1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,120 Speaker 1: Welcome to Money Making Conversations. It's the show that she 2 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: is the Secrets of success experience firsthand by Marketing and 3 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: Brandon expert Rashan McDonald. I will know he's giving me 4 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: advice on many occasions. In the case you didn't notice, 5 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: I'm not broke, you know he'll be interviewing celebrity CEOs, 6 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: entrepreneurs and industry decision makers. It's what he likes to do, 7 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 1: It's what he likes to ship. Thank you, stephen A. Smith. 8 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: This is Rashan McDonald. I am the host of money 9 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 1: Making Conversation dot Com. I recognize that we all have 10 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: different definitions of success. Please learn to leave with your 11 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: gifts and don't let your age, friends, family, or co 12 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 1: workers stop you from planning or living your dream. I 13 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: want you to stop tripping over small challenges and prepare 14 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: the rise above the bigger obstacles that life will present 15 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: to you. My Money Making Conversation dot Com guests, this 16 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:41,959 Speaker 1: we call Laman Rutger Fmer Green Leaf co star now 17 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:45,240 Speaker 1: starting and owns cooking Up Christmas, breast cancer survivor for 18 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 1: Shan Shaw talking her new book gat Stopping War Warrior Woman, 19 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 1: Sheila Bell or the Beall Entertainment and Gospel Report chef 20 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 1: Tanya Holland, host of Tanya's Kitchen Table, and fashion stylers 21 00:00:55,600 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: Socia Stewart. My next guest is Lamon Rucker old friend. 22 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 1: He's an actor, educated activist, an entrepreneur whose career platform 23 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: has used it has been used to influence, educate, and 24 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 1: ignite communities through artistic and academic innovation. Lamon is starting 25 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 1: in a new Christmas movie on their Own network entitled 26 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:19,040 Speaker 1: Cooking Up Christmas. He plays a professional baseball player, Donovan Jackson, 27 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 1: who is a single dad of three and even a 28 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 1: living chef to get him through the holidays with the kids. 29 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:27,479 Speaker 1: The chef role is played by Megan Holder. She starts 30 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: as an Atlanta based chef at a fine dining restaurant 31 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 1: who gets fired just weeks before Christmas and reluctantly that 32 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:37,040 Speaker 1: takes this job off her. Cooking Up Christmas premieres Tuesday, 33 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:40,959 Speaker 1: December fifteen at nine pm Eastern on Own. Please welcome 34 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 1: to my Moneymaking Conversation show, my man, Lamon Rucker Man, 35 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: what's good? Thanks for having me? Man? Well, you know 36 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: you know we we we we we said with agreedlea. 37 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:57,559 Speaker 1: We've been talking a lot the last couple of years 38 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: has been very very good to the Rucker hashood yeah yeah, yeah, 39 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 1: and I would I would love to say and vice versa. 40 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I try to try to 41 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: be an asset everywhere I go. So absolutely blessed and thankful, 42 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: grateful to the own lions Gate Harpo family for m 43 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: Um for believing in me and seeing the value that 44 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:24,959 Speaker 1: I can bring to U to the work that they're creating. 45 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 1: And I'm incredibly excited. I think this is literally just 46 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 1: the tippity iceberg. I would love to continue to do 47 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:34,959 Speaker 1: some some wonderful things in that, you know, in that 48 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 1: family of of of allies, you know, so shout out 49 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: to Discovery Um, you know as well man, you know 50 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 1: everybody involved, So don't be surprised, man, you know, hopefully 51 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: be on some that geo stuff and everything else. I'm like, 52 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: you know, some cooking shows, you might be building houses 53 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: and gardening and who knows what, like whatever, whatever. Don't 54 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: don't get me excited that, lamar, because you know, relationship, financial, 55 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: you know, planning and travel and like let's let's do it. 56 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:07,519 Speaker 1: Let's well, you know, that's that's what we kind of 57 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: say it off area because our relationship goes way back. Man. 58 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 1: You know any time I we've been on panels together 59 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 1: for the Black Black Uh Movie Festival here in Atlanta, 60 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: when I asked you to come down to Disney for 61 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: the Disney Dreamers, You've always been a person who had 62 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: value in conversation, value and effort. You know, it was 63 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 1: a lot of people they say they do you do 64 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 1: what you say? Why is that important to you and 65 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: your brand and why it's important to educate young people 66 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: moving forward? Yeah? Well, I think the most important thing 67 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: is is where is the last part of that question 68 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 1: is it's the value. It's it's your value and your 69 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: understanding of your responsibility to serve you know, serve young people, 70 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 1: serve peers. I mean, you know, you and I serve 71 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 1: one another. We love and support and encourage and empowering 72 00:03:56,640 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 1: up lift each other. Um. You know that the branding 73 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 1: is completely secondary. I believe if you're doing what you're 74 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: supposed to be doing, if you're being who you're supposed 75 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 1: to be, if you're walking and living and your love 76 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 1: and your life on a regular basis, your brand will 77 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 1: be shaped around you, not you having to try to 78 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 1: be something You're not just because it's going to sell 79 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 1: or look good or profit you in some way. So 80 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: I do my best to work from the inside out, 81 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:28,359 Speaker 1: not the outside in. And that's been my walk to 82 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: just be authentic to who I am. H to use 83 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: my voice, um, you know, to speak for truth, to 84 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 1: speak to equality, to speak to education, and um, you know, 85 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: empowerment and equality for all people. So in all the 86 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 1: various ways that I try to do that, UM, that's 87 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:48,919 Speaker 1: really what's important to me. And I think that's important 88 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 1: for everybody to find and identify what their walk is 89 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: and how what their voice is, and how they um 90 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 1: fight for faith and how they fight for fulfillment and uh, 91 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: and how they fight for freedom. Well, it's awesome when 92 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 1: I when I look at our relationship and look at 93 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 1: your you know, your producer you know, and uh actors. 94 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 1: Sometimes a lot of people look at the actors and 95 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,039 Speaker 1: that's all they do is act. But you've been an 96 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:20,480 Speaker 1: entrepreneur in my life. You've been an activist in my life. 97 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 1: Now this movie here, we know pandemic has been raging 98 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:25,719 Speaker 1: this year and you just came off the very successful 99 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: series green Leaf. How is that? You know? We always 100 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:32,600 Speaker 1: want to be involved with projects that are special to me. 101 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 1: That felt like a very special series. And you know 102 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:37,840 Speaker 1: you've done a lot of significant work, don't don't get 103 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 1: me wrong, you know because I know your resume. But 104 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 1: how whether that, whether that that relationship with that series 105 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: landing your career. Oh man, it's what's what? You just 106 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 1: gave me chills because uh and I just became aware 107 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 1: of the chill right as I was about to open 108 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:59,919 Speaker 1: my mouth. But uh, it's real deep. How you know 109 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 1: what life uh not just does for you, but what 110 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: it does in you? And and I found a very 111 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 1: very poetic timing, if you will, with the work that 112 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 1: has uh come my way and the work that I've 113 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 1: chosen to do. This isn't just somebody plucking you and 114 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: saying I like you, I want you, and then you 115 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 1: just say you know, it's a relationship and it's an 116 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:31,039 Speaker 1: agreement to say, Okay, you want me to be there, 117 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 1: and you think I'm your guy, let me make sure 118 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 1: i'm your guy because if I say yes, I've got 119 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: work to do, I've got a duty to you, I've 120 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:42,160 Speaker 1: got an obligation to you, But I want to have 121 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: fun with you. I want us to do something profound 122 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 1: and I want to be able to authentically bring myself, 123 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 1: bring my gift, bring my voice to you to elevate 124 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: what we're gonna do together. And that um, the timing 125 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 1: of green Leaf, uh, and even my own personal walk 126 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 1: of faith, of fatherhood, of husbandhood, of you know, brotherhood, 127 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 1: um whatever of service UM really had a really interesting 128 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 1: actually contrast in many ways, but also an interesting parallel 129 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: to Jacob's you know, um life. To Jacob's walk, to 130 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 1: his process of self discovery, UM, you know, him trying 131 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: to figure out who he is and what he is 132 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: and how to you know, create his own identity aside 133 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: from you know, all these other people in this family family, 134 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 1: but it ain't no small fan you know, and and 135 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 1: and as regular as we are, which is what we 136 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 1: all made a commitment to do, is like no, no, no no, 137 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 1: We're gonna show that this this family is real regularly 138 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 1: are normal, regular folks that got regular, real stuff like 139 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 1: any other family. Let's focus on that. You know, if 140 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 1: we focus on that, all the other fab listeners about us, 141 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 1: you know, we'll just be icing on the cake. But 142 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 1: let's be the cake, not the icing, you know what 143 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Not just trying to be the little fancy, 144 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: cute sweet cherry on top. Let's be you know, let's 145 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 1: give this some real density and structure and flavor and 146 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 1: you know, really let it. Let this be a rich, 147 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 1: moist cake that you you want more and more and 148 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: more of. So that it was a lot of fun 149 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 1: doing that, and it was a great character exploration. UM, 150 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: wonderful to play somebody who I believe was a really 151 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 1: magnificent example of the beauty and brilliance of black family 152 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: and even of a black man, to show that, even 153 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 1: in his flaws, and however he might screw up the 154 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 1: time and time and make poor decisions, at his core, Um, 155 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:56,440 Speaker 1: you saw how you know, you you saw how incredibly 156 00:08:56,440 --> 00:09:01,319 Speaker 1: wonderful he was, and you were praying for him and um, 157 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 1: hoping that he would succeed, and and knowing that he 158 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: wanted to do better, and you wanted what he wanted 159 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 1: for him. Actually you wanted more than he may have 160 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 1: even wanted for himself. And that's so very true. That's true, 161 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:16,320 Speaker 1: very true. And then watch him go through It wasn't 162 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 1: the fun of it. Most of the time we've got 163 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: we keep these you know, barricades up, or we put 164 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:24,960 Speaker 1: these facades up so you can't really see the truth. 165 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,320 Speaker 1: And I tried at least let us do this and 166 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: at some point remove that veil altogether and really let 167 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 1: people kind of see the heart. Um uh, you know, 168 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:35,959 Speaker 1: in the trials and tribulations. That's why I love that 169 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:38,680 Speaker 1: character for you, Lamar. That's why I love that character 170 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 1: for you, because, like I said, I'm mad. I get mad. 171 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 1: I got mad at you. Okay, you know what I'm saying, right, 172 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: you know, you know what I'm saying. You walk into Hovard, 173 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 1: you know, patment with this chick. Come on, come on, loan, 174 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:53,319 Speaker 1: I'm I'm talking to the screen. I'm talking to sat exactly. 175 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 1: Stop stop. That's what too. Man. There's so many men, 176 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:59,320 Speaker 1: you know. It's been great, been on occasies like you 177 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:02,680 Speaker 1: know they like. Of course, the dominant fan base of 178 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 1: women around the world is great, you know, but to 179 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 1: have the you know, a very equitable admiration and respect 180 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 1: and appreciation of the men you know around the world, 181 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:17,199 Speaker 1: not just brothers and black men especially, you know, but 182 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: even to have them roll up and be like, hey, hey, bro, 183 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 1: I appreciate you man, you know, yelling at you from 184 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:26,599 Speaker 1: across the street. I see you, dog, keep doing what 185 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 1: you think you know, but whatever, just all flow down. 186 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:38,559 Speaker 1: Stop man, full up. I think I've got countless warnings 187 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 1: from don't do it, stawait from you know, things like that. 188 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: Absolutely you know what I mean. Then you need to 189 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 1: handle that little girl man, you know what I mean? Like, hey, girls, 190 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 1: ain't no joke. It's tough in so many ways that 191 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: Jacob uh. You know, so many other men identified with him, 192 00:10:57,480 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 1: and I thought it was gave me a lot of 193 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 1: pride to tell the truth in that way and for 194 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 1: that the resonation. And then I was in port lament 195 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 1: on the character because you know, a daughter and the 196 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 1: sun okay and so and that that that role that 197 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 1: you played, that male figuring. We all know how that 198 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 1: plays out in the black community. You know what what 199 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 1: is the young lady think of her dad? What is 200 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 1: the young man think of the role of how his 201 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:24,439 Speaker 1: dad treated women? And all those things? You know, it's 202 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:26,440 Speaker 1: a really great stories. You know, I hope people go 203 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 1: on and created and executed out to you know, uh, 204 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:39,079 Speaker 1: to Craig Right and and Oprah and Clement Virgo as 205 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,080 Speaker 1: well in particular christ Turn of Towns and you know 206 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 1: all the other people that we've got um again writing 207 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: stories are incredible writing team, all of our other directors 208 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 1: and of course you know my hacking, you know my 209 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 1: other peers on screen. But there's so many countless people 210 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 1: that were involved in telling that story. Um but yeah, 211 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 1: just the creation of it, support behind it and uh, cinematography. 212 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:06,680 Speaker 1: I mean, it's just it's such a beautiful piece of 213 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 1: piece of art, you know, and I hope it lives on. Well. 214 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 1: I think it's a countless ageless classic. I really do. 215 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:18,199 Speaker 1: It definitely is. Let's go on just cooking up Christmas. 216 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 1: Here you're listening to money making conversations with Rashan McDonald. 217 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 1: We'll be right back. Cars today are like a computer 218 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:26,600 Speaker 1: on wheels, but you can't fix any of these new 219 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 1: features yourself. So when something breaks, it could cause you 220 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 1: a fortune. 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I'm 238 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 1: your host, Sean McDonald. There's Tuesday, December fift on on 239 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 1: at nine pm. You know it's family. You got some 240 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 1: more kids now, but you just buy yourself this time. 241 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: You handsome, Your athletes got h that's right. You got 242 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 1: all the things that's safe, be successful. You got you 243 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 1: got the beautiful kids, the house, your successful athlete. But 244 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:54,680 Speaker 1: there's no woman now this yea, you got money, all 245 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 1: this stuff that's supposed to make you hold yes, yes, yes, yes, 246 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:01,719 Speaker 1: So tell us how this movie came on your came 247 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 1: on your desk and how you had the opportunity presented 248 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:07,120 Speaker 1: yourself to you and did you shoot it during COVID 249 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 1: or before COVID indeed during COVID, So that was that 250 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 1: was crazy too. I mean, getting tested, temperature checks every 251 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 1: day and and you know, the whole crew and uh, 252 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 1: everybody's got masks and shields and you know what I mean. 253 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 1: And you gotta remember in between takes and after in 254 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 1: between setups like oh we put my mask back on, 255 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 1: you know, we really washed my hands. I'll let me 256 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 1: do this, and it's you know, and social distancing and yeah, 257 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 1: it was, it was. It was an undertaking, you know, um, 258 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 1: and I uh, it was, it was something. And I 259 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 1: did three projects actually during um, you know, during during COVID, UM, 260 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 1: and uh they were they were they were different. It was, 261 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 1: it was it was quite a different march. Um. But 262 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 1: you know, but this coming about um, you know, you 263 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 1: know again, shout out again to the entire uh Opal family, 264 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 1: you know, shout out to the whole type core family, 265 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 1: you know, living hope, UM, you know, everybody in the 266 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 1: process and you know, uh on my team you know 267 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 1: as well. And it just ended up being a great 268 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 1: a great match, great marriage. My man Roger Bob also directed, 269 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 1: so that that was icing on the cake. Actually speaking 270 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 1: of green le um Um, what's uh Countie's last name? 271 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 1: County Psychs Deacon Psychs, you know, played by Jenn Harper 272 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 1: actually plays Jen plays my mother in this film, so 273 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 1: you know, and uh, and and my man a Lot 274 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 1: who also plays one of our deacons. Uh. He plays 275 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 1: Uncle Buck in the film. So famail your faces. You 276 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 1: know um as well that we're fun. And its COVID experience, 277 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 1: you know, the experience of you can't see people smile, 278 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 1: You can't you know, unless you gotta shield on. You know, 279 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:09,200 Speaker 1: it's really so let's let's let's walk us through that 280 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 1: because you know, when COVID first came out, I tell 281 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 1: everybody I was parandored because I didn't know, you know, 282 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 1: I didn't know how to go to the grocery store. 283 00:16:16,680 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 1: I didn't know when I came out of the grocery store, 284 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 1: do I put parrel on my hands? Do I throw 285 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 1: away the rubber gloves? And now you come to a 286 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 1: set where you have all these protocols of safety, but 287 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 1: then you also remember you gotta go back home. You 288 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 1: gotta go back home. And and yes, and So how 289 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 1: did you walk through the this because I have to 290 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 1: put the word courage in front of your name, okay, 291 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 1: because this is a courageous action. You know, it's for 292 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 1: your craft. It's also to put food on the table. 293 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 1: How it's a courageous action about you. Let's talk about 294 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 1: mentally where you were at physically you know you could 295 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: do it. Put the mental part the challenge, and then 296 00:16:57,440 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 1: with the amount of time that we had to shoot. 297 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 1: So you know, everything now is being so condensed one 298 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 1: because you're also trying to not only minimize costs, but 299 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 1: minimize the six leaves, expose your risks and all that. 300 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 1: So you're literally working virtually every day for a month, 301 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:18,199 Speaker 1: maybe with one day off every six you know, seven 302 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 1: days or something like that. You know what I'm saying, Um, 303 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 1: the hours are crazy. So you've got to take care 304 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 1: of your body and be careful about being fatigued and 305 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:30,919 Speaker 1: make sure you're getting the proper rest and recovery and nutrition, 306 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: you know, just so you can do the job. Let alone, 307 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 1: You've got to be careful not to make yourself vulnerable 308 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:39,920 Speaker 1: to getting you know, yeah, to getting sick, because even 309 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:43,879 Speaker 1: if you were to contract anything, and again it's getting chilly, 310 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 1: the season is changing, even screwed up the environment so 311 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 1: much even the animals are confused, you know what I'm saying. So, UM, 312 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:54,120 Speaker 1: you've got a lot of things you've got to be 313 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:57,119 Speaker 1: aware of and not trying not to say be aware 314 00:17:57,160 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 1: of instead aware of and so as courageous a walk 315 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 1: it is if you're if you're comfortable, if you create 316 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:11,639 Speaker 1: confidence UM in yourself and how you are going about things, 317 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:15,119 Speaker 1: doing the best you can and being disciplined and consistent, 318 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:19,440 Speaker 1: also setting that example for others, and then yeah, holding 319 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:23,920 Speaker 1: other people as well as UM, those that are responsible 320 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:27,959 Speaker 1: for creating the environment to keep you safety, keep you safe, 321 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:31,199 Speaker 1: and to focus on that safety. And having these protocols 322 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 1: in place, you start to be able to just kind 323 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 1: of relax and not think and worry so much about it. 324 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:41,360 Speaker 1: You know, you have COVID compliance officers on set UM. 325 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 1: You know, again, we get tested on a regular basis 326 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:47,399 Speaker 1: as well. And there was one person that I recall 327 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:52,119 Speaker 1: that actually UM didn't necessarily test positive, but they thankfully 328 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 1: openly reported that. I think they either lived with somebody 329 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:59,160 Speaker 1: who had just worked with somebody who had a positive 330 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 1: test a tracing and then they isolated that person I 331 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:05,680 Speaker 1: believe or asked them not to come to work until 332 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 1: they did a B C D E and then you 333 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:12,200 Speaker 1: know what I mean. So I think that people are 334 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 1: doing the best they can because again, they also don't 335 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:17,440 Speaker 1: want to get shut down, right. That's why it's really 336 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 1: great that that personal appreciate our unions and I appreciate 337 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 1: the entities that are there to hold people accountable, you know, 338 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 1: because that doesn't allow them to be irresponsible, or to 339 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: be relaxed, or to be nextent, you know, not to 340 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 1: mention just personally, regardless of what rules there are, how 341 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 1: you choose to get down, you know, and how you flow, 342 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 1: you know, should be at a consistent standard, no matter 343 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:44,439 Speaker 1: what other rules somebody else is making. You know. I 344 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:46,160 Speaker 1: was saying the other day matter that we're talking about 345 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 1: cops and law enforcement on an earlier interview, for example, 346 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:51,199 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I wasn't. I wasn't afraid of the 347 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:54,159 Speaker 1: cops when I was like, when I was younger, I 348 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 1: would worry about the law of the house, for the 349 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,240 Speaker 1: law of family, you know, So regardless of what other 350 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 1: laws and and protocols there are around you, you know, 351 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 1: in these systems, that really matters is how you govern yourself, 352 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:11,920 Speaker 1: you know, um, you know, independent of that cool cooking 353 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:15,200 Speaker 1: of Christmas, this is about food. This is about Christmas time. 354 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 1: Now now let let's let's let's go and have some 355 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 1: fun here. No, I know, because because she's a she's 356 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:26,439 Speaker 1: a chef. And then it's the story about because you know, 357 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:29,880 Speaker 1: the thing about black families, food is like especially during 358 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 1: the holiday season, you know, all we think about it, 359 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 1: and I'm sure every family thinks about those plates, talk 360 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 1: about these favorite disaster of every culture. Who is a centerpiece? 