Speaker 1: Second date up dated.
Speaker 2: I just saw a dating study that found eighty six
Speaker 2: percent of women who make the first move will end
Speaker 2: up marrying that person who isn't that crazy.
Speaker 1: On me recently? This is great. Guys.
Speaker 2: If you ever see a girl walking towards you at
Speaker 2: a bar making eye.
Speaker 1: Contact, you need to run, okay.
Speaker 2: Or throw a glass of beer against the wall, pull
Speaker 2: the fire alarm, whatever distraction you need to make, because
Speaker 2: if she does successfully make contact, science says you're about
Speaker 2: to be tied to that woman.
Speaker 1: For reference, No, let me bring it up.
Speaker 2: Because one of our listeners, Julia, says that she recently
Speaker 2: made the first move on a guy for you, and
Speaker 2: now she needs our help. So Julia, can I assume
Speaker 2: you're also ready to walk down the aisle with him and.
Speaker 3: Say I do my gosh, yes, yes?
Speaker 4: Did you really just agree to that, Julia?
Speaker 1: Julia?
Speaker 3: Wait?
Speaker 4: Is she being sarcastic? Are you being sarcastic?
Speaker 1: No? Not?
Speaker 3: I mean I'm getting older and I also saw this
Speaker 3: study and I was like, you know what, I'm going
Speaker 3: to make it happen. I'm gonna be more proactive, all right?
Speaker 1: So who was your victim?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 1: So good choice of words there.
Speaker 3: I was going out with my girlfriend and I have
Speaker 3: this thing that I do where I go up to
Speaker 3: a guy and I'll ask him to take a photo
Speaker 3: of us. Okay, yes, dude, you're going to be a
Speaker 3: good photo.
Speaker 1: But that doesn't sound like it's the point. Is not
Speaker 1: a photo. Yeah, he's going to delete it immediately.
Speaker 2: But it helps you, like have a good icebreaker, I guess,
Speaker 2: in order to meet him.
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. And I think this was the third time
Speaker 3: I had done this, and we had this kind of chemistry,
Speaker 3: kind of awkward chemistry, but you can see, Okay, you guys.
Speaker 4: Are in a bar, he takes your photo.
Speaker 3: Yeah. So then I was like, oh, he already has
Speaker 3: my phone. I was like, do you wanna go for pie?
Speaker 3: And he was like what I thought we were going
Speaker 3: to say?
Speaker 4: Put your phone number in my son?
Speaker 2: Have we even have we even learned what his name
Speaker 2: is yet? Or are you just immediately asking him out
Speaker 2: to pot?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: We did names first.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, what is his name?
Speaker 3: Travis?
Speaker 1: Travis? Travis?
Speaker 4: Is the pie move what you did on the other
Speaker 4: two guys too?
Speaker 3: No, No, this was a new one for me. I
Speaker 3: was like, I saw the viral video of this cute
Speaker 3: little pie shop in our area, I don't think.
Speaker 1: Okay, but you're at a bar.
Speaker 4: Is it open still like pie shops are usually.
Speaker 3: We got our numbers and we were texting back and forth.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you're not doing pie that night, you're asking
Speaker 2: for a later date.
Speaker 1: You can meet up and get pot Okay, Yes, So.
Speaker 3: I picked him up because I was the one that
Speaker 3: suggested the dates.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the leaders, she knows where the pie is. Okay.
Speaker 3: And we come upon this house and I was like,
Speaker 3: this can't be it. We made a wrong turn at
Speaker 3: a house. Yeah, at a house, like a cute house
Speaker 3: with a porch. And then I see this little sign
Speaker 3: It says pies and with the arrow, and I was like, huh,
Speaker 3: this must be it.
Speaker 4: Oh my god. It feels even more.
Speaker 1: Legit now speak easy pie shop. That's awkward, weird? Oh,
Speaker 1: I think it's so exciting.
Speaker 2: You're just gonna walk into somebody's house and ask for
Speaker 2: her pies food.
Speaker 3: This is like when a grandma has tamales on the
Speaker 3: side of the wall.
Speaker 1: You want to buy those tamales.
Speaker 5: Bro.
Speaker 2: I can't believe you guys think this is so normal
Speaker 2: to just have a pie shop inside of somebody's home.
