

750
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 1: like these people in grade twelve, Like that's just crazy,

751
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 1: Like their lives must be a movie. Yeah. And then

752
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 1: I was like, ah, you know, just walking around high school.

753
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's twelve, it's grades and that's like fourteen.

754
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 3: This dude's like a sophomore in high school dating a

755
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 3: fifth grader.

756
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 1: That's crazy. You done fucked up.

757
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 3: I don't know kind of lock that guy up for that,

758
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 3: but we need to figure it out retroactively. We actually

759
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 3: have a five year age gap. I'm newly twenty and

760
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 3: he turns twenty five this year. Hope that clears it up.

761
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 3: And there's some missing info. Not only did he delete

762
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 3: the saves and clear the recycling bin, he pulled out

763
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 3: my backup drive and smashed it with a hammer. Once

764
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 3: he realized. I was upset that he'd done the first

765
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 3: two things or what I mean. He's clearly a terrible guy,

766
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 3: but you know he stands on business. He's like, I

767
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 3: deleted it, and you know what, if you're gonna be

768
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 3: mad about it, I'm gonna smash.

769
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: Your hard drive. That's so crazy.

770
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 3: This guy's terrible.

771
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 1: You're doing way too much, my man.

772
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 3: He lied about not knowing it was such a detailed

773
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 3: Oh oh sorry, I just got a wave of disgust

774
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 3: thinking about how he wrote that first post, being like, yeah,

775
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 3: so like I deleted them, and I felt so bad

776
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 3: once I realized that I might have made a mistake

777
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 3: and she's not calling me back. It's like, dude, you

778
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 3: smash the hard drive with a hammer in front of

779
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 3: her while she like cried, oh monster.

780
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess good point. He like doubled down. Yeah,

781
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 1: I mean he probably felt he probably felt bad and

782
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, fuck it, let's feel worse.

783
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 1: I want her to feel even worse.

784
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 3: If I'm already here, I'm going deeper. Okay. He lied

785
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,919
Speaker 3: about not knowing it was such a detailed game because

786
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 3: I talked to him about it tons of times before.

787
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 3: This was not a matter of spending time together. We

788
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 3: regularly spend hours of every day with each other. He

789
00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:00,440
Speaker 3: would insist to come along to any class or class

790
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 3: related activity that he wouldn't get kicked out of, like

791
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:05,320
Speaker 3: my bio study group. I gave him as much attention

792
00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 3: as I possibly could, but it was never ever enough.

793
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,360
Speaker 3: Summer is in just three weeks, so we would have

794
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 3: had time. Then he was just being awful to me.

795
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 3: He is a generally jealous, overprotective, condescending person. He pressured

796
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 3: me and despice the activities throughout our relationship, and his

797
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,919
Speaker 3: friends and family were all incredibly discriminatory to me. It's

798
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,280
Speaker 3: past time for him to be gone from my life,

799
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 3: and I'm still coming to terms with all the ways

800
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,880
Speaker 3: he has wrecked me. And to clear up some questions,

801
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:37,480
Speaker 3: my seven year save existed across three laptops over time.

802
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 3: Seven years. Oh, seven years of work, seven years of

803
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 3: not just work, seven years of love.

804
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's pain. I mean the closest game I've ever

805
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:50,319
Speaker 1: played to Sims is like World Croaster Tycoon and like,

806
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, I mean it's a similar concept adjacent, Yeah,

807
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 1: it's adjacent game. And like, dude, I remember when I,

808
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: like my brother or sister would like touch my save.

809
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 1: I guy, like I want to watch them fall off

810
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 1: the log Like I want to watch them like crash

811
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:04,800
Speaker 1: into the logs.

812
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 3: Don't touch this, don't fix this, stop it. You're ruining

813
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 3: my empire. Yea broken bones and shattered bodies.

814
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 1: My final destination print.

815
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 3: For oh okay, my seven year save existed across three

816
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 3: laptops over time, so those who were skeptical of it

817
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 3: being able to survive on one for so long were right,

818
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,360
Speaker 3: Oh wow, there's like SIMS sleuths out there being like

819
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,879
Speaker 3: this is fake. Clearly your stave file couldn't have stayed

820
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:33,240
Speaker 3: on the laptop that'll time. I did have a password

821
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 3: on my gaming laptop. He memorized it to get in freak.

