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Speaker 1: I woke up this morning. As y'all might know, we

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Speaker 1: do some remote.

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Speaker 2: Shows and we do some live shows, and today's a

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Speaker 2: remote show and with a wonderful guest. And so internet

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Speaker 2: at your house not a big deal. Everyone's got it.

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Speaker 2: If not, you got a hotspot. I don't have a

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Speaker 2: hotspot yet. The hot spot is my coochie, that's the

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Speaker 2: hot spot. Sometimes the hotspots are under my arms, like now,

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Speaker 2: ooh baby. I went from lavender Petuli to red onion

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Speaker 2: real quick because I didn't have any internet and I

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Speaker 2: didn't know why, and so I googled a bunch of numbers.

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Speaker 2: The first number I called the customer service center that

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Speaker 2: came up was like, congratulations, girl, you won like a

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Speaker 2: medic alert bracelet.

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Speaker 1: I said, what in the shark tank? Get the fuck

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Speaker 1: out of here?

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Speaker 2: I hate Why does everyone try to sell you something

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Speaker 2: you don't fucking need?

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's what love is.

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Speaker 3: For, are you serious?

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Speaker 1: And so yeah, I'm dropping.

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Speaker 2: I'm dropping all a bunch of crumbs to get to

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Speaker 2: the crazy person's house. So hold on, everybody, do you

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Speaker 2: have the seatbelt extender because we're going for a fucking ride.

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Speaker 1: I got.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to adulting, everybody, yes, this is my co from

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Speaker 3: Go Michelby Toe. He is nothing's happened to her today.

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Speaker 3: She's had a fairy chill morning, and I think, what

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Speaker 3: you poach the eggs? You had him in bed? There

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Speaker 3: were birds on your windowsill and then all hell broke loose?

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Speaker 3: Are you okay?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I am okay.

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Speaker 2: It's one of those moments where you really have to

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Speaker 2: decide who you're gonna be.

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Speaker 3: Always put things like that I love do you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Like you really have to dig deep and think, Okay,

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Speaker 2: how do I get through this? Because for me, when

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Speaker 2: I'm stressed and I don't have the answer, it feels

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Speaker 2: like I'm in a pantic room. It feels like I'm

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Speaker 2: the third grade again that doesn't understand the word problems

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Speaker 2: and a pop quiz.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I have no direction, no directive. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what I'm doing.

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Speaker 2: And so this bitch knew that I called the wrong

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Speaker 2: number and she's doing the fucking thing. And I said,

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Speaker 2: you know what, I wish better for you because I

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Speaker 2: know this isn't the job that you want to do.

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Speaker 1: Oh And I hung up the phone.

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Speaker 2: Bitch, don't come for me unless that's for you Nanny Lakes,

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Speaker 2: thank you so much. Real housewives will never be the same,

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Speaker 2: the fucking buffoonery. So anyways, I finally found a number

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Speaker 2: where I was talking to somebody, and.

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Speaker 1: You know, slow was not the word.

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Speaker 2: I literally had to spell out like very simple words

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Speaker 2: for him, like the street. And I was like, this

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Speaker 2: then he's like, oh, I found the problem. Thirty two

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Speaker 2: minutes later, you have to pay your bill. I said,

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Speaker 2: it's always dead. I said, let's pay the bill. I said,

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Speaker 2: here's a credit card. Oh, we don't do credit cards.

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Speaker 2: I need your account number and your routing number. And

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Speaker 2: then my husband was like absolutely not. And I was like, baby,

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Speaker 2: I need to get on this internet to do my

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Speaker 2: adulting episode with this wonderful guess we got. And my

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Speaker 2: husband's like no, and I was like, husband, chill out.

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Speaker 2: You're not even American. You don't understand how this goes.

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Speaker 1: Well, I done, got god.

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Speaker 2: I gave him the routing number and then count number,

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Speaker 2: and all of a sudden I got disconnected. Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: and my husband got really mad at me, and I

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Speaker 2: just looked at him Michelle, and I was like, stop yelling.

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Speaker 2: But he wasn't yelling. I was yelling at myself. And

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Speaker 2: it's like in those moments where you just wish more

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Speaker 2: for your partner, you wish that they would do better.

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Speaker 2: And I'm not talking about him, I'm talking about me.

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Speaker 2: He looked at me like he looked at me like

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Speaker 2: I was Michael J. Fox in a werewolf basketball movie.

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Speaker 2: And I don't miss the fucking basket because I want

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Speaker 2: to do my own fucking move instead of the move

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Speaker 2: that I practiced for three months and quite frankly, Oh man,

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Speaker 2: Oh no, am I frozen?

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Speaker 3: Great you're not frozen. I'm just listening.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, Wow, this is wild and no.

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Speaker 2: It's it's wild and uh but everything's back on now

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Speaker 2: Internet's we're going out of town. We have to find

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Speaker 2: a bank in that town. What because we had to

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Speaker 2: shut down our account. Oh no, and I can't like

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Speaker 2: I'm not even wearing panties, Jordan, you don't need to

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Speaker 2: know this. It's not even a sexual thing. It's just

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Speaker 2: like a couldn't get myself together kind of thing. The

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Speaker 2: fact that I have two braids and a hat on

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Speaker 2: is like, where's the met Gala?

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Speaker 1: Where's the met galap because the theme this year is tired, bitch.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you know what, sometimes just to get to zero

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Speaker 3: is a huge win for the day.

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Speaker 4: And you did you recovered? Well, you're good.

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Speaker 3: You got thrust back to the nineteen eighty nine no internet, nothing,

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Speaker 3: and you army crawled your way back.

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Speaker 1: Nineteen eighty nine.

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Speaker 2: Is that the year Jana Swift was born? I think, yes,

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Speaker 2: Thank God, what a milestone. Okay, welcome to jump a

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Speaker 2: jack flash everybody. I'm Whoopi Goldberg and.

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Speaker 3: This I'm a little black woman in a big silver box. Exact.

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Speaker 2: I've had a morning, y'all where you start doing shit like, well,

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Speaker 2: I have my health, I have my kids, I've done

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Speaker 2: good things in this world.

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Speaker 1: Like that's the kind of morning I've had.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you know I've done things like this before, and

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Speaker 3: I have learned a lesson of auto pay. Was it

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Speaker 3: an autopay situation or yeah.

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Speaker 2: We changed our cards because there was another fraudulent thing

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Speaker 2: and so apparently like all our accounts weren't updated with

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Speaker 2: absolutely have auto pay.

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Speaker 3: That part.

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Speaker 5: Come on.

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Speaker 2: We have two kids, two dogs, and these two big

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Speaker 2: ass titties. This is an emotional NOAs park. Of course

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Speaker 2: we have auto pay. Are you okay because I'm not.

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Speaker 1: Is it too early?

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Speaker 3: Forerguring, I've sent word to send you a Dozzy by

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Speaker 3: the way from Duncan, which is near your house. Not

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Speaker 3: giving anything away.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's so sweet. I can't wait for

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Speaker 2: the doorbell to ring during the podcast. My dogs that

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Speaker 2: I can tell what kind of time they're gonna have.

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Speaker 2: Because if they're just like, oh, hey dogs and just

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Speaker 2: keep walking, I'm like, it's gonna be a good time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But if they see my dogs and you're like hi,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, we're all gonna be stressed.

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Speaker 1: Let's just switch from the rose to the liquor.

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Speaker 3: No, they're listen. I have video of your dogs. Your

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Speaker 3: dogs are beautiful. They were on the beach frolicking and

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Speaker 3: doing the tug of war. It's just the myth and

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Speaker 3: we need to work about this and normalize this conversation

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Speaker 3: something you talked about before.

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Speaker 4: It's the myth and the fear of the big black dog.

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Speaker 3: You know. Yeah, like when I was a kid, there

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Speaker 3: was a big black dog at the end of my block,

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Speaker 3: and that fear was validated because he tried to rip

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Speaker 3: the tire. Unlike my huffy shit, what in the kojo?

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Speaker 3: That was a scary big black That was a Texas dog.

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Speaker 4: That was a scary dog and didn't get love.

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Speaker 3: But your dogs are loved, and you know they've helped

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Speaker 3: me remedy that fear in me of big dogs like that.

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Speaker 1: Oh good, I didn't know that.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't sure if you liked my dogs, because I

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Speaker 2: know Lola stepped on your foot one time.

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Speaker 4: No, she didn't step on my fist. She stepped on

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Speaker 4: my shoe.

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Speaker 1: She stepped on your shoe.

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Speaker 3: She stepped on my shoe. Yeah, okay, she stepped on

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Speaker 3: my shoe. My cocaine white faius.

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Speaker 2: So you come to my house in bedstide to the

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Speaker 2: backyard with a big black dog and then that You're like,

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Speaker 2: I can't believe I got dirty.

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Speaker 1: That's like what that's like?

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Speaker 2: That's like having spaghetti and meatballs with marin Aara sauce

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Speaker 2: at your wedding.

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Speaker 1: You're like, wait a minute, what.

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Speaker 3: I think I was just so I was so upbraded,

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Speaker 3: I was so hurt, so traumatized, but it was just like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: can't have nice things, can't have nice things. I had

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Speaker 3: literally out the box and then bam, now I'll have

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Speaker 3: you know that those shoes cost you know, shoes cost me.

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Speaker 1: It's never gonna be enough.

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Speaker 6: The fact that I dollars Oh okay, Oh god, Jordan,

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: I can't even believe I entertained this conversation ten years

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Speaker 2: ago when it happened.

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Speaker 1: Then thirty dollars, Okay, I just gave away.

