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Speaker 1: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hello,

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Speaker 1: who's this? Good morning comedy buddy, and oh man, what's

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Speaker 1: up snack Man our local comedian? How you doing all right?

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Speaker 1: All right? I got let me let me try, let

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Speaker 1: me run two, Let me run two by you, okay,

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Speaker 1: let me know what you all right? Two jokes and

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Speaker 1: begin Okay. At my job, I had to spend twenty

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Speaker 1: but I think there should be a twenty five minute

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Speaker 1: video on how to work to snack manut up, thank you?

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Speaker 1: Why he had two jokes, Envy, I didn't hit either

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Speaker 1: stat man, and he's gonna love this one. I decided

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Speaker 1: to steal my new card and that's not the best part.

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Speaker 1: my stand up routine behind it. Thank you all right, Emmy,

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Speaker 1: that one was for you. Thank you. SNA send snack

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Speaker 1: healing energy, sending his comedy career healing energy. He's trashed

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Speaker 1: for real like bad bads, send them healing energy NV. Hello.

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Speaker 1: Who's this? Oh? My name a Bert of Hey, good morning,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm gonna hi guys. I've been doing

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Speaker 1: them like I trying to take them. You made it ja?

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Speaker 1: How old are you? Thirty three? Oh? Okay, well, I

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Speaker 1: know right, it sound like I'm like fourteen. I know.

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Speaker 1: like I'm trying to fresh rate it. So they got

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Speaker 1: like they can't get back to me. Yeah, it's scary

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Speaker 1: They're so nervous, but it's one of the things you

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Speaker 1: wash their hands every chance they get. You ain't. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, I'm not. I love y'all, love you back. Hello?

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Speaker 1: Who's this every one? Jason good b oh Man? Well,

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Speaker 1: I just got a house felt be in ten years.

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Speaker 1: We closed from the house, um earlier this year, only

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Speaker 1: for her cheat on me a month later. Oh I'm sorry. Yeah, Um.

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Speaker 1: And there's no working it out. I mean there is,

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Speaker 1: That's why the that's why the phone goes off, because

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Speaker 1: So I don't forget. There's parking lots all around this place.

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Speaker 1: And Charlemagne, man, you gotta question. You gotta question the

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Speaker 1: Hellow who's this? Hey, it was going on. My name

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Speaker 1: is James. James. What I'm getting off your chest? Just

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Speaker 1: But once you have that emotional spiritual connection with a child,

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Speaker 1: What made what made you get tested? Well? I didn't

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Speaker 1: healing energy, King, and just remember that's not that child's fault. Man.

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Speaker 1: And you know you gotta look at it from on

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Speaker 1: You know what I name. I didn't even think about

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Speaker 1: it like that. But you don't gotta pay child support

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Speaker 1: think honestly, man ten years old, you've been with that

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Speaker 1: you might not want to pay the mother though, you

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Speaker 1: might just want to take care of his daughter exactly.

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Speaker 1: It's a weird law though, that even though you find

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Speaker 1: out a child's not yours, you've been raising her as

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Speaker 1: continue to pay child support. Yeah, what was her biological

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Speaker 1: father king, no clue. See, that's that's my point. That's

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Speaker 1: that position down? He shouldn't have to pay y'all support though, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't, not, not at all. I'm looking into lawyers

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Speaker 1: I'll always be there for her, but I don't want

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Speaker 1: God bless your brother. All right. Hello, who's this? Hello?

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Speaker 1: I just want to say, he said, blood, Good morning everybody,

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Speaker 1: john Stone? What was happening? Brother? What's up? Charlotte made

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Speaker 1: COMPI why are you furrntee yourself as Shan Stone? Or that?

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Speaker 1: and how long the traine crazy? I mean, you shouldn't

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Speaker 1: I didn't win. I say, what's up? I head now,

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Speaker 1: head nod. That's not a wink, Brokat's just just be fladdered. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: just be flattered. It ain't was cute, all right, Get

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Speaker 1: something now with the Breakfast Club. Good morning the Breakfast

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Speaker 1: Club on. Everybody is DJ MG and Ngelu yee Charlomagne,

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Speaker 1: Ni guy. We all to Breakfast Club. We got a

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Speaker 1: special guest in the building. Yes, sir, Yo know Yolo.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I thought you was heavy set, man,

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Speaker 1: I didn't. I did hit. I saw pictures of you

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Speaker 1: of you just never that big. No. I We're good

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Speaker 1: to meet you. Yeah, and congratulations, man, you've been doing

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Speaker 1: so many great things. So the pandemic has been good

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Speaker 1: for you though, right like man, yeah, yeah, like it's

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Speaker 1: I'm telling me about this the other day. Sometimes people

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Speaker 1: I can't realize. You know, I can't really celebrate something

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Speaker 1: It's a blessing for sure, to keep getting money through

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Speaker 1: right after explain that relationship, Like, I'm really close with

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Speaker 1: breakfast Club. Good morning, the breakfast club holding everybody is

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Speaker 1: DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Scharlomagne, the guy we are the

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Speaker 1: I got a week, I got a lady. You know

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Speaker 1: And everywhere everywhere I go, going to release parties. I'm

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Speaker 1: You got two kids? Two kids together? Huh yeah, we

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Speaker 1: that stuff? Yeah? Yeah, I definitely, I definitely feel good.

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Speaker 1: Like I cherished that, like I really cherished, like you

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's human instinct, man instinct to just

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Speaker 1: We don't, we don't. So you was mad atory for

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Speaker 1: found in the forest and then she shows how she

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Speaker 1: cooks it. That video was crazy. You can learn. You

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Speaker 1: discover it for yourself. It's topic time called eight hundred

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Speaker 1: five eight five one five one to join it to

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Speaker 1: the discussion with the Breakfast Club talk about it wanting

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Speaker 1: everybody is DJ Envy and Toela Yee, Charlomagne the guy.

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Speaker 1: We are the breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us,

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Speaker 1: we're talking about Sawheedie. This conversation came from Saweetie. She

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Speaker 1: posted a video of her eating spaghetti and putting ranch

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Speaker 1: dressing a lot of ranch dressing on her spaghetti. Ranch

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Speaker 1: with spaghetti saw us taste very good, but you just

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Speaker 1: need to da have a ranch like her boyfriend said. Okay,

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Speaker 1: she put way too much ranch dressing on that spaghetti directly.

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Speaker 1: I've never putting it on directly. I have a little

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Speaker 1: side salad, have ranch dressing on the side salad. As

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Speaker 1: I'm eating, I'm mixing the spaghetti up with the salad

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Speaker 1: at the same time. And it does taste good. Sounds

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00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:55,439
Speaker 1: she just put way too much on that. Now behind

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Speaker 1: the scenes, I don't know if you do this too, Yea.

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Speaker 1: They talk about they take French fries, get a frosty

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Speaker 1: from Windy. Nope, no, no, no, you just don't want

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Speaker 1: any French fries. You get the fries from Windy and

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Speaker 1: you get the biggest, the milkshake, the thick ass what's

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Speaker 1: it called it called the frosty, That's what I said.

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Speaker 1: And you dipped the fries in the frosty. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: that that sounds really nasty to me. Like my fries,

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Speaker 1: so I cannot imagine them and something cold. Look at

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Speaker 1: my grandma, God blest it. My grandma used to love

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Speaker 1: to go to Windy, choose to like Windy's hot fries.

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Speaker 1: And I don't even know how I even started doing that,

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Speaker 1: but I'm telling you. You dipped them fries into that

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Speaker 1: that frosty. Oh my god. I don't even like cold

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Speaker 1: ketchup on my fries. My ketchup got to be room temperature.

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Speaker 1: And I'm from I'm from Monks Corner, South Carolina, so

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Speaker 1: I like ketchup on my grips. You ever did that? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you one thing, one thing I was

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Speaker 1: really into for a minute. I was making these sandwiches

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Speaker 1: every morning. Were not every morning, but every day. It

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Speaker 1: was spicy mustard, cheddar cheese and green apple sandwiches. That

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Speaker 1: sounds disgusting into this. I can't believe y'all don't put

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Speaker 1: catch up on your grid. So you ain't even put

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Speaker 1: catch up on your grids. Well, I'm gonna catch up

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Speaker 1: love like that. Hello, who's this? Good morning? And apple

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Speaker 1: from Columbus so high? How are you apples that popular?

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Speaker 1: Apples are popular this morning? So what's the weird thing

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Speaker 1: you do with your food? First of all, I'm half

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Speaker 1: to tire and hot sos, cheese and branch for loans.

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Speaker 1: Forget period. There's no questions ask about that. How much ranch? Though?

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Speaker 1: Should we put a little too much on this? No,

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Speaker 1: that's how I'm gonna eat it, exactly how she did it.

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Speaker 1: But I asked you the hot so wow thing I

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Speaker 1: do would be on salmon patties. I'll put ketch up

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Speaker 1: the syrup on salmon, put up and catch up definitely,

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Speaker 1: though Salman on salma patties, Talma patties, I put ketch No,

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Speaker 1: I never served, I've done. I've definitely done catch up

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Speaker 1: on the salmon patties, not sirve, that's both sounds discussions.

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Speaker 1: So you're mixing life. Try it. I said, I was right.

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Speaker 1: You couldn't say though, to try try it, Yount say,

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Speaker 1: I don't like it. Hey, I'm gonna tell you something

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Speaker 1: to you take them sam patties with some grits and

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Speaker 1: put that ketchup on the Lord have mercy, right, all right,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna try. Thank you. Mama, got my goddamn mouth water. Hello?

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Speaker 1: Who's this? What's up? Bro? We're talking about some some

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Speaker 1: weir those stuff you do with your food. Man. I

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Speaker 1: eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich with showy jelly,

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Speaker 1: bail egg. Cut the egg up, the ball egg up

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Speaker 1: here on the sandwich. You're eating the peanut butter, jelly

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Speaker 1: and egg sandwich, your bold egg sandwich. Gotta be bored

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Speaker 1: and cut it up. That might sound if for some reason,

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Speaker 1: I feel like that would take good scramble No it dog,

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Speaker 1: Uh no it doesn't. Yeah, you can put eggs on

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Speaker 1: top of the burglar. You ain't got time. Yeah, sometimes

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Speaker 1: it might be better with scrambled I never thought about that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the eggs and listen, by the way, egg sandwiches be hitting,

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Speaker 1: But you got to toast the bread. Toast the bread

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Speaker 1: with some scrambled eggs lightly lightly didn't feel like the

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Speaker 1: white bag on it. That was the whole thing on

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Speaker 1: the poll. Yeah yeah, I'm with you now, I'm with

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Speaker 1: you all right, thank you brother. I know my cousin

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Speaker 1: used to eat catch I'm saying with just like he

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Speaker 1: liked catch up and bread like that was his one cousin.

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Speaker 1: I hope your cousin got out of poverty. Man, that's

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Speaker 1: what That's what he liked that used to catch it.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, How y'all doing this? Kid? Jay? Dad? Hey?

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Speaker 1: Shot the man? My man? Hey this this They ain't hey,

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Speaker 1: ain't man hey? If he don't be man man, you're

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Speaker 1: my guy. Man. But I just wanted to say spaghetti

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Speaker 1: and ranch man shot maybe on the same plage any time.

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Speaker 1: Man's cultural, man, that is good. It is many And

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Speaker 1: if you don't they say some things it don't be cultural,

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Speaker 1: like y'all don't do y'all eat anything that's like like

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Speaker 1: I like, I eat ships and I grew up down

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Speaker 1: shot used to cook it and I hated don't wait

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Speaker 1: but you ain't dad, I don't know. I don't know

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Speaker 1: how you black or they don't like well, if you

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Speaker 1: don't even like spaghetti, I don't like ranch. I don't

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Speaker 1: listen the only time I've ever tried any other is

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Speaker 1: when I'm on diet and they got that balsamic vinegarrette

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Speaker 1: tone the diet yet, But I don't do I like

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Speaker 1: spaghetti if no, no, no, Norman, no nothing nothing with

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Speaker 1: red sauce. I'm gonna be onng with you. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: And did not eat spaghetti? Spaghetti? Was you meal that

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Speaker 1: your mama would make when she didn't feel like cooking?

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Speaker 1: He doesn't like the red sauce, so I mean for

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Speaker 1: me it was kraft matter you don't like, you just boiled.

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Speaker 1: My mom made that fast when when when when you

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Speaker 1: talk about a quick meal, my mom made that and

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Speaker 1: then we had lunch of me that was a quick

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Speaker 1: meal and not like shaghetti. Just just to clarify. And

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Speaker 1: but you do eat spaghetti, you just don't eat the

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Speaker 1: red suce. Yeah, I don't like the red sauce. So

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Speaker 1: were I ify? Not wrong though, because you're in good shape.

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Speaker 1: But I learned how the people that eat the red

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Speaker 1: chapter they give him a heart bird too. I ain't

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Speaker 1: got no hard, but I just don't like red sauce.

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Speaker 1: It's worth the hard. Let me let me share my

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Speaker 1: combination real quick, great damn and cheese, rape him and

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Speaker 1: cheese that it ain't bad, because that's like when you

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Speaker 1: go to the white people places, they had that on

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Speaker 1: the plate. It'd be like the grace of Ham is disgusting.

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Speaker 1: The cheese Ham is good. Ham is good. It's the

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Speaker 1: other white man turkey. I don't know, thank you, it's

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Speaker 1: it's on a good top of y'all. Man. I appreciate that. Man,

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you. All right, what's the moral of the

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Speaker 1: story and the moral of the stories? Just be happy

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Speaker 1: you eating? All right? Okay, everybody, just be happy you

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Speaker 1: eating because if you got you know, you can put

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Speaker 1: together all these weird combinations you're doing okay in life.

