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Speaker 1: The nick Niki. Hello here I am. I feel like

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Speaker 1: my voice has become clearer since the canker sores. Like

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Speaker 1: usually there's a hello, but it's like hello however more more,

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Speaker 1: just a little bit more juicy talk. Um hi, if

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Speaker 1: you're just joining us for the first time, I have

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Speaker 1: canker sores um in my mouth, and boy, it's I mean,

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Speaker 1: I've suffered with like sores in my mouth for like, oh,

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Speaker 1: not a lot, Like it's always it's been like like

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Speaker 1: canker sores as a kid. And then I used to

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Speaker 1: chew gums so much that um, I would develop like

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Speaker 1: like abrasions in my mouth because I was just so

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Speaker 1: addicted to com I don't chew it anymore but um.

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Speaker 1: And then that I had to have surgery on my

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Speaker 1: tongue to remove that. And then now this, I have

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Speaker 1: never gotten these. This medicine I got yesterday from my

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Speaker 1: orthough honest orthopedic surgeon, UM called the backter all. Um.

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Speaker 1: If you have ganger stores and you've ever used to

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Speaker 1: back the all, holy fuck, it is the most painful

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Speaker 1: thing I've ever I mean, it's right up there with

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Speaker 1: the biggest the migraines. Like that is always my reference

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Speaker 1: for like the worst pain I've ever felt. And one

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Speaker 1: time when I had my um when I had a

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Speaker 1: cold poscope that's where they like do a biopsy of

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Speaker 1: your um uterus. I guess cervix something up there, and

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Speaker 1: they're like it's just gonna be a little snip, and

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Speaker 1: I blacked out from the pain. It was just so severe. Um,

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Speaker 1: what's the worst pain you ever had? Noh, I think

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Speaker 1: a coposcopy because it's it's like a pressure like this

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Speaker 1: in a location that I didn't everything. I could feel

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Speaker 1: feel things down there. Yeah, and it and just knowing

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Speaker 1: that you're getting stuff snipped. M hm. The visuals alone

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Speaker 1: are just terrifying. Um, that's so much of pain too.

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Speaker 1: Is when I learned from reading that book called The

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Speaker 1: Healing Back Pain, that so much of our pain obviously

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Speaker 1: comes from our brain. That's where it's like processed. And

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Speaker 1: if you you know, you're where whatever's happening in your

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Speaker 1: back like already hurts. But when you hear words like

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Speaker 1: pinch nerve or slip disc or bulging disk, can you

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Speaker 1: just picture this disk being like crunched or this nerve

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Speaker 1: being pinched? It the visual of that description makes you

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Speaker 1: in more pain. Thus, chiropractors and back doctors who want

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Speaker 1: to sell you surgeries. Uh, they don't even know they're

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Speaker 1: doing it, but they're selling you pain when they describe

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Speaker 1: things like that, and then it makes their job more justified.

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Speaker 1: No offense to back doctors out there. Some of you

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Speaker 1: do great work, but a lot of these like things.

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Speaker 1: It's just it's so interesting when you kind of unpack

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Speaker 1: what pain is, because there's this amazing meditation on the

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Speaker 1: Waking Up app about dealing with pain, and it's like

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Speaker 1: you're supposed, like pain, you're supposed to think of as

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Speaker 1: like a separate thing and be like curious about your pain,

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Speaker 1: like if you're going through pain right now, and like

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Speaker 1: think about your pain radiating from that space and think

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Speaker 1: a bit like what is it? Like why am I

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Speaker 1: feeling it? Like what? And then there's some he even

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Speaker 1: says Sam Harris says, but there are situations where you

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Speaker 1: can be so mindful that pain, You can handle any

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Speaker 1: that's like you know, when those monks self emoliate, set

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Speaker 1: themselves on fire and they just sit there peacefully. That's

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Speaker 1: like almost kind of what they're dealing with but man

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Speaker 1: going through this. If you're someone who suffers chronic pain,

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Speaker 1: out there, shout out, how do you? How are you

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Speaker 1: a pleasant person? How are you a functioning person? I

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Speaker 1: mean I everything falls by the wayside when I have

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Speaker 1: I can't write today, I can't do that call, and

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Speaker 1: I feel justified at it. I can't fold, but I

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Speaker 1: can't do my laundry. Everything feebles, insurmountable. I can't be

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Speaker 1: I can't even process emotional pain that is coming from

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Speaker 1: other areas accurately. Like yesterday I got so upset about

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Speaker 1: I got depressed, honestly um about some relationships in my

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Speaker 1: life that I wasn't even seeing clearly because I was

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Speaker 1: seeing it through lens of canker store pain. Like I

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Speaker 1: when I'm like sick, or just like let me cry

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Speaker 1: about my canker score pain, which it feels ridiculous to

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Speaker 1: cry about a little cankies, but man, you apply this

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Speaker 1: you don't have a loved one. Um, that's what says

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Speaker 1: on your own, bitch, Just tough it out, like you're

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Speaker 1: That's truly how it felt. I was watching YouTube videos

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Speaker 1: kind of sympathy of like, this is not just me, right,

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Speaker 1: this is like so painful it cauteriz is essentially the

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Speaker 1: I'm trying a little patches. I think it's getting better.

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Speaker 1: I woke up today like kind of move my tongue

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Speaker 1: to be like is it still there? Do you if

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Speaker 1: you go to bed with migraines ever, that's what I

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Speaker 1: wake up. I always get my grains when I'm like

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Speaker 1: I felt that way and I was like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: the ulcers. I'm sorry to talk about it so much.

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Speaker 1: I really, like, I promise you I'm not a baby

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Speaker 1: when it comes to pain. And even if I were

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Speaker 1: because I'm feeling pain right like I think, I always

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Speaker 1: like to know no, no, this, I actually deserve to

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Speaker 1: feel this, you guys, because I have a really high

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Speaker 1: even if you know, I didn't, and it hurts, like

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Speaker 1: who cares? It hurts, and I'm trying everything I can

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Speaker 1: this way. I love how I had to justify my

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Speaker 1: own pain to myself. No, do you get canker stores ever? No, No,

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Speaker 1: canker store is no cold stres. You ever had one? No,

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Speaker 1: I've never had one. Oh that's interesting. They have like

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Speaker 1: and it is so interesting that there's I have no

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Speaker 1: on you know YouTube wherever we are. Um, I look

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Speaker 1: please tell me I'm beautiful. I took up I needed

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Speaker 1: sleep because canker sorts are a result of stress lack

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Speaker 1: sleep and I can't. I just like don't want to sleep. Um,

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Speaker 1: what are you doing instead of sleeping? Being on my phone?

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Speaker 1: Read it and like, you know, you know the best

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Speaker 1: thing to sleep though, anyone who complains about sleep, including

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Speaker 1: Nikki Glazer, pull up a book. I mean that's for me.

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Speaker 1: I pull up a book on my phone, read a book,

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Speaker 1: you do when you're not sleeping? Noah, um, reading and

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Speaker 1: um on my eyebook app. I have it in scrolling

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Speaker 1: because you're like, instead of flipping, I just do the

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Speaker 1: on your phone, on your phone or iPad on my phone? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: on your phone. Well. I started reading on my phone

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Speaker 1: I I that's when people buy me books. I go, please, don't.

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Speaker 1: I just I only read on my phone. I don't

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Speaker 1: people gotta understand it's a great place to read. People

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Speaker 1: always read on their iPads or whatever. It's like, why

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Speaker 1: You can all here are some negatives. Um, you don't

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Speaker 1: eyebook app? Yeah? Okay, do you ever find that text?

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Speaker 1: Poison Arrow and um, still learning so much. I realized

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Speaker 1: No uh, I hope I get it right, and I

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Speaker 1: reason to not have sex too soon. Now. I know

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Speaker 1: But I say, just not your vagina. Like that I

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Speaker 1: think has been working for me. I make a good argument,

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Speaker 1: want to make a part of a good argument for like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: you just don't get to do things because you like it,

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Speaker 1: Like it's not a good enough excuse, Like sometimes things

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Speaker 1: just you believe in God, and I'm like, yeah, I

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00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 1: just know God, like I just know you. There's nothing

426
00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 1: you could do to like convince me otherwise. It's just

427
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 1: like it had an epiphany and I just know I

428
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 1: have to know otherwise fuck. And my sister was like,

429
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 1: the way you talk like sometimes it's just like it's

430
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,600
Speaker 1: your way or the highway, like you just know and

431
00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:17,360
Speaker 1: that no one else can ever. And I go, yeah,

432
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:22,639
Speaker 1: because that's it's me and I haven't think of course

433
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 1: I feel that way like I and I go and

434
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 1: it was the first time she's ever stood up to

435
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 1: me in the way. She was like, just the way

436
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,399
Speaker 1: you talk, it's like no one else can have an opinion.

