1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: Ready, Ready, Ready, Freddy scrubbing in with Decatilly and Tanya 2 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:09,319 Speaker 1: Brad and iHeartRadio and People's Choice Award winning podcast. 3 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 2: Happy Monday, Everybody. It's the only reason I ever I 4 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 2: start laughing when I say that is because I look 5 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 2: at everyone's faces as I say it, and everyone just. 6 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:25,799 Speaker 1: Grinning at me. Like Tanya just it's like grin on 7 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 1: her face. 8 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 3: Just feels right today, the Gangs, I'm back together again. 9 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 2: Mark Hi Eastern is fresh off of trip from South Louisiana. Yeah, 10 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,639 Speaker 2: I feel more connected to him than ever, my creole king. 11 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 4: Now, I listened to the last week's podcast driving around 12 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 4: my hometown of Madison, Wisconsin. 13 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 3: That makes me so happy that you listen. 14 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 4: I loved it. I love this. It's a great podcast. 15 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,520 Speaker 1: Come on, what's not to love? 16 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 4: I was on fish Chery Road laughing as you talked 17 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 4: about urinating into your hydro flask. 18 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, by the way, before we started the podcast was 19 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 5: I have to be really quick, I'll very bad. Mark 20 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 5: looks at my hydro flask and he says, it's right here. 21 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 4: Where you're going on with all the effort. 22 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 3: Could you imagine if I just started like that was 23 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 3: just your your go to my thing. 24 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 2: You like at two am, that's what I feel most 25 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:14,119 Speaker 2: comfortable doing. 26 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. Every It was funny because like people were. 27 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 2: Like really inspired by your hydroflask movement, and I think 28 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 2: you probably made some sale. You should do like an 29 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 2: affiliate with them, because you could make some money based 30 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 2: off of the hydroflasp. 31 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 5: The fact that Hydroflask doesn't sponsor my life, it's just 32 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 5: really I feel like a missed opportunity. 33 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:32,400 Speaker 2: Why would they do it? 34 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 1: You talk about them for free all the time. 35 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 3: What would they pay for? It's a great product. I'm 36 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 3: just very happy. 37 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:42,279 Speaker 1: Holds the holds the water, holds coffee. 38 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 3: I've had this coffee eight am. 39 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 1: Wow, three hours. 40 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 4: Of todd coffee. 41 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: And you have multiple Well, she's down to two hydrofls. 42 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 3: This one's for coffee, this one's for water. 43 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 4: Oh I could fancy over here. 44 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: I just have one for water or doctor pepper. I 45 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: have not yet. 46 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, yes, but you can wash it. If there's 47 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 4: I put coffee in it, you can then wash it 48 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 4: and use it for water. Yes, it's not Tellia, she's 49 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 4: a different one for every conceivable liquid she could consume. 50 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 3: It's a different top and a different size. Thank you. 51 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 5: If could you mention if I fulfilled forty ounces up 52 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:17,359 Speaker 5: with coffee, that would. 53 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 2: Be a lot of coffee, by the way, I imagine 54 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 2: tany with forty ounces of coffee in. 55 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 5: Her I would just like to say that I feel 56 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 5: very validated by our scrubbing and listeners, because I got 57 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 5: a plethora of dms of people saying that they would 58 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 5: have indeed kept the hydro flask as well, and they 59 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 5: would have just disinfected it. 60 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 2: But I get that though, like I understand that, but 61 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 2: also they didn't smell what I smelled. It was asparagus fee. 62 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 2: They did not go through what I went through for 63 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 2: me to have such a strong opinion about it. 64 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: So I trust that a lot of people would probably 65 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 1: do that. 66 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:54,079 Speaker 2: And I honestly think had I not been there being 67 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 2: like you can't, you would have kept it for sure. 68 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:58,839 Speaker 2: But I think I got I think I even got 69 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 2: in your head and was like that's it's really sick. 70 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, And then I was like, you're right, yeah. 71 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 3: But here we are. Yeah. 72 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:06,799 Speaker 1: Good thing. 73 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 3: I had to back up. 74 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:09,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, good thing, you have two backups. 75 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:14,639 Speaker 3: Wow, what did you. 76 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 1: Do this week? This weekend? I feel like I haven't 77 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: seen you. 78 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 5: Feel like, I've talked to you a lot, and did 79 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 5: you notice something different about me today? 80 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 1: Oh? 81 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 6: Wow? 82 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, so my face is on Tanya. Many of my face, 83 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 2: like a lot of faces, yep, are Tanya's the background. 84 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: It's my head. 85 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 2: Does that make you feel love, cared for and scared? 86 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? 87 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 7: I cared for and scared and. 88 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 2: Like I feel like if someone saw it from a distance, 89 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 2: they think it was your face because all you see 90 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 2: is like blonde hair. They're probably why does she have herself. 91 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 3: As her background? 92 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 2: And then I'm pulling closer inspection. They'd be scared for 93 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 2: me too. There are cute backgrounds, though, I like the 94 00:03:57,080 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 2: one of the both of us. I would put that 95 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 2: as a background. Yeah, I'm not gonna puts your face, 96 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 2: even though I love you. 97 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 3: Okay, Well here we are. 98 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 2: So anyways, we didn't see each other, but you saw me. 99 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 3: I saw you. I know I spend a minute last Monday. 100 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 2: Well you know, we went from spending three and a 101 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 2: half full days together to. 102 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 3: Day ever. I don't like the cold Turkey, but I 103 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 3: had a lot of things to do. 104 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:26,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're so busy. You're always so busy, and you're 105 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 2: always like I just want to sleep and not do anything, 106 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:32,480 Speaker 2: and you're like, I'm gone to fourteen events in five days. 107 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:35,039 Speaker 5: I know Friday was supposed to be like I like 108 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 5: desid in my calendar was like Friday night is sleep night, Tanya, Tanya, 109 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 5: sleep clean, like just in bed by nine? 110 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:44,919 Speaker 1: Have you cleaned your makeup brushes in a minute. 111 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 5: I don't even know whow those things are dirty? And 112 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 5: I didn't do. 113 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 3: It because guess what what. 114 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 1: You were just living? 115 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:56,839 Speaker 3: This man asked me if I wanted to get a drink, 116 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 3: and I said. 117 00:04:59,279 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 4: Sure do. 118 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 5: I hate to say it because I made plans with 119 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:06,040 Speaker 5: myself tonight and I said sure, do. 120 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 1: What's wrong with that? 121 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 4: That's interesting non modern woman thing, because that seems fine 122 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 4: to me. 123 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 3: No, it was fine. 124 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 5: But then again, this is the problem is that I 125 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 5: was so on sleep again Friday, and then Saturday I 126 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 5: had to wake up early, go down San Diego, spend 127 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 5: time with my family, and like spending time with your family, 128 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 5: have to be like alert there's children around. 129 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 2: I mean, but you can still rest. If anyone you 130 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 2: can rest around, it should be your family. 131 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. 132 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 2: True, I said that wrong? If you if you should 133 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 2: be able to right, I think so, I don't know. 134 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 2: I feel like I said that wrong, but I'm proud 135 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 2: that you said yes, because you texted me and you 136 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 2: were like, I wanted to just have a chill night, 137 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 2: but I wanted to see him so and she said 138 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 2: that borgous photo with eye patches on and under eye 139 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 2: is that what you had on underree or. 140 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 1: Concealer or something? Yeah, not looking thrilled but like excited. Right, 141 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 1: was it worth it? 142 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:55,239 Speaker 3: Totally? 143 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 4: Is his wedding guy? 144 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 3: Hmm? 145 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 4: Okay, so it's time to nickname him. It is time 146 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 4: to we're here, all right, here we go. I mean 147 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 4: I just called him wedding guy. That seems kind of boring. 148 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 4: But there are no wrong, no bad ideas in your brainstorming. 149 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 4: So we'll start with the wedding guy. I'll make a list. 150 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 4: You can hear the paper that I'm going to make 151 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 4: my list. 152 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 3: Onne, I don't love wedding guy. 153 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, but you met him at a wedding. 154 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 155 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 8: It's got a lot of pressure in the relationships. 156 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 3: Just a big word in there that's like stress a 157 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 3: little bit. 158 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 4: How about soulmate? Does that better? 159 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:37,040 Speaker 1: Red star wars? No, that's like reserved for. 160 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 4: Like the one that's even a bigger one than we 161 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 4: were just joking. What else do we know about this guy? 162 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 1: We can't say much. 163 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 4: Does he have facial hair? 164 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? 165 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 4: What does he have? 166 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:54,600 Speaker 3: Facial hair? 167 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 4: Beard, mustache, goatee, he's a full beard, a full beard? 168 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 4: What thinking about? There's no bad idea. I'm rainstorming. I'm 169 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 4: running it down for good. Kind of implies what we 170 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:06,919 Speaker 4: don't want to think of. 171 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 3: I'm trying to think of something cute. 172 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm something. 173 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 3: Okay, should I give you some more details? 174 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:18,239 Speaker 4: I need more details? 175 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 5: Okay, I had I had an idea that that would 176 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 5: be cute, but it might be kind of really cheesy. 177 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 3: Toris like stress for me. Okay. 178 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 5: So we had our first kiss listening to Casey Musgraves Butterflies. 179 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:42,239 Speaker 5: I know, so I was thinking, mister Butterfly, is that terrible? 180 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: That is so cute? 181 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 3: Is it? 182 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 1: Or is it? I mean, I just the fact that, 183 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 1: y'all it's cheesy. But I love you know, I love cheese. 184 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 4: I like alliteration. How about butterfly. 185 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: Boy cat with the boy a superhero. 186 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 8: Like it's it signifies rebirth. 187 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:03,559 Speaker 4: And I don't like mister mister boring. 188 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 2: Everything's just doctor Captain Butterfly, Let's just bray. 189 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 4: So I like butterflies butterfly. 190 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 3: But do we like butterfly? 191 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 4: I like that, but we need something else. We don't 192 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 4: just call him butterfly. That's kind of weird. Uh, senior butterfly, butterfly, 193 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 4: it is. 194 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 3: In your butterfly. I don't know if I can take 195 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 3: it seriously, but I will. 196 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 4: Well will laugh every time. That's what sor butterfly. Here's 197 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 4: some more details about senior butterfly. 198 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: Okay, I think I'm just gonna call him signor. 199 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 5: I definitely want to have something different than the others 200 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 5: because I feel like he's different. 201 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 9: Okay, So stressed by the way, I had the conversation 202 00:08:58,760 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 9: I told beck about this already. 203 00:08:59,880 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 5: I conversation with my sister, who, by the way, the 204 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 5: fact that we were born from the same parents is 205 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 5: like beyond me. She's very levelheaded, she like is very centered. 206 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 5: She's a therapist, so she you know, she's a psychologist, 207 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 5: so she like knows what she's doing. But she had 208 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 5: this conversation with me because I was telling her like 209 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:18,679 Speaker 5: that I'm stressed out that I want to see him 210 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 5: so much, because you know, me, like I could go 211 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 5: even when I like somebody, I could go a week 212 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 5: without seeing them. 213 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 3: In between dates. 214 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 2: You normally date people from out of state, so you 215 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 2: have to see exactly. 216 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 5: And so she was telling me, she was like, I 217 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 5: think that you were so traumatized from your very bad breakup. 218 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 5: And she's like, and you've been bringing in these people 219 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 5: that are either physically or like emotionally unattainable, whether they 220 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:43,559 Speaker 5: live out of town, or they're divorced with children and 221 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 5: don't want more kids, or you know what I mean, 222 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 5: like all of these things. You're bringing those guys in 223 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:49,680 Speaker 5: because you can't they're not you can't attach yourself in 224 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,680 Speaker 5: the way that you did in the past. And I 225 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 5: was like, oh my god, you're so right, and she's like, 226 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 5: I think this is why you're feeling this, Like why 227 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 5: you're saying stressed is because because this man. 228 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 3: Could potentially be something. 229 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 5: Yeah, because he lives in my town and he wants. 230 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: To see and he wants to see you want to 231 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 1: see him. 232 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:12,559 Speaker 3: And we're talking a lot, and it just feels good. 233 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 5: And so I think she's like, that's why you're having this, 234 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:19,559 Speaker 5: Like it's almost triggering because you're feeling those feelings that 235 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 5: you felt for somebody in the past. And then it 236 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:24,200 Speaker 5: ended in a really bad way that was so traumatic 237 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 5: for you. So that's why this is like coming back up. 238 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 5: It makes sense, totally makes sense. I was like literally before. 239 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 2: Actually, weirdly enough, the Bachelor is what like actually made 240 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:40,439 Speaker 2: me have that realization that I built. I had these walls, 241 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 2: and I thought, like, because I would like people who 242 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 2: didn't like me back, yes, So anytime someone liked me back, 243 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 2: I was like, well, they could hurt me, so I'm 244 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:51,720 Speaker 2: going to like be cold and like stand offish because 245 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 2: that will protect me. But it never allowed me to 246 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 2: like even have feelings towards anyone because I was always prepared. 247 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 1: For the like her of like not like rejection. 