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Speaker 1: And I just want to put this out there, intimates, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Don't make Danish rink anymore. Like, oh, you know what

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Speaker 1: I used to do when I used to be like

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Speaker 1: like high all the time, really wild, And when I

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Speaker 1: was young, I would go to the Scotchman and I

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Speaker 1: would get a honey bun and I take like a

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Speaker 1: Snickers and put it on top of a honey bun

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Speaker 1: and then put it in the microwave for like thirty

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Speaker 1: seconds and then eat it like a hot dog. Oh

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Speaker 1: my God, that was so good. That's why you ain't

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Speaker 1: got no head that probably that whatever that kind of

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Speaker 1: put together for all of y'all out that I ain't

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Speaker 1: afraid of a little sugar, and you try it, get

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Speaker 1: a honey, put his niggers on it, warm it up

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Speaker 1: for like thirty seconds, and eat it like a hot dog.

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Speaker 1: When you high, and watch what happened? You turn fat automatically.

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Speaker 1: All right. We got more coming up next with a

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Speaker 1: breakfast club, The Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy,

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Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 1: We got a special guest joining us right now. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Jason Wilson. He's the found in CEO of Union. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Jason has over fourteen years of experience, you know, training

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Speaker 1: and developing young black men. You've probably seen his videos

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Speaker 1: on Instagram where he teaches, you know, young black men

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Speaker 1: how to deal with their trauma through martial arts. He's

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Speaker 1: got two great books, out Cry Like a Man in

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Speaker 1: Battle Cry. You've probably heard him on the Joe Rogan Podcast.

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Speaker 1: You've seen him on CNN Doctor Oz. He's spoken My

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Speaker 1: Mental Wealth Expotus past Sunday, and now he's on the

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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Mister Jason Wilson, Good morning brother, Good morning,

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Speaker 1: my brother. How are you all as well? Man? I

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Speaker 1: love New York. Love walking early in the morning here,

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Speaker 1: especially late at night. Give me time to really reflect

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Speaker 1: and release things that I need to let go of.

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Speaker 1: You wrote a couple of books, Cry Like a Man

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Speaker 1: and now Battle Cry. Why is crying such a theme?

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Speaker 1: It was imperative for me that I learned how because

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Speaker 1: my life well, I was self destructive, pretty much about

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Speaker 1: to lose my marriage and my family, and I didn't

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Speaker 1: know how to not only express them, but to even

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Speaker 1: process what I was feeling. So I was only taught

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Speaker 1: to express it through either fighting or really suppressing it.

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Speaker 1: And as a result, Man, I lost it one day,

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Speaker 1: Man and demons will be yelled at my wife in

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Speaker 1: the kitchen, hit a hole in my refrigerator, and I

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Speaker 1: just I had to make a change. And when I

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Speaker 1: saw my wife, I saw her go from trusting me

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Speaker 1: and loving me to her whole spirit was torn down

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Speaker 1: in front of me. And at that very moment, I

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Speaker 1: realized I had a problem, and that problem was I

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Speaker 1: wasn't a comprehensive man. I was just a masculine male

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Speaker 1: and I needed to learn how to express the gamut

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Speaker 1: of emotions that God has given me. You know, more

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Speaker 1: so than just being strong, a protector and provider, I

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Speaker 1: needed to express being a nurturer, express spring, compassionate, loving,

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Speaker 1: long suffering. You know, when Kobe Bryant died in that

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Speaker 1: helicopter accident with Gianna and nine others, we didn't see

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Speaker 1: a lot of pictures of him playing basketball. We saw

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Speaker 1: him operating as a nurturer. And then a hashtag girl

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Speaker 1: dad went viral through what men? But over a million,

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Speaker 1: one point two million men posted pictures of themselves loving

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Speaker 1: their daughters. And so we've always been nurturists, but we've

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Speaker 1: allowed society to define us as men just by one adjective,

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Speaker 1: which is masculinity. But we're more than masculine. Can we

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Speaker 1: talk about your background a little because this is our

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Speaker 1: first time meeting. So I know that you have this

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Speaker 1: youth organization in Detroit, Union, but I want to talk

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Speaker 1: about you and how you started doing this work. Yes,

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Speaker 1: well I started actually was a popular DJA and Detroit

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Speaker 1: and actually did a few concerts with Public Enemy. I

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Speaker 1: was in a rap group called Chaos a Maestro. So

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Speaker 1: the Union nonprofit started as a record label, and so

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Speaker 1: we were used as a Christian. I would use the

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Speaker 1: music to counter what at the current time, what we

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Speaker 1: would call like gangster hip hop, and I saw the

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Speaker 1: negative impact that was having on youth, and so we

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Speaker 1: created music to counter it. But we realized quickly that

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Speaker 1: once the music stopped, they still had to deal with

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Speaker 1: the trauma. And so we're like wall, we need to

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Speaker 1: stay in their lives. We need to get into schools.

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00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: More so, we went after our nonprofit status and in

631
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 1: two thousand and seven we received our first grant for

632
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 1: mentoring through the government and we haven't looked back since.

633
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 1: And currently we've reached over fifteen thousand youth and young

634
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 1: adults in Detroit and we just purchased a fifteen thousand

635
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 1: square foot building due to the demand of the Cave

636
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 1: of Adullum, which is the Transformational Training Academy where I

637
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 1: used martial arts to help young boys navigate through their

638
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: emotions instead of succumbing to them. When did you get

639
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 1: into martial arts? It was that a way of channeling

640
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 1: like anger. Yeah, So it was interesting when my good

641
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 1: friend she was shot and killed when I was in

642
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,479
Speaker 1: the eighth grade and we didn't have grief counsels or

643
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 1: anyone come to our school, and I didn't know how

644
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 1: to process what I was feeling. So I gravitated toward

645
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 1: ni jitsu. At the time I was twelve years old.

646
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 1: But then I quickly realized if I only process my

647
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 1: anger by hitting things, whenever that anger rise, I start

648
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 1: hitting things and hitting people. And so from that day on,

649
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: because I have my father around, he was in the

650
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 1: same city but wasn't in my life, I saw the

651
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: Sinsey as a father figure, and I longed to have

652
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 1: that affirmation and teach me how to be a man.

653
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 1: And it helped me with some processing some of the

654
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: training combat communication, which I talk about in battlecry and fighting.

655
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 1: If we're getting ready to fight, I'm downloading all of

656
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 1: your moves, your anger. If you move on my jab

657
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 1: or my kick, I'm seeing how your defense is. I

658
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 1: use that in communication with my wife, I try to

659
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: read the room. How is she feeling to day? Is

660
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: this a good time for me to share with her

661
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,719
Speaker 1: how all of my emotions? Would it overload her? And

662
00:32:56,760 --> 00:33:00,479
Speaker 1: so instead of sometimes when you become emotionally free, when

663
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: you break free from emotional incarceration, we can come home

664
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: and unload too much on someone who already had a

665
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 1: heavy day. And so I've learned to use combat communication

666
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: to excuse me, Read my wife, Read my son. You

667
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 1: know he's quiet today, what's going on with you? Instead

668
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 1: of yelling at him. Now, I want to ask you

669
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: about for women who are dealing with a man who

670
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 1: may be experiencing trauma or doesn't identify ways that he

671
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 1: can improve his own communication. What advice do you have

672
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 1: for women that have to deal with that. My wife

673
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 1: a lot of people ask her that because it was

674
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 1: all new for us, you know. And so the first

675
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 1: thing I would say is that we as men, we

676
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 1: not only have to unlearn what we've been conditioned to

677
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 1: believe a man is, but also our women. And we

678
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 1: have to give our wives and our women the grace

679
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:46,160
Speaker 1: and the space needed to do so, because you've been

680
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: also programmed to see a man in a certain way.

681
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 1: My wife had never seen a man crying to me,

682
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,479
Speaker 1: you know. And so that's Number one, is to unlearn

683
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 1: what you've been taught to believe. Number two, never impassively

684
00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:01,160
Speaker 1: dismiss your husband or your significant others when he comes

685
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 1: to you. He's trying to open up, he's trying to

686
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: become comprehensive and whold the worst thing a woman could

687
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:08,719
Speaker 1: do is shut him down or I'm busy. Can I

688
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 1: come back to that when you see that door opening,

689
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:14,479
Speaker 1: like okay, cool, He's allowing me access to that heart.

690
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 1: And then lastly is to listen without expectation. That's what

691
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:22,319
Speaker 1: she would saying. She says, listen to your husband's or

692
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 1: your significant other's heart like it's your girlfriend. Be slow

693
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,320
Speaker 1: to speak, quick to listen. But I said, you also

694
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 1: need to know how to allow your wife to help

695
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 1: you through that process. Can you break down what is

696
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 1: emotional incarceration? It is a self imposed imprisonment, a mental

697
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 1: prison that a man confines his non masculine emotions and

698
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:46,799
Speaker 1: his true heart from the world to keep him from

699
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:50,400
Speaker 1: hurting others and even himself. And what's interesting about emotional

700
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 1: incarceration and we all as men, we can admit this.

701
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:56,240
Speaker 1: There is no door keeping us locked in. We choose

702
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: to stay in there. And because we have to face

703
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: or acknow knowledge feelings or traumas or emotional pain that

704
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 1: we don't feel comfortable with, we choose to stay in there.

705
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:08,720
Speaker 1: And a lot of good men are tired of being

706
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 1: bad guys even myself. Man, I ever suppressed all of

707
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 1: my emotions, you know, And because that's what I was taught.

708
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 1: And because of that, I didn't even they not only

709
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: know how to love my wife or my children, bro,

710
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:22,760
Speaker 1: I didn't know how to love myself. And that self

711
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 1: hate caused me not to really be available for my wife.

712
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 1: And as I share at the Mental Wealth Expo, she

713
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 1: had five miscarriages and I was checked out. I didn't

714
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:35,839
Speaker 1: know how to express the hurt or anything. To this day,

715
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:39,239
Speaker 1: it bothers me. We should say we had five miscarriages. No,

716
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 1: I say she had and I should have been there,

717
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:46,160
Speaker 1: but I was emotionally checked out. But now it's truly

718
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:49,319
Speaker 1: a blessing to be able to drop my guard with

719
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 1: the woman who really holds my heart with care. All right,

720
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 1: we got more with Jason Wilson. When we come back,

721
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:57,400
Speaker 1: Dute move, it's to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody

722
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 1: is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne, the guy we are

723
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. We're still talking with Jason Wilson. Charlemagne.

724
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 1: The things you say in regards of your wife was

725
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 1: so relatable and it's the same reason I got myself

726
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 1: together too, because you know, I didn't want to be

727
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 1: like my pops. And you know, I saw the pain

728
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 1: my pops called my mom, you know what I mean?

729
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 1: And I saw how you know, them getting divorce affected

730
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 1: the family. So why are so many men just comfortable

731
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:25,359
Speaker 1: with saying, you know what, Yeah, I'm married, but I'm

732
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 1: gonna still cheating. I'm still have a whole other family

733
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 1: out here. Another girl like, why is that okay? You

734
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 1: think that something's it's affeckless attempt for affirmation. And so

735
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 1: you know, again we taught you know, masculinity as well

736
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:41,719
Speaker 1: being a man that's having multiple women. My father told

737
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:44,279
Speaker 1: me I was going to him proud, saying, hey, Dad,

738
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,880
Speaker 1: I'm about to engage to Nicole. He said, why in

739
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:49,759
Speaker 1: the hell you want to do that? When I come

740
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:51,960
Speaker 1: front of my dad about cheating my mom, my dad said, oh,

741
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 1: you only got one girlfriend? If it one day're gonna understand. Hey,

742
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: And I told my dad, I told him, I said,

743
00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 1: I don't want to end up like you broke. You're

744
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 1: still having to cut hair, Dad in your sixties, because

745
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 1: you've had three marriages that failed because you didn't have

746
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,919
Speaker 1: any sexual self control. But when I allowed my father

747
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,320
Speaker 1: developed Parkinson's. I finally was able to get a relationship

748
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,400
Speaker 1: with him because he couldn't go anywhere. So when we

749
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 1: finally sat and talked, he shared with me the pain

750
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,720
Speaker 1: of growing up and feeling lacking in so many areas

751
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:23,240
Speaker 1: he was called to preach. He told, guy, there's nowhere

752
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,279
Speaker 1: on earth I'm gonna do that because he came up

753
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 1: in the sixties when the cops cracked down on the

754
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,839
Speaker 1: pimps in Detroit, many him became pastors, So he said,

755
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 1: the last thing I'm gonna do is be one of

756
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: these guys. But because of that, he never really knew

757
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 1: how to express what he was going through and what

758
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 1: he felt. And that's why sharing battle cry too. As

759
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 1: where we are now as men, we got to go

760
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 1: back and reach and help our fathers learn how to

761
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 1: process what they're dealing with. So you got to think

762
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 1: my grandfather, not my great grandfather, a great great grandfather.

763
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 1: My grandfather was lynched, beating and lynched, and then after

764
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 1: his lynching, my mother's family was terrorized by the police

765
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,320
Speaker 1: to ensure that none of them whatever feel like they're

766
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 1: equal to white people. In Fort Pierce, Florida, I saw

767
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 1: that trauma transferred throughout generation, throughout generation, and until I

768
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 1: allowed my dad that freedom to be human, I didn't

769
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 1: hear him say he loved me until thirty seven years

770
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 1: of age. I told my dad, and it didn't make

771
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 1: sense to me at the time. He's landing his bed,

772
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:25,720
Speaker 1: and the Holy Spirit told me, he says, tell your father,

773
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 1: thank him for being a great dad. That doesn't make

774
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 1: sense to me, But what my father needed was affirmation.