437
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 1: And I go, you're right. I was like, but I

438
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:36,880
Speaker 1: want so badly for other people to. I mean, I've

439
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:39,679
Speaker 1: had my mind changed by people going actually, NICKI no,

440
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,120
Speaker 1: I mean you have before, yeah, but I just think

441
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 1: but I have changed my tone. I know tone. I

442
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:47,639
Speaker 1: guess people don't like to hear, well, it's your tone

443
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 1: because it's your tone because then you go, oh, you

444
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,880
Speaker 1: can't handle like but no, I don't feel like when

445
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 1: someone talks this is the thing when someone like that.

446
00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 1: We met the owner of that of that theater the

447
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:05,000
Speaker 1: other day and he was a little anti semitic. He

448
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,639
Speaker 1: was a little off his rocker and he's talking to

449
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: me a lot a lot anti semitic. Okay, so but

450
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 1: me and Meal are sitting there and he was very

451
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 1: on his rocker. And the sad part John Rocker. That's two.

452
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 1: That's for two people. That was oh you know, okay,

453
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 1: well I listen, I know baseball controversy, but I don't

454
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 1: know John Rockers at the N word, which is probably

455
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 1: his guy's favorite player. Um So, But to my point

456
00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 1: is this guy is talking about conspiracy theories and he's

457
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 1: talking about him so intently, and he has like a

458
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 1: little bit of data backing it up. Where the last

459
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 1: thing I'm gonna go is, no, the American want to

460
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,120
Speaker 1: kill fucking three thousand people to get because you don't

461
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:46,719
Speaker 1: want to because were was the end of the night.

462
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 1: You don't want to engage in that, and you're in

463
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 1: He owned the building, He owned the build. But I'm

464
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 1: saying a lot of these times you might yes, you

465
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 1: owned this building, so so people might not or your

466
00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 1: sister for that fact. Also, it's annoying to have to

467
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 1: have like some people don't want to. They don't sign

468
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,400
Speaker 1: up for a debate at three in the afternoon. Totally,

469
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:09,160
Speaker 1: But that being said, But that being said, I think

470
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,119
Speaker 1: like if you go, you know, I think you know,

471
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,879
Speaker 1: in my opinion, I believe in God as opposed to

472
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 1: God is real. That's a two different kinds of sense. Totally.

473
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:20,200
Speaker 1: I agree with you, and that's what I needed to hear.

474
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:21,679
Speaker 1: Like as soon as she said that, I was like,

475
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 1: I fucking respect you so much, Like not that someone

476
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,399
Speaker 1: has to earn my respect, Like it just was like

477
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 1: I needed someone in my family to stand up to

478
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 1: me because it I that's I wanted. I wanted. That's

479
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,439
Speaker 1: what I'm trying to get, to be honest with you,

480
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:38,640
Speaker 1: is to be seen and to have someone go, you're

481
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,639
Speaker 1: this one, like we see what you're doing, Nikki. You

482
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 1: want attention, you're not getting it, Like here you go,

483
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 1: let me give it, like I'm trying to get that's

484
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:50,159
Speaker 1: how I get love because in my house, you were

485
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:53,879
Speaker 1: getting attention unless you were yelling, you know, so I

486
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 1: think that, or or being right or making a good

487
00:25:57,280 --> 00:26:02,159
Speaker 1: intellectual point like, so I need too, I need to

488
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,360
Speaker 1: work on that, like I need to I need to

489
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: acknowledge that I seek attention and closeness from people by

490
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 1: screaming with them, as opposed to going like, hey, Andrew,

491
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,880
Speaker 1: can I have a hug? I'm really sad today, and

492
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 1: like what what would that mean for me to do?

493
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 1: As opposed to going like do you know that when

494
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 1: you leave that light on bubba blah? Like that to me,

495
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,199
Speaker 1: that's getting you to stay around and look me in

496
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 1: the eyes, talk to me. That gets That gets me

497
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 1: the same thing that it honestly doesn't get me. It's

498
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: not getting me what I want, which is like intimacy

499
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 1: with friends and loved ones and closeness like with this

500
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 1: canker store. Like I'm I was so jealous of Brenna

501
00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 1: last night, having like someone with her when she was

502
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:50,160
Speaker 1: feeling sick because I was in my room just increased

503
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 1: so much pain and I'm like, God, I want And

504
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 1: it wasn't about like you, because it's not like you

505
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:56,639
Speaker 1: would have been in my room with me if I

506
00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,119
Speaker 1: was cankering out. But it was just like I saw

507
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 1: what how good it is to have someone go to

508
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 1: the doctor, go to the store for you to get

509
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 1: you meds in too, like kind of go get you

510
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,879
Speaker 1: water and like dote on you when you're sick. And

511
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 1: I was just like, God, I want that, and I

512
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 1: feel like I've done so much to like I am

513
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 1: constantly pushing that away in my life and like don't

514
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 1: want it because I feel like because there's a part

515
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 1: of me that also goes, oh, I'd feel so bad

516
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: making someone run to the store when they just want

517
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 1: to go to sleep, or that, you know, all those things.

518
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 1: What does it feel like to be able to take

519
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 1: care of someone that isn't feeling well well? Last night? Yeah,

520
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 1: Brennan was sick and so around eleven at night, and uh,

521
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 1: we didn't have any like cold medicine. We just had

522
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:44,680
Speaker 1: like up yeah. And also whatever however you want to say.

523
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 1: But Thailand is apparently better if it was COVID and Adville,

524
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 1: so I knew that it's not COVID. Yeah, yeah, she

525
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,159
Speaker 1: got tested. She was negative, but I was you know,

526
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 1: I don't even think about it. I think like when

527
00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 1: you love someone and like I've never really felt this

528
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 1: where I'm like, like if I get sick from her. Okay,

529
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 1: I don't give a funk. I'm here with you. I'm

530
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 1: I'm writing and dying with you. Whatever. And when I

531
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,679
Speaker 1: go to Walgreens, it's not like I'm like, there's not

532
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:17,120
Speaker 1: even like an ounce of me going God, I wanted

533
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:18,639
Speaker 1: to just go to bed, like I can't believe that

534
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 1: they go to wal I'm just an autopilot to make

535
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: her feel better. And that just feels great because it's like, oh,

536
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 1: you're thinking completely outside yourself. Yeah, I saw that yesterday

537
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 1: with her. Did you notice when she was doing laundry,

538
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 1: she was like, I'm just like it was before she

539
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 1: started feeling really sick. She was like kind of bubbly

540
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 1: walking around the apartment. She's like doing laundry. She asked

541
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 1: me if she wanted like to throw in any of

542
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 1: my stuff. She's so sweet, and she's like, I think

543
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 1: I'm just doing a lot of laundry because it's like

544
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 1: for the first time, it's like free. And she was

545
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 1: just like I want to do it, and and I'm like,

546
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 1: get it. Carl and then um and Andrew was like

547
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 1: I love it too, and she was like yeah, and

548
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 1: I love doing your laundry, and he was like you

549
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: said something in response that you go like, yeah, it's

550
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 1: it's uh, it's awesome for me because I have I

551
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 1: really need it done. And she said something. She goes,

552
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 1: I actually like doing it because I like to think

553
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: that it makes you happy and it's making your life better.

554
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 1: Like you could tell her motivation wasn't because God, he

555
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 1: needs it. It was like, you get happy when you

556
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 1: have clean clothes and someone's taking care when like providing

557
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: you that. So I want to give that only to

558
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 1: make you happy, not because your clothes are so gross, Bay,

559
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 1: what's going on? It was just her doing an act

560
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 1: of love. It wasn't about the laundry, and it was

561
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 1: so apparent. I wish I would have written down exactly

562
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 1: exactly the interaction, but you had responded in some way

563
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 1: that was like yeah clean, I need my clean. I

564
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 1: need it so bad, like my clothes, Like I haven't

565
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 1: done laundrying why, she goes, No, I'm just doing it

566
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 1: because it seems to she goes, Or the fact that

567
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 1: it just seems to make you happy, and I like

568
00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 1: doing things that makes you happy. It was like, oh fuck,

569
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 1: it was so sweet. It's so nice to see my

570
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 1: mom wrote me last night too, and she's like, my

571
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:03,479
Speaker 1: mom I think had a little boozy booze last night.

