WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Car Pie Surprise 0:00:00.800 --> 0:00:02.160 Second date up dated. 0:00:04.160 --> 0:00:07.560 I just saw a dating study that found eighty six 0:00:07.680 --> 0:00:11.360 percent of women who make the first move will end 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:16.440 up marrying that person who isn't that crazy. 0:00:18.280 --> 0:00:21.480 On me recently? This is great. Guys. 0:00:21.560 --> 0:00:24.440 If you ever see a girl walking towards you at 0:00:24.440 --> 0:00:26.040 a bar making eye. 0:00:25.800 --> 0:00:29.200 Contact, you need to run, okay. 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:31.960 Or throw a glass of beer against the wall, pull 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:35.559 the fire alarm, whatever distraction you need to make, because 0:00:35.600 --> 0:00:40.880 if she does successfully make contact, science says you're about 0:00:40.920 --> 0:00:42.200 to be tied to that woman. 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:44.200 For reference, No, let me bring it up. 0:00:44.159 --> 0:00:48.080 Because one of our listeners, Julia, says that she recently 0:00:48.120 --> 0:00:50.760 made the first move on a guy for you, and 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:53.519 now she needs our help. So Julia, can I assume 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:56.560 you're also ready to walk down the aisle with him and. 0:00:56.520 --> 0:00:58.840 Say I do my gosh, yes, yes? 0:01:00.680 --> 0:01:05.480 Did you really just agree to that, Julia? 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:05.480 Julia? 0:01:05.760 --> 0:01:06.000 Wait? 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:08.080 Is she being sarcastic? Are you being sarcastic? 0:01:08.520 --> 0:01:09.440 No? Not? 0:01:10.080 --> 0:01:13.360 I mean I'm getting older and I also saw this 0:01:13.440 --> 0:01:15.800 study and I was like, you know what, I'm going 0:01:15.880 --> 0:01:19.639 to make it happen. I'm gonna be more proactive, all right? 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:21.960 So who was your victim? 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:23.000 Okay? 0:01:23.120 --> 0:01:25.440 So good choice of words there. 0:01:25.360 --> 0:01:27.760 I was going out with my girlfriend and I have 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:29.720 this thing that I do where I go up to 0:01:29.760 --> 0:01:32.119 a guy and I'll ask him to take a photo 0:01:32.160 --> 0:01:36.120 of us. Okay, yes, dude, you're going to be a 0:01:36.160 --> 0:01:36.600 good photo. 0:01:36.640 --> 0:01:41.720 But that doesn't sound like it's the point. Is not 0:01:42.240 --> 0:01:46.479 a photo. Yeah, he's going to delete it immediately. 0:01:47.200 --> 0:01:50.240 But it helps you, like have a good icebreaker, I guess, 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:51.160 in order to meet him. 0:01:51.680 --> 0:01:54.040 Yeah, exactly. And I think this was the third time 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:57.600 I had done this, and we had this kind of chemistry, 0:01:57.760 --> 0:02:01.360 kind of awkward chemistry, but you can see, Okay, you guys. 0:02:01.160 --> 0:02:02.640 Are in a bar, he takes your photo. 0:02:03.240 --> 0:02:05.040 Yeah. So then I was like, oh, he already has 0:02:05.040 --> 0:02:07.800 my phone. I was like, do you wanna go for pie? 0:02:07.960 --> 0:02:10.560 And he was like what I thought we were going 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:10.919 to say? 0:02:11.400 --> 0:02:13.480 Put your phone number in my son? 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:17.760 Have we even have we even learned what his name 0:02:17.840 --> 0:02:20.040 is yet? Or are you just immediately asking him out 0:02:20.040 --> 0:02:20.799 to pot? 0:02:21.480 --> 0:02:21.679 No? 0:02:21.960 --> 0:02:23.040 We did names first. 0:02:23.120 --> 0:02:25.320 Okay, okay, what is his name? 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:26.560 Travis? 0:02:26.639 --> 0:02:27.480 Travis? Travis? 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:30.679 Is the pie move what you did on the other 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:31.440 two guys too? 0:02:31.960 --> 0:02:34.120 No, No, this was a new one for me. I 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:36.760 was like, I saw the viral video of this cute 0:02:36.800 --> 0:02:39.120 little pie shop in our area, I don't think. 0:02:39.440 --> 0:02:40.880 Okay, but you're at a bar. 0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:43.880 Is it open still like pie shops are usually. 