775
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 1: So I leanked over to him while he was landing

776
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:37,359
Speaker 1: his bed and I said, I said, Dad, I said,

777
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: thank you for being a great dad. So I was

778
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:43,880
Speaker 1: walking out and I heard him like getting heavy in

779
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 1: his breath, and I turned around and I saw the

780
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:49,239
Speaker 1: strongest man in my life crying. He finally had a

781
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 1: release and this is this tough one. So I went

782
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 1: back over to him. I held his hands and I

783
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 1: kissed him on his forehead, and he wouldn't let me go,

784
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,319
Speaker 1: and he says, son, he says, I love you. And

785
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 1: that there it removes so many shackles off of me.

786
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,399
Speaker 1: And it freed me to really live from my heart

787
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 1: instead of my fears, instead of trying to live up

788
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 1: to this limited definition of what a man is. Now

789
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 1: I can be a comprehensive man, which is a man

790
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: who is courageous but also compassionate, strong but sensitive, a

791
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 1: man who can boldly but freely live from his heart

792
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 1: instead of his fears. How important is it for men

793
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 1: to give other men positive affirmations? Because you know, I

794
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 1: thought about this after the Mental Wealth Export, because a

795
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 1: lot of stuff came up for me when we was

796
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 1: on the panel having a conversation. That's why that's why

797
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 1: the tids came. Because it's like, just listening to you

798
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:40,759
Speaker 1: tell me, oh, I'm proud of you, YadA YadA, I'm like,

799
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 1: damn you i't. I didn't get that the way I

800
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:47,319
Speaker 1: wanted to growing up from my father. So even just

801
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 1: hearing it from another black man at your respect is

802
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:52,920
Speaker 1: like whoa, it gets you emotional or whether we realize

803
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 1: that or not, we do that all the time. That's

804
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 1: why we gonna get the cars flacause we want other

805
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 1: men to give us affirmation. Yeah, it's like it's effectless

806
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 1: attempt for affirmation. Even with women. You know, it's like

807
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,919
Speaker 1: we call you trophy wives and all this other foolishness

808
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 1: you would create. You're not meant to be objects. You

809
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It. But it's when we objectify

810
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 1: women that a lot. When I saw that evil, that's

811
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:19,760
Speaker 1: what allowed me to break free from pornography because again,

812
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 1: to have this right in front of you, where you

813
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: feel you can have control over the most beautiful woman

814
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 1: in the world. I didn't know how to really give

815
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:29,319
Speaker 1: a woman my heart. But when I allowed myself to

816
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 1: be free, I started cherishing women for who they are,

817
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:36,799
Speaker 1: even their superior qualities, not that equal qualities. Because my

818
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:40,239
Speaker 1: wife runs our nonprofit. If it wasn't for her, I

819
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 1: look at the stuff we do now, that's because I

820
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 1: allowed my wife to operate in the fullness of who

821
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 1: she is. Right, I don't need you to be just

822
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 1: at home with my children. God has created you to

823
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 1: lead this organization, this ministry, and then eventually I hope

824
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,319
Speaker 1: she gets her own health center. The goal for us

825
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 1: to even be healed, brother, and I was sharing this

826
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:02,359
Speaker 1: at the expol for us to heal this black men.

827
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 1: I want us to heal so we can finally decrease

828
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:08,359
Speaker 1: what's going on the side of us, so that our

829
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 1: sisters can finally unload the weight and emotional pain that

830
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 1: they've been in doing for decades. Now as far as affirmation.

831
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 1: It's so important, especially with our boys. You know. I

832
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:22,879
Speaker 1: remember I had one kid. When I piloted the Cave

833
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: of Adullam. The principle introduced me to this young man

834
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:30,719
Speaker 1: by all negative descriptions. I took that young man and

835
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 1: for twenty four weeks affirmed and poured into him, taught

836
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:37,239
Speaker 1: him how to meditate, release the anger, the frustration, and

837
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 1: it actually the hurt of not having a father. There.

838
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 1: He smoked about two blunts a week. This was an

839
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:46,360
Speaker 1: eighth grader. His great point average was point eight. Within

840
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 1: twenty four weeks, his whole life change and he graduated

841
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:53,960
Speaker 1: because I affirmed him in who he was. Even the

842
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 1: young man he didn't see. They saw the prankster. I

843
00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 1: saw someone who could negotiate whose why, Who's clever? They

844
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 1: saw someone anger. I saw a young man who would

845
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:07,360
Speaker 1: fight against injustice, who would defend kids who are bullied.

846
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 1: That's what affirmation does. I thank you for who you are,

847
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 1: and I meant everything that I said. Man, I'm proud

848
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 1: of you, and that's why I affirmed you. And we

849
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 1: need to affirm each other that way. And then more so,

850
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,320
Speaker 1: as I told our brother Van Lathan when I was

851
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:24,880
Speaker 1: on his podcast. We're so quick to just deflect it

852
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 1: or just here you're the man too. I love what

853
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 1: you're doing, like no, I want you to hold that, brother,

854
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 1: because you're doing some great things, and I want you

855
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:35,880
Speaker 1: to really embrace who you are as a man. And

856
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 1: that's all I ever wanted, man, And that's why I'm

857
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 1: thankful I finally allowed my wife access to hear because

858
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 1: what causes men to really drift away? You want to

859
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 1: feel important, you want to feel loved, But it's if

860
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 1: you don't work as hard as you do in the community,

861
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 1: in your home. How do you expect those in your

862
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 1: home to give you the accolades that you desire when

863
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 1: you're working twice as hard for those who don't even

864
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,400
Speaker 1: live with you. You said something so powerful yesterday at

865
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:05,799
Speaker 1: the Mental welfaxt BO when Maxwell asked you, what's the

866
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 1: definition of a man? How do you define them a man? Yeah?

867
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 1: And I said nothing. You can't define them. Once you

868
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:15,719
Speaker 1: allow yourself to be defined, you can't be anything and

869
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 1: everything you have to be at any given moment. That's

870
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: the goal of a man. That's comprehensive. Man. I want

871
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 1: to be able to morph between transformers, everything that I

872
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 1: need to be for accomplish my mission here on earth,

873
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:30,959
Speaker 1: for my family, for you, for my sister, my brother,

874
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:34,240
Speaker 1: my brother, And that's the goal. Once you allow yourself

875
00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 1: to be defined, you've just cut off your potential. And

876
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: so I tell people to I was telling me, and

877
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:42,439
Speaker 1: live from what we long for instead of what we lack.

878
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:44,839
Speaker 1: We tend to blame my father's for not being there,

879
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:47,439
Speaker 1: what we didn't have, and now we bring that stuff

880
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: to the present. We allow our trauma to time travel,

881
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 1: living the present so you can fully be there. And

882
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: that's the key. Man, If you only feel as a

883
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 1: man that you're only a protector and provider, you're gonna

884
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 1: be there for your fa I mean, how can you

885
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 1: have a relationship with your wife and you're only you

886
00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 1: can only manifest two attributes. You're extremely limited. A friend

887
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 1: of mine compared it to that crayon boxes, the ones

888
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:14,879
Speaker 1: of eight and the ones of sixty four. As men,

889
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 1: we take out three crayons out the one of eight,

890
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:18,879
Speaker 1: and we said we're gonna stay in that that area

891
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 1: because it feels comfortable, it's safe. But the most igh

892
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:24,839
Speaker 1: created us to exude all sixty four and even more.

893
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 1: Now movie got more with J. C. Wilson. When we

894
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:31,839
Speaker 1: come back, it's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning. I'm seeing

895
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:33,840
Speaker 1: her looking at Keisha like, do you love me? Do

896
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 1: you love me? Not morning? Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

897
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 1: Charlemagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We're still

898
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,919
Speaker 1: talking with Jason Wilson. Yea. You also have a documentary

899
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: that you've been working on, right, Yes, can you tell

900
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 1: us something about that? Yeah, that's really exciting. I signed

901
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 1: with Lawrence Fitzburn's film company sent them a gypsy to

902
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 1: do a documentary film on my work for Boys in

903
00:44:56,600 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: the Cave of Adullum. We submitted it to Sundance and

904
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:01,720
Speaker 1: so waiting to hear back from them, but it's supposed

905
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:04,440
Speaker 1: to release next year and we're really excited. You get

906
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 1: to see them follow four of my boys, and you

907
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 1: see the effects of intergenerational trauma, but then you see

908
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:14,319
Speaker 1: it broken and it's so powerful. It's beautiful. How do

909
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 1: you black and brown people learn to stop wearing trauma

910
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:22,280
Speaker 1: as if it's a bad honor acknowledge that it's nothing

911
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:26,439
Speaker 1: good about it. There's nothing honorable about getting shot. There's

912
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 1: nothing honorable about hating each other, mean mug and not

913
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 1: being able to say how you doing, my brother, how

914
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:38,480
Speaker 1: you doing my sister? There's nothing honorable about I guess,

915
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 1: just the pain that we've been through. I mean, we

916
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 1: look at it as like, you know, especially I love hippop.

917
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: I came up in the culture we brag about getting shot.

918
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 1: We don't brag about living in a good neighborhood. We

919
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:52,760
Speaker 1: brag about being in the roughest neighborhood. And so until

920
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:56,399
Speaker 1: we recognize that this isn't how it's supposed to be. Yes,

921
00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 1: trauma will happen to all of us, but it's not

922
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:04,319
Speaker 1: the black experience as we always say. You know, just

923
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:06,799
Speaker 1: as trauma can be passed down through our generation, so

924
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 1: can healing. But we first have to renew our minds.

925
00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 1: We have to allow. For me, it took for me

926
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: to ask the most how to break me, break away

927
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:17,880
Speaker 1: my stubborn will, the evil in my heart. I didn't

928
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 1: want to be his light to the world, to help

929
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 1: those who in darkness see, And so until I allowed

930
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:27,400
Speaker 1: him to break me, I wasn't able to see that

931
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 1: all that I've been through, the stuff that, even for

932
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:33,279
Speaker 1: my benefit today, wasn't meant for me to stay there.

933
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:37,319
Speaker 1: So when traumatizing things happen. We have to let go

934
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:40,279
Speaker 1: and keep moving forward. But a lot of us we

935
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:43,719
Speaker 1: stay there because we fear moving forward because of something else,

936
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 1: traumatizing may happen. And so as a black people, we

937
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 1: got to start living from what we desire and hear

938
00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: the good that's in here. We love each other, man,

939
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: we do. We just have to learn how to express it.

940
00:46:56,320 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 1: And there's nothing weak or docile telling you I love you,

941
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:02,879
Speaker 1: telling you I love you and who you are. I'm

942
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:06,840
Speaker 1: proud of you. I need help, I'm hurting. Just because

943
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:09,240
Speaker 1: something is wrong with me doesn't mean something is wrong.

944
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:13,759
Speaker 1: So when we get to that place where we understand, okay,

945
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 1: we can break through what we've been through, that's when

946
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 1: you see us rise together. My final question, you know,

947
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: as your profile raises, how did your wife feel about

948
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 1: all these women calling you zaddie? I didn't know they

949
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 1: called me. They called me that them on Instagram? Oh man,

950
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:37,400
Speaker 1: I um um. My wife and I have a very

951
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 1: like transparent relationship. If she feels something isn't right, she said,

952
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:44,920
Speaker 1: you know, but this is a funny story. One day

953
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 1: I met Halle Berry right, and I took a video

954
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:51,920
Speaker 1: from my daughter because my daughter, you know, was into

955
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 1: modeling at the time, and so I called the court.

956
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 1: I say I met Holly Berry. She's like, really, where

957
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 1: was she at? And I told her at this conference.

958
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 1: So we get off the phone and her friend was like, oh,

959
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 1: so your husband is with Halle Berry and she was

960
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:07,320
Speaker 1: like yeah, and she could looking at my wife and

961
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:11,840
Speaker 1: my wife called back and she says, are you okay?

962
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 1: Because you know Holly Berry is was like attractive like

963
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: our generations leaning a horn. But my wife was like,

964
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 1: are you okay because I know she's beautiful and I

965
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 1: know you know you together, you're good. I'm like, yeah,

966
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 1: I'm good. And we both laughed about it. But the

967
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:31,799
Speaker 1: beautiful thing. When I got home and I looked at

968
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 1: my wife, I said, dang it better than her. You

969
00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. And so and so when she

970
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 1: knows my wife, she affirms me man and I fight it.

971
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 1: I'm still growing, bro. I don't like that. How do

972
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 1: you what you She had touched my face or gent

973
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you doing inside? That's why I'm

974
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:54,320
Speaker 1: cringing because I'm thinking when my father told me I

975
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 1: wasn't nothing, and they have a woman cress my face

976
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 1: and tell me I'm beautiful and she loves me. And

977
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:04,359
Speaker 1: as a man, you look in your mirror, you see

978
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 1: your flaws. You ain't big enough, you ain't buffalo up,

979
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:09,439
Speaker 1: you ain't smart enough. What can any of these women

980
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: give me? Man? What's a night of sex? I'm gonna

981
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna giveaway everything that I got just to have

982
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 1: a moment with a woman. That's not peace to me,

983
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:20,840
Speaker 1: that's chaos. I ain't got time to have three cell phones.

984
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,240
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't have an energy for that. We're

985
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 1: chasing a sense of worthiness that we can't get from

986
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 1: another woman. Like that's that's feeding your ego, being with

987
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:31,439
Speaker 1: your wife, that's feeding your soul. Yeah, it's it's it's

988
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 1: she's a part of me, man. And so you know, Yeah,

989
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 1: they're a flirt. You can see them. They look at you.

