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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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Speaker 1: podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.

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Speaker 1: Okay, y'all, she impatient.

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Speaker 3: I was not ready. I didn't know you didn't. I

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Speaker 3: don't even have my headphones on. Oopsie. Anyway, what's up?

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 1: What up?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So listen, it's summertime. We are all in the summertime,

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Speaker 2: and it's like snuck up on me. I know, like

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Speaker 2: we're in it, I know, you know what.

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Speaker 1: Like here in Maryland, I feel like this is the

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Speaker 1: first time I can remember it in a really, really

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Speaker 1: long time that we've actually had that we've actually been

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Speaker 1: able to enjoy the weather and the transition of the weather,

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Speaker 1: because really, yes, normally it goes from like super cold, rainy,

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Speaker 1: super cold, to super humid, true true, But we literally

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Speaker 1: have been able to enjoy nice mild spring weather, beautiful days,

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Speaker 1: not a ton of rain, and then it has gradually

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Speaker 1: just gotten warmer and warmer like this. This is honestly

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Speaker 1: the but and our winter was super mild. We didn't

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Speaker 1: have any snow, which kind of sucks because I like

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Speaker 1: a snow day. I like three snow days. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: for sure, we didn't have any of those. But whatever,

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Speaker 1: But this weather this year has been amazing.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Do you have when it's when it's nice like this

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Speaker 2: and it's truly the summertime? Do you have like a

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Speaker 2: song playing in your head constantly?

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Speaker 3: Some of them? Yes, this one? We like Will Smith? Yes, yes,

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Speaker 3: I mean he's done. Do we like him again? I

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Speaker 3: mean we're we're over it. We have forgiven him.

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Speaker 2: Okay, because Chris Chris Rock made his money off of

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Speaker 2: the whole thing. Okay, so will we kind of like

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Speaker 2: you again? But yes, I have summertime like running through

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Speaker 2: my head. Yes, And do you know what's been on

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Speaker 2: TV lately?

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Speaker 3: Hatch? Have you seen that movie?

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Speaker 2: Hatch is an old movie that he did. There we go, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I haven't seen Hatch.

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Speaker 3: I haven't seen Hitch. And when I said Hatch, I

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Speaker 3: said it with like authority. I was like, Hatch, No,

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Speaker 3: it's Hitch. Hitch was a good movie. Hitch was great. Yes, Yes,

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Speaker 3: that was a great movie. I think he was dating Eva, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you think I think something went dad. Was he married

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Speaker 3: at the time, Yeah, they've been married forever.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's true. Okay, I don't want Jada coming after me.

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Speaker 2: Nothing happened between will and Yes, but she is so pretty.

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Speaker 3: She's so pretty.

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Speaker 1: But she like literally got married and it just disappeared.

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Speaker 1: And yes, like I'm I'm happy living my married life. Listen,

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Speaker 1: I saw her on Ryan Gosling, Right, did you see

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Speaker 1: her on the View? No, she has she she hasn't

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Speaker 1: been around or any on anything in a long time.

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Speaker 3: So she's on the View.

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Speaker 2: So I'm all excited. And she was like selling clothes. No,

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Speaker 2: a sponge, I promise you she's selling a sponge. What

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Speaker 2: like it was like some anti bacterial sponge and it

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Speaker 2: lets you know when you're just supposed to throw it away,

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Speaker 2: lets you know, and it has like too much bacteria

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Speaker 2: on it.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, throw it away.

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Speaker 2: Really, I don't need for any I don't need a

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Speaker 2: sponge to tell me that, I know, like throw that

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Speaker 2: ship away like week one, it's out of here.

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Speaker 1: That's weird. But yes, I feel like she's trying to

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Speaker 1: go the Jessica Alba route because like we haven't really

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Speaker 1: seen a lot from her, but she has her whole

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Speaker 1: honest you know brand line or whatever that has made

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Speaker 1: made her billionaire. Bookoo money same thing with Jessica Simpson.

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Speaker 1: Jessica Simpson has made bookou money and she hasn't sang

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so does our name have to be Jessica or Jennifer?

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Speaker 2: Oh no, Eva, I don't know where I got that from.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying really strange things right now. They all got

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Speaker 2: to look alike.

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Speaker 3: No, they don't take this microphone from her? But is

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Speaker 3: is Jessica Alba? Is she really honest?

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Speaker 2: What is she.

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Speaker 3: Her? No?

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Speaker 2: Wasn't there some when when there's some pushback or when

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Speaker 2: she you know, when I started having children. I think

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Speaker 2: when she came out with this whole honest line, and

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Speaker 2: I think that the selling point was like it could

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Speaker 2: be shipped to your house in like five seconds or something.

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Speaker 3: What really making this up?

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Speaker 1: I thought the whole thing was like it was like

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Speaker 1: non toxic, Like that was this she her? She got

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Speaker 1: on like the non toxic phase.

