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Speaker 1: Transmitting America.

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Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to Tuesday Show Morning studio. All right, here's

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Speaker 2: a question. It's a get to know a question for

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Speaker 2: everybody here in the room. How have your dreams changed

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Speaker 2: over the past ten years or so? Not sleeping dreams,

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Speaker 2: but like your life dreams? Amy, you go first, How

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Speaker 2: have your life dreams changed over the past even five years?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that starting this new journey of my

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Speaker 3: life alone, you have to.

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Speaker 2: Make the sad she got the already know where she's going?

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Speaker 2: Let her say it.

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Speaker 4: Where does he think I'm going? I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think just for me, it's I have new goals

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Speaker 3: and dreams of learning a lot of new things that

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Speaker 3: previously my husband did. And so I have a goal

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Speaker 3: of like, my goals of taking care of myself are

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Speaker 3: very different.

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Speaker 4: And how what that looks like? I have no idea.

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Speaker 3: Well, I meet somebody else and get married maybe and

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Speaker 3: share a life.

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Speaker 4: Sure, but what if I don't.

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Speaker 2: I gotta you have all of us for five hours

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Speaker 2: a day.

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Speaker 3: I did get all my I got to have one

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Speaker 3: of my ducks in a row. And so I mean,

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Speaker 3: do I do dream of meeting somebody?

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Speaker 2: That's it? You know? And I want to know where

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Speaker 2: eybody's mind goes, so don't change it, because when I

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Speaker 2: think of that, mind automatically goes to career. Right, And

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Speaker 2: my dreams were always to host a late night talk

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Speaker 2: show into a national syndicated radio show. But that late

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Speaker 2: night talk show, think, it is not even a thing

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Speaker 2: really anymore. It's just get a show, it's just make

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Speaker 2: content because it's shifted so much. It's so my dreams

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Speaker 2: have been a bit of just be able to keep

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Speaker 2: creating content and getting paid, that's all because everything keeps

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Speaker 2: shifting so fast. So I don't know that mine have

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Speaker 2: changed other than what my exact goal is, and I

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Speaker 2: think it'll continue to change as technology changes it because again,

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Speaker 2: it used to be you want to have a ten

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Speaker 2: thirty or eleven thirty, and then you want Now it's

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Speaker 2: like nobody watches anything at a certain time anymore, So

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Speaker 2: just make some Like there are people on TikTok that

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Speaker 2: have more people that spend time with their content than

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Speaker 2: people that have big TV shows on primetime.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy and it's wild to think about.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I think that's how my dreams in that

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Speaker 2: capacity have changed. Now I've been married almost three years

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Speaker 2: now and so I think now it's starting to be like,

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Speaker 2: all right, well, I don't want to be eighty and

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Speaker 2: have a kid because I'm forty four. I don't have

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Speaker 2: any kids yet, and that's going to happen at some point.

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Speaker 2: My wife's not pregnant. This is not even leading to that,

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Speaker 2: but I mean that's now in play as well. But

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Speaker 2: I think what works for me is that I can

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Speaker 2: make content anywhere I used to have to be, like

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Speaker 2: what if I do a light not show, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: have to move. And I think it's actually allowed me

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Speaker 2: to have an easier time with it because I just

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Speaker 2: walk out to the barn and do whatever I need

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Speaker 2: to do. But that's how my dreams, I think, have changed.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I feel pretty good. I feel like

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Speaker 2: I've been able to hit most of them, except I can't.

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Speaker 2: I don't dream for real very often, like sleep like

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Speaker 2: sometimes well.

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Speaker 5: Eddie, yeah see, I've always dreamt of like retiring and

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Speaker 5: having a home by the ocean with a boat, you know,

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Speaker 5: like one of those houses brought right by the ocean

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Speaker 5: I can just wake up and go fishing and if

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Speaker 5: the weather's bad, you know, I can still like look

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Speaker 5: out my window and the ocean's right there, but all

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Speaker 5: that's kind of gone. I have four boys, four kids,

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Speaker 5: the youngest is five. I mean, when am I going

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Speaker 5: to retire? Like, when's it gonna be out.

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Speaker 2: Of the house. You know, that's just the oppotion of

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Speaker 2: what I was saying about my dream. I dream that

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Speaker 2: I can continue to work. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: No, I'm like my dream of retiring and going fishing

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Speaker 5: every day is just so far away that I just

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Speaker 5: really don't have dreams anymore.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 2: It's so wow, Like it's going totally opposite direction. My

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Speaker 2: life's overdue.

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Speaker 6: Wow, lunchbox, hit it rich, never going to change till

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Speaker 6: it happens.

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Speaker 2: Hit it rich as and you need to get lucky

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Speaker 2: to be right.

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Speaker 6: I mean, what career wise, anything whatever. Be on a

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Speaker 6: game show and win some big prize the lottery.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you're gonna war prize on a game

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Speaker 2: show that's gonna make you rich work life. I mean

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Speaker 2: you could, You're not gonna win one that's gonna like

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Speaker 2: set you up for the rest of your life. Game

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Speaker 2: shows don't really have that.

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Speaker 6: I mean, didn't dealer, no deal have like five million

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Speaker 6: dollar case.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I am watching Dealer No Deal.

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Speaker 6: So yeah, I just think about that rich hit it

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Speaker 6: rich is that's really what I look for in life.

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Speaker 6: I don't know if it's some business I get involved in,

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Speaker 6: if I you know, stock just takes off something so

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Speaker 6: I can just be like, you know what, like I

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Speaker 6: don't feel like going to work today. Cool, Like you guys,

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna take that off. Well, you're not gonna have

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Speaker 6: a job, Okay, Cool, that's fine.

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Speaker 2: That's called screw you money. I want to screw you money.

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Speaker 3: You know what. I'd like to have one of those

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Speaker 3: fluffy cows. What's a dream, let's.

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Speaker 6: Go, and I'd like to be on Survivor. That would

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Speaker 6: be amazing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you don't try you find out.

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Speaker 6: But here's the thing. I couldn't you. I couldn't take

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Speaker 6: two months off this show to go do so Vor

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Speaker 6: right now, you've be gone for more than that, for

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Speaker 6: two month, more than to month.

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Speaker 5: But if you had that, screw you money man.

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Speaker 2: Yes. Amy's dream is to not be lonely. My dream

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Speaker 2: is to work forever. Eddie's dream is dead because he

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Speaker 2: has no more dreams and lunchbox. His dream is to

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Speaker 2: get lucky into money. Yeah, boom, here we have it

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Speaker 2: all boiled down.

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Speaker 4: I could take care of myself to Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but your dream, what's your dream? Let's open up the.

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Speaker 5: Mail bag and you send them game mail and all

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Speaker 5: the air.

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Speaker 3: Get something we call Bobby's mail bag.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hello, Bobby Bones. What do you do when you

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Speaker 2: find out you're just friends in the middle of a

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Speaker 2: quote date that you're on? This past weekend, I was

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Speaker 2: on a fourth day with the girl I was really into.