361 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 1: Food and family is the centerpiece of any you know, 362 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 1: so and so to me, to me, this is the 363 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 1: worst thing that could come your way. You know, you 364 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 1: in COVID doing a TV show, a movies movie that's 365 00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:59,520 Speaker 1: gonna be aired on own on December fifteen, and food 366 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:03,680 Speaker 1: is the center and it's romance. So again again it's 367 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:07,919 Speaker 1: romantic and COVID food, You and COVID. So it's like, 368 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:11,400 Speaker 1: this is a beautiful movie concept, but all these uh, 369 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,880 Speaker 1: the safety protocols are sitting that depth that you can't 370 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:19,520 Speaker 1: really be romantic, that you really can't eat talk about that. Man, 371 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:24,320 Speaker 1: we were kind of like, well, you know, like I 372 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 1: always have these conversations with my leading ladies anyway, it's 373 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 1: just like, okay, so how can I touch your right 374 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 1: one with one another or into each other or married 375 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:38,200 Speaker 1: for years or whatever. All right, let's talk about our 376 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:43,120 Speaker 1: you know, boundaries, and so now it's almost almost like assumed, 377 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,480 Speaker 1: well almost like well, all right, well, obviously we ain't 378 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 1: gonna be touching each other again't gonna be kissed with 379 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:50,280 Speaker 1: each other. So how we're gonna do this without making 380 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 1: it weird or making it, you know, not look fluid 381 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:58,160 Speaker 1: and sincere and warm and romantic. So again you start 382 00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 1: to figure out how to do that with these adjustments. 383 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 1: But yeah, it was tough. You see all this food 384 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:04,879 Speaker 1: and you want to be like, yeah, it passed me 385 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 1: to such and such, and you know, pass this instead. 386 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,920 Speaker 1: All the foods covered, we got masks on. You can't 387 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 1: touch each other's. You ten tools, and I mean, it's 388 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:17,240 Speaker 1: like the whole point of this time of year typically 389 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 1: is this rock simity. It's this, It's this intimacy, it's 390 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 1: just sharing, it's this you know what I mean. It's yeah, 391 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,520 Speaker 1: it's the fact that I ain't seeing you all year 392 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:31,160 Speaker 1: or maybe in years. So now we're gonna be all 393 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:33,359 Speaker 1: over each other's family on top of each other. Kids 394 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 1: on your last claim. That's that's the fun call right there, 395 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,400 Speaker 1: the kids, you know, because you know, you know you're 396 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,400 Speaker 1: you're an athlete, and you know dad's home and run 397 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 1: up to you. That can't happen. You know, you're sitting 398 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:48,560 Speaker 1: on the sofa, you know, jump on you. That can't happen. 399 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,800 Speaker 1: So it really you really got to now you really 400 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,480 Speaker 1: got to think about the acting steps, the acting techniques 401 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 1: and thought and things. Is taking it beyond normalcy to 402 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 1: covid NAT. Yeah, it's tricky, but but again, everybody, please 403 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:08,639 Speaker 1: have the discipline to do things differently than you know 404 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:12,800 Speaker 1: this year. Trust me, it's okay. The sooner we have 405 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 1: that discipline that than this year, and he probably even 406 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:21,919 Speaker 1: next year. You know. But I'd rather sacrifice the comforts 407 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 1: that we're accustomed to for however so many prior decades 408 00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:29,359 Speaker 1: or centuries or generations. I'd rather sacrifice these two years 409 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,040 Speaker 1: in order to get the best of some of those 410 00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: traditions back, you know. But if we don't have the discipline, 411 00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:39,879 Speaker 1: it won't just take one or two years, It'll take five, ten, twenty, 412 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 1: will never get ourselves back on track. Some things we 413 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:45,639 Speaker 1: probably should do a little differently, you know. So this 414 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:47,919 Speaker 1: is probably gonna teach us some new lessons and maybe 415 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:51,680 Speaker 1: some new traditions and that are also be discovered. But yeah, 416 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 1: we want to get back to the stuff that's that's 417 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:58,640 Speaker 1: really warm and really you know, about being loving human 418 00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 1: beings because you brought is earlier about home life. You 419 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 1: know a lot of things that we got away from, 420 00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 1: whether it is hygienes and washing your hands and all 421 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:10,159 Speaker 1: those things because you know, they've always said during the flu, 422 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 1: if you just wash your hands, that would cut down 423 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,720 Speaker 1: on you getting the flu. That's always been stated, Okay, 424 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 1: and so wearing a mask is part of the part 425 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 1: is just an upgrade to washing your hands all the time. 426 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,360 Speaker 1: But so so we're not asking people to do anything 427 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 1: outside of normalcy other than other than you can't hug 428 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:30,840 Speaker 1: everybody you don't don't know, and you can't hug everybody. 429 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,920 Speaker 1: Be more mindful of that. And so when you come 430 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:35,840 Speaker 1: up when you gotta show a movie coming out like 431 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:39,119 Speaker 1: Cooking Up Christmas, like I said again, premiers uh deceper 432 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,400 Speaker 1: fifteen owned stars my man Lamar Rutger who has been 433 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: in everything and uh and then from an activist, if 434 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 1: you had to say anything and just wrapping up because 435 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 1: I can never just talk to you about your projects 436 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:54,440 Speaker 1: because you are like you was honored this year by 437 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:56,959 Speaker 1: Cafe mokel Radio. I saw that when you were honored, 438 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 1: so and I was really I was proud. I watched 439 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,199 Speaker 1: that and you know, was on the big screen and 440 00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:04,359 Speaker 1: lending love was talking to you and everything, and yeah, 441 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 1: those are the man that, uh makes me feel good 442 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,600 Speaker 1: about you, man, makes me feel good about the relationship 443 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:12,040 Speaker 1: I have with you, we've created over the year. Tell 444 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 1: us about being honored by Cafine Moke Radio, Well, I 445 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:17,640 Speaker 1: mean that and meant a lot, man. I mean, that's 446 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,440 Speaker 1: that's part of what I was saying earlier. Man. Um, 447 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,119 Speaker 1: you know, you know how it is as as a 448 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 1: black man and is I mean aside from again obviously 449 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,480 Speaker 1: shining on each other and knowing how wonderful we are 450 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:33,040 Speaker 1: as black men. Um, having the love and support, um 451 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,959 Speaker 1: and encouragement of your sisters and of your you know, 452 00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 1: a black love black woman in general is incredibly powerful. 453 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 1: So my respect for the ladies over there and what 454 00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 1: they've been doing over the years, Um, the lives that 455 00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:50,720 Speaker 1: they're living, the legacies that they're building, and the fact 456 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 1: that they also now created this vehicle to support and 457 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 1: acknowledge and uplift other people as well. It's incredibly powerful things. 458 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 1: So I was wonderfully honored, um always uh you know, 459 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 1: entertained by by the gifts and personalities of MC girl, 460 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:11,720 Speaker 1: Lonnie and and uh you know the rest of the 461 00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 1: crew over there. Um. So you know, when we do this, 462 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 1: even when you and I, this is always this is 463 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 1: part of this is part of the love. But this 464 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,399 Speaker 1: is also part of the accountability. You know. We know 465 00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,640 Speaker 1: that when we're out here walking our walk, that would 466 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:28,920 Speaker 1: representing each other, you know, and every opportunity we get, 467 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:32,880 Speaker 1: whether it's this direct or not, you know, it's always 468 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 1: about like, hey, how can I you know, make sure 469 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:40,200 Speaker 1: I'm showing love, supporting and shining like on what this 470 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:43,120 Speaker 1: person is doing, because if they're doing something wonderful then 471 00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:46,840 Speaker 1: and they're also a reflection of me and a reflection 472 00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:48,560 Speaker 1: of so many of the other people who are out 473 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:51,879 Speaker 1: there doing something wonderful. So let's let's tell the story. 474 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:55,919 Speaker 1: Let's show that, um, this great stuff is happening. You know. 475 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 1: Look look, you know, look around you know, so even 476 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 1: my organization, the Black Gents, like that's what we're about. 477 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,080 Speaker 1: And it's like, yo, like, look at the look at 478 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:07,159 Speaker 1: Rashan McDonald, Look at the Rushan McDonald's of the world. 479 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:09,920 Speaker 1: Look at the other men out here doing what we 480 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:12,400 Speaker 1: know black men do and what we know black men 481 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 1: do on the regular. Hey, what are our sisters doing? 482 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,879 Speaker 1: What are our mothers and daughters and you know and 483 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 1: lovers and grandmothers and whatever? What are they doing? Okay, 484 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 1: let's shine on our women. Let's uphold and uh and 485 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:29,840 Speaker 1: love and you know, support, Like whatever our women and 486 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,080 Speaker 1: sisters and children are doing, how can we do that? 487 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:36,639 Speaker 1: Like that's like that's an incredible way to uh to 488 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:40,640 Speaker 1: live and breathe. And anybody that's part of that type 489 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:44,840 Speaker 1: of love proposition, anybody that's out here, um, fighting for 490 00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:48,399 Speaker 1: what's right even when nobody's looking like those are the 491 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 1: stories I'm always open to telling. And those are the 492 00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:53,399 Speaker 1: people that I love to lock arms with, you know, 493 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 1: So you speaking in this march with you, bro. If 494 00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 1: I've always you know, as as a famous art work 495 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,960 Speaker 1: where you locking arms like this, you know, and he's 496 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:08,159 Speaker 1: reaching down like that, I've always envisioned that being the 497 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 1: role you playing, like because like like I said, he's 498 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 1: more than an actor, he's an activist, he's a he's 499 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 1: a community uplift. I'm gonna make up a work. He's 500 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 1: in the community uplifting. That's what he does. All the 501 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:22,480 Speaker 1: times I've asked him, all the times I didn't ask them, 502 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 1: he's called. But his brother has been to Dollars with me, 503 00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:29,240 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvard camps. He's been to Orlando with me, 504 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:33,240 Speaker 1: to the Disney Dreamers. These are these kids, Okay, he's 505 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,480 Speaker 1: set aside the time I've been sitting on board with 506 00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 1: him talking about how to break into the film industry 507 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 1: in Atlanta. So I got a track record with him, 508 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 1: and and showing what he's done in the black gents, 509 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,320 Speaker 1: and him being an entrepreneur and and every like said, 510 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:50,240 Speaker 1: These interviews always fun with me because, like I said, 511 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 1: we talked about his role and what he's doing on 512 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 1: the screen, but it always drifts back to the man 513 00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 1: he is off the screen and cooking up Christmas is 514 00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:00,080 Speaker 1: just an opportunity to see his talents, he said, for 515 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 1: fifteen on the on Network, but more importantly, what he's 516 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 1: doing off the camera. You know when he's doing walking 517 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,320 Speaker 1: down the street, when you're going, hey, Jacob Steep rocking boy, 518 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:15,240 Speaker 1: I love you and Green keep rocking on the brother 519 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,960 Speaker 1: your community of andft the Lament. Thank you, Bron, I 520 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 1: really want to take my pleasure man. Thanks always so 521 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:23,840 Speaker 1: you know so uh so much fun to be here 522 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:26,480 Speaker 1: with your bag. Like literally, we could do this even 523 00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:28,840 Speaker 1: with there were no cameras or whatever. Man, we'd be 524 00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:30,840 Speaker 1: just chopping it up, you know what I mean. And 525 00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 1: we don't chop it up. Like I said, I'll turn 526 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:37,160 Speaker 1: you off air. Don't do this, man, just sit around 527 00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:39,200 Speaker 1: Atlanta all that stuff he was talking about. We could 528 00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,040 Speaker 1: do it now again. If you want to come to 529 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,120 Speaker 1: you want to see any more episodes of Money Making Conversation, 530 00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 1: please go to Money Making Conversation dot com. Even want 531 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 1: to subscribe, please go to my YouTube challenge again. I 532 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,160 Speaker 1: want to thank lament Rucket for coming on the show. 533 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 1: Please make sure you look up Cooking Up Christmas. It 534 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:57,440 Speaker 1: premiers Tuesday, December fifteen on on Network. Also if you 535 00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 1: miss it, it's always on pay per view. Greely has 536 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 1: always open to be as well. Okay, I appreciate you 537 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:12,280 Speaker 1: out we talked soon. Thank you, success and blessings man happy. 538 00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 1: This report is brought to you by Humanity. If you're 539 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 1: a veteran Medicare. There are Medicare advantage plans that compliment 540 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 1: the coverage you get through the v A. Ed Sandric 541 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:28,880 Speaker 1: is director of Humaniz Veterans Channel. How does the Medicare 542 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:32,480 Speaker 1: advantage plan work with VA benefits? 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The Cafee Mocha Swagger Award winner this 562 00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 1: week is the Craze Been, a two time Grammy Award 563 00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 1: winning hip hop artists and best selling Arthur La Craye 564 00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:41,920 Speaker 1: realized the wounds we all carry have the potential to 565 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:45,320 Speaker 1: be unlikely guys to healing and freedom for ourselves and others. 566 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,760 Speaker 1: His new book I Am Restored is an inspiring charge 567 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:52,560 Speaker 1: to embrace the lasting healing and restoration available now and 568 00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,200 Speaker 1: we all just be loaned for because no matter what 569 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:58,920 Speaker 1: you've experienced, God is near, He hears, and He's not 570 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,400 Speaker 1: done with you yet. For me, it was it was 571 00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,920 Speaker 1: a matter of becoming a healthy, whole individual and dealing 572 00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:08,240 Speaker 1: with some historical traumas and recognizing that, you know, I 573 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:11,080 Speaker 1: was a slave to what other people wanted of me 574 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,760 Speaker 1: and not being what I was created to be. The 575 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 1: Cafe Morcha Squigg Award represents men who have strength, whose 576 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 1: wisdom is assertive, and who is genuine in their spirit. 577 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 1: My next inst is but Shan Shaw. She has an 578 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 1: international motivational speaker, career coach, TV personality and author of 579 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 1: the book The Unstoppable Warrior Woman. Mischelle highlights the stories 580 00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:37,800 Speaker 1: of incredible women like herself. She is battling stage four 581 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 1: breast cancer who have a survived unthinkable arts and found 582 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,960 Speaker 1: the stripp to succeed through their struggles. Up next in 583 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 1: their career, Mischell retackling the mental health space head on 584 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 1: with the launch of her own social networking app, You 585 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:54,080 Speaker 1: Are a Warrior Out Early one. The app is designed 586 00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:58,040 Speaker 1: to provide twols for motivation, self improvement, personal development and support. 587 00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,080 Speaker 1: Please working the money making come station. The author of 588 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:06,480 Speaker 1: The Unstoppable Warrior One Mr Brashwan Shaw. Yes, I love 589 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 1: that introduction. I'm like, who is that? I love that woman? Well, 590 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 1: I love a lot. Look, I left out the huffard, 591 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 1: the poles. I left our old problem of ABC NBC, 592 00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,560 Speaker 1: a rug in DC affiliate and in in d C 593 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 1: area down. There a lot going on in your life. 594 00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 1: So to tell, just just tell everybody we're you're right now. 595 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:28,080 Speaker 1: Before we get in the book and also some backstory. Um, 596 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:30,320 Speaker 1: so I mean Washington, d C. Right now, I live 597 00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 1: in Washington in New York. Um born and raised in Washington, 598 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:38,120 Speaker 1: d C. You know, outside of it, a small town 599 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:41,520 Speaker 1: Fort Washington, Maryland, had big dreams and big goals. You know, 600 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:45,800 Speaker 1: I always said I wanted more. My father was from 601 00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:50,960 Speaker 1: a small town Gilbert, Louisiana, one stoplight and two hundred people, 602 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:55,000 Speaker 1: and and he said he wanted more. He had eight 603 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 1: siblings living in a two bedroom house. And my father 604 00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:00,520 Speaker 1: started one of the biggest construction companies UM in the 605 00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:04,120 Speaker 1: d C area. And I grew on to start one 606 00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:07,600 Speaker 1: of the biggest coaching and training programs in the country. 607 00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:12,160 Speaker 1: So despite of you can still do it. And now 608 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:15,000 Speaker 1: you left out some important moments of your father. Your 609 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:20,200 Speaker 1: father who drove a rother melal truck. Yea truck, so 610 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:24,040 Speaker 1: you know exactly, So I don't want to glass over 611 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:25,840 Speaker 1: that because you know, to get to run in a 612 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:29,680 Speaker 1: big construction in the DC area, which is phenomenal. You know, 613 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:32,280 Speaker 1: there was a person who came from a humble beginnings 614 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 1: Louisiana from Houston, Texas. So I have no humble beginnings. 615 00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:37,279 Speaker 1: Drive through the Louisiana all the time to get to 616 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,879 Speaker 1: Atlanta or as you drive through the do comedy days 617 00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 1: back when I was doing stand up comedy. So let's 618 00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,640 Speaker 1: talk about those humble beginnings of your father, because basically 619 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,680 Speaker 1: he built your brand, now built who you are today. 