Speaker 1: If you would like to have us answer your questions.
Speaker 1: If you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, or
Speaker 1: a terrible threatful guess what you've got? Decisions All right, y'all.
Speaker 2: This week we are talking giving feedback to your partner,
Speaker 2: accepting honest feedback, working through it, how to be honest.
Speaker 3: We're doing a.
Speaker 2: Lot of things, so let's get right in to the letter. Hi, ladies,
Speaker 2: love you both, and this podcast has helped me become
Speaker 2: more confident in dating and in the bedroom. I'm a
Speaker 2: forty four year old single mo. I recently ended a
Speaker 2: twenty two year relationship about two years ago. In my
Speaker 2: previous relationship, I never had a problem making my partner
Speaker 2: come from oral sex, but I haven't since then. I've
Speaker 2: been dating for two years and have had seven partners.
Speaker 2: Most will stop you sis. Most will stop me five
Speaker 2: minutes in for sex. I can't tell if they stop
Speaker 2: me because it's great and they don't want to finish early,
Speaker 2: or if they think it's terrible and just want it
Speaker 2: to stop. One of my partners seems to love it,
Speaker 2: and when we're high, I've spent as long as two
Speaker 2: hours down there. I am a giver and enjoy oral sex,
Speaker 2: so I didn't even realize I was down there that long.
Speaker 2: He's now requesting that two hour head every time. He's
Speaker 2: a brutally honest person, so I don't think he would
Speaker 2: lie about enjoying it. But I could go down on
Speaker 2: him for thirty minutes and he still won't finish. Am
Speaker 2: I boring when I give head? My ex had me
Speaker 2: super insecure about sex. I've asked for feedback from others
Speaker 2: and I don't get much. I love giving head so much,
Speaker 2: but I want to know that the man is actually
Speaker 2: enjoying it. Here are her questions, question number one, do
Speaker 2: you have any good oral sex tips? And question number two,
Speaker 2: what's the best way to ask for feedback to make
Speaker 2: the other person feel comfortable enough to be honest with you.
Speaker 2: I'm still trying to figure out this whole dating thing.
Speaker 2: Thank you, ladies. So let's actually start with let's end
Speaker 2: with good oral sex tips. Let's start with the problem
Speaker 2: at hand is that she wants feedback from her partners
Speaker 2: because she's insecure now about feeling if she's even doing
Speaker 2: a good job.
Speaker 4: I feel like if they are rushing you to stop,
Speaker 4: then it probably ain't that.
Speaker 3: Good because I'm not gonna lie I do I'm tired
Speaker 3: of a second dady.
Speaker 2: Well, I do that with head, Like if I don't
Speaker 2: really feel like it's doing much down there, one, I
Speaker 2: want to just get fucked.
Speaker 4: But like I literally have been exhausted because a dude
Speaker 4: doesn't want me to stop. That's how I know I
Speaker 4: feel like somethings offul Well, Well, of course you're twenty
Speaker 4: two years you figured.
Speaker 3: It's well, there's a difference there.
Speaker 2: You were saying, someone keeping you down there lets you
Speaker 2: know that you're doing a good job.
Speaker 3: She is on the flip side.
Speaker 2: She feels like a man coming kind of solidifies it
Speaker 2: to her that it's good, right because she also made
Speaker 2: the fast Well, she has someone, Well, she has someone
Speaker 2: that she's down there for two hours and he's not
Speaker 2: coming even after thirty minutes.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think that means it's bad either, right, Well,
Speaker 3: in her mind's it's a lot of edging.
Speaker 4: Men love to keep sext going or a moment going.
Speaker 4: I've literally had my man tell me things about how
Speaker 4: well if I comment's over, you know, like men want
Speaker 4: to enjoy sex too, and if you're the type of
Speaker 4: person that can sect it for two hours. Fuck, if
Speaker 4: they can't hold themselves back, they probably will. What I
Speaker 4: do think, though, is there may be some maybe you're going.
Speaker 4: I typically find head and kissing or one in the
Speaker 4: same when they're not done right. It's either too fast.
