Speaker 1: And it was like almost like where you fill up
Speaker 1: your coke or whatever and it starts like foaming and
Speaker 1: it's just bubbling and you're like, oh God, calm down
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Speaker 1: the Action. What a Girl Girl? How should wait? Not boring? Wow?
Speaker 1: Not boring? From my new Mama, Sita. What a crazy
Speaker 1: week you had, my love? How does it feel now
Speaker 1: that the news that you've had to keep quiet for
Speaker 1: over well almost a year is out and all the
Speaker 1: reactions I know, and I know I told you. So
Speaker 1: many people reached out to me just so genuine and
Speaker 1: like so happy for you and Jared and rightfully so
Speaker 1: how was it on your end? I was so glad
Speaker 1: and you knew the week leading up to it and
Speaker 1: just being quiet and then having it leaked And I
Speaker 1: broke out in massive acne because it was just like
Speaker 1: we just wanted to talk and have it be over,
Speaker 1: and yeah, it was wild, but glad it's over. So
Speaker 1: many amazing DMS messages, text messages I love where calm
Speaker 1: down listeners were just so supportive and saying that they
Speaker 1: loved seeing how excited you were. That was one thing
Speaker 1: that I was so bummed out, like in real time
Speaker 1: you can't share. I mean, chrisa through this epic baby
Speaker 1: boozy brunch for me party. We danced our asses off.
Speaker 1: We I mean, we'll get to that later, but like
Speaker 1: just little things along the way that you know, I
Speaker 1: was able to experience with my friends. Just had to
Speaker 1: keep it quiet. So now it's really cool to like
Speaker 1: answer questions on the pregame about the babe and all
Speaker 1: that stuff, and now like I'll tell stories about my
Speaker 1: first it was like, oh my god, you Matthew, Kelly,
Speaker 1: Steve will love it. It was for Christmases like the
Speaker 1: Vonde Yeast. The last time I was in that living
Speaker 1: room behind you, we were watching it and it was July,
Speaker 1: and I listen, great tip. We are so thankful to
Speaker 1: have have help here and and and guide me through
Speaker 1: this step because I can now tell you I understand
Speaker 1: why mothers always feel like failures. These babies do not
Speaker 1: come with instructions. So this kid, this kid, my son
Speaker 1: spews everywhere and it was like almost like where you know,
Speaker 1: you fill up your your coke or whatever, and it
Speaker 1: starts like foaming and it spills over and you're like, WHOA,
Speaker 1: where's this coming and it won't stop. You're like, how
Speaker 1: many times have we shaken this thing up? Exactly? And
Speaker 1: it's just bubbling and you're like, oh God, And like
Speaker 1: Jared of course is like here here, here the burp cloth.
Speaker 1: Worry about the sofa. I'm like, no, I lift him
Speaker 1: up and right away at the sofa. Yeah, She's like no, no, no,
Speaker 1: put him on his side, kind of like you would
Speaker 1: your girlfriend if she was vomiting after a fun night out.
Speaker 1: You know, put him on his side, because if you
Speaker 1: lift him up, he could be choking. Shit like that
Speaker 1: Chrisa even today, like you know, I'm changing a diaper
Speaker 1: and this kid is screaming bloody murder. Like it's not
Speaker 1: a cry, it's a scream. And I feel like I'm
Speaker 1: about to lead my team down the for a touchdown
Speaker 1: and time is winding down. I mean, my heart is
Speaker 1: just going. You don't want to fuck it up. It's
Speaker 1: two minute drill. You're like, we cannot have an interception
Speaker 1: on the goal line. So anyways, it's going great. Thanks
Speaker 1: for asking, how's your week? No, I just love this
Speaker 1: so much and I have to say then I remember
Speaker 1: what Kylie Jenner obviously we know like she kept her
Speaker 1: pregnancy quiet that entire time, and like I was like, especially,
Speaker 1: you know, you guys are public figures and out and
Speaker 1: about different things like that. I just think it's really special.
Speaker 1: And that's not to knock anyone that wants to narrate
Speaker 1: their entire journey publicly as it happens, because everyone should
Speaker 1: do whatever is best for them. But I think in
Speaker 1: this world that we live in where everything is documented
Speaker 1: and everything is out there and I'm a victim of it,
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I'm going to the bathroom or I'm
Speaker 1: eating a muffin. It's like it's like just everything is
Speaker 1: like in real time. I think it's really special how
Speaker 1: you guys had that to yourselves and shared it, you know,
Speaker 1: with your closest friends and family and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: because you really got to I don't know, I can
Speaker 1: only imagine, like how like it's like the biggest secret
Speaker 1: in the world, and like for you to have that
Speaker 1: to yourself, I just think it's really special. But again,
Speaker 1: everyone's got their own journey. But I'm just so excited
Speaker 1: that we now get to talk about the smush and
Speaker 1: the smootion and this smush bear I'm annoying. I text
Speaker 1: Aaron on the daily asking like how he's sleeping. I
Speaker 1: need pictures. So she's probably gonna silence her phone and
Speaker 1: say notifications are off for a little while. But I
Speaker 1: just love him so much. I love you, and I'm
Speaker 1: so grateful for the support and thank you for our
Speaker 1: Calm Down podcast listeners. Also everybody that works with Calm Down.
