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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks so

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Speaker 1: much for coming back and joining us. Kathy, you excited

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Speaker 1: about today?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, if you did not listen to Wednesday's episode,

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Speaker 2: we could have gone on for hours. We had Braden

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Speaker 2: and Christina on and they are amazing. So if you

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Speaker 2: haven't listened to it yet, get on.

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Speaker 1: And I'm waiting. How about the good head on their shoulders.

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Speaker 1: They're in their twenties. I mean, they really spoke well,

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Speaker 1: they learned how to communicate. I really think this one's

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Speaker 1: going to last.

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Speaker 2: Susan, all the ones, all the ones in the recent

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Speaker 2: past from Bachelor Nation, they're all Kelsey and Dowton, and

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Speaker 2: I mean, all those couples amazing.

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Speaker 3: What about Hey, all the going I I love what

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Speaker 3: Braden had to say about the step daughter.

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Speaker 2: Can I just tell you we touched on that, you know,

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Speaker 2: my parents were divorced and the fact that he is

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Speaker 2: you know, you didn't hear him say, oh, you know,

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Speaker 2: we go to Target and I buy her whatever she wants.

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Speaker 2: He gives the gift of time and that.

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Speaker 1: He is always there right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know what kids, as I said during

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Speaker 2: the episode, it's not what you say it's the trust

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Speaker 2: that he'll be there and he's giving her the time

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Speaker 2: and attention that she needs that's so much more valuable.

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Speaker 2: They're amazing, man. I wish them the best, perfect And

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Speaker 2: you know what, you and I played it right, because

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Speaker 2: you know what, you may be marrying them, officiating the

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Speaker 2: wedding and I'm and I'm definitely going to be there.

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Speaker 2: And we did offer to be matrons of honor, said Christina.

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Speaker 2: Don't forget us.

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Speaker 1: Don't forget we're coming.

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Speaker 2: And Braden, I'll buy your really special pair of earrings

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Speaker 2: for the special day.

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Speaker 1: So, Kath, we're going to get started on today's Fan

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Speaker 1: Questions episode with our topic of the day, but this

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Speaker 1: time with a little twist. Ok okay, So today's topic

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Speaker 1: of the day is inspired by a listener who wrote

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Speaker 1: in shall be shall Be asks, I'm in a long

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Speaker 1: term relationship and I'm reaching the point where I'm just

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Speaker 1: not happy anymore and I'm seeing more red flags from

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Speaker 1: my partner. A part of me wants to break up

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Speaker 1: with him, but I know I'm going to regret it.

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Speaker 1: How do you think I should proceed? So, Kathy, our

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Speaker 1: question of the day is, how do you figure out

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Speaker 1: when to break up and how do you go about

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Speaker 1: a breakup? Oh my god?

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Speaker 2: Oh you know what you know, y'all? I love I

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Speaker 2: love Susan and we talk a lot about She and

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Speaker 2: I are very different. So Susan, you go first tell

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Speaker 2: everybody how do you manage your breakup? I don't.

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Speaker 1: I stay way too long because I always feel bad.

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Speaker 1: She was going to regret it. Now, if you're going

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Speaker 1: to break up, why are you going to regret it?

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Speaker 2: Wow? Let me just say listen to what she said.

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Speaker 2: Shelby says, I'm reaching the point where I'm just not

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Speaker 2: I mean, you're you're not happy. You're not happy if

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Speaker 2: he doesn't fold the socks or you know so much

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Speaker 1: She did say she has been in a long term relationship.

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Speaker 1: Now she decides she's not happy. It's better that you

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Speaker 2: So how do you figure it's?

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Speaker 1: How you do it? keV, I want to break up twice.

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Speaker 2: It's done here. That's exactly Susan. That's why I love you.

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Speaker 2: How do you figure out when to break up? Shelby?

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Speaker 2: If you are done, you're done. Don't be a jerk

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Speaker 2: about it, But you tell the person kindly, and I'm

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Speaker 2: being serious now, you tell the person your feelings have changed.