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:48.239 We got our numbers and we were texting back and forth. 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:51.280 Okay, so you're not doing pie that night, you're asking 0:02:51.320 --> 0:02:52.560 for a later date. 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:56.000 You can meet up and get pot Okay, Yes, So. 0:02:56.120 --> 0:02:57.840 I picked him up because I was the one that 0:02:57.919 --> 0:02:58.840 suggested the dates. 0:02:58.960 --> 0:03:03.960 Yeah, the leaders, she knows where the pie is. Okay. 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:06.360 And we come upon this house and I was like, 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:08.640 this can't be it. We made a wrong turn at 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:12.240 a house. Yeah, at a house, like a cute house 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:15.519 with a porch. And then I see this little sign 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:17.760 It says pies and with the arrow, and I was like, huh, 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:18.480 this must be it. 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:19.880 Oh my god. It feels even more. 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:24.360 Legit now speak easy pie shop. That's awkward, weird? Oh, 0:03:24.400 --> 0:03:25.320 I think it's so exciting. 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:28.680 You're just gonna walk into somebody's house and ask for 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:30.240 her pies food. 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:32.200 This is like when a grandma has tamales on the 0:03:32.200 --> 0:03:32.800 side of the wall. 0:03:32.919 --> 0:03:34.200 You want to buy those tamales. 0:03:34.240 --> 0:03:34.400 Bro. 0:03:34.560 --> 0:03:36.800 I can't believe you guys think this is so normal 0:03:36.840 --> 0:03:39.800 to just have a pie shop inside of somebody's home. 0:03:39.840 --> 0:03:41.160 I don't think it's normal. That's why I want the 0:03:41.200 --> 0:03:42.560 address to be able to go myself. 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:45.800 Yeah, okay, what is it like inside? Was it sketch? 0:03:46.240 --> 0:03:49.320 We opened the door? Yeah, and it's a living room 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:53.120 full of pies because like, I bet that smells. 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:55.080 Okay? 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:57.480 And what is there like an employee there that's there 0:03:57.520 --> 0:03:58.920 to like help you pick out your pie? 0:03:59.040 --> 0:03:59.560 Employee? 0:04:01.240 --> 0:04:03.040 That was the weird part. There was no one there. 0:04:03.160 --> 0:04:06.840 Oh okay, So you broke into someone's empty home and 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:07.760 stole their pies. 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:10.960 Actually at this point, yeah, there was a sign jef 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:11.600 it's legit. 0:04:13.200 --> 0:04:14.920 Yeah, as long as there's a welcome mat on the 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:18.400 ground anywhere, any house, you can go into. My idea, 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:20.919 this is sketchy. It's a pie with an arrow. Okay, 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:22.159 So what do you do now that you're in this 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:23.400 living room full of pies? 0:04:23.880 --> 0:04:26.160 Well, we're looking around, we're getting a little freaked out 0:04:26.200 --> 0:04:28.240 a little bit, and then we see this sign that 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:34.200 says honor system. Yeah, okay, I go back to my car, 0:04:34.279 --> 0:04:38.160 gets the stag because we bought three three pie pies. 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:43.640 Wow, a lot of pie? So do you take the pie? 0:04:43.720 --> 0:04:43.800 So? 0:04:44.080 --> 0:04:46.120 Yeah, you take the pies out? Like what do you do? 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:46.800 Where do you eat them? 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:50.360 Yeah? They had these plastic forks theras. Then I'll say, okay, well, 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:52.360 I guess we'll just eat in the car, like because 0:04:52.360 --> 0:04:53.159 there's nowhere to sit. 0:04:53.560 --> 0:04:56.360 Wait, now you're having car pie. 0:04:56.279 --> 0:05:00.360 Yeah. I think it's really cute and romantic romantic state. 