Speaker 4: That's generally when kissing is bad for me. And I'm
Speaker 4: like trying to slow someone down. Can't stand a bitch
Speaker 4: that's going too fast. Slow is never really that bad
Speaker 4: because you can always work up to it. But too
Speaker 4: fast or a little like too slow sometimes too like
Speaker 4: if a girl's trying to give you all this spit
Speaker 4: and trying to do all this theatrics, it's like, bro,
Speaker 4: now I's going down is ass correct?
Speaker 3: Like Nigga's calm down field up to that shit? Okay.
Speaker 4: And I think that sloppy toppy idea is something women
Speaker 4: think they should be doing when really like, there should
Speaker 4: be an art to sucking dick and trying to be
Speaker 4: carean is not supposed to happen to minutes time.
Speaker 2: I only disagree here because I think it depends on
Speaker 2: your partner.
Speaker 4: But she said out of seven five, they're always trying
Speaker 4: to stop her at five minutes.
Speaker 3: That's not good. No, but that's what But we don't
Speaker 3: know if she's being sloppy.
Speaker 2: So I'm just saying, even in terms of like this
Speaker 2: having these multiple partners, if she's also saying she's asked
Speaker 2: them and she they make it seem like she's doing
Speaker 2: a good job, she's just insecure at it. I think
Speaker 2: then what you should be asking your partners is not
Speaker 2: how good you're doing at something sexually, but what they enjoy,
Speaker 2: so that you can focus on what things they like.
Speaker 3: Some men may like it sloppy, some men may like
Speaker 3: it slow.
Speaker 2: I think the way to actually get out of your
Speaker 2: head about whether you're doing a good job or not,
Speaker 2: especially if you have multiple partners, don't think that one
Speaker 2: dick sucks fits all. I think that you should talk
Speaker 2: to each partner and just be like, hey, when you
Speaker 2: get ahead, what things do you really like? Because like
Speaker 2: when I have oral sex, I really like fingers. A
Speaker 2: lot of women apparently do not like fingers, to where
Speaker 2: I find myself asking niggas to finger me.
Speaker 3: But it's because I like penetration.
Speaker 2: So because there's such a gambit of different ways we
Speaker 2: all enjoy sex sex, I think it's not about you
Speaker 2: leaning into you being insecure as to whether they like
Speaker 2: it or not. I think if you're gonna casually have
Speaker 2: sex with multiple people, have those individual conversations with them
Speaker 2: and actually ask what they like.
Speaker 3: This is a the answer.
Speaker 4: But also, bro, I'm giving them even people are gonna
Speaker 4: let you know if you suck tack.
Speaker 3: Amazing.
Speaker 2: No, but that's the thing to me. If your insecurity
Speaker 2: is whether you feel like you're doing a good job
Speaker 2: or not, and you.
Speaker 4: Feel into a podcast, she feels like she can't s
Speaker 4: a good different reason.
Speaker 2: So I'm giving I'm giving her advice that I actually
Speaker 2: think works here. So let me let me again. I'll
Speaker 2: break it down her. Her thing is she's insecure about
Speaker 2: whether she's doing a good job or not.
Speaker 3: I know what you're saying, and then would not.
Speaker 2: Tell you you're awful.
Speaker 3: That's why I just want what I'm saying. She the
Speaker 3: guest that she has, like, why are we lying right now?
Speaker 3: I'm not lying. Of course you should ask.
Speaker 4: But if she feels like she's doing something wrong, seven
Speaker 4: men are making you feel like, Bro, that's enough of
Speaker 4: a ratio to know it.
Speaker 3: Oh, this probably ain't it, So I think I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: You could give your advice I have.
Speaker 2: My advice is to ask each one of them, what
Speaker 2: do you enjoy in terms of head and then focus
Speaker 2: on you doing the things that you know they're asking
Speaker 2: for and that they like.
Speaker 4: If you could name the last five guys who can
Speaker 4: would have any of them told them you were good?
Speaker 4: Have what have any of them said you were good?
Speaker 4: I'm not asking they don't just offer that. No, that's
Speaker 4: not something that men just offer.
Speaker 2: I mean I have something, I have something that like
Speaker 2: let me know years later, damn the ship was good.
Speaker 3: But I'm not asking for a dick sucking rate. You're
Speaker 3: telling me, am I like the only one I get you.
Speaker 4: I've you know, pussy and a woman told me in
Speaker 4: the middle of it. Man have told me like are
Speaker 4: we not talking in the middle right after? That was
Speaker 4: amazing me too.