620 00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 1: Watermelonal truck, ice team truck, come up. Let's talk about that. 621 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:55,759 Speaker 1: You know. You know my father and I always asked him. 622 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:59,719 Speaker 1: He said, for Sean, you are not where you come from, right, 623 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,880 Speaker 1: meaning you are you have your background, you have your 624 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,359 Speaker 1: strength and your courage. But you don't have to stay 625 00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:09,520 Speaker 1: in that environment. You can dream big, think big, be big. 626 00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:13,359 Speaker 1: And my father always said, don't let people put boundaries 627 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:16,440 Speaker 1: on your dreams. Don't let people put walls on what 628 00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,759 Speaker 1: you believe in. And so he always told me, even 629 00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,040 Speaker 1: as a little kid, if you want to be the 630 00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:25,239 Speaker 1: president of the United States, you can't. I don't care 631 00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 1: about the color of your skin. I don't care about 632 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:31,160 Speaker 1: where you come from. It's where you end up. That's 633 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:33,640 Speaker 1: what he always said. It's not where you come from, 634 00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:35,920 Speaker 1: it's where you end up. And so my father knew 635 00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:38,799 Speaker 1: he wanted more. He knew that he didn't want to 636 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,239 Speaker 1: play small. So he said, look, if I have to 637 00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:45,360 Speaker 1: save money, um, selling watermelons. I will do that. I 638 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 1: mean like selling watermelons. And then if I have to 639 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:49,839 Speaker 1: save money as ice creams, because he saw a need. 640 00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:53,359 Speaker 1: Kids love ice cream, they love kemnity, let me get you. 641 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:56,560 Speaker 1: Solved the problem. And then he saved up enough money 642 00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:00,440 Speaker 1: and he moved to Washington, d C. Now talk about 643 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:03,080 Speaker 1: the whole save of him of money to life, your life. 644 00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:06,439 Speaker 1: Your father, Now he's the book. He says, he's eighty 645 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:09,800 Speaker 1: four years old, still sparky once a day. Ladies in 646 00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 1: the parties talk about because you know, that's the flipping 647 00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:17,960 Speaker 1: up the script, you know, because you know your parents 648 00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:19,960 Speaker 1: they do that for you. They take care of you, 649 00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:22,400 Speaker 1: They raised you to this point, and certainly the script 650 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,800 Speaker 1: is reversed with that. How's it dealing with a person 651 00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:28,399 Speaker 1: like that, who is, you know, getting older each day 652 00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:31,880 Speaker 1: but still resistant to the acknowledgement that they are getting 653 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 1: old each day? How does that deal with your life? 654 00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:36,520 Speaker 1: Dealing with the motivational cycles that you have to deal 655 00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:39,319 Speaker 1: with with other people? This is your life now. Yes, 656 00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 1: it's a tough one because I have a father who 657 00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 1: is strong. I mean, my father thinks he got Denzel 658 00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:51,520 Speaker 1: Washington looks it's finally here the season of celebration, and 659 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 1: no matter how you celebrate with family and friends, whether 660 00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 1: you're preparing for reys, magos or karamu lighting the Manura, 661 00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:01,440 Speaker 1: are going to midnight mass, Coals has just what you 662 00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:05,360 Speaker 1: need to make those traditions special. Plus you'll find gifts 663 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:10,400 Speaker 1: for all your loved ones. Send warm wishes with cozy fleeces, sweaters, loungeware, 664 00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:14,319 Speaker 1: blankets and throws. 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They give up. 702 00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:17,480 Speaker 1: They just give up. They give up to what life 703 00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:21,640 Speaker 1: has given them. They say, well, you know, I'll get by. 704 00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:24,239 Speaker 1: I'm just good enough. I don't want to rock the boat. 705 00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:26,960 Speaker 1: I don't want to be uncomfortable. I don't want to 706 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:31,000 Speaker 1: take it this far. I got enough. Like they put 707 00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:35,239 Speaker 1: come constraints around their dreams and box them. I say 708 00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:38,000 Speaker 1: go for it. I say go bigger, go home. I 709 00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:39,920 Speaker 1: say knock it out the park. And that's when my 710 00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,560 Speaker 1: father believes, knock it out the park. We've been knocking 711 00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:44,600 Speaker 1: out the park just two thousand eleven. I say that 712 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,160 Speaker 1: day because that's when the uh the birth of the 713 00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:50,640 Speaker 1: warrior warmant. We acknowledge your gift. When you walk those 714 00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:54,160 Speaker 1: stage fearful, because of that's the number one fear. When 715 00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:55,799 Speaker 1: they book will tell you the number one fear of 716 00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:59,839 Speaker 1: anybody is public speaking. And you walk those and then 717 00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:03,000 Speaker 1: you you told your truth. Talk about that moment which 718 00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:05,719 Speaker 1: gave the birth of the true warrior woman. And that's you. 719 00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:11,440 Speaker 1: Thank you. Um you know it's so funny. I remember 720 00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:14,800 Speaker 1: my doctor saying, uh, Brashaan, I want you to speak 721 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 1: to the audience. And I was like me, why you 722 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:21,240 Speaker 1: know and she said, because we gave you three months 723 00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:25,600 Speaker 1: to live. It's almost two years and we don't see 724 00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:28,239 Speaker 1: the cancer. And I used to come into chemo with 725 00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:30,759 Speaker 1: a fur coat, lipstick and some my heel shoes. I 726 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:32,960 Speaker 1: was like, I'm not dying. I Am not coming in 727 00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:35,560 Speaker 1: with a sweatsuit. He are not done, like I'm coming 728 00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:38,960 Speaker 1: in like I'm living. And so I remember doing that 729 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,880 Speaker 1: speech and it probably was the first time I really 730 00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:45,720 Speaker 1: really really spoke my truth. It was the first time 731 00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:49,480 Speaker 1: that I let it all go. It wasn't the nice Brashan, 732 00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,400 Speaker 1: the pretty brash the Brashan that had it all together, 733 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:56,520 Speaker 1: the successful Brashan. It was the real Brashan, the brushon 734 00:40:56,719 --> 00:41:00,320 Speaker 1: that had fears, the Brashan that was scared, the Sean 735 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,880 Speaker 1: that had issues, that Shawn that was okay to share. 736 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:06,920 Speaker 1: And um, that's when it all came out at that 737 00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:09,799 Speaker 1: and someone screamed, you are a warrior. She was like, 738 00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 1: you are a warrior. Wow, You're And that's where my 739 00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:15,880 Speaker 1: braind came out, and then the whole audience started screaming, 740 00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:19,400 Speaker 1: you are a warrior, and I was like, wow, people 741 00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 1: are really listening to me. They're really standing up, giving 742 00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:26,960 Speaker 1: me a standing ovation to listen to me. And it's 743 00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,319 Speaker 1: really interesting when you talk like that, because we are 744 00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 1: tend to be a fearful to tell our story or 745 00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:35,440 Speaker 1: or watered down and don't want to tell all the 746 00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:38,399 Speaker 1: facts and then guess what, the truth doesn't really tell 747 00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:41,000 Speaker 1: your journey. You know, just to share my side of 748 00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:46,120 Speaker 1: the story, I'm I'm a cancer survivor, okay, I'm when 749 00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,520 Speaker 1: I was recording when I and we can share these moments, 750 00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:51,480 Speaker 1: emotional moments because you know, I tell people and when 751 00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:54,239 Speaker 1: they're telling you that you have cancer, I'm in the 752 00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:57,759 Speaker 1: world stops right there. I mean, it's like, uh, it's 753 00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:00,799 Speaker 1: not forth life and death. It is probably the most 754 00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:03,360 Speaker 1: powerful word that you can get from a doctor or 755 00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:07,200 Speaker 1: somebody of America profession because all the death just jumped 756 00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:10,640 Speaker 1: into your world and you start start dealing with instant 757 00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:13,319 Speaker 1: thoughts of what else, why me? What do I do? 758 00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:16,440 Speaker 1: Just talk about your moment and when that happened, and 759 00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:19,520 Speaker 1: like I said, uh, what you're battling and uh and 760 00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:22,239 Speaker 1: where you at right now? So First of all, thank 761 00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:25,480 Speaker 1: you for sharing um your story too, because you know, 762 00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:34,600 Speaker 1: from survivor to to survivor, we're thriving from from we drive. UM. 763 00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:38,760 Speaker 1: You know it's true when when you hear you have cancer, 764 00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:44,279 Speaker 1: but stage four terminal breast cancer, UM cancer all over 765 00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:47,680 Speaker 1: your body, your world stopped. I mean it's I mean, 766 00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:50,920 Speaker 1: you see death, you see when it is my time. 767 00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:55,959 Speaker 1: And I gotta tell you, Rashan, I remember it's so clearly. Um. 768 00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:58,480 Speaker 1: I said, dr, what can I do? Like, I mean, 769 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,160 Speaker 1: what can I do? Like? You know, I'm young, I'm 770 00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:04,080 Speaker 1: thirty something like, what can I do? And he said, 771 00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:07,520 Speaker 1: do you believe in miracles? And at that moment, something 772 00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:09,759 Speaker 1: just hit me in my core and I said, you 773 00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,680 Speaker 1: know what, Hell yeah, I believe in miracles and I 774 00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:15,080 Speaker 1: believe in God. And I said, you know what, Doc, 775 00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:17,479 Speaker 1: I'll see you in teen years because I'm gonna be here. 776 00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:20,520 Speaker 1: I'm not letting this cancer take me out. And it's 777 00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:24,880 Speaker 1: something in me clicked. And it was the click of 778 00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:31,400 Speaker 1: fear or faith. That's what clicked, fear or faith because 779 00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,920 Speaker 1: I could live in fear and say I'm gonna die. 780 00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,160 Speaker 1: Because he was like, get your affairs in order, Da 781 00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:39,000 Speaker 1: da da da. I mean we sent your tests to M. 782 00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:43,719 Speaker 1: D Anderson, Sloan, George Washington d g W. I mean 783 00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:48,799 Speaker 1: everywhere George Town. So it was conclusive that it was 784 00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:51,160 Speaker 1: staged four. It was conclusive that it was there. It 785 00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:53,719 Speaker 1: was conclusive that it was aggressive. Like all of this 786 00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:57,360 Speaker 1: was concluded. This wasn't like okay, they were confused a 787 00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:00,440 Speaker 1: little bit. This was a conclusion. But I said, I 788 00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:02,799 Speaker 1: went into that hallway and I said, God, if you 789 00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:07,840 Speaker 1: keep me alive, just keep me alive, I will um. 790 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:09,880 Speaker 1: I will be a vessel. I would try to change 791 00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:13,719 Speaker 1: the world by by letting them know that it's fear 792 00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:17,440 Speaker 1: of faith. Which side are you gonna walk on? Because 793 00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,560 Speaker 1: I know I wasn't meant to go this early. I 794 00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:23,719 Speaker 1: know and if if I do everything and I go, 795 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:28,000 Speaker 1: it was my time. But but if you keep me alive, 796 00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:29,719 Speaker 1: I know I got a journey. I know I have 797 00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:32,600 Speaker 1: a call in that's bigger than I could ever imagine. 798 00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:34,880 Speaker 1: And that's when I'm walking in now. Well, you know 799 00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:40,239 Speaker 1: we're not sharing my story cancer because we all know 800 00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,879 Speaker 1: it can come back. And when when my staff came 801 00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,440 Speaker 1: to me and they were talking about your book, The 802 00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:47,360 Speaker 1: unstopp a Warrior Woman, when when I started reading the 803 00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:50,799 Speaker 1: highlights and said, Okay, she's a survivor. See I try 804 00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:52,800 Speaker 1: to when I try to bring on money making conversations, 805 00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:54,480 Speaker 1: it's real stories because a lot of people have a 806 00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:57,160 Speaker 1: lot of hype. You know, they how you can be successful. 807 00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:00,200 Speaker 1: These are the steps, but they're not really successful. You 808 00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:02,400 Speaker 1: can make money, but they really don't have any money. 809 00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:05,480 Speaker 1: But when you're a survivor of cancer and still going 810 00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:08,760 Speaker 1: through life every day like it's a normal day, because 811 00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:10,640 Speaker 1: it's not a normal day for me, because it can 812 00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:13,200 Speaker 1: change or not. I have to take pills. I have 813 00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:15,640 Speaker 1: to you know where I have to have six months, 814 00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,239 Speaker 1: I have to go in for checkups, and that it 815 00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:22,160 Speaker 1: could change in the checkup. Okay, I cannot stop taking those. Peoples, 816 00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:24,200 Speaker 1: I had thorod cancer, so I have to take thyroid 817 00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,960 Speaker 1: pills and and I can keep lobra pressure pills, all 818 00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:29,560 Speaker 1: these things, Vitamin D. When when COVID hit, you know, 819 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:31,720 Speaker 1: I was one of those candidates that they talk about. 820 00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:35,000 Speaker 1: You know, have a presisting conditions that can be really 821 00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:38,279 Speaker 1: highly effective if you get if you contract COVID. How 822 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:41,040 Speaker 1: did you deal with the whole COVID in relationship to 823 00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:45,200 Speaker 1: your health situation? You know that's a good point because 824 00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:48,200 Speaker 1: you're right, COVID hit and we are, you know, pre 825 00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:52,120 Speaker 1: existing issues that you know unfortunately, I know someone who 826 00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:56,000 Speaker 1: unfortunately didn't make it, who was the survivor. I mean me, 827 00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:57,840 Speaker 1: let me tell you. We're saying I have a regiment. 828 00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:01,839 Speaker 1: I do a green powder every morning. I do Vitamin D, 829 00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:06,400 Speaker 1: Vitamin C, chlorophills fairly and visual well. I mean, like 830 00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:10,120 Speaker 1: you tell me, I do infrared saunas, exercise. I mean 831 00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:14,759 Speaker 1: this is my life, you know, like I take my 832 00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,920 Speaker 1: health seriously. I may have some gummy bears here and 833 00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,800 Speaker 1: near more than enough, you know it is not good. 834 00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:24,080 Speaker 1: I may have a Snickers bar, but I mean I 835 00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:28,600 Speaker 1: really do take my health very seriously. So when COVID hit, boom, 836 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:32,239 Speaker 1: Vitamin D load up, Vitamin C load up. Uh, get 837 00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:35,239 Speaker 1: y'all load up a regular oil load up. I load 838 00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:37,440 Speaker 1: up and you have to load up to load up. 839 00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:41,120 Speaker 1: Take it seriously. And you know I wear my mask, 840 00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:45,040 Speaker 1: I social distance. I take this seriously. You know. I 841 00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:47,600 Speaker 1: know some are like, oh yeah, it's a hoax or 842 00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:49,920 Speaker 1: it's not that serious. But let me tell you, people 843 00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:53,040 Speaker 1: are dying, and I know some who have died, like 844 00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:56,800 Speaker 1: I personally know that. So this is not a joke, 845 00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:00,520 Speaker 1: a hoax. This isn't a Republican thing or Democrat. This 846 00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,520 Speaker 1: is a real thing, a virus thing. Doesn't matter what 847 00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:06,400 Speaker 1: side you said, it really is. And that's why I 848 00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:09,480 Speaker 1: wanted to bring that up because and talking about different conversations. 849 00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:16,239 Speaker 1: It's my phone excuse. Is that my fault? What else 850 00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:22,080 Speaker 1: of that? I apologize for? Sean? No, don't worry baby, 851 00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:32,200 Speaker 1: where that you got a sharp suit on? So I apologize. Um, 852 00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:34,160 Speaker 1: you know I wanted to talk about we edited that out. 853 00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:38,439 Speaker 1: The worry about the thing about when I when let's 854 00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:41,880 Speaker 1: talk about the book. Now, you know, the unstoppable warrior woman. 855 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:44,160 Speaker 1: Like I told you before we got on air. Two 856 00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:47,080 Speaker 1: of the people that you went to, you know, your 857 00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:50,439 Speaker 1: story led to stories because it's important. And now you're 858 00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:54,320 Speaker 1: you're you're two times yep, two times, you know, stage 859 00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:57,759 Speaker 1: four cancer survivor. Like I told him earlier, I don't know, 860 00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:00,400 Speaker 1: it could come back on me. That's the fear of answer. 861 00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:01,960 Speaker 1: You know, you can never walk out of the room 862 00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:03,920 Speaker 1: and say it won't come back. But you have to 863 00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:05,640 Speaker 1: do your due deal and just to stop it from 864 00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,000 Speaker 1: coming back, you have to live a healthy life. You 865 00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,640 Speaker 1: have to realize that you can't feel sorry for yourself. 866 00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:13,400 Speaker 1: I totally agree with you. This is how address you 867 00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:16,640 Speaker 1: know people. I wear this as a as a reminder 868 00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:19,320 Speaker 1: when when I'm doing TV shows. If anybody ever asked 869 00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:21,480 Speaker 1: me brashan, they said why you are that? I said, 870 00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:24,840 Speaker 1: because I'm a cancer survivor. That allows me to but 871 00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:26,799 Speaker 1: it then closer, let me see it right, you know, 872 00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,640 Speaker 1: it allows me to go in and tell them comfortably 873 00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,440 Speaker 1: a conversation about who I am because a lot of 874 00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:36,120 Speaker 1: people see a cancer or cancer victim or cancer survivor 875 00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:39,200 Speaker 1: look in a certain way, acting a certain way, walk 876 00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:41,200 Speaker 1: in a certain way, talking to a certain way. And 877 00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:42,719 Speaker 1: that's why I was important for me to bring you 878 00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:45,600 Speaker 1: on the show, because I wanted to show you know, yes, 879 00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:48,080 Speaker 1: you walk around with this fear. We actually walk around 880 00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:51,680 Speaker 1: with this this incredible uh negative thing that can happen 881 00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:54,480 Speaker 1: and stop your life in a heartbeat. But you can't 882 00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,680 Speaker 1: stop living your life. You can't stop looking like taking 883 00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:59,520 Speaker 1: control your life. People come around. You have to enable 884 00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,560 Speaker 1: them with happiness, having enabled them with motivation. And that's 885 00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:05,000 Speaker 1: what you're doing. And that's what the book that you wrote, 886 00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:07,880 Speaker 1: the Unstoppable Word Woman, that's how I led it to 887 00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:11,040 Speaker 1: all these other interviews, tell us about it. You know, 888 00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:15,640 Speaker 1: I realized that Huffington posted an article. I mean, Sam 889 00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:19,839 Speaker 1: Brashawn is unstoppable and everything she does, she's unstoppable, you know, 890 00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:24,120 Speaker 1: because I guess I remember being uh, Tom Joiner and 891 00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:27,520 Speaker 1: he said something. He said, it's so interesting that here 892 00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:31,000 Speaker 1: you are dealing in the missive stage for going to treatment, 893 00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:34,240 Speaker 1: and you're out there motivating people. Most people would be 894 00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:37,879 Speaker 1: depressed at home, don't want to talk about it, just 895 00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:41,440 Speaker 1: like let it overpass them, don't even don't even like 896 00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:43,719 Speaker 1: listen to them. They don't want to speak about it. 897 00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:46,799 Speaker 1: But here you are speaking about it, telling people that 898 00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:49,600 Speaker 1: they can still thrive, telling people don't live in fear. 899 00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:54,040 Speaker 1: He said, It's amazing. And when I realized I was unstoppable. 900 00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:58,160 Speaker 1: There are so many other people with a story, unstoppable 901 00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,920 Speaker 1: to so many other women because as you know, I mean, 902 00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:04,080 Speaker 1: these movements are coming me too, but it's the woman 903 00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:06,880 Speaker 1: that's coming out now. It's time for us to shine. 904 00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:11,560 Speaker 1: I played small for so long. I never realized my 905 00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:14,840 Speaker 1: business could have thrived like this. 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Um, your host, Sean McDonald, 931 00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:36,719 Speaker 1: we'll realize it now your book now, Uh, you have 932 00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:39,440 Speaker 1: several chapters, and then the unstoppable creative women and how 933 00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:41,480 Speaker 1: they shine because you lead off with a statement, with 934 00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:43,799 Speaker 1: a motivational statement of a statement of truth. I'd like 935 00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:47,640 Speaker 1: to call it turning your personal vision into unstoppable success, 936 00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:53,080 Speaker 1: unstoppable healing of family and community, getting unstoppable, unstoppably healthy 937 00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:58,120 Speaker 1: against all odds, choosing unstoppable happiness. Of all those chapters, 938 00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:01,399 Speaker 1: you know, you know our help. Steve Harvard writes several books, 939 00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:03,920 Speaker 1: there was always one chapter that really hit home with 940 00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:06,399 Speaker 1: him in all these books. Of all those, of all 941 00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:10,600 Speaker 1: your chapters, which one resonated the most with you? You You know, 942 00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:14,839 Speaker 1: I like unstoppable happiness because we like to put our 943 00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:18,320 Speaker 1: happiness on other people. We like to say, well, um, 944 00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:20,600 Speaker 1: you know, it's because of my husband, I'm not there. 945 00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:23,440 Speaker 1: It's because of my partner, I'm not there. It's because 946 00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:27,000 Speaker 1: like stop putting your happiness on someone and find happiness 947 00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:30,920 Speaker 1: within yourself. You are the prize. When we start to 948 00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:34,600 Speaker 1: realize we're the prize, we are the superstars. You don't 949 00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:38,239 Speaker 1: have to search for anyone. You don't. You have everything 950 00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:41,879 Speaker 1: you need to be unstoppable. We just don't step into it. 951 00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:46,360 Speaker 1: And the book is forty women sharing forty stories of hope, 952 00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:51,320 Speaker 1: of challenges, of triumph, of of mistakes, of fear, of doubt, 953 00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:55,120 Speaker 1: of hardcore stories of rape, of perpies. I mean, it's 954 00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:58,000 Speaker 1: a lot of stories in the of a lot of things. 955 00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:01,000 Speaker 1: But it's true. That's what this that's what the book is. 956 00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:04,080 Speaker 1: A story of truth that leads to hope. Well, the 957 00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:07,000 Speaker 1: thing about it, that's what that's what impacted me. You 958 00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:09,000 Speaker 1: know this is I'm a male, but I was impacted 959 00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:11,960 Speaker 1: by their truth. Now, how do you you know you're 960 00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:15,719 Speaker 1: motivatorm you have relationships? How did you contact the individuals 961 00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:17,919 Speaker 1: and did you shape their stories? Or you just tell 962 00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:20,399 Speaker 1: them send me your thoughts? How did they How did 963 00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:22,959 Speaker 1: the stories get into the book? Oh so good point. 964 00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,279 Speaker 1: I mean they sit stories and I helped shape it 965 00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:27,840 Speaker 1: because every I mean, you know, everyone's not a writer. 966 00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:30,120 Speaker 1: Everyone doesn't know how to put it. But but I 967 00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:33,640 Speaker 1: wanted to shape the stories. I shaped the stories around 968 00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:36,400 Speaker 1: the like sometimes you have to pull out things from 969 00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:39,200 Speaker 1: people because people don't even think they're unstoppable. People think 970 00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:41,399 Speaker 1: their story is small, so I had to pull it out. 971 00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:45,080 Speaker 1: But in the stories, everybody's stories had greatness in them. 972 00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:46,799 Speaker 1: Every well, you didn't have one, right, And then the 973 00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:49,520 Speaker 1: journalists who went from New York to Africa and came back. 974 00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:52,040 Speaker 1: She was the journalists. They probably had the longest section 975 00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:56,239 Speaker 1: in your book as well. Yes, yes you know, yes, yes, yes, 976 00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:00,160 Speaker 1: that was a good one. So everyone's story, I I 977 00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:03,759 Speaker 1: told everyone. Everyone just had their own story. Everyone had 978 00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:06,480 Speaker 1: their own story, Everyone had their own jority and and 979 00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:08,879 Speaker 1: that's life. Everyone has their own journey. When you saw 980 00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:12,520 Speaker 1: Summer longer, but that is life. I really liked her story. 981 00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:15,040 Speaker 1: I liked all of the story from a standpoint of 982 00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:19,080 Speaker 1: they gave nuggets of inspiration and also overcoming either a 983 00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:23,640 Speaker 1: physical or beautiful young young lady got shot, bully experiences, 984 00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:28,839 Speaker 1: you know, abuse, physical and mental abuse experiences going out there. 