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:03.280 Maybe for women, this is sounding very romantic. 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:05.760 As a guy, I don't know if this is the 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:07.000 hottest date I've ever seen. 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:07.560 Romantic. 0:05:07.600 --> 0:05:08.080 It's fun. 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:10.920 It is fun again for women, that sounds like a 0:05:11.000 --> 0:05:13.680 great time. I'm just not a sit in a car 0:05:13.800 --> 0:05:17.240 eat pie type of ga. But how did it go 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:19.520 with you and Travis eating car pie? 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:21.240 It was a little awkward? 0:05:21.640 --> 0:05:23.680 Okay? Why Why was it awkward. 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:26.880 Because both of us are holding a pie and like 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:28.440 eating it with a plastic fork? 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:28.880 Yeah? 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:32.719 Okay, I mean did it end like did you eat 0:05:32.720 --> 0:05:33.400 the whole pie? 0:05:34.279 --> 0:05:37.200 No? The problem I actually didn't really know how to 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:39.440 end it, so I just went back to the beginning 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:41.760 of how we first met, and I was like, can 0:05:41.800 --> 0:05:47.679 you take a picture of me eating this pie? That kind. 0:05:49.080 --> 0:05:52.039 I want to see this photo so bad. How did 0:05:52.120 --> 0:05:53.320 he react? Is it important? 0:05:53.640 --> 0:05:56.159 He was like, oh my gosh, yeah, it. 0:05:56.240 --> 0:05:58.680 Sounds like there was like a brief, awkward moment, like, 0:05:58.720 --> 0:06:01.000 it's not like he didn't do anything either. 0:06:01.120 --> 0:06:03.640 Sure, so how is it between you and Travis now? 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:08.560 Question? Well, I dropped him on and I texted him 0:06:08.600 --> 0:06:11.640 and spent like cordial, but nothing like, Hey, let's go 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:12.240 on another date. 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:15.839 Okay, you should take him on a pastry tour of 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:16.559 the city. 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:18.800 I think we've had. You've done enough of like the 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:22.040 bakery theme for once. Yeah, maybe just like Netflix and 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:25.000 chill or a bar and like, I don't know, maybe 0:06:25.040 --> 0:06:26.360 more like a normal date. 0:06:26.600 --> 0:06:28.960 I can't even get him to ask me for another date, 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:29.880 so let's just start there. 0:06:30.120 --> 0:06:33.680 Okay, we'll see what he has to say when we 0:06:33.720 --> 0:06:35.240 come back and give him a call and try and 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:37.960 get you your second date update a la mode right 0:06:38.000 --> 0:06:38.320 after that. 0:06:38.920 --> 0:06:41.680 Okay, second date update. 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:46.200 You know what's more romantic than a quaint little pie 0:06:46.279 --> 0:06:48.520 shop in someone's empty living room? 0:06:49.120 --> 0:06:51.080 What, yeah, is taking. 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:54.840 Those pies and walking twenty feet outside to the driveway 0:06:55.200 --> 0:07:01.280 and eating them in your car with plastic forks. Sounds 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:03.880 like a scene from the TLC show My four hundred 0:07:03.920 --> 0:07:04.800 Pounds Life. 0:07:04.839 --> 0:07:06.240 Yes, but it's not. 0:07:06.839 --> 0:07:09.840 It's actually a date that our listener Julia went on 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:14.040 with a guy named Travis, and she probably ended up 0:07:14.080 --> 0:07:16.640 throwing up from eating so much pie. And she didn't 0:07:16.640 --> 0:07:19.200 say that, but we do know that the guy she 0:07:19.280 --> 0:07:22.760 went out with is not initiating another hangout, which is. 0:07:22.680 --> 0:07:25.840 Disappointing to her. So she's turned to us for a 