WEBVTT - | Ep 95 | A Reasonably Shady Check-In!

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, y'all, she impatient.

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<v Speaker 3>I was not ready. I didn't know you didn't. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't even have my headphones on. Oopsie. Anyway, what's up?

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<v Speaker 3>What's up?

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<v Speaker 1>What up?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So listen, it's summertime. We are all in the summertime,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's like snuck up on me. I know, like

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<v Speaker 2>we're in it, I know, you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>Like here in Maryland, I feel like this is the

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<v Speaker 1>first time I can remember it in a really, really

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<v Speaker 1>long time that we've actually had that we've actually been

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<v Speaker 1>able to enjoy the weather and the transition of the weather,

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<v Speaker 1>because really, yes, normally it goes from like super cold, rainy,

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<v Speaker 1>super cold, to super humid, true true, But we literally

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<v Speaker 1>have been able to enjoy nice mild spring weather, beautiful days,

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<v Speaker 1>not a ton of rain, and then it has gradually

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<v Speaker 1>just gotten warmer and warmer like this. This is honestly

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<v Speaker 1>the but and our winter was super mild. We didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have any snow, which kind of sucks because I like

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<v Speaker 1>a snow day. I like three snow days. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure, we didn't have any of those. But whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>But this weather this year has been amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have when it's when it's nice like this

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<v Speaker 2>and it's truly the summertime? Do you have like a

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<v Speaker 2>song playing in your head constantly?

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<v Speaker 3>Some of them? Yes, this one? We like Will Smith? Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean he's done. Do we like him again? I

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<v Speaker 3>mean we're we're over it. We have forgiven him.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, because Chris Chris Rock made his money off of

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<v Speaker 2>the whole thing. Okay, so will we kind of like

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<v Speaker 2>you again? But yes, I have summertime like running through

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<v Speaker 2>my head. Yes, And do you know what's been on

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<v Speaker 2>TV lately?

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<v Speaker 3>Hatch? Have you seen that movie?

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<v Speaker 2>Hatch is an old movie that he did. There we go, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't seen Hatch.

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't seen Hitch. And when I said Hatch, I

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<v Speaker 3>said it with like authority. I was like, Hatch, No,

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<v Speaker 3>it's Hitch. Hitch was a good movie. Hitch was great. Yes, Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>that was a great movie. I think he was dating Eva, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you think I think something went dad. Was he married

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<v Speaker 3>at the time, Yeah, they've been married forever.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's true. Okay, I don't want Jada coming after me.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing happened between will and Yes, but she is so pretty.

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<v Speaker 3>She's so pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>But she like literally got married and it just disappeared.

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<v Speaker 1>And yes, like I'm I'm happy living my married life. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I saw her on Ryan Gosling, Right, did you see

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<v Speaker 1>her on the View? No, she has she she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>been around or any on anything in a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>So she's on the View.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm all excited. And she was like selling clothes. No,

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<v Speaker 2>a sponge, I promise you she's selling a sponge. What

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<v Speaker 2>like it was like some anti bacterial sponge and it

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<v Speaker 2>lets you know when you're just supposed to throw it away,

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<v Speaker 2>lets you know, and it has like too much bacteria

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<v Speaker 2>on it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, throw it away.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, I don't need for any I don't need a

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<v Speaker 2>sponge to tell me that, I know, like throw that

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<v Speaker 2>ship away like week one, it's out of here.

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<v Speaker 1>That's weird. But yes, I feel like she's trying to

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<v Speaker 1>go the Jessica Alba route because like we haven't really

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<v Speaker 1>seen a lot from her, but she has her whole

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<v Speaker 1>honest you know brand line or whatever that has made

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<v Speaker 1>made her billionaire. Bookoo money same thing with Jessica Simpson.

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<v Speaker 1>Jessica Simpson has made bookou money and she hasn't sang

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<v Speaker 1>a song.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so does our name have to be Jessica or Jennifer?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, Eva, I don't know where I got that from.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying really strange things right now. They all got

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<v Speaker 2>to look alike.

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<v Speaker 3>No, they don't take this microphone from her? But is

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<v Speaker 3>is Jessica Alba? Is she really honest?

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<v Speaker 2>What is she.

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<v Speaker 3>Her? No?

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<v Speaker 2>Wasn't there some when when there's some pushback or when

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<v Speaker 2>she you know, when I started having children. I think

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<v Speaker 2>when she came out with this whole honest line, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think that the selling point was like it could

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<v Speaker 2>be shipped to your house in like five seconds or something.

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<v Speaker 3>What really making this up?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought the whole thing was like it was like

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<v Speaker 1>non toxic, Like that was this she her? She got

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<v Speaker 1>in very early at the beginning of like the focus

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<v Speaker 1>on like the non toxic phase.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it product. Yes, yeah, Okay, so I think I'm

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<v Speaker 3>making up the other party because you're not. I'm on

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<v Speaker 3>a roll.

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<v Speaker 2>No, because let's talk about Okay, let me tell you

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<v Speaker 2>really what this happened. Okay, I had children blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 2>And then all of a sudden, the the mail services, Walmart, Target,

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<v Speaker 2>all of them started like shipping ship to your house

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<v Speaker 2>the same day.

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<v Speaker 3>So so it helped mothers. Okay, when you.

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<v Speaker 1>Had kids, Really, I don't after me right after me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like I experienced that. I still had

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<v Speaker 1>to like leave my house. Okay, it was after you too.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, but can we talk about Target because I'm mad

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<v Speaker 3>at them? Oh yeah, sure, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Somewhere along the lines of Memorial Day, this is we're

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<v Speaker 2>passing Memorial Dad. At this point, they had the LBGT

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<v Speaker 2>like rainbow display collection collection. I see a man on

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<v Speaker 2>this some video he pulls Okay, it's a collection of

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<v Speaker 2>like clothes and all that kind of stuff, but it

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<v Speaker 2>was a rainbow that was part of the display. He

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<v Speaker 2>pulls down the rainbow, he throws on the ground. This

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<v Speaker 2>is in Target, and he stomps on it. What So

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<v Speaker 2>people were doing stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>And then instead of Target saying, hey, guys, y'all are

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<v Speaker 2>banned from Target, they were like, we're taking the shit

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<v Speaker 2>and put it in the store.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they pulled they I thought, they like completely took

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<v Speaker 1>it down.

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<v Speaker 2>Well after people started well, first they relocated it to

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<v Speaker 2>the back of the store, which was disgusting, and then

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<v Speaker 2>y'all decide to take it out the store because people

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<v Speaker 2>don't know how to act. So we're just we're rewarding

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<v Speaker 2>people when they don't when they act bad?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what we do? This? This country is so

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<v Speaker 3>jacked up. It's insane. We are so jacked up.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, like, and how is it that an LBGT

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<v Speaker 2>shirt or anything related to that community?

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<v Speaker 3>How would that harm someone?

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<v Speaker 1>Is forcing or or causing someone to have that type

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<v Speaker 1>of reaction.

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<v Speaker 3>There's there's it's not for you. Keep walking, keep walking?

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<v Speaker 2>And but not only that, Like, how how does that

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<v Speaker 2>Let's say I bought a rainbow shirt and put it on?

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<v Speaker 3>How does that hurt you? How does that bother you?

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<v Speaker 3>Why does it bother you?

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<v Speaker 2>Why?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even understand it? Yeah, like, what is the

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<v Speaker 3>reason behind that?

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<v Speaker 2>It makes no sense. People are stupid. But you know,

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<v Speaker 2>who was I'm not gonna say what the person looked like?

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<v Speaker 3>Who was?

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<v Speaker 2>It was very okay, fine, it was a trumper that

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<v Speaker 2>because he had on a red hat. No he did not,

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<v Speaker 2>but in my mind, he had on a red hat

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<v Speaker 2>and it just gave me PTSD, but literally took the

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<v Speaker 2>rainbow through on the ground and started kicking and stomping it.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's a video of that, yes, Because I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I just like read the stories where said they took

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<v Speaker 1>the display down. I didn't know there was actual video

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<v Speaker 1>of this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, I don't even understand it.

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<v Speaker 1>These people have lost their minds, ye'aple have lost their

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<v Speaker 1>said marbles.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't understand what upsets people.

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<v Speaker 2>DeSantis were coming for you because you a whole another

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<v Speaker 2>one because.

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<v Speaker 3>He the whole listen. Let me tell you something.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't realize this was like such a big thing

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<v Speaker 2>until like recently I started reading about it, about him

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<v Speaker 2>talking about the whole drag queen shows we can't have

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<v Speaker 2>anymore because kids are going to the drag queen show.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I tell y'all about four years ago, because you

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<v Speaker 2>know drag queen shows a lot of times sometimes they're brunches.

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<v Speaker 2>I took my kids to a brunch. It was a

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<v Speaker 2>regular brunch. I didn't know it was a drag bar.

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<v Speaker 2>But like in the middle of like our appetizers, the

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<v Speaker 2>music starts playing and the dragon queens start coming out,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, holy shit.

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't prepared.

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<v Speaker 2>But my kids were like not affected, right, they were

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<v Speaker 2>not bothered.

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<v Speaker 3>They didn't they didn't turn into drag queens.

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<v Speaker 2>They turn into drag queens the next day. They were

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<v Speaker 2>actually amused and happy. Right, they were entertained.

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<v Speaker 3>The entertained.

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<v Speaker 2>They were like trying to figure out how to do

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<v Speaker 2>the splits because every drag queen was doing splits in

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<v Speaker 2>front of us. Because I was like, Grace, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>throw your back out, baby, don't try.

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<v Speaker 1>To do split, you know, Santa, these people are insane.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really it's really sad that, you know, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like our country we've come a long way, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>because there's a lot more acceptance, a lot more education

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<v Speaker 1>just of people of different races, sexual orientations, religions, all

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<v Speaker 1>of that. But then you still have a strong number

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<v Speaker 1>of people that are resistant to that, and ye are

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<v Speaker 1>full of hate and they're gonna they feel that they

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<v Speaker 1>just maybe are being outnumbered or or diminishing or something,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're trying to hold on to their power, and it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Just, well, we got to do better, we have to

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<v Speaker 2>do better. Yeah, because when you do better, well, when

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<v Speaker 2>you know better, supposedly you do better. But these people

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<v Speaker 2>know better.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I think that they're do they They probably

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<v Speaker 1>don't because that's what they've been taught. That's what they

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<v Speaker 1>learned from them, their mama, their hateful mama and daddy,

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<v Speaker 1>but then their grandparents, and that's what they're being taught,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what's being handed.

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<v Speaker 3>They don't.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't know better.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but the tells DeSantis yea of the world, he

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<v Speaker 2>should know the Trumpers of the world. Y'all try to

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<v Speaker 2>act like somebody in y'all family's not gay, right, You

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<v Speaker 2>want me to believe that, right, that's not believable, right,

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<v Speaker 2>So stop?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you see Kelly and conways daughter is Yeah, why

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<v Speaker 1>is she doing porn or something?

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<v Speaker 3>Playboy? Playboy? You are lying.

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<v Speaker 2>No, my kids didn't tell me that because my kids

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<v Speaker 2>typically they were very much aware of everything that was

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<v Speaker 2>going on with her, because her and her mother would

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<v Speaker 2>have battles. Yeah, they would have like social media battles.