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Speaker 2: You're just not that into them. I think there was

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Speaker 2: wish him the best, and you know what, he may

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Speaker 2: and you're I'm about to say something that I'm going

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Speaker 2: the right time. Right, So when you know it's time,

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Speaker 2: it's time, do it. Why do people struggle, Susan? Why

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Speaker 1: Because I feel like I'm going to make them sad

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Speaker 2: Great, So let's day with the guy another six months

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Speaker 2: and maybe the martyr. No, listen to what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: So you're going to stay with a guy another six months,

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Speaker 2: you're like, yes, sorry, I want to do it six

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Speaker 2: months ago, but I didn't like I don't understand.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let me share this and it's a bad habit,

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Speaker 1: but I do do it. I end up feeling so

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Speaker 1: guilty and not wanting to break anybody's heart that I

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Speaker 1: do things that will annoy him, that get him to

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Speaker 1: you call that? It's stupid.

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Speaker 2: I call it stupid. That's what I call it. But

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Speaker 2: I just I don't know, Susan. You, you and I

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Speaker 2: are very similar. I've broken up. I mean that guy

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Speaker 2: that I dated before I came on The Bachelor, who was,

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Speaker 2: you know, a nice guy and I knew, I knew

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Speaker 2: he wasn't the guy, but I kept thinking, you know, Kathy,

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Speaker 2: just give it some time, because that's what everyone told me.

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Speaker 2: Give it time, give it time. Literally, when was the

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Speaker 2: right time? I literally said, he said something that I

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Speaker 2: won't repeat, ask me a question, and I said, you

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Speaker 2: know what, I think we're done here, and he just

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Speaker 2: didn't matter. I just knew. And you know what, you

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Speaker 2: can hurt him now or you can hurt him six

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Speaker 2: sooner you your heart can open for someone else. So

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Speaker 2: Shelby move along. Be nice about it, be nice about it,

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Speaker 2: but tell him to take justice like me. Yeah, don't

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Speaker 1: It's torture.

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Speaker 2: All right. Let's do some of our questions of the day,

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Speaker 2: because not question today are are fan questions. Victoria asks, Hi,

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Speaker 2: Kathy and Susan. I'm twenty seven years old and currently engaged.

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Speaker 2: I'll actually be getting married in May next year. But

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Speaker 2: it's been a bittersweet experience. It'll be a year since

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Speaker 2: I lost my dad on a expectedly this June, and

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Speaker 2: I've been struggling with celebrating these milestones. But I know

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Speaker 1: I know, let's breaking my heart. Yes, absolutely, keep your

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Speaker 1: and need her and let her know she's needed. And

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Speaker 1: you're so grateful that at least she's here for you.

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Speaker 1: It's okay to mourn your dad and wish she was there,

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Speaker 1: but make your mom both your mom and your dad

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Speaker 2: I would say, Victoria, my daughter got married two and

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Speaker 2: would have been. And I will tell you, sweetie, it's

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Speaker 2: really hard. It's really hard. Your dad should be there

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Speaker 2: to walk you down the aisle. It's it's hard, but

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Speaker 2: I would encourage you. My words of encouragement to you

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Speaker 2: Try to focus on that and that's your happiest day.

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Speaker 2: If you want your mom. You know, my daughter didn't

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Speaker 2: but she didn't. And remember, Victoria, it's your day. So

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Speaker 2: love your mom and talk to her about things. But

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Speaker 2: this is your day, and my advice to you is

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Speaker 2: love the moment. Be sad that your dad's not there,

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Speaker 2: but your dad would want you to be happy on

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Speaker 2: he'll be there. He'll be watching over you.

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Speaker 1: And have a big picture of him there that he's there,

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Speaker 2: Know what, There's going to be tough milestones when you

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Speaker 2: But just be patient with yourself and your mom and

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Speaker 2: of happiness.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, and include your mommy because she's sad too. That's yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: God bless you. Okay. This one is anonymous. My father

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Speaker 1: interaction coming from social media. Do you have any tips

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Speaker 1: That's so sweet that they're worried about her. Though, First

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Speaker 2: There are so so many senior groups out there. It

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Speaker 2: takes a little bit of time anonymous, but research online.