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:26.600 little bit of help. 0:07:26.680 --> 0:07:29.160 Yeah, I mean, have you texted him or anything? You 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:30.320 said you talked a little bit. 0:07:30.920 --> 0:07:34.160 Yeah, he's just kind of neutral. Hmmm. 0:07:34.640 --> 0:07:36.560 Did you introduce him to the best pie of his 0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:38.360 life and you get neutrality back? 0:07:38.400 --> 0:07:39.040 How dare he? 0:07:39.560 --> 0:07:41.440 I mean, he didn't go off on the pie like 0:07:41.520 --> 0:07:43.960 I did. I was like, Wow, this cherry delicious, and 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:46.000 he was like, yeah, it's pretty good. 0:07:46.360 --> 0:07:47.240 Oh pretty good. 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:49.560 You maybe a food and he's not. 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:53.280 We're gonna find out when we call Travis right now. 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:56.160 Hopefully he answers the phone and has some explanation. 0:07:56.480 --> 0:07:57.200 Yeah. I want to know. 0:07:57.240 --> 0:07:59.119 I want to know what's up because I can fix 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:00.000 whatever the problem is. 0:08:00.240 --> 0:08:02.760 You can. Yeah, I like it. I like that attitude. 0:08:02.760 --> 0:08:03.920 That's attitude. 0:08:03.960 --> 0:08:05.600 I just hope his mouth isn't full when he picks 0:08:05.640 --> 0:08:06.560 up the phone. Here we go. 0:08:06.560 --> 0:08:20.960 I'm gonna dillas number right now. Hello, Hey, is this Travis? Yes, 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:24.760 May I ask yes, you may. Thank you for asking 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:28.120 permission for that. My name is jeff and I'm part 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:30.080 of a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey. 0:08:29.680 --> 0:08:33.240 In the Morning. And you are on that radio show 0:08:33.280 --> 0:08:33.680 right now. 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:38.719 What what can I do for it? 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:42.520 I was wondering, have you heard of a segment that 0:08:42.559 --> 0:08:47.320 we do on the radio sometimes called audio first Nobody? 0:08:47.440 --> 0:08:48.960 Nobody has heard of. 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:52.840 Well, it's a great segment. You should listen to our 0:08:52.880 --> 0:08:54.880 podcast sometime at Brook and Jeffrey. 0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:58.120 But that's not that's not the segment you're on, Travis. 0:08:58.120 --> 0:09:00.880 We're doing a less fun segment than that called second 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:01.959 Date Updates. 0:09:01.960 --> 0:09:03.800 Or or most Successful. But that's okay. 0:09:04.000 --> 0:09:07.040 Well yeah, but this is where we try and help 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:09.520 out our listeners if they've gone out with somebody and 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:12.480 they're not getting a call back afterwards, we try to 0:09:12.480 --> 0:09:14.920 help figure out the reason why. 0:09:15.200 --> 0:09:19.480 Well, okay, I'm a little little confused here, but yeah, 0:09:19.480 --> 0:09:20.760 I get. 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:23.439 But really, to make it really simple, you went out 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:25.960 with someone who really likes you and you haven't organized 0:09:26.000 --> 0:09:27.000 a second date yet. 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:29.960 Yeah, and she's just wondering if maybe you're not interested, 0:09:30.120 --> 0:09:31.800 or if it's something maybe she could fix. 0:09:32.080 --> 0:09:40.000 Her name's Julia, Oh god, all right, that's a reaction. Yeah, 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:42.199 I'm trying to read what you meant by that. What 0:09:42.320 --> 0:09:43.439 what did you think of Julia? 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:48.480 I mean she was nice and all nice? Yeah, I 0:09:48.480 --> 0:09:51.560 mean it was definitely a first Well. 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:53.280 The part of your date. 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:56.440 Here's the thing, man, she told us about what you 0:09:56.440 --> 0:09:57.560 guys did on your date. 0:09:57.960 --> 0:10:00.600 Go into the house that was a shop. 