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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast

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Speaker 1: Hello Everybody, Welcome to score running In. It is National

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Speaker 1: Girlfriend's Day. Tanya looks at me with wide eyes like

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Speaker 1: ready to harmonize with me. I love a fun celebration

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Speaker 1: holiday and this one is just like I feel like

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Speaker 1: it was like built for me. It really you are.

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Speaker 1: You are the ultimate girlfriend. I love Girlfriend's Day. I

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Speaker 1: feel like it's such a great day. It's a great day.

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Speaker 1: Text and virtually hug all of our girlfriends. Yeah, if

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Speaker 1: you have a girlfriend who has been a supporter, a cheerleader,

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Speaker 1: a best friend when you're down, when you're happy, and

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Speaker 1: all the in between, text or caller face timer unless

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Speaker 1: you hate the lot and tell her you love her. Um,

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Speaker 1: we have a super fun show today, But first I

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Speaker 1: want to talk about this um virtual event that we're

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Speaker 1: having next weekend. So we're going to have a girl's

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Speaker 1: Girl's Day in. It'll be next Saturday, August eight, and

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Speaker 1: it'll start at ten a m. Pacific time, and it's

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Speaker 1: on it's t i x R dot com. So Tony

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Speaker 1: well and to tell them about it. So basically, what

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Speaker 1: you can do is you can join us virtually. So

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Speaker 1: grab your girlfriends, um, those that are on your QUARANTINEAM,

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Speaker 1: and you can hang with us for private hang and

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Speaker 1: virtual brunch. Um you will. We will join you and

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Speaker 1: your friends virtually for one on one hang. We'll chat,

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Speaker 1: we'll laugh, hopefully we won't cry. We'll take some photos,

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Speaker 1: talk ray's, analyze our relationships and say cheers to our girlfriends.

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Speaker 1: And we want to help a great organization, No Kid Hungry,

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Speaker 1: so a portion of the proceeds will go directly to them.

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Speaker 1: So the tickets are super super limited. So if you're

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Speaker 1: interested in doing a virtual hang out with us, go

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Speaker 1: to UM scrubbing in dot t I x R, dot calm.

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Speaker 1: Once again. They're gonna go really fast. It's very limited,

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Speaker 1: but UM, we can't wait to hang out with y'all virtually. Um.

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Speaker 1: How's everyone doing? How are you doing? Like I just

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Speaker 1: saw you? Is that because I like text you incessantly? No,

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Speaker 1: because we just did this Monday Saturday. A lot of

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Speaker 1: days in between Monday and Saturday. Hello, I know, but

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Speaker 1: if I had it my way, i'd see you every day.

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Speaker 1: M hm, that's nice. Do you mean that that feels excessive? No?

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Speaker 1: Is that because you're bored. No. I walked in and

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Speaker 1: Taylor head tailor, I mean Taylor head tail Tanya had

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Speaker 1: Taylor plastic. What that's like a compliment. That's true, it's

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Speaker 1: not negative. Um, you're good. How is your week? My

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Speaker 1: sweating issue. I'm a little concerned about, like my armpits

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Speaker 1: on and very I mean very on brand for telling you.

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Speaker 1: So what I found that I really need to do. Um,

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Speaker 1: just because I'm in my apartment and I'm doing multiple things,

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Speaker 1: to get my keep my energy up, I have to

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Speaker 1: go on runs in between stuff. And so I went

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Speaker 1: So here we are. Um, something I did something very

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Speaker 1: important this week. What I did laser hair removal. So

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Speaker 1: I've been trying I've been avoiding it because the waxing

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Speaker 1: experience with you ruined me, and I trust no one

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Speaker 1: who says anything Like if someone says, oh, that doesn't

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Speaker 1: regular laser and then Hayley said it did not feel

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Speaker 1: So that's a horrible comparison. I looked, I cannot waxing

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Speaker 1: But I don't just not gonna judge if you did know.

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Speaker 1: me tell you something. I'm laying there in my butterfly position,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I would actually appreciate that, but it

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Speaker 1: But I'm just like watching this innocent woman just doing

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Speaker 1: And that was where I was like I'm gonna die

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Speaker 1: of sapure embarrassing it. Why do things like that not

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Speaker 1: phase me in the slightest bit, Like whenever I well,

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Speaker 1: I was doing laser hair removal, I did like three

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Speaker 1: But for me, it was just like kick back, hang

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Speaker 1: out with a smoothie, do your thing. You want to

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Speaker 1: kick my leg back, Sure, you want to put it

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Speaker 1: a thing. I don't understand why. I just don't care.

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Speaker 1: It's just like everything else in your life. Why don't

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Speaker 1: you care? I don't know. But I never looked at

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Speaker 1: I really started looking at it like daily, Okay, I

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Speaker 1: But I also don't feel like I don't feel like

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Speaker 1: She texted me and she's like, I'm in my car peeing, laughing,

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Speaker 1: listening to you tell Ryan Seacrest how he needs to

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Speaker 1: and stuff. She's like, I've crow crying laughing at this conversation. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: challenge for National Girlfriend's Day. Just walk around naked, stare

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Speaker 1: about it that's actually gonna you know, that's sound advice.

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Speaker 1: this movie that's on Netflix. It's Escaping Me the name

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Speaker 1: I alone and feeling this? No? Sure, have your French night,

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Speaker 1: Wait are you doing it alone? Yeah? Neither or me

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Speaker 1: I was so excited. I even got like I asked

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Speaker 1: many times. I got like a specific French cuisine that

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Speaker 1: I'm hopeful Midnight in Paris is a great Paris movie

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Speaker 1: didn't watch from that lens. Yeah, se Ryan said, this

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Speaker 1: and like welcome to the rest of the world. Well,

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00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,639
Speaker 1: I think it's the women that have no jobs have

424
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:29,439
Speaker 1: been doing that for centuries, like getting dressed to go

425
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:32,919
Speaker 1: to the market. I think that you just have a

426
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 1: job and you're busy, like you know what I mean.

427
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,560
Speaker 1: It's it's hard women who have to put themselves together

428
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:41,399
Speaker 1: to go to work every day. Then the farmers market

429
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 1: activities are like yoga because they're sick of it, but

430
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 1: like then the blogger was born, you know, the blogger,

431
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 1: And do you blog your outfit at the farmer's market?

432
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 1: Are you to take advantage of it? I mean I will.

433
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:00,040
Speaker 1: We didn't end up going because we drove down and

434
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 1: the line was like super long and there was like

435
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 1: five people. I was like, this is exactly the opposite,

436
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 1: Like I will order my groceries to be delivered and

437
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 1: my blueberries won't be organic this week. Like that's just

438
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 1: the like life I'm gonna live. Um, So I didn't

439
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 1: end up, you know, doing anything. But so you got

440
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 1: dressed and went on a car ride. I went on

441
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 1: a car I got dressed up to go on a

442
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,600
Speaker 1: car ride. That's where we're at, Well, that is where

443
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 1: we're at because that is an exciting thing these days.

444
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:26,639
Speaker 1: So it's like why not put on your new dress

445
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 1: that you won't wear for another two and a half years,

446
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 1: you know, especially for a listen to Taylor Swift's new

447
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:35,359
Speaker 1: album Just to drive in the car feels like a

448
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 1: treat for me right now. Oh my god, I know

449
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 1: because you're into it. Now, how is your card again?

450
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,680
Speaker 1: What do you have? Perfect Becca? Should we put our card?

451
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 1: I can't believe I don't where mine to talk to

452
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,119
Speaker 1: you because I don't don't have a card. Again, I

453
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:52,920
Speaker 1: wore Becca's How did Becca get one and you didn't

454
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 1: get one? Becca has an in with Haley, who is

455
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 1: like bff. She's like sung on stage with Taylor Swift

456
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:05,439
Speaker 1: before right, SOT packet? No, No, it's mine. You got

457
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:09,640
Speaker 1: your mine. It was addressed Rebecca Tilly. Um, but I

458
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 1: did get the PR package last year for um. I

459
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 1: got that too, So maybe I'm just on the No,

460
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 1: this is what I asked because I well, I had

461
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: this conversation, but I emailed Tree afterwards. She was sneaky

462
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 1: and she emailed me like three weeks you explained to

463
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: the millions of three, I don't know who Tree is. Sorry,

464
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:32,119
Speaker 1: well everyone that's a Swifty notes who Okay, so Tree

465
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 1: is Taylor's publicist, but like also runs like her life

466
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:38,199
Speaker 1: and a couple weeks ago she wrote me She's like, hey,

467
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 1: quarantine is like really slow. I'm just updating everything. I

468
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:42,880
Speaker 1: don't have your home address. I only have your work address.

469
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, cool, well, yeah we're gonna

470
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 1: be at home like for the first a year or so. Yeah,

471
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 1: this is great, Like I didn't think anything of it.

472
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 1: I've never gotten a PR package from Taylor. This was

473
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 1: my first one. And then I wrote a thank you

474
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 1: after and I said, thanks so much for thinking of me.