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Speaker 2: When my husband died, my daughter researched. I didn't even

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Speaker 2: know the word meetup groups, but my daughter did it

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Speaker 2: and I joined some walking groups. I know your mom

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Speaker 1: She may rejected at first because she's going to have

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Speaker 1: to mour and she's keeping herself very occupied planning this thing.

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Speaker 1: She's got to go through all the steps of morning,

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Speaker 1: you know, and you can't make her find a friend,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But it does put you

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Speaker 2: might suggest, so, you know, meet up groups, that kind

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Speaker 2: of thing, and our senior centers, a knitting group. I mean,

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Speaker 2: there's all kinds of things. And that's a book and

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Speaker 2: that's how you get the lightest ball in the alley

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Speaker 2: be tough for a little while. And I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I was lucky enough to make some great friends going

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Speaker 2: on the Golden Bachelor. Maybe right here, she's saitting right there,

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Speaker 2: but she and God bless you for worrying about isn't

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Speaker 2: that nice that she cares about her mother in law

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Speaker 2: so much? Absolutely?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely? Alrighty Jeff asks, Hey, ladies, how goes it?

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Speaker 2: Jeff?

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Speaker 1: Here? I'm sixty five, work in Washington, DC, and I'm

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Speaker 1: a major league fan of The Golden Bachelor. Where are you? Jeff?

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Speaker 1: I enjoy your show and all your ig posts. Here's

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Speaker 1: a question I have, and I actually thought of it

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Speaker 2: I do now, Sorry, adding I think I know who

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Speaker 2: Minus zero is still too to do nothing, Kathy, Jeff,

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Speaker 1: Why sharing your DMN with me? You said, now, I

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Speaker 2: Tell the truth. Cat. We have just chatted a few times.

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Speaker 1: Look for the positives. It's not the dwell on the negatives.

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Speaker 2: And if this is the Jeff that I know, reach

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Speaker 1: Yeah, call me. Why is she getting everything?

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Speaker 2: Thanks Jef, Thanks Jeff for your for your for your question.

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Speaker 2: We love hearing from you. All Right, we've got time

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Speaker 1: There are a lot of the not are you name no?

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Speaker 2: No? If you feel you know what I want to

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Speaker 1: If you want to ask me out, I need a name.

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Speaker 2: here we go, Anonymous, says Hi, Kathy and Susan. I

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Speaker 2: about it. Yeah. No. We're part of a close knit

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Speaker 1: First of all, how long ago was college and dam

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Speaker 1: that's his past. You didn't even know him, then you

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Speaker 1: have no right to judge. I get it, it'll get

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Speaker 2: No, I think you're missing this. Why she said, We're

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Speaker 2: I am going to say, I wholeheartedly disagree with you

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Speaker 2: have slept.

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Speaker 1: With the guy that I at dating slept with.

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Speaker 2: That Wait, honey, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, listen,

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Speaker 2: you are sixty seven. Hook Up in this parlance means

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Speaker 2: getting it on, having sex, doing the deed, sticking it whatever,

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Speaker 2: you got it now, great, Okay, let's move on. Right,

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Speaker 2: they did this, So they did the deed, And I

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Speaker 1: Uh say, it was a long time ago.

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Speaker 2: I don't care a small friend group. I'm saying, uh,

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Speaker 2: I mean, hooking up is different from having an emotional relation.

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Speaker 1: Well, he said. She says here that he tried to

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Speaker 2: That's o Kamon, Susan, I would say, give me some space,

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Speaker 2: like I I feel for her. Shocked all of the above.

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Speaker 2: And you know what, Lisa turned red because she probably

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Speaker 1: They agreed not to tell this girl.

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Speaker 2: And so okay, So my advice anonymous, and again I'm

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Speaker 2: You're not the only one in this boat, sweetie. So

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Speaker 2: that's what you heard. So if you want to know,

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Speaker 2: you know, I always say to my kids, don't ask

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Speaker 2: you already know the answer to. So we already know

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Speaker 2: we hooked up with her, and Susan just learned what

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Speaker 1: I really thought it was makeout session.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my daughter made fun of me. I've got to

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Speaker 1: I might have even said, yeah, I hooked up with him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well now you know, So should I let it

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Speaker 2: because it's already Let wait a minute. You can let

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Speaker 2: can have the conversation with Jack Anonymous and say, hey,

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Speaker 2: we've been together two weeks, two years, and we've had

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Speaker 2: a horrible way to find out. It's not that I

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Speaker 2: judge you for it. It's not I didn't even know

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Speaker 1: He likes her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, And and Jack Man makes a suggestion buy

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Speaker 1: Flowers or diamond earrings.