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<v Speaker 2>So my kids were like very much they would tell

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<v Speaker 2>me what's going on with it?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, she has Claudia Karmway has shared a photo of

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<v Speaker 1>herself posing with her mother ahead of attending prom after

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<v Speaker 1>making her debut as an online Playboy model. What. The

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<v Speaker 1>eighteen year old launched a subscription page on playboy dot

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<v Speaker 1>com in late April. She has shared images of herself

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<v Speaker 1>posing in bikinis. These are openly accessible on the page,

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<v Speaker 1>while other snapshots require payments ranging from five to ninety

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<v Speaker 1>nine dollars to you what.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, so yeah, so she is Grace's age because

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<v Speaker 2>Grace is eighteen. Wowlechip was crazy about that.

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<v Speaker 3>What happened to OnlyFans? So Playboy's trying to keep.

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<v Speaker 1>Up with only I guess so that's what it sounds like.

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<v Speaker 1>Soh why don't be surprised if you see me on

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<v Speaker 1>OnlyFans soon me either.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, what are you gonna put on OnlyFans?

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<v Speaker 1>My feet? No?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, I put my thumbs.

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<v Speaker 2>Your thumb, yes, people like my thumbs or something to

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<v Speaker 2>my thumbs.

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<v Speaker 3>People have hey do it? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>My nail tech tells me a story. She's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, I can't remember what she was saying. She's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my one of my clients has the only fans. She's

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<v Speaker 1>like doing my feet, like painting my feet or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, yeah, one of my clients is the only

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<v Speaker 1>fans for her feet. And she's like Robin, you can

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<v Speaker 1>make a lot of money, yes, because I have like

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<v Speaker 1>my feet or names.

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<v Speaker 3>You do have nice feet.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't look at them now, but anyway, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I might explore that.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so let me know what I need to do

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<v Speaker 3>to set mine up.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but would you say these are Justell Bryant's thumbs

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<v Speaker 1>or is it just someone's thumb?

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<v Speaker 3>No, they're my thumbs.

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to okay, Yeah, I'm just sure if I

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<v Speaker 1>would like actually tell people that they're my feet.

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<v Speaker 2>So you want people on your only fans age to

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<v Speaker 2>think that they're just Jessica's feats? Yeah, No, one's logging

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<v Speaker 2>in for that.

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<v Speaker 3>Why not? Who are these people?

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<v Speaker 2>There's like random people on only fans I know. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think that's Yeah, you have to show your stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I want to show my feet. But you're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>say there's someone else's Yeah, No, I'm not. I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not going to be Robin Dixon's only fans. It's

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<v Speaker 1>going to be like some like pseudo name you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you know what I mean? Okay, Okay, I'll do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Should my name my only fans name be that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good question. Yeah, how about let's come up with one.

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<v Speaker 1>Can do people know your middle name? Not really they don't, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so we won't use that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, how about Corey Corey's feet because Corey could be

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<v Speaker 2>male or female?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, that's right, yes, yes, that could.

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<v Speaker 2>Be interesting, like, oh my gosh, Corey, am I gonna

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<v Speaker 2>see men's feet or women's fan? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever gone to the Only Fans website? No?

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<v Speaker 3>I have not. I haven't either.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about to do it now.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you're I'm gonna do thumbs. So if y'all

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<v Speaker 3>see a thumb page nine times out of ten, guys,

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<v Speaker 3>it's mine.

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<v Speaker 1>Sign up to support your favorite creators. Okay, I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>log in.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I'm here for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'll listen to how it goes.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, I was talking about somethinghere were we talking

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<v Speaker 2>about about? Okay, but before the feet and the Only

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<v Speaker 2>Fans and Jessica Simpson and Jessica Alba and I should

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<v Speaker 2>have named one of my kids Jessica because apparently they're successful.

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<v Speaker 2>I have no idea where talking Kelly and come way

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<v Speaker 2>oh oh oh oh okay, so wait a minute, Santas, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>no tell me. So she went to prom where locally right,

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<v Speaker 2>because from what I understand, they sent.

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<v Speaker 3>Her to a boarding school. Oh really, then.

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<v Speaker 2>They sent her away because she was cutting up and

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<v Speaker 2>Kelly and Cowery was like, look at here, you you

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<v Speaker 2>cutting up? And and I think it caused all of

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<v Speaker 2>the cut up that she was doing, cause well I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to say it caused, but Kelly Ann and

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<v Speaker 2>her husband.

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<v Speaker 3>Get a divorce, yeah they are, Yes, yep.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's kind of like, you know, if my child

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<v Speaker 2>stopped speaking to me because of my political views, because

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<v Speaker 2>my political views.

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<v Speaker 3>Are freaking horrible. Am I going to change my political views?

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<v Speaker 2>Like you know, every adult has to like live your conviction,

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<v Speaker 2>but like this isn't what you You don't tie yourself

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<v Speaker 2>to somebody who is a racist.

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<v Speaker 3>Kelly an Conway.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that was a bad career move for her, just

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it sacrificed her family.

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<v Speaker 2>But anyway, yes, Rob and I are going to be

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<v Speaker 2>on only fans as other people. And so if you

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<v Speaker 2>see new to OnlyFans thumbs or feet, yes it's me and.

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<v Speaker 3>Robin I feet.

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<v Speaker 1>It's white polish es, yes, only white.

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<v Speaker 2>She will never have any other color but white on

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<v Speaker 2>her toes, which is very strange because why I said

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<v Speaker 2>to her, I'm sick.

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<v Speaker 3>Of the white vin I'm sick of it. He did not.

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't say that. No, I said it.

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<v Speaker 1>He would appreciate, see, one would appreciate other colors. But

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<v Speaker 1>like I have to if I gotta, like, if I

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<v Speaker 1>have pink on my toes, then he wants pink on

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<v Speaker 1>my hands.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that's fine, what's wrong with that? That's fine? But like.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually I keep well, my policy was chipped off everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually I don't. I don't do my toes every time

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<v Speaker 1>I do my hands.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, do you know what I'm saying?

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<v Speaker 1>True? So like, okay, if I have pink one day,

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<v Speaker 1>one time, and then the next time I go I

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<v Speaker 1>might have purple. So now I'm stuck with purple hands

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<v Speaker 1>and my feet are pink.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well, dilemmas, dilemmas right.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you once again for being here with us. We

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate you so so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes we do, and please enjoy the Black Effect podcast

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<v Speaker 2>fest of all.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, here is a clip from our performance. We are

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<v Speaker 1>sorry you missed it, but at least you get to

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<v Speaker 1>hear this, Yes you do.

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<v Speaker 3>It was lots of fun.

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<v Speaker 4>Two podcasts coming to the stage are very special.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a privilege and the honor to be in business

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<v Speaker 4>with all of these women.

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<v Speaker 2>Man.

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<v Speaker 4>One lady is a singer, songwriter, actress, member of the

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<v Speaker 4>biggest selling R and B group of all time, and

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<v Speaker 4>a mental health advocate.

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<v Speaker 5>And you may know the other two ladies from Bravo's

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<v Speaker 5>hit show, The Real Housewives of Potomac. But today they

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<v Speaker 5>are reasonable and shady, and I mean, if you listen

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<v Speaker 5>to this shit, they shady as hell, y'all and I

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<v Speaker 5>love it. So please welcome Michelle Williams, Robin Dixon, and

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<v Speaker 5>just thou Pryor.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to reasonably Shady checking in. My name is Jiselle Brud,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Robin Dixon.

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<v Speaker 6>My name is Michelle Williams.

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<v Speaker 3>What's up, Atlanta. It is so excited to be here.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the Black Effect Festival number one.

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<v Speaker 3>This is history and the making.

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<v Speaker 2>Nice to see everybody. Y'all give it up for yourself house.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at this. This house is packed. Yeah, it is packed.

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<v Speaker 2>It is sold out.

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<v Speaker 6>So thank y'all so much for supporting the very very

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<v Speaker 6>first ever podcast festival. We know that it is going

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<v Speaker 6>to be like double next year in triple, but y'all

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<v Speaker 6>are the first. So thank you for being like she said,

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<v Speaker 6>like Joelle said, history bristo, she said, you welcome you,

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<v Speaker 6>thank you, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>We really appreciate it. Yes, so let me ask you all.

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<v Speaker 1>Are y'all into checking in with Michelle?

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<v Speaker 3>Of course? Thank you. Oh this is a reasonably shady.

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<v Speaker 1>This is like a marriage made in heaven because like

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<v Speaker 1>we're the balance up here, we're recently shady and Michelle

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<v Speaker 1>is just so beautiful checking in on your mental health

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<v Speaker 1>and so she can put us in check when we

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<v Speaker 1>might be a little off.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll see.

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<v Speaker 6>And now let's let's let's keep it all the way real.

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<v Speaker 6>A lot of us like to live with boundaries and

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<v Speaker 6>peace and joy and balance. But there's a little sliver

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<v Speaker 6>of shady in your soul that ain't quite God ain't

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<v Speaker 6>quite work through yet.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's me, I'm gonna telling me, and y'all are

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<v Speaker 2>probably wondering why the three of us are doing this together.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, we all know that Michelle is used

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<v Speaker 2>to being on stage with two very bad queen so

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<v Speaker 2>she's allowing us.

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<v Speaker 3>To be with her today. Thank you, mische.

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<v Speaker 6>I am really excited to be with your beautiful, beautiful

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<v Speaker 6>ladies today.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, In typical reasonably shady fashion, we start off our

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<v Speaker 2>podcast with our reasonably shady moment of the week.

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<v Speaker 3>Who wants to go first? You go first, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>go first.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Okay, guys, it's been a week. First and foremost.

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<v Speaker 2>For those of you all who don't know me, I

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<v Speaker 2>have three beautiful daughters. When is eighteen. Her name's Grace.

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<v Speaker 2>I have twins, Angela and the Door. I think their

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<v Speaker 2>dad is here somewhere. I think the good reverend. Where's

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<v Speaker 2>Pastor Bryan. I think we're gonna call him out. I

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<v Speaker 2>think he's here somewhere anyway. Oh, somebody's pointing.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, anyway, not.

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<v Speaker 2>That that's not Pastor Bryant, but he's he's on his

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<v Speaker 2>way anyway. So this week the girls had a dance recital,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, they go to a nice Catholic school,

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<v Speaker 2>nice and the dance recital was a tork of some sort.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a Catholic school. It was it was like

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<v Speaker 3>it was like a semi tork. It was like a.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh and a butt roll. But that's it. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>keep it cool. However, Grace always says that the twins

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<v Speaker 2>dance and they get it from their mama. So I'm

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<v Speaker 2>always like, why y'all throwing shade on me? Because I

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<v Speaker 2>do remember Michelle, the person that taught me how to twork.

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<v Speaker 6>Don't you do it over here? I mean, I don't

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<v Speaker 6>know how to work, and I admit that a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So some years I met Michelle, very long time ago,

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<v Speaker 2>and we were going she came to I was married

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<v Speaker 2>to pastor. She came to the church. We were going

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<v Speaker 2>to dinner and I told Michelle, I don't know how

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<v Speaker 2>to twork. And she said, Giselle, I know how to twork,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm gonna show you how to t work.

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<v Speaker 3>I did you did? Oh my god? What I do?

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<v Speaker 6>It's in your ankles, right on your knees. Where's that?

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<v Speaker 3>She said?

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<v Speaker 2>She said, drop it down? Where's the power at? And

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<v Speaker 2>then do a little something like this.