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Speaker 3: That's it product. Yes, yeah, Okay, so I think I'm

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Speaker 3: making up the other party because you're not. I'm on

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Speaker 3: a roll.

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Speaker 2: No, because let's talk about Okay, let me tell you

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Speaker 2: really what this happened. Okay, I had children blah blah blah.

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Speaker 2: And then all of a sudden, the the mail services, Walmart, Target,

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Speaker 2: all of them started like shipping ship to your house

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Speaker 2: the same day.

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Speaker 3: So so it helped mothers. Okay, when you.

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Speaker 1: Had kids, Really, I don't after me right after me.

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like I experienced that. I still had

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Speaker 1: to like leave my house. Okay, it was after you too.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but can we talk about Target because I'm mad

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Speaker 3: at them? Oh yeah, sure, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Somewhere along the lines of Memorial Day, this is we're

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Speaker 2: passing Memorial Dad. At this point, they had the LBGT

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Speaker 2: like rainbow display collection collection. I see a man on

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Speaker 2: this some video he pulls Okay, it's a collection of

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Speaker 2: like clothes and all that kind of stuff, but it

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Speaker 2: was a rainbow that was part of the display. He

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Speaker 2: pulls down the rainbow, he throws on the ground. This

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Speaker 2: is in Target, and he stomps on it. What So

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Speaker 2: people were doing stuff like that.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: And then instead of Target saying, hey, guys, y'all are

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Speaker 2: banned from Target, they were like, we're taking the shit

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Speaker 2: and put it in the store.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they pulled they I thought, they like completely took

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Speaker 2: Well after people started well, first they relocated it to

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Speaker 2: the back of the store, which was disgusting, and then

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Speaker 2: don't know how to act. So we're just we're rewarding

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Speaker 2: people when they don't when they act bad?

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Speaker 3: Is that what we do? This? This country is so

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Speaker 3: jacked up. It's insane. We are so jacked up.

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Speaker 2: I mean, like, and how is it that an LBGT

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Speaker 3: How would that harm someone?

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Speaker 1: Is forcing or or causing someone to have that type

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Speaker 3: There's there's it's not for you. Keep walking, keep walking?

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Speaker 2: And but not only that, Like, how how does that

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Speaker 2: Let's say I bought a rainbow shirt and put it on?

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Speaker 3: How does that hurt you? How does that bother you?

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Speaker 3: Why does it bother you?

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Speaker 2: Why?

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Speaker 3: I don't even understand it? Yeah, like, what is the

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Speaker 2: It makes no sense. People are stupid. But you know,

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Speaker 2: who was I'm not gonna say what the person looked like?

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Speaker 3: Who was?

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Speaker 2: It was very okay, fine, it was a trumper that

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Speaker 2: because he had on a red hat. No he did not,

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Speaker 2: but in my mind, he had on a red hat

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Speaker 2: and it just gave me PTSD, but literally took the

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Speaker 1: So there's a video of that, yes, Because I mean

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Speaker 1: I just like read the stories where said they took

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Speaker 1: the display down. I didn't know there was actual video

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Speaker 1: of this.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 3: Wow, I don't even understand it.

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Speaker 1: These people have lost their minds, ye'aple have lost their

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Speaker 1: said marbles.

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Speaker 3: I don't understand what upsets people.

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Speaker 2: DeSantis were coming for you because you a whole another

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Speaker 3: He the whole listen. Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 2: I didn't realize this was like such a big thing

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Speaker 2: until like recently I started reading about it, about him

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Speaker 2: talking about the whole drag queen shows we can't have

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Speaker 2: Can I tell y'all about four years ago, because you

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Speaker 2: know drag queen shows a lot of times sometimes they're brunches.

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Speaker 2: I took my kids to a brunch. It was a

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Speaker 2: regular brunch. I didn't know it was a drag bar.

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Speaker 2: But like in the middle of like our appetizers, the

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Speaker 2: and I was like, holy shit.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't prepared.

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Speaker 2: But my kids were like not affected, right, they were

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Speaker 3: They didn't they didn't turn into drag queens.

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Speaker 2: They turn into drag queens the next day. They were

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Speaker 3: The entertained.

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Speaker 2: They were like trying to figure out how to do

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Speaker 2: front of us. Because I was like, Grace, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: To do split, you know, Santa, these people are insane.

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Speaker 1: It's really it's really sad that, you know, I feel

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Speaker 1: like our country we've come a long way, of course,

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Speaker 1: because there's a lot more acceptance, a lot more education

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Speaker 1: just of people of different races, sexual orientations, religions, all

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Speaker 1: of that. But then you still have a strong number

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Speaker 1: of people that are resistant to that, and ye are

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Speaker 1: full of hate and they're gonna they feel that they

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Speaker 1: just maybe are being outnumbered or or diminishing or something,

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Speaker 1: and they're trying to hold on to their power, and it's.