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Speaker 2: Or let's go for it, diamond ring if you if

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Speaker 2: she's the one, make something happen here, Jack make some music.

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Speaker 1: Feel bad for her. That sucks to find out like that.

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Speaker 1: She probably had a pit in the bottom of her stomach.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, the odd thing is the odd thing

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Speaker 1: Would I would probably tell the whole Thanks guys, thanks

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Speaker 1: you all of you knew this, and nobody tried.

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Speaker 2: To tell me, Susan, I love you. That's a lot

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Speaker 2: of bravado. I think you would be heartbroken and upset.

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Speaker 1: You pissed off and for all you know, for all.

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Speaker 2: I think one would come out here? Am I right? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Are you ready to play some moral quandry?

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00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:38,640
Speaker 2: All right, go for it? All right, here we go.

434
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,679
Speaker 2: I'll start us off, and let's see where this goes.

435
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:45,640
Speaker 2: You use your friend's phone to take pictures of her,

436
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 2: and you see a notification from a group chat of

437
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:52,400
Speaker 2: all your friends that you're not in. Do you confront her?

438
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 2: Do you? Snoop? Do you ignore it?

439
00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 1: I go, hey, what is this about? Why did anybody

440
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:00,120
Speaker 1: tell me?

441
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 2: That's what?

442
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:02,679
Speaker 1: I don't know?

443
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 2: Wait, Susan, you blew it again. I am supposed.

444
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 1: To supposed to guess what this game should be different.

445
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 2: No, you need to learn the rules of the game.

446
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 2: It's not the Susan to the world. Susan does not

447
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 2: follow rules. So what do you think I would do?

448
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 2: I know you would confront her. You you for.

449
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: Sure confront her. I would, snoop? Would I ignore it,

450
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 1: you would confront her.

451
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, but I wouldn't do it in the meanway.

452
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 2: I would just say, why why do you and Joan

453
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 2: and Nancy have this thing going? Why didn't you include me?

454
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:39,439
Speaker 2: I would I'd probably have my feelings hurt if it

455
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 2: were you know, friends, and I knew absolutely, I'm gonna

456
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:44,439
Speaker 2: have to erase the one we have all going that

457
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 2: you're not in Susan.

458
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:48,960
Speaker 1: Great, you know some things are better left on them,

459
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:53,400
Speaker 1: But don't ask me to use your phone, your dumb head.

460
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 1: No that yeah, you know what. That one's also at

461
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 1: my age. I don't know that i'd be as upset,

462
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 1: like as a teenager when I asked people to go

463
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 1: to the mall and found out they went without me

464
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 1: and told me they couldn't go. That hurts. They've done

465
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,919
Speaker 1: it to my daughter, like kids can be mean. But

466
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 1: as an adult, maybe i'd be a surprise for me.

467
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 2: I think I'd still be hurt if y'all went out

468
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 2: for drinks and didn't invite me, I'd be hurt.

469
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 1: Oh god, yeah, Okay, during a double date with your

470
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 1: best friend and your boyfriend's her boyfriend puts his hand

471
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:32,680
Speaker 1: on your knee for a brief moment. He's always been

472
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:36,680
Speaker 1: really nice to you, and this action makes you rethink everything.

473
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 1: Your friend seems oblivious, but your boyfriend clocks it immediately.

474
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:42,679
Speaker 1: What do you do?

475
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:52,720
Speaker 2: Okay? I think you would say something to the girl

476
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:54,679
Speaker 2: or the guy, like what are you doing? You'd make

477
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 2: a joke of it, like okay, what are you doing? You?

478
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:58,639
Speaker 2: You would just make it. You would make it light and.

479
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 1: Are trying to rub my leg it? Oh my god,

480
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: my boyfriend here, you better watch out exactly. You would

481
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:05,360
Speaker 1: make a joke of.