822
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:39,400
Speaker 3: He mentioned that I said I was dumb for leaving

823
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 3: my laptop at his place, and I said that because

824
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:46,320
Speaker 3: he's done something similar before when I left my phone unattended,

825
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 3: He went through it, promised never to do it again,

826
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 3: only for me to find out months later he had

827
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:54,800
Speaker 3: logged onto my Instagram account and was reading my messages daily.

828
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 3: Some people wondered why I have no mention of him

829
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,439
Speaker 3: on my page. That's because I was always on edge

830
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:05,240
Speaker 3: with him going through my phone, so I deleted anything

831
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 3: about him that I'd post in my comment history six

832
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 3: months ago. There are two replies I made under a

833
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 3: post about him forcing me to kiss him at stop lights. Bab,

834
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,240
Speaker 3: if you're gonna be my passenger princess, you gotta pay.

835
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 1: The kiss tax. That's so crazy.

836
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 3: That's like the most pathetic thing I've ever heard. I'm

837
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 3: sorry that this is the only remnant of proof that

838
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 3: I've been with him. I tried to cover my tracks

839
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:25,360
Speaker 3: to avoid his anger.

840
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 1: Damn.

841
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 3: So we have a little bit more story left. But

842
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 3: do we have any like you crack the seal here?

843
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 3: You have any like finishing, Like, this.

844
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: Guy's gotta get arrested, bro, he does.

845
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:39,479
Speaker 3: It feels like this guy has done illegal things. Yeah,

846
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 3: he's asking for kisses at stop lights? Is at least

847
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 3: a five year sentence?

848
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's nuts. I mean, what's like if she doesn't

849
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 1: want to kiss you? Brother? Like, what are you doing? Yeah?

850
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 3: Like, what do you do? Help your game? My dog?

851
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 3: You gotta be a little more attractive as the driver,

852
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 3: you know. Yeah, maybe put on a tuxedo, be like

853
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 3: a little shit fur, put.

854
00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 1: The white gloves on. Real passenger princess.

855
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, mix it up a little bit, do something. Yeah,

856
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 3: on a real level, though, Like, I'm glad clearly she's

857
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 3: out of this, and especially when you're in a relationship

858
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 3: for like so long. It's like she said, like this

859
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 3: is someone that she's known like basically your whole life.

860
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 3: It can be really hard to like kind of see

861
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 3: people for how they really are when you kind of

862
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 3: have those like filters over them where it's like, oh,

863
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 3: but they couldn't they couldn't be that bad because like

864
00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 3: you know, like, well, we've known each other forever, and

865
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 3: it's like, oh, we've been dating since I was fucking

866
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, like the sixteen twelve age gap. Immediately,

867
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,600
Speaker 3: if I'm a friend of hers, I'm like, what are

868
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:32,840
Speaker 3: you doing? And if I'm a friend of his, I'm like, clearly,

869
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 3: I don't even think this guy probably had any friends.

870
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 3: That was probably the first problem, because there's no way

871
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:38,760
Speaker 3: if I'm like a sophomore in high school, my sixteen

872
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 3: year old buddy, it's like, yeah, I got a girlfriend,

873
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 3: I'm like who, It's like, oh, she's in fifth grade.

874
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:45,439
Speaker 3: I'd be like, we need to I don't know where

875
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 3: we need to go.

876
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:50,880
Speaker 1: Then, bro, you that you should start playing sims because

877
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 1: you can't be doing that in real life.

878
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 3: I'd be introducing him to the pool with no ladders. Oh,

879
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:57,720
Speaker 3: go ahead, let's go swimming.

880
00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, guests on top of the building, and then here's

881
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:01,319
Speaker 1: the here's the pool jump in it.

882
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, we've got a little update here to

883
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 3: cap us off. Glad she found that. I mean, hey,

884
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:10,280
Speaker 3: the sims for save file hammer smash being the ultimate

885
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 3: like deal breaker, red flag.

886
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:14,400
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel if you're breaking anything with that

887
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:19,320
Speaker 1: much like volition on breaking it to like ruin her passion.

888
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:23,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, if that's the third layer. He deleted it, Then

889
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 3: he deleted the recycle bin files. Then he smashed the

890
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:28,319
Speaker 3: hard drive with the hair. If you're smashing anything with

891
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 3: a hammer in a relationship, that's it's probably not long

892
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 3: for this world. We have a small update. Did you

893
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 3: have something to say?

894
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 1: No, it's just like it's funny because it's like even

895
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,359
Speaker 1: in the note she said, he deleted it and then

896
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 1: went to the recycling bin to delete it again. Right, yeah,

897
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 1: you knew what he was doing.