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Speaker 2: While we were out, she ran into a few of

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Speaker 2: her friends. At first, it was odd that she didn't

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Speaker 2: go out of her way to introduce me, and then

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Speaker 2: it appeared she was making it a point to tell

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Speaker 2: them we were just friends, considering that at the end

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Speaker 2: of the first three dates we did kiss. I'm curious

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Speaker 2: how publicly got friend zoned, but totally a different story

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Speaker 2: in private. What's the best way to handle this sign

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Speaker 2: friend zoned? Frank? Okay, So in her mind, I don't

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Speaker 2: think you're a friend because she made out with you,

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Speaker 2: But I think either she is a I don't think

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Speaker 2: this is it, but just follow me. She's either embarrassed

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Speaker 2: but she didn't mean to run into her friends, trust me. Secondly,

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Speaker 2: it could be that she's been through another relationship and

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Speaker 2: she doesn't want to go declaring that you're or one

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Speaker 2: of the people that she's with is close with her ex,

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Speaker 2: or there's some sensitivity there where she can't be like,

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Speaker 2: I'm dating this guy because she doesn't really want people

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Speaker 2: to know right now for some reason. It doesn't have

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Speaker 2: to be she's embarrassed of you. I don't think it's

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Speaker 2: just friend friend. It's the fourth date you've kissed. I

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Speaker 2: would definitely bring it up in a funny way, though,

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Speaker 2: because you're still so early on. You could be psychotic

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Speaker 2: if you're like, why you say that I'm a friend?

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Speaker 2: That's weird. I'm out.

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Speaker 3: That's it.

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Speaker 2: You can't do that. You can't even do it, And like, hey,

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Speaker 2: why did you say I was a friend? But it's

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Speaker 2: just too early for that example. Well that's a good joke.

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Speaker 2: Well it would be like just lightheartedly bringing up you're

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Speaker 2: talking about going out, Hey, and if we run into

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Speaker 2: some more of your friends, am I still a friend

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Speaker 2: this week? Or am I?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Are you on a date with me?

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Speaker 4: Before the kiss?

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Speaker 2: I just want to know yeah, before the kiss. It

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Speaker 2: needs to be associated because you can't have been thinking

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Speaker 2: about it bringing it up as like a presentation. It

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Speaker 2: has to seemingly come out of something you're already talking about.

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Speaker 2: So if it's like, hey, let's go out again, Hey

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Speaker 2: this time? If we run that type of thing and

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Speaker 2: means right though, like what if after a kiss you

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Speaker 2: that weird kiss?

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Speaker 6: Do you kiss all your friends?

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Speaker 2: That's money line, But that means you've been obsessing about it,

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Speaker 2: and you don't want to seem obsessive for dates. And

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Speaker 2: it's funny, yes, but.

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Speaker 4: You do playful you kiss and you say you don't

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Speaker 2: Means you've been thinking about it the whole time. You

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Speaker 2: gotta play it cool. You gotta play cool this early.

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Speaker 2: And that's not cool, okay, because that means you must

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Speaker 2: have been thinking about it the whole time leading up

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Speaker 2: to that. It's got to be light. It's got to

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Speaker 2: be like, we're going out again. Oh and if we

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Speaker 2: go out again, if we see your friends, why am

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Speaker 2: I this time my best friend? Or am I you

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Speaker 2: know the guy you're on a date with, So let

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Speaker 2: me know because I'll just play that role. Then at

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Speaker 2: least that exists. Otherwise you're psychotic and you've been thinking

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Speaker 2: way too much about it to her, even though you

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Speaker 2: have been and you should.

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Speaker 6: Be, or you smooth, you'd be like, man, why have

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Speaker 6: my friends been doing this my whole life?

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Speaker 2: Morgan that killed? It lends something here.

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Speaker 7: I think that she's either hesitant to get into a

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Speaker 7: relationship or there is something that she may potentially be

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Speaker 7: hiding because she's around her friends and there's something going

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Speaker 7: on and she doesn't want to publicly announce that y'all

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Speaker 7: are together in some way, there's something happening, And how

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Speaker 7: would you bring it up if you were I think

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Speaker 7: like you said as great a joke, just like, hey,

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Speaker 7: that's a little awkward with your friends.

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Speaker 4: Like everything okay.

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Speaker 7: You don't even have to address like what she said

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Speaker 7: or how it would you say?

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Speaker 4: Like that felt a little weird? Everything good? And if

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Speaker 4: she plays it off, then and that's on her.

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Speaker 2: I still sleep with one eye open friends on Frank,

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Speaker 2: it doesn't feel it doesn't feel healthy for four dates

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Speaker 2: in yeah, for sure, you run into somebody that need

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Speaker 2: to introduce you, Hey, this is I wanted.

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Speaker 3: What do you say, like, Hey, this is Frank, I

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Speaker 3: this is our fourth date.

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Speaker 4: What I mean, well, when you run into your friends.

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Speaker 2: Nothing, let you let her do it, and then you

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Speaker 2: just judge what she did.

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Speaker 8: We got your game mail and we ran it on

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Speaker 2: Bye. We got this voicemail from Joy in North Carolina.

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Speaker 2: I was just calm with a question.

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Speaker 1: I know you had a similar upbringing of It's.

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Speaker 2: Hands your meatback. I definitely was. I even felt humiliated

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Speaker 3: That, like, wow, I don't know, but I just always

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Speaker 2: What if I told you about the gynocologist? No, I know,

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Speaker 2: what if he goes, well, Amy, this is the worst.

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Speaker 2: That's a bad day. That's tough day. I'm gonna go

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Speaker 2: this is what I'm gonna say. Joy that it's hard

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Speaker 2: about onto your mount there are a lot of mouths

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Speaker 2: coming in there moving and whatever you have going. Other

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Speaker 2: to know is everything's not about you. People aren't focused

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Speaker 3: I definitely think some people at the dinner table. They

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to talk Joy out of this. Yeah, we're

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Speaker 2: trying to. And also if they are, you don't even know,

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Speaker 2: so who cares? Yeah, Joy, just go do it, understand it.

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Speaker 2: Everybody has to go through this in some version of

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Speaker 2: but like nobody in these they don't care. They're just

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Speaker 3: I also have to tell myself that what my therapist,

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Speaker 3: No, it's just something before like I'm just like, surely

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Speaker 2: And even if not, it doesn't matter. It literally doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: There's going to be a craziest one ever. Yeah, someone's

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Speaker 2: And that's a beautiful thing. It's time for the good

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Speaker 2: news Bobby. This comes from a voicemail from a listener,

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Speaker 2: and I wanted to share it because it is awesome.

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Speaker 9: I called in about two years ago at age sixty

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Speaker 9: five and told you tell me something good was going

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Speaker 9: back to nursing school. Well, I'm gonna tell you something

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Speaker 4: I have a great day.

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Speaker 2: Crew, Let's go so cool?

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Speaker 9: What is that?

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Speaker 2: Hold on, let me say the good thing before whatever

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Speaker 2: your response is. This is someone who did not let

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Speaker 2: she is still living her life. She is currently living

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Speaker 2: her lif live. That is amazing, lunchbox. Your reaction was,

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Speaker 2: You can't sign up. Probably, though I don't think that idea.

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Speaker 2: She wants to do this.

