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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Ryan,

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Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: Hey how are you. We're doing great?

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Speaker 1: H So we're trying to figure out why this woman Fiona,

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Speaker 1: who you met is not calling you back after you,

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Speaker 1: guys went on a date that I assume you thought

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Speaker 1: was successful. So you got to tell us kind of

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Speaker 1: all the backstory. How did you guys meet? Tell us

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Speaker 1: about any dates that you've been on, and then where

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Speaker 1: where we are now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, totally. So we met on the apps, you know,

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Speaker 2: I do know, sadly.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and you know, we talked back and forth

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Speaker 3: a little bit, and you know, we exchange numbers and

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Speaker 3: that we texted back and forth a bit and then

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Speaker 3: we you know, we went on a date, right and

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Speaker 3: the date was fun and the good conversations good, good

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Speaker 3: time to have my own and we ended up going

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Speaker 3: back to my place to hang out afterwards, which I

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Speaker 3: thought was a good sign. You know, it was cool,

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Speaker 3: but you know I was I was a total gentleman

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Speaker 3: about the whole thing, Like nothing happened, and then she

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Speaker 3: headed out for the night. And since then nothing nothing, no,

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Speaker 3: no no calls, no text no nothing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so back to your place. No, no crazy stuff,

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Speaker 1: because you say you were a gentleman, and but you

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Speaker 1: were pretty confident when she left that you would see

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Speaker 1: her again, as most people who call us are, oh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, absolutely.

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Speaker 1: And then you've reached out, you've called, you've texted, no response. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, Well let's we have Fiona's number. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: play one song, come back and in two minutes, and

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Speaker 1: we'll call her and we'll see if we can figure

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Speaker 1: out what's going on. The hope is that we can

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Speaker 1: straighten things out and then set you guys up on

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Speaker 1: another day that we pay for. Sound good, That sounds great.

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Speaker 1: Let's see what happens next. Part two of Waiting by

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Speaker 1: the Phone. After this song on the frend Show. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: it's the Freend Show. Part two of Waiting by the Phone.

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Speaker 1: Hey Ryan, Hey, all right, welcome back. Let's call Fiona.

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Speaker 1: You guys met on the apps. You went on a

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Speaker 1: date back to uh was it back to your place

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Speaker 1: or her place?

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Speaker 3: Beckham?

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Speaker 1: Okay, back, yeah, and you were a gentleman. You say

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Speaker 1: everything went well, No, no, you know you didn't. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, push push the issue. You were just trying

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Speaker 1: to be a nice guy hoping to see her again

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Speaker 1: and you thought you would, except she's not responding to you, calls, texts,

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Speaker 1: you're reaching out, no response at all.

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Speaker 3: That's yeah, that's that's all very correct.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, let's call Fiona now and see what's going on.

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Speaker 1: Good luck, thank you? Hi is his Fiona?

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Speaker 4: Hi Fiona, good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is fredam call from the Freend Show. The

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Speaker 1: whole crew is here and I have to tell you

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Speaker 1: that we are on the radio right now. I would

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Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Can which

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Speaker 1: have for just a second. I won't take too much

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Speaker 1: of your time? Yeah, okay, we're calling on me, thank you.

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Speaker 1: By the way, we're calling on behalf of a guy

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Speaker 1: named Ryan who says you met you on the dating

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Speaker 1: apps and you you guys recently went out on a date.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember this guy and the date?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, okay, Well he described what he thought was

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Speaker 1: a really great date and he said that he was

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Speaker 1: hoping to see you again. He says he believed he

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Speaker 1: was a gentleman and that he's been reaching out and

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Speaker 1: you're not responding. So what we're trying to do is

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Speaker 1: help him out and hopefully you straighten this out, kind

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Speaker 1: of figure out why you have been ghosting it. It

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Speaker 1: would appear why you why you're not responding to him

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Speaker 1: at all?

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Wow, Yeah, there's absolutely like no chance I would

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Speaker 4: go out with him again.

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Speaker 2: Ever.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so that's an obviously misread on his part because

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Speaker 1: he thought there was odd chance. So what happened, Like,

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Speaker 1: why are we not interested in Ryan anymore? Like?

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Speaker 4: The date was fine, and then we went back to

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Speaker 4: his place and I told him I didn't want to

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Speaker 4: have sex, and he like freaked out at me. He

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Speaker 2: Man. See he said he was a gentleman. No gentleman,

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Speaker 2: He was not a gentleman. You're saying, No, he was

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Speaker 2: not a gentleman. No, So what did he say?

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Speaker 1: He was like, you know, he kind of got to

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Speaker 1: and you're like, we're not doing that, and then he

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he was a huge jerk and just like had

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Speaker 4: I was off case.