Speaker 3: That's That's what I'm experiening.
Speaker 2: But but if someone telling me that was amazing, nigga,
Speaker 2: I h your ass, I sucked your dick.
Speaker 3: We brought toys out.
Speaker 2: There's so many things like yes, the overall sexual experience
Speaker 2: I've had niggas when they come like, wow, that was amazing.
Speaker 2: Do I sit here and be like, so did you
Speaker 2: like how I wrote it? Or I ain't write it?
Speaker 3: But did you. Did you like how I sucked your nipple?
Speaker 3: Did you like the head?
Speaker 2: Did you I'm not doing an itemized checklist at what
Speaker 2: made something amazing.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say this, being good in bed is something
Speaker 4: someone will let you know, right, But being good in
Speaker 4: bed is not just one sex act.
Speaker 2: Okay, this is specific to the head. So yes, I've
Speaker 2: been told by many people the last five, the last ten,
Speaker 2: the last one hundred, how great I am in the bed.
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is there's a lot of things
Speaker 2: that add.
Speaker 3: Up to your overall score.
Speaker 2: She is specifically leaning into head, which is why she
Speaker 2: also asks for oralton.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, if you have the feeling, I do
Speaker 4: believe she's probably you know, when someone's enjoying the fuck
Speaker 4: out of some shit, Like you're asking the question but
Speaker 4: you kind of know the answer. So I'm just saying,
Speaker 4: I don't want to like front bro. When someone's really
Speaker 4: good at something, you fucking know. So I think probably
Speaker 4: when I started to mention the fast thing, it was
Speaker 4: purposefully because there are a lot of things that women
Speaker 4: do during oral sex that aren't necessarily as exciting. One
Speaker 4: that I've heard across the board is when they're getting
Speaker 4: too wild, too crazy, or it's too sloppy. It has
Speaker 4: to be some sort of a build up. And if
Speaker 4: you're having sex to me with someone new, asking them
Speaker 4: what they like given, I think we all should be
Speaker 4: doing that men as well. But there are certain things
Speaker 4: within sucking dick that I could see being in turnoff.
Speaker 4: Now with the help of Twitter and all this shit,
Speaker 4: we're seeing some of the craziest right, it's looking like crazy,
Speaker 4: it's all over your eyes, like we know, super nasty,
Speaker 4: they love it, we get it. But I have definitely
Speaker 4: heard from n bitches be leading with that and be like, god, damn,
Speaker 4: what the fuck talking about good dick.
Speaker 3: Suckingd tips.
Speaker 4: Number one compliment I've received is teasing licking. The sensation
Speaker 4: of licking from the shaft to the tip, literally just
Speaker 4: your tongue like a lollipop. Eye contact is really really important.
Speaker 4: And making sure that you're not just keeping your head
Speaker 4: down there, right, dorees a mic, talk it to the
Speaker 4: mic girl.
Speaker 3: Okay, let me give a lot tip.
Speaker 4: You're not just keeping your head down. We got bitches
Speaker 4: on Patreon pan for this. If you're keeping your head down,
Speaker 4: they're only getting one sensation of your mouth. You actually
Speaker 4: have to turn your mouth, use your head even if
Speaker 4: they don't like hands. That'll help you with your posture.
Speaker 4: But sometimes it can feel really boring if you're just
Speaker 4: doing this unbobbing motion. There should be more dynamic shit
Speaker 4: going on during head. The same with men, which is
Speaker 4: why you like fingers right, using your lips, using your tongue,
Speaker 4: all of it making noise. Like there's so many different
Speaker 4: things that are beyond the actual motion of sucking dick.
Speaker 4: But like here, if you're gonna do this, make it perform.
Speaker 2: I mean, I think one of the biggest and why
Speaker 2: I picked this letter, one of the hardest things I
Speaker 2: think for people is to tell their partner or a
Speaker 2: lover that something in the bedroom just don't feel good.