985 00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:31,439 Speaker 1: But the one message that came out more and more, 986 00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:36,200 Speaker 1: it's like it's about you stop stop lending your gifts 987 00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:39,920 Speaker 1: to somebody that doesn't appreciate it. Stop motivating other people 988 00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:42,480 Speaker 1: who don't want your motivation. That was a message that 989 00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:45,279 Speaker 1: keeps screaming out through each page that I turned in 990 00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:48,719 Speaker 1: your book. Tell us about that, Rashan. You know, I 991 00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:53,960 Speaker 1: think what I try to get out of each story is, 992 00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:58,080 Speaker 1: like you said, Rashan, it's about you. Stop giving your 993 00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:01,480 Speaker 1: gifts away, stop giving your purpose away, stop giving stop 994 00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:05,560 Speaker 1: playing small, stop being mediocre. Every story I wanted you 995 00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:08,200 Speaker 1: to say, Wow, this is a nugget. Wow, this is 996 00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:10,840 Speaker 1: a nugget, right like you said. I mean, it's rape, 997 00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:14,040 Speaker 1: is bullying, it's somebody who lost a hundred and fifty pounds, 998 00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:18,240 Speaker 1: it's a cancer survivor. It's someone who tried to play small. 999 00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:21,640 Speaker 1: It's all of these. It's a journalist, it's someone who 1000 00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:24,839 Speaker 1: found their their their life. It's some I mean, I 1001 00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:30,680 Speaker 1: wanted everything. I wanted, stories of hardship, challenges, mistakes, but 1002 00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:33,600 Speaker 1: in the end, hope they made it to the other side. 1003 00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:35,880 Speaker 1: Because if you fall down and you can look up, 1004 00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:37,879 Speaker 1: you can get up. Well, let's talk about the four 1005 00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:40,719 Speaker 1: steps to mindset freedom. You know this is uh. I 1006 00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:42,879 Speaker 1: won't tell anybody we're part of the book, but it's 1007 00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:45,200 Speaker 1: a part of the book that that moved me. And 1008 00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:47,719 Speaker 1: there's a lot of the advice that I followed, and 1009 00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:50,240 Speaker 1: I felt that when I read this, I go home 1010 00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:53,399 Speaker 1: run because we're on the same page. Because I'm gonna 1011 00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:56,319 Speaker 1: tell everybody this. There's certain things you have to do 1012 00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:58,560 Speaker 1: to be successful. You have to be consistent about it. 1013 00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:02,440 Speaker 1: There's a certain tone people aren't successful. They may be temporary, 1014 00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:04,880 Speaker 1: they might win the lottery, but eventually they might be 1015 00:56:04,960 --> 00:56:07,520 Speaker 1: the person who loses the money in debt because they 1016 00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:09,719 Speaker 1: get lazier to their approach and life. And there are 1017 00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:12,440 Speaker 1: certain principles about being successful. And when you start talking 1018 00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:14,760 Speaker 1: about the four steps the mindset that's in your book 1019 00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:18,800 Speaker 1: for Sean, let's talk about change your viewpoint. That was 1020 00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:21,319 Speaker 1: very important because I reason I say that because the 1021 00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:24,800 Speaker 1: journalists that went from Africa from New York to Africa. 1022 00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:27,000 Speaker 1: Who is afraid to go to u c l A 1023 00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:28,759 Speaker 1: because it was too far away, but then she moved 1024 00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:31,960 Speaker 1: to Africa. That's changing your viewpoint. And I and I 1025 00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:34,759 Speaker 1: only just using an example that when you talk about 1026 00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:37,200 Speaker 1: change your viewpoint, because I was the person who for 1027 00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:39,359 Speaker 1: some reason New York to U c l A, which 1028 00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:41,759 Speaker 1: is in Los Angeles, too far away, but New York 1029 00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:46,440 Speaker 1: to Africa. Years later she was cool with it. You know, 1030 00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:49,719 Speaker 1: I think we we we get so stuck with our mindset. 1031 00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:53,080 Speaker 1: So change your viewpoint is be open for change, be 1032 00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:56,440 Speaker 1: open to change, and board change. Life begins at the 1033 00:56:56,560 --> 00:56:58,960 Speaker 1: end of your comfort zone. If you want to stay 1034 00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:01,720 Speaker 1: the way you are, you will always be the way 1035 00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:04,759 Speaker 1: you are. If you want greatness, greatness is on the 1036 00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:07,160 Speaker 1: other side of that field. But a lot of times 1037 00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:09,560 Speaker 1: we're too afraid to go there because it's too hard, 1038 00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:12,440 Speaker 1: it's too far. We don't know what's gonna be there, 1039 00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:15,279 Speaker 1: we don't know how it's gonna be, and we stay stuffed. Right, 1040 00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:18,040 Speaker 1: if you want greatness, you gotta change your viewpoint and 1041 00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:20,800 Speaker 1: change your mindset and go for it. Absolutely can't be 1042 00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:26,000 Speaker 1: afraid of they unknown and unknown is happens every day. 1043 00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:28,560 Speaker 1: You have any life insurance, you all the insurance, your 1044 00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:31,480 Speaker 1: homeowners insure because it prepares you for the unknown. And 1045 00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:33,480 Speaker 1: that's what life is about. So if you're going out 1046 00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:36,880 Speaker 1: there worried about change, it, I might not I might 1047 00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:38,600 Speaker 1: not be seeing usful. I don't know that you might 1048 00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:40,960 Speaker 1: get an all the wheel accident. That's the part of 1049 00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:45,320 Speaker 1: our insurance exists. Stop running away from your past. Oh 1050 00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:47,880 Speaker 1: that's a good one, right, come on, come on now, 1051 00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:50,720 Speaker 1: come on, trying to go away from your past. See, 1052 00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:53,040 Speaker 1: your past makes you who you are. And if my 1053 00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:56,320 Speaker 1: father always said, don't run away from your past, embrace it. 1054 00:57:56,800 --> 00:57:59,520 Speaker 1: I was poor. I grew up in a two bedroom 1055 00:57:59,560 --> 00:58:03,040 Speaker 1: house with eight kids, living in a two bedroom house, 1056 00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:06,080 Speaker 1: and we slept where we can sleep. We made it happen. 1057 00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:09,880 Speaker 1: My past made me who I am, strong strength. You see, 1058 00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:13,000 Speaker 1: people are embarrassed about their past. I remember coaching a woman. 1059 00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:16,520 Speaker 1: She had made up this lie about she went to 1060 00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:19,240 Speaker 1: Yale Um. She had made up this whole story. She 1061 00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:20,800 Speaker 1: really did go to Yale, but she made up the 1062 00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:23,720 Speaker 1: story that they were lived in Boca, that they had 1063 00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:25,640 Speaker 1: this that was there. There was their country, that was 1064 00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:29,200 Speaker 1: their summer house and winter house. And she she really 1065 00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:32,160 Speaker 1: was from the projects of New York. She didn't want 1066 00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:34,800 Speaker 1: to tell anyone to embarrassed. But let me tell you, 1067 00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:37,640 Speaker 1: your story is who you are now. She tells her story, 1068 00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:40,160 Speaker 1: so I can now tell her story. But now, like 1069 00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:43,080 Speaker 1: your past, don't run away from it. Embrace it. It's beautiful. 1070 00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:46,000 Speaker 1: It is your fingerprint and your footprint, that's what God 1071 00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:50,600 Speaker 1: made you from your past from your story. Speaker girl, 1072 00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:56,200 Speaker 1: she's speaking to truth. Stop blaming and start forgiving. That 1073 00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:59,880 Speaker 1: is a problem a lot of people have. It ruins relationships, 1074 00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:04,280 Speaker 1: It rules family dynamics. It can ruin business relationship because 1075 00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:06,960 Speaker 1: you blame someone else. And I always tell people it's 1076 00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:10,840 Speaker 1: a two way street in that blame. It is so true. See, 1077 00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:13,480 Speaker 1: we love the blame because every time you point the 1078 00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:16,160 Speaker 1: finger at someone, three fingers are pointing back at you. 1079 00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:21,560 Speaker 1: I need to say that again. Yes, every time you 1080 00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:24,800 Speaker 1: point the finger, three fingers are pointing back at you. 1081 00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:31,400 Speaker 1: It's because blaming is easy. Taking responsibility is hard. It's 1082 00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:34,800 Speaker 1: hard to say I failed, I messed up. Yeah I 1083 00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:36,960 Speaker 1: was wrong, I did it wrong. That's hard because we 1084 00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:39,000 Speaker 1: want to be right, we want to be perfect. We 1085 00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:41,800 Speaker 1: want to say nothing's wrong, No, you were, you messed up. 1086 00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:46,120 Speaker 1: Take responsibility. Let me tell you, I take responsibility way 1087 00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:50,560 Speaker 1: more time than I blame because it's always too. It's 1088 00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:53,120 Speaker 1: always two in that show, not one. It's two in 1089 00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:55,720 Speaker 1: the marriage, not one. It's two in a friendship not one. 1090 00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:59,080 Speaker 1: It's too in a partnership, not one. And the last 1091 00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:02,000 Speaker 1: one is letting go. And that's so that's a good one. 1092 01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:04,840 Speaker 1: Letting go, Well, that's a good one because we all, 1093 01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:07,640 Speaker 1: I don't care who you are, we all have the 1094 01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:11,520 Speaker 1: experience of holding onto a grudge, holding onto a mistake. 1095 01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:14,600 Speaker 1: And letting go is a really powerful term because it 1096 01:00:14,600 --> 01:00:18,200 Speaker 1: doesn't have to be necessarily letting goals on the relationship. 1097 01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:20,440 Speaker 1: It could be something that you've done and you have 1098 01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:23,720 Speaker 1: not forgiven yourself for that. Talk about your version of 1099 01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:28,840 Speaker 1: it for Sean. You know, letting go as hard because comfortable. 1100 01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:32,320 Speaker 1: We love to be comfortable. We love to have what 1101 01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:35,400 Speaker 1: we have. You know, it's so funny, something easy like this. 1102 01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:37,880 Speaker 1: I tell my clients go to work. You know, if 1103 01:00:37,880 --> 01:00:40,400 Speaker 1: you drive the work thirty minutes, you go the same way, 1104 01:00:40,520 --> 01:00:42,920 Speaker 1: go a different way, go through your streets. No, I 1105 01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:44,880 Speaker 1: don't want to go through the streets. No, take this 1106 01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:47,200 Speaker 1: right and go No, no, no, it won't work. It'll 1107 01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,840 Speaker 1: get me there. See if they don't let go because 1108 01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:51,240 Speaker 1: I want to do it the way I want to 1109 01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:52,960 Speaker 1: do it. I want to do it how I want 1110 01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:54,560 Speaker 1: to do it, the way I want to do it. 1111 01:00:54,760 --> 01:00:58,600 Speaker 1: People let that mess them up. In relationships and marriages 1112 01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:01,800 Speaker 1: and friendships, you don't let go of the things like 1113 01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:07,560 Speaker 1: try something new, you know, let go of that negative thinking, 1114 01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:11,360 Speaker 1: let go of trying to be right. Let go you 1115 01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:13,720 Speaker 1: are going, We're gonna have a long time relationship. I'm 1116 01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:18,480 Speaker 1: gonna just tell you that ten years, fifteen years, be 1117 01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:21,040 Speaker 1: like your dad eighty five. You know, I'm just gonna 1118 01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:26,080 Speaker 1: be looking for the old women. The thing about it 1119 01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:28,720 Speaker 1: is that because everything you're saying is the truth in life. 1120 01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:30,760 Speaker 1: You know, sometimes I go home, I go a different 1121 01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:33,800 Speaker 1: way just to see what life is down there, still 1122 01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:36,840 Speaker 1: being careful, still not be an adventurous, just seeing a 1123 01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:39,960 Speaker 1: different treat, seeing a different street, like passing the different 1124 01:01:40,120 --> 01:01:42,960 Speaker 1: gas station. Because from a creative standpoint, you got to 1125 01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:45,640 Speaker 1: be able to look at life differently. So that allows 1126 01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:47,919 Speaker 1: you to come home with a different attitude, come home 1127 01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:51,360 Speaker 1: with not that same I saw it again, the same routine, 1128 01:01:51,680 --> 01:01:54,360 Speaker 1: get off the fruy on that same exit, coming down 1129 01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:56,480 Speaker 1: that same back road. I do it a lot, I 1130 01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:58,800 Speaker 1: really do. So when you when you talk like that, 1131 01:01:58,840 --> 01:02:01,480 Speaker 1: I go, wow, she is so dead on. Because out 1132 01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:03,560 Speaker 1: of habit, I do these things. But I want to 1133 01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:05,880 Speaker 1: before we wrap up, I want to this a great conversation. 1134 01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:09,080 Speaker 1: Thank you for coming on the show. The Unstoppable Warrior 1135 01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:12,800 Speaker 1: Warmant released October twenty seven is available in bookstores now. 1136 01:02:13,040 --> 01:02:16,000 Speaker 1: But she's tapping into an area this app that she's dropped, 1137 01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:18,440 Speaker 1: mental health, mental health in the black community of the the 1138 01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:22,160 Speaker 1: African American community. It's kind of like the Kurts. We 1139 01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:24,680 Speaker 1: don't want to admit, we don't twoot things, we don't 1140 01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:26,960 Speaker 1: want to met We don't want to met homosexuality in 1141 01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:29,200 Speaker 1: the black community, and we definitely don't want to make 1142 01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:32,640 Speaker 1: mental health issues in the black community. Talk about the 1143 01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:35,240 Speaker 1: importance of this new app that you're dropping in twenty 1144 01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:37,040 Speaker 1: we're shying yourself right. Look, you need to be a 1145 01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:39,240 Speaker 1: coach on there. You know, we have coaches speakers on 1146 01:02:39,480 --> 01:02:42,080 Speaker 1: I Love your energy. So we're gonna talk offline about that. 1147 01:02:42,600 --> 01:02:48,800 Speaker 1: We're launching it. Rids. We gotta stay together, girl, we 1148 01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:53,240 Speaker 1: got that shot. Yeah, you know, you know right now 1149 01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:55,919 Speaker 1: I'm launching it's called You Are a Warrior. You Are 1150 01:02:56,040 --> 01:02:59,040 Speaker 1: a Warrior W A R R I O R. They 1151 01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:01,720 Speaker 1: can sign up, Uh, they can sign up now. Um, 1152 01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:04,040 Speaker 1: it'll be coming soon. They get they get perks if 1153 01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:07,560 Speaker 1: they sign up. Now. You know, it's something people are 1154 01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:10,760 Speaker 1: tired of Facebook. They call it fakebook and inst the 1155 01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:15,160 Speaker 1: fame right, you know, it's negative, it's always putting something 1156 01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:18,720 Speaker 1: out that's not positive. I want somewhere where people can 1157 01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:22,720 Speaker 1: express themselves about depression, anxiety and stress, where we can 1158 01:03:22,760 --> 01:03:25,760 Speaker 1: really talk to others and we can use avatars if 1159 01:03:25,800 --> 01:03:28,000 Speaker 1: we don't want to share who we are, or we 1160 01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:31,160 Speaker 1: can be ourselves. But it's time to get the help 1161 01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:34,280 Speaker 1: we need. People are committing suicide. Open yards are up 1162 01:03:34,360 --> 01:03:39,120 Speaker 1: like no other bodies. Business medications are up. Um, people 1163 01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:42,439 Speaker 1: are depressed in slumps. I just saw Sam Smith say 1164 01:03:42,560 --> 01:03:46,000 Speaker 1: he was like, I've never been so depressed in my life. Um. 1165 01:03:46,040 --> 01:03:49,640 Speaker 1: You know, staying inside, people feel closed in, not socializing. 1166 01:03:49,720 --> 01:03:52,720 Speaker 1: People are and this is really bringing out this side 1167 01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:55,840 Speaker 1: of people. It's really bringing this out. People want to 1168 01:03:56,040 --> 01:03:57,720 Speaker 1: an outlet, and that's what I'm going to give them. 1169 01:03:57,720 --> 01:03:59,840 Speaker 1: An outlet. You know, it's a place where it's a 1170 01:03:59,840 --> 01:04:02,600 Speaker 1: man to health app. You can express yourself the first thing, 1171 01:04:02,640 --> 01:04:05,960 Speaker 1: sharing your story. We have quizzes on it, we have challenges, 1172 01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:08,560 Speaker 1: we have chat rooms, or you can talk to an 1173 01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:13,880 Speaker 1: expert that has four pillars motivation, personal development, self improvement, 1174 01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:16,520 Speaker 1: and speaking to an expert. I want to be there 1175 01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:19,640 Speaker 1: to help and and really talk about real stuff instead 1176 01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:21,440 Speaker 1: of you know, we can listen to music. All day. 1177 01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:23,800 Speaker 1: We can dance all day, we can talk about TikTok 1178 01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:27,479 Speaker 1: all day, but deep inside we're crying. When Elon Musk 1179 01:04:27,520 --> 01:04:30,680 Speaker 1: says that I'm lonely, I need someone to talk to 1180 01:04:30,920 --> 01:04:33,280 Speaker 1: one of the wealthiest men in the world, in the 1181 01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:37,200 Speaker 1: world saying I feel alone right well, you know, and 1182 01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:40,960 Speaker 1: and and that absolutely I think that successful people say 1183 01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:43,920 Speaker 1: that because who you talk to, and sometimes when you 1184 01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:47,200 Speaker 1: are successful, you can't show weaknesses and and you and 1185 01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:49,680 Speaker 1: that's a part of mental health. That's the challenge of 1186 01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:52,360 Speaker 1: allowing yourself to share weakness and who you show that 1187 01:04:52,440 --> 01:04:55,640 Speaker 1: weakness too, so you won't be backstad or you won't 1188 01:04:55,640 --> 01:04:58,480 Speaker 1: be undermined because you're showing these signs of weaknesses. But 1189 01:04:58,560 --> 01:05:00,760 Speaker 1: that's all part of the mental health campaign that you're 1190 01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:02,880 Speaker 1: trying to bring to the food front. And the reason 1191 01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:05,320 Speaker 1: I'm talking about that for Shaun is that the black community, 1192 01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:09,960 Speaker 1: if we don't start accepting therapy as as being all right, 1193 01:05:10,520 --> 01:05:12,480 Speaker 1: I going to see a therapist or going to see 1194 01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:16,360 Speaker 1: a psychiatrist's fine to deal with some some issues that 1195 01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:18,640 Speaker 1: you might have when you were growing up, or you 1196 01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:21,720 Speaker 1: might have in a relationship issues And instead of just 1197 01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:24,440 Speaker 1: going from one person to the next person. Basically destroy 1198 01:05:24,520 --> 01:05:26,720 Speaker 1: a good man or a woman along the way because 1199 01:05:26,760 --> 01:05:30,080 Speaker 1: you don't want to deal with your emotional or mental issues. 1200 01:05:30,440 --> 01:05:32,320 Speaker 1: These are important. That's why I wanted to make sure 1201 01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:35,439 Speaker 1: that we talked about it. Tell people again about your 1202 01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:38,320 Speaker 1: Warrior of the app before we wrap up. Okay, yeah, 1203 01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:40,960 Speaker 1: so you are a Warrior of the letter. You are 1204 01:05:41,160 --> 01:05:44,160 Speaker 1: a W A R R I O R dot com. 1205 01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:46,600 Speaker 1: You can go and sign up. Please go and sign up. 1206 01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:49,400 Speaker 1: You get perks. The first We're giving a thousand people 1207 01:05:49,520 --> 01:05:52,880 Speaker 1: all kind of gifts and inspirational books and newsletters and perks. 1208 01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:55,200 Speaker 1: So please join it. But it's a it's a mental 1209 01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:58,280 Speaker 1: health app that deals with depression, anxiety, and strength. And 1210 01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:02,440 Speaker 1: we have four pillars that helps you motivation, self improvement, 1211 01:06:02,800 --> 01:06:06,200 Speaker 1: personal development, and support. We have coaches to help coach 1212 01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:09,600 Speaker 1: you chat rooms. You can be in a guided chat 1213 01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:12,560 Speaker 1: room with a coach, or you can be alone just listening. 1214 01:06:12,880 --> 01:06:15,439 Speaker 1: We have a place where you can get meditation, um, 1215 01:06:15,520 --> 01:06:17,760 Speaker 1: you can do yoga, you can listen to videos, just 1216 01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:20,360 Speaker 1: whatever you need every day of the week. And we 1217 01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:23,440 Speaker 1: have a Warrior Wall express yourself. It's time that we 1218 01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:27,040 Speaker 1: start really in the black community speaking up and standing 1219 01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:30,640 Speaker 1: up I want this app to reach every black, seleab, 1220 01:06:31,320 --> 01:06:36,120 Speaker 1: middle class person, underprivileged person. I wanted to reach everyone 1221 01:06:36,160 --> 01:06:39,200 Speaker 1: to help them. It's my mission to give back because 1222 01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:42,000 Speaker 1: it's time. It's time for us to stop lying. It's 1223 01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:44,160 Speaker 1: time for us to stop acting like we're okay. Like 1224 01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:47,520 Speaker 1: you said, stop perpetrating, Stop acting like we have everything 1225 01:06:47,560 --> 01:06:49,640 Speaker 1: in the bank, we're rich. Look at all this money 1226 01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:52,080 Speaker 1: on Instagram and then you can't pay your bills. Look 1227 01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:54,000 Speaker 1: at all this and you can't read it right. Look 1228 01:06:54,040 --> 01:06:56,040 Speaker 1: at all this and you lost your home. Stop it. 1229 01:06:56,520 --> 01:06:58,880 Speaker 1: Stop with the nonsense and the lines. It's time to 1230 01:06:58,920 --> 01:07:00,720 Speaker 1: stand up and speak up. And that's what you are. 1231 01:07:00,840 --> 01:07:03,320 Speaker 1: Warrior is about. Sean with you, Me and you, We're 1232 01:07:03,320 --> 01:07:05,960 Speaker 1: gonna make this app. I'm telling on Mondays. I do 1233 01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:10,120 Speaker 1: motivational cards. I get people who are changing the world. 1234 01:07:10,280 --> 01:07:14,440 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna make a motivational card for you to 1235 01:07:14,480 --> 01:07:17,800 Speaker 1: promote your book, to promote your brand. And it's gonna 1236 01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:20,800 Speaker 1: talk about being a two time svant, survival, wicked, every 1237 01:07:20,920 --> 01:07:24,280 Speaker 1: day living life. Not by what's happened to you, but 1238 01:07:24,400 --> 01:07:27,520 Speaker 1: what could happen to you. And you are an inspirational 1239 01:07:27,640 --> 01:07:30,439 Speaker 1: You truly are a warrior. I'm gonna promote your book. 1240 01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:33,439 Speaker 1: I'm gonna promote your app again. You're in my life 1241 01:07:33,440 --> 01:07:37,840 Speaker 1: for the next thirty years. And tell Pops he my man, 1242 01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:41,760 Speaker 1: because I'm gonna be that way. Two. Okay, Yes, I 1243 01:07:41,800 --> 01:07:44,960 Speaker 1: thank you, Raean. What a great interview. Love your spirit, 1244 01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:48,000 Speaker 1: love your inspiration. We're gonna stay in tight absolutely. My 1245 01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:49,840 Speaker 1: next cass is one I write it on the show 1246 01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:53,520 Speaker 1: because she supported me. She's leading my brand and when 1247 01:07:53,520 --> 01:07:56,080 Speaker 1: you start a new brand, you need relationships and she's 1248 01:07:56,120 --> 01:07:58,960 Speaker 1: always been one that has shown a strong light in 1249 01:07:59,000 --> 01:08:01,000 Speaker 1: the direction of support of what I'm trying to do 1250 01:08:01,040 --> 01:08:04,960 Speaker 1: with money making conversation. Her name is Sheila Bell. Sheila Bell. 1251 01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:08,160 Speaker 1: The Bell has worked in the field of broadcast news 1252 01:08:08,240 --> 01:08:11,240 Speaker 1: journalism and with the press for over thirty years. She's 1253 01:08:11,280 --> 01:08:14,120 Speaker 1: the editor in chief and publisher of The Bail Report, 1254 01:08:14,440 --> 01:08:17,439 Speaker 1: now entering his fifteen year publishing, has become one of 1255 01:08:17,479 --> 01:08:20,760 Speaker 1: the top music industry go to platforms for gospel and 1256 01:08:20,840 --> 01:08:24,040 Speaker 1: inspirational news. The Bill has interviewed and met some of 1257 01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:27,639 Speaker 1: the most influential people in the world, including Nelson Mandela, 1258 01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:32,000 Speaker 1: President Bill Clinton, President Jimmy Carter, President Barack Obama, Oprah 1259 01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:34,640 Speaker 1: Win for Dick Gregor, Gretta, Scott King, Jesse Jackson, and 1260 01:08:34,760 --> 01:08:37,479 Speaker 1: many more. In addition to producing The Bill Report that 1261 01:08:37,680 --> 01:08:41,840 Speaker 1: is published Monday through Friday, The Bill Color currently produces 1262 01:08:42,040 --> 01:08:45,120 Speaker 1: an anchors the syndicated radio news show The Bill Report 1263 01:08:45,240 --> 01:08:48,719 Speaker 1: Entertainment News Update, now airing in fifty seven markets across 1264 01:08:48,760 --> 01:08:52,000 Speaker 1: this country. Please welcome to money making Conversations. She said, 1265 01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:55,719 Speaker 1: she got her game on for me today. The media journalist, producer, 1266 01:08:57,520 --> 01:09:02,680 Speaker 1: and inspirational speaker, Sheila Bill, thank you so much. I'm 1267 01:09:02,720 --> 01:09:05,400 Speaker 1: so excited to be here, so excited to be with you, 1268 01:09:05,439 --> 01:09:07,920 Speaker 1: and thank you so much for that great introduction. I 1269 01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:10,599 Speaker 1: felt I felt special for you, are you know, because 1270 01:09:10,640 --> 01:09:12,439 Speaker 1: you know the thing about it when people come on 1271 01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:16,400 Speaker 1: my show many years, Steve, Steve Harvey uh used to 1272 01:09:16,479 --> 01:09:19,479 Speaker 1: always when I stopped doing stand up comedy, Steve said, man, 1273 01:09:19,640 --> 01:09:21,880 Speaker 1: can you lease introduce me? Can you just come into 1274 01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:24,880 Speaker 1: my show to just introduce me? And because he just 1275 01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:27,960 Speaker 1: knew that, I knew you always got to set the 1276 01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:31,800 Speaker 1: stage and everybody has value. And sometimes it's not enough 1277 01:09:31,840 --> 01:09:33,720 Speaker 1: for me to say you're just the you know, the 1278 01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:36,560 Speaker 1: the founder, the creative the Bell Report. Let's talk a 1279 01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:39,000 Speaker 1: little history. Let's talk a little because when people hear 1280 01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:42,800 Speaker 1: these intros, you're you guys. You are a legacy maker. 