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Speaker 1: Guys, that is not oh no gentlemanly, No did we

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Speaker 1: not hear the man say gentlemanly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, when he said that, I was a little suspect, Yeah, sir,

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Speaker 2: are we sure?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Let us know that he was a gentleman like

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Speaker 1: by no definition of only bringing Ryan. I forgot to

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Speaker 1: very forgetful. Ryan you said gentlemanly. She says, you were

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Speaker 1: putting the pressure on. That is never okay, that is

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Speaker 1: not cool.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I need to defend myself, Like this

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Speaker 3: has been painted a little a little off kilter, now right.

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Speaker 2: Why is that? Well?

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Speaker 3: The look like you know, like I said, we texted

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Speaker 3: a lot before date, and these texts got super sexual

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Speaker 3: and super detailed and super graphic, right, like like she

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Speaker 3: was describing like the positions they like, and like Fiona

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Speaker 3: told me a bunch of things that she was going

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Speaker 1: Date, and so like she initiated this, or you were

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Speaker 1: she initiated.

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Speaker 2: Definitely, she's talking.

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Speaker 1: Super sexy then to you before the date, and so

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Speaker 1: that you get the expectation because that the communication was

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Speaker 1: sexy that then you you should definitely be able to

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Speaker 1: hook up in real life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that we're.

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Speaker 3: Definitely going to right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like, no, no questions about it. No, that's not

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Speaker 2: how it works exactly.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: Well, talk is one thing.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I can see how you might, I guess

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Speaker 1: I can see how you might get that idea.

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Speaker 2: But then when a person says that.

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Speaker 1: They're not they know that they don't want to do

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Speaker 1: that in real life, then you have to respect that

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Speaker 1: you can't. It's the freak out part that I have

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Speaker 1: a problem with. Like you may have thought, yeah.

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Speaker 3: I didn't freak out. No no, no, like I just like

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Speaker 3: I was surprised to hear her change in her tune.

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Speaker 3: But like, like I said, I was a gentleman about

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Speaker 3: the whole thing. I didn't like to push the issue.

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Speaker 3: I was just surprised that it was that, you know that,

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Speaker 3: after all, to talk like nothing.

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Speaker 2: You know, get these text messages, read them to me,

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Speaker 2: let me.

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Speaker 1: No no, no, no no, So Fiona, he says he

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Speaker 1: didn't freak out, he was wrong to have any expectation.

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Speaker 2: You say he did freak out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he absolutely freak out. I don't know what his

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Speaker 4: definition of gentlemanly is, but that is not mine.

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Speaker 2: So again, I want to be really clear.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, I want to be really clear that he

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Speaker 1: has that you fionda have no expectation to do anything

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Speaker 1: with this man in person. And then when you say no,

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Speaker 1: that means no. But were you guys like getting into it?

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Speaker 1: Was the conversation like a lot about stuff that might happen,

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Speaker 4: Were definitely being flirty over text, like that's for sure,

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Speaker 4: but I it's just it's just a different situation in person,

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Speaker 4: and like I was not.

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Speaker 3: I was not into it.

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Speaker 1: You know, I agree, and and so you didn't want

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Speaker 1: to do it, so you said no, And then he's

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Speaker 1: supposed to be he said he was a gentleman, which

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Speaker 1: he was not, right, so he was supposed to be like, hey, okay,

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Speaker 1: that's fine. And then maybe maybe if he had done that,

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Speaker 1: and then you guys get back to you know, get

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Speaker 1: back to talking to gain a little bit, maybe this

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Speaker 1: could have gone your way, Ryan, if you hadn't been

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Speaker 1: a jerk.

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Speaker 3: I was not a jerk, like I thought. I was

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Speaker 3: reading the room and everything. This is this is all

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Speaker 3: very surprising stuff to me.

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Speaker 1: You thought wrong, it would appear all right. Look, so Fionda, no,

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Speaker 1: you're not interested in this guy. No second date. We'll

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Speaker 1: pay for it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm good.

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Speaker 4: Thanks, I don't want to see him again.

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Speaker 2: There you go, Ryan, not gonna happen, man. So there's

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Speaker 2: your answer. Okay, I mean you got chill out right,

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Speaker 2: I'm being a creep. Yeah, I don't know, guys.

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Speaker 3: I again, like her version of this story is not

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Speaker 3: is not what happened, like I don't know what her

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Speaker 3: definition that is. But like I was, I didn't yell,

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Speaker 3: I didn't scream, like nothing else.

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Speaker 1: Like, well, it's not going to work out, no second date.

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Speaker 1: So look, it's your answer, Fionda. Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for your time. We appreciate you. Ryan, best of luck

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Speaker 1: to you as well.

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Speaker 3: Okay, thank you