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Speaker 2: Just, well, we got to do better, we have to

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Speaker 2: do better. Yeah, because when you do better, well, when

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Speaker 2: you know better, supposedly you do better. But these people

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Speaker 2: know better.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think that they're do they They probably

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Speaker 1: don't because that's what they've been taught. That's what they

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Speaker 1: learned from them, their mama, their hateful mama and daddy,

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Speaker 1: but then their grandparents, and that's what they're being taught,

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Speaker 1: and that's what's being handed.

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Speaker 3: They don't.

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Speaker 1: They don't know better.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but the tells DeSantis yea of the world, he

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Speaker 2: should know the Trumpers of the world. Y'all try to

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Speaker 2: act like somebody in y'all family's not gay, right, You

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Speaker 2: want me to believe that, right, that's not believable, right,

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Speaker 2: So stop?

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Speaker 3: Wait?

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Speaker 1: Did you see Kelly and conways daughter is Yeah, why

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Speaker 1: is she doing porn or something?

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Speaker 3: Playboy? Playboy? You are lying.

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Speaker 2: No, my kids didn't tell me that because my kids

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Speaker 2: typically they were very much aware of everything that was

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Speaker 2: going on with her, because her and her mother would

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Speaker 2: have battles. Yeah, they would have like social media battles.

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Speaker 2: So my kids were like very much they would tell

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Speaker 2: me what's going on with it?

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Speaker 1: Okay, she has Claudia Karmway has shared a photo of

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Speaker 1: herself posing with her mother ahead of attending prom after

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Speaker 1: making her debut as an online Playboy model. What. The

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Speaker 1: eighteen year old launched a subscription page on playboy dot

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Speaker 1: Thank you once again for being here with us. We

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Speaker 2: Yes we do, and please enjoy the Black Effect podcast

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Speaker 2: fest of all.

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Speaker 1: Yes, here is a clip from our performance. We are

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Speaker 3: It was lots of fun.

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Speaker 4: Two podcasts coming to the stage are very special.

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Speaker 4: It's a privilege and the honor to be in business

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Speaker 5: And you may know the other two ladies from Bravo's

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Speaker 2: Welcome to reasonably Shady checking in. My name is Jiselle Brud,

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Speaker 2: I'm Robin Dixon.

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Speaker 6: My name is Michelle Williams.

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Speaker 3: What's up, Atlanta. It is so excited to be here.

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Speaker 2: This is the Black Effect Festival number one.

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Speaker 3: This is history and the making.

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Speaker 2: Nice to see everybody. Y'all give it up for yourself house.

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Speaker 2: Look at this. This house is packed. Yeah, it is packed.

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Speaker 6: So thank y'all so much for supporting the very very

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Speaker 1: We really appreciate it. Yes, so let me ask you all.

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Speaker 1: Are y'all into checking in with Michelle?

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Speaker 3: Of course? Thank you. Oh this is a reasonably shady.

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Speaker 1: This is like a marriage made in heaven because like

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Speaker 3: We'll see.

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Speaker 6: And now let's let's let's keep it all the way real.

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Speaker 6: A lot of us like to live with boundaries and

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Speaker 2: So that's me, I'm gonna telling me, and y'all are

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Speaker 2: First of all, we all know that Michelle is used

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Speaker 6: I am really excited to be with your beautiful, beautiful

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Speaker 2: Well, In typical reasonably shady fashion, we start off our

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Speaker 3: Who wants to go first? You go first, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay, guys, it's been a week. First and foremost.

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Speaker 2: That that's not Pastor Bryant, but he's he's on his

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Speaker 6: Don't you do it over here? I mean, I don't

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Speaker 3: I did you did? Oh my god? What I do?

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Speaker 6: It's in your ankles, right on your knees. Where's that?

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Speaker 6: But it's in your ankles, right, is that right? Don't

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Speaker 3: Do you approve ankle?

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Speaker 6: She said, that's not a twerk?

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Speaker 2: So that is the trk that my children do. I

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Speaker 6: The ankles, okay, ankles.

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Speaker 2: So what the ankle's gotta do with What the ankle's

446
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Speaker 2: gotta do with the torque? Okay, you're losing them up anyway.

447
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Speaker 1: Pray for my children because they have no rhythm and

448
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Speaker 1: you're blaming it on Michelle Williams. Okay, that's a good one. Okay,

449
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:37,800
Speaker 1: So y'all, I'm gonna keep mind really quick. So flying

450
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Speaker 1: down here yesterday, I'm on the plane. You know, you

451
00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:43,560
Speaker 1: put your phone in airplane mode and you're on your

452
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Speaker 1: phone browsing the internet, Instagram, whatever, and my phone rings.

453
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Speaker 3: I'm actually in thirty thousand feet in.