Speaker 4: I don't think it's normal. That's why I want the
Speaker 4: address to be able to go myself.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, what is it like inside? Was it sketch?
Speaker 3: We opened the door? Yeah, and it's a living room
Speaker 3: full of pies because like, I bet that smells.
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: And what is there like an employee there that's there
Speaker 2: to like help you pick out your pie?
Speaker 4: Employee?
Speaker 3: That was the weird part. There was no one there.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, So you broke into someone's empty home and
Speaker 2: stole their pies.
Speaker 4: Actually at this point, yeah, there was a sign jef
Speaker 4: it's legit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, as long as there's a welcome mat on the
Speaker 1: ground anywhere, any house, you can go into. My idea,
Speaker 1: this is sketchy. It's a pie with an arrow. Okay,
Speaker 1: So what do you do now that you're in this
Speaker 1: living room full of pies?
Speaker 3: Well, we're looking around, we're getting a little freaked out
Speaker 3: a little bit, and then we see this sign that
Speaker 3: says honor system. Yeah, okay, I go back to my car,
Speaker 3: gets the stag because we bought three three pie pies.
Speaker 1: Wow, a lot of pie? So do you take the pie?
Speaker 5: So?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you take the pies out? Like what do you do?
Speaker 1: Where do you eat them?
Speaker 3: Yeah? They had these plastic forks theras. Then I'll say, okay, well,
Speaker 3: I guess we'll just eat in the car, like because
Speaker 3: there's nowhere to sit.
Speaker 2: Wait, now you're having car pie.
Speaker 4: Yeah. I think it's really cute and romantic romantic state.
Speaker 1: Maybe for women, this is sounding very romantic.
Speaker 2: As a guy, I don't know if this is the
Speaker 2: hottest date I've ever seen.
Speaker 1: Romantic.
Speaker 3: It's fun.
Speaker 2: It is fun again for women, that sounds like a
Speaker 2: great time. I'm just not a sit in a car
Speaker 2: eat pie type of ga. But how did it go
Speaker 2: with you and Travis eating car pie?
Speaker 3: It was a little awkward?
Speaker 4: Okay? Why Why was it awkward.
Speaker 3: Because both of us are holding a pie and like
Speaker 3: eating it with a plastic fork?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Okay, I mean did it end like did you eat
Speaker 4: the whole pie?
Speaker 3: No? The problem I actually didn't really know how to
Speaker 3: end it, so I just went back to the beginning
Speaker 3: of how we first met, and I was like, can
Speaker 3: you take a picture of me eating this pie? That kind.
Speaker 1: I want to see this photo so bad. How did
Speaker 1: he react? Is it important?
Speaker 3: He was like, oh my gosh, yeah, it.
Speaker 4: Sounds like there was like a brief, awkward moment, like,
Speaker 4: it's not like he didn't do anything either.
Speaker 1: Sure, so how is it between you and Travis now?
Speaker 3: Question? Well, I dropped him on and I texted him
Speaker 3: and spent like cordial, but nothing like, Hey, let's go
Speaker 3: on another date.
Speaker 4: Okay, you should take him on a pastry tour of
Speaker 4: the city.
Speaker 1: I think we've had. You've done enough of like the
Speaker 1: bakery theme for once. Yeah, maybe just like Netflix and
Speaker 1: chill or a bar and like, I don't know, maybe
Speaker 1: more like a normal date.
Speaker 3: I can't even get him to ask me for another date,
Speaker 3: so let's just start there.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll see what he has to say when we
Speaker 2: come back and give him a call and try and
Speaker 2: get you your second date update a la mode right
Speaker 2: after that.
Speaker 1: Okay, second date update.
Speaker 2: You know what's more romantic than a quaint little pie
Speaker 2: shop in someone's empty living room?
Speaker 1: What, yeah, is taking.
Speaker 2: Those pies and walking twenty feet outside to the driveway
Speaker 2: and eating them in your car with plastic forks. Sounds
Speaker 2: like a scene from the TLC show My four hundred
Speaker 2: Pounds Life.
Speaker 1: Yes, but it's not.