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<v Speaker 6>But it's in your ankles, right, is that right? Don't

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<v Speaker 6>be shamed.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you approve ankle?

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<v Speaker 6>She said, that's not a twerk?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you approve of that?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't. I don't approve.

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<v Speaker 2>So that is the trk that my children do. I

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<v Speaker 2>learned it from Michelle, thank.

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<v Speaker 3>You very much.

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<v Speaker 6>But that's your twerking is where she said it it's

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<v Speaker 6>in your knees, but something else shape.

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<v Speaker 3>It's in your knees, I think. So I was in

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<v Speaker 3>the ankles.

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<v Speaker 6>The ankles, okay, ankles.

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<v Speaker 2>So what the ankle's gotta do with What the ankle's

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<v Speaker 2>gotta do with the torque? Okay, you're losing them up anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Pray for my children because they have no rhythm and

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<v Speaker 1>you're blaming it on Michelle Williams. Okay, that's a good one. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So y'all, I'm gonna keep mind really quick. So flying

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<v Speaker 1>down here yesterday, I'm on the plane. You know, you

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<v Speaker 1>put your phone in airplane mode and you're on your

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<v Speaker 1>phone browsing the internet, Instagram, whatever, and my phone rings.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm actually in thirty thousand feet in.

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<v Speaker 1>The air, and my phone rings, and it's it's a cousin,

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<v Speaker 1>And so I'm like, what do I do? Let me

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<v Speaker 1>answer the answer the phone in cases in important. So

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<v Speaker 1>I literally answered the phone while the flight attendant is

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<v Speaker 1>serving drinks right in front of me, and she turned

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<v Speaker 1>to me and was like, I know you ain't just

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<v Speaker 1>answered the phone. We thirty thousand feet in the air.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh shit, let me hang out because

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<v Speaker 1>I did not want to be like that man yelling

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<v Speaker 1>about a baby, yelling and.

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<v Speaker 2>Screaming and crying about a baby crying. I said, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>let me hang up really quickly. Yes, but I was

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<v Speaker 2>the shady one for answering an actual phone call on

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<v Speaker 2>the airplane.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just so shocked that it came through. But

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<v Speaker 3>was it worth it?

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<v Speaker 2>Was it?

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever, your cousin, It wasn't worth it. It wasn't worth it.

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<v Speaker 1>And thank god they didn't land the plane and kick

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<v Speaker 1>me off. And I said, let me hurry up and

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<v Speaker 1>get off this phone. But the fact, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>traveling with my husband and he was like, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe you answered the phone in front of the flight attendant.

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<v Speaker 3>Like who does that?

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<v Speaker 2>So I was the shady one answering the phone in

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<v Speaker 2>front of a flight attendant.

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<v Speaker 3>Michelle, you have a shady moment.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm trying to think of a shady moment. I kind

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<v Speaker 6>of live a boring life, believe it or not, really

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<v Speaker 6>nothing to report in my neck of the woods.

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<v Speaker 1>Come back to So, okay, if you don't have a

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<v Speaker 1>shady moment, since you are, you know you all about

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<v Speaker 1>mental health and checking in. Do you have something to

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<v Speaker 1>share just to help people mentally ground themselves or mental health.

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<v Speaker 6>So if I could ask, I know we are recording

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<v Speaker 6>and we wanted just to teach quieter so that people

0:23:28.680 --> 0:23:31.560
<v Speaker 6>who are actually listening to us up here can hear us.

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<v Speaker 6>And someone asked me, how do you know when you

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<v Speaker 6>are honoring your boundaries? Does anybody know what boundaries are?

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 6>So boundaries could be like literally a demarcation in the

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<v Speaker 6>sand where you do not cross this line. And literally

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<v Speaker 6>on my page this week, someone said, how do you

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<v Speaker 6>know that you've honored your boundaries? So I said, imagine

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<v Speaker 6>you say, I'm gonna go to the family reunion this year,

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<v Speaker 6>But if ain't he so and so say something a

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<v Speaker 6>little shady, I'm out. That's the boundary that you've made,

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<v Speaker 6>because ain't he so and so? Or uncle so and

0:24:12.040 --> 0:24:15.000
<v Speaker 6>so always finds a way to be disrespectful because maybe

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<v Speaker 6>you've upped your game in life, You've improved in areas

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<v Speaker 6>of your life, and they haven't. So you know the

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<v Speaker 6>saying when people in your family say you changed, right, well,

0:24:24.240 --> 0:24:26.480
<v Speaker 6>just say I have. I've changed. You haven't. And that's

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<v Speaker 6>where the problem is. It's with you and now with me.

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<v Speaker 6>Now the boundary is, how do you know you've honored

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<v Speaker 6>your boundary is when you literally do what you said

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<v Speaker 6>you were gonna do. You don't go back and forth

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<v Speaker 6>with the person. Does anybody know what okay means? I've

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<v Speaker 6>mastered the ministry of.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, right, okay, okay, and you leave.

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<v Speaker 6>That's how you know you are honoring your boundaries.

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<v Speaker 3>That's yes.

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<v Speaker 2>But actually Robin and I actually practiced that on a

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<v Speaker 2>show call The Real Housewives of Potomac.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, indeed, we just sit there.

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<v Speaker 2>We sit there and say, okay, okay, okay, look, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna give y'all a little a little team we are, well,

0:25:09.960 --> 0:25:12.879
<v Speaker 2>we might be doing a little something right now, and

0:25:13.320 --> 0:25:16.520
<v Speaker 2>I have to ask her to honor my boundaries. But

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<v Speaker 2>that is something when you are real friends that you

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<v Speaker 2>can do and you don't have to fall out, you

0:25:21.920 --> 0:25:24.119
<v Speaker 2>don't have to argue. But at some point you can

0:25:24.200 --> 0:25:28.960
<v Speaker 2>say to your friends, no, yeah, that's enough, we're good.

0:25:28.920 --> 0:25:30.960
<v Speaker 3>And we're moving on. So you'll see that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, all right, well we are gonna move on

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<v Speaker 2>because it is now time for our reasonably shady Oh no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>it's our hot topics that it is now time for

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<v Speaker 2>our recent topics. It is now time for our Robin

0:25:46.200 --> 0:25:49.520
<v Speaker 2>always gets me together. Okay, it is time for our

0:25:49.880 --> 0:25:58.680
<v Speaker 2>hot topics. Okay, before we get into it, I want

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<v Speaker 2>to tell the crowd to it.

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<v Speaker 3>She into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Before we get into it, I'd want to let y'all

0:26:03.560 --> 0:26:05.680
<v Speaker 1>know that we're going to be allowing people to ask

0:26:05.840 --> 0:26:08.200
<v Speaker 1>questions at the end of this show. So if you

0:26:08.320 --> 0:26:11.320
<v Speaker 1>have a question, keep you know, think of something, and

0:26:11.359 --> 0:26:13.320
<v Speaker 1>when we get to that at the end, just raise

0:26:13.359 --> 0:26:13.680
<v Speaker 1>your hand.

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<v Speaker 3>So I just want to prepare y'all for that. Yep.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So right off the bat, we gotta check in

0:26:20.359 --> 0:26:23.240
<v Speaker 2>with y'all. I'm looking at the crowd. I'm seeing the

0:26:23.320 --> 0:26:28.720
<v Speaker 2>age range. Who is concerned about Hulu and the new

0:26:28.920 --> 0:26:30.480
<v Speaker 2>Freaknick documentary.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's gonna be on it? How many are gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>on the Freaknick documentary?

0:26:36.560 --> 0:26:38.560
<v Speaker 3>Raise your hand if you're gonna be on If you're nervous?

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<v Speaker 3>How many of you raise your hands?

0:26:41.720 --> 0:26:43.600
<v Speaker 6>If you're gonna be nervous that you might be in

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<v Speaker 6>the Freaknik documentary?

0:26:46.320 --> 0:26:48.720
<v Speaker 1>Are you? Are you nervous that you're gonna see your

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<v Speaker 1>mother on the freak Nick documentary?

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<v Speaker 3>On your Auntiam who was conceived.

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<v Speaker 1>Possibly during that moment, he is jumping up and down.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, I know, yes, he is froning center on

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<v Speaker 1>the Freaknick documentary.

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<v Speaker 2>So I mean, it's it's it's it's funny when we

0:27:10.560 --> 0:27:13.439
<v Speaker 2>get together and we we're on one accord. We are

0:27:13.560 --> 0:27:17.359
<v Speaker 2>on one accord that we want Freaknick documentary shut down.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait a minute, are you gonna be on there? You

0:27:19.440 --> 0:27:21.760
<v Speaker 2>think you're gonna be on there? That might be in

0:27:21.880 --> 0:27:25.640
<v Speaker 2>a documentary wants shut down. Jaseelle wantsn't shut down.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to see it because we desist right now.

0:27:29.000 --> 0:27:31.600
<v Speaker 1>I want to see it. I'm at my popcorn watch

0:27:31.680 --> 0:27:33.880
<v Speaker 1>and see who I see because I think what year

0:27:33.920 --> 0:27:34.440
<v Speaker 1>didn't stop?

0:27:35.280 --> 0:27:37.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what year stopped, But there was a

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<v Speaker 2>freak Nick Philly. There's a freak Nick in Atlanta. There's

0:27:40.880 --> 0:27:44.160
<v Speaker 2>a freak Nick. But the Atlanta one is like, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>the top tier one, that's the one. This was before

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<v Speaker 2>such a problem holder than you, just before your time.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I was in I graduated high school in

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<v Speaker 6>ninety seven, so could I have been a part?

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<v Speaker 3>So we're like the same. I didn't go to Freak Nick.

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<v Speaker 6>I was at vacation Bible School, so.

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<v Speaker 3>I might have been there.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Miami turns into the new Freaknick. So I say,

0:28:08.280 --> 0:28:10.320
<v Speaker 1>we're going to see Jazi. Everybody keep your eyes open

0:28:10.400 --> 0:28:12.240
<v Speaker 1>for Jisel in the new freaking in the.

0:28:12.320 --> 0:28:14.360
<v Speaker 3>New and she has not changed.

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<v Speaker 2>She's gonna look she looks the same, so she can't

0:28:18.840 --> 0:28:22.320
<v Speaker 2>And I wasn't doing anything that I don't do on

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<v Speaker 2>the Real Housewives of Potomac.

0:28:24.200 --> 0:28:25.000
<v Speaker 3>There we go that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, We're very excited about Damar Hamlin.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, he is now reinstated.

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<v Speaker 1>Is even so Damar Hamlin has been clear to play

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<v Speaker 1>football again, to start working out, and that is such

0:28:39.680 --> 0:28:42.160
<v Speaker 1>a blessing that he has come through that. But I

0:28:42.280 --> 0:28:46.360
<v Speaker 1>know there are people who feel there are contradicting like

0:28:46.560 --> 0:28:48.920
<v Speaker 1>feelings about it. Some people are excited for him, but

0:28:49.000 --> 0:28:50.880
<v Speaker 1>some people just think he should not be long. She

0:28:51.000 --> 0:28:52.880
<v Speaker 1>should not be on a football field again.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I didn't know that. Yeah.

0:28:55.000 --> 0:28:57.440
<v Speaker 2>Oh so some some of you guys feel that he

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<v Speaker 2>shouldn't play ever again because he might get hurt.

