WEBVTT - Flash Back to Yung Bleu, Jason Wilson, Classic Ask Yee and more 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:05.280 The fool kid Time time, time to wake up Jack 0:00:05.480 --> 0:00:08.879 Fancile Charlott, I mean the Doctor to practice club bitches, 0:00:09.360 --> 0:00:12.160 the voice of the culture. People watch The Reckface Club 0:00:12.200 --> 0:00:15.000 for like news and really be tuned in. It's one 0:00:15.000 --> 0:00:17.560 of my favorite shows to dude, just because y'all always 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:19.800 keep you one hundred y'all keep it real. They might 0:00:19.840 --> 0:00:22.239 not watch the news, but they're on Twitter, they're on Facebook, 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:25.320 they're you know, they're listening to the Breakfast Bus. Get 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:31.280 your ass, wake up, wake up, Wake y'all as your 0:00:31.320 --> 0:00:35.200 time to get it off your chat, your man or blass. 0:00:35.280 --> 0:00:37.960 We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hello, 0:00:38.080 --> 0:00:45.080 who's this? Good morning comedy buddy, and oh man, what's 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:50.159 up snack Man our local comedian? How you doing all right? 0:00:50.240 --> 0:00:52.360 All right? I got let me let me try, let 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:55.000 me run two, Let me run two by you, okay, 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:59.440 let me know what you all right? Two jokes and 0:00:59.480 --> 0:01:03.720 begin Okay. At my job, I had to spend twenty 0:01:03.760 --> 0:01:10.760 five minutes getting to work with Eloy the indoor robot. Okay, 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:13.399 but I think there should be a twenty five minute 0:01:13.520 --> 0:01:17.800 video on how to work to snack manut up, thank you? 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:21.680 Why he had two jokes, Envy, I didn't hit either 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:24.440 one here, how do you do that? Okay, come on 0:01:24.600 --> 0:01:28.560 stat man, and he's gonna love this one. I decided 0:01:28.600 --> 0:01:32.160 to steal my new card and that's not the best part. 0:01:33.280 --> 0:01:36.399 My new car has a backup camera. So on my 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:40.560 last date, while we were in the park, I decided 0:01:40.600 --> 0:01:44.800 to put the car in reverse, get out, and do 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:49.800 my stand up routine behind it. Thank you all right, Emmy, 0:01:50.160 --> 0:01:53.360 that one was for you. Thank you. SNA send snack 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:59.840 healing energy, sending his comedy career healing energy. He's trashed 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:04.880 for real like bad bads, send them healing energy NV. Hello. 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:10.800 Who's this? Oh? My name a Bert of Hey, good morning, 0:02:11.280 --> 0:02:14.400 Oh my god, I'm gonna hi guys. I've been doing 0:02:14.440 --> 0:02:18.480 them like I trying to take them. You made it ja? 0:02:18.520 --> 0:02:22.959 How old are you? Thirty three? Oh? Okay, well, I 0:02:23.120 --> 0:02:25.040 know right, it sound like I'm like fourteen. I know. 0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:28.280 I just love y'all. I just feel like y'all st 0:02:28.480 --> 0:02:30.880 like I'm trying to fresh rate it. So they got 0:02:30.919 --> 0:02:34.280 my babies going back to school, their sticks and pay 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:37.880 like they can't get back to me. Yeah, it's scary 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:39.920 when my kids, my kids went back. I mean, the 0:02:40.000 --> 0:02:42.120 kids are all wearing masks now and they're comfortable with 0:02:42.160 --> 0:02:44.240 the mask, which is which is pretty good. And my 0:02:44.360 --> 0:02:46.359 kids when they leave a house they got their mask on. 0:02:46.400 --> 0:02:49.000 They're so nervous, but it's one of the things you 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:51.400 just gotta pray, tell them to wear their mask and 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:55.160 wash their hands every chance they get. You ain't. Oh 0:02:55.240 --> 0:03:00.960 my god, I'm not. I love y'all, love you back. Hello? 0:03:01.040 --> 0:03:07.560 Who's this every one? Jason good b oh Man? Well, 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:12.200 I just got a house felt be in ten years. 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:16.960 We closed from the house, um earlier this year, only 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:22.560 for her cheat on me a month later. Oh I'm sorry. Yeah, Um. 0:03:22.919 --> 0:03:26.280 We got two kids, two dogs. Um. Now the question 0:03:26.320 --> 0:03:28.760 is what do I do next? Oh man? And the 0:03:28.800 --> 0:03:32.639 house is in both of your names, correct, yeah, yeah, 0:03:33.040 --> 0:03:35.720 And there's no working it out. I mean there is, 0:03:35.800 --> 0:03:38.560 because I truly do you love her, But it just 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:41.440 seems like there's that tension now and and everything's just 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:46.800 meeting to an argument and it's not saying yeah, sorry 0:03:46.840 --> 0:03:49.320 for you, bro. Yeah, you gotta just take your time 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:51.360 with that one until you see what's gonna happen. But 0:03:51.400 --> 0:03:53.640 it is harder now that two guys have a house 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:57.280 that Jill have like a pre nupper or anything. Oh, 0:03:57.320 --> 0:04:00.480 you're not married? Yeah? And she apologetic? Is she trying 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:02.080 to work it out? Or is she just like effic 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:05.560 she is? Um? But I mean, I don't know if 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:08.680 it's me and my insecurity where you know, it seems 0:04:08.720 --> 0:04:11.920 like those fread flags year and yet there and now 0:04:11.960 --> 0:04:15.640 it's just it's it's hard because I happened to hear 0:04:15.720 --> 0:04:19.440 one um and we got through, we got passed, and 0:04:19.480 --> 0:04:23.440 then along your ten and it happened to get Oh, 0:04:23.520 --> 0:04:26.080 it sounds like she's a habitual cheater. Is there a 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:27.680 way that you can buy her out of her part 0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:30.160 that she put down for the house? I'm so all 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:33.080 about it, But I mean it's it's the kids. I mean, 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:36.360 we got two kids, and then I would essentially lose 0:04:36.400 --> 0:04:38.400 everything in the house for kids. I worked a lot. 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:42.720 She did she take the kids? Yeah? All right, Well 0:04:42.720 --> 0:04:47.000 I'm sorry, bro. Yeah, just keep right. Yeah, that's all. 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:49.440 You ain't got no choice, brother. The world keeps moving, 0:04:49.600 --> 0:04:51.680 and it's okay to feel however you feel. I know 0:04:51.720 --> 0:04:54.000 it's not an easy thing to deal with, all right, 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:58.599 all right? Brother? Hello, who's this? Hey? This is a 0:04:58.760 --> 0:05:01.880 trailer from Columbus High. Good morning, man, what's up? Broke 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:05.480 it off your chest? Well, I'm calling this plander, y'all 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:08.080 because a lot of else Flanders is what Angela e. 0:05:08.560 --> 0:05:11.200 You gotta quit being cheap and just pay for your leader. 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:14.520 Every time you don't get good and talk about some stuff, 0:05:14.880 --> 0:05:16.800 your phone go off because you don't pay for your meter. 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:19.240 For your meter. Well, I am paying for my meter. 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:22.119 That's why the that's why the phone goes off, because 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:24.160 it has certain times that you gotta pay for it. 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:26.760 So as soon as it starts as either eight o'clock 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:29.000 or nine o'clock, my phone goes off to remind me. 0:05:29.040 --> 0:05:31.360 So I don't forget. There's parking lots all around this place. 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:33.480 You could park in a parking lot. It's actually really 0:05:33.520 --> 0:05:35.600 far and it's too early in the morning. There used 0:05:35.600 --> 0:05:37.279 to be a parking lot right across the street and 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:39.760 it closed, so now the other ones at fire. It's 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:42.320 kind of dark in the morning to walk here, So 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:44.240 I don't want to park like three blocks away and 0:05:44.240 --> 0:05:47.360 then walk here in the dark. I understand. I understand. 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:51.040 And Charlemagne, man, you gotta question. You gotta question the 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:53.080 N words so much, and you gotta come to work 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:55.440 on time. You were doing good for a while, but 0:05:55.480 --> 0:05:58.000 you gotta come to work on time. I feel you, brother, 0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:00.680 I'm trying. I'm just doing my best, but get it 0:06:00.760 --> 0:06:03.360 off your chests. Eight five eight five one on five one. 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:11.840 It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. It's 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:13.680 your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:15.800 man or blast. So you better have the same and 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:17.960 we want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:21.440 Hellow who's this? Hey, it was going on. My name 0:06:21.520 --> 0:06:24.960 is James. James. What I'm getting off your chest? Just 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:27.960 found out my daughter is in mind biologically, and I'm 0:06:27.960 --> 0:06:30.840 going through a lot of emotions right now. How old 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:33.080 she had a homeboy that happened to back in the day? Man, 0:06:33.520 --> 0:06:37.000 how old is she? Yeah, she'll be turning a couple 0:06:37.000 --> 0:06:40.200 of weeks. Well, I'm gonna tell you something. There's no 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:43.080 getting out of her life now. I know that sounds crazy, 0:06:43.120 --> 0:06:45.240 but it's true. Like I had a homeboy that happened too. 0:06:45.279 --> 0:06:49.080 But once you have that emotional spiritual connection with a child, 0:06:49.200 --> 0:06:50.800 like you know you're not you're not you can't turn 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:54.000 that off. Yeah, most definitely not. That's always my baby girl. 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:57.120 What made what made you get tested? Well? I didn't 0:06:57.160 --> 0:07:01.719 have the resources before because on child support going back 0:07:01.720 --> 0:07:04.720 and forth, but my daughter's mom. But I got a 0:07:04.720 --> 0:07:07.440 new job, so I was able to scramp up the 0:07:07.520 --> 0:07:10.760 money and actually do this time. Well, I'm sending you 0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:13.480 healing energy, King, and just remember that's not that child's fault. Man. 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:15.000 And you know you gotta look at it from on 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:17.920 a different angle. You know, you're the person that God 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:20.440 putting her life to raise them and be her father figure. 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:22.320 You know what I name. I didn't even think about 0:07:22.320 --> 0:07:24.400 it like that. But you don't gotta pay child support 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:25.760 no more. You can just raise and pay what you 0:07:25.760 --> 0:07:28.520 want to pay. Correct. I don't know, Nah, I think 0:07:28.960 --> 0:07:31.480 according to New York State, I got to them. Yeah, 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:34.400 I think you still have to pay. Yeah, but I 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:36.360 think honestly, man ten years old, you've been with that 0:07:36.440 --> 0:07:38.640 young lady ten years, you probably want to you know, 0:07:38.800 --> 0:07:40.120 you might not want to pay the mother though, you 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:42.560 might just want to take care of his daughter exactly. 0:07:42.840 --> 0:07:45.200 It's a weird law though, that even though you find 0:07:45.200 --> 0:07:47.320 out a child's not yours, you've been raising her as 0:07:47.320 --> 0:07:49.080 if she is yours, and then you still have to 0:07:49.120 --> 0:07:53.160 continue to pay child support. Yeah, what was her biological 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:57.520 father king, no clue. See, that's that's my point. That's 0:07:57.520 --> 0:07:59.240 why I say, you know, God put you in that 0:07:59.320 --> 0:08:02.960 young lady's for a reason. Man, So yeah, agree, should 0:08:03.000 --> 0:08:06.760 that position down? He shouldn't have to pay y'all support though, Yeah, 0:08:06.800 --> 0:08:09.440 I shouldn't, not, not at all. I'm looking into lawyers 0:08:09.480 --> 0:08:11.840 now so I can try and tempare in this situation. 0:08:12.000 --> 0:08:13.720 I'll always be there for her, but I don't want 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:16.320 to supbout her mother. Absolutely agree with you too, brother, 0:08:16.400 --> 0:08:18.120 I get it all right, man, have a good one, man, 0:08:18.160 --> 0:08:23.000 God bless your brother. All right. Hello, who's this? Hello? 0:08:23.200 --> 0:08:25.800 I just want to say, he said, blood, Good morning everybody, 0:08:26.160 --> 0:08:29.960 john Stone? What was happening? Brother? What's up? Charlotte made 0:08:29.960 --> 0:08:35.079 a guard? What's up? Angela? You don't never speak? But 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:41.000 what's up? Speak? Hey? I just want to shout out 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:42.720 my four real quick. He just came out with a 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:45.520 new project. His name is patient Steve on the score, 0:08:45.840 --> 0:08:51.640 he's patient obviously follow him on by h A, I 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:57.280 C I A M Steve spe v E underscore and 0:08:57.720 --> 0:08:59.600 uh what I want to sell y'all? The story? So 0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:03.280 coming off the train and woof Ridge and I come 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:05.000 off the train and I see a black dude on 0:09:05.000 --> 0:09:06.880 the platform, I say, what's up? I give him the 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:09.080 head nod, like when black people see each other, we 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:11.280 give each other at the head nods. Right, Harry, you 0:09:11.320 --> 0:09:14.280 gave me the head nod and start smiling at me, crazy, 0:09:14.720 --> 0:09:17.720 what's my dad? No? But it was a crazy smile. 0:09:17.800 --> 0:09:21.280 It was like like, hey, like I want hollyge smile. Listen, 0:09:21.360 --> 0:09:23.320 Shan Starting, don't get down that way? Man, are you 0:09:23.360 --> 0:09:25.559 Sean Stone? Why can't you just take it as a 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:28.559 COMPI why are you furrntee yourself as Shan Stone? Or that? 0:09:28.760 --> 0:09:32.240 I listen. But the matter of fact is I went 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:34.839 down to when I look behind me, this dude it's 0:09:34.880 --> 0:09:37.720 following me. So I said, hey, why are you following me? Man? 0:09:38.160 --> 0:09:40.880 He was like no and then ran back up stairs 0:09:40.880 --> 0:09:44.959 and how long the traine crazy? I mean, you shouldn't 0:09:44.960 --> 0:09:47.400 be winking that. Brothers on the train for the platform, y, 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:49.679 I didn't win. I say, what's up? I head now, 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:54.160 head nod. That's not a wink, Brokat's just just be fladdered. Yeah, 0:09:54.200 --> 0:09:58.600 just be flattered. It ain't was cute, all right, Get 0:09:58.600 --> 0:10:01.040 into a few chances eight hundred five A five one 0:10:01.040 --> 0:10:02.520 on five one if you need to be here and 0:10:02.600 --> 0:10:05.640 something now with the Breakfast Club. Good morning the Breakfast 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:12.320 Club on. Everybody is DJ MG and Ngelu yee Charlomagne, 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:14.160 Ni guy. We all to Breakfast Club. We got a 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:17.760 special guest in the building. Yes, sir, Yo know Yolo. 