Speaker 1: You know, our staff is huge, but you guys like
Speaker 1: dis trusted ask to get it out. You were doing
Speaker 1: it within my timeline and I really really appreciate it.
Speaker 1: So thank you, thank you, thank you. Well, You're loved
Speaker 1: and you deserve it all. You are the best. Okay,
Speaker 1: so busy, busy week for you. And we have a
Speaker 1: fun little thing. So on this podcast, we always Aerin
Speaker 1: and I will send each other like different headlines, or
Speaker 1: our wonderful producer Ryan will text us like what do
Speaker 1: you guys think about this? So we're like, let's just
Speaker 1: make this part of our podcast every week because I
Speaker 1: love a headline. So with that said, we have three headlines.
Speaker 1: We're going to talk about it induced conversations internally between
Speaker 1: us and curious what you guys think about it as well.
Speaker 1: Aaron and I talk about flight stuff at nauseum also
Speaker 1: tighten part of our life living on an airplane, and
Speaker 1: just our disdain that we have for the ridiculousness that
Speaker 1: is flying these days because people have lost their goddamn mind.
Speaker 1: So the first headline you have bave as we well,
Speaker 1: this was going around a business class passenger on a
Speaker 1: United flight. This flight was going to Amsterdam, so as
Speaker 1: you know, long ass flight. He decides to throw a
Speaker 1: temper tantrum mid flight after finding out his meal choice
Speaker 1: was unavailable. You know what had to happen. The flight
Speaker 1: had to divert to Chicago, which means it screws up
Speaker 1: everybody's travel plans. I don't care if you're in first class.
Speaker 1: I don't care if you're flying the plane. I don't
Speaker 1: care if you're in the back of the plane. If
Speaker 1: it's that important that you don't get the dry chicken
Speaker 1: or the weird short ribs that are gonna cause you
Speaker 1: a massive stomach ache, and you can't wait for that
Speaker 1: plane to land in Amsterdam. And now you just screwed
Speaker 1: it up for everyverybody because now they got to hold
Speaker 1: it because they're landing in Chicago. You're an asshole, you
Speaker 1: know what, You're an asshole. You're an asshole these flight attendants.
Speaker 1: First of all, they're not cooking the meal. Second of all,
Speaker 1: they're not like something. Chris. It should learn. If you
Speaker 1: want it so bad, then you sir, you put your
Speaker 1: meal choice in when they ask you online. CHRISA, I'm
Speaker 1: talking to you, but it's like, are you Is that
Speaker 1: like ruining your day so much? I'm glad they got
Speaker 1: video of this guy. I'm glad they put it on
Speaker 1: the internet. You're an asshole. Stop treating these flight attendants
Speaker 1: like crap. I we talked about on a previous podcast,
Speaker 1: how you'll get the email and it'll say like, oh,
Speaker 1: pre you know, choose your meal or whatever. If you
Speaker 1: don't take the time to do that, me, I don't
Speaker 1: do it, okay, then I can't complain because I don't
Speaker 1: care enough about what the meal is. I'm like, ooh,
Speaker 1: this will be fun. Like what's left when you get
Speaker 1: to me. It's like, I'll have the freakin' goldfish that's
Speaker 1: in the snack box. I could care less about food.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. Just sure we don't run out of
Speaker 1: wine or coffee. Those are the tooth and I lose
Speaker 1: my skull, then I'm losing my mind. But this guy
Speaker 1: and I, I mean, I don't know if he was
Speaker 1: married or you know whatever this or he has a
Speaker 1: mother parents, he has a mother, He has a mother.
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, or if his parents are
Speaker 1: still alive, or he's got a brother or someone, he
Speaker 1: should be embarrassed. This is a new come This is
Speaker 1: my new comeback for people where instead of getting mad
Speaker 1: because I'm trying to work on my my initial reactions
Speaker 1: sometimes is just visceral, like rat like to get like angry,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, there is so much power in came
Speaker 1: and like stillness. And this is Bryan Holliday writes, who
Speaker 1: Steve like adores and like loves this author about like
Speaker 1: stillness is key. It's something I can have not mastered.
Speaker 1: But I'm really trying because there's been a few times
Speaker 1: in my life when I actually have done it. And
Speaker 1: there's so much power in saying less that just a reaction.
Speaker 1: If I'm sitting next to this guy and I look
Speaker 1: over and i want to just be like, aren't you embarrassed?
Speaker 1: Like that's it? Like yeah, not like you're you know,
Speaker 1: like the craziness that we're having right now just because
Speaker 1: we're talking about it, but like in real life, aren't
Speaker 1: you embarrassed by your behavior? And I'm so glad to
Speaker 1: your point that he got exposed. And but here's the
Speaker 1: thing about a narcissist or a cuckoo pants like him,
Speaker 1: he probably doesn't even hit his radar. He probably justifies
Speaker 1: it because we all know those people that think that
Speaker 1: they're right for the behavior. I don't know. I feel
Speaker 1: like he should be banned from ever flying that airline again.
Speaker 1: There should be consequences to these people's actions, you know.