482
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 2: Me, but you would make a joke of it. You

483
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:08,680
Speaker 2: wouldn't say what the hell are you doing? What would

484
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 2: you think I was comfortable? What do you think I

485
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:12,200
Speaker 2: would do?

486
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 1: You get excited? You got to now?

487
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 2: No, no, you know what I would do. I don't

488
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 2: know what I can tell what I do. I would

489
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 2: take nicely take his hand off of my thing, and

490
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 2: I would turn to my boyfriend. I put no, yeah,

491
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 2: I would. I would take his hand and put it

492
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:30,679
Speaker 2: back on because she said it made me rethink everything.

493
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:32,879
Speaker 2: I don't even know what that means. But I would

494
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 2: like lean over and give my boyfriend a kiss and say,

495
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 2: you know your mind? I just like I would just

496
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 2: I wouldn't make a big thing of it. I would

497
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 2: just end it.

498
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:42,879
Speaker 1: I mean, was it just for a second, or was

499
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:45,199
Speaker 1: he really like did he squeeze it?

500
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 2: Or I might ask him to move his hand up

501
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 2: and massage my whatever he.

502
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:53,639
Speaker 1: Just you know, like I do that, Like yeah, you know.

503
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 2: People are very sensitive. They are too sensitive.

504
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 1: I am harmless. So people think I'm the biggest in

505
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 1: the world. I want everybody's boyfriend.

506
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:03,440
Speaker 2: I'm just flirty.

507
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 1: I don't mean any.

508
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 2: Excuse me to the world out there, Bachelor Nation and

509
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 2: anyone else who's tuning in. I'm available. Susan's available, and

510
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 2: she's only flirting unless she wants the guy. And then

511
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 2: your toast, she's going in for the kill. All right,

512
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 2: here's the next one. You see your current partner out

513
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:25,479
Speaker 2: at lunch with their ex that you didn't realize they

514
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 2: still talk to. Do you go over to them, bring

515
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 2: it up later, or try to forget about it? Get

516
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 2: What would I do about it? You don't forget me me?

517
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Susan, I'm saying you wouldn't forget about it.

518
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:37,399
Speaker 2: Nobody would.

519
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: That's that part don't count.

520
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 2: Okay, So what would I do?

521
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: You'd probably go up to them.

522
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 2: Oh my god, no, no, Oh, are you kidding? I

523
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 2: do not like confrontations.

524
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 1: Now my clar.

525
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 2: Wait, the guy I'm dating, my partner, he's out to

526
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 2: lunch with his ex and I didn't realize they still

527
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 2: there's an issue right there that I didn't know. They're

528
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 2: still talking together. I'm thinking my current boyfriend's about to

529
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 2: be my ex. But that's the whole next story. But

530
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 2: I would never go over to them. I would ditch

531
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 2: the place so quickly. You would go up to them.

532
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 1: I don't know in the moment that I would really. Yeah,

533
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 1: if it would depend if it's his ex girlfriend or

534
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 1: his ex wife, I don't know. Like, if it's this

535
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend, I'm not going to be seen. I'm going

536
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 1: to hide somewhere and watch. I'm going to stake it out.

537
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 1: But if it's his ex wife, it could be anything.

538
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 1: And if she knew about me, then yeah, i'd make

539
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: my presence known.

540
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess it depends on the ex. But yeah,

541
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 2: I certainly would not go up to them. All Right,

542
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 2: your neighbor is constantly flirting with your husband. Oh this

543
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 2: is she bakes him his favorite cookies for his birthday.

544
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 2: Will always say things like how they need to go

545
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 2: on a golf trip together. She's nice to you, but

546
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 2: only have her bring some topics you can't participate in.

547
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 2: What do you do? Okay, Susan, I'm your neighbor and

548
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 2: I'm constantly flirting with your husband that you don't have.

549
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 2: What do you think? What do you think I would do?

550
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:15,440
Speaker 2: If the tables were reversed? You're coming over to my house?

551
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 2: What would I do?

552
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 1: You'd say something to her.

553
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 2: No, you're flirting with my husband. What would I say,

554
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:23,479
Speaker 2: I'm doing it?