572
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: And she was texting me and she said, what did

573
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 1: she say? It's I'll do my mom's impression. It was

574
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 1: so cute. She goes, um uh, She's like, oh my god,

575
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 1: I sent her. I sent her all these texts people

576
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 1: telling me telling me on because she my mom was

577
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 1: at the Meat and Great on Saturday night with my

578
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 1: dad and so many people were writing to me being like,

579
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: your mom is so beautiful. I have never once asked

580
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 1: anyone to say that, never solicited that. So I shared

581
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: it with my mom because last night my mom was

582
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 1: having a little bit of like anxiety about being on

583
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 1: camera and stuff, and you know, and as we all do, everyone,

584
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 1: especially women of a certain age. And she and I

585
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 1: sent her all these tweets that I got in d

586
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 1: m s from people, and she was like, she's just

587
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 1: being sweet. She'll say anything, And I go, will you

588
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 1: not disrespect my fans this way? I didn't ask her

589
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 1: to say that, this girl doesn't so what. So when

590
00:30:58,440 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: she also said she had fun up my show was

591
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: out a lie too, can you maybe think that? And

592
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 1: then I realized my mom thinks that when people say

593
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: she looks beautiful, that they're lying, because my mom probably

594
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 1: does that to people and is lying. You know, like

595
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 1: we don't trust people when we are you know, people

596
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 1: that are so paranoid about being cheated on are usually cheating.

597
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 1: It's like, Mom, you need to be more honest with

598
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 1: other people in your life so that when they're honest

599
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 1: with you, you can if that makes any sense. So

600
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: she goes, oh, she said the funniest thing. She goes

601
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 1: tomorrow and camera, can you be a better stage daughter?

602
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: And I go, what does that mean? I would I

603
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: would love to do that, and she goes, I just

604
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 1: think it's funny. Instead of me being a stage mom,

605
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 1: you're a stage daughter. And I was like, that is funny.

606
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 1: Will you say that on camera? But anyway, um, she

607
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 1: goes and all right, love you. Has Andrew been making

608
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 1: a lot of noise in the other room? I hope so?

609
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:55,959
Speaker 1: J K. So I guess she was saying, like, and

610
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: I said, he's been quiet. He and Brenner are so

611
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 1: happy and cute. It's awesome, so happy for him, and

612
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 1: that's I was just like writing it. I'm like, oh,

613
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 1: it's just spilling out of me. I was just so

614
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 1: I'm just so happy for both of you, and I

615
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 1: joke a lot about her being young and old soul

616
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 1: and all those things, but I genuinely am um, like

617
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 1: so happy to see you being loved by someone, like

618
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 1: genuinely and you also doing that back and like just

619
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 1: even through the door hearing like the little like giggles

620
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 1: and stuff like, not through the door, but like when

621
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: I'm walking by the door, yeah yeah, like when I

622
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 1: have Mike to your room. Secret when you're pretending to

623
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 1: be cleaning the windows on the twelve floor, Yeah yeah, yeah,

624
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 1: I'm so scared of heights, but I just wanted to

625
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 1: see you too being cute the rope listen, I got

626
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 1: a lot of it from my depressive days that I

627
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 1: never used. What do I do with all those little

628
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 1: those stools? And what was it Norm McDonald's joke about

629
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 1: the the shaky stool store next to the rope store? Suicide. Okay,

630
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 1: we gotta get to the news. But I'm happy for you, bro.

631
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 1: Thanks apparently that's nice. Here we go, I'm going to

632
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 1: jump the shooting relief of Ambersolt maxrimum strength. Who is

633
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: ever gonna buy Amberralt minimum? I'm good Ambazon minimum. By

634
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 1: the way, there's no but it's about Thilan all like

635
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: extra strength. He's like, and what about the one that's

636
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 1: just mediums No, one's mind, like, I just don't know

637
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 1: extra mild. They just add those words to make you go, oh,

638
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 1: this is nearly barely legal Amazon. That's what it makes

639
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: it sound like, like like we're getting away with, Like we're

640
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 1: giving you stuff that usually you need prescription force. Tell

641
00:33:56,080 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: anyone a woman is seeking have all the swells. Yeah,

642
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: it doesn't feel forced. It's very natural when I go

643
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 1: have all the have all the swells. Um. A woman

644
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:11,839
Speaker 1: is seeking one million dollar payout from Geico after allegedly

645
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 1: contracting HPV uh while having sex in a car insured

646
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 1: by the company. So the company. Her car is insured

647
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 1: by Geico, and she got HPV in her car. Plus, yeah,

648
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 1: she got it from the card that you put your

649
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:37,399
Speaker 1: insurance card. Wait, no, no, no, no, her her car

650
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,759
Speaker 1: is insured by Geico and she got h p V

651
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 1: from having sex in her car. I think it was

652
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:45,399
Speaker 1: her boyfriend car that was insured or her partner's car.

653
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 1: Sue your boyfriend, yeah, obviously, but the boyfriend's obviously poor.

654
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:54,759
Speaker 1: Can you sue someone for giving you HPV knowingly many

655
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 1: times call for litigious you know, desperation like this is

656
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: just an insane claim. You know that David. I watched

657
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 1: this um documentary about David Geffen on Netflix. If you

658
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: don't know David Geffin is neither did I? I mean,

659
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:12,359
Speaker 1: I've always heard his name. There's one scene they show

660
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:14,280
Speaker 1: from the School of Rock. Do you remember that movie

661
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 1: with Jack Black and all the parents are like confronting

662
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:19,360
Speaker 1: him for the first time about like their kids are

663
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 1: obsessed with rock music, And all these parents are going,

664
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 1: why is my son listening to blah blah blah? And

665
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,800
Speaker 1: then one woman goes, why is my daughter suddenly obsessed

666
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 1: with David Geffen? And I remember seeing that movie and going,

667
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 1: who's David geff I just assumed he was some bassis

668
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 1: for something. He's a music producer, he was an agent,

669
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:41,359
Speaker 1: a manager, a producer, a He watched this documentary, you guys,

670
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 1: My dad recommended it over the weekend. Why I bring

671
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:47,720
Speaker 1: it up right now is because David Geffen once sued

672
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 1: Neil Young because he's he had Neil Young on his

673
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 1: one of his record labels, and Neili Young decided to

674
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:57,919
Speaker 1: be uh to make an experimental album and just kind

675
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 1: of deviate from what we expect from Neil Young and

676
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 1: did I can't even believe what Neil Young put out

677
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 1: for a while. I mean, you wouldn't recognize him. He

678
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 1: was he was kind of being like an eighties like

679
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 1: you would you would have thought you were watching a

680
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 1: Duran Duran video and some of this stuff he was

681
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 1: putting out. Gaines kind of like oh yeah. And Neil

682
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 1: Young is in this documentary talking about like, yeah, I'm

683
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 1: an artist. When you when you're a record label, you're

684
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: invest you you're not. You shouldn't be in it to

685
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 1: make a profit. You should be in it to put

686
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 1: art out into the world. And that's what you were doing.

687
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 1: And sorry and Geffen because it bombs so much. And

688
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:36,360
Speaker 1: he felt so annoyed that he would sign artists and

689
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:40,360
Speaker 1: then they would take these like artistic liberties that he

690
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 1: got some bad advice and he sued Neil Young to

691
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: give because he would give these artists extreme advances. He

692
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:50,760
Speaker 1: was great manager, a great great uh agent, really believed

693
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 1: in his artist lost a lot of money, would be

694
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 1: nurture them, be like he was so cool and he's

695
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: but he's sued Neil Young for putting out like for

696
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 1: like not giving you Neil Young. He goes, I got

697
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 1: Neil Young's like I got sued for being an artist.

698
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:04,360
Speaker 1: They're still really good friends, but they never kind of

699
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 1: recovered from that. But just the ridiculousness of suing these

700
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 1: these kind of when you were just like there have

701
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 1: been times I think that I'm like, could I sue

702
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 1: for that? Like is there a way? And you know

703
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 1: that woman got h HPV and was just like the

704
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:21,399
Speaker 1: wheels started turning. Who can I blame for this? Also

705
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 1: a million dollars? It's like, I mean, it's just it

706
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: blows my mind that you know, or someone that slipping

707
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: falls in Walmart and their first thought is, oh my god,

708
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: hey where's a mop? Where? Who? Why was there no sign?