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:19.480 I don't know why I thought you was heavy set, man, 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:23.520 I didn't. I did hit. I saw pictures of you 0:10:23.559 --> 0:10:24.839 and video back in the I don't know why I 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:26.599 thought you was heavy. Said you lean down to some 0:10:26.760 --> 0:10:32.360 of you just never that big. No. I We're good 0:10:32.360 --> 0:10:35.720 to meet you. Yeah, and congratulations, man, you've been doing 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:38.640 so many great things. So the pandemic has been good 0:10:38.640 --> 0:10:42.280 for you though, right like man, yeah, yeah, like it's 0:10:42.280 --> 0:10:45.040 been great for me. I ain't. I can't playing really, 0:10:45.360 --> 0:10:47.199 I'm telling me about this the other day. Sometimes people 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:50.640 be feeling bad that like things went well for them. Yeah, yeah, 0:10:50.679 --> 0:10:53.160 I can't realize. You know, I can't really celebrate something 0:10:53.200 --> 0:10:55.600 like that. But you know, you know, it's a blessing. 0:10:55.640 --> 0:10:58.000 It's a blessing for sure, to keep getting money through 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:02.520 everything going on, what you're suffering from, like survivor's survivor's 0:11:02.520 --> 0:11:06.960 remorse kind of, I mean not really, it's just that, 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:10.080 you know, I just know what ill went on, you know, 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:12.920 throughout throughout that time. It's just like it was really 0:11:12.920 --> 0:11:16.920 about like my financial game for real, Like too many 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:20.360 people hurting too meet. I get it. I get it 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:22.520 for people who don't know. Let's let's let's break down 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:24.000 how Young Blue got into the industry. A lot of 0:11:24.000 --> 0:11:25.720 people heard you the first time when you when you're 0:11:25.760 --> 0:11:27.800 record with Drake, So how did you get in the industry? 0:11:27.840 --> 0:11:30.160 How did you hook up with Bootsey and and explain 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:33.640 that whole story. I got into industry like, you know, 0:11:33.960 --> 0:11:36.760 just dropping mixtapes like I was underground for a long time, 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:41.160 or I had this Investments Investments mixtape. I was just 0:11:41.240 --> 0:11:44.480 dropping doing shows like just throughout the software, like you know, 0:11:44.640 --> 0:11:46.360 everybody from the soft really start. I was like in 0:11:46.480 --> 0:11:51.480 the Mississippi North, in the Carolina Fiebe. Yeah, you know 0:11:51.520 --> 0:11:54.920 what I'm saying, like chilling circuit. And around the time 0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:58.000 I've dropped the Volume three, I had made Boots he 0:11:58.000 --> 0:12:00.520 had flew me out to his house, and uh, I 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:02.439 really just took it from there for real. One of 0:12:02.480 --> 0:12:04.719 your mixtapes was like, yeah, this young man let me 0:12:04.760 --> 0:12:08.079 fly them out now? Really his uh, like I had 0:12:08.160 --> 0:12:11.280 hit up his brother. Uh I knew Booster gonna c 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:14.760 d M. So I had hit up his brother smart. Yeah, 0:12:14.800 --> 0:12:16.800 and I just sent him a song and he was like, man, 0:12:16.960 --> 0:12:19.600 got me on the phone with Booster and uh So 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:21.440 it's basically like it brought to put it together. Really, 0:12:21.679 --> 0:12:24.559 you signed a boosty Yeah, yeah, I didn't know that. 0:12:24.559 --> 0:12:26.520 I found that out about a month ago. Yeah. We do. 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:28.520 We we been as part of us. We do bets together. 0:12:28.960 --> 0:12:30.199 You gave him some money or something, right then you 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:32.000 give him like a big stack. Yeah, I gave him 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:33.840 some of them. I gave him playing that just the 0:12:33.840 --> 0:12:36.640 first time idea camera. Yeah, why did you do that? 0:12:36.720 --> 0:12:38.360 Like I mean, I mean just had of appreciation, but 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:40.679 really because that was the first time I had a 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:43.680 game him that much at one time. So I don't 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:46.120 know if I just already eating off you anyway, You're 0:12:46.120 --> 0:12:49.679 already eating off you anyway. Yeah. Now, you've been doing 0:12:49.760 --> 0:12:52.400 music for a while, since you were young, So what 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:55.320 were you doing financially, like to keep yourself afloat until 0:12:55.400 --> 0:12:58.679 things really popped off? Uh Man, To be honest, but 0:12:58.880 --> 0:13:00.640 like a lot of people don't know, I've really been 0:13:00.760 --> 0:13:03.680 rich since like twenty sixteen, Like you know what I'm saying, 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:05.920 because I've just been doing shows so long, like I've 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:08.800 been popping on the underground scene for so long that 0:13:09.000 --> 0:13:11.200 you know that I've been been had money like that, 0:13:11.440 --> 0:13:13.240 I'm like kind of way ahead, like you know what 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:17.000 I'm saying, So I don't even remember, like what what was? 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:18.920 Like what do you call rich when you say rich? 0:13:19.080 --> 0:13:21.120 I had already had made a million lots of shows 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:23.199 like in twenty seventeen. Okay, you know what I'm saying, 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:24.480 because I was just you know what I'm saying, just 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:26.520 doing so many shows. I'm so glad you said shows 0:13:26.640 --> 0:13:28.880 because most artists be like I've been having money, I've 0:13:28.920 --> 0:13:31.560 been rich. I was big time such as Touch doing 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:34.760 it knock it off. But you built your own house 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:37.520 early on. And you know, most most artist and rappers 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:39.680 you don't see that. You know, they go to jewelry route, 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:43.079 the car route, the private jet route. And I went 0:13:43.120 --> 0:13:46.600 through that stage. I went through that stage. I feel 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:49.840 like everybody gonna you're gonna once you blow up everything 0:13:49.960 --> 0:13:52.480 you saw when you was coming up, You're gonna try 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:54.680 to go get that just because it's like I ain't 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:57.080 never had I always wanted this. I'm gonna you're gonna 0:13:57.120 --> 0:13:59.240 go through that list stage where it's just like, yeah, 0:13:59.280 --> 0:14:01.160 I'm gonna go get all this stuff that I always 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:03.280 wish I had. You know what I'm saying. But if 0:14:03.280 --> 0:14:05.760 you're smart, once you once you do it, you know 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:07.320 what I'm saying, you don't know when to stop. Some 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:09.040 people don't know when to stop. They're just gonna keep 0:14:09.080 --> 0:14:11.400 doing to keep doing, keep doing it. And then you 0:14:11.440 --> 0:14:15.760 know what I'm saying, Yeah, you opened the restaurant also, right, 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:18.160 I did that like a couple of years ago. Yeah, 0:14:18.280 --> 0:14:20.520 and then I had opened it for like three months 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:24.400 and then COVID hid and just missing mess it up 0:14:24.400 --> 0:14:26.560 for real and they really I really just did it 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:29.160 to have something my city because he't really a lot 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:31.120 of profit and it's like probably like list than ten 0:14:31.160 --> 0:14:34.000 percent profit and the rest of his life stealing man 0:14:34.120 --> 0:14:37.320 like it be. You're so right when you open the restaurant, 0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:39.360 you really got to keep your eyes on everything and 0:14:39.400 --> 0:14:41.320 you have to have an amazing manager because it is 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:44.400 too easy for people to steal. Myself, is it back 0:14:44.440 --> 0:14:49.440 open or No? I had like hired like all my family, 0:14:49.600 --> 0:14:55.640 all my friends. It was you will make it. No, 0:14:55.720 --> 0:15:00.360 matter an't even you know, I tried to, you know 0:15:00.400 --> 0:15:02.480 what I'm saying. I had did the little Peppe thing 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:05.680 and Burke I had got a hundred thousand back. I 0:15:05.800 --> 0:15:08.600 put it about the work man. Later I was like, 0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:12.200 I should have kept you pay back. You didn't have 0:15:12.240 --> 0:15:17.440 to because you gotta use it for your employees. I 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:18.800 don't want to say, I don't want to see that 0:15:18.880 --> 0:15:22.080 much shot blue, like damn Blue, I ain't. I ain't 0:15:22.080 --> 0:15:23.480 paying it back yet. But I didn't have to though. 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:25.520 It was like whatever. It was like, you didn't have 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:28.320 too if it went to your business with your employee. Yeah, yeah, 0:15:28.400 --> 0:15:34.280 my so mine actually went to my employees because it 0:15:34.320 --> 0:15:36.520 was your mother's best friend though who named the resta 0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:39.560 right after explain that relationship, Like, I'm really close with 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:42.760 my friend Mom, like ever since we was like real little. 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:44.080 I used to get put out of the house, like 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:46.200 being bad in the streets and stuff. I used to 0:15:46.280 --> 0:15:47.520 go to the house, you know what I'm saying. They 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:50.840 used to work for me open, so they just like 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:53.760 they mom just like my people, like we just all 0:15:53.840 --> 0:15:56.240 like family. So you know, she always used to cook, 0:15:56.320 --> 0:15:58.120 she us feed us when we were hunger, Like you 0:15:58.120 --> 0:16:00.240 know what I'm saying. So I just felt he was 0:16:00.240 --> 0:16:02.000 on the right. Like my mom donna cook. You know, 0:16:02.080 --> 0:16:04.760 she don't really cook like that. So uh, it was 0:16:04.840 --> 0:16:06.720 just why would she put you out the house? What 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:09.080 were you doing? I was just like when I was 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:11.960 like young, I was just like, you know what I'm saying, 0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:14.480 just badges in the streets, real real badge. So I 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:17.920 just do crazy stuff, like you know, just some normal, 0:16:18.040 --> 0:16:20.680 normal look crazy stuff. We have more with the autist 0:16:20.680 --> 0:16:22.360 Young Blue. When we come back, don't move. It's to 0:16:22.360 --> 0:16:28.520 breakfast Club. Good morning, the breakfast club holding everybody is 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:32.160 DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Scharlomagne, the guy we are the 0:16:32.160 --> 0:16:34.400 Breakfast Club was still kicking it with Young Blue. Ye 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:36.400 your girl want to go on a girl's tip of 0:16:36.480 --> 0:16:38.680 her friends? Yeah, okay, are you the type of person 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:40.200 to be like, all right, I got you? Like you 0:16:40.240 --> 0:16:42.800 and your girls go somewhere. I think that's what she 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:46.920 go on the girl's trip once every six months or something. 0:16:47.360 --> 0:16:49.040 You know what I'm saying. My life is a ball chill. 0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:51.640 I got a week, I got a lady. You know 0:16:51.640 --> 0:16:52.960 what I say. I got you know what I'm saying, 0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:56.880 And everywhere everywhere I go, going to release parties. I'm 0:16:56.920 --> 0:17:00.640 going to everywhere. I'm going just fine women around you 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:02.720 know what I'm saying, So you'll be fine. Black men 0:17:02.720 --> 0:17:05.600 don't cheat. Yeah, And how long how long have you 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:09.600 been together? How you've been together? You've been together six years? 0:17:09.600 --> 0:17:11.960 You got two kids? Two kids together? Huh yeah, we 0:17:11.960 --> 0:17:13.720 got two kids. Does it feel good to have somebody 0:17:13.720 --> 0:17:15.520 that you know, been down with you since before all 0:17:15.520 --> 0:17:18.440 that stuff? Yeah? Yeah, I definitely, I definitely feel good. 0:17:18.520 --> 0:17:21.480 Like I cherished that, like I really cherished, like you 0:17:21.520 --> 0:17:23.280 know what I'm saying, the relationship because a lot of 0:17:23.440 --> 0:17:24.960 a lot of the other stuff just fake. You know 0:17:25.000 --> 0:17:27.520 what I'm saying, It's really just just fake, Like these 0:17:27.560 --> 0:17:30.119 people don't really care about you, like you you gonna 0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:32.720 get locked up right now, like your girl gonna be 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:35.000 first one now with rich kids. You know what I'm saying. 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:36.480 For the bill you are, you know what I'm saying. 0:17:36.720 --> 0:17:38.840 A lot of the other girls ain't even they just 0:17:39.240 --> 0:17:42.480 but like I said, it's just it's just be temptation. 0:17:42.560 --> 0:17:44.800 Like dudes, like I really don't feel like I really 0:17:44.840 --> 0:17:47.160 go all the way back to the Bible, but like 0:17:47.280 --> 0:17:50.160 you know what I'm saying, do you tell about eight. 0:17:50.520 --> 0:17:54.480 I feel like it's human instinct, man instinct to just 0:17:54.920 --> 0:18:02.679 be out of blue. Though we left this house already, 0:18:02.720 --> 0:18:06.879 we still Oh my god, I really ain't making it 0:18:06.920 --> 0:18:11.080 worst because blue be white. No, I'm saying it's just 0:18:11.720 --> 0:18:14.159 me and like me and instinct like its just mean, 0:18:14.440 --> 0:18:18.639 it's put into me and to be like if you 0:18:18.680 --> 0:18:21.760 got I don't got the men things I'm gonna talk 0:18:21.800 --> 0:18:23.960 about it. I used to have those instincts way way 0:18:24.080 --> 0:18:27.040 way way way back when well he's a lot younger. 0:18:28.880 --> 0:18:30.840 I feel like if you should had a lot to yourself, 0:18:31.000 --> 0:18:34.200 then I feel like you making it worse, like man 0:18:34.320 --> 0:18:36.600 my girl and not already talked about all this man 0:18:36.720 --> 0:18:42.160 my life to talk about y'all do three now? We don't. 0:18:42.160 --> 0:18:45.119 We don't, we don't. So you was mad atory for 0:18:45.600 --> 0:18:48.040 doing your song a while ago? Yeah, why was you 0:18:48.080 --> 0:18:55.320 madatory for that reason? Like you know, when we talked 0:18:55.320 --> 0:18:56.920 about on that, he was like, they're green. I was like, 0:18:56.960 --> 0:18:58.760 I don't get it because I come from the mixtape 0:18:58.760 --> 0:19:02.440 game with rappers somebody's song on be singing to somebody's song, 0:19:02.480 --> 0:19:04.040 and that's what they did and it was on the 0:19:04.560 --> 0:19:05.959 But you was mad about it. Why was you mad 0:19:06.000 --> 0:19:08.439 about that At the time, I just felt like I 0:19:08.480 --> 0:19:10.320 had I had saw him like a couple of times 0:19:10.320 --> 0:19:13.439 before that, and he never said nothing to me. So 0:19:13.480 --> 0:19:15.080 I felt like in my head, I felt like he 0:19:15.119 --> 0:19:17.359 didn't even know me. So when I heard the song, 0:19:17.400 --> 0:19:19.840 I'm like, you just you just saw him. At least 0:19:19.840 --> 0:19:20.960 you could have been like, you know what I'm saying. 