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Speaker 3: Makes a lot of money, dude, guy like me, all right,

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Speaker 3: thirty dollars is a lot of money. All right. So

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Speaker 3: I was like, it's just a moment I think the

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Speaker 3: stroller wouldn't fold or something like that, and then oh.

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Speaker 1: Not the stroller not folding. I get that.

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Speaker 2: Because a stroller not folding when you need it to fold, like,

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Speaker 2: click clack, do it real quick, click clack.

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Speaker 1: Yes, a stroller not folding.

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Speaker 2: Is like a vacuum cleaner that doesn't pick up, or

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Speaker 2: an iron that doesn't get hot.

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Speaker 1: It's like, what the fuck is the.

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Speaker 2: Point of you? Because you can't throw it away. It

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Speaker 2: is like a hole in a garbage can. You're like,

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Speaker 2: what the fuck are you here for? Yes, So all

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Speaker 2: this to say, thank god you're healthy.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I mean, listen, we've crossed the burning sands. You're okay,

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Speaker 3: You're better for it. Your day is gonna go great.

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Speaker 3: Here two four, you just gotta let that out. I

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Speaker 3: can see you breathing, like, oh my god, girl, what

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Speaker 3: do you do? Mi Shelle is meditating in front of

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Speaker 3: me right now. You're doing like breathing exercises.

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Speaker 4: Four in hold for four, four out?

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Speaker 2: Oh my, got a hole for three otherwise I get lightheaded.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean it's out of here? Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, hole for three.

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Speaker 4: M I've been doing it wrong. Got a hold for three?

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 2: I mean I think I hope for three because I

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Speaker 2: just have more weight on my chest than you, you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Like, well, I hope for four because they're like, this

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Speaker 3: is what the Navy seals do.

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Speaker 4: And then I'm like, I could be I could be

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Speaker 4: a Navy seal.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, oh my god. The conversation you know

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Speaker 1: you have with yourself.

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Speaker 3: Know what this podcast is. It's a safe space for everyone,

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Speaker 3: but Jordan, I tell you these things. I tell you

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Speaker 3: I could be a Navy seal. Okay, and then you say,

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Speaker 3: oh my god, that's how you react. That's how you

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Speaker 3: cradle my emotions.

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Speaker 2: You got to set yourself up for success. That's that's

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Speaker 2: not it.

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Speaker 1: What the fuck?

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Speaker 2: You're a really nice black nerd tired dad that gets

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Speaker 3: It wasn't it was the culmination.

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Speaker 2: It was and when the stroller don't close. And also

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to fold and it's not folded, and it's

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Speaker 2: Someone was like, there's a dead bird in your backyard.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, and what the fuck? And what the fuck

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Speaker 1: Me to do about it?

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Speaker 5: Me?

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Speaker 1: I can't even see my feet. My titty is not me.

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Speaker 1: It's been a day and it's only eleven thirty.

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Speaker 3: Michelle is about to take the biggest cat nap of

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Speaker 1: I have no time. I have to pack me and

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna be a balding inchrover by the time I

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Speaker 3: No, I know we're here for you. Is there anything else?

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Speaker 3: That's gone wrong plumbing, electricity, Like what's good? Tell me?

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Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know what my plumbing is doing,

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Speaker 3: House really Michelle glitched out?

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Speaker 1: Holy shit. I was like, I don't even know.

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Speaker 3: Do you have copper piping?

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Speaker 1: Is that what we're calling it? Is that what we

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Speaker 7: Was this?

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Speaker 3: I mean twenty twenty more. This is what we're doing.

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Speaker 3: Have you cut off? Have you shut off the valves

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Speaker 3: like you know you're outside, like the hose and everything

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Speaker 4: Have you shut those off for the winter, like emotionally.

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Speaker 3: For the winter. Have you shut yes? We have?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Thank you? I was worried.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, one, No. That was the first lesson living

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Speaker 2: When you live in New York, you gotta shut off

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Speaker 2: the fucking water sometimes because it gets what it shoes

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Speaker 3: Yes, very good.

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Speaker 1: And then I can't. I'm not a plumber, you guys.

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Speaker 4: This isn't Brooklyn. This is worldwide.

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Speaker 1: It is Okay.

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Speaker 2: I really thought I thought it was like just like

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Speaker 2: Brooklyn got me again. Brooklyn will teach you how to

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Speaker 2: how the fuck would I know? I'm wearing a plus

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Speaker 1: Why the fuck would I know about plumbing?

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Speaker 2: I barely know about buttons around my beautiful back, fat

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Speaker 2: biscuits fun.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, this is too.

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Speaker 1: Much you guys. Thank you so much for listening to adults.

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Speaker 3: The donuts are coming?

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Speaker 1: Is that what the British say?

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Speaker 3: The donuts are coming? The donuts are coming, Yes, yes

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Speaker 3: they do.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Am I ever gonna not have to dust?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: Am I ever going to not have to dust?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't. I don't think so that dusting

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Speaker 3: is is just a part of us, you know, it's

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Speaker 1: Is it really like people's skin? Like dead skin?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Why why are we going there with it?

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Speaker 2: Because I think about it when I dust and I'm

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Speaker 4: You went on a beautiful date with your husband?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, talk about that.

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Speaker 2: Oh, we'll talk about it next time. We don't have

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Speaker 2: enough time for that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, back to dust and dead skin. Yes, that's what

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Speaker 3: dust is. It's a lot of what's a lot of things.

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Speaker 1: Right, huh, tell me about it. Tell me about it.

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Speaker 3: It's fibers, okay, and it's it's our dermis. Of course,

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Speaker 2: Just like one of those words, like an atom, like

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Speaker 2: when you really don't know what the fuck it is.

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Speaker 3: You're just like, it's like those fibers. It's just yes,

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Speaker 3: they are fibers from our clothes. Our clothes are constantly shedding,

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Speaker 3: you know, our skin. You've got dogs, they're shedding.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 4: So it's like you gotta you gotta dust all that.

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Speaker 1: You gotta dust all that yucky, yucky POOPU I'm a.

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Speaker 3: Dust buster, though, are you?

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Speaker 4: I'm the black dust buster?

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Speaker 1: I can tell you.

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Speaker 2: Got to look in your eyes. You look you like

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Speaker 2: to hit the corners. Do you have like a Negro

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Speaker 2: spiritual when you clean?

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Speaker 3: What? I of course yeah I do.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm building me all home.

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Speaker 3: I'm building me all home.

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Speaker 5: Mallo.

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Speaker 3: This serve the house.

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Speaker 4: This the house is going up soon decay.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I could have been a fisk singer

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Speaker 3: at the turn of the nineteenth Oh, but my shoulds

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Speaker 3: got I have praise Lord?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god? I mean you never asked me to

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Speaker 2: Where's my donation basket? I need to write a check

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Speaker 2: to the church.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you trigger me, and once I pop,

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Speaker 3: I can't stop. And that's the problem.

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Speaker 1: Where's this bow tie? Everybody?

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Speaker 2: We got a Sunday service that's going to go from

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Speaker 2: day to night.

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Speaker 3: Child, I want the one. I want that single room

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Speaker 3: church with the tambourine. The only light that comes in

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Speaker 2: I gotta say, you know, I love a tambourine moment.

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Speaker 2: Everybody fucking knows, of course, and I I want to

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Speaker 2: get a bedazzle tambourine.

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Speaker 1: There I said it. There, I fucking said it.

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Speaker 2: So this has been a really fucking crazy morning in

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Speaker 2: a crazy day, but you have made it better. And

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Speaker 2: I do believe that our guests will also only make

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Speaker 2: it better because she is, when I say, like a

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Speaker 2: walking ray of sunshine, you best believe she does not

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Speaker 2: just light up a room when she gets into the room.

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Speaker 2: She blows it the fuck up. Yeah, she blows the

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Speaker 2: room up. She's amazing. She is not only black, Hollywood royalty,

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Speaker 2: she Hollywood royalty, bitch. She's a multi hyphen it. What

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Speaker 2: can't she do she's also a fucking twin.

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Speaker 3: Come on now.

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Speaker 2: I am so lucky to have work with her on

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Speaker 2: First Wives Club season three, and she plays Marley in

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Speaker 2: my show Survival of the Thickest All episodes streaming right now,

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Speaker 2: and uh yeah, man, I can't wait for her to

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Speaker 2: finally fucking do this show.

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Speaker 4: Bring her out, bring her out, bring her, y'all.

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Speaker 1: It's Tasha, mother fuck is smooth.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Tasha, I got some titties for you, baby.

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Speaker 5: No, let me go.

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Speaker 3: Oh uh hello, wait, I will.

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Speaker 1: Wait you come back good?

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Speaker 5: Wait? Wait, Sissy, can I tell you something quick? I

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Speaker 5: didn't realize I had such a great titty shot right now.

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Speaker 5: I swear to god, I did not know.

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Speaker 1: You look beautiful, bitch.

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Speaker 7: You know, bitch, I had to wake up and get

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Speaker 1: Okay, I feel like the friend at the club that's

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Speaker 1: like the security guard. Look, no, she don't want to

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Speaker 3: She don't want to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: And then okay, this what's this? Look at this titty shot?

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Speaker 7: Thought?

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Speaker 2: Okay, good, you know what it is. It's giving like

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Speaker 2: AM to PM. It's giving morning talk show. But I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna go fucking my dressing.

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Speaker 1: Room exactly girl.

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean, I'm about that business, but

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna still do it.

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Speaker 5: So you are so funny because you already know.

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Speaker 4: Hey Bro's hey, hell are you?

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Speaker 5: I know we've never met? How are you?

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Speaker 7: Guys?

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Speaker 1: Have never met? Oh my god, my two favorite people.