990
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 1: But I don't have an available Look. You know a

991
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:42,279
Speaker 1: lot of brothers who struggle with infidelity. Y'all look available,

992
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 1: You look like they can holl at you. I consciously

993
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 1: make sure I don't look available. I told them that. Look.

994
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 1: You know, I practiced with my sister. You know we're talking.

995
00:49:57,000 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what I'm talking about. Okay, So

996
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:05,319
Speaker 1: I do this. Okay, I take my ring off, but

997
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm talking you, but it's respectfully. How are

998
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 1: you doing? I shake your hands right, I'm not doing this,

999
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:12,800
Speaker 1: so how are you doing you? I'm not doing all that.

1000
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, how are you doing? I'm press a pleasure

1001
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:17,880
Speaker 1: to meet you. I'm proud of you, thank you. What

1002
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 1: are you doing later? No, I'm kidding, I said, I'm

1003
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:24,040
Speaker 1: calling my wife. I'm telling you right now. Taking that

1004
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 1: ring off and then having the conversation not make you

1005
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 1: less available, that's true. But no, but but but the

1006
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 1: look is the spirit is the vibe. And that's why

1007
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:35,359
Speaker 1: I tell my brothers. One of my friends standing back

1008
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 1: in the day amazed women beyondly man. I'm trying to

1009
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 1: be faithful. I said, you look like you want them too,

1010
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 1: And he started laughing. And we was in the gym

1011
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 1: and I said, look at you. He was like, I

1012
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 1: get it, Doug. You're coming here every day with great sweatpas. Okay,

1013
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 1: so you know, and and and that's my my thing.

1014
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:58,600
Speaker 1: I just you know, I love our women. I do.

1015
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 1: And they need a man. And who doesn't want to

1016
00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 1: get between their legs just to talk to them and

1017
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:05,879
Speaker 1: affirm them to hear from just a man who just

1018
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:09,799
Speaker 1: wants to affirm you for who you are, not because

1019
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 1: I'm you beautiful. I'm trying to ho let you man,

1020
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 1: these women which is you know, I just you know,

1021
00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: That's why I say, Man, when we can get healed,

1022
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 1: keep doing those expos man. I mean, just we gotta

1023
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:21,719
Speaker 1: continue to do what we do. But when we can

1024
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 1: get healed, we gotta sit down and open the space

1025
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 1: for our sisters to heal. And that's when you're gonna

1026
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:32,239
Speaker 1: start seeing transformation, when we both can truly find that

1027
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 1: and get that heal and we desire and our families

1028
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:38,279
Speaker 1: become whole, then our communities to change, and then you

1029
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 1: got the world. Yeah, I'm so extra grateful for like

1030
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 1: the men in my life who do affirm me and

1031
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 1: have positive things to say to me, and it's not

1032
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:48,439
Speaker 1: for any reason other than they really feel that way.

1033
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:52,160
Speaker 1: And I don't feel anything crazy from them. I know

1034
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 1: their families, I know their wise and significant others, and

1035
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:58,399
Speaker 1: it's completely comfortable. And I'm so appreciative all the time

1036
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 1: of people that are like, yo, like you really doing

1037
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:02,400
Speaker 1: your thing. I'm so proud of you. I'm gonna come

1038
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:05,080
Speaker 1: support like it means a lot to me. Yes, and

1039
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:07,879
Speaker 1: that's that's awesome. And you know, because sometimes people feel

1040
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 1: like men and women can't have these relationships where there's

1041
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 1: nothing going on. And if you could take a picture

1042
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 1: with somebody like oh, yeah, he's trying to holler, and

1043
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:19,319
Speaker 1: you're like, dude, come on, just because he's a man

1044
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,280
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that that's what it is, just because somebody

1045
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:24,759
Speaker 1: can affirm you. But people sometimes are scared to even

1046
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:27,400
Speaker 1: do that. Yeah, but the more men who who who

1047
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 1: model it, the more men feel comfortable and say, Okay,

1048
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 1: this is what a man is, you know, and that's

1049
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Speaker 1: what our women need, you know, even at the union.

1050
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Speaker 1: Just affirm and love them. I got you, don't worry

1051
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Speaker 1: about that. I ain't trying to holight you. They need brothers,

1052
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Speaker 1: They need men in their lives that they feel that

1053
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Speaker 1: they got their back, you know, and then ain't always

1054
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Speaker 1: wanting something, you know. And so I went I did

1055
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Speaker 1: what is it called virtual reality. It was at this conference,

1056
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Speaker 1: and they they put put me in a headset where

1057
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Speaker 1: I saw through the eyes of a woman at work

1058
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Speaker 1: and showed how many like advances men were making to

1059
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Speaker 1: this woman throughout the day and from the handshake to

1060
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 1: just having conversation. I'm like, damn it, can you just

1061
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Speaker 1: just respect me as a woman, affirmed me just as

1062
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:16,280
Speaker 1: a woman instead of just trying to get between my legs,

1063
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:19,200
Speaker 1: you know. And so I'm glad you have men like that.

1064
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 1: I try to make myself available for the women in

1065
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:24,359
Speaker 1: my life the same way, you know. And it's so

1066
00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 1: needed as men that again, as long as we're seeking

1067
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:30,719
Speaker 1: affirmation in the wrong places, and that's what I did

1068
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 1: for the longest, will never truly respect our women for

1069
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Speaker 1: the queens, the jewels, the gifts that they truly are

1070
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1071
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Speaker 1: I you know, I got so many women that call

1072
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Speaker 1: me any brother uncle because I really wear that as

1073
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Speaker 1: a badge of honor, Like you know, I want to

1074
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 1: be there for them in that way. And I'm glad

1075
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:50,840
Speaker 1: they see me in that way. Yeah, they need it.

1076
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Speaker 1: And we need women like when my mother when when

1077
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1078
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Speaker 1: to allow older women and my wife access to my

1079
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:03,640
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1081
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1082
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1083
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1084
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Speaker 1: sure you're telling them to watch out for Florida. The

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Speaker 1: craziest people in America come from the Bronx and all

1112
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Speaker 1: of Florid. Yes, you are a donkey. The Florida man

1113
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Speaker 1: attacked and ATM for a very strange reason. It gave

1114
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Speaker 1: him too much money. Florida man is arrested after definitely

1115
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:51,560
Speaker 1: say he rigged the door to his home and an

1116
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:54,120
Speaker 1: attempt to electric hit his putnant wife. Police arrested in

1117
00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:58,240
Speaker 1: Orlando man for talking a Flaminia to breakfast club bitchy donkey.

1118
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 1: Other day when Charlom hanag, I don't know why y'all

1119
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:03,440
Speaker 1: keeping here. Get y'alllect well, don't you? The Dave goes

1120
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:06,319
Speaker 1: to a twenty three year old Florida woman named Alexis Tally. Now,

1121
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:08,759
Speaker 1: what did your uncle Sharla always say about the great

1122
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:12,160
Speaker 1: state of Florida? Say it with me. The craziest people

1123
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:16,280
Speaker 1: in America come from the Bronx and all of Florida.

1124
00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 1: It is what it is. Okay, I love Florida. But

1125
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Speaker 1: one of my favorite things to do when I'm in

1126
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 1: Florida's turn on the local news. High levels of entertainment people. Okay,

1127
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:25,359
Speaker 1: I can't believe it's free. I was in Miami last

1128
00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 1: weekend just watching the local news and laughing and shaking

1129
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:31,200
Speaker 1: my head very hard to avoid the crazy that exist

1130
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 1: in Florida. You know, every day of our lives, we

1131
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:35,520
Speaker 1: wake up and we attempt to avoid crazy. It's hard

1132
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 1: to avoid crazy in Florida. It's like a full time

1133
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:40,880
Speaker 1: job to avoid crazy in Florida. Because in Florida, you

1134
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:44,320
Speaker 1: don't have to find crazy. Crazy will find you. And

1135
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 1: that's exactly what happened in this situation involving the sister

1136
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 1: Alexis Tally. Now, Alexis Tally was arrested for domestic battery

1137
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:55,920
Speaker 1: after putting hands on her girlfriend. Now, the other day

1138
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 1: I told y'all on this radio, how I had a dream. No,

1139
00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:02,320
Speaker 1: let me refree. I had a nightmare that I was

1140
00:57:02,760 --> 00:57:05,000
Speaker 1: cheating on my wife, and in the nightmare, I felt

1141
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:06,480
Speaker 1: the guilt, so I stopped. And then when I woke

1142
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 1: up the next morning, my wife said to me that

1143
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:10,640
Speaker 1: she had a dream that I cheated on her and

1144
00:57:10,719 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 1: she woke up wanting to f me up. When you

1145
00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:15,160
Speaker 1: got a soul tied with a person, y'all are really

1146
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:18,480
Speaker 1: connected SYNCD up like your smartphone with a bluetooth. That's

1147
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: me and my wife. Well, my wife said she felt

1148
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 1: like she wanted to ff me up because of her dream.

1149
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 1: Alexis Tally actually fed her girlfriend up because of the dream. Okay,

1150
00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: because of the dream her girlfriend was having. Oh how

1151
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 1: I wish there was a news report for this one.

1152
00:57:34,840 --> 00:57:36,640
Speaker 1: But allowed me to read you the details off the

1153
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:40,480
Speaker 1: smoking gun. Police responded the calls from a neighbor who

1154
00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 1: said they could hear a fight taking place. When authorities

1155
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 1: arrived at the scene, the twenty one year old victim

1156
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 1: said she was awoken after Alexis Tally claimed to hear

1157
00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:56,760
Speaker 1: her sleep talking about an X. I'm not making this up. Okay.

1158
00:57:56,800 --> 00:57:59,440
Speaker 1: If you're thinking, what the f, please think what the Florida,

1159
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 1: since Tally started beating on her girlfriend and her sleep

1160
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:08,720
Speaker 1: because she thought she heard her girlfriend sleep talking about

1161
00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:12,960
Speaker 1: an X. According to the arrest report, Alexis started punching

1162
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:15,440
Speaker 1: the victim in the face after waking her, and cops

1163
00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:17,560
Speaker 1: noted that she had visible swelling to the right side

1164
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 1: of her face. Now, when they say Alexis woke her up,

1165
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:23,160
Speaker 1: was it what the punch are before? Now I'm gonna

1166
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:25,840
Speaker 1: shoot Alexis a little bell that slang. By the way,

1167
00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:27,400
Speaker 1: I'm not giving her no money towards the bell. I'm

1168
00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:31,040
Speaker 1: just talking about a hypothetical about the situation. I'm almost positive.

1169
00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:35,360
Speaker 1: But if I mentioned another woman that I was involved

1170
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 1: with while I was in a deep slumber, I too

1171
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 1: would get punched in the face. What about you, Indy,

1172
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:43,480
Speaker 1: I concur not justifying what Alexa did, just saying that

1173
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 1: as Florida as this sounds, this might garner the same

1174
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 1: reaction in any state. I mean, my wife woke up

1175
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 1: wanting to f me up because of a dream she

1176
00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:53,439
Speaker 1: had that I was doing something. Imagine if she would

1177
00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 1: have woke up to me calling out the name of

1178
00:58:55,680 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 1: some other woman I dealt with my god jee. This

1179
00:58:58,920 --> 00:59:01,000
Speaker 1: is why hot grit used to get thrown on brothers

1180
00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:04,000
Speaker 1: in the sixties and seventies. Okay, your granddaddy got a

1181
00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 1: scar right now, and it's back from that hot grid

1182
00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:11,760
Speaker 1: because he too was saying somebody else's name in his sleep. Okay.

1183
00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 1: Muhammad Ali once said, if you even dream of beating me,

1184
00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:17,640
Speaker 1: you'd better wake up and apologize. Same rules apply with

1185
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 1: your significant other. Okay, just change beating the cheating. If

1186
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 1: you even dream of cheating on your girl, you better

1187
00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:28,280
Speaker 1: wake up and apologize now. Alexa was arrested for domestic

1188
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 1: battery and has maintained that their argument was only verbal,

1189
00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 1: verbal rather than physical. She told the officers. She told

1190
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:38,080
Speaker 1: the officers that the mark on her girlfriend's face was

1191
00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:44,720
Speaker 1: from a previous fight. That's not funny. It's not funny,

1192
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:48,600
Speaker 1: but it's Florida, Florida, Okay, she told the police. Not

1193
00:59:48,720 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 1: the fight that was reported to the police. That was

1194
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 1: last week. It was from another fight. It's basically been

1195
00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:55,840
Speaker 1: the officer of That mark on her face wasn't from

1196
00:59:55,880 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 1: when I beat her this time. That was from the

1197
00:59:57,440 --> 01:00:03,520
Speaker 1: last time we fought. Boy, don't have anything else, Okay,

1198
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:07,560
Speaker 1: Please give Alexis Tally the sweet shounds of the Hamiltons.

1199
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:17,640
Speaker 1: Oh no you are do gee? Oh the day, do Gee,

1200
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 1: oh the day. Yeah. How would you react if you

1201
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:28,680
Speaker 1: heard your man saying the name of an X in

1202
01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:32,200
Speaker 1: his sleep? Um, I don't know. That's a tough one.

1203
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:34,960
Speaker 1: I don't know what I would do. We'd have a conversation,

1204
01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:36,480
Speaker 1: it might not go well, we might not talk for

1205
01:00:36,520 --> 01:00:38,840
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks. You don't think we will resort

1206
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:41,720
Speaker 1: to violence though, you're not. I'm not a violent person. Yeah,

1207
01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:45,640
Speaker 1: you know. I don't believe in putting my hands on people. Kay,

1208
01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:48,320
Speaker 1: I think we should play a game? You think we

1209
01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 1: should play a game? I'm curious, really really? Yes, okay, yes?