0:19:20.960 --> 0:19:23.000 I met with the song, like I felt I took 0:19:23.040 --> 0:19:25.800 it as disrespect, you know what I'm saying. It wasn't 0:19:25.800 --> 0:19:28.400 that he remixed the song or that it was better 0:19:28.440 --> 0:19:32.359 than well, you know what. He didn't even say. Yeah, 0:19:32.400 --> 0:19:35.960 I just wanted. I just wanted. We were talking crazy 0:19:35.960 --> 0:19:38.040 to each other through texts. We were in Miami. He 0:19:38.160 --> 0:19:39.760 was like, man, I was like, man, pull up. You 0:19:39.760 --> 0:19:42.679 know what I'm saying. Yeah, like the fight, I'm like, 0:19:42.760 --> 0:19:44.280 pull up, you know what I'm saying, And he like 0:19:44.400 --> 0:19:45.840 pull up. I'm like he was like, he was like 0:19:45.840 --> 0:19:47.600 where you wait. I'm like, I'm sitting on my location. 0:19:47.680 --> 0:19:50.120 You know what I'm saying, la la, So I'm waiting 0:19:50.119 --> 0:19:52.280 for him. Pull up. He like, man, pull up, pull 0:19:52.359 --> 0:19:54.520 up to my house. I know, bro. We both just 0:19:54.680 --> 0:19:56.639 in a moment like don't want to bang down, you 0:19:56.680 --> 0:20:00.240 know what? I'm saying, and so I pull up. We 0:20:00.400 --> 0:20:02.960 dap it up, hit homeball with him, my homeball with me. 0:20:03.200 --> 0:20:05.280 We just go scrape to making music. You're like, man, 0:20:05.640 --> 0:20:08.200 I feel he ain't even like he ain't really even 0:20:08.240 --> 0:20:11.439 like trying to be like you were tripping for really like, man, 0:20:11.640 --> 0:20:14.760 I feel man, he was like laughing about it for real, 0:20:14.920 --> 0:20:16.800 all that tough talk of a text. Maybe you read 0:20:16.800 --> 0:20:18.160 it wrong, you know how it could be like pull 0:20:18.240 --> 0:20:21.080 up or it could be like pull up. Yeah, we 0:20:21.160 --> 0:20:23.040 were definite. We were definitely going back and forth. We 0:20:23.119 --> 0:20:25.919 just started started off like that, and then I guess 0:20:26.400 --> 0:20:27.879 I ain't really know what I'm gonna have a real 0:20:27.920 --> 0:20:29.840 I just pulled up because I ain't want him, you 0:20:29.840 --> 0:20:31.520 know what I'm saying, just like I was, you know 0:20:31.560 --> 0:20:42.240 what I'm saying, No a sucker. Yeah, Like it's the 0:20:42.280 --> 0:20:46.040 breakfast club. Good morning, So breakfast club, your morning's will 0:20:46.160 --> 0:20:50.920 never be the same. Hey what up? Y'allas dj MV Charlaman. 0:20:51.080 --> 0:20:53.760 There's so much to see and learn on TikTok. Some 0:20:53.840 --> 0:20:56.000 woman talking about a particular type of mushroom that she 0:20:56.080 --> 0:20:57.919 found in the forest and then she shows how she 0:20:57.960 --> 0:21:00.080 cooks it. That video was crazy. You can learn. You 0:21:00.080 --> 0:21:02.160 can be in the team. You can get it on tiktop, 0:21:02.320 --> 0:21:12.439 discover it for yourself. It's topic time called eight hundred 0:21:12.440 --> 0:21:14.159 five eight five one five one to join it to 0:21:14.240 --> 0:21:17.719 the discussion with the Breakfast Club talk about it wanting 0:21:17.760 --> 0:21:21.480 everybody is DJ Envy and Toela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. 0:21:21.560 --> 0:21:23.800 We are the breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us, 0:21:24.040 --> 0:21:26.760 we're talking about Sawheedie. This conversation came from Saweetie. She 0:21:26.800 --> 0:21:29.359 posted a video of her eating spaghetti and putting ranch 0:21:29.440 --> 0:21:32.080 dressing a lot of ranch dressing on her spaghetti. Ranch 0:21:32.080 --> 0:21:34.959 with spaghetti saw us taste very good, but you just 0:21:35.000 --> 0:21:38.000 need to da have a ranch like her boyfriend said. Okay, 0:21:38.119 --> 0:21:42.800 she put way too much ranch dressing on that spaghetti directly. 0:21:42.880 --> 0:21:44.840 I've never putting it on directly. I have a little 0:21:44.880 --> 0:21:47.560 side salad, have ranch dressing on the side salad. As 0:21:47.600 --> 0:21:49.520 I'm eating, I'm mixing the spaghetti up with the salad 0:21:49.560 --> 0:21:51.800 at the same time. And it does taste good. Sounds 0:21:52.200 --> 0:21:55.439 she just put way too much on that. Now behind 0:21:55.440 --> 0:21:57.480 the scenes, I don't know if you do this too, Yea. 0:21:57.720 --> 0:22:00.800 They talk about they take French fries, get a frosty 0:22:00.880 --> 0:22:03.600 from Windy. Nope, no, no, no, you just don't want 0:22:03.600 --> 0:22:06.800 any French fries. You get the fries from Windy and 0:22:06.880 --> 0:22:09.160 you get the biggest, the milkshake, the thick ass what's 0:22:09.160 --> 0:22:11.080 it called it called the frosty, That's what I said. 0:22:11.080 --> 0:22:15.760 And you dipped the fries in the frosty. Oh my god, 0:22:13.960 --> 0:22:20.800 that that sounds really nasty to me. Like my fries, 0:22:21.520 --> 0:22:25.000 so I cannot imagine them and something cold. Look at 0:22:25.240 --> 0:22:27.000 my grandma, God blest it. My grandma used to love 0:22:27.040 --> 0:22:28.840 to go to Windy, choose to like Windy's hot fries. 0:22:28.840 --> 0:22:31.159 And I don't even know how I even started doing that, 0:22:31.200 --> 0:22:33.640 but I'm telling you. You dipped them fries into that 0:22:33.640 --> 0:22:36.440 that frosty. Oh my god. I don't even like cold 0:22:36.520 --> 0:22:39.400 ketchup on my fries. My ketchup got to be room temperature. 0:22:39.600 --> 0:22:41.639 And I'm from I'm from Monks Corner, South Carolina, so 0:22:41.680 --> 0:22:44.840 I like ketchup on my grips. You ever did that? Yeah, 0:22:46.280 --> 0:22:48.320 I'm gonna tell you one thing, one thing I was 0:22:48.320 --> 0:22:50.520 really into for a minute. I was making these sandwiches 0:22:50.560 --> 0:22:52.840 every morning. Were not every morning, but every day. It 0:22:52.960 --> 0:22:57.800 was spicy mustard, cheddar cheese and green apple sandwiches. That 0:22:57.880 --> 0:23:01.879 sounds disgusting into this. I can't believe y'all don't put 0:23:01.920 --> 0:23:03.199 catch up on your grid. So you ain't even put 0:23:03.240 --> 0:23:05.679 catch up on your grids. Well, I'm gonna catch up 0:23:05.720 --> 0:23:08.800 love like that. Hello, who's this? Good morning? And apple 0:23:08.960 --> 0:23:12.640 from Columbus so high? How are you apples that popular? 0:23:12.680 --> 0:23:16.199 Apples are popular this morning? So what's the weird thing 0:23:16.200 --> 0:23:18.359 you do with your food? First of all, I'm half 0:23:18.359 --> 0:23:21.160 to tire and hot sos, cheese and branch for loans. 0:23:21.560 --> 0:23:24.760 Forget period. There's no questions ask about that. How much ranch? Though? 0:23:24.800 --> 0:23:27.520 Should we put a little too much on this? No, 0:23:27.760 --> 0:23:30.000 that's how I'm gonna eat it, exactly how she did it. 0:23:30.000 --> 0:23:33.760 But I asked you the hot so wow thing I 0:23:33.800 --> 0:23:37.080 do would be on salmon patties. I'll put ketch up 0:23:37.119 --> 0:23:41.160 the syrup on salmon, put up and catch up definitely, 0:23:41.200 --> 0:23:46.200 though Salman on salma patties, Talma patties, I put ketch No, 0:23:46.240 --> 0:23:48.399 I never served, I've done. I've definitely done catch up 0:23:48.400 --> 0:23:52.080 on the salmon patties, not sirve, that's both sounds discussions. 0:23:52.520 --> 0:23:54.840 So you're mixing life. Try it. I said, I was right. 0:23:54.920 --> 0:23:57.800 You couldn't say though, to try try it, Yount say, 0:23:57.800 --> 0:23:59.160 I don't like it. Hey, I'm gonna tell you something 0:23:59.200 --> 0:24:01.080 to you take them sam patties with some grits and 0:24:01.119 --> 0:24:05.119 put that ketchup on the Lord have mercy, right, all right, 0:24:05.359 --> 0:24:09.240 I'm gonna try. Thank you. Mama, got my goddamn mouth water. Hello? 0:24:09.280 --> 0:24:13.879 Who's this? What's up? Bro? We're talking about some some 0:24:13.960 --> 0:24:16.040 weir those stuff you do with your food. Man. I 0:24:16.040 --> 0:24:18.760 eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich with showy jelly, 0:24:18.920 --> 0:24:21.320 bail egg. Cut the egg up, the ball egg up 0:24:21.400 --> 0:24:24.560 here on the sandwich. You're eating the peanut butter, jelly 0:24:24.560 --> 0:24:27.880 and egg sandwich, your bold egg sandwich. Gotta be bored 0:24:27.960 --> 0:24:32.000 and cut it up. That might sound if for some reason, 0:24:32.040 --> 0:24:35.440 I feel like that would take good scramble No it dog, 0:24:36.880 --> 0:24:39.520 Uh no it doesn't. Yeah, you can put eggs on 0:24:39.520 --> 0:24:42.159 top of the burglar. You ain't got time. Yeah, sometimes 0:24:42.160 --> 0:24:45.000 it might be better with scrambled I never thought about that. Yeah, 0:24:45.000 --> 0:24:47.320 the eggs and listen, by the way, egg sandwiches be hitting, 0:24:47.320 --> 0:24:49.240 But you got to toast the bread. Toast the bread 0:24:49.280 --> 0:24:52.200 with some scrambled eggs lightly lightly didn't feel like the 0:24:52.480 --> 0:24:54.359 white bag on it. That was the whole thing on 0:24:54.400 --> 0:24:56.679 the poll. Yeah yeah, I'm with you now, I'm with 0:24:56.760 --> 0:24:59.280 you all right, thank you brother. I know my cousin 0:24:59.400 --> 0:25:00.879 used to eat catch I'm saying with just like he 0:25:01.040 --> 0:25:04.840 liked catch up and bread like that was his one cousin. 0:25:04.880 --> 0:25:09.040 I hope your cousin got out of poverty. Man, that's 0:25:09.080 --> 0:25:12.200 what That's what he liked that used to catch it. 0:25:13.600 --> 0:25:17.120 Good morning, How y'all doing this? Kid? Jay? Dad? Hey? 0:25:17.160 --> 0:25:20.480 Shot the man? My man? Hey this this They ain't hey, 0:25:20.600 --> 0:25:23.960 ain't man hey? If he don't be man man, you're 0:25:23.960 --> 0:25:26.720 my guy. Man. But I just wanted to say spaghetti 0:25:27.080 --> 0:25:29.640 and ranch man shot maybe on the same plage any time. 0:25:29.720 --> 0:25:34.120 Man's cultural, man, that is good. It is many And 0:25:34.160 --> 0:25:36.879 if you don't they say some things it don't be cultural, 0:25:36.960 --> 0:25:39.840 like y'all don't do y'all eat anything that's like like 0:25:40.080 --> 0:25:42.280 I like, I eat ships and I grew up down 0:25:42.400 --> 0:25:49.440 shot used to cook it and I hated don't wait 0:25:50.600 --> 0:25:52.679 but you ain't dad, I don't know. I don't know 0:25:52.680 --> 0:25:55.119 how you black or they don't like well, if you 0:25:55.160 --> 0:25:57.600 don't even like spaghetti, I don't like ranch. I don't 0:25:57.760 --> 0:26:00.720 listen the only time I've ever tried any other is 0:26:00.720 --> 0:26:03.919 when I'm on diet and they got that balsamic vinegarrette 0:26:03.960 --> 0:26:08.439 tone the diet yet, But I don't do I like 0:26:09.400 --> 0:26:12.680 spaghetti if no, no, no, Norman, no nothing nothing with 0:26:12.760 --> 0:26:14.359 red sauce. I'm gonna be onng with you. I don't know. 0:26:16.000 --> 0:26:19.040 And did not eat spaghetti? Spaghetti? Was you meal that 0:26:19.160 --> 0:26:21.399 your mama would make when she didn't feel like cooking? 0:26:23.200 --> 0:26:26.840 He doesn't like the red sauce, so I mean for 0:26:26.880 --> 0:26:29.480 me it was kraft matter you don't like, you just boiled. 0:26:29.520 --> 0:26:31.199 My mom made that fast when when when when you 0:26:31.200 --> 0:26:33.639 talk about a quick meal, my mom made that and 0:26:33.680 --> 0:26:35.160 then we had lunch of me that was a quick 0:26:35.160 --> 0:26:38.040 meal and not like shaghetti. Just just to clarify. And 0:26:38.080 --> 0:26:39.960 but you do eat spaghetti, you just don't eat the 0:26:40.000 --> 0:26:41.520 red suce. Yeah, I don't like the red sauce. So 0:26:41.520 --> 0:26:44.840 were I ify? Not wrong though, because you're in good shape. 0:26:44.840 --> 0:26:46.560 But I learned how the people that eat the red 0:26:46.600 --> 0:26:48.640 chapter they give him a heart bird too. I ain't 0:26:48.640 --> 0:26:50.160 got no hard, but I just don't like red sauce. 0:26:50.359 --> 0:26:52.320 It's worth the hard. Let me let me share my 0:26:52.320 --> 0:26:57.720 combination real quick, great damn and cheese, rape him and 0:26:57.800 --> 0:26:59.280 cheese that it ain't bad, because that's like when you 0:26:59.280 --> 0:27:00.919 go to the white people places, they had that on 0:27:00.960 --> 0:27:03.720 the plate. It'd be like the grace of Ham is disgusting. 0:27:03.880 --> 0:27:07.560 The cheese Ham is good. Ham is good. It's the 0:27:07.600 --> 0:27:12.960 other white man turkey. I don't know, thank you, it's 0:27:13.440 --> 0:27:16.240 it's on a good top of y'all. Man. I appreciate that. Man, 0:27:16.880 --> 0:27:19.560 I appreciate you. All right, what's the moral of the 0:27:19.600 --> 0:27:21.560 story and the moral of the stories? Just be happy 0:27:21.560 --> 0:27:25.280 you eating? All right? Okay, everybody, just be happy you 0:27:25.320 --> 0:27:27.200 eating because if you got you know, you can put 0:27:27.200 --> 0:27:29.760 together all these weird combinations you're doing okay in life. 0:27:29.800 --> 0:27:31.920 And I just want to put this out there, intimates, y'all. 0:27:31.920 --> 0:27:34.439 Don't make Danish rink anymore. Like, oh, you know what 0:27:34.480 --> 0:27:36.800 I used to do when I used to be like 0:27:37.160 --> 0:27:39.239 like high all the time, really wild, And when I 0:27:39.280 --> 0:27:41.520 was young, I would go to the Scotchman and I 0:27:41.520 --> 0:27:43.520 would get a honey bun and I take like a 0:27:43.680 --> 0:27:45.400 Snickers and put it on top of a honey bun 0:27:45.440 --> 0:27:47.080 and then put it in the microwave for like thirty 0:27:47.080 --> 0:27:49.560 seconds and then eat it like a hot dog. Oh 0:27:49.680 --> 0:27:51.920 my God, that was so good. That's why you ain't 0:27:51.920 --> 0:27:53.399 got no head that probably that whatever that kind of 0:27:53.760 --> 0:27:57.080 put together for all of y'all out that I ain't 0:27:57.080 --> 0:27:59.640 afraid of a little sugar, and you try it, get 0:27:59.640 --> 0:28:02.480 a honey, put his niggers on it, warm it up 0:28:02.480 --> 0:28:04.320 for like thirty seconds, and eat it like a hot dog. 0:28:04.359 --> 0:28:08.280 When you high, and watch what happened? You turn fat automatically. 0:28:08.359 --> 0:28:10.240 All right. We got more coming up next with a 0:28:10.280 --> 0:28:18.639 breakfast club, The Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, 0:28:18.800 --> 0:28:21.760 Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. 0:28:21.760 --> 0:28:23.640 We got a special guest joining us right now. Yes, 0:28:23.840 --> 0:28:26.840 Jason Wilson. He's the found in CEO of Union. Okay, 0:28:26.920 --> 0:28:29.720 Jason has over fourteen years of experience, you know, training 0:28:29.720 --> 0:28:32.159 and developing young black men. You've probably seen his videos 0:28:32.160 --> 0:28:34.880 on Instagram where he teaches, you know, young black men 0:28:34.920 --> 0:28:37.920 how to deal with their trauma through martial arts. He's 0:28:37.920 --> 0:28:40.200 got two great books, out Cry Like a Man in 0:28:40.280 --> 0:28:43.320 Battle Cry. You've probably heard him on the Joe Rogan Podcast. 0:28:43.360 --> 0:28:46.440 You've seen him on CNN Doctor Oz. He's spoken My 0:28:46.520 --> 0:28:49.440 Mental Wealth Expotus past Sunday, and now he's on the 0:28:49.480 --> 0:28:52.440 Breakfast Club. Mister Jason Wilson, Good morning brother, Good morning, 0:28:52.520 --> 0:28:54.840 my brother. How are you all as well? Man? I 0:28:54.880 --> 0:28:58.160 love New York. Love walking early in the morning here, 0:28:58.480 --> 0:29:00.800 especially late at night. Give me time to really reflect 0:29:00.840 --> 0:29:03.080 and release things that I need to let go of. 0:29:03.400 --> 0:29:05.360 You wrote a couple of books, Cry Like a Man 0:29:05.640 --> 0:29:08.640 and now Battle Cry. Why is crying such a theme? 0:29:09.600 --> 0:29:11.920 It was imperative for me that I learned how because 0:29:11.960 --> 0:29:14.840 my life well, I was self destructive, pretty much about 0:29:14.840 --> 0:29:17.920 to lose my marriage and my family, and I didn't 0:29:17.920 --> 0:29:20.280 know how to not only express them, but to even 0:29:20.360 --> 0:29:22.600 process what I was feeling. So I was only taught 0:29:22.640 --> 0:29:26.560 to express it through either fighting or really suppressing it. 0:29:26.840 --> 0:29:29.320 And as a result, Man, I lost it one day, 0:29:29.360 --> 0:29:31.680 Man and demons will be yelled at my wife in 0:29:31.680 --> 0:29:34.480 the kitchen, hit a hole in my refrigerator, and I 0:29:34.560 --> 0:29:36.760 just I had to make a change. And when I 0:29:36.800 --> 0:29:40.760 saw my wife, I saw her go from trusting me 0:29:40.840 --> 0:29:43.920 and loving me to her whole spirit was torn down 0:29:43.960 --> 0:29:46.240 in front of me. And at that very moment, I 0:29:46.280 --> 0:29:48.560 realized I had a problem, and that problem was I 0:29:48.600 --> 0:29:51.240 wasn't a comprehensive man. I was just a masculine male 0:29:51.920 --> 0:29:55.560 and I needed to learn how to express the gamut 0:29:55.600 --> 0:29:59.200 of emotions that God has given me. You know, more 0:29:59.280 --> 0:30:02.680 so than just being strong, a protector and provider, I 0:30:02.760 --> 0:30:07.080 needed to express being a nurturer, express spring, compassionate, loving, 0:30:07.160 --> 0:30:10.360 long suffering. You know, when Kobe Bryant died in that 0:30:10.560 --> 0:30:14.160 helicopter accident with Gianna and nine others, we didn't see 0:30:14.160 --> 0:30:16.680 a lot of pictures of him playing basketball. We saw 0:30:16.760 --> 0:30:20.000 him operating as a nurturer. And then a hashtag girl 0:30:20.080 --> 0:30:23.240 dad went viral through what men? But over a million, 0:30:23.400 --> 0:30:26.240 one point two million men posted pictures of themselves loving 0:30:26.280 --> 0:30:29.360 their daughters. And so we've always been nurturists, but we've 0:30:29.400 --> 0:30:34.200 allowed society to define us as men just by one adjective, 0:30:34.240 --> 0:30:37.320 which is masculinity. But we're more than masculine. Can we 0:30:37.360 --> 0:30:39.520 talk about your background a little because this is our 0:30:39.560 --> 0:30:41.880 first time meeting. So I know that you have this 0:30:41.960 --> 0:30:45.520 youth organization in Detroit, Union, but I want to talk 0:30:45.520 --> 0:30:48.360 about you and how you started doing this work. Yes, 0:30:48.440 --> 0:30:51.400 well I started actually was a popular DJA and Detroit 0:30:51.840 --> 0:30:54.400 and actually did a few concerts with Public Enemy. I 0:30:54.440 --> 0:30:56.360 was in a rap group called Chaos a Maestro. So 0:30:56.400 --> 0:30:59.600 the Union nonprofit started as a record label, and so 0:30:59.640 --> 0:31:02.000 we were used as a Christian. I would use the 0:31:02.120 --> 0:31:05.720 music to counter what at the current time, what we 0:31:05.760 --> 0:31:08.040 would call like gangster hip hop, and I saw the 0:31:08.160 --> 0:31:11.040 negative impact that was having on youth, and so we 0:31:11.120 --> 0:31:13.880 created music to counter it. But we realized quickly that 0:31:13.960 --> 0:31:16.600 once the music stopped, they still had to deal with 0:31:16.600 --> 0:31:18.680 the trauma. And so we're like wall, we need to 0:31:18.680 --> 0:31:20.520 stay in their lives. We need to get into schools. 