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Speaker 4: I know, I mean, we never met. However, I've seen

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Speaker 4: you and your.

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Speaker 3: Sister in these streets. It's like, is that her? Is

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Speaker 3: that her sister? I don't know. I just I want

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Speaker 3: you to know that I'm a big fan. I don't

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Speaker 3: know if you know this, Michelle. But when uh, when

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Speaker 3: Tasha just said hello, she she offered her uh to

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Speaker 3: me first, and that was like, Tasha, you weren't even

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Speaker 3: really this man actually has sex.

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Speaker 1: And has created children. But for some reason, he okay, we.

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Speaker 3: Ain't trying to We ain't try to have trouble.

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Speaker 2: When he gets like nervous, he like either puts an

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Speaker 1: But like, when he's really nervous talking about.

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Speaker 3: Sex, that's not what I do.

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Speaker 1: He sounds like Obama. That's like a nervous like gynocologist.

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Speaker 3: And I'm just like, what imagine preparing to meet Tasha?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you go over old interviews, you see

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Speaker 3: her material. You go to IMDb, you see that she

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Speaker 3: directed B MF among other times, on down to Boston

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Speaker 3: Comic come on and saw a video of her colon

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Speaker 3: O'Brien come on, Iconic Iconic. Then I open up my

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Speaker 3: zoom and she says, quote, I have these titties for you.

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Speaker 3: That's not how I expected.

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Speaker 7: You know what.

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Speaker 5: I thought that I was gonna first see Michelle, and

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Speaker 5: I was I know that are actually for Michelle.

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Speaker 3: I understand.

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Speaker 4: I will relay them to Michelle.

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Speaker 5: Ask her if you can borrow them. If she's okay

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Speaker 5: to borrow them, I will allow you or one.

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Speaker 4: Of them, okay, okay, if you one each.

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Speaker 5: Can have a size. It's community.

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Speaker 7: Community titties out this bit, reunity, titties.

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Speaker 5: Out this bit.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I am flattered.

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Speaker 7: I mean I'm feeding everybody. Everyone can suck. Okay, now

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Speaker 7: let me stop.

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Speaker 1: I'm with you.

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Speaker 2: And you know what, It's not about being sexual. Sometimes

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Speaker 2: it's just about nourishment. You know, when you have that

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Speaker 2: maternal esta and you have titties, it's like, get in here.

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Speaker 7: My body's a tempopedic mattress and it's and it's an

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Speaker 7: endearing thing. You know what I'm saying, It's like it

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Speaker 7: shows your love towards your friends. Yeah, no, let me stop, Hi,

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Speaker 7: what's happening y'all?

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Speaker 2: So, Tasha, I really I have to ask you, and

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Speaker 2: I feel like I've asked you before. I've never actually

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Speaker 2: could barely like figure out how.

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Speaker 1: To match my socks.

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Speaker 2: But you are one of these people that have I mean,

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Speaker 2: I was saying, when you light up a room that

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Speaker 1: It's like you blow it up right.

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Speaker 2: And even when you are not saying anything, it's like

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Speaker 2: them to know or not. Okay, that's a superpower. That's

447
00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:57,720
Speaker 2: like for me wearing white pants. With great power comes

448
00:19:57,760 --> 00:19:59,520
Speaker 2: great responsibility. How are we going to keep it together?

449
00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:03,960
Speaker 2: And so there's also this thing, this aura you have

450
00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:08,120
Speaker 2: right where it's like I have been through shit. You

451
00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:12,200
Speaker 2: cannot surprise me because I have damn near seen it all.

452
00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:15,640
Speaker 2: But you're not gonna yuck my own. You're not gonna

453
00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:18,120
Speaker 2: steal my shine. I'm still gonna laugh, I'm still gonna

454
00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:20,320
Speaker 2: be happy and it's just like at every.

455
00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:21,200
Speaker 1: Turn, I'm getting choked up.

456
00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:24,160
Speaker 2: But at every turn, it's just like I think it's

457
00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:26,200
Speaker 2: too simple of a way saying how do you do it?

458
00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:28,919
Speaker 2: Or even like why do you do it? But you know,

459
00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,639
Speaker 2: it just feels like it's within And I think the

460
00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:35,919
Speaker 2: question is when did you know? When did you know

461
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:37,919
Speaker 2: that you were always gonna be okay? When did you

462
00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:40,919
Speaker 2: know that? Like, man, I got this, man like, no

463
00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:42,080
Speaker 2: one can fuck with this?

464
00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:43,120
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

465
00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:47,159
Speaker 7: Wow, that is like seriously says it's funny because I

466
00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:48,840
Speaker 7: was talking to a friend the other day.

467
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Speaker 5: First of all, I love you so much.

468
00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:54,119
Speaker 7: It literally like touches the deep part of my soul,

469
00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:58,239
Speaker 7: Like you are the most refreshing being human, Like you

470
00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:02,440
Speaker 7: bring me so much joy and love, and I'm so grateful.

471
00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:03,240
Speaker 5: For the friendship.

472
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Speaker 7: I love the fact that we get to work together,

473
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,199
Speaker 7: but honestly, I love the fact that we get to

474
00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:09,040
Speaker 7: do life together.

475
00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:11,919
Speaker 5: And I'm so grateful for that. You hear me.

476
00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:14,160
Speaker 7: I was talking to a friend the other day and

477
00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 7: he's a very positive, beautiful person, and I asked him,

478
00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:18,920
Speaker 7: I said, how did you get that way?

479
00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:21,240
Speaker 5: He said, I've been through a lot.

480
00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:23,240
Speaker 7: You know, and the way he said that, I said,

481
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Speaker 7: I get it because I've been through a lot. And

482
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Speaker 7: when you you know, and I'll answer the question about.

483
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Speaker 5: When did I know? I would be okay because I

484
00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:31,760
Speaker 5: have an answer for that.

485
00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 7: But when I think about how much I've gone through,

486
00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:41,080
Speaker 7: it gives me so much empathy towards others. And once

487
00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 7: I realized that I had the resilience that I had,

488
00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:48,399
Speaker 7: then shit really could not fuck with me.

489
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:49,720
Speaker 5: Because when I.

490
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:54,159
Speaker 7: Think about the things that I've had to endure in life,

491
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 7: the things that I've had to endure just emotionally, mentally, physically,

492
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:05,679
Speaker 7: I've literally had to fight for my peace, for my life,

493
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:09,720
Speaker 7: for my you know, my sanity, for all of that shit.

494
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:11,200
Speaker 5: So now that I.

495
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 7: Feel like I'm like flying thirty thousand feet above the

496
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 7: shit I've gone through, I'm not letting anyone fuck with

497
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:24,399
Speaker 7: me anymore. I'm not letting circumstances get in my way anymore.

498
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 7: When I first moved to California, I went through this

499
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Speaker 7: time where I was sleeping in my little ford escore

500
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:35,119
Speaker 7: at the beach with a bunch of blankets and washing

501
00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,879
Speaker 7: up in the bathroom, or waiting for my friends' mothers

502
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:41,040
Speaker 7: to go home. So I could use their shower and

503
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:44,440
Speaker 7: things like that. And I did it because I had

504
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:46,680
Speaker 7: a dream when I came to California.

505
00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 5: And I say, either I.

506
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 7: Could go back to Camden right and tap out and

507
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:54,679
Speaker 7: become a dope dealer's girlfriend, you know what I mean?

508
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 7: Because that was my plan. B I was like, I'm

509
00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:58,480
Speaker 7: gonna become cookie.

510
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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

511
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, Camden. She's talking about Camden, Jersey.

512
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:07,399
Speaker 7: Everybody right, Camden, New Jersey. So I'm like rough and tough.

513
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:09,880
Speaker 7: I was about to be the next Griselda.

514
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. Seriously, I was like, what

515
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:12,480
Speaker 5: is my choice?

516
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 3: Right?

517
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,879
Speaker 7: So I said, let me stay here and let me

518
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 7: see if this dream that I have will come true.

519
00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 7: That's the reason why I stayed sleeping in that car.

520
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,679
Speaker 7: I said, I just want to see if this dream

521
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 7: that I have is going to come true.

522
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:30,480
Speaker 5: So I'm not gonna tap out until I see the

523
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:32,679
Speaker 5: dream or get a piece of the dream at least.

524
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 7: And because I didn't quit right, there is a saying

525
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 7: not to grow weary.

526
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 5: While doing good for indue season.

527
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 7: You shall reap if you faint not, so I literally

528
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:48,440
Speaker 7: said I'm gonna wait to see if I get the dream,

529
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 7: and now I'm getting the dream.

530
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 5: I'm getting another dream.

531
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 7: I'm getting a chance to dream again, to get another dream.

532
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 7: I'm realizing with every obstacle and every problem, I get

533
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 7: stronger within myself.

534
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:02,880
Speaker 5: I get more.

535
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:06,679
Speaker 7: Confident within myself. I get to empower more people. I

536
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 7: get to you know, share the joy of life to

537
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 7: say you don't have to stay stuck in your circumstances.

538
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:17,160
Speaker 5: Seriously, I choose to be happy. Trust me, I got.

539
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 7: A lot I could have been fucking sad about but

540
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 7: I choose to be happy.

541
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 5: I choose to be positive because it gives me energy

542
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:27,479
Speaker 5: and you know, it makes me feel good. Yeah, I

543
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 5: hope I answered your question.

544
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 2: You did because what we do, this is what comedians do.

545
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 1: The pain.

546
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:36,359
Speaker 2: We find a lesson in it, we talk about it,

547
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 2: we turn around. It fuels us. You know the thing

548
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 2: that you're talking about. I get to live my dream.