248 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 5: I guess totally that was a big thing you had 249 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 5: to get over recently, right, I. 250 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 2: Think, well, Robert was the first time where I actually 251 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:13,719 Speaker 2: allowed myself to like, Okay, I'm gonna let myself be 252 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 2: in a relationship even though I'm like scared for like 253 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 2: the commitment of maybe being hurt, which is a I mean, 254 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 2: it's weird that our brains do that. It's so weird 255 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 2: because like we're made to love, like when we want 256 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 2: to love and share experiences with people, but yet once 257 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:29,959 Speaker 2: we get hurt or we feel rejection. Our like brain 258 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 2: like stores that and they're like, let's not let that 259 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 2: happen again. 260 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 7: Yeah. 261 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 5: I don't know if as my mom or my mom's 262 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 5: best friend. Minna that said something to me after I 263 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:39,960 Speaker 5: went through my bad breakup, she said, and it's still 264 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 5: stuck with me. She said, this was the love of 265 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:45,199 Speaker 5: your life that you had. It was almost like you 266 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:47,319 Speaker 5: didn't have a parachute. You were just you just jumped 267 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:48,960 Speaker 5: out of the plane, that jump out of the plane 268 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 5: kind of love where you don't have a parachute and 269 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:54,679 Speaker 5: you just fall and you just have no there's like 270 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:57,079 Speaker 5: there's no hurt in your heart. You're just totally going 271 00:11:57,120 --> 00:12:00,559 Speaker 5: with it. And she's like once, like, now that this 272 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 5: has ended and you've experienced that trauma from that, you're 273 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 5: always going to love with a parachute from now on. 274 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:11,840 Speaker 3: And I was like, so true, But that's okay. 275 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:15,719 Speaker 2: Is there for safety? And I think you're still jumping. Yeah, 276 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 2: you're still jumping. I think if you're stuck in the plane, 277 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 2: that's a big right, right. 278 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 3: Right, Thank you for that. 279 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you've jumped out of the plane and 280 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:28,439 Speaker 2: you have a Yeah, okay, you might even have someone 281 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 2: attached to your back to pull a paracue. But it's 282 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:35,680 Speaker 2: something And I'm actually really proud of you because I 283 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:40,320 Speaker 2: know that dating someone like that's accessible to you and 284 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 2: also like he very clearly, like from what I've heard, 285 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 2: is very into you. And like you've been with these 286 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 2: guys who are like not like they don't communicate, or 287 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 2: like you're doing all the work or it's like not 288 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:56,959 Speaker 2: even and I feel like it's very much like y'all 289 00:12:57,000 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 2: are on the same plane level. Yeah, and it's scary, 290 00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 2: so scary, but it's exciting to We're just super cool. 291 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: We're just like, yeah, we're not happy single. Butterflies just 292 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 1: like chill. Yeah, glittering, just glittering. 293 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 3: You're just if. 294 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 4: You're like to sen your caterpillar right now. Hopefully someday 295 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 4: he'll see butterfly. 296 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 1: He's just signor. 297 00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 4: So you kissed Yeah, good kisser, Yes, that was happening. 298 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 1: Yes, And. 299 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:30,840 Speaker 4: How long ago was that first kiss? 300 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 3: Uh? Probably like less than a week ago. 301 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 4: Less than a week Okay, So there's been more kissing since. 302 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's been multiple dates since. 303 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 4: Has there been makeout sessions? 304 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 3: Yes? 305 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 4: Oh? 306 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 2: Okay, what like what changes from kiss to makeout? Is 307 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 2: that like tongue tongue. 308 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 3: I guess what I'm envisioning. 309 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 4: I think it's also a length of time, right right, 310 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:54,439 Speaker 4: I think, yeah, I have like at least ninety seconds makeout. 311 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 1: Session, right, yes, a minute and a half. 312 00:13:56,640 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 3: I think that's across at the threshold. 313 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 8: Kiss is like one thing, and a makeout as multiple kisses, 314 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:03,959 Speaker 8: right right, It's like a group of crows as a murder, 315 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:05,679 Speaker 8: like a group of kisses as a maker. 316 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 4: I don't know. 317 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 1: I feel like crows is a murder, murder of crows. 318 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:13,560 Speaker 4: I feel like you could kiss ten times in a 319 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 4: row and it wouldn't be a makeout session. It would 320 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 4: just be kissed. 321 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 3: But like makeouts like this, okay, yeah, I can't hear that. 322 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 4: Also, I feel like a makeout session can't be standing. 323 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 1: Oh true outsider up against the wall. 324 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, the demonstrations are bizarre. 325 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: I don't make out. 326 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 4: I think you need to be seated or laying. I 327 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 4: don't think you can stand out. 328 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 2: Some great makeouts like by the car or like wall. 329 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 1: I've had some great makeouts. 330 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 4: And there's a lean implied though there's a lean there 331 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 4: a car. 332 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 1: I think you're still leaning against the car was out 333 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: of the car. 334 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 4: You're both standing on your own two feet with nothing 335 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 4: else supporting you. No, I'm not sure that's a makeout session. 336 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 1: Oh it was a makeout. 337 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 5: Session, yeah, Mark, I have had some of those. Two 338 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 5: I'm on team back off. 339 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 4: Okay, fair enough. 340 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 1: So you only sit down when you make out. You're like, 341 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 1: heymy wants to make out, and you're like, we have 342 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: to sit. 343 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 10: Have a seat. 344 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 4: I think it doesn't qualify. I think you stand there 345 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 4: and kiss for a while. I don't think that's a makeup. 346 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 1: Marshy, You're just wrong. You're just mad because you. 347 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 2: Know I'm right and you're wrong. 348 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 1: Now you're havingthin all right, fair enough, it's true. 349 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 4: Okay, I think you can have a kissing session that's 350 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 4: not a makeout session. 351 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 5: I feel like they're one and the same. It's like tomato, tomato, potato, potato. 352 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 4: Okay. 353 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 2: Do you think that you like, if you have insane 354 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 2: chemistry with someone, do you think the kiss is going 355 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 2: to be good regardless, or do you think someone having 356 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 2: like amazing chemistry and then being a bad kisser you 357 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 2: would feel like they're a bad kisser. Or do you 358 00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 2: think because you're so into them, you're like it was great. 359 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 5: That's an interesting question because I have had really good 360 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 5: chemistry with people before, like verbally and then physically the 361 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 5: chemistry wasn't there really, yes, like you not. 362 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 2: I feel like everyone have had chemistry with if we've 363 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 2: ended up kissing, the kiss has been good because like that, 364 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 2: and maybe they were just good kissers, but the chemistry 365 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 2: was just there. 366 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 4: I feel like it's a learned skill. I feel like 367 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 4: you can become a better kisser. It's something you can 368 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 4: be you're not great at to begin with. I mean 369 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 4: maybe some people are naturals and you get better as 370 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 4: you get as you kiss more. 371 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 2: I think it also would help if the if like 372 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 2: you get to a place where you're like close enough 373 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 2: to be able to like tell someone like if they're 374 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 2: doing too much to be like you can relax a 375 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 2: little bit, right. 376 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 4: What are some kissing pet peeves? 377 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 1: Too much like saliva? 378 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 3: See I thought you might disagree with that, But I 379 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:00,280 Speaker 3: enjoy the tongue small thing. 380 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 1: No, I don't know, but there can be too much the. 381 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 3: Darting, the like, oh yeah, like the lizard tongue. The 382 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:08,159 Speaker 3: lizard tongue is a hard No. 383 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 2: That fascination is so sick. 384 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:15,200 Speaker 5: I haven't had that in a while, and I don't 385 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:17,440 Speaker 5: never have. I hope that died in my twenties. 386 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:20,640 Speaker 1: I leave that back there. 387 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, we leave it back there. The darting tongue is just. 388 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:25,880 Speaker 2: I also don't like when someone like keeps their mouth 389 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 2: too like closed. Yeah you know. 390 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 3: Yeah. 391 00:17:30,600 --> 00:17:32,680 Speaker 8: I had a young lady once that would she would 392 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:35,879 Speaker 8: separate her face from mine like half an inch and 393 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:39,119 Speaker 8: then trace my lips with her tongue. 394 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:40,720 Speaker 3: That actually sounds kind of fun. 395 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:42,959 Speaker 10: I didn't like it. 396 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 8: It felt it felt very like medical, Like I felt 397 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 8: like I was repected by an alien or something. 398 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 2: So she probably was like, oh, he's gonna love this. 399 00:17:52,040 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 5: I do enjoy a lipsuckle, we know, Yeah, I do 400 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:56,720 Speaker 5: enjoy that that happened. 401 00:17:58,040 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 3: Yours a lipsuckler. 402 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:03,120 Speaker 4: I love that we're implying that he is somehow Latino, 403 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:05,119 Speaker 4: but we're just saying it. We just made it up. 404 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:07,439 Speaker 1: Wait, you like when it's done to you? Were to 405 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:08,160 Speaker 1: do it to someone? 406 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:08,919 Speaker 3: I like both? 407 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 1: Okay, both, you're. 408 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:13,440 Speaker 4: Both with an l Here's a list of mistakes people 409 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 4: make when they're kissing too much tongue covered that is 410 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 4: there such a thing? 411 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 3: Tell you? I like tongue, bring on the tongue too 412 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:20,200 Speaker 3: little tongue. 413 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a mistake. Oh yeah, teeth getting away. 414 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, don't make a teeth clash. 415 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:29,359 Speaker 3: It happens sometimes, but I haven't had that happen a while. 416 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 2: Uh. 417 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 4: You aren't closing your eyes. Oh yeah, that's that's that's 418 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:37,439 Speaker 4: potentially weird eyes. 419 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 3: Oh my god, to open my eyes if he's still there, 420 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 3: like what he looks like when he's kissing. 421 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 11: But then if he opens his eyes, that would scare 422 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 11: the hell out of it. 423 00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 3: It's not like I opened them like a guy like. 424 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:08,480 Speaker 4: You know, that's all you have. 425 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 5: I know, I like just like pure amaley, like a 426 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:13,480 Speaker 5: little tiny wings like. 427 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:18,920 Speaker 4: Your kisses have no variation. It's the same thing over 428 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 4: and over again. 429 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:20,640 Speaker 3: That's annoying. 430 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 4: You're only focused on the. 431 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:26,680 Speaker 3: Lips as opposed to the neck. 432 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 4: The nose, the ears. If you want your kiss to 433 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:31,720 Speaker 4: reach the next level, don't limit yourself to the lips. 434 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 4: Turn up the heat by stroking your partner's back or 435 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:34,920 Speaker 4: softly biting their ear. 436 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 3: Oh nice. 437 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 4: Okay, this is seventeen magazine, by the way. That's where 438 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 4: I got this thing. It's where I get a lot 439 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:43,920 Speaker 4: of things. You don't freshen your breath beforehand, well, Obviously 440 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:46,199 Speaker 4: that's not good. You're not prepping your lips ahead of 441 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:51,440 Speaker 4: time a moisturizing balm. You are not ready, or your 442 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 4: partner is not ready. You go in and they're not ready, 443 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:55,639 Speaker 4: or the tongue comes in before they realize what's happening. 444 00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 4: You don't be surprised by the tongue, let's see. And 445 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,119 Speaker 4: you're not communic hitting with each other. Those are the 446 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:04,159 Speaker 4: seventeen magazine mistakes people make when kissing. 447 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 3: Communication is key. Yeah, oh that was fun. 448 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:11,440 Speaker 1: That butt like a like a teenage conversation. 449 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:13,160 Speaker 3: Totally me too. 450 00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 4: I don't know if I'm allowed to bring this up 451 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 4: what I heard the last night? Uh, he stuck around? 452 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:22,320 Speaker 3: He did stick around? 453 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,359 Speaker 4: Oh were allowed to say that? Yeah, okay, that's next level. 454 00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 1: Stuck around for a little sleepover. 455 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:33,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm about to fly. I am here and I 456 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 4: will not be leaving. 457 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 2: I need to hear more details about this. So he 458 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:40,360 Speaker 2: came over what approximately? 459 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:40,879 Speaker 1: What time? 460 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:42,960 Speaker 3: Sick ish? 461 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 2: So it wasn't like he came over late and he 462 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:48,200 Speaker 2: had a lot of time. 463 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 5: Here's the thing, I just want to spend time with him. 464 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 5: It's so weird for me, So I'm trying to just 465 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:02,640 Speaker 5: go with it and not think too much about it. 466 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:05,720 Speaker 3: Which is also like not like me, but. 467 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:07,720 Speaker 4: But that's how that's how it should be. Yeah, like 468 00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 4: it was with Amy and I at the beginning. You 469 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 4: just you want to spend time. And there were no games. Yeah, 470 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 4: like I'm busy, there was no lives, there was no 471 00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:15,400 Speaker 4: it was just yeah tomorrow great. 472 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:18,040 Speaker 5: Yeah that's kind of how honestly, that's how it's been. 473 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:21,640 Speaker 5: And like even like when we text, like he has 474 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:23,400 Speaker 5: a job that requires him to like be away from 475 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,560 Speaker 5: his phone for extended periods of time, and I'm like 476 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 5: super chill. I'm not like if he waits forever to 477 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,639 Speaker 5: text me back, I don't wait like six hours to 478 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 5: writehim back. 479 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 3: I write him back right away. 480 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 6: You know. 481 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not. 482 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,120 Speaker 1: Like having to like play the game to keep him interested. 483 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:37,840 Speaker 4: He has to be away from his phone. I don't 484 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:38,160 Speaker 4: like that. 485 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 3: Wells just like working job, he doesn't have to. 486 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:43,399 Speaker 4: It's not like I feel like most people at work 487 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 4: jobs are on their phone for work reasons. 488 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 5: People have like meetings, and it's not like six hours. 