Speaker 2: I think you don't want to bring out an insecurity
Speaker 2: with someone, like if a man is down there eating
Speaker 2: your pussy and is eating it. Yeah, some woman may
Speaker 2: not be able to or don't know how to tell
Speaker 2: their partner, hey it hurts, or that doesn't feel good,
Speaker 2: or I don't even really want you down there because
Speaker 2: it ain't doing nothing for me. I think that's a
Speaker 2: difficult thing for people to communicate, and I want to
Speaker 2: ask both of you, how a time or how you've
Speaker 2: communicated that you didn't like something in the bedroom. I
Speaker 2: guess I'll start there was in my last relationship, I'm claustrophobic.
Speaker 2: He used to like to do this pillowcase thing where
Speaker 2: he put my head in a pillowcase and do like
Speaker 2: this little role playing thing. And I literally had to
Speaker 2: tell him how in that moment it took me out
Speaker 2: of enjoying the sex because I'm either thinking about my breath,
Speaker 2: I'm not really in it, and I'm claustrophobic, and I
Speaker 2: like it was something that I know he really liked doing,
Speaker 2: and I was just like, listen, I know we've done
Speaker 2: this a couple of times now, I really don't like
Speaker 2: when you do it. And we just kind of got
Speaker 2: to have that conversation. Luckily, it wasn't the head or
Speaker 2: the dick or anything else. It was kind of another act,
Speaker 2: but it was something that I brought up to him
Speaker 2: in a regular setting, not while we were in the bedroom.
Speaker 3: I didn't tell him to stop in the moment.
Speaker 2: I didn't ruin the moment, but I let him know
Speaker 2: to the fact, like, hey, I really don't want to
Speaker 2: do that anymore. And I might have told him like
Speaker 2: the next morning, like while we were drinking coffee, like
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 3: We did that. Let that be the last time.
Speaker 2: How have y'all communicated something and how did your partner
Speaker 2: react when you told them that you weren't enjoying something?
Speaker 5: Well, I mean, I'm gonna start off. I have started
Speaker 5: off in the past just by saying like, hey, like
Speaker 5: first set the table the right way. I don't want
Speaker 5: you to be offended by this. I think everything you're
Speaker 5: doing is great, but I just want you to help.
Speaker 5: I just want you to consider something. I think that
Speaker 5: we could take things to another level if we try
Speaker 5: doing this. Like I've told somebody before, like I would
Speaker 5: love for you to like put your hands on me
Speaker 5: in certain places. It does something for me. It's something
Speaker 5: that you don't do, you know, like put your hand
Speaker 5: on the back of my neck, like put your hand
Speaker 5: around my ankle, you know what I mean. I mean ankle, wrist,
Speaker 5: you know, think.
Speaker 3: Hey, your legs in the air wall. I get that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So I like that because you actually didn't
Speaker 2: tell her something she was doing bad stuff.
Speaker 3: You just said you told her something she wasn't doing
Speaker 3: that would make it.
Speaker 5: Would encouragement ego with people.
Speaker 2: You know, is there something that you've experienced that didn't
Speaker 2: feel good at all that you had to communicate to
Speaker 2: a partner.
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 5: I probably just dubbed the whole thing.
Speaker 3: Really, Oh so you just out here not communicating.
Speaker 4: Probably if I'm not seeing more like of us together,
Speaker 4: I'm good.
Speaker 3: I'm not bringing it up. You know your ship mad.
Speaker 3: Here's the thing. Something's bad.
Speaker 4: I might stop it if something's mid, which is how
Speaker 4: you want to improve it.
Speaker 3: I feel like from hearing this.
Speaker 4: This head is mid. Okay, I'm coming back, but it's
Speaker 4: not great. So something being mid, I'm gonna stay.
Speaker 5: Something I want to say to when it comes, Like
Speaker 5: all our dicks don't work the same? You feel me
Speaker 5: so like agreed, different the head, different sensitivities, the ball.
Speaker 5: You know what type of history he had before you
Speaker 5: got here. You know he might not finish off of
Speaker 5: head like he might enjoy it a lot. But it's
Speaker 5: just like this the finale.
Speaker 4: There's a something point the point besides the coming. It's
Speaker 4: definitely not the finale. But I want people to keep
Speaker 4: in mind, specifically women with their insecurities around suckond dig
Speaker 4: if you're doing something and you're not getting a reaction,
Speaker 4: maybe try something else. You should be listening their breath. Also,
Speaker 4: the dick gets harder, you feel it getting softer. That
Speaker 4: doesn't mean let me keep doing what I'm doing that
Speaker 4: doesn't work. It might mean he's off for a second
Speaker 4: and try something else. Like it's talking to you. Dick
Speaker 4: is so much easier to suck than eating a pussy
Speaker 4: because it tells you they already it really do.