Speaker 1: Calm down, sir. And by the way, another time to
Speaker 1: calm down when you're burping a baby because they are
Speaker 1: a very very slow burper. Okay, my mind, you can't
Speaker 1: take it out on him. Like I was having a
Speaker 1: stressful moment trying to figure something out, and I'm like
Speaker 1: burping him and not calming down, and our nanny just
Speaker 1: comes up and grabs my hand and starts doing it correctly,
Speaker 1: and she goes that baby feels you, And I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: so the passenger and me, there's an interjection whom I'm
Speaker 1: obsessed with her. I feel like I'm really good with kids,
Speaker 1: just because I grew up like my mom did. Daycare.
Speaker 1: Growing up, there was always kids around. I was a nanny,
Speaker 1: so I feel like there's only a few things in life.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I crush this, so I'm holding back.
Speaker 1: I'm bouncing him and she's like mm mmm, no bouncing,
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, I love her
Speaker 1: so much. She if I wish I had like an
Speaker 1: ounce of her knowledge with him. If I'm you and
Speaker 1: I know you are, You're like, teach me everything. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I understand why women say they feel like a failure
Speaker 1: with these kids, because every day feels like school, trying
Speaker 1: to learn something like how are you supposed to know? Though?
Speaker 1: And every situation's different. I don't know. I just love
Speaker 1: like just learning and anyways, okay and snip and my baby, okay,
Speaker 1: next headline, Okay, this is great. Dolly parton you guys
Speaker 1: says she never wants to retire. I just hopefully I
Speaker 1: just hopefully don't drop dead on stage. What a gal. No,
Speaker 1: I'll just hopefully drop dead on stage. Oh sorry, sorry, sorry,
Speaker 1: I don't know how to read. That's all. Just hopefully
Speaker 1: dropped dead on stage. During a recent appearance I'm Greatest,
Speaker 1: It's Radio, the country music icon, said she'd rather spend
Speaker 1: the rest of her life performing than opt for retirement,
Speaker 1: as she's not one to sit around and do nothing.
Speaker 1: I would never retire. I just hopefully drop dead in
Speaker 1: the middle of a song on stage someday, hopefully one
Speaker 1: I've written the seventy seven year old part and said
Speaker 1: I love her. And by the way, she's been working
Speaker 1: in the music industry for sixty years. When I look
Speaker 1: at her, or like a Mick Jagger or any of
Speaker 1: these people that have been Lionel Richie, I mean, we're
Speaker 1: talking six decades of performing. And I watched her with
Speaker 1: Garth Brooks on I think it was a CMT Awards
Speaker 1: whatever it was, one of the award shows. She is
Speaker 1: still as quick as can be, SaaS mix sas and
Speaker 1: good for her. I wouldn't want to retire either, because
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, sometimes we see in life
Speaker 1: like the passion that people have. I mean, we've seen
Speaker 1: it with some coaches at the collegiate level or the
Speaker 1: professional level, or when when the meaning of their life
Speaker 1: like goes away in that that all they've ever known
Speaker 1: is taken away, you'll die. I mean I even saw
Speaker 1: my grandpa like after he retired, he went and volunteered
Speaker 1: at Boeing because he just wanted to stay around the
Speaker 1: people that he worked with and stay sharp too, because
Speaker 1: what are you gonna just sit in your recliner and
Speaker 1: you know, wait for the day that you die. No.
Speaker 1: I love reed, I love the attitude and go girl,
Speaker 1: timeless and flawless. All right, next headline, I know you
Speaker 1: love this one too, take it away? Oh yeah, wait,
Speaker 1: hold on, I screenshot at it. Sorry, stand by America.
Speaker 1: Talk amongst yourself because this is my favorite thing. And God,
Speaker 1: there's more that I wish I could say about this,
Speaker 1: but unfortunately I can't. But I'll get to the good stuff.
Speaker 1: Goldiehan reveals why she never married longtime partner Kurt Russell
Speaker 1: when asked in an interview with CNN why she never
Speaker 1: chose to marry her partner of over forty years, the
Speaker 1: seventy seven which, by the way, how is Goldiehans seventy
Speaker 1: seven seriously over the time to get over here? Quote?
Speaker 1: Why should we get married? Hank explained that both she
Speaker 1: and Russell seventy two have previously been married to other people.
Speaker 1: She realized that when the relationship doesn't work out, it's
Speaker 1: always ugly. Somebody has to take a look and say
Speaker 1: how many divorces are fun, how many divorces actually don't
Speaker 1: cost money, and how many divorces make you hate the
Speaker 1: person more than you did before. I so, again, we
Speaker 1: know my track record with marriages, but I will say
Speaker 1: this as coming from parents who have been married for
Speaker 1: forty five years. I love the institution of marriage. It's
Speaker 1: why I mean, I love I love love love. I
Speaker 1: mean I do, I love love, and I think that
Speaker 1: that's also part of the reason why I have gotten
Speaker 1: married a couple of times, because I want it to
Speaker 1: be like what my parents had, and unfortunately it wasn't.
Speaker 1: But now you know, I get asked all the time
Speaker 1: with Steve now being together with him for a year,
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, when are you guys getting married? And
Speaker 1: we're the last of the group of my friends and
Speaker 1: his friends that could get married. That's okay. I need
Speaker 1: to watch my tongue because I am quick. And this
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with him, because he is the
Speaker 1: greatest man I've ever been lucky enough to be with.