898
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 3: He knew exactly what he was doing. And that's why

899
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:46,800
Speaker 3: that first post makes me feel so disgusting.

900
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 1: How vild typically like, how vile do these stories typically get?

901
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:51,759
Speaker 3: This?

902
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 1: This is like gnarly, this.

903
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,439
Speaker 3: Is pretty like deceptive. We get some that are life,

904
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:57,360
Speaker 3: we get.

905
00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 1: Some that go deep damn bro, But uh.

906
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 3: You know, it's good to be on the other side

907
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 3: of it and just say, hey, we're not in that situation.

908
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 3: You know, it's it's valuable to be able to tell

909
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 3: those stories because it's like if just one person who's

910
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 3: like watching can go like, oh wait, that's my situation

911
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:12,880
Speaker 3: and it is that messed up. Yeah, oh maybe I can, like,

912
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 3: maybe I should reassess some stuff. That's what makes it valuable,

913
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 3: that makes it worth it.

914
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:17,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, we love you.

915
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 3: Chat And if you have a boyfriend who's leating your

916
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 3: SIMS four saved files, delete him, delete them, delete him

917
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 3: and put him in the pool.

918
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 1: Delete him and send it an ante at vast or

919
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 1: mcafe or whatever, a vast virus on his ass and

920
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:33,959
Speaker 1: fire all that ship.

921
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:37,320
Speaker 3: Yeah the fake uh dude, that guy. That guy built

922
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:41,439
Speaker 3: an empire off of basically fake software worked. He made

923
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:43,279
Speaker 3: like a there was like a deal. He may be

924
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 3: like Microsoft, you have it on like every computer automatically.

925
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 3: Just what a genius.

926
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 1: I remember my dad raising me. He always delete that,

927
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:53,439
Speaker 1: always deleted, get rid of it. We'll install this good one.

928
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 3: Yeah. I was using Norton.

929
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 1: Yeah Norton, Yeah, classic Norton.

930
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 3: No free sponsors, but shout out Norton, protect your files.

931
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 3: We got a small update. I was too anxious to

932
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:07,760
Speaker 3: try to retrieve the loss saves myself. So I'm going

933
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 3: to a local tech shop in a few days to

934
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 3: see what the professionals can do, and the laptop will

935
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:13,799
Speaker 3: remain off until then.

936
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 1: I swear.

937
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 3: If she gets these save files back, I'm gonna like

938
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 3: that's like we won the super Bowl.

939
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:18,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

940
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:23,319
Speaker 3: I've looked into a restraining order. Probably great idea, and

941
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 3: ultimately it looks like I won't be able to do

942
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 3: much as of now, but I can collect evidence and

943
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:31,399
Speaker 3: get cameras installed around my home. I don't go out

944
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 3: in public alone anymore, and I'm never without a trusted person.

945
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 3: I appreciate all the people who have felt my hurt

946
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,839
Speaker 3: with me and or sent me well wishes. I ask

947
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:42,839
Speaker 3: that no one else offers me money. I won't accept it.

948
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 1: Good for you, girl, I'm so sorry that all has

949
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,360
Speaker 1: happened to you. Dude, that's really really unfortunately.

950
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's got to be really scary. That bust out

951
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:51,959
Speaker 3: the hammer, smashing your heart on the copy is just scary.

952
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 3: So I'm glad you got friends that are rolling with

953
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:57,560
Speaker 3: you right now. That's really good. And yeah, just self

954
00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:00,279
Speaker 3: defense is so valuable. Everyone should have some se wins

955
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 3: of self defense.

956
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:05,320
Speaker 1: Also chat, let's dox him and yo, what if we

957
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 1: found out his email? Brouh found out his email and

958
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:11,240
Speaker 1: like spammed his email with Sims. Yeah, just like photos

959
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 1: of Sims.

960
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:17,399
Speaker 3: We just keep sending sending screenshots of the the sim

961
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 3: Grim Reaper coming for the people in pool.

962
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 1: That's great.

963
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, man, okay, I appreciate all the people who have

964
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 3: felt my hurt with me and were sent me while wishes.

965
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 3: I ask that no one else offers me money. I

966
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,319
Speaker 3: won't accept it. I just want to know who the

967
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 3: people were who were offering here.

968
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:34,040
Speaker 1: Yeah.

969
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 3: Lastly, this is my lived experience, not just internet drama,

970
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:41,720
Speaker 3: so please be considerate. And the final update in all caps,

971
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 3: my saves are restored a year. Let's fucking go seven

972
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:48,879
Speaker 3: years of love back in. That's it.