489 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:49,040 Speaker 5: It's maybe like an hour. 490 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 3: Or two, but anyway. 491 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 5: More at six or six dinner, Yeah, we ordered in 492 00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 5: nice and we watched. 493 00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:02,200 Speaker 1: It and Bill, what did you get? 494 00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 3: I got a salad obviously? 495 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 2: What did he get? 496 00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:06,160 Speaker 3: Fish? 497 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 4: Nice? 498 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 3: Healthy? Yeah. 499 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 2: Oh, she's gonna high five me for that, which I 500 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:12,120 Speaker 2: don't know why. 501 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:14,399 Speaker 4: But he's like clean like you or not? No, no, 502 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 4: she's a good move though. 503 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:20,159 Speaker 3: Yeah he's not like me, like he can you know. 504 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:23,080 Speaker 8: He might have a cheeseburger right right right, Grandfell has 505 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:26,440 Speaker 8: a cheeseburger pizza on the menu. I was hoping he's 506 00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:27,000 Speaker 8: a healthy guy. 507 00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, And then we watched a movie and then Mulan Rouge, Oh. 508 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:32,679 Speaker 4: Whose idea was that? 509 00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 5: Well, so the decision was, so I'm starting I actually, 510 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:38,160 Speaker 5: I don't know if I'm allowed to say this, but. 511 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:40,440 Speaker 3: I'm starting to. 512 00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:43,639 Speaker 5: Prep for Emmy's Oh yeah, and so I want to 513 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 5: start watching all the shows that are nominated. But then 514 00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:50,440 Speaker 5: so we were gonna watch Barry. 515 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:51,439 Speaker 4: So we put it on the second season. Is that 516 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:51,880 Speaker 4: good show? 517 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:52,440 Speaker 3: I know? 518 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:54,000 Speaker 5: But then I was like, I know, I'm not going 519 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 5: to pay attention, and I actually need to pay attention, 520 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:57,480 Speaker 5: you know what I mean, because I have like a 521 00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 5: cot Man next to me. Yeah, So like I think 522 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:01,720 Speaker 5: we need to watch something that's just kind. 523 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:03,439 Speaker 4: Of like, Uhlan Rouge is great. Background for me. 524 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:06,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, or is there a new TV show? No? 525 00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,400 Speaker 3: The movie twenty years ago? 526 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 4: Uh so is your decision from Wulan Rouge kind. 527 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:13,880 Speaker 3: Of joint you have on Netflix? 528 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:16,440 Speaker 1: I had it on DVD. 529 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:19,080 Speaker 3: I had it like in my thing, Like, did you 530 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 3: about a DVD in? No, I don't even think I 531 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 3: have a DVD player. 532 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 4: What's your thing? 533 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:24,119 Speaker 3: What do you mean it was like in like I 534 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 3: had it, I bought it or. 535 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:28,159 Speaker 4: Digital Mulan Rouge once upon a time? 536 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 3: Probably do you know, like I'm obsessed with that soundtrack? 537 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 4: Sure that makes sense. 538 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:35,719 Speaker 5: I had like a full blown like concert one night 539 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:37,119 Speaker 5: at dinner with like a friend of mine because we 540 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,199 Speaker 5: were playing I was playing you and McGregor and he 541 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 5: was playing the cool kidman. 542 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 1: That sounds like Brad. 543 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 3: No, it's actually Ben JoJo's brother. 544 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 4: Oh so you see, so it was a mutual decision 545 00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 4: from Mulan Rouge. Yeah, great, I like that. That's a 546 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 4: good sign because it's not like a guy thing. 547 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 3: Right. 548 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:57,200 Speaker 4: Had you seen it before? 549 00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 6: Yeah? 550 00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:02,680 Speaker 4: Oh so you didn't see much of it. You're making out? 551 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:05,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, and then we went to sleep. 552 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,400 Speaker 1: For your Yeah, what was the decision of Like I'm 553 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:08,920 Speaker 1: staying the. 554 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,680 Speaker 3: Night, so that decision was made on Friday. 555 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 2: Oh this is a pre orchestrat Wow. 556 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, so he got up. 557 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:20,359 Speaker 1: And went to work this morning, yeah from your house. 558 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:22,439 Speaker 3: No, he went home, got ready for work. 559 00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 4: And then Sunday night sleepover with an interesting plan. That's 560 00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:27,199 Speaker 4: more that seems more spontaneous than planned. 561 00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 3: Usually usually this is unusual. 562 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 4: But why you guys wanted to spend the night together 563 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:34,439 Speaker 4: because we wanted. 564 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,359 Speaker 5: I'm trying to like get weekend time. And so that 565 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:39,160 Speaker 5: was the last part of the weekend that I came 566 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:40,800 Speaker 5: back from being with my family. 567 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:47,359 Speaker 4: He slept in your bed. Yes, Beck, Could you have 568 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,240 Speaker 4: any questions about that, because I mean, very. 569 00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 3: Very very PG. 570 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:55,639 Speaker 1: How do you have a lot of willpower? 571 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:57,960 Speaker 5: I know you know what I had to I wonder 572 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 5: if I screenshoted this message. I got a messag from 573 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 5: a listener and it like really blessed my heart because 574 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:07,920 Speaker 5: it was very lengthy and she said she was having 575 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:09,920 Speaker 5: a guy coming to visit her that she had met 576 00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:11,919 Speaker 5: on some dating app and so it was kind of 577 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,639 Speaker 5: similar to the doctor screen time thing where he was 578 00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:18,760 Speaker 5: coming into town and she's like, I made this decision 579 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:20,520 Speaker 5: as well that like I don't want to have sex 580 00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 5: with him, but I don't know how to have that conversation. 581 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:25,159 Speaker 5: She's like, I feel like it's going to be awkward. 582 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 5: I feel like he's not going to want to come 583 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,720 Speaker 5: Like she was like felt very vulnerable. 584 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,359 Speaker 4: Or to invite a guy into your bed and not 585 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 4: have him assume things right. 586 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:36,479 Speaker 5: And I just I responded, and I was like, I 587 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 5: think that you just have to kind of come to 588 00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 5: terms with like this is not a decision that you've 589 00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,119 Speaker 5: made to protect yourself, you know what I mean, Like 590 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 5: this is more of like this is what I need. 591 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,679 Speaker 5: I need, I need commitment from you to feel comfortable 592 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 5: going in that direction. And until that happens, like this 593 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:53,679 Speaker 5: isn't going to happen, and just kind of put it 594 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,160 Speaker 5: on you, you know, but also don't make it. It's 595 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,240 Speaker 5: not an insecurity. It shouldn't be something that you're ashamed 596 00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,400 Speaker 5: of or embarrassed about. This is something I think it's 597 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,919 Speaker 5: really great to be that self aware, you know. 598 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, but it is hard. I mean it 599 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 1: is hard. 600 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 2: Like Mark said, I I would assume that a guy thinking, oh, 601 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 2: she wants me to stay at her place and in 602 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:14,240 Speaker 2: her bed, like that's where things are going to go. 603 00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:17,480 Speaker 2: So I do think that conversation is important, Yeah, and 604 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,920 Speaker 2: to explain like why it's not like I'm not indie 605 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 2: or whatever. It's like, I just don't want to do 606 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 2: this without any commitment. And I think that's very fair. 607 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:31,360 Speaker 5: And I've had that conversation with him, like prior to so, so. 608 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 4: He knew in advanced or with signor what did you 609 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 4: tell him? As far as that goes, like you're not 610 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,400 Speaker 4: saying you're saving stuff to marriage, You're not saying it's 611 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,560 Speaker 4: open season, Like how do you put that to a guy? 612 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 5: I kind of just kind of go into the like 613 00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 5: my past relationships, and I think I'm the happiest that 614 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:54,639 Speaker 5: I've ever been in my life as of the past 615 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:57,159 Speaker 5: few years. And I think it's because I've made this 616 00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:02,200 Speaker 5: commitment to myself because I'm not I think there are 617 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:04,960 Speaker 5: people out there that can have unattached sex, I really do. 618 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,440 Speaker 5: I think there are people that are built that way 619 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 5: or whatever that might be. I'm not one of those people. 620 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,080 Speaker 5: And I spent so many years trying to convince myself 621 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,439 Speaker 5: that I was that person or like I'll just do 622 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,880 Speaker 5: this and then he'll he'll decide later that. 623 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 3: He wants to like be only be with me. 624 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 5: Or you know what I mean, Like, I think I 625 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:26,639 Speaker 5: just was making this like trying to convince myself. 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That's ZipRecruiter dot com, slash b E 744 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:13,880 Speaker 5: c c A ZipRecruiter dot com slash becca. 745 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:25,720 Speaker 2: ZipRecruiter the smartest way to hire. All right, you guys, 746 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:29,480 Speaker 2: we have a very very exciting guest in the o 747 00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:36,719 Speaker 2: R today. We have Bethany Joylins. 748 00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:37,720 Speaker 3: I did. 749 00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:40,880 Speaker 2: I was telling you earlier. I wasn't sure. Danielle asked like, 750 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 2: what name you like to go by? And that was 751 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,200 Speaker 2: one of the questions in our Facebook groom. I was like, 752 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,760 Speaker 2: what's her name? What is she doing her name? 753 00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,960 Speaker 7: I've been asking myself that question for years. 754 00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:52,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. 755 00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:55,320 Speaker 7: So when I so, I was born Bethany Joylens. That's 756 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:59,040 Speaker 7: my name on my birth certificate. When I was thirteen, 757 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:02,040 Speaker 7: I is doing what all thirteen year olds do and 758 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,720 Speaker 7: try and find my independence, and so I decided to 759 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:07,600 Speaker 7: change a spelling of my name, go by j Ohi 760 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:09,200 Speaker 7: e ju. 761 00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:13,839 Speaker 3: Ju. And I had a. 762 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 7: Good run with Joa or Joy. I mean it was 763 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,200 Speaker 7: still Joy, but I had a run with that for 764 00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:22,040 Speaker 7: until I was twenty, and I have a there's a 765 00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 7: lot of credits out there. I was on Guiding Light 766 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:27,120 Speaker 7: with j O, I, E and I and I don't 767 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:29,480 Speaker 7: know why I changed it back. I think once One 768 00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,520 Speaker 7: Tree Hill started, I thought, Oh, this show is like 769 00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:33,799 Speaker 7: for real, this is a for real job. I have 770 00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:35,480 Speaker 7: to really decide what my name's going to be. And 771 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:36,680 Speaker 7: I don't know if I want to stick with this 772 00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:38,680 Speaker 7: thing I came up with when I was thirteen years old. 773 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,160 Speaker 7: I guess I better go back to my birth certificate name. 774 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:43,920 Speaker 7: But nobody's ever called me Bethany. My whole life has 775 00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:45,879 Speaker 7: always just been Joy. And my parents always called me Joy, 776 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 7: but he called me Joy. 777 00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:47,680 Speaker 3: Love the name Joy. 778 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,399 Speaker 1: I do too, I love, I mean Joy. 779 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:51,799 Speaker 7: Thanks. I know. 780 00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:52,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 781 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 2: At what point were you like I need to add 782 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 2: the Bethany on? It was that. 783 00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:58,839 Speaker 7: It was then when we started One Tree Hill, because 784 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:00,839 Speaker 7: I thought, like, I don't I guess I thought it 785 00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,480 Speaker 7: sounded more. I was twenty, like, I was like, I 786 00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:05,840 Speaker 7: just I need to say what my professional name's going 787 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:08,040 Speaker 7: to be. And I was I was probably in the 788 00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:09,960 Speaker 7: middle of some kind of identity crisis. I mean, I 789 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:11,400 Speaker 7: don't know, and I just was like, I'm going to 790 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:13,040 Speaker 7: just go with my birth certificate and that's what's on 791 00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:14,920 Speaker 7: my name. That'll be my name forever. And then I 792 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 7: got married and I was all super like, ooh, I'm 793 00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 7: going to take my husband's last name. And so I 794 00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,000 Speaker 7: did that for a while, and then I got divorce 795 00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:23,480 Speaker 7: and I was like, oh, I'm definitely not gonna have 796 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:24,640 Speaker 7: my husbands last name anymore. 797 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:25,840 Speaker 3: And I got right. 798 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:30,520 Speaker 7: And then I went just Joy, Joy Lens and then 799 00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:32,319 Speaker 7: I was like, oh is that boring? And then I 800 00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:36,560 Speaker 7: just decided I was really overthinking it, and who heirs, 801 00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:39,839 Speaker 7: Just pick a name and be the name. So that's 802 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,080 Speaker 7: my name. You can call me Joy, you call me Bethany, 803 00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:44,279 Speaker 7: you call me Hey. You you can call me Frian, 804 00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 7: I don't know whatever. Susan just you know, shout at 805 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:47,799 Speaker 7: me and I'll turn around. 806 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:49,600 Speaker 1: Do people ever call you Haley. 807 00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:50,360 Speaker 7: All the time? 808 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:50,960 Speaker 3: Yeah? 809 00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,520 Speaker 2: You respond to it like if you're Haleah in the distance. 810 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:57,760 Speaker 7: I I don't out of the principle of the matter, 811 00:35:57,880 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 7: just because it annoys me. 812 00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:02,799 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're like, I'm human. I know, I hear it. 813 00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 3: I hear it. 814 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:05,960 Speaker 2: It is weird. I mean it is such like you 815 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,279 Speaker 2: were on a show for such a long time and 816 00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:09,640 Speaker 2: had such. 817 00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:11,840 Speaker 1: A I mean, it's really cool being. 818 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:13,719 Speaker 2: Like talking to you right now because I just like 819 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:15,600 Speaker 2: love I mean, I loved you on the show, and 820 00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:18,400 Speaker 2: I loved the show and I watched it so loyally, 821 00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,680 Speaker 2: and then I think it's really fun. I get I 822 00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:24,160 Speaker 2: get that excitement of seeing a character that you love 823 00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:26,960 Speaker 2: in real life and like wanting to say their character name, 824 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:27,680 Speaker 2: and I like. 825 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:30,359 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's funny. That's funny. I've had. I've 826 00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,520 Speaker 7: had that happened to me before too, just as I've 827 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:34,239 Speaker 7: as I've the longer I've been in the business, the 828 00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:36,840 Speaker 7: more you get to know people that you've watched for 829 00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:39,799 Speaker 7: years and then become their friend. And it's weird the 830 00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:41,600 Speaker 7: first little while you're like how do I do this? 831 00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:45,640 Speaker 5: I think it's just so weird because like your profession 832 00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:49,960 Speaker 5: is to be somebody else, Yeah, to be this like character, 833 00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:52,520 Speaker 5: and it's like so crazy to me, like the life, 834 00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:54,440 Speaker 5: Like it's just I can't wrap. 835 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:55,839 Speaker 3: My head around it. Does that make sense? 