Speaker 1: But I'm quick to be like, I'm never getting married
Speaker 1: again because I haven't had great experiences with said things.
Speaker 1: So I love that, she said this because for me personally,
Speaker 1: I believe it is a choice. I want to choose
Speaker 1: him every single day when I wake up instead of
Speaker 1: feeling like, oh, I have to be with you because
Speaker 1: there's a piece of paper and the excavation of said
Speaker 1: things hasn't always been easy. So I love Goldiehan, I
Speaker 1: love her attitude, and I also think it's interesting and
Speaker 1: I know that you feel this way, even now that
Speaker 1: we can talk about sweet Mac where you would get
Speaker 1: questions all the time, like when you're gonna have kids?
Speaker 1: And for me, it's not like, oh, are you gonna
Speaker 1: get married again? Or I get this Oh God, she
Speaker 1: marries and she just, you know, like like a failure
Speaker 1: in that area. It's like with this societal expectation of
Speaker 1: whether it's having kids or being married, do whatever works
Speaker 1: for you. And that's sort of where a man has
Speaker 1: right and it's like I I just applaud anyone, and
Speaker 1: in this particular case, Goldiehn, for you know, she's got
Speaker 1: a successful relationship and a piece of paper does not
Speaker 1: make it that much, does not make it like like
Speaker 1: it's a gold star relationship just because you signed a
Speaker 1: piece of paper. If anything, I said that it's it's
Speaker 1: better to choose, make that conscious choice every single day.
Speaker 1: So good for her and anyone that wants to do
Speaker 1: things the way that is best for them. And that's
Speaker 1: my Ted talk. I love the Ted talk. We are
Speaker 1: gonna do a dual talk right now. Another headline that
Speaker 1: we found out about on our pregame show was one
Speaker 1: that you broke, and as we get you to explain it,
Speaker 1: we are going to bring in our favorite guy, Ryan,
Speaker 1: our producer for Arys Roses, and now we're going to
Speaker 1: do Ryan's reaction. So breaking news from Chrissa Jean Thompson.
Speaker 1: I didn't know about this. I realized I've been a
Speaker 1: tad busy. You and my man Max's best friends Steve
Speaker 1: Caundary are moving in together. We are moving in together,
Speaker 1: and I think this two things, Hi, RAI two things
Speaker 1: I thought, because after the breaking happened, Yeah, I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I think I should we should just move in together,
Speaker 1: and you're like, I endorse this, which, first of all,
Speaker 1: I would never move forward with big things in my
Speaker 1: life without your approval, so I'm not I'm actually not kidding.
Speaker 1: When you said that you approved of it.
Speaker 2: I was like, as on this one, that all definitely
Speaker 2: happened on the podcast.
Speaker 1: Okay, thank you. I honestly was going through shit, so
Speaker 1: was she.
Speaker 2: I will say it did require a follow up because
Speaker 2: to your point, Aaron, she did then very say it
Speaker 2: somewhat definitively in the pregme as if like, oh no,
Speaker 2: it's definitely happening, whereas it was very much a hey,
Speaker 2: this could happen.
Speaker 1: She sank you for the booth review Get under the Hood.
Speaker 1: I love that play. We don't need you. We have
Speaker 1: so we heard that this is happening. But also she
Speaker 1: went further into the conversation and said, well, we had
Speaker 1: the talk. So that's when we said Ryan has to
Speaker 1: come on and give his reaction to represent the male
Speaker 1: population out there. What happened? What's the talk? Okay, you
Speaker 1: and I have Yeah, you and I haven't even discussed
Speaker 1: the talk. Okay, so it's not going to be on
Speaker 1: the talk. Well or maybe we will, depending but here
Speaker 1: you go. So here's the broad stroke situation. So obviously,
Speaker 1: so I've been in this relationship with this amazing, wonderful
Speaker 1: guy who I've talked about at nauseum on this podcast, Steve,
Speaker 1: and he doesn't care what I say because he's just
Speaker 1: the best, but I have been I've been gun shy.
Speaker 1: I've just not wanting to like move as because we
Speaker 1: know I move way too fast in relationships, which has
Speaker 1: put me in precarious positions some of the aforementioned conversation
Speaker 1: I just had about marriage. So I'm trying to do
Speaker 1: things differently because the definition of insanity is doing the
Speaker 1: same thing over and over again, kind of differently the top.
Speaker 1: So I'm trying not to be a crazy crazy to me.
Speaker 1: So then I get robbed and I'm like, look, we
Speaker 1: spend every day together anyways, You're here all the time,
Speaker 1: Like why are you paying for a place that you're
Speaker 1: never in? Should we just move in together? And I'm
Speaker 1: like shit. As I'm saying it, I'm like, am I
Speaker 1: just like being impulsive because this robbery just happened? And
Speaker 1: am I going to regret it? It's been a year,
Speaker 1: so okay. So then when he's like, yeah, I think
Speaker 1: we should and so we have this talk and my
Speaker 1: whole thing is this So he's moving into my house,
Speaker 1: So let's all weigh in on how this works. Are
Speaker 1: you then splitting the mortgage? Are you then splitting the bills?