1281 01:09:43,240 --> 01:09:45,800 Speaker 1: You know you are a groundbreaker, you are a visionary. 1282 01:09:46,040 --> 01:09:47,479 Speaker 1: And that's why I have to put it out like that. 1283 01:09:47,560 --> 01:09:50,680 Speaker 1: I can't just say you know your name and just say, well, 1284 01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:52,920 Speaker 1: here's the question that you sent over me to ask. 1285 01:09:53,120 --> 01:09:56,200 Speaker 1: I do additional research, and so the Bell Report is 1286 01:09:56,240 --> 01:09:58,280 Speaker 1: something that's important to my brand. And that's why I 1287 01:09:58,280 --> 01:10:00,280 Speaker 1: had to invite you on my show. I say, I 1288 01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:02,760 Speaker 1: see it because somebody gets Sheelo on my show, because 1289 01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:07,360 Speaker 1: somebody get on my show. We're reaching out, what please 1290 01:10:07,360 --> 01:10:10,719 Speaker 1: get on my show? And because you support my brand? 1291 01:10:10,760 --> 01:10:12,879 Speaker 1: And so why do you feel it's important to support 1292 01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:17,680 Speaker 1: my brand of money making conversations, sticky notes, email alerts, 1293 01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:21,000 Speaker 1: a string around your finger, they're just not big enough. 1294 01:10:21,320 --> 01:10:23,839 Speaker 1: So here's a big reminder from the California Lottery. Tomorrow's 1295 01:10:23,840 --> 01:10:27,960 Speaker 1: making millions jack potties? Which million play? Now? Please play responsible? 1296 01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:29,760 Speaker 1: You must be eighteen years older to purchase player plan. 1297 01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:34,120 Speaker 1: And we're live here outside the Perez family home, just 1298 01:10:34,320 --> 01:10:37,360 Speaker 1: waiting for the and there they go, almost on time. 1299 01:10:37,400 --> 01:10:40,160 Speaker 1: This morning. Mom is coming out the front door strong 1300 01:10:40,200 --> 01:10:42,760 Speaker 1: with a double arm. Kid carry. Looks like dad has 1301 01:10:42,800 --> 01:10:45,960 Speaker 1: the bags, daughter is bringing up the rear. Oh but 1302 01:10:46,120 --> 01:10:50,560 Speaker 1: the diaper bag wasn't closed. Diapers and toys are everywhere. 1303 01:10:51,240 --> 01:10:54,719 Speaker 1: Oh but mom has just nailed the perfect car seat 1304 01:10:54,720 --> 01:10:57,920 Speaker 1: buckle for the toddler. And now the eldest daughter, who 1305 01:10:57,960 --> 01:11:00,799 Speaker 1: looks to be about nine or ten, has secured herself 1306 01:11:00,800 --> 01:11:03,519 Speaker 1: in the booster seat. Dead SIPs of bad clothes and 1307 01:11:03,680 --> 01:11:07,479 Speaker 1: they're off. But looks like mom doesn't realize her coffee 1308 01:11:07,479 --> 01:11:09,840 Speaker 1: cup is still on the roof of the car, and 1309 01:11:10,000 --> 01:11:13,920 Speaker 1: there it goes. Oh, that's a shame. That mug was 1310 01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:17,040 Speaker 1: a fam favorite. Don't sweat the small stuff, just nail 1311 01:11:17,120 --> 01:11:19,160 Speaker 1: the big stuff, like making sure your kids are buckled 1312 01:11:19,160 --> 01:11:21,280 Speaker 1: correctly in the right seat for their agent's eyes. Learn 1313 01:11:21,360 --> 01:11:23,240 Speaker 1: more n h T s a dot gov slash the 1314 01:11:23,320 --> 01:11:28,200 Speaker 1: right Seat visits a dot gov slash the right Seat. 1315 01:11:28,360 --> 01:11:31,559 Speaker 1: Brought to you by NITZA and the ad Council. What 1316 01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:35,200 Speaker 1: grows in the forest trees? Sure you know what else 1317 01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:38,759 Speaker 1: grows in the forest Our imagination, our sense of wonder, 1318 01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:42,360 Speaker 1: and our family bonds grow too, because when we disconnect 1319 01:11:42,360 --> 01:11:49,040 Speaker 1: from this and connect with this, we reconnect with each other. 1320 01:11:49,800 --> 01:11:52,639 Speaker 1: The forest is closer than you think, find a forest 1321 01:11:52,760 --> 01:11:56,280 Speaker 1: near you and start exploring. I Discover the Forest dot Org, 1322 01:11:56,600 --> 01:11:59,160 Speaker 1: brought to you by the United States Forest Service and 1323 01:11:59,240 --> 01:12:02,360 Speaker 1: the AD Council. Well, I'm I'm thinking about all the 1324 01:12:02,360 --> 01:12:05,280 Speaker 1: different people that you're talking to, the different lives that 1325 01:12:05,320 --> 01:12:07,439 Speaker 1: are out there, and it's so much that's going on 1326 01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:10,240 Speaker 1: right now. No one lives the same life. No one 1327 01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:13,479 Speaker 1: thinks the same way. No one processes information the same way. 1328 01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:15,880 Speaker 1: So when you're reaching out to different people on different 1329 01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:18,960 Speaker 1: platforms and different arenas and different cities and different states, 1330 01:12:19,280 --> 01:12:22,320 Speaker 1: looking at politics and people, and even when you ask 1331 01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:25,200 Speaker 1: them what is your understanding and belief of God, everyone 1332 01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:28,799 Speaker 1: has a different story to tell. Everyone's gonna view something differently. 1333 01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:32,280 Speaker 1: No one processes information the same way. So when you're 1334 01:12:32,280 --> 01:12:37,120 Speaker 1: talking to me or Jesse Jackson or Michael Eric Dyson 1335 01:12:37,280 --> 01:12:40,080 Speaker 1: or Oprah Winfree, no one's gonna be looking at life 1336 01:12:40,080 --> 01:12:42,360 Speaker 1: the same way because no one has gone through life 1337 01:12:42,360 --> 01:12:46,759 Speaker 1: the same. Everyone has had different experiences up, down, good, bad. 1338 01:12:47,120 --> 01:12:49,360 Speaker 1: Some people have money, some people don't. Some people are 1339 01:12:49,439 --> 01:12:51,880 Speaker 1: challenge some people are not. And then sometimes when you 1340 01:12:51,920 --> 01:12:54,639 Speaker 1: look at you are approached with the door and then 1341 01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:57,080 Speaker 1: the door closes in your face. What do you do. 1342 01:12:57,080 --> 01:12:58,840 Speaker 1: Do you sit back and do you complain or do 1343 01:12:58,880 --> 01:13:02,719 Speaker 1: you realize that God allowed that door to close, knowing 1344 01:13:02,800 --> 01:13:05,479 Speaker 1: that you are the fighter, and the fighter that's within 1345 01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:07,599 Speaker 1: you needs to come out of you. And when it 1346 01:13:07,600 --> 01:13:09,960 Speaker 1: comes out of you, you're gonna push harder, and then 1347 01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:12,759 Speaker 1: you're gonna realize some things that you didn't realize before. 1348 01:13:12,760 --> 01:13:15,360 Speaker 1: You're gonna learn some things about yourself that you didn't 1349 01:13:15,360 --> 01:13:18,080 Speaker 1: know before, and you're gonna see that you're stronger than 1350 01:13:18,120 --> 01:13:20,760 Speaker 1: you actually thought that you were. So when I look 1351 01:13:20,840 --> 01:13:23,840 Speaker 1: at all the different people that you have interviewed, when 1352 01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:25,880 Speaker 1: I think about all the time so that I've seen 1353 01:13:25,960 --> 01:13:29,040 Speaker 1: you and the different people that you have decided to interview, 1354 01:13:29,280 --> 01:13:31,960 Speaker 1: when it comes across my desk, and as an option 1355 01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:33,840 Speaker 1: to put into the Bell Report, I put it in 1356 01:13:33,880 --> 01:13:36,680 Speaker 1: the Bell Report with pride because I know that you 1357 01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:40,280 Speaker 1: are not about buffoonery, You're not about foolishness. But you 1358 01:13:40,320 --> 01:13:42,439 Speaker 1: want to make sure that not only the people that 1359 01:13:42,479 --> 01:13:45,559 Speaker 1: you're interviewing that you give them an opportunity, but you're 1360 01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:49,360 Speaker 1: also educating people who are listening to other people when 1361 01:13:49,360 --> 01:13:51,680 Speaker 1: they are listening to you, and when they're listening to 1362 01:13:51,720 --> 01:13:54,680 Speaker 1: your guests, and when your guests have something to say 1363 01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:57,680 Speaker 1: that's worth listening to. It says a lot about you. 1364 01:13:57,800 --> 01:14:00,040 Speaker 1: It's kind of like the people who you're interviewing, we 1365 01:14:00,160 --> 01:14:02,639 Speaker 1: become an extension of you. So you're gonna make sure 1366 01:14:02,640 --> 01:14:06,120 Speaker 1: whoever you interview has some sense about them to take 1367 01:14:06,240 --> 01:14:10,200 Speaker 1: up this time space. Absolutely, because you're so articulate. Let's 1368 01:14:10,240 --> 01:14:11,960 Speaker 1: go back with one of the courses. I want to 1369 01:14:12,000 --> 01:14:15,800 Speaker 1: talk about doing research and a stutter. You know, a 1370 01:14:15,840 --> 01:14:18,600 Speaker 1: person who started as a young person, which led to 1371 01:14:18,760 --> 01:14:22,799 Speaker 1: I'm sure ridicule jokes, and sometimes that leads to bullying. 1372 01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:24,479 Speaker 1: You know, there's a lot of people think the word 1373 01:14:24,520 --> 01:14:27,120 Speaker 1: bully is a modern term. I can know that in 1374 01:14:27,160 --> 01:14:29,920 Speaker 1: my middle school I was bullied, bullied. In my high 1375 01:14:29,960 --> 01:14:32,120 Speaker 1: school years, I was bullied. Just didn't understand it. I 1376 01:14:32,160 --> 01:14:34,760 Speaker 1: just know that. I just said they picked on me, mom, 1377 01:14:34,800 --> 01:14:36,600 Speaker 1: they're picking on me at school. That's the term I 1378 01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:39,800 Speaker 1: used instead of the word bullying. These kids picking on me. So, 1379 01:14:39,880 --> 01:14:42,600 Speaker 1: as a young stutterer, how did you deal with that 1380 01:14:42,640 --> 01:14:44,719 Speaker 1: and how did you overcome it to be so articulate 1381 01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:49,320 Speaker 1: and so mindful and so motivational today, if you're talking 1382 01:14:49,360 --> 01:14:53,439 Speaker 1: to the the young millennials and the Gene actually would say, 1383 01:14:53,439 --> 01:14:55,519 Speaker 1: it's a god thing. But if you want to be 1384 01:14:55,600 --> 01:14:58,479 Speaker 1: real about it, God healed me from what I was 1385 01:14:58,520 --> 01:15:01,120 Speaker 1: going through. I was in the first, second, and third grade, 1386 01:15:01,479 --> 01:15:04,760 Speaker 1: and the stuttering was so bad it would take me 1387 01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:08,760 Speaker 1: a good two or three minutes to articulate three or 1388 01:15:08,840 --> 01:15:12,280 Speaker 1: four or five words just to say. Back in the 1389 01:15:12,360 --> 01:15:15,320 Speaker 1: day when we were in school, sometimes the teacher would say, hey, Sheil, 1390 01:15:15,400 --> 01:15:17,840 Speaker 1: would you go to miss harris room and give her 1391 01:15:17,880 --> 01:15:21,599 Speaker 1: this message? The message maybe tell Miss Harris that we're 1392 01:15:21,600 --> 01:15:24,200 Speaker 1: gonna be going outside to play to own the playground 1393 01:15:24,200 --> 01:15:28,559 Speaker 1: at twelve o'clock. So, because they knew I stuttered, and 1394 01:15:28,640 --> 01:15:32,040 Speaker 1: because my mom also taught in the same school that 1395 01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:35,320 Speaker 1: we were in, they were trying to help me to 1396 01:15:35,520 --> 01:15:37,479 Speaker 1: get out of it, to get out of that zone 1397 01:15:37,520 --> 01:15:41,080 Speaker 1: of not feeling comfortable around people. Because even then, while 1398 01:15:41,120 --> 01:15:44,400 Speaker 1: it was stuttering, I was also extremely shy. So by 1399 01:15:44,439 --> 01:15:46,600 Speaker 1: the time I left the first grade and went up 1400 01:15:46,640 --> 01:15:50,280 Speaker 1: to the second floor and I would tell Mrs Harris 1401 01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:53,719 Speaker 1: the message. The message sort of went like this, ms 1402 01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:58,160 Speaker 1: ms mss mss mss mss ms mss Harris, Miss miss 1403 01:15:58,240 --> 01:16:01,320 Speaker 1: miss and it went on like that. So you're trying 1404 01:16:01,360 --> 01:16:04,200 Speaker 1: to deliver this message. You got other kids looking at 1405 01:16:04,240 --> 01:16:07,320 Speaker 1: you like what is the problem. And this went on, 1406 01:16:07,960 --> 01:16:10,200 Speaker 1: and my mom tried to work with me. We will 1407 01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:12,680 Speaker 1: read books on the front porch. She would try to 1408 01:16:12,720 --> 01:16:15,799 Speaker 1: get me to calm down. But after the first, second 1409 01:16:15,800 --> 01:16:18,200 Speaker 1: and third grade, third grade, I was told that I 1410 01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:20,559 Speaker 1: was going to be going to a middle school for 1411 01:16:20,600 --> 01:16:24,080 Speaker 1: the fourth grade. So the day that we were waiting 1412 01:16:24,120 --> 01:16:26,759 Speaker 1: for the yellow cheese bus to come down the street 1413 01:16:27,160 --> 01:16:29,479 Speaker 1: to pick us up to get on this bus to 1414 01:16:29,520 --> 01:16:33,559 Speaker 1: go to Robert E. Lee Middle School, I heard this voice, 1415 01:16:34,840 --> 01:16:37,160 Speaker 1: I'm going into the fourth grade. I heard this voice 1416 01:16:37,200 --> 01:16:42,280 Speaker 1: that said slow down. They will hear you slow down. 1417 01:16:43,160 --> 01:16:45,720 Speaker 1: And I remember just thinking, I'm hearing a voice. I 1418 01:16:45,760 --> 01:16:48,360 Speaker 1: don't know where this voice is coming from, but it's 1419 01:16:48,360 --> 01:16:51,320 Speaker 1: telling me to slow down. And something within me, maybe 1420 01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:54,200 Speaker 1: down in my Sha Nana, that told me to slow 1421 01:16:54,200 --> 01:16:57,759 Speaker 1: it down. And once I got that in my spirit 1422 01:16:57,800 --> 01:17:00,840 Speaker 1: and understood, when I walked on that yellow bus, I 1423 01:17:00,920 --> 01:17:04,720 Speaker 1: no longer started. It was just like that. It was 1424 01:17:04,840 --> 01:17:08,160 Speaker 1: just like that a blessing. It was that. And and 1425 01:17:08,320 --> 01:17:10,560 Speaker 1: now when you look at your life, now you're in 1426 01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:16,960 Speaker 1: the creative side, journalistic side, media side, because that that 1427 01:17:16,960 --> 01:17:20,720 Speaker 1: that ability to translate information is what your gift is. 1428 01:17:21,000 --> 01:17:24,439 Speaker 1: Promote information what your gift is. Now, let's let's set 1429 01:17:24,479 --> 01:17:26,960 Speaker 1: that in the world. We had a president who came 1430 01:17:26,960 --> 01:17:31,080 Speaker 1: into office in and established a term called fake news. 1431 01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:36,920 Speaker 1: As he exits, that's all he's about, is creating fake news. 1432 01:17:37,479 --> 01:17:40,800 Speaker 1: When you review information like that, how has it impacted 1433 01:17:40,840 --> 01:17:44,599 Speaker 1: how you report things, how you deliver information to our community. 1434 01:17:44,960 --> 01:17:47,559 Speaker 1: What has helped me over the years to even have 1435 01:17:47,720 --> 01:17:50,080 Speaker 1: the brand that I have today and to report the 1436 01:17:50,080 --> 01:17:54,519 Speaker 1: news that I have today is integrity. And for years, 1437 01:17:54,800 --> 01:17:57,519 Speaker 1: every time when I would write a story, I had 1438 01:17:57,560 --> 01:17:59,880 Speaker 1: to learn really early that there are two sides to 1439 01:18:00,080 --> 01:18:02,760 Speaker 1: the story. You can always write the story the way 1440 01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:04,479 Speaker 1: that you want to write the story to favor the 1441 01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:06,840 Speaker 1: person who you like, but you have to remember that 1442 01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:09,559 Speaker 1: there are two sides to the story. So and being fair, 1443 01:18:09,960 --> 01:18:14,240 Speaker 1: I've always been fair to everyone who I deal with. Integrity, 1444 01:18:14,560 --> 01:18:17,639 Speaker 1: your name goes a long way. So even when I'm 1445 01:18:17,640 --> 01:18:19,479 Speaker 1: on the air now, I praise one or four point 1446 01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:23,160 Speaker 1: seven when I'm writing stories up on the Bell Report, 1447 01:18:23,240 --> 01:18:25,519 Speaker 1: when I'm pushing stuff out on the Bell Report, Entertainment, 1448 01:18:25,520 --> 01:18:28,400 Speaker 1: News Update, when I'm having a conversation, if I'm in 1449 01:18:28,439 --> 01:18:31,320 Speaker 1: the pulpit, if I'm ministering, if I'm talking, if someone 1450 01:18:31,400 --> 01:18:34,240 Speaker 1: just approaches me. It's about being true to who you 1451 01:18:34,280 --> 01:18:37,040 Speaker 1: are so you can be true to other people. Sometimes 1452 01:18:37,080 --> 01:18:39,840 Speaker 1: it's even about being transparent so people can know that 1453 01:18:39,880 --> 01:18:42,559 Speaker 1: you're not trying to hide anything. So when the facts 1454 01:18:42,600 --> 01:18:44,800 Speaker 1: do come out and when you see what is going 1455 01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:47,559 Speaker 1: on for what it is, you just tell the truth. 1456 01:18:47,640 --> 01:18:50,679 Speaker 1: And I'll never forget the day when Michael Jackson died. 1457 01:18:51,320 --> 01:18:56,240 Speaker 1: I had people calling me, and it shocked me. They said, Bell, 1458 01:18:56,400 --> 01:18:59,680 Speaker 1: we're calling you because we know if you say that 1459 01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:02,880 Speaker 1: he I then we know that he died. Because we're 1460 01:19:02,920 --> 01:19:05,160 Speaker 1: just not trusting the other media. We just can't. We 1461 01:19:05,240 --> 01:19:08,040 Speaker 1: just can't believe it. And I'm thinking to myself, I'm 1462 01:19:08,040 --> 01:19:11,840 Speaker 1: watching CNN and ms NBC and and be just like 1463 01:19:11,880 --> 01:19:14,000 Speaker 1: everyone else trying to figure out what's going on. But 1464 01:19:14,080 --> 01:19:16,879 Speaker 1: they were trusting me with that. But it spoke volume 1465 01:19:16,920 --> 01:19:19,760 Speaker 1: to me, realizing that people are trusting me with information, 1466 01:19:20,040 --> 01:19:22,400 Speaker 1: and when people trust you to tell the truth, and 1467 01:19:22,439 --> 01:19:24,320 Speaker 1: when you think about the world that we're living and 1468 01:19:24,400 --> 01:19:27,800 Speaker 1: now people want to have a relationship with people who 1469 01:19:27,880 --> 01:19:30,960 Speaker 1: can tell the truth because often people will twist it. 1470 01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:34,880 Speaker 1: Look at social media. I'm looking at how social media 1471 01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:38,639 Speaker 1: has played mind games with people as people have gotten 1472 01:19:38,680 --> 01:19:41,559 Speaker 1: so caught up trying to be something that they're not 1473 01:19:41,960 --> 01:19:45,080 Speaker 1: trying to please people for a like or comment, just 1474 01:19:45,160 --> 01:19:46,840 Speaker 1: so they can do whatever it is that they're trying 1475 01:19:46,880 --> 01:19:49,280 Speaker 1: to do it. I'm like, be real to yourself. There's 1476 01:19:49,320 --> 01:19:53,400 Speaker 1: too many games out here mentally, emotionally, spiritually. When do 1477 01:19:53,439 --> 01:19:55,760 Speaker 1: you find the time to back up to find out 1478 01:19:55,840 --> 01:19:58,200 Speaker 1: who you are and being true to yourself. If you 1479 01:19:58,200 --> 01:20:00,120 Speaker 1: can't be true to yourself, you can't be true the 1480 01:20:00,200 --> 01:20:03,720 Speaker 1: other people. And I really pride myself on doing the 1481 01:20:03,760 --> 01:20:06,400 Speaker 1: best that I can to be honest and being truthful. Well, 1482 01:20:06,479 --> 01:20:09,599 Speaker 1: the thing I love about your whole presentation is that 1483 01:20:09,640 --> 01:20:14,120 Speaker 1: it's about branding. It's about marketing and UH and brand association. 1484 01:20:14,160 --> 01:20:17,080 Speaker 1: I remember when Steve when I first started. I first 1485 01:20:17,439 --> 01:20:19,559 Speaker 1: I met Steven eighties six, when I was a stand 1486 01:20:19,600 --> 01:20:21,560 Speaker 1: up comback. I was headlining. He was my opening that 1487 01:20:22,200 --> 01:20:25,439 Speaker 1: and didn't ainty to you know. Deaf Comedy Jam came 1488 01:20:25,479 --> 01:20:28,040 Speaker 1: through town and he was headlining the show. That asked 1489 01:20:28,040 --> 01:20:29,680 Speaker 1: me to come down and do a set, and he 1490 01:20:29,720 --> 01:20:33,200 Speaker 1: would always see his name on stage. Steve Harvest said 1491 01:20:33,200 --> 01:20:36,600 Speaker 1: this was Steve Harvey, Steve Harveys, Steve he was constantly 1492 01:20:36,600 --> 01:20:40,839 Speaker 1: branding himself and name recognition. If you didn't know what's performing, 1493 01:20:40,880 --> 01:20:44,040 Speaker 1: he's gonna tell you. So the Bell Report. When I 1494 01:20:44,080 --> 01:20:47,400 Speaker 1: see the Bell Report that every time it's your last name, 1495 01:20:47,520 --> 01:20:50,280 Speaker 1: it's part of the branding process. Tell us how that 1496 01:20:50,360 --> 01:20:54,520 Speaker 1: came about. The whole magazine and also the Bell Report 1497 01:20:54,840 --> 01:21:01,599 Speaker 1: name Report. It's it's such a gift from God, and 1498 01:21:01,640 --> 01:21:07,759 Speaker 1: how it came into fruition, it's it's pretty uh. Years ago, fifteen, sixteen, 1499 01:21:07,800 --> 01:21:11,640 Speaker 1: seventeen years ago. Now, my cousin Kevin was riding his 1500 01:21:11,720 --> 01:21:15,840 Speaker 1: motorcycle out in Charlottesville. He had a motorcycle accident. His 1501 01:21:15,960 --> 01:21:19,160 Speaker 1: mom called and she said, Sheila, let the family know 1502 01:21:19,200 --> 01:21:21,680 Speaker 1: what's going on with Kevin. Because what happened with him 1503 01:21:21,720 --> 01:21:26,599 Speaker 1: the motorcycle accident, He slid a tree branch limb went 1504 01:21:26,680 --> 01:21:31,519 Speaker 1: through his eye. His son was behind him following him, 1505 01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:35,080 Speaker 1: and his son got involved in the same accident, but 1506 01:21:35,120 --> 01:21:38,040 Speaker 1: his son was not to really hurt. They met like 1507 01:21:38,240 --> 01:21:41,200 Speaker 1: him to the University of Virginia Hospital. And while all 1508 01:21:41,240 --> 01:21:43,920 Speaker 1: this is going on, I'm now keeping the family, the 1509 01:21:44,000 --> 01:21:47,200 Speaker 1: Bell family of where of what's going on. So what 1510 01:21:47,520 --> 01:21:49,240 Speaker 1: I had to figure out. That's when the Internet was 1511 01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:51,679 Speaker 1: still pretty new, and I had to figure out, okay, 1512 01:21:51,800 --> 01:21:54,639 Speaker 1: just put something on it. So I said, hey, hey, 1513 01:21:54,680 --> 01:21:57,280 Speaker 1: this is the Bell Report for the family. So I 1514 01:21:57,360 --> 01:21:59,519 Speaker 1: kept updating people what was going on, because I was 1515 01:21:59,560 --> 01:22:02,160 Speaker 1: still doing news at that time of another radio station 1516 01:22:02,400 --> 01:22:05,120 Speaker 1: at another TV station. I was updating people what was 1517 01:22:05,160 --> 01:22:08,920 Speaker 1: going on. And as he got better, I remember that 1518 01:22:09,080 --> 01:22:10,799 Speaker 1: was an event that was going on in the city, 1519 01:22:10,960 --> 01:22:12,760 Speaker 1: and I said, hey, by the way, Kevin, if you're 1520 01:22:12,760 --> 01:22:14,720 Speaker 1: feeling a little bit better, there's an event that we 1521 01:22:14,760 --> 01:22:17,439 Speaker 1: can go to. And he said, hey, that's pretty cool. 1522 01:22:17,800 --> 01:22:20,559 Speaker 1: He got better, and then a couple of days later 1523 01:22:20,560 --> 01:22:22,120 Speaker 1: I said, I found out there were two more things 1524 01:22:22,120 --> 01:22:24,479 Speaker 1: that's going on. So this went off all about a 1525 01:22:24,520 --> 01:22:27,120 Speaker 1: good week and a half and somebody in the family 1526 01:22:27,320 --> 01:22:30,519 Speaker 1: sent that Bell Report to somebody else and it started 1527 01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:33,360 Speaker 1: to float. And about two or three weeks later, I 1528 01:22:33,400 --> 01:22:35,200 Speaker 1: got an email from a friend of mine in the 1529 01:22:35,280 --> 01:22:38,479 Speaker 1: industry and who said, hey, I understand that you're sending 1530 01:22:38,479 --> 01:22:41,240 Speaker 1: out a newsletter or something. Can you send out this 1531 01:22:41,320 --> 01:22:45,640 Speaker 1: event as well? And here are five hundred additional emails 1532 01:22:45,920 --> 01:22:48,800 Speaker 1: that you can also have and distribute this to as well, 1533 01:22:49,439 --> 01:22:52,840 Speaker 1: so a lifebub went off that made me think, alrighty, 1534 01:22:52,880 --> 01:22:54,519 Speaker 1: I don't think they want to hear about my cousin. 1535 01:22:55,080 --> 01:22:58,160 Speaker 1: Let me split these and keep the Bell Report for 1536 01:22:58,200 --> 01:23:00,200 Speaker 1: the Bell Report for the family, and make the other 1537 01:23:00,200 --> 01:23:03,799 Speaker 1: one the Bell Report for everyone else. And initially started 1538 01:23:03,800 --> 01:23:05,800 Speaker 1: with the split with the Bell Report, that stayed the 1539 01:23:05,840 --> 01:23:07,840 Speaker 1: way that that was. But when it came for the 1540 01:23:07,840 --> 01:23:10,519 Speaker 1: Bell Report for the industry, I started to try to 1541 01:23:10,560 --> 01:23:14,000 Speaker 1: find information about what was going on and what was interesting. 1542 01:23:14,439 --> 01:23:17,240 Speaker 1: We didn't have the type of websites with all the 1543 01:23:17,280 --> 01:23:21,000 Speaker 1: information that we have now. So I would drive from Richmond, 1544 01:23:21,080 --> 01:23:24,680 Speaker 1: Virginia to Washington, d c. And pick up all the 1545 01:23:24,760 --> 01:23:28,400 Speaker 1: ethnic newspapers at Howard University to find out all the 1546 01:23:28,439 --> 01:23:30,920 Speaker 1: different events that were going on. And I have to 1547 01:23:30,920 --> 01:23:33,240 Speaker 1: call these people to find out. And then it became 1548 01:23:33,280 --> 01:23:35,720 Speaker 1: like a community calendar of all these different events that 1549 01:23:35,840 --> 01:23:39,280 Speaker 1: was going on and them having reporting skills. Then you 1550 01:23:39,320 --> 01:23:41,719 Speaker 1: start to go to the different events, and you start 1551 01:23:41,840 --> 01:23:45,160 Speaker 1: interviewing people, and you start taking pictures, and before you 1552 01:23:45,200 --> 01:23:48,800 Speaker 1: know at the Bell Report became two separate entities. And 1553 01:23:48,840 --> 01:23:50,840 Speaker 1: then I had family members who said, take me off 1554 01:23:50,840 --> 01:23:52,679 Speaker 1: the other Bell Report, just keep me on the other 1555 01:23:52,680 --> 01:23:55,160 Speaker 1: Family Bell Report, and it just started to grow from 1556 01:23:55,200 --> 01:23:57,599 Speaker 1: there and it has been growing ever since. And I 1557 01:23:57,640 --> 01:24:00,559 Speaker 1: think that we do well because we've try to make 1558 01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:03,559 Speaker 1: sure that we're not sending out emails all day long. 1559 01:24:03,880 --> 01:24:06,280 Speaker 1: We do have the website, but people want that email 1560 01:24:06,360 --> 01:24:09,240 Speaker 1: directly to their email front door, so we send it 1561 01:24:09,240 --> 01:24:10,960 Speaker 1: out late at night. We send it out in the 1562 01:24:11,000 --> 01:24:14,760 Speaker 1: noon day around twelve noon, just twice a day. But 1563 01:24:14,960 --> 01:24:17,200 Speaker 1: if you are to print it out, it's maybe anywhere 1564 01:24:17,240 --> 01:24:20,679 Speaker 1: from eighteen to twenty two pages of information that's going 1565 01:24:20,680 --> 01:24:24,000 Speaker 1: on in the gospel community, from what's happening with the 1566 01:24:24,080 --> 01:24:27,519 Speaker 1: record labels, the gospel artists, the conventions, whatever is going on. 1567 01:24:27,640 --> 01:24:30,600 Speaker 1: People call me, send me stuff to publicists and what 1568 01:24:30,960 --> 01:24:33,599 Speaker 1: the beauty is about the Bell Report? Which is why 1569 01:24:33,680 --> 01:24:36,840 Speaker 1: no God gave this coming? You have all this information 1570 01:24:36,840 --> 01:24:40,840 Speaker 1: out there, People have websites, people are over the place, 1571 01:24:41,240 --> 01:24:44,640 Speaker 1: But how do people know how to get to your website? 1572 01:24:45,240 --> 01:24:47,360 Speaker 1: How do they know that if you if you're trying 1573 01:24:47,360 --> 01:24:50,559 Speaker 1: to publish it. So I'm like, hey, the Bell Report 1574 01:24:50,640 --> 01:24:54,280 Speaker 1: goes to everybody, and people have gotten so mentally lazy. 1575 01:24:54,360 --> 01:24:56,800 Speaker 1: If you will give me what I can get and 1576 01:24:56,840 --> 01:24:59,240 Speaker 1: just send it to my email. So by sending it 1577 01:24:59,280 --> 01:25:01,920 Speaker 1: to the email. It's right there, everything that you need, 1578 01:25:02,000 --> 01:25:04,600 Speaker 1: everything that you want, and we also put links and 1579 01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:07,160 Speaker 1: other things and the reports if people want to go there. 1580 01:25:07,200 --> 01:25:09,560 Speaker 1: But the Bell Report has done really well. It's a 1581 01:25:09,600 --> 01:25:11,840 Speaker 1: blessing from God. Even told me how to make a 1582 01:25:11,880 --> 01:25:14,080 Speaker 1: couple of coins from it. And when I'm pushing it 1583 01:25:14,120 --> 01:25:16,719 Speaker 1: out and it helps pay my bills, and I thank 1584 01:25:16,760 --> 01:25:19,160 Speaker 1: God for you know, God gives you all the things 1585 01:25:19,160 --> 01:25:21,599 Speaker 1: that you need, It gives you the talents that you need, 1586 01:25:21,920 --> 01:25:24,040 Speaker 1: but He's trusting you with what he has giving you 1587 01:25:24,080 --> 01:25:26,400 Speaker 1: as well. So I just try to make sure what 1588 01:25:26,439 --> 01:25:28,400 Speaker 1: the gifts that God has given me that I use 1589 01:25:28,479 --> 01:25:30,800 Speaker 1: them to help people. But I also make sure that 1590 01:25:30,840 --> 01:25:33,559 Speaker 1: I'm using them to the glory of God and letting 1591 01:25:33,560 --> 01:25:35,680 Speaker 1: God know every day that I wake up that he 1592 01:25:35,720 --> 01:25:37,640 Speaker 1: can trust me with what he's trying to bless me with. 1593 01:25:37,720 --> 01:25:41,720 Speaker 1: You're listening to money making conversations with Rashan McDonald. We'll 1594 01:25:41,760 --> 01:25:44,559 Speaker 1: be right back. 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In twenty fifteen, I was diagnosed 1619 01:26:57,600 --> 01:27:04,320 Speaker 1: with thyro or cancer and and and it really was 1620 01:27:04,600 --> 01:27:08,280 Speaker 1: a game changing for me mentally because I wouldn't expecting 1621 01:27:08,320 --> 01:27:11,439 Speaker 1: that if the fact that I've done my annual exam 1622 01:27:11,520 --> 01:27:16,120 Speaker 1: when December and with the dentists and my doctor and 1623 01:27:16,520 --> 01:27:21,080 Speaker 1: everything was good, and it was I walked into the 1624 01:27:21,080 --> 01:27:24,840 Speaker 1: bloodwork and the doctor was doing the bloodwork said can 1625 01:27:24,880 --> 01:27:27,760 Speaker 1: I just to touch your throat, touch your neck, you know, 1626 01:27:27,880 --> 01:27:30,840 Speaker 1: just something that wasn't normal. And then she said, can 1627 01:27:30,880 --> 01:27:33,439 Speaker 1: I do a bobsy on this little this little lump 1628 01:27:33,560 --> 01:27:35,920 Speaker 1: right here? And she did the bobbousite to turn out 1629 01:27:35,920 --> 01:27:40,960 Speaker 1: to be cancerous. And I always tell people when somebody 1630 01:27:41,040 --> 01:27:45,120 Speaker 1: tells you the worry cancer, I don't care where you're 1631 01:27:45,120 --> 01:27:49,080 Speaker 1: in life. It shuts you down mentally. I mean, death 1632 01:27:49,120 --> 01:27:52,760 Speaker 1: immediately takes upon your spirit. Uh. It's a sense of 1633 01:27:52,920 --> 01:27:55,160 Speaker 1: a sense of you know, they go, don't tell you 1634 01:27:55,200 --> 01:27:56,639 Speaker 1: how many times they can tell you, well, you know 1635 01:27:57,000 --> 01:27:59,720 Speaker 1: the survival rates good, It doesn't it doesn't click with 1636 01:27:59,800 --> 01:28:03,120 Speaker 1: you at all. But when I didn't tell my family 1637 01:28:03,200 --> 01:28:04,920 Speaker 1: right away because I wanted to take all this in 1638 01:28:05,640 --> 01:28:08,000 Speaker 1: and it was it was really when I realized that 1639 01:28:08,040 --> 01:28:11,200 Speaker 1: you know, faith prepares you for an opportunity to ascend 1640 01:28:11,920 --> 01:28:14,880 Speaker 1: that or perspective of your life. And I would tell 1641 01:28:14,920 --> 01:28:19,160 Speaker 1: you this, mill I walked away with that situation when 1642 01:28:19,160 --> 01:28:21,839 Speaker 1: I finally to my family because I was very comfortable 1643 01:28:21,840 --> 01:28:23,960 Speaker 1: where my life was at at that point. And I'm 1644 01:28:23,960 --> 01:28:26,439 Speaker 1: still comfortable to that that. You know, you know, you 1645 01:28:26,479 --> 01:28:28,680 Speaker 1: look at your life. What have you accomplished? Or you're 1646 01:28:28,680 --> 01:28:32,120 Speaker 1: a good person. Have you done things unselfishly in your life? 1647 01:28:32,120 --> 01:28:35,360 Speaker 1: Have you enabled other people to achieve? Have you reached 1648 01:28:35,360 --> 01:28:37,439 Speaker 1: your goals or you're achieving your goals, or you're living 1649 01:28:37,439 --> 01:28:40,200 Speaker 1: the life that you want to live. And I was 1650 01:28:40,280 --> 01:28:43,160 Speaker 1: just checking off all these boxes and I would you know, 1651 01:28:43,479 --> 01:28:46,320 Speaker 1: I wasn't ready to check out, but if I was 1652 01:28:46,360 --> 01:28:50,240 Speaker 1: going to check out, I was comfortable with the process. 