0:29:00.120 --> 0:29:01.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think they think he went through a

0:29:01.840 --> 0:29:06.960
<v Speaker 1>very traumatic experience and you know, like who knows if

0:29:07.000 --> 0:29:10.120
<v Speaker 1>his body is ready to take on that that physicality

0:29:10.240 --> 0:29:11.760
<v Speaker 1>of the game of football, right, I.

0:29:11.800 --> 0:29:15.959
<v Speaker 6>Mean, he's medically cleared, which we know will will be okay,

0:29:16.160 --> 0:29:20.560
<v Speaker 6>which is fine. Did they find the root cause of

0:29:20.680 --> 0:29:23.520
<v Speaker 6>what of what happened to me in the first place.

0:29:23.960 --> 0:29:27.080
<v Speaker 6>But someone like DeMar Hamlin is probably feeling like he's

0:29:27.160 --> 0:29:29.640
<v Speaker 6>too young yet to sit on the sideline, So he's

0:29:29.680 --> 0:29:33.080
<v Speaker 6>gonna take the risk to do something where he's worked

0:29:33.240 --> 0:29:35.320
<v Speaker 6>years and years to get to that point to be

0:29:35.440 --> 0:29:36.440
<v Speaker 6>on the NFL field.

0:29:36.480 --> 0:29:38.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, I know the incident was like a

0:29:38.960 --> 0:29:41.920
<v Speaker 1>fluke incident. They say it was like the hit hit

0:29:42.040 --> 0:29:44.200
<v Speaker 1>his chest at the same time of like a certain

0:29:44.440 --> 0:29:48.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, cardiac rhythmic whatever, I don't know the terminology,

0:29:48.600 --> 0:29:51.600
<v Speaker 1>but it was like a very small chance that that

0:29:51.640 --> 0:29:52.200
<v Speaker 1>would happen to.

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<v Speaker 3>Me if it was your son.

0:29:54.160 --> 0:29:57.400
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, ladies, man, if it was your son, yes, would

0:29:57.440 --> 0:29:58.920
<v Speaker 6>you want him to play again?

0:29:59.200 --> 0:30:03.560
<v Speaker 2>And Robin has two sons that are of football playing age,

0:30:03.880 --> 0:30:04.520
<v Speaker 2>how do you feel?

0:30:05.120 --> 0:30:09.120
<v Speaker 1>So, I know, an athlete like Damar Hamlin, he this

0:30:09.320 --> 0:30:11.520
<v Speaker 1>is what he loves, this is what he knows, this

0:30:11.760 --> 0:30:14.880
<v Speaker 1>is his life, and so to take that game away

0:30:14.920 --> 0:30:18.920
<v Speaker 1>from him like that is probably more damaging to his

0:30:19.120 --> 0:30:22.960
<v Speaker 1>mental health than to his physical health. And so for me,

0:30:23.360 --> 0:30:25.840
<v Speaker 1>if that's something that he knows and loves, that's what he.

0:30:25.920 --> 0:30:27.480
<v Speaker 3>Eats and breathes and lives.

0:30:27.520 --> 0:30:30.400
<v Speaker 1>And he's been medically clear to play, then I want

0:30:30.520 --> 0:30:32.960
<v Speaker 1>him to do that as long as the doctors around

0:30:33.040 --> 0:30:33.960
<v Speaker 1>him say that he can do it.

0:30:34.720 --> 0:30:38.640
<v Speaker 3>Okay, And how does Wan feel about this? The same way? Okay?

0:30:40.120 --> 0:30:40.320
<v Speaker 1>Walk?

0:30:40.960 --> 0:30:43.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yes, we love one. But we're really happy Wan

0:30:43.880 --> 0:30:46.040
<v Speaker 3>Dixon is not here right now? Is that the same?

0:30:46.480 --> 0:30:48.719
<v Speaker 3>It might be here, y'all, it might be here.

0:30:48.920 --> 0:30:53.280
<v Speaker 2>He yes, we absolutely love one. Now, how many of

0:30:53.360 --> 0:30:54.960
<v Speaker 2>y'all on the Twitter? Are y'all on Twitter?

0:30:55.600 --> 0:30:56.080
<v Speaker 3>Of course?

0:30:56.600 --> 0:31:00.640
<v Speaker 2>Now y'all gonna pay for y'all blue check? Who paid

0:31:00.680 --> 0:31:03.280
<v Speaker 2>for a blue paid for a blue check? It's only

0:31:03.360 --> 0:31:06.640
<v Speaker 2>eleven dollars a month, y'all. You paid for yours?

0:31:07.160 --> 0:31:09.440
<v Speaker 3>You did? She paid for? Who else paid for a

0:31:09.480 --> 0:31:11.000
<v Speaker 3>blue check? Okay?

0:31:11.120 --> 0:31:13.880
<v Speaker 6>Now now, but I think the new verified is not

0:31:14.040 --> 0:31:17.120
<v Speaker 6>to be verified. Everybody's gonna PuO a point those of

0:31:17.240 --> 0:31:20.240
<v Speaker 6>us who were verified. My blue check was taken away

0:31:20.560 --> 0:31:22.480
<v Speaker 6>minus like, well all right, well right.

0:31:22.760 --> 0:31:25.080
<v Speaker 1>Well, I just so I did a little research because

0:31:25.120 --> 0:31:26.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't go on Twitter, but I went on Twitter

0:31:26.920 --> 0:31:29.440
<v Speaker 1>and I saw that my blue check is gone. Yes,

0:31:30.160 --> 0:31:33.960
<v Speaker 1>so I just deactivated my account. I'm like, I don't

0:31:34.000 --> 0:31:35.600
<v Speaker 1>need any but can I go on there?

0:31:35.800 --> 0:31:38.880
<v Speaker 6>But can someone do a new account in your name

0:31:38.960 --> 0:31:39.560
<v Speaker 6>and likeness?

0:31:39.880 --> 0:31:40.160
<v Speaker 3>Sure?

0:31:40.480 --> 0:31:42.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean, at this point, if you're gonna be paying

0:31:42.480 --> 0:31:45.000
<v Speaker 1>for blue if people can pay for blue checks, they

0:31:45.040 --> 0:31:45.680
<v Speaker 1>can do whatever.

0:31:46.360 --> 0:31:49.560
<v Speaker 3>Well, so I deactivated my account. I did see that.

0:31:49.840 --> 0:31:52.280
<v Speaker 2>At first the blue check costs like one hundred and

0:31:52.360 --> 0:31:55.760
<v Speaker 2>twenty two dollars a year, and then it went on

0:31:55.960 --> 0:31:59.880
<v Speaker 2>sale because nobody's buying it, it's like one hundred and fourteen,

0:32:00.040 --> 0:32:02.640
<v Speaker 2>So it's now one fourteen or wait until it goes

0:32:02.720 --> 0:32:03.400
<v Speaker 2>down to zero.

0:32:03.680 --> 0:32:07.959
<v Speaker 1>So wait, I'm gonna tell you there was somebody did

0:32:08.000 --> 0:32:11.360
<v Speaker 1>a little research on who from the real house as

0:32:11.400 --> 0:32:13.240
<v Speaker 1>a Potomac has a blue check?

0:32:13.360 --> 0:32:17.120
<v Speaker 3>Oh? Oh, who paid for that blue check? Y'all? Who

0:32:17.160 --> 0:32:22.080
<v Speaker 3>do y'all think paid for that blue check? Can't? She said? Karen?

0:32:22.720 --> 0:32:24.240
<v Speaker 1>Who? Karen?

0:32:24.280 --> 0:32:28.800
<v Speaker 3>Who else? Candace? Who else? So I'm gonna tell you

0:32:29.800 --> 0:32:33.760
<v Speaker 3>Mia and Karen have blue checks, y'all.

0:32:33.880 --> 0:32:36.960
<v Speaker 1>They paid there one hundred and fourteen dollars to make

0:32:37.040 --> 0:32:38.760
<v Speaker 1>sure that they were verified.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, it's fourteen dollars a month.

0:32:40.600 --> 0:32:43.160
<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, it's eleven dollars a month and one

0:32:43.240 --> 0:32:45.640
<v Speaker 1>hundred and fourteen dollars a year, So you can either

0:32:45.760 --> 0:32:48.720
<v Speaker 1>pay for the year or you could pay eleven dollars

0:32:48.720 --> 0:32:49.040
<v Speaker 1>a month.

0:32:49.240 --> 0:32:51.960
<v Speaker 3>I paid zero and I deactivated my account.

0:32:51.800 --> 0:32:54.320
<v Speaker 2>And I'm waiting for it to go down to zero. Now,

0:32:54.840 --> 0:32:58.960
<v Speaker 2>who is voting for Afroman in the next election? Do

0:32:59.080 --> 0:33:00.000
<v Speaker 2>y'all know who afromans?

0:33:01.240 --> 0:33:02.320
<v Speaker 3>Y'all do? Okay?

0:33:02.440 --> 0:33:02.560
<v Speaker 1>Who?

0:33:03.120 --> 0:33:08.160
<v Speaker 3>Business? I got high? Both Afroman? Okay? I need we

0:33:08.240 --> 0:33:09.720
<v Speaker 3>need more information about Afroman.

0:33:09.840 --> 0:33:13.040
<v Speaker 1>So Afroman is running for president in the twenty twenty

0:33:13.080 --> 0:33:18.440
<v Speaker 1>four election as an independent, and he has proclaimed himself

0:33:18.520 --> 0:33:22.560
<v Speaker 1>to be the next cannabis Commander in chief can't yes?

0:33:22.880 --> 0:33:27.520
<v Speaker 3>And the pothead of States? Yes, now now for all

0:33:27.560 --> 0:33:27.880
<v Speaker 3>of y'all.

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:33.280
<v Speaker 1>Clearly, his platform is about legalizing marijuana everywhere but already legal.

0:33:33.680 --> 0:33:36.160
<v Speaker 1>So who is voting for Afroman? Just based on at

0:33:36.160 --> 0:33:40.760
<v Speaker 1>a large it's okay? Okay, Afroman has some momentum.

0:33:41.840 --> 0:33:42.120
<v Speaker 3>Okay?

0:33:42.920 --> 0:33:45.000
<v Speaker 6>Are you still recovering from four twenty?

0:33:45.240 --> 0:33:49.720
<v Speaker 3>Dogs is running? Mate, She's still she's celebrating four twenty.

0:33:49.920 --> 0:33:51.680
<v Speaker 6>She's still recovering from four twenty.

0:33:55.080 --> 0:33:58.200
<v Speaker 3>Every day is four twenty. Every day, it's every day

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<v Speaker 3>it's four twenty. Do y'all agree with that? I think

0:34:00.800 --> 0:34:02.960
<v Speaker 3>that I think we should give afro man a shot.

0:34:03.840 --> 0:34:06.680
<v Speaker 2>We should allow him to to go and do all

0:34:06.720 --> 0:34:11.000
<v Speaker 2>the debate a campaign and listen and see if he

0:34:11.080 --> 0:34:14.839
<v Speaker 2>talks about anything other than we But what all right?

0:34:15.040 --> 0:34:19.400
<v Speaker 1>But what does a United States of America led by

0:34:19.520 --> 0:34:21.080
<v Speaker 1>President Afroman look like?

0:34:21.960 --> 0:34:22.000
<v Speaker 7>Like?

0:34:25.280 --> 0:34:28.000
<v Speaker 2>We don't know, Robin, nobody will be able to see

0:34:28.040 --> 0:34:28.920
<v Speaker 2>we'll all being about.