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Speaker 1: The air, and my phone rings, and it's it's a cousin,

455
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Speaker 1: And so I'm like, what do I do? Let me

456
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Speaker 1: answer the answer the phone in cases in important. So

457
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Speaker 1: I literally answered the phone while the flight attendant is

458
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Speaker 1: serving drinks right in front of me, and she turned

459
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Speaker 1: to me and was like, I know you ain't just

460
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Speaker 1: answered the phone. We thirty thousand feet in the air.

461
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Speaker 1: I was like, oh shit, let me hang out because

462
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Speaker 1: I did not want to be like that man yelling

463
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Speaker 1: about a baby, yelling and.

464
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Speaker 2: Screaming and crying about a baby crying. I said, okay,

465
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Speaker 2: let me hang up really quickly. Yes, but I was

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Speaker 2: the shady one for answering an actual phone call on

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Speaker 2: the airplane.

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Speaker 3: I was just so shocked that it came through. But

469
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Speaker 3: was it worth it?

470
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Speaker 2: Was it?

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Speaker 1: Whatever, your cousin, It wasn't worth it. It wasn't worth it.

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Speaker 1: And thank god they didn't land the plane and kick

473
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Speaker 1: me off. And I said, let me hurry up and

474
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Speaker 1: get off this phone. But the fact, and I was

475
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Speaker 1: traveling with my husband and he was like, I can't

476
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Speaker 1: believe you answered the phone in front of the flight attendant.

477
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Speaker 3: Like who does that?

478
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Speaker 2: So I was the shady one answering the phone in

479
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Speaker 2: front of a flight attendant.

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Speaker 3: Michelle, you have a shady moment.

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Speaker 6: I'm trying to think of a shady moment. I kind

482
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Speaker 6: of live a boring life, believe it or not, really

483
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Speaker 6: nothing to report in my neck of the woods.

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Speaker 1: Come back to So, okay, if you don't have a

485
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Speaker 1: shady moment, since you are, you know you all about

486
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 1: mental health and checking in. Do you have something to

487
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Speaker 1: share just to help people mentally ground themselves or mental health.

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Speaker 6: So if I could ask, I know we are recording

489
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Speaker 6: and we wanted just to teach quieter so that people

490
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Speaker 6: who are actually listening to us up here can hear us.

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Speaker 6: And someone asked me, how do you know when you

492
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Speaker 6: are honoring your boundaries? Does anybody know what boundaries are?

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Speaker 3: All right?

494
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Speaker 6: So boundaries could be like literally a demarcation in the

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Speaker 6: sand where you do not cross this line. And literally

496
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Speaker 6: on my page this week, someone said, how do you

497
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Speaker 6: know that you've honored your boundaries? So I said, imagine

498
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Speaker 6: you say, I'm gonna go to the family reunion this year,

499
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Speaker 6: But if ain't he so and so say something a

500
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Speaker 6: little shady, I'm out. That's the boundary that you've made,

501
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Speaker 6: because ain't he so and so? Or uncle so and

502
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Speaker 6: so always finds a way to be disrespectful because maybe

503
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Speaker 6: you've upped your game in life, You've improved in areas

504
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Speaker 6: of your life, and they haven't. So you know the

505
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Speaker 6: saying when people in your family say you changed, right, well,

506
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Speaker 6: just say I have. I've changed. You haven't. And that's

507
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Speaker 6: where the problem is. It's with you and now with me.

508
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Speaker 6: Now the boundary is, how do you know you've honored

509
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,680
Speaker 6: your boundary is when you literally do what you said

510
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Speaker 6: you were gonna do. You don't go back and forth

511
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Speaker 6: with the person. Does anybody know what okay means? I've

512
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Speaker 6: mastered the ministry of.

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Speaker 3: Okay, right, okay, okay, and you leave.

514
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Speaker 6: That's how you know you are honoring your boundaries.

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Speaker 3: That's yes.

516
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Speaker 2: But actually Robin and I actually practiced that on a

517
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Speaker 2: show call The Real Housewives of Potomac.

518
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Speaker 3: Yes, indeed, we just sit there.

519
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 2: We sit there and say, okay, okay, okay, look, I'm

520
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 2: gonna give y'all a little a little team we are, well,

521
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 2: we might be doing a little something right now, and

522
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Speaker 2: I have to ask her to honor my boundaries. But

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Speaker 2: that is something when you are real friends that you

524
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Speaker 2: can do and you don't have to fall out, you

525
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:24,119
Speaker 2: don't have to argue. But at some point you can

526
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 2: say to your friends, no, yeah, that's enough, we're good.

527
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Speaker 3: And we're moving on. So you'll see that.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, all right, well we are gonna move on

529
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Speaker 2: because it is now time for our reasonably shady Oh no, no,

530
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Speaker 2: it's our hot topics that it is now time for

531
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Speaker 2: our recent topics. It is now time for our Robin

532
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Speaker 2: always gets me together. Okay, it is time for our

533
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Speaker 2: hot topics. Okay, before we get into it, I want

534
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Speaker 2: to tell the crowd to it.