1210
01:00:57,040 --> 01:00:58,680
Speaker 1: What was the name? What was the name of the X?

1211
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:00,520
Speaker 1: I need to know? Didn't say didn't ame to X?

1212
01:01:00,680 --> 01:01:03,600
Speaker 1: They just say X. All right, Well, okay, since VY

1213
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:05,360
Speaker 1: wants to play, I guess it's time for a game

1214
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:10,480
Speaker 1: of Guess what race? All right? What's the clues now?

1215
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:15,080
Speaker 1: Alexis Tally. Alexis from Florida, Florida. She was sleep they

1216
01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:17,680
Speaker 1: both will sleep with her girlfriend, and her girlfriend was

1217
01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:21,080
Speaker 1: sleep talking and said the name of her exo alexis

1218
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 1: swung on her Guess what race? She is? Sty Go Latina,

1219
01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:34,840
Speaker 1: damn it man. Okay, Okay, ANGELI said Latina? Why do

1220
01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:38,680
Speaker 1: you say Latina? Angelie? I don't know. I just felt

1221
01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:43,160
Speaker 1: like it. Okay, okay, dj Envy. Alexis Tally from Florida. Okay.

1222
01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:45,600
Speaker 1: She was with her girlfriend. Her girlfriend was talking in

1223
01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:48,760
Speaker 1: her sleep and her girlfriend said ex's name alleged Lisa

1224
01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:52,439
Speaker 1: Alexis got up and swung on her. Guess what race

1225
01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 1: she is? All right, the name Alexis makes me feel black.

1226
01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:05,200
Speaker 1: But I'm going Puerto Rican? How dare you? I'm gonna

1227
01:02:05,240 --> 01:02:07,280
Speaker 1: be honest with you. I don't know what Alexis stallely is.

1228
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:11,480
Speaker 1: I'm looking know what she looked like? And he asked

1229
01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:13,280
Speaker 1: to play. I don't know. Let me see, let me

1230
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 1: I'm just always down for the game. It's just a

1231
01:02:16,360 --> 01:02:19,240
Speaker 1: good guessing game. She might be Portoici might be, but

1232
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:21,640
Speaker 1: then she might be black. She might be she makes

1233
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:25,680
Speaker 1: she might be happy. Its like you, Daniel, Well, it's

1234
01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:29,040
Speaker 1: Alexis Stally. She looked Puerto Rican. What she looked like,

1235
01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:33,920
Speaker 1: definitely Puerto Rican. Sometimes you can't look at a person Intel.

1236
01:02:34,360 --> 01:02:36,640
Speaker 1: You can't look at a person Intel, you definitely can't.

1237
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:43,760
Speaker 1: All right, pointless game and wanted to play thought you

1238
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 1: knew the answer. We'll find out on social media later.

1239
01:02:47,040 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 1: I'm sure, I'm sure somebody. All right, keep it locked.

1240
01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:52,479
Speaker 1: We have more coming up next. It's the Breakfast Club.

1241
01:02:53,120 --> 01:03:02,680
Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club relations your advice, need personal advice, just

1242
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 1: the real advice. Call up now for asking morning. Everybody

1243
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Speaker 1: is DJ Endy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We all

1244
01:03:11,680 --> 01:03:14,320
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. It is time for ask ye Hello.

1245
01:03:14,440 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 1: Who's this? Um? I'm staying anonymous? All right? What's your

1246
01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:20,800
Speaker 1: question for you? Anonymous? Yes we can, all right. So

1247
01:03:21,040 --> 01:03:23,840
Speaker 1: I have a dilemma. Um, when my boyfriend and I

1248
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:26,040
Speaker 1: first started dating, we're gonna, you know, do it in

1249
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:28,600
Speaker 1: the car and pulled his hands down or the foul

1250
01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:34,120
Speaker 1: older didn't he didn't fart, He just like had took

1251
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:37,840
Speaker 1: a dump and like didn't wipe his butt. Hey, now

1252
01:03:37,960 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 1: we like lived together, and whenever we're gonna do it,

1253
01:03:42,560 --> 01:03:45,040
Speaker 1: I always, you know, I hesitant because he doesn't wipe

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Speaker 1: his butt. So how older? And you know he always

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01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:53,360
Speaker 1: has the days of his boxer, so skid marks that's

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01:03:53,400 --> 01:03:56,080
Speaker 1: what they call him, Yes, skid mark. So how do

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01:03:56,160 --> 01:03:58,479
Speaker 1: you tell your man like day? Can you please wipe guys,

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01:03:58,760 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 1: is he a grown man or a baby wearing a

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01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:04,920
Speaker 1: diaper that is disgusting? First of all, judge that I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna tell you, Oh, is this envy we're talking about here?

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Speaker 1: All right? So first of all, do y'all have wet

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Speaker 1: wipes in the bathrooms in the house? I think I

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01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:16,800
Speaker 1: need to keep him there, But that is what help

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01:04:17,480 --> 01:04:19,560
Speaker 1: you gotta help him out, man, because there's first of all,

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01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:21,200
Speaker 1: there's no way he don't smell the dude who coming

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Speaker 1: out his butt when he pulls his pants down. Number one.

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01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:27,400
Speaker 1: Number two, you might have to tell him you gotta

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01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 1: get up in there when you wipe yourself and wipe

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01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:31,200
Speaker 1: yourself good. And you might have to buy him some

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01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:33,200
Speaker 1: wet wipes to carry with him when he goes places

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01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:35,480
Speaker 1: and tell him to use those when he uses the bathroom,

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Speaker 1: because this is not something that you can dance around.

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01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:40,960
Speaker 1: You have to be direct about this hygiene. She's right,

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01:04:41,120 --> 01:04:44,280
Speaker 1: but I'm not his mama, though embarrassing. One time you're

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01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:46,840
Speaker 1: gonna have you have to tell him because you know what,

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01:04:46,960 --> 01:04:48,720
Speaker 1: if you don't say something, you're gonna just end up

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Speaker 1: having to smell dude every time you have sex. Yeah,

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01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:54,640
Speaker 1: I can't do that, So just just till and be like, babe,

1279
01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:58,400
Speaker 1: look at your underwear. See this, you're not wiping yourself? Well,

1280
01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 1: are you getting up in the hole? So you have

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01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:03,800
Speaker 1: doodoo stains on your sheets too? Huh? No, No, I

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01:05:03,840 --> 01:05:05,920
Speaker 1: would never. You do have to if it's in his

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01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:08,360
Speaker 1: underwears in the sheets, but you gotta, you gotta point

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01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:10,400
Speaker 1: it out because if you don't say anything, then I

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01:05:10,400 --> 01:05:12,600
Speaker 1: don't are you just having sex? And then during the smell,

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01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:15,840
Speaker 1: oh girl, I don't go down here, but I won't

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Speaker 1: go down on him a lot because of that, Like

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01:05:18,200 --> 01:05:21,440
Speaker 1: I'm alwa even afraid, Like I don't want to. Why

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01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:23,280
Speaker 1: is it so hard to tell a man his ass? Think?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but you could get can't you get

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01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 1: you call out or something? I mean, I can't wait

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01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:31,680
Speaker 1: till you ask you. I don't want to. Hell, no,

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01:05:31,960 --> 01:05:34,720
Speaker 1: I don't want to hurt well girl, I don't want

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01:05:34,720 --> 01:05:37,680
Speaker 1: you to get some type of disease either, bacteria, infection.

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01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:41,240
Speaker 1: But this is this is for his own good. First

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01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:44,240
Speaker 1: of all, if you're doing laundry, sometimes you don't want

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01:05:44,280 --> 01:05:46,960
Speaker 1: to have to touch that and clean that, right, right,

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01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:49,360
Speaker 1: And this is for his own benefit. This is to

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01:05:49,480 --> 01:05:53,040
Speaker 1: help him out in his life. You gotta show him. Look, baby,

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01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:55,520
Speaker 1: these are wet wipes. Now, me and you were having

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01:05:55,520 --> 01:05:58,120
Speaker 1: this conversation. Don't be embarrassed because we could talk about anything.

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01:05:58,400 --> 01:05:59,960
Speaker 1: And trust me, if you're having sex with this man

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01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 1: and I'm protecting, you should be able to tell him

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01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:04,640
Speaker 1: his ass stinks and he's not wiping himself. If you

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01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:06,760
Speaker 1: can do that, and you could lay up with him

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01:06:06,960 --> 01:06:08,760
Speaker 1: and do all of that, then you should be able

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01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:10,800
Speaker 1: to communicate with him and telling him, babe, you need

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01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:12,640
Speaker 1: to clean your butt. It's gonna be so funny when

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01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:14,040
Speaker 1: you tell him his butt stinks. And he was like, man,

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01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:15,919
Speaker 1: I was thinking the same thing about your poom poom

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01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:19,200
Speaker 1: and guess what and guess what she would do? White

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01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:23,000
Speaker 1: pep poom poom with a wet white You ain't crap,

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01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:27,800
Speaker 1: ain't crap. You do want even crapt and and just listen,

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01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:30,240
Speaker 1: this isn't time when when you got to be directed.

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01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:32,440
Speaker 1: Be like, look, you know, I don't know if you're

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01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:34,840
Speaker 1: just not wiping yourself right, but there's these stains in

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01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:37,040
Speaker 1: your underwear and sometimes I can smell it, So I

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01:06:37,200 --> 01:06:39,480
Speaker 1: just want to say, you gotta wipe yourself better. Here

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01:06:39,560 --> 01:06:41,440
Speaker 1: some wet wipes every time you go to the bathroom,

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01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:43,320
Speaker 1: and you shouldn't even have sex with him to after

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01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:45,640
Speaker 1: he showers, but if he's not cleaning his button in

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01:06:45,680 --> 01:06:48,680
Speaker 1: the shower either, and then getting now that I don't

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01:06:48,680 --> 01:06:53,640
Speaker 1: know what I'm but it's cleaning his But I will

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01:06:53,720 --> 01:06:56,040
Speaker 1: say I've been on my wife twenty one years and

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Speaker 1: I do remember a time about fourteen fifteen years ago

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Speaker 1: where she went down and she was like, hey, man,

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01:07:04,120 --> 01:07:05,920
Speaker 1: you need to go take a shower or something, because

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01:07:06,840 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 1: you know and you appreciate it. It. Yeah, I went,

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01:07:09,880 --> 01:07:11,800
Speaker 1: maybe I didn't wipe properly. I don't know what it was,

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01:07:11,920 --> 01:07:13,920
Speaker 1: but she told me it hurt my feelings. I just

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01:07:13,960 --> 01:07:17,960
Speaker 1: went and took a shower between then, like, I don't understand.

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01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:20,000
Speaker 1: I don't think it was a commentation to me before

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01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:22,520
Speaker 1: once or twice, three times, four times, five times happened

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01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:24,520
Speaker 1: to me before. Yeah so, but like so that's why

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01:07:24,560 --> 01:07:26,160
Speaker 1: you got to point it out. One day y'all will

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01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:28,320
Speaker 1: laugh about it, and hopefully that day that Chella laughing,

1337
01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:30,920
Speaker 1: his butt will be clean. She got embarrassed and pick

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01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 1: up the underwear and be like, what's this and then

1339
01:07:32,800 --> 01:07:35,000
Speaker 1: let him see the do those stains. He'll get embarrassed

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01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:37,440
Speaker 1: and I'll never do it again like that, you know

1341
01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:39,560
Speaker 1: what I mean? And check your sheets and I bet

1342
01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 1: you gotta doose stains in your sheets. Yeah, I bet you.

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01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:45,200
Speaker 1: He knows trust me, tapping to me once or twice,

1344
01:07:45,280 --> 01:07:48,080
Speaker 1: but the skin marks in his face, you go too far?

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01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:51,640
Speaker 1: Thank you, mama. How do you like it? That's actually

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01:07:52,160 --> 01:07:54,240
Speaker 1: that's some young boys stuff though, because you know, like

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01:07:54,360 --> 01:07:56,440
Speaker 1: that's that's one of the reasons after I do a

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Speaker 1: number two, I do go take a shower, except if

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Speaker 1: you're at work. Yeah, if I'm at work, but then

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01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:01,680
Speaker 1: I'm not like I'm going home and like me and

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01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:03,120
Speaker 1: my wife gonna get right to it. I don't want

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01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 1: to go home smelling like you should never pull and

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01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:07,520
Speaker 1: then have sex right after. Hell, you can take a shower.

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01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:09,520
Speaker 1: We don't want your money, butter pee you better white,

1355
01:08:09,560 --> 01:08:12,160
Speaker 1: better bro all right? Ask ye eight hundred and five

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01:08:12,200 --> 01:08:14,000
Speaker 1: A five one oh five one if you need relationship

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01:08:14,000 --> 01:08:15,840
Speaker 1: advice at Ye Now it's the breakfast club. Good Morning.

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01:08:19,439 --> 01:08:23,679
Speaker 1: There's some real advice with Angela Ye gets ask Ye Morning.