836 00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:57,359 Speaker 5: Like it's hard for me to like wrap my brain 837 00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 5: around like the idea that like you go in like 838 00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 5: your job and you you are this character and that's 839 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:05,120 Speaker 5: what everybody sees they see this character, they don't see 840 00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,360 Speaker 5: you as a human. Yeah, it's got such and that 841 00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,600 Speaker 5: show took on such a life of its own totally. 842 00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:14,000 Speaker 5: Oh that it's like became this integral piece of two 843 00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:18,400 Speaker 5: thousands pop culture. Yeah and yeah, I mean, I think 844 00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:21,480 Speaker 5: that's part of the reason why, you know, people who 845 00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:25,160 Speaker 5: are especially young twenty somethings in teenagers, who are on 846 00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:29,280 Speaker 5: shows like that, it's hard for them to get work 847 00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,920 Speaker 5: after the show is over because everybody only sees them 848 00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:34,480 Speaker 5: as that character, and they really have to sort of 849 00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,160 Speaker 5: step out of the way for a little while and 850 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:38,680 Speaker 5: just not be in the business too much. And then, 851 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,360 Speaker 5: you know, hopefully when you come back and like, you know, 852 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:43,799 Speaker 5: I'm back with Pearson and it's a totally new character 853 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:45,600 Speaker 5: and it's a new show, and I feel like I'm 854 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:47,799 Speaker 5: getting a really positive response with that. But I think 855 00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:49,800 Speaker 5: I had to like get out of the way for 856 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:51,279 Speaker 5: a little while because it was just too hard for. 857 00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 7: People to see me as anything but Haley. 858 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,200 Speaker 3: See I don't see you as Haley. Is that weird? 859 00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:58,400 Speaker 7: I'm so glad because my livelihood and my daughter's ability 860 00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,440 Speaker 7: to go to college actually depends on that. 861 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:05,080 Speaker 5: I see, I well, I'm obsessed with Grey's Anatomy. All 862 00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,719 Speaker 5: are obsessed with Grays Anatomy, And so I was like, 863 00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:10,480 Speaker 5: oh my gosh, you were on Grays last season. 864 00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it was not last season. 865 00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was last season. 866 00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,440 Speaker 7: I don't I don't know. It was fourteen. I mean 867 00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:17,600 Speaker 7: my god, fourteen. 868 00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:23,759 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it was last season and you were It's like, 869 00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:25,000 Speaker 5: i'll use the character names. 870 00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:32,439 Speaker 3: You were Jenny, Joe's x's oh yes, wife correct or fiance, 871 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,200 Speaker 3: fiance something for fiance. 872 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:35,040 Speaker 7: I can't remember. 873 00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:38,359 Speaker 3: It was so good. Oh it was it was. 874 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,399 Speaker 7: Fiance because Joe was the one that had so how. 875 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:42,400 Speaker 3: Many episodes were you on? Like three episodes? 876 00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:44,840 Speaker 7: It was two or three? I can't remember. 877 00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:47,160 Speaker 5: So when you come into like an ensemble show like 878 00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,560 Speaker 5: that with fourteen seasons, like is it are they like 879 00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:51,040 Speaker 5: super warm and friendly or. 880 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,200 Speaker 3: Is it like kind of like nuts? 881 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:55,600 Speaker 7: Everybody was really nice to me. I mean, I had 882 00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:58,240 Speaker 7: a great time on that show. Everybody was great, super sweet, 883 00:38:58,320 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 7: Like it's just as long as you're just kind of 884 00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:01,480 Speaker 7: show up, keep your head down. You know, if you 885 00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:03,440 Speaker 7: have an idea, say your idea. If you don't just 886 00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,799 Speaker 7: shut up and you know, stand on your mark, like 887 00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:08,839 Speaker 7: you gotta just know what you're walking into. It's not 888 00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:10,880 Speaker 7: like it's not a show where we're going to be 889 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:13,799 Speaker 7: rehearsing for forty five minutes before we take and like 890 00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 7: everybody's really going to get into their character and try 891 00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:18,120 Speaker 7: and hash out Like I just don't feel like I 892 00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,160 Speaker 7: would walk over that side of the room without a motivation. No, 893 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:22,880 Speaker 7: there's not time for that. You know, you sort of 894 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:24,840 Speaker 7: have to just know the zone you're going into. So 895 00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:26,680 Speaker 7: I had a great time on the show. I love 896 00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:27,280 Speaker 7: those people. 897 00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:32,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, our podcast is named after It's right anatomy 898 00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:39,000 Speaker 2: scrubbing in with Becket Red and on our rundown that's 899 00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 2: not even mentioned. So I'm a little bit thrown off 900 00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:45,319 Speaker 2: by that that that Gray's Anatomy wasn't in here. But 901 00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:49,319 Speaker 2: I see that you were on Dexter. Yeah, And I 902 00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:52,160 Speaker 2: only made it to season four because once Rita got 903 00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:55,719 Speaker 2: a spoiler yeah, runs Reda got killed off, I like 904 00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:59,720 Speaker 2: couldn't really yeah, and everyone was like, you gotta keep watching. 905 00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,600 Speaker 2: But I now I live alone. At the time, I 906 00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:05,480 Speaker 2: lived with my sister, so I didn't I get scared easily, 907 00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:08,040 Speaker 2: so I could watch with them, and then I go 908 00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:12,000 Speaker 2: to bed knowing that they could protect me. But now 909 00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,240 Speaker 2: I live alone, so I have to like really choose 910 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:15,800 Speaker 2: what if I watched it during the day. 911 00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,719 Speaker 7: Dexter is a tough one for women living alone. I 912 00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:21,360 Speaker 7: started with the John Lithgo season, like when he started, 913 00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,919 Speaker 7: like my daughter and my eight year old daughters sitting 914 00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:25,880 Speaker 7: next to me, so I can't like say exactly what 915 00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:27,800 Speaker 7: he was doing, but like it was in the bathtub 916 00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,640 Speaker 7: and it was really like gory, and I just was like, 917 00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 7: I can't and she was I was pregnant with her 918 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:34,560 Speaker 7: at the time. Oh, and I was just thought it 919 00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:36,480 Speaker 7: was like I had been watching Dexter, so I thought, oh, 920 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:38,040 Speaker 7: I'll just keep watching it. I just got I was 921 00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:40,200 Speaker 7: so emotional and just it was not the right time. 922 00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:44,799 Speaker 7: So I never actually finished Dexter either. Oh yeah, but. 923 00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:45,880 Speaker 3: I was in the eighth season. 924 00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:47,960 Speaker 7: But yeah, come on over, we'll watch it together in 925 00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:49,279 Speaker 7: the afternoon. 926 00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:50,600 Speaker 1: A light afternoon. 927 00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:51,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. 928 00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:54,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, And now you're on Pearson, Yes on USA. 929 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:57,839 Speaker 3: We'll do a plug. It's one of Wednesday Nights on US. 930 00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,840 Speaker 7: Wednesday Night's ten ninth Central in USA, right after Suits 931 00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:04,880 Speaker 7: and so you said, like, I just I'm so fascinated 932 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:06,640 Speaker 7: by the life of an actor. 933 00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:09,640 Speaker 3: It's just it's so fascinating to me, is it. 934 00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, because so when you were like auditioning for this 935 00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:14,360 Speaker 5: role and you said like you were you were on 936 00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:15,480 Speaker 5: one tree Hill and you had to kind of of 937 00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:17,600 Speaker 5: like take a step back for a minute so that 938 00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:20,719 Speaker 5: people could see you not as Haley. When you go 939 00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:23,439 Speaker 5: into audition for a show like Pearson, like, what's that? 940 00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:23,759 Speaker 2: Like? 941 00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 3: How many auditions do you go on? 942 00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:27,399 Speaker 5: Do some feel like when you feel like you really 943 00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:29,440 Speaker 5: connect with the character, do you feel like you nailed it? 944 00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:32,479 Speaker 7: Or like, yeah, this one I felt really good about. 945 00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:35,719 Speaker 7: I'm also I know this casting director really well, so 946 00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,439 Speaker 7: I feel very comfortable with her. Some rooms you walk 947 00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:40,640 Speaker 7: into and you don't know the people very well, or 948 00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:42,920 Speaker 7: you don't like the people you know sometimes, like I've 949 00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:44,719 Speaker 7: had casting directors, I'm like, I just don't like you 950 00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:47,319 Speaker 7: as a human. I just feel bad energy and it 951 00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:50,279 Speaker 7: never goes well. You know this casting director I really 952 00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:51,680 Speaker 7: like and I know her well. So it was comfortable 953 00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:53,560 Speaker 7: and I felt great in the room. It felt like 954 00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:55,880 Speaker 7: an easy audition because it was an easy connection to 955 00:41:55,920 --> 00:42:01,040 Speaker 7: the character. And then our screen test was also Yeah, 956 00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,239 Speaker 7: I just it felt kind of that electricity in the 957 00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:06,440 Speaker 7: room and I had this like caged animal energy. For 958 00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,480 Speaker 7: some reason, I was feeling it that day, and I 959 00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:13,600 Speaker 7: guess that's what Carrie really needed, and uh, that's what 960 00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:15,440 Speaker 7: I brought in and that's what they liked, so they 961 00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:15,920 Speaker 7: hired me. 962 00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:20,000 Speaker 2: It's actually really interesting hearing Tanya say that she is 963 00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:23,279 Speaker 2: able to separate a character from the actor, because we 964 00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:25,640 Speaker 2: were watching a movie yesterday and she was talking about 965 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:28,240 Speaker 2: how much she liked the guy, and I was like, really, 966 00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:31,160 Speaker 2: she's like, I just I love his character. 967 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, Justin Long have you seen He's just not that 968 00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:34,719 Speaker 3: into you? 969 00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:38,799 Speaker 7: No, but I did see him in what was Blake 970 00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:41,840 Speaker 7: Lively's first movie about college? Going to college? 971 00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:43,520 Speaker 3: No, it was I don't know. 972 00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:47,160 Speaker 7: It was like unenrolled or like accepted or something. I 973 00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,640 Speaker 7: wasn't accepted, maybe accepted. It was a college movie, and 974 00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:52,000 Speaker 7: I think Justin Long was in that right. I think 975 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:55,239 Speaker 7: he was the guy. I think that's what I know 976 00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:57,080 Speaker 7: him from, because that's the first thing that I really 977 00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,439 Speaker 7: remember being like, Oh, this guy's cool, Like he's really 978 00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,320 Speaker 7: he's got great he's got a cool vibe. 979 00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:05,960 Speaker 8: Yeah, he's a MAC. He'smember those commercials. 980 00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,560 Speaker 10: I'm a MAC, I'm a PC. He was, He's the 981 00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:09,080 Speaker 10: cool guy. 982 00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:12,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I like, I think I almost crush on him. Oh. 983 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:14,759 Speaker 5: I almost like don't know if I could meet him 984 00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:17,439 Speaker 5: in real life, because so I connect him so much 985 00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:20,200 Speaker 5: to that specific character, because I connect myself to Jennifer 986 00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,279 Speaker 5: Goodwin's character so much, like Okay. 987 00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:25,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're thinking back, do you kind of look 988 00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:27,880 Speaker 2: like Jennifer Goodwin? I really yeah, Oh totally. 989 00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:30,080 Speaker 5: She's just like this like hopeless romantic. She has this 990 00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,719 Speaker 5: hopeful heart and she makes all these mistakes dating. It's 991 00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:34,920 Speaker 5: like so sad and pathetic. But I'm like, I resonate 992 00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:37,600 Speaker 5: with her so much, and I'm like Justin Long's character, 993 00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,319 Speaker 5: I'm just yeah, I think that's when I couldn't if 994 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:43,279 Speaker 5: I saw him, I'd be like A, I don't know 995 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:44,640 Speaker 5: what I would do. I don't know what I did. 996 00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:47,160 Speaker 5: He'd be cool, you think, yeah, he'd make you comfortable. 997 00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:48,479 Speaker 5: I'm sure have you met him before? 998 00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:55,880 Speaker 1: Now him? 999 00:43:56,680 --> 00:44:00,279 Speaker 3: No? When we're watching the movie, Oh. 1000 00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:05,520 Speaker 2: I thought we drafted a d m Oh shucks. Are 1001 00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:07,520 Speaker 2: you open to answering like fan question? 1002 00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:08,000 Speaker 1: Sure? 1003 00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 2: Okay, And if you don't want to answer to say, well, 1004 00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:13,279 Speaker 2: like you know, yeah, yeah, no, it's okay. I got 1005 00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:15,839 Speaker 2: a lot of questions about what you thought about the 1006 00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:19,960 Speaker 2: time hop in the show, like when they jumped you. 1007 00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:20,960 Speaker 3: Are you talking about Pierce? 1008 00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:25,120 Speaker 7: You're talking about Okay, Yeah, about what I thought about 1009 00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:26,720 Speaker 7: the time. I thought it was a great idea. 1010 00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:27,200 Speaker 1: You loved. 1011 00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:27,839 Speaker 7: I really did. 1012 00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:30,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, you loved what happened with your character? 1013 00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,719 Speaker 7: Yeah, I guess, I mean it was I loved that 1014 00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:36,919 Speaker 7: coming back with that season and having something to do. 1015 00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:38,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1016 00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:40,120 Speaker 7: I mean, honestly, you know, we had been we'd sort 1017 00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:43,080 Speaker 7: of ridden out the whole like sweet girl, next door 1018 00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,680 Speaker 7: tutor girl thing. We did, been doing that for so long, 1019 00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,719 Speaker 7: so to be able to come back and have like 1020 00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:54,040 Speaker 7: meat to sink my teeth into, to really like be 1021 00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,360 Speaker 7: excited to show up and like act at work instead 1022 00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:58,680 Speaker 7: of just like, oh yeah, I'm just you know, smile 1023 00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:00,640 Speaker 7: here say it. This is cute line, you know. Yeah. 1024 00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:01,239 Speaker 4: I liked it. 1025 00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:02,640 Speaker 7: As an actor, it was great. 1026 00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:06,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, A challenge, A different challenge. They want to know 1027 00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:08,680 Speaker 2: who you got along with best on set. 1028 00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:13,560 Speaker 7: Paul Johanson's one of my best friends and has been 1029 00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:17,680 Speaker 7: for years. We just got on great. Hillary and I 1030 00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:19,959 Speaker 7: hit it off right away. Sophia. I mean we all 1031 00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:22,719 Speaker 7: we all get along really well, like everybody's we still 1032 00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:26,040 Speaker 7: have a big group text going. And I love James. 1033 00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:27,239 Speaker 7: I was texting with him the other day. 1034 00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:29,279 Speaker 2: You know, that's what people that's what the people want 1035 00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:29,520 Speaker 2: to hear. 1036 00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:31,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, James, oh, Joe. 1037 00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,759 Speaker 7: Yeah, James is the best. I mean, seriously, you know 1038 00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:36,280 Speaker 7: what I was watching. 1039 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,600 Speaker 1: For those who watching, James plays Nathan. 1040 00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:44,680 Speaker 7: Yes, James Lafferty plays Nathan. I was watching The Bachelorette, 1041 00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:46,880 Speaker 7: which I've never seen before, and I went to a 1042 00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,719 Speaker 7: girlfriend's house because my daughter loved her babysitter and she 1043 00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:51,360 Speaker 7: I came home and she was like, I want my 1044 00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:53,560 Speaker 7: babysitter to put me to bed. I was like, okay, bye, 1045 00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:54,680 Speaker 7: I'll go back up. 1046 00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:56,399 Speaker 3: So I went to the neighbors. 