0:31:20.560 --> 0:31:23.880 More so, we went after our nonprofit status and in 0:31:23.920 --> 0:31:27.240 two thousand and seven we received our first grant for 0:31:27.360 --> 0:31:30.520 mentoring through the government and we haven't looked back since. 0:31:30.520 --> 0:31:33.760 And currently we've reached over fifteen thousand youth and young 0:31:33.800 --> 0:31:37.240 adults in Detroit and we just purchased a fifteen thousand 0:31:37.240 --> 0:31:39.480 square foot building due to the demand of the Cave 0:31:39.480 --> 0:31:42.880 of Adullum, which is the Transformational Training Academy where I 0:31:42.960 --> 0:31:46.200 used martial arts to help young boys navigate through their 0:31:46.200 --> 0:31:49.400 emotions instead of succumbing to them. When did you get 0:31:49.440 --> 0:31:52.000 into martial arts? It was that a way of channeling 0:31:52.360 --> 0:31:55.200 like anger. Yeah, So it was interesting when my good 0:31:55.240 --> 0:31:58.440 friend she was shot and killed when I was in 0:31:58.440 --> 0:32:01.479 the eighth grade and we didn't have grief counsels or 0:32:01.520 --> 0:32:03.760 anyone come to our school, and I didn't know how 0:32:03.760 --> 0:32:07.160 to process what I was feeling. So I gravitated toward 0:32:07.280 --> 0:32:09.680 ni jitsu. At the time I was twelve years old. 0:32:09.720 --> 0:32:12.320 But then I quickly realized if I only process my 0:32:12.400 --> 0:32:16.000 anger by hitting things, whenever that anger rise, I start 0:32:16.120 --> 0:32:20.000 hitting things and hitting people. And so from that day on, 0:32:20.240 --> 0:32:22.080 because I have my father around, he was in the 0:32:22.120 --> 0:32:24.640 same city but wasn't in my life, I saw the 0:32:24.760 --> 0:32:27.680 Sinsey as a father figure, and I longed to have 0:32:27.800 --> 0:32:30.600 that affirmation and teach me how to be a man. 0:32:30.720 --> 0:32:33.840 And it helped me with some processing some of the 0:32:33.920 --> 0:32:39.080 training combat communication, which I talk about in battlecry and fighting. 0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:42.000 If we're getting ready to fight, I'm downloading all of 0:32:42.040 --> 0:32:44.120 your moves, your anger. If you move on my jab 0:32:44.240 --> 0:32:47.080 or my kick, I'm seeing how your defense is. I 0:32:47.160 --> 0:32:49.520 use that in communication with my wife, I try to 0:32:49.560 --> 0:32:51.840 read the room. How is she feeling to day? Is 0:32:51.840 --> 0:32:53.560 this a good time for me to share with her 0:32:53.600 --> 0:32:56.719 how all of my emotions? Would it overload her? And 0:32:56.760 --> 0:33:00.479 so instead of sometimes when you become emotionally free, when 0:33:00.520 --> 0:33:04.000 you break free from emotional incarceration, we can come home 0:33:04.120 --> 0:33:06.520 and unload too much on someone who already had a 0:33:06.520 --> 0:33:10.520 heavy day. And so I've learned to use combat communication 0:33:10.640 --> 0:33:13.920 to excuse me, Read my wife, Read my son. You 0:33:13.920 --> 0:33:16.160 know he's quiet today, what's going on with you? Instead 0:33:16.160 --> 0:33:18.320 of yelling at him. Now, I want to ask you 0:33:18.360 --> 0:33:20.560 about for women who are dealing with a man who 0:33:20.600 --> 0:33:24.800 may be experiencing trauma or doesn't identify ways that he 0:33:24.840 --> 0:33:27.240 can improve his own communication. What advice do you have 0:33:27.360 --> 0:33:30.000 for women that have to deal with that. My wife 0:33:30.800 --> 0:33:32.560 a lot of people ask her that because it was 0:33:32.600 --> 0:33:34.720 all new for us, you know. And so the first 0:33:34.720 --> 0:33:36.680 thing I would say is that we as men, we 0:33:36.760 --> 0:33:39.200 not only have to unlearn what we've been conditioned to 0:33:39.200 --> 0:33:41.520 believe a man is, but also our women. And we 0:33:41.600 --> 0:33:44.040 have to give our wives and our women the grace 0:33:44.080 --> 0:33:46.160 and the space needed to do so, because you've been 0:33:46.240 --> 0:33:48.480 also programmed to see a man in a certain way. 0:33:48.560 --> 0:33:50.600 My wife had never seen a man crying to me, 0:33:51.160 --> 0:33:53.479 you know. And so that's Number one, is to unlearn 0:33:53.520 --> 0:33:57.240 what you've been taught to believe. Number two, never impassively 0:33:57.320 --> 0:34:01.160 dismiss your husband or your significant others when he comes 0:34:01.160 --> 0:34:03.200 to you. He's trying to open up, he's trying to 0:34:03.240 --> 0:34:06.400 become comprehensive and whold the worst thing a woman could 0:34:06.440 --> 0:34:08.719 do is shut him down or I'm busy. Can I 0:34:08.760 --> 0:34:11.560 come back to that when you see that door opening, 0:34:11.640 --> 0:34:14.479 like okay, cool, He's allowing me access to that heart. 0:34:14.920 --> 0:34:19.160 And then lastly is to listen without expectation. That's what 0:34:19.239 --> 0:34:22.319 she would saying. She says, listen to your husband's or 0:34:22.360 --> 0:34:26.840 your significant other's heart like it's your girlfriend. Be slow 0:34:26.880 --> 0:34:29.320 to speak, quick to listen. But I said, you also 0:34:29.360 --> 0:34:31.759 need to know how to allow your wife to help 0:34:31.800 --> 0:34:34.680 you through that process. Can you break down what is 0:34:35.040 --> 0:34:40.560 emotional incarceration? It is a self imposed imprisonment, a mental 0:34:40.600 --> 0:34:44.319 prison that a man confines his non masculine emotions and 0:34:44.360 --> 0:34:46.799 his true heart from the world to keep him from 0:34:46.880 --> 0:34:50.400 hurting others and even himself. And what's interesting about emotional 0:34:50.440 --> 0:34:52.880 incarceration and we all as men, we can admit this. 0:34:53.400 --> 0:34:56.240 There is no door keeping us locked in. We choose 0:34:56.320 --> 0:34:59.160 to stay in there. And because we have to face 0:34:59.520 --> 0:35:03.560 or acknow knowledge feelings or traumas or emotional pain that 0:35:03.960 --> 0:35:06.719 we don't feel comfortable with, we choose to stay in there. 0:35:06.800 --> 0:35:08.720 And a lot of good men are tired of being 0:35:08.760 --> 0:35:12.440 bad guys even myself. Man, I ever suppressed all of 0:35:12.440 --> 0:35:15.400 my emotions, you know, And because that's what I was taught. 0:35:15.840 --> 0:35:18.160 And because of that, I didn't even they not only 0:35:18.200 --> 0:35:20.080 know how to love my wife or my children, bro, 0:35:20.120 --> 0:35:22.760 I didn't know how to love myself. And that self 0:35:22.840 --> 0:35:26.200 hate caused me not to really be available for my wife. 0:35:26.200 --> 0:35:29.120 And as I share at the Mental Wealth Expo, she 0:35:29.239 --> 0:35:33.239 had five miscarriages and I was checked out. I didn't 0:35:33.280 --> 0:35:35.839 know how to express the hurt or anything. To this day, 0:35:35.840 --> 0:35:39.239 it bothers me. We should say we had five miscarriages. No, 0:35:39.320 --> 0:35:42.160 I say she had and I should have been there, 0:35:42.280 --> 0:35:46.160 but I was emotionally checked out. But now it's truly 0:35:46.200 --> 0:35:49.319 a blessing to be able to drop my guard with 0:35:49.320 --> 0:35:52.000 the woman who really holds my heart with care. All right, 0:35:52.000 --> 0:35:53.920 we got more with Jason Wilson. When we come back, 0:35:54.000 --> 0:35:57.400 Dute move, it's to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody 0:35:57.480 --> 0:36:01.120 is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne, the guy we are 0:36:01.160 --> 0:36:04.440 the Breakfast Club. We're still talking with Jason Wilson. Charlemagne. 0:36:04.520 --> 0:36:06.200 The things you say in regards of your wife was 0:36:06.239 --> 0:36:08.719 so relatable and it's the same reason I got myself 0:36:08.800 --> 0:36:11.239 together too, because you know, I didn't want to be 0:36:11.400 --> 0:36:13.600 like my pops. And you know, I saw the pain 0:36:14.160 --> 0:36:16.120 my pops called my mom, you know what I mean? 0:36:16.160 --> 0:36:18.920 And I saw how you know, them getting divorce affected 0:36:19.239 --> 0:36:22.600 the family. So why are so many men just comfortable 0:36:22.600 --> 0:36:25.359 with saying, you know what, Yeah, I'm married, but I'm 0:36:25.360 --> 0:36:28.080 gonna still cheating. I'm still have a whole other family 0:36:28.080 --> 0:36:30.520 out here. Another girl like, why is that okay? You 0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:34.600 think that something's it's affeckless attempt for affirmation. And so 0:36:35.160 --> 0:36:38.480 you know, again we taught you know, masculinity as well 0:36:38.560 --> 0:36:41.719 being a man that's having multiple women. My father told 0:36:41.760 --> 0:36:44.279 me I was going to him proud, saying, hey, Dad, 0:36:44.280 --> 0:36:46.880 I'm about to engage to Nicole. He said, why in 0:36:46.920 --> 0:36:49.759 the hell you want to do that? When I come 0:36:49.760 --> 0:36:51.960 front of my dad about cheating my mom, my dad said, oh, 0:36:51.960 --> 0:36:55.359 you only got one girlfriend? If it one day're gonna understand. Hey, 0:36:55.600 --> 0:36:58.279 And I told my dad, I told him, I said, 0:36:58.280 --> 0:37:00.480 I don't want to end up like you broke. You're 0:37:00.480 --> 0:37:03.680 still having to cut hair, Dad in your sixties, because 0:37:03.680 --> 0:37:06.160 you've had three marriages that failed because you didn't have 0:37:06.200 --> 0:37:09.919 any sexual self control. But when I allowed my father 0:37:10.000 --> 0:37:12.320 developed Parkinson's. I finally was able to get a relationship 0:37:12.320 --> 0:37:14.400 with him because he couldn't go anywhere. So when we 0:37:14.480 --> 0:37:17.239 finally sat and talked, he shared with me the pain 0:37:17.320 --> 0:37:20.720 of growing up and feeling lacking in so many areas 0:37:20.719 --> 0:37:23.240 he was called to preach. He told, guy, there's nowhere 0:37:23.280 --> 0:37:25.279 on earth I'm gonna do that because he came up 0:37:25.280 --> 0:37:27.680 in the sixties when the cops cracked down on the 0:37:27.760 --> 0:37:30.839 pimps in Detroit, many him became pastors, So he said, 0:37:30.840 --> 0:37:32.360 the last thing I'm gonna do is be one of 0:37:32.360 --> 0:37:35.520 these guys. But because of that, he never really knew 0:37:35.560 --> 0:37:38.080 how to express what he was going through and what 0:37:38.200 --> 0:37:40.600 he felt. And that's why sharing battle cry too. As 0:37:40.719 --> 0:37:42.759 where we are now as men, we got to go 0:37:42.800 --> 0:37:44.960 back and reach and help our fathers learn how to 0:37:44.960 --> 0:37:47.160 process what they're dealing with. So you got to think 0:37:47.200 --> 0:37:50.759 my grandfather, not my great grandfather, a great great grandfather. 0:37:51.200 --> 0:37:54.640 My grandfather was lynched, beating and lynched, and then after 0:37:54.680 --> 0:37:58.560 his lynching, my mother's family was terrorized by the police 0:37:58.800 --> 0:38:01.320 to ensure that none of them whatever feel like they're 0:38:01.320 --> 0:38:04.200 equal to white people. In Fort Pierce, Florida, I saw 0:38:04.280 --> 0:38:09.600 that trauma transferred throughout generation, throughout generation, and until I 0:38:09.719 --> 0:38:14.040 allowed my dad that freedom to be human, I didn't 0:38:14.040 --> 0:38:16.480 hear him say he loved me until thirty seven years 0:38:16.520 --> 0:38:18.799 of age. I told my dad, and it didn't make 0:38:18.840 --> 0:38:21.759 sense to me at the time. He's landing his bed, 0:38:22.400 --> 0:38:25.720 and the Holy Spirit told me, he says, tell your father, 0:38:25.920 --> 0:38:29.000 thank him for being a great dad. That doesn't make 0:38:29.080 --> 0:38:32.040 sense to me, But what my father needed was affirmation. 0:38:33.000 --> 0:38:34.719 So I leanked over to him while he was landing 0:38:34.800 --> 0:38:37.359 his bed and I said, I said, Dad, I said, 0:38:37.719 --> 0:38:40.640 thank you for being a great dad. So I was 0:38:40.680 --> 0:38:43.880 walking out and I heard him like getting heavy in 0:38:43.880 --> 0:38:46.279 his breath, and I turned around and I saw the 0:38:46.320 --> 0:38:49.239 strongest man in my life crying. He finally had a 0:38:49.280 --> 0:38:53.000 release and this is this tough one. So I went 0:38:53.000 --> 0:38:55.719 back over to him. I held his hands and I 0:38:55.760 --> 0:38:58.400 kissed him on his forehead, and he wouldn't let me go, 0:38:58.480 --> 0:39:01.319 and he says, son, he says, I love you. And 0:39:01.440 --> 0:39:05.719 that there it removes so many shackles off of me. 0:39:05.880 --> 0:39:08.399 And it freed me to really live from my heart 0:39:08.400 --> 0:39:11.920 instead of my fears, instead of trying to live up 0:39:12.160 --> 0:39:15.120 to this limited definition of what a man is. Now 0:39:15.120 --> 0:39:17.279 I can be a comprehensive man, which is a man 0:39:17.280 --> 0:39:21.120 who is courageous but also compassionate, strong but sensitive, a 0:39:21.160 --> 0:39:24.200 man who can boldly but freely live from his heart 0:39:24.280 --> 0:39:27.000 instead of his fears. How important is it for men 0:39:27.080 --> 0:39:29.759 to give other men positive affirmations? Because you know, I 0:39:29.800 --> 0:39:32.520 thought about this after the Mental Wealth Export, because a 0:39:32.520 --> 0:39:33.920 lot of stuff came up for me when we was 0:39:33.960 --> 0:39:36.640 on the panel having a conversation. That's why that's why 0:39:36.640 --> 0:39:38.759 the tids came. Because it's like, just listening to you 0:39:38.840 --> 0:39:40.759 tell me, oh, I'm proud of you, YadA YadA, I'm like, 0:39:41.280 --> 0:39:44.480 damn you i't. I didn't get that the way I 0:39:44.560 --> 0:39:47.319 wanted to growing up from my father. So even just 0:39:47.400 --> 0:39:50.200 hearing it from another black man at your respect is 0:39:50.239 --> 0:39:52.920 like whoa, it gets you emotional or whether we realize 0:39:52.920 --> 0:39:54.200 that or not, we do that all the time. That's 0:39:54.200 --> 0:39:58.040 why we gonna get the cars flacause we want other 0:39:58.080 --> 0:40:00.680 men to give us affirmation. Yeah, it's like it's effectless 0:40:00.680 --> 0:40:03.560 attempt for affirmation. Even with women. You know, it's like 0:40:04.040 --> 0:40:06.919 we call you trophy wives and all this other foolishness 0:40:07.320 --> 0:40:09.960 you would create. You're not meant to be objects. You 0:40:10.000 --> 0:40:12.200 know what I'm saying. It. But it's when we objectify 0:40:12.320 --> 0:40:16.120 women that a lot. When I saw that evil, that's 0:40:16.120 --> 0:40:19.760 what allowed me to break free from pornography because again, 0:40:19.880 --> 0:40:21.920 to have this right in front of you, where you 0:40:21.960 --> 0:40:24.040 feel you can have control over the most beautiful woman 0:40:24.040 --> 0:40:26.279 in the world. I didn't know how to really give 0:40:26.280 --> 0:40:29.319 a woman my heart. But when I allowed myself to 0:40:29.400 --> 0:40:32.960 be free, I started cherishing women for who they are, 0:40:33.239 --> 0:40:36.799 even their superior qualities, not that equal qualities. Because my 0:40:36.880 --> 0:40:40.239 wife runs our nonprofit. If it wasn't for her, I 0:40:40.320 --> 0:40:43.200 look at the stuff we do now, that's because I 0:40:43.239 --> 0:40:45.680 allowed my wife to operate in the fullness of who 0:40:45.760 --> 0:40:48.120 she is. Right, I don't need you to be just 0:40:48.320 --> 0:40:51.400 at home with my children. God has created you to 0:40:51.560 --> 0:40:54.640 lead this organization, this ministry, and then eventually I hope 0:40:54.680 --> 0:40:57.319 she gets her own health center. The goal for us 0:40:57.320 --> 0:40:59.360 to even be healed, brother, and I was sharing this 0:40:59.480 --> 0:41:02.359 at the expol for us to heal this black men. 0:41:02.880 --> 0:41:05.719 I want us to heal so we can finally decrease 0:41:06.040 --> 0:41:08.359 what's going on the side of us, so that our 0:41:08.360 --> 0:41:12.520 sisters can finally unload the weight and emotional pain that 0:41:12.600 --> 0:41:16.520 they've been in doing for decades. Now as far as affirmation. 0:41:17.400 --> 0:41:19.759 It's so important, especially with our boys. You know. I 0:41:19.760 --> 0:41:22.879 remember I had one kid. When I piloted the Cave 0:41:22.920 --> 0:41:25.920 of Adullam. The principle introduced me to this young man 0:41:26.480 --> 0:41:30.719 by all negative descriptions. I took that young man and 0:41:31.000 --> 0:41:33.920 for twenty four weeks affirmed and poured into him, taught 0:41:33.960 --> 0:41:37.239 him how to meditate, release the anger, the frustration, and 0:41:37.280 --> 0:41:39.560 it actually the hurt of not having a father. There. 