549
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 2: Like whatever you want to do, whether it is to

550
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,200
Speaker 2: find the partner, to get the house, to have the kid,

551
00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 2: to get the dog, to have the job, to whatever,

552
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 2: to get the followers, it's like, you know, you constantly

553
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 2: have to tell yourself. I'm not telling myself no, you

554
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:57,920
Speaker 2: know what I mean. Even if people tell you no,

555
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 2: that no doesn't mean anything until you tell yourself no.

556
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,359
Speaker 2: And so that's what we all have, which I do

557
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:07,360
Speaker 2: appreciate because people look at you like you're fucking crazy.

558
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:08,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't understand it.

559
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 7: No, it's so true. It's so true. Sis, it's so true.

560
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 7: They don't understand they don't understand it. I'm like, I'm

561
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 7: sorry you don't get it, but it's great. Bye, I'm

562
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 7: still shook by what you just said. Yeah, I think

563
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 7: we should go back.

564
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 3: We should get what Tasha said, lay like a beat

565
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 3: under that and then like some autotive for workout videos

566
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,199
Speaker 3: like that is amazing, you know what I'm saying, Just

567
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 3: like you got this, you know, I was like what

568
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:33,639
Speaker 3: you had me at Ford Escort on the beach.

569
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 5: Come on, you know what I'm saying. And that's a

570
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 5: real story.

571
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:41,440
Speaker 7: That's like real stuff, and like coming from like being

572
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:44,119
Speaker 7: fourteen years old and dropping out of high school. I mean,

573
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:46,439
Speaker 7: by the time I was in the ninth grade, my

574
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 7: first real big job was I was bartending at.

575
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 5: The strip club.

576
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 7: You know, I mean I had all the dope boy boyfriends.

577
00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:55,479
Speaker 7: That's why I understood BMF. So well, you follow what

578
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,679
Speaker 7: I'm saying like where I mean, I started doing drugs

579
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 7: at fourteen. I mean, from like fourteenth twenty five, I

580
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 7: got high almost every day. Do you understand it's actually

581
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,640
Speaker 7: a miracle that I look as good?

582
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 5: Yay? You know what I mean?

583
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 7: And I mean you don't be god gay, I mean

584
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 7: really because it was meant to be.

585
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 5: Listen. I mean, it was a lot.

586
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:19,159
Speaker 7: And when you have gone through stuff like that, you

587
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 7: kind of either can go one way or the other.

588
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 7: You could go into the direction of, you know, fuck

589
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 7: the world, I'm angry at the world. Screw everybody, Da

590
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,160
Speaker 7: da da da. Can we cuss on here? I'm sorry,

591
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:30,959
Speaker 7: I'm cussing. I usually don't cuss in public.

592
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:31,639
Speaker 3: It's fine.

593
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 1: Have you ever fucking met me?

594
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:38,719
Speaker 5: But now I'm in my fucking fifties.

595
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 1: So I don't care.

596
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 5: You know what I mean?

597
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 7: Hey, But when you go through stuff and you realize

598
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:48,159
Speaker 7: what you overcome, you begin to either be angry or

599
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:53,199
Speaker 7: you become more conscious about yourself, your feelings and the

600
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:57,920
Speaker 7: feelings of those around you. Yes, and when you pay attention,

601
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:02,359
Speaker 7: you care about how people feel. You check out and

602
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 7: pay attention to see what people are feeling like. And

603
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 7: for me, I don't want to leave someone feeling bad,

604
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 7: Like when I wake up and I go into the world,

605
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 7: I intentionally go into the world to create an atmosphere

606
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 7: of love, of joy, of peace, like it is an

607
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 7: intention of mine. I don't want to leave somebody's presence

608
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 7: and they say she didn't make me feel right, I

609
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:30,640
Speaker 7: don't feel good around her.

610
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 5: I want to.

611
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 7: Leave people feeling good because that's the way you connect,

612
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 7: that's the way you empower, that's the way you motivate

613
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,920
Speaker 7: and inspire. You know you want We all are going

614
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 7: through stuff in the world.

615
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 5: We all got shit going on, and if.

616
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 7: We're sensitive to that, we will be conscious about how

617
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 7: we want to make people feel as we go off

618
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 7: into the world.

619
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 2: So, after learning how to be a boss from my

620
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:58,880
Speaker 2: own show, going off of what you just said, those

621
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,439
Speaker 2: two things doesn't my intentions. I want to leave the

622
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 2: world better than how I found it. And I also

623
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:05,159
Speaker 2: want to treat people the way that I want to

624
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 2: be treated so they can lead by example.

625
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 1: Right, two things happen.

626
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 2: One, people are resentful because they don't want to get

627
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 2: better and they can't take constructive criticism right.

628
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 1: And so I'm just like, this is.

629
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 2: A conversation, this is a collaboration and so this is

630
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 2: what I need you to do, and people don't want

631
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 2: to rise to the occasion. It's just like, you know,

632
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 2: now I'm stuck with someone who's stuck. And so that's

633
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 2: a learning lesson for my todays. And the other thing

634
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 2: that happens is people they latch on, they feed off

635
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 2: of you all of a sudden, You're their therapist, You're

636
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 2: the hit of dope. I mean that they can't Oh

637
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 2: my god, I need you? And how do I love bombing?

638
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 2: And so my question, I guess it's more like a

639
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 2: two part question. It's like, when you are so open,

640
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 2: how do you protect your peace and have boundaries? And

641
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 2: how do you even find somebody to date? Because it's like,

642
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 2: if we're so amazing, what.

643
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: The fuck you go over?

644
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 7: Okay girl, bitch, Oh my god, bring the dick.

645
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 5: Okay.

646
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 7: You know I used to joke around about I'm gonna

647
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 7: get churchy for a second. Right, you know what an

648
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 7: evangelist is, and you know when you have a church

649
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 7: and you bring an evangelist in, they come in to

650
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 7: stir up, to inspire, and then what do they get

651
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 7: to do after that?

652
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 3: Leave?

653
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 5: Leave?

654
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 1: Yeah?

655
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 8: Yeah, they leave, right, now, just because I'm open enough

656
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 8: to inspire and to create a beautiful atmosphere with us

657
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 8: right now, I can't.

658
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 5: Stay with everybody.

659
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 7: I can't become everybody's best friend. I don't have the

660
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 7: bandwidth and the capacity to do that because I already

661
00:29:57,240 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 7: have a responsibility to my core circle, So I can't

662
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 7: take the responsibility to, you know, be everyone's person.

663
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 5: I just can't, you know what I'm saying.

664
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 7: And they have to be responsible for themselves. Like just

665
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 7: like I'm in therapy every Tuesday because my mental health

666
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 7: is important to me, and I'm not in therapy so

667
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 7: that I could become your therapist. Like it's a sacrifice

668
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 7: for me to pay for a therapist, to take the

669
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 7: time to commit for therapy, and then you can't use

670
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 7: me as your therapist. You gotta be responsible, and you

671
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 7: got to take your mental health in your own hands

672
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 7: and find you somebody as well. You know, and most

673
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 7: of my friend group, we are all in therapy in

674
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 7: some kind of space where we are trying to get better.

675
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 7: And that's why the connection and the love and the

676
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 7: intimacy and the trust is so serious right.

677
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: Bars It feeds off each other.

678
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 7: I want to love on people but at the same time,

679
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 7: I can't be everybody's person, and I realize that, and

680
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 7: I have to have boundaries, and I'm okay with boundaries.

681
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 7: I've cut off people, you know, to make more space,

682
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 7: but actually the people that I give a fuck about

683
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 7: and that give a fuck about me on the same level,

684
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 7: because sometimes we let the wrong people take up space

685
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 7: that other people should actually have that space because they're

686
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 7: gonna come. Do you understand, yes, you know what I mean.

687
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 5: Think about it.

688
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 7: It's like sometimes when your plants grow, you might have

689
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 7: to change the pot just to give it more room

690
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 7: to expand, or you're gonna have to cut some of

691
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 7: them leaves off.

692
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 5: Do you follow what I'm saying? Some of them leaves like,

693
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 5: y'all gotta go. Sometimes it's a pretty leave sis.

694
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 7: Sometimes we be like, oh my god, but that looks

695
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 7: so cute, but this hang, I gotta cut it.

696
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 5: Guess what. Sometimes some shit's just gotta go. Period. How

697
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 5: do we date?

698
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 3: Sis?

699
00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 7: I used to date my tru I literally dated my trauma.

700
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 7: I dated the residue of my past.

701
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 5: It was like this cycle that I was.

702
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 7: In where I was attracting nothing but toxic energy, toxic people,

703
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 7: abusive people gaslighting people because I was dating out of

704
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 7: my pain and out of my trauma, right, yeah, yeah,

705
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 7: But now the healthier that I'm getting as a woman,

706
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 7: I'm seeing.

707
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 5: What I'm attracting is different, you know what I mean?

708
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 7: And you know, and I am seeing somebody and it's

709
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 7: new and it's slow and it's cute, right, you know.

710
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 7: But what's beautiful And my therapist and I were talking

711
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 7: about is that he has the best energy in the world,

712
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 7: like the most positive person, the most upbeat person.

713
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 5: I shouldn't even talking about.

714
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 7: This really, but literally, just beautiful energy, beautiful spirit. And

715
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 7: I'm like, okay, we're on the right track. Yeah, I

716
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 7: don't want to attract my trauma.

717
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 3: Why do you think you might have been doing that?

718
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 3: Why do you think you were attracting your trauma?

719
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 7: It was familiar. It's like a familiar thing, you know.