Speaker 2: It's actually a date that our listener Julia went on
Speaker 2: with a guy named Travis, and she probably ended up
Speaker 2: throwing up from eating so much pie. And she didn't
Speaker 2: say that, but we do know that the guy she
Speaker 2: went out with is not initiating another hangout, which is.
Speaker 1: Disappointing to her. So she's turned to us for a
Speaker 1: little bit of help.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, have you texted him or anything? You
Speaker 4: said you talked a little bit.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's just kind of neutral. Hmmm.
Speaker 4: Did you introduce him to the best pie of his
Speaker 4: life and you get neutrality back?
Speaker 1: How dare he?
Speaker 3: I mean, he didn't go off on the pie like
Speaker 3: I did. I was like, Wow, this cherry delicious, and
Speaker 3: he was like, yeah, it's pretty good.
Speaker 4: Oh pretty good.
Speaker 1: You maybe a food and he's not.
Speaker 2: We're gonna find out when we call Travis right now.
Speaker 2: Hopefully he answers the phone and has some explanation.
Speaker 4: Yeah. I want to know.
Speaker 3: I want to know what's up because I can fix
Speaker 3: whatever the problem is.
Speaker 1: You can. Yeah, I like it. I like that attitude.
Speaker 4: That's attitude.
Speaker 1: I just hope his mouth isn't full when he picks
Speaker 1: up the phone. Here we go.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna dillas number right now. Hello, Hey, is this Travis? Yes,
Speaker 2: May I ask yes, you may. Thank you for asking
Speaker 2: permission for that. My name is jeff and I'm part
Speaker 2: of a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: In the Morning. And you are on that radio show
Speaker 1: right now.
Speaker 3: What what can I do for it?
Speaker 2: I was wondering, have you heard of a segment that
Speaker 2: we do on the radio sometimes called audio first Nobody?
Speaker 4: Nobody has heard of.
Speaker 2: Well, it's a great segment. You should listen to our
Speaker 2: podcast sometime at Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 4: But that's not that's not the segment you're on, Travis.
Speaker 2: We're doing a less fun segment than that called second
Speaker 2: Date Updates.
Speaker 1: Or or most Successful. But that's okay.
Speaker 2: Well yeah, but this is where we try and help
Speaker 2: out our listeners if they've gone out with somebody and
Speaker 2: they're not getting a call back afterwards, we try to
Speaker 2: help figure out the reason why.
Speaker 5: Well, okay, I'm a little little confused here, but yeah,
Speaker 5: I get.
Speaker 2: But really, to make it really simple, you went out
Speaker 2: with someone who really likes you and you haven't organized
Speaker 2: a second date yet.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and she's just wondering if maybe you're not interested,
Speaker 4: or if it's something maybe she could fix.
Speaker 1: Her name's Julia, Oh god, all right, that's a reaction. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to read what you meant by that. What
Speaker 1: what did you think of Julia?
Speaker 5: I mean she was nice and all nice? Yeah, I
Speaker 5: mean it was definitely a first Well.
Speaker 1: The part of your date.
Speaker 2: Here's the thing, man, she told us about what you
Speaker 2: guys did on your date.
Speaker 1: Go into the house that was a shop.
Speaker 4: It was like famous on TikTok and it was just
Speaker 4: like an honor system sitch.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was definitely a first time for that.
Speaker 1: I've never well, that's good.
Speaker 2: I would hope you don't go into a lot of
Speaker 2: random people's homes and take the pith.
Speaker 4: Was that kind of cool or what'd you think?
Speaker 3: No? I was like, what is going on here?
Speaker 1: It was just weird and no one was home.
Speaker 5: I feel like even though we left the right amount
Speaker 5: of money, I felt like I was feeling that ladies'
Speaker 5: pies right off the window.
Speaker 1: Still.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, and Julia was beat adventurous, try and set
Speaker 4: the new.
Speaker 3: That's definitely new.
Speaker 2: I don't know, Well, clearly that made you very uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: Was that more uncomfortable than going and eating car pie?
Speaker 1: Because we heard about that too about the city.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, like you can find a park. You
Speaker 5: got a picnic bench, real, you know, like that's final.
Speaker 5: When Nigo we were eating them in the car.
Speaker 4: Well, then why didn't you suggest that you could change something?
Speaker 4: I mean, if that was an idea of yours, why
Speaker 4: didn't you say, hey, you know what this is, it's fun,
Speaker 4: let's go somewhere and eat these.