973
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 1: Hey, it's John here.

974
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:51,439
Speaker 2: We're gonna get back to this episode, but a quick

975
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 2: three minute break with the aswer More sponsors.

976
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:56,399
Speaker 3: Sorry for taking a while to tell everyone. I went

977
00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 3: to a local tech shop a few days ago and

978
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 3: they helped me to recover everything. I hadn't had the

979
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 3: chance to update due to finals, and I'm typing this

980
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 3: all my way to class but yes, for anyone still wondering,

981
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 3: I got everything back and that is the end.

982
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 1: Of that story.

983
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 3: Amazing, honestly the best ending we could have possibly.

984
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:16,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's super ideal, dude. Yeah, whenever you play video games,

985
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 1: it like auto saves to the to like the drive

986
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: because it's a single player game, right Sims, I mean

987
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 1: you can play online. I think it is.

988
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 3: I think it is single player. I don't know if

989
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 3: they've updated.

990
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:28,319
Speaker 1: Which is definitely moding it to shit.

991
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 3: So yeah, like, actually my girlfriend had a SIMS obsession,

992
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 3: fully motted out Zims. Yeah, she had like all the

993
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 3: mods for everything, and uh, that was her, that was

994
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:41,319
Speaker 3: her life. All right. I think we've got some red

995
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 3: flags and green flags, red flag, green flag to finish

996
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 3: off the stream here, all right, just do the first

997
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:49,839
Speaker 3: fun all right. We're just gonna grab bag it right now.

998
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,760
Speaker 1: So that's a really good ending, And I honestly, Elia,

999
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry that that all happened to you. That's

1000
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 1: some bullshit. Yeah, no one should have anybody in their

1001
00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 1: space like breaking a thumb drive to intentionally ruin your fun.

1002
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 1: So I even years. Yeah, I mean I hope that

1003
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:08,840
Speaker 1: guy goes to therapy and figures it out and apologizes

1004
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 1: like politely to you.

1005
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, dude, Yeah it was very thoughtful. Yeah, I'm

1006
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:16,240
Speaker 3: sure a lie is up right now. She's probably playing

1007
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 3: the sims.

1008
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, eight years in eight.

1009
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 3: Years all right? So red flag or green flag they

1010
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:26,440
Speaker 3: talk highly about their ex and are on friendly terms

1011
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 3: with them.

1012
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 1: Depends on how distant the relationship was, like how many

1013
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 1: years apart.

1014
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 3: But like when they broke up versus when you're together now.

1015
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:37,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would just like a neutral flag, it really

1016
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: And it depends on how healthy the relationship is, yeah,

1017
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 1: but it can it can sway both ways, for sure.

1018
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 3: I think for me the thing that would be like

1019
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 3: leaning to red would be the beginning where it's like

1020
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:49,960
Speaker 3: they talk highly about their exit. It's like you can

1021
00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 3: like be like, yeah, my extra is great. But it's

1022
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 3: like if it's like every time you like talk about

1023
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 3: your ex's about how they're like the number one person

1024
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 3: of all time.

1025
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's the best waynecessary.

1026
00:44:58,520 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 3: It's like, come on, what are we doing?

1027
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:00,400
Speaker 1: Okay?

1028
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 3: They usually take more than thirty minutes to respond to

1029
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 3: your texts.

1030
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 1: I mean it depends on how busy they are. Yeah,

1031
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:09,440
Speaker 1: if they're an incredibly busy person, then I'd be like, yeah,

1032
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:12,920
Speaker 1: there's it's totally fine. But thirty minutes is fine. I mean,

1033
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:14,439
Speaker 1: like it's very contextually depends.

1034
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 3: I'd almost feel like it's a green flag just because

1035
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 3: it's like, yeah, they like no, they have their own life. Yeah, totally,

1036
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 3: they're not just waiting to like, yeah, like jump in,

1037
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:26,480
Speaker 3: okay after three months of dating they don't want labels

1038
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:27,439
Speaker 3: on the relationship yet.

1039
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 1: Depends if you guys spoke about it, that is true.

1040
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 1: I mean, to be honest, in this day and age,

1041
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:33,919
Speaker 1: you can rush it or you can go slow. Three

1042
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 1: months is typically a good time to figure it out.