0:41:39.880 --> 0:41:42.719 He smoked about two blunts a week. This was an 0:41:42.719 --> 0:41:46.360 eighth grader. His great point average was point eight. Within 0:41:46.440 --> 0:41:49.759 twenty four weeks, his whole life change and he graduated 0:41:50.120 --> 0:41:53.960 because I affirmed him in who he was. Even the 0:41:54.080 --> 0:41:57.480 young man he didn't see. They saw the prankster. I 0:41:57.560 --> 0:42:01.640 saw someone who could negotiate whose why, Who's clever? They 0:42:01.719 --> 0:42:04.200 saw someone anger. I saw a young man who would 0:42:04.239 --> 0:42:07.360 fight against injustice, who would defend kids who are bullied. 0:42:07.680 --> 0:42:11.520 That's what affirmation does. I thank you for who you are, 0:42:11.560 --> 0:42:13.920 and I meant everything that I said. Man, I'm proud 0:42:13.960 --> 0:42:15.880 of you, and that's why I affirmed you. And we 0:42:15.920 --> 0:42:18.759 need to affirm each other that way. And then more so, 0:42:18.800 --> 0:42:21.320 as I told our brother Van Lathan when I was 0:42:21.360 --> 0:42:24.880 on his podcast. We're so quick to just deflect it 0:42:25.040 --> 0:42:27.440 or just here you're the man too. I love what 0:42:27.520 --> 0:42:30.040 you're doing, like no, I want you to hold that, brother, 0:42:30.400 --> 0:42:32.480 because you're doing some great things, and I want you 0:42:32.520 --> 0:42:35.880 to really embrace who you are as a man. And 0:42:36.000 --> 0:42:38.120 that's all I ever wanted, man, And that's why I'm 0:42:38.120 --> 0:42:42.360 thankful I finally allowed my wife access to hear because 0:42:42.360 --> 0:42:45.480 what causes men to really drift away? You want to 0:42:45.520 --> 0:42:48.719 feel important, you want to feel loved, But it's if 0:42:48.760 --> 0:42:51.160 you don't work as hard as you do in the community, 0:42:51.400 --> 0:42:53.960 in your home. How do you expect those in your 0:42:53.960 --> 0:42:56.719 home to give you the accolades that you desire when 0:42:56.760 --> 0:42:59.160 you're working twice as hard for those who don't even 0:42:59.200 --> 0:43:02.400 live with you. You said something so powerful yesterday at 0:43:02.440 --> 0:43:05.799 the Mental welfaxt BO when Maxwell asked you, what's the 0:43:05.800 --> 0:43:09.600 definition of a man? How do you define them a man? Yeah? 0:43:09.640 --> 0:43:12.480 And I said nothing. You can't define them. Once you 0:43:12.520 --> 0:43:15.719 allow yourself to be defined, you can't be anything and 0:43:15.800 --> 0:43:18.319 everything you have to be at any given moment. That's 0:43:18.360 --> 0:43:21.080 the goal of a man. That's comprehensive. Man. I want 0:43:21.080 --> 0:43:23.880 to be able to morph between transformers, everything that I 0:43:23.920 --> 0:43:26.920 need to be for accomplish my mission here on earth, 0:43:27.080 --> 0:43:30.959 for my family, for you, for my sister, my brother, 0:43:31.080 --> 0:43:34.240 my brother, And that's the goal. Once you allow yourself 0:43:34.280 --> 0:43:37.759 to be defined, you've just cut off your potential. And 0:43:37.800 --> 0:43:40.200 so I tell people to I was telling me, and 0:43:40.280 --> 0:43:42.439 live from what we long for instead of what we lack. 0:43:42.640 --> 0:43:44.839 We tend to blame my father's for not being there, 0:43:44.880 --> 0:43:47.439 what we didn't have, and now we bring that stuff 0:43:47.480 --> 0:43:50.120 to the present. We allow our trauma to time travel, 0:43:50.600 --> 0:43:53.560 living the present so you can fully be there. And 0:43:53.640 --> 0:43:56.000 that's the key. Man, If you only feel as a 0:43:56.040 --> 0:43:59.239 man that you're only a protector and provider, you're gonna 0:43:59.280 --> 0:44:00.719 be there for your fa I mean, how can you 0:44:00.760 --> 0:44:04.040 have a relationship with your wife and you're only you 0:44:04.040 --> 0:44:09.120 can only manifest two attributes. You're extremely limited. A friend 0:44:09.160 --> 0:44:12.400 of mine compared it to that crayon boxes, the ones 0:44:12.440 --> 0:44:14.879 of eight and the ones of sixty four. As men, 0:44:14.960 --> 0:44:17.120 we take out three crayons out the one of eight, 0:44:17.120 --> 0:44:18.879 and we said we're gonna stay in that that area 0:44:18.880 --> 0:44:21.680 because it feels comfortable, it's safe. But the most igh 0:44:21.680 --> 0:44:24.839 created us to exude all sixty four and even more. 0:44:25.160 --> 0:44:27.239 Now movie got more with J. C. Wilson. When we 0:44:27.239 --> 0:44:31.839 come back, it's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning. I'm seeing 0:44:31.840 --> 0:44:33.840 her looking at Keisha like, do you love me? Do 0:44:34.000 --> 0:44:40.120 you love me? Not morning? Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, 0:44:40.200 --> 0:44:42.560 Charlemagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We're still 0:44:42.560 --> 0:44:45.919 talking with Jason Wilson. Yea. You also have a documentary 0:44:45.960 --> 0:44:48.200 that you've been working on, right, Yes, can you tell 0:44:48.239 --> 0:44:51.040 us something about that? Yeah, that's really exciting. I signed 0:44:51.080 --> 0:44:53.920 with Lawrence Fitzburn's film company sent them a gypsy to 0:44:54.000 --> 0:44:56.600 do a documentary film on my work for Boys in 0:44:56.600 --> 0:44:59.680 the Cave of Adullum. We submitted it to Sundance and 0:44:59.680 --> 0:45:01.720 so waiting to hear back from them, but it's supposed 0:45:01.719 --> 0:45:04.440 to release next year and we're really excited. You get 0:45:04.480 --> 0:45:07.440 to see them follow four of my boys, and you 0:45:07.560 --> 0:45:11.080 see the effects of intergenerational trauma, but then you see 0:45:11.120 --> 0:45:14.319 it broken and it's so powerful. It's beautiful. How do 0:45:14.320 --> 0:45:16.640 you black and brown people learn to stop wearing trauma 0:45:16.760 --> 0:45:22.280 as if it's a bad honor acknowledge that it's nothing 0:45:22.280 --> 0:45:26.439 good about it. There's nothing honorable about getting shot. There's 0:45:26.480 --> 0:45:31.080 nothing honorable about hating each other, mean mug and not 0:45:31.160 --> 0:45:33.359 being able to say how you doing, my brother, how 0:45:33.400 --> 0:45:38.480 you doing my sister? There's nothing honorable about I guess, 0:45:38.520 --> 0:45:40.719 just the pain that we've been through. I mean, we 0:45:40.800 --> 0:45:43.680 look at it as like, you know, especially I love hippop. 0:45:43.719 --> 0:45:47.000 I came up in the culture we brag about getting shot. 0:45:47.320 --> 0:45:49.480 We don't brag about living in a good neighborhood. We 0:45:49.480 --> 0:45:52.760 brag about being in the roughest neighborhood. And so until 0:45:52.760 --> 0:45:56.399 we recognize that this isn't how it's supposed to be. Yes, 0:45:57.200 --> 0:45:59.719 trauma will happen to all of us, but it's not 0:45:59.760 --> 0:46:04.319 the black experience as we always say. You know, just 0:46:04.360 --> 0:46:06.799 as trauma can be passed down through our generation, so 0:46:06.960 --> 0:46:09.160 can healing. But we first have to renew our minds. 0:46:09.600 --> 0:46:11.279 We have to allow. For me, it took for me 0:46:11.719 --> 0:46:14.120 to ask the most how to break me, break away 0:46:14.600 --> 0:46:17.880 my stubborn will, the evil in my heart. I didn't 0:46:17.880 --> 0:46:20.279 want to be his light to the world, to help 0:46:20.320 --> 0:46:23.920 those who in darkness see, And so until I allowed 0:46:24.000 --> 0:46:27.400 him to break me, I wasn't able to see that 0:46:27.480 --> 0:46:30.040 all that I've been through, the stuff that, even for 0:46:30.280 --> 0:46:33.279 my benefit today, wasn't meant for me to stay there. 0:46:33.960 --> 0:46:37.319 So when traumatizing things happen. We have to let go 0:46:37.480 --> 0:46:40.279 and keep moving forward. But a lot of us we 0:46:40.400 --> 0:46:43.719 stay there because we fear moving forward because of something else, 0:46:43.760 --> 0:46:48.200 traumatizing may happen. And so as a black people, we 0:46:48.320 --> 0:46:50.680 got to start living from what we desire and hear 0:46:50.719 --> 0:46:53.160 the good that's in here. We love each other, man, 0:46:53.320 --> 0:46:56.279 we do. We just have to learn how to express it. 0:46:56.320 --> 0:47:01.080 And there's nothing weak or docile telling you I love you, 0:47:01.200 --> 0:47:02.879 telling you I love you and who you are. I'm 0:47:02.920 --> 0:47:06.840 proud of you. I need help, I'm hurting. Just because 0:47:06.840 --> 0:47:09.240 something is wrong with me doesn't mean something is wrong. 0:47:10.120 --> 0:47:13.759 So when we get to that place where we understand, okay, 0:47:14.360 --> 0:47:16.960 we can break through what we've been through, that's when 0:47:17.000 --> 0:47:20.400 you see us rise together. My final question, you know, 0:47:20.440 --> 0:47:24.200 as your profile raises, how did your wife feel about 0:47:24.200 --> 0:47:26.680 all these women calling you zaddie? I didn't know they 0:47:26.760 --> 0:47:32.279 called me. They called me that them on Instagram? Oh man, 0:47:34.280 --> 0:47:37.400 I um um. My wife and I have a very 0:47:37.440 --> 0:47:41.520 like transparent relationship. If she feels something isn't right, she said, 0:47:41.719 --> 0:47:44.920 you know, but this is a funny story. One day 0:47:44.920 --> 0:47:49.719 I met Halle Berry right, and I took a video 0:47:49.719 --> 0:47:51.920 from my daughter because my daughter, you know, was into 0:47:51.960 --> 0:47:54.560 modeling at the time, and so I called the court. 0:47:54.560 --> 0:47:56.600 I say I met Holly Berry. She's like, really, where 0:47:56.640 --> 0:47:58.520 was she at? And I told her at this conference. 0:47:59.000 --> 0:48:02.160 So we get off the phone and her friend was like, oh, 0:48:02.200 --> 0:48:05.000 so your husband is with Halle Berry and she was 0:48:05.080 --> 0:48:07.320 like yeah, and she could looking at my wife and 0:48:07.400 --> 0:48:11.840 my wife called back and she says, are you okay? 0:48:13.160 --> 0:48:16.520 Because you know Holly Berry is was like attractive like 0:48:17.000 --> 0:48:20.040 our generations leaning a horn. But my wife was like, 0:48:20.280 --> 0:48:23.520 are you okay because I know she's beautiful and I 0:48:23.600 --> 0:48:27.520 know you know you together, you're good. I'm like, yeah, 0:48:27.560 --> 0:48:29.759 I'm good. And we both laughed about it. But the 0:48:29.760 --> 0:48:31.799 beautiful thing. When I got home and I looked at 0:48:31.840 --> 0:48:36.000 my wife, I said, dang it better than her. You 0:48:36.120 --> 0:48:40.080 see what I'm saying. And so and so when she 0:48:40.200 --> 0:48:43.560 knows my wife, she affirms me man and I fight it. 0:48:43.680 --> 0:48:46.160 I'm still growing, bro. I don't like that. How do 0:48:46.200 --> 0:48:48.279 you what you She had touched my face or gent 0:48:48.400 --> 0:48:51.000 I'm like, what are you doing inside? That's why I'm 0:48:51.000 --> 0:48:54.320 cringing because I'm thinking when my father told me I 0:48:54.400 --> 0:48:58.960 wasn't nothing, and they have a woman cress my face 0:48:59.719 --> 0:49:02.600 and tell me I'm beautiful and she loves me. And 0:49:02.680 --> 0:49:04.359 as a man, you look in your mirror, you see 0:49:04.360 --> 0:49:06.480 your flaws. You ain't big enough, you ain't buffalo up, 0:49:06.480 --> 0:49:09.439 you ain't smart enough. What can any of these women 0:49:09.560 --> 0:49:12.239 give me? Man? What's a night of sex? I'm gonna 0:49:12.400 --> 0:49:15.080 I'm gonna giveaway everything that I got just to have 0:49:15.160 --> 0:49:18.080 a moment with a woman. That's not peace to me, 0:49:18.160 --> 0:49:20.840 that's chaos. I ain't got time to have three cell phones. 0:49:21.040 --> 0:49:23.240 I don't. I don't have an energy for that. We're 0:49:23.320 --> 0:49:25.680 chasing a sense of worthiness that we can't get from 0:49:26.320 --> 0:49:28.799 another woman. Like that's that's feeding your ego, being with 0:49:28.880 --> 0:49:31.439 your wife, that's feeding your soul. Yeah, it's it's it's 0:49:31.480 --> 0:49:35.160 she's a part of me, man. And so you know, Yeah, 0:49:35.160 --> 0:49:36.960 they're a flirt. You can see them. They look at you. 0:49:37.000 --> 0:49:39.120 But I don't have an available Look. You know a 0:49:39.160 --> 0:49:42.279 lot of brothers who struggle with infidelity. Y'all look available, 0:49:42.760 --> 0:49:46.520 You look like they can holl at you. I consciously 0:49:46.560 --> 0:49:51.520 make sure I don't look available. I told them that. Look. 0:49:52.040 --> 0:49:56.960 You know, I practiced with my sister. You know we're talking. 0:49:57.000 --> 0:50:03.080 I'm like, you know what I'm talking about. Okay, So 0:50:03.160 --> 0:50:05.319 I do this. Okay, I take my ring off, but 0:50:05.960 --> 0:50:08.600 I'm not. I'm talking you, but it's respectfully. How are 0:50:08.600 --> 0:50:11.040 you doing? I shake your hands right, I'm not doing this, 0:50:11.080 --> 0:50:12.800 so how are you doing you? I'm not doing all that. 0:50:12.880 --> 0:50:15.080 I'm like, how are you doing? I'm press a pleasure 0:50:15.080 --> 0:50:17.880 to meet you. I'm proud of you, thank you. What 0:50:17.880 --> 0:50:21.200 are you doing later? No, I'm kidding, I said, I'm 0:50:21.239 --> 0:50:24.040 calling my wife. I'm telling you right now. Taking that 0:50:24.120 --> 0:50:26.680 ring off and then having the conversation not make you 0:50:26.760 --> 0:50:30.080 less available, that's true. But no, but but but the 0:50:30.239 --> 0:50:33.000 look is the spirit is the vibe. And that's why 0:50:33.040 --> 0:50:35.359 I tell my brothers. One of my friends standing back 0:50:35.400 --> 0:50:37.719 in the day amazed women beyondly man. I'm trying to 0:50:37.719 --> 0:50:40.080 be faithful. I said, you look like you want them too, 0:50:40.960 --> 0:50:43.680 And he started laughing. And we was in the gym 0:50:43.840 --> 0:50:46.920 and I said, look at you. He was like, I 0:50:47.040 --> 0:50:52.200 get it, Doug. You're coming here every day with great sweatpas. Okay, 0:50:52.800 --> 0:50:54.960 so you know, and and and that's my my thing. 0:50:55.040 --> 0:50:58.600 I just you know, I love our women. I do. 0:50:58.719 --> 0:51:01.120 And they need a man. And who doesn't want to 0:51:01.160 --> 0:51:03.160 get between their legs just to talk to them and 0:51:03.200 --> 0:51:05.879 affirm them to hear from just a man who just 0:51:06.640 --> 0:51:09.799 wants to affirm you for who you are, not because 0:51:09.800 --> 0:51:11.960 I'm you beautiful. I'm trying to ho let you man, 0:51:12.200 --> 0:51:15.120 these women which is you know, I just you know, 0:51:15.160 --> 0:51:17.200 That's why I say, Man, when we can get healed, 0:51:18.040 --> 0:51:20.279 keep doing those expos man. I mean, just we gotta 0:51:20.320 --> 0:51:21.719 continue to do what we do. But when we can 0:51:21.760 --> 0:51:25.520 get healed, we gotta sit down and open the space 0:51:25.560 --> 0:51:29.120 for our sisters to heal. And that's when you're gonna 0:51:29.160 --> 0:51:32.239 start seeing transformation, when we both can truly find that 0:51:32.280 --> 0:51:35.080 and get that heal and we desire and our families 0:51:35.120 --> 0:51:38.279 become whole, then our communities to change, and then you 0:51:38.400 --> 0:51:41.160 got the world. Yeah, I'm so extra grateful for like 0:51:41.160 --> 0:51:43.160 the men in my life who do affirm me and 0:51:43.200 --> 0:51:46.040 have positive things to say to me, and it's not 0:51:46.080 --> 0:51:48.439 for any reason other than they really feel that way. 0:51:48.480 --> 0:51:52.160 And I don't feel anything crazy from them. I know 0:51:52.239 --> 0:51:55.120 their families, I know their wise and significant others, and 0:51:55.160 --> 0:51:58.399 it's completely comfortable. And I'm so appreciative all the time 0:51:58.400 --> 0:52:00.680 of people that are like, yo, like you really doing 0:52:00.719 --> 0:52:02.400 your thing. I'm so proud of you. I'm gonna come 0:52:02.440 --> 0:52:05.080 support like it means a lot to me. Yes, and 0:52:05.120 --> 0:52:07.879 that's that's awesome. And you know, because sometimes people feel 0:52:07.920 --> 0:52:11.560 like men and women can't have these relationships where there's 0:52:11.600 --> 0:52:13.360 nothing going on. And if you could take a picture 0:52:13.360 --> 0:52:15.680 with somebody like oh, yeah, he's trying to holler, and 0:52:15.719 --> 0:52:19.319 you're like, dude, come on, just because he's a man 0:52:19.480 --> 0:52:22.280 doesn't mean that that's what it is, just because somebody 0:52:22.480 --> 0:52:24.759 can affirm you. But people sometimes are scared to even 0:52:24.760 --> 0:52:27.400 do that. Yeah, but the more men who who who 0:52:27.600 --> 0:52:30.440 model it, the more men feel comfortable and say, Okay, 0:52:30.480 --> 0:52:32.680 this is what a man is, you know, and that's 0:52:32.680 --> 0:52:35.640 what our women need, you know, even at the union. 