535
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Speaker 3: She into it.

536
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Speaker 1: Before we get into it, I'd want to let y'all

537
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Speaker 1: know that we're going to be allowing people to ask

538
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Speaker 1: questions at the end of this show. So if you

539
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Speaker 1: have a question, keep you know, think of something, and

540
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Speaker 1: when we get to that at the end, just raise

541
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Speaker 1: your hand.

542
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Speaker 3: So I just want to prepare y'all for that. Yep.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So right off the bat, we gotta check in

544
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Speaker 2: with y'all. I'm looking at the crowd. I'm seeing the

545
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Speaker 2: age range. Who is concerned about Hulu and the new

546
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 2: Freaknick documentary.

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Speaker 1: Who's gonna be on it? How many are gonna be

548
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Speaker 1: on the Freaknick documentary?

549
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Speaker 3: Raise your hand if you're gonna be on If you're nervous?

550
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Speaker 3: How many of you raise your hands?

551
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Speaker 6: If you're gonna be nervous that you might be in

552
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Speaker 6: the Freaknik documentary?

553
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Speaker 1: Are you? Are you nervous that you're gonna see your

554
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Speaker 1: mother on the freak Nick documentary?

555
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Speaker 3: On your Auntiam who was conceived.

556
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Speaker 1: Possibly during that moment, he is jumping up and down.

557
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Speaker 1: He said, I know, yes, he is froning center on

558
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Speaker 1: the Freaknick documentary.

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Speaker 2: So I mean, it's it's it's it's funny when we

560
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:13,439
Speaker 2: get together and we we're on one accord. We are

561
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Speaker 2: on one accord that we want Freaknick documentary shut down.

562
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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, are you gonna be on there? You

563
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Speaker 2: think you're gonna be on there? That might be in

564
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Speaker 2: a documentary wants shut down. Jaseelle wantsn't shut down.

565
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Speaker 3: I want to see it because we desist right now.

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Speaker 1: I want to see it. I'm at my popcorn watch

567
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Speaker 1: and see who I see because I think what year

568
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 1: didn't stop?

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Speaker 2: I don't know what year stopped, But there was a

570
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Speaker 2: freak Nick Philly. There's a freak Nick in Atlanta. There's

571
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Speaker 2: a freak Nick. But the Atlanta one is like, yes,

572
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Speaker 2: the top tier one, that's the one. This was before

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Speaker 2: such a problem holder than you, just before your time.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I was in I graduated high school in

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Speaker 6: ninety seven, so could I have been a part?

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Speaker 3: So we're like the same. I didn't go to Freak Nick.

577
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Speaker 6: I was at vacation Bible School, so.

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Speaker 3: I might have been there.

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Speaker 1: I think Miami turns into the new Freaknick. So I say,

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Speaker 1: we're going to see Jazi. Everybody keep your eyes open

581
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Speaker 1: for Jisel in the new freaking in the.

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Speaker 3: New and she has not changed.

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Speaker 2: She's gonna look she looks the same, so she can't

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Speaker 2: And I wasn't doing anything that I don't do on

585
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Speaker 2: the Real Housewives of Potomac.

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Speaker 3: There we go that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, We're very excited about Damar Hamlin.

588
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Speaker 3: Yes, he is now reinstated.

589
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Speaker 1: Is even so Damar Hamlin has been clear to play

590
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Speaker 1: football again, to start working out, and that is such

591
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Speaker 1: a blessing that he has come through that. But I

592
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Speaker 1: know there are people who feel there are contradicting like

593
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Speaker 1: feelings about it. Some people are excited for him, but

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Speaker 1: some people just think he should not be long. She

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Speaker 1: should not be on a football field again.

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Speaker 3: Oh I didn't know that. Yeah.

597
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Speaker 2: Oh so some some of you guys feel that he

598
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Speaker 2: shouldn't play ever again because he might get hurt.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think they think he went through a

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Speaker 1: very traumatic experience and you know, like who knows if

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Speaker 1: his body is ready to take on that that physicality

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Speaker 1: of the game of football, right, I.

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Speaker 6: Mean, he's medically cleared, which we know will will be okay,

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Speaker 6: which is fine. Did they find the root cause of

605
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Speaker 6: what of what happened to me in the first place.

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Speaker 6: But someone like DeMar Hamlin is probably feeling like he's

607
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Speaker 6: too young yet to sit on the sideline, So he's

608
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Speaker 6: gonna take the risk to do something where he's worked

609
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Speaker 6: years and years to get to that point to be

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Speaker 6: on the NFL field.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I know the incident was like a

612
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Speaker 1: fluke incident. They say it was like the hit hit

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Speaker 1: his chest at the same time of like a certain

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Speaker 1: I don't know, cardiac rhythmic whatever, I don't know the terminology,

615
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Speaker 1: but it was like a very small chance that that

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Speaker 1: would happen to.

