1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,560 Speaker 1: It is time right now to ask the DLO. You 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: hear my Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is from 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: Dorry and Hateville. Dory writes, my mom and I went 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:11,880 Speaker 1: on a girl's trip and I didn't know one of 5 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: her girlfriends was joining us. I saw a different side 6 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:17,759 Speaker 1: of my mom and I don't like it. So what 7 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: if she's still under fifty, she's still married to my dad? 8 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 1: Can I talked about Can I talk to her about 9 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 1: her thoughtish behavior? 10 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 2: Wow? 11 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: Judge much sod her? 12 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 2: You can't? You can talk to her about it. I 13 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 2: don't really think it's gonna change nothing. Maybe you're just 14 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 2: uncovering something about her that's always been there. I mean, 15 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 2: and I got news for you. I bet you she 16 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 2: know I bet you she know what she's doing. Yeah. Well, yeah, 17 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 2: whatever you bring up, I bet she already know that. Yeah. 18 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 2: So since it bothered you, you can go ahead and 19 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:08,680 Speaker 2: talk to her about it. But you're gonna be surprised. 20 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 2: Little girl, Get ready to get ready to take yourself 21 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 2: too avil and sit house. 22 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 1: What gonna say. 23 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:18,759 Speaker 2: You a headache? 24 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:20,839 Speaker 1: What is she gonna say? 25 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 2: I don't know what she gonna say because I ain't 26 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 2: never been a thought before. But whatever she say to her, 27 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 2: baby girl, it's gonna be shocking. I'll tell you that. Wow. 28 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: All right, Moving on to Brittany and Philly, this is 29 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:39,680 Speaker 1: how we do it. Brittany writes, my boyfriend has been 30 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: cutting yards all summer, cutting yards all summer for extra money. 31 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: And when I found out, I was embarrassed. I told 32 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 1: him to start a landscaping business instead of being a 33 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: yard man. His full time job is teaching. How do 34 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: I get him to start thinking bigger? 35 00:01:56,640 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 2: Wait a minute, what's wrong with you? You trying to 36 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 2: get him to start a landscaping business? What you think 37 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 2: cutting yards? Easy? What I want him to think bigger? 38 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 2: He ain't gonna think bigger with you. I can tell 39 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,079 Speaker 2: you that right now. Stop all that cutting that grass 40 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 2: and get yourself alone escaping business. 41 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 1: And she's embarrassed. 42 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 2: What is you cutting grass? Folk, when you could be 43 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 2: landscaping the grass. I'm done. I'm down. Shouldn't have been 44 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 2: there with this. You want lawn more? You need to 45 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 2: I think bigger, lady. I don't understand what you're talking about. 46 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 2: You're dating a man. You don't think that that's what 47 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 2: he's created. You don't think that he considers this a 48 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 2: landscaping business on the side. 49 00:02:57,960 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 1: More designing. 50 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 2: Landscaping is more designing. 51 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: Right here here. 52 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, no no no no no no, 53 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 2: you would go big money Willie right here now, he 54 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:13,079 Speaker 2: wants to go out here and draw it. You don't 55 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 2: get it. Get out here and cut this grass something 56 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 2: they need. Everybody don't need no design. Everybody grass cut, 57 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:22,919 Speaker 2: come out here with no path, talking about I'm gonna 58 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 2: put some four hours. Your whole property has been designed. 59 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 2: That's that's landscape. That's your hope. 60 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 1: Your head is like dinosaurs. 61 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 2: One time one time? What one time? Somebody designed it? 62 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 2: Get cut every week? 63 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 1: Which job you all right? Think? Bigger Steve. 64 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 2: Man. This dude right here got him a little side hustle. 65 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 2: She embarrassed because he's cutting grass. I told him, get 66 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 2: a landscape cut little girl. 67 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: By and he's yeah, he's a teacher and we love 68 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 1: he is. 69 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 2: You're right, who in your neighborhood here and had somebody 70 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 2: come by their house to give them a landscaping design 71 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 2: other than Thomas Man. Everybody getting designs No no, no, 72 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 2: don't no, I don't no, don't they don't get designed. Caller, 73 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 2: did you and chosh, have a company come by and 74 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 2: design your landscape. 75 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,919 Speaker 3: Design when we got here, but I will talk. I 76 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 3: will say this, So what is it called when they 77 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:45,679 Speaker 3: come and they cut the grass, they put the mulch down, 78 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 3: they cut the shrubbery and plant the flowers and all 79 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 3: that is that landscaping? Isn't that landscape. 80 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 2: As as as a high dollar dollar high dollar high dollar. 81 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 2: Initially when they when you when you first build a house, 82 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 2: they got to design the shrubs and everything. 83 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: That's so when they the upkeep of that. 84 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 3: Is it? 85 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:15,239 Speaker 2: That is true? That is called landscaping. Read the side 86 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 2: of the trunk. Yes, it's a lawn service. Edges only 87 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 2: clippers on us. 88 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 1: All right, we're moving on because that touched a nerve 89 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: with you. 90 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:41,160 Speaker 2: Boy. I love where Ridge boy jumping here. 91 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 1: Moving on, We're moving over Jared and Tampa. Jared writes, 92 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 1: I have two daughters that are seven years old by 93 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 1: two different women. Their cousins tease them about being the 94 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 1: same age. But that's not But but that's on me, 95 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 1: not my daughters. Do I talk to the cousins or 96 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: should I start with the parents. How do I get 97 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 1: the teasing to stop? 98 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 2: Joel, I don't know what you ought to do. I 99 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 2: really don't. I don't even know how you are. Jared. Oh, 100 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 2: I thought you said Gerald. 101 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 1: Oh that makes a difference, Jared. 102 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 2: Still the same problem. The question is how. 103 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 1: Does he keep it? Stop the teasing? 104 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 2: Well, you can't stop the teasing, man. 105 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: That's what kids do. This is family. This is family. 106 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: They're being teased by their cousins. 107 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, we ain't gonna be able to stop that, though. 108 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 1: What are they saying? Ah, you guys are the same. 109 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 2: What are they saying? 110 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:41,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the same old joke every time we get together, right, 111 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 3: y'all the same age. 112 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:45,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what the joke is because that 113 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 2: ain't number. But that ain't number to fight in my family. 114 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 2: So I don't know what joke you're gonna tell, but 115 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:52,159 Speaker 2: it's gonna cost you. 116 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. 117 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: They're only seven though. 118 00:06:55,320 --> 00:07:01,600 Speaker 2: Wow, find some dirt out about it. Yeah, because there's 119 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 2: the two of us. We can make it if we try, 120 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:08,160 Speaker 2: just the two. 121 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: Of the Yeah. 122 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 2: No time for teas wasted waters all that. 123 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: Even Kenny doesn't want his daughter's hurt. 124 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 2: It don't make no flow, Papa Wilson, roll listen all right, 125 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 2: you're listening. 126 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: Hardy Morning Show