475
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 1: This is so great. Like you know, it's so hard

476
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 1: sometimes hard to be in the press, and it's nice

477
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,320
Speaker 1: when people recognize that. She goes, Oh it was for

478
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,640
Speaker 1: a few press that have supported her for a long

479
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 1: time and friends, and then I only saw three press,

480
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,640
Speaker 1: so I don't know. I've seen a lot of people

481
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 1: wearing that cardigan on my Instagram, but I don't us. Sorry, yeah,

482
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,719
Speaker 1: but he was in the video. He was, oh, all

483
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 1: the queer Eye boys anyway, whatever, it's fine, Becca, it's fine.

484
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 1: Something nice happened to us. Yeah, no, you got I

485
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,639
Speaker 1: think that is a rare card. Again, I have not

486
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 1: seen many people with that bad boy. Tanya did try

487
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 1: to say the elite of the elite got the card. Again.

488
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,120
Speaker 1: I don't want to correct her, but it's definitely not

489
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 1: that because it's like, yeah, same, that's what I'm saying,

490
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,719
Speaker 1: Like I literally said. We did the podcast the other day,

491
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 1: Becco was here and she was wearing the card again

492
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 1: and I was I literally put it on, like took

493
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 1: it off of her back and put it on myself,

494
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 1: and I was like, is it cool if I stole

495
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 1: it from my best friend? I've never seen you happier,

496
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,120
Speaker 1: Tanya than happy of you getting around at that card Again.

497
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 1: The best was did you see Spencer Pratt he took

498
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: it out to That's like, that's honestly, I'm sure that

499
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 1: I was on the list because she knew that I

500
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 1: would talk about it for six months straight, like you know, actually,

501
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,439
Speaker 1: like you know who's so thirsty for attention? It's Kelty.

502
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 1: Let's see if you talk about you know what. I

503
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 1: like that technique. Like now in our brands, we should

504
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:26,439
Speaker 1: only send out like the clothing that we're promoting, our

505
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 1: merch or whatever we're doing to the thirstiest people because

506
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 1: they are going to post about it all the time. Yes, totally.

507
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 1: Such stuff just gets wasted when you're like, yeah, Jayla

508
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: will totally wear this, and it's yea, there goes Yeah,

509
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 1: it's true, so true. We're gonna have to start a

510
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:47,120
Speaker 1: thirst list. But that's what Girlfriend's Day is all about,

511
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 1: to be honest, is like that's what we've all become.

512
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,479
Speaker 1: Friends are little are little scrubbing a lady Because when

513
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 1: Becca has something that she needs to get in the world,

514
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 1: like we're gonna wear it, We're gonna support you. You

515
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 1: were the first two people that posted anything about our

516
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,960
Speaker 1: express line. That's first too, And that's because you're a

517
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: good girlfriend, because you realize this is a give and

518
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: take a friendship and you're gonna support, You're gonna lift

519
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:13,159
Speaker 1: up even if it's not your project, Like that's a

520
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 1: real friend. I love that, And you know it's actually

521
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 1: the thing that I know. You guys saw the like

522
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:21,680
Speaker 1: women Empowerment chain that was kind of going around through Instagram,

523
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 1: And as much as I loved it, and I still

524
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,160
Speaker 1: love and I think it was so great, I wish

525
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 1: that there was like a tier two where it was like, Okay,

526
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 1: post this, do this, but then buy something from a

527
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 1: female founded company or shout out like a project that

528
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 1: was done by a female or you know what I mean,

529
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 1: like do some action to support like a female owned,

530
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 1: a female that's in your life that's doing great things. Yeah,

531
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: Like I wish there was like a tier two to it,

532
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 1: you know, because I do think it does require I mean,

533
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 1: we're all fighting this like uphill battle, so I feel

534
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 1: like it does require us to like keep kind of

535
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 1: just like encouraging each other, pushing each other and lifting

536
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 1: each other up. Well, that was going to bring me

537
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 1: to my next point I was going to talk about,

538
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 1: was guilties. Post for that specific challenge was very special

539
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 1: and very unique and actually made me laugh out loud.

540
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 1: It was like, was that one of those accidental the

541
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 1: cameras on front facing and yeah, it was stuck in

542
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 1: my phone and it was like I was taking try

543
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 1: and getting ready to take a picture and it's like

544
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 1: maybe the worst angle of all time. I just got tagged.

545
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 1: I mean not to be like to my own harm,

546
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: but I am so popular because people know I love

547
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 1: like desperate, thirsty and that narcissistic post. A narcissistic post

548
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 1: is like my love language. So I got like nominated

549
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: five times yesterday, like sorry, like so many times, even

550
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 1: like from everyone, and I was like, oh my god, Paul,

551
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 1: I have do a thank you. You know it wasn't

552
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: but anyway, I would um anyway. So then I was

553
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 1: like should I post something? And then I was like,

554
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: my whole life is like a thirsty, beautiful model picture

555
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 1: that is not a great representative of what I really

556
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 1: look like. So I thought I would do it the

557
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 1: opposite way, which was, here's what it looks like after

558
00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: you get a chin lift, and like part of the

559
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 1: fat has been sucked out, but not all of it,

560
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 1: so it kind of blogs up from underneath. Wait, I

561
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 1: have to say this is just a little aside. Kelty

562
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 1: and I did this like little Facebook live thing recently

563
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 1: to like promote the clothing light. And during the whole

564
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: Facebook live we got drunk and all Cultia saying and

565
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 1: she was like, I'm really wondering about this skin right here,

566
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 1: and you just kept like putting your face really close

567
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 1: to the camera, just pulling on the side of your face. Sorry, okay,

568
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 1: but that's Tanya. That's something Tanya would do. So true.

569
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 1: And um, Jack, I wanted to say, I've loved your post,

570
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 1: like showing what it looks like to pose for a

571
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 1: photo versus what it looks like me to So often

572
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 1: I will just work out and I'm like in the

573
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 1: perfect position where my body is like you know, freshly

574
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 1: worked out and looks good. I'm in the right position,

575
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 1: and then like if I relax, I have a roll

576
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 1: hanging over my liking so it's like everyone has, you know,

577
00:30:57,000 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: and I go like, what where where? Did it come from. No.

578
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 1: I actually showed your page to one of my girlfriends.

579
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 1: She has like, literally, she has a little bit of

580
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 1: cellula on her legs. When I say a little bit,

581
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 1: it's like the size of a little like a little dot.

582
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 1: And she's just like she works out so hard and

583
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 1: she eats so clean, and she's like, I just can't

584
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 1: get rid of the cellulite. And I was like, you

585
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: need to look at my friend Jack, and I pull

586
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 1: up your Instagram and I'm showing her on like she

587
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 1: is like a skinny as a needle and she has

588
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 1: cellulate to like, it's just it happened, like we have it.

589
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: It's okay, you know what I mean. And I just

590
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 1: love that you're you have that on your page so

591
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 1: that we can all like show it to each other

592
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 1: and just be like it's fine. Well sorry number one.

593
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: It's like all women have cellulate. That's literally how our

594
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 1: bodies are built. Where the fat lays on top of

595
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: the muscle, where men it's muscle on top of fat.

596
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 1: That's why they never have cellulate. So it's just such

597
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 1: a weird thing that's taboo. Is that science? I have

598
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 1: a science fact that is science. Um No, But it's

599
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: been funny. I've gotten like, well, it's interesting because when

600
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 1: I started doing these posts back in the day, it

601
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 1: was just Becca had called me out because I'm like,

602
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 1: I hate Instagram. Everybody's perfect, blah blah blah blah. And

603
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 1: She's like, Jack, you're literally that person that makes people

604
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: like hate their lives sometimes when you post these pictures.

605
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 1: So I started trying to do the you know, posting

606
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: a little bit of reality, and I had a really

607
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: good response. But now it's become this weird movement. We're

608
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: like fitness people are like jumping in and they're being

609
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: like I have eight ads in this picture, but six

610
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: in this one, and it's kind of like derailing it

611
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 1: a little bit. Well, that was what I was about

612
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 1: to say, is that, like, you guys are still being

613
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 1: annoying doing it because I can't even do a before

614
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:32,320
Speaker 1: and after because they look the same, Like I can't

615
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 1: even fool the camera into being like a bikini model,

616
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So Jack's like, oh my god,

617
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:39,959
Speaker 1: look at me, like with this role on my tummy

618
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 1: and then she's a Victoria's Secret model like mine would

619
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 1: be like role role, there's no like you're number two

620
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: That's not what I'm trying to do. It's like, I

621
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 1: have my body. It's the only thing that I have.

622
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 1: So I'm not going to change fifteen sizes. I'm going

623
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 1: to show you what I look like when I'm posed

624
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 1: versus not posed. It's not to be a gigantic difference

625
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 1: because I'm not photo shopping myself, right, But when you're

626
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 1: like a tall person, that's why models are models and

627
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: they're tall is because like, tall people photographed better, they

628
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 1: can like angles whatever, like it just looks better. So

629
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 1: short people like, there is no angle on a cameras true.

630
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I really like oppose. I really don't have.