0:34:29.239 --> 0:34:34.400
<v Speaker 1>No, we do know. Everybody'll be calm. Everyone's gonna relax.

0:34:34.560 --> 0:34:39.640
<v Speaker 6>They their body so everybody will remove the inflammation.

0:34:40.000 --> 0:34:43.840
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yes, are we going to get anything done like

0:34:43.920 --> 0:34:46.719
<v Speaker 1>what happens when Russia comes to bomb us? Yes?

0:34:46.840 --> 0:34:49.040
<v Speaker 3>Are we going to be ready or are we going

0:34:49.120 --> 0:34:50.080
<v Speaker 3>to be a little delayed?

0:34:50.560 --> 0:34:50.600
<v Speaker 7>What?

0:34:53.560 --> 0:34:55.160
<v Speaker 3>What are we going to do? I don't know?

0:34:55.760 --> 0:34:59.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So so if you're not interested in voting for Afroman,

0:34:59.080 --> 0:35:01.120
<v Speaker 1>you can also for Robert F.

0:35:01.239 --> 0:35:05.279
<v Speaker 3>Kennedy Junior. He's running as well. So we got options, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, I know, Michelle, you had a hot topic about

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, it was so much going on. She's

0:35:18.520 --> 0:35:20.280
<v Speaker 2>a dear heart to me, Chloe Bailey.

0:35:21.360 --> 0:35:24.680
<v Speaker 6>No, no, Chloe, She's gonna be a concert like literally

0:35:24.760 --> 0:35:27.959
<v Speaker 6>tomorrow here in Atlanta. And there was so much talk

0:35:28.560 --> 0:35:33.279
<v Speaker 6>about everybody was mad or there was rumblings about people

0:35:33.360 --> 0:35:37.160
<v Speaker 6>mad at Beyonce for not supporting Chloe's album, and so

0:35:37.719 --> 0:35:43.440
<v Speaker 6>it's kind of too sordid here because Beyonce promoted it,

0:35:44.480 --> 0:35:46.480
<v Speaker 6>everybody would be like, that's unfair.

0:35:47.040 --> 0:35:47.719
<v Speaker 3>You got her.

0:35:47.719 --> 0:35:50.480
<v Speaker 6>Promoting, and then you feel like she didn't do enough.

0:35:50.600 --> 0:35:56.040
<v Speaker 6>She's on her label. That's enough promotion, that is enough support.

0:35:57.000 --> 0:36:01.640
<v Speaker 6>So Chloe's been doing her thing. She's been doing her

0:36:01.719 --> 0:36:03.840
<v Speaker 6>thing and every and as she said, she said, you know,

0:36:04.080 --> 0:36:06.160
<v Speaker 6>people know her music. She's on a sold out tour.

0:36:06.560 --> 0:36:08.040
<v Speaker 6>So I just had to throw that out there, like,

0:36:08.080 --> 0:36:10.960
<v Speaker 6>why was that such a big deal about who's who

0:36:11.120 --> 0:36:13.759
<v Speaker 6>was supporting who? I think it was just because it

0:36:14.040 --> 0:36:16.680
<v Speaker 6>was beyond of course, y'all.

0:36:16.560 --> 0:36:19.439
<v Speaker 3>Gonna leave alone, leave her alone, Let's see.

0:36:19.440 --> 0:36:24.000
<v Speaker 1>I got I gotta play the devil's advocate though, Oh Robin,

0:36:24.160 --> 0:36:27.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean, why why wouldn't she support her?

0:36:28.640 --> 0:36:29.120
<v Speaker 3>She didn't?

0:36:29.520 --> 0:36:30.680
<v Speaker 6>Who said she didn't support?

0:36:31.160 --> 0:36:32.800
<v Speaker 3>Well? Right, so I did she do?

0:36:32.880 --> 0:36:36.520
<v Speaker 6>We know who said she did not support? She's very

0:36:36.840 --> 0:36:41.240
<v Speaker 6>she's very involved in helping people creatively. Now Chloy can write,

0:36:41.960 --> 0:36:45.480
<v Speaker 6>she makes her own beats herself. Now, did she help

0:36:45.640 --> 0:36:50.040
<v Speaker 6>like kind of maybe finesse some things visually? Absolutely, but

0:36:50.160 --> 0:36:54.000
<v Speaker 6>does she need to be on her Instagram? No, No,

0:36:54.640 --> 0:36:57.360
<v Speaker 6>because y'all would have something. Not y'all, because we're family.

0:36:57.440 --> 0:37:01.160
<v Speaker 6>We cousins are the fun that ain't related to us

0:37:01.239 --> 0:37:03.399
<v Speaker 6>in this room would have had something to say because

0:37:03.400 --> 0:37:06.520
<v Speaker 6>they didn't do it in here that And a part.

0:37:06.400 --> 0:37:07.080
<v Speaker 3>Of me feels like.

0:37:08.880 --> 0:37:12.000
<v Speaker 2>If she did continuously support and support and support, people

0:37:12.040 --> 0:37:14.680
<v Speaker 2>will then say Chloe is not where she is on

0:37:14.880 --> 0:37:18.080
<v Speaker 2>her own, and it would be all because Beyonce is

0:37:18.120 --> 0:37:21.239
<v Speaker 2>supporting and Beyonce is pushing. No, Chloe is where she

0:37:21.400 --> 0:37:24.200
<v Speaker 2>is on her own and we have to support that.

0:37:24.520 --> 0:37:28.879
<v Speaker 2>And beyond, Beyonce is busy. She's raising her kids, She's

0:37:28.960 --> 0:37:30.080
<v Speaker 2>working on a world tour.

0:37:30.200 --> 0:37:30.880
<v Speaker 3>She is busy.

0:37:31.440 --> 0:37:34.719
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So why didn't y'all support? Why didn't y'all Why

0:37:34.760 --> 0:37:36.359
<v Speaker 1>didn't y'all support the album.

0:37:39.800 --> 0:37:40.160
<v Speaker 3>She got?

0:37:40.320 --> 0:37:42.800
<v Speaker 6>She She says she watched the movie. She does have

0:37:42.920 --> 0:37:48.280
<v Speaker 6>a sold out tour, and I think sometimes sometimes seeing

0:37:48.400 --> 0:37:52.439
<v Speaker 6>stuff live in person helps a person say I gotta

0:37:52.480 --> 0:37:55.439
<v Speaker 6>cop that album. So you're obviously a fan of hers.

0:37:55.560 --> 0:37:58.600
<v Speaker 6>If her tour is sold out, her very first one

0:37:58.719 --> 0:38:01.960
<v Speaker 6>is sold out. Boom saying you make more money on

0:38:02.080 --> 0:38:04.359
<v Speaker 6>tours and merch than album sales anyway.

0:38:04.400 --> 0:38:04.920
<v Speaker 3>Listen to that.

0:38:05.400 --> 0:38:07.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so the Twitter will feed the album and I

0:38:07.480 --> 0:38:09.840
<v Speaker 1>guess we just didn't really know about it, and'st it

0:38:10.040 --> 0:38:10.480
<v Speaker 1>just fine?

0:38:10.560 --> 0:38:13.880
<v Speaker 6>She's gonna be just fine. Every artist doesn't go platinum

0:38:14.400 --> 0:38:15.919
<v Speaker 6>their first album out.

0:38:16.040 --> 0:38:17.759
<v Speaker 3>She's going to be just fine, right, And as I

0:38:17.840 --> 0:38:19.800
<v Speaker 3>think about it, Beyonce doesn't.

0:38:20.000 --> 0:38:23.320
<v Speaker 1>She doesn't promote anybody else on her on her platforms,

0:38:23.400 --> 0:38:25.160
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, most of her pages just

0:38:25.560 --> 0:38:29.160
<v Speaker 1>her beautiful, artistic looking fashion pictures, and so it would

0:38:29.200 --> 0:38:32.080
<v Speaker 1>be out of her. It wouldn't be something that she

0:38:32.280 --> 0:38:34.520
<v Speaker 1>ordinarily does. And so I think for her it's probably

0:38:34.600 --> 0:38:37.400
<v Speaker 1>all or nothing. It's probably like I'm not going to

0:38:37.560 --> 0:38:42.960
<v Speaker 1>promote anything so that individuals can't be upset that I didn't. Yes,

0:38:43.080 --> 0:38:47.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's not like she promoted her individually and

0:38:47.360 --> 0:38:48.040
<v Speaker 1>solo wise.

0:38:48.200 --> 0:38:52.160
<v Speaker 6>Destiny's Child put in the work. There was no there

0:38:52.320 --> 0:38:59.200
<v Speaker 6>was nobody really indoors seeing and putting us on Destiny's

0:38:59.320 --> 0:39:03.320
<v Speaker 6>Child word for everything, which I think equates to the

0:39:03.840 --> 0:39:06.560
<v Speaker 6>to the longevity of the group and us being able

0:39:06.560 --> 0:39:08.800
<v Speaker 6>to me being able to be up here solo wise

0:39:09.080 --> 0:39:12.600
<v Speaker 6>with y'all so hard work does that. Yes, he's gonna

0:39:12.800 --> 0:39:18.640
<v Speaker 6>She's gonna be foul. Hard work keeps us here absolutely

0:39:19.040 --> 0:39:19.440
<v Speaker 6>all right, we.

0:39:19.480 --> 0:39:23.160
<v Speaker 2>Gotta be up to our next segment. Is it reasonable

0:39:23.360 --> 0:39:33.880
<v Speaker 2>or is it shade? If anybody out here has a

0:39:34.040 --> 0:39:40.319
<v Speaker 2>reasonably shady situation that they want to discuss, start thinking

0:39:40.320 --> 0:39:41.719
<v Speaker 2>about it, and if we have time, we'll do it.

0:39:42.400 --> 0:39:44.680
<v Speaker 1>Sorry, but first, so, if there's something you want us

0:39:44.760 --> 0:39:46.880
<v Speaker 1>to weigh in on, like say you have an argument

0:39:47.000 --> 0:39:49.520
<v Speaker 1>between you and your mom, or your you know, your neighbors,

0:39:49.680 --> 0:39:52.440
<v Speaker 1>or something you want to get our opinions, think about

0:39:52.480 --> 0:39:54.000
<v Speaker 1>it and raise your hand when we give you the

0:39:54.040 --> 0:39:55.560
<v Speaker 1>opportunity to raise your hand.

0:39:55.760 --> 0:39:57.400
<v Speaker 3>So this is Asia.

0:39:57.880 --> 0:40:02.400
<v Speaker 2>Asia is a faithful Hey girl, faithful reasonably shakester.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Yes, Asia, Where are you from? Asia? I'm from Connecticut.

0:40:06.360 --> 0:40:10.399
<v Speaker 1>So Asia lives in Connecticut. She came to our live

0:40:10.480 --> 0:40:12.959
<v Speaker 1>show in New York. I traveled alone, and she tried

0:40:13.080 --> 0:40:15.759
<v Speaker 1>us to Atlanta to be here for us. So she is.

0:40:17.000 --> 0:40:17.960
<v Speaker 3>Give it up for Asia.

0:40:18.960 --> 0:40:21.400
<v Speaker 1>We appreciate her so much she and she's been a

0:40:21.480 --> 0:40:24.319
<v Speaker 1>faithful listener and supporter of the podcast. So Asia has

0:40:24.360 --> 0:40:27.240
<v Speaker 1>a reasonable or is this reasonable.