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Speaker 6: Hold on you, let me finish my sentence. And then

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Speaker 6: So I mean she is moving somewhere where she completely

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Speaker 2: We're not doing Probably, that's probably what we're doing is

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Speaker 6: You have your you usually have your community built in,

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Speaker 2: So that's my tell me something good. That's her tell

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Speaker 5: Dude, it's in front of me every single day, and

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Speaker 5: Sometimes I just have days where I feel like I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, mine sitting right here. So, you know, not big

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Speaker 2: Says Ray? Lunch pale, constant and random. Yeah, Lunch Pelmant

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Speaker 8: I saw a baseball in the trash and I didn't

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Speaker 2: So you think you saw possibly a baseball of a note.

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Speaker 2: I wrote a personal note to somebody that just throw

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Speaker 2: bring a drama doesn't even exist. But I do know

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Speaker 2: there was a baseball in the trash. Eh, does anybody

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Speaker 2: have anything they want to say? They may throw those away?

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Speaker 2: I mean, where are you all's lunch?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 3: My baseball is in my bathroom. I could send you

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Speaker 4: But it's in my bathroom. I can bring it. I

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Speaker 2: I don't even care if you don't have it. I

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Speaker 3: You should care if someone threw it away, lunchbox coziers.

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Speaker 2: I don't know where mine is. I don't know he's

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Speaker 6: I mean, maybe I've rolled off the edge of the

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Speaker 6: desk and fell into the trash can.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't even care. You know he

442
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Speaker 2: threw his ball away. The point wasn't to keep it,

443
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Speaker 2: and because I was, it was to keep it, to

444
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Speaker 2: keep it and like look at it every day. It

445
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Speaker 2: was just a note from me to you guys and

446
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Speaker 2: how I felt about you. And you don't keep it,

447
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Speaker 2: that's fine.

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Speaker 6: And people told me that they always yell at me

449
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Speaker 6: for having stuff on my desk.

450
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Speaker 2: We're too cluttered. We have to clean this place up,

451
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Speaker 2: and so you don't listen. And that's the one time

452
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Speaker 2: you listen is when you throw it.

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Speaker 6: Hey man, Like I was, you know, walking by the

454
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Speaker 6: trash can and may have fell out of my hand

455
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Speaker 6: and slipped in there.

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Speaker 2: He threw it away. Okay, somebody somebody said you guys

457
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Speaker 2: had one? Did you guys write one to me?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: We did.

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Speaker 4: You want it?

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Speaker 2: And I had better be on that desk forever. It

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Speaker 2: will be looking at all the stuff on his desk. Yeah,

463
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Speaker 2: I know a lot of stuff on my desk, little clutter.

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Speaker 2: What is so? What is that?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 7: Everybody wrote a word that we think of for you,

467
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Speaker 7: and either we can tell you which board we wrote,

468
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Speaker 7: or you can guess it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's fun. I don't. I don't only do well

470
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Speaker 2: with complimentary things to me. It makes you feel unomfortable.

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Speaker 2: Can I do it alone in my room? Okay, I'll

472
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Speaker 2: do it to me. Let me look at the ball here.

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Speaker 2: I can probably tell by the handwriting too, right, that's

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Speaker 2: true too. Okay, sad that's lunchbox And it's also written

475
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Speaker 2: like a five year old? Is that you? Why did

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Speaker 2: you write'd you write? Sad man?

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Speaker 6: Because you have access to everything and you do none

478
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Speaker 6: of it. You you can living on a light, so

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Speaker 6: it's just you live you. It's sad how you approach things.

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Speaker 2: That I'm sad? My life is sad how you look

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Speaker 2: at it.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you don't take advantage of everything you have at

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Speaker 6: your fingertips.

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Speaker 2: Wasted And the only one that's written looks like a child.

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Speaker 2: Everybody else did a good job like camouflaging it. I

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Speaker 2: told you how bad handwrite.

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Speaker 6: I told Morgan, you're gonna to write this. He's gonna

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Speaker 6: know right away.

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Speaker 2: Uplifting no idea, it's a nice one. It's I don't

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Speaker 2: know who wrote uplifting Abby. Oh, okay, that's good, Thank you, Abbey.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate that. Influential I wrote that one. Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 7: I feel like you're super influential and you in so

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Speaker 7: many vast different ways.

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Speaker 4: Is it overarching? Really good word for you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. Funny that's me, thank you excellent.

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Speaker 4: In all caps?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Driven, that's me. Okay, I remember now that's me.

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Speaker 5: Oh you didn't remember, Driven, dude? That's you.

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Speaker 2: Aura? Who put aura?

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Speaker 3: You?

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Speaker 8: What's aura about? So when somebody has an aura, you

502
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Speaker 8: can't explain it. And people sometimes don't hear it on

503
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Speaker 8: the radio, but in person they would feel it.

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Speaker 4: They don't hear aura on the I mean, I guess

505
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Speaker 4: we all have auras.

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Speaker 2: But see you guys, A hating on each other's words.

507
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Speaker 2: I like it. Aora is like an energy, an energy

508
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Speaker 2: around you. Energy is a good word for it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but thanks thank to the ball.

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Speaker 3: Guys.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonnat to couple myself here for yourself. Hung what

512
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Speaker 2: you're hungry? Hungry? Yeah? I was just finished that. Oh okay,

513
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Speaker 2: I had a couple. No serious. Oh my god, there

514
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Speaker 2: you go, dude, Thank you for the ball. I really

515
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Speaker 2: appreciate you guys, the idea. Okay, Hey, what's happening.

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Speaker 5: So my son, my ten year old, he got a job.

517
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Speaker 5: Like the neighbor said, hey, will you walk my dogs

518
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Speaker 5: nice twice a day?

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Speaker 2: Do you trust your ten year old son to actually

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Speaker 2: walk the dogs and not release him or lose him?

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Speaker 5: He's probably my most responsible son out of the four.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 5: And so I said, why don't you go over there

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Speaker 5: talk to her and come up with the price, because

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Speaker 5: she said, you know, like, let him come up with

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Speaker 5: a price and all that, And I said, go and

527
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Speaker 5: just whatever you think is fair, do that and see

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Speaker 5: what she says, Oh, let him do the business right

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Speaker 5: houring your ten year old? Yeah, go ahead, this has

530
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Speaker 5: a dollar this pizza. If it's a dollar, then it's

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Speaker 5: a dollar pizza.

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Speaker 2: He deals with it. I like it. I like it.

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Speaker 5: So he goes over probably like ten minutes, comes back,

534
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Speaker 5: he's all right, done deal, Like what you guys decide.

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Speaker 5: He goes five dollars a walk.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 5: I was like, find out what that's ten dollars a day.

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Speaker 5: Pretty good, And I'm like, that's that's a lot of money.

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Speaker 2: How long does he have to walk the dog though?

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Speaker 5: I mean, dude, she didn't say like the next Oh no,

541
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Speaker 5: it's only like ten minutes around the block.

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Speaker 2: Really, that's it.

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Speaker 4: And I was like, fifty cents a minute.

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Speaker 2: That's a lot of money.

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Speaker 5: He goes, Yeah, by the end of the week, I'm

546
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Speaker 5: gonna buy my jaws that I want my shoes.