1653 01:28:50,680 --> 01:28:52,280 Speaker 1: And that's where I met with my life. And I 1654 01:28:52,360 --> 01:28:55,080 Speaker 1: try to tell everybody you know, don't hold off any 1655 01:28:55,080 --> 01:28:58,599 Speaker 1: opportunity or a dream possibility. And so when I read 1656 01:28:58,640 --> 01:29:02,040 Speaker 1: about you being diagnosed in twenty sixteen, I want you 1657 01:29:02,120 --> 01:29:04,439 Speaker 1: to share your experience on my show because I try 1658 01:29:04,479 --> 01:29:06,759 Speaker 1: to be very honest with you. This is my experience, 1659 01:29:06,800 --> 01:29:09,759 Speaker 1: but everybody has a different experience because it's so impactful. 1660 01:29:09,800 --> 01:29:12,280 Speaker 1: I lost my sister to breast cancer, so I know 1661 01:29:12,640 --> 01:29:14,160 Speaker 1: what it can do to you and how I can 1662 01:29:14,200 --> 01:29:17,280 Speaker 1: devastate a family and take away somebody you love the most. 1663 01:29:17,640 --> 01:29:20,679 Speaker 1: But it happened to me and I was able to 1664 01:29:20,880 --> 01:29:23,280 Speaker 1: deal with it professionally because that's what it was. It 1665 01:29:23,320 --> 01:29:25,600 Speaker 1: was a professional moment for me to be able to 1666 01:29:25,600 --> 01:29:28,240 Speaker 1: deal with it because I put my life in perspective 1667 01:29:28,280 --> 01:29:31,639 Speaker 1: and I've never ever gotten up saying what I could 1668 01:29:31,640 --> 01:29:34,160 Speaker 1: not do. I just tried to do it, and I 1669 01:29:34,200 --> 01:29:36,960 Speaker 1: tried to do it at and that's my story and 1670 01:29:36,960 --> 01:29:38,840 Speaker 1: that's my life, and that's why I live it every day, 1671 01:29:39,120 --> 01:29:42,200 Speaker 1: and that's why I created this money making conversation platform 1672 01:29:42,240 --> 01:29:44,360 Speaker 1: so I can talk to amazing people like you because 1673 01:29:44,400 --> 01:29:47,040 Speaker 1: your story is inspirational. Were important that you get to 1674 01:29:47,080 --> 01:29:49,840 Speaker 1: share it on the platform that thousands of people can 1675 01:29:49,880 --> 01:29:53,799 Speaker 1: hear your turn. It's well, like you said, it's amazing 1676 01:29:53,840 --> 01:29:56,360 Speaker 1: when you get diagnosed or something like that, you are 1677 01:29:56,400 --> 01:29:59,760 Speaker 1: never prepared for it. And when I initially got that 1678 01:30:00,120 --> 01:30:03,400 Speaker 1: test and they let me even back up. When I 1679 01:30:03,439 --> 01:30:05,759 Speaker 1: was at the radio station, they were talking about having 1680 01:30:06,280 --> 01:30:08,920 Speaker 1: healthfare and somebody said, you know they're gonna be doing 1681 01:30:08,920 --> 01:30:12,479 Speaker 1: mammograms there and I had not had one, had not, 1682 01:30:13,360 --> 01:30:17,080 Speaker 1: But when I was invited to go, I knew when 1683 01:30:17,120 --> 01:30:19,120 Speaker 1: I went, my life was going to change. I just 1684 01:30:19,280 --> 01:30:21,760 Speaker 1: I just knew it. And I went that Saturday. I 1685 01:30:21,800 --> 01:30:23,960 Speaker 1: walked up those three steps. There was a young lady 1686 01:30:24,040 --> 01:30:26,439 Speaker 1: sitting in that little lab area of a I call 1687 01:30:26,520 --> 01:30:29,160 Speaker 1: it the Mamma Grandma Bile because it was a mobile 1688 01:30:29,320 --> 01:30:31,639 Speaker 1: that was there. There was a young lady sitting there, 1689 01:30:31,680 --> 01:30:33,360 Speaker 1: and when I walked and I looked at her, I said, 1690 01:30:33,400 --> 01:30:36,240 Speaker 1: my life will never be the same, and she just 1691 01:30:36,280 --> 01:30:39,200 Speaker 1: looked at me and tilted her head. They called me back. 1692 01:30:39,640 --> 01:30:42,720 Speaker 1: They did three or four images. They said, we'll call you. 1693 01:30:42,800 --> 01:30:46,160 Speaker 1: There's something wrong. Wednesday they called. They said we found 1694 01:30:46,240 --> 01:30:49,839 Speaker 1: some crystallization and I had to go to the hospital 1695 01:30:49,960 --> 01:30:52,000 Speaker 1: to further that. I went to the University of Virginia, 1696 01:30:52,040 --> 01:30:54,400 Speaker 1: which is where I got everything originally done, because I 1697 01:30:54,439 --> 01:30:56,080 Speaker 1: didn't want to really deal with it here where I 1698 01:30:56,080 --> 01:31:00,280 Speaker 1: am Richmond. When I got there and they started taking wages, 1699 01:31:00,479 --> 01:31:02,479 Speaker 1: I think by the time they were on image number 1700 01:31:02,560 --> 01:31:06,560 Speaker 1: twelve or thirteen and started to get real, I said okay, 1701 01:31:06,560 --> 01:31:09,559 Speaker 1: and I started to get some emotions there. Then they 1702 01:31:09,640 --> 01:31:12,160 Speaker 1: wanted to take a biopsy. And when they took the 1703 01:31:12,200 --> 01:31:14,639 Speaker 1: biopsy and the doctor looked at some things, and I said, 1704 01:31:14,680 --> 01:31:17,519 Speaker 1: do we have a problem? He says, we have a problem. 1705 01:31:17,560 --> 01:31:19,760 Speaker 1: So we gathered him that And when I gat through 1706 01:31:19,800 --> 01:31:23,000 Speaker 1: that and I went outside, that was that one moment 1707 01:31:23,320 --> 01:31:25,479 Speaker 1: when I had to sit down and get myself together. 1708 01:31:26,200 --> 01:31:29,320 Speaker 1: I had to process it and to mentally figure out 1709 01:31:29,360 --> 01:31:32,679 Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do. I mentally make some decisions. How 1710 01:31:32,680 --> 01:31:34,880 Speaker 1: are you gonna handle this? Are you gonna fall apart? 1711 01:31:35,080 --> 01:31:37,960 Speaker 1: Are you gonna be strong? It's not about why is 1712 01:31:38,000 --> 01:31:41,519 Speaker 1: that God's trusting you with this assignment? So let's handle this. 1713 01:31:42,000 --> 01:31:45,240 Speaker 1: Your mother passed away from bone cancer, handle it. You 1714 01:31:45,320 --> 01:31:47,920 Speaker 1: are here. And after I gat through that, it was 1715 01:31:48,120 --> 01:31:50,519 Speaker 1: sordered like it was sort of like saying, game on, 1716 01:31:50,920 --> 01:31:54,559 Speaker 1: let's do this. And that's the mindset that I took. 1717 01:31:55,160 --> 01:31:58,880 Speaker 1: And I was supposed to have six chemotherapy treatments. I 1718 01:31:58,880 --> 01:32:01,960 Speaker 1: was supposed to through the whole nine. But well, so 1719 01:32:02,120 --> 01:32:05,640 Speaker 1: interesting when you are in a position like that, the 1720 01:32:05,720 --> 01:32:09,519 Speaker 1: first thing you start figuring out is, Okay, I gotta 1721 01:32:09,560 --> 01:32:11,600 Speaker 1: figure out how to handle this. But then when you 1722 01:32:11,640 --> 01:32:15,040 Speaker 1: meet when you meet with a doctor, you really don't 1723 01:32:15,120 --> 01:32:18,920 Speaker 1: know what to ask. You don't know what to do, 1724 01:32:19,160 --> 01:32:22,120 Speaker 1: you don't know how to feel, you don't know what 1725 01:32:22,200 --> 01:32:25,840 Speaker 1: direction to going because you've never been in this uncharted 1726 01:32:25,960 --> 01:32:29,559 Speaker 1: territory before. You're now dependent on this doctor to give 1727 01:32:29,560 --> 01:32:32,599 Speaker 1: you the best advice possible what you should do, how 1728 01:32:32,680 --> 01:32:35,400 Speaker 1: you should handle it, what treatment you should take. So 1729 01:32:35,479 --> 01:32:38,679 Speaker 1: what they were telling me after I started digging because 1730 01:32:38,680 --> 01:32:41,000 Speaker 1: I don't mind digging and getting research. But what this 1731 01:32:41,080 --> 01:32:45,559 Speaker 1: doctor told me um, I didn't agree with. And they 1732 01:32:45,560 --> 01:32:48,160 Speaker 1: were telling me that I needed to have surgery first, 1733 01:32:48,160 --> 01:32:51,320 Speaker 1: and I needed to do this and that and and 1734 01:32:51,320 --> 01:32:53,160 Speaker 1: and I'm I'm like, wit, I'm like, but if if 1735 01:32:53,160 --> 01:32:56,360 Speaker 1: you have surgery first and you you do have a 1736 01:32:56,439 --> 01:32:59,400 Speaker 1: large I had an eight uh an eight centimeter tumor, 1737 01:33:00,080 --> 01:33:03,240 Speaker 1: said why don't we do the chemo first to shrink 1738 01:33:03,320 --> 01:33:07,240 Speaker 1: it and then do the surgery to remove it. But 1739 01:33:07,400 --> 01:33:09,880 Speaker 1: then they didn't give me all the options. They were 1740 01:33:09,880 --> 01:33:12,520 Speaker 1: telling me that I could have both in my breasts removed, 1741 01:33:12,840 --> 01:33:16,520 Speaker 1: and it was really a mess. So after I initially 1742 01:33:16,640 --> 01:33:19,720 Speaker 1: got a port in and then I had my first 1743 01:33:19,800 --> 01:33:24,919 Speaker 1: chemo therapy treatment. Uh that went pretty well. Two weeks 1744 01:33:25,320 --> 01:33:29,679 Speaker 1: into the first chemo treatment and I was finding out 1745 01:33:29,760 --> 01:33:32,640 Speaker 1: some tightness in my chest, and then the port got infected. 1746 01:33:32,960 --> 01:33:35,960 Speaker 1: And after the port got infected, and I was calling 1747 01:33:36,000 --> 01:33:39,760 Speaker 1: the hospital and uv A and I'm in Richmond. They 1748 01:33:39,760 --> 01:33:41,800 Speaker 1: were saying, when you need to get to the emergency room. 1749 01:33:42,120 --> 01:33:44,400 Speaker 1: And then when I got to the emergency room, then 1750 01:33:44,439 --> 01:33:46,400 Speaker 1: we found out that the port was infected, had a 1751 01:33:46,439 --> 01:33:48,880 Speaker 1: wounded infection out of blood infection, and they had to 1752 01:33:48,920 --> 01:33:51,640 Speaker 1: take the port out. Then I wasn't admitted to the hospital. 1753 01:33:51,720 --> 01:33:53,880 Speaker 1: Then I had mercer. Then I got out of the 1754 01:33:53,920 --> 01:33:55,800 Speaker 1: hospital about a week and a half later that I 1755 01:33:55,840 --> 01:33:59,519 Speaker 1: was on Banca vica marris banka, whatever that drug is, 1756 01:33:59,800 --> 01:34:03,400 Speaker 1: for about twenty one days. Then after that got cleared up, 1757 01:34:03,560 --> 01:34:06,680 Speaker 1: I went back to treatment for my chemo, which was 1758 01:34:06,880 --> 01:34:10,599 Speaker 1: treatment number two. Okay, Treatment number three was a little 1759 01:34:10,680 --> 01:34:15,679 Speaker 1: rough because by this time I was going through losing weight. 1760 01:34:15,800 --> 01:34:18,719 Speaker 1: I was down eighty five pounds, the hair was gone. 1761 01:34:19,080 --> 01:34:21,320 Speaker 1: I was also in the middle of pulling together an 1762 01:34:21,360 --> 01:34:24,719 Speaker 1: event at my church called the Gift, and that Gift 1763 01:34:25,040 --> 01:34:27,479 Speaker 1: helped me to propel and push through what I was 1764 01:34:27,520 --> 01:34:29,639 Speaker 1: going through. The Gift was a program that I put 1765 01:34:29,680 --> 01:34:32,080 Speaker 1: together that was going to be helping out people who 1766 01:34:32,080 --> 01:34:34,799 Speaker 1: were caregivers of people who were also dealing with cancer. 1767 01:34:35,080 --> 01:34:37,040 Speaker 1: But that gave me that fight, and that gave me 1768 01:34:37,120 --> 01:34:40,599 Speaker 1: something the focus on. After that third treatment, though it 1769 01:34:40,680 --> 01:34:43,800 Speaker 1: was just rough, but I made it through, and then 1770 01:34:43,840 --> 01:34:46,759 Speaker 1: we went to the fourth treatment. At the fourth treatment, 1771 01:34:46,880 --> 01:34:49,800 Speaker 1: I asked them the doctor, I said, do you think 1772 01:34:50,200 --> 01:34:52,759 Speaker 1: you that we might be able to wrap this up 1773 01:34:52,840 --> 01:34:56,840 Speaker 1: at treatment number five? She said, well, let's see. At 1774 01:34:56,920 --> 01:35:00,720 Speaker 1: this time, remember they took the poor out. So when 1775 01:35:00,720 --> 01:35:02,599 Speaker 1: I left the hospital this time, and now I had 1776 01:35:02,600 --> 01:35:05,320 Speaker 1: a pick in my arm. So the picus was getting 1777 01:35:05,320 --> 01:35:08,360 Speaker 1: the chemotherapy treatment for the second treatment, the third treatment, 1778 01:35:08,360 --> 01:35:11,880 Speaker 1: and the fourth treatment, so I'm thinking on the fifth treatment, hey, hey, 1779 01:35:11,920 --> 01:35:14,160 Speaker 1: we're done. We're gonna wrap this up. When I get 1780 01:35:14,160 --> 01:35:17,000 Speaker 1: there for the fifth treatment, they can't get a return 1781 01:35:17,080 --> 01:35:19,400 Speaker 1: on the blood. They're trying to get a return on 1782 01:35:19,439 --> 01:35:21,640 Speaker 1: the blood, and then they said, we're gonna have to 1783 01:35:21,680 --> 01:35:26,679 Speaker 1: take the pick out. And this happens. This is when 1784 01:35:26,720 --> 01:35:29,080 Speaker 1: you have to go back and have a little talk 1785 01:35:29,160 --> 01:35:31,760 Speaker 1: with Jesus and praying that he would make everything all right. 1786 01:35:32,479 --> 01:35:35,000 Speaker 1: And I had to trust my faith to get me 1787 01:35:35,080 --> 01:35:39,840 Speaker 1: through this moment because at this moment, they called my 1788 01:35:39,960 --> 01:35:43,960 Speaker 1: doctor's back downstairs, and as much of a fighter as 1789 01:35:44,000 --> 01:35:46,559 Speaker 1: I am, and the doctors realized I was trying to 1790 01:35:46,600 --> 01:35:49,680 Speaker 1: hold them to this pickline because they already took the 1791 01:35:49,720 --> 01:35:51,880 Speaker 1: port out. So if you took the port out, and 1792 01:35:51,880 --> 01:35:53,960 Speaker 1: I'm thinking, if you take the pick out, what are 1793 01:35:53,960 --> 01:35:56,519 Speaker 1: we gonna do next, because we have either one or 1794 01:35:56,600 --> 01:36:01,240 Speaker 1: two more treatments left. So they're looking at me. I'm 1795 01:36:01,280 --> 01:36:05,360 Speaker 1: looking at them, and it was this moment of silence 1796 01:36:06,040 --> 01:36:08,599 Speaker 1: because I had to get it in my head and 1797 01:36:08,640 --> 01:36:13,000 Speaker 1: I said, go ahead and take the pick out. Take 1798 01:36:13,040 --> 01:36:16,880 Speaker 1: the pick out. But it's on the third time that 1799 01:36:17,000 --> 01:36:20,559 Speaker 1: I meant it and I trusted God and I said 1800 01:36:20,720 --> 01:36:24,080 Speaker 1: take the pick out. And they took the pick out. 1801 01:36:24,960 --> 01:36:27,840 Speaker 1: They sent me to the emergency room. They wrapped my 1802 01:36:27,920 --> 01:36:31,799 Speaker 1: arm up. I went home. I got dressed from my event, 1803 01:36:32,520 --> 01:36:36,519 Speaker 1: the gift at my church with seats over three thousand people. 1804 01:36:37,400 --> 01:36:40,280 Speaker 1: I got there that evening I could barely walk. I 1805 01:36:40,360 --> 01:36:43,439 Speaker 1: have a black shawl wrapped around my arm. The stuff 1806 01:36:43,439 --> 01:36:47,200 Speaker 1: in my arm is gradually oozing out and crystallizing. I've 1807 01:36:47,240 --> 01:36:50,040 Speaker 1: got two cousins looking after me when I walk on 1808 01:36:50,080 --> 01:36:53,439 Speaker 1: the pulpit that evening that I'm so called co hosting, 1809 01:36:53,479 --> 01:36:56,720 Speaker 1: barely can walk a good chunk of my church was 1810 01:36:56,840 --> 01:36:59,720 Speaker 1: there who did not know that I was going through 1811 01:36:59,720 --> 01:37:06,240 Speaker 1: all of this. They have seen me MC many of concerts, host, radio, TV, 1812 01:37:06,600 --> 01:37:10,559 Speaker 1: the whole nine. But when I walked on that platform, 1813 01:37:10,600 --> 01:37:14,760 Speaker 1: there was silence. There was you could hear people gasping, 1814 01:37:15,200 --> 01:37:18,160 Speaker 1: you could hear people in shock, and I saw people cry. 1815 01:37:18,920 --> 01:37:20,720 Speaker 1: And I think because I had not had a chance 1816 01:37:20,760 --> 01:37:22,920 Speaker 1: to be in church about two or three months, I 1817 01:37:22,960 --> 01:37:27,000 Speaker 1: was emotional. But we got through it. That was that Saturday. 1818 01:37:27,479 --> 01:37:29,600 Speaker 1: It was a great program to Caitlin carb is my 1819 01:37:29,640 --> 01:37:31,920 Speaker 1: special guest. She came up with her dad and it 1820 01:37:32,000 --> 01:37:38,439 Speaker 1: was just a beautiful thing. People and then years ago, 1821 01:37:42,760 --> 01:37:46,920 Speaker 1: crazy and she's dating a football player. Now right, it's crazy, 1822 01:37:46,960 --> 01:37:50,960 Speaker 1: that's her person. Sorry, but right, so she's there. It's 1823 01:37:51,040 --> 01:37:54,839 Speaker 1: just an amazing moment. We finished with the program. Sunday comes, 1824 01:37:55,040 --> 01:37:58,519 Speaker 1: Monday comes, I'm going back to get this pickline in 1825 01:37:59,240 --> 01:38:02,320 Speaker 1: and we really lies that. Okay, this isn't gonna happen. 1826 01:38:02,479 --> 01:38:04,960 Speaker 1: Let's wait and see what the m r I does. 1827 01:38:05,360 --> 01:38:08,240 Speaker 1: So we finally get clearance in the m r I. 1828 01:38:08,320 --> 01:38:11,720 Speaker 1: We walked down to to the office and it was 1829 01:38:11,760 --> 01:38:13,960 Speaker 1: a fireplace there. I said, I'm gonna take this picture, 1830 01:38:14,000 --> 01:38:17,640 Speaker 1: believing God's gonna heal me. So we walked through. We 1831 01:38:17,760 --> 01:38:20,240 Speaker 1: go to the back. I'm about to get this m R. 1832 01:38:20,320 --> 01:38:23,360 Speaker 1: I done. The nurse she comes over to me. She says, 1833 01:38:23,720 --> 01:38:25,880 Speaker 1: would you mind if I pray for you? I said, 1834 01:38:25,920 --> 01:38:30,559 Speaker 1: come on, somebody, she prays for me. I walked back. 1835 01:38:30,640 --> 01:38:34,200 Speaker 1: I'm laying down on this table. This was on Monday 1836 01:38:34,280 --> 01:38:37,360 Speaker 1: or Tuesday. We're waiting for the phone call to come back. 1837 01:38:37,920 --> 01:38:41,559 Speaker 1: The lady founding calls. Carol calls me on Wednesday morning. 1838 01:38:42,680 --> 01:38:45,439 Speaker 1: I missed the call. I have to call her back, 1839 01:38:46,120 --> 01:38:49,240 Speaker 1: I said, Carol. She said, Sheila, we got the results, 1840 01:38:50,000 --> 01:38:54,160 Speaker 1: and her voice dropped. I'm still trusting God. And she says, 1841 01:38:54,320 --> 01:38:57,320 Speaker 1: I want you to know that we didn't find any cancer. 1842 01:38:58,439 --> 01:39:02,360 Speaker 1: All the cancer is on. So you have a great 1843 01:39:02,400 --> 01:39:07,720 Speaker 1: Christmas and you enjoy yourself. What I thought right there, 1844 01:39:07,720 --> 01:39:10,439 Speaker 1: because I remember when the doctor told me. The doctor 1845 01:39:10,479 --> 01:39:13,160 Speaker 1: told me said, you know, because we always have the 1846 01:39:13,160 --> 01:39:15,720 Speaker 1: feary coming back. But the doctor came in my room, 1847 01:39:15,840 --> 01:39:18,559 Speaker 1: he went, you are you cancer free? Then he just 1848 01:39:18,600 --> 01:39:21,280 Speaker 1: walked out. I went, what did he just said? Did 1849 01:39:21,280 --> 01:39:23,960 Speaker 1: he say he just walked out? You know? It just 1850 01:39:23,960 --> 01:39:26,360 Speaker 1: said you good, you can just walked out. I went 1851 01:39:26,400 --> 01:39:28,960 Speaker 1: did he just say cancer free? Did he say I'm 1852 01:39:29,160 --> 01:39:34,280 Speaker 1: cool and clear? I just went, I gotta confirm this again. 1853 01:39:35,080 --> 01:39:36,880 Speaker 1: I ran up and down. It's all that, and I 1854 01:39:36,920 --> 01:39:39,800 Speaker 1: just saw, I went, what did you just say? Okay? 1855 01:39:39,800 --> 01:39:45,000 Speaker 1: Because you just casually said that I was cancer free? Yeah, 1856 01:39:45,240 --> 01:39:48,760 Speaker 1: you're you're good. You're good, You're good. I went, thank you. 1857 01:39:48,800 --> 01:39:51,320 Speaker 1: But I'll just let you know that you can't say 1858 01:39:51,360 --> 01:39:57,640 Speaker 1: something like that casually. Yeah, so you know what I'm saying. So, 1859 01:39:57,920 --> 01:40:00,600 Speaker 1: but people don't value They just give you information and 1860 01:40:00,680 --> 01:40:04,639 Speaker 1: think is trivial, but they don't know the emotional journey 1861 01:40:04,680 --> 01:40:07,599 Speaker 1: that you're on because this is life and death information 1862 01:40:07,600 --> 01:40:09,960 Speaker 1: that is being given to you. So I know when 1863 01:40:09,960 --> 01:40:13,880 Speaker 1: you was giving that information, it's like, oh my god, 1864 01:40:14,080 --> 01:40:17,280 Speaker 1: it's this. It's just real. It's true, you said, you 1865 01:40:17,320 --> 01:40:21,120 Speaker 1: start doubting yourself, you start contradicting information, and then you 1866 01:40:21,160 --> 01:40:23,840 Speaker 1: have the process. It is being real. So it was 1867 01:40:23,880 --> 01:40:27,000 Speaker 1: a moment when they said waiting to exhale, You finally 1868 01:40:27,000 --> 01:40:30,920 Speaker 1: did to exhale at that moment, and I did, and 1869 01:40:31,280 --> 01:40:33,600 Speaker 1: it's just amazing how you feel after that, and you 1870 01:40:33,680 --> 01:40:36,920 Speaker 1: have time to heal, and even I had to have radiation, 1871 01:40:37,520 --> 01:40:40,559 Speaker 1: and you know, people have really bad side effects radiation. 1872 01:40:41,160 --> 01:40:43,240 Speaker 1: I found a friend who knew somebody who knew somebody 1873 01:40:43,240 --> 01:40:46,280 Speaker 1: who knew somebody who was making this cream up in Washington, 1874 01:40:46,360 --> 01:40:48,880 Speaker 1: d C. And I said, hey, I'll take two jars 1875 01:40:48,920 --> 01:40:50,559 Speaker 1: of it. They said, put it on there before the 1876 01:40:50,600 --> 01:40:53,880 Speaker 1: treatment starts, and I did that. I got less in 1877 01:40:54,000 --> 01:40:58,280 Speaker 1: a sun less than a sunburn of a burnt on 1878 01:40:58,400 --> 01:41:02,639 Speaker 1: me from thirty three rounds radiation less. That was it. 1879 01:41:03,360 --> 01:41:05,439 Speaker 1: I think God for it. God was with me through 1880 01:41:05,479 --> 01:41:09,320 Speaker 1: this whole situation. And it's amazing when you were talking 1881 01:41:09,320 --> 01:41:11,720 Speaker 1: about when you have to tell your family members. I 1882 01:41:11,760 --> 01:41:14,280 Speaker 1: remember I told my niece and my nephew, and I 1883 01:41:14,320 --> 01:41:17,200 Speaker 1: thought that I was gonna fix it up. I said, hey, 1884 01:41:17,280 --> 01:41:19,800 Speaker 1: I got a little something that's going on. But the 1885 01:41:19,840 --> 01:41:22,120 Speaker 1: doctor said, I'm gonna be okay. I'm thinking I'm doing 1886 01:41:22,120 --> 01:41:24,240 Speaker 1: a good, good job because I'm telling them the good thing. 1887 01:41:24,640 --> 01:41:27,040 Speaker 1: And I tried to backtrack, and before I knew, I 1888 01:41:27,080 --> 01:41:29,919 Speaker 1: could hear tears so and then I heard the breakdown. 1889 01:41:30,000 --> 01:41:31,679 Speaker 1: So after the niece and the nephew and the brother 1890 01:41:31,720 --> 01:41:33,479 Speaker 1: and the sister, I didn't tell anybody else because it 1891 01:41:33,520 --> 01:41:36,599 Speaker 1: was too much. And when family members are hearing, they're 1892 01:41:36,640 --> 01:41:40,439 Speaker 1: like not you, not you, she rebell not know. It's 1893 01:41:40,479 --> 01:41:43,000 Speaker 1: like people just couldn't comprehend or would not accept it. 1894 01:41:43,200 --> 01:41:46,320 Speaker 1: And my sister she wouldn't accept it. She just she 1895 01:41:46,400 --> 01:41:48,320 Speaker 1: just wouldn't accept it. And I think we were thinking 1896 01:41:48,320 --> 01:41:50,680 Speaker 1: about my mom. But I just think about what you 1897 01:41:50,720 --> 01:41:53,800 Speaker 1: were talking about. Sometimes when you go through something, you 1898 01:41:53,960 --> 01:41:57,320 Speaker 1: become more concerned about the family members than taking care 1899 01:41:57,400 --> 01:42:00,240 Speaker 1: of yourself. And you have to take care of yourself little. 1900 01:42:00,520 --> 01:42:04,000 Speaker 1: So to go through that, the surgery and the radiation 1901 01:42:04,720 --> 01:42:07,679 Speaker 1: and all that I went through, I just thank God 1902 01:42:07,800 --> 01:42:12,000 Speaker 1: that I'm okay. It's it's just amazing to be here more, 1903 01:42:12,080 --> 01:42:14,280 Speaker 1: to have a testimony, to share and give God all 1904 01:42:14,320 --> 01:42:17,080 Speaker 1: the glory for You're more than okay, Sheila. I want 1905 01:42:17,080 --> 01:42:19,160 Speaker 1: to thank you for coming on my show. Can we 1906 01:42:19,200 --> 01:42:21,519 Speaker 1: do this once a quarter? Can we have a Can 1907 01:42:21,560 --> 01:42:24,719 Speaker 1: we love to? I love your energy, I love your smile, 1908 01:42:24,880 --> 01:42:27,760 Speaker 1: I love your personality. I love how you just make 1909 01:42:27,800 --> 01:42:31,200 Speaker 1: this such a comfortable atmosphere, just to share and to 1910 01:42:31,280 --> 01:42:35,080 Speaker 1: be transparent and to also prayerfully helping other people who 1911 01:42:35,160 --> 01:42:37,439 Speaker 1: may be going through some of the similar things that 1912 01:42:37,479 --> 01:42:39,880 Speaker 1: we have gone through. I'll tell you you're I'm a 1913 01:42:39,920 --> 01:42:41,519 Speaker 1: fan of yours. I wanted to get you on the 1914 01:42:41,600 --> 01:42:43,040 Speaker 1: show once a quarter. We're gonna have to you a 1915 01:42:43,040 --> 01:42:46,360 Speaker 1: little emotional praise because people needed. I bring in my 1916 01:42:46,439 --> 01:42:48,600 Speaker 1: girl Land to Alams on the show. You know at 1917 01:42:48,680 --> 01:42:51,960 Speaker 1: least three times a year. She's like my mentor. She 1918 01:42:52,240 --> 01:42:56,200 Speaker 1: checks me, keeps me focused, she keeps a clear understanding. 1919 01:42:56,439 --> 01:42:58,759 Speaker 1: And I have to treat you like another sister because 1920 01:42:58,800 --> 01:43:01,599 Speaker 1: you're my sister. For rich She's my sister from Houston 1921 01:43:01,600 --> 01:43:04,360 Speaker 1: while I was born and raised. So bail report, I 1922 01:43:04,439 --> 01:43:07,000 Speaker 1: mean your report once a month. I'm in your life 1923 01:43:07,000 --> 01:43:10,559 Speaker 1: every day because we are sisters and brothers are a life. 1924 01:43:10,760 --> 01:43:13,599 Speaker 1: Thank you for coming on money making conversation. Okay, thank 1925 01:43:13,640 --> 01:43:15,479 Speaker 1: you so much for having me have a great one, 1926 01:43:15,520 --> 01:43:18,240 Speaker 1: and God bless you're real good. Thank you. I appreciate it. 1927 01:43:23,280 --> 01:43:26,000 Speaker 1: This report is brought to you by Humanity. If you're 1928 01:43:26,000 --> 01:43:29,160 Speaker 1: a veteran Medicare, there are Medicare advantage plans that compliment 1929 01:43:29,240 --> 01:43:31,759 Speaker 1: the coverage you get through the v a. Ed Sandric 1930 01:43:31,840 --> 01:43:34,920 Speaker 1: is director of Humaniz Veterans Channel. How does a Medicare 1931 01:43:34,960 --> 01:43:38,519 Speaker 1: advantage plan work with VA benefits? 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They 1941 01:44:06,800 --> 01:44:11,160 Speaker 1: don't uh interrupt one another. Um. There are some miss 1942 01:44:11,240 --> 01:44:15,040 Speaker 1: and misconceptions among the veteran community that they may jeopardize 1943 01:44:15,040 --> 01:44:18,479 Speaker 1: their VA healthcare should they use original Medicare and medical advantage. 1944 01:44:18,520 --> 01:44:21,439 Speaker 1: That's just not the case. For more information, visit humana 1945 01:44:21,520 --> 01:44:25,040 Speaker 1: dot com slash Medicare him Rushan McDonald, the host of 1946 01:44:25,040 --> 01:44:28,000 Speaker 1: Money Making Conversation. The Cafe Moka Swag Award is a 1947 01:44:28,040 --> 01:44:30,320 Speaker 1: celebration of black men who are making a difference in 1948 01:44:30,320 --> 01:44:33,599 Speaker 1: our community by empowering others to reach their life goals, 1949 01:44:33,920 --> 01:44:38,160 Speaker 1: from civic leaders, businessmen, activists, celebrities and everyday dads. The 1950 01:44:38,240 --> 01:44:41,559 Speaker 1: Kafee Mocha Swagg Award winner this week is Prince Donnelle. 1951 01:44:41,960 --> 01:44:45,400 Speaker 1: He's one of the visionaries behind Jumping Jack Taxes. He 1952 01:44:45,479 --> 01:44:49,599 Speaker 1: wants to make entrepreneurship possible, creating generational wealth by serving 1953 01:44:49,600 --> 01:44:53,679 Speaker 1: the communities we come from and providing access to financial literacy. 1954 01:44:54,080 --> 01:44:56,200 Speaker 1: Prince Donnelle's goal is to take a piece of this 1955 01:44:56,320 --> 01:44:59,800 Speaker 1: billion dollar tax industry and push the profits back into 1956 01:44:59,800 --> 01:45:02,800 Speaker 1: our community. It's not about taxes, it's not about what 1957 01:45:02,880 --> 01:45:05,000 Speaker 1: industry that you go into, but it's about all of 1958 01:45:05,080 --> 01:45:09,080 Speaker 1: us pulling our dollars together to achieve a common goal. Now, 1959 01:45:09,200 --> 01:45:10,640 Speaker 1: I'm going to be able to go to each and 1960 01:45:10,680 --> 01:45:12,960 Speaker 1: every one of them because the understanding group of economies 1961 01:45:13,000 --> 01:45:15,679 Speaker 1: and sharing and say, hey, there's this there's this block 1962 01:45:16,040 --> 01:45:18,760 Speaker 1: that has all these abandoned buildings. How about all of 1963 01:45:18,800 --> 01:45:21,280 Speaker 1: our partners. Let's all of us put our money together 1964 01:45:21,680 --> 01:45:23,920 Speaker 1: and let's all buy that block together, and we all 1965 01:45:23,960 --> 01:45:26,599 Speaker 1: have a piece of that ownership. The Cafe Marchas Swag 1966 01:45:26,640 --> 01:45:30,120 Speaker 1: Award represents men who have strength, whose wisdom is assertive, 1967 01:45:30,320 --> 01:45:36,719 Speaker 1: and who is genuine in their spirit. My next chaster 1968 01:45:36,880 --> 01:45:39,519 Speaker 1: chef Tanya, she's the executive chef and owner of the 1969 01:45:39,560 --> 01:45:42,839 Speaker 1: internationally right now and they love Brown Sugar Kitchen restaurant 1970 01:45:42,920 --> 01:45:45,960 Speaker 1: located in Oakland, California. She's the author of the Brown 1971 01:45:46,040 --> 01:45:49,759 Speaker 1: Sugar Kitchen cookbook and New Soul Cooking. Chef Tanya competed 1972 01:45:49,800 --> 01:45:52,679 Speaker 1: on the fifteen season of Top Chef on Broadway, Brobo 1973 01:45:52,800 --> 01:45:56,839 Speaker 1: Excuse Me, Feature judge on the Food networks Are and Chef, PBS, 1974 01:45:56,960 --> 01:45:59,960 Speaker 1: The Great American Chefs Tour, and TV ONANS My Mama's 1975 01:46:00,040 --> 01:46:02,559 Speaker 1: Throws Down, I Love That Time. She now owns her 1976 01:46:02,600 --> 01:46:05,280 Speaker 1: own show on the own network that airs every Saturday. 1977 01:46:05,680 --> 01:46:08,960 Speaker 1: Chinese Kitchen Table showcases the beauty of cooking local while 1978 01:46:09,040 --> 01:46:12,679 Speaker 1: thinking Global, which features new spins on classic classic dishes 1979 01:46:12,920 --> 01:46:15,120 Speaker 1: and tips on how to cook like a pro. Please 1980 01:46:15,120 --> 01:46:17,439 Speaker 1: work with the money making conversation for the very first time, 1981 01:46:18,040 --> 01:46:20,960 Speaker 1: Chef Tan you, how are you doing great? Thanks for 1982 01:46:21,040 --> 01:46:23,320 Speaker 1: having me. It's good to be here. Well, it's always 1983 01:46:23,360 --> 01:46:26,439 Speaker 1: good to talk to somebody about food, Okay, and you're 1984 01:46:26,479 --> 01:46:28,680 Speaker 1: one of the best at it. But before I get 1985 01:46:28,680 --> 01:46:31,760 Speaker 1: started there, let's talk about you being on these competition 1986 01:46:31,800 --> 01:46:34,439 Speaker 1: show that mentality of being able to go in there 1987 01:46:34,479 --> 01:46:37,960 Speaker 1: and being able to not only be a contestant at times, 1988 01:46:37,960 --> 01:46:41,320 Speaker 1: but also judging. What's the mentality tied tow all that 1989 01:46:41,360 --> 01:46:43,800 Speaker 1: because you have to be good at what you do 1990 01:46:44,120 --> 01:46:46,960 Speaker 1: and you have to be spontaneous and creative. Yeah, I 1991 01:46:47,000 --> 01:46:50,200 Speaker 1: think it's um, it's all about preparation and you know, 1992 01:46:50,400 --> 01:46:53,439 Speaker 1: the work you've done in your career along the way, 1993 01:46:53,560 --> 01:46:57,920 Speaker 1: and knowing what is a standard of excellence. Uh that 1994 01:46:57,960 --> 01:47:03,439 Speaker 1: could be taste, presentation, um, anything, and you know, just 1995 01:47:03,479 --> 01:47:06,320 Speaker 1: to stay focused. I've always had a strong focus as 1996 01:47:06,360 --> 01:47:09,240 Speaker 1: I've been working and just noticing not only what I'm 1997 01:47:09,280 --> 01:47:11,559 Speaker 1: doing in my business, but what others are doing, my 1998 01:47:11,680 --> 01:47:15,640 Speaker 1: colleagues across the country, across the world. And you know, 1999 01:47:15,760 --> 01:47:20,160 Speaker 1: I've published, I've read a bunch, so I'm now trusted 2000 01:47:20,400 --> 01:47:23,080 Speaker 1: as an expert in my field. So that's really you know, 2001 01:47:23,240 --> 01:47:25,439 Speaker 1: it's a great thing. Well that are you not only 2002 01:47:25,520 --> 01:47:27,680 Speaker 1: trust that you wanted the best? So let's go and 2003 01:47:27,720 --> 01:47:30,120 Speaker 1: put the word best and trusted. Because the fact that 2004 01:47:30,200 --> 01:47:32,479 Speaker 1: you have a show there's on the own network that 2005 01:47:32,560 --> 01:47:35,599 Speaker 1: airs every Saturday, you know, chin just Kitchen Table. Tell 2006 01:47:35,640 --> 01:47:38,920 Speaker 1: us about that show. Yeah, the show has been something 2007 01:47:38,960 --> 01:47:42,559 Speaker 1: that I've envisioned for well over a decade, UM, since 2008 01:47:42,600 --> 01:47:45,160 Speaker 1: I had my show in the Food Network Melting Pot 2009 01:47:45,280 --> 01:47:47,800 Speaker 1: in early two thousand's, I've been wanting to get back 2010 01:47:47,840 --> 01:47:50,320 Speaker 1: on have my own show, something that would really highlight 2011 01:47:50,360 --> 01:47:53,960 Speaker 1: my personality in my style, UM, that I could shape 2012 01:47:54,200 --> 01:47:57,320 Speaker 1: um and not be pigeonholed by a production company or producer. 