WEBVTT - Cruisin with Florida Georgia Line 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:05.399 Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast. 0:00:06.320 --> 0:00:08.400 We have a huge day to day, huge day and 0:00:08.440 --> 0:00:10.720 Easton is just on the edge of the seat. Eastern 0:00:10.840 --> 0:00:14.560 is literally shaking convulsive in his chair because he's so excited. 0:00:14.640 --> 0:00:18.120 And I'm really excited too, because I had the pleasure 0:00:18.160 --> 0:00:22.320 of meeting Brittany Um Brittany Kelly about what I want 0:00:22.320 --> 0:00:26.560 to say, five is years ago. She's so sweet and 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:30.600 we've you know, recently kind of reconnected via Instagram and 0:00:30.640 --> 0:00:33.440 we've been chatting and she's just a really cool girl. 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:37.479 And she's married to one of the fjail boys, Brian 0:00:37.680 --> 0:00:41.159 Absolutely Brian Kelly from Florida Georgia line. Yeah, so, I 0:00:41.159 --> 0:00:45.760 mean Florida Julyne is obviously ginormous. I mean they're huge, 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:47.360 and they have so many other ventures they're doing with 0:00:47.360 --> 0:00:51.200 their own publishing company, their bar um tried Kelly their store. 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:52.840 So I'm just really excited to talk to them about 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:59.600 their relationship. And let's check check check check. Hello Is 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:03.880 that better? Yeah, it's just check down, chick chick chick 0:01:04.280 --> 0:01:10.000 check here, check check check breaking And I like, yeah, 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:15.240 sounds good. You guys like check check here. I can 0:01:15.280 --> 0:01:20.680 hear what's down is that what time y'all wake up 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:22.119 this morning? Do you really want to know what time 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:27.360 we woke up this morning? To thirty? So then because 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:29.640 our baby boy was crying, so I went in the 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:32.600 room put the wobby in his mouth. Try. I thought 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:34.760 he was going to go down, and then at five 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:38.360 he's like and then like farting, and then so I 0:01:38.360 --> 0:01:40.360 stayed in there with my hand the wobby in his 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:43.240 mouth for an hour for him to fall asleep. And 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:46.240 then an hour later. What time did you wake up? Well, 0:01:46.520 --> 0:01:49.040 I had to put down shift. So you went to 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:50.360 bed earlier than night I did. I went to bed, 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:55.280 I went to bed nine. I was up. Yeah that's 0:01:55.440 --> 0:01:58.160 early for both days. Yeah, I mean for parents though. 0:01:59.520 --> 0:02:02.240 Back to sleep. But I showed you our chat yesterday 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:05.400 me Brittany and Lauren b. You were chatting and she 0:02:05.600 --> 0:02:10.639 sent the funniest Beyonce gift ever. She goes this if 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:12.799 this is me when asked about if we're having kids, 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:16.760 and it was just like what you said, You're like, 0:02:16.800 --> 0:02:18.519 I'm covered and spit up. I think you sent a 0:02:18.560 --> 0:02:21.920 picture of him his apron. He was in his apron. 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:24.080 But that's just I mean, you guys have been together 0:02:24.200 --> 0:02:27.080 by the way. I know. I'm sorry we just started 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:29.880 talking because I'm just really excited right now, you guys, 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:33.640 Brian Kelly and Brittany Kelly are in the studio right now. Um, 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:40.200 so hands up, thank you all for having us you guys. Seriously, 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:43.080 you guys are the like epiphany of just like the 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:46.600 most adorable couple ever. You know that piphany is not 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:53.639 piphany a pianoy Jesus, You're right. I correct what says 0:02:53.680 --> 0:02:58.120 a lot all the time. So frustrating, but yes, now 0:02:58.160 --> 0:03:00.639 you guys are adorable. Thank you. How long have you 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:04.079 guys been together for? We've been married for five years 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:06.480 this past December. We just celebrate our fifth year. We 0:03:06.520 --> 0:03:10.400 renewed our bows and graduations. Yeah yeah, but together