Speaker 5: Because it was her date, she picked all of this stuff.
Speaker 5: I'm not going to sit here and be like, all right,
Speaker 5: let's completely change your date. You know that you had
Speaker 5: planned out for us, but she wants you to have.
Speaker 4: A good time, Like she didn't realize that you weren't
Speaker 4: having a good time.
Speaker 5: I mean, it was definitely all right, but then it
Speaker 5: went from awkward to worst and.
Speaker 1: Oh why yow what?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 5: She asked me for some reason to take a picture
Speaker 5: with her and this pie, and I'm like, okay, So
Speaker 5: she hands me her phone and then I get her
Speaker 5: phone and I accidentally hit this picture square on the side.
Speaker 5: She's got another picture with some.
Speaker 1: Dude eating cake. What I'm like, what is going on here?
Speaker 1: A slice of take or a whole cake? Hit the
Speaker 1: whole cake.
Speaker 3: In front of them, and I'm like, yo, this is
Speaker 3: like this.
Speaker 4: Girl's think wait, wait, wait, wait, wait a friend, a
Speaker 4: brother you don't know? Thank you, alexis you don't know
Speaker 4: anything about it?
Speaker 1: Did you ask her?
Speaker 5: No, I don't want to know who she's eating other confections.
Speaker 2: I can understand why you would feel uncomfortable, but maybe
Speaker 2: there's a better explanation for it, and we can actually
Speaker 2: get that right now from Julia, who I need to
Speaker 2: let you know is on the other line listening to this.
Speaker 3: Great Hi, I'm a little confused, like we were having fun.
Speaker 2: Well, I think the part that he's upset about is
Speaker 2: the other dude with a full cake?
Speaker 1: Is that? Who is that?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: I mean, this is what I don't get with people
Speaker 3: who are dating, like we're not exclusive. When you go
Speaker 3: on the dating apps, you're dating other people and then
Speaker 3: people get pissed off and you're dating other people.
Speaker 4: It's like, I don't think he's mad that he's dating
Speaker 4: other people. I think that maybe he feels like you're
Speaker 4: running a baked good game on no guys, you know,
Speaker 4: it's like if you saw a guy's picture taking someone
Speaker 4: else to the same place he took you, like that
Speaker 4: would feel at him.
Speaker 3: Listen, I'm trying to get out there by somebody that
Speaker 3: I can eat high with and right now with you, Travis, Like,
Speaker 3: I'm looking to get married like I want to kids,
Speaker 3: I want to have a life like I'm not around here.
Speaker 1: That's a lot.
Speaker 4: So let's tell a guy I don't know at least,
Speaker 4: But isn't it aren't you appreciative of when people tell
Speaker 4: you like then.
Speaker 1: It's not going to be a suppri if they tell
Speaker 1: me that.
Speaker 4: They've wasted nine months when they're ready to get married
Speaker 4: Jeff spoiler.
Speaker 1: Guys don't like to hear I want to marry you
Speaker 1: one day in Well.
Speaker 3: You know what, I know what I want. I know
Speaker 3: what I want. I don't even know her last name.
Speaker 3: You don't need to, because if I took anybody's last
Speaker 3: name would be your.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you already know what I mean.
Speaker 4: I guess it's a good conversation.
Speaker 1: Like, are you guys on the same plane and your
Speaker 1: dating life?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 4: Is that something you're looking for right now?
Speaker 1: Travis? Is marriage?
Speaker 5: I mean eventually, but not on the first date and not?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: Good, Well we're going to step away so that you
Speaker 2: can officially propose to her right now.
Speaker 1: Travis, are yours? Whatever you want to say? Everyone this
Speaker 1: is romantic. Hold on, there.
Speaker 5: Ain't nothing coming from me on this side.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 4: I think you should give her some grace here, Like
Speaker 4: she gets nervous. It's hard to approach people and ask
Speaker 4: them out and go on dates and come up with
Speaker 4: the ideas.
Speaker 1: As a guy, you should know that.
Speaker 4: Like, so, she has a plan and it has been
Speaker 4: working for.
Speaker 1: Her, and no one really sticks to one person.