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Speaker 2: The shoes are ninety dollars. And then two weeks this

548
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Speaker 2: guy's gonna have one hundred bucks. Yeah, what's wrong with that?

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Speaker 2: That's a lot of money for a ten year old.

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Speaker 2: But he went negotiated his own deal. Yeah, he found

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Speaker 2: his own job, negotiated his own deal.

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Speaker 4: Well, you can do the parent tax.

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Speaker 2: Is that bad for you? Do you feel like you no? No, no, no,

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Speaker 2: I think it's awesome for him.

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Speaker 5: I feel like the neighbor's like Oh yeah, yeah, ten dollars,

556
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Speaker 5: that's fine.

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Speaker 2: I don't feel like five bucks a walk is a

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Speaker 2: crazy give dude.

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Speaker 5: I might go walk the dog for ten dollars a walk.

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Speaker 5: What's five bucks a lot?

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Speaker 2: For two? I don't walk him three times a day.

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Speaker 2: I'll quit this job and do that. Do you recommend

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Speaker 2: parent tax.

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Speaker 3: Though, Well, I mean it's just a way for him

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Speaker 3: to you know, like Eddie's saying, it's a lot of

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Speaker 3: money for a ten year old.

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Speaker 4: So one way to.

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Speaker 3: Do that is to start start him on taxes. Let

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Speaker 3: him learn what it's like to have some of your

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Speaker 3: money taken away, and that way it's not as much

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Speaker 3: I've heard, and he buys the shoes, so it's going

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Speaker 3: to have to attack.

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Speaker 2: I think ten too young. If you hustle your own

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Speaker 2: job and he's not being irresponsible with his money, maybe

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Speaker 2: at the first you test him and let him seef

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Speaker 2: he'srresponsible his money. Yeah, well he shows up in like

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Speaker 2: a seven Camaro like thirty months.

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Speaker 4: Later he's ten.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know that could be an option, or you

580
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Speaker 3: could say, hey, that's that's great. You negotiated that. Should

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Speaker 3: he should he walk a little bit more since it's

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Speaker 3: a high price.

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Speaker 2: Right, listen to this. Dog walkers typically charge typically between

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Speaker 2: twenty and thirty bucks for a thirty minute dog walk service.

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Speaker 2: He's doing it at a far less price. Wow. I

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Speaker 2: think you just monitor his maturity with money. Be proud

587
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Speaker 2: of him. He negotiated his own price. That's amazing. And

588
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Speaker 2: then let's just see what he does with the money.

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Speaker 2: And it could inspire your other sons because he can

590
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Speaker 2: have He's gonna have his own money.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: By the end of summ they're a gonna be knocking

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Speaker 5: on doors, walk it dog twenty dollars a walk.

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Speaker 2: Well, they're gonna be walking over to your son's new

595
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Speaker 2: house and being like, hey, staying with him? Yeah yeah, see.

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Speaker 5: I just thought like maybe I should go to the

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Speaker 5: neighbor and be like, hell out of it.

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Speaker 2: Are you sure that's a lot of money? Are you

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Speaker 2: sure you want to pay that? Not even they're paying

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Speaker 2: far far less for that than they would a real

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Speaker 2: dog walk.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, but I mean he is a ten year old,

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Speaker 5: Like I feel like that price is for like an

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Speaker 5: experienced dog walker.

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Speaker 4: I think another thing you could do too, if you.

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Speaker 3: Don't do the parent tax, is you could encourage.

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Speaker 4: Him like, hey, you're walking twice a day. Five.

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Speaker 3: Your first walk goes towards the shoes. Your second walk

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Speaker 3: goes towards savings.

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Speaker 5: Oh, we already do like, uh, eighty percent goes to you,

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Speaker 5: ten percent goes to tithing, ten percent goes to savings. Okay,

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Speaker 5: we already do that. That's like already been instilled in them.

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Speaker 5: So he's doing that.

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Speaker 3: You make it.

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Speaker 2: We give temperacent to church already. Yeah, I just like

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Speaker 2: just a charity whatever, Okay, not just church? Sure? Okay. Man,

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Speaker 2: if I were ten, I'll be like, what what in

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Speaker 2: the world, don't I'll be doubling up on crackers. I

619
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Speaker 2: was like, I mean getting my money's worth. I think

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Speaker 2: it's great. I think it's great. You just learn now,

621
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Speaker 2: not a parent. I mean you can have final say.

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Speaker 2: But I think in your parents, so you get final

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Speaker 2: final say. I think it's a great time. As a

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Speaker 2: kid who didn't have to work for money, it's a

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Speaker 2: great time to give him some runaway to see what

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Speaker 2: he actually does with money before you put any of

627
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Speaker 2: your influence in. See if he does stupid things, and

628
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Speaker 2: if he does, let him learn, see if he does

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Speaker 2: great things. This is the first time you'll be able

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Speaker 2: to watch him do an adult thing over a long

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Speaker 2: period of time. See it even shows up how many

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Speaker 2: times he misses to his job. Sure without any you're

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Speaker 2: just letting him before, Like.

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Speaker 5: Don't remind him, hey, walk dog today, it's totally on him.

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Speaker 5: He gets fired that show.

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Speaker 2: That's life.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's what I say. I say, Yeah, this sounds

638
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Speaker 3: like a great opportunity. And it's going to be fun

639
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Speaker 3: as your kids get older to see how they manage

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Speaker 3: money in such a different way, their little personalities, Like

641
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Speaker 3: my kids handle money the exact opposite of each other.

642
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Speaker 3: And it's fun to watch. But I let them play

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Speaker 3: it out because I want them to learn. And I

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Speaker 3: think if you went and got the five dollars a walk,

645
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Speaker 3: that's what he gets.

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Speaker 2: That's so fun. And also Eddie's two sons around the

647
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Speaker 2: same age. One here they have a baseball card, a

648
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Speaker 2: sports card business. Oh yeah, I give them my mid cards,

649
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Speaker 2: not bad cards, somebody cares about those. But I give

650
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Speaker 2: them the mid cards and they have an eBay page.

651
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Speaker 2: They sell them on eBay. But I want them to

652
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Speaker 2: learn percentages, so I demand ten percent of every sale

653
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Speaker 2: that's not parent tax.

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Speaker 4: Well I'm hoping that you I'm not a parent.

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Speaker 2: I want my money. That's a buddy tax. Yeah, that's

656
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Speaker 2: I'm giving it to you. Now, you go do the

657
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Speaker 2: work and I want my my But it's like fifty cents,

658
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Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 4: I hope you have some of that vibe.

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Speaker 3: When Stevenson comes to work off his PlayStation five, you

661
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 3: need I need you to teach him lessons.

662
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:53,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm ironing him. I will give him the best

663
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:56,160
Speaker 2: machete money has to offer. When he's cutting a trail

664
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: in my backyard.

665
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 4: I don't know the machete is happening.

666
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,480
Speaker 2: He's old enough for it. I stand by it. There's

667
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 2: a voicemail we got yesterday morning studio.