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:02.880 It was like famous on TikTok and it was just 0:10:02.920 --> 0:10:04.160 like an honor system sitch. 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:04.679 Yeah. 0:10:05.800 --> 0:10:08.199 Yeah, that was definitely a first time for that. 0:10:08.320 --> 0:10:09.880 I've never well, that's good. 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:11.680 I would hope you don't go into a lot of 0:10:11.720 --> 0:10:13.320 random people's homes and take the pith. 0:10:14.000 --> 0:10:15.720 Was that kind of cool or what'd you think? 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:18.840 No? I was like, what is going on here? 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:22.400 It was just weird and no one was home. 0:10:22.920 --> 0:10:25.360 I feel like even though we left the right amount 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:27.120 of money, I felt like I was feeling that ladies' 0:10:27.120 --> 0:10:28.280 pies right off the window. 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:28.520 Still. 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:33.600 Oh yeah, and Julia was beat adventurous, try and set 0:10:33.640 --> 0:10:34.120 the new. 0:10:35.840 --> 0:10:36.880 That's definitely new. 0:10:37.240 --> 0:10:40.920 I don't know, Well, clearly that made you very uncomfortable. 0:10:41.040 --> 0:10:44.240 Was that more uncomfortable than going and eating car pie? 0:10:44.720 --> 0:10:46.920 Because we heard about that too about the city. 0:10:47.040 --> 0:10:48.920 Yeah, I mean, like you can find a park. You 0:10:49.040 --> 0:10:51.559 got a picnic bench, real, you know, like that's final. 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:53.920 When Nigo we were eating them in the car. 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:56.560 Well, then why didn't you suggest that you could change something? 0:10:56.800 --> 0:10:58.559 I mean, if that was an idea of yours, why 0:10:58.559 --> 0:11:00.360 didn't you say, hey, you know what this is, it's fun, 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:01.760 let's go somewhere and eat these. 0:11:01.960 --> 0:11:04.600 Because it was her date, she picked all of this stuff. 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:06.040 I'm not going to sit here and be like, all right, 0:11:06.120 --> 0:11:08.640 let's completely change your date. You know that you had 0:11:08.679 --> 0:11:11.080 planned out for us, but she wants you to have. 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:13.400 A good time, Like she didn't realize that you weren't 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:14.240 having a good time. 0:11:14.920 --> 0:11:17.199 I mean, it was definitely all right, but then it 0:11:17.280 --> 0:11:19.360 went from awkward to worst and. 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:22.000 Oh why yow what? 0:11:22.720 --> 0:11:22.960 Well? 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:25.840 She asked me for some reason to take a picture 0:11:26.000 --> 0:11:30.240 with her and this pie, and I'm like, okay, So 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:33.040 she hands me her phone and then I get her 0:11:33.080 --> 0:11:36.400 phone and I accidentally hit this picture square on the side. 0:11:37.360 --> 0:11:38.760 She's got another picture with some. 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:42.720 Dude eating cake. What I'm like, what is going on here? 0:11:44.120 --> 0:11:46.480 A slice of take or a whole cake? Hit the 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:47.320 whole cake. 0:11:47.160 --> 0:11:49.120 In front of them, and I'm like, yo, this is 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:49.680 like this. 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:52.400 Girl's think wait, wait, wait, wait, wait a friend, a 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:54.800 brother you don't know? Thank you, alexis you don't know 0:11:54.840 --> 0:11:55.640 anything about it? 0:11:55.679 --> 0:11:56.600 Did you ask her? 0:11:57.160 --> 0:11:59.920 No, I don't want to know who she's eating other confections. 0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:04.440 I can understand why you would feel uncomfortable, but maybe 0:12:04.480 --> 0:12:07.640 there's a better explanation for it, and we can actually 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:10.440 get that right now from Julia, who I need to 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:12.559 let you know is on the other line listening to this. 0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:20.480 Great Hi, I'm a little confused, like we were having fun. 0:12:21.000 --> 0:12:23.080 Well, I think the part that he's upset about is 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:25.360 the other dude with a full cake? 