709
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 1: Maid told me about his mom was walking in a

710
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 1: raw stress for less and she there was some piece

711
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 1: of equipment that were like hanging something and it got

712
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 1: left out in the shoe aisle and she tripped over

713
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 1: it and sliced her leg like open, so like just

714
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 1: bleeding everyone just like muscle tissue was and um and

715
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: David's like, you know this is kind of a place too. Yeah,

716
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 1: it was, you know, his new wave face and that

717
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 1: was playing in the ross. Yeah. No, she she was like,

718
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:07,880
Speaker 1: that was my fault. I'm a clumsy old lady. And

719
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 1: David was like, for the first time ever it was

720
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 1: kind of a fall in a store where it was

721
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:16,240
Speaker 1: like they left like a chainsaw out in the fucking

722
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 1: like it was that egregious of like an error. And

723
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 1: his wife, his mom was just like, no, that was

724
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 1: I'm just clumsy. It was my fault. And not that

725
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 1: he was encouraging her to do so, but it was

726
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 1: just interesting that, like, there are certain people that can

727
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 1: go I would never do that. It's my fault. I'm clumsy,

728
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,919
Speaker 1: and then there are people that you're just, oh my god,

729
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:36,880
Speaker 1: it would be the worst thing ever. If you know,

730
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 1: there was a guy at my show on Chicago on

731
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:44,839
Speaker 1: UM Saturday night, first show, No uh Um, and I

732
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:49,280
Speaker 1: was about to bring up Andrew and his seat fell

733
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 1: out from like I don't know what happened, but when

734
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: the seats were rickety anyway, there were great seats, you know,

735
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 1: they set them up so it's not standing room only,

736
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: and this guy's seats fell and he fell on the ground.

737
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: Was you know, truly probably so embarrassing for him think

738
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 1: and I go. I even said, I was like, of

739
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:07,919
Speaker 1: anyone whose seat could fall, this guy is the best

740
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 1: one because he was just looking like a biker. He

741
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 1: was like a tough looking dude. His name was Kenny.

742
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 1: Shout out, Kenny. You handled it so fucking well. I

743
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 1: tried so hard at that moment. He alaw off its

744
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 1: right now, I said to Kenny, I was like, please

745
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 1: don't sue. I was kind of thinking, like I was like,

746
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 1: let's move on because I don't please don't call or whatever. Yeah. Yeah,

747
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 1: it's always like two guys on there. Like I was

748
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:39,840
Speaker 1: just desperate to make Kenny feel better because because that

749
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:42,799
Speaker 1: girl fell through the meet and greed too. Yeah, Curson's friend,

750
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:46,840
Speaker 1: and you handled it. You you really did, like, like

751
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 1: handle it so well. Where the first because it's so

752
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:52,360
Speaker 1: easy to point and laugh or feel uncomfortable. He was

753
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 1: a little bit drunk. She had drank too much, which

754
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 1: been there first of all, been in all these situations,

755
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 1: you know, where something you draw out of attention herself

756
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:02,440
Speaker 1: because you didn't. He didn't want to the chair to

757
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 1: fucking fall or whatever. And this girl had drank a

758
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: little too much and she like the backdrop for my

759
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 1: meet and greet it seems like it might be against

760
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:13,359
Speaker 1: a wall, and and so she kind of leans back

761
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, it's not a wall, and

762
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:16,719
Speaker 1: then you freak out. And then but she just like

763
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:18,919
Speaker 1: perfectly fell on this little stage and then sat down,

764
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:22,759
Speaker 1: like and the whole but the whole screen falls down

765
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 1: seeing you. Everyone's lined up to meet me, and they

766
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:27,720
Speaker 1: also she was the first one up, and um, Kirsten

767
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 1: told me she was so embarrassed, and I just want

768
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:33,040
Speaker 1: to shout out to her, Taylor, Uh, I like loved

769
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 1: you so much more in that moment than if that

770
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 1: wouldn't have happened, and I want to be friends with you.

771
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 1: And you were so lovely and maybe you had a

772
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 1: little too much to drink, but like been there and yeah,

773
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 1: it's just like I just took her and I was like, listen,

774
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:49,280
Speaker 1: I have fallen on stage in the same way. It happens.

775
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 1: It's funny, it's a good story. You're okay, And she

776
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 1: was just kind of like I was just trying to like,

777
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 1: please just know that this is okay. And and then

778
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 1: there was this one girl. Did you hear the girl

779
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 1: in line? Brittany in Kansas? Brittany not not cool? Brittany

780
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 1: was a little drunk too, and she was like, Okay,

781
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 1: you've been up there along enough. You see this girl.

782
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 1: It just felt I like, let me have time with

783
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 1: this girl and have her like kind of recover from

784
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,760
Speaker 1: It reminds me of I saw this video and they

785
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:19,839
Speaker 1: was nice. It's on YouTube or TikTok or whatever, and

786
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 1: it's Ronaldo, the soccer player who has you know, two

787
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 1: billion fans, and there's an Asian kid trying to talk

788
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 1: to him who speaks you know, Chinese or Japanese or whatever,

789
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 1: and he's trying to speak, uh, we're not Portuguese, and

790
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 1: he's having a tough time and everyone starts laughing at

791
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:41,800
Speaker 1: the kid except for Ronaldo, and Ronaldo good, No, he's

792
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 1: doing a good job and like made it a point

793
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 1: and everyone in the room ship it's like that quick

794
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:50,359
Speaker 1: of one person doing the right thing where everyone goes, oh,

795
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:52,719
Speaker 1: I'm an asshole. And that's what it reminded me of

796
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:54,480
Speaker 1: when you helped the girl up and you were like, no,

797
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 1: this is it. We can all point and laugh at her.

798
00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 1: Obviously this is and it's all It's gonna happen to

799
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 1: all of us. And I did that for the guy

800
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 1: that felt. I go, you, we're all thinking right now, God,

801
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 1: thank like that would be what if it were me?

802
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:08,400
Speaker 1: You know, we can point and laugh at him, but

803
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:10,920
Speaker 1: every one of us here is going, if we live

804
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:12,880
Speaker 1: long enough, is going to have a moment like that.

805
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 1: So do right now what you would want people to

806
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 1: do to you in that moment, which is like, who

807
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 1: the funk cares? It's funny? Fuck it? And the guy

808
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 1: couldn't he The guy was so cool. I met him

809
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: after that. The meeting great, and he didn't even remember,

810
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 1: like to have that happened right away at a show.

811
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 1: The whole time, I just didn't want him to be

812
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: sitting there being like that was so embarrassing. That was like,

813
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:32,919
Speaker 1: you know, I wanted him to be able to have fun,

814
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: and he did. Kenny was awesome. In two thousand and fourteen,

815
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:40,840
Speaker 1: a drunk driver had his penis anantastical amputated after a

816
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 1: horrific crash when he lost control of his car, leaving

817
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:46,840
Speaker 1: him a broken neck, jaw, hips, nos pelvis, and brain injury,

818
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: and today he says he feels like more of a

819
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 1: man than before his accident. Whoa, he's just one ball left, Yeah,

820
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 1: just one ball, I guess yeah, he said, his penis

821
00:42:57,160 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 1: looks like a stump. I get it. Brother, Uh, at

822
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:05,920
Speaker 1: least you have a carrective. Did he say that? Why

823
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:07,439
Speaker 1: does he feel like more of a man? He said,

824
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 1: they have They amputate my well manhood. It's like they

825
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 1: chopped a tree down and it's just stump. I want

826
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 1: to tell the world about the emotional toll of this

827
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 1: took and we'll always take on me. It has forever

828
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 1: changed my life in a way that I wouldn't wish

829
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 1: upon my worst enemy. Happily single, he said, I feel

830
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 1: like I can open up about it. I'm not ashamed anymore.

831
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 1: Life's hard, but it's made me a lot more confident

832
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 1: in myself. I realize it's not the most important thing,

833
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 1: and that doesn't make you who you are. Love it.

834
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:36,279
Speaker 1: You know, if anyone out there is listening or that

835
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:39,359
Speaker 1: might have a penis that they're not thrilled about and

836
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 1: think and like to blame and like to think not blame,

837
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: but like think, oh, women are never gonna love me

838
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: because of this, or you know, maybe some women won't.