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01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:27,519
Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We

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01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:30,800
Speaker 1: are the breakfast club. We're in the middle of asking ye,

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01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:34,320
Speaker 1: good morning, good morning, good morning. Hey. Can you take

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01:08:34,400 --> 01:08:37,639
Speaker 1: us on bluetooth for speaker please? Yes, sir, absolutely, what's

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01:08:37,680 --> 01:08:40,599
Speaker 1: your question for you? Bro? Good morning, breakfast club. So, yeah,

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01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:43,840
Speaker 1: my question is, so, just recently, I'm in a relationship

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01:08:43,880 --> 01:08:47,400
Speaker 1: with this with this, with this beautiful woman. She's currently

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01:08:47,439 --> 01:08:50,120
Speaker 1: going through a divorce right now, and she was raped

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01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:52,360
Speaker 1: by her soon to be ex husbin. So I was

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01:08:52,479 --> 01:08:54,160
Speaker 1: very angry. I tried to get her to go to

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01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:56,120
Speaker 1: the cob um. She didn't want to do it. So

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out what should I do, how

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Speaker 1: I should I feel? Okay, So I understand. So you

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01:09:01,200 --> 01:09:03,679
Speaker 1: said she was raped by her soon to be ex husband.

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01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:05,439
Speaker 1: You want her to go to the police to report this,

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01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:08,400
Speaker 1: and she's not willing to do that right now, and

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01:09:09,000 --> 01:09:11,880
Speaker 1: you know that's a difficult decision. Again, it is her decision.

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01:09:11,960 --> 01:09:14,360
Speaker 1: But what you can do is be as supportive as possible.

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01:09:14,720 --> 01:09:17,160
Speaker 1: I think you should encourage her to talk to someone

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01:09:17,360 --> 01:09:21,200
Speaker 1: like a therapist or a sexual assault counselor. I know

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01:09:21,280 --> 01:09:24,400
Speaker 1: they have the National Sexual Assault Hotline that numbers eight

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01:09:24,560 --> 01:09:27,000
Speaker 1: hundred and six to five six. Hope, if she wants

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01:09:27,040 --> 01:09:29,519
Speaker 1: to speak to someone, and that way she can have

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01:09:29,600 --> 01:09:31,160
Speaker 1: a record of it, because the worst thing you want

1383
01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:32,920
Speaker 1: to do is not be able to bring this up

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01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:35,000
Speaker 1: later if she should change her mind. But I do

1385
01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:38,080
Speaker 1: think speaking to a counselor or a therapist will help

1386
01:09:38,120 --> 01:09:40,799
Speaker 1: her understand that it is in no way her fault,

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01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:44,320
Speaker 1: because she might be having some feeling a lot of

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01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:46,320
Speaker 1: times when things happen, you think about what could I

1389
01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 1: have done differently? Is this my fault? How could this

1390
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:51,640
Speaker 1: have been prevented? Did I put myself in a bad situation?

1391
01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:53,600
Speaker 1: Am I going to ruin his life? If they have

1392
01:09:53,760 --> 01:09:56,280
Speaker 1: kids together? Women think about all of those things, and

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01:09:56,320 --> 01:09:58,800
Speaker 1: a therapist might help her to see things from a

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01:09:58,840 --> 01:10:01,080
Speaker 1: different point of view and under stand that it was

1395
01:10:01,120 --> 01:10:03,320
Speaker 1: in no way at all her faults. And another thing

1396
01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:05,479
Speaker 1: you should encourage her to do is write everything down.

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01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:08,240
Speaker 1: That way she can remember every single detail. In case

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01:10:08,280 --> 01:10:10,920
Speaker 1: there's an instance where she does decide that she wants

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01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:12,880
Speaker 1: to go to the police or report this, she'll have

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01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:15,920
Speaker 1: all of that information. But speaking to a counselor speaking

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01:10:15,960 --> 01:10:17,960
Speaker 1: to a therapist that can help her see things. Who's

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01:10:17,960 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 1: an expert from a different point of view, I think

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01:10:20,240 --> 01:10:21,840
Speaker 1: would be one of the most helpful things you can do,

1404
01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:24,200
Speaker 1: because again, you want to be there to support and

1405
01:10:24,280 --> 01:10:26,120
Speaker 1: comfort her. You want her to be able to trust you,

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01:10:26,640 --> 01:10:28,560
Speaker 1: but you don't want to make her feel ashamed or

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01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:31,719
Speaker 1: have any type of judgment on whatever her decision is. Gosh,

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01:10:32,160 --> 01:10:35,519
Speaker 1: and I tried to suggest some of those things to her,

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01:10:35,680 --> 01:10:39,240
Speaker 1: but I think that the problem arose where she didn't

1410
01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:41,559
Speaker 1: want to be big demands or be a big Jim

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01:10:41,680 --> 01:10:43,240
Speaker 1: and it was kind of hard for her to em

1412
01:10:43,280 --> 01:10:47,120
Speaker 1: and grasp the concept of what happened. And when we

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01:10:47,240 --> 01:10:49,760
Speaker 1: had the conversation, it was kind of like she was

1414
01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:53,200
Speaker 1: kind of in denial rights. That's a problem now we

1415
01:10:53,320 --> 01:10:56,200
Speaker 1: were running into But and she's a survivor, and she's

1416
01:10:56,240 --> 01:10:59,760
Speaker 1: a survivor we like to say survivor, so not a

1417
01:11:00,280 --> 01:11:02,960
Speaker 1: but she survived this and we want her to continue

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01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:06,080
Speaker 1: to thrive and to actually deal with whatever she might

1419
01:11:06,120 --> 01:11:08,160
Speaker 1: be feeling with that. And that might be something that

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01:11:08,280 --> 01:11:11,240
Speaker 1: she needs to talk to somebody about. Again, if right

1421
01:11:11,280 --> 01:11:13,320
Speaker 1: now she's not ready to go to the police, I

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01:11:13,360 --> 01:11:15,960
Speaker 1: would encourage her to speak to someone and even you

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01:11:16,040 --> 01:11:18,000
Speaker 1: can call right because then they might be able to

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01:11:18,080 --> 01:11:20,040
Speaker 1: give you the tools that you would need to be

1425
01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:23,280
Speaker 1: able to talk to your girlfriend to better be able

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01:11:23,320 --> 01:11:26,519
Speaker 1: to help her because that's a traumatic experience. You don't

1427
01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:28,360
Speaker 1: even know how this might affect her later, but you

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01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:30,760
Speaker 1: want her to be able to have whatever options available

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01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:33,720
Speaker 1: to her in case she needs those. Oh, thank you

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01:11:33,800 --> 01:11:36,200
Speaker 1: so much. I love you, guys. I left me all

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01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:39,000
Speaker 1: every pint at but thank you again so much. All right,

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01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:41,600
Speaker 1: thank you, and we commend you and appreciate you for

1433
01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 1: being such a support to your girlfriend at a time

1434
01:11:44,080 --> 01:11:49,599
Speaker 1: like this. Absolutely got to be Okay, you two ask

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01:11:49,720 --> 01:11:52,679
Speaker 1: ye ooh, that's tough. All right, we got more coming

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01:11:52,760 --> 01:11:57,320
Speaker 1: up next with a breakfast club. It's that time ask

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01:11:57,439 --> 01:12:05,479
Speaker 1: Charlemagne and Dji morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela yee,

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01:12:05,640 --> 01:12:08,760
Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast club. It's time

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01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:11,439
Speaker 1: for asking if you need relationship advice and any type

1440
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:13,080
Speaker 1: of advice. You get this right now? Hello? Who's this?

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01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:18,000
Speaker 1: Hey Kendrick go morning? What's your question for seeing? I

1442
01:12:18,080 --> 01:12:22,120
Speaker 1: actually have a question for you, Envy here in North

1443
01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 1: Carolina and I'm wanting to get into but I don't

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01:12:26,280 --> 01:12:28,559
Speaker 1: know where to start. Okay, Well, first of all, how's

1445
01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:31,439
Speaker 1: your credit? Your credit good? Yeah, that's the most important thing.

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01:12:31,479 --> 01:12:34,639
Speaker 1: And then now you have to find the property. There's

1447
01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:36,759
Speaker 1: a couple of websites that I use across the country.

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01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:39,479
Speaker 1: One is auction dot com okay, and the other one

1449
01:12:39,600 --> 01:12:43,000
Speaker 1: is hubzoo dot com. Now those two websites I have

1450
01:12:43,160 --> 01:12:44,960
Speaker 1: no affiliation with, so I don't get no paid for

1451
01:12:45,000 --> 01:12:47,000
Speaker 1: it and nothing. These is just the websites I actually use.

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01:12:47,640 --> 01:12:50,439
Speaker 1: Those are the websites I used to find properties that

1453
01:12:50,520 --> 01:12:53,080
Speaker 1: are usually being auctioned off that you can get at

1454
01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:56,720
Speaker 1: a great price, way undermarket value. And that's where you

1455
01:12:56,720 --> 01:12:58,679
Speaker 1: should look first. And you should look at the comps

1456
01:12:58,720 --> 01:13:01,080
Speaker 1: in the area and see what those properties worth. When

1457
01:13:01,120 --> 01:13:03,200
Speaker 1: you look at those properties, you should take somebody with

1458
01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:05,320
Speaker 1: you to see how much those properties will cost to

1459
01:13:05,479 --> 01:13:07,560
Speaker 1: fix up. See what's wrong with the property, if it

1460
01:13:07,600 --> 01:13:09,640
Speaker 1: needs a new roof, if it needs electric, if it

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Speaker 1: your your analysis from there. So if that property is

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Speaker 1: that's six hundred thousand, but it's worth eight hundred thousand.

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Speaker 1: good one because during the seminar, there's so many people

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Speaker 1: You should definitely check it out if you have a chance.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Thank you all right, and just continue

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Speaker 1: to follow me and Sezar because we're gonna some courses

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Speaker 1: online because we can't make it to all the cities.

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Speaker 1: We just got so much going on where we can

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Speaker 1: help people online and we just want to see our

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Speaker 1: own people just you know, continue to purchase land and property. Yeah,

1484
01:14:09,360 --> 01:14:12,880
Speaker 1: I'm trying to feel a generational wealth, all right, Mama,

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01:14:12,960 --> 01:14:18,320
Speaker 1: thank you. Hello, who's this? This is nails design question.

1486
01:14:18,640 --> 01:14:21,200
Speaker 1: I have a question for you, mb Why are you

1487
01:14:21,479 --> 01:14:24,840
Speaker 1: so insecure in your masculinity that you won't let ye

1488
01:14:25,000 --> 01:14:28,680
Speaker 1: playing me when you're not there yet, so you are good.

1489
01:14:28,800 --> 01:14:34,560
Speaker 1: Great question, Great question, queen. Um. I'm not insecuing my masculinity.

1490
01:14:34,640 --> 01:14:36,559
Speaker 1: He was allowed to do mixes a long time ago.

1491
01:14:36,640 --> 01:14:38,240
Speaker 1: But I believe they said she was trash or they

1492
01:14:38,240 --> 01:14:40,320
Speaker 1: didn't want her to That never happened. You are such

1493
01:14:44,520 --> 01:14:47,200
Speaker 1: that was out at the time, not the pre program

1494
01:14:47,320 --> 01:14:49,600
Speaker 1: stuff you got going on. Well, I don't play the

1495
01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:52,200
Speaker 1: music during the show man, but if if you know,

1496
01:14:52,320 --> 01:14:54,839
Speaker 1: if if Ye's mix wasn't trash, they would have invited

1497
01:14:54,840 --> 01:14:57,760
Speaker 1: her to play again. It is something more to the

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01:14:57,880 --> 01:15:01,080
Speaker 1: ex than I do your next. Oh, I don't know.

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01:15:01,479 --> 01:15:04,040
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. Maybe you should start

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01:15:04,040 --> 01:15:06,600
Speaker 1: a um an Instagram page and try. I don't know,

1501
01:15:06,680 --> 01:15:13,560
Speaker 1: but that's what trash. And they said they said that

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01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:15,760
Speaker 1: because the mix is so trashed, they didn't they didn't

1503
01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:17,519
Speaker 1: want her back. I'm sorry you said you're gonna see

1504
01:15:17,520 --> 01:15:21,599
Speaker 1: her already. You that was you. You were being shady.

1505
01:15:21,880 --> 01:15:24,040
Speaker 1: I'm not being shady, but you have a good morning, though.

1506
01:15:24,160 --> 01:15:31,960
Speaker 1: I love you whatever. Send her healing energy. Hello. Who's this? Hey?

1507
01:15:32,280 --> 01:15:35,400
Speaker 1: This is umke Oh boy, fake name? What's your question

1508
01:15:35,439 --> 01:15:39,599
Speaker 1: for seeing me? I just had a question, um, how

1509
01:15:39,640 --> 01:15:44,400
Speaker 1: do you deal with like trusting someone after like them

1510
01:15:44,560 --> 01:15:47,800
Speaker 1: she and you know you have a baby together. Oh

1511
01:15:47,880 --> 01:15:49,600
Speaker 1: that's not on you, that's on him, you know what

1512
01:15:49,600 --> 01:15:52,040
Speaker 1: I mean. The best apology to change behavior, like he

1513
01:15:52,160 --> 01:15:54,519
Speaker 1: has to regain your trust, you know what I mean? Like,

1514
01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:56,799
Speaker 1: that's not that's not something you got to force yourself

1515
01:15:56,880 --> 01:15:59,000
Speaker 1: to do. Yeah, and it takes time. Don't don't. Don't

1516
01:15:59,120 --> 01:16:00,599
Speaker 1: let him force you to be like, oh you gotta

1517
01:16:00,800 --> 01:16:02,600
Speaker 1: you forgave me, so you gotta no, no, no, it

1518
01:16:02,680 --> 01:16:05,680
Speaker 1: takes time. Whenever you're comfortable, whenever you feel okay, that's

1519
01:16:05,720 --> 01:16:07,840
Speaker 1: when you feel okay. Like Charlemagne said, it ain't about

1520
01:16:07,880 --> 01:16:09,880
Speaker 1: telling me, it's about showing me. And are you open

1521
01:16:10,000 --> 01:16:13,080
Speaker 1: are you open to trusting him again? I am definitely

1522
01:16:13,200 --> 01:16:16,439
Speaker 1: open to trusting him again. It's just like the fact,

1523
01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:19,840
Speaker 1: like feeling like the prison, like feeling betrayed by someone.