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Speaker 3: Me if it was your son.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, ladies, man, if it was your son, yes, would

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Speaker 6: you want him to play again?

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Speaker 2: And Robin has two sons that are of football playing age,

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Speaker 2: how do you feel?

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Speaker 1: So, I know, an athlete like Damar Hamlin, he this

623
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Speaker 1: is what he loves, this is what he knows, this

624
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Speaker 1: is his life, and so to take that game away

625
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Speaker 1: from him like that is probably more damaging to his

626
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Speaker 1: mental health than to his physical health. And so for me,

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Speaker 1: if that's something that he knows and loves, that's what he.

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Speaker 3: Eats and breathes and lives.

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Speaker 1: And he's been medically clear to play, then I want

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Speaker 1: him to do that as long as the doctors around

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Speaker 1: him say that he can do it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, And how does Wan feel about this? The same way? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Walk?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, we love one. But we're really happy Wan

635
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Speaker 3: Dixon is not here right now? Is that the same?

636
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,719
Speaker 3: It might be here, y'all, it might be here.

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Speaker 2: He yes, we absolutely love one. Now, how many of

638
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Speaker 2: y'all on the Twitter? Are y'all on Twitter?

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Speaker 3: Of course?

640
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Speaker 2: Now y'all gonna pay for y'all blue check? Who paid

641
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Speaker 2: for a blue paid for a blue check? It's only

642
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 2: eleven dollars a month, y'all. You paid for yours?

643
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Speaker 3: You did? She paid for? Who else paid for a

644
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 3: blue check? Okay?

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Speaker 6: Now now, but I think the new verified is not

646
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Speaker 6: to be verified. Everybody's gonna PuO a point those of

647
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Speaker 6: us who were verified. My blue check was taken away

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Speaker 6: minus like, well all right, well right.

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Speaker 1: Well, I just so I did a little research because

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Speaker 1: I don't go on Twitter, but I went on Twitter

651
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Speaker 1: and I saw that my blue check is gone. Yes,

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Speaker 1: so I just deactivated my account. I'm like, I don't

653
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Speaker 1: need any but can I go on there?

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Speaker 6: But can someone do a new account in your name

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Speaker 6: and likeness?

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Speaker 3: Sure?

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Speaker 1: I mean, at this point, if you're gonna be paying

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Speaker 1: for blue if people can pay for blue checks, they

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Speaker 1: can do whatever.

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Speaker 3: Well, so I deactivated my account. I did see that.

661
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Speaker 2: At first the blue check costs like one hundred and

662
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Speaker 2: twenty two dollars a year, and then it went on

663
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Speaker 2: sale because nobody's buying it, it's like one hundred and fourteen,

664
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Speaker 2: So it's now one fourteen or wait until it goes

665
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Speaker 2: down to zero.

666
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:07,959
Speaker 1: So wait, I'm gonna tell you there was somebody did

667
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Speaker 1: a little research on who from the real house as

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Speaker 1: a Potomac has a blue check?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Oh, who paid for that blue check? Y'all? Who

670
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 3: do y'all think paid for that blue check? Can't? She said? Karen?

671
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 1: Who? Karen?

672
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 3: Who else? Candace? Who else? So I'm gonna tell you

673
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 3: Mia and Karen have blue checks, y'all.

674
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 1: They paid there one hundred and fourteen dollars to make

675
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 1: sure that they were verified.

676
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 6: Oh, it's fourteen dollars a month.

677
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 1: No, no, no, it's eleven dollars a month and one

678
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: hundred and fourteen dollars a year, So you can either

679
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 1: pay for the year or you could pay eleven dollars

680
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 1: a month.

681
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:51,960
Speaker 3: I paid zero and I deactivated my account.

682
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 2: And I'm waiting for it to go down to zero. Now,

683
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 2: who is voting for Afroman in the next election? Do

684
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 2: y'all know who afromans?

685
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 3: Y'all do? Okay?

686
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: Who?

687
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 3: Business? I got high? Both Afroman? Okay? I need we

688
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 3: need more information about Afroman.

689
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 1: So Afroman is running for president in the twenty twenty

690
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: four election as an independent, and he has proclaimed himself

691
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 1: to be the next cannabis Commander in chief can't yes?

692
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 3: And the pothead of States? Yes, now now for all

693
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 3: of y'all.

694
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 1: Clearly, his platform is about legalizing marijuana everywhere but already legal.

695
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 1: So who is voting for Afroman? Just based on at

696
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 1: a large it's okay? Okay, Afroman has some momentum.

697
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 3: Okay?

698
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 6: Are you still recovering from four twenty?

699
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 3: Dogs is running? Mate, She's still she's celebrating four twenty.

700
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 6: She's still recovering from four twenty.

701
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 3: Every day is four twenty. Every day, it's every day

702
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 3: it's four twenty. Do y'all agree with that? I think

703
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 3: that I think we should give afro man a shot.