839
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:54,399
Speaker 1: Some really like insecure women themselves, because we can only

840
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: the way we judge others is the way we judge

841
00:43:57,160 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 1: ourselves and so you know, maybe there's some women that

842
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:04,720
Speaker 1: won't want to be with you, but um, I would.

843
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 1: I would definitely be in a relationship with a guy

844
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 1: with a stump for a penis and like that survived

845
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:12,840
Speaker 1: he was born with a stump and didn't have a

846
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 1: cool like d UI story. You know, guess what he's

847
00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 1: in St. Louis yet. God, I love I love disabled. God.

848
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 1: I hate to say that, but I when I when

849
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 1: a guy walks up that has like an injury or

850
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:31,839
Speaker 1: like it needs help getting up the stairs, or just

851
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 1: like there's something about a guy with up that in

852
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:36,799
Speaker 1: a wheels, just any kind of guy, I just feel

853
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 1: like they've been through a lot. It's like it's the

854
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 1: same way I feel about men when I meet them

855
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 1: and they have a lot of trauma from their childhood.

856
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:46,840
Speaker 1: I'm just like attracted to people who have persevered past

857
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff. So there's a sexiness to it.

858
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:52,360
Speaker 1: Um that I can't that they can handle the wheel wheelchair,

859
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 1: They can handle debating with you, you know exactly, the

860
00:44:56,480 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 1: commander will will take your wheelchair and you like a

861
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 1: guy with a peg leg because you're a pirate. Yeah,

862
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 1: there you go. Commander, I'm gonna get a telescope. I

863
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 1: mean I think, uh, there's there's these TikTok's now where

864
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: it's like girls holding up like seven eight inches. I

865
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 1: don't want that, nine to ten inches not for me.

866
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: And then it's you know, four to five inches and

867
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:23,839
Speaker 1: way oh yeah, and then some guy will cut into

868
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 1: just this short guy going let's fucking go and it

869
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:32,879
Speaker 1: is like it it does. I mean, it is nice

870
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 1: to put that out in the world, and some girls

871
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 1: don't need What about lesbians, y'all? Like what they're They're

872
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 1: very hot women that have been into men before and

873
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 1: then suddenly they're dating a woman. Do you think they're

874
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 1: just like sad the whole time? Hey, let's go to

875
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 1: break and then um come back and do why do

876
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 1: I care? And then get in to Reddit. Why do

877
00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 1: I care? Why do I care? Why do you care?

878
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 1: Nick Okay? Chelsea Handler says she has hope quote unquote

879
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:07,359
Speaker 1: for everyone in this world after falling in love at

880
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: the age of um yes, I agree. I think that,

881
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:16,840
Speaker 1: um yeah, I have. It gave me a lot of

882
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:18,960
Speaker 1: hope too, because I know she was just like I'm

883
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: done or like it might not happen for me um.

884
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: And she also posted the other day or yesterday, a

885
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:30,399
Speaker 1: picture of herself looking good Goo Google. I mean, she's

886
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:34,240
Speaker 1: a gorgeous woman, but so gorgeous. And she said, maybe

887
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 1: it's three days of three weeks, three weeks, three weeks

888
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 1: of no alcohol. Maybe I'm I'm I'm wondering if this

889
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: new love she's found has made her reevaluate um her

890
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 1: drinking because she's always been a big advocate of like

891
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 1: getting drunk, and it's only it's always like kind of

892
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,280
Speaker 1: made mebe go, like, oh God, I want to drink

893
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 1: because it looks cool, and she's so able to just

894
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: looks like some and that like a martini in her

895
00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 1: hand just makes sense, you know what I mean, Like

896
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:07,839
Speaker 1: you just I don't know why. It's just something about her.

897
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: It's just like it just goes with her. She yeah,

898
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:15,360
Speaker 1: but she's done it. That's the thing. It's like with drinking.

899
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:18,440
Speaker 1: I always go, you know, when people are kind of

900
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 1: on the fence about quitting, and I know a lot

901
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 1: of you are out there and you'll want to zip

902
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: past this because you just don't want to quit yet,

903
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 1: and you just you kind of know it's looming and

904
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:28,239
Speaker 1: you're like, I'm not ready, then you don't need to yet.

905
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 1: But there comes a point where you go, man, I

906
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 1: have this coming up, and I'm not gonna be able

907
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 1: to drink for this and all this, and I just go,

908
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:39,359
Speaker 1: You've already had your fun. It's over. The parties over.

909
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 1: The parties have to end at some point where a

910
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:43,760
Speaker 1: new kind of party can start. I guess the truth,

911
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:47,319
Speaker 1: but I think that sometimes I just want. I would

912
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 1: get depressed when I thought about not drinking anymore, and

913
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:52,319
Speaker 1: I go, how am I going to do next? You know,

914
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 1: Christmas Eve, I like to have. I like to get

915
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:58,240
Speaker 1: drunk with my family, my birthday. But St Patrick's whatever

916
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 1: it is that you go, what is that without drinking? Well,

917
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,319
Speaker 1: not somebody you're going to die and that you were

918
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:04,840
Speaker 1: not gonna be able to have those anymore. So like

919
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 1: I'm not that you Maybe just like that's you're dying,

920
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,799
Speaker 1: that part of your life you're it's over. Things have

921
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:14,239
Speaker 1: to end. And so just because your life continues and

922
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:18,360
Speaker 1: you're like, I could keep drinking, maybe just go it's

923
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 1: it's over. It's I had My life isn't over. Just

924
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:23,360
Speaker 1: drinking is over. But the thing is life will be

925
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: over sometimes, So like you can't keep doing everything forever,

926
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:28,600
Speaker 1: but like you can you can put an end to

927
00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:30,280
Speaker 1: it and not be sad about and be like, wow,

928
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 1: it was like I had my fun, Like I had

929
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 1: so much fun with drinking. I'm grateful for all the

930
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 1: good times I had that I'll never remember. But it's

931
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:39,799
Speaker 1: just like you just don't get to do everything you

932
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 1: want to do forever. That's the thing that I think

933
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:45,040
Speaker 1: people have to realize. It's like just because you want

934
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 1: doesn't mean you get. For me, for some reason, this

935
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:51,319
Speaker 1: Chelsea Handler when when or like not just it, but

936
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:54,239
Speaker 1: it's just when someone goes there's hope for everyone, It

937
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 1: just it comes off a little to me because like

938
00:48:57,440 --> 00:49:00,160
Speaker 1: it's like, okay, we get it, Like but you be

939
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 1: broken up in two months. It's like it just it

940
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 1: comes off a little to me, like a little like oh,

941
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:09,279
Speaker 1: like even like it honestly helped me. I was yeah,

942
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 1: because first of all, it was someone that was in

943
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:14,759
Speaker 1: her life for a while that she didn't even like

944
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 1: the fact that and she's someone who just like she

945
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 1: knows the score, like she knows like she's a boss bitch,

946
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 1: and it's like yeah, and like for her to be

947
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 1: able to reach a place where she is able to

948
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 1: find this deep love that she was. It's not like

949
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:34,880
Speaker 1: she just met this guy in bumble like it was

950
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:36,759
Speaker 1: someone that she wouldn't have even thought like. That's what

951
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 1: I like, is that she not that it was I'm

952
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:41,320
Speaker 1: not trying to be like you and I and or

953
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:43,279
Speaker 1: or something or like a guy friend of mine. I'm

954
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 1: don't I'm not putting I'm not saying that with it,

955
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 1: but I'm just saying things that I think I have

956
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:50,799
Speaker 1: figured out I might not have figured out, or they

957
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:53,839
Speaker 1: might change in a way that I go, oh my god,

958
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:56,320
Speaker 1: I never even like, like it could be a girlfriend

959
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:58,800
Speaker 1: of mine, or or it could just be a different

960
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 1: type of person that I would have never looked at

961
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:03,319
Speaker 1: before that I haven't met yet. You know, Like I

962
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:06,360
Speaker 1: just think that so many times. I just go, you know,

963
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:08,960
Speaker 1: I don't need anyone. I'm fine, because she really The

964
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:11,799
Speaker 1: thing is, I think she got him at a time

965
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:14,880
Speaker 1: where she really did start to like herself and be

966
00:50:14,920 --> 00:50:17,720
Speaker 1: okay with being alone. And I think once you're really

967
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 1: okay with yourself and being alone, that's when you're able

968
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:23,440
Speaker 1: to let someone in and you're not like I need someone,

969
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:26,840
Speaker 1: and the standing ovation he gets all the time. It's hot.

