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I 19 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:51,159 Speaker 4: know you've been on the edge of your seat, guys. 20 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 2: But well, for context, you got engaged last year. Yes, 21 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 2: you have been with Big Tim for is it almost 22 00:00:58,480 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 2: eight years? 23 00:00:59,120 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 3: Almost? Yes? 24 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 2: And and so we've been waiting for this The big 25 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 2: engagement that we weren't sure if it was ever going 26 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 2: to come. 27 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 3: Never thought it was. 28 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 1: It did come. 29 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, and now we're in full on wedding planning mode 30 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 2: for twenty twenty seven. 31 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 4: Yes, okay, which I learned yesterday is not a very 32 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 4: you know, odd thing. I went to my first ever 33 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 4: bridal expo okay, and it was a while. Like I 34 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 4: walked in, it was like whoa, and everybody was planning 35 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 4: their wedding. There was brides and bridal parties, and there's 36 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 4: people offering you a free honeymoon. 37 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 3: It's not free, Jason share right. 38 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:41,320 Speaker 4: She's like, if you give me two hundred dollars right now, 39 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 4: you can go on to vacations with your husband. 40 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh girl, please, I get those texts. 41 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 1: All the time, right, you saying it's not real? 42 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 2: Right. 43 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 4: So I went to the bridal expo. I didn't know 44 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 4: what to expect. But my maid of honor, you know, 45 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 4: she was like, I think you should go and see. 46 00:01:57,160 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 4: You'll get new ideas and you know, may get some 47 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 4: new vendors or whatever. 48 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 3: And I did. 49 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 4: I walked away with a lot of ideas of things 50 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 4: I didn't know I needed, Like I didn't know that 51 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 4: I needed a horse and carriage, you know, but they. 52 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 1: Have Jesus the bridal eggs. 53 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,679 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I have to have that horse and carriage. 54 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 1: Yes, for what to bring you in? 55 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 4: And that's what my sister and she said, your reception 56 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 4: and your wedding ceremonies in. 57 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 3: The same building. Where are you going? I was like, 58 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 3: I don't know, like I need it. I need the 59 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 3: horse and carry don't want to work. 60 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:38,799 Speaker 1: They don't know. 61 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 3: Street is so nice. I will make sure she is good. 62 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 4: And then they had like this backdrop with a swing 63 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 4: and I know you had this before. 64 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 3: I got a swing, that kind of swing. 65 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 4: Okay, it's a nice little like like something hanging from 66 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 4: a fake tree. 67 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 3: And it's. 68 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 1: A wedding. I mean after the wedding maybe, But what 69 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: do I need it for during? 70 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 4: Because it's a nice photo opportunity. So you know, it's 71 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 4: like you set this thing up and there's a guy 72 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 4: and he takes your picture. 73 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,839 Speaker 3: He counts to three. I need that. I need all 74 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 3: of that. 75 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: Then, yeah, yep, is it a solo swing or is 76 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: there room for two? 77 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 3: It's room for two. 78 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: Okay. 79 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:19,399 Speaker 4: Yeah, my sister and I actually took a photo on 80 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 4: the swing yesterday at the Bridal Expo. Okay, I just 81 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 4: walked away. I met this wonderful girl. She's a coordinator. 82 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 4: I'm hiring her. 83 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:29,119 Speaker 3: She was sweet, she was kind. 84 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: She gets. 85 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 2: That's the first thing you've said about all this that 86 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 2: makes any sense whatsoever. Hire a coordinator. That's if you have. 87 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 2: I don't care how big your wedding is, like I 88 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 2: have somebody a third party. Find a few dollars, no 89 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 2: matter how extravagant or not, we're going. That's one thing 90 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 2: I can tell you about all the weddings I've been to, 91 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 2: and I've been to people's first, second, and third weddings 92 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 2: already in my life. Okay, Oh and many divorce party. 93 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 2: Oh and I'm finding a lot of people that got married. 94 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 2: People I knew in my twenties are now circling back. 95 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 2: I'm starting to hear from him again. You know, we're 96 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 2: running a value because they win and they had their 97 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 2: first marriage and they had some children and it didn't 98 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 2: work out. And I'm starting to hear from these folks again. 99 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 2: They're popping up on my Instagram left and right. Anyway, 100 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 2: no matter how much I firmly believe that you should 101 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,479 Speaker 2: have some sort of planner, because it can't be the 102 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 2: maid of honor, can't be the bride, can't be the groom. 103 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:23,039 Speaker 2: We can't be the mother of the bride. Someone to 104 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 2: help you sort of make this all work on the 105 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 2: day of because it's a very stressful thing and you 106 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 2: don't want to be messing with like that. You know, 107 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 2: I don't know the person who's late, or the person 108 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:33,480 Speaker 2: who didn't show up, or the catering that's not right 109 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 2: or whatever. That makes sense to me absolutely, And I 110 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 2: don't give the swim and the horse and get the 111 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 2: lady either plan the thing. 112 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't want Jason to have to work on 113 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 4: the day of the wedding. 114 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 5: That's what happened to me because I have everybody m 115 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 5: I hired her last minute. Funny story though she grew 116 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:48,600 Speaker 5: up in Chicago to where I'm from, so I was 117 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:50,119 Speaker 5: very like, I was like, oh, this is so great. 