0:52:35.840 --> 0:52:38.320 Just affirm and love them. I got you, don't worry 0:52:38.320 --> 0:52:40.840 about that. I ain't trying to holight you. They need brothers, 0:52:40.840 --> 0:52:43.319 They need men in their lives that they feel that 0:52:43.360 --> 0:52:45.760 they got their back, you know, and then ain't always 0:52:45.800 --> 0:52:49.520 wanting something, you know. And so I went I did 0:52:49.840 --> 0:52:52.560 what is it called virtual reality. It was at this conference, 0:52:52.640 --> 0:52:56.080 and they they put put me in a headset where 0:52:56.120 --> 0:52:58.840 I saw through the eyes of a woman at work 0:52:59.680 --> 0:53:03.279 and showed how many like advances men were making to 0:53:03.400 --> 0:53:06.680 this woman throughout the day and from the handshake to 0:53:06.880 --> 0:53:10.480 just having conversation. I'm like, damn it, can you just 0:53:11.000 --> 0:53:13.719 just respect me as a woman, affirmed me just as 0:53:13.719 --> 0:53:16.280 a woman instead of just trying to get between my legs, 0:53:16.320 --> 0:53:19.200 you know. And so I'm glad you have men like that. 0:53:19.280 --> 0:53:21.400 I try to make myself available for the women in 0:53:21.440 --> 0:53:24.359 my life the same way, you know. And it's so 0:53:24.520 --> 0:53:27.480 needed as men that again, as long as we're seeking 0:53:27.520 --> 0:53:30.719 affirmation in the wrong places, and that's what I did 0:53:30.760 --> 0:53:34.120 for the longest, will never truly respect our women for 0:53:34.480 --> 0:53:37.440 the queens, the jewels, the gifts that they truly are 0:53:38.200 --> 0:53:39.919 to use points. I mean, that's why I'd be so happy. 0:53:39.960 --> 0:53:41.200 I you know, I got so many women that call 0:53:41.280 --> 0:53:44.040 me any brother uncle because I really wear that as 0:53:44.040 --> 0:53:46.480 a badge of honor, Like you know, I want to 0:53:46.520 --> 0:53:48.520 be there for them in that way. And I'm glad 0:53:48.520 --> 0:53:50.840 they see me in that way. 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The 0:55:36.360 --> 0:55:39.160 craziest people in America come from the Bronx and all 0:55:39.320 --> 0:55:44.040 of Florid. Yes, you are a donkey. The Florida man 0:55:44.120 --> 0:55:47.279 attacked and ATM for a very strange reason. It gave 0:55:47.360 --> 0:55:49.880 him too much money. Florida man is arrested after definitely 0:55:49.880 --> 0:55:51.560 say he rigged the door to his home and an 0:55:51.600 --> 0:55:54.120 attempt to electric hit his putnant wife. Police arrested in 0:55:54.239 --> 0:55:58.240 Orlando man for talking a Flaminia to breakfast club bitchy donkey. 0:55:58.239 --> 0:56:00.680 Other day when Charlom hanag, I don't know why y'all 0:56:00.719 --> 0:56:03.440 keeping here. Get y'alllect well, don't you? The Dave goes 0:56:03.480 --> 0:56:06.319 to a twenty three year old Florida woman named Alexis Tally. Now, 0:56:06.400 --> 0:56:08.759 what did your uncle Sharla always say about the great 0:56:08.800 --> 0:56:12.160 state of Florida? Say it with me. The craziest people 0:56:12.200 --> 0:56:16.280 in America come from the Bronx and all of Florida. 0:56:16.719 --> 0:56:18.520 It is what it is. Okay, I love Florida. But 0:56:18.560 --> 0:56:19.800 one of my favorite things to do when I'm in 0:56:19.840 --> 0:56:23.560 Florida's turn on the local news. High levels of entertainment people. Okay, 0:56:23.560 --> 0:56:25.359 I can't believe it's free. I was in Miami last 0:56:25.360 --> 0:56:28.000 weekend just watching the local news and laughing and shaking 0:56:28.080 --> 0:56:31.200 my head very hard to avoid the crazy that exist 0:56:31.280 --> 0:56:33.120 in Florida. You know, every day of our lives, we 0:56:33.239 --> 0:56:35.520 wake up and we attempt to avoid crazy. It's hard 0:56:35.600 --> 0:56:38.080 to avoid crazy in Florida. It's like a full time 0:56:38.200 --> 0:56:40.880 job to avoid crazy in Florida. Because in Florida, you 0:56:40.960 --> 0:56:44.320 don't have to find crazy. Crazy will find you. And 0:56:44.440 --> 0:56:47.560 that's exactly what happened in this situation involving the sister 0:56:47.640 --> 0:56:51.880 Alexis Tally. Now, Alexis Tally was arrested for domestic battery 0:56:52.360 --> 0:56:55.920 after putting hands on her girlfriend. Now, the other day 0:56:55.960 --> 0:56:59.120 I told y'all on this radio, how I had a dream. No, 0:56:59.280 --> 0:57:02.320 let me refree. I had a nightmare that I was 0:57:02.760 --> 0:57:05.000 cheating on my wife, and in the nightmare, I felt 0:57:05.040 --> 0:57:06.480 the guilt, so I stopped. And then when I woke 0:57:06.560 --> 0:57:08.480 up the next morning, my wife said to me that 0:57:08.680 --> 0:57:10.640 she had a dream that I cheated on her and 0:57:10.719 --> 0:57:12.600 she woke up wanting to f me up. When you 0:57:12.680 --> 0:57:15.160 got a soul tied with a person, y'all are really 0:57:15.280 --> 0:57:18.480 connected SYNCD up like your smartphone with a bluetooth. That's 0:57:18.680 --> 0:57:21.040 me and my wife. Well, my wife said she felt 0:57:21.080 --> 0:57:23.040 like she wanted to ff me up because of her dream. 0:57:23.840 --> 0:57:30.640 Alexis Tally actually fed her girlfriend up because of the dream. Okay, 0:57:30.840 --> 0:57:33.040 because of the dream her girlfriend was having. Oh how 0:57:33.080 --> 0:57:34.720 I wish there was a news report for this one. 0:57:34.840 --> 0:57:36.640 But allowed me to read you the details off the 0:57:36.720 --> 0:57:40.480 smoking gun. Police responded the calls from a neighbor who 0:57:40.560 --> 0:57:44.200 said they could hear a fight taking place. When authorities 0:57:44.240 --> 0:57:46.800 arrived at the scene, the twenty one year old victim 0:57:47.280 --> 0:57:52.000 said she was awoken after Alexis Tally claimed to hear 0:57:52.120 --> 0:57:56.760 her sleep talking about an X. I'm not making this up. Okay. 0:57:56.800 --> 0:57:59.440 If you're thinking, what the f, please think what the Florida, 0:58:00.040 --> 0:58:02.800 since Tally started beating on her girlfriend and her sleep 0:58:03.240 --> 0:58:08.720 because she thought she heard her girlfriend sleep talking about 0:58:09.080 --> 0:58:12.960 an X. According to the arrest report, Alexis started punching 0:58:13.040 --> 0:58:15.440 the victim in the face after waking her, and cops 0:58:15.520 --> 0:58:17.560 noted that she had visible swelling to the right side 0:58:17.560 --> 0:58:19.480 of her face. Now, when they say Alexis woke her up, 0:58:19.840 --> 0:58:23.160 was it what the punch are before? Now I'm gonna 0:58:23.200 --> 0:58:25.840 shoot Alexis a little bell that slang. By the way, 0:58:25.840 --> 0:58:27.400 I'm not giving her no money towards the bell. I'm 0:58:27.400 --> 0:58:31.040 just talking about a hypothetical about the situation. I'm almost positive. 0:58:32.760 --> 0:58:35.360 But if I mentioned another woman that I was involved 0:58:35.400 --> 0:58:37.320 with while I was in a deep slumber, I too 0:58:37.360 --> 0:58:39.160 would get punched in the face. What about you, Indy, 0:58:39.320 --> 0:58:43.480 I concur not justifying what Alexa did, just saying that 0:58:43.960 --> 0:58:46.840 as Florida as this sounds, this might garner the same 0:58:46.960 --> 0:58:49.680 reaction in any state. I mean, my wife woke up 0:58:49.720 --> 0:58:51.280 wanting to f me up because of a dream she 0:58:51.440 --> 0:58:53.439 had that I was doing something. Imagine if she would 0:58:53.440 --> 0:58:55.520 have woke up to me calling out the name of 0:58:55.680 --> 0:58:58.720 some other woman I dealt with my god jee. This 0:58:58.920 --> 0:59:01.000 is why hot grit used to get thrown on brothers 0:59:01.080 --> 0:59:04.000 in the sixties and seventies. Okay, your granddaddy got a 0:59:04.040 --> 0:59:05.680 scar right now, and it's back from that hot grid 0:59:05.720 --> 0:59:11.760 because he too was saying somebody else's name in his sleep. Okay. 0:59:11.840 --> 0:59:14.640 Muhammad Ali once said, if you even dream of beating me, 0:59:14.960 --> 0:59:17.640 you'd better wake up and apologize. Same rules apply with 0:59:17.720 --> 0:59:21.160 your significant other. Okay, just change beating the cheating. If 0:59:21.160 --> 0:59:24.800 you even dream of cheating on your girl, you better 0:59:24.880 --> 0:59:28.280 wake up and apologize now. Alexa was arrested for domestic 0:59:28.320 --> 0:59:30.600 battery and has maintained that their argument was only verbal, 0:59:30.840 --> 0:59:35.200 verbal rather than physical. She told the officers. She told 0:59:35.240 --> 0:59:38.080 the officers that the mark on her girlfriend's face was 0:59:38.200 --> 0:59:44.720 from a previous fight. That's not funny. It's not funny, 0:59:44.760 --> 0:59:48.600 but it's Florida, Florida, Okay, she told the police. Not 0:59:48.720 --> 0:59:51.080 the fight that was reported to the police. That was 0:59:51.120 --> 0:59:54.040 last week. It was from another fight. It's basically been 0:59:54.160 --> 0:59:55.840 the officer of That mark on her face wasn't from 0:59:55.880 --> 0:59:57.360 when I beat her this time. That was from the 0:59:57.440 --> 1:00:03.520 last time we fought. Boy, don't have anything else, Okay, 1:00:04.280 --> 1:00:07.560 Please give Alexis Tally the sweet shounds of the Hamiltons. 1:00:07.880 --> 1:00:17.640 Oh no you are do gee? Oh the day, do Gee, 1:00:19.120 --> 1:00:26.360 oh the day. Yeah. How would you react if you 1:00:26.520 --> 1:00:28.680 heard your man saying the name of an X in 1:00:28.760 --> 1:00:32.200 his sleep? Um, I don't know. That's a tough one. 1:00:32.560 --> 1:00:34.960 I don't know what I would do. We'd have a conversation, 1:00:35.040 --> 1:00:36.480 it might not go well, we might not talk for 1:00:36.520 --> 1:00:38.840 a couple of weeks. You don't think we will resort 1:00:38.880 --> 1:00:41.720 to violence though, you're not. I'm not a violent person. Yeah, 1:00:41.760 --> 1:00:45.640 you know. I don't believe in putting my hands on people. Kay, 1:00:46.720 --> 1:00:48.320 I think we should play a game? You think we 1:00:48.360 --> 1:00:56.720 should play a game? I'm curious, really really? Yes, okay, yes? 1:00:57.040 --> 1:00:58.680 What was the name? What was the name of the X? 1:00:58.840 --> 1:01:00.520 I need to know? Didn't say didn't ame to X? 1:01:00.680 --> 1:01:03.600 They just say X. All right, Well, okay, since VY 1:01:03.680 --> 1:01:05.360 wants to play, I guess it's time for a game 1:01:05.440 --> 1:01:10.480 of Guess what race? All right? What's the clues now? 1:01:10.600 --> 1:01:15.080 Alexis Tally. Alexis from Florida, Florida. She was sleep they 1:01:15.160 --> 1:01:17.680 both will sleep with her girlfriend, and her girlfriend was 1:01:17.760 --> 1:01:21.080 sleep talking and said the name of her exo alexis 1:01:21.120 --> 1:01:27.880 swung on her Guess what race? She is? Sty Go Latina, 1:01:29.200 --> 1:01:34.840 damn it man. Okay, Okay, ANGELI said Latina? Why do 1:01:34.840 --> 1:01:38.680 you say Latina? Angelie? I don't know. I just felt 1:01:38.720 --> 1:01:43.160 like it. Okay, okay, dj Envy. Alexis Tally from Florida. Okay. 1:01:43.520 --> 1:01:45.600 She was with her girlfriend. Her girlfriend was talking in 1:01:45.680 --> 1:01:48.760 her sleep and her girlfriend said ex's name alleged Lisa 1:01:48.800 --> 1:01:52.439 Alexis got up and swung on her. Guess what race 1:01:52.480 --> 1:01:59.400 she is? All right, the name Alexis makes me feel black. 1:01:59.640 --> 1:02:05.200 But I'm going Puerto Rican? How dare you? I'm gonna 1:02:05.240 --> 1:02:07.280 be honest with you. I don't know what Alexis stallely is. 1:02:07.840 --> 1:02:11.480 I'm looking know what she looked like? And he asked 1:02:11.520 --> 1:02:13.280 to play. I don't know. Let me see, let me 1:02:14.440 --> 1:02:16.320 I'm just always down for the game. It's just a 1:02:16.360 --> 1:02:19.240 good guessing game. She might be Portoici might be, but 1:02:19.360 --> 1:02:21.640 then she might be black. She might be she makes 1:02:21.720 --> 1:02:25.680 she might be happy. Its like you, Daniel, Well, it's 1:02:25.680 --> 1:02:29.040 Alexis Stally. She looked Puerto Rican. What she looked like, 1:02:31.120 --> 1:02:33.920 definitely Puerto Rican. Sometimes you can't look at a person Intel. 1:02:34.360 --> 1:02:36.640 You can't look at a person Intel, you definitely can't. 1:02:37.360 --> 1:02:43.760 All right, pointless game and wanted to play thought you 1:02:43.840 --> 1:02:46.960 knew the answer. We'll find out on social media later. 1:02:47.040 --> 1:02:50.400 I'm sure, I'm sure somebody. All right, keep it locked. 1:02:50.400 --> 1:02:52.479 We have more coming up next. It's the Breakfast Club. 1:02:53.120 --> 1:03:02.680 The Breakfast Club relations your advice, need personal advice, just 1:03:02.840 --> 1:03:07.800 the real advice. Call up now for asking morning. Everybody 1:03:07.880 --> 1:03:11.640 is DJ Endy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We all 1:03:11.680 --> 1:03:14.320 the Breakfast Club. It is time for ask ye Hello. 1:03:14.440 --> 1:03:17.680 Who's this? Um? I'm staying anonymous? All right? What's your 1:03:17.720 --> 1:03:20.800 question for you? Anonymous? Yes we can, all right. So 1:03:21.040 --> 1:03:23.840 I have a dilemma. Um, when my boyfriend and I 1:03:24.000 --> 1:03:26.040 first started dating, we're gonna, you know, do it in 1:03:26.080 --> 1:03:28.600 the car and pulled his hands down or the foul 1:03:28.680 --> 1:03:34.120 older didn't he didn't fart, He just like had took 1:03:34.160 --> 1:03:37.840 a dump and like didn't wipe his butt. Hey, now 1:03:37.960 --> 1:03:42.440 we like lived together, and whenever we're gonna do it, 1:03:42.560 --> 1:03:45.040 I always, you know, I hesitant because he doesn't wipe 1:03:45.120 --> 1:03:49.640 his butt. So how older? And you know he always 1:03:49.680 --> 1:03:53.360 has the days of his boxer, so skid marks that's 1:03:53.400 --> 1:03:56.080 what they call him, Yes, skid mark. So how do 1:03:56.160 --> 1:03:58.479 you tell your man like day? Can you please wipe guys, 1:03:58.760 --> 1:04:00.960 is he a grown man or a baby wearing a 1:04:01.120 --> 1:04:04.920 diaper that is disgusting? First of all, judge that I'm 1:04:04.960 --> 1:04:07.520 gonna tell you, Oh, is this envy we're talking about here? 1:04:10.880 --> 1:04:12.840 All right? So first of all, do y'all have wet 1:04:12.920 --> 1:04:15.120 wipes in the bathrooms in the house? I think I 1:04:15.200 --> 1:04:16.800 need to keep him there, But that is what help 1:04:17.480 --> 1:04:19.560 you gotta help him out, man, because there's first of all, 1:04:19.600 --> 1:04:21.200 there's no way he don't smell the dude who coming 1:04:21.240 --> 1:04:24.000 out his butt when he pulls his pants down. Number one. 1:04:24.360 --> 1:04:27.400 Number two, you might have to tell him you gotta 1:04:27.400 --> 1:04:29.120 get up in there when you wipe yourself and wipe 1:04:29.160 --> 1:04:31.200 yourself good. And you might have to buy him some 1:04:31.320 --> 1:04:33.200 wet wipes to carry with him when he goes places 1:04:33.240 --> 1:04:35.480 and tell him to use those when he uses the bathroom, 1:04:35.480 --> 1:04:37.480 because this is not something that you can dance around. 1:04:37.800 --> 1:04:40.960 You have to be direct about this hygiene. She's right, 1:04:41.120 --> 1:04:44.280 but I'm not his mama, though embarrassing. One time you're 1:04:44.360 --> 1:04:46.840 gonna have you have to tell him because you know what, 1:04:46.960 --> 1:04:48.720 if you don't say something, you're gonna just end up 1:04:48.760 --> 1:04:51.200 having to smell dude every time you have sex. Yeah, 1:04:51.280 --> 1:04:54.640 I can't do that, So just just till and be like, babe, 1:04:54.800 --> 1:04:58.400 look at your underwear. See this, you're not wiping yourself? Well, 1:04:58.400 --> 1:05:00.840 are you getting up in the hole? So you have 1:05:00.920 --> 1:05:03.800 doodoo stains on your sheets too? Huh? No, No, I 1:05:03.840 --> 1:05:05.920 would never. You do have to if it's in his 1:05:06.040 --> 1:05:08.360 underwears in the sheets, but you gotta, you gotta point 1:05:08.400 --> 1:05:10.400 it out because if you don't say anything, then I 1:05:10.400 --> 1:05:12.600 don't are you just having sex? And then during the smell, 1:05:13.160 --> 1:05:15.840 oh girl, I don't go down here, but I won't 1:05:15.880 --> 1:05:18.120 go down on him a lot because of that, Like 1:05:18.200 --> 1:05:21.440 I'm alwa even afraid, Like I don't want to. Why 1:05:21.480 --> 1:05:23.280 is it so hard to tell a man his ass? Think? 1:05:23.400 --> 1:05:25.440 I don't know, but you could get can't you get 1:05:25.480 --> 1:05:28.640 you call out or something? I mean, I can't wait 1:05:28.720 --> 1:05:31.680 till you ask you. I don't want to. Hell, no, 1:05:31.960 --> 1:05:34.720 I don't want to hurt well girl, I don't want 1:05:34.720 --> 1:05:37.680 you to get some type of disease either, bacteria, infection. 1:05:38.920 --> 1:05:41.240 But this is this is for his own good. First 1:05:41.280 --> 1:05:44.240 of all, if you're doing laundry, sometimes you don't want 1:05:44.280 --> 1:05:46.960 to have to touch that and clean that, right, right, 1:05:47.400 --> 1:05:49.360 And this is for his own benefit. This is to 1:05:49.480 --> 1:05:53.040 help him out in his life. You gotta show him. Look, baby, 1:05:53.200 --> 1:05:55.520 these are wet wipes. Now, me and you were having 1:05:55.520 --> 1:05:58.120 this conversation. Don't be embarrassed because we could talk about anything. 1:05:58.400 --> 1:05:59.960 And trust me, if you're having sex with this man 1:06:00.040 --> 1:06:01.960 and I'm protecting, you should be able to tell him 1:06:01.960 --> 1:06:04.640 his ass stinks and he's not wiping himself. If you 1:06:04.720 --> 1:06:06.760 can do that, and you could lay up with him 1:06:06.960 --> 1:06:08.760 and do all of that, then you should be able 1:06:08.760 --> 1:06:10.800 to communicate with him and telling him, babe, you need 1:06:10.840 --> 1:06:12.640 to clean your butt. It's gonna be so funny when 1:06:12.640 --> 1:06:14.040 you tell him his butt stinks. And he was like, man, 1:06:14.080 --> 1:06:15.919 I was thinking the same thing about your poom poom 1:06:16.960 --> 1:06:19.200 and guess what and guess what she would do? White 1:06:19.200 --> 1:06:23.000 pep poom poom with a wet white You ain't crap, 1:06:23.200 --> 1:06:27.800 ain't crap. You do want even crapt and and just listen, 1:06:28.080 --> 1:06:30.240 this isn't time when when you got to be directed. 