704
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 2: We should allow him to to go and do all

705
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 2: the debate a campaign and listen and see if he

706
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:14,839
Speaker 2: talks about anything other than we But what all right?

707
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:19,400
Speaker 1: But what does a United States of America led by

708
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 1: President Afroman look like?

709
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 7: Like?

710
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 2: We don't know, Robin, nobody will be able to see

711
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 2: we'll all being about.

712
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 1: No, we do know. Everybody'll be calm. Everyone's gonna relax.

713
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 6: They their body so everybody will remove the inflammation.

714
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 1: Okay, Yes, are we going to get anything done like

715
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 1: what happens when Russia comes to bomb us? Yes?

716
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 3: Are we going to be ready or are we going

717
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 3: to be a little delayed?

718
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 7: What?

719
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 3: What are we going to do? I don't know?

720
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 1: Okay, So so if you're not interested in voting for Afroman,

721
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 1: you can also for Robert F.

722
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 3: Kennedy Junior. He's running as well. So we got options, y'all.

723
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 2: Now, I know, Michelle, you had a hot topic about

724
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,959
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, it was so much going on. She's

725
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:20,280
Speaker 2: a dear heart to me, Chloe Bailey.

726
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 6: No, no, Chloe, She's gonna be a concert like literally

727
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,959
Speaker 6: tomorrow here in Atlanta. And there was so much talk

728
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 6: about everybody was mad or there was rumblings about people

729
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 6: mad at Beyonce for not supporting Chloe's album, and so

730
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 6: it's kind of too sordid here because Beyonce promoted it,

731
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 6: everybody would be like, that's unfair.

732
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 3: You got her.

733
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 6: Promoting, and then you feel like she didn't do enough.

734
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 6: She's on her label. That's enough promotion, that is enough support.

735
00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 6: So Chloe's been doing her thing. She's been doing her

736
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:03,840
Speaker 6: thing and every and as she said, she said, you know,

737
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 6: people know her music. She's on a sold out tour.

738
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 6: So I just had to throw that out there, like,

739
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 6: why was that such a big deal about who's who

740
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 6: was supporting who? I think it was just because it

741
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 6: was beyond of course, y'all.

742
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Speaker 3: Gonna leave alone, leave her alone, Let's see.

743
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 1: I got I gotta play the devil's advocate though, Oh Robin,

744
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 1: I mean, why why wouldn't she support her?

745
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 3: She didn't?

746
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 6: Who said she didn't support?

747
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:32,800
Speaker 3: Well? Right, so I did she do?

748
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 6: We know who said she did not support? She's very

749
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:41,240
Speaker 6: she's very involved in helping people creatively. Now Chloy can write,

750
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 6: she makes her own beats herself. Now, did she help

751
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 6: like kind of maybe finesse some things visually? Absolutely, but

752
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 6: does she need to be on her Instagram? No, No,

753
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,360
Speaker 6: because y'all would have something. Not y'all, because we're family.

754
00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 6: We cousins are the fun that ain't related to us

755
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:03,399
Speaker 6: in this room would have had something to say because

756
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 6: they didn't do it in here that And a part.

757
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 3: Of me feels like.

758
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 2: If she did continuously support and support and support, people

759
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 2: will then say Chloe is not where she is on

760
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 2: her own, and it would be all because Beyonce is

761
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 2: supporting and Beyonce is pushing. No, Chloe is where she

762
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 2: is on her own and we have to support that.

763
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:28,879
Speaker 2: And beyond, Beyonce is busy. She's raising her kids, She's

764
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 2: working on a world tour.

765
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 3: She is busy.

766
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 1: Okay, So why didn't y'all support? Why didn't y'all Why

767
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:36,359
Speaker 1: didn't y'all support the album.

768
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 3: She got?

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Speaker 6: She She says she watched the movie. She does have

770
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:48,280
Speaker 6: a sold out tour, and I think sometimes sometimes seeing

771
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:52,439
Speaker 6: stuff live in person helps a person say I gotta

772
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,439
Speaker 6: cop that album. So you're obviously a fan of hers.

773
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 6: If her tour is sold out, her very first one

774
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 6: is sold out. Boom saying you make more money on

775
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:04,359
Speaker 6: tours and merch than album sales anyway.

776
00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 3: Listen to that.

777
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, so the Twitter will feed the album and I

778
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:09,840
Speaker 1: guess we just didn't really know about it, and'st it

779
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 1: just fine?

780
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:13,880
Speaker 6: She's gonna be just fine. Every artist doesn't go platinum

781
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:15,919
Speaker 6: their first album out.

782
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 3: She's going to be just fine, right, And as I

783
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:19,800
Speaker 3: think about it, Beyonce doesn't.