118 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 5: Shows in Vegas now where we had my wedding. You 119 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 5: guys were there, Yeah, No, it was It was always 120 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 5: some money. And because I didn't talk to her before, 121 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 5: I didn't vetter and I didn't really give her like 122 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 5: the itinerary of what to and then Jason, you. 123 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 2: Got to tell the planner where to go, let her 124 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 2: plan where to go. You hired a planner and then 125 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 2: you didn't tell her where to where it was? She 126 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 2: was a little dumb and that I told her where 127 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 2: about what to do? 128 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 3: Who I was? 129 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: And why did you hire a planner if you were 130 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:15,839 Speaker 1: telling her what to do? 131 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 5: Like I couldn't put it on her. And I'm like, hey, girl, 132 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 5: bring this here. 133 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 4: Do that. 134 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 1: I've never heard this story. 135 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:25,799 Speaker 2: You hire a wedding planner, didn't tell her where to coordinate. 136 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:27,160 Speaker 3: I thought it was Jason. 137 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 1: I did too, because he had the in the whole day. 138 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 3: And whose thought was it mine? 139 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 5: Because I didn't vet her and I didn't like to 140 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 5: talk to her before, I didn't. 141 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 1: Tell her where the wedding was. 142 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 2: I'm sorry she was okay, So anyway, don't hire that person. 143 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 2: And did you hire someone, just go ahead and let 144 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 2: them know what you've already planned and what you. 145 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 3: Want to show up. 146 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 1: Give him a day the place. 147 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:52,840 Speaker 2: Was. 148 00:05:53,160 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 4: She'd have called this lady dumb and didn't even tell. 149 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 3: You know, she did jump somewhere, Jad inedible. 150 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 1: Man, that's it. I don't know. 151 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 2: If you have an unlimited budget, which nobody does, very 152 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 2: few people do unless you're Jeff Bezos or something. You 153 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 2: don't need to be going to these things, because that's 154 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 2: the whole point of these expos is you walk in 155 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 2: and you spent fifty grand already on these things that 156 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,480 Speaker 2: you didn't know you needed and that you're probably not 157 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 2: gonna You might remember them, but your guests are not 158 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 2: going to remember them. Well. 159 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:32,839 Speaker 3: I would hope you would remember the swing. 160 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:34,039 Speaker 1: I'm just keeping it real week. 161 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 3: I will remember the hor Yes. Can you picture me 162 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 3: in front of us? 163 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:38,840 Speaker 1: Yes? 164 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 2: Yes, I know you coming in on a horse and 165 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:44,599 Speaker 2: carriage is very much you. Yes, yes, And pictures of 166 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 2: you all over the place. And I love you, But 167 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 2: pictures of you all over the place, even though at 168 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 2: your Wemma, I know I'm at your wedding, but let's 169 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 2: see more pictures of you. 170 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 1: I can't wait. 171 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 3: I can't wait. I can lie everywhere. The pay you better, girl, 172 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 3: for what you're about to pay. Yes, every inch, every corner. 173 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 2: But you know, my sister and I got into it 174 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 2: about this years ago when she got married, and I say, 175 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:06,480 Speaker 2: you know, my parents were like, here's how much money 176 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 2: you can have. This is how much you got, and 177 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 2: you can do with this what you want. And if 178 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 2: you have like a if this is a thing in 179 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 2: our backyard and it takes five minutes and your your 180 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 2: brother officiates it or whatever, which is what they wanted. 181 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 2: I don't know why, but I did it, and you 182 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 2: can have the rest of the money, like we don't care. 183 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 1: The money's yours. And I was trying to convince her. 184 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 2: I'm like, Amanda, you need to have I've been to 185 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 2: a lot of weddings and I don't remember what I 186 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 2: ate at any of them. I don't really remember who 187 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 2: the DJ or the band was. I vaguely remember where 188 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 2: it was. I couldn't tell you the name of a 189 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 2: lot of the hotels I was in. I can tell 190 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 2: you how much it cost me to get there, you 191 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 2: know whatever. I can remember if you had an open 192 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 2: bar or not. But I'm like, if you have a 193 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 2: cool venue and an open bar and good food and 194 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 2: good music, everyone's going to be happy, and you don't 195 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 2: have to spend a ton of money. You accomplish that, 196 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 2: And I think people would be happier than they would 197 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 2: if there is this swing. 198 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 3: We don't want to hear that. We don't want to 199 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 3: hear that. 200 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 2: Okay, And what did she do? She went spend every 201 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 2: dollar and then some. And you know what, it was 202 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 2: her day and she had you know, pictures are beautiful. 203 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 2: And I think she's very happy with it. And that's 204 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 2: that's her thing. 205 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 4: Me. 206 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 2: You're gonna give me a check. Okay, We're getting a 207 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 2: food truck. We're getting a band is so kind? Oh yes, 208 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 2: And and and we I don't care where we do it, 209 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 2: and and that's that. And and I'm gonna have some 210 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 2: money left over at the end for the real fun time, 211 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 2: which is the honeymoon with the real swing. 212 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 3: And that's somebody that can get you a fool honeymoon. 213 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 1: Okay, they send me the link. I'll sign up right now.