555
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 1: Now? Would you say to me you want them?

556
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 2: Can I just say We're gonna have to come up

557
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 2: with a new game.

558
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 1: Because I always think I'm reading the question and I'm

559
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 1: feeling the answers of.

560
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 2: What I do you?

561
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 1: I don't know what anybody will you after you?

562
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,719
Speaker 2: But it just said your neighbor.

563
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 1: You know I would go to my husband and say,

564
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 1: do you see what I see? Is there something wrong

565
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: with this picture? And then maybe at the right time,

566
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 1: I'll tell you. You know what he's taken Your fucking cookies?

567
00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: Aren't that good?

568
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 2: I bake? He's eating my cookies? First, let me just

569
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 2: tell you, because you.

570
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 1: Know what I send my next door neighbor ticket gutlets

571
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 1: all the time, and his wife's there.

572
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 2: Your wife is all His wife is over at your house,

573
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 2: hanging with you all the time. There's nothing going on there.

574
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 2: I will tell you I would not like it. I

575
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 2: would not like it. I would not like it unless

576
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 2: she was like, you know, forty years older. No, if

577
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 2: it were you, Susan, you were flirting with my husband,

578
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 2: it wouldn't bother me because I know the bond. Yeah,

579
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 2: but you know, all right, your friend that went through

580
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 2: a time why did you get to read them?

581
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 1: All?

582
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 2: Oh? Sorry, go read?

583
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 1: No, go ahead, I like when you read.

584
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 2: I'm a reader? All right? Your friend that went through

585
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 2: a tough breakup shows you the profile of the guy

586
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 2: on hinge who she's going on her first post breakup

587
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 2: date with. You realize it's a guy you casually dated

588
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 2: last year that you were super into, but he ghosted you.

589
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 2: You don't say anything, assuming it won't last. Fast forward,

590
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 2: they've been dating or a few weeks and he didn't

591
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 2: remember you. When she quote introduced you unquote, what do

592
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 2: you do? Okay? What would I do?

593
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 1: I need to read it again?

594
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 2: Okay, Well you're reading that. I'm gonna tell.

595
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 1: You she on her first Okay, you realize that, Yeah,

596
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 1: you casually dated, you were super But he goes to you,

597
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,720
Speaker 1: are you going to tell you don't anything?

598
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 2: Laughing at buta and he didn't remember you? When I would,

599
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 2: what would I do? You would tell me? In a heartbeat?

600
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 1: Absolutely, what would I do?

601
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 2: Oh, don't overthink this, Susan.

602
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 1: I overthink everything.

603
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 2: Oh my god, girlfriend, I would tell you what a

604
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 2: heartbeat you gonna tell? If you know me? If it's me,

605
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 2: you're no, hell no, let me let me let me

606
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 2: phrase this for you. Louise. You know Johnny, we just met.

607
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 2: Guess what he didn't remember eating me. I remember him.

608
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 2: He had about breath and stepped on my toes three weeks.

609
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 1: Ago to him. You were very into him and he

610
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 1: ghosted you. Hey, I want to give you a fair

611
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 1: share here. That guy ghosted me. I was really into him.

612
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: Maybe I wasn't for him, but I'm just telling you

613
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 1: what happened.

614
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 2: That's exactly okay. And then I would say I have

615
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 2: bad breath and stepped on my feet because he's not right.

616
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 1: And he didn't dress in, his shoes were weird, and.

617
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 2: You know what, you can have him.

618
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 1: He's all yours, sweetheart, let me the first with no.

619
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 1: But seriously, wait, this is kind of funny, Kathy listening

620
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 1: to this. So my cousin Donna and I were both

621
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: on dating site and she used to come to me

622
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 1: and say, wait, I'm talking to this guy. Tell me first,

623
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 1: did you already meet him? Yes, yeah, you're gonna have.

624
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 2: Oh that's funny.

625
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 1: I have a really funny story. I'm sorry. I got

626
00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 1: so an ex boyfriend. Okay, I'm friends with all these

627
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 1: people down there. This couple's getting married and I'm invited

628
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 1: to the wedding. So I'm on the phone with his

629
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: daughter and we have to include him for something, for

630
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 1: his charge card whatever. I'm helping her get the place,

631
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Long story short. I go, okay, I'm

632
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 1: going to add your dad. So I add him to

633
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 1: the call, and this man answers your phone.