631
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 1: I can't. There's literally the most annoying thing is we

632
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 1: were shooting the Express photos the clothing, and like I

633
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 1: am five ft three, and the only people who look

634
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 1: good in clothing and that are five ft three are

635
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 1: Sarah Jessica Parker, who weighs eighty pounds. Like, you just

636
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 1: don't look that good in clothing, so I mean you do,

637
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 1: but like not compared to tall women. So like we're

638
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 1: doing the photo shoot for Express and Kelty and Jack

639
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: of course are both tall, thin women who look great

640
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 1: and everything they put on and then I'm putting stuff

641
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 1: on and some stuff is just like not hitting me

642
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 1: in the right places and blah blah blah blah. And

643
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: Kelty's standing behind the camera like the photographer trying to

644
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 1: tell me how to pose, and I'm like, I promise

645
00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 1: you what you're telling me right now is not going

646
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 1: to change the fact that I'm five foot three, like

647
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: in a normal sized woman. Thank you. Because we were

648
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 1: at Tawny's birthday picnic and Hayley Steinfeld, who's like gorgeous

649
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:11,879
Speaker 1: and tall and skinny, was trying to tell me how

650
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 1: to pose my legs. Oh my god that when she

651
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:18,319
Speaker 1: was doing it, Pet Peeves, it looked like natural, But

652
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 1: when I was doing it, looks like my legs were

653
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:23,439
Speaker 1: like like bent out of how they're supposed to be bent.

654
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,399
Speaker 1: I was like, this isn't it. First of all, she

655
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,879
Speaker 1: was really trying to help me, because you were like

656
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 1: you literally your leg looked like the letter Z like

657
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 1: for some because she was just joined it and she's like,

658
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:37,400
Speaker 1: just lay it out flat. Maybe try laying it out.

659
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,760
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is it's different when you have long

660
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 1: legs versus when you don't. They do different things. They

661
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 1: laid different ways. I understand that way. I do. In

662
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 1: my defense, want to say that I myself nominated myself

663
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 1: to wear flats the whole photo shoot. I wore flats

664
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 1: with all my outfits on purpose to make Becca feel better.

665
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 1: So and it was to sell more clothing because it's quarantine.

666
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 1: And we were like, we can't wear heels because girls

667
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 1: aren't wearing heels right now, so don't even try. I

668
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,359
Speaker 1: also don't need that, Like I also feel fine. It's

669
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 1: just like it takes for somebody, Like anybody who's not

670
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 1: Kelty or Jack's body type is insecure in front of

671
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:20,279
Speaker 1: a camera. Like it's hard to also insecure in front

672
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:24,239
Speaker 1: of a camera. So I think most women are yeah me,

673
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 1: Oh my god. You should have seen Kelty. He was

674
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 1: living her best life. I was like, this is my

675
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:34,360
Speaker 1: worst nightmare of all time. He couldn't have had a

676
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 1: better day that day. Well, Becca, I've seen I've modeled

677
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 1: with you, I've seen our photos. Shall we bring up guys,

678
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:48,760
Speaker 1: first photo, our first time meeting? When was this? What

679
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: this was? You've heard this story? We met? Um god?

680
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 1: I mean was this a mumu shoot? Yes? It was,

681
00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 1: Oh god. Two thousand sixteen I didn't. I did I

682
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 1: text you that photo? Yes, you did. It was it

683
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 1: was a lot of emotions came through me when I

684
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 1: saw that. I remembered how I felt about you that day.

685
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: My first impression Becca Tobin was not warm. You know

686
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 1: what the I'm gonna be on Becca Tobin side right

687
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:19,839
Speaker 1: now because you said that when you and I first

688
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:23,760
Speaker 1: met that I wasn't warm. I was Tanya not warm

689
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 1: exactly now, but I know he shocking feel her heat. No,

690
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,319
Speaker 1: let me tell you. If she's not interested in what

691
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 1: you have to say, I don't care. That's not true.

692
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:38,400
Speaker 1: It's because she was with two people that I was

693
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 1: like so excited to see and I never met Becca before,

694
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 1: and so I was like super excited because I to

695
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 1: see the people that I knew, and I was like,

696
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, try like we have a mutual friend

697
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 1: named Crystal blah blah. But she just wasn't having it.

698
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:52,280
Speaker 1: I was like, I said, we have a mutual friend.

699
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:57,799
Speaker 1: You offered me nothing. We'll talk about that, like Becca

700
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: Tilly talked more about Becka Tobin. Okay, so we've we've

701
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 1: established where the disconnect was. Um, it was just that

702
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 1: she was not expecting to do the shoot all day

703
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 1: and came without knowing what it was going to entail.

704
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 1: I was trying to make conversation. I was a big

705
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:17,879
Speaker 1: Glee fan. I was like stoved to be there and

706
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 1: knew that we were both from the South. I was

707
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 1: like trying to make the connection, probably about Chick fil

708
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 1: A or something. I was trying to make a connection

709
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 1: and that I there was very little to none reciprocation.

710
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 1: Was a tough day for me. I have is this

711
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 1: was it like an influencer photo shoot or like what's

712
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 1: what was the deal? It was themed. I got bamboozled.

713
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: I got bamboozled a little bit, like I wasn't paid. No,

714
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 1: it wasn't paid. You got like free clothes. But honestly,

715
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 1: it was just like a twelve hour day and I

716
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 1: just they kept asking for more photos, set ups, and

717
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:55,879
Speaker 1: I'm like, first of all, I didn't know anybody else

718
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: there either, Like didn't you know a bunch of the

719
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:01,279
Speaker 1: girls Becca, Because it's a lot to the I love

720
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 1: move I would I would do a move Move shoot

721
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 1: for free right now, and I've done them since because

722
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:08,319
Speaker 1: I knew what I was like getting into. But I

723
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 1: was also odd man out, totally odd man out and

724
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,839
Speaker 1: then all these Bachelor girls, and I just remember being

725
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 1: like why why aren't they letting me leave? And like

726
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: how do I get out of here? And also like

727
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,359
Speaker 1: I just had no interest in talking to anybody, like

728
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 1: I was just But I found a photo and outtake

729
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 1: from the What did I send it to you on Instagram? No,

730
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 1: you said to the group checks. I saw it too him. Yeah,

731
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 1: I think it's me and you guys have a separate

732
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 1: group text just with Becca Tobin. Yeah, obviously we had.

733
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 1: We had bunch in New York Girlfriend's Day, that's true. Yeah, yeah,

734
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 1: that was so cute. You guys, they're not feeling it.

735
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:56,400
Speaker 1: Look at my sadness. I'm like, I get paid to

736
00:38:56,480 --> 00:39:04,319
Speaker 1: do the sas in that photo. But then but then

737
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: that was Alie. Ali signed her with the social and

738
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 1: they were they were like talking about how amazing Beka

739
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:16,560
Speaker 1: Tooban is and I was like she must have been

740
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 1: having a bad day or something because I did not

741
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: have the same experience. But anyways, you know, I know

742
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 1: that you can model. Yeah, look at you guys now, girlfriends. Sorry,

743
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 1: a lot of people have that experience with me. I

744
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 1: have a very hard time covering if something's really bothering me.

745
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 1: Like I have a very hard time letting go and

746
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 1: then acting normal. So that's my biggest flaw. Like I

747
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 1: think I would like to say I've changed, that was

748
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 1: probably what ten years ago, four? But yeah, I know

749
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,320
Speaker 1: that face. I've seen it, like to say that I evolved.

750
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: I don't. I really don't. I think it's like that

751
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:54,720
Speaker 1: like kid like you when you're performing as a kid, Kelsey,

752
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:56,879
Speaker 1: do you remember this, Like they would just like make

753
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 1: you do things over and over and over and over again,

754
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 1: and finally you're like, my soul left. I can't pretend

755
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 1: to be joyful anymore. It's gone. See I'm trying to

756
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 1: not in the heart, Okay, I'm trying to remember that,

757
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 1: like I don't have to be overboard and make sure

758
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 1: that everyone likes me. Like I've always tried so hard

759
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 1: to make connections with people, not saying I'm not going

760
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 1: to continue that, but I've since learned that not everyone

761
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,320
Speaker 1: has to like everyone or not everyone has to connect

762
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:29,280
Speaker 1: with anyone right away. So well, even if you try

763
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 1: your absolute best, it's still never going to happen, so

764
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 1: you might also just try. This is also a really

765
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 1: good lesson to not take things personally, like at work

766
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 1: or whatever, Like when you go in a meeting and

767
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 1: someone like is icy to you about your thing, or

768
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:45,879
Speaker 1: you meet someone new and they're icy or whatever, like

769
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 1: it very rarely, like the time has nothing to do

770
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 1: with you. I know, honestly. That's something that I had

771
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:54,839
Speaker 1: to learn very early on in my career because I

772
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:59,320
Speaker 1: used to let other people's stuff like get into my spirit.