970
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:30,800
Speaker 1: Final thought, it's time for Reddit Dump. We're doing a

971
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 1: quick episode today just because you know, I'm cankering out bitches.

972
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,240
Speaker 1: But I'm feeling good now because I just dumped ambazall

973
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 1: in my mouth. Okay, this is your redit. Dum. I

974
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 1: thought it said canker mode. We should do that canker mode.

975
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:50,600
Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Oh I love this. This

976
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 1: is Paul McCartney on acid. I fucking love this. Noah,

977
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 1: forgive me. This is a little bit of a long

978
00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:03,600
Speaker 1: one to play. It's it's Paul McCartney getting interviewed about

979
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 1: having admitted to a journalist that he did LSD. No,

980
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:10,720
Speaker 1: he's not on This is what it says on acid.

981
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 1: So you think he's on it, But it's about him

982
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:16,319
Speaker 1: talk about it but four times? And where did you

983
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 1: get it from? Oh? You know, I mean if I

984
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:20,440
Speaker 1: was to say where I got it from, you know

985
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 1: it's illegal and everything. It's silly to say that. I

986
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 1: believe that this was a matter which you should have

987
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 1: kept private. But the thing is, you know that I

988
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:32,920
Speaker 1: was asked a question by a newspaper and the decision

989
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 1: was whether to tell a lie or two tell him

990
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:40,680
Speaker 1: the truth. You know, I decided to tell him the truth,

991
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:45,400
Speaker 1: but I really didn't want to say anything, you know,

992
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 1: because if I had my decision, you know, I had

993
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 1: my way, I wouldn't have told anyone because I'm not

994
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:54,239
Speaker 1: trying to spread the word about this. But the man

995
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:57,720
Speaker 1: from the newspaper is the man from the mass medium.

996
00:51:57,719 --> 00:52:00,920
Speaker 1: You know, I'll keep it a personal thing if he

997
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 1: does too, you know, if he keeps it quiet. But

998
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 1: he wanted to spread it, so it's his responsibility, you know,

999
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:10,720
Speaker 1: for spreading it. Don't mind. But you're a public figure.

1000
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 1: But you're a public figure. You said it the first

1001
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 1: place we've made the newspapers. Yes, but to say, you know,

1002
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:20,360
Speaker 1: it's only to tell the truth. I'm telling the truth.

1003
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 1: You know. I don't know what everyone's so angry about.

1004
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:26,040
Speaker 1: Or do you think you have now encouraged your fans

1005
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 1: to take drugs? I don't think you'll make any difference,

1006
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 1: you know. I don't think my fans are going to

1007
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:33,160
Speaker 1: take drugs just because I did, you know. But the

1008
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 1: thing is that that's not the point anyway, you know.

1009
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 1: I was asked whether I had or not, and then

1010
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:41,799
Speaker 1: from then on the whole bit about how far it's

1011
00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:43,840
Speaker 1: going to go and how many people it's going to

1012
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 1: encourage is up to the newspapers and up to you,

1013
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:49,160
Speaker 1: you know, on television. I mean, you're spreading this now

1014
00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 1: at this moment. This is going into all the homes

1015
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:56,279
Speaker 1: in Britain, and I'd rather it didn't, you know, But

1016
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 1: you're asking me the question. You want me to be honest.

1017
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:02,719
Speaker 1: I'll be honest. You know, yes, don't you love that?

1018
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:05,320
Speaker 1: It's not even about LSC It's about telling the truth.

1019
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:07,919
Speaker 1: And when journalists asked questions and celebrities tell the truth

1020
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 1: about their personal lives or anyone for that matter, it's

1021
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:15,480
Speaker 1: the press that's getting the information, it's not them. And

1022
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 1: he was going to tell he's not a liar. So

1023
00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 1: now we're mad at him for not lying to us.

1024
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:23,400
Speaker 1: Please please Paul lie to us. Someone made a comment

1025
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 1: that said that I loved Paul McCartney on the media. Wait, oh,

1026
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:31,239
Speaker 1: it said, uh uh sorry, sorry, sorry, let me just

1027
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:35,240
Speaker 1: find this. Paul, isn't it your responsibility as a public

1028
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: figure to shut up and conform? And and do you

1029
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 1: feel guilty now for telling the truth to a reporter?

1030
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:44,360
Speaker 1: That's essentially what the guy's asking. I loved how he

1031
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 1: spun it. I did. I did. I enjoyed it. I

1032
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 1: think it's it is interesting when people go, well, do

1033
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 1: you think people will take drugs now, because well, I

1034
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 1: mean every single guy had a mustache because of the Beatles,

1035
00:53:55,960 --> 00:54:00,520
Speaker 1: so I'm sure, you know, yeah, I'm sure, and yeah

1036
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:02,799
Speaker 1: I want to grow a mustache and take acid and

1037
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:05,880
Speaker 1: and lose my penis. But well I heard that on Ellis.

1038
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:09,320
Speaker 1: Paul McCartney has always said about LSD that his life

1039
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:11,960
Speaker 1: is before and after LSD, like that's where it splits,

1040
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:15,360
Speaker 1: and not the Beatles or not the British invasion. LSD

1041
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:17,800
Speaker 1: like it changed everything, and that to me was the

1042
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 1: mind of a man who's done LSD. That's just like,

1043
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:23,799
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. He's honest, he's a vegan, he's

1044
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 1: a good man. He's like there's gonna be something too

1045
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 1: about those times when you know TV was just coming out,

1046
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:34,480
Speaker 1: you know, like life, there were so many more rules

1047
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:38,520
Speaker 1: and like like judgment from religion and society. So when

1048
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 1: you took acid back then, it opened up your world.

1049
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 1: Like we could go to the internet, Like the internet

1050
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:46,239
Speaker 1: is a little acidy for a lot of people that

1051
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:48,400
Speaker 1: want to find things that they never could have seen.

1052
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 1: But back then you take acid and you're like, what

1053
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 1: the like these are the thoughts I can have because

1054
00:54:54,680 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 1: I've been so like ingrained in my head to where

1055
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:02,760
Speaker 1: this outfit and comb my hair this way, talking about

1056
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 1: these things. That's I've gotten to that place of like

1057
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie anymore, because I've read Sam Harris's

1058
00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:11,120
Speaker 1: book and He's done a lot of LST to get

1059
00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 1: to a place of like lying is not helping the

1060
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:17,319
Speaker 1: world be honest, And so I think Paul was able

1061
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:18,879
Speaker 1: to get to that place from l C. But I'm

1062
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 1: you're right, I'm able to get lessons from people who

1063
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:22,840
Speaker 1: have done it because they're able to talk about it

1064
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 1: and I'm able to read stuff online and listen to podcasts.

1065
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:27,840
Speaker 1: But You're right, they must it must have blown their minds.

1066
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god, they like, oh a TV could be colored.

1067
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:34,319
Speaker 1: That was the seventies, you know, in the sixties, like

1068
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:36,840
Speaker 1: the hippie movement was just people just like going to

1069
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 1: those places and like taking LST and then making posters

1070
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:42,640
Speaker 1: of like what they saw, like everything was just like

1071
00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:47,480
Speaker 1: yet like you know, tapestries and like petuli and lava lamps,

1072
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 1: like it's all representations of this um do I do

1073
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:53,839
Speaker 1: find it interesting when the when someone goes, well, I'm

1074
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 1: just there's a weird relationship with like, uh, celebrity and

1075
00:55:59,160 --> 00:56:02,440
Speaker 1: media in this and so of like, okay, you're kind

1076
00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:06,479
Speaker 1: of talking about media, but without media, especially back then,

1077
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:09,520
Speaker 1: you would have no money in your pocket. So it's like,

1078
00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:12,720
Speaker 1: but he's saying spread the he's not. He's not saying

1079
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: the media is bad. He's saying it's up to the

1080
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:18,640
Speaker 1: it's don't blame me for the fact that I didn't

1081
00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:20,960
Speaker 1: want to help. I wasn't out there writing songs going

1082
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:26,840
Speaker 1: do LSD, and that wasn't telling people to do l

1083
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 1: Now comes back to the Neil Young thing, like he's

1084
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:34,839
Speaker 1: an artist, he doesn't he needs the media to you know,

1085
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:39,359
Speaker 1: put out his art. But it's not he doesn't. He

1086
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:41,360
Speaker 1: wasn't wanting to. And a lot of these guys do

1087
00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 1: want to get on their soapbox and stuff. But you know,

1088
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 1: Kendall Jenner poses with a cigarette and a photo and

1089
00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:49,359
Speaker 1: everyone's like, you're telling people to the controversy around it

1090
00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 1: becomes more of a yes than the actual picture. Yeah. Highlighting.