2013 01:47:57,720 --> 01:48:00,439 Speaker 1: And this really happened here, so I'm really pleased with it. 2014 01:48:01,160 --> 01:48:03,639 Speaker 1: I started off this season with a lot of my 2015 01:48:03,960 --> 01:48:07,200 Speaker 1: you know, my standards, my greatest hits as far as recipes, 2016 01:48:07,800 --> 01:48:09,760 Speaker 1: but I'm able to tell a story of how I 2017 01:48:09,800 --> 01:48:14,320 Speaker 1: got to them and including my family background. I bring 2018 01:48:14,400 --> 01:48:17,759 Speaker 1: some friends in at the end of each show and 2019 01:48:17,920 --> 01:48:21,479 Speaker 1: break bread with them and share experiences and stories, and 2020 01:48:21,720 --> 01:48:24,240 Speaker 1: that's really what I love. I love hospitality, and I 2021 01:48:24,320 --> 01:48:28,559 Speaker 1: love the opportunity to uh teach people how to cook 2022 01:48:28,600 --> 01:48:32,120 Speaker 1: good food. You know, that's healthy, that's simple, and um, 2023 01:48:32,240 --> 01:48:35,200 Speaker 1: the taste delicious. Well, you know, I watched the show 2024 01:48:35,240 --> 01:48:37,920 Speaker 1: and some of your friends bringing they look like they're 2025 01:48:37,960 --> 01:48:41,120 Speaker 1: hungry when they come into the kitchen, you know the course, 2026 01:48:42,120 --> 01:48:44,360 Speaker 1: they look like you're not cooking fast enough. Give me 2027 01:48:44,400 --> 01:48:48,679 Speaker 1: that Stapp already played already so perspective. And I love 2028 01:48:48,720 --> 01:48:51,280 Speaker 1: the fact that you're talking about Rishawn. I don't want 2029 01:48:51,280 --> 01:48:52,560 Speaker 1: to just be on TV. I want to be on 2030 01:48:52,680 --> 01:48:55,680 Speaker 1: TV talk about my brain, talk about my perspective, my 2031 01:48:55,760 --> 01:48:57,880 Speaker 1: point of view. You know, one of my favorite shows 2032 01:48:57,880 --> 01:49:00,720 Speaker 1: on Netflix is called The Chef Table, when they yeah, 2033 01:49:01,439 --> 01:49:06,280 Speaker 1: just a beautiful it's beautifully produced shows for sure. And 2034 01:49:06,280 --> 01:49:08,880 Speaker 1: so when I watched this show, you know, I'm glad 2035 01:49:08,920 --> 01:49:11,040 Speaker 1: you you've seen it and the Rodney's being on my 2036 01:49:11,080 --> 01:49:12,800 Speaker 1: show and I'm a big fan of here. I have 2037 01:49:12,840 --> 01:49:14,960 Speaker 1: a lot of shifts that come on my show and 2038 01:49:15,000 --> 01:49:17,559 Speaker 1: because they know I recognized their story and want to 2039 01:49:17,680 --> 01:49:20,040 Speaker 1: let them tell their stories, you know, because you know, 2040 01:49:20,400 --> 01:49:22,800 Speaker 1: you know, I just had chef or Dwado Jordan, one 2041 01:49:22,800 --> 01:49:25,320 Speaker 1: of my good friends know him, and uh, you know, 2042 01:49:25,400 --> 01:49:27,960 Speaker 1: and we were talking about black chefs, you know, because 2043 01:49:28,439 --> 01:49:31,720 Speaker 1: you know, from black chef to ownership, you know, that's 2044 01:49:31,760 --> 01:49:33,320 Speaker 1: another thing because a lot of times, you know, the 2045 01:49:33,360 --> 01:49:36,720 Speaker 1: history is that we're just good cooks, good maids, clean 2046 01:49:36,800 --> 01:49:40,719 Speaker 1: to people, give waitresses, but then not being recognized as owners. 2047 01:49:40,720 --> 01:49:42,880 Speaker 1: What you are an owner and now and now and 2048 01:49:42,920 --> 01:49:46,920 Speaker 1: not be recognized as top flight international chef because sometimes 2049 01:49:47,240 --> 01:49:50,280 Speaker 1: we're just pigeonholes as the you know, the mom pop 2050 01:49:50,400 --> 01:49:54,479 Speaker 1: chef back there, sweeper take the corn bread and all 2051 01:49:54,520 --> 01:49:56,760 Speaker 1: that good stuff. What have you done as far as 2052 01:49:56,840 --> 01:49:58,760 Speaker 1: your brand? It's what you've done. And I'm not saying 2053 01:49:58,760 --> 01:50:01,040 Speaker 1: you out there trying to change the world, but you're 2054 01:50:01,080 --> 01:50:03,200 Speaker 1: trying to deliver your personality and that' and this is 2055 01:50:03,240 --> 01:50:05,720 Speaker 1: what you do with what you can do. Yeah. And 2056 01:50:05,760 --> 01:50:08,000 Speaker 1: then and actually I am trying to change the world. 2057 01:50:09,920 --> 01:50:14,160 Speaker 1: I have I gonna help you great one thing that um, 2058 01:50:14,200 --> 01:50:17,759 Speaker 1: and that's something I've aspired to do for many many years. UM. 2059 01:50:17,800 --> 01:50:21,639 Speaker 1: I haven't written down from a diary when I was um, 2060 01:50:21,760 --> 01:50:24,479 Speaker 1: uh probably you know, a young teenager. I said, I 2061 01:50:24,520 --> 01:50:26,680 Speaker 1: don't know what I want to do. Whatever it is, 2062 01:50:26,760 --> 01:50:29,599 Speaker 1: I want either to be famous or to change the world. 2063 01:50:31,080 --> 01:50:35,040 Speaker 1: So I'm hoping to, you know, make some change and impact. UM. 2064 01:50:35,080 --> 01:50:37,680 Speaker 1: I've just been voted onto the board of trustees of 2065 01:50:37,720 --> 01:50:40,920 Speaker 1: the James Beard Foundation, which you know is the organization 2066 01:50:41,000 --> 01:50:45,960 Speaker 1: that really recognizes restaurant awards. Yeah, and I'm going to 2067 01:50:46,040 --> 01:50:49,080 Speaker 1: be chairing all the awards, so you know, I will 2068 01:50:49,120 --> 01:50:53,080 Speaker 1: be definitely looking to make sure that these opportunities are 2069 01:50:53,120 --> 01:50:57,800 Speaker 1: now diverse and equitable and inclusive. And that's exciting. I've 2070 01:50:57,840 --> 01:51:00,519 Speaker 1: also done a lot of culinary diplomacy work with the U. S. 2071 01:51:00,520 --> 01:51:04,719 Speaker 1: State Department, traveling around the world representing the United States, 2072 01:51:04,760 --> 01:51:09,880 Speaker 1: but also introducing soul food to different cultures in Kazakhstan, 2073 01:51:10,000 --> 01:51:13,400 Speaker 1: in Mexico and Hong Kong and Singapore. I've gone to 2074 01:51:13,520 --> 01:51:15,439 Speaker 1: so far. I'm supposed to go to Japan and Type 2075 01:51:15,439 --> 01:51:18,640 Speaker 1: one this year, but hopefully it can go towards the 2076 01:51:18,760 --> 01:51:24,000 Speaker 1: end of UM And I'm just passionate about that. I think, 2077 01:51:24,400 --> 01:51:28,600 Speaker 1: you know, food brings people together. It just really demonstrates 2078 01:51:28,600 --> 01:51:33,200 Speaker 1: our common denominators. Um And it's just it's you know, 2079 01:51:33,240 --> 01:51:36,560 Speaker 1: it's empowering. Everybody should be fed, everybody should know we 2080 01:51:36,640 --> 01:51:38,320 Speaker 1: should learn how to cook at least one or two 2081 01:51:38,360 --> 01:51:42,679 Speaker 1: dishes for survival. Um And I'm just trying to grow 2082 01:51:42,760 --> 01:51:45,920 Speaker 1: my brand in you know, the hospitality fields and working 2083 01:51:45,920 --> 01:51:48,840 Speaker 1: on my next cookbook, hopefully continue to do the show 2084 01:51:49,560 --> 01:51:53,240 Speaker 1: and open the restaurant again when we have the restrictions, 2085 01:51:53,360 --> 01:51:58,479 Speaker 1: you know, really of them really been a state. There's 2086 01:51:58,479 --> 01:52:02,679 Speaker 1: really been locking down, uh, ability for restaurants to exist. 2087 01:52:02,760 --> 01:52:05,160 Speaker 1: I aimed to work. Now let's talk about you mentioned 2088 01:52:05,160 --> 01:52:08,640 Speaker 1: words so food and I'm from Houston, Texas, going and 2089 01:52:08,720 --> 01:52:11,680 Speaker 1: raised and so from a southern board. So what is 2090 01:52:11,720 --> 01:52:13,920 Speaker 1: soul food to you? Because you talked about it, and 2091 01:52:14,080 --> 01:52:16,960 Speaker 1: because my version of soul food is I Tennessee has 2092 01:52:17,000 --> 01:52:19,920 Speaker 1: been shifted into you see it in buffets and things 2093 01:52:19,960 --> 01:52:22,120 Speaker 1: like that. But when you put other people said, now 2094 01:52:22,160 --> 01:52:24,640 Speaker 1: that's not so food, Roshan. So what is so fu 2095 01:52:24,760 --> 01:52:28,120 Speaker 1: when you're talking about so food, Well, I think anywhere 2096 01:52:28,200 --> 01:52:32,280 Speaker 1: you find African Americans in this country, it's you know, 2097 01:52:32,360 --> 01:52:36,840 Speaker 1: it's rooted in the south. Uh. The cuisine created by 2098 01:52:37,120 --> 01:52:40,000 Speaker 1: the enslaved people. I mean the first fusion cuisine. That 2099 01:52:40,439 --> 01:52:44,679 Speaker 1: really the first American cuisine excuse me, um. And then 2100 01:52:44,960 --> 01:52:48,800 Speaker 1: you know, black folks migrated to the northeast, to the northwest, 2101 01:52:48,880 --> 01:52:53,519 Speaker 1: to Chicago, Midwest. Um, here from Houston, Texas. My mom's 2102 01:52:53,520 --> 01:52:56,759 Speaker 1: from Shreeport, Louisiana. My dad's from Virginia. Their soul foods 2103 01:52:56,760 --> 01:53:00,680 Speaker 1: are different. But it's going to be based on excuse me, 2104 01:53:00,680 --> 01:53:04,040 Speaker 1: a lot of the cuisine that our ancestors created with 2105 01:53:05,160 --> 01:53:07,760 Speaker 1: the ingredients they found here, the ingredients they brought and 2106 01:53:07,800 --> 01:53:11,640 Speaker 1: what they were given. You know, um, really humble cuisine. 2107 01:53:12,200 --> 01:53:15,519 Speaker 1: But then you know myself, Eduard oh Mashma, we're taking 2108 01:53:15,600 --> 01:53:20,639 Speaker 1: to the next level. We're bringing in our more refined techniques. Um. 2109 01:53:20,680 --> 01:53:23,920 Speaker 1: We're trying to bring in sustainability and organic products and 2110 01:53:24,640 --> 01:53:27,040 Speaker 1: really bring the cuisine into the next century. It still 2111 01:53:27,080 --> 01:53:30,719 Speaker 1: represents us and our heritage UM, which is so rich 2112 01:53:30,840 --> 01:53:33,360 Speaker 1: you know in the African just diaspora, if you expanded 2113 01:53:33,439 --> 01:53:36,800 Speaker 1: to West Africa and North Africa, the Caribbean, we have 2114 01:53:36,920 --> 01:53:40,120 Speaker 1: so much to work with and we've given um so 2115 01:53:40,200 --> 01:53:43,840 Speaker 1: much to this world in terms of flavor and food ways, 2116 01:53:43,880 --> 01:53:46,000 Speaker 1: and if it's up to me, I'm just going to 2117 01:53:46,080 --> 01:53:48,160 Speaker 1: make sure that we keep getting more credit for that 2118 01:53:48,280 --> 01:53:51,840 Speaker 1: because it's it's really important. Absolutely. By the way, my 2119 01:53:51,920 --> 01:53:55,120 Speaker 1: parents were born in Streeport in Louisiana, so I just 2120 01:53:55,160 --> 01:53:56,880 Speaker 1: want to let you know we have a little little 2121 01:53:56,920 --> 01:54:00,280 Speaker 1: roots there together. We bear familiar with that part of 2122 01:54:00,280 --> 01:54:02,360 Speaker 1: the country. Like I said, my mom and dad were 2123 01:54:02,360 --> 01:54:05,680 Speaker 1: born in Streeport, basically Bosier, louis What you know is 2124 01:54:05,720 --> 01:54:08,920 Speaker 1: like I know exactly that is. Now, let's talk about 2125 01:54:09,520 --> 01:54:11,080 Speaker 1: your show. We kind of mentioned a little bit of 2126 01:54:11,080 --> 01:54:14,240 Speaker 1: Tanya's kitchen table and basically you know, the classic dishes, 2127 01:54:14,560 --> 01:54:17,000 Speaker 1: tips on how to cook like a pro, but also 2128 01:54:17,040 --> 01:54:19,840 Speaker 1: a spin and uh one of the spans you did 2129 01:54:19,920 --> 01:54:23,320 Speaker 1: on the famous Creole dirty rice, you know which I 2130 01:54:23,400 --> 01:54:27,719 Speaker 1: love dirty rice. I've never cooked it, I'll be honest 2131 01:54:27,800 --> 01:54:29,720 Speaker 1: with you, but you have two versions of it. You 2132 01:54:29,760 --> 01:54:33,720 Speaker 1: have one with me, and you have a vegan version. Versions, 2133 01:54:33,760 --> 01:54:36,480 Speaker 1: the vegan version, talk to us about that. Well, I 2134 01:54:36,520 --> 01:54:39,200 Speaker 1: have a classic, like you said, with sausage and the 2135 01:54:39,280 --> 01:54:41,640 Speaker 1: chicken lagers. Come on, come on, come on, come on, 2136 01:54:41,680 --> 01:54:47,360 Speaker 1: than come on, come on stop. That's my personal favorite too, 2137 01:54:47,400 --> 01:54:52,600 Speaker 1: but especially living in California and you know now, but 2138 01:54:52,640 --> 01:54:54,640 Speaker 1: when I opened in two thousand and eight, a lot 2139 01:54:54,680 --> 01:54:57,680 Speaker 1: of vegetarians, a lot of vegans in the community, and 2140 01:54:57,720 --> 01:55:00,960 Speaker 1: I just wanted to take care of them. And um, 2141 01:55:01,000 --> 01:55:04,600 Speaker 1: I love cooking fresh vegetables. So it's really the creole 2142 01:55:04,640 --> 01:55:07,600 Speaker 1: spices in there, the Worcester sauces in there, but it's 2143 01:55:07,640 --> 01:55:11,160 Speaker 1: more vegetable forward, and and it's a favorite. People love it. 2144 01:55:11,280 --> 01:55:13,360 Speaker 1: And you got the spinach in there, right, the baby spinish, 2145 01:55:13,360 --> 01:55:16,240 Speaker 1: just ye baby spinach at the answer. Just some extra 2146 01:55:16,280 --> 01:55:19,120 Speaker 1: freshness and it's and it looks fantastic. First of all, 2147 01:55:19,120 --> 01:55:21,040 Speaker 1: it looks very easy to do. Of course, you know, 2148 01:55:21,040 --> 01:55:22,960 Speaker 1: you gotta do a lot of chopping the green onions 2149 01:55:23,000 --> 01:55:25,080 Speaker 1: and the peppers, and you know it's a little working. 2150 01:55:25,120 --> 01:55:27,960 Speaker 1: They're browning it out, so you know, but you made 2151 01:55:27,960 --> 01:55:29,960 Speaker 1: it look easy for me. I saw it one time 2152 01:55:30,000 --> 01:55:32,520 Speaker 1: and I remembered. So that's a that's a talent because 2153 01:55:32,520 --> 01:55:34,600 Speaker 1: you know, sometimes you watch these recipes, you go, you 2154 01:55:34,640 --> 01:55:37,320 Speaker 1: get lost in the process, and I want to follow you. 2155 01:55:37,720 --> 01:55:40,000 Speaker 1: I go, Okay, cool, that's really quick because you know, 2156 01:55:40,120 --> 01:55:44,040 Speaker 1: you you have the ability to talk and and uh 2157 01:55:44,120 --> 01:55:45,960 Speaker 1: and demonstrate the same time. A lot of people can't 2158 01:55:45,960 --> 01:55:48,680 Speaker 1: do that. They'll stop and then mixing they stop. Because 2159 01:55:48,720 --> 01:55:51,360 Speaker 1: your ability to talk and demonstrate the same time, it 2160 01:55:51,400 --> 01:55:55,240 Speaker 1: makes the process so much easier to understand and gives 2161 01:55:55,240 --> 01:55:58,200 Speaker 1: credibility that I can do it too. Thank you. Thank 2162 01:55:58,240 --> 01:56:01,120 Speaker 1: I'm glad you feel that way. Yeah, I can't now. 2163 01:56:01,600 --> 01:56:04,640 Speaker 1: One thing that my wife for her birthday I made her. 2164 01:56:04,800 --> 01:56:07,240 Speaker 1: I I grew some salmon. You know, I ain't really 2165 01:56:07,280 --> 01:56:09,240 Speaker 1: how easy it was to do salmons and you know, 2166 01:56:09,320 --> 01:56:12,880 Speaker 1: some some sea salt and some lemon and something with 2167 01:56:12,920 --> 01:56:15,080 Speaker 1: the partially and she she thought I did the best 2168 01:56:15,120 --> 01:56:17,880 Speaker 1: thing in the world. And I took a bow for that. Okay, 2169 01:56:18,200 --> 01:56:20,200 Speaker 1: now you do you do it or something with color 2170 01:56:20,280 --> 01:56:23,120 Speaker 1: greens and creole mustard sauce. And I talked to us 2171 01:56:23,120 --> 01:56:24,840 Speaker 1: about that, and just tell you how you just do 2172 01:56:24,880 --> 01:56:27,240 Speaker 1: these different spins on your show that makes your show 2173 01:56:27,280 --> 01:56:30,280 Speaker 1: that airs every Saturday on their own network, and it's 2174 01:56:30,320 --> 01:56:32,600 Speaker 1: really fantastic. I was, you know, I know we shot 2175 01:56:32,640 --> 01:56:35,120 Speaker 1: on time, but before we want to make sure you understood. 2176 01:56:35,160 --> 01:56:37,560 Speaker 1: I really respect what you do and I a my 2177 01:56:37,960 --> 01:56:40,400 Speaker 1: skill set. Okay, tell us about that salmon and those 2178 01:56:41,240 --> 01:56:44,640 Speaker 1: we're short today, but I'll have to come back. Yeah. 2179 01:56:44,720 --> 01:56:48,280 Speaker 1: So I took the salmon, the colored green leaf and 2180 01:56:48,360 --> 01:56:51,680 Speaker 1: blanched it so you put in boiling water to its softens, 2181 01:56:51,720 --> 01:56:54,160 Speaker 1: and you put in ice water so that it stops 2182 01:56:54,160 --> 01:56:58,000 Speaker 1: the cooking process, but available it also helps it stay green. 2183 01:56:58,800 --> 01:57:00,680 Speaker 1: And I took that and I wrapped salmon seal at 2184 01:57:00,800 --> 01:57:03,360 Speaker 1: that seasoned with some salt to add some olive oil 2185 01:57:03,400 --> 01:57:06,720 Speaker 1: and some time fresh time, and wrapped it and then 2186 01:57:06,720 --> 01:57:10,360 Speaker 1: I steam it uh in a steam basket altogether in 2187 01:57:10,840 --> 01:57:13,440 Speaker 1: until the salmon is cooked. Probably I like to cook 2188 01:57:13,480 --> 01:57:17,560 Speaker 1: it medium, so long your steam and how long minutes? 2189 01:57:17,600 --> 01:57:21,720 Speaker 1: Thirty minutes, No, probably it's between fifteen and twenty, depending 2190 01:57:21,720 --> 01:57:24,720 Speaker 1: on the weight of the salmon. Sala. Look at your 2191 01:57:24,800 --> 01:57:28,000 Speaker 1: children's eyes to see the true magic of a forest. 2192 01:57:28,400 --> 01:57:31,480 Speaker 1: It's a storybook world for them. You look and see 2193 01:57:31,480 --> 01:57:34,480 Speaker 1: a tree, they see the wrinkled face of a wizard 2194 01:57:34,640 --> 01:57:38,480 Speaker 1: with arms outstretched to the sky. They see treasure and pebbles. 2195 01:57:38,960 --> 01:57:41,680 Speaker 1: They see a windy path that could lead to adventure, 2196 01:57:42,040 --> 01:57:46,520 Speaker 1: and they see you. They're fearless. 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Guide is this fascinating world. 2206 01:58:17,120 --> 01:58:19,920 Speaker 1: Find a forest near you and start exploring. I Discover 2207 01:58:20,040 --> 01:58:22,280 Speaker 1: the Forest dot org brought to you by the United 2208 01:58:22,320 --> 01:58:26,040 Speaker 1: States Forest Service and the AD Council. What grows in 2209 01:58:26,080 --> 01:58:30,000 Speaker 1: the forest? Trees? Sure no. What else grows in the forest, 2210 01:58:30,240 --> 01:58:34,160 Speaker 1: Our imagination, our sense of wonder, and our family bonds 2211 01:58:34,240 --> 01:58:39,760 Speaker 1: grow too. Because when we disconnect from this and connect 2212 01:58:39,760 --> 01:58:44,440 Speaker 1: with this, we reconnect with each other. The forest is 2213 01:58:44,440 --> 01:58:47,480 Speaker 1: closer than you think. Find a forest near you and 2214 01:58:47,520 --> 01:58:50,840 Speaker 1: start exploring. I discover the Forest dot Org, brought to 2215 01:58:50,840 --> 01:58:53,920 Speaker 1: you by the United States Forest Service and the AD Council. 2216 01:58:55,520 --> 01:58:59,720 Speaker 1: But that you actually you put what you do, you 2217 01:59:00,000 --> 01:59:03,560 Speaker 1: good green around the outside like a little envelope and 2218 01:59:03,600 --> 01:59:05,880 Speaker 1: then when when when does the sauce coming to play there? 2219 01:59:06,440 --> 01:59:08,640 Speaker 1: So the fox is on the side and I make 2220 01:59:08,680 --> 01:59:12,320 Speaker 1: it in a blender. It's um creole mustard with mustard 2221 01:59:12,400 --> 01:59:16,720 Speaker 1: seeds and um egg yokes. It's it's a delicious, easy, 2222 01:59:16,760 --> 01:59:19,880 Speaker 1: easy sauce and some spice in it. Really good. Well, 2223 01:59:19,920 --> 01:59:22,160 Speaker 1: first of all, I will be doing that menu when 2224 01:59:22,200 --> 01:59:24,400 Speaker 1: I saw the whole. First of all, I love collegrees. 2225 01:59:24,640 --> 01:59:27,080 Speaker 1: Let me just tell you that. Yeah, yeah, that's why 2226 01:59:27,080 --> 01:59:28,440 Speaker 1: I know you got to come back, because we really 2227 01:59:28,440 --> 01:59:32,040 Speaker 1: got to get dig deep into this conversation because I'd 2228 01:59:32,040 --> 01:59:34,000 Speaker 1: love to I'd love to talk to you more about 2229 01:59:34,080 --> 01:59:37,200 Speaker 1: it and sort of my philosophy behind you know, how 2230 01:59:37,240 --> 01:59:40,280 Speaker 1: I cook and well because it's it's just natural. And 2231 01:59:40,320 --> 01:59:42,680 Speaker 1: plus we got some southern roots and some kinship down 2232 01:59:42,720 --> 01:59:45,800 Speaker 1: here that we need to connect again on. And you know, 2233 01:59:45,840 --> 01:59:48,480 Speaker 1: I just finished the call with Odd Water recently and 2234 01:59:48,520 --> 01:59:50,320 Speaker 1: he was talking about chipling, So we gotta get down 2235 01:59:50,360 --> 01:59:52,720 Speaker 1: to that chipling conversation cause I know you know about that. 2236 01:59:53,080 --> 01:59:55,960 Speaker 1: I know so, but I thank you. I want to 2237 01:59:55,960 --> 01:59:59,240 Speaker 1: tell everybody. Your show airs every Saturday on the On Network. 2238 01:59:59,320 --> 02:00:02,560 Speaker 1: Please don't miss it until Decent twenty six every Saturday, 2239 02:00:02,560 --> 02:00:05,720 Speaker 1: and it's Chinese Kitchen Table. It showcases the beauty of 2240 02:00:05,720 --> 02:00:08,400 Speaker 1: cooking local while thinking global. Thank you for coming on 2241 02:00:08,440 --> 02:00:14,240 Speaker 1: my show because okay, please, okay, take care. 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Her passion for fashion started as a 2269 02:01:35,280 --> 02:01:38,000 Speaker 1: little girl when she spent hours on end in fabricy 2270 02:01:38,040 --> 02:01:40,880 Speaker 1: stores with a fashion designer mall while pursuing her degree 2271 02:01:40,920 --> 02:01:43,839 Speaker 1: in college. She would sell her designer items on eBay 2272 02:01:44,040 --> 02:01:46,440 Speaker 1: to pay her way through college. After college, to be 2273 02:01:46,520 --> 02:01:51,440 Speaker 1: in the careers at licensed respiratory therapists, and despite job security, 2274 02:01:51,720 --> 02:01:54,920 Speaker 1: she pivoted into a full time entrepreneurship. Believe me, that 2275 02:01:55,000 --> 02:01:58,560 Speaker 1: job right there will always have an employment available to it. 2276 02:01:58,880 --> 02:02:02,920 Speaker 1: She's currently the see or Vault by Shopper Sasha. She's 2277 02:02:02,920 --> 02:02:05,680 Speaker 1: currently CEO of the Vault by Sasha. The Vault by 2278 02:02:05,680 --> 02:02:08,240 Speaker 1: Sasha offer the variety of limited items, rare and like 2279 02:02:08,400 --> 02:02:13,000 Speaker 1: e collected pieces including swimwear, tops, bottoms and accessories to 2280 02:02:13,080 --> 02:02:15,480 Speaker 1: turn heads. You know what that means, guys and ladies, 2281 02:02:15,800 --> 02:02:18,040 Speaker 1: and make a statement at your next event, please work 2282 02:02:18,040 --> 02:02:20,600 Speaker 1: on the money making conversation. She's ready. She's based in Atlanta. 2283 02:02:20,840 --> 02:02:26,360 Speaker 1: Sasha Stewart. He had a lot to say that for 2284 02:02:26,400 --> 02:02:29,440 Speaker 1: some reason fumble off today and I apologize over your intro. 2285 02:02:29,600 --> 02:02:32,640 Speaker 1: But the CEO of the Fault of the Vault by 2286 02:02:32,680 --> 02:02:36,600 Speaker 1: Sasha tell us about that. Thank you so much for 2287 02:02:36,640 --> 02:02:40,200 Speaker 1: having me around. You know, two days ago I read 2288 02:02:40,240 --> 02:02:42,800 Speaker 1: about you in the Rolling Out magazine article and video. 2289 02:02:43,280 --> 02:02:48,080 Speaker 1: So you've been doing your doing a media run I have. 2290 02:02:48,400 --> 02:02:52,760 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, it's been a ride. I mean, it's 2291 02:02:52,800 --> 02:02:56,560 Speaker 1: just so good to be recognized and you know, for 2292 02:02:56,680 --> 02:02:59,200 Speaker 1: doing just something that I love to do, you know, 2293 02:02:59,760 --> 02:03:06,480 Speaker 1: so it's it's been very wonderful. Um um My my 2294 02:03:06,480 --> 02:03:09,000 Speaker 1: my loyal customer based it is just like, oh my gosh, 2295 02:03:09,000 --> 02:03:12,360 Speaker 1: I'm so proud to because they see the growth from 2296 02:03:12,400 --> 02:03:16,520 Speaker 1: you know, me starting out and tonight because we don't 2297 02:03:16,560 --> 02:03:18,720 Speaker 1: know Sasha. And I'm not saying that negative thing because 2298 02:03:19,000 --> 02:03:21,320 Speaker 1: sometimes people they jumped to the end of their story. 2299 02:03:21,400 --> 02:03:23,640 Speaker 1: You have such a great story. Like I said some 2300 02:03:23,800 --> 02:03:26,080 Speaker 1: in your credits, you and your mom was a fashion designer. 2301 02:03:26,240 --> 02:03:29,160 Speaker 1: Talk about your mom and her influence that led you 2302 02:03:29,240 --> 02:03:31,800 Speaker 1: to who you are today because technically you went into 2303 02:03:31,840 --> 02:03:34,000 Speaker 1: the medical field. You felt that was gonna be your 2304 02:03:34,000 --> 02:03:36,360 Speaker 1: life for the hours a week taking care of people, 2305 02:03:36,600 --> 02:03:38,560 Speaker 1: but you peeled it out of that. So let's talk 2306 02:03:38,560 --> 02:03:41,760 Speaker 1: about your mom's influence then going to medical school and 2307 02:03:41,800 --> 02:03:44,080 Speaker 1: while in medical school I shouldn't say medical school with 2308 02:03:44,160 --> 02:03:47,200 Speaker 1: the college and got your degrees of therapists and talk 2309 02:03:47,240 --> 02:03:51,880 Speaker 1: about that whole experience with your mom leading to that. Yes, absolutely, 2310 02:03:52,000 --> 02:03:55,920 Speaker 1: so my mom is a huge influence on while you 2311 02:03:56,080 --> 02:04:00,520 Speaker 1: decided to go with entrepreneurship. She was a fashion designer 2312 02:04:00,720 --> 02:04:04,040 Speaker 1: and she she loved it, she loved it, but I 2313 02:04:04,080 --> 02:04:07,640 Speaker 1: think for me she wanted the stability, you know, so 2314 02:04:07,800 --> 02:04:10,600 Speaker 1: she you know, encouraged me to go to school and 2315 02:04:10,640 --> 02:04:12,960 Speaker 1: you know, get a degree and things like that. So 2316 02:04:13,040 --> 02:04:16,840 Speaker 1: but as a kid, I it was already ingrained in me. 2317 02:04:17,560 --> 02:04:21,440 Speaker 1: You know, all of these fabulous you know, fabrics and 2318 02:04:21,560 --> 02:04:24,800 Speaker 1: silhouettes and things. So I'm just like I loved it. 2319 02:04:24,880 --> 02:04:28,040 Speaker 1: And even in high school, I was voted best dressed. 2320 02:04:28,160 --> 02:04:31,560 Speaker 1: I was you know, in the fashion club. We did 2321 02:04:31,600 --> 02:04:34,520 Speaker 1: fashion shows and things like that. So that was just 2322 02:04:34,560 --> 02:04:38,080 Speaker 1: a part of my outlet, like my creative outlet, and 2323 02:04:38,080 --> 02:04:42,360 Speaker 1: and we just had fun doing it. So Um, as 2324 02:04:42,400 --> 02:04:47,800 Speaker 1: a child, she would create, um, wedding dresses, prom dresses, 2325 02:04:48,200 --> 02:04:50,720 Speaker 1: especially with ages. She even made her own wedding dress. 2326 02:04:51,160 --> 02:04:55,560 Speaker 1: So it's all the creativity and everything has always been there. 2327 02:04:56,000 --> 02:04:58,680 Speaker 1: So um, you know, growing up, she's like, you know, 2328 02:04:58,760 --> 02:05:01,400 Speaker 1: always encouraging me to go to school, which is good. 2329 02:05:01,840 --> 02:05:05,000 Speaker 1: And she's now she's a nurse. She's a I see 2330 02:05:05,000 --> 02:05:06,919 Speaker 1: you nurse as well, so it was kind of following 2331 02:05:06,920 --> 02:05:10,200 Speaker 1: her footsteps. My grand both of my grandmothers are also 2332 02:05:10,280 --> 02:05:14,040 Speaker 1: nurses as well, so um, you know, they just like 2333 02:05:14,200 --> 02:05:16,400 Speaker 1: the stability for me, just in case, because you know, 2334 02:05:16,880 --> 02:05:20,760 Speaker 1: being an entrepreneur, being an entrepreneur is is hard, you know, 2335 02:05:21,240 --> 02:05:25,200 Speaker 1: and you don't have that stability and that's actually what 2336 02:05:25,360 --> 02:05:28,920 Speaker 1: drives me. So when I was in college and I 2337 02:05:28,960 --> 02:05:31,880 Speaker 1: would want extra money to do things, you know, other 2338 02:05:31,960 --> 02:05:34,880 Speaker 1: than pay tuition and things. So I would sell my 2339 02:05:34,960 --> 02:05:40,000 Speaker 1: stuff on eBay and um, like anytime I needed to 2340 02:05:40,040 --> 02:05:42,360 Speaker 1: get extra money and I didn't necessarily want to work 2341 02:05:42,360 --> 02:05:45,520 Speaker 1: at extra ship, I would sell stuff and you know, 2342 02:05:45,640 --> 02:05:48,280 Speaker 1: model it and you know, set it up on my 2343 02:05:48,520 --> 02:05:52,040 Speaker 1: little I had like this area with you know, red lighting, 2344 02:05:52,160 --> 02:05:54,839 Speaker 1: and I would you know, take all kinds of pictures 2345 02:05:54,880 --> 02:06:03,280 Speaker 1: and stuff. So then like T shirts or time, I 2346 02:06:03,440 --> 02:06:08,720 Speaker 1: was such a like I'm just like such a fashioned 2347 02:06:08,760 --> 02:06:12,600 Speaker 1: person that I would like stalk sales. So if it 2348 02:06:12,760 --> 02:06:15,600 Speaker 1: was a sale going on, I would get something on 2349 02:06:15,720 --> 02:06:18,480 Speaker 1: sale and then get extra coupons and things on it 2350 02:06:18,480 --> 02:06:20,880 Speaker 1: it was like a super cool item, or if it 2351 02:06:21,000 --> 02:06:24,240 Speaker 1: was a really popular item, I would get those and 2352 02:06:24,280 --> 02:06:28,440 Speaker 1: then you know, since it's limited, people would want it, 2353 02:06:28,800 --> 02:06:31,680 Speaker 1: you know, and I would have it. So I would 2354 02:06:31,680 --> 02:06:35,879 Speaker 1: have those limited edition pieces and know how highly covedent 2355 02:06:35,920 --> 02:06:39,240 Speaker 1: they were, and people was just like you know, knocking 2356 02:06:39,280 --> 02:06:40,560 Speaker 1: down my door like, oh my gosh, I need this. 2357 02:06:40,640 --> 02:06:42,600 Speaker 1: Do you have to send another size? Can you get more? 2358 02:06:43,200 --> 02:06:47,160 Speaker 1: So I knew at that time that this could be 2359 02:06:47,200 --> 02:06:50,160 Speaker 1: a business for me, you know, but I was still 2360 02:06:50,200 --> 02:06:53,520 Speaker 1: a little bit nervous to do that. So I still 2361 02:06:53,600 --> 02:06:56,960 Speaker 1: kept going to school and everything, but you know, with 2362 02:06:57,080 --> 02:06:59,960 Speaker 1: the you know, in the weekends and when I didn't 2363 02:07:00,080 --> 02:07:02,480 Speaker 1: have school, I mean when I didn't have school, when 2364 02:07:02,560 --> 02:07:04,600 Speaker 1: I didn't have work, I was just ready to take 2365 02:07:04,640 --> 02:07:07,400 Speaker 1: off the scrubs and put on something cute. And people 2366 02:07:07,440 --> 02:07:10,520 Speaker 1: would always ask me, oh, well, where'd you get that from, 2367 02:07:10,560 --> 02:07:13,400 Speaker 1: the same how they would, you know, be on eBay 2368 02:07:15,160 --> 02:07:17,880 Speaker 1: because you said something out that was really important about 2369 02:07:17,960 --> 02:07:20,680 Speaker 1: your grandmother and your mom. They would there, your mom 2370 02:07:20,720 --> 02:07:22,560 Speaker 1: is currently your nurse, you know, and your grandmother was 2371 02:07:22,600 --> 02:07:25,480 Speaker 1: a nurse, and then you went into a medical align field. 2372 02:07:25,520 --> 02:07:28,240 Speaker 1: That's a therapist. Okay, So and I know they're dealing 2373 02:07:28,280 --> 02:07:32,240 Speaker 1: with COVID, well you are, tell them about your experience 2374 02:07:32,280 --> 02:07:34,720 Speaker 1: and their experience and dealing with COVID in the reality, 2375 02:07:34,800 --> 02:07:37,880 Speaker 1: because you know that's a that's a portion of the country. 2376 02:07:37,960 --> 02:07:41,640 Speaker 1: Don't take COVID very seriously, and don't take mask wearing 2377 02:07:41,760 --> 02:07:46,920 Speaker 1: very seriously. To us about that, it is very important. 2378 02:07:47,360 --> 02:07:51,120 Speaker 1: You know. I'm very involved still with my UM. I'm 2379 02:07:51,160 --> 02:07:54,480 Speaker 1: still licensed as a respiratory therapist. I haven't given that up. 2380 02:07:55,080 --> 02:07:59,120 Speaker 1: UM don't. But you know, my mom being a nurse, 2381 02:07:59,560 --> 02:08:03,320 Speaker 1: she deals with it every day. You know, she's she luckily, 2382 02:08:03,680 --> 02:08:07,480 Speaker 1: thank god, she's been safe throughout it because she is very, 2383 02:08:07,680 --> 02:08:10,040 Speaker 1: very careful. But she wears a mask. She wears a 2384 02:08:10,120 --> 02:08:13,520 Speaker 1: mask every day at work all day. It's not you know, 2385 02:08:13,600 --> 02:08:16,000 Speaker 1: taking it off and putting it back on, because you know, 2386 02:08:16,080 --> 02:08:18,400 Speaker 1: it still does linger in the air and you may 2387 02:08:18,440 --> 02:08:19,880 Speaker 1: get a whiff of it as soon as you take 2388 02:08:19,920 --> 02:08:22,200 Speaker 1: your mask off, you know, especially in the hospital setting. 2389 02:08:22,600 --> 02:08:25,760 Speaker 1: So every day she's exposed to that and it and 2390 02:08:25,800 --> 02:08:28,560 Speaker 1: it concerns me. But I do know that she's you know, 2391 02:08:28,640 --> 02:08:31,040 Speaker 1: really safe. Um. But yeah, a lot of her co 2392 02:08:31,240 --> 02:08:35,880 Speaker 1: workers have gotten it. It's real. I've I've I've had 2393 02:08:36,080 --> 02:08:38,680 Speaker 1: you know, people that I know got it. And you know, 2394 02:08:39,360 --> 02:08:43,280 Speaker 1: I keep seeing all these different you know, Instagram people 2395 02:08:43,520 --> 02:08:47,160 Speaker 1: and um, you know even people in the news that's 2396 02:08:47,440 --> 02:08:51,160 Speaker 1: suching it. It's it's real and you have to be 2397 02:08:51,360 --> 02:08:55,480 Speaker 1: diligent to not get it. Now. And this was something 2398 02:08:55,520 --> 02:08:57,600 Speaker 1: I want to interest in your conversation. I try to 2399 02:08:57,640 --> 02:08:59,720 Speaker 1: listen with people are talking. You're talking with your mom 2400 02:08:59,720 --> 02:09:01,920 Speaker 1: and you the fashion designer and now she's a nurse. 2401 02:09:02,400 --> 02:09:05,200 Speaker 1: And then will you say how why would you say 2402 02:09:05,200 --> 02:09:08,839 Speaker 1: the importance of social media has enabled you to pivot 2403 02:09:08,920 --> 02:09:11,920 Speaker 1: out of being in the medical field into the fashion 2404 02:09:11,960 --> 02:09:17,400 Speaker 1: design field and be successful. How important is your social media? Um? 2405 02:09:17,520 --> 02:09:22,800 Speaker 1: Social media is huge because that is one of the 2406 02:09:22,840 --> 02:09:27,360 Speaker 1: biggest outlets out there to get anything that you want 2407 02:09:27,400 --> 02:09:35,120 Speaker 1: to do. Like but Instagram, um, YouTube, let's see, um, 2408 02:09:35,320 --> 02:09:40,400 Speaker 1: you know, Facebook, any all of these social media is 2409 02:09:40,400 --> 02:09:43,080 Speaker 1: is very important to your business if you ask me, 2410 02:09:43,240 --> 02:09:46,240 Speaker 1: because a lot of times that's where people just you know, 2411 02:09:46,320 --> 02:09:52,040 Speaker 1: scroll and and you know they'll just they'll just find you. 2412 02:09:52,040 --> 02:09:54,120 Speaker 1: You know, I'm not sure how these people find me 2413 02:09:54,160 --> 02:09:57,920 Speaker 1: sometimes because I post. Like when they share your post, 2414 02:09:57,960 --> 02:10:00,040 Speaker 1: they like your post, I go to your I've and 2415 02:10:00,360 --> 02:10:03,360 Speaker 1: so it's all your feed line. And first of all, 2416 02:10:03,800 --> 02:10:07,640 Speaker 1: your dynamic, you're you're very attractive, and and your clothes, 2417 02:10:07,720 --> 02:10:09,800 Speaker 1: you know, they're not for everybody. And that's a positive 2418 02:10:09,800 --> 02:10:13,919 Speaker 1: statement there, darn you know what I'm saying. That's right, everything, 2419 02:10:14,040 --> 02:10:16,320 Speaker 1: it's not going to be for every guy, right right, right, 2420 02:10:16,680 --> 02:10:21,120 Speaker 1: if you're willing to, you know, take a rent and 2421 02:10:21,360 --> 02:10:27,360 Speaker 1: get out your comfort. Let's let's back up. This is 2422 02:10:27,360 --> 02:10:29,120 Speaker 1: not this is not risk Gate clothes. So I'm just 2423 02:10:29,160 --> 02:10:32,680 Speaker 1: wanting to say, you know this is this is not 2424 02:10:32,760 --> 02:10:36,280 Speaker 1: church cloes either, but but this is like you know, 2425 02:10:36,880 --> 02:10:39,240 Speaker 1: if you if you are a fashion confidence, you want 2426 02:10:39,240 --> 02:10:41,720 Speaker 1: to see something unique, eclectic, like the word I messed 2427 02:10:41,760 --> 02:10:45,640 Speaker 1: up in your intro eclectic different and shows your shapes, 2428 02:10:46,040 --> 02:10:49,960 Speaker 1: your your your body, and you're not afraid to show 2429 02:10:50,080 --> 02:10:53,080 Speaker 1: and and and show people that you feel good about yourself. 