1043
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 1: I would say that's like the right amount of time. Yeah,

1044
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:44,080
Speaker 1: and then past that, I think it would be you're

1045
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 1: kind of getting your your chain jerked. But yeah, three

1046
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:49,160
Speaker 1: three to four months is like cause, i mean my sister,

1047
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,439
Speaker 1: my sister met her husband and they've been together for

1048
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 1: fourteen years now, and it's like it took them a

1049
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:57,600
Speaker 1: while to put a label on it because they weren't

1050
00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 1: they were doing long distance from the jump, and they

1051
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 1: they took a while. Oh yeah, like oh yeah, you

1052
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 1: know what, let's actually be in a partnership here. So

1053
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 1: it's like if you label too early, you can actually

1054
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:11,400
Speaker 1: like set back the relationship, yeah, because it's like become friends,

1055
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: fall in love, and then be like all right, we're

1056
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 1: boyfriend girlfriends. So it's all it's really dependent. But I

1057
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 1: would say like leaning more on the red flag, because

1058
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:21,279
Speaker 1: if you are seeing each other very often, then you're

1059
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:24,360
Speaker 1: kind of cooked. If someone's like always you know, straying

1060
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 1: away from the answer of what they are.

1061
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean if you're spending like three or four

1062
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 3: days a week together for three months, yeah, it's like

1063
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 3: you should kind of know like if you want to

1064
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 3: or not. Yeah, like do you want to make this

1065
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:36,360
Speaker 3: like more legit? And if you're just like, oh, I

1066
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:38,240
Speaker 3: mean I don't know, I'll just do another three months.

1067
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 3: All right, another one right here? Okay, you've been dating

1068
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:43,839
Speaker 3: for four months, but they haven't introduced you to any

1069
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 3: of their friends or family. Four months third of a year.

1070
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:51,360
Speaker 1: Four months friends is crazy. Family I can get depending

1071
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 1: on like how you were raised, Like my parents there

1072
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 1: really open minded and like willing and hilarious and goofy.

1073
00:46:57,600 --> 00:46:59,960
Speaker 1: So it's always nice to just like get the stand

1074
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,760
Speaker 1: have of approval from my parents really early on, because

1075
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 1: it's just like there's no reason to beat around the

1076
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 1: bush and I'm so close with them, but yeah, not

1077
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:09,600
Speaker 1: introducing your friends is like crazy talk. Yeah. I remember

1078
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:12,400
Speaker 1: one of my best friends never I didn't even know

1079
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 1: he had a girlfriend for two years and to be fair,

1080
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 1: he was away at university and I was away at university,

1081
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:20,520
Speaker 1: but he never brought it up. And they're definitely gonna

1082
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 1: get married, Like their relationship is incredible. But it's just like,

1083
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:26,359
Speaker 1: my parents still don't think he has a girlfriend even

1084
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 1: though they've met her. And yeah, so I would say

1085
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,919
Speaker 1: it's more of a red flag. But on the parents side,

1086
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 1: it's like really depends like parents just like that's the

1087
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 1: ball game, that's like, that's the hard hard ball. It

1088
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 1: depends on how you were raised. But I would say

1089
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:43,840
Speaker 1: definitely red flag on the not inviting your friends to

1090
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 1: hang out.

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00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,759
Speaker 3: No friends, no friends for four months? Yeah, do you

1092
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:47,400
Speaker 3: even have friends?

1093
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, you definitely don't have friends.

1094
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 3: Bro, let's see, that's uh okay, there is Oh here's one.

1095
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 3: They always speak their mind no matter how others take it.

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00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 1: That's a green flag. Yeah, I mean, honestly, he's the

1097
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 1: best ball zy Yeah.

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00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:02,480
Speaker 3: Or is it like I feel like that one's kind

1099
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 3: of ambiguous because it's like, you gotta be honest, but

1100
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 3: you also got to have a little tact sometimes, you

1101
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 3: know what I mean. It's like the principle of like

1102
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 3: having like the pregnant wife who's like, do I look good?

1103
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:13,560
Speaker 3: You gotta be like, yeah, honey, you look great. Said,

1104
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:16,280
Speaker 3: it'd be like, well you look like a large pregnant woman.

1105
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 3: It's like, well, I was honest, but maybe Taylor, she

1106
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 3: looks beautiful.

1107
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,640
Speaker 1: Okay. If it's like honestly, he is the best policy world.

1108
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 1: Green flag. If someone has no filter, you're cooked. Yeah,

1109
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 1: but I would still lean more on the yellow, Like

1110
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:34,520
Speaker 1: it's like a yellow flag. It's like, depending situationally, you're

1111
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:37,920
Speaker 1: probably fine, but yeah, if you're doing that, then it's

1112
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 1: definitely a red flag.