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:26.480 Is that? Who is that? 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:26.680 No? 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:28.760 I mean, this is what I don't get with people 0:12:28.760 --> 0:12:31.120 who are dating, like we're not exclusive. When you go 0:12:31.160 --> 0:12:33.160 on the dating apps, you're dating other people and then 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:35.000 people get pissed off and you're dating other people. 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:37.439 It's like, I don't think he's mad that he's dating 0:12:37.480 --> 0:12:39.640 other people. I think that maybe he feels like you're 0:12:39.679 --> 0:12:43.520 running a baked good game on no guys, you know, 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:47.080 it's like if you saw a guy's picture taking someone 0:12:47.120 --> 0:12:48.760 else to the same place he took you, like that 0:12:48.800 --> 0:12:51.200 would feel at him. 0:12:51.280 --> 0:12:54.520 Listen, I'm trying to get out there by somebody that 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:58.240 I can eat high with and right now with you, Travis, Like, 0:12:58.440 --> 0:13:00.480 I'm looking to get married like I want to kids, 0:13:00.480 --> 0:13:04.120 I want to have a life like I'm not around here. 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:06.080 That's a lot. 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:08.480 So let's tell a guy I don't know at least, 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:11.360 But isn't it aren't you appreciative of when people tell 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:12.160 you like then. 0:13:12.040 --> 0:13:15.320 It's not going to be a suppri if they tell 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:15.640 me that. 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:18.959 They've wasted nine months when they're ready to get married 0:13:19.040 --> 0:13:19.840 Jeff spoiler. 0:13:19.880 --> 0:13:21.440 Guys don't like to hear I want to marry you 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:23.079 one day in Well. 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:24.840 You know what, I know what I want. I know 0:13:24.920 --> 0:13:27.520 what I want. I don't even know her last name. 0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:31.319 You don't need to, because if I took anybody's last 0:13:31.360 --> 0:13:32.000 name would be your. 0:13:32.120 --> 0:13:34.559 Yeah, yeah, you already know what I mean. 0:13:34.600 --> 0:13:36.240 I guess it's a good conversation. 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:38.520 Like, are you guys on the same plane and your 0:13:38.600 --> 0:13:39.400 dating life? 0:13:39.440 --> 0:13:39.560 Like? 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:41.480 Is that something you're looking for right now? 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:43.440 Travis? Is marriage? 0:13:44.040 --> 0:13:47.080 I mean eventually, but not on the first date and not? 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:48.080 Okay? 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:49.920 Good, Well we're going to step away so that you 0:13:49.960 --> 0:13:52.000 can officially propose to her right now. 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:59.360 Travis, are yours? Whatever you want to say? Everyone this 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:02.360 is romantic. Hold on, there. 0:14:02.240 --> 0:14:04.199 Ain't nothing coming from me on this side. 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:05.079 I know. 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:07.320 I think you should give her some grace here, Like 0:14:07.559 --> 0:14:10.720 she gets nervous. It's hard to approach people and ask 0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:12.959 them out and go on dates and come up with 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:13.480 the ideas. 0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:15.000 As a guy, you should know that. 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:17.959 Like, so, she has a plan and it has been 0:14:18.000 --> 0:14:18.600 working for. 0:14:18.520 --> 0:14:20.360 Her, and no one really sticks to one person. 