1047 00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:58,400 Speaker 7: Next door and she was watching The Bachelorette and it 1048 00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:01,399 Speaker 7: was the final episode with the guy, this Tyler guy. 1049 00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 7: He was so charming and like so cute and so 1050 00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:06,960 Speaker 7: and I looked at it and he looks like an 1051 00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:09,399 Speaker 7: old movie star, right yeah, And I'm like, this guy 1052 00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:11,799 Speaker 7: reminds me so much of James. He just has that 1053 00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:14,440 Speaker 7: same So if you're a Bachelorette watcher and you know 1054 00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:17,600 Speaker 7: who Tyler is, he's got a very similar energy to 1055 00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:21,279 Speaker 7: kind of like the way James was in his Oh wow, yeah, 1056 00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:27,719 Speaker 7: I mean he's just like such a good upstanding citizens 1057 00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:28,360 Speaker 7: so awesome. 1058 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:33,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I would say ninety eight percent of the 1059 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:36,280 Speaker 2: people who listen to this podcast are huge Bachelor fans. 1060 00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:39,480 Speaker 2: So that's just like melted everyone, Like you just. 1061 00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:40,920 Speaker 1: Made dreams come true. 1062 00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:42,640 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, totally. 1063 00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:46,040 Speaker 1: So he's awesome. He's great. 1064 00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:50,120 Speaker 7: He's just really and super smart, crazy smart. Yeah, there 1065 00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:52,120 Speaker 7: are I mean, my god, so if he is brilliant. 1066 00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:54,120 Speaker 7: Hillary's smart. She's got a book coming out, you know. 1067 00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:56,880 Speaker 7: Paul's like an amazing writer and director. Like everybody's just 1068 00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:59,959 Speaker 7: you were close and everybody's great. 1069 00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:02,920 Speaker 2: I love that you hear you hear different things sometimes 1070 00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:04,080 Speaker 2: about the sets, you know. 1071 00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:07,160 Speaker 7: Yeah, no, we all figured out a way to just 1072 00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:09,719 Speaker 7: get along. Of course we had fights, of course, and 1073 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,319 Speaker 7: we were like I hate that person, you know. I 1074 00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:13,720 Speaker 7: mean it's longer than high school. 1075 00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:14,160 Speaker 3: I know. 1076 00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:16,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like say family college. 1077 00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:23,279 Speaker 7: Yeah, they're all my cousins now, yeah, you know, but 1078 00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:28,520 Speaker 7: we love Hillary she's married to Yeah, that's right. 1079 00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:33,000 Speaker 5: It always comes, it always circles back to me. 1080 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,480 Speaker 1: She was Arizona's loving try you know, the woman. 1081 00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:40,360 Speaker 2: I really did not She had left a bad taste 1082 00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:43,080 Speaker 2: in my mouth, liked her on One Tree Hill and 1083 00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:48,160 Speaker 2: then came in and mess some things up. This girl says, 1084 00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:51,560 Speaker 2: my oldest daughter is named after Haley from One Tree. 1085 00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:53,239 Speaker 7: My gosh, that's wonderful. 1086 00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:58,640 Speaker 2: They said, I took some screenshots of some so I 1087 00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:00,319 Speaker 2: don't know if you want to answer this while I'm 1088 00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:00,960 Speaker 2: going through these. 1089 00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:02,080 Speaker 1: Are you dating right now? 1090 00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:08,280 Speaker 2: We talk a lot about dating on this Yeah, yeah. 1091 00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:11,359 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm always dating, you know. No, not true at all. Actually, no, 1092 00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:13,759 Speaker 7: I have. I don't have a lot of time. I mean, yeah, 1093 00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:17,560 Speaker 7: it's a it's complicated right now. 1094 00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:21,359 Speaker 5: I know you're your your free time becomes very precious. Yeah, 1095 00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:24,120 Speaker 5: just in general, like I just feel like more and more. 1096 00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:25,799 Speaker 5: Everyone says like, why don't you just go, like why 1097 00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:29,399 Speaker 5: don't you date more? And I'm like, because it's gonna 1098 00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:31,000 Speaker 5: like you're gonna go and you're gonna be like, why 1099 00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:31,960 Speaker 5: do I waste my time? 1100 00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:33,920 Speaker 3: But that's all a good way to look at it. Either, 1101 00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,880 Speaker 3: same dinner over and yeah, totally it's like the same 1102 00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:38,479 Speaker 3: first date. 1103 00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:41,719 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like Groundhog's Day. Yeah yeah, with like a 1104 00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:43,319 Speaker 5: different red flag. 1105 00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,400 Speaker 3: Rotation of red flags. Totally. 1106 00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:49,160 Speaker 7: Oh my god, that's brilliant. 1107 00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:50,600 Speaker 3: That's so great. 1108 00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:52,480 Speaker 7: What if you just showed up on the date with 1109 00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:54,680 Speaker 7: like a list of the red flags and just be like, 1110 00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:56,520 Speaker 7: could you just check off right now? 1111 00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:00,160 Speaker 3: Do you have commitment issues? Are you in our this 1112 00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,120 Speaker 3: is please circle? That's right? 1113 00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:04,040 Speaker 7: Are you an alcoholic track? 1114 00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:05,400 Speaker 3: Totally? 1115 00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:07,239 Speaker 7: Does your family suck? 1116 00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:07,640 Speaker 2: Like? 1117 00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:08,399 Speaker 3: Why I heard? 1118 00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:09,040 Speaker 2: What is this? 1119 00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:12,120 Speaker 3: What's going on here? Yeah? 1120 00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:16,239 Speaker 1: That's so sad but rotating person, But. 1121 00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:18,560 Speaker 5: We got to pull out our Jennifer Goodwin from He's 1122 00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:19,720 Speaker 5: just not that into you. 1123 00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:21,120 Speaker 3: And have a hopeful heart. 1124 00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:25,960 Speaker 7: That's right, that's good. Yeah, yeah, yep, for sure. 1125 00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:29,640 Speaker 2: People want to know if you're gonna record music again 1126 00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:31,480 Speaker 2: and put music out. 1127 00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:32,399 Speaker 3: I will. 1128 00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:37,120 Speaker 7: I'm sure. I just only have twenty four hours in 1129 00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:40,560 Speaker 7: a day, and I'm one person, and I have tried 1130 00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:44,279 Speaker 7: to do all my work and raise my child at 1131 00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:48,040 Speaker 7: the same time and find time for myself and it 1132 00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:53,840 Speaker 7: just doesn't work. Like there are so many what do 1133 00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:55,840 Speaker 7: you have your hands in? Like these people? Do you 1134 00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:56,720 Speaker 7: have your hands in pots? 1135 00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:57,080 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1136 00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:59,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, when you have your hands in so many pots? 1137 00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:01,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, hands and pots and sound right? 1138 00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:05,200 Speaker 3: Just oh yeah I thought that sounded right. 1139 00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:09,400 Speaker 7: No, No, there's a there's a specific saying your but anyway. 1140 00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:11,960 Speaker 7: But you got your hands in so many things, and like, 1141 00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:15,160 Speaker 7: there are so many things that I could do, and 1142 00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:17,279 Speaker 7: I could do them well if I really focused on them. 1143 00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:19,279 Speaker 7: The problem is it takes up all my time to 1144 00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,840 Speaker 7: focus on those things. So I've really just had to choose. 1145 00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:25,200 Speaker 7: You know, Directions taken a backseat. Music is taken a backseat. 1146 00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:28,200 Speaker 7: Right now. I'm writing a musical and that's something that's 1147 00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:29,880 Speaker 7: I'm really passionate about. I've been doing it for the 1148 00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:33,799 Speaker 7: last three years. Wow. And I'm raising my child and 1149 00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:36,520 Speaker 7: I'm finding time for myself and I'm working as an 1150 00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,000 Speaker 7: actress because that's a lot. 1151 00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:39,080 Speaker 3: It's a lot. Guy. 1152 00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:43,000 Speaker 5: Wait, when you're filming Peerson, how like is that like 1153 00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:44,320 Speaker 5: are they twelve hour days? 1154 00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:44,839 Speaker 3: How many? 1155 00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:47,320 Speaker 7: Like it's usually about twelve to fourteen hours. 1156 00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:51,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, and you're writing a musical and then 1157 00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:54,839 Speaker 2: you're raising your daughter, yeah while doing twelve hours right. 1158 00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:55,520 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1159 00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:58,120 Speaker 7: Oh and meanwhile I'm like trying to you know, that's 1160 00:50:58,120 --> 00:50:59,480 Speaker 7: the thing date like date. 1161 00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:03,480 Speaker 3: Dat No, No, But it's a good question. 1162 00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:06,440 Speaker 7: But that's the thing, is like trying to There's so 1163 00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:08,719 Speaker 7: many other things that I would want to be doing 1164 00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:10,960 Speaker 7: that I love to do, and I just I just 1165 00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:13,400 Speaker 7: have had to pick, like what's my biggest priority right now. 1166 00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:15,960 Speaker 7: There's still a lot of time left in life. These 1167 00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:18,239 Speaker 7: are things that I'm most passionate about right now, So 1168 00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:20,080 Speaker 7: this is what I'm going to focus on, and then 1169 00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:21,440 Speaker 7: everything else will just work its own. 1170 00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:24,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. Are you do you have a strong faith? I do, yeah, 1171 00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:25,759 Speaker 3: Cause I kind of go back and forth with that 1172 00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:28,719 Speaker 3: a little bit where I'm like, you can try, try, try, try, 1173 00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:30,759 Speaker 3: try to like find the guy all the time, like 1174 00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:32,720 Speaker 3: go on the apps and like you know, put yourself 1175 00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:35,600 Speaker 3: and make yourself available. But I'm like God's been so 1176 00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:38,120 Speaker 3: present in my life in every other aspect, Like I 1177 00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:40,080 Speaker 3: know He's going to fulfill that need in my heart. 1178 00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:43,200 Speaker 3: So it's like I think it'll just happen naturally. Yeah, 1179 00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:45,120 Speaker 3: not force it too much. 1180 00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:47,080 Speaker 7: Yeah, the best way is when you're not clinging too 1181 00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:49,319 Speaker 7: tightly to something or like whatever it is. I mean, 1182 00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:50,800 Speaker 7: I think that's sort of the guarantee in life is 1183 00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:52,600 Speaker 7: whatever it is that we put on the throne or 1184 00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:57,080 Speaker 7: on that pedestal, that's the thing that is inevitably going 1185 00:51:57,160 --> 00:52:00,160 Speaker 7: to be taken away from us. So that we can 1186 00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:03,400 Speaker 7: find our fulfillment in our faith and our relationship with 1187 00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:08,200 Speaker 7: God totally. I heard you're a Devon Franklin fan. I 1188 00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:10,479 Speaker 7: must he just told you because I saw his book 1189 00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:12,120 Speaker 7: out there. I was like, who's reading Devon's book? 1190 00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:13,600 Speaker 3: Oh, I've read all of his books. 1191 00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:14,439 Speaker 1: He's great. 1192 00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:17,279 Speaker 5: I am obsessed with him. He changed my life. I 1193 00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:18,480 Speaker 5: think it was like two and a half years ago. 1194 00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:22,640 Speaker 5: I read the Wait mm hm, and I like he 1195 00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:25,080 Speaker 5: came into the interview. I'd work on the Ryan Seacrest 1196 00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:27,160 Speaker 5: morning show and he came in to do an interview 1197 00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:30,360 Speaker 5: for I can't remember exactly what it wasn't that book, 1198 00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:34,160 Speaker 5: but he came in and I had this epiphany with him. 1199 00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:34,560 Speaker 1: Wow. 1200 00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:37,440 Speaker 5: Of like I was always in this perpetual pattern of 1201 00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:39,800 Speaker 5: pain because I was giving my body before I was 1202 00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:43,000 Speaker 5: getting commitment from men. And it was just like it 1203 00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:45,120 Speaker 5: was like a light bulb went off my head. And 1204 00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:46,640 Speaker 5: like I think you can attest to this. I've been 1205 00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:48,840 Speaker 5: like the happiest for the most part. I mean, obviously 1206 00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:50,520 Speaker 5: everybody has like their moments where they get set of, 1207 00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:52,200 Speaker 5: but like, I've been the happiest that I've been the 1208 00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:53,799 Speaker 5: last like two and a half years, ever since I 1209 00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:55,280 Speaker 5: made that commitment to myself. 1210 00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:57,839 Speaker 3: That's amazing and I really like I give him. 1211 00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:00,000 Speaker 5: I mean, obviously it's like my decision, it's my life, 1212 00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:02,680 Speaker 5: but I give him so much credit for like opening 1213 00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:03,640 Speaker 5: that view. 1214 00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:06,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, but it's okay, that's okay. I have a different 1215 00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:07,560 Speaker 7: way of doing things. 1216 00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:10,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, and to make create boundaries for myself and to 1217 00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:13,480 Speaker 5: like know what I can and can't handle. And like, 1218 00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:15,120 Speaker 5: I've just been such a fan of his and then 1219 00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:18,319 Speaker 5: I read his book The Truth About Men, and I 1220 00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:18,840 Speaker 5: just find. 1221 00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:19,640 Speaker 3: I'm so bad. 1222 00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:21,680 Speaker 7: I heard him talking on the Joel Ostine station about 1223 00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:23,719 Speaker 7: that the other year. Do you love him? Yeah, I do, 1224 00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:25,840 Speaker 7: I really do. I've seen him speak several times. I 1225 00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:27,600 Speaker 7: used to go to one church a lot where he 1226 00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:31,719 Speaker 7: shows up and speaks infrequently. Yeah, or maybe frequently, I 1227 00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:34,040 Speaker 7: don't know, but yeah, that's the first time I heard 1228 00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:35,439 Speaker 7: him speak. I was like, who was this guy? 1229 00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:37,319 Speaker 3: So fantastic? 1230 00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:40,240 Speaker 5: And I think it's it's really cool because he works 1231 00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:44,319 Speaker 5: in this in this Hollywood industry and he had to 1232 00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:46,560 Speaker 5: create these boundaries for himself when he was starting, because 1233 00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:48,520 Speaker 5: these like agents and stuff would make him want him 1234 00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:50,759 Speaker 5: to work on a Sunday and he was like that's 1235 00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:53,799 Speaker 5: I yeah, like that's my day, this is my day 1236 00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:56,239 Speaker 5: for God, and like he created these boundaries and in 1237 00:53:56,239 --> 00:53:59,360 Speaker 5: an industry that really doesn't have didn't have respect for 1238 00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:02,040 Speaker 5: that at the time, you know. Cool, and so it's 1239 00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:03,960 Speaker 5: kind of it's just cool to watch his journey and 1240 00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:05,719 Speaker 5: to see kind of like where he's been in what 1241 00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:07,880 Speaker 5: he's doing because he really had to push the limit 1242 00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:09,360 Speaker 5: and like set boundaries for himself. 1243 00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:10,840 Speaker 3: And so I'll never forget. 1244 00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:13,160 Speaker 7: I had a meeting at Sony when he was still 1245 00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:15,839 Speaker 7: working at Sony and it was just a general that 1246 00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:17,200 Speaker 7: my manager had set me up with, and I was 1247 00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:18,799 Speaker 7: going through a really hard time in life, and it 1248 00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:20,239 Speaker 7: was just one of those meetings. I was like, I'm 1249 00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:22,480 Speaker 7: just going to go and you know, sit there and 1250 00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:25,600 Speaker 7: talk to this producer and you know, we're both Christians. 