0:40:26.880 --> 0:40:29.440
<v Speaker 3>Or shady scenario to ask us. Yeah, and y'all got

0:40:29.480 --> 0:40:30.560
<v Speaker 3>away in So y'all listen.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, So I was in a breakroom and my coworker,

0:40:35.239 --> 0:40:38.400
<v Speaker 2>she was like complaining. She's like, I have kids, eggs

0:40:38.440 --> 0:40:41.960
<v Speaker 2>are expensive. So I'm I'm agreeing with her. I'm like, yeah,

0:40:42.080 --> 0:40:43.640
<v Speaker 2>it is, you know, gas is out of control, of

0:40:43.719 --> 0:40:46.400
<v Speaker 2>rents out of control. She turns to me and goes,

0:40:46.719 --> 0:40:48.839
<v Speaker 2>you don't have any kids and you still live at home,

0:40:49.000 --> 0:40:51.640
<v Speaker 2>so what are you complaining about. I'm like, I have

0:40:51.760 --> 0:40:55.600
<v Speaker 2>a cardinal, I have car insurance. Everything else being a

0:40:55.640 --> 0:40:58.840
<v Speaker 2>girl's just expensive. So is that reasonable or is it shady?

0:40:59.000 --> 0:41:00.279
<v Speaker 3>Okay, so did y'all hear what she said?

0:41:00.320 --> 0:41:03.920
<v Speaker 2>She's saying she was talking to her girlfriend no co

0:41:04.080 --> 0:41:08.080
<v Speaker 2>world over, talking to her worker, and she was talking

0:41:08.120 --> 0:41:11.200
<v Speaker 2>about how expensive things are out here in these streets.

0:41:12.040 --> 0:41:14.480
<v Speaker 2>And her coworker was like, but you live with your mama,

0:41:14.960 --> 0:41:17.080
<v Speaker 2>you don't have kids, and you don't have no kids

0:41:18.040 --> 0:41:19.239
<v Speaker 2>and what else she said?

0:41:20.280 --> 0:41:24.279
<v Speaker 3>And that was it? And is that reasonable or is

0:41:24.360 --> 0:41:24.920
<v Speaker 3>that shady?

0:41:27.680 --> 0:41:30.560
<v Speaker 1>Reasonable? So, if you all right, raise your hand if

0:41:30.600 --> 0:41:32.560
<v Speaker 1>you think that's a reasonable statement for her.

0:41:32.560 --> 0:41:36.399
<v Speaker 6>To make, because she feels like you got extra money

0:41:36.480 --> 0:41:40.280
<v Speaker 6>laying around because you don't have kids, so she didn't book.

0:41:40.480 --> 0:41:43.759
<v Speaker 1>Now, raise your hand if that's a shady statement for

0:41:43.840 --> 0:41:45.040
<v Speaker 1>her coworking.

0:41:44.640 --> 0:41:48.440
<v Speaker 3>Now, okay, that is yes, so all the way live shady.

0:41:48.840 --> 0:41:51.640
<v Speaker 1>I agree, right, that is all the way shady because

0:41:52.120 --> 0:41:56.760
<v Speaker 1>nobody should be counting anybody's coins, their coins, their bills,

0:41:56.920 --> 0:41:57.719
<v Speaker 1>their scenario.

0:41:58.280 --> 0:42:00.120
<v Speaker 3>They don't know. Asia could be trying to say, gave

0:42:00.239 --> 0:42:01.000
<v Speaker 3>up for a house.

0:42:01.560 --> 0:42:04.279
<v Speaker 1>She could be she could be planning for children, and

0:42:04.400 --> 0:42:06.560
<v Speaker 1>so she's feeling the same effects that we're all a

0:42:06.640 --> 0:42:08.640
<v Speaker 1>feeling feeling in relation to how.

0:42:09.200 --> 0:42:14.440
<v Speaker 6>Or she's saving up. Because Netflix keep going up, everybody

0:42:14.560 --> 0:42:17.800
<v Speaker 6>keep going up in their prices, so you keep your coins, yes.

0:42:17.840 --> 0:42:21.040
<v Speaker 1>Period, Right, So don't much, don't let her make you

0:42:21.239 --> 0:42:25.239
<v Speaker 1>feel like, don't let her minimize your issues or what

0:42:25.400 --> 0:42:27.799
<v Speaker 1>you're going through because you don't have children, or because

0:42:27.800 --> 0:42:30.759
<v Speaker 1>you live at home with yourself. You know everything that

0:42:30.920 --> 0:42:34.440
<v Speaker 1>you go through matters, and just because it may not

0:42:34.520 --> 0:42:36.600
<v Speaker 1>seem as big to somebody else, that doesn't mean it

0:42:36.640 --> 0:42:37.360
<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter to you.

0:42:38.160 --> 0:42:40.400
<v Speaker 3>Right, thank you lady, But.

0:42:43.120 --> 0:42:47.200
<v Speaker 6>Future y'all giving up. She drove all the way from

0:42:47.239 --> 0:42:50.000
<v Speaker 6>Cannadi with her fresh silt Press come.

0:42:49.880 --> 0:42:53.040
<v Speaker 3>On you too, all the way from Connecticut.

0:42:53.160 --> 0:42:56.520
<v Speaker 6>I mean her self, Press is just out bouncing Okay, wait,

0:42:56.840 --> 0:42:58.040
<v Speaker 6>y'all some raise y'all hands.

0:42:58.080 --> 0:43:01.000
<v Speaker 1>If you came from another state, if you don't live here, wow,

0:43:01.400 --> 0:43:02.080
<v Speaker 1>my gosh.

0:43:04.080 --> 0:43:05.799
<v Speaker 2>If you came from out the country. Who came from

0:43:05.800 --> 0:43:08.040
<v Speaker 2>out the country? Who's I can't hear?

0:43:08.080 --> 0:43:15.000
<v Speaker 3>From Canada? Wow, that's awesome. What country? Okay, you are

0:43:15.040 --> 0:43:16.600
<v Speaker 3>a vacation from turxy CA coast?

0:43:16.680 --> 0:43:20.960
<v Speaker 2>Don't count. Okay, because you were from Atlanta. Oh you

0:43:21.040 --> 0:43:24.960
<v Speaker 2>from California? From California, that's awesome, that's amazing.

0:43:25.200 --> 0:43:32.200
<v Speaker 3>Anybody from Chicago right quick? Hey? Anybody from Maryland? From

0:43:32.200 --> 0:43:35.239
<v Speaker 3>where me and Robin a from Maryland? Maryland towers in

0:43:35.239 --> 0:43:41.280
<v Speaker 3>the house? Okay, be more silver spring? Yes, Arkansas wants

0:43:41.320 --> 0:43:44.160
<v Speaker 3>some love. Chack, give Arkansas some love? All right?

0:43:45.640 --> 0:43:48.080
<v Speaker 1>All right, Michelle, you have you have any reasonably shared

0:43:48.680 --> 0:43:49.400
<v Speaker 1>this question?

0:43:51.440 --> 0:43:52.520
<v Speaker 3>I can answer this too.

0:43:53.000 --> 0:43:56.520
<v Speaker 6>Is it reasonable or shady if you brought a bottle

0:43:56.920 --> 0:43:59.880
<v Speaker 6>to an event to take it back at the end

0:44:00.040 --> 0:44:02.080
<v Speaker 6>at the event if it wasn't open?

0:44:03.520 --> 0:44:07.360
<v Speaker 3>Okay, who says it's reasonable? R Raise your head? It's reasonable?

0:44:07.800 --> 0:44:10.000
<v Speaker 3>Rache add it's reasonable. Okay, all right, hold on, y'all,

0:44:10.040 --> 0:44:13.000
<v Speaker 3>hold on, ye raise your head? It it shady? Rick? Wait?

0:44:13.040 --> 0:44:15.719
<v Speaker 1>Wait, I didn't see all right, So this is like

0:44:15.840 --> 0:44:18.040
<v Speaker 1>it's fifty to fifty who says reasonable?

0:44:19.600 --> 0:44:19.759
<v Speaker 7>Who?

0:44:20.800 --> 0:44:24.279
<v Speaker 6>Okay, it depends, let me tell you who. Can I

0:44:24.360 --> 0:44:25.280
<v Speaker 6>tell you why it depends.

0:44:25.600 --> 0:44:27.160
<v Speaker 3>It's a whole lot of things that it depends on.

0:44:27.280 --> 0:44:28.319
<v Speaker 3>Who has done this before.

0:44:28.360 --> 0:44:30.920
<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna tell you why it depends. If it was

0:44:31.000 --> 0:44:34.960
<v Speaker 6>a potluck and everybody brings their own stuff, and then

0:44:35.400 --> 0:44:38.839
<v Speaker 6>and then you take it back. But if I got

0:44:38.920 --> 0:44:41.360
<v Speaker 6>a nice dinner, then I prepared for you, and the

0:44:41.520 --> 0:44:44.280
<v Speaker 6>ship prepared for you, and you didn't pay for nothing,

0:44:44.480 --> 0:44:46.400
<v Speaker 6>and I invite you over and you bring a bottle,

0:44:46.640 --> 0:44:47.560
<v Speaker 6>it belongs to me?

0:44:48.200 --> 0:44:50.520
<v Speaker 3>Okay, you got that right? Yes, Okay.

0:44:50.600 --> 0:44:54.120
<v Speaker 2>I also think it depends on is it an expensive

0:44:54.200 --> 0:44:55.840
<v Speaker 2>bottle champagne?

0:44:56.440 --> 0:44:58.120
<v Speaker 3>Or did you get it from the five and dime?

0:44:58.560 --> 0:45:03.800
<v Speaker 3>Like what shelf this bottle from? So it depends. It depends.

0:45:04.280 --> 0:45:06.680
<v Speaker 6>There are certain red wines that I like from publics

0:45:06.880 --> 0:45:09.759
<v Speaker 6>that are really really really good, right, and then there

0:45:09.800 --> 0:45:12.520
<v Speaker 6>are some that should not come from publics that are

0:45:12.719 --> 0:45:13.440
<v Speaker 6>more expensive.

0:45:13.840 --> 0:45:13.920
<v Speaker 7>Right.

0:45:14.280 --> 0:45:14.480
<v Speaker 3>Yes.

0:45:14.880 --> 0:45:17.680
<v Speaker 1>So I actually was faced with this dilemma one day.

0:45:19.000 --> 0:45:20.920
<v Speaker 1>My girlfriends and I was probably about eight of us.

0:45:21.120 --> 0:45:25.520
<v Speaker 1>We had a dinner party at my girlfriend's house and

0:45:25.840 --> 0:45:28.880
<v Speaker 1>if I can remember correctly, we all like chipped in

0:45:29.040 --> 0:45:31.640
<v Speaker 1>for the dinner, but the girlfriend that was hosting it

0:45:31.760 --> 0:45:35.160
<v Speaker 1>told everyone to bring a bottle, So I brought a

0:45:35.239 --> 0:45:38.000
<v Speaker 1>bottle of Tito's. I brought a large bottle of Tito's

0:45:38.040 --> 0:45:42.279
<v Speaker 1>vacuum glue. 'reing the pandemic, and y'all know how expensive

0:45:42.960 --> 0:45:46.800
<v Speaker 1>liquor was during the pandemic. So we go there and

0:45:46.880 --> 0:45:49.000
<v Speaker 1>there was already a bottle of Tito's that was opened,

0:45:49.040 --> 0:45:52.720
<v Speaker 1>so we were we were drinking on that Tito's bottle. Okay,

0:45:54.000 --> 0:45:56.640
<v Speaker 1>so wait a minute. So at the end of the night,

0:45:56.920 --> 0:45:59.760
<v Speaker 1>at the end of the night, my bottle was unopened,

0:46:01.880 --> 0:46:08.560
<v Speaker 1>and and as I was about to leave. As I

0:46:08.680 --> 0:46:12.600
<v Speaker 1>was about to leave, I'm like walking towards the bottle

0:46:13.080 --> 0:46:15.480
<v Speaker 1>to grab it to take it home. And my girlfriend

0:46:15.560 --> 0:46:18.680
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, girl, thanks for the bottle. I love Tito's.