720
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 7: You know, you're attracted to the old you. And when

721
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 7: you've been raised and brought up in an environment like

722
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 7: with a lot of negativity, a lot of like mental

723
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 7: emotional abuse and stuff, and you have this idea about

724
00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 7: life and about relationship because the foundation of your life

725
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 7: is what kind of gives you insight to relationship like

726
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 7: the foundation of my life was very unstable. You know,

727
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 7: I didn't have a father growing up. Love was confusing

728
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 7: to me. I didn't really understand what love was, or

729
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 7: what love really looked like, or how love really felt,

730
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 7: you know what I mean. I just had this warped

731
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 7: idea of love, you know. And when you have that

732
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 7: distorted idea of love, then you may be attracted to

733
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 7: the guy that's saying I love you, but then he's

734
00:33:57,240 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 7: smacking the shit out of you, and you're like, but wait,

735
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 7: is this love though?

736
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: Like how do you know?

737
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, especially when this is acceptable in society. This is

738
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 2: acceptable when you want to become a singer and you

739
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 2: go and try and get signed to record label. Yes, yeah,

740
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 2: Like the needle has moved a lot, but so much

741
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 2: in society, especially as a woman, especially as a black woman,

742
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 2: Like we are always at the bottom of the list,

743
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 2: and so we're always supposed to be taking shit. We're

744
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 2: always supposed to be so thankful, We're always supposed to

745
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 2: be doing all the work. It should be Stacy Abrams.

746
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 2: It should be taraship head to make all the money.

747
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:29,800
Speaker 2: You know, it should be fucking every do you know

748
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:31,279
Speaker 2: what I mean? Like, it should be all of us

749
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 2: at the fucking top and the first on everybody's list.

750
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:35,760
Speaker 5: But we're not sis.

751
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:40,280
Speaker 7: That's why I love you, because you are about that life.

752
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 7: Like we are always the last to be protected as well. Yeah,

753
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,879
Speaker 7: I swear to you. It's so sad how you could

754
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 7: have a man a white woman make the same mistakes

755
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 7: that a black woman would make and they will get

756
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 7: it pass. But that black woman, it's almost like we

757
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 7: have no room to grow, no room to elevate, no

758
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 7: room to discover or to learnch no room for error.

759
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 5: And you know, no room for era. And era is

760
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 5: not a bad thing.

761
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 7: Era is actually part of the process of life.

762
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:15,360
Speaker 5: So we should be able to live.

763
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 7: Life and make little mistakes as we go along and

764
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 7: embrace that experience.

765
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 5: So we could grow.

766
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 7: But the second we make a little mistake, the black men,

767
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 7: the black women, they will literally rip us apart.

768
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 5: And it's sad that we.

769
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 7: Don't support each other and cover and protect each other,

770
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 7: especially the black woman.

771
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 2: I mean, it's also been ingrained in us, right, Like

772
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 2: that is also the part of the generational trauma that

773
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:44,280
Speaker 2: like we are trying to like unpack because there's always

774
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 2: gonna just be one chair at the table for us, yes,

775
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 2: and so it's still that shit. And I'm just like,

776
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 2: for me trying to just even work in television and

777
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 2: create a beautiful safe space for all types all types

778
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,440
Speaker 2: of black people, especially in New York. Yes, you know,

779
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 2: some people did come with their trauma, and I was like, Okay,

780
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,400
Speaker 2: I understand what this is coming from, but that's not

781
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 2: what this is. And you know, it's sort of like

782
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 2: that cage animal energy. Sometimes you got to like, yeah,

783
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 2: force the love into someone.

784
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 7: Yep, how much can I talk right now because something's

785
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 7: coming up that I want to talk about. Because do

786
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 7: it what I've seen you experience as an executive producer

787
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:30,840
Speaker 7: and creator of your show. I have experience as a director,

788
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 7: like being a black woman coming into my career as

789
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:37,879
Speaker 7: a director. Some people weren't embracing that because they felt like, oh, well,

790
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 7: you just do it. You've just been doing Tyler Perry movies.

791
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 7: You ain't you know what you know? Like literally, like

792
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 7: people like kind of moved me aside, and I had

793
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 7: to really work hard without a lot of support.

794
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 5: I had more black men try to tear me.

795
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 7: Down and try to say, oh, well, she's just an

796
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 7: acting teacher and she don't know what she's doing yet

797
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 7: and let me see her little shot list and dah

798
00:36:58,040 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 7: dah da da da.

799
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 3: You know, Okay, I did that one time, and you know,

800
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Okay, no, but you know.

801
00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 7: But but seriously, like I have seen more people try

802
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 7: to intentionally find something wrong with my process, with my work.

803
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:22,400
Speaker 7: Either I'm too loud, either I'm too strong, either I

804
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,960
Speaker 7: act like I'm too confident. Either you know, I got

805
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 7: too much to say or too much opinion. But isn't

806
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,800
Speaker 7: that what you hired me for to have an opinion,

807
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:31,640
Speaker 7: to have a perspective.

808
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:31,799
Speaker 5: You know?

809
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 7: And with Michelle, Michelle has such a spirit of excellence.

810
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 7: Like when you see Survival of the Thickest, it is

811
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 7: Michelle Buteaux. Like Michelle Beteaux picked out these characters, picked

812
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:50,840
Speaker 7: out the hair, the makeup, the whole world. Her fingerprint

813
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:55,200
Speaker 7: was all over. She had the vision for the story,

814
00:37:55,400 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 7: the vision for the esthetic. And the saddest thing for me,

815
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 7: and I swear to you, were the black women that

816
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 7: I've witnessed talking shit.

817
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 5: And it really makes me sick and sad.

818
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 7: And for me coming out of a place where I

819
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 7: had all the people coming against me trying to ruin

820
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 7: my career, trying to give these negative opinions about me,

821
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 7: And I'm like, this is a sister that had the

822
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 7: vision to write the book, to sell the book, to

823
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:29,320
Speaker 7: get the show done.

824
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:30,840
Speaker 5: I'm gonna have her back.

825
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 7: I'm gonna go to war, like we have to do

826
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 7: everything that we can to protect this black woman's vision, purpose, passion,

827
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 7: all of it, right, my goodness, all of it you.

828
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 5: Because it ain't easy. It's not easy to do what

829
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 5: she's doing. It's not easy for me to do what

830
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 5: I'm doing.

831
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 7: It's not easy to show up as the only black

832
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 7: woman as the leader directing, you know, the pilot for

833
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 7: BMF all this male energy and all of that, and

834
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 7: you know, walk in confidence and not let any of

835
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:08,240
Speaker 7: that stuff get in the way. We already have mental

836
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 7: hurdles that we already have to get over. We don't

837
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 7: need no motherfucking is coming in and fucking with us

838
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 7: for no reason.

839
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 1: That's right.

840
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 3: We're doing the work of people that have oppressed us

841
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:20,400
Speaker 3: for a long time by ourselves. Yes, yeah, you know

842
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,360
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like, yeah, And I was gonna just

843
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 3: say thank you for this discourse, because this positive discourse

844
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 3: and this very like intense love that you are showing

845
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 3: Michelle right now is beautiful in light of what has

846
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:34,360
Speaker 3: been all over Black Twitter, the Kat Williams of it

847
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 3: all to see you, Tasha, like really just pour out

848
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,760
Speaker 3: your love for Michelle, like this is a beautiful moment.

849
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 3: Because although that Kat Williams interview may be entertaining, it

850
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 3: gets us nowhere, you know.

851
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 5: It gets us nowhere, it really doesn't.

852
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 7: And when I think about just using Kevin Hart as

853
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 7: an example, one of the nicest men in the world,

854
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 7: like Kevin Hart is literally the nice I've known him forever,

855
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 7: always been the same, nicest guy. But also when you

856
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 7: think about the empire that he has built, he is

857
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 7: responsible for paying for so.

858
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:12,280
Speaker 5: Many people's livelihoods.

859
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:16,839
Speaker 7: You know, what he's created within his empire has blessed

860
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 7: so many.

861
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:21,320
Speaker 5: People and still blessing so many people. And we need

862
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:22,760
Speaker 5: the Kevin Hartz.

863
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 7: We need those guys to continue to do what we're doing.

864
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 5: Why try to tear it down? Do you follow what

865
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 5: I'm saying?

866
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 7: We need to inspire people and actually celebrate you know,

867
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 7: the winds that people have had.

868
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:38,879
Speaker 5: You follow me, you.

869
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,320
Speaker 7: Know, we all probably you know was laying in bed

870
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 7: looking at that.

871
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 5: Kind of getting a giggle here and there again.

872
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:49,879
Speaker 1: A lot.

873
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,359
Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean, ultimately it's just like where's again

874
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 2: in us, it's it's us turning against each other, and

875
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 2: so like, people have tried to steal my ship a lot,

876
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 2: and you know what, you can't steal me.

877
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:01,880
Speaker 1: You can't steal my mind.

878
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:03,399
Speaker 2: So it's just like I'm gonna come up with more

879
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 2: shit and then you do the Kirkland version.

880
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:08,839
Speaker 5: Right the k you know what I mean?

881
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:14,720
Speaker 1: Like whatever? Okay.

882
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 2: So we get some questions from the audience about adulting

883
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 2: that we try to answer, and I don't know why

884
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 2: they ask us, because you know, we like to walk

885
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 2: and we care about people.

886
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:25,240
Speaker 1: Jordan, do you want to go first?

887
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,799
Speaker 3: I'll take the first one, Okay, all right, so here

888
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,440
Speaker 3: we go. I have been a vegetarian for ten years

889
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 3: and my partner keeps trying to get me to eat meat.

890
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 3: I really don't want to, but he won't stop pushing it.