0:14:20.400 --> 0:14:23.000 She's not playing you or anything. She told you exactly 0:14:23.080 --> 0:14:24.000 what she's looking for. 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:26.560 The picture was from two days prior. 0:14:26.720 --> 0:14:30.240 Yeah, yeah, well it didn't work out, did it. I mean, 0:14:30.280 --> 0:14:32.040 I wouldn't be dating you if it worked out. 0:14:32.280 --> 0:14:35.880 And Julia, well, Julia has not asked us to call 0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:39.040 the cake guy or the Kish guy or any of 0:14:39.080 --> 0:14:41.760 the other guys that she's taking photos within her phone. 0:14:41.920 --> 0:14:43.160 How many guys does she withing? 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:44.880 Oh gosh, wow? 0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:47.200 Well how many girls are you with? How many girls 0:14:47.200 --> 0:14:47.840 are you dating? 0:14:47.960 --> 0:14:50.760 These are great questions to ask each other on your 0:14:50.840 --> 0:14:51.560 second date. 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:56.640 How many girls are you dating? Romantic? Or after you 0:14:56.680 --> 0:15:00.200 say I do whatever it is, we wouldn't like you 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:03.160 are not setting her up for success. We're kidding too much. 0:15:03.280 --> 0:15:06.640 Honestly, I'm just gonna ask because we're running out of 0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:09.360 time here, Travis, would you like to meet up with 0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:12.400 Julia one more time and we will pay for that 0:15:12.480 --> 0:15:13.040 next date. 0:15:13.920 --> 0:15:14.640 I'm good, dude. 0:15:14.640 --> 0:15:16.760 There's gotta be some muffin guy out there. 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:20.760 And out there, so it's a no. You're intimidated by 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:21.480 the other guys in. 0:15:21.480 --> 0:15:24.240 The band, Judge, intimidated by Pie. 0:15:24.480 --> 0:15:27.280 It's just weird that she's got confessions with every guy 0:15:27.440 --> 0:15:29.320 and too how she wants to marry me. 0:15:29.520 --> 0:15:31.840 I'm like, yoh, I say girls to dinner. It's a 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:32.840 dinner over and over again. 0:15:34.320 --> 0:15:35.840 She doesn't want to marry you right now. She just 0:15:35.880 --> 0:15:36.760 wants to get married. 0:15:36.800 --> 0:15:37.280 It's her goal. 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:39.600 I mean, I know what I want. Like, you're not 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:40.880 going to find a lot of girls and. 0:15:42.720 --> 0:15:46.280 Cake and as much sugar as possible. Well, look, I'm sorry, Julia. 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:48.880 It sounds like it's going to be a no from Travis. 0:15:49.440 --> 0:15:52.280 Wow, Okay, we'll have fun with the girl who doesn't 0:15:52.320 --> 0:15:53.040 know what she wants. 0:15:54.640 --> 0:15:55.720 I think he actually will. 0:15:56.960 --> 0:15:59.400 Boy, is it rude if I ask for those addresses 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:00.800 to the pie. 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:05.480 I'm definitely always thinking of you when I eat. 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:12.720 Pieing Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:11.800 --> 0:16:14.400 I mentioned that a lot of guys get scared off 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:16.880 immediately if they hear a woman say to them that 0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:19.200 she's ready to get married, And I just I want 0:16:19.200 --> 0:16:22.800 to finish my thought on that real quick, because I well, 0:16:24.560 --> 0:16:28.000 I understand that instinct to immediately pull back at the 0:16:28.040 --> 0:16:30.960 mere mention of marriage. But I think that just because 0:16:31.000 --> 0:16:34.360 a woman knows that she wants that doesn't mean it's 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:37.640 a big red flag and that she's completely obsessed and 0:16:37.680 --> 0:16:39.400 has a wedding dress ready in her car and you 0:16:39.440 --> 0:16:40.080 got to run. 0:16:41.800 --> 0:16:44.320 Validating It. Might just mean that. 0:16:44.200 --> 0:16:47.080 She's confident in who she is right now and knows 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:50.440 exactly what she's working towards, and that might actually be 0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:52.400