668
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:07,719
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe close two months ago Eddie said he had

669
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,400
Speaker 1: an uncle that was in need of a kidney transplant,

670
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:13,399
Speaker 1: and I've been anxious to hear if he tried to

671
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,160
Speaker 1: get on the list. If he's doing it, I know

672
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 1: he's mister good deeds that never perceive. So I'm really

673
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,439
Speaker 1: anxious to hear what's going on with that.

674
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,400
Speaker 2: She hits you with the Johnny cochrane. If it don't fit,

675
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 2: you must have quit, mister good deeds, they never perceived.

676
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 2: That's that's ridiculous.

677
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 5: Wow, A date yeah, no, I couldn't. I couldn't do it.

678
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 5: I mean there was some family drama in that one. Yeah,

679
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:39,679
Speaker 5: there's some family drama.

680
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:41,399
Speaker 2: Now family, then I want to ask any more questions.

681
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 2: It's about you, mister Goodeeds. Oh man, I was definitely

682
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 2: considering it. We're gonna do you can't say I was

683
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 2: definitely considering. Then the family was like whoa, whoa, whoa,

684
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 2: whoa whoa.

685
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 4: Relax, Oh well, we don't want to see family a.

686
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 2: Family draw They had a lot of family drawing talking

687
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 2: about the family. It's not you. Uh, here is another one.

688
00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:01,640
Speaker 2: Go ahead. Why did the streak but slow dad go

689
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 2: to the pride parade to support his bison his son?

690
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 2: That's pretty funny. Why did the straight buffalo dad go

691
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 2: to the bride braid support his bison?

692
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's very funny. That's like the college.

693
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 3: What did the bison say when a sudden he left

694
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 3: for college by son?

695
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:25,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's a different meaning, not really, but I

696
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 2: have one about uh buffalo, but we have to beep

697
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,679
Speaker 2: it and we can put it in the podcast. Okay,

698
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 2: cowboy was riding with a Native American. They were looking

699
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 2: for buffalo. Native American got off put his ear to

700
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 2: the ground. It said buffalo come, he said, cow was

701
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 2: the how do you know? He goes, it's dripping off

702
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 2: my ear? Okay, yah, yeah, late that part. Late that part.

703
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 2: You know what, I've never heard that. Well, I just

704
00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 2: made me think about it because that, yeah, I word

705
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 2: to hear that the more. Don't know, I haven't thought

706
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 2: about that on in years. Okay, pile of stories.

707
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 3: So pebbling is a new thing that's happening in relationships,

708
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 3: and it's something that's taken from penguins, because when penguins

709
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 3: find another penguin attractive, they go.

710
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:18,959
Speaker 4: Take them a pebble.

711
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 2: Oh, just give them a guest.

712
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 4: They're like, hey, I want to start a life with you.

713
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 4: Use this pebble to build a nest. You're the one.

714
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 4: But it's so cute and small. It's like this pebble.

715
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 4: So the pebbling and relationships.

716
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 3: Is when you're intentional about doing little small things throughout

717
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:34,719
Speaker 3: the day for your significant other, like maybe surprising them

718
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 3: with a cup of coffee or just texting them like

719
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 3: a funny video or something that they'll laugh at that

720
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 3: says hey, I'm thinking of you.

721
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 4: Huh. Pebbling.

722
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 2: I feel like that pebble means a little more to

723
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 2: the penguins than just a small thing. I feel like

724
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 2: that's like our version of a ring, oh, a diamond ring.

725
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 2: We're kind of minimizing the pebble, and maybe we should

726
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 2: instead of rings, we should be able to give our

727
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 2: partners pebbles and save us a bunch of money. I

728
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 2: don't know that's it. Let's take straight from the no.

729
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 4: I don't know.

730
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 3: That's going to work the same, but I know that

731
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 3: the funny video thing might seem a little silly. But

732
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 3: a relationship expert said that stuff like that strengthens the

733
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 3: relationship because when they.

734
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 4: Get it, not only do.

735
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 3: They laugh, but they're like, oh, hey, they saw this

736
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 3: and they thought of me, and so it's a connection thing.

737
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 2: It's a fine line, slippery slope. Even my wife sent

738
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 2: me this TikTok and she was like, hah, this reminds

739
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 2: me of you. And it's this lady in her house

740
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 2: and she's like, my husband, he really adds article. This

741
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 2: is where like look that the colors are perfect, like

742
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 2: the table and he's got one dirty sock here, and

743
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 2: he's got a shoe here and a hat. He just

744
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 2: leaves there and it's like, okay, God, this is how

745
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 2: you're telling me to pick up my stuff?

746
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 3: All right?

747
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 2: What else?

748
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 3: If you are curious what women actually want, we're pretty simple.

749
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 3: We just want to make sure that we feel safe.

750
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 3: All My wife wants time, yeah, oh time, and the.

751
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 2: One thing I don't have she wants.

752
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 4: Yes, So one of the things here is put your

753
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 4: phone away, so that would be time. She wants that

754
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 4: quality time.

755
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 3: And then if you're dating, you don't live together, whatever,

756
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 3: just making sure they get home safely and that you

757
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 3: check on them and like hey, you good to go.

758
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 3: Everything okay, and then giving sincere compliments.

759
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 4: That's as simple as it gets.

760
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, you would think because my wife all all that

761
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 2: she wants to time, nothing, she doesn't want anything else,

762
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 2: no demands, but she just and you would think that

763
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 2: would be the easiest thing to give because it doesn't

764
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 2: cost anything.

765
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 4: Neither does a sincere compliment.

766
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:28,959
Speaker 2: It's not even a pebble. You know, I'm gonna pick

767
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 2: it up hand it.

768
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:32,160
Speaker 3: Do you remember the last compliment either you received or

769
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 3: you gave to her?

770
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 2: I don't really. I'm sure she gives me compliments. I don't.

771
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 2: I don't really accept them.

772
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 3: Center one I do no, right now, I just did,

773
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 3: Oh okay, fifteen minutes ago.

774
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 4: Oh okay, that's a pebble.

775
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 2: You threw a pebble right.

776
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 5: Now, like oh, fifteen minutes ago. She can't say like,

777
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 5: you look pretty because you didn't see her.

778
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 2: No, she has been battling some crazy health stuff for

779
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 2: like two years, really really hard health stuff that she

780
00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 2: hasn't talked about, and I know she's a struggling with

781
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 2: it a bit. And I just sent our message about

782
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 2: how strong she's because I wouldn't have been that strong.

783
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 2: I would have been like, I'm out, no more help

784
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 2: for me, give me the oreos. That's what I would

785
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 2: have done. I do, I did like fifteen minutes ago.

786
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 4: Since your compliments, so I go to do but.

787
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 2: I said, I have no time for you today. There's

788
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:12,959
Speaker 2: your compliment.

789
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, So on TikTok. I saw this whole thing of

790
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 3: this doctor talking about hotel rooms and like there's two

791
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 3: types of people, some that just go in and live

792
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 3: out of their suitcase, or some that go in and

793
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 3: hang everything up and put everything away in dwarers.

794
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 4: And he's like, if you're the drawer.

795
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 3: People, beware because bed bugs can actually live in the

796
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 3: hotel dwarves.