1:06:30.360 --> 1:06:32.440 Be like, look, you know, I don't know if you're 1:06:32.480 --> 1:06:34.840 just not wiping yourself right, but there's these stains in 1:06:34.880 --> 1:06:37.040 your underwear and sometimes I can smell it, So I 1:06:37.200 --> 1:06:39.480 just want to say, you gotta wipe yourself better. Here 1:06:39.560 --> 1:06:41.440 some wet wipes every time you go to the bathroom, 1:06:41.640 --> 1:06:43.320 and you shouldn't even have sex with him to after 1:06:43.360 --> 1:06:45.640 he showers, but if he's not cleaning his button in 1:06:45.680 --> 1:06:48.680 the shower either, and then getting now that I don't 1:06:48.680 --> 1:06:53.640 know what I'm but it's cleaning his But I will 1:06:53.720 --> 1:06:56.040 say I've been on my wife twenty one years and 1:06:56.200 --> 1:06:59.640 I do remember a time about fourteen fifteen years ago 1:07:00.280 --> 1:07:03.760 where she went down and she was like, hey, man, 1:07:04.120 --> 1:07:05.920 you need to go take a shower or something, because 1:07:06.840 --> 1:07:09.080 you know and you appreciate it. It. Yeah, I went, 1:07:09.880 --> 1:07:11.800 maybe I didn't wipe properly. I don't know what it was, 1:07:11.920 --> 1:07:13.920 but she told me it hurt my feelings. I just 1:07:13.960 --> 1:07:17.960 went and took a shower between then, like, I don't understand. 1:07:18.240 --> 1:07:20.000 I don't think it was a commentation to me before 1:07:20.120 --> 1:07:22.520 once or twice, three times, four times, five times happened 1:07:22.520 --> 1:07:24.520 to me before. Yeah so, but like so that's why 1:07:24.560 --> 1:07:26.160 you got to point it out. One day y'all will 1:07:26.240 --> 1:07:28.320 laugh about it, and hopefully that day that Chella laughing, 1:07:28.400 --> 1:07:30.920 his butt will be clean. She got embarrassed and pick 1:07:31.000 --> 1:07:32.720 up the underwear and be like, what's this and then 1:07:32.800 --> 1:07:35.000 let him see the do those stains. He'll get embarrassed 1:07:35.000 --> 1:07:37.440 and I'll never do it again like that, you know 1:07:37.440 --> 1:07:39.560 what I mean? And check your sheets and I bet 1:07:39.600 --> 1:07:41.680 you gotta doose stains in your sheets. Yeah, I bet you. 1:07:42.280 --> 1:07:45.200 He knows trust me, tapping to me once or twice, 1:07:45.280 --> 1:07:48.080 but the skin marks in his face, you go too far? 1:07:48.720 --> 1:07:51.640 Thank you, mama. How do you like it? That's actually 1:07:52.160 --> 1:07:54.240 that's some young boys stuff though, because you know, like 1:07:54.360 --> 1:07:56.440 that's that's one of the reasons after I do a 1:07:56.520 --> 1:07:58.640 number two, I do go take a shower, except if 1:07:58.640 --> 1:08:00.200 you're at work. Yeah, if I'm at work, but then 1:08:00.200 --> 1:08:01.680 I'm not like I'm going home and like me and 1:08:01.720 --> 1:08:03.120 my wife gonna get right to it. I don't want 1:08:03.120 --> 1:08:04.840 to go home smelling like you should never pull and 1:08:04.920 --> 1:08:07.520 then have sex right after. Hell, you can take a shower. 1:08:07.800 --> 1:08:09.520 We don't want your money, butter pee you better white, 1:08:09.560 --> 1:08:12.160 better bro all right? Ask ye eight hundred and five 1:08:12.200 --> 1:08:14.000 A five one oh five one if you need relationship 1:08:14.000 --> 1:08:15.840 advice at Ye Now it's the breakfast club. Good Morning. 1:08:19.439 --> 1:08:23.679 There's some real advice with Angela Ye gets ask Ye Morning. 1:08:23.720 --> 1:08:27.519 Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We 1:08:27.600 --> 1:08:30.800 are the breakfast club. We're in the middle of asking ye, 1:08:31.439 --> 1:08:34.320 good morning, good morning, good morning. Hey. Can you take 1:08:34.400 --> 1:08:37.639 us on bluetooth for speaker please? Yes, sir, absolutely, what's 1:08:37.680 --> 1:08:40.599 your question for you? Bro? Good morning, breakfast club. So, yeah, 1:08:40.920 --> 1:08:43.840 my question is, so, just recently, I'm in a relationship 1:08:43.880 --> 1:08:47.400 with this with this, with this beautiful woman. She's currently 1:08:47.439 --> 1:08:50.120 going through a divorce right now, and she was raped 1:08:50.120 --> 1:08:52.360 by her soon to be ex husbin. So I was 1:08:52.479 --> 1:08:54.160 very angry. I tried to get her to go to 1:08:54.240 --> 1:08:56.120 the cob um. She didn't want to do it. So 1:08:56.200 --> 1:08:58.200 I'm trying to figure out what should I do, how 1:08:58.200 --> 1:09:01.160 I should I feel? Okay, So I understand. So you 1:09:01.200 --> 1:09:03.679 said she was raped by her soon to be ex husband. 1:09:03.720 --> 1:09:05.439 You want her to go to the police to report this, 1:09:06.120 --> 1:09:08.400 and she's not willing to do that right now, and 1:09:09.000 --> 1:09:11.880 you know that's a difficult decision. Again, it is her decision. 1:09:11.960 --> 1:09:14.360 But what you can do is be as supportive as possible. 1:09:14.720 --> 1:09:17.160 I think you should encourage her to talk to someone 1:09:17.360 --> 1:09:21.200 like a therapist or a sexual assault counselor. I know 1:09:21.280 --> 1:09:24.400 they have the National Sexual Assault Hotline that numbers eight 1:09:24.560 --> 1:09:27.000 hundred and six to five six. Hope, if she wants 1:09:27.040 --> 1:09:29.519 to speak to someone, and that way she can have 1:09:29.600 --> 1:09:31.160 a record of it, because the worst thing you want 1:09:31.200 --> 1:09:32.920 to do is not be able to bring this up 1:09:33.000 --> 1:09:35.000 later if she should change her mind. But I do 1:09:35.120 --> 1:09:38.080 think speaking to a counselor or a therapist will help 1:09:38.120 --> 1:09:40.799 her understand that it is in no way her fault, 1:09:41.479 --> 1:09:44.320 because she might be having some feeling a lot of 1:09:44.400 --> 1:09:46.320 times when things happen, you think about what could I 1:09:46.400 --> 1:09:49.000 have done differently? Is this my fault? How could this 1:09:49.080 --> 1:09:51.640 have been prevented? Did I put myself in a bad situation? 1:09:52.000 --> 1:09:53.600 Am I going to ruin his life? If they have 1:09:53.760 --> 1:09:56.280 kids together? Women think about all of those things, and 1:09:56.320 --> 1:09:58.800 a therapist might help her to see things from a 1:09:58.840 --> 1:10:01.080 different point of view and under stand that it was 1:10:01.120 --> 1:10:03.320 in no way at all her faults. And another thing 1:10:03.360 --> 1:10:05.479 you should encourage her to do is write everything down. 1:10:06.000 --> 1:10:08.240 That way she can remember every single detail. In case 1:10:08.280 --> 1:10:10.920 there's an instance where she does decide that she wants 1:10:10.920 --> 1:10:12.880 to go to the police or report this, she'll have 1:10:13.000 --> 1:10:15.920 all of that information. But speaking to a counselor speaking 1:10:15.960 --> 1:10:17.960 to a therapist that can help her see things. Who's 1:10:17.960 --> 1:10:20.200 an expert from a different point of view, I think 1:10:20.240 --> 1:10:21.840 would be one of the most helpful things you can do, 1:10:22.000 --> 1:10:24.200 because again, you want to be there to support and 1:10:24.280 --> 1:10:26.120 comfort her. You want her to be able to trust you, 1:10:26.640 --> 1:10:28.560 but you don't want to make her feel ashamed or 1:10:28.600 --> 1:10:31.719 have any type of judgment on whatever her decision is. Gosh, 1:10:32.160 --> 1:10:35.519 and I tried to suggest some of those things to her, 1:10:35.680 --> 1:10:39.240 but I think that the problem arose where she didn't 1:10:39.280 --> 1:10:41.559 want to be big demands or be a big Jim 1:10:41.680 --> 1:10:43.240 and it was kind of hard for her to em 1:10:43.280 --> 1:10:47.120 and grasp the concept of what happened. And when we 1:10:47.240 --> 1:10:49.760 had the conversation, it was kind of like she was 1:10:50.000 --> 1:10:53.200 kind of in denial rights. That's a problem now we 1:10:53.320 --> 1:10:56.200 were running into But and she's a survivor, and she's 1:10:56.240 --> 1:10:59.760 a survivor we like to say survivor, so not a 1:11:00.280 --> 1:11:02.960 but she survived this and we want her to continue 1:11:03.000 --> 1:11:06.080 to thrive and to actually deal with whatever she might 1:11:06.120 --> 1:11:08.160 be feeling with that. And that might be something that 1:11:08.280 --> 1:11:11.240 she needs to talk to somebody about. Again, if right 1:11:11.280 --> 1:11:13.320 now she's not ready to go to the police, I 1:11:13.360 --> 1:11:15.960 would encourage her to speak to someone and even you 1:11:16.040 --> 1:11:18.000 can call right because then they might be able to 1:11:18.080 --> 1:11:20.040 give you the tools that you would need to be 1:11:20.160 --> 1:11:23.280 able to talk to your girlfriend to better be able 1:11:23.320 --> 1:11:26.519 to help her because that's a traumatic experience. You don't 1:11:26.520 --> 1:11:28.360 even know how this might affect her later, but you 1:11:28.439 --> 1:11:30.760 want her to be able to have whatever options available 1:11:30.800 --> 1:11:33.720 to her in case she needs those. Oh, thank you 1:11:33.800 --> 1:11:36.200 so much. I love you, guys. I left me all 1:11:36.240 --> 1:11:39.000 every pint at but thank you again so much. All right, 1:11:39.160 --> 1:11:41.600 thank you, and we commend you and appreciate you for 1:11:41.720 --> 1:11:44.040 being such a support to your girlfriend at a time 1:11:44.080 --> 1:11:49.599 like this. Absolutely got to be Okay, you two ask 1:11:49.720 --> 1:11:52.679 ye ooh, that's tough. All right, we got more coming 1:11:52.760 --> 1:11:57.320 up next with a breakfast club. It's that time ask 1:11:57.439 --> 1:12:05.479 Charlemagne and Dji morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela yee, 1:12:05.640 --> 1:12:08.760 Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast club. It's time 1:12:08.840 --> 1:12:11.439 for asking if you need relationship advice and any type 1:12:11.439 --> 1:12:13.080 of advice. You get this right now? Hello? Who's this? 1:12:14.840 --> 1:12:18.000 Hey Kendrick go morning? What's your question for seeing? I 1:12:18.080 --> 1:12:22.120 actually have a question for you, Envy here in North 1:12:22.200 --> 1:12:26.240 Carolina and I'm wanting to get into but I don't 1:12:26.280 --> 1:12:28.559 know where to start. Okay, Well, first of all, how's 1:12:28.560 --> 1:12:31.439 your credit? Your credit good? Yeah, that's the most important thing. 1:12:31.479 --> 1:12:34.639 And then now you have to find the property. There's 1:12:34.640 --> 1:12:36.759 a couple of websites that I use across the country. 1:12:36.800 --> 1:12:39.479 One is auction dot com okay, and the other one 1:12:39.600 --> 1:12:43.000 is hubzoo dot com. Now those two websites I have 1:12:43.160 --> 1:12:44.960 no affiliation with, so I don't get no paid for 1:12:45.000 --> 1:12:47.000 it and nothing. These is just the websites I actually use. 1:12:47.640 --> 1:12:50.439 Those are the websites I used to find properties that 1:12:50.520 --> 1:12:53.080 are usually being auctioned off that you can get at 1:12:53.240 --> 1:12:56.720 a great price, way undermarket value. And that's where you 1:12:56.720 --> 1:12:58.679 should look first. And you should look at the comps 1:12:58.720 --> 1:13:01.080 in the area and see what those properties worth. When 1:13:01.120 --> 1:13:03.200 you look at those properties, you should take somebody with 1:13:03.320 --> 1:13:05.320 you to see how much those properties will cost to 1:13:05.479 --> 1:13:07.560 fix up. See what's wrong with the property, if it 1:13:07.600 --> 1:13:09.640 needs a new roof, if it needs electric, if it 1:13:09.680 --> 1:13:11.880 need's plumbing, if it needs flooring, if it needs sighting, 1:13:11.920 --> 1:13:14.160 if it needs whatever it may be, and then make 1:13:14.240 --> 1:13:17.560 your your analysis from there. So if that property is 1:13:17.560 --> 1:13:19.640 five hundred and needs one hundred thousand dollars worth work, 1:13:19.680 --> 1:13:21.799 that's six hundred thousand, but it's worth eight hundred thousand. 1:13:22.000 --> 1:13:26.360 That's a good flip. Okay, I want follow your partner 1:13:26.520 --> 1:13:29.000 on Facebook and Instagram, and I want to send one 1:13:29.000 --> 1:13:33.760 of your seminars, but I'm working. That would be a 1:13:33.840 --> 1:13:36.200 good one because during the seminar, there's so many people 1:13:36.320 --> 1:13:39.439 there that like do finance, and we a lot of 1:13:39.520 --> 1:13:42.120 times we have the people from those sites actually come. 1:13:42.200 --> 1:13:44.760 So fuction dot com tells you how to navigate through 1:13:44.800 --> 1:13:47.519 the site to buy the actual properties. We have hard 1:13:47.600 --> 1:13:50.080 money lenders. We have financial people there to tell you 1:13:50.160 --> 1:13:51.960 how you can get the loans and help you get 1:13:52.000 --> 1:13:54.080 those loans. So it's a it's a really good seminar. 1:13:54.120 --> 1:13:55.599 You should definitely check it out if you have a chance. 1:13:55.840 --> 1:13:58.519 I appreciate it. Thank you all right, and just continue 1:13:58.560 --> 1:14:00.719 to follow me and Sezar because we're gonna some courses 1:14:00.800 --> 1:14:02.880 online because we can't make it to all the cities. 1:14:02.880 --> 1:14:04.240 We just got so much going on where we can 1:14:04.320 --> 1:14:06.200 help people online and we just want to see our 1:14:06.240 --> 1:14:09.320 own people just you know, continue to purchase land and property. Yeah, 1:14:09.360 --> 1:14:12.880 I'm trying to feel a generational wealth, all right, Mama, 1:14:12.960 --> 1:14:18.320 thank you. Hello, who's this? This is nails design question. 1:14:18.640 --> 1:14:21.200 I have a question for you, mb Why are you 1:14:21.479 --> 1:14:24.840 so insecure in your masculinity that you won't let ye 1:14:25.000 --> 1:14:28.680 playing me when you're not there yet, so you are good. 1:14:28.800 --> 1:14:34.560 Great question, Great question, queen. Um. I'm not insecuing my masculinity. 1:14:34.640 --> 1:14:36.559 He was allowed to do mixes a long time ago. 1:14:36.640 --> 1:14:38.240 But I believe they said she was trash or they 1:14:38.240 --> 1:14:40.320 didn't want her to That never happened. You are such 1:14:44.520 --> 1:14:47.200 that was out at the time, not the pre program 1:14:47.320 --> 1:14:49.600 stuff you got going on. Well, I don't play the 1:14:49.720 --> 1:14:52.200 music during the show man, but if if you know, 1:14:52.320 --> 1:14:54.839 if if Ye's mix wasn't trash, they would have invited 1:14:54.840 --> 1:14:57.760 her to play again. It is something more to the 1:14:57.880 --> 1:15:01.080 ex than I do your next. Oh, I don't know. 1:15:01.479 --> 1:15:04.040 I don't know. I don't know. Maybe you should start 1:15:04.040 --> 1:15:06.600 a um an Instagram page and try. I don't know, 1:15:06.680 --> 1:15:13.560 but that's what trash. And they said they said that 1:15:13.760 --> 1:15:15.760 because the mix is so trashed, they didn't they didn't 1:15:15.800 --> 1:15:17.519 want her back. I'm sorry you said you're gonna see 1:15:17.520 --> 1:15:21.599 her already. You that was you. You were being shady. 1:15:21.880 --> 1:15:24.040 I'm not being shady, but you have a good morning, though. 1:15:24.160 --> 1:15:31.960 I love you whatever. Send her healing energy. Hello. Who's this? Hey? 1:15:32.280 --> 1:15:35.400 This is umke Oh boy, fake name? What's your question 1:15:35.439 --> 1:15:39.599 for seeing me? I just had a question, um, how 1:15:39.640 --> 1:15:44.400 do you deal with like trusting someone after like them 1:15:44.560 --> 1:15:47.800 she and you know you have a baby together. Oh 1:15:47.880 --> 1:15:49.600 that's not on you, that's on him, you know what 1:15:49.600 --> 1:15:52.040 I mean. The best apology to change behavior, like he 1:15:52.160 --> 1:15:54.519 has to regain your trust, you know what I mean? Like, 1:15:54.760 --> 1:15:56.799 that's not that's not something you got to force yourself 1:15:56.880 --> 1:15:59.000 to do. Yeah, and it takes time. Don't don't. Don't 1:15:59.120 --> 1:16:00.599 let him force you to be like, oh you gotta 1:16:00.800 --> 1:16:02.600 you forgave me, so you gotta no, no, no, it 1:16:02.680 --> 1:16:05.680 takes time. Whenever you're comfortable, whenever you feel okay, that's 1:16:05.720 --> 1:16:07.840 when you feel okay. Like Charlemagne said, it ain't about 1:16:07.880 --> 1:16:09.880 telling me, it's about showing me. And are you open 1:16:10.000 --> 1:16:13.080 are you open to trusting him again? I am definitely 1:16:13.200 --> 1:16:16.439 open to trusting him again. It's just like the fact, 1:16:16.520 --> 1:16:19.840 like feeling like the prison, like feeling betrayed by someone. 1:16:20.320 --> 1:16:22.880 All good feelings are not good feelings but all natural 1:16:22.960 --> 1:16:25.120 feelings to have. All you gotta do is remain open 1:16:25.200 --> 1:16:28.759 to trusting him, and he has to regain your trust 1:16:29.000 --> 1:16:31.760 by changing his behavior. And that's just gonna come over time. 1:16:31.840 --> 1:16:33.840 Just like you knew he was cheating. It's like your 1:16:33.880 --> 1:16:37.080 six since that woman, since intuition knew he was cheating. 