Speaker 3: It talks to you, and when it thing, it rocks solid.
Speaker 4: I'd be like, bro, the last time my man got
Speaker 4: soft when I was sucking his dick, I was so
Speaker 4: insecure and he was like, baby, you can't see behind you.
Speaker 3: I look behind me.
Speaker 4: Nina's sitting there with a toy, and.
Speaker 3: I'm like, why did you say anything? He's like, I
Speaker 3: know you.
Speaker 4: I didn't want to ruin a moment like she's trying
Speaker 4: to play to like they woke up.
Speaker 2: I think that's interesting that you brought that up too,
Speaker 2: Like we we often think about the physical of sex
Speaker 2: and not how psychological sex is. So he could not
Speaker 2: be coming because his mind is elsewhere. Maybe it's on
Speaker 2: a project from work. Maybe it's the fact that he
Speaker 2: got to take his kids this weekend because it's his
Speaker 2: weekend to have them. Maybe it's damn or you know
Speaker 2: what I mean, Like his mind maybe in the moment.
Speaker 3: Is just not there.
Speaker 2: And I do like what you said too, like there
Speaker 2: that that maybe that's not just the finale for him.
Speaker 3: But also understand.
Speaker 2: That men, which is where I'm working on the two ladies,
Speaker 2: the finale or enjoyment of sex for men is not
Speaker 2: dictated upon whether they come or not.
Speaker 3: Things can feel really good for a man and they
Speaker 3: not come.
Speaker 2: There's semen retention, there's facts that maybe some men just
Speaker 2: don't come, but they enjoyed the entire act and don't come.
Speaker 4: And a lot of two with the male orgasm during
Speaker 4: a blowjob, it's either like rhythmic, doing the same rhythm
Speaker 4: that gets in there.
Speaker 3: They get us tired, bitch, I'll I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: I know you was about to come, but baby, I
Speaker 2: couldn't do it no more like you.
Speaker 3: Feel me, you feel me, maybe no one will be
Speaker 3: losing it TI.
Speaker 4: I mean, like girl, I've be having an elbow my
Speaker 4: hands up and I'm getting tired and I leaned on
Speaker 4: one elbow on the leg and.
Speaker 3: Let I mean you are not close.
Speaker 2: I think that's what it is. I think in terms
Speaker 2: of our sensitive our insecurities around dick sucking, and this
Speaker 2: is for men and women, I think we need to
Speaker 2: lean into just not science, but knowing that you know
Speaker 2: him coming is not the only telling factor as to
Speaker 2: whether he enjoyed it or not. But kind of like
Speaker 2: you Wolf said about the sensitivity one one dick suck
Speaker 2: isn't gonna fit all, I think you do need to
Speaker 2: communicate and test out the sensitivity of that specific partner
Speaker 2: because I have some men that literally do not want
Speaker 2: their balls touched or suck, and I have some that
Speaker 2: will push my head straight down to the balls and
Speaker 2: they want more attention at the balls than their dick
Speaker 2: at all. So I think it's also, again like our listener,
Speaker 2: if you're dealing with seven different people, it ain't a
Speaker 2: one size fits all.
Speaker 3: You may need to literally figure out. Okay, ooh, he.
Speaker 2: Like when I rubbed a head up here, he like
Speaker 2: when I massage the balls out here.
Speaker 3: This one likes when I graise the whole shaft.
Speaker 2: There's so many different tips, but that will apply to
Speaker 2: each person individually, And yeah, I think I think that's
Speaker 2: my thing and I think I want to lead lead
Speaker 2: off with this. We are all works in progress and
Speaker 2: each person is different. So if your partner says that
Speaker 2: what you do isn't enjoyable for them, you have to
Speaker 2: take yourself out of it, because if this is a
Speaker 2: person you love or that you want to please, don't
Speaker 2: make this a personal attack on you, baby girl, because
Speaker 2: maybe that works on someone else. Don't take it as
Speaker 2: you suck in bed or you suck a head.