773
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: And I learned this trick. Is this like sounds so silly,

774
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:04,920
Speaker 1: but it works like a charm. I would literally sit

775
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:06,479
Speaker 1: in my car before I walked in and I would

776
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 1: sit myself into this like imaginary cocoon and before I

777
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,360
Speaker 1: walked into work so that nobody could say anything and

778
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,120
Speaker 1: it wouldn't penetrate into me. And then I would like

779
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:16,160
Speaker 1: literally leave and I would like unzip the cocoon and

780
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: like take it off of me, and it like actually

781
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:21,239
Speaker 1: really worked. When he was at the height of the

782
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 1: drama on set, you like Jenna and her makeup artist,

783
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 1: Gennashwitz and her makeup artists had this thing because you

784
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 1: sit down in a makeup chair and you're next to

785
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 1: all a lot of other people and there's a lot

786
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 1: of conversations. There's a lot of personalities. So at the

787
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: height of the drama and just people being dicks, Jenna

788
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:38,439
Speaker 1: or makeup artists would have this thing where they would

789
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:40,319
Speaker 1: put themselves in a bubble, like they would do a

790
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 1: whole thing before they started her makeup. And I used

791
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:48,640
Speaker 1: to be like this insane, But there's absolutely there's something

792
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 1: that happens. It's it's placebo, total placebo. And I really

793
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 1: really worked for me, worked for me. Did somebody teach

794
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 1: you to do this or have you just you've decided

795
00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 1: this is your thing on your own. No, Actually, somebody

796
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,840
Speaker 1: that I worked with gave me this advice because I

797
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 1: was just like I don't know what to do, Like

798
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,399
Speaker 1: it's just really like hurting my spirit. Like I feel

799
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 1: like I'm just like all my happy, go lucky it

800
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 1: is going down the drain, and like I don't know

801
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: how to like fight against this. I don't want to

802
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: fight fire with fire, Like what do I do? And

803
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 1: she gave me that advice, and I like, I haven't

804
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,320
Speaker 1: had to do it really anymore since because I feel

805
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,880
Speaker 1: like I haven't had a bad, you know environment in

806
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 1: a while. Thank God, I'm not going to what seeing

807
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: anybody at all, because you've been I don't know. I

808
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: haven't been working from home for now, I mean like

809
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 1: in the past few years. Honestly. Well, sometimes like for me,

810
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 1: I've had to cocoon myself because I felt well for

811
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:37,880
Speaker 1: a long time, I was like the youngest host with

812
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 1: a bunch of like older more not older, like more

813
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 1: senior host seasoned hosts that have been doing it forever.

814
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 1: So the things that I was experiencing for the first

815
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:53,359
Speaker 1: time the Grammys, seeing open, like all these things where

816
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, I'm movie at like

817
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 1: I'd freak out. Then I would look to like my

818
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 1: person and they would be like, you know, and I'm

819
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:05,719
Speaker 1: that person. But when when I was, I was so

820
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 1: exciting for me. And it does it steals your joy

821
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:10,320
Speaker 1: because you're like, wow, this is like I'm really pumped

822
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 1: to be here. Like I'm sorry you don't feel that way.

823
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 1: But then you kind of have to come down to

824
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 1: their disappointed level. And it's nice to zip in and

825
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:18,840
Speaker 1: be like, no, I can still like feel all the

826
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:20,720
Speaker 1: things I'm going to feel, even if this other person

827
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 1: is not feeling like it's a great thing right now

828
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:28,839
Speaker 1: in your career and your life, Kelty, who would make

829
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 1: you feel a level of excitement seeing them lock up

830
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:37,880
Speaker 1: to you on the red carpet. Yeah, probably just Paul Abdul.

831
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:41,760
Speaker 1: I actually just interviewed her like two weeks ago, and

832
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 1: then I realized, like I was just honestly, I got

833
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 1: off and I was like, I need to stop, like

834
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 1: I'm such a psychopath, Like I really just love her

835
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 1: so much Pop Dual. I don't know, Tony, is there

836
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:52,359
Speaker 1: a name one that you're still like? I mean, Harry

837
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 1: Style is probably like, because I just think Harry Styles

838
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 1: is a dreamy and I love his record And I

839
00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 1: don't know. I go in and out depending on people,

840
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:01,560
Speaker 1: But is there anyone that you're still like I want

841
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 1: to meet and excited about? Yeah, like everybody, but now

842
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 1: for the first time, it was like she was our

843
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 1: biggest fan that we've ever had in our entire lives,

844
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 1: and that's us. I was like, I can't believe I'm here.

845
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 1: I can a radio content number one super fan contest

846
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 1: Tanya rad and this was surprised to to podcast with her. Yeah,

847
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 1: it was strange for me, for me who I like

848
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 1: right now? And one of the things that I think

849
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 1: is so great in like the pivoting of celebrities during

850
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 1: quarantine is like I want people who have done the work.

851
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 1: Like I interviewed Andre Leon Tally and like he was

852
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 1: writing this memoir about his life and like he did

853
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:51,800
Speaker 1: the work, Like his story is incredible. He was in school, hustling,

854
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 1: living in London, like breaking into fashion shows, like you know,

855
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,440
Speaker 1: it's just like I want people who did the work,

856
00:44:57,640 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 1: and I want like these incredible stories and I want

857
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 1: you to want to open up like this whole thing

858
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:04,920
Speaker 1: that we've spent all these years where these people that

859
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 1: you love and you're like, oh you, like I want

860
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:08,400
Speaker 1: to talk to you. I want to like have this

861
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 1: conversation and dive deep into your psyche and they're like

862
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:14,919
Speaker 1: very yeah. I do think that there has been a shift.

863
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:16,799
Speaker 1: I do think there has been a shift because I

864
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,799
Speaker 1: do maybe it is because of podcasting is more popular now,

865
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,880
Speaker 1: but I do feel like interviews used to be very surface,

866
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 1: like this is your movie and you play a spider man.

867
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,319
Speaker 1: Do you like spiders? You know what I mean? Like

868
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:29,719
Speaker 1: it used to be very surface, and now I feel

869
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:31,839
Speaker 1: like we're really peeling back and getting to know these

870
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 1: like celebrities that we didn't know anything about in the past,

871
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like don't sit down if

872
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 1: you don't want to open up. No, I was gonna

873
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 1: say the thing with podcasting, it's like you can't get

874
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: away with doing that because I mean, what you guys

875
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 1: are talking about. These interviews are probably like what, three

876
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 1: minutes long, But if somebody's gonna sit down with one

877
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: of us and talk for forty five minutes, it's like

878
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:53,800
Speaker 1: you can't do those surface level answers and they're not

879
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 1: going to translate at all for the listener. And you

880
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 1: know what's interesting when I so, I was like super

881
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 1: stoked to do my hair styles interview because I am

882
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 1: such a fan of his music and I never met

883
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:04,800
Speaker 1: him before, so I was really nervous, like is he

884
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 1: gonna be nice? Is he gonna be like stand offish?

885
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 1: I had no idea what to expect, and it was

886
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 1: for you know, radio, so it was it was supposed

887
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 1: to be short form interview style, and we kind of

888
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 1: just like threw that out the window and had just

889
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:19,799
Speaker 1: like a beautiful conversation and he like really opened up

890
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 1: about a lot of things, and he was so grateful

891
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 1: because I had really you know, spent time with the

892
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,160
Speaker 1: album and really went deep on things, and so he

893
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:30,320
Speaker 1: went deeper, and he added aum. He was only supposed

894
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 1: to perform three songs, and he added a fourth one

895
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:34,759
Speaker 1: because it was my favorite, and so like then the

896
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 1: company was freaking out because he performed an extra song.

897
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:40,000
Speaker 1: So it was just like such a overall like beautiful

898
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:44,319
Speaker 1: experience to play. Yeah, it totally And I'm like I

899
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 1: am now the president of the Harry Styles fan Club,

900
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 1: Like I willand him no, but like now I like

901
00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:52,440
Speaker 1: will go to bath for him at all costs. I

902
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,840
Speaker 1: will support everything that man does. Like you want to

903
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 1: sell a guitar, pick, I will buy it. You know whatever,

904
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 1: cam map, I'm buying it. But I do have like

905
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 1: I think the reason that people are so closed up though,

906
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 1: is because like the press and the media are so

907
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:11,279
Speaker 1: like thirsty for information that's like buzzy. So people are

908
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 1: really tight lipped because they know that if they say

909
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:15,720
Speaker 1: something that comes out of context, it becomes a headline

910
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 1: and then it becomes this whole thing. It's like a

911
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,279
Speaker 1: tough it's a tough thing to ask of people if

912
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 1: they're not naturally open extroverted people anyway, But like yeah,

913
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: if it's like the first time they're doing an interview,

914
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 1: then of course it's going to be like every if

915
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 1: they talk for an hour, it will be reduced to

916
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 1: like a five word headline that has nothing to do

917
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 1: with what they're saying. Dak Shepard was just saying that

918
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:38,759
Speaker 1: he like has told his publicys that he won't do

919
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: any interviews where anything can be like misconstrutor taken out

920
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,400
Speaker 1: of context. So he won't sit down with a reporter

921
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 1: to do like a written piece, like he'll only do

922
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: I guess podcasts in like live interviews or something um,

923
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 1: because there's been so many times that they've like sat

924
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:54,400
Speaker 1: down and done like it's like through the lens of

925
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:56,799
Speaker 1: that journalist. So if they won't he's on Vanity Fair.