0:46:18.719 --> 0:46:23.640
<v Speaker 1>It's my favorite. And I was like, oh, you're welcome,

0:46:24.200 --> 0:46:25.600
<v Speaker 1>and I went and I left.

0:46:25.360 --> 0:46:26.040
<v Speaker 3>And I went home.

0:46:26.400 --> 0:46:32.000
<v Speaker 1>So and just to give y'all, I wanted my bottle back,

0:46:32.120 --> 0:46:34.400
<v Speaker 1>but I was just like, okay, So she was, but

0:46:34.520 --> 0:46:37.080
<v Speaker 1>that was nice of you rapping for it, but she

0:46:37.280 --> 0:46:38.759
<v Speaker 1>should have given it back to me.

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<v Speaker 3>No, Robin, you bought it to her house.

0:46:42.920 --> 0:46:42.960
<v Speaker 7>No.

0:46:43.440 --> 0:46:45.120
<v Speaker 1>I think if that was me, if it was my

0:46:45.239 --> 0:46:48.200
<v Speaker 1>house and everyone chipped in and her and the bottle

0:46:48.280 --> 0:46:50.000
<v Speaker 1>was unopened, I would be like, oh.

0:46:50.000 --> 0:46:51.719
<v Speaker 2>Girl, we don't open your bottle. You want to take

0:46:51.760 --> 0:46:56.440
<v Speaker 2>it back? I think it depends. No, it depends on

0:46:56.480 --> 0:46:58.600
<v Speaker 2>how close you are with the person. Like, if it's

0:46:58.680 --> 0:47:02.520
<v Speaker 2>my sister, I'm taking a bottle back. If it's people

0:47:02.560 --> 0:47:05.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't really know that, well, I'm gonna let it.

0:47:05.040 --> 0:47:05.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna let you have it.

0:47:06.400 --> 0:47:10.080
<v Speaker 3>The bottle expensive. This is real quick, it's real quick.

0:47:10.160 --> 0:47:10.839
<v Speaker 3>This is a little tea.

0:47:11.320 --> 0:47:15.000
<v Speaker 2>So you know how if you watch housewives, any housewives,

0:47:15.040 --> 0:47:17.160
<v Speaker 2>if you watch our show in particular, when we go

0:47:17.280 --> 0:47:19.960
<v Speaker 2>to each other's house, typically we bring a bottle of something.

0:47:22.200 --> 0:47:25.440
<v Speaker 2>Karen always says, give me my bottle back. After we're

0:47:25.480 --> 0:47:28.000
<v Speaker 2>done filming. She's done that to me three times. She's like,

0:47:28.040 --> 0:47:29.000
<v Speaker 2>give me my bottle back.

0:47:29.080 --> 0:47:29.440
<v Speaker 1>So we do.

0:47:29.600 --> 0:47:31.000
<v Speaker 3>It's a joke. It's a running joke.

0:47:31.239 --> 0:47:34.200
<v Speaker 1>But anyways, like recycling bottles, it's like she brings it

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<v Speaker 1>to one event.

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<v Speaker 6>And I mean, we don't want to belabor the topic,

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<v Speaker 6>but if you invite me to your home for a

0:47:41.239 --> 0:47:43.440
<v Speaker 6>nice dinner, and all I have to do is show up.

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<v Speaker 6>The nice thing to do is you bring a bottle,

0:47:46.200 --> 0:47:48.560
<v Speaker 6>so you present it as a gift. I don't want

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<v Speaker 6>it back, Like I said, if it was like a

0:47:50.920 --> 0:47:53.319
<v Speaker 6>pot look situation, you know how you take a little

0:47:53.480 --> 0:47:56.360
<v Speaker 6>three bean potato salad back home that you made, and

0:47:56.440 --> 0:47:58.720
<v Speaker 6>you take you a little RC or seven up bottle

0:47:58.760 --> 0:48:01.000
<v Speaker 6>that you brought, you take your if it was a

0:48:01.080 --> 0:48:02.400
<v Speaker 6>pot look type situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, all right, we got on one of my

0:48:04.640 --> 0:48:07.440
<v Speaker 2>We gotta move on. But it is now time for

0:48:07.680 --> 0:48:13.840
<v Speaker 2>you guys to ask us anything. And whoever is asking

0:48:13.960 --> 0:48:15.120
<v Speaker 2>us something, you're gonna keep it.

0:48:15.200 --> 0:48:15.960
<v Speaker 3>PG. Thirteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us your names. Tell us your name where you're from. Hey, y'all,

0:48:20.719 --> 0:48:23.480
<v Speaker 1>my name is Deniseha. I'm from Charlotte, North Carolina.

0:48:24.760 --> 0:48:25.600
<v Speaker 3>Oh can you hear me?

0:48:26.520 --> 0:48:29.080
<v Speaker 1>Hey, y'all, I have a quick question for Jaselle. So

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<v Speaker 1>I just finished Ultimate Girl's Trip. What was your reaction

0:48:35.480 --> 0:48:37.880
<v Speaker 1>after you found out what really happened to your bottle?

0:48:39.160 --> 0:48:40.839
<v Speaker 3>I'm so happy you're asking me that question.

0:48:40.880 --> 0:48:42.520
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm gonna get For those of y'all who don't

0:48:42.520 --> 0:48:44.399
<v Speaker 2>know what she's talking about. I was on a show

0:48:44.440 --> 0:48:46.840
<v Speaker 2>called Ultimate Girl's trip. It was a bunch of different housewives,

0:48:46.880 --> 0:48:50.440
<v Speaker 2>some different shows. It's on Peacock and I had a

0:48:50.520 --> 0:48:56.920
<v Speaker 2>fit because someone took my bottle of tequila. Okay, so

0:48:57.160 --> 0:49:00.719
<v Speaker 2>and all of y'all have DMed me your bottle and

0:49:00.840 --> 0:49:02.840
<v Speaker 2>to say that y'all found it, which is so hilarious.

0:49:03.640 --> 0:49:06.920
<v Speaker 2>At the end, the producers, the Salt Lake City Girls,

0:49:07.320 --> 0:49:10.960
<v Speaker 2>we're joking that the bottle was in the shower, the

0:49:11.040 --> 0:49:11.880
<v Speaker 2>outside shower.

0:49:12.320 --> 0:49:14.280
<v Speaker 3>That was a joke. The Salt Lake Girls.

0:49:14.120 --> 0:49:19.320
<v Speaker 2>Don't have it. Leah from New York had a bottle

0:49:19.440 --> 0:49:21.600
<v Speaker 2>that she brought in her confessional and she was like, Oh,

0:49:21.680 --> 0:49:24.560
<v Speaker 2>I got yourselves bottle. She's joking too. The truth is,

0:49:25.239 --> 0:49:29.360
<v Speaker 2>we have no idea what a bottle is. But I

0:49:29.520 --> 0:49:32.960
<v Speaker 2>know who has the bottle. Okay, I know who took

0:49:33.040 --> 0:49:36.640
<v Speaker 2>the bottle. But the truth is we don't know does.

0:49:36.560 --> 0:49:38.799
<v Speaker 3>The does the name? I know, does the name start

0:49:38.880 --> 0:49:43.080
<v Speaker 3>with a sea? And starts with a sea? Okay? And

0:49:43.200 --> 0:49:46.520
<v Speaker 3>it ends with the ass No, it ends with a yeah.

0:49:48.840 --> 0:49:50.359
<v Speaker 3>All right, what's the next question? Guys?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, y'all, I'm Toya from Little Rock, Arkansas, the Arkansaw

0:49:56.040 --> 0:49:59.480
<v Speaker 2>and the Building. I have a podcast called the Spiel Podcast.

0:49:59.560 --> 0:49:59.880
<v Speaker 3>It's the ma.

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<v Speaker 2>My question, Hey sorr Jisellah, excuse my question is for

0:50:05.200 --> 0:50:09.320
<v Speaker 2>the beautiful Michelle Williams. I absolutely love your podcast. I

0:50:09.400 --> 0:50:12.800
<v Speaker 2>have a segment on my podcast called Mutual Chicken to

0:50:12.920 --> 0:50:15.920
<v Speaker 2>where my spillers, my peers, whom ever is on my

0:50:16.040 --> 0:50:19.000
<v Speaker 2>show have to do a mental check in. When you

0:50:19.120 --> 0:50:21.400
<v Speaker 2>are doing that or just coming up with your podcast,

0:50:22.000 --> 0:50:25.320
<v Speaker 2>was it hard to be extremely vulnerable? I did counseling,

0:50:25.360 --> 0:50:27.719
<v Speaker 2>I did therapy, and it's something that I feel like

0:50:27.960 --> 0:50:31.360
<v Speaker 2>everybody should of course look into. But when you started

0:50:31.400 --> 0:50:35.360
<v Speaker 2>your podcast to you know, just focus on that, was

0:50:35.440 --> 0:50:40.480
<v Speaker 2>it challenging Because I'm like shy, but I'm talkative, but

0:50:40.600 --> 0:50:41.760
<v Speaker 2>I don't like being vulnerable.

0:50:41.800 --> 0:50:44.759
<v Speaker 6>But I'm super vulnerable and sometimes to a fall.

0:50:44.960 --> 0:50:46.840
<v Speaker 3>So how do you handle the.

0:50:46.920 --> 0:50:49.600
<v Speaker 6>Ups and down the bat? Thank you for asking and

0:50:49.719 --> 0:50:57.160
<v Speaker 6>congratulations on your podcast. Amazing. So I've learned on my

0:50:57.320 --> 0:51:00.440
<v Speaker 6>mental health journey. We all have mental health, but everybody

0:51:00.480 --> 0:51:03.799
<v Speaker 6>does not have mental illness. So let's know the two

0:51:04.120 --> 0:51:08.080
<v Speaker 6>mental health is like your cardiovascular health reproductive hell, we

0:51:08.160 --> 0:51:10.360
<v Speaker 6>all have that, right. So what I learned on my

0:51:10.480 --> 0:51:12.439
<v Speaker 6>journey is there is a difference. I think I spoke

0:51:12.480 --> 0:51:15.440
<v Speaker 6>to you all about the difference between being transparent and

0:51:15.600 --> 0:51:19.759
<v Speaker 6>being vulnerable. I'm an open book. I can be transparent,

0:51:20.080 --> 0:51:23.080
<v Speaker 6>but vulnerable is when you in that transparent moment is

0:51:23.160 --> 0:51:26.720
<v Speaker 6>when you say how something feels, how it made you feel,

0:51:27.080 --> 0:51:30.520
<v Speaker 6>and you allow yourself in that moment. If you're still

0:51:30.719 --> 0:51:35.520
<v Speaker 6>angry or sad about that moment, you acknowledge it and

0:51:35.640 --> 0:51:38.600
<v Speaker 6>you literally feel your feelings. So when I talked about,

0:51:38.800 --> 0:51:42.080
<v Speaker 6>like one time my father passing away or a moment

0:51:42.160 --> 0:51:44.400
<v Speaker 6>where something happened, I believe it was something maybe with

0:51:44.520 --> 0:51:49.560
<v Speaker 6>police brutality. I allowed myself to cry on the podcast

0:51:49.840 --> 0:51:53.160
<v Speaker 6>or to get choked up. That's me being vulnerable, then

0:51:53.239 --> 0:51:57.200
<v Speaker 6>me just reading off my personal moment that I had

0:51:57.320 --> 0:51:59.960
<v Speaker 6>this week. I think we all can be open books,

0:52:00.480 --> 0:52:03.280
<v Speaker 6>but it's hard to be vulnerable and cry about something

0:52:03.600 --> 0:52:06.759
<v Speaker 6>or be like, bro, it hurt my feelings when you

0:52:07.040 --> 0:52:10.279
<v Speaker 6>said this, or when you talk to me this way.