1251 00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:27,880 Speaker 7: It'll be nice to chit chat. And he was like 1252 00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:31,200 Speaker 7: he just like cracked me open, like he just knew 1253 00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:33,200 Speaker 7: he could just see what was going on and just 1254 00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:36,160 Speaker 7: was like you okay. They just started talking. He prayed 1255 00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:38,880 Speaker 7: for me in his office, like I was just so lovely. 1256 00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:41,680 Speaker 5: That's exactly the way I can explain it. It's like 1257 00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:44,359 Speaker 5: I think I've met him a handful of times, maybe 1258 00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:46,919 Speaker 5: two or three times in my life, but he will 1259 00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:48,880 Speaker 5: still till this day. He'll check up on me and 1260 00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:50,799 Speaker 5: be like, oh, how's it going, Like what can I 1261 00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:51,680 Speaker 5: pray for you for? 1262 00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:53,759 Speaker 3: And like it's just so nice. 1263 00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:56,319 Speaker 7: Well, like such good boundaries too. It doesn't totally feel weird. 1264 00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:59,360 Speaker 7: It's always just like like a brother who like really cures. 1265 00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:01,920 Speaker 5: It's very totally And he's like very much like, you're 1266 00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:03,680 Speaker 5: going to need people in your corner because it does 1267 00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:05,920 Speaker 5: get tough, and you know, being this, being like this 1268 00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:08,439 Speaker 5: and making these decisions, it's not always easy. You need 1269 00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:10,239 Speaker 5: to have like mentors and people in your life that 1270 00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:11,719 Speaker 5: you can like lean on. He's like, I'm happy to 1271 00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:13,680 Speaker 5: be that for you, and like awesome, yeah. 1272 00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:15,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, well, and that's what I've had to do a 1273 00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:18,640 Speaker 7: lot of is just finding finding that place of faith 1274 00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:20,920 Speaker 7: where all the things that I want to do and 1275 00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:22,640 Speaker 7: all the activities and all the things I want to 1276 00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:24,120 Speaker 7: create in the art and I want to paint and 1277 00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:25,680 Speaker 7: I want to write music and I want to record music. 1278 00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:27,040 Speaker 7: I want to do a jazz album, and I want 1279 00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:28,919 Speaker 7: to go do a Broadway and I want to write 1280 00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:32,799 Speaker 7: a musical and I like, oh have a jewelry line. 1281 00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:34,879 Speaker 7: Like it's just you know, so many things and I've 1282 00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:36,680 Speaker 7: really just had to go, Okay, I just have to 1283 00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:39,040 Speaker 7: trust that God's taking care of me, and I'm just 1284 00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:40,520 Speaker 7: going to focus on the things that are really in 1285 00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:42,800 Speaker 7: my heart right now and follow the path instead of 1286 00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:45,480 Speaker 7: trying to like force the path or manifest the path 1287 00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:49,759 Speaker 7: or I'm just gonna walk day by day trusting that 1288 00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:51,400 Speaker 7: I have this. You know, the faith that I have 1289 00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:54,920 Speaker 7: is guiding me, and it's working out much better the 1290 00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:56,040 Speaker 7: more that I let go of control. 1291 00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:56,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1292 00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:58,400 Speaker 5: They say when you try and force things, you're working 1293 00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:00,600 Speaker 5: out of your working from a place of fear instead 1294 00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:00,960 Speaker 5: of faith. 1295 00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:02,680 Speaker 3: It's so true. 1296 00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:04,360 Speaker 1: I find that it's awesome. 1297 00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:06,799 Speaker 2: It's really cool that you have so many passions, because 1298 00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:09,919 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people have a hard time 1299 00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:13,080 Speaker 2: even distinguishing like what their passions are for sure. And 1300 00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:14,919 Speaker 2: it's like such a god thing to be like, Okay, 1301 00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:16,360 Speaker 2: I want to do all these things and I have 1302 00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:19,520 Speaker 2: this like desire my harp and when the time comes, it'll. 1303 00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:21,719 Speaker 7: Be yeah, yeah, I think so too. 1304 00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:23,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's really cool. 1305 00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:25,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, trust me. I was trying to force a lot 1306 00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:30,880 Speaker 3: of men everything that like you shouldn't do. I was 1307 00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:32,160 Speaker 3: like doing. I was like, we have to go to 1308 00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:36,000 Speaker 3: every happy hour, we have to get on every dating app. 1309 00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:40,080 Speaker 3: If you have a brother or best friend, give them 1310 00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:40,600 Speaker 3: my number. 1311 00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:43,719 Speaker 2: Literally everyone would come into the podcast and she'd be like, 1312 00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:44,640 Speaker 2: do you have any friends? 1313 00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:47,360 Speaker 5: Like this was a month ago and you said that 1314 00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:49,400 Speaker 5: James guy's name and you said how amazing he was. 1315 00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:51,279 Speaker 3: I would be like, is he thinking? But guess what? 1316 00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:51,919 Speaker 3: I don't care? 1317 00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:53,680 Speaker 1: But is he? 1318 00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:58,560 Speaker 7: I think he's off the market? Sorry? 1319 00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:02,000 Speaker 2: Someone I wear a pinky ring still to this day 1320 00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:05,160 Speaker 2: because she always wore one. Why doesn't she wear hers anymore? 1321 00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:07,840 Speaker 1: Wow? 1322 00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:08,919 Speaker 7: A pinky ring. 1323 00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:11,680 Speaker 1: That's attention to detail, right, that is. 1324 00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:15,080 Speaker 7: Serious attention to detail. It fell off of my finger 1325 00:57:15,440 --> 00:57:16,640 Speaker 7: and I vacuumed it up. 1326 00:57:17,040 --> 00:57:17,360 Speaker 6: Wow. 1327 00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:20,320 Speaker 7: Gone, that was it gone? 1328 00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:22,720 Speaker 5: Isn't it wild for you to like think that, like 1329 00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:26,680 Speaker 5: just any character that you play or anything like can 1330 00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:28,800 Speaker 5: really impact somebody to that degree? 1331 00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:29,560 Speaker 7: So wild? 1332 00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:33,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, like naming their child after like Hailey's a pretty 1333 00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:36,640 Speaker 2: you know, common name. But yeah, like that was specifically 1334 00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:38,880 Speaker 2: because she like resonated. 1335 00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:39,040 Speaker 1: With your characters. 1336 00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:42,520 Speaker 7: Yeah really, Yeah, it's great. It makes me really happy 1337 00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:45,360 Speaker 7: that I was able to whatever I do. I mean, look, 1338 00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:48,120 Speaker 7: there were writers I didn't you know, words on the page, 1339 00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:49,640 Speaker 7: but you brought to life. 1340 00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:49,880 Speaker 6: You did. 1341 00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:52,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm glad to have been able to do you 1342 00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:54,120 Speaker 7: have been able to be a part of them. 1343 00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:58,680 Speaker 2: I also think we're gonna play one more a little game, 1344 00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:02,280 Speaker 2: and I'm gonna list off the characters and you give 1345 00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:05,400 Speaker 2: me one word to describe them. This is a suggestion, Okay, 1346 00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:08,400 Speaker 2: not my own idea. Yeah right, Peyton Sawyer. 1347 00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:09,800 Speaker 3: What am I doing? 1348 00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:13,000 Speaker 1: One word to describe them? Their character? 1349 00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:19,920 Speaker 7: Okay? Oh god, I'm so terrible, Blonde. I don't know. 1350 00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:25,400 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Lucas Scott, brooding, Nathan Scott. 1351 00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:33,480 Speaker 7: It's too much, just too many words, overwhelming, wonderful. Are 1352 00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,120 Speaker 7: we talking about the characters or are we talking about 1353 00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:36,360 Speaker 7: the people the characters? 1354 00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:37,520 Speaker 3: The character characters? 1355 00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:39,760 Speaker 7: Nathan Scott, uh. 1356 00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:47,200 Speaker 2: Good hearted, Hayley Scott good hearted, Brooke Davis good hearted. 1357 00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:51,920 Speaker 7: I'm sorry at this game. It's all great people, and 1358 00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:54,200 Speaker 7: Lucas had great hearts too. 1359 00:58:54,320 --> 00:58:54,680 Speaker 4: I don't know. 1360 00:58:56,080 --> 00:58:58,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, this is why I never did in prop class, 1361 00:58:58,360 --> 00:58:59,480 Speaker 7: because I sucked. 1362 00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:02,480 Speaker 3: Well. Thank you so much for being here. Seriously, we 1363 00:59:02,520 --> 00:59:03,760 Speaker 3: appreciate it so much, so. 1364 00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:06,400 Speaker 7: Much for having me. Yeah, I hope that your audience 1365 00:59:06,440 --> 00:59:08,760 Speaker 7: will tune into Pearson. I'm really proud of our work 1366 00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:11,400 Speaker 7: on the show and it's a nice long it's a 1367 00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:15,040 Speaker 7: nice slow burn to a really great intense ending, and 1368 00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:18,920 Speaker 7: there's a great cast and some really spectacular writing. And 1369 00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:21,440 Speaker 7: I get to play somebody who's grouchy and you know, 1370 00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:24,720 Speaker 7: a little bit troubled. So it's nice to have that 1371 00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:25,280 Speaker 7: for a sho. 1372 00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:25,840 Speaker 3: Shake it up a bit. 1373 00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:26,520 Speaker 7: Yeah, awesome. 1374 00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:29,040 Speaker 5: Well it's Wednesday Night's on the USA Network at ten 1375 00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:30,440 Speaker 5: pm if you want to check it out. Thank you 1376 00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:41,160 Speaker 5: so much, Thank you so much. Well, what's the easiest 1377 00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:44,160 Speaker 5: way to ease back into a routine you started up 1378 00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:46,880 Speaker 5: before September? 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Quip starts at just 1407 01:00:58,000 --> 01:00:59,920 Speaker 2: twenty five dollars and if you go to get quipped 1408 01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:03,520 Speaker 2: dot com slash Becca right now, you can get your 1409 01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:08,120 Speaker 2: first refill pack for free. That's your first refill pack 1410 01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:11,200 Speaker 2: free at G E, T Q U I P dot 1411 01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:12,680 Speaker 2: com slash Becca. 1412 01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:24,080 Speaker 4: All right, we have a special guest that we're going 1413 01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:28,439 Speaker 4: to bring in right now. Special guests can explain when 1414 01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:29,320 Speaker 4: she gets in here. 1415 01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:30,280 Speaker 3: Oh, so it's a she. 1416 01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:33,360 Speaker 4: My understanding is it's a she. Okay, it's a she. Yes, 1417 01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:35,040 Speaker 4: it is a she. And that's all we can reveal 1418 01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:38,440 Speaker 4: at this point. We're being very cag right now, rykg Beck, 1419 01:01:38,520 --> 01:01:40,320 Speaker 4: anything about your life we need to know before she 1420 01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:40,919 Speaker 4: comes in here. 1421 01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:44,360 Speaker 2: I'm too excited about it. We'll go, we'll go into 1422 01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:46,280 Speaker 2: my life after the surprise. I'm too distracted. 1423 01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:50,520 Speaker 1: All right, fine, Hi, Hi, special guests right here. 1424 01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:53,200 Speaker 4: Okay, Hi, how are you? 1425 01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:58,120 Speaker 6: Thanks? I'm Genie. This is Caitlin and Xander. You're from 1426 01:01:58,320 --> 01:02:01,840 Speaker 6: We are from arc Late Cinema. 1427 01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:04,800 Speaker 1: We are here a very. 1428 01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:06,680 Speaker 6: Special caramel coronation. 1429 01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:13,280 Speaker 10: O God, yes, I'm going to cry. 1430 01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:19,840 Speaker 6: Received literally hundreds and not thousands of messages, no fans 1431 01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:25,200 Speaker 6: who are listening, no, So the way to say thank 1432 01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:29,640 Speaker 6: you for your unwavering love of and commitment to Arc 1433 01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:35,800 Speaker 6: Light's Summer of Caramel Corn. We officially dub the ArcLight 1434 01:02:36,000 --> 01:02:36,760 Speaker 6: Caramel Corn. 1435 01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:41,320 Speaker 3: Princess Beautiful. 1436 01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:47,440 Speaker 10: Blown Away. 1437 01:02:48,360 --> 01:02:50,360 Speaker 4: She is walking over to Easton with a bouquet of 1438 01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:51,720 Speaker 4: flowers and a crown. 1439 01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:52,520 Speaker 6: Wow. 1440 01:02:52,760 --> 01:02:55,800 Speaker 8: Dreamed of the moment for a very very long time. 1441 01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:00,000 Speaker 8: Thank you, Thank you so much. 1442 01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:05,680 Speaker 4: Oh my god, Oh it's got a late made of caramelcorn. 1443 01:03:06,040 --> 01:03:08,800 Speaker 4: They made a sash. Wow, that is impressive. 1444 01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:13,720 Speaker 8: I am I am legitimately going to cry. 1445 01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:15,240 Speaker 3: Can you get some sound effects? 1446 01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:17,880 Speaker 4: The caramel corn prince. 1447 01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:22,800 Speaker 3: May forever may she ran? 1448 01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:26,760 Speaker 4: That is a nice. 1449 01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:32,200 Speaker 2: And you were born to wear a sash and oh god, 1450 01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:33,680 Speaker 2: what a moment you guys. 1451 01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:34,400 Speaker 3: Wow. 1452 01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:36,920 Speaker 10: I have been working on my speech in the shower 1453 01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:38,480 Speaker 10: for weeks. 1454 01:03:38,560 --> 01:03:40,240 Speaker 4: Now, please speech speech. 1455 01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:41,680 Speaker 10: Here's the thing. 1456 01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:45,520 Speaker 8: Arc Light Cinema's caramelcorn touches so many people on a 1457 01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:47,320 Speaker 8: global scale, me and. 1458 01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:48,680 Speaker 10: Myself just being a small one of them. 1459 01:03:49,200 --> 01:03:52,520 Speaker 8: And to be the caramel corn Princess is an honor 1460 01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:54,440 Speaker 8: I never thought that I'd ever get to have. 1461 01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:56,240 Speaker 10: And so, first of all, I want to thank arc. 1462 01:03:56,200 --> 01:04:00,320 Speaker 8: Lights so much for letting the summer of caramel corn 1463 01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:04,400 Speaker 8: is something that transcends seasons, that transcends just a treat 1464 01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:06,160 Speaker 8: that you can get from the snack bar. It's something 1465 01:04:06,200 --> 01:04:08,320 Speaker 8: that I think each and every one of us can 1466 01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:12,280 Speaker 8: take into our hearts, a sweetness, a specialness. Because here's 1467 01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:14,240 Speaker 8: the thing, I'm just a small boy from Santa Cruz. 1468 01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:16,080 Speaker 8: They said you can't be the carmel frum princess. 1469 01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:19,800 Speaker 9: But that's right, but look at me, I'm the car. 1470 01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:25,200 Speaker 8: So everyone believe in your dreams, believe in your hopes, 1471 01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:28,600 Speaker 8: and things cheerly can come true for you. 1472 01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:36,600 Speaker 5: Thank you so much, like to say, are scrubbing and 1473 01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:42,000 Speaker 5: listeners are truly the best, unparalleled on paralleled paralleled. 1474 01:04:42,080 --> 01:04:43,120 Speaker 10: You guys showed up for me. 1475 01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:45,760 Speaker 8: This isn't something that like, I've been doing this kind 1476 01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:46,800 Speaker 8: of stuff for a long time. 1477 01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:49,480 Speaker 10: It's usually met with Jeff ears. 1478 01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:56,800 Speaker 5: But so they arc light message DMed Becka and I 1479 01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:58,520 Speaker 5: last week. I can't remember what day of the week 1480 01:04:58,520 --> 01:05:01,040 Speaker 5: it was, but they dmmed us and like, we have 1481 01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:05,280 Speaker 5: been inundated with with messages from your listeners, so we'd 1482 01:05:05,280 --> 01:05:09,480 Speaker 5: like to come and crown Easton And so we basically 1483 01:05:09,640 --> 01:05:11,960 Speaker 5: I sent them, you know, Danielle Amy's info so that 1484 01:05:12,000 --> 01:05:12,520 Speaker 5: we could do it. 1485 01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:14,040 Speaker 3: But I was like that it just shows you the 1486 01:05:14,040 --> 01:05:14,720 Speaker 3: power of. 1487 01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:18,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, we had seen the amazing art work you did 1488 01:05:18,680 --> 01:05:21,120 Speaker 6: using Summer of Caramel corn as a theme, so we 1489 01:05:21,120 --> 01:05:23,880 Speaker 6: were you were on our radar, but just up the 1490 01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:28,120 Speaker 6: ante when all of your listeners started flooding us with messages, 1491 01:05:28,560 --> 01:05:31,280 Speaker 6: I can't believe that true commitments. 1492 01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:33,880 Speaker 8: I want to shout out my friend Chris Rome, and 1493 01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:35,920 Speaker 8: he goes to your Chicago location. He and I have 1494 01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:37,919 Speaker 8: been working very hard on the Summer of Caramel Corn 1495 01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:40,960 Speaker 8: movie posters, in the playlist and everything. It's I'm gonna 1496 01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:41,160 Speaker 8: take the. 1497 01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:43,000 Speaker 10: Crown of because they don't wan fall off my head beautiful. 