926
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 1: If that journalist thinks he's an arrogant dick, the whole thing,

927
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 1: no matter what he is, is going to be through

928
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 1: that lens. So it's like that makes sense to me

929
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 1: because you are at the mercy of one person. Yeah,

930
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: I'm with you a little bit because I am not

931
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 1: a naturally super open person, but I've being like you know,

932
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 1: on the Bachelor and being in this social media space,

933
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 1: I've almost had to be to an extent. But now

934
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 1: it's like choosing what I feel comfortable and safe opening

935
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 1: up about versus what I need to say just to

936
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 1: be relatable to people, if that makes sense for sure.

937
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:34,040
Speaker 1: So it is like a balance, whereas Tonia, like her

938
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:37,280
Speaker 1: natural self is like comfortable opening up and I wish

939
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:39,760
Speaker 1: that I had more of that. But it's like having

940
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 1: to like challenge myself but also be like care for

941
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 1: myself at the same time. No one really cares about

942
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: what I'm doing. But you know that's I think that

943
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 1: the biggest thing. When when you really like look at it,

944
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:55,919
Speaker 1: it's like nobody cares, do you know what I mean?

945
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:58,719
Speaker 1: Like who cares? So somebody puts a headline out about

946
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 1: you up today, gone tomorrow, you know what I mean?

947
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:02,799
Speaker 1: Onto the next one, it's just like yeah, but when

948
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 1: it's directed at you, it is different because like I

949
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:07,399
Speaker 1: could say that, but if it was about me, I'd

950
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: be like so much anxiety and stress. Yeah, yeah, it

951
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 1: is about And there are people who get picked apart.

952
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 1: Like think about Taylor Swift. Every single lyric on her

953
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,440
Speaker 1: album is being picked apart, like people are looking for

954
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 1: meaning in it, and it's like, can't the girl just

955
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 1: write a album like no, get it? Everybody's really passionate

956
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,359
Speaker 1: and she loves I'm sure she loves that, but then

957
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 1: I'm sure there's times where she's like I want to

958
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: do this thing or say this thing, but then people

959
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:33,840
Speaker 1: are gonna like look at it and try to find

960
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 1: a hidden meaning, and then it's just like you, she

961
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 1: probably feels like a little piece of her is getting

962
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:43,360
Speaker 1: stolen with every like accusation and assumption and whatever is

963
00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 1: this about? Joe Jonas. My favorite My favorite thing about

964
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 1: this album is that she came out and she's like,

965
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:53,319
Speaker 1: this is folklore. This is me writing, uh, you know,

966
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:56,799
Speaker 1: as pretending these stories and dreaming up these scenarios and

967
00:49:56,880 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: literally every song is about her life. But is like,

968
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:05,359
Speaker 1: you're the problem. I know when people go and they

969
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 1: like analyze her albums. I mean, I'm not a big

970
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: swifty so I'm not sure how how um upfront or

971
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:14,799
Speaker 1: secretive her lyrics actually are. But like, has she ever

972
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 1: come out being like, oh, yeah, you're right with that

973
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 1: theory or it's everybody just like putting her own meaning

974
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 1: to things. Because I was reading through like some track

975
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 1: list that people are like, oh and this one is

976
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 1: about this experience and this is about Show Jonas and

977
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:29,880
Speaker 1: like this and he's pregnant with a boy. Yeah, and

978
00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:34,400
Speaker 1: they're they're like and then pregnant. Yeah. It's just I'm like,

979
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 1: what this lyric doesn't make sense? Number one, if you're

980
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 1: running with Justin Vernon, none of his lyrics make sense.

981
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 1: So maybe she's just writing like a bunch of fumble

982
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 1: jumble and waiting for people to just Annie is not

983
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 1: buying it. I do know. I don't think it's you

984
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:55,279
Speaker 1: know what I loved in her documentary she did what

985
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:59,359
Speaker 1: miss America, Miss America. She when she was releasing that

986
00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 1: like really a bold political statement that she had never

987
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:05,040
Speaker 1: come forth and had like a political side or anything

988
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:07,839
Speaker 1: or political stance. And when she released it, they were

989
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 1: like the nerves of pressing post and share. And she

990
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 1: was sitting with Tree and it was like they were

991
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: on the couch and she posted and they were like

992
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 1: screaming and like stress and anxiety. I was like, that's

993
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 1: all we all do, every time we do a like

994
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 1: vulnerable post or something that is going to get a reaction. Yeah,

995
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:25,840
Speaker 1: exactly how we feel. I do think there is something

996
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:30,360
Speaker 1: supernarly like when you have that many followers. I could

997
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:33,839
Speaker 1: not even imagine the stress. I wouldn't be surprised if

998
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:37,000
Speaker 1: she does a whole identity change, like Richard Simmons, her

999
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 1: life and like disappears and no one, Yeah, I would,

1000
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:45,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's just exactly where is Richard Simmons?

1001
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 1: Did you listen to them? I haven't. I haven't researched.

1002
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:52,279
Speaker 1: There's a whole podcast finding Richard Simmons, and they won't

1003
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 1: find them. What are you talking spoiler alert? They don't

1004
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 1: find him. He's gone. There is no ending to that podcast,

1005
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,840
Speaker 1: which is really annoying, but it's good. But he's he's missing.

1006
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 1: Where was he last seen this? He used to stand

1007
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 1: outside his house in Beverly Hills because the tour the

1008
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:13,480
Speaker 1: tour buses always knew the routes, like the Star Homes tours.

1009
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:16,279
Speaker 1: He would every single day. The drivers would say that

1010
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 1: he'd come out and wave at the people on the

1011
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 1: buses like it was part of the whole thing. And

1012
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 1: then and then he just quit. He just quit being

1013
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 1: Richard Simmons. And he's still allegedly in the house. The

1014
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 1: police have been there. They say he's fine and he's

1015
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 1: not being held against his will, but like he will

1016
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:32,759
Speaker 1: not come out of the house. He probably just had

1017
00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 1: too much of Hollywood and everything of course, like, you

1018
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 1: know what, I'm out, but I'm not going anywhere. I'm

1019
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 1: just staying right here. But like Taylor loves it, Are

1020
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:43,520
Speaker 1: you kidding? She loves it? She's a three, She's an Honestly,

1021
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:46,680
Speaker 1: my inagram book was like popular three nagrams, and then

1022
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:49,359
Speaker 1: it was like Barack Obama Taylor Swift, like, I don't

1023
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 1: know if she's ever taken the test, but she's definitely

1024
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: a three. Yeah, I definitely, you know, like I'm a nine,

1025
00:52:56,160 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 1: and threes really go out as friends with nines because

1026
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 1: they are the opposite of like needing to get out

1027
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 1: and do things and be productive, whereas nines can. Chris

1028
00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:12,439
Speaker 1: is a nine, my husband's Jared's and nine too. Oh,

1029
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 1: and fins are good. Not to bring it back to

1030
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:20,720
Speaker 1: what we talked about every time we're together, Taylor Swift

1031
00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:25,480
Speaker 1: and you guys just embrace it, embrace who we are.

1032
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:31,720
Speaker 1: It's okay. Yeah, I can talk about Taylor Swift for days,

1033
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,239
Speaker 1: but you know we should talk about actually, um your

1034
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 1: book because I read it. It's called Act Like a Lady,

1035
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 1: and I, you know, I listened to your podcast and

1036
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 1: I'm friends with you guys, so I felt like, I know,

1037
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 1: you know, you pretty well. But I read the book

1038
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:50,719
Speaker 1: and I learned so many new things about each one

1039
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:52,799
Speaker 1: of you, Like I think I individually texted each of

1040
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:54,239
Speaker 1: you as I was reading, because the way it was

1041
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 1: written was like, you know, your individual stories kind of

1042
00:53:56,600 --> 00:54:01,239
Speaker 1: based around a similar topic. Um. But I found out

1043
00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:04,400
Speaker 1: so much more about each one of you and things

1044
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:06,960
Speaker 1: that I hadn't heard before and so and it was

1045
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:09,920
Speaker 1: really really vulnerable. So I commend you really really enjoyed

1046
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:11,920
Speaker 1: the book. So if you guys are listening and you

1047
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:14,400
Speaker 1: need a new read, UM, I highly suggest act like

1048
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 1: a lady. Thank you. And it's sold out. It's some

1049
00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 1: targets I figured out. Are you guys New York Times bestsellers? Yeah? Girl,

1050
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:27,440
Speaker 1: don't you do? Like what's what do you do from here?

1051
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 1: Your clothing line book podcast? You all have had like

1052
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:33,759
Speaker 1: a live show that was so successful, So now you're

1053
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 1: making a movie. What's happening? I mean, Kelty Texas every

1054
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 1: day with like new projects, and I feel like, is

1055
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 1: this it feels like school? Like I think I've seenior

1056
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,520
Speaker 1: ittis because I'm like, wait, we blew it out this year,

1057
00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 1: Like you're telling me I have to go back to

1058
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 1: school in the fall. I'm so bummed out. I know,

1059
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:52,800
Speaker 1: I feel like repeating a grade right now. Yeah. And also,

1060
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 1: teacher Kelty will Um micromanaged the hell out of you

1061
00:54:57,120 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 1: via text message or Instagram d M s. If you

1062
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:02,919
Speaker 1: didn't send her what she needed fast enough, she will

1063
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:05,719
Speaker 1: reply to every other one of your Instagram stories saying

1064
00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:10,400
Speaker 1: where's my picture. That's what we call an accountability part accountability,

1065
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 1: I do that. I'll do that too with Becca. Like

1066
00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 1: if if she's not texting me back something and she's

1067
00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 1: posting on Instagram, I'm like, hello, hello, look your phone.