1524
01:16:20,320 --> 01:16:22,880
Speaker 1: All good feelings are not good feelings but all natural

1525
01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:25,120
Speaker 1: feelings to have. All you gotta do is remain open

1526
01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:28,759
Speaker 1: to trusting him, and he has to regain your trust

1527
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:31,760
Speaker 1: by changing his behavior. And that's just gonna come over time.

1528
01:16:31,840 --> 01:16:33,840
Speaker 1: Just like you knew he was cheating. It's like your

1529
01:16:33,880 --> 01:16:37,080
Speaker 1: six since that woman, since intuition knew he was cheating.

1530
01:16:37,240 --> 01:16:40,960
Speaker 1: You're gonna know when you're doing right, and thank you

1531
01:16:41,680 --> 01:16:43,559
Speaker 1: and if you still comfortable. Every once in a while,

1532
01:16:43,600 --> 01:16:45,560
Speaker 1: do a phone check, phone check, Nick, give me a

1533
01:16:45,640 --> 01:16:52,479
Speaker 1: phone thank you, guys. Hello, who's this? Hey? Hey Nannie,

1534
01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:56,040
Speaker 1: what's your question for CNE? So I just thought out

1535
01:16:56,200 --> 01:17:00,840
Speaker 1: my husband was texting Reilly like, but this test with

1536
01:17:01,120 --> 01:17:05,880
Speaker 1: a co worker. I'm a month pregnant and I've been

1537
01:17:05,960 --> 01:17:09,200
Speaker 1: going through a lot of like, let's scary scars. So

1538
01:17:10,000 --> 01:17:13,320
Speaker 1: this whole time, I'm like, why would you think it's

1539
01:17:13,360 --> 01:17:15,920
Speaker 1: okayty for you to be doing these things when we

1540
01:17:16,040 --> 01:17:19,439
Speaker 1: are going through like some hard at home, like we

1541
01:17:19,600 --> 01:17:22,240
Speaker 1: could lose the baby. And every time I bring it

1542
01:17:22,360 --> 01:17:24,679
Speaker 1: up to him, he kind of just like, just get

1543
01:17:24,720 --> 01:17:27,920
Speaker 1: over it, you know, let's move on. M I didn't

1544
01:17:27,960 --> 01:17:32,360
Speaker 1: do nothing with this message, But like, you work with

1545
01:17:32,520 --> 01:17:34,720
Speaker 1: this girl, and I've asked you multiple times to like

1546
01:17:34,800 --> 01:17:36,720
Speaker 1: contact her in front of me and tell her like

1547
01:17:36,800 --> 01:17:38,400
Speaker 1: it's over, you know, like I don't want to have

1548
01:17:38,560 --> 01:17:41,800
Speaker 1: nothing to do with you, but he won't do it. Yeah,

1549
01:17:42,040 --> 01:17:43,559
Speaker 1: I mean, I'll be honest with you. I think it's

1550
01:17:43,640 --> 01:17:47,439
Speaker 1: very disrespectful the fact that you're pregnant and continues to

1551
01:17:47,520 --> 01:17:49,120
Speaker 1: text this girl. I know it has to be difficult

1552
01:17:49,160 --> 01:17:51,160
Speaker 1: for you because every day he goes to work, you

1553
01:17:51,280 --> 01:17:54,160
Speaker 1: have to think about your husband seeing this other woman

1554
01:17:54,200 --> 01:17:56,639
Speaker 1: that he's been texting explicitly. And it's not a matter

1555
01:17:56,720 --> 01:17:58,800
Speaker 1: of just get over it and it'll go away. No,

1556
01:17:58,880 --> 01:18:00,679
Speaker 1: it's not that you put that You keep that pressure

1557
01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:02,519
Speaker 1: on that man's neck. The fact that he has been

1558
01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:05,320
Speaker 1: doing it is very disrespectful. Your husband is a boy.

1559
01:18:05,400 --> 01:18:08,160
Speaker 1: We've all had our boy opportunities and our boy aspects

1560
01:18:08,160 --> 01:18:09,840
Speaker 1: of our lives. But he has to grow up and

1561
01:18:09,920 --> 01:18:12,680
Speaker 1: understand he has responsibilities. He has a wife at home

1562
01:18:12,720 --> 01:18:14,680
Speaker 1: that's pregnant, and he should be taking care of home,

1563
01:18:14,760 --> 01:18:17,240
Speaker 1: making sure that you know that life that you're building,

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01:18:17,320 --> 01:18:20,400
Speaker 1: that you're completely stressed. Free Yo yo yo, queen, Get

1565
01:18:20,439 --> 01:18:25,960
Speaker 1: a fired queen, Queen, get a fired queen. You know

1566
01:18:26,040 --> 01:18:28,200
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I'm sure you got a creative mind.

1567
01:18:28,560 --> 01:18:30,960
Speaker 1: You can make something up and get a little message

1568
01:18:31,000 --> 01:18:34,280
Speaker 1: to the boss. You know what I'm saying, get her fired.

1569
01:18:34,880 --> 01:18:38,120
Speaker 1: But you know that's our livelihood. I can't. Yes, Oh

1570
01:18:38,200 --> 01:18:40,320
Speaker 1: you care about her livelihood? Did she care about your

1571
01:18:40,400 --> 01:18:42,960
Speaker 1: liveli She ain't thinking about you. She ain't thinking about

1572
01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:46,599
Speaker 1: your life, your livelihood, the life and your belly. Nothing.

1573
01:18:46,960 --> 01:18:52,439
Speaker 1: Get a fired queen, all right, goodness, gracious, let her know.

1574
01:18:52,479 --> 01:18:54,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get you fired. If you don't leave my

1575
01:18:54,040 --> 01:18:56,200
Speaker 1: man alone, you might have to embarrass up. You might

1576
01:18:56,240 --> 01:18:59,680
Speaker 1: have to embarrass him straight up. Maybe maybe an anonymous

1577
01:18:59,680 --> 01:19:02,559
Speaker 1: face book post. I know what's going on at the job.

1578
01:19:03,000 --> 01:19:05,479
Speaker 1: Y'all better leave my man alone before I start naming

1579
01:19:05,600 --> 01:19:09,720
Speaker 1: names all. You could do it right now if you want, no,

1580
01:19:09,880 --> 01:19:13,120
Speaker 1: don't do it now, think about it. I have a

1581
01:19:13,160 --> 01:19:15,760
Speaker 1: good one. What kind of advice is that forget a fight?

1582
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Speaker 1: All right? Do it now? Don't do it now, don't

1583
01:19:17,240 --> 01:19:19,559
Speaker 1: do it now, think about it? On it? My goodness?

1584
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Speaker 1: All right? Well that's as C and E. It's the

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Speaker 1: Breakfast Local Morning, the breakfast Club. Your morning's will never

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Speaker 1: Yane Charlomagne, the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We

1593
01:19:49,200 --> 01:19:51,200
Speaker 1: got a special guest in the building, that's right. Name

1594
01:19:51,280 --> 01:19:53,320
Speaker 1: is Love Russell, not La Russell. He's only been the

1595
01:19:53,479 --> 01:19:56,920
Speaker 1: La five times, that's right. My man Horvain hit me,

1596
01:19:57,240 --> 01:19:59,800
Speaker 1: hit me back in July and he sent me a

1597
01:20:00,080 --> 01:20:02,000
Speaker 1: a video and he was and he was like, he

1598
01:20:02,040 --> 01:20:03,160
Speaker 1: just sent it to me. I think he might say

1599
01:20:03,240 --> 01:20:04,320
Speaker 1: check it out, but I didn't get a chance to

1600
01:20:04,360 --> 01:20:05,640
Speaker 1: check it out. In a couple days later he hit

1601
01:20:05,680 --> 01:20:07,679
Speaker 1: me and Hope and say, you ain't watched that video.

1602
01:20:08,560 --> 01:20:10,160
Speaker 1: So I watched the video and I was like, Yo,

1603
01:20:10,320 --> 01:20:13,920
Speaker 1: who is this kid? This kid is incredible? And here

1604
01:20:13,960 --> 01:20:16,840
Speaker 1: he is now right you know. Now for people, where

1605
01:20:16,840 --> 01:20:20,120
Speaker 1: are you from? I'm from Valo, California, from California. He

1606
01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:23,720
Speaker 1: forties land. That's right, man, all right? So so l

1607
01:20:23,800 --> 01:20:25,479
Speaker 1: Russell just here to s pitch some bars. If y'all

1608
01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:27,760
Speaker 1: haven't seen hopevai and post him or me post him up.

1609
01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:30,920
Speaker 1: Everybody be posting him. You know. We want to give

1610
01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:33,639
Speaker 1: him the opportunity to do his one two things. Right here.

1611
01:20:33,760 --> 01:20:36,680
Speaker 1: You're gonna rap, okay, you're gonna wrap, all right, So

1612
01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:38,960
Speaker 1: only millions of people listening right now. No pressure though,

1613
01:20:39,000 --> 01:20:47,880
Speaker 1: no pressure. Yeah, Breakfast Club, thank you for having me. Yeah,

1614
01:20:50,960 --> 01:20:56,040
Speaker 1: bay Area Valo, Come on, man, we came out to

1615
01:20:56,240 --> 01:21:03,439
Speaker 1: n Y twelve deep for this. Yeah. African and the

1616
01:21:03,560 --> 01:21:08,320
Speaker 1: European with like when't come hill, No European ship your

1617
01:21:08,360 --> 01:21:12,680
Speaker 1: opinion shod show. European lives, money and murder. That's that European.

1618
01:21:13,760 --> 01:21:16,880
Speaker 1: I know better. I just hold my tongue yelling out

1619
01:21:16,960 --> 01:21:20,080
Speaker 1: told the while I'm on my running happily waves back

1620
01:21:20,200 --> 01:21:24,200
Speaker 1: as I hold my gun. Huh. I've seen a lot

1621
01:21:24,280 --> 01:21:26,880
Speaker 1: of side of y'all look like me. You know your

1622
01:21:26,960 --> 01:21:29,720
Speaker 1: rights get denied when you look like me. Yeah, we're

1623
01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:32,160
Speaker 1: both in different size, but you look like me. I

1624
01:21:32,280 --> 01:21:34,439
Speaker 1: come to man in the mirror. Never looked like me.

1625
01:21:34,960 --> 01:21:38,040
Speaker 1: I'm familiar. Quite peculiar, dude. You know yourself? Are you

1626
01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:40,920
Speaker 1: tending to your garden? Do you grow yourself? Are you

1627
01:21:41,040 --> 01:21:44,120
Speaker 1: living in the past? Do you hold yourself accountable for

1628
01:21:44,160 --> 01:21:46,880
Speaker 1: all that's bad? Like you all yourself a new life,

1629
01:21:46,920 --> 01:21:49,840
Speaker 1: a new bitch and knew you, some new goals and

1630
01:21:49,960 --> 01:21:52,760
Speaker 1: new holes and new crew. You know them. You know

1631
01:21:53,040 --> 01:21:56,040
Speaker 1: us and them too. You know who everybody is, but

1632
01:21:56,160 --> 01:21:59,600
Speaker 1: who you I ain't trying to preach because I hate that.

1633
01:22:00,600 --> 01:22:04,080
Speaker 1: But I see dying, and I hate that smelling all

1634
01:22:04,120 --> 01:22:07,400
Speaker 1: the time. I gotta fake that. I hate twenty shots.

1635
01:22:07,479 --> 01:22:10,920
Speaker 1: Why make that sharing all this pain for the income

1636
01:22:10,960 --> 01:22:13,400
Speaker 1: market game? Greg Granny was a sleep. What would have

1637
01:22:13,479 --> 01:22:16,280
Speaker 1: ever covered chain gave us band dads like that? Could

1638
01:22:16,280 --> 01:22:19,439
Speaker 1: ever stop the pain? Shoot to hang for these songs

1639
01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:22,360
Speaker 1: that I sang. Jused to die for these pitches that

1640
01:22:22,439 --> 01:22:24,880
Speaker 1: I posted, because you used to die trying to get

1641
01:22:24,920 --> 01:22:27,479
Speaker 1: a right to vote, liberty in life. They say we

1642
01:22:27,520 --> 01:22:30,280
Speaker 1: gotta right to both. But when have right? Since they

1643
01:22:30,360 --> 01:22:32,840
Speaker 1: jugg us off that boat, took us from our land,

1644
01:22:32,920 --> 01:22:35,160
Speaker 1: then took our lad from us, cross the arm in

1645
01:22:35,200 --> 01:22:37,679
Speaker 1: the leg. They really took our hand from us through

1646
01:22:37,680 --> 01:22:40,680
Speaker 1: a send them pages, taxed all our wages, tought us

1647
01:22:40,680 --> 01:22:43,720
Speaker 1: state religion rippled all the pages, been his way for

1648
01:22:43,840 --> 01:22:46,599
Speaker 1: ages through a cent him mazes made it off them

1649
01:22:46,680 --> 01:22:50,000
Speaker 1: cotton fields. Now we're on the stages wrapping about ass cheeks.