Speaker 4: She's not playing you or anything. She told you exactly
Speaker 4: what she's looking for.
Speaker 5: The picture was from two days prior.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, well it didn't work out, did it. I mean,
Speaker 3: I wouldn't be dating you if it worked out.
Speaker 2: And Julia, well, Julia has not asked us to call
Speaker 2: the cake guy or the Kish guy or any of
Speaker 2: the other guys that she's taking photos within her phone.
Speaker 5: How many guys does she withing?
Speaker 4: Oh gosh, wow?
Speaker 3: Well how many girls are you with? How many girls
Speaker 3: are you dating?
Speaker 2: These are great questions to ask each other on your
Speaker 2: second date.
Speaker 1: How many girls are you dating? Romantic? Or after you
Speaker 1: say I do whatever it is, we wouldn't like you
Speaker 1: are not setting her up for success. We're kidding too much.
Speaker 2: Honestly, I'm just gonna ask because we're running out of
Speaker 2: time here, Travis, would you like to meet up with
Speaker 2: Julia one more time and we will pay for that
Speaker 2: next date.
Speaker 1: I'm good, dude.
Speaker 5: There's gotta be some muffin guy out there.
Speaker 1: And out there, so it's a no. You're intimidated by
Speaker 1: the other guys in.
Speaker 3: The band, Judge, intimidated by Pie.
Speaker 5: It's just weird that she's got confessions with every guy
Speaker 5: and too how she wants to marry me.
Speaker 1: I'm like, yoh, I say girls to dinner. It's a
Speaker 1: dinner over and over again.
Speaker 4: She doesn't want to marry you right now. She just
Speaker 4: wants to get married.
Speaker 1: It's her goal.
Speaker 3: I mean, I know what I want. Like, you're not
Speaker 3: going to find a lot of girls and.
Speaker 2: Cake and as much sugar as possible. Well, look, I'm sorry, Julia.
Speaker 2: It sounds like it's going to be a no from Travis.
Speaker 3: Wow, Okay, we'll have fun with the girl who doesn't
Speaker 3: know what she wants.
Speaker 1: I think he actually will.
Speaker 4: Boy, is it rude if I ask for those addresses
Speaker 4: to the pie.
Speaker 5: I'm definitely always thinking of you when I eat.
Speaker 4: Pieing Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: I mentioned that a lot of guys get scared off
Speaker 2: immediately if they hear a woman say to them that
Speaker 2: she's ready to get married, And I just I want
Speaker 2: to finish my thought on that real quick, because I well,
Speaker 2: I understand that instinct to immediately pull back at the
Speaker 2: mere mention of marriage. But I think that just because
Speaker 2: a woman knows that she wants that doesn't mean it's
Speaker 2: a big red flag and that she's completely obsessed and
Speaker 2: has a wedding dress ready in her car and you
Speaker 2: got to run.
Speaker 1: Validating It. Might just mean that.
Speaker 2: She's confident in who she is right now and knows
Speaker 2: exactly what she's working towards, and that might actually be
Speaker 2: a good thing and what a guy needs in his
Speaker 2: life right now.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: I mean, if anything, this call highlights the downside of
Speaker 2: meeting someone in person, because if they'd met on a
Speaker 2: dating app, he'd already know that she wants marriage and
Speaker 2: kids in a pantry full of pastry.
Speaker 1: She would have posted it right there.
Speaker 2: So I think the lesson here is don't meet people
Speaker 2: in person.
Speaker 1: That's a weird way to get there. I don't think
Speaker 1: that's okay, what's the lesson? There's a lesson. I think
Speaker 1: that they weren't right for each other. I think that's
Speaker 1: all there is to it.
Speaker 4: Okay, communication, we can go with yourself as funny as yours.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay to share it.
Speaker 2: But the thing is we are always willing to be
Speaker 2: on your side and help you with your love life.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no matter how dire it.
Speaker 4: May, see, dude, And if it doesn't work out, I'll
Speaker 4: come and meet you for cake and eat some Yeah.
Speaker 3: That's a more loser situation.
Speaker 1: It almost seems like a threat from I really like
Speaker 1: to make good. Yeah, but we will.
Speaker 2: We will come help you whatever you need, especially call
Speaker 2: that person who's.
Speaker 1: Not calling you back. Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.