797
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 2: I want to acknowledge. Amie says, a drawer weird, but

798
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 2: move on. Yes, for me, that it just depends how

799
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,480
Speaker 2: long I'm staying. If it's a single night, I'm in

800
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 2: the bag. If it's two and a half or more,

801
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 2: I'm out of the bag, and I'm hanging stuff up

802
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 2: because I'm gonna have to like press or steam some

803
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 2: stuff anyway. So for me, there's a fine line. But

804
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 2: I never put the suitcase on the bed. God, that's

805
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 2: the most disgusting thing you could possibly do. Think about

806
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 2: that suitcasse of the band. People just throw it on

807
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 2: the bed and open it.

808
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, but then I don't get on top of the

809
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 4: bed like I don't.

810
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 2: Get on the top still in the bed or hey,

811
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 2: your arms could touch it over the top.

812
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 4: That's true. Yeah, they make those zough in the closet.

813
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 3: They make these little things you can put your luggage

814
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 3: on that hold out.

815
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 2: Yes, that was Amy's pile of stories. It's time for

816
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 2: the good news.

817
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 3: There's a restaurant called East Egg Campus and one of

818
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 3: the co owners that Tammy Roush, decided to implement the

819
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 3: giving wall. If you you know the giving wall at restaurants.

820
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 3: We've had stories like this before, where if you're in

821
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 3: need you can't afford a meal, other people that are

822
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 3: eating there can buy a ticket that'll pay for meals,

823
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 3: and then the tickets go on the wall and then

824
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 3: that way it's not this awkward thing like you just

825
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 3: go in and say, hey, it's like a ticket from

826
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 3: the wall and boom, you get a hot meal. Because

827
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 3: she heard of other restaurants doing this, and she just thought,

828
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 3: I really feel like this would be a good way

829
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 3: to show respect and kindness to those that may be struggling.

830
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 2: I think it's probably one of pretty cool business practice too,

831
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 2: because you have people come in buying two and three meals. Yeah,

832
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 2: I think about spending that money. They're also given back,

833
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 2: but I mean.

834
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 4: As it's a win win.

835
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, And then I think about when other restaurants have

836
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 2: done this lunchbox going I just go and get a

837
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 2: ticket off the off the wall and need a free meal, I.

838
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 3: Know, But then I just don't like also putting that

839
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 3: idea in somebody else's.

840
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 2: Head that's like, oh, well that's what comes to mind

841
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 2: when I think we know a lot of places have

842
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 2: done this, and he's like, well, I'll just go get

843
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 2: a free meal. Then even if I don't need it,

844
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 2: even if I'm not hungry, so but he's matured, would

845
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 2: you still do it? Yeah? No, boy, would you purposely

846
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 2: go to this place if they had it, or if

847
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 2: you were there and saw it, you would just be like, oh,

848
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 2: I'll just have a free one. Oh no.

849
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 6: Like if I'm thinking, man, what am I gonna eat

850
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 6: lunch today? Well, you know, don't even eat my wallet.

851
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:37,800
Speaker 6: Just go to this place free.

852
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:39,839
Speaker 4: So next Lunchlok's okay.

853
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 3: Next time you're in Kalamazoo, Michigan, hit up the.

854
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:42,800
Speaker 4: East Egg campus.

855
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 2: Would you go to Kalamazoo just to get a free meal? Now?

856
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 6: I wouldn't do that because the plane ticketmud costs just

857
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 6: as much.

858
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 2: That's a good story. I liked it. I don't really

859
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:52,320
Speaker 2: like places though with egg in the name of the restaurant.

860
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,400
Speaker 2: You don't because I'm not an egg guy. I don't like.

861
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 2: I saw one called like Alcoholics the other day. Yeah,

862
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 2: I saw one too, called like second Chance Egg or something.

863
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 2: I don't even know, whatever it was. I didn't like.

864
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,879
Speaker 2: Most people like eggs. I don't hate eggs, but I don't.

865
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 2: I don't like eggs. That doesn't draw me to places.

866
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 2: I don't like the word onion because I don't like onions.

867
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 4: So someone, do you like French onion soup?

868
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 2: No I No, I will eat French onion soup as

869
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:18,920
Speaker 2: an appetizer, but do not eat the onions. True, you're right,

870
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 2: it is a weird word onion. Well, when you say

871
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 2: any word like that, onion, Okay, ho about this pizza?

872
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 2: Pizza feels weird if you say.

873
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 4: Like that, Yeah, this is interesting.

874
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 3: Like uh, when you're thinking of a restaurant name, like

875
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 3: that's weird too.

876
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:34,360
Speaker 4: Man, you quite.

877
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 3: Literally could be deterring people simply because of one word

878
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 3: you chose, and you probably have. You can have amazing food,

879
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 3: but they're never gonna come because they're.

880
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 2: Just like egg and the title. Yeah, so don't do it.

881
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 2: Guys you're listening. It's probably not named second Chance Egg.

882
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 2: But if anyone's thinking about using that name, I wouldn't

883
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 2: like all the things on that are bad Second Chance

884
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 2: and egg good story though, I like it. That's what

885
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:58,319
Speaker 2: it's all about. That was tell me something good. This

886
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:01,720
Speaker 2: guy Drew Baldridge, so he had a record deal, lost

887
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 2: his record deal because the record company had folded, like

888
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,360
Speaker 2: went bankrupt. So didn't have a record deal for years

889
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:11,280
Speaker 2: and put a song out on TikTok. He has started

890
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 2: his own record label. He has a song on the

891
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 2: top fifteen. Now he calls radio stations himself, wow, old school.

892
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 2: It's crazy. But he's doing it all himself, not even

893
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 2: like a record label's doing old school. He's doing it himself.

894
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 2: He's booking his own shows and he has a song

895
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 2: that maybe getting close to top ten. Usually you have

896
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 2: a label or an agent or a manager by the

897
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 2: time you even have a song that gets close to

898
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 2: the chart. He started his own record label because no

899
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 2: one would sign him. So that's why when I saw

900
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:38,879
Speaker 2: him at your house, I said, dude, come hang out

901
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 2: with this and workout. He's like, I gotta go home

902
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:43,919
Speaker 2: do I'm real busy. That's why he's busy. Guys, commercials

903
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 2: on radio stay because he's an artist and nobody gave

904
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 2: him a chance. He put out the song and now

905
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 2: it's crushing and he's doing it all himself. He's on

906
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 2: the Bobby Cast this week. I was blown away by

907
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 2: a story and he hadn't had a record deal in years,

908
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 2: and this song was put out years prior. It wasn't

909
00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:59,800
Speaker 2: even like a new and so he woke up and

910
00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 2: had ten million like streams of the song and all change.

911
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 2: And so what he does how he's able to finance

912
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 2: his record label is any money he makes from the streams,

913
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,279
Speaker 2: he just puts right back into the label. And he's

914
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:13,879
Speaker 2: having to do it all himself. It's I've never heard

915
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:16,320
Speaker 2: of a story like this as it is with somebody

916
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:20,439
Speaker 2: who's having current success. So Drew Baldridge, I'm a fan

917
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 2: of the guy just from talking with him. Check out

918
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 2: the Bobby Cast. Go search for the Bobbycast and listen

919
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 2: to it. We can play that song in just a second.