891
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 3: Oh how do I get him to respect my boundaries?

892
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 5: Damn?

893
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,240
Speaker 1: Okay, eat me, eat me? Okay?

894
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 3: I was like that, take it easy, but.

895
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 5: Wait, hiss me right.

896
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 1: I was just like meat, she's supposed to like, come down.

897
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: I will say this though, I will say that.

898
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 2: When I met my husband, I wasn't eating red meat

899
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:02,879
Speaker 2: because America, you know, you could taste it in the food.

900
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:04,320
Speaker 1: The government doesn't care about the people.

901
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:06,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, So there was a lot of things I wasn't

902
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 2: eating because I was like, Oh, the government's gonna try

903
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 2: and get me sick. I can't drink the water, I

904
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 2: can't eat the food. I gotta boil the shit out

905
00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 2: of it. Like I was on that right. And when

906
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 2: I went to Holland and he's like, this steak is

907
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:21,279
Speaker 2: from this farm. Because I was a knee mack, you

908
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 2: know what I mean. I was like, do you see

909
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:25,439
Speaker 2: sparkly things or is it me? And he's like, you're

910
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 2: not supposed to be eating the dirt out of the plant.

911
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, Like when you're like very that's what

912
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 2: you want to do, right, And so I had the

913
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:34,760
Speaker 2: steak and I was like, this is game changing.

914
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 3: You know.

915
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 2: I think for someone who has like a very big

916
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:41,839
Speaker 2: culinary like vocabulary or appetite or whatever the fuck, they

917
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 2: want to be with someone that can eat the food

918
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:45,279
Speaker 2: with them.

919
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,800
Speaker 1: But if she doesn't want to, then she ain't coust

920
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:49,760
Speaker 1: to like.

921
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 5: Exactly no, I mean, because I don't eat meat like,

922
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 5: I haven't eaten meat in years, right.

923
00:42:56,480 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 1: Bread, meat or dick? I'm so sorry?

924
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:08,280
Speaker 3: Wait, God coming back, God just kidding.

925
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

926
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 7: Okay, listen, could you imagine if I said I stopped

927
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 7: eating dick, like, no, let me stop? But no, will

928
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:18,840
Speaker 7: you look? And we know it's not dick, but it's.

929
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 3: Written next question.

930
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 5: I don't eat me and I don't want to eat it.

931
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 7: But the other day we had a party with Arthur

932
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 7: and he wanted some kind of prime rib and roast

933
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 7: and all this, and he begged me to taste it

934
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 7: because it was just so good.

935
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 5: Beg. He was like, Tasha, please just taste it. Just

936
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 5: taste it.

937
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 7: It's falling a bart And guess what. I tasted it.

938
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 7: He's my bff. And because I said, you know, I

939
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 7: just taste it for you, I tasted.

940
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 5: But now I'm not gonna like start eating it.

941
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 7: And actually it wasn't even good to me because I

942
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 7: don't eat it. And I was shitting all night and

943
00:43:57,320 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 7: I was thinking it was just from that one bite.

944
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 1: Wow, I shouldn't.

945
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 7: Say that, So I shouldn't talk like that publicly.

946
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:08,320
Speaker 3: Why this is an adulting an adult?

947
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:10,240
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, it's very adult fucket.

948
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 3: You tell us the story of a real messed up

949
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:16,240
Speaker 3: green eggs and ham experience you had. That's great.

950
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 7: You know.

951
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 1: This person has been a vegetarian for ten years.

952
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 4: That's admirable.

953
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 7: Yeah, but I'll say this, I took one bite to

954
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 7: shut Arthur up.

955
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 5: But I don't think that.

956
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 7: She'll be able to shut up her husband or her

957
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 7: partner if she takes one bite.

958
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 5: So at the end of the day, he should really.

959
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 7: Respect her boundaries just like she respects his, because she's

960
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 7: not trying to turn him into a vegetarian, because you know,

961
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 7: sometimes vegetarians do that.

962
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what I mean, especially if you're cooking.

963
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 5: You gotta cook.

964
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 7: Two meals, Like if your partner is a vegetarian and

965
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 7: you eat meat, then you always have to have vegetarian option,

966
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,800
Speaker 7: meat option, you know what I mean, so that everybody

967
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 7: can be happy. So it becomes a little more work, right.

968
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:00,720
Speaker 7: But I think at the end of the day, respect

969
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:03,319
Speaker 7: the boundaries of each other period. And I don't know

970
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 7: what the big deal is about her eating meat anyway,

971
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 7: leave her alone. Shit.

972
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:10,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like they probably live in a place

973
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:12,840
Speaker 2: that doesn't have a lot of vegetarian options, you know,

974
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 2: what I mean like, there are some places like that

975
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 2: still where I'm just.

976
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 1: Like how and why? It's your call and figure bug out.

977
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 2: But a food does if anything, he should take on

978
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 2: the responsibility and the challenge of making delicious vegetarian meals.

979
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 2: Get some jackfruit neck like as oxtail bitch.

980
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:31,319
Speaker 5: Absolutely hello, Hello, put some curry in that shit?

981
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 2: Okay, Next question, net Oh, okay, Okay, it's a sex question, y'all?

982
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 1: Oh boy, oh dear okay, Jordan.

983
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 3: Jordan, Where's mine?

984
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 4: Haler?

985
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:42,880
Speaker 3: Minehaler?

986
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 4: Honey, Haler.

987
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 2: I do appreciate this question because it's just like who

988
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:51,399
Speaker 2: can I run to when I need love?

989
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 3: Go ahead?

990
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:52,360
Speaker 1: Okay?

991
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 2: Reverse cowgirl hurts. I feel like I am not built

992
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:58,360
Speaker 2: for it? Does this feel good for people? Am I

993
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 2: doing it wrong? I feel like I'm gonna is dick

994
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 2: legitimate question?

995
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:05,399
Speaker 6: Well, good for you for for having somebody to fuck

996
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:06,760
Speaker 6: going to break his dick?

997
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 5: Does he have a lamp dick or something? Is his

998
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 5: dick like a hook?

999
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: Like like a question mark?

1000
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 5: Yeah? Like like is it a question mark dick?

1001
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:18,320
Speaker 1: I love that question? Ask question answered?

1002
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:21,319
Speaker 3: My goodness, Jesus, take it.

1003
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:25,319
Speaker 5: Good. Michelle. What you got to say?

1004
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:27,279
Speaker 2: Well, I would just want to explain to people because

1005
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:31,680
Speaker 2: this is an international podcast full of foolery. Yeah, the

1006
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 2: best kind of fucker you'd ever want. So, first, col girl,

1007
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 2: you are sitting your back is to your partner, but

1008
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:40,239
Speaker 2: you're sitting on top of them. Sometimes you gotta put

1009
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 2: your legs up on their thighs to like get a

1010
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 2: little uh movement.

1011
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,240
Speaker 1: Arch What am I like an architect?

1012
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 5: You know? You know, you know what it is?

1013
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 1: You know what like I don't know the words for it,

1014
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 1: but I know what it is. Here let me show you, guys.

1015
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 5: Hi, I love that about Michelle. Michelle is gonna give

1016
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:02,800
Speaker 5: her life honey, like she's a little sex kid. And

1017
00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 5: now I hope y'all know that.

1018
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:06,919
Speaker 7: Okay, but look everyone, you got a body. I got

1019
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 7: a body, sexy, Okay, it's a good.

1020
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:10,960
Speaker 1: Good body.

1021
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is I applaud this person for

1022
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 2: trying different sex moves because everyone is doing missionary or

1023
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 2: on top or like doggy, and I get it, Like

1024
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 2: you want to try some stuff, but maybe like if

1025
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 2: it's hurting and it's not enjoyable, don't keep trying because

1026
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:28,279
Speaker 2: you're not gonna enjoy it. You're gonna like think about

1027
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 2: Oh no, it's gonna hurt before you get in there. Oh,

1028
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:32,400
Speaker 2: you don't want to like fuck up your coop. You

1029
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,759
Speaker 2: don't fuck up your pumpum, and you're really gonna fuck

1030
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 2: up your journey to at least like getting an orgasm right,

1031
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 2: So you know, maybe google or go to a sex

1032
00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 2: shop and figure out what kind of sex positions are

1033
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 2: good for you, perhaps, like try laying on your side

1034
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 2: and he's standing.

1035
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 5: I mean, but what makes you think, like, why is it?

1036
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:52,879
Speaker 5: Like does it hurt? You know what I mean?

1037
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 4: It's hurting him, it's hurting him.

1038
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 5: Oh, it's hurting the guy.

1039
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:57,600
Speaker 1: Oh I thought it was hurting her.

1040
00:47:58,360 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 4: It's hurting him.

1041
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:00,560
Speaker 3: She says.

1042
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 4: She doesn't want to break off his dick.

1043
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 2: She says, reverse cowgirl hurts. I feel like I'm not

1044
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,280
Speaker 2: built for this. It does this feel good for people?

1045
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 2: Am I doing it wrong?

1046
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 3: Oh? Wait? Hurts?

1047
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:10,439
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm gonna break his stick off?

1048
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:13,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it is a very it's one of the

1049
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 2: more athletic positions.

1050
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 1: I will say this, if you can't stand right, she

1051
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:17,760
Speaker 1: might be short.

1052
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 4: This one.

1053
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 1: You need a weight limit and a big dick.

1054
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 7: I haven't done a reverse cowgirl in a long time.

1055
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 2: So it's not for everybody, and you don't have to

1056
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 2: do it a lot. It's one of those things you

1057
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 2: don't have to do a lot. Get some lingerie.