2430 02:10:53,320 --> 02:10:55,760 Speaker 1: Did you feel you look good? And you will just 2431 02:10:55,840 --> 02:10:57,600 Speaker 1: let everybody when you walk in the room, you want 2432 02:10:57,600 --> 02:10:59,480 Speaker 1: to take control of the room. Well, she got the 2433 02:10:59,480 --> 02:11:02,720 Speaker 1: pieces for you, okay, exactly. And I have a lot 2434 02:11:02,720 --> 02:11:06,040 Speaker 1: of oversized things, and that was also what I think 2435 02:11:06,160 --> 02:11:10,160 Speaker 1: attracted people to my store because I have so many 2436 02:11:10,240 --> 02:11:13,600 Speaker 1: oversized items. Like even like something right now that I 2437 02:11:13,680 --> 02:11:16,840 Speaker 1: have on this is actually like two sweaters and one 2438 02:11:17,000 --> 02:11:20,080 Speaker 1: so it's like one you see one side it's a puncho, 2439 02:11:20,200 --> 02:11:22,880 Speaker 1: so I can decide to put the other top on 2440 02:11:23,000 --> 02:11:25,520 Speaker 1: top of here. So just like things like that that's 2441 02:11:25,560 --> 02:11:27,520 Speaker 1: really unique that you can kind of switch out of 2442 02:11:28,200 --> 02:11:32,120 Speaker 1: and you know, have fun with for one sleep puncho 2443 02:11:32,200 --> 02:11:34,960 Speaker 1: and then it's a shirt underneath. So things like that, 2444 02:11:35,040 --> 02:11:36,440 Speaker 1: I was trying to figure out what was going on. 2445 02:11:36,520 --> 02:11:39,200 Speaker 1: That's what's going on. I see, I see full white 2446 02:11:39,200 --> 02:11:45,240 Speaker 1: on the right. Now see this color like beautiful knitted 2447 02:11:45,280 --> 02:11:48,200 Speaker 1: type design with three white buttons in the middle, and 2448 02:11:48,240 --> 02:11:51,280 Speaker 1: it's like a short top okay, and has one sleeve 2449 02:11:51,400 --> 02:11:53,560 Speaker 1: like a punch to the right. It almost feels like, 2450 02:11:53,600 --> 02:11:56,120 Speaker 1: you know, a bullfighter. If I would say, if I 2451 02:11:56,200 --> 02:11:59,200 Speaker 1: just say what you would look like she's like, what 2452 02:11:59,240 --> 02:12:05,200 Speaker 1: the what the when the bullfighter comes by your baby 2453 02:12:05,280 --> 02:12:06,920 Speaker 1: the way? But it's not that high to cut off 2454 02:12:06,920 --> 02:12:11,760 Speaker 1: at the waitsline. It's really strict. That's pretty hard. I'm 2455 02:12:11,760 --> 02:12:15,000 Speaker 1: glad you like my description. You know, they go, yeah, great, 2456 02:12:18,840 --> 02:12:22,480 Speaker 1: So we're gonna do a online fast and the host 2457 02:12:23,080 --> 02:12:27,240 Speaker 1: for the vault this is the vault, okay when Rushan 2458 02:12:27,400 --> 02:12:29,920 Speaker 1: McDonald know he's gonna stomble a little bit, but he's 2459 02:12:29,920 --> 02:12:35,040 Speaker 1: all good, okay, because let me just straighten that right now. 2460 02:12:35,240 --> 02:12:37,720 Speaker 1: The Vault by s offers a variety of leting in 2461 02:12:37,760 --> 02:12:40,520 Speaker 1: addictions rare and they clicked it. This is including the 2462 02:12:40,560 --> 02:12:44,160 Speaker 1: swim where tops, bottoms and accessories to turn heads. We 2463 02:12:44,200 --> 02:12:46,160 Speaker 1: already just at that and make a statement as your 2464 02:12:46,200 --> 02:12:49,160 Speaker 1: next event. When your next event could be a pool party, 2465 02:12:49,400 --> 02:12:51,600 Speaker 1: your next event could be walking into a club and 2466 02:12:51,600 --> 02:12:53,560 Speaker 1: don't arrive a time you want to ride there late 2467 02:12:53,600 --> 02:12:56,400 Speaker 1: when it's pack. When you walk in, people will go wait, 2468 02:12:56,560 --> 02:12:59,960 Speaker 1: They're they're gonna post you on something. You're gonna be 2469 02:13:00,600 --> 02:13:03,640 Speaker 1: You're going to be the one. Now that's really you know, 2470 02:13:03,720 --> 02:13:06,720 Speaker 1: I you have to be confident. These are closed for 2471 02:13:06,760 --> 02:13:11,000 Speaker 1: a confident person. Correct, Yes, yeah, I believe so. And 2472 02:13:11,040 --> 02:13:14,840 Speaker 1: the thing is, even if you're not that confident and 2473 02:13:15,120 --> 02:13:18,640 Speaker 1: you wear these items and then you get all these compliments, 2474 02:13:19,000 --> 02:13:21,480 Speaker 1: and then you're gonna be like, wow, oh my gosh, 2475 02:13:21,560 --> 02:13:24,720 Speaker 1: like maybe I can, you know, be a little bit 2476 02:13:24,720 --> 02:13:28,800 Speaker 1: more adventurous with my clothing. So and then you know, 2477 02:13:28,840 --> 02:13:31,840 Speaker 1: I did, and I had so many repeat customers because 2478 02:13:31,880 --> 02:13:33,800 Speaker 1: of that. They're like, oh my gosh, I got so 2479 02:13:33,840 --> 02:13:37,520 Speaker 1: many compliments on your items. I'm definitely shopping again. You 2480 02:13:37,600 --> 02:13:40,760 Speaker 1: made my birthday great or oh my gosh, I was 2481 02:13:40,800 --> 02:13:43,960 Speaker 1: the head turner at this event. Tell me that all 2482 02:13:44,120 --> 02:13:47,800 Speaker 1: the time, and it makes me so happy. That's Good's 2483 02:13:47,840 --> 02:13:50,000 Speaker 1: good to know. So what are you doing with these 2484 02:13:50,000 --> 02:13:52,360 Speaker 1: people who are like telling you they hurt? Are you 2485 02:13:52,440 --> 02:13:54,960 Speaker 1: like like like you need to have a vault day? 2486 02:13:55,200 --> 02:13:57,240 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Well, you you do, like, 2487 02:13:57,400 --> 02:14:01,240 Speaker 1: uh display all these fashion you know, because because you know, 2488 02:14:01,400 --> 02:14:04,160 Speaker 1: Rihanna does that really well. I love Rihanna. Rihanna gets 2489 02:14:04,200 --> 02:14:08,080 Speaker 1: regular folks commercials, you know that. I mean they're regular 2490 02:14:08,120 --> 02:14:10,920 Speaker 1: people too. They do a commercials and they sell and 2491 02:14:10,960 --> 02:14:13,720 Speaker 1: so you're telling me, really, in a sense, you got 2492 02:14:13,800 --> 02:14:16,840 Speaker 1: regular people who buy your clothes and they marvel at 2493 02:14:16,840 --> 02:14:19,560 Speaker 1: your clothes. I would love to see some of them reposted, 2494 02:14:19,960 --> 02:14:22,280 Speaker 1: you know, not saying I follow you all the time 2495 02:14:22,280 --> 02:14:23,720 Speaker 1: and go to your feet all the time, but I'd 2496 02:14:23,760 --> 02:14:26,640 Speaker 1: love to see some of those reposts of individuals doing 2497 02:14:26,760 --> 02:14:29,280 Speaker 1: videos and things like that, because you really really got 2498 02:14:29,280 --> 02:14:32,680 Speaker 1: a great line. Thank you. They do. They tag me 2499 02:14:32,800 --> 02:14:37,000 Speaker 1: all the time, and they look amazing. Because then people 2500 02:14:37,040 --> 02:14:38,960 Speaker 1: will think like, am I gonna look like you and 2501 02:14:39,040 --> 02:14:41,920 Speaker 1: it or it's it gonna look right on me? Yes 2502 02:14:42,120 --> 02:14:45,240 Speaker 1: it is. And then when they see and then they 2503 02:14:45,240 --> 02:14:48,240 Speaker 1: are so happy, and I repost them all the time, 2504 02:14:48,280 --> 02:14:50,680 Speaker 1: and like in my stories, I'm always they send me 2505 02:14:50,720 --> 02:14:53,440 Speaker 1: pictures all the time, and if it has a great 2506 02:14:53,480 --> 02:14:56,800 Speaker 1: lighting and you can still see the item, I'm like, oh, 2507 02:14:56,960 --> 02:15:00,840 Speaker 1: you're reposting, reposting, reposted. So if you look on there, 2508 02:15:01,000 --> 02:15:03,280 Speaker 1: if you look at my feet, it's it's plenty of 2509 02:15:03,520 --> 02:15:08,640 Speaker 1: customer satisfactor. Yeah, Now let's talk about you as an entrepreneur. 2510 02:15:08,880 --> 02:15:11,080 Speaker 1: You know, but like I said, uh, you still I 2511 02:15:11,120 --> 02:15:15,440 Speaker 1: love the fact that you still certified aspiratory thirties. You know. 2512 02:15:15,760 --> 02:15:17,520 Speaker 1: I think that if you have a degree and you 2513 02:15:17,600 --> 02:15:20,600 Speaker 1: have something that you can put on your wall, maintain 2514 02:15:20,680 --> 02:15:24,000 Speaker 1: ownership of that. You know, it's gonna very hard for 2515 02:15:24,040 --> 02:15:27,280 Speaker 1: that and then be saying five years now, you go, 2516 02:15:27,880 --> 02:15:30,240 Speaker 1: I should still be certified because it's a good story. 2517 02:15:30,280 --> 02:15:32,160 Speaker 1: It's a good story to tell about your career to 2518 02:15:32,200 --> 02:15:35,640 Speaker 1: say you still license, you licensed to save lives. Let's 2519 02:15:35,640 --> 02:15:38,040 Speaker 1: be real about this, you know, and you're not licensed 2520 02:15:38,040 --> 02:15:40,120 Speaker 1: to for it to be your b plan. You're not 2521 02:15:40,160 --> 02:15:42,800 Speaker 1: going back. But it's something it's part of your legacy, 2522 02:15:42,840 --> 02:15:46,160 Speaker 1: part of your your education that you that you spent 2523 02:15:46,280 --> 02:15:50,240 Speaker 1: hours and years to accomplish. Maintain that. I admire that. 2524 02:15:50,480 --> 02:15:55,360 Speaker 1: Now now you're entrepreneur, entrepreneur branding you know. Uh how 2525 02:15:55,520 --> 02:15:58,520 Speaker 1: let's let's let's break down this conversation a little bit, Brandon, 2526 02:15:58,880 --> 02:16:03,360 Speaker 1: talk about that what is the brand of SAH? So 2527 02:16:03,800 --> 02:16:08,160 Speaker 1: with branding, I feel like you have to be authentic, 2528 02:16:08,880 --> 02:16:14,280 Speaker 1: completely authentic, completely you. So the vault is me, you know, 2529 02:16:14,720 --> 02:16:20,440 Speaker 1: So I'm giving pieces of myself too to whoever is 2530 02:16:20,560 --> 02:16:23,520 Speaker 1: wanting some basically, you know what I mean as far 2531 02:16:23,560 --> 02:16:28,200 Speaker 1: as my creativity and and I just like I said, 2532 02:16:28,200 --> 02:16:31,919 Speaker 1: I'm so grateful that people see my vision and they're 2533 02:16:31,960 --> 02:16:37,119 Speaker 1: like willing to take rest with their fashions. So with branding, 2534 02:16:37,760 --> 02:16:41,440 Speaker 1: you have to say true and authentic to who you are, 2535 02:16:41,560 --> 02:16:44,280 Speaker 1: because after a while, it's gonna show like if you're 2536 02:16:44,280 --> 02:16:46,680 Speaker 1: not like you know, you were the same, you were 2537 02:16:46,720 --> 02:16:49,440 Speaker 1: this person at first, and then you really couldn't keep 2538 02:16:49,480 --> 02:16:52,320 Speaker 1: up the facade and then next thing, you know, like 2539 02:16:52,560 --> 02:16:55,280 Speaker 1: things are not the same or you you know, you're 2540 02:16:55,360 --> 02:16:57,480 Speaker 1: gonna end up being exposed, you know what I mean. 2541 02:16:57,800 --> 02:17:04,120 Speaker 1: So it's just better to just be yourself and just 2542 02:17:04,120 --> 02:17:08,720 Speaker 1: just you know, just what you said, You've said it, 2543 02:17:08,760 --> 02:17:10,840 Speaker 1: you know, in the sense, to be with yourself, Be authentic, 2544 02:17:10,879 --> 02:17:14,160 Speaker 1: be consistent. That's true, right there, Be consistent because I 2545 02:17:14,160 --> 02:17:17,160 Speaker 1: would tell people you can fake it. You heard that, 2546 02:17:17,240 --> 02:17:18,800 Speaker 1: turn fake it till you make it. That doesn't work 2547 02:17:18,800 --> 02:17:21,480 Speaker 1: it in social media to me, because it's gonna play 2548 02:17:21,520 --> 02:17:23,560 Speaker 1: itself out and you're gonna lose your followers and lose 2549 02:17:23,600 --> 02:17:26,640 Speaker 1: what you're saying. Your authenticity. You have to be organic 2550 02:17:26,720 --> 02:17:28,240 Speaker 1: and you have to be consistent. That's the that's the 2551 02:17:28,320 --> 02:17:30,440 Speaker 1: term I always use them when I'm talking about branding, 2552 02:17:30,520 --> 02:17:33,160 Speaker 1: talking about marketing. Is that your idea? If you want 2553 02:17:33,160 --> 02:17:34,640 Speaker 1: to push it out there, you can't push it on 2554 02:17:34,680 --> 02:17:37,480 Speaker 1: Tuesday and forget to do it till two weeks later 2555 02:17:37,560 --> 02:17:42,240 Speaker 1: and then go, Okay, where's my reaction? Now? You have 2556 02:17:42,360 --> 02:17:44,840 Speaker 1: to be consistent for sure. Let's talk about let's talk 2557 02:17:44,879 --> 02:17:46,840 Speaker 1: about you. You You know your fashion, you was inspired by 2558 02:17:46,840 --> 02:17:49,320 Speaker 1: your mom, and we know you're smart, we know you're beautiful. 2559 02:17:49,680 --> 02:17:52,760 Speaker 1: How do let's talk about the the the actual brand, 2560 02:17:52,840 --> 02:17:56,080 Speaker 1: actual clothes, the actual product. How does that go about 2561 02:17:56,120 --> 02:18:00,000 Speaker 1: being created? And are you tied to a distributor or 2562 02:18:00,040 --> 02:18:06,080 Speaker 1: what does that work? No, I actually have several that 2563 02:18:06,200 --> 02:18:09,560 Speaker 1: I work with, so you know, you gotta mix it 2564 02:18:09,640 --> 02:18:13,240 Speaker 1: up a little bit because, uh then a lot of 2565 02:18:13,280 --> 02:18:18,200 Speaker 1: people will start following you, and uh like other brands 2566 02:18:18,360 --> 02:18:21,240 Speaker 1: will start following you and just kind of doing every 2567 02:18:21,240 --> 02:18:24,480 Speaker 1: single thing that you're doing in that are doing their 2568 02:18:24,480 --> 02:18:27,440 Speaker 1: own head. So I have to mix it up. So 2569 02:18:27,920 --> 02:18:31,039 Speaker 1: that's what I do. It's you know, it's I have 2570 02:18:31,200 --> 02:18:34,039 Speaker 1: people from all over the world that I work with, 2571 02:18:34,320 --> 02:18:38,160 Speaker 1: and it just keeps it mixed up keeps it spicy, 2572 02:18:38,240 --> 02:18:42,959 Speaker 1: but also still maintains the integrity of the vault and 2573 02:18:43,000 --> 02:18:46,680 Speaker 1: what I'm trying to express, uh as far as you know, 2574 02:18:46,840 --> 02:18:51,120 Speaker 1: creative to wise, uniqueness and things like that. So yeah, 2575 02:18:51,240 --> 02:18:54,760 Speaker 1: it's hard, and that's a full time job in itself, 2576 02:18:54,840 --> 02:18:58,480 Speaker 1: just looking for the merchandise and sourcing the things that 2577 02:18:58,520 --> 02:19:00,800 Speaker 1: I want to put in the store, for sure. So 2578 02:19:01,080 --> 02:19:04,080 Speaker 1: you have to put in the vault going every day. 2579 02:19:04,200 --> 02:19:07,240 Speaker 1: I'm branding you now, put in the vault, not the store. 2580 02:19:07,480 --> 02:19:11,720 Speaker 1: Put in the vault. It's a funny thing about you know, 2581 02:19:11,680 --> 02:19:13,480 Speaker 1: when I look at my brand and watch you going 2582 02:19:13,520 --> 02:19:16,400 Speaker 1: and periodically where my more staff we do weekly meetings, 2583 02:19:16,760 --> 02:19:19,120 Speaker 1: and then I see that, you know, people in Ireland, 2584 02:19:19,959 --> 02:19:24,760 Speaker 1: uh listening and following my you know, Australia have a 2585 02:19:24,760 --> 02:19:27,200 Speaker 1: big follow In Australia, we were like, really, okay, I 2586 02:19:27,240 --> 02:19:30,039 Speaker 1: got Canada, I expect Canada, but when we started going 2587 02:19:30,200 --> 02:19:34,760 Speaker 1: to Ireland and Germany and in Australia kind of like wow, 2588 02:19:35,120 --> 02:19:37,160 Speaker 1: and I know you, I know you're a person that 2589 02:19:37,560 --> 02:19:41,040 Speaker 1: starts to understand your brand, but what places surprise you 2590 02:19:41,160 --> 02:19:45,760 Speaker 1: that you have started to develop your following. Um UK. 2591 02:19:46,440 --> 02:19:51,160 Speaker 1: I was so that people in the UK we're talking. 2592 02:19:53,120 --> 02:19:57,560 Speaker 1: The fashions in the UK are so amazing. I think 2593 02:19:57,560 --> 02:20:02,040 Speaker 1: that they're so fashionable and chice and just you know, 2594 02:20:02,280 --> 02:20:06,640 Speaker 1: very sophisticated. So I'm like, wow, like that type of 2595 02:20:06,760 --> 02:20:10,760 Speaker 1: customer is looking for me. I shipped worldwide. And also 2596 02:20:11,320 --> 02:20:15,200 Speaker 1: my my both of my parents are Jamaican, and I 2597 02:20:15,240 --> 02:20:21,240 Speaker 1: got recognized and that um and the Jamaican Observer, which 2598 02:20:21,320 --> 02:20:24,920 Speaker 1: is the Jamaica's number one newspaper, And it was funny. 2599 02:20:24,959 --> 02:20:27,880 Speaker 1: I didn't even know that my my dad. I called 2600 02:20:27,920 --> 02:20:30,680 Speaker 1: my dad because I got it and I got a 2601 02:20:30,840 --> 02:20:34,600 Speaker 1: email and my dad and I was like Jamaican Observer. 2602 02:20:34,720 --> 02:20:36,560 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, let me check that out. So 2603 02:20:36,600 --> 02:20:38,320 Speaker 1: I said, let me call my dad. And my dad's 2604 02:20:38,520 --> 02:20:42,080 Speaker 1: super smart, the history buff like super smart. So I 2605 02:20:42,160 --> 02:20:44,879 Speaker 1: was like yeah, I said, um, I said, you have 2606 02:20:44,920 --> 02:20:48,680 Speaker 1: a kind of the Jamaican Observer. Um um um um 2607 02:20:48,720 --> 02:21:06,320 Speaker 1: dead um all um um um all this. Really you've 2608 02:21:06,320 --> 02:21:10,000 Speaker 1: been classy. You've been classy, You've been everything, got this 2609 02:21:10,080 --> 02:21:15,960 Speaker 1: beautiful top on, teeth clean everything. Um dad. Okay, I'm okay, 2610 02:21:15,959 --> 02:21:18,080 Speaker 1: I want to check myself. Okay, I just wanted to 2611 02:21:18,200 --> 02:21:23,280 Speaker 1: check myself. So I said that you've heard of the 2612 02:21:23,400 --> 02:21:26,800 Speaker 1: Jamaican Observer and he's like, of course, He's like, that's 2613 02:21:26,800 --> 02:21:30,480 Speaker 1: our that's our main newspaper. So I was like really, 2614 02:21:30,680 --> 02:21:34,960 Speaker 1: and I said, well, they wanna interview me? He's like really, 2615 02:21:35,040 --> 02:21:39,039 Speaker 1: I said yeah. So I was super surprised than Jamaica 2616 02:21:39,200 --> 02:21:46,760 Speaker 1: even wanted to, you know, feature me, and um, I 2617 02:21:46,840 --> 02:21:58,040 Speaker 1: heard that now, I heard, um you. I didn't even 2618 02:21:58,080 --> 02:22:03,600 Speaker 1: realize until you said, Okay, so yes, well, you know, 2619 02:22:03,680 --> 02:22:06,320 Speaker 1: let's let's talk about one. You know, it's you know, 2620 02:22:06,320 --> 02:22:08,720 Speaker 1: we're coming to the end of this year and I'm 2621 02:22:08,760 --> 02:22:11,959 Speaker 1: a planner. You're a planner. You know, your your visionary. 2622 02:22:12,160 --> 02:22:15,400 Speaker 1: You know we're fashion and fashion this seasonal. You know, 2623 02:22:15,480 --> 02:22:17,640 Speaker 1: you you know what you're doing the summer. You can't 2624 02:22:17,640 --> 02:22:19,080 Speaker 1: do the fall with you doing the phone, you can't 2625 02:22:19,080 --> 02:22:23,240 Speaker 1: do in the spring. Okay, what what are we looking for? What? What? What? What? What? 2626 02:22:23,320 --> 02:22:26,320 Speaker 1: I did you have on the world of fashion that 2627 02:22:26,360 --> 02:22:31,120 Speaker 1: you're gonna bring to you know, to the ladies. Well, I, 2628 02:22:32,040 --> 02:22:38,000 Speaker 1: like I said, I'm always tuned in, so I'm always 2629 02:22:38,040 --> 02:22:43,720 Speaker 1: looking at trends. And I don't usually follow trends, but 2630 02:22:43,840 --> 02:22:46,800 Speaker 1: I'll look at them so I kind of see what 2631 02:22:46,800 --> 02:22:48,720 Speaker 1: they're watching in the world is going and of course, 2632 02:22:49,560 --> 02:22:55,960 Speaker 1: so I'm so aware of this now that trying not 2633 02:22:57,040 --> 02:23:05,160 Speaker 1: I love, I loved you know, I've been down the 2634 02:23:05,240 --> 02:23:10,560 Speaker 1: interviews this country. My instagram follows on fire and he 2635 02:23:10,720 --> 02:23:19,920 Speaker 1: called it um um dad um um. Oh my gosh. 2636 02:23:20,520 --> 02:23:27,800 Speaker 1: So and I just anything that's different is going to 2637 02:23:27,959 --> 02:23:32,959 Speaker 1: catch my eyes. So anything depending on um, you know, 2638 02:23:33,040 --> 02:23:36,400 Speaker 1: like you said, the season, but summertime, I'm gonna make 2639 02:23:36,400 --> 02:23:41,480 Speaker 1: sure that you know, it's gonna be nice, cool colors, cotton, 2640 02:23:41,920 --> 02:23:46,120 Speaker 1: organic cottons and everything is definitely very important because you 2641 02:23:46,160 --> 02:23:48,440 Speaker 1: want to stay cool and cute. So I try not 2642 02:23:48,520 --> 02:23:50,920 Speaker 1: to do a lot of synthetic fabrics and stuff in 2643 02:23:50,920 --> 02:23:56,400 Speaker 1: the summer and things that's also gonna camouflage things that 2644 02:23:56,480 --> 02:23:59,879 Speaker 1: you may not be somewhere ready for, you know. So 2645 02:24:00,400 --> 02:24:06,000 Speaker 1: that's what I because all the time the Vault by 2646 02:24:06,040 --> 02:24:09,039 Speaker 1: Sasha is it is it your store or it is 2647 02:24:09,040 --> 02:24:13,240 Speaker 1: the People's store? What is it? It is? It's the 2648 02:24:13,280 --> 02:24:18,199 Speaker 1: people's store. Okay, it's it's it's the people's store for sure, 2649 02:24:18,640 --> 02:24:26,320 Speaker 1: But it's my my vision, my vision, yeah, or what 2650 02:24:26,440 --> 02:24:30,879 Speaker 1: I want the people to wear people because because that's 2651 02:24:30,920 --> 02:24:32,640 Speaker 1: what a lot of people can get. Because you're so 2652 02:24:33,440 --> 02:24:35,879 Speaker 1: you're you're you have an opinion, and which is good 2653 02:24:35,920 --> 02:24:37,800 Speaker 1: because in fast you gotta have an opinion because your 2654 02:24:37,800 --> 02:24:39,920 Speaker 1: opinion has to be able to cut through the clutter 2655 02:24:39,959 --> 02:24:43,080 Speaker 1: the noise of what people should wear and should not wear. 2656 02:24:43,400 --> 02:24:46,520 Speaker 1: And also you have to be um confident. And that's 2657 02:24:46,520 --> 02:24:49,200 Speaker 1: what I said. I'm saying as a buyer, she's a 2658 02:24:49,200 --> 02:24:52,240 Speaker 1: confident person because she's going in saying, you know something 2659 02:24:52,240 --> 02:24:54,359 Speaker 1: like that topic you have on I'm telling it's fantastic. 2660 02:24:54,400 --> 02:24:58,160 Speaker 1: That's a beautiful top tier. And anybody who's watching the video, 2661 02:24:58,160 --> 02:24:59,800 Speaker 1: I know it's plays back on podcasts if you can 2662 02:24:59,800 --> 02:25:03,240 Speaker 1: get about YouTube channel to see this tops outstanding? Is 2663 02:25:03,440 --> 02:25:05,920 Speaker 1: this topic a viral? This is really great, It's really 2664 02:25:06,280 --> 02:25:09,560 Speaker 1: it's really walk in. You know you you're a nightclub Look, 2665 02:25:09,760 --> 02:25:12,040 Speaker 1: you know you can you can wear that in church 2666 02:25:12,160 --> 02:25:15,720 Speaker 1: right there? That's that's a church topics. Absolutely see she'd 2667 02:25:15,720 --> 02:25:18,760 Speaker 1: go to church. I'm telling when you get a top 2668 02:25:18,840 --> 02:25:28,440 Speaker 1: that you can wear the church in the nightclub. I'm 2669 02:25:28,480 --> 02:25:31,640 Speaker 1: talking about girl. You know you're coming from the nightclub 2670 02:25:31,680 --> 02:25:34,680 Speaker 1: at two o'clock in the morning. You time you just 2671 02:25:35,040 --> 02:25:37,680 Speaker 1: fall asleep in your bed, you just get on up 2672 02:25:38,160 --> 02:25:41,240 Speaker 1: and go to churches praise the Lord in the nightclub look, 2673 02:25:41,400 --> 02:25:51,360 Speaker 1: and nobody will know. Nobody, I'm telling you. And that's 2674 02:25:51,440 --> 02:25:55,119 Speaker 1: the thing. I don't have a lot of provocative clothes 2675 02:25:55,240 --> 02:25:58,840 Speaker 1: in the ball. So, like I said, it's oversize things. 2676 02:25:59,320 --> 02:26:03,520 Speaker 1: It's cool silhouettes, its patterns, mixed prints, things like that. 2677 02:26:04,040 --> 02:26:08,720 Speaker 1: So it's definitely wearable in so many different circumstances. Well, 2678 02:26:08,800 --> 02:26:12,200 Speaker 1: so I've already told you, Okay, the Vault by Slasha, 2679 02:26:12,480 --> 02:26:14,760 Speaker 1: you know she's gonna she's gonna turn it out in 2680 02:26:15,600 --> 02:26:18,480 Speaker 1: one she's already turning out. Instagram is on fire. And 2681 02:26:18,560 --> 02:26:20,560 Speaker 1: I asked that question because I wanted to know, because 2682 02:26:20,879 --> 02:26:23,480 Speaker 1: you know, the Vault by Sasha is a clothing line 2683 02:26:23,520 --> 02:26:27,400 Speaker 1: design for the people. But now she didn't said clothing lines, accessories, 2684 02:26:27,520 --> 02:26:31,280 Speaker 1: you know, tops, swimwears all these things that make you 2685 02:26:31,400 --> 02:26:33,840 Speaker 1: look good and feel good. And he also has the 2686 02:26:33,879 --> 02:26:35,800 Speaker 1: clothes that, you know, if you don't feel good about 2687 02:26:35,840 --> 02:26:37,880 Speaker 1: certain parts of your body, you can She has fashion 2688 02:26:37,920 --> 02:26:39,440 Speaker 1: that can hide the little thing and to make you 2689 02:26:39,480 --> 02:26:41,600 Speaker 1: still look like you've got it going on. And when 2690 02:26:41,640 --> 02:26:43,800 Speaker 1: you walk in that room, you know, everything is still flowing, 2691 02:26:43,879 --> 02:26:46,720 Speaker 1: everything is still rolling right, left and right. And she 2692 02:26:46,800 --> 02:26:49,720 Speaker 1: has oversized clothes, full figure clothes. So These are things 2693 02:26:49,800 --> 02:26:52,720 Speaker 1: that you can look at in the vault by Sasha 2694 02:26:52,760 --> 02:26:54,560 Speaker 1: and walk away with a smile on your face. I 2695 02:26:54,600 --> 02:26:56,320 Speaker 1: want to thank you for coming on my sol sauce. 2696 02:26:56,480 --> 02:26:59,920 Speaker 1: You know, I know I've been messing with you finding me. 2697 02:27:00,080 --> 02:27:05,080 Speaker 1: You're so funny, you know the ba Jamaica y'all. Mom, 2698 02:27:05,400 --> 02:27:13,920 Speaker 1: you know I'm saying. You know I read don't go, 2699 02:27:14,320 --> 02:27:17,080 Speaker 1: you make it happen. But again, I'm I'm so proud 2700 02:27:17,160 --> 02:27:20,600 Speaker 1: that the fact that you as an entrepreneur because I 2701 02:27:20,760 --> 02:27:23,520 Speaker 1: Ustory five am and so I knew it was a 2702 02:27:23,640 --> 02:27:27,840 Speaker 1: hard decision to walk away from Guarantee Health Interfits retirement. 2703 02:27:28,200 --> 02:27:29,920 Speaker 1: And like I said, the job you had in the 2704 02:27:30,000 --> 02:27:33,560 Speaker 1: medical field, that's not going anywhere. It's an in demand profession, 2705 02:27:33,640 --> 02:27:36,960 Speaker 1: especially with COVID, it's really in demand right now. And 2706 02:27:37,080 --> 02:27:39,360 Speaker 1: so but you know, but you have to follow your dream. 2707 02:27:39,400 --> 02:27:41,320 Speaker 1: You have to be committed to a plan that it's 2708 02:27:41,360 --> 02:27:43,440 Speaker 1: gonna make you feel good about yourself when you wake 2709 02:27:43,520 --> 02:27:46,320 Speaker 1: up in the morning. And I your smile is fantastic, 2710 02:27:46,440 --> 02:27:48,400 Speaker 1: and I always know that. You know, if you haven't 2711 02:27:48,959 --> 02:27:50,280 Speaker 1: when you want to launch your name, let me know. 2712 02:27:50,400 --> 02:27:53,120 Speaker 1: I have my team posted on my social media. Have 2713 02:27:55,320 --> 02:27:58,280 Speaker 1: I really appreciate that I got you. I got you 2714 02:27:58,400 --> 02:28:01,160 Speaker 1: because I have some events coming there. You go, like, 2715 02:28:02,160 --> 02:28:04,920 Speaker 1: are you in I'm in Atlanta, based in Atlanta, you 2716 02:28:04,959 --> 02:28:10,120 Speaker 1: know absolutely when you come, let you know I have 2717 02:28:10,800 --> 02:28:14,600 Speaker 1: a fashion show coming up. It's a lot of fashion. 2718 02:28:15,040 --> 02:28:19,280 Speaker 1: It's a lot of fashion show virtually this no, this 2719 02:28:19,520 --> 02:28:24,600 Speaker 1: virtual as well. Okay, but I do have some special 2720 02:28:24,680 --> 02:28:27,080 Speaker 1: invite to guests if you live in Atlanta, because I 2721 02:28:27,120 --> 02:28:30,360 Speaker 1: didn't want to, you know, do like a huge thing 2722 02:28:30,440 --> 02:28:35,440 Speaker 1: that second invite only um at the events space. It's 2723 02:28:35,480 --> 02:28:37,760 Speaker 1: gonna be in Buckhead. But if you would like to 2724 02:28:38,080 --> 02:28:41,680 Speaker 1: watch it, okay, I like to because you I gotta 2725 02:28:41,720 --> 02:28:43,040 Speaker 1: mess with you. You know, I have a mask on, 2726 02:28:43,200 --> 02:28:45,240 Speaker 1: you know, mess with you and everything. You know coming 2727 02:28:45,280 --> 02:28:52,120 Speaker 1: in and absolutely absolutely like you got crooked teeth that 2728 02:28:52,200 --> 02:28:53,720 Speaker 1: worry about it. Come on and put your masks, onna 2729 02:28:53,720 --> 02:28:55,200 Speaker 1: come on, show up up. We're gonna be at the 2730 02:28:55,440 --> 02:28:57,360 Speaker 1: at the Vault by Side Shore. What's the what's that date? 2731 02:28:57,480 --> 02:28:59,119 Speaker 1: So I can just start promoting that. I'm gonna early 2732 02:28:59,160 --> 02:29:03,600 Speaker 1: promote you got to day December seventeen seventeen, all right, 2733 02:29:03,680 --> 02:29:06,720 Speaker 1: the Vault by Sasha Her fashion show. Ra Sean McDonald 2734 02:29:06,760 --> 02:29:09,240 Speaker 1: will be there, we're gonna post it on our social media. 2735 02:29:09,520 --> 02:29:12,560 Speaker 1: She also will be virtual December seventeen. Mark that down 2736 02:29:12,640 --> 02:29:14,800 Speaker 1: on your collar on your calendar. I s would say 2737 02:29:15,000 --> 02:29:17,440 Speaker 1: the Vault by Saucier. She is. I'm a fan of hers. 2738 02:29:17,840 --> 02:29:20,400 Speaker 1: She has lived in the She came out of Baltimore 2739 02:29:21,040 --> 02:29:24,160 Speaker 1: inspired by her mom, but she decided to follow her 2740 02:29:24,200 --> 02:29:26,320 Speaker 1: own dream. In fact, I think she's an extension of 2741 02:29:26,400 --> 02:29:28,879 Speaker 1: what her mom was dreaming about. And my mom didn't 2742 02:29:28,920 --> 02:29:31,800 Speaker 1: have social media. Mom didn't have that extra push and 2743 02:29:31,920 --> 02:29:34,920 Speaker 1: so and that's what that's what I love about millennials. 2744 02:29:35,000 --> 02:29:37,120 Speaker 1: That's what I love about the newer generation. If they 2745 02:29:37,600 --> 02:29:40,160 Speaker 1: we have tools now that we're willing to take advantage of. 2746 02:29:40,600 --> 02:29:43,160 Speaker 1: And a lot of our parents and our grandparents they 2747 02:29:43,200 --> 02:29:45,280 Speaker 1: were they were just as gifted, but they had to 2748 02:29:45,360 --> 02:29:48,600 Speaker 1: go the safer route, more of the guarantee, right, And 2749 02:29:48,720 --> 02:29:51,000 Speaker 1: that's what they did. And there's no disrespect for what 2750 02:29:51,160 --> 02:29:53,560 Speaker 1: they're doing and what they because they enabled us to 2751 02:29:53,640 --> 02:29:56,240 Speaker 1: walk through the door and win. And we're winning big. 2752 02:29:56,360 --> 02:29:59,040 Speaker 1: But more importantly, I really appreciate you. I really do. 2753 02:30:00,000 --> 02:30:02,560 Speaker 1: Thank you. Thank you. That touched my heart. Thanks you 2754 02:30:08,680 --> 02:30:16,280 Speaker 1: almost all right, I would talk to you soon, Okay, 2755 02:30:17,800 --> 02:30:20,440 Speaker 1: I'll be there all right. Maybe. Okay, that's my girl 2756 02:30:20,560 --> 02:30:23,680 Speaker 1: right there. The Vault by Sasha Sasha Stewart straight out 2757 02:30:23,720 --> 02:30:26,720 Speaker 1: of Baltimore, not living in Atlanta, doing your thing with 2758 02:30:26,879 --> 02:30:29,560 Speaker 1: amazing items that you should be putting in your closet 2759 02:30:29,560 --> 02:30:31,440 Speaker 1: and wearing on a regular bastions. But you better have, 2760 02:30:31,959 --> 02:30:34,640 Speaker 1: you better have the better be fierce by but be 2761 02:30:34,760 --> 02:30:38,200 Speaker 1: fierce like confident, confident to end of this fault now 2762 02:30:38,760 --> 02:30:41,680 Speaker 1: and so check me out at w W dot w 2763 02:30:42,400 --> 02:30:45,600 Speaker 1: dot the Fault by Sasha, And my name is spelled 2764 02:30:45,800 --> 02:30:48,520 Speaker 1: as a c h A, so don't put the s 2765 02:30:48,680 --> 02:30:51,840 Speaker 1: s as a c h A dot com. And you 2766 02:30:51,879 --> 02:30:55,000 Speaker 1: can reach me by email which is the same the 2767 02:30:55,080 --> 02:30:58,960 Speaker 1: fault by Sasha at Gmail. Also have a chat that 2768 02:30:59,080 --> 02:31:01,640 Speaker 1: you can go on website and it's a love chat. 2769 02:31:01,720 --> 02:31:05,440 Speaker 1: We have it usually from ten to seven UM. So 2770 02:31:05,800 --> 02:31:08,640 Speaker 1: that is one of my UH staff members that we 2771 02:31:08,760 --> 02:31:12,600 Speaker 1: answer questions around the clock during those hours and um 2772 02:31:12,760 --> 02:31:16,520 Speaker 1: and of course on on Instagram at the Vault by Sasha, 2773 02:31:17,080 --> 02:31:19,680 Speaker 1: So I hope to see yourself. You will and you'll 2774 02:31:19,720 --> 02:31:21,720 Speaker 1: see me for sure, and you definitely will see your 2775 02:31:21,720 --> 02:31:24,160 Speaker 1: fans on virtual as well as the December seventeen event 2776 02:31:24,200 --> 02:31:26,360 Speaker 1: because I'm getting a special v I F invite and 2777 02:31:26,440 --> 02:31:28,280 Speaker 1: I'm not going to share mine with nobody because my 2778 02:31:28,320 --> 02:31:30,600 Speaker 1: staff a wall attack along. I'm gonna go. It's on 2779 02:31:30,840 --> 02:31:33,000 Speaker 1: Sean McDonald. No, I'm going out there. I got my 2780 02:31:33,120 --> 02:31:35,920 Speaker 1: mask and got my parael and everything, so I'll be 2781 02:31:36,120 --> 02:31:37,720 Speaker 1: like you know, when we be hugging, nobody will be 2782 02:31:37,840 --> 02:31:40,480 Speaker 1: touching nobody. I'd be six feet separated, but I'll be 2783 02:31:40,600 --> 02:31:42,880 Speaker 1: enjoying myself. If you want to hear more money Making 2784 02:31:42,920 --> 02:31:46,480 Speaker 1: Conversation interviews, please go to money Making Conversations dot com. Sasha, 2785 02:31:47,160 --> 02:31:50,439 Speaker 1: thank you for coming on my shows. You're very welcome. 2786 02:31:50,640 --> 02:31:54,760 Speaker 1: I was happy to be here. Okay, okay. If you 2787 02:31:54,920 --> 02:31:57,760 Speaker 1: subscribe to YouTube, go to YouTube you can follow me 2788 02:31:57,800 --> 02:32:00,560 Speaker 1: a money Making Conversation dot com. I'm all over the plates. 2789 02:32:00,560 --> 02:32:02,840 Speaker 1: I got websites, i got social media. I'm trying to grow. 2790 02:32:03,000 --> 02:32:04,640 Speaker 1: I'll trying to get big. I'm trying to be authentic. 2791 02:32:04,680 --> 02:32:15,400 Speaker 1: I'm trying to be a brain. By bye. In this 2792 02:32:15,560 --> 02:32:18,680 Speaker 1: season of giving, Coals has gifts for all your loved ones. 2793 02:32:19,000 --> 02:32:22,800 Speaker 1: For those who like to keep it cozy, find fleeces, sweaters, loungeware, 2794 02:32:22,879 --> 02:32:26,680 Speaker 1: blankets and throws, or support minority owned or founded brands. 2795 02:32:26,760 --> 02:32:30,200 Speaker 1: By giving gifts from human Nation and shame moisture and 2796 02:32:30,480 --> 02:32:33,600 Speaker 1: in the spirit of giving, Coals Cares is donating eight 2797 02:32:33,760 --> 02:32:37,760 Speaker 1: million dollars to local nonprofits nationwide. 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