for 0:03:11.520 --> 0:03:14.640 about five five and a half. We uh, you know, 0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:17.799 we met We were dating um siblings back in two 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:20.880 thousand ten, two thousand I think eleven. So the people 0:03:20.919 --> 0:03:26.040 you're dating webling you were nineteen. I was something like that. 0:03:26.440 --> 0:03:30.000 Wait what a girl down in Georgia and her brother 0:03:30.200 --> 0:03:33.720 was dating Brittany, And so that's how we originally met 0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:37.200 on Thanksgiving night through that whole family and she walked 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:41.240 in and I go, damn, Okay, Well if this never works, 0:03:41.280 --> 0:03:42.840 you know, if this doesn't work out, you know, I'd 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:46.200 probably marry that girl, and uh how long? The other 0:03:46.240 --> 0:03:49.880 girl for probably another year or so maybe maybe tops. 0:03:49.920 --> 0:03:52.360 And then another year and a half went by. We're 0:03:52.360 --> 0:03:54.320 burning up the road, Tyler and I and building our 0:03:54.360 --> 0:03:57.480 brand f GL and doing our thing, and Brittany and 0:03:57.480 --> 0:04:00.280 I kind of started talking and Brittany were still with 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:04.320 other guy was okay, And and by the way, just 0:04:04.440 --> 0:04:07.280 ps at this Thanksgiving, I really didn't like even look 0:04:07.320 --> 0:04:10.480 your way because I was nineteen and just my little world. 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:13.160 I didn't think you were hands in there, but I 0:04:13.240 --> 0:04:14.960 wasn't like, but you were like I had a boyfriend, 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:24.000 a boyfriend, I'm I'm loyal's yeah, and me like sweat no. 0:04:24.120 --> 0:04:27.080 But by the way, I get this question, I mean 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:30.120 hundreds of times a week. I'm not joking. And I 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:32.720 was just on a podcast with Caroline Hobby. I love her. 0:04:32.839 --> 0:04:37.120 We didn't get this question, and everyone blew us up afterwards, 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:41.359 So no one knows the story yet. Exclusive she she 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:44.160 came to a show like two years later. Why did 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:46.520 you little show? Well, he had chext to me a 0:04:46.520 --> 0:04:49.039 couple of times. How did you get her number? Sorry? 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:50.640 I like the weeds of all. You know, I think 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:53.600 it was Twitter. Now. We used to play Angry Birds together. 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:55.640 Oh I already probably had your number, didn't I we 0:04:55.640 --> 0:04:58.280 played Angry Birds together when we were But I want 0:04:58.320 --> 0:05:00.920 to know how you got the number that you slid 0:05:00.960 --> 0:05:06.880 in because you knew you wanted her honest, Okay I 0:05:06.960 --> 0:05:09.760 did not a couple of shows. Yeah, I kept telling 0:05:09.760 --> 0:05:10.920 her to come out. I was like, you come out, 0:05:11.000 --> 0:05:13.080 come out and hang see show, see what we're up to, 0:05:13.160 --> 0:05:15.520 you know, because you know, two years before I was 0:05:15.880 --> 0:05:18.640 playing her demos and playing the whole family songs and everything, 0:05:18.680 --> 0:05:21.160 and you know, even in two years it had evolved. 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:24.719 So I actually have the Cruise demo and my email somewhere. 0:05:25.360 --> 0:05:27.280 But I just love the fact that come to a 0:05:27.279 --> 0:05:29.600 show because like what girl would be like wow at 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:31.680 the show because you know, f GL shows are just 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:33.360 I mean, well, I was like I don't want to. 0:05:34.480 --> 0:05:36.719 I was like, am I groupie if I come to 0:05:36.720 --> 0:05:38.839 the show or do I get like a backstage pass 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:40.960 or like what's happening to get it all? So how 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:44.239 was the first show? So the first show is actually 0:05:44.400 --> 0:05:47.960 in Augusta, Georgia. I was having like a super terrible 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:51.279 week that outdoor muddy Hot. It was like a nasty, 0:05:51.880 --> 0:05:54.359 small festival, and so um I met up with some 0:05:54.400 --> 0:05:57.000 friends there and I just thought I was going to 0:05:57.080 --> 0:05:58.560 hang out in the crowd, you know, just to be 0:05:58.600 --> 0:06:02.400 the groupie that I came there to be. And and 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:05.800 he ended up sending his tour manager back and grabbing 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:07.200 me or whatever, and I just sat on the bus 0:06:07.200 --> 0:06:09.800 and I'm like, oh God, like what happens on there? 