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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey Ben, good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 1: How are you hey, I'm doing okay, okay, okay. So

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Speaker 1: now that it's an honest start to this, because oftentimes

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Speaker 1: we'll go how you doing? So this person is being

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Speaker 1: you're not great because you're being ghosted. So tell us

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Speaker 1: about this woman page, how did you guys meet? Tell

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Speaker 1: you know what's led to the ghosting here?

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Speaker 2: Why do you think you're being ghosted? I mean, that's.

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Speaker 3: That's why I'm calling because I really don't know, and

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Speaker 3: this this really isn't like me. You know, I usually

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Speaker 3: can pick up on signs pretty well. I'm respectful, you know,

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Speaker 3: I understand that no means no, but I was.

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Speaker 2: I was really vibing with this bell Page.

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Speaker 3: Like I didn't even marry yet, and I was, I'll

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Speaker 3: be honest, I was getting ahead of myself because we

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Speaker 4: We're really flirting. We moved to text pretty quickly, so

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Speaker 4: I asked back to dinner and I had a great time.

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Speaker 4: I thought it was great again. You know, we revived

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Speaker 3: We have so much in common, genuinely, like, and I

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Speaker 5: Dated a lot. I actually saw a future with this girl.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh wow. Okay, yeah.

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Speaker 1: So after after meeting on a dating app and then

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Speaker 2: When you know, you know, when the chemistry is you know, right.

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Speaker 3: But I've been on enough dates and this was this

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Speaker 3: but I called her, I texted her, you know, I

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Speaker 2: And I just I've never felt.

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Speaker 5: Wow, I expect more and more of a response, but

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Speaker 5: to be completely ghosted after such a good Frankly, I

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Speaker 2: Our boy Ben over here, he is gushing.

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Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, when you know he dropped the win,

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Speaker 6: you know, you know, yeah wow, Okay, So that's obviously

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Speaker 6: troubling that you you know, you thought this strongly about

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Speaker 2: So let's play one song. We're gonna come back.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call Page, We're gonna ask these questions on

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Speaker 1: your behalf. At some point you welcome a jumping on

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Speaker 1: the call, because you'll be on too. And the hope

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Speaker 1: here is that we can straighten things out and then

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Speaker 1: fence and the whole thing, and we're hoping that for

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Speaker 1: you Ben, we'll see friends ordained, I am ordained. I'll

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Speaker 1: do it right now. I'll do it right now, and

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Speaker 2: Good luck High is his page, I'll pay. Good morning.

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Speaker 2: My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: and I do have to tell you that we are

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much for calling on behalf of

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Speaker 1: this guy named Ben. I guess you guys met on

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So what's going on with this guy?

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Speaker 1: Because he reached out to us and we do this

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Speaker 8: And then he continued and said, like we're really close

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Speaker 7: But it's not personal. I just found it a.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I've heard about family being tough to convince,

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Speaker 1: But I mean, that's that's kind of a disheartening thing

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Speaker 1: I have a jealous sister? You know, I forgot to

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Speaker 2: Hey bitch first of all, and yeah, that was just

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Speaker 3: But I'm a little taken it back because honestly, I

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Speaker 2: Like this is?

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Speaker 3: This is pretty I feel like this is pretty normal.

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Speaker 1: it's not uncommon to have protective family members, but ultimately

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Speaker 3: To be transparent, like I really liked you, Paige. I

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Speaker 2: Territorial, all right. She she's very cautious about why date.

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Speaker 3: Why date is my business and ultimately my decision, but

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Speaker 5: It becomes an issue later down the blind.

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Speaker 2: But I mean, I'm close with my family, you know,

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Speaker 2: Like, is it has it been every single one? Has

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Speaker 3: She's been protective with every girl ever since, you know, high.

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Speaker 9: When I really like someone, I I just want to

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Speaker 1: It's kind of daunting, though, like to hear that from

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Speaker 1: I just kind of assumed that you had a good

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Speaker 8: Yeah. Yeah, it just makes me think like, well, we're

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Speaker 7: It just sounds to me like if this is.

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Speaker 8: A reoccurring problem with multiple women, like you should probably

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Speaker 1: All she requires is a lie detector, a full medical exam,

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Speaker 10: No, I have all brothers, and like I understand being

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Speaker 10: a protective sister, but it sounds like your sister needs

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Speaker 10: It's not her brother, Yeah, right, ready to find her

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Speaker 10: something to do. Yeah, I'm not that crazy.

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Speaker 3: I don't know my sister loves me like I'm sorry

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Speaker 3: I've hurt that line many times.

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Speaker 2: It's not like I have a child. It's not like

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Speaker 2: I have you know, an ex lover? Have you ever had?

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Speaker 2: Are you allowed to have a lover? Is your sister

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's very I mean again, it's it's sweet to

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Speaker 1: because ultimately it's your life to live, not hers. Protective

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Speaker 1: you know, who knows. Maybe this is all for not again?

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Speaker 1: And and you meet the sister and she doesn't kill you.

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Speaker 7: it's going.

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Speaker 8: To be a no for me.

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Speaker 1: Okay who I'm sorry, that's no for Page. I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: wish you the best of luck with this challenge. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Page, thank good luck.