Speaker 1: Or how is this working? Because this, I talk this
Speaker 1: kind of talk which always and you and I Aaron
Speaker 1: have talked about this before when talking about financials. Nothing
Speaker 1: is sexy in a relationship when talking about money, right, Like,
Speaker 1: it's just not good. But at this point in my
Speaker 1: life we talking about everything. I'm seeing those W two's
Speaker 1: you'd open up the hood so that you say so,
Speaker 1: I said, why don't you take whatever money you were
Speaker 1: spending on your house and we start a joint bank
Speaker 1: account and you put that money into that account, and
Speaker 1: we just start building a savings account together. And then
Speaker 1: at the end of the year, whether it's we decide
Speaker 1: to go on a vacation or whether it's we decide
Speaker 1: to put a down payment on another house. Like, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I just feel like I don't want to.
Speaker 1: I've gotten into the bad habit before, being like this
Speaker 1: is my house and stuff like that, and I want
Speaker 1: to get away from that. So Ryan, take us through
Speaker 1: a scenario in your life where when you moved in
Speaker 1: with your wife, Like, how did that go down? Was
Speaker 1: was it your place she moved into? Should I move
Speaker 1: out of this household together and we get a place together,
Speaker 1: because I don't know how. I don't know how I
Speaker 1: should navigate this because I will get back into that
Speaker 1: bad habit of like this is my house, turn off
Speaker 1: the AC and I don't want to do that. I
Speaker 1: want to be really nice. Yeah, we don't need resentment, Ryan.
Speaker 2: You definitely don't want resentment. Okay. So I guess first
Speaker 2: we need to establish is the place that he's leaving
Speaker 2: a rent he's renting or does he also so own
Speaker 2: his own place?
Speaker 1: No, he's renting that place because he was only here
Speaker 1: temporarily in Los Angeles because for work, and then COVID happened,
Speaker 1: so he stayed way longer than he wanted to, so a.
Speaker 2: Couple of years longer.
Speaker 1: And then we thought, yeah, well because then he then
Speaker 1: he met the woman of his dreams.
Speaker 2: Right, so here we are, well I leave, okay, so
Speaker 2: I think.
Speaker 1: The podcast conversation.
Speaker 2: Howie, how you doing? Can you jump up here? All right?
Speaker 2: So yeah, look, my wife and I we were like,
Speaker 2: we're opening up everything. If we're going to go all
Speaker 2: in on engagement, wedding, buying a house together, it's all
Speaker 2: got to be fifty to fifty and we got to
Speaker 2: know everything about each other with the financials, so we
Speaker 2: were big on no stone unturned we're going to really
Speaker 2: go completely open on.
Speaker 1: I love it everything so transparency weird. There's a concept
Speaker 1: that was ground check.
Speaker 2: Yeah, full background check. So we bought our first property
Speaker 2: to together. So now this is where it's going to
Speaker 2: get a little bit difficult. How does he feel about
Speaker 2: paying the mortgage?
Speaker 1: I mean he is so first of all, he's already
Speaker 1: like contributed financially to this place and he doesn't even
Speaker 1: live here because it's just who he is. He's just
Speaker 1: like a good person that, by the way, like sends
Speaker 1: me money and then has like a funny line. Didn't
Speaker 1: even like ask me like do you want me to
Speaker 1: send you money? He just did every month and wrote
Speaker 1: like for Willis's salary, like just like to be funny
Speaker 1: and like be you know whatever, like cheeky about it
Speaker 1: because he's adorable. But I'm just wondering and again, like
Speaker 1: he will do whatever is best for the relationship, and
Speaker 1: I want to do that as well. I just don't
Speaker 1: know if it's split the mortgage, split the bills, or
Speaker 1: if My idea, and I would love to know viewers idea,
Speaker 1: if like just put whatever money you put into your
Speaker 1: place into this separate bank account and then just build
Speaker 1: like that together. I don't know, I'm trying to. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's the Ormond financial planning.
Speaker 2: I th I think being open to whatever he has
Speaker 2: to say. Maybe he's got some idea too that's completely
Speaker 2: different than yours.
Speaker 1: For once we listen yeah, years.
Speaker 2: And also helps because no one ever likes that, right, like, hey,
Speaker 2: what should we do? Like, I don't know, what do
Speaker 2: you think? I have no clue. So the fact that
Speaker 2: you're even bringing something that's the table about, Hey, what
Speaker 2: do you think about this idea? Is definitely always appreciate it.
Speaker 1: That's okay, let's take it to a vote, right, and
Speaker 1: I appreciate that. So let's open this up the podcast,
Speaker 1: our calm down listeners will will decide are we splitting
Speaker 1: the bills and splitting the mortgage or are we putting
Speaker 1: this into a separate bank account. That's those are your options?
Speaker 1: Split everything fifty to fifty or put it all away
Speaker 1: in a separate little account. If it can be oh
Speaker 1: sorry you asked ran, No, no, no, I'm If it can
Speaker 1: be split, then I'm into that. But sometimes, like I
Speaker 1: know some people that are like, listen, I can't afford this,
Speaker 1: Like I can't afford to go in on the mortgage.