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:13.440 I was like, I'm standing on my ground, like I 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:15.880 gotta have finals this week. I can't be descripted like 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:18.919 emotionally distracted. So we just, yeah, we just had like 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:21.440 a fun little conversation and I think at the end 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:22.760 of it, you like leaned in to kiss me, and 0:06:22.800 --> 0:06:25.800 I was like m M. I was like, oh god, 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:27.600 I have to go. I've only got five five ten 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:30.040 minutes left, you know, hopefully you know that's not all 0:06:30.080 --> 0:06:32.920 it takes. So anyways, he was really sweet and he 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:34.560 was a gentleman, and he ended up walking back to 0:06:34.600 --> 0:06:37.760 my car, and basically we really never stopped texting and 0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:40.279 never stopped seeing each other, and I honestly didn't know 0:06:40.279 --> 0:06:42.000 where I was going. I was like a distraction for 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:44.599 a little bit. But no, and how soon did you 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:48.800 guys start actually dating. I think we started having conversations. 0:06:49.120 --> 0:06:50.720 I think he was worried because I was at the 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:52.560 University of Georgia at the time, and so I was, 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:56.840 you know, I still had some stuff to get out. 0:06:57.200 --> 0:07:00.400 But no, UM. I think he at me up and 0:07:00.440 --> 0:07:02.080 he was like, you know, is this exclusive because there 0:07:02.120 --> 0:07:03.839 was a couple of nights, you know, he was up 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:07.080 obviously at a show, and I'm like, I'm having to 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:10.440 be in a study room like going to bed early. Um, 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:12.400 and yeah, I just like never was like a linger, 0:07:12.560 --> 0:07:16.320 like texted him too late or like I was in 0:07:16.400 --> 0:07:18.800 hot pursuit. Once we reacted, he was the one that 0:07:18.880 --> 0:07:20.720 was like, what are you doing in had dated girls 0:07:20.720 --> 0:07:23.520 all my life and and been waiting to connect with Brittany, 0:07:23.520 --> 0:07:26.000 and and it was it was perfect. I was, I 0:07:26.040 --> 0:07:28.920 think twenty eight at the time. We're about to be 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:31.240 twenty eight, and I was in full pursuit. I said, 0:07:31.280 --> 0:07:33.240 that's the one. That's what was it about Brittany that 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:36.880 made everything. She was just her own woman and very confident, 0:07:37.200 --> 0:07:40.880 very creative, UM, very strong. I knew her story and 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:43.280 I just I felt super connected. I just felt like 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:45.720 she was extremely real and as we've been married and 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:48.520 gotten to know each other on so many levels. It 0:07:48.640 --> 0:07:51.120 it just you know, confirms my my thoughts and my 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:53.400 feelings and definitely a god thing how we connected. I 0:07:53.480 --> 0:07:56.960 think we just I think we we we we want 0:07:57.000 --> 0:07:58.560 each other, but we we also need each other. I 0:07:58.560 --> 0:08:01.200 think we balanced each other out and bring a lot 0:08:01.280 --> 0:08:04.400 of uh what what each other needs to the tape, 0:08:04.400 --> 0:08:05.840 wh no matter what we're going through. So I think 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:08.680 it's um, I wouldn't be where I'm at in my 0:08:08.800 --> 0:08:10.840 career and and with f g l if if it 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:12.440 wouldn't if she wasn't a part of this. I mean 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:14.760 she brings a lot to the table in terms of 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:19.120 support and and also you just inspirement. You're beautiful and 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:22.720 you're just awesome. So guys, I need some tissues over here. Yeah, 0:08:22.880 --> 0:08:24.400 just kind of when you know, you know, like I 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:27.760 was engaged when I was super young one and definitely 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:29.920 going the wrong route in life, and I knew that 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:33.440 so waited and dated and and enjoyed life and just 0:08:33.520 --> 0:08:35.360 didn't put any pressure. And then kind of when I 0:08:35.440 --> 0:08:37.400 knew that that was Brittany and I was like, all right, 0:08:37.440 --> 0:08:40.040 let's go. You're getting my mom's brain. Yeah, I was 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:42.520 electric for sure. I think we knew within the first 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:45.880 what two months, you know, like we're gonna get married. 