1650
01:22:50,040 --> 01:22:54,040
Speaker 1: We're rapping about chains, rapping about fenzes, We're rapping about pains,

1651
01:22:54,439 --> 01:22:58,040
Speaker 1: rapping about oppression, We're rapping about pain. I'm wrapping about

1652
01:22:58,080 --> 01:23:00,560
Speaker 1: all that. I gotta share the blame they're rapping on

1653
01:23:00,640 --> 01:23:03,360
Speaker 1: the contract. They're wrapping for some fame. They're wrapping in

1654
01:23:03,439 --> 01:23:10,799
Speaker 1: a slate deal. We're clapping while they hang Dan. Hello,

1655
01:23:10,960 --> 01:23:18,080
Speaker 1: Dan should be doing but let out it's different. Get

1656
01:23:18,400 --> 01:23:21,160
Speaker 1: get Russell some water? I want my own man. I

1657
01:23:21,240 --> 01:23:24,479
Speaker 1: gotta hear something else. I need another one? Man, you

1658
01:23:24,560 --> 01:23:26,680
Speaker 1: got some more? You know? I come? You got some more?

1659
01:23:26,720 --> 01:23:29,400
Speaker 1: You want to switch to beat? He got his own

1660
01:23:29,439 --> 01:23:32,559
Speaker 1: water Alkali? Okay, let's get another beat for him? Then

1661
01:23:32,600 --> 01:23:35,680
Speaker 1: he got he got his own alkali? What else we got?

1662
01:23:35,920 --> 01:23:39,479
Speaker 1: Who produced that? By the way, Russell produced by skies man?

1663
01:23:39,640 --> 01:23:43,720
Speaker 1: Okay from no, No, he's actually from overseas. Okay, wow,

1664
01:23:43,800 --> 01:23:49,639
Speaker 1: wow wow wow that beat online? Man, Make sure that's clear.

1665
01:23:49,880 --> 01:23:53,080
Speaker 1: Make sure it's clear. The money were clear and were

1666
01:23:53,080 --> 01:23:55,479
Speaker 1: splitting the pie up with him. Let's go there we go.

1667
01:23:55,520 --> 01:23:57,200
Speaker 1: We got no one? What's this? Who produced this one?

1668
01:23:57,479 --> 01:24:01,960
Speaker 1: This by bandit loose man Savage. Let's go my mail Russell.

1669
01:24:02,040 --> 01:24:13,439
Speaker 1: Let's hear hey yeah go on Valo, California, Bay Area

1670
01:24:14,040 --> 01:24:23,920
Speaker 1: breakfast club. Yeah, hey, look at what it comes to?

1671
01:24:24,439 --> 01:24:27,200
Speaker 1: No escape? Who can I run to Na's Agate life

1672
01:24:27,280 --> 01:24:29,760
Speaker 1: like I'm sun too? Was having fun with it? I

1673
01:24:29,800 --> 01:24:32,160
Speaker 1: ain't so separately. I come with it through my life

1674
01:24:32,200 --> 01:24:34,080
Speaker 1: away like I was done with it. I've been in

1675
01:24:34,160 --> 01:24:36,240
Speaker 1: a slump dog. Should have kept it real front of

1676
01:24:36,320 --> 01:24:38,840
Speaker 1: jump dog, Chris crossing me, gonna make you jump dog.

1677
01:24:39,040 --> 01:24:44,679
Speaker 1: I just need some preferably in a lump dog dreams

1678
01:24:44,680 --> 01:24:47,160
Speaker 1: of a beat. Well, no, it's deficiencies in my beat

1679
01:24:47,200 --> 01:24:49,840
Speaker 1: twelve my net game back feel like eats hell. How

1680
01:24:49,920 --> 01:24:52,760
Speaker 1: could I be well belly even sleeping? I don't eat well.

1681
01:24:53,000 --> 01:24:55,400
Speaker 1: I can't even go into the details. I'm just on

1682
01:24:55,520 --> 01:24:58,200
Speaker 1: the crime bro I got bigger than my mind hole.

1683
01:24:58,439 --> 01:25:01,200
Speaker 1: I rapped about it when it's time ten years from now.

1684
01:25:01,320 --> 01:25:03,320
Speaker 1: Don't want to ask where the time go. You can

1685
01:25:03,400 --> 01:25:06,920
Speaker 1: have a mindful that you could be mindful ever rap

1686
01:25:07,000 --> 01:25:09,840
Speaker 1: better go get a. Had to send the order back

1687
01:25:09,960 --> 01:25:12,880
Speaker 1: needed mo chetta. These verses kept me out of them

1688
01:25:12,960 --> 01:25:15,519
Speaker 1: hurst and stiff me away from churches. Frivolous when I

1689
01:25:15,720 --> 01:25:19,240
Speaker 1: purchased love letters than cursive elegant when I shoot addicted

1690
01:25:19,280 --> 01:25:21,760
Speaker 1: to them trees, I never got to the room. I'm

1691
01:25:21,800 --> 01:25:27,439
Speaker 1: gonna take a break and let these reboot. Wrapping for

1692
01:25:27,520 --> 01:25:30,680
Speaker 1: a Daycage spitting when he had neck braids, back when

1693
01:25:30,680 --> 01:25:33,439
Speaker 1: I was banking with the messages. God was lost, trying

1694
01:25:33,439 --> 01:25:36,040
Speaker 1: to find some where to fit. Still had pride when

1695
01:25:36,040 --> 01:25:38,559
Speaker 1: I ain't had the newest kick back when my mamma

1696
01:25:38,640 --> 01:25:41,200
Speaker 1: used to rub me down with vic gee unit fit

1697
01:25:41,320 --> 01:25:44,200
Speaker 1: for all the family picks people in them cages him

1698
01:25:44,240 --> 01:25:46,400
Speaker 1: post to sound free me the statue in the v

1699
01:25:46,640 --> 01:25:49,400
Speaker 1: it won't be another me. I'm out and bet could

1700
01:25:49,400 --> 01:25:51,360
Speaker 1: take you from A to Z. They gonna watch me

1701
01:25:51,439 --> 01:25:53,559
Speaker 1: peel off. I'm on it like A and D. They

1702
01:25:53,640 --> 01:25:55,320
Speaker 1: put it on the show because save us for A

1703
01:25:55,479 --> 01:25:57,759
Speaker 1: and D. I didn't put more dope outs and dealers

1704
01:25:57,800 --> 01:26:01,360
Speaker 1: in eighty three. Yeah, bring it where it caught me

1705
01:26:01,640 --> 01:26:04,439
Speaker 1: sliding with the stick. The let's be playing hockey or

1706
01:26:04,520 --> 01:26:07,840
Speaker 1: this horseplay gonna turn me into a jockey number cook.

1707
01:26:07,960 --> 01:26:11,040
Speaker 1: I'm always burning the broccoli lee. I'm wrong for plitting

1708
01:26:11,120 --> 01:26:14,120
Speaker 1: my favorite song. Shouldn't invest in half and the opportunity

1709
01:26:14,320 --> 01:26:16,880
Speaker 1: zone be on my back and I ain't even wearing

1710
01:26:16,920 --> 01:26:19,240
Speaker 1: blown three grams in the cone. I'm trying to get

1711
01:26:19,280 --> 01:26:22,080
Speaker 1: in my zone ready for the shake back, buzzing like

1712
01:26:22,160 --> 01:26:24,519
Speaker 1: I drunk a whole eight pack. I've set things I

1713
01:26:24,640 --> 01:26:27,920
Speaker 1: can't take back, watching everything I built shot the trumble

1714
01:26:27,960 --> 01:26:32,040
Speaker 1: apart being broken. You the humblest start halfway through a breakdown.

1715
01:26:32,360 --> 01:26:35,400
Speaker 1: I didn't lost everything, but faith now negative balances on

1716
01:26:35,520 --> 01:26:39,280
Speaker 1: my PayPal accounts closing. I'm the only one that's being open.

1717
01:26:39,560 --> 01:26:42,640
Speaker 1: I get the picture you posing. Its depended towards be

1718
01:26:42,760 --> 01:26:45,800
Speaker 1: looking at empty floor, low ticket sales. But I keep

1719
01:26:45,880 --> 01:26:48,720
Speaker 1: booking more meets with the board they missed, told us

1720
01:26:48,760 --> 01:26:51,240
Speaker 1: the cord really put in work. Can't make it off,

1721
01:26:51,320 --> 01:26:54,599
Speaker 1: my lord, no bill hop. I'm no one that opened doors.

1722
01:26:55,080 --> 01:26:56,840
Speaker 1: Norm's gonna make it. I can feel it in my

1723
01:26:57,000 --> 01:26:59,800
Speaker 1: core when it rains, it pois on the poor even more.

1724
01:27:00,320 --> 01:27:02,120
Speaker 1: I know what I'm doing, but don't ask me if

1725
01:27:02,200 --> 01:27:04,479
Speaker 1: I'm sure. Never before the door, if it, don't ask

1726
01:27:04,560 --> 01:27:06,880
Speaker 1: me what it's for. I've been on neds can show

1727
01:27:07,000 --> 01:27:09,439
Speaker 1: you the Heaven's dore, Mike, get my hand out with

1728
01:27:09,640 --> 01:27:11,920
Speaker 1: it like it's the sword. Pull up to the venue

1729
01:27:11,960 --> 01:27:14,840
Speaker 1: with my own boy while I listen more can't get

1730
01:27:14,880 --> 01:27:17,439
Speaker 1: caught up than them cours playing the new releases while

1731
01:27:17,479 --> 01:27:20,559
Speaker 1: I wrote my own tour twenty twenty boards and trying

1732
01:27:20,600 --> 01:27:22,800
Speaker 1: to explore. When you're the mother and boss, ain't no

1733
01:27:22,920 --> 01:27:25,760
Speaker 1: susting it's bored. Don't make me reveal all this I

1734
01:27:25,920 --> 01:27:28,720
Speaker 1: do for real, It wasn't. I took them and gate

1735
01:27:28,760 --> 01:27:31,320
Speaker 1: from scales. They won't admit once they get up in

1736
01:27:31,400 --> 01:27:33,479
Speaker 1: the fields, don't try to lend their hand. Once I

1737
01:27:33,600 --> 01:27:36,080
Speaker 1: made it up to hell Stream to the mill without

1738
01:27:36,080 --> 01:27:38,800
Speaker 1: a distribution deal, you don't do it on your own money.

1739
01:27:38,960 --> 01:27:41,240
Speaker 1: Let's be for real. My plots help me out, But

1740
01:27:41,360 --> 01:27:44,000
Speaker 1: I started by myself. I put over fifty k before

1741
01:27:44,040 --> 01:27:46,479
Speaker 1: I ever got some help. I ain't got no label.

1742
01:27:46,520 --> 01:27:48,360
Speaker 1: They can't put me on the shelf. I don't pay

1743
01:27:48,439 --> 01:27:50,880
Speaker 1: no flaw. They write about me by themselves. I can't

1744
01:27:50,920 --> 01:27:53,320
Speaker 1: build a home, but looked at me building wealth. I

1745
01:27:53,400 --> 01:27:55,880
Speaker 1: can cry by my hand, I could play. I was dealt.

1746
01:27:56,479 --> 01:27:59,400
Speaker 1: I'm an animal. You can see my pill hit at

1747
01:27:59,439 --> 01:28:02,840
Speaker 1: a moment. Most the melt made my career is spitting

1748
01:28:02,960 --> 01:28:07,200
Speaker 1: everything I felt undisputed. Champ GC on the belt made

1749
01:28:07,280 --> 01:28:11,280
Speaker 1: my career. Spitting everything I felt undisputed. Champ GC on

1750
01:28:11,360 --> 01:28:19,559
Speaker 1: a belt. It's different. But leo, what's up? Alkaline ball us?

1751
01:28:19,800 --> 01:28:25,639
Speaker 1: Those alkaline balls right there, that's holistic hip hop. Those

1752
01:28:25,680 --> 01:28:29,720
Speaker 1: are healing verses right there. No industry plant, this is

1753
01:28:29,840 --> 01:28:35,960
Speaker 1: organic growing on the organic man. Wow, Wow, what are

1754
01:28:35,960 --> 01:28:38,679
Speaker 1: your Twitters and Instagram and Russell when they can find

1755
01:28:38,720 --> 01:28:41,360
Speaker 1: you follow me at L Russell LA r U S

1756
01:28:41,560 --> 01:28:44,479
Speaker 1: S E L L on everything. I appreciate y'all. Man

1757
01:28:44,840 --> 01:28:48,240
Speaker 1: young man is special. There is special. It's L Russell.

1758
01:28:48,400 --> 01:28:50,840
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Remember it's Lot Russell,

1759
01:28:50,920 --> 01:28:54,320
Speaker 1: not La Russell. Not lying on man's right. He's only

1760
01:28:54,360 --> 01:28:56,439
Speaker 1: been in La five times. He said, it's the Breakfast

1761
01:28:56,439 --> 01:29:02,519
Speaker 1: Club morning. Everybody is tj Envy angela year, Charlemagne, the guy.

1762
01:29:02,600 --> 01:29:04,719
Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. Charlemagne. You got a positive

1763
01:29:04,760 --> 01:29:06,439
Speaker 1: note for the people. Hey, The positive note of the

1764
01:29:06,479 --> 01:29:10,120
Speaker 1: day is simply this life is ironic. It takes depression

1765
01:29:10,160 --> 01:29:13,400
Speaker 1: to know happiness. It takes scress to understand calm. It

1766
01:29:13,520 --> 01:29:17,479
Speaker 1: takes absence, the value presence Breakfast Club. This is, you know,

1767
01:29:17,640 --> 01:29:18,360
Speaker 1: finish for y'all. Do