1113
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 3: Yeah. What what color do you get when you mix

1114
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 3: red and blue? Her red and green?

1115
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 1: Is that blue?

1116
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 3: Red?

1117
00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: What color is purple?

1118
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 3: Purple? Purple? Red and blue? Is purple? Red? And green?

1119
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 1: Just advotage orange? Orange? Red? Green is orange? Orange flag

1120
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 1: red and green orange?

1121
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 3: Somebody bust out the primary color wheel brown?

1122
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 1: Please chat saying brown brown.

1123
00:48:57,200 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 3: It's a brown flag.

1124
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 1: Poop flag. Honestly is the best policy unless your opinion sucks.

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00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:04,720
Speaker 1: Thank you, Okay, I agree.

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00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:06,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's I mean, honesty is always the best. What

1127
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 3: we always say, you gotta be honest. There's no sense

1128
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:12,440
Speaker 3: in not being honest. And let's do the last red

1129
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:15,840
Speaker 3: flag green flag here. They are overly kind to everyone.

1130
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:17,560
Speaker 3: They've got Golden Retriever energy.

1131
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: It's a green.

1132
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 3: Flag like everyone, I mean, like everybody.

1133
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 1: I feel like it. It depends on the minutia of

1134
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:29,320
Speaker 1: the relationship. Like if let's say overly kind individual, Golden

1135
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 1: Retriever individual is being overly kind and your partner, the

1136
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 1: Golden Retriever's partner is like an insecure by default, then like,

1137
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 1: you know, maintain the boundary, set the boundary. I'd be like, hey,

1138
00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 1: like being overly kind of this person makes me uncomfortable.

1139
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 1: To be overly kind of this person, I think that

1140
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:48,360
Speaker 1: would be fine. It really depends on like how the

1141
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:52,440
Speaker 1: relationship is working in my opinion. But I mean, like

1142
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:55,240
Speaker 1: there's no harm to having someone I mean, I would

1143
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: way rather prefer to that than an overly head, you know, like.

1144
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:02,279
Speaker 3: Just someone is just me, just everyone, just a mean,

1145
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:06,320
Speaker 3: declawed house cat, just angry at the world.

1146
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:09,279
Speaker 1: I mean, there's some merit to that. At least that

1147
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 1: person would be like very conscious of what's happening, probably

1148
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 1: wouldn't go talk to anyone. If you're really that insecure,

1149
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 1: then it would maybe working your relationship and then you

1150
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 1: guys could just hate on everyone and anyone.

1151
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 3: Be like she chose me. I mean that's why I

1152
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 3: love because it's like when the cat's a little picky,

1153
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 3: you gotta have the cat be a little picky. I

1154
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 3: love cats. Dogs, the big dogs. I like the biggest

1155
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 3: dogs and the smallest dogs. You know, the middle dogs,

1156
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 3: they can still I still rock with the middling, middle

1157
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 3: sized dogs, but it's.

1158
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 1: The big dogs. My homie has a used to have

1159
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 1: like a Great Dane. Oh he did juicer, absolutely massive dogs.

1160
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 3: My grandpa my mom's side, would raise dogs for like

1161
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:54,360
Speaker 3: like hunting stuff. And he had like three Great Danes

1162
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:56,719
Speaker 3: that he had trained with like a rope. So it's

1163
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 3: like if he like spun the rope like a certain

1164
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:00,879
Speaker 3: way like that would like they would just like run

1165
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:01,720
Speaker 3: out and like do whatever.

1166
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:04,240
Speaker 1: Like he was a super cool great dude.

1167
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:06,839
Speaker 3: He owned like a junkyard. He was a crazy man.

1168
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:10,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, you would you like to plug your dropping an

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Speaker 1: album in eighteen days, it's going to be a movie.

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Speaker 1: And I just want to say I'm sorry to the

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Speaker 1: second story. I'm sorry you went through that bullshit, and

1172
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 1: I hope that restraining order is working because that guy's

1173
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 1: a loser. Yeah no, this was really fun. I don't

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Speaker 1: really like go out of my way to like listen

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Speaker 1: to stories very often, so it was like an audiobook

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Speaker 1: in real time. It was nice. I really enjoyed it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, thank you, Yeah, mister money, thank.

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Speaker 1: You for having me on board today in chat. Hope

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Speaker 1: you guys enjoyed.

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