634
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 2: I know.

635
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 1: And this man answers the phone and I don't recognize

636
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 1: the boys, and I'm saying his name and he goes yeah,

637
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:34,879
Speaker 1: and I go no, I go say your dad. He goes,

638
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 1: who is this? And I said Susan. He goes, wait

639
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 1: a minute, Wait a minute. Susan from the Golden bachelor.

640
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: I was like, uh, yeah, he goes. We went on

641
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 1: a date five years ago. I go, my god.

642
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 2: Did your guy the wrong number?

643
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: It was the wrong It was the same name, but

644
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:55,440
Speaker 1: one had an initial after it.

645
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 2: And I was, you know, okay, I wanted to die.

646
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 2: That is going to teach you. It's called calling your

647
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 2: phone book.

648
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 1: Call I see.

649
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,399
Speaker 2: If you're not dating them anymore, take the lead off

650
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 2: the roster. Do you know what a roster is? Take

651
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 2: them off. You can only have twenty eleven on a side,

652
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Speaker 2: on a soccer team.

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Speaker 3: You can't have fifteen eighteen, like nine thousand numbers.

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Speaker 2: Well, you deserve everything you get. Well.

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Speaker 1: Wait, I used to put fake names and try to

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Speaker 1: remember who they were. I'd say that, Donna, don't I'm

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Speaker 1: going on the dates and I don't remember the guy's name.

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Speaker 2: Can I tell you? Wait? Can I just tell you?

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Speaker 2: I trust me. I haven't dated very much. I'm I

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Speaker 2: went on a date with a guy. There was a

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Speaker 2: time for a little bit there when I sort of

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Speaker 2: was really trying to date, just to you know, to

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Speaker 2: meet people. And I had like three dates in a

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Speaker 2: week and I called the guy by the wrong name.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever done that? Oh, it's so embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: So embarrassing, it sure is, and I admit it to

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Speaker 1: one guy. You were my second date today. This ain't

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Speaker 1: work to me, I'm out of here.

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Speaker 2: No wonder you and I wonder why we're single.

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Speaker 1: I know I can't You're not now. I just was saying,

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Speaker 1: pat Kathy. For those of you listening in this today,

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Speaker 1: I got to surprise Kathy. Some gentlemen, can I listen?

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Speaker 2: This is what you're missing? You are wrote listening.

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Speaker 1: Asking Katy out pretty much described himself. I mean, he

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Speaker 1: was such a jump. I got to be there when

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Speaker 1: they meet. I'm just saying, I'm a little.

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Speaker 2: Susan's already fast forwarding to officiate the wedding. I know.

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Speaker 1: Depends on where he lifts that.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you all, it really was a surprise.

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Speaker 2: I had the idea, I'm trying to wrap up, have

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Speaker 2: to see her face. She's looking through her papers because

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Speaker 2: you don't have this copy. We had to try to

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Speaker 2: surprise her, and I'm like, we'll just work with me here,

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Speaker 2: shut zip it. I promise. I was totally surprised. I

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Speaker 2: love it. You know what, though?

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Speaker 1: That does it? It went so fast? That does it

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Speaker 1: for today's episode of Happy Hour Golden Hour. Thanks so

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Speaker 1: much for joining us.

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Speaker 2: And be sure to submit your questions to us at

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Speaker 2: bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour. We love, really, truly

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Speaker 2: love getting to connect with all of you. We love

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Speaker 2: hearing what's on your mind and giving you some advice,

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Speaker 2: and in my case, I love getting suggestions for dates,

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Speaker 2: so keep those coming to you and come. You know what.

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Speaker 2: Susan's Susan's great too, so send her some impassivites as well.

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Speaker 1: You can pretend, I mean, just like make me feel good,

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Speaker 1: you know, but don't ghost me. Listen to Bachelor Happy

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Speaker 1: Hours Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you

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Speaker 1: listen to your podcast until next time.

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Speaker 2: See you, then bye