1068
00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 1: Well my whole thing is like I'm now because of quarantine.

1069
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 1: Like I'm like eight till fiving lady gang, you know

1070
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 1: what you mean. So I'm like, I get up in

1071
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:26,319
Speaker 1: the morning and then I do lady gang all day.

1072
00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:30,000
Speaker 1: And when it's a Ja Jack block, I call it

1073
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:32,799
Speaker 1: like a jack block, right, Like it's a roadblock. That's

1074
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:34,839
Speaker 1: the only person that can get me around it. I'm

1075
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:38,200
Speaker 1: the gate Kack the jack block, and Jack lives on

1076
00:55:38,239 --> 00:55:40,200
Speaker 1: her own schedule. So we are two separate people in

1077
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 1: the fact that I am a see the list, do

1078
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:45,320
Speaker 1: the list, and she's gonna see the list. Wait until

1079
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 1: the last popsible moment before it's do. She's the person

1080
00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 1: doing her school work on the school bus on the

1081
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:51,759
Speaker 1: way to class. I'm the person who did it as

1082
00:55:51,760 --> 00:55:53,880
Speaker 1: soon as they got home from school yesterday. You know

1083
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:57,359
Speaker 1: what I mean. There's uh you know, I think I'm

1084
00:55:57,360 --> 00:56:00,400
Speaker 1: a nice hybrid because I'm not super ain, but I'm

1085
00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 1: also not wait to like Yeah, I just I like

1086
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:09,239
Speaker 1: thrive on that last eleventh hour, like I asked. To

1087
00:56:09,280 --> 00:56:11,840
Speaker 1: procrastinate or else will take me ten times longer. So

1088
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:15,040
Speaker 1: I'm going to wait until the end. Yeah. So I

1089
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:17,080
Speaker 1: get to a Jack block and there's nothing else I

1090
00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:19,640
Speaker 1: can do that day because everything depends on Jack sending

1091
00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:22,160
Speaker 1: me the photo, and I'm just sit there waiting. And

1092
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 1: then when she's like, look at me watching a crime

1093
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:29,320
Speaker 1: documentary and I'm just like, nope, no, today I'd started

1094
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:31,520
Speaker 1: dm ng her. I'm like, I'm off the clock. Now,

1095
00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 1: time to get drunk. Companies like nope, sure I can

1096
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:39,360
Speaker 1: find you wherever you are. Yeah, I'd hide. I'd hide

1097
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 1: her from those stories. Jack. I would accidentally have beck

1098
00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:45,359
Speaker 1: A Tobin blocked on my stories for a long time,

1099
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:48,000
Speaker 1: and I never knew it was so pocked up. I

1100
00:56:48,080 --> 00:56:50,960
Speaker 1: was like, oh my God, We're like going to block

1101
00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 1: somebody from seeing one of my stories. And I'm like, okay, here, here,

1102
00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:56,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go do it. And it's like one person

1103
00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 1: blocked from viewing story because it was so rude, so rude.

1104
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:04,760
Speaker 1: That is amazing. I can't believe that wasn't Becca blocked

1105
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:08,319
Speaker 1: for mine too after the moon move. Shoot wait, there

1106
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 1: was something else that I wanted to talk to you

1107
00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:15,400
Speaker 1: about the book, but you for years after that? Shoot? True?

1108
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:18,360
Speaker 1: You know I went there and then I was like,

1109
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 1: she's not going to call me out, but she did.

1110
00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:24,840
Speaker 1: Were you so excited when she finally followed you? Yeah?

1111
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 1: I felt like a moment it because you're so alike you.

1112
00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 1: You guys have like a very like Becca Becca Tobin

1113
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:39,439
Speaker 1: um one point oh and Becca Tilly one point. Oh.

1114
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:42,919
Speaker 1: We're like two completely opposite ends of the spectrum. Oh

1115
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 1: you've met in your old We met in the middle yeah,

1116
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 1: our old age, Yes, you're old age. In our middle age? Oh? No,

1117
00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 1: are we middle aged? Are we middle aged? Really? No?

1118
00:57:57,560 --> 00:58:00,280
Speaker 1: She's not forty yet. Isn't forty middle age? I feel

1119
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:05,240
Speaker 1: like fifties middle age? No, we're not just Sardinia zac

1120
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:07,959
Speaker 1: Efron's show says Sardinia's want a blue zone where you wait,

1121
00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:12,080
Speaker 1: were you gonna say something important? Because I have something

1122
00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:14,680
Speaker 1: to say about zac Efron show. I know. I watched

1123
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 1: it yesterday too. Kelty came on the podcast this week

1124
00:58:17,520 --> 00:58:20,800
Speaker 1: and was like, you guys have got to watch zac

1125
00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:24,560
Speaker 1: Efron show on Netflix. I love zac Efron. Okay, well,

1126
00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 1: I watched it and I was like, he couldn't have

1127
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:32,280
Speaker 1: become more unattractive to me. I agree, I agree, there's something.

1128
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 1: There's something going on. He has the male actor energy.

1129
00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:39,760
Speaker 1: He has the male act Did you see him as

1130
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:42,560
Speaker 1: Ted Bundy because that was truly disturbed? Yes, I did.

1131
00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:48,959
Speaker 1: He was honest. Um, No, there's something. I think it's

1132
00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:52,080
Speaker 1: like this thing that male actors have that they need

1133
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:54,440
Speaker 1: to be liked and they need to be seen as

1134
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 1: like cool, down to earth normal. So like he's like

1135
00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:01,040
Speaker 1: making it a point to always call out the cameraman

1136
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:03,160
Speaker 1: and the crew, and like, I worked with a guy

1137
00:59:03,200 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 1: like this and they're all the same. It's all about

1138
00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:08,919
Speaker 1: like the optics. They're not doing it because they're the cool,

1139
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:10,880
Speaker 1: fun guy. They're doing it because they want everybody to

1140
00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:16,520
Speaker 1: walk away from that experience being like zac Affron. And

1141
00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 1: then like, yeah, I disagree. I think Zafron bathing in

1142
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 1: a hot spring in Iceland was a highlight of my quarantine.

1143
00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:28,000
Speaker 1: So I think I enjoy that he looks hot, but

1144
00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:31,600
Speaker 1: there's something about his his energy is like thirst. Yeah.

1145
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:33,600
Speaker 1: Might I might not have I might not watch it.

1146
00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:35,840
Speaker 1: I don't want to have a different view on him.

1147
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:40,400
Speaker 1: I love you think you're attracted him. I'm very attractive

1148
00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 1: to him. I mean he's hot. Just don't meet what

1149
00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:51,760
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like he's no devtel no, no. But I

1150
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:54,920
Speaker 1: just feel like some sometimes when I see someone in

1151
00:59:54,920 --> 00:59:57,240
Speaker 1: that element and their personality is just not what you

1152
00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 1: want it or think it will be, that turns me.

1153
01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:04,040
Speaker 1: But it's something that Becca picks up on because she

1154
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:09,640
Speaker 1: knows that act and she's like inside, I didn't like,

1155
01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:12,840
Speaker 1: oh my god, he's so down to earth like I was, like,

1156
01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:16,440
Speaker 1: he's so friendly. Look at him giving the papaya to everyone. No,

1157
01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 1: it's okay, Well I'm not gonna be able to watch

1158
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:21,360
Speaker 1: it now because I'm only going to be thinking because perspective. Sorry,

1159
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 1: I ruined everything for everyone. If you have a notable,

1160
01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:28,080
Speaker 1: just burned your card again and zac Efron simultaneously. You

1161
01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:34,320
Speaker 1: can't burn the car. You can't. It's my it's my placebo.

1162
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 1: It's too powerful. You can't burn them in this episode

1163
01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:40,920
Speaker 1: of Scrubbing in the just the little marker page on Instagram.

1164
01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:46,080
Speaker 1: Just be me and Beccatellian our cardigans, O God, I

1165
01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:49,040
Speaker 1: would love that. I'll send you one. We can do

1166
01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:51,600
Speaker 1: a photoshop that we look like we're standing next to

1167
01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:53,960
Speaker 1: one another. I have a photo in one too. You

1168
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:55,600
Speaker 1: can be in it, Tanya, but yours will be like

1169
01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:58,560
Speaker 1: black and white like no, Tanya's just has to be

1170
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 1: borrowed from Becca. What if? What if? What if we

1171
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:07,160
Speaker 1: made knockoffs easy? I mean, they look like they're from cargo,

1172
01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:11,720
Speaker 1: so don't let them get in your Hand'm gonna find

1173
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:13,440
Speaker 1: one on an Amazon right now. Back up, can you?