0:52:10.600 --> 0:52:13.920
<v Speaker 6>This is how it makes me feel. That's being vulnerable

0:52:14.560 --> 0:52:17.400
<v Speaker 6>all right, then being just then instead of being just

0:52:17.520 --> 0:52:18.879
<v Speaker 6>a transparent hot head.

0:52:19.560 --> 0:52:24.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I love that. I'm like giving it a title.

0:52:25.200 --> 0:52:27.960
<v Speaker 2>You hurt my feelings when you did X, as opposed

0:52:28.000 --> 0:52:32.160
<v Speaker 2>to just yelling at the person or responding to the person.

0:52:32.440 --> 0:52:34.640
<v Speaker 3>I like that, Mitchell, I'm gonna use that well.

0:52:34.840 --> 0:52:38.520
<v Speaker 6>Well, when a person is yelling that, anger is a

0:52:38.680 --> 0:52:44.480
<v Speaker 6>secondary emotion. So let's unpack that. I'm angry because I'm

0:52:44.560 --> 0:52:47.640
<v Speaker 6>angry because I feel overlooked. I'm angry because I feel

0:52:47.719 --> 0:52:50.879
<v Speaker 6>like you ignored me when I told you. I don't

0:52:51.000 --> 0:52:53.560
<v Speaker 6>like when you do this, so if I gotta tell

0:52:53.600 --> 0:52:57.400
<v Speaker 6>you again, I might blow up. Anger is what's come second.

0:52:58.760 --> 0:53:04.520
<v Speaker 6>Being feeling out, feeling talked about, feeling betrayed, feeling abandoned.

0:53:04.800 --> 0:53:08.520
<v Speaker 6>That's the first emotion. But when it festers, when it

0:53:08.640 --> 0:53:11.840
<v Speaker 6>seems unseen or unheard, that's when anger comes in.

0:53:12.000 --> 0:53:14.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I love that. And that's also that's.

0:53:14.000 --> 0:53:17.680
<v Speaker 1>Also communication, you know, using your communication skills.

0:53:17.719 --> 0:53:19.800
<v Speaker 3>It's hard to communicate those feelings sometimes.

0:53:19.840 --> 0:53:23.120
<v Speaker 6>Why is this so hard to communicate being vulnerable? But

0:53:23.239 --> 0:53:26.919
<v Speaker 6>we can communicate the anger, right, that's true.

0:53:27.000 --> 0:53:29.920
<v Speaker 3>We all working on that. We work in progress. Yes, indeed,

0:53:29.960 --> 0:53:31.799
<v Speaker 3>I know. I am all right. We got another question

0:53:32.080 --> 0:53:33.040
<v Speaker 3>two minutes left. Y'all.

0:53:33.280 --> 0:53:36.360
<v Speaker 1>Hi, my name is Leah. I live in Orlando. I

0:53:36.440 --> 0:53:38.919
<v Speaker 1>have a podcast called Adoptees Crossing Lines. I'm a black

0:53:39.120 --> 0:53:41.440
<v Speaker 1>adoptee and I host it with two other black adoptees,

0:53:41.840 --> 0:53:43.279
<v Speaker 1>and we're pretty vulnerable on our show.

0:53:43.320 --> 0:53:44.480
<v Speaker 3>My question is for you, Michelle.

0:53:44.760 --> 0:53:47.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering how you take care of yourself when you're,

0:53:48.040 --> 0:53:50.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, talking about all these different things constantly and

0:53:51.120 --> 0:53:53.400
<v Speaker 1>just sharing your life, sharing your story. How do you

0:53:53.520 --> 0:53:56.480
<v Speaker 1>take care of yourself afterwards or in between shows?

0:53:57.520 --> 0:53:59.960
<v Speaker 6>In between shows depending on the topic. If it's something

0:54:00.120 --> 0:54:02.839
<v Speaker 6>I know I've already walked through and I've healed from,

0:54:03.600 --> 0:54:08.080
<v Speaker 6>I can go eat a bag of chips afterwards. But

0:54:08.280 --> 0:54:11.239
<v Speaker 6>when it's something that seems still a little fresh, there

0:54:11.239 --> 0:54:14.080
<v Speaker 6>are little things that can calm the nervous system down.

0:54:14.440 --> 0:54:18.920
<v Speaker 6>You gotta take a walk, go let some water, sit

0:54:19.000 --> 0:54:21.320
<v Speaker 6>in the pool if you can. But just taking a

0:54:21.400 --> 0:54:24.719
<v Speaker 6>walk and getting away and separating yourself from the situation

0:54:25.040 --> 0:54:28.520
<v Speaker 6>or the topic is really the best thing. Because us,

0:54:28.600 --> 0:54:32.400
<v Speaker 6>when we host podcasts, we have to research some heavy,

0:54:32.920 --> 0:54:36.440
<v Speaker 6>heavy stuff, or you could be walking through something heavy,

0:54:36.640 --> 0:54:40.200
<v Speaker 6>but you still gotta host a guest and beat upbeat.

0:54:40.440 --> 0:54:40.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:54:40.840 --> 0:54:43.800
<v Speaker 2>I also say take a drive when we do reasonably shady,

0:54:44.239 --> 0:54:46.359
<v Speaker 2>I do it at Robin. We do it at Robin's house,

0:54:47.000 --> 0:54:49.359
<v Speaker 2>and I have to drive. Maybe it's about thirty five

0:54:49.360 --> 0:54:54.080
<v Speaker 2>minutes away. So that drive home, I like decompress and

0:54:54.360 --> 0:54:57.200
<v Speaker 2>get my mind right because when I hit the door

0:54:57.280 --> 0:54:59.640
<v Speaker 2>with my kids, I gotta be I gotta be ready

0:54:59.680 --> 0:54:59.880
<v Speaker 2>for that.

0:55:00.440 --> 0:55:02.680
<v Speaker 3>Right for sure. Okay, we have time about one more questions.

0:55:06.719 --> 0:55:08.320
<v Speaker 3>Let's get a learning question.

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<v Speaker 6>Y'all, God bless you, Oh yes, it's God.

0:55:12.480 --> 0:55:14.440
<v Speaker 7>I just want to say, each one of you ladies

0:55:14.480 --> 0:55:18.480
<v Speaker 7>look like full rid scholarships to IVY League. HBCUs. Keep

0:55:18.560 --> 0:55:21.359
<v Speaker 7>these ladies around the applause but looking so goddamn good.

0:55:21.560 --> 0:55:24.200
<v Speaker 7>Thank you, And to end the questions, I just want

0:55:24.200 --> 0:55:26.680
<v Speaker 7>to know is it reasonable or shady? It's Sunday, right,

0:55:27.640 --> 0:55:30.120
<v Speaker 7>so I just want to know from Michelle when Jesus

0:55:30.200 --> 0:55:30.480
<v Speaker 7>say what.

0:55:30.680 --> 0:55:32.040
<v Speaker 3>I just want how to sing the reply.

0:55:32.760 --> 0:55:34.680
<v Speaker 7>When Jesus say what, nobody can't say what?

0:55:35.480 --> 0:55:35.799
<v Speaker 3>I mean?

0:55:35.880 --> 0:55:40.400
<v Speaker 6>They paid me to top d Come on, but it's Michelle,

0:55:40.560 --> 0:55:41.200
<v Speaker 6>what y okay?

0:55:41.719 --> 0:55:42.399
<v Speaker 3>Kip my question?

0:55:42.480 --> 0:55:42.600
<v Speaker 7>Man?

0:55:42.680 --> 0:55:43.359
<v Speaker 3>All right? All right?

0:55:43.440 --> 0:55:46.200
<v Speaker 6>When Jesus say yes, nobody can't say no.

0:55:46.400 --> 0:55:52.440
<v Speaker 3>When Jesus nobody saying no, all right, bye, love you.

0:55:53.160 --> 0:55:56.320
<v Speaker 3>I want to try to ask nobody can say no?

0:55:57.160 --> 0:55:59.279
<v Speaker 3>Just say nobody can say no.

0:56:00.239 --> 0:56:02.959
<v Speaker 6>Giselle will be leaving praise and worship at new Birth

0:56:03.040 --> 0:56:04.239
<v Speaker 6>tomorrow morning.

0:56:06.080 --> 0:56:07.200
<v Speaker 3>And give it up for the right.

0:56:07.239 --> 0:56:09.640
<v Speaker 6>Reverend Jamal Brain is in the bell day.

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<v Speaker 1>Are y'all.

0:56:13.200 --> 0:56:15.520
<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much for having us. Thank y'all for

0:56:15.600 --> 0:56:18.160
<v Speaker 2>being a part of our show. It is Reasonably Shady.

0:56:18.719 --> 0:56:24.080
<v Speaker 3>Check it in. Oh my gosh, I hope y'all enjoyed it.

0:56:24.160 --> 0:56:25.080
<v Speaker 3>We'll see you next time.

0:56:25.160 --> 0:56:28.560
<v Speaker 1>Yes, the podcast festival was so fun. Black effected did

0:56:28.600 --> 0:56:30.680
<v Speaker 1>their thing. We can't wait till the next one.

0:56:31.080 --> 0:56:33.480
<v Speaker 2>We're actually on vacation. We just were coming in and say, Hi,

0:56:34.360 --> 0:56:35.400
<v Speaker 2>see how y'all doing.

0:56:35.920 --> 0:56:38.080
<v Speaker 3>Letting y'all know. It's the summer time and it's time

0:56:38.160 --> 0:56:39.280
<v Speaker 3>to be outside.

0:56:39.719 --> 0:56:42.239
<v Speaker 1>Yes, y'all be safe and enjoy your summer. Every time

0:56:42.280 --> 0:56:43.960
<v Speaker 1>summer comes, I'm like, I'm going to be out all

0:56:44.000 --> 0:56:46.120
<v Speaker 1>the time, right, and then the summer ends and I'm like,

0:56:46.719 --> 0:56:47.720
<v Speaker 1>damn it, you're.

0:56:47.600 --> 0:56:50.960
<v Speaker 3>Out one day. Yeah, So don't be like me, y'all Okay,

0:56:51.719 --> 0:56:54.560
<v Speaker 3>and don't forget to live your life either. Reasonable shape Dude.

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