1091
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:56,240
Speaker 1: So this one was from Taylor Swift, the subrette Taylor Swift,

1092
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:58,239
Speaker 1: but this one got around everywhere. This is almost like

1093
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:00,920
Speaker 1: a sports moment. Clayton Kershaw, did you ever what you

1094
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 1: said about Taylor Swift Dodgers starting picture? Clayton Kershaw said,

1095
00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:07,160
Speaker 1: if you don't like Taylor Swift, you're just lying to yourself.

1096
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 1: If you're a dude and you think you don't like her,

1097
00:57:09,640 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 1: just get over yourself. Loved it. Um, he's a great pity.

1098
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 1: He's like, honestly one of the best and the ever

1099
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:25,440
Speaker 1: really ever. Uh Yeah, I've heard his name before a lot,

1100
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:28,480
Speaker 1: and I loved that quote. Okay, here's something interesting. This

1101
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 1: is from anti natalism, which is like against being born.

1102
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 1: I guess it's like a subrended about. Let me just

1103
00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:37,640
Speaker 1: see what that even means. A community for anti natalism,

1104
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:41,960
Speaker 1: the philosophical position that assigns a negative value to birth. Uh,

1105
00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 1: it's a hang out. This is a hangout for anti natalist,

1106
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:46,080
Speaker 1: not as a debate for him. Those who assigned a

1107
00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 1: positive or ambivalent value to birth are not welcome here.

1108
00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:53,080
Speaker 1: I don't even know. There was just something that attracted

1109
00:57:53,080 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: me and I'm anti like having more babies. But this

1110
00:57:55,760 --> 00:58:00,120
Speaker 1: is interesting. Ancestral mathematics. In order to be born, you

1111
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:05,960
Speaker 1: needed two parents four grandparents eight grade eight great grandparents

1112
00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 1: sixteen second grade great parents thirty two third grade grandparents,

1113
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:14,360
Speaker 1: sixty four fourth grade grandparents, eight, fifth grade grandparents two

1114
00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 1: hundred fifty six seventh grade grandparents or sorry, six great grandparents,

1115
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:25,440
Speaker 1: five seventh grade grandparents four eight you're a really good

1116
00:58:25,480 --> 00:58:33,600
Speaker 1: about yes? How do you know? Oh? Ninth grade grandparents said,

1117
00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 1: it says for you to be born today, from twelve

1118
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 1: previous generations, you needed a total of four thousand, ninety

1119
00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 1: four and senstors over the last four hundred years. Isn't

1120
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 1: that wild that your existence depended on you being born

1121
00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 1: out of all the sperms? Is one in like a billion,

1122
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 1: Like it's it's insane that we're sitting right here. It

1123
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 1: really is, and we forget that all the time. I

1124
00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 1: love that. I watched a movie. It's it's on YouTube.

1125
00:58:57,360 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: It's called Quest for Fire has no dial log. It's

1126
00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:04,120
Speaker 1: just about like, I don't know, like cave people and

1127
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 1: how they had to keep um like fire ongoing otherwise

1128
00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 1: they like you know, they can't survive. It was very interesting.

1129
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 1: The unknown soldier needs to keep going uh And it

1130
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:21,040
Speaker 1: was just like made me think about how challenging and

1131
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:23,840
Speaker 1: how much life sucked back then, and how lucky we

1132
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 1: are today. Yeah, the life before air conditioning, he is wild.

1133
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:32,520
Speaker 1: Or the idea before refrigeration where you just had to

1134
00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:35,479
Speaker 1: you had to kill something and like eat it within

1135
00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:37,480
Speaker 1: two days or like you're dead. I don't know, it's

1136
00:59:37,480 --> 00:59:44,600
Speaker 1: just sucking every day joy. Joy came from orgasms, eating, uh,

1137
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:48,000
Speaker 1: probably sleeping. It was just like there was there's so

1138
00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 1: many life was so boring and horrible you might as

1139
00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:54,400
Speaker 1: well kill another guy. Yeah, I mean life now is

1140
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:56,960
Speaker 1: so we are I mean reading this Cuban's poison arrow,

1141
00:59:57,080 --> 00:59:59,560
Speaker 1: just the amount of dopamine fixed this we can get

1142
00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 1: at any given moment. Me sitting in this, me rubbing

1143
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 1: my dog, my domesticated pet, just like oh baby boy,

1144
01:00:07,400 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 1: and air conditioning and electricity. We're talking to someone in

1145
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 1: Arizona right now. Yeah, I mean that's not making my

1146
01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:18,080
Speaker 1: life any better. But uh, what did you say to it?

1147
01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 1: I said someone someone, You're not just someone on the mediator,

1148
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:27,880
Speaker 1: the mediatum. Yeah, it's just like it's it really is.

1149
01:00:28,360 --> 01:00:31,200
Speaker 1: But you always hear though, which I find it's hacky

1150
01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:34,520
Speaker 1: at this point. But when people are like, oh, you're

1151
01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:38,200
Speaker 1: complaining about you know, pronouns or you're complaining about this

1152
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 1: back in the day. You I mean, we're just making

1153
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 1: up things to complain about you. Hear that a lot,

1154
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like from people, What do

1155
01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:49,040
Speaker 1: you feel about that? Like when people you're just coming

1156
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:51,760
Speaker 1: up with things to be really annoyed at the whole,

1157
01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:55,680
Speaker 1: you know, I not just pronoun but like anything like

1158
01:00:55,720 --> 01:01:01,040
Speaker 1: that mostly really bugs me. Just let let need who

1159
01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:03,760
Speaker 1: can you have? So you have to now call like

1160
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:06,080
Speaker 1: get a little bit awkward when you might call someone

1161
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:09,120
Speaker 1: her when they want to be called they they'll tell you, hey,

1162
01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:11,840
Speaker 1: I prefer they Then it's a little bit awkward for you.

1163
01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:14,560
Speaker 1: But if they prefer that, what does it fucking matter

1164
01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:17,520
Speaker 1: to you? But that want to be called they are

1165
01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:21,080
Speaker 1: making a problem. So what if they are Even if

1166
01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:23,720
Speaker 1: someone is you know, I've said this before with the

1167
01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 1: trans movement, even if someone is choosing too it is

1168
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:30,360
Speaker 1: not really trans and just wants attention or just wants

1169
01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 1: to be non binary just because they want attention. How

1170
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 1: sad that that there's some there's a lot going on

1171
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:38,720
Speaker 1: in that person's life that they need love so bad

1172
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 1: that they want to do that. Just give it to him,

1173
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:43,920
Speaker 1: Just fucking give it to him and you can maybe

1174
01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:46,720
Speaker 1: if you can secretly behind their back, go they just

1175
01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:49,520
Speaker 1: want attention and and get some joy dopamine hits out

1176
01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:52,760
Speaker 1: of making fun of them. But it's if if you're

1177
01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:56,360
Speaker 1: really that angry about having to call people differently, like

1178
01:01:57,040 --> 01:02:00,000
Speaker 1: look at your own life and think about like what why?

1179
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:02,200
Speaker 1: What is? It's such a is it's such a burden

1180
01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:04,160
Speaker 1: to you. Like I just don't get it, And like

1181
01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 1: I have a couple of friends who just kind of

1182
01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 1: rolled their eyes about the non binary thing of like,

1183
01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:12,000
Speaker 1: oh now they're going as coast like there's a new

1184
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:14,560
Speaker 1: one called could I think that people literally go by

1185
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,600
Speaker 1: well because said this, like it's not neither he or

1186
01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:21,680
Speaker 1: she or they, it's just a thing. And I go, fine,

1187
01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:26,240
Speaker 1: who cares? Like it's maybe it's a little maybe that

1188
01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:29,880
Speaker 1: person wants attention, but like, I mean the whole I

1189
01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:32,600
Speaker 1: watched Dave Chappelle Special last night, or enough of it

1190
01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:35,000
Speaker 1: to maybe feel like I can say something about it.

1191
01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:39,240
Speaker 1: But I mean, I love how that guy can tell

1192
01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 1: a story. He is I learned a lot watching it.