1174
01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:16,520
Speaker 1: And let's get the star things to put on the elbow. Yeah,

1175
01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:22,160
Speaker 1: that was also Kelty players. Taylor folded those herself, wrapped

1176
01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:25,960
Speaker 1: him with love. She broke the card and then mailed

1177
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:30,480
Speaker 1: them out up. She's like over over achievement for you,

1178
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:38,000
Speaker 1: over for you. She had a little orgasm. She said,

1179
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:41,360
Speaker 1: this one's Rebecca, this one's my favorite, and then she

1180
01:01:41,440 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: said this one is for Keelty. This one's my favorite. Wow. Guys. Wowie, wowee, wowee.

1181
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:50,560
Speaker 1: Tanya is so upset right now, her face upset, so upset,

1182
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:54,680
Speaker 1: just like it's it's fine. Um, Well, we got a

1183
01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:57,880
Speaker 1: notification that you all have a heart out at and

1184
01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 1: do you know why why? Therapy? Oh? I just recently

1185
01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:06,560
Speaker 1: started therapy, so I know the importance about and last

1186
01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:08,800
Speaker 1: week I had to cancel. I had it a little emergency.

1187
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:10,880
Speaker 1: And so I it's been two weeks and I'm starting

1188
01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:14,320
Speaker 1: to get a little randy. So I got it. Doesn't

1189
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:19,000
Speaker 1: randy mean horny. I have another toy you can use

1190
01:02:19,040 --> 01:02:23,040
Speaker 1: instead of a therapist. Yep. I need, I need to

1191
01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 1: talk about my feelings hard out. This is what putting

1192
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:29,000
Speaker 1: yourself first looks like. That's true. But before you guys go,

1193
01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:30,440
Speaker 1: I do want to say I really enjoyed in the

1194
01:02:30,480 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 1: book the pages that you guys dedicated to your faces

1195
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:36,240
Speaker 1: and exactly what you've done to your faces, because that

1196
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:39,880
Speaker 1: was so freaking funny. I literally was like peeing myself.

1197
01:02:42,400 --> 01:02:49,960
Speaker 1: Transparency right now, that's down same same. Well. Um, we

1198
01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 1: love you guys, thank you all for being our national

1199
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 1: Girlfriend's Day episode, and just thank you for being our girlfriends.

1200
01:02:56,560 --> 01:03:00,280
Speaker 1: So um. Definitely check out their express line, where can

1201
01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 1: everybody buy that? Express dot com? Express dot com And

1202
01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:06,080
Speaker 1: a lot of things are selling out like in weird

1203
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:08,480
Speaker 1: in the sizes, so get over there now. And then

1204
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:10,520
Speaker 1: the books act like lady, it's be alable everywhere target

1205
01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 1: right now, which is exciting. So wow, great New York

1206
01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:17,400
Speaker 1: Times bestseller scribing like a lady. What will they do next?

1207
01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 1: Ladies to scribed? We love you guys, you bye guys. Alright,

1208
01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:39,960
Speaker 1: those girls just the best. I love them, I love them,

1209
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 1: love them like sisters. I love that you went on

1210
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:44,760
Speaker 1: their podcast. Is like the biggest fan girl ever. That's

1211
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:48,480
Speaker 1: so funny. You know. What's what's so funny about that too,

1212
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 1: is like uh Kelthy messaged me after and um or

1213
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:55,440
Speaker 1: this was like a few months after I went on

1214
01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:57,480
Speaker 1: their podcast, and she was like, I just want you

1215
01:03:57,520 --> 01:04:00,919
Speaker 1: to know that your episode was in our top three

1216
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:03,840
Speaker 1: most listened to. I don't know. They get some sort

1217
01:04:03,880 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 1: of then diagram or I don't know, some sort of

1218
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:09,160
Speaker 1: diagram of like their downloads or whatever, and she I

1219
01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:13,000
Speaker 1: don't know what it. Yeah, definitely not a vent diagram,

1220
01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:15,880
Speaker 1: but um you know, and it was like right underneath

1221
01:04:15,960 --> 01:04:18,120
Speaker 1: like all these like big name celebrities and she's like

1222
01:04:18,200 --> 01:04:20,840
Speaker 1: just so you know, like just because because we're in

1223
01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:24,040
Speaker 1: the podcast, we're talking about how like Kelsey has been

1224
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:26,120
Speaker 1: following me for years, and I was just like, I'm

1225
01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:27,520
Speaker 1: a nobody, you know what I mean. And so she

1226
01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 1: was like really encouraging and sent me just like a

1227
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 1: really sweet text, and I thought that was really cool

1228
01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:33,520
Speaker 1: of her. They don't have to tell me that, you know,

1229
01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:37,280
Speaker 1: like that's their information. I love that. I do. I

1230
01:04:37,360 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 1: love that love them. Um, Okay, we're gonna do an email.

1231
01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:44,040
Speaker 1: Mark you have a good email I do with an

1232
01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:48,040
Speaker 1: anonymous one. After hearing the latest episode and listening to

1233
01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:49,840
Speaker 1: the time you opening up about Red Star in a

1234
01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:53,000
Speaker 1: situation going through divorce and having kids, I totally can relate,

1235
01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:55,280
Speaker 1: which is why I'm writing to you both today. I

1236
01:04:55,400 --> 01:04:58,040
Speaker 1: need your perspective and advice. I have been with my

1237
01:04:58,120 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 1: boyfriend for almost three years, and I've never been so

1238
01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:03,439
Speaker 1: in love in my entire life. My boyfriend has kids

1239
01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:06,040
Speaker 1: from a previous relationship. They were never married, and I

1240
01:05:06,120 --> 01:05:08,880
Speaker 1: still haven't met them yet. I also haven't met his

1241
01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:11,760
Speaker 1: family yet. A few times I've brought up meeting his

1242
01:05:11,880 --> 01:05:14,200
Speaker 1: kids and his family, he keeps telling me he's not ready.

1243
01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:16,600
Speaker 1: I have no doubt in my mind about how he

1244
01:05:16,640 --> 01:05:18,520
Speaker 1: feels about me and our future together. And I know

1245
01:05:18,640 --> 01:05:20,400
Speaker 1: me not meeting his family and his kids is not

1246
01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 1: representative of where we are going in the future or

1247
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 1: how he feels about me. I've learned to become so

1248
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:28,960
Speaker 1: patient with the situation and I truly respect his decision

1249
01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:31,280
Speaker 1: and know when the timing is right, it will happen.

1250
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:35,520
Speaker 1: Am I thinking about this wrong? Am I crazy? Anonymous?

1251
01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:41,520
Speaker 1: I'm concerned. I'm a little concerned. Three years is a

1252
01:05:41,640 --> 01:05:46,800
Speaker 1: long time to not meet anyone his family, the kids thing.

1253
01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:50,640
Speaker 1: I after a certain I totally get like being very

1254
01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:55,160
Speaker 1: careful about that, but three it's like, where is this

1255
01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:58,480
Speaker 1: going at this point? And the kids, Yes, you want

1256
01:05:58,520 --> 01:06:01,880
Speaker 1: to be cautious, but his parents, Prince, I assume that's

1257
01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:05,240
Speaker 1: what you mean by family, parents, brothers, sisters. Three years.

1258
01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:11,680
Speaker 1: I feel like he's hiding you. Yeah, it's hard. It's

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01:06:11,760 --> 01:06:15,240
Speaker 1: hard for me because I feel like I would not

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Speaker 1: be able to last three years me personally, because I do.

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Speaker 1: I think that is a little bit of like a

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01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 1: trigger for me in terms of like I don't want

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01:06:22,880 --> 01:06:25,840
Speaker 1: to be made feel like I'm a secret and I

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01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:28,480
Speaker 1: don't like that, and that's been hard for me even

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01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 1: in my current situation. But I have to also you

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01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:35,720
Speaker 1: have to respect the perspective and the life season that

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01:06:35,840 --> 01:06:38,200
Speaker 1: like your partners in and let them go at the

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01:06:38,240 --> 01:06:41,640
Speaker 1: pace that they feel is right for them and because

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01:06:41,680 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 1: of their past experiences. So I think what really needs

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01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:47,440
Speaker 1: to happen is like you have to have And I

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01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:50,080
Speaker 1: think the thing that's helped me in my relationship is

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01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:53,760
Speaker 1: we're just super super communicative. So like I just tell

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01:06:53,880 --> 01:06:57,400
Speaker 1: him my expectations and what I want, and he tells

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01:06:57,440 --> 01:07:00,520
Speaker 1: me his expectations and what he wants, and find some

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01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:04,000
Speaker 1: sort of middle ground that makes us both feel heard

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01:07:04,280 --> 01:07:07,280
Speaker 1: and comfortable. Um, because you know, you can't have it

1277
01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:09,600
Speaker 1: either one of you can have it your way all

1278
01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:12,120
Speaker 1: the time. So if if not meeting them for three

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01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:15,120
Speaker 1: years is making you really upset, then like that's not

1280
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 1: okay and he needs to know that. Yeah, because personally