Speaker 1: So then I know some households where the guys are like,
Speaker 1: then buy the groceries, deal with this, deal with that
Speaker 1: like I would never when I started dalting. He's down
Speaker 1: to split Yeah, I got split ends and he's down here.
Speaker 1: I think the problem is solved. For what do you think?
Speaker 2: I totally agree?
Speaker 1: Yeah, really, especially especially Win.
Speaker 2: If he's totally open to it, just that's the simplest, easiest,
Speaker 2: then there's no ill will anywhere.
Speaker 1: It's just okay, thank you, I'm already saving money. You've
Speaker 1: just saved me the five hundred and fifty dollars in
Speaker 1: therapy that I was going to take this week to
Speaker 1: work on me not saying mine, mine, mine and saying ours.
Speaker 1: Because it officially starts August first, so I have a
Speaker 1: few more weeks to get this out of my system.
Speaker 1: With the mine, I know. Okay, we're really taking a
Speaker 1: pot On forty one forty one, I'm moving in with
Speaker 1: my boyfriend and Aaron has a baby. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: we're all grown up. What are we going to have
Speaker 1: next week? Well, you never know. With me, stay tuned,
Speaker 1: it's always something, right, listen.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm here for.
Speaker 1: Which gets us to another segment we're really producing this week. Guys.
Speaker 1: It's called Throwback Thursday, and this is Ryan's idea. So
Speaker 1: I really hope that moving in together works out with
Speaker 1: Steve and I because I don't want to go back
Speaker 1: to dating because well, first of all, I adore him
Speaker 1: and I don't want to break up, but also dating
Speaker 1: is awful. And we had a wonderful question from our
Speaker 1: pregame one week about red flags for dating. And one
Speaker 1: of my red flags was crying on the first date.
Speaker 1: When I was in a movie with a guy that
Speaker 1: I went on a date with and he started crying
Speaker 1: and I was like, not into it. So this is
Speaker 1: a new segment and we are going to ask you guys.
Speaker 1: Wait and we asked you what are some of your
Speaker 1: red first God, I cannot read. What do I do
Speaker 1: for a living? We ask you some of your first
Speaker 1: date red flags? So do you want to run through
Speaker 1: this list? Yeah? Some people, which is great. Rude to servers, waiters, bartenders,
Speaker 1: I totally agree. Not happening. Yeah, if you are rude.
Speaker 1: And as someone again, I feel like I always have
Speaker 1: to preface this with my resume, and my mom was
Speaker 1: also a waitress. It was one of her like ten
Speaker 1: jobs that I had so she could provide for us
Speaker 1: growing up, or my dad. She was a waitress, and
Speaker 1: I've been a waitress. If you are rude to anyone
Speaker 1: in the service industryw we gone, Yeah, that's like an
Speaker 1: instant no no no. Next one is when a guy
Speaker 1: says you have to finish all of your food because
Speaker 1: he's paying for it. Who are these people? Never had
Speaker 1: a guy? I have to say that to me because
Speaker 1: I usually finish it before them. But that's fine. Talking
Speaker 1: about an ax is another one. Sometimes A get it,
Speaker 1: but I just don't think you need to talk about
Speaker 1: them too long, Like you know what, I'm what are
Speaker 1: we doing? Like I don't want to hear it over
Speaker 1: and over. You know, I have been a victim of
Speaker 1: that on both sides of that. I have had someone
Speaker 1: do that and I'm like, we're good here, we got
Speaker 1: it okay. And then I've also referenced the person with
Speaker 1: a lot of inks, so he comes up but more
Speaker 1: than he needs to. So yeah, I think that's be
Speaker 1: very careful with that and keep it moving because you
Speaker 1: never know how it's going to make. The other princ
Speaker 1: of fill a guy used a groupon at a wine
Speaker 1: bar that he printed out. First of all, he's not
Speaker 1: very sneaky. I mean, dude, learn how to get some
Speaker 1: moves if you're going to do that. I so it
Speaker 1: depends on when you're doing this, because I also think
Speaker 1: it's like it's funny where you're like trying to be
Speaker 1: like like if you're actually like been dating for a
Speaker 1: while and he's like, babe, let's save money or let's
Speaker 1: go do this or whatever, and with that, that's fine.
Speaker 1: But if you're trying to save money on the first date,
Speaker 1: we got a problem. You ain't split in the mortgage
Speaker 1: ordering multiple of the same cocktail all at once as
Speaker 1: soon as they sat down. Maybe the service is bad.
Speaker 1: You kind of taught me that one excuse me, We'll
Speaker 1: take four of these because we know it's because you
Speaker 1: know they're not going to come back. Yeah, but we're
Speaker 1: going to be nice to our server. We're not going
Speaker 1: to be rude to our server. We're just going to say,
Speaker 1: bring four of them because we need it. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think like there's a little bit of protocol at
Speaker 1: the beginning like that. Then I have a red flag
Speaker 1: of like are you an alcoholic and or you're not
Speaker 1: interested in the state. You just want to get wasted
Speaker 1: because you hate me and you're ordering multiple I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think that there's like a little bit more that
Speaker 1: you can read into on that one. I say, no,
Speaker 1: just order one drink and be normal. This one, I
Speaker 1: don't even think we need to discuss disgusting Uh huh, yeah?