1058
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 5: I don't remember it hurting.

1059
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:37,359
Speaker 2: Okay, none of it should hurt.

1060
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 3: I just want to say on the other end of

1061
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:43,359
Speaker 3: the line, I've been on the other end of that sick.

1062
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:44,920
Speaker 1: Yes, that makes sense.

1063
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 3: And by the way, there is a little pain in

1064
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 3: the pleasure, not from just.

1065
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:52,320
Speaker 1: Say it, Jordan, It's okay, it's okay.

1066
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just saying, you know, I'm just saying that

1067
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:56,919
Speaker 3: my John Thomas has hurt. Every once in a while.

1068
00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 3: It's a little painful.

1069
00:48:58,120 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 5: So does it hurt sometimes?

1070
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 3: Jordan's seriously, sometimes sometimes you know what, you fucking buck up?

1071
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 7: You.

1072
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is nice to try and figure it out.

1073
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:10,799
Speaker 3: If your copilot is almost gonna land that plane, you

1074
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 3: just you just stay in there. You stay in there, right,

1075
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:15,800
Speaker 3: and you focus, and you just get it, get the

1076
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:17,279
Speaker 3: fucking job done, and.

1077
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 5: Just try to protect the dick. Though, because you don't

1078
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 5: break in.

1079
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 7: The dick is gonna be worse than whenever that moment

1080
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:25,400
Speaker 7: of yeah.

1081
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:28,320
Speaker 2: Can I just say this is hilarious because all of

1082
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 2: our answers are like very much of our personality.

1083
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:33,960
Speaker 1: Like Jordan is just like a coach of Friday Night Lights.

1084
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 1: He's like, get in there and just make sure you

1085
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:38,759
Speaker 1: do it. And then of course Tasha is just.

1086
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:40,920
Speaker 2: Like, but make sure everybody's okay, make sure his dick

1087
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 2: is gonna be okay, gonna be okay.

1088
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,359
Speaker 1: And for me, I'm just like, try something else. It's

1089
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 1: it's not the only thing.

1090
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 5: I think.

1091
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:50,480
Speaker 3: Yes, I do believe in trying something else. I do

1092
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:52,319
Speaker 3: believe in trying something else. But I also think there

1093
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 3: is a small amount. It comes with a small amount

1094
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:56,759
Speaker 3: of pain. It's not it's not like a big deal,

1095
00:49:57,080 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 3: if I may. It's not the tip, it's not the kuevos.

1096
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 3: It's like just it's the middle part. It's the handle,

1097
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:06,760
Speaker 3: it's the gutters, it's the gutters along the side. Oh

1098
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 3: my god, got it interesting? Thanks, But you gotta.

1099
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:12,840
Speaker 2: Lean more forward, all the way forward or all the

1100
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:14,240
Speaker 2: way back. You can't be in the middle.

1101
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,440
Speaker 7: Yeah, but why try to do something that you're just

1102
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:19,800
Speaker 7: not comfortable doing because.

1103
00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 1: You've done the other stuff for too long until you're bored.

1104
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 2: And number two, they've probably been watching porn and they're

1105
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:25,040
Speaker 2: just like, I want to try that.

1106
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: But that ain't for everybody.

1107
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 5: That ain't for everybody.

1108
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:29,480
Speaker 1: That ain't for everybody.

1109
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 4: You're professionals, Yeah, they professionals.

1110
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:36,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, take it easy, like what you went rollers getting

1111
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 2: once and all of a sudden you're gonna enter the Olympics.

1112
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 1: Stop.

1113
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:41,799
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, just remember that you were amateurs. And the

1114
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:44,439
Speaker 3: thing about amateur is it comes from an old Greek

1115
00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 3: word oh more for love. Okay, so we do it

1116
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:50,600
Speaker 3: for the love. Oh my god, professionals do it because

1117
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 3: there's an only fans attached. Yeah, leave it to them.

1118
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 5: Leave it to them.

1119
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 2: We actually do have time for one more question. I

1120
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 2: just got word from our producer. Okay, are you ready?

1121
00:50:59,360 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 5: Yep?

1122
00:50:59,640 --> 00:50:59,879
Speaker 3: Yes.

1123
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:02,280
Speaker 1: I started dating a guy and he's really sweet.

1124
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:06,040
Speaker 2: But his dog is truly the worst, not trained, jumps

1125
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 2: on you when you walk in the room, jumps on

1126
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:10,799
Speaker 2: you when you're sleeping, piece inside the house. This relationship

1127
00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 2: is so new, but I can't handle the dog. Do

1128
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 2: I bring it up and try to help train the dog?

1129
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:16,720
Speaker 2: Do I run away and end things?

1130
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 1: Now?

1131
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 7: Wow, I'm gonna say, try to bring it up and

1132
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 7: help train the dog. Really, don't run from the relationship

1133
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 7: because of the dog, because like, look at Arthur.

1134
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:32,279
Speaker 5: Arthur has a dog that was out of control.

1135
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:36,560
Speaker 7: I could not stand his dogshit, Like literally, his dog

1136
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:39,280
Speaker 7: would jump up on the tables while we were eating,

1137
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:42,839
Speaker 7: and I didn't want to, like stop spending time with him.

1138
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:48,040
Speaker 7: So I found him a dog trainer. Wow, yes, smart,

1139
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:51,520
Speaker 7: that's adults. And the dog went away with the dog

1140
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:54,279
Speaker 7: trainer for like three weeks or something like that.

1141
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, the little bitch came back perfect. And then.

1142
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:06,239
Speaker 7: Should I not say that an get a job?

1143
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:13,879
Speaker 5: But then I gotta say this.

1144
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 7: Arthur started letting the dog do whatever he wanted to do,

1145
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 7: and the dog ended up going back to his own ways.

1146
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:27,799
Speaker 7: So you gotta talk to your partner. I think he

1147
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:30,279
Speaker 7: might love the way this dog is too. I don't

1148
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 7: know what do you think, Michelle. It is the owner.

1149
00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 7: It isn't always the dog, right like it is the parent.

1150
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:39,719
Speaker 7: It isn't always the child. And so you know, this

1151
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 7: is how he sees It's okay. And for me, the

1152
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:45,520
Speaker 7: way you do one thing is the way you do everything.

1153
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:48,840
Speaker 7: And I wouldn't want to be with someone like that. Yeah,

1154
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 7: so I would probably walk away.

1155
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 5: Wow, what would you do, Jordan?

1156
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 4: That's a good question, great question.

1157
00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 3: I love it.

1158
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:58,360
Speaker 4: My dog is broken, his soul is broken.

1159
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:02,200
Speaker 3: He is the best. I love my dog. Leah was

1160
00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:05,240
Speaker 3: a perfect dog. He never stepped on my shoe. Oh

1161
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 3: you don't step on my shoe. Oh Lord, And let

1162
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 3: me tell you something. Okay, that's that's an inside joke.

1163
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:11,360
Speaker 3: You don't know about that toash, But okay, So here's

1164
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:14,760
Speaker 3: the deal. I am married into a family that doesn't

1165
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:18,840
Speaker 3: believe in training dogs ew and I love them, but

1166
00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:22,880
Speaker 3: it causes all kinds of accommodation that you have to

1167
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 3: make when that dog comes to your house, you know.

1168
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 3: And that is really that's tough. And we work on

1169
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:31,480
Speaker 3: that all the time because when training a dog, you're

1170
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:34,719
Speaker 3: actually training the owner. You train the owner to understand

1171
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:37,560
Speaker 3: that their dog is going to talk to other people

1172
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:40,360
Speaker 3: and you talk, is going to is going to interact

1173
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:42,759
Speaker 3: with other people. Yeah, and that you're getting the dog

1174
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:45,880
Speaker 3: ready for not life with you, but life out in

1175
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:46,840
Speaker 3: the world, you know.

1176
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:49,840
Speaker 4: And it's big picture. It's a big picture.

1177
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 2: I just want to say that, yeah, And I would

1178
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 2: actually be like, I can't do this because of your dog.

1179
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 2: Because if you're losing enough in your life and people

1180
00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 2: are walking away and don't want to fuck with you

1181
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 2: because of your dog. Then you're you might say, oh shit,

1182
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 2: I gotta do something about this dog, or is this

1183
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:03,399
Speaker 2: gonna be you and your dog?

1184
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:06,319
Speaker 1: Because I like, for me, I can't.

1185
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 7: Peeing everywhere and shit, oh no, no doesn't know.

1186
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 4: If it's not house trained at a minimum, at a minimum.

1187
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 5: Listen.

1188
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 2: Okay, well this has been just fucking wonderful. I could

1189
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,279
Speaker 2: just keep you here for three more hours, but this

1190
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 2: is it. We have one more question for you, and

1191
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:25,319
Speaker 2: we ask all our guests Okay, what is the most

1192
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 2: adult thing you want to do for yourself that you

1193
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:28,800
Speaker 2: haven't had a chance to do yet this year? And

1194
00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:30,759
Speaker 2: it could be anything big or small. A lot of

1195
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 2: people say, take trips where where Junior want to go

1196
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 2: to Japan? And like go to a baseball game. I

1197
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 2: want to figure out salad dressing, like we all over

1198
00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:42,280
Speaker 2: the place. So what's the one thing that's very adult

1199
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:43,880
Speaker 2: that you want to do for yourself that you haven't

1200
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 2: had a chance to do?

1201
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:45,919
Speaker 3: Most grown thing?

1202
00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 7: This This might sound kind of real corny. I don't know,

1203
00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 7: but I I want to replant some new trees.

1204
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 5: In my backyard.

1205
00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 1: I love this.