0:08:46.160 --> 0:08:49.440 We're like live partners, survival partners. Like do you guys 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:53.000 believe in soul mates? I think you have? Yeah, I 0:08:53.000 --> 0:08:59.480 think so, mate. Yeah, yeah, you would not say I'm 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:03.320 his soul mate, and it drives me crazy. I just 0:09:03.880 --> 0:09:05.599 I believe that we're meant to be together, like I 0:09:05.720 --> 0:09:10.400 said numerous times, Prince, because again, my my interpretation of 0:09:10.440 --> 0:09:12.719 a soul mate is that there's one person out there 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:15.880 for you, period. Brittany is her his one person. I 0:09:15.880 --> 0:09:19.360 think you could have multiple soul mates, friends, friendships, and 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:23.840 this I think he's my Well, I was taking crazier thoughts, 0:09:23.840 --> 0:09:27.000 you know, I mean like my survival like person, you 0:09:27.000 --> 0:09:28.680 know what I mean, Like I get like soul mate, 0:09:28.679 --> 0:09:31.320 but like you're my life survival mate. Like we're going 0:09:31.360 --> 0:09:34.320 to figure things out together. That's how I feel about 0:09:34.320 --> 0:09:38.080 you that we've been through SORR. But like, yeah, but 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:40.600 if I if I randomly past, I mean, she might 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:47.760 find another soul mate exactly, its meant to happen person, 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:50.600 but but you will always be her soul mate. So 0:09:50.640 --> 0:09:52.959 like if Michael and I end up if you if 0:09:52.960 --> 0:09:57.480 you pass on that motorcycle that you want, because he 0:09:57.520 --> 0:10:00.360 really wants that motorcycle. If you end up, you know, riding, 0:10:00.400 --> 0:10:02.559 you're riding off a cliff. You I'll be like, man, 0:10:02.600 --> 0:10:05.120 he was always my soulmate, and I might find someone else, 0:10:05.120 --> 0:10:08.199 but they'll never be all right. That's that's different because 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:11.160 that's like nature's circumstances, like taking someone out of the equation. 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:14.480 But if if I decided or you decided that this 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:16.640 wasn't working, if we would have gotten divorced, we would 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:18.959 have gotten divorced, like a long time ago, right, but 0:10:19.040 --> 0:10:22.280 if that happened, Hence why you're my soul mate, totally 0:10:22.320 --> 0:10:27.760 yellow soulmates, and because exactly because we are surviving, we're working, 0:10:27.880 --> 0:10:30.200 we're I mean, we have like put our gloves on 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:32.120 and we're fighting for our marriage. That is a soulmate. 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:34.000 If you weren't my soulmate, I would not be fighting 0:10:34.000 --> 0:10:38.880 for our marriage. End of your souls are always connecting 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:42.400 no matter what exactly, what I'm really doing is waiting 0:10:42.440 --> 0:10:44.559 for the right time sound the road for like a 0:10:44.640 --> 0:10:48.480 Valentine's Day present, birthday anniversary, where that's the time I dropped. 0:10:48.640 --> 0:10:52.240 You are it's going to be so impactful because she 0:10:52.320 --> 0:10:54.440 had to wait like ten years. No, he write, he 0:10:54.440 --> 0:10:56.680 writes me really sweet notes, and I feel like this 0:10:56.760 --> 0:10:58.760 note you wrote me the other day, it was so sweet, 0:10:58.800 --> 0:11:00.600 but it also bothered me. He goes, you are beautiful 0:11:00.640 --> 0:11:02.800 and amazing woman, Janet. I am incredibly thankful that you 0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:05.280 are my life partner. Thank you for fighting for us. 0:11:05.559 --> 0:11:08.440 And I almost put it like I have to go 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:10.040 and thank him for this note. At the same time. 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:11.600 You should have seen the note that are crumpled up 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:16.640 before that. They said, so a note that's not life partner. Okay, 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:18.640 you're gonna get down on one day and ask her 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:21.480 one day. I just love that you guys renewed your bows. 0:11:21.720 --> 0:11:23.719 I think that's really special. Is that something you guys 0:11:23.760 --> 0:11:28.040 are going to do every I hope. So. I think 0:11:28.320 --> 0:11:31.080 life happened so freaking quick the past five years and 0:11:31.160 --> 0:11:35.160 was so uh filled with so many blessings and places 0:11:35.160 --> 0:11:38.000 and people and experiences, and she was a part of 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:40.560 every every day of that. So we just wanted to 0:11:40.600 --> 0:11:42.480 kind of slow it down and take a week for ourselves. 