1498 01:05:43,080 --> 01:05:43,600 Speaker 10: Oh my god. 1499 01:05:45,480 --> 01:05:45,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1500 01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:49,200 Speaker 6: We brought gift bags for all of you, and we 1501 01:05:49,240 --> 01:05:51,520 Speaker 6: have one for Chris as well, because we know that 1502 01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:55,040 Speaker 6: he is equally as enthusiastic about arc Lights Caramel Corn, 1503 01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:56,160 Speaker 6: Summer Caramelcorn. 1504 01:05:56,520 --> 01:06:00,560 Speaker 10: O good you guys. Oh my god, I'm just I 1505 01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:02,880 Speaker 10: can't believe this. I'm sorry, this is so exciting. 1506 01:06:03,160 --> 01:06:03,840 Speaker 4: Thank you so much. 1507 01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:07,840 Speaker 8: Arc Light, Oh my goodness. If you guys live in 1508 01:06:07,880 --> 01:06:11,040 Speaker 8: the Los Angeles d you see Metro or Chicago areas, 1509 01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:12,880 Speaker 8: you got to go out to arc Light and silver 1510 01:06:12,920 --> 01:06:13,960 Speaker 8: their summer of Kramel Corn. 1511 01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:15,880 Speaker 10: Those McConnell's cookies are like the most. 1512 01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:16,760 Speaker 2: Instant thing on the planet. 1513 01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:19,200 Speaker 3: You have one more week, one more week, so get 1514 01:06:19,240 --> 01:06:20,720 Speaker 3: to your art. 1515 01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:22,680 Speaker 6: A gus thing I've ever tried. And the Summer of 1516 01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:26,120 Speaker 6: Caramel Corn ends September twentieth, so you have time. Yes, 1517 01:06:26,520 --> 01:06:30,040 Speaker 6: we're about to launch our third residency with compartist chocolatear 1518 01:06:30,280 --> 01:06:30,680 Speaker 6: Oh my go. 1519 01:06:30,960 --> 01:06:32,600 Speaker 8: I went in ark Light the first day of the 1520 01:06:32,600 --> 01:06:34,520 Speaker 8: summer of Carmacorn trying to get that chocolate bar and 1521 01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:36,400 Speaker 8: they told me to get lost in the coming at 1522 01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:36,720 Speaker 8: the end. 1523 01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:38,400 Speaker 10: So I'm really excited for that. 1524 01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:40,800 Speaker 8: And just just in case anyone's been wondering, I did 1525 01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:42,760 Speaker 8: get a couple of questions about this. ArcLight has not 1526 01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:45,560 Speaker 8: paid me a dime anything. I'm sure they would. 1527 01:06:45,280 --> 01:06:46,240 Speaker 10: Like me to stop. 1528 01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:48,360 Speaker 2: That. 1529 01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:48,960 Speaker 1: We love it. 1530 01:06:49,240 --> 01:06:51,320 Speaker 8: Yeah, you guys said that you had a big reveal 1531 01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:52,800 Speaker 8: coming and I really thought I was going to be 1532 01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:53,680 Speaker 8: banned from a location. 1533 01:06:53,760 --> 01:06:58,400 Speaker 10: So this this is an absolute dream country. 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That was 1610 01:10:41,320 --> 01:10:41,760 Speaker 2: so cool. 1611 01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:43,800 Speaker 4: Can you get credit for playing down on the whole thing? 1612 01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:44,200 Speaker 1: Thank you? 1613 01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:46,400 Speaker 4: I get credit for asking you questions about it this morning, 1614 01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:49,080 Speaker 4: as if I was oblivious, Like I listened to the 1615 01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:50,840 Speaker 4: episode last week and I just kind of went from 1616 01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:52,080 Speaker 4: there and asked them some questions. 1617 01:10:52,200 --> 01:10:56,280 Speaker 8: I like, I'm just because they said that they were 1618 01:10:56,320 --> 01:10:58,120 Speaker 8: planning something, but I thought it was like I thought 1619 01:10:58,120 --> 01:10:59,800 Speaker 8: they were gonna like photoshop like a picture of you 1620 01:10:59,840 --> 01:11:01,439 Speaker 8: with crown and just like posted like Easton is a 1621 01:11:01,479 --> 01:11:04,560 Speaker 8: chmic comprience, which would have been awesome, incredible, and I 1622 01:11:04,560 --> 01:11:07,000 Speaker 8: would have been thrilled, but like this is like, I. 1623 01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:09,200 Speaker 5: Know, I'm glad, Like whenever I get dms that are 1624 01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:11,000 Speaker 5: sent in groups, because they sent it to both of us, 1625 01:11:11,200 --> 01:11:13,519 Speaker 5: I never see it. I know, I never really opened 1626 01:11:13,520 --> 01:11:15,240 Speaker 5: them because I think it's like a big group of people. 1627 01:11:15,320 --> 01:11:16,560 Speaker 5: But then I saw that it was your name in 1628 01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:19,160 Speaker 5: arc Light and I was like, oh I see it 1629 01:11:19,240 --> 01:11:19,720 Speaker 5: and see it. 1630 01:11:19,760 --> 01:11:23,760 Speaker 8: Yeah, I go back in Oh my god, I got it. 1631 01:11:23,800 --> 01:11:26,960 Speaker 8: So I gotta think the scrubbers huge, and I gotta 1632 01:11:26,960 --> 01:11:30,559 Speaker 8: think you because here's the thing, Scrubbers. 1633 01:11:30,560 --> 01:11:31,920 Speaker 10: You guys show up for everything. 1634 01:11:31,960 --> 01:11:34,719 Speaker 4: This might be more impressive than the people's choice because 1635 01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:36,479 Speaker 4: there's no such thing as Commo corn Princess. 1636 01:11:36,760 --> 01:11:38,920 Speaker 1: They like made up a thing for you. 1637 01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:42,519 Speaker 8: I gotta say when when I like brought this up 1638 01:11:42,600 --> 01:11:45,280 Speaker 8: last week, like you guys understandably met me like like 1639 01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:46,760 Speaker 8: like confused basis. 1640 01:11:47,520 --> 01:11:48,799 Speaker 10: And there are. 1641 01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:51,479 Speaker 8: Many other people that would have been like, uh, okay, 1642 01:11:51,680 --> 01:11:53,439 Speaker 8: that's thanks Easton and then just moved on. But like 1643 01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:55,320 Speaker 8: after the show, you're like, Okay, what's the handle, I'm 1644 01:11:55,320 --> 01:11:56,360 Speaker 8: going to message them right now. 1645 01:11:57,160 --> 01:12:00,240 Speaker 10: And it really, like I know it's like a silly. 1646 01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:02,680 Speaker 8: Thing, but like it really really did like touch my 1647 01:12:02,800 --> 01:12:05,559 Speaker 8: soul that like this many people like cared about this 1648 01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:08,200 Speaker 8: like thing that wasn't a real thing that like I 1649 01:12:08,200 --> 01:12:09,400 Speaker 8: got very passionate about. 1650 01:12:09,560 --> 01:12:11,800 Speaker 5: But that's what this is. This is a community. You know, 1651 01:12:11,840 --> 01:12:14,240 Speaker 5: we're all here for each other and it. 1652 01:12:14,240 --> 01:12:16,400 Speaker 8: Really and this sounds this honestly sounds like a joke, 1653 01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:18,920 Speaker 8: but I'm being dead serious. Like if there's something you 1654 01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:21,519 Speaker 8: want and it doesn't exist, you can make it exist, 1655 01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:25,600 Speaker 8: like yeah, for real, Like if you if there's a 1656 01:12:25,680 --> 01:12:28,280 Speaker 8: job you want and and like they're not hiring for 1657 01:12:28,320 --> 01:12:31,240 Speaker 8: it or doesn't it's not a thing, like goddamn it, 1658 01:12:31,280 --> 01:12:31,719 Speaker 8: you can make. 1659 01:12:31,640 --> 01:12:32,000 Speaker 4: It a thing. 1660 01:12:32,280 --> 01:12:34,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, we should do like one thing a week where 1661 01:12:34,360 --> 01:12:36,720 Speaker 2: we know people what they need and what they want 1662 01:12:37,439 --> 01:12:38,920 Speaker 2: totally everyone. 1663 01:12:40,880 --> 01:12:41,679 Speaker 1: Makes it happen. 1664 01:12:42,360 --> 01:12:43,120 Speaker 3: I don't hate it. 1665 01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:46,120 Speaker 8: And I got home after last week and my wife 1666 01:12:46,160 --> 01:12:47,519 Speaker 8: fellis send and heard the episode and she's like, I 1667 01:12:47,520 --> 01:12:51,280 Speaker 8: can't believe you weaponized the scribbing and listen Carmel corn Princess. 1668 01:12:51,320 --> 01:12:54,120 Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, oh, she's gonna be she's gonna be 1669 01:12:54,160 --> 01:12:56,439 Speaker 2: feeling some type of way when she sees you today with. 1670 01:12:56,400 --> 01:12:59,599 Speaker 4: That crowd, with the chal corn Prices, just exeter. 1671 01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:01,519 Speaker 10: I'm like, Allison red alert. 1672 01:13:01,520 --> 01:13:03,360 Speaker 8: I sent her a picture and she said, I'm screaming 1673 01:13:03,360 --> 01:13:04,639 Speaker 8: silently because I'm in a museum. 1674 01:13:04,880 --> 01:13:06,080 Speaker 10: My god, my god, my god. 1675 01:13:08,360 --> 01:13:11,280 Speaker 4: Oh man, all right, but it's it's people's choice of 1676 01:13:11,320 --> 01:13:12,760 Speaker 4: words time again. Is that a thing? 1677 01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:15,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, scrubbers are going hard. 1678 01:13:14,920 --> 01:13:16,680 Speaker 4: Wow to get nominated. 1679 01:13:17,080 --> 01:13:19,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I guess this happened last year and then 1680 01:13:19,439 --> 01:13:20,720 Speaker 3: we got nominated. We didn't even know. 1681 01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:23,320 Speaker 4: Wow, Yeah, so what I don't know. 1682 01:13:23,360 --> 01:13:26,080 Speaker 2: I felt like, so do we. 1683 01:13:26,080 --> 01:13:28,960 Speaker 1: Get voted in to like even being considered last? 1684 01:13:29,040 --> 01:13:29,760 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1685 01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:32,519 Speaker 2: Who did that? I don't know? But like I didn't 1686 01:13:32,560 --> 01:13:35,320 Speaker 2: know that the scrubbing and listeners even knew about that, 1687 01:13:36,479 --> 01:13:36,920 Speaker 2: Like it. 1688 01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:39,160 Speaker 4: Wasn't it could be new this year maybe last year 1689 01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:40,720 Speaker 4: it was just like a panel of people chosen this 1690 01:13:40,800 --> 01:13:41,559 Speaker 4: year they opening it up. 1691 01:13:41,600 --> 01:13:44,000 Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe maybe we should ask our friends 1692 01:13:44,000 --> 01:13:46,040 Speaker 2: that e who know the inside scar. 1693 01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:48,760 Speaker 4: I have an email, but first Becca, we never got 1694 01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:50,360 Speaker 4: an update on your life, and we'd like to do that. 1695 01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:54,160 Speaker 2: I'm I had a pretty great week. I went to 1696 01:13:54,360 --> 01:13:57,280 Speaker 2: Newport this weekend, which was really nice. I went with Ali, 1697 01:13:57,520 --> 01:14:00,599 Speaker 2: Neil and Haley and we got upgraded to like this 1698 01:14:00,800 --> 01:14:03,120 Speaker 2: villa at the Pelican Hill. 1699 01:14:02,960 --> 01:14:04,240 Speaker 3: Resort, which so cute. 1700 01:14:04,280 --> 01:14:04,960 Speaker 1: It was like. 1701 01:14:05,080 --> 01:14:07,280 Speaker 2: Literally a home like we wanted. We were like we 1702 01:14:07,320 --> 01:14:09,040 Speaker 2: could stay a whole week because it was just like 1703 01:14:09,640 --> 01:14:10,040 Speaker 2: a house. 1704 01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:10,880 Speaker 1: I went to the pool. 1705 01:14:11,040 --> 01:14:11,679 Speaker 2: We drank. 1706 01:14:11,800 --> 01:14:12,519 Speaker 1: It was awesome. 1707 01:14:12,600 --> 01:14:15,960 Speaker 2: But I literally have I'm having like pain in my 1708 01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:19,200 Speaker 2: lower right abdomen that I literally have convinced myself I 1709 01:14:19,280 --> 01:14:21,639 Speaker 2: might have a beendicitis. But I think it's just like 1710 01:14:22,080 --> 01:14:24,240 Speaker 2: my body is like, can you please give me a 1711 01:14:24,280 --> 01:14:26,920 Speaker 2: break from eating like the worst food ever. 1712 01:14:27,080 --> 01:14:29,800 Speaker 4: By the way, appendicitis, you know, they've always kind of 1713 01:14:29,800 --> 01:14:31,559 Speaker 4: been baffled as to what causes that, but they do 1714 01:14:31,600 --> 01:14:32,880 Speaker 4: say diet plays a major role. 1715 01:14:32,960 --> 01:14:35,880 Speaker 2: Really, so I this is a new Monday of me 1716 01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:39,640 Speaker 2: trying to eat better. So I had a black coffee 1717 01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:43,800 Speaker 2: and one of those like like cold protein bars that 1718 01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:45,760 Speaker 2: are supposed to be like good for you, the kind 1719 01:14:45,800 --> 01:14:46,920 Speaker 2: that go bad if you don't eat them. 1720 01:14:46,920 --> 01:14:49,760 Speaker 3: Because yeah, okay, that's good. 1721 01:14:50,040 --> 01:14:53,439 Speaker 2: So I'm like just trying to like ease up. Also, 1722 01:14:53,520 --> 01:14:56,240 Speaker 2: all my pants don't fit anymore, so I'm just like 1723 01:14:56,360 --> 01:14:57,400 Speaker 2: really discreted. 1724 01:14:58,280 --> 01:14:59,240 Speaker 3: Dude. 1725 01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:02,839 Speaker 5: I after I got back from the wedding, my pants, 1726 01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:05,400 Speaker 5: like you know, when you button them and then they 1727 01:15:05,439 --> 01:15:08,320 Speaker 5: like fold over on the top. It was like I 1728 01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:11,040 Speaker 5: have never seen this before, and I have not seen 1729 01:15:11,120 --> 01:15:11,559 Speaker 5: this again. 1730 01:15:11,760 --> 01:15:14,200 Speaker 1: Okay, well that's what all my pants are doing right now. 1731 01:15:14,320 --> 01:15:16,679 Speaker 2: If I can even get them buttoned and they fold 1732 01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:19,160 Speaker 2: over and then it's just like uncomfortable. 1733 01:15:19,200 --> 01:15:21,920 Speaker 1: So I'm an addressed today because I felt more comfortable. 1734 01:15:24,080 --> 01:15:26,240 Speaker 1: So yeah, that's where I'm at. That's my life update, 1735 01:15:26,479 --> 01:15:27,440 Speaker 1: just large. 1736 01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:31,040 Speaker 2: And in charge and in pain and in pain. 1737 01:15:31,200 --> 01:15:31,920 Speaker 1: Can't wear pants. 1738 01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:34,000 Speaker 4: I gained a lot of weight in Wisconsin, so we 1739 01:15:34,040 --> 01:15:35,960 Speaker 4: need to do this as a group. Yeah that's good. 1740 01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:38,679 Speaker 2: Like I'm trying to think what because I was thinking 1741 01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:40,640 Speaker 2: we've talked about it in Newport. We were all like, 1742 01:15:40,760 --> 01:15:44,719 Speaker 2: let's have a competition, and whoever, it was like, let's 1743 01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:46,880 Speaker 2: like everyone sets a goal for what they want to 1744 01:15:46,920 --> 01:15:49,680 Speaker 2: get to and whoever gets to it or gets the 1745 01:15:49,760 --> 01:15:51,840 Speaker 2: closest and a certain amount of time wins. But I 1746 01:15:51,880 --> 01:15:54,479 Speaker 2: couldn't think of this is really sad. I couldn't think 1747 01:15:54,520 --> 01:15:56,960 Speaker 2: of anything that would motivate me enough to be like 1748 01:15:57,000 --> 01:15:58,360 Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to win this. 1749 01:15:58,600 --> 01:15:59,960 Speaker 3: How about your health? 1750 01:16:00,720 --> 01:16:02,840 Speaker 1: I know, but weirdly that doesn't do it. 1751 01:16:03,200 --> 01:16:06,040 Speaker 3: I'm more like traumatized for like my health. 1752 01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:08,640 Speaker 5: Like I was like, wow, I can really just and 1753 01:16:08,720 --> 01:16:10,720 Speaker 5: to me, like, I don't really love competitions because it's 1754 01:16:10,720 --> 01:16:12,879 Speaker 5: not about like losing a certain amount of pounds. 1755 01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:14,720 Speaker 3: It's like how my body looks and. 1756 01:16:14,680 --> 01:16:18,479 Speaker 2: Feels I know, but sometimes like I'm off about that too, 1757 01:16:18,520 --> 01:16:21,000 Speaker 2: Like I don't even believe in scales because I think 1758 01:16:21,000 --> 01:16:23,880 Speaker 2: it's how you feel and how your clothes fit, Like 1759 01:16:23,920 --> 01:16:27,400 Speaker 2: it's not necessarily like the number, but man, my clothes 1760 01:16:27,400 --> 01:16:29,800 Speaker 2: aren't beating some of my walls, like you know, a 1761 01:16:29,800 --> 01:16:33,080 Speaker 2: few pounds. I feel like no dout totally, but I 1762 01:16:33,120 --> 01:16:35,840 Speaker 2: definitely I mean, I was talking to my other our 1763 01:16:35,840 --> 01:16:37,840 Speaker 2: friend Crystal this morning, and she was like, I just 1764 01:16:37,920 --> 01:16:40,000 Speaker 2: have to change something because like I don't feel well. 1765 01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:42,280 Speaker 1: I feel like my brain's foggy. I feel tired. I'm like, 1766 01:16:42,840 --> 01:16:43,320 Speaker 1: I get it. 1767 01:16:43,360 --> 01:16:44,640 Speaker 3: And now Tanya. 1768 01:16:44,520 --> 01:16:46,920 Speaker 2: Tried my diet and she felt that way too, like 1769 01:16:47,080 --> 01:16:48,439 Speaker 2: for days totally. 1770 01:16:48,520 --> 01:16:50,840 Speaker 5: And I think it was a combination of me having 1771 01:16:50,920 --> 01:16:53,160 Speaker 5: Becca's diet for a day and then when I went 1772 01:16:53,200 --> 01:16:57,200 Speaker 5: to the Newport wedding. I also like eight donuts and 1773 01:16:57,200 --> 01:17:00,640 Speaker 5: things that aren't really in my wheelhouse. It really like 1774 01:17:00,640 --> 01:17:04,360 Speaker 5: has affected me, like our pants are rolling down, Our 1775 01:17:04,400 --> 01:17:05,200 Speaker 5: pants are rolling down. 1776 01:17:05,120 --> 01:17:06,960 Speaker 3: And I'm drinking more because like when you're dating, you're 1777 01:17:07,040 --> 01:17:09,200 Speaker 3: drinking a little bit more, and so it's just it's 1778 01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:13,040 Speaker 3: all hitting me. And I just actually today Monday, I 1779 01:17:13,080 --> 01:17:16,120 Speaker 3: started my like back in the swing of things. 1780 01:17:16,320 --> 01:17:18,919 Speaker 2: I might try your diet for a week or something. 1781 01:17:19,280 --> 01:17:21,200 Speaker 2: I just don't know that I can do this almonds 1782 01:17:21,200 --> 01:17:21,799 Speaker 2: for a snack. 1783 01:17:22,040 --> 01:17:23,840 Speaker 3: Well, you can do other things. I can give you 1784 01:17:23,920 --> 01:17:25,040 Speaker 3: other things than the almonds. 1785 01:17:25,080 --> 01:17:27,559 Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, yeah, I get almonds every day for a snack. 1786 01:17:27,920 --> 01:17:29,360 Speaker 3: Mine are like unsulted and. 1787 01:17:29,560 --> 01:17:33,040 Speaker 4: Assaulted all healthy almonds. I'm quite sure of it. 1788 01:17:33,200 --> 01:17:34,120 Speaker 1: What'd you say I get? 1789 01:17:34,200 --> 01:17:37,000 Speaker 4: We get healthy almonds. We got a jerry healthy almonds, but. 1790 01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:40,519 Speaker 1: Is not unhealthy? Right, it just blows you, but like 1791 01:17:40,560 --> 01:17:43,599 Speaker 1: it's not like it's doing anything right. 1792 01:17:43,760 --> 01:17:47,000 Speaker 5: My body reacts crazy to sault. That's the only reason 1793 01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:48,080 Speaker 5: I don't eat a lot of salt. 1794 01:17:48,120 --> 01:17:49,439 Speaker 1: But most reason blood pressure too. 1795 01:17:49,439 --> 01:17:50,600 Speaker 4: But I don't. I think the jury is out on 1796 01:17:50,720 --> 01:17:52,760 Speaker 4: salt as far as the benefits are badness. 1797 01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:54,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I. 1798 01:17:54,560 --> 01:17:56,960 Speaker 4: Do want to get to this email from an anonymous emailer. 1799 01:17:57,360 --> 01:17:59,240 Speaker 4: She says, my younger sister is eating two guys. Guy 1800 01:17:59,360 --> 01:18:01,559 Speaker 4: number one. She has a deep friendship with him, and 1801 01:18:01,600 --> 01:18:04,120 Speaker 4: she always tells me that he's the best friend and listener. 1802 01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:07,360 Speaker 4: The problem she's not very sexually attracted to him. Guy 1803 01:18:07,439 --> 01:18:10,719 Speaker 4: number two strong physical connection, but he lacks a deep 1804 01:18:10,720 --> 01:18:13,479 Speaker 4: emotional connection. He can't seem to talk about the hard stuff. 1805 01:18:13,560 --> 01:18:15,360 Speaker 4: He blows him off with a complimented laugh for a 1806 01:18:15,439 --> 01:18:18,160 Speaker 4: joke that won't even get into it. My younger sister's 1807 01:18:18,160 --> 01:18:20,200 Speaker 4: been consistently asking for my advice, and I'm wondering if 1808 01:18:20,240 --> 01:18:22,000 Speaker 4: I you tell her to ditch both guys and find 1809 01:18:22,000 --> 01:18:23,800 Speaker 4: someone in the future where she can have both a 1810 01:18:23,800 --> 01:18:26,599 Speaker 4: strong physical and emotional connection. What's our advice? 1811 01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:30,759 Speaker 2: Sounds like Hannah be with Tyler and well Jed before 1812 01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:34,880 Speaker 2: we knew that Jed cheated, Remember, she was like her 1813 01:18:34,920 --> 01:18:38,320 Speaker 2: physical connection with Tyler was so strong, but she was like, 1814 01:18:38,360 --> 01:18:41,080 Speaker 2: I just don't know if the emotional's there. And then 1815 01:18:41,080 --> 01:18:43,840 Speaker 2: with Jed, she still was like the emotionals there and 1816 01:18:43,920 --> 01:18:45,840 Speaker 2: I think you know both, but then he was like 1817 01:18:45,880 --> 01:18:46,240 Speaker 2: a cheater. 1818 01:18:46,360 --> 01:18:47,760 Speaker 5: I feel like there's a lot that we didn't get 1819 01:18:47,800 --> 01:18:50,680 Speaker 5: to see because I'm like, where was this emotional connection. 1820 01:18:50,360 --> 01:18:54,559 Speaker 2: Of the Jed, Like, I say, you tell your sister 1821 01:18:55,120 --> 01:18:56,839 Speaker 2: you can have both things. 1822 01:18:57,920 --> 01:18:59,760 Speaker 1: These guys are not the end all be all of 1823 01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:00,360 Speaker 1: your life. 1824 01:19:00,439 --> 01:19:02,080 Speaker 4: If you had to pick one, who are you picking. 1825 01:19:02,520 --> 01:19:06,800 Speaker 2: I'm choosing the physical and I'm just killed choosing the 1826 01:19:06,840 --> 01:19:09,679 Speaker 2: emotional because I think, what, at some point you grow 1827 01:19:09,880 --> 01:19:13,920 Speaker 2: into this emotional love and I think you the physical 1828 01:19:14,000 --> 01:19:15,400 Speaker 2: will hopefully come where. 1829 01:19:15,240 --> 01:19:16,479 Speaker 4: I think you can find the physical. 1830 01:19:16,720 --> 01:19:19,799 Speaker 2: I think you can find that physically. Also, like don't settle, 1831 01:19:20,040 --> 01:19:21,040 Speaker 2: Like you can have both. 1832 01:19:22,080 --> 01:19:23,880 Speaker 4: That's true. She doesn't give ages or anything here, but 1833 01:19:23,920 --> 01:19:26,080 Speaker 4: you can. You can find both in one package. If 1834 01:19:26,080 --> 01:19:28,120 Speaker 4: you had to choose one of these guys, it's definitely 1835 01:19:28,160 --> 01:19:29,040 Speaker 4: guy number one. 1836 01:19:29,200 --> 01:19:32,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because like, eventually you're going to be old 1837 01:19:32,439 --> 01:19:34,840 Speaker 2: and you don't want to be with someone who you 1838 01:19:34,840 --> 01:19:36,200 Speaker 2: don't have an emotional connection. 