1193
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 1: I love Chapelle. Um I didn't. I was kind of like,

1194
01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:47,760
Speaker 1: I mean, I shouldn't even comment because it was kind

1195
01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:49,800
Speaker 1: of half watching it, but um, and I was in

1196
01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 1: so much canker pain. But I just I'm so tired

1197
01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 1: of jokes about women who used to be men, so

1198
01:02:59,800 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 1: they like have a beard, or they have like they're bigger,

1199
01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:06,400
Speaker 1: or like just making fun of trans people for not

1200
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 1: looking the way that they want to look, or like

1201
01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:14,520
Speaker 1: not passing or being like It's just I'm not saying

1202
01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be able to make fun of it, because yes,

1203
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:19,760
Speaker 1: it's inherently a little bit silly to see someone a

1204
01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 1: man in address because we're used to seeing it's a

1205
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:27,960
Speaker 1: surprising thing, right, so equals comedy, But you do should

1206
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:29,520
Speaker 1: you be able to make fun of it? Yes, make

1207
01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:31,040
Speaker 1: fun of it all you want if you want. But

1208
01:03:31,160 --> 01:03:35,560
Speaker 1: to me, I do have feelings and compassion for people

1209
01:03:35,800 --> 01:03:39,560
Speaker 1: who have had more struggle than others I preferred, and

1210
01:03:39,600 --> 01:03:41,520
Speaker 1: I've made those jokes before too. I'm not going to

1211
01:03:41,680 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 1: take myself out of it. But my argument is we

1212
01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:46,560
Speaker 1: don't need to ban the jokes about it. But you

1213
01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:48,800
Speaker 1: need to understand that the reason we don't need to

1214
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:50,640
Speaker 1: do those jokes is because first of all, they've all

1215
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:53,200
Speaker 1: been made A guy in a dress, oh my gosh,

1216
01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 1: he had a lower voice, whatever, uh, they're not like

1217
01:03:57,600 --> 01:04:00,240
Speaker 1: just the oh it's confused guy wearing lips like that

1218
01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:03,120
Speaker 1: kind of stuff has been made fun of enough, and

1219
01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:06,560
Speaker 1: those trans people have a higher rate of suicide than

1220
01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:10,920
Speaker 1: any other um, you know, than any other group. I

1221
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:15,680
Speaker 1: believe they they have only known people making fun of

1222
01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 1: them and probably judging and hating them for who they are.

1223
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:21,960
Speaker 1: Why do we need to make more jokes? Like? I

1224
01:04:22,000 --> 01:04:23,960
Speaker 1: get it that you're allowed to. I'm not saying ban it,

1225
01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:26,280
Speaker 1: and you should be canceled for making fun of them,

1226
01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:31,080
Speaker 1: But just when you're making why why why hurt someone

1227
01:04:31,120 --> 01:04:32,920
Speaker 1: that's already gone through so much to get to a

1228
01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:35,400
Speaker 1: place where where they are. So that's why I hope

1229
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:37,800
Speaker 1: to choose not to like, That's why I don't make

1230
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:40,840
Speaker 1: fun of fat people. They already are getting made fun

1231
01:04:40,840 --> 01:04:42,840
Speaker 1: of so much their whole lives that they've struggled with

1232
01:04:42,840 --> 01:04:45,480
Speaker 1: it because it's just something that society, for some reason

1233
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:48,960
Speaker 1: feels like it's okay to make fun of. Comedians who

1234
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:52,680
Speaker 1: are you know, the best at making fun of things

1235
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:55,360
Speaker 1: and pointing out what's different and what should be making

1236
01:04:55,400 --> 01:04:58,240
Speaker 1: fun of. Why add to it, it's not even about

1237
01:04:58,280 --> 01:05:00,960
Speaker 1: punching down I don't think these people aren out necessarily.

1238
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 1: It's just like they've been through enough. Like and yeah,

1239
01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 1: I make jokes about the home about homeless people, but

1240
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:09,080
Speaker 1: I'm making jokes about the fact that they're ship in

1241
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:11,360
Speaker 1: the streets now because the homeless crisis is so terrible.

1242
01:05:11,360 --> 01:05:13,000
Speaker 1: We don't take care of mental illness. It's not I'm

1243
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:15,240
Speaker 1: not like they should in the streets. What's wrong with them?

1244
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:17,440
Speaker 1: If I were homeless, I'd be better than that. No,

1245
01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 1: I was in the street too. I'm just saying their

1246
01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:24,160
Speaker 1: comedy doesn't need to be this like, if you can't

1247
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:27,080
Speaker 1: take it, you're not a comedian sucking. I just say, whatever,

1248
01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 1: there should be compassion in comedy, why not? And Dave

1249
01:05:31,680 --> 01:05:34,080
Speaker 1: Chapelle is a very compassionate person. You can tell he's

1250
01:05:34,080 --> 01:05:37,200
Speaker 1: a very sweet person. And I need to watch for

1251
01:05:37,280 --> 01:05:39,360
Speaker 1: Us A special to see where it goes. But there

1252
01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:42,360
Speaker 1: were a couple of jokes of like, you know, I

1253
01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:45,400
Speaker 1: like beating up a woman that he was like something

1254
01:05:45,440 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 1: about her, just making there was a little bit of that,

1255
01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:52,720
Speaker 1: like making fun of women who look present his men. Yeah,

1256
01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:55,320
Speaker 1: I mean his big like and you see it now

1257
01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:59,240
Speaker 1: on Twitter. And what happens is this goes. His argument

1258
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:03,959
Speaker 1: was essentially that you know, African Americans are below gay

1259
01:06:03,960 --> 01:06:08,600
Speaker 1: people in regards to uh, you know, society caring about them.

1260
01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:11,680
Speaker 1: And that's and obviously there's tons of African American gay people,

1261
01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 1: so it's like, okay, well where does that crossover. But

1262
01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:18,720
Speaker 1: besides that point, it's like, you know, um, we care.

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Speaker 1: So John Gruten got fired recently and he had he

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Speaker 1: said racist remarks, right and then he said homophobic remarks

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Speaker 1: and now all of a sudden he's he's quitting. He

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Speaker 1: had to. He was fired essentially away with the races.

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Speaker 1: That's what people So people take Chappelle special and they go, well,

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Speaker 1: here it is, here's the reason he said. But he

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Speaker 1: also said about three thousand they went through all his emails,

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Speaker 1: so he had like not only homophobic, but he had

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Speaker 1: way more races, way more homophobic, Like he went after everybody.

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Speaker 1: But people want to take, you know, what Chappelle said,

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Speaker 1: and that's what people do is then they go, oh, well,

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Speaker 1: here's an instance of it where you know, and so

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Speaker 1: it's like, I think, like there's nuance in Chappelle a

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Speaker 1: little bit more than people want to say, Like a

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Speaker 1: lot of people treated at surface level, but a lot

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Speaker 1: of people are going to take what he says, and

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Speaker 1: then I think, like what And it's not just Chappelle,

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Speaker 1: but people take what people say that with nuance and

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Speaker 1: then they go they use it to back up maybe

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Speaker 1: their actual home like their actual beliefs. People jumping out

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Speaker 1: of their seats, like you see in the special, there's

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Speaker 1: a couple of idiots who just stand up and clap

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Speaker 1: when she and Chappelle is not making these jokes to

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Speaker 1: start a rally, and that's what I'm but his his

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Speaker 1: audience might misinterpret it, and you're you know what, You're

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Speaker 1: absolutely right, like in terms of making jokes based on

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Speaker 1: stereotypes of the differences of black and white people. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess like I could lean off that too, because

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Speaker 1: black people, I need to consider that they've been through

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Speaker 1: a lot more discrimination and like maybe, uh, I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's no doubt they've been through more discrimination and felt

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Speaker 1: could could have felt worse about themselves coming up because

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Speaker 1: of like the comments that they hear. So yeah, I

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Speaker 1: should have compasion, like I extended to everyone. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean I could see that argument of like, oh,

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Speaker 1: now suddenly people are listening because it's white people. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: white gay people. It was an interesting point he made

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Speaker 1: about the two two black guys called the cops. The

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Speaker 1: cop would show up and not go which one of you?

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Speaker 1: They just be so it's you know, I love Chappelle.

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Speaker 1: I gotta watch the rest of it, but we gotta go.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for listening as always, don't

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Speaker 1: be cut out there and oh good one