920
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 2: But let's do the corny. Ready, here we go, the

921
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 2: mourning corny.

922
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 3: Why did the block of cheese go to the gym

923
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 3: to get shredded?

924
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 2: That was the morning corny. By the way BTW means

925
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:48,880
Speaker 2: by the way, yeah b too. June twenty fifth, eight

926
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 2: to seventh Central on ABC. It is Jelly Roll and

927
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:55,720
Speaker 2: Ashley McBride hosting the three hour television events CMA Fest,

928
00:37:56,320 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 2: Luke Bryant, Cody Johnson, Megan Maroney, Thomas read so many

929
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 2: massive artists. But Tuesday, June twenty fifth, eight to seventh

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Speaker 2: Central on ABC, and the next day on Hulu. Check

931
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 2: it out. More information, visit cmafest dot com. Slash TV

932
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:14,799
Speaker 2: special Annoying Husband Habits have a list of what a

933
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 2: lot of wives from around the country have said when

934
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 2: asked the question, like, what's the most annoying thing your husbandes?

935
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 2: I'm gona talk to the husbands here. What would your

936
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 2: wife say? Is your most annoying habit? That for some

937
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 2: reason you just don't correct lunchbox.

938
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 6: If I don't eat my toenails or bringing nails, I

939
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 6: leave them laying on the couch.

940
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 2: That is just gross. I think that's a human thing.

941
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 2: Let's discuss a growth. She tut. She tells you that,

942
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 2: like please throw your toenails away, or please eat them

943
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:43,040
Speaker 2: and don't leave them on the couch.

944
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:44,440
Speaker 6: Or the kids will seem to be like, oh, dad's

945
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 6: toenails are here, and my mom my wife will.

946
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 2: Be like, why do you leave them there? Why don't

947
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:51,359
Speaker 2: you just I just forget, I get busy.

948
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:55,839
Speaker 6: Probably that I throw the clothes in the bathtub.

949
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 2: Also another wild thing, that it's not dirty clothes. He

950
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 2: throws all his dirty from the bathtub.

951
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, but she started doing it too, so I can't

952
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:04,239
Speaker 6: she can't say nothing.

953
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 4: I feel like sometimes she just has to give up them.

954
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 6: And the toilet paper, like when it runs out, I

955
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 6: don't put it like, I don't hook the one the

956
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 6: new one into there. I just set it on there

957
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 6: a new role, you know what I mean. I just

958
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 6: set it on the whole.

959
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 2: Why not just put it on. I would do that

960
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:17,360
Speaker 2: occasionally to.

961
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 6: She annoys the crap out of her or I leave, yeah.

962
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:24,319
Speaker 2: Or you leave what I mean? Just dirty dishes, just

963
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 2: dirty dishes everything, basically the dirty clothes in the bathtub.

964
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 2: It's so weird. Did your family did that? Uh?

965
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 6: No, my family didn't do it.

966
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 2: We had a where did I come from? What's the

967
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:36,479
Speaker 2: first time you ever put your dirty close in the battle?

968
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 6: When I owned my first house, I didn't have a hamper,

969
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 6: and there was one of those bathtubs, and usually I

970
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:45,279
Speaker 6: would throw the empty shampoo bottles over the thing. And

971
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 6: because I had to stand up and then had a bathtub,

972
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 6: and so I just stayed a shower, yeah, like a

973
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 6: stand up shower.

974
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:51,399
Speaker 2: Yeah.

975
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 6: And so the bathtub is something I'd never used, and

976
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 6: so I was like, oh, clothes and empty shampoo bottles will.

977
00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:58,759
Speaker 2: Just go in there. So you turn it into a

978
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:00,719
Speaker 2: trash can. Yeah, but now you still use it as

979
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:02,400
Speaker 2: a dirty clothes hamper. Do you have to remove them

980
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 2: to take a shower.

981
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:06,360
Speaker 6: No, it's a separate thing. It's the bathtub doesn't get.

982
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 2: Used except for dirty clothes. Dirty clothes, right, okay, mine.

983
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 2: I think my wife she gets the most annoyed at me.

984
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 2: Let's say I have bread. You know how the breads

985
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 2: spun and get the little thing to hold it twisty tie.

986
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:20,719
Speaker 2: So what I do is a fin I never put

987
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 2: the twisty tie back on. I'm very much against twisty

988
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:24,399
Speaker 2: tye being back on. I never put it back on.

989
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 2: And I do this with bread and chips, and so

990
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:28,799
Speaker 2: I'll ball it up and then I push it up

991
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,400
Speaker 2: against something to hold it's good. So just random places

992
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:33,800
Speaker 2: in the house there's like pushed up bags of chips

993
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 2: that are holding it closed. And I did wherever it

994
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:38,879
Speaker 2: is like a stable thing, they'll be like it's next

995
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:41,800
Speaker 2: on a book, there'll be chips. So it really annoys

996
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:43,839
Speaker 2: her when she comes through and there's bags.

997
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:45,919
Speaker 4: Get a chip clip that aren't clipped.

998
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 2: Or closed in any way. They're just rolled and pushed

999
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 2: up against something so they don't unroll and spoil at

1000
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 2: least you're trying to keep them from getting steel, Thank

1001
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 2: you very much. Yeah, I'm very anti twisty chip clip.

1002
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:00,840
Speaker 2: It's a lot of work to read twist tiet. I

1003
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 2: get that exactly.

1004
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:03,439
Speaker 4: It's not that much work.

1005
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that one. And just to everywhere I go, I

1006
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 2: turn the air way down and I forget. Sometime we

1007
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 2: hit that here it's freezing. Yeah, my hands are frozen.

1008
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 2: It was sixty two the other day. Here? Do you

1009
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 2: realize that I forget? Sometimes Like I'll leave and then

1010
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 2: she'll come home and I've been upstairs and it's freezing,

1011
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 2: and she's like, there's no reason for TV freezing her

1012
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 2: like she needs. So I probably not just turning the

1013
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 2: air cole but leaving it, just walking off and leaving it.

1014
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 2: It's probably something she gets annoyed by. Bad husband habit. Yeah,

1015
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 2: mine is just that I don't listen. Well that's a

1016
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:31,319
Speaker 2: pretty big one.

1017
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 5: But I try, like and I even say, like, all right,

1018
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 5: what time is the game tonight? She's like eight o'clock,

1019
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 5: got it? And then like later on the day and like,

1020
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 5: all right, what time is the game? And again she's

1021
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:40,800
Speaker 5: like I put in the calendar. It's in the calendar,

1022
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:41,240
Speaker 5: and I've.

1023
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:42,840
Speaker 2: Told you you have a calendar, and you don't have

1024
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 2: a calendar. She's made me a calendar, But do you

1025
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 2: use it? No? No, And I'd rather just ask, like

1026
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:49,839
Speaker 2: what time is the game? I'm sorry, I forgot what

1027
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 2: time was the game? But when you think that, can't

1028
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 2: you just look at the calendar? Like when I instead

1029
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 2: of asking, well.