Speaker 1: Being No. Next, where's his call? I agree?
Speaker 2: I'm done?
Speaker 1: Where's his college ring? No? I'm sorry? No? No, are
Speaker 1: were holding on to Bruce Springsteen Glory Days?
Speaker 2: Like? You?
Speaker 1: Just go ahead and keep it in your man cave
Speaker 1: and your trophy case. We don't need you wearing that.
Speaker 1: They don't like it, gets college rings, No idea people
Speaker 1: do that, Stue. I don't know. God love him, but
Speaker 1: I understand how that could be a pet peeve. Next one,
Speaker 1: they don't like pets. This doesn't even need to be discussed.
Speaker 1: He called his sister the C word on the first day. Well,
Speaker 1: that's crazy. I want to know, where are you guys
Speaker 1: being these people? I mean, I am so sorry. I
Speaker 1: thought I've had some bad dates. These are really bad.
Speaker 1: His girlfriend, who I didn't know, messaging me on Instagram
Speaker 1: that he wasn't single. Well, this is the bit, you
Speaker 1: might just walk out walk right now if you're getting
Speaker 1: messages before on the date that he is or even
Speaker 1: like be prior to going on the date that he
Speaker 1: has a girlfriend. No, no, no, who did that just
Speaker 1: happen to in a reality show? I don't remember, well
Speaker 1: all of them that, like, somebody was messaging that. Oh
Speaker 1: it was La La or whatever. Member yeah, or was
Speaker 1: it Raquel or whatever the girl's name was. So she's
Speaker 1: going back to Rachel. By the way, Raquel is going back,
Speaker 1: of course she is. Okay, I know we are running
Speaker 1: out of time, but I want to I want to
Speaker 1: quickly do a little pre produced segment for you, since
Speaker 1: you are moving in with your boyfriend, and which by
Speaker 1: the way, I'm so excited about, because you know, I
Speaker 1: love him so very much. We're talking about just people
Speaker 1: and their dates and like all this stuff. I saw
Speaker 1: this segment today on the Today Show and Big Today Show. Gal, well,
Speaker 1: as you should be Avan and Hoda get over here,
Speaker 1: I said to Ryan I watched this. They had these questions.
Speaker 1: I said. All I could do was sit there and tight.
Speaker 1: I rewinded it and typed because I thought, of you, Okay,
Speaker 1: you're adorable. What are you doing. The segment was called
Speaker 1: how often should you It's right up your alley, Okakaya.
Speaker 1: I had a correspondent on today, or maybe she had
Speaker 1: a title today's show. He didn't really faunt her, so
Speaker 1: I couldn't tell what her name was and what she did,
Speaker 1: but this was her thing. She asked the anchors these questions.
Speaker 1: How often, according to dermatologist, should you shower a week? Well,
Speaker 1: you know, I I move five times a day, so
Speaker 1: shower a week? So on average, I shower three times
Speaker 1: a day when I went in the morning, after I
Speaker 1: work out or after I get done with a shoot,
Speaker 1: and if I have a bunch of makeup on, and
Speaker 1: then I always shower before I go to bed because
Speaker 1: I like to be fresh as a daisy before I
Speaker 1: get into the sheet. So that's three time seven. That's
Speaker 1: twenty one times I'm showering during the week. Now, I
Speaker 1: know that's excessive. So how many times should I that
Speaker 1: answer recommend? Yes, oh, dermatologists recommend. I'll split that number
Speaker 1: twelve two to three times a week. No, that was
Speaker 1: a disgusting according to like, because you're stripping the oil
Speaker 1: away from your skin if you have skin issues. It's
Speaker 1: so interesting, right, I don't care. I got to write
Speaker 1: this down to CHRISA. Okay, here's or three times I agree,
Speaker 1: I can't. Okay, here's another one house in home question.
Speaker 1: How often should you replace your betting? Not in terms
Speaker 1: of like, oh, clean your betting or change your betting,
Speaker 1: replace your sheets, the actual betting that you own. Oh okay,
Speaker 1: I think you should do that. I know that mine
Speaker 1: would probably be like, just because I'm a sheet connoisseur,
Speaker 1: like every three months, which is excessive. So that's four
Speaker 1: times a years. I'm gonna say it's your sheets four
Speaker 1: times a year, like I switch out because it depends. No,
Speaker 1: not because it depends if we're moving into winter throwing
Speaker 1: them out? Ah, okay, twice a year. You throw your
Speaker 1: sheets out twice a year. Well, I don't throw them out.
Speaker 1: I just move them to the guest room. And we're
Speaker 1: not moving. We're getting rid of them, and the robbers
Speaker 1: just took some, so I'm hitting new ones. No, you
Speaker 1: should replace your actual betting, like get rid of what
Speaker 1: you have every eighteen to twenty four months. Fibers break down.
Speaker 1: You can't wash out sweat after I've done it for
Speaker 1: so long. That one was interesting, That one I like
Speaker 1: that bake account. Yep, here's another one. Washing your dishwasher.