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:45.480 We were in big sir California and beautiful time of 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:48.200 the year and just wanted to kind of just do 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:50.640 it again. I think we love love, we love our love, 0:11:50.720 --> 0:11:53.480 and it just felt right. I think every five years 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:56.240 could be could be pretty cool. Maybe maybe in like 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:59.000 the tenure, we have like a big ceremony like family 0:11:59.040 --> 0:12:02.600 and friends. And I love that. Everybody said it's like 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:05.040 the tone for the next chapter, because every five or 0:12:05.080 --> 0:12:06.760 so years, I feel like you're kind of changing and 0:12:06.800 --> 0:12:10.280 your your thoughts are changing, and I don't know, your 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:12.559 character changes to an extent too. So it's just like 0:12:12.600 --> 0:12:14.960 a good repromise to each other and kind of just 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:17.560 like a cleansing of of everything else. And what are 0:12:17.600 --> 0:12:20.200 y'alls hurdles as a couple? I mean, what is you know, 0:12:20.280 --> 0:12:22.880 something that you guys just kind of always butt heads 0:12:22.920 --> 0:12:30.160 with mm hmm, oh he never cuts his toe, Nils. Okay, 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:36.960 that's that's taken out of context. They might here and there, 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:40.680 I'll scratch her here and there and on the sheets, 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:43.600 and I'll know when it's time to clip them so 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:46.080 sensitive down there those legs are yours. What is a hurdle? 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:51.479 I think something along the way. I mean, you know, um, 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:56.080 maybe just you know when when your partner is down 0:12:56.200 --> 0:12:59.360 or going through something and and you know, life is 0:12:59.400 --> 0:13:01.760 good and and you feel that for them and just 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:05.800 kind of allowing that to affect the present moment. I 0:13:05.840 --> 0:13:08.120 think it's tough on for both of us and on 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:10.439 both ends. So we've learned to just lift each other 0:13:10.559 --> 0:13:13.520 up and and and kind of talk through that and 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:18.520 whether it's you know, uh, family or business, um, dreams 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:20.760 or whatever it may be. So I think just you know, 0:13:20.960 --> 0:13:23.800 we've we've we've I don't know, you know what I'm saying, 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:26.240 what you're saying. And it's like if if I can't 0:13:26.280 --> 0:13:29.319 think of a specific example, but obviously, like not everything 0:13:29.440 --> 0:13:32.040 is perfect all the time, and I always say, I 0:13:32.040 --> 0:13:34.360 feel like we're we're good. We're good mirrors for each other. 0:13:34.559 --> 0:13:37.960 So like, you know, if I'm being me and or 0:13:38.000 --> 0:13:40.240 being a you know, for lack of better words, he 0:13:40.280 --> 0:13:41.599 can kind of hold the mirror up in front of 0:13:41.600 --> 0:13:43.040 me and say, hey, like you said this a little 0:13:43.080 --> 0:13:45.360 weird or you know, this threw me off a little bit, 0:13:45.400 --> 0:13:47.240 and I may not like it at that point, but 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:49.360 it always comes back around to where I'm like, okay, 0:13:49.400 --> 0:13:51.959 like you're my mirror, thank you. I can move I 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:54.000 can move forward from this and say for him, you know, 0:13:54.040 --> 0:13:56.080 I feel like if if he's off or he's had 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:58.640 a long day and something comes up, I can be like, hey, 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:00.680 like I didn't really like this way or how you 0:14:00.679 --> 0:14:02.600 said this to me. It's just it's good to have 0:14:02.640 --> 0:14:05.480 an open, honest conversation and just kind of just be 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:07.600 that mirror for each other and be able to bounce 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:09.480 it back and forth and not like take it too 