1839 01:19:36,400 --> 01:19:37,640 Speaker 3: Well, nothing sounds worse to me. 1840 01:19:37,960 --> 01:19:41,800 Speaker 4: Agreed, Exactly, when you're ninety, the physical connection is not 1841 01:19:41,800 --> 01:19:42,439 Speaker 4: going to be as strong. 1842 01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:44,519 Speaker 3: You're gonna have like saggy butt. 1843 01:19:44,560 --> 01:19:46,080 Speaker 4: Ma'm saggy button man. 1844 01:19:46,200 --> 01:19:48,879 Speaker 2: You need to make sure his brain is as special 1845 01:19:49,000 --> 01:19:50,320 Speaker 2: is what his butt used to be. 1846 01:19:50,400 --> 01:19:54,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll never forget that. I'll never forget that episode 1847 01:19:54,280 --> 01:19:56,479 Speaker 5: of Sex and the City when Samantha is like dating 1848 01:19:56,479 --> 01:19:59,280 Speaker 5: that like much older man, but she's like, the way 1849 01:19:59,320 --> 01:20:01,960 Speaker 5: he touches me, he is like not like a I 1850 01:20:02,000 --> 01:20:03,960 Speaker 5: don't know howiday, let's just say ninety. It was not 1851 01:20:04,000 --> 01:20:06,759 Speaker 5: like a ninety year old man, and like their their brain, 1852 01:20:07,000 --> 01:20:08,840 Speaker 5: Like the way that they spoke and stuff was good. 1853 01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:11,160 Speaker 5: And then they had sex and he turned around walked 1854 01:20:11,200 --> 01:20:12,920 Speaker 5: the bathroom and his butt was just like down to 1855 01:20:13,000 --> 01:20:15,240 Speaker 5: his knees. And she that's what triggered her, and she's like, 1856 01:20:15,280 --> 01:20:19,839 Speaker 5: I'm out our advice. 1857 01:20:20,200 --> 01:20:21,440 Speaker 4: Hey, we're going to San Francisco. 1858 01:20:22,200 --> 01:20:27,320 Speaker 2: We're going to San Francisco. I'm excited. Another played with 1859 01:20:27,439 --> 01:20:29,599 Speaker 2: me lean hour, though. 1860 01:20:29,680 --> 01:20:31,840 Speaker 4: What's the storyline? Easton mentioned his love of the San 1861 01:20:31,840 --> 01:20:32,799 Speaker 4: Francisco Giants. 1862 01:20:32,800 --> 01:20:35,280 Speaker 8: Well, yeah, I mean, I'm I'm from Santa cust California, 1863 01:20:35,280 --> 01:20:38,280 Speaker 8: so my hometown team is the San Francisco Giants and uh, 1864 01:20:38,640 --> 01:20:41,519 Speaker 8: there's a nice scrubbing in fam that works there at 1865 01:20:41,560 --> 01:20:44,080 Speaker 8: the front office. They invited us up to do the 1866 01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:44,760 Speaker 8: show from there. 1867 01:20:45,000 --> 01:20:46,719 Speaker 1: Are you an influencer Easton? 1868 01:20:46,840 --> 01:20:48,120 Speaker 2: Because things are. 1869 01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:51,200 Speaker 1: Really happening through your words on the podcast. 1870 01:20:52,680 --> 01:20:54,240 Speaker 10: I mean, I'm a man of passion. 1871 01:20:55,400 --> 01:20:57,360 Speaker 2: Trying to think of what I'm so passionate about. I 1872 01:20:57,400 --> 01:20:59,680 Speaker 2: need you just speak up for me for we'll think 1873 01:20:59,720 --> 01:21:00,080 Speaker 2: about that. 1874 01:21:00,200 --> 01:21:02,120 Speaker 1: Well you go ahead, No, go ahead. 1875 01:21:02,160 --> 01:21:04,439 Speaker 4: Well, I was just gonna mention that I'm he's trying 1876 01:21:04,439 --> 01:21:07,599 Speaker 4: to the Milwaukee Brewers and Jana Kramer and Michael Cousin, 1877 01:21:07,920 --> 01:21:10,840 Speaker 4: who do a different podcast, Your wind Down. They got 1878 01:21:10,880 --> 01:21:13,200 Speaker 4: me an autograph baseball bat for my birthday? Is that 1879 01:21:13,280 --> 01:21:17,720 Speaker 4: the nicest thing? Where to go? 1880 01:21:17,880 --> 01:21:18,040 Speaker 3: Right? 1881 01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:18,200 Speaker 2: Here? 1882 01:21:18,240 --> 01:21:18,400 Speaker 3: I go? 1883 01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:21,360 Speaker 2: Wait, because her husband used to play, he's a professional athlete. 1884 01:21:22,560 --> 01:21:26,000 Speaker 3: No people in the athletic world. 1885 01:21:26,400 --> 01:21:28,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, I was blown away by this because it's it's 1886 01:21:28,960 --> 01:21:31,120 Speaker 4: because I don't get you know a lot of gifts 1887 01:21:31,320 --> 01:21:33,680 Speaker 4: from co workers, which is fine, I mean I don't 1888 01:21:33,720 --> 01:21:35,519 Speaker 4: think that's required. But the fact that they went to 1889 01:21:35,520 --> 01:21:39,360 Speaker 4: such effort and thought, look at that. Wow, signed by 1890 01:21:39,439 --> 01:21:41,800 Speaker 4: Robin you, the greatest Milwaukee Brewer of all time and 1891 01:21:41,840 --> 01:21:44,240 Speaker 4: clearly like with a sharpie, Like that's not like, uh no, 1892 01:21:44,280 --> 01:21:46,760 Speaker 4: that's a real signature right there. I mean, this was 1893 01:21:46,840 --> 01:21:48,960 Speaker 4: really great of them. And I was so touched by this. 1894 01:21:49,080 --> 01:21:51,400 Speaker 4: It's so awesome for them to even think to get 1895 01:21:51,400 --> 01:21:55,040 Speaker 4: me anything is very touching. That's really something so thoughtful. 1896 01:21:55,200 --> 01:21:57,960 Speaker 2: Does he know how did well? It's the connection most 1897 01:21:57,960 --> 01:21:58,400 Speaker 2: have come up. 1898 01:21:58,439 --> 01:22:00,240 Speaker 4: I don't remember, but it must have come up at 1899 01:22:00,240 --> 01:22:05,920 Speaker 4: some point, so was he. But still I really was. 1900 01:22:06,040 --> 01:22:07,920 Speaker 1: Athletes the world we know each other. 1901 01:22:08,000 --> 01:22:10,760 Speaker 3: Okay, that's a world beyond. 1902 01:22:10,479 --> 01:22:14,280 Speaker 2: Speaking of the Dodgers ping Pong tournament, the Kershaw Challenge 1903 01:22:14,360 --> 01:22:16,559 Speaker 2: or whatever that I didn't go to this year, but 1904 01:22:17,240 --> 01:22:20,560 Speaker 2: two years before that, I've been partners with Cody Bellinger 1905 01:22:21,000 --> 01:22:24,720 Speaker 2: and we lost like midway through and he won this year. 1906 01:22:24,439 --> 01:22:27,080 Speaker 4: Your partners with Cody Bellinger? Wow? 1907 01:22:27,439 --> 01:22:28,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, two years ago. 1908 01:22:29,000 --> 01:22:31,200 Speaker 4: He's possibly the best player in Major League Baseball right 1909 01:22:31,240 --> 01:22:33,599 Speaker 4: now and he's twenty three. Like it's incredible. 1910 01:22:33,680 --> 01:22:37,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, and he won this year without me there well 1911 01:22:37,680 --> 01:22:40,799 Speaker 2: and then a partner Kershaw who like puts on the challenge. 1912 01:22:41,280 --> 01:22:43,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, two athletes together seems unfair. 1913 01:22:43,960 --> 01:22:46,960 Speaker 2: Well, normally there's like professional ping pong players there. 1914 01:22:46,800 --> 01:22:48,800 Speaker 4: So I'm like, what were you doing there? 1915 01:22:49,800 --> 01:22:51,080 Speaker 1: I'm a really good ping pong player. 1916 01:22:51,439 --> 01:22:54,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't know this. Yeah. We have to thank 1917 01:22:54,880 --> 01:22:57,160 Speaker 4: the Hotel Via San Francisco for taking care of us 1918 01:22:57,160 --> 01:22:58,400 Speaker 4: while we're up there in San Francisco. 1919 01:22:58,479 --> 01:22:58,639 Speaker 7: Yeah. 1920 01:22:58,640 --> 01:23:00,000 Speaker 8: So if you want to come to the game play 1921 01:23:00,160 --> 01:23:03,040 Speaker 8: the padres uh and we're doing a We're doing a 1922 01:23:03,040 --> 01:23:03,800 Speaker 8: podcast from there. 1923 01:23:04,000 --> 01:23:05,120 Speaker 10: It's gonna be a lot of fun. 1924 01:23:05,880 --> 01:23:09,439 Speaker 2: I'm really excited about our San Francisco adventure. 1925 01:23:09,520 --> 01:23:10,920 Speaker 3: On our flight, I'm gonna do a pole. 1926 01:23:11,000 --> 01:23:13,600 Speaker 5: I'm gonna do an Instagram poll of because I had 1927 01:23:13,600 --> 01:23:15,080 Speaker 5: a lot of messages about this. I guess we mentioned 1928 01:23:15,120 --> 01:23:17,879 Speaker 5: it last week about people who put earbuds in on planes. 1929 01:23:18,439 --> 01:23:21,120 Speaker 5: Does that earbud equal don't talk to me? Or does 1930 01:23:21,160 --> 01:23:23,320 Speaker 5: it equal I'm too shy, but I want you to 1931 01:23:23,320 --> 01:23:23,680 Speaker 5: talk to me. 1932 01:23:23,800 --> 01:23:28,000 Speaker 2: Oh why would you put earbuds in if you're too shy? 1933 01:23:28,200 --> 01:23:30,000 Speaker 4: I really hope this person talks to me. I better 1934 01:23:30,040 --> 01:23:30,920 Speaker 4: put my earbuds in. 1935 01:23:31,640 --> 01:23:33,439 Speaker 1: It's just I know what I'll do to get them 1936 01:23:33,479 --> 01:23:35,560 Speaker 1: to talk to me. Up, but my earbuds. 1937 01:23:35,680 --> 01:23:38,000 Speaker 4: Ear buds are a message to the world, whether you're 1938 01:23:38,360 --> 01:23:42,639 Speaker 4: a dog, a jog on a plane, earbuds are I'm 1939 01:23:42,680 --> 01:23:43,519 Speaker 4: doing my own thing. 1940 01:23:43,800 --> 01:23:45,759 Speaker 3: We're gonna take it to the scrubbers and rude. 1941 01:23:46,320 --> 01:23:47,880 Speaker 4: It's just I'm doing my own thing. 1942 01:23:47,960 --> 01:23:50,639 Speaker 5: It could also mean I'm a little intimidated. I'm traveling alone, 1943 01:23:50,680 --> 01:23:52,360 Speaker 5: so I'm gonna put my earbuds in, but I would. 1944 01:23:52,120 --> 01:23:52,759 Speaker 3: Love to chat. 1945 01:23:53,080 --> 01:23:56,800 Speaker 2: No, I'm just gonna go ahead and let you know. 1946 01:23:57,800 --> 01:23:59,400 Speaker 2: You know how this pole is gonna go. 1947 01:23:59,560 --> 01:24:02,559 Speaker 5: I do know it's gonna go my way. You just 1948 01:24:02,640 --> 01:24:05,480 Speaker 5: wait our flight to San Francisco. 1949 01:24:05,560 --> 01:24:08,960 Speaker 2: Will how about you sitting next like, well, unfortunately we 1950 01:24:09,000 --> 01:24:10,960 Speaker 2: won't be able to sit together for you know, but 1951 01:24:11,080 --> 01:24:13,200 Speaker 2: you do you pick a seat with someone who has 1952 01:24:13,240 --> 01:24:15,040 Speaker 2: their earphones on your budget? 1953 01:24:15,080 --> 01:24:16,200 Speaker 3: Oh, we do a social experiment. 1954 01:24:16,320 --> 01:24:18,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you just talk to them and see. 1955 01:24:18,439 --> 01:24:20,000 Speaker 5: Or we could have somebody in between us. So like 1956 01:24:20,040 --> 01:24:21,400 Speaker 5: you're in the window, I'm in the aisle and will 1957 01:24:21,439 --> 01:24:22,400 Speaker 5: have somebody between us. 1958 01:24:22,560 --> 01:24:23,800 Speaker 3: Okay, with headphones in? 1959 01:24:24,360 --> 01:24:24,679 Speaker 1: Great? 1960 01:24:24,840 --> 01:24:26,559 Speaker 3: Great done. 1961 01:24:27,479 --> 01:24:29,240 Speaker 1: I'm putting my earphones in and. 1962 01:24:29,080 --> 01:24:32,439 Speaker 3: Not engaging, So that's fine. I'll engage with my new friend. 1963 01:24:32,920 --> 01:24:33,360 Speaker 1: Okay. 1964 01:24:33,960 --> 01:24:35,880 Speaker 3: Before we end the show, I do want to say 1965 01:24:36,120 --> 01:24:38,519 Speaker 3: I posted this thing I put. 1966 01:24:38,840 --> 01:24:39,160 Speaker 6: Uh. 1967 01:24:39,360 --> 01:24:41,360 Speaker 5: When I text Becca, I say like Becka, because I 1968 01:24:41,360 --> 01:24:43,000 Speaker 5: have like really exciting news to share with her. 1969 01:24:43,360 --> 01:24:45,640 Speaker 1: It's so overwhelmed. 1970 01:24:45,760 --> 01:24:49,439 Speaker 2: Every time Taanya texts me, she goes Becca and I'm like, 1971 01:24:51,520 --> 01:24:55,000 Speaker 2: but it's like you. I go between, like do I answer? 1972 01:24:56,160 --> 01:24:58,800 Speaker 2: Is it exciting? Like I'm busy, but like do I 1973 01:24:58,920 --> 01:25:01,080 Speaker 2: need to be here? It's kind of like the Boy 1974 01:25:01,080 --> 01:25:02,000 Speaker 2: who Cried Wolf. 1975 01:25:01,840 --> 01:25:02,400 Speaker 1: A little bit. 1976 01:25:02,880 --> 01:25:05,479 Speaker 5: So Becca decided supposed to screenshot of this and she says, 1977 01:25:05,640 --> 01:25:09,760 Speaker 5: do we think Tanya has serious news? Or it's telling 1978 01:25:09,840 --> 01:25:11,400 Speaker 5: me that the apples she bought up the Farmer's Market 1979 01:25:11,479 --> 01:25:15,120 Speaker 5: were delicious or whatever it was. And I'm here to 1980 01:25:15,160 --> 01:25:17,040 Speaker 5: say I thought the news. 1981 01:25:17,040 --> 01:25:20,200 Speaker 3: Was actually pretty like it was, but what was it? 1982 01:25:20,200 --> 01:25:25,280 Speaker 5: It was that Senor Butterfly does not have Instagram well 1983 01:25:25,400 --> 01:25:26,839 Speaker 5: or it was like not active on Instagram. 1984 01:25:27,080 --> 01:25:30,519 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, there's nothing better than that. 1985 01:25:31,360 --> 01:25:31,559 Speaker 1: Right. 1986 01:25:32,080 --> 01:25:33,080 Speaker 3: It was big news? 1987 01:25:33,479 --> 01:25:33,960 Speaker 1: Yeah it was. 1988 01:25:34,040 --> 01:25:35,599 Speaker 2: It was big news, but sometimes it's not. 1989 01:25:36,920 --> 01:25:38,639 Speaker 3: I'm trying to save it for bigger news. 1990 01:25:39,200 --> 01:25:42,360 Speaker 4: But I got one August eighth. 1991 01:25:42,800 --> 01:25:45,640 Speaker 3: I don't remember, No, I know what it was, Taylor Swift. 1992 01:25:45,960 --> 01:25:48,600 Speaker 4: No, it wasn't that, it was just big Mark And 1993 01:25:48,640 --> 01:25:50,800 Speaker 4: I wrote back, Hi Gause Again, I don't know how 1994 01:25:50,800 --> 01:25:53,439 Speaker 4: to respond to that. Yeah, And then you gave me 1995 01:25:53,439 --> 01:25:54,800 Speaker 4: an update on a date you went on. 1996 01:25:57,120 --> 01:25:59,840 Speaker 1: I know, like you panic. You're like, yeah, hold on, 1997 01:26:00,040 --> 01:26:01,960 Speaker 1: let me see who's August eighth. 1998 01:26:02,240 --> 01:26:06,760 Speaker 4: Oh that must have been Yes, that was Senor. I 1999 01:26:06,760 --> 01:26:09,040 Speaker 4: got one and you said date was great. I said, lovely, 2000 01:26:09,120 --> 01:26:11,439 Speaker 4: this keep expectations low and you call me a dick. 2001 01:26:13,720 --> 01:26:16,559 Speaker 1: This is how I respond, though. She goes Becca, and 2002 01:26:16,640 --> 01:26:16,920 Speaker 1: I just. 2003 01:26:16,920 --> 01:26:19,880 Speaker 2: Say Tanya, I do that sometimes, and then she goes 2004 01:26:20,240 --> 01:26:22,120 Speaker 2: So he texted me after dinner with his friends and 2005 01:26:22,160 --> 01:26:24,479 Speaker 2: said want to meet up for a night cap, and 2006 01:26:24,520 --> 01:26:29,160 Speaker 2: I was like, okay, yay. 2007 01:26:29,240 --> 01:26:29,960 Speaker 1: That's awesome. 2008 01:26:30,080 --> 01:26:32,479 Speaker 2: And then this one I really gave her a reaction. 2009 01:26:32,600 --> 01:26:35,280 Speaker 2: She said Becca, and I said, in all caps, tell me. 2010 01:26:36,000 --> 01:26:37,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I need from you. 2011 01:26:37,520 --> 01:26:39,599 Speaker 1: I just don't have it all the time. Okay, yeah, 2012 01:26:39,600 --> 01:26:40,559 Speaker 1: but why not just. 2013 01:26:40,680 --> 01:26:42,679 Speaker 4: Skip to the why do you need to do the introductor? 2014 01:26:42,920 --> 01:26:43,640 Speaker 2: She she wants me. 2015 01:26:43,760 --> 01:26:46,120 Speaker 1: She knows I'm going to respond if it seems urgent, and. 2016 01:26:46,080 --> 01:26:47,760 Speaker 3: I need her by her phone, like I need to 2017 01:26:47,760 --> 01:26:48,759 Speaker 3: know that she's like active. 2018 01:26:49,600 --> 01:26:52,800 Speaker 4: I see. So you can't just say, hey, he just 2019 01:26:52,840 --> 01:26:54,840 Speaker 4: asked me for a night cap, right, You wouldn't just 2020 01:26:54,920 --> 01:26:57,679 Speaker 4: jump to that, correct because you need to know she's engaged. Yes, 2021 01:26:58,160 --> 01:27:00,320 Speaker 4: So if you say Becca and the other's promphysics. 2022 01:27:00,240 --> 01:27:01,800 Speaker 3: Then I'll forget it like I did like it, Like 2023 01:27:01,800 --> 01:27:02,679 Speaker 3: I was like have whatever. 2024 01:27:03,200 --> 01:27:03,479 Speaker 1: Okay. 2025 01:27:04,600 --> 01:27:08,120 Speaker 2: It's a lot though, just so you know, it's what. 2026 01:27:08,120 --> 01:27:10,960 Speaker 8: I like saying something like like like I was just 2027 01:27:11,040 --> 01:27:12,920 Speaker 8: like texting my friend Chris about this comic courd that. 2028 01:27:13,000 --> 01:27:15,080 Speaker 2: I was like, Chris, but that big information. 2029 01:27:15,200 --> 01:27:15,800 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. 2030 01:27:15,800 --> 01:27:17,720 Speaker 8: But I do it with all kinds of stuff. So 2031 01:27:18,439 --> 01:27:19,799 Speaker 8: I mean this, this is big information. 2032 01:27:20,800 --> 01:27:24,439 Speaker 4: You're big a high to somebody needs to get their 2033 01:27:24,479 --> 01:27:27,040 Speaker 4: attention before I jump into it. That's true. I mean 2034 01:27:27,120 --> 01:27:28,320 Speaker 4: by Hi, I. 2035 01:27:28,240 --> 01:27:28,720 Speaker 10: Don't like hig. 2036 01:27:28,720 --> 01:27:30,680 Speaker 8: I feel I'm in trouble with your high right, Like 2037 01:27:30,760 --> 01:27:31,880 Speaker 8: it's like we need to talk. 2038 01:27:32,000 --> 01:27:33,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right? 2039 01:27:33,720 --> 01:27:38,960 Speaker 4: AnyWho, Tanya, I have bad news. Show is over for 2040 01:27:39,000 --> 01:27:39,559 Speaker 4: another week? 2041 01:27:40,240 --> 01:27:43,760 Speaker 1: Another week down. Are you gonna be okay? 2042 01:27:44,960 --> 01:27:45,840 Speaker 3: Okay, gonna be fine? 2043 01:27:45,880 --> 01:27:47,759 Speaker 1: Any future plans with Senior? 2044 01:27:47,920 --> 01:27:52,080 Speaker 4: Good question? None? You know what, I think it's fine. 2045 01:27:52,240 --> 01:27:52,960 Speaker 3: I'm not worried about it. 2046 01:27:53,000 --> 01:27:54,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, because you know you each want to see each other, 2047 01:27:54,800 --> 01:27:55,439 Speaker 4: So what will happen? 2048 01:27:55,520 --> 01:27:57,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's next. 2049 01:27:57,160 --> 01:28:08,960 Speaker 4: Monday's Ark Ghost He saw my self help books. 2050 01:28:09,280 --> 01:28:11,200 Speaker 1: When you stay the night with someone for the first time. 2051 01:28:11,240 --> 01:28:13,679 Speaker 2: Do you like wake up and brush your teeth before you, 2052 01:28:13,760 --> 01:28:14,720 Speaker 2: like he wakes up? 2053 01:28:16,320 --> 01:28:18,439 Speaker 5: Yeah, Or I try to like just drink a ton 2054 01:28:18,479 --> 01:28:20,759 Speaker 5: of water. I feel like water can really like clean 2055 01:28:20,760 --> 01:28:21,360 Speaker 5: your mouth out. 2056 01:28:22,600 --> 01:28:24,120 Speaker 4: What if you're taking the time to drink the water, 2057 01:28:24,160 --> 01:28:25,479 Speaker 4: why not just go brush your teeth. 2058 01:28:25,240 --> 01:28:31,000 Speaker 3: Because it's like getting up sometimes you just yeah, what 2059 01:28:31,040 --> 01:28:31,960 Speaker 3: about you guys? 2060 01:28:33,880 --> 01:28:36,280 Speaker 2: When I first got into my relationship, I would get 2061 01:28:36,360 --> 01:28:37,440 Speaker 2: up and brush my teeth. 2062 01:28:38,280 --> 01:28:41,720 Speaker 3: And then I wanted to appear perfect my hair. 2063 01:28:41,840 --> 01:28:43,800 Speaker 1: I was like I would be like, wow. 2064 01:28:43,840 --> 01:28:46,120 Speaker 3: You were like the marvelousness is masil. But like I 2065 01:28:46,160 --> 01:28:46,719 Speaker 3: didn't put. 2066 01:28:46,640 --> 01:28:47,400 Speaker 1: Makeup on anything. 2067 01:28:47,439 --> 01:28:49,880 Speaker 3: I just would like kind of fix my hands, put 2068 01:28:49,920 --> 01:28:50,560 Speaker 3: some perfume on. 2069 01:28:50,920 --> 01:28:52,759 Speaker 1: Sprits Ie have this perfume. 2070 01:28:52,920 --> 01:28:55,920 Speaker 2: It's not it's like pheromone spray, so it's not necessarily perfume. 2071 01:28:55,920 --> 01:28:58,880 Speaker 1: It's like subtle, but it's like, oh wow, fresh. 2072 01:28:58,479 --> 01:28:59,879 Speaker 3: I need that faeromone spray. 2073 01:29:00,160 --> 01:29:00,840 Speaker 1: It's good stuff. 2074 01:29:00,920 --> 01:29:02,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I need to do that. 2075 01:29:02,720 --> 01:29:04,680 Speaker 4: We'll let us know what's going on. Yeah, and I'm 2076 01:29:04,680 --> 01:29:06,479 Speaker 4: sure next week we'll get in it with Seacrests as well. 2077 01:29:08,360 --> 01:29:10,840 Speaker 3: You like the name senor Butterfly, Okay, it's cute. 2078 01:29:10,880 --> 01:29:12,000 Speaker 1: Okay, that's really funny. 2079 01:29:12,000 --> 01:29:15,000 Speaker 2: It's cute and I love saying signor you've asked him 2080 01:29:15,040 --> 01:29:16,520 Speaker 2: not to listen to KSFM? 2081 01:29:16,520 --> 01:29:16,960 Speaker 3: Correct? 2082 01:29:17,120 --> 01:29:18,600 Speaker 4: Have you asked him not to listen to Scrubbing It 2083 01:29:18,640 --> 01:29:19,479 Speaker 4: with Tanya and Becka? 2084 01:29:19,600 --> 01:29:19,720 Speaker 6: No? 2085 01:29:19,800 --> 01:29:21,479 Speaker 3: But I don't even know if he'd like. 2086 01:29:22,240 --> 01:29:24,760 Speaker 2: Can I ask a question, why do you ask them 2087 01:29:24,800 --> 01:29:27,160 Speaker 2: not to listen? Like if anything that would make me 2088 01:29:27,200 --> 01:29:28,439 Speaker 2: want if you just didn't say anything? 2089 01:29:28,439 --> 01:29:30,400 Speaker 5: I want to think because it comes up in conversations, 2090 01:29:30,400 --> 01:29:32,880 Speaker 5: not like I'm just like randomly like don't listen. 2091 01:29:32,960 --> 01:29:35,040 Speaker 2: Like why even say don't listen? Why just be like, 2092 01:29:35,080 --> 01:29:37,800 Speaker 2: oh yeah, I just think it's better I don't. 2093 01:29:38,800 --> 01:29:40,439 Speaker 4: That is you at the height of your powers. He 2094 01:29:40,439 --> 01:29:42,240 Speaker 4: should hear you at the height of your powers. 2095 01:29:42,360 --> 01:29:44,040 Speaker 3: But here's the thing that you don't understand. 2096 01:29:44,479 --> 01:29:48,160 Speaker 5: It's me talking like I'm talking to my girl, like 2097 01:29:48,160 --> 01:29:50,240 Speaker 5: I'm talking to my girlfriends, And these are conversations that 2098 01:29:50,320 --> 01:29:52,920 Speaker 5: the person that you're dating shouldn't be listening to. 2099 01:29:53,040 --> 01:29:53,639 Speaker 3: Does that make sense? 2100 01:29:53,680 --> 01:29:56,000 Speaker 1: But you choose to do it on a lot of 2101 01:29:56,240 --> 01:29:57,200 Speaker 1: public platform. 2102 01:29:57,240 --> 01:29:59,240 Speaker 2: What I'm saying is that he probably wouldn't even think 2103 01:29:59,280 --> 01:30:02,519 Speaker 2: of listening to to it if you didn't say, don't listen. 2104 01:30:03,280 --> 01:30:05,639 Speaker 4: Well, also, he needs to be aware of that being 2105 01:30:05,640 --> 01:30:07,000 Speaker 4: a thing, because that's always going to be a thing, 2106 01:30:07,160 --> 01:30:08,760 Speaker 4: I know, and he needs to be fine with it. 2107 01:30:08,840 --> 01:30:11,040 Speaker 4: But I'm sure he will be right. I think forbidding 2108 01:30:11,120 --> 01:30:11,639 Speaker 4: him is weird. 2109 01:30:12,120 --> 01:30:15,080 Speaker 3: Well, you know, what's done is done, is done. 2110 01:30:15,200 --> 01:30:17,160 Speaker 4: I guess so. But I do like him hearing you 2111 01:30:17,160 --> 01:30:18,439 Speaker 4: at the height of your power, I saying, that's a 2112 01:30:18,439 --> 01:30:21,479 Speaker 4: really good thing, you know, But. 2113 01:30:21,439 --> 01:30:24,080 Speaker 5: Then you like hear everybody's opinion, and like everybody has 2114 01:30:24,080 --> 01:30:25,000 Speaker 5: an opinion about something. 2115 01:30:25,080 --> 01:30:28,080 Speaker 4: Tori's freaking out that we're not ending this show. I'm 2116 01:30:28,080 --> 01:30:28,920 Speaker 4: watching her back there? 2117 01:30:28,960 --> 01:30:29,479 Speaker 2: Can we can? 2118 01:30:29,520 --> 01:30:31,000 Speaker 1: We have a fun quiz for next week? 2119 01:30:31,240 --> 01:30:33,400 Speaker 4: Sure? What would you like friends? Would you like grays? 2120 01:30:33,400 --> 01:30:36,000 Speaker 4: Would you like cray City? Would you like something new? 2121 01:30:37,320 --> 01:30:37,719 Speaker 3: Something? 2122 01:30:42,200 --> 01:30:44,479 Speaker 1: Maybe we just do like a But if we just 2123 01:30:44,560 --> 01:30:47,040 Speaker 1: do like a newly, like a newly. 2124 01:30:47,200 --> 01:30:49,559 Speaker 4: About each other? Yeah, we'll do that. Who knows the 2125 01:30:49,560 --> 01:30:50,160 Speaker 4: other one better? 2126 01:30:50,600 --> 01:30:52,000 Speaker 1: Like a fresh update next week? 2127 01:30:52,040 --> 01:30:54,080 Speaker 3: All right? Do you want to call it? 2128 01:30:54,200 --> 01:30:54,439 Speaker 2: Sure? 2129 01:30:55,640 --> 01:30:57,200 Speaker 3: Time of Death twelve fifteen