Speaker 4: I will give you one tip for men that everybody
Speaker 4: should hear or people that eat pussy, stop looking at
Speaker 4: shit so fucking hard.
Speaker 3: Stop it.
Speaker 2: The fact that there's so many women that have gainful head. Yeah,
Speaker 2: painful head is a thing. Lighten up, bro, light up.
Speaker 2: I agree, kiss the pussy and work from there. And
Speaker 2: for anyone sucking or eating pussy who gets that advice
Speaker 2: like you, don't have to take it personal like oh
Speaker 2: you're so awful, you're not good in bed again. Each
Speaker 2: person is different, and so if someone actually communicates with
Speaker 2: you that you're doing something that is unenjoyable to them,
Speaker 2: don't take it as a slight don't take it as
Speaker 2: a disc don't take it as an as a fucking
Speaker 2: you know something to impact your whole fucking uh security.
Speaker 4: Lize what someone told me that people say I suck
Speaker 4: good dick because I have an overbite, and the girls
Speaker 4: who overbites suck good dick because.
Speaker 3: Well, you're getting rid of it, so you're gonna be
Speaker 3: bad at Is that true?
Speaker 4: If y'all noticed that with dick sucking overbtes, apparently there's
Speaker 4: more room for the dick. So like they feel your
Speaker 4: teeth plus, okay, I'm scared, I'll take them off.
Speaker 5: You definitely sound like I mean, maybe it's something to it.
Speaker 5: But if you get good, you work, you do it
Speaker 5: with the best with what you got.
Speaker 3: With Carrie, did you have to learn that to suck
Speaker 3: dick again when you did your teeth?
Speaker 4: No, it didn't feel different. It feels different for me.
Speaker 4: Kissing didn't.
Speaker 3: I think I had to.
Speaker 2: I had to practice eating, Like eating felt a little
Speaker 2: different at first, but but not kissing, not kissing or
Speaker 2: sucking dick.
Speaker 4: Kissing is the hardest that to co minute. Then sucking
Speaker 4: dick God's gift. It just really came back to me
Speaker 4: like a bike. But kissing, I remember being like, oh
Speaker 4: this is funny. I mean if I kissed someone with
Speaker 4: metal in their mouth that would be different. Like honestly, so,
Speaker 4: I kissed three people since I've had it, and I
Speaker 4: like bring it up.
Speaker 3: So the girl that we just fucked was like.
Speaker 4: Girl, I didn't feel that shit at all, Like she
Speaker 4: said she was super nervous once she saw them. I
Speaker 4: think it's just something to get over, because you really
Speaker 4: don't feel te when you're kissing.
Speaker 3: If you're you have a good kisser.
Speaker 4: But I feel it when I'm racing because it's constantly rubbing.
Speaker 4: But yeah, it's just something new any orthrow work, I
Speaker 4: feel like you. I don't think I've ever kissed or
Speaker 4: fucked the guy with bracest.
Speaker 3: I've kissed a girl like almost ever. I don't think
Speaker 3: a girl either. Are you asexual? I don't think I
Speaker 3: ever dealt with anybody with bracelet.
Speaker 4: You might need to get some piffy that might be
Speaker 4: a nice with your decentering sex, just some nice.
Speaker 3: I don't want to say I don't want it the intimacy.
Speaker 2: I don't want it with someone who I'm not looking for,
Speaker 2: Like I'm not just wanting to use somebody for sex
Speaker 2: or to get me off in a moment, like I
Speaker 2: want to have some sort of connection with the person
Speaker 2: I don't want women or nickas.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I don't want either.
Speaker 2: Right now, Hopefully you guys use some of this advice
Speaker 2: and find a way to communicate with your partner the
Speaker 2: things you like, the things you don't like, and again
Speaker 2: not take things so goddamn personal.
Speaker 3: That would work.
Speaker 2: And again, if you want to send in your question
Speaker 2: to us and get our advice or just a specific
Speaker 2: topic that you want us to touch on, make sure
Speaker 2: you email us at Decisions Pod that's Decisions po d
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Speaker 3: And we will get to your letter. Again.
Speaker 2: Thank you, guys, and hopefully you take some of this
Speaker 2: advice into your relationship and the bedroom. So next time,
Speaker 2: bye hye