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:11.920 personal and take it as like out of love. You know. 0:14:12.320 --> 0:14:14.559 I love that. I feel like you guys have a 0:14:14.600 --> 0:14:17.680 great communication. I mean, that's communications key with keeping the 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:20.320 relationship together. So I think that's we're getting there where 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:23.720 we're able to start doing that. But before like trying 0:14:23.760 --> 0:14:25.480 to mirror each other, we would both kind of take 0:14:25.480 --> 0:14:28.120 it personal. It's like whoa, like wha wha, Like why 0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:29.880 are you saying I was being this way or you 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:32.360 know that wasn't the intention. So we're starting to get there, 0:14:32.880 --> 0:14:35.000 We're being able to do that not take offense so 0:14:35.120 --> 0:14:37.280 much offense to it where then it's just like hard 0:14:37.320 --> 0:14:40.480 when your character is being called out, Yeah, especially if 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:43.640 you're not there in that moment to be ready to 0:14:43.640 --> 0:14:46.080 be called out. You guys believe there's such thing as 0:14:46.160 --> 0:14:48.200 too much time together, Like it seems like you guys 0:14:48.200 --> 0:14:51.560 are just always together, working together, doing business together, fun together. 0:14:51.600 --> 0:14:54.880 It's like, what do you do to still like separate 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:58.200 yourselves and enjoy the time for yourself. Yeah, I think 0:14:58.240 --> 0:15:01.120 we we definitely there's there's two much time together sometimes 0:15:01.160 --> 0:15:03.000 and that's when, you know, I get up early. So 0:15:03.040 --> 0:15:05.640 I love getting two or three hours by myself. I'll 0:15:05.640 --> 0:15:09.680 get up super early, sometimes six. I mean, oh my god, yeah, 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:12.200 I'm like, get out of here. Closed the door and 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:14.440 I barely roll over. We got four dogs at the 0:15:14.480 --> 0:15:16.320 house with us. They're they're already like you ready to go? 0:15:16.360 --> 0:15:19.320 You ready to I'm hungry. I'm hungry, you know. And 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:21.440 so I'm like, I'll get up and you know, watch 0:15:21.520 --> 0:15:24.080 some podcasts and meditate a little bit, have some b 0:15:24.160 --> 0:15:27.040 K time. I think that really that's my favorite time 0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:29.720 is the morning by myself, just kind of letting the 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:32.360 morning evolve, waking up with the world, hearing the birds sing, 0:15:32.640 --> 0:15:34.680 watching you know, we live on the water, so watching 0:15:34.760 --> 0:15:38.000 sometimes dolphin or eagles and blue herons, and having the 0:15:38.000 --> 0:15:40.760 dogs run around, and it's just kind of it's kind 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:42.560 of you know, a new day and a fresh start, 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:44.280 and so taking that mindset with each day, I like 0:15:44.320 --> 0:15:46.520 waking up with the world and um just making sure 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:48.240 I have my time, whether that's going for a bike 0:15:48.320 --> 0:15:50.720 ride or we'll do that together. We're pretty good about 0:15:50.720 --> 0:15:53.480 separating ourselves even if we're together all day long. Like 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:55.240 I know that I'm going to go and do a 0:15:55.280 --> 0:15:58.240 little yoga session and put my headphones in and had 0:15:58.320 --> 0:16:00.560 to work, and you know, he does his calls and 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:02.440 walks up and down the street. I mean, we're even 0:16:02.480 --> 0:16:05.200 a day that we're like a PC together, Like we're 0:16:05.240 --> 0:16:06.920 doing our own thing all throughout the day, and we're 0:16:06.960 --> 0:16:09.480 kind of in understanding that, okay, like you're gonna go 0:16:09.480 --> 0:16:11.080 do your thing, and like I'll take this time for 0:16:11.120 --> 0:16:13.880 myself to call a family member or it's just again 0:16:13.920 --> 0:16:15.800 going back to like not taking it personal. Like if 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:18.320 sometimes he's on the phone until non pm and I'm 0:16:18.360 --> 0:16:20.000 like come in here and hang out with me. But 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:21.280 I'm like, all right, let me take this time to 0:16:21.360 --> 0:16:22.880 like call a friend or catch up with somebody, and 0:16:22.880 --> 0:16:24.960 and really like take this time and value the time 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:27.760 for me, versus like being like offended that he's not 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:30.200 in here, because usually he's either you know, catching up 0:16:30.200 --> 