1030
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:56,319
Speaker 5: Now she's like, I'm not telling you, just look at

1031
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 5: the calendar. I'd be like, okay, got get my phone,

1032
00:41:58,719 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 5: look at the calendar.

1033
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 2: Don't listening? Is it like a big one that's making

1034
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 2: fundamental one? But I try, like I just don't retain it. No,

1035
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 2: you don't try. I do. I don't try to shut

1036
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 2: the chips. Let's be honest. It's a quick way for

1037
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 2: me to get it moved. But if I really try,

1038
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 2: i'd walk and get a twisty or I walk and

1039
00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 2: get a clip. You're not trying, let's be honest.

1040
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:16,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, embrace the calendar, Eddie.

1041
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 2: You're not trying. You're not trying anything else. Pretty much,

1042
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 2: pretty much perfect. Yeah, I always close the chip bag.

1043
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 2: We're not comparing well. I always put dirty clothes in

1044
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 2: the dirty clothes and I do that too. Here's some

1045
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 2: of the big ones. You guys can tell us you

1046
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 2: do this leaving wet towels on the floor. No, no,

1047
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 2: I hang them. I yeah, I go to dirty clothes.

1048
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 2: Once my towel touches my beehole, it's dead. You don't

1049
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:41,360
Speaker 2: reuse a towel if I don't touch my beehole.

1050
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 4: But why do you have to?

1051
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:43,720
Speaker 2: You always your behole?

1052
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:45,839
Speaker 4: I don't want to know. Just okay, I.

1053
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 2: Just hang it over the bath to How can you

1054
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 2: go without trying that?

1055
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:49,760
Speaker 4: Okay, we don't need to talk about.

1056
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 2: It, But as soon as it touches it, it's dead.

1057
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:55,880
Speaker 2: Dead tout, you won't towel walking. I yell that, and

1058
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:56,879
Speaker 2: I put it in the dirty clothes.

1059
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 6: It's amazing.

1060
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 2: Burping. No, my wife can burp louder and she does

1061
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 2: than I do. Yeah, I don't burn. Yeah, bur Lack

1062
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 2: of personal hygiene I do. At times get told I

1063
00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 2: need to shower more, not because I stink and I work.

1064
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 2: I shower after I work out. Sometimes I just forget

1065
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:14,879
Speaker 2: to eat or shower. If I've got like a hundred

1066
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 2: things going on, those are two things I forget. Eating

1067
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 2: first sometimes showering second seems like a basic necessity. Probably

1068
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 2: picking nose eh. I mean I pick it as much

1069
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:26,959
Speaker 2: as needs to be picked. I mean, if I can't breathe,

1070
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 2: I pick. I do this a lot, like squeeze my

1071
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 2: nose me.

1072
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 4: Too, that's just scratching the top, Like that's not really.

1073
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:36,239
Speaker 2: Picking passing gas. I don't. I don't. I don't fart

1074
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 2: in my wife. I like, I do so many things

1075
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 2: that are probably not appealing that I think I cannot

1076
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 2: fart on her. Well, I don't know.

1077
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:46,320
Speaker 6: I mean I don't aim it at her or anything.

1078
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:47,959
Speaker 6: But if we're sitting on the couch and I gotta

1079
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 6: let one roll, let it roll.

1080
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 2: But you fart when we work out, Like why do

1081
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 2: you do that around us? That's natural? If I'm gonna squat, Yeah, no, he.

1082
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 5: Does that amy he'll be in the midspot what.

1083
00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:59,399
Speaker 2: I believe if the body is.

1084
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 3: Realited, Like that's what they say in yoga, like let.

1085
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 2: No, I'm not trying to it's already the Roman eddie

1086
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 2: and myself, you know, not picking up after yourself. I

1087
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:12,319
Speaker 2: pick up after myself pretty good. I mean, shoes are

1088
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 2: kind of a problem for me. I'm a If you

1089
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:19,879
Speaker 2: have that one over drinking anymore, we're good now, dude,

1090
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 2: sleeping in really late. No, I can't do it. You

1091
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 2: can't do that because the kids or your body won't

1092
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:28,800
Speaker 2: allow you. Kids got it a little bit of both.

1093
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 2: My if I sleep all the way, my wife like

1094
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:33,720
Speaker 2: loves it and will make it quiet because I never sleep.

1095
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 2: So if I do sleep like, she'll she'll come, turn

1096
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 2: the air down, She'll like make it happen. Keep them asleep,

1097
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 2: Keep them asleep. And then finally, not stacking dishes.

1098
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 6: I don't know what that means.

1099
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:46,719
Speaker 3: Put the dishes, yeah, I don't like in the sink,

1100
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 3: just let them pile up.

1101
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:50,480
Speaker 2: I did dishes one time. I'm telling a story. This

1102
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,479
Speaker 2: should be a book. I did dishes one time, and

1103
00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 2: their dishes all in the sink, and I wake up

1104
00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:57,439
Speaker 2: earlier in the morning, and I spent that morning putting

1105
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 2: the dishes up, put them the dishwasher, did think, Never

1106
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 2: was acknowledged, never did them again.

1107
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:05,439
Speaker 4: This is so annoying, because.

1108
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 2: So annoying. I came home already, I was ready for

1109
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 2: the parade or something happy New Year type stuff, like

1110
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 2: you did the dishes, you know what? It was so annoying.

1111
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 2: Never was acknowledged, And then I said, hey, I never

1112
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 2: got acknowledged for doing the dishes, and she was like, oh,

1113
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 2: you did the dishes. I was like, the end, last

1114
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 2: time you ever did last time I ever did the dishes.

1115
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 4: My point was, you live there, You're an equal partner there.

1116
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:31,400
Speaker 4: You should be doing dishes.

1117
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:33,960
Speaker 3: It's expected like you want applause for doing something that

1118
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:34,640
Speaker 3: you should do.

1119
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 2: If she feeds the dogs or takes the trash out,

1120
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, thanks for doing that. I really appreciate

1121
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 2: that we have our own little deals.

1122
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 4: With and she's sort of like, hey, I bet you.

1123
00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 3: Her attitude about it is like I live here, Obviously

1124
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 3: I'm going to take care of the dogs.

1125
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:50,120
Speaker 2: And she's mature and I'm not. But that's the last

1126
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 2: time we do the dishes around that house. I used

1127
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 2: to say, like, my dad never did the dishes. I

1128
00:45:57,600 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 2: sometimes if I don't come home from Mark when i'm

1129
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:00,839
Speaker 2: my dad never came home.

1130
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 4: I thought, you didn't like making dad jokes. I know,

1131
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 4: but like then it makes me.

1132
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 2: Feel that you were making it about me. And I

1133
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:09,319
Speaker 2: was like, I don't like that. I like when I

1134
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 2: make them.

1135
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:12,160
Speaker 4: I know, but I thought, okay, he said to me.

1136
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 2: This was Amy's jokes. You'll never be a good father.

1137
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:20,239
Speaker 2: That was Amy, that's not that funny, right, that's what

1138
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 2: I said. That's not a joke. That's like, that's true. Okay,

1139
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 2: thank you all all your husbands out there, do a

1140
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 2: better job.