Speaker 1: How often should you wash your dishwasher? I didn't know
Speaker 1: you're supposed to. Neither did I wash your dishwasher? It
Speaker 1: fills up? Kelly? Is that you, I know? Remember in
Speaker 1: your kitchen just behind you? Yeah, it was half there.
Speaker 1: But we all know why you should wash your dishwasher
Speaker 1: every month. A trick to do it fill up a
Speaker 1: cup of white vinegar and put it on the top rack.
Speaker 1: You should be doing this to clean the build up
Speaker 1: that's all over the dishwasher and keep your dishwasher lasting
Speaker 1: for a while every month. This is fascinating. Can you
Speaker 1: send me this list? So I need to wash my dishwasher? Yeah, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: make one, says you and I all over the place.
Speaker 1: And I've never felt more dirty and disgusting about myself,
Speaker 1: especially when we've talked about with Kevin Burkhart. Keeping our
Speaker 1: eyes closed as we're changing in a public stall so
Speaker 1: the toilet that sell flushes doesn't hit us in the eye.
Speaker 1: How often should you clean your luggage?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: God, I gotta be right now. Do you know how
Speaker 1: embarrassing my luggage is? In fact, I had sweets. She
Speaker 1: works for NFL Network NFL Films. Excuse me. She saw
Speaker 1: me yesterday and she was like, I need to buy
Speaker 1: you new luggage. And I was like, look, I've been robbed.
Speaker 1: It's what I have. I am so attached to my
Speaker 1: to this this to me luggage that I've had for
Speaker 1: Megan gave this to me when she worked there, so
Speaker 1: I probably have had it for like six years. I
Speaker 1: have bought new luggage. I hate it so much. I
Speaker 1: go back to the old one. It's so I mean,
Speaker 1: it's I'm so embarrassed. By the way. That's fine, but Ryan,
Speaker 1: by the way, Ryan reaction. Ryan reacts, we should be
Speaker 1: sponsored by to me, by the way, because like they're
Speaker 1: my favorite love and by the way, I am a
Speaker 1: I am an expert packer. I can get so much
Speaker 1: shit in this luggage and I refuse to go to
Speaker 1: any other luggage. I always go back. Okay, that's six years.
Speaker 1: Often should you be cleaning your six year old luggage
Speaker 1: from to me?
Speaker 2: To me?
Speaker 1: Maybe a sponsored it? You should be this. I felt
Speaker 1: horrible about myself. You should clean it after each use.
Speaker 1: And it makes total sense. Yes, Carissa, we have that thing.
Speaker 1: It is at the on floors, like in public restrooms
Speaker 1: like it's disgusting. So this is a good one. Take
Speaker 1: an out right wipe, wipe off the handle, take off
Speaker 1: like and then just get a Lasol bottle and spray
Speaker 1: it down. Or Nanny who knows everything says she sprays
Speaker 1: hers down every time with alcohol spray. Of course I
Speaker 1: should have known she knows everything. Went a doubt. Think
Speaker 1: about it. You're putting it in your room after it's
Speaker 1: on the public restroom floor. You're rolling it through your house,
Speaker 1: picking it up and putting it in the TSA. My
Speaker 1: hands are on the wheels, not yeah, the same because
Speaker 1: your TSA pre check, which I tried to do yesterday
Speaker 1: and I got denied. My god, you guys, I really thought,
Speaker 1: I know we're all Why did you get denied? I
Speaker 1: thought you did it because they weren't allowing walkins. I
Speaker 1: walked up and I got rejected. I got the Heisman
Speaker 1: trophy in my face that said, back up, bitch, we
Speaker 1: can take you an appointment. Damn it. You know, did
Speaker 1: you want a pre produced segment? I'm so proud of you,
Speaker 1: and I copied it from the Today Show, but I
Speaker 1: thought it was so interesting. Imitation is the highest form
Speaker 1: of flattery. I'm into it. And by the way, I'm
Speaker 1: really proud of us, even know in two years in
Speaker 1: this podcast, this is the most p content bit that
Speaker 1: we've had. I do love it, but that's actually very
Speaker 1: eye opening things I learned for a quick recap, and
Speaker 1: then we'll go washing my dishwasher. Who knew? And now
Speaker 1: I want to order another piece of luggage immediately. Well
Speaker 1: you may not have to. We're gonna get a sponsorship.
Speaker 1: Things I want to talk about on the next podcast.
Speaker 1: I want to talk about being thrifty. This is a
Speaker 1: bag I just got on Amazon because I'm not buying
Speaker 1: any designer bag shows. I got robbed. Take a drink.
Speaker 1: Every time I've said I got robbed, I have found
Speaker 1: the greatest stoops and I'm going to help all of
Speaker 1: you guys out there. That's our content next week. This
Speaker 1: T shirt from a thrift store. I am on a roll.
Speaker 1: I am not spending money on it, and I'm going
Speaker 1: to be so rich. Steve won't have to slit the
Speaker 1: mortgage with me. I'll say keep your money, I'm rich,
Speaker 1: and robbers won't even want to come there because they
Speaker 1: could just rob a good will If you're to come
Speaker 1: to your house. You're fine, and if you have any
Speaker 1: good will stop robbing me, and don't rob me because
Speaker 1: my boyfriend lives here now, and clean your luggage.
Speaker 2: That lots.
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