1:16:37.240 --> 1:16:40.960 You're gonna know when you're doing right, and thank you 1:16:41.680 --> 1:16:43.559 and if you still comfortable. Every once in a while, 1:16:43.600 --> 1:16:45.560 do a phone check, phone check, Nick, give me a 1:16:45.640 --> 1:16:52.479 phone thank you, guys. Hello, who's this? Hey? Hey Nannie, 1:16:52.520 --> 1:16:56.040 what's your question for CNE? So I just thought out 1:16:56.200 --> 1:17:00.840 my husband was texting Reilly like, but this test with 1:17:01.120 --> 1:17:05.880 a co worker. I'm a month pregnant and I've been 1:17:05.960 --> 1:17:09.200 going through a lot of like, let's scary scars. So 1:17:10.000 --> 1:17:13.320 this whole time, I'm like, why would you think it's 1:17:13.360 --> 1:17:15.920 okayty for you to be doing these things when we 1:17:16.040 --> 1:17:19.439 are going through like some hard at home, like we 1:17:19.600 --> 1:17:22.240 could lose the baby. And every time I bring it 1:17:22.360 --> 1:17:24.679 up to him, he kind of just like, just get 1:17:24.720 --> 1:17:27.920 over it, you know, let's move on. M I didn't 1:17:27.960 --> 1:17:32.360 do nothing with this message, But like, you work with 1:17:32.520 --> 1:17:34.720 this girl, and I've asked you multiple times to like 1:17:34.800 --> 1:17:36.720 contact her in front of me and tell her like 1:17:36.800 --> 1:17:38.400 it's over, you know, like I don't want to have 1:17:38.560 --> 1:17:41.800 nothing to do with you, but he won't do it. Yeah, 1:17:42.040 --> 1:17:43.559 I mean, I'll be honest with you. I think it's 1:17:43.640 --> 1:17:47.439 very disrespectful the fact that you're pregnant and continues to 1:17:47.520 --> 1:17:49.120 text this girl. I know it has to be difficult 1:17:49.160 --> 1:17:51.160 for you because every day he goes to work, you 1:17:51.280 --> 1:17:54.160 have to think about your husband seeing this other woman 1:17:54.200 --> 1:17:56.639 that he's been texting explicitly. And it's not a matter 1:17:56.720 --> 1:17:58.800 of just get over it and it'll go away. No, 1:17:58.880 --> 1:18:00.679 it's not that you put that You keep that pressure 1:18:00.680 --> 1:18:02.519 on that man's neck. The fact that he has been 1:18:02.560 --> 1:18:05.320 doing it is very disrespectful. Your husband is a boy. 1:18:05.400 --> 1:18:08.160 We've all had our boy opportunities and our boy aspects 1:18:08.160 --> 1:18:09.840 of our lives. But he has to grow up and 1:18:09.920 --> 1:18:12.680 understand he has responsibilities. He has a wife at home 1:18:12.720 --> 1:18:14.680 that's pregnant, and he should be taking care of home, 1:18:14.760 --> 1:18:17.240 making sure that you know that life that you're building, 1:18:17.320 --> 1:18:20.400 that you're completely stressed. Free Yo yo yo, queen, Get 1:18:20.439 --> 1:18:25.960 a fired queen, Queen, get a fired queen. You know 1:18:26.040 --> 1:18:28.200 what I'm saying. I'm sure you got a creative mind. 1:18:28.560 --> 1:18:30.960 You can make something up and get a little message 1:18:31.000 --> 1:18:34.280 to the boss. You know what I'm saying, get her fired. 1:18:34.880 --> 1:18:38.120 But you know that's our livelihood. I can't. Yes, Oh 1:18:38.200 --> 1:18:40.320 you care about her livelihood? Did she care about your 1:18:40.400 --> 1:18:42.960 liveli She ain't thinking about you. She ain't thinking about 1:18:43.000 --> 1:18:46.599 your life, your livelihood, the life and your belly. Nothing. 1:18:46.960 --> 1:18:52.439 Get a fired queen, all right, goodness, gracious, let her know. 1:18:52.479 --> 1:18:54.000 I'm gonna get you fired. If you don't leave my 1:18:54.040 --> 1:18:56.200 man alone, you might have to embarrass up. You might 1:18:56.240 --> 1:18:59.680 have to embarrass him straight up. Maybe maybe an anonymous 1:18:59.680 --> 1:19:02.559 face book post. I know what's going on at the job. 1:19:03.000 --> 1:19:05.479 Y'all better leave my man alone before I start naming 1:19:05.600 --> 1:19:09.720 names all. You could do it right now if you want, no, 1:19:09.880 --> 1:19:13.120 don't do it now, think about it. I have a 1:19:13.160 --> 1:19:15.760 good one. What kind of advice is that forget a fight? 1:19:15.840 --> 1:19:17.240 All right? Do it now? Don't do it now, don't 1:19:17.240 --> 1:19:19.559 do it now, think about it? On it? My goodness? 1:19:19.920 --> 1:19:22.240 All right? Well that's as C and E. It's the 1:19:22.240 --> 1:19:25.920 Breakfast Local Morning, the breakfast Club. Your morning's will never 1:19:26.200 --> 1:19:30.000 be the same. What up, y'allas? DJ envy for nearly 1:19:30.080 --> 1:19:32.680 sixty years of quality coverage, make the right call and 1:19:32.760 --> 1:19:34.800 go with the General called eight under General, or go 1:19:34.880 --> 1:19:36.720 to the General dot com to get a hassle free 1:19:36.800 --> 1:19:40.320 quote today the General Auto Insurance Services, Inc. An insurance 1:19:40.360 --> 1:19:46.680 agency Nashville, Tennessee. Some restrictions apply. Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela, 1:19:46.800 --> 1:19:49.160 Yane Charlomagne, the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We 1:19:49.200 --> 1:19:51.200 got a special guest in the building, that's right. Name 1:19:51.280 --> 1:19:53.320 is Love Russell, not La Russell. He's only been the 1:19:53.479 --> 1:19:56.920 La five times, that's right. My man Horvain hit me, 1:19:57.240 --> 1:19:59.800 hit me back in July and he sent me a 1:20:00.080 --> 1:20:02.000 a video and he was and he was like, he 1:20:02.040 --> 1:20:03.160 just sent it to me. I think he might say 1:20:03.240 --> 1:20:04.320 check it out, but I didn't get a chance to 1:20:04.360 --> 1:20:05.640 check it out. In a couple days later he hit 1:20:05.680 --> 1:20:07.679 me and Hope and say, you ain't watched that video. 1:20:08.560 --> 1:20:10.160 So I watched the video and I was like, Yo, 1:20:10.320 --> 1:20:13.920 who is this kid? This kid is incredible? And here 1:20:13.960 --> 1:20:16.840 he is now right you know. Now for people, where 1:20:16.840 --> 1:20:20.120 are you from? I'm from Valo, California, from California. He 1:20:20.320 --> 1:20:23.720 forties land. That's right, man, all right? So so l 1:20:23.800 --> 1:20:25.479 Russell just here to s pitch some bars. If y'all 1:20:25.520 --> 1:20:27.760 haven't seen hopevai and post him or me post him up. 1:20:28.000 --> 1:20:30.920 Everybody be posting him. You know. We want to give 1:20:31.000 --> 1:20:33.639 him the opportunity to do his one two things. Right here. 1:20:33.760 --> 1:20:36.680 You're gonna rap, okay, you're gonna wrap, all right, So 1:20:36.760 --> 1:20:38.960 only millions of people listening right now. No pressure though, 1:20:39.000 --> 1:20:47.880 no pressure. Yeah, Breakfast Club, thank you for having me. Yeah, 1:20:50.960 --> 1:20:56.040 bay Area Valo, Come on, man, we came out to 1:20:56.240 --> 1:21:03.439 n Y twelve deep for this. Yeah. African and the 1:21:03.560 --> 1:21:08.320 European with like when't come hill, No European ship your 1:21:08.360 --> 1:21:12.680 opinion shod show. European lives, money and murder. That's that European. 1:21:13.760 --> 1:21:16.880 I know better. I just hold my tongue yelling out 1:21:16.960 --> 1:21:20.080 told the while I'm on my running happily waves back 1:21:20.200 --> 1:21:24.200 as I hold my gun. Huh. I've seen a lot 1:21:24.280 --> 1:21:26.880 of side of y'all look like me. You know your 1:21:26.960 --> 1:21:29.720 rights get denied when you look like me. Yeah, we're 1:21:29.720 --> 1:21:32.160 both in different size, but you look like me. I 1:21:32.280 --> 1:21:34.439 come to man in the mirror. Never looked like me. 1:21:34.960 --> 1:21:38.040 I'm familiar. Quite peculiar, dude. You know yourself? Are you 1:21:38.160 --> 1:21:40.920 tending to your garden? Do you grow yourself? Are you 1:21:41.040 --> 1:21:44.120 living in the past? Do you hold yourself accountable for 1:21:44.160 --> 1:21:46.880 all that's bad? Like you all yourself a new life, 1:21:46.920 --> 1:21:49.840 a new bitch and knew you, some new goals and 1:21:49.960 --> 1:21:52.760 new holes and new crew. You know them. You know 1:21:53.040 --> 1:21:56.040 us and them too. You know who everybody is, but 1:21:56.160 --> 1:21:59.600 who you I ain't trying to preach because I hate that. 1:22:00.600 --> 1:22:04.080 But I see dying, and I hate that smelling all 1:22:04.120 --> 1:22:07.400 the time. I gotta fake that. I hate twenty shots. 1:22:07.479 --> 1:22:10.920 Why make that sharing all this pain for the income 1:22:10.960 --> 1:22:13.400 market game? Greg Granny was a sleep. What would have 1:22:13.479 --> 1:22:16.280 ever covered chain gave us band dads like that? Could 1:22:16.280 --> 1:22:19.439 ever stop the pain? Shoot to hang for these songs 1:22:19.520 --> 1:22:22.360 that I sang. Jused to die for these pitches that 1:22:22.439 --> 1:22:24.880 I posted, because you used to die trying to get 1:22:24.920 --> 1:22:27.479 a right to vote, liberty in life. They say we 1:22:27.520 --> 1:22:30.280 gotta right to both. But when have right? Since they 1:22:30.360 --> 1:22:32.840 jugg us off that boat, took us from our land, 1:22:32.920 --> 1:22:35.160 then took our lad from us, cross the arm in 1:22:35.200 --> 1:22:37.679 the leg. They really took our hand from us through 1:22:37.680 --> 1:22:40.680 a send them pages, taxed all our wages, tought us 1:22:40.680 --> 1:22:43.720 state religion rippled all the pages, been his way for 1:22:43.840 --> 1:22:46.599 ages through a cent him mazes made it off them 1:22:46.680 --> 1:22:50.000 cotton fields. Now we're on the stages wrapping about ass cheeks. 1:22:50.040 --> 1:22:54.040 We're rapping about chains, rapping about fenzes, We're rapping about pains, 1:22:54.439 --> 1:22:58.040 rapping about oppression, We're rapping about pain. I'm wrapping about 1:22:58.080 --> 1:23:00.560 all that. I gotta share the blame they're rapping on 1:23:00.640 --> 1:23:03.360 the contract. They're wrapping for some fame. They're wrapping in 1:23:03.439 --> 1:23:10.799 a slate deal. We're clapping while they hang Dan. Hello, 1:23:10.960 --> 1:23:18.080 Dan should be doing but let out it's different. Get 1:23:18.400 --> 1:23:21.160 get Russell some water? I want my own man. I 1:23:21.240 --> 1:23:24.479 gotta hear something else. I need another one? Man, you 1:23:24.560 --> 1:23:26.680 got some more? You know? I come? You got some more? 1:23:26.720 --> 1:23:29.400 You want to switch to beat? He got his own 1:23:29.439 --> 1:23:32.559 water Alkali? Okay, let's get another beat for him? Then 1:23:32.600 --> 1:23:35.680 he got he got his own alkali? What else we got? 1:23:35.920 --> 1:23:39.479 Who produced that? By the way, Russell produced by skies man? 1:23:39.640 --> 1:23:43.720 Okay from no, No, he's actually from overseas. Okay, wow, 1:23:43.800 --> 1:23:49.639 wow wow wow that beat online? Man, Make sure that's clear. 1:23:49.880 --> 1:23:53.080 Make sure it's clear. The money were clear and were 1:23:53.080 --> 1:23:55.479 splitting the pie up with him. Let's go there we go. 1:23:55.520 --> 1:23:57.200 We got no one? What's this? Who produced this one? 1:23:57.479 --> 1:24:01.960 This by bandit loose man Savage. Let's go my mail Russell. 1:24:02.040 --> 1:24:13.439 Let's hear hey yeah go on Valo, California, Bay Area 1:24:14.040 --> 1:24:23.920 breakfast club. Yeah, hey, look at what it comes to? 1:24:24.439 --> 1:24:27.200 No escape? Who can I run to Na's Agate life 1:24:27.280 --> 1:24:29.760 like I'm sun too? Was having fun with it? I 1:24:29.800 --> 1:24:32.160 ain't so separately. I come with it through my life 1:24:32.200 --> 1:24:34.080 away like I was done with it. I've been in 1:24:34.160 --> 1:24:36.240 a slump dog. Should have kept it real front of 1:24:36.320 --> 1:24:38.840 jump dog, Chris crossing me, gonna make you jump dog. 1:24:39.040 --> 1:24:44.679 I just need some preferably in a lump dog dreams 1:24:44.680 --> 1:24:47.160 of a beat. Well, no, it's deficiencies in my beat 1:24:47.200 --> 1:24:49.840 twelve my net game back feel like eats hell. How 1:24:49.920 --> 1:24:52.760 could I be well belly even sleeping? I don't eat well. 1:24:53.000 --> 1:24:55.400 I can't even go into the details. I'm just on 1:24:55.520 --> 1:24:58.200 the crime bro I got bigger than my mind hole. 1:24:58.439 --> 1:25:01.200 I rapped about it when it's time ten years from now. 1:25:01.320 --> 1:25:03.320 Don't want to ask where the time go. You can 1:25:03.400 --> 1:25:06.920 have a mindful that you could be mindful ever rap 1:25:07.000 --> 1:25:09.840 better go get a. Had to send the order back 1:25:09.960 --> 1:25:12.880 needed mo chetta. These verses kept me out of them 1:25:12.960 --> 1:25:15.519 hurst and stiff me away from churches. Frivolous when I 1:25:15.720 --> 1:25:19.240 purchased love letters than cursive elegant when I shoot addicted 1:25:19.280 --> 1:25:21.760 to them trees, I never got to the room. I'm 1:25:21.800 --> 1:25:27.439 gonna take a break and let these reboot. Wrapping for 1:25:27.520 --> 1:25:30.680 a Daycage spitting when he had neck braids, back when 1:25:30.680 --> 1:25:33.439 I was banking with the messages. God was lost, trying 1:25:33.439 --> 1:25:36.040 to find some where to fit. Still had pride when 1:25:36.040 --> 1:25:38.559 I ain't had the newest kick back when my mamma 1:25:38.640 --> 1:25:41.200 used to rub me down with vic gee unit fit 1:25:41.320 --> 1:25:44.200 for all the family picks people in them cages him 1:25:44.240 --> 1:25:46.400 post to sound free me the statue in the v 1:25:46.640 --> 1:25:49.400 it won't be another me. I'm out and bet could 1:25:49.400 --> 1:25:51.360 take you from A to Z. They gonna watch me 1:25:51.439 --> 1:25:53.559 peel off. I'm on it like A and D. They 1:25:53.640 --> 1:25:55.320 put it on the show because save us for A 1:25:55.479 --> 1:25:57.759 and D. I didn't put more dope outs and dealers 1:25:57.800 --> 1:26:01.360 in eighty three. Yeah, bring it where it caught me 1:26:01.640 --> 1:26:04.439 sliding with the stick. The let's be playing hockey or 1:26:04.520 --> 1:26:07.840 this horseplay gonna turn me into a jockey number cook. 1:26:07.960 --> 1:26:11.040 I'm always burning the broccoli lee. I'm wrong for plitting 1:26:11.120 --> 1:26:14.120 my favorite song. Shouldn't invest in half and the opportunity 1:26:14.320 --> 1:26:16.880 zone be on my back and I ain't even wearing 1:26:16.920 --> 1:26:19.240 blown three grams in the cone. I'm trying to get 1:26:19.280 --> 1:26:22.080 in my zone ready for the shake back, buzzing like 1:26:22.160 --> 1:26:24.519 I drunk a whole eight pack. I've set things I 1:26:24.640 --> 1:26:27.920 can't take back, watching everything I built shot the trumble 1:26:27.960 --> 1:26:32.040 apart being broken. You the humblest start halfway through a breakdown. 1:26:32.360 --> 1:26:35.400 I didn't lost everything, but faith now negative balances on 1:26:35.520 --> 1:26:39.280 my PayPal accounts closing. I'm the only one that's being open. 1:26:39.560 --> 1:26:42.640 I get the picture you posing. Its depended towards be 1:26:42.760 --> 1:26:45.800 looking at empty floor, low ticket sales. But I keep 1:26:45.880 --> 1:26:48.720 booking more meets with the board they missed, told us 1:26:48.760 --> 1:26:51.240 the cord really put in work. Can't make it off, 1:26:51.320 --> 1:26:54.599 my lord, no bill hop. I'm no one that opened doors. 1:26:55.080 --> 1:26:56.840 Norm's gonna make it. I can feel it in my 1:26:57.000 --> 1:26:59.800 core when it rains, it pois on the poor even more. 1:27:00.320 --> 1:27:02.120 I know what I'm doing, but don't ask me if 1:27:02.200 --> 1:27:04.479 I'm sure. Never before the door, if it, don't ask 1:27:04.560 --> 1:27:06.880 me what it's for. I've been on neds can show 1:27:07.000 --> 1:27:09.439 you the Heaven's dore, Mike, get my hand out with 1:27:09.640 --> 1:27:11.920 it like it's the sword. Pull up to the venue 1:27:11.960 --> 1:27:14.840 with my own boy while I listen more can't get 1:27:14.880 --> 1:27:17.439 caught up than them cours playing the new releases while 1:27:17.479 --> 1:27:20.559 I wrote my own tour twenty twenty boards and trying 1:27:20.600 --> 1:27:22.800 to explore. When you're the mother and boss, ain't no 1:27:22.920 --> 1:27:25.760 susting it's bored. Don't make me reveal all this I 1:27:25.920 --> 1:27:28.720 do for real, It wasn't. I took them and gate 1:27:28.760 --> 1:27:31.320 from scales. They won't admit once they get up in 1:27:31.400 --> 1:27:33.479 the fields, don't try to lend their hand. Once I 1:27:33.600 --> 1:27:36.080 made it up to hell Stream to the mill without 1:27:36.080 --> 1:27:38.800 a distribution deal, you don't do it on your own money. 1:27:38.960 --> 1:27:41.240 Let's be for real. My plots help me out, But 1:27:41.360 --> 1:27:44.000 I started by myself. I put over fifty k before 1:27:44.040 --> 1:27:46.479 I ever got some help. I ain't got no label. 1:27:46.520 --> 1:27:48.360 They can't put me on the shelf. I don't pay 1:27:48.439 --> 1:27:50.880 no flaw. They write about me by themselves. I can't 1:27:50.920 --> 1:27:53.320 build a home, but looked at me building wealth. I 1:27:53.400 --> 1:27:55.880 can cry by my hand, I could play. I was dealt. 1:27:56.479 --> 1:27:59.400 I'm an animal. You can see my pill hit at 1:27:59.439 --> 1:28:02.840 a moment. Most the melt made my career is spitting 1:28:02.960 --> 1:28:07.200 everything I felt undisputed. Champ GC on the belt made 1:28:07.280 --> 1:28:11.280 my career. Spitting everything I felt undisputed. Champ GC on 1:28:11.360 --> 1:28:19.559 a belt. It's different. But leo, what's up? Alkaline ball us? 1:28:19.800 --> 1:28:25.639 Those alkaline balls right there, that's holistic hip hop. Those 1:28:25.680 --> 1:28:29.720 are healing verses right there. No industry plant, this is 1:28:29.840 --> 1:28:35.960 organic growing on the organic man. Wow, Wow, what are 1:28:35.960 --> 1:28:38.679 your Twitters and Instagram and Russell when they can find 1:28:38.720 --> 1:28:41.360 you follow me at L Russell LA r U S 1:28:41.560 --> 1:28:44.479 S E L L on everything. I appreciate y'all. Man 1:28:44.840 --> 1:28:48.240 young man is special. There is special. It's L Russell. 1:28:48.400 --> 1:28:50.840 It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Remember it's Lot Russell, 1:28:50.920 --> 1:28:54.320 not La Russell. Not lying on man's right. He's only 1:28:54.360 --> 1:28:56.439 been in La five times. He said, it's the Breakfast 1:28:56.439 --> 1:29:02.519 Club morning. Everybody is tj Envy angela year, Charlemagne, the guy. 1:29:02.600 --> 1:29:04.719 We are the Breakfast Club. Charlemagne. You got a positive 1:29:04.760 --> 1:29:06.439 note for the people. Hey, The positive note of the 1:29:06.479 --> 1:29:10.120 day is simply this life is ironic. It takes depression 1:29:10.160 --> 1:29:13.400 to know happiness. It takes scress to understand calm. It 1:29:13.520 --> 1:29:17.479 takes absence, the value presence Breakfast Club. This is, you know, 1:29:17.640 --> 1:29:18.360 finish for y'all. Do