0:16:32.360 with his friends or his family or trying to make 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:35.440 us more money. So you know, it's like you know, 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:38.040 you gotta like not take a fence or take take 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:40.640 take it personally. Why why the look though when she 0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:45.560 was saying, you looked at me when you said try 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:47.640 not to take it personal. I will say sometimes, I 0:16:47.720 --> 0:16:50.920 just I I will always say this. Michael would spend 0:16:50.920 --> 0:16:53.400 the entire day without me, and that'd be his favorite day, 0:16:53.480 --> 0:16:57.120 My favorite day, spending every moment with him. I just 0:16:57.200 --> 0:16:59.560 love spending time with him. I just I love doing 0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:03.680 things of someone else. Understand. Have you all ever taken 0:17:03.680 --> 0:17:06.240 the test to figure out your love language. Yeah, it's 0:17:06.320 --> 0:17:10.080 definitely quality times. Yeah. And his is like not my wife, 0:17:12.000 --> 0:17:13.720 you know, his his acts of service and that's like 0:17:13.760 --> 0:17:22.040 my least thing. Yeah, I'm word words, Yeah, I think 0:17:22.080 --> 0:17:27.400 mine's like um, physical touch yeah yeah, Like if we're 0:17:27.400 --> 0:17:29.840 out somewhere and I'd rather somebody or rather at least 0:17:29.840 --> 0:17:31.479 reach over and give me a little pad, even if 0:17:31.480 --> 0:17:33.359 we don't talk or touch the whole rest of the night, Like, 0:17:33.400 --> 0:17:35.880 just give me that, even when you're at a party. 0:17:35.920 --> 0:17:37.359 That's what I'll say to like, if we have something, 0:17:37.600 --> 0:17:40.679 you know at any event, he doesn't. If you just 0:17:40.720 --> 0:17:42.080 come by me and just grab my hand or hold 0:17:42.119 --> 0:17:43.640 my hand. I'm good for the rest of the night. 0:17:43.920 --> 0:17:46.120 That just means that it's you and me, we're here, 0:17:46.160 --> 0:17:48.960 we're doing this together. We're just talking to other people 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:51.880 and it's good. Yeah, that's like what it always comes 0:17:51.880 --> 0:17:54.679 back to and what you know. Obviously in the beginning, 0:17:54.680 --> 0:17:56.520 you have these arguments and you try to figure out 0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:58.120 how to get get out of them or get away 0:17:58.160 --> 0:17:59.800 from that negative feeling. But I feel like we've just 0:18:00.000 --> 0:18:02.719 I did. Like it's all out of love. And at 0:18:02.720 --> 0:18:04.679 the end of the day, like, no matter who your 0:18:04.720 --> 0:18:07.439 partners or soul mate is, like you you're really just 0:18:07.560 --> 0:18:10.000 finding that partner to like figure things out with because 0:18:10.000 --> 0:18:11.720 it's not always gonna be perfect. So if you just 0:18:11.840 --> 0:18:14.359 know that you're always going to get back to that 0:18:14.560 --> 0:18:16.320 that place, it's like, let's just figure it out and 0:18:16.359 --> 0:18:18.720 like and I feel like that's a soul mate you 0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:21.399 do that work. Because I remember one time and we 0:18:21.440 --> 0:18:23.200 hadn't done it since, but it was like the first 0:18:23.320 --> 0:18:26.240 year of our marriage. Remember, we flew into uh we 0:18:26.520 --> 0:18:29.439 we flew into Sawgrass the golf course. We had to 0:18:29.440 --> 0:18:31.840 do like a like some event in the next day, 0:18:32.280 --> 0:18:34.880 and we got in super late, like eleven eleven thirty, 0:18:34.880 --> 0:18:37.680 and we were up all night just arguing and arguing 0:18:37.720 --> 0:18:40.560 about I mean, something stupid, but like we would not 0:18:40.680 --> 0:18:42.800 I mean, I didn't get any sleep. It affected the 0:18:42.840 --> 0:18:45.200 whole next day. I was in a mood, you know. 0:18:45.359 --> 0:18:48.040 And we've we learned so many lessons from that about hey, 0:18:48.160 --> 0:18:51.040 never go to bed, never go to bed mad, and 0:18:51.040 --> 0:18:53.960 and always try to figure things out and and even 0:18:53.960 --> 0:18:56.720 in the dark arguments at the moment we're like, I 0:18:56.760 --> 0:18:58.200 know that you'll always ask like just let me, just 0:18:58.240 --> 0:18:59.600 let me know it's gonna be okay at the end, 0:18:59.640 --> 0:19:01.080 and it's all right, it's gonna be okay. But I'm 0:19:01.240 --> 0:19:03.360 I'm still really piste off who has to talk through 0:19:03.400 --> 0:19:07.760 its time. She needs time. I like to talk and 0:19:07.800 --> 0:19:09.400 do it. I'm like, just give me like a couple 0:19:09.400 --> 0:19:11.240 of hours, let me digest it, and that's when I'll 0:19:11.280 --> 0:19:13.240 go right on the full leathers or something. But but 0:19:13.280 --> 0:19:15.160 that's what's hard, though, is at night. If you fight 0:19:15.200 --> 0:19:17.920 at night, that's so hard because you know, he can 0:19:18.400 --> 0:19:20.400 if we're fighting, he could be sawn logs And I'm 0:19:20.440 --> 0:19:22.359