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01:07:19,160 --> 01:07:22,200
Speaker 1: for me not meeting the family, I want to. I

1282
01:07:22,280 --> 01:07:24,880
Speaker 1: want to care so much about the actually the actual

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01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:27,000
Speaker 1: act of meeting the family, Like that wouldn't make me

1284
01:07:27,120 --> 01:07:31,840
Speaker 1: feel insecure anything. It's the why, Like why are you

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01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:35,160
Speaker 1: not wanting to especially if they live in the same city,

1286
01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:39,400
Speaker 1: because if they're distance it's like, Okay, maybe they're hesitant

1287
01:07:39,480 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 1: to meet her. There's something I don't know, but I

1288
01:07:41,800 --> 01:07:45,080
Speaker 1: do have there's a little like beeper going off in

1289
01:07:45,200 --> 01:07:49,040
Speaker 1: my head that feels like something I don't know. Yeah,

1290
01:07:49,080 --> 01:07:53,240
Speaker 1: because honestly, I even, uh, for like a while now,

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01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:54,800
Speaker 1: I have been saying that, like I don't want to

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01:07:54,840 --> 01:07:57,880
Speaker 1: interduce anybody to my parents until I'm engaged, and that

1293
01:07:58,120 --> 01:07:59,920
Speaker 1: like when I met Red Star that obviously when I

1294
01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:01,640
Speaker 1: the window, you know what I mean, because like I

1295
01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:06,600
Speaker 1: introduced him to mine and so, um, maybe he has

1296
01:08:06,720 --> 01:08:11,960
Speaker 1: that same thing. I don't know, but he he should

1297
01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:14,400
Speaker 1: be able to communicate that to her. If that's his reasoning,

1298
01:08:14,480 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 1: then I think she wouldn't have any questions or worries

1299
01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:19,439
Speaker 1: because she would be like, Okay, I know that he's

1300
01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:21,680
Speaker 1: waiting until he's engaged to someone, and if that's me,

1301
01:08:21,800 --> 01:08:24,160
Speaker 1: then I'll meet them then. But three years is a

1302
01:08:24,280 --> 01:08:29,880
Speaker 1: long time to not have an answer of why or

1303
01:08:30,240 --> 01:08:34,840
Speaker 1: when it might happen. Three years is a long time, yeah,

1304
01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:39,000
Speaker 1: because I've been in a relationship for two over two years,

1305
01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:44,960
Speaker 1: and I mean, yeah, but my family doesn't live here,

1306
01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:51,320
Speaker 1: that's true, That is true. Um, So yeah, I don't

1307
01:08:51,360 --> 01:08:52,880
Speaker 1: know I don't know what my advice is. I guess

1308
01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:55,960
Speaker 1: maybe just communicate to him like, hey, I respect you,

1309
01:08:56,120 --> 01:08:58,479
Speaker 1: and I respect your time and you having kids, but

1310
01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:01,439
Speaker 1: I just want to know what the reason is why

1311
01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:06,000
Speaker 1: you're not ready, because that's a vague answer. Yeah, And honestly,

1312
01:09:06,080 --> 01:09:09,080
Speaker 1: I really think communication, Like it's weird because I think

1313
01:09:09,120 --> 01:09:14,240
Speaker 1: I've been overly communicative in this relationship. But um, communication

1314
01:09:14,479 --> 01:09:17,360
Speaker 1: is such the key because it's like, you only see

1315
01:09:17,400 --> 01:09:18,960
Speaker 1: things from your perspective, do you know what I mean?

1316
01:09:19,040 --> 01:09:20,920
Speaker 1: Like you're coming into it from your perspective and what

1317
01:09:21,120 --> 01:09:25,040
Speaker 1: you want, and when you hear their perspective and where

1318
01:09:25,040 --> 01:09:26,600
Speaker 1: they're coming from and things that they've dealt with in

1319
01:09:26,640 --> 01:09:29,519
Speaker 1: their past, it does you can empathize a little bit

1320
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Speaker 1: with that, you know what I mean, and so and

1321
01:09:31,280 --> 01:09:33,720
Speaker 1: then you can kind of meet in the middle and

1322
01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:36,559
Speaker 1: feel good about that, whereas like right now, you don't

1323
01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:41,759
Speaker 1: feel good about it, and so that's a problem. I agree. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that helped, just to give

1325
01:09:45,080 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 1: you some perspective how long that has been. Remember the

1326
01:09:47,400 --> 01:09:50,240
Speaker 1: grace Anatomy finale where there was that explosion and this

1327
01:09:50,439 --> 01:09:52,320
Speaker 1: last time we saw Stephanie and she had the little

1328
01:09:52,320 --> 01:10:01,360
Speaker 1: girl with her that was three years ago. Wow. In terms, um, yeah,

1329
01:10:01,520 --> 01:10:05,879
Speaker 1: I would just communicate sometimes. Communication like really it solves

1330
01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:09,200
Speaker 1: things quicker than you would even realize, just saying what

1331
01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:13,920
Speaker 1: you're thinking and feeling. So just like in fact that

1332
01:10:13,960 --> 01:10:16,599
Speaker 1: even in a relationship for two years blows my mind.

1333
01:10:16,680 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 1: Still me too, honestly, Who am I? Who is she?

1334
01:10:22,479 --> 01:10:25,400
Speaker 1: Who is she? I mean beac attilly, never thought I'd

1335
01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:29,120
Speaker 1: see the day. We are going to pump Springs next weekend.

1336
01:10:30,080 --> 01:10:33,840
Speaker 1: We're going to the Villa Royal that you stayed before. Yes,

1337
01:10:34,160 --> 01:10:38,200
Speaker 1: it is so nice and so cute, and they do everything.

1338
01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:40,679
Speaker 1: They're doing everything very safely, like I felt very safe.

1339
01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:44,960
Speaker 1: It was very sanitary. Um and just like such a

1340
01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:48,479
Speaker 1: good vibe. I'm so pumped for a weekend getaway with

1341
01:10:48,560 --> 01:10:52,120
Speaker 1: my bff. So cute. Should we drink when we do

1342
01:10:52,200 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 1: the podcast? Absolutely down through their drink, through their drink

1343
01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:04,680
Speaker 1: or just drink the whole podcast either either or the

1344
01:11:04,800 --> 01:11:07,160
Speaker 1: truth or drink adds an element because I think we're

1345
01:11:07,200 --> 01:11:10,240
Speaker 1: doing it in the afternoon, so it's like five o'clock somewhere,

1346
01:11:11,960 --> 01:11:14,040
Speaker 1: so we will be there. Shout out to the Villa

1347
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Speaker 1: Royal for having us. We cannot wait, um, Happy National

1348
01:11:17,720 --> 01:11:21,759
Speaker 1: Girlfriend's Day. You're all our girlfriends and we're so thankful

1349
01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:25,040
Speaker 1: for you. So um, celebrate with your girls, whether it's

1350
01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:29,480
Speaker 1: virtually or if you're in a you know, quarantine quarantine

1351
01:11:29,600 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 1: pod together, Quarantine quarantine together, um, or just text or

1352
01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:37,000
Speaker 1: call each other and let your girls know how much

1353
01:11:37,040 --> 01:11:39,080
Speaker 1: you love them and appreciate them. Same with the guys.

1354
01:11:39,320 --> 01:11:41,600
Speaker 1: Know you have some girlfriends in your life too, let

1355
01:11:41,680 --> 01:11:44,559
Speaker 1: them know, let them know. Um, we love you guys

1356
01:11:44,760 --> 01:11:48,400
Speaker 1: and we will see you next weekend. Make sure you

1357
01:11:48,439 --> 01:11:51,759
Speaker 1: get the tickets for the virtual hangout. They're very limited,

1358
01:11:51,880 --> 01:11:55,760
Speaker 1: and don't forget to check out our merch um. They

1359
01:11:55,960 --> 01:11:59,559
Speaker 1: have so many cute gifts you could give a gift

1360
01:11:59,720 --> 01:12:02,760
Speaker 1: to your friend on National Girlfriend's Day. I can't think

1361
01:12:02,840 --> 01:12:06,320
Speaker 1: of a better gift, um, And don't forget with limited supplies,

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01:12:06,400 --> 01:12:09,679
Speaker 1: you will get the little scrubbing in scrubber. And there's

1363
01:12:09,760 --> 01:12:11,960
Speaker 1: nothing that says I love you more than a scrubbing

1364
01:12:11,960 --> 01:12:15,960
Speaker 1: in Turkish towel. It's true. I have mind in my

1365
01:12:16,040 --> 01:12:17,960
Speaker 1: car at all times, like just ready to go for

1366
01:12:18,040 --> 01:12:21,760
Speaker 1: picnic Scalore. You are the picnic Queen. I'll take that

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01:12:21,880 --> 01:12:26,800
Speaker 1: title and um, so check that out at um my

1368
01:12:27,080 --> 01:12:30,960
Speaker 1: fan threads dot com slash scrubbing in um check out

1369
01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:33,320
Speaker 1: that we also restocked the hats, so check those out

1370
01:12:33,439 --> 01:12:35,639
Speaker 1: and we will see you next time. Love you guy,