1206
00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:01,880
Speaker 7: I just started getting into plant and stuff right and

1207
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:04,960
Speaker 7: this is like one of my newest plants.

1208
00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:05,600
Speaker 3: And that's real.

1209
00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:07,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's real, and it's just so beautiful.

1210
00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1211
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 7: And I want some some different kinds of trees in

1212
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:16,319
Speaker 7: my backyard so that when I go out there, I

1213
00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:20,520
Speaker 7: feel more cozy and you know, inspired, and it's more beautiful.

1214
00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:22,480
Speaker 5: So that's one of the adult.

1215
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 7: Things I want to do, and I got it. I

1216
00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 7: just did one thing yesterday.

1217
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:28,640
Speaker 5: I got a new hot water heater.

1218
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 7: Yes, like one of those tankless hot water heaters.

1219
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:34,759
Speaker 5: That was an adult ass thing.

1220
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:36,640
Speaker 3: I have one on my wall in the base.

1221
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 4: You do, yeah, I feel you, girl.

1222
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 3: We got the European kind.

1223
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 8: Yo.

1224
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 3: Look at us, Come on, look at us.

1225
00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:45,359
Speaker 5: I mean that is some adult shit.

1226
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:47,480
Speaker 7: I'm like, I own a house, I got a new

1227
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:49,799
Speaker 7: hot water heater, I got plants, and I'm about to.

1228
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:53,280
Speaker 5: Replant some trees in the backyard. Tasha, I'm grown as fuck.

1229
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 5: You am a grown ass woman's right.

1230
00:55:56,080 --> 00:56:00,759
Speaker 1: I love that. I know we're ending the episode.

1231
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:04,839
Speaker 2: I know that we're on a time crunch, but I

1232
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:08,759
Speaker 2: would kick myself in my high yellow hooker ass if

1233
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:11,319
Speaker 2: I did not say that.

1234
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:13,319
Speaker 1: I just love you so much, Tasha, and I love

1235
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 1: working with you.

1236
00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:16,719
Speaker 2: And you know this is like Marley is a very

1237
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:20,319
Speaker 2: special character to me, and what you've done with her

1238
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:24,399
Speaker 2: is like I mean, I mean, like I can't even

1239
00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 2: there's no words, you know what I mean, Like my

1240
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 2: vocabulary is limited when it comes to how much I

1241
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:33,239
Speaker 2: love you and your work and and your allyship, like

1242
00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:36,520
Speaker 2: even you know, I remember, you know, before the show

1243
00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 2: even came out, you posted a really hot, steamy picture

1244
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:43,279
Speaker 2: with you, you know, kissing some girl and the like

1245
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 2: that seeing in the gym and the amount of hate

1246
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 2: spewed at you and the homophobic bullshit, and I realized, like,

1247
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:55,360
Speaker 2: you know, I put you in this position and I

1248
00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 2: asked you to come along and do this, and you

1249
00:56:57,640 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 2: know it must be like really difficult for you. And

1250
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,279
Speaker 2: I mean you said, like the best thing. Her quotes

1251
00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:04,799
Speaker 2: are amazing, but you said a lot of things, but

1252
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:08,320
Speaker 2: the one thing that really stands out was fuck those motherfuckers.

1253
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:09,920
Speaker 1: Next season, I want to fuck the.

1254
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 2: Biggest blackest bitch and they got a watch and deal

1255
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:16,400
Speaker 2: with that shit. And I said, this is my I

1256
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:20,280
Speaker 2: rolle with Tasha, because that is fucking amazing.

1257
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:25,480
Speaker 7: I can't wait and thank you and I love you

1258
00:57:25,600 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 7: so much. You literally make my heart happy. And Jordan's

1259
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:33,800
Speaker 7: when I come to New York. I want to hang

1260
00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 7: out with y'all.

1261
00:57:34,840 --> 00:57:36,480
Speaker 5: Thank you guys for having me.

1262
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,200
Speaker 7: Let's try not to break any dicks off while we're

1263
00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 7: doing reverse cols.

1264
00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 6: Your words, nor words, Michelle, ID No, it's so cool.

1265
00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:57,440
Speaker 1: Isn't she not a ray of motherfucking sunshine?

1266
00:57:57,880 --> 00:57:58,720
Speaker 5: Liquid gold?

1267
00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:01,880
Speaker 3: If you ask me, true, it felt like what I

1268
00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:04,000
Speaker 3: was getting was like, I'll take a bullet for you.

1269
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:07,080
Speaker 3: That's how she feels about you, buddy, that's what she feels.

1270
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:10,360
Speaker 3: She would do anything for you. And she's an artist

1271
00:58:10,400 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 3: who appreciates good people like yourself and good things you're

1272
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 3: trying to do.

1273
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 2: Also, you know she is an actor and producer and

1274
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 2: a dope director. Yeah, and you know for season two

1275
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:24,320
Speaker 2: of Survival to think is she will be directing some episodes.

1276
00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:26,360
Speaker 3: Oh, fantastic, fantastic.

1277
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:30,280
Speaker 2: So it's like, wow, do we not love to see

1278
00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 2: black women when we motherfucking do? So I am very

1279
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 2: excited and like, I hope you know that I would.

1280
00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:38,520
Speaker 2: I wouldn't take a bullet for you, but I would do.

1281
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 1: Anything for you.

1282
00:58:39,520 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1283
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 1: No, no, that's not I know, that's not why you

1284
00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:45,080
Speaker 1: said it. You're fucking weirdo.

1285
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 3: I'm just letting you know, well, thank you, Michelle. I

1286
00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:52,720
Speaker 3: appreciate it. I appreciate that friend, I do. And I

1287
00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 3: was just gonna say that I didn't get to give

1288
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:58,800
Speaker 3: her her flowers on this. But my favorite scene Marley

1289
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:01,400
Speaker 3: scene is like in the final episode when you're like

1290
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:04,080
Speaker 3: laid up in the hospital just giving things away.

1291
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, episode seven.

1292
00:59:05,360 --> 00:59:08,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry, penultimate excuse me, when you're in

1293
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 3: the hospital and she's like, can I get up black

1294
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:12,920
Speaker 3: doctor up in here? Yeah? Can I get off black doctor?

1295
00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:15,000
Speaker 2: Like that was like probably one of my most favorite

1296
00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:17,560
Speaker 2: scenes to write, because first of all, I had to

1297
00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:22,000
Speaker 2: google things that black women have invented, which is also.

1298
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:22,480
Speaker 1: Like very fun.

1299
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it was so cool.

1300
00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 2: I was like, really oh dope, but also like just

1301
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 2: to even have to turn a conversation you have with

1302
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:32,920
Speaker 2: friends going to the doctors and what that means as

1303
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:35,800
Speaker 2: a black woman, because you know, you talk about people

1304
00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:38,480
Speaker 2: thinking you have an attitude. So you're like, Okay, am

1305
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:41,880
Speaker 2: I waiting this long because it's me? Or is there

1306
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 2: really a line ahead of me? Soun't see anybody right,

1307
00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 2: I'm sorry? Can I ask a question? Or am I

1308
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:49,040
Speaker 2: bothering you about my body?

1309
00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 3: Yeah? It spoke to all that and then what a Yeah,

1310
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 3: it had this kind of like nice surprise at the end,

1311
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:56,560
Speaker 3: which is really cute too. And then I was just

1312
00:59:56,640 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 3: gonna say the nurse in that I took a workshop

1313
00:59:59,320 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 3: with that guy.

1314
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,640
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, diabetes, Am I gonna diabet it?

1315
01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 2: Like I mean when I was improving and just like

1316
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:07,560
Speaker 2: watching his face trying to stay still, I was like,

1317
01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:11,080
Speaker 2: you know, as a comedian in a scene when you're acting,

1318
01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:12,960
Speaker 2: you can like almost break someone.

1319
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:15,120
Speaker 1: You're like, fuck, yeah, I've done my.

1320
01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:17,760
Speaker 3: Job like you do me all the time. Yeah, okay,

1321
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:20,640
Speaker 3: so like but yeah, I just love the end of

1322
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:23,280
Speaker 3: that scene is ridiculous. I'm gonna try one more thing.

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Speaker 2: Well you know what, guy like I hope everyone enjoyed

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Speaker 2: this episode fully and I feel like the takeaway, hopefully

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Speaker 2: for y'all, is man, oh man, you are the company

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Speaker 2: you keep right, Yes, So like love on your friends.

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Speaker 2: Don't feel like you have to get through it with

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Speaker 2: your friends. Don't hang around people you don't like or

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Speaker 2: that don't pour into you the way you pour into them.

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Speaker 2: Fucking hang out with people you love, and work with

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Speaker 2: people that inspire you the end period.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely go each apasta.

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Speaker 1: Jordan, look at he got passed on the forecast. Are

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Speaker 1: you doing this whole? Episode from Olive Garden Bitch?

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Speaker 4: Bye everyone, This has been an exactly right production.

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Speaker 1: Our senior producer is g how Lee.

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Speaker 4: Art Associate producer is Christina Chamberlain.

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Speaker 1: This episode was mixed by John Bradley.

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Speaker 4: Our guest booker is Patrick Cottner.

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Speaker 1: Additional production support from Hannah Kyle Crichton.

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Speaker 3: Theme song and live show DJing is by DJ don Will,

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Speaker 3: artwork by Jamie.

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Speaker 1: Bechtel, Photography by Heis vander Moss.

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Speaker 3: Executive produced by Karen Kilgera, Georgia Hartstark, and Daniel Kramer.

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Speaker 1: Follow the show on Instagram at Adulting the Pod.

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Speaker 3: Email your questions to Adulting Questions at gmail dot com.