784
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Speaker 1: She doesn't promote anybody else on her on her platforms,

785
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, most of her pages just

786
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 1: her beautiful, artistic looking fashion pictures, and so it would

787
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 1: be out of her. It wouldn't be something that she

788
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 1: ordinarily does. And so I think for her it's probably

789
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,400
Speaker 1: all or nothing. It's probably like I'm not going to

790
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 1: promote anything so that individuals can't be upset that I didn't. Yes,

791
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 1: you know, it's not like she promoted her individually and

792
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 1: solo wise.

793
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 6: Destiny's Child put in the work. There was no there

794
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 6: was nobody really indoors seeing and putting us on Destiny's

795
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:03,320
Speaker 6: Child word for everything, which I think equates to the

796
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 6: to the longevity of the group and us being able

797
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,800
Speaker 6: to me being able to be up here solo wise

798
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 6: with y'all so hard work does that. Yes, he's gonna

799
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 6: She's gonna be foul. Hard work keeps us here absolutely

800
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 6: all right, we.

801
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 2: Gotta be up to our next segment. Is it reasonable

802
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 2: or is it shade? If anybody out here has a

803
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 2: reasonably shady situation that they want to discuss, start thinking

804
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 2: about it, and if we have time, we'll do it.

805
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 1: Sorry, but first, so, if there's something you want us

806
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 1: to weigh in on, like say you have an argument

807
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 1: between you and your mom, or your you know, your neighbors,

808
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 1: or something you want to get our opinions, think about

809
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 1: it and raise your hand when we give you the

810
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 1: opportunity to raise your hand.

811
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Speaker 3: So this is Asia.

812
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:02,400
Speaker 2: Asia is a faithful Hey girl, faithful reasonably shakester.

813
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:06,120
Speaker 3: Yes, Yes, Asia, Where are you from? Asia? I'm from Connecticut.

814
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:10,399
Speaker 1: So Asia lives in Connecticut. She came to our live

815
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:12,959
Speaker 1: show in New York. I traveled alone, and she tried

816
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 1: us to Atlanta to be here for us. So she is.

817
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:17,960
Speaker 3: Give it up for Asia.

818
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:21,400
Speaker 1: We appreciate her so much she and she's been a

819
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 1: faithful listener and supporter of the podcast. So Asia has

820
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:27,240
Speaker 1: a reasonable or is this reasonable.

821
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 3: Or shady scenario to ask us. Yeah, and y'all got

822
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 3: away in So y'all listen.

823
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So I was in a breakroom and my coworker,

824
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:38,400
Speaker 2: she was like complaining. She's like, I have kids, eggs

825
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 2: are expensive. So I'm I'm agreeing with her. I'm like, yeah,

826
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Speaker 2: it is, you know, gas is out of control, of

827
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 2: rents out of control. She turns to me and goes,

828
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Speaker 2: you don't have any kids and you still live at home,

829
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 2: so what are you complaining about. I'm like, I have

830
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 2: a cardinal, I have car insurance. Everything else being a

831
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:58,840
Speaker 2: girl's just expensive. So is that reasonable or is it shady?

832
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:00,279
Speaker 3: Okay, so did y'all hear what she said?

833
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 2: She's saying she was talking to her girlfriend no co

834
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 2: world over, talking to her worker, and she was talking

835
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 2: about how expensive things are out here in these streets.

836
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 2: And her coworker was like, but you live with your mama,

837
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 2: you don't have kids, and you don't have no kids

838
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 2: and what else she said?

839
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:24,279
Speaker 3: And that was it? And is that reasonable or is

840
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 3: that shady?

841
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 1: Reasonable? So, if you all right, raise your hand if

842
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 1: you think that's a reasonable statement for her.

843
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:36,399
Speaker 6: To make, because she feels like you got extra money

844
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:40,280
Speaker 6: laying around because you don't have kids, so she didn't book.

845
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 1: Now, raise your hand if that's a shady statement for

846
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 1: her coworking.

847
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:48,440
Speaker 3: Now, okay, that is yes, so all the way live shady.

848
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: I agree, right, that is all the way shady because

849
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:56,760
Speaker 1: nobody should be counting anybody's coins, their coins, their bills,

850
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:57,719
Speaker 1: their scenario.

851
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:00,120
Speaker 3: They don't know. Asia could be trying to say, gave

852
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 3: up for a house.

853
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 1: She could be she could be planning for children, and

854
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 1: so she's feeling the same effects that we're all a

855
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 1: feeling feeling in relation to how.

856
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:14,440
Speaker 6: Or she's saving up. Because Netflix keep going up, everybody

857
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:17,800
Speaker 6: keep going up in their prices, so you keep your coins, yes.

858
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 1: Period, Right, So don't much, don't let her make you

859
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 1: feel like, don't let her minimize your issues or what

860
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 1: you're going through because you don't have children, or because

861
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,759
Speaker 1: you live at home with yourself. You know everything that

862
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:34,440
Speaker 1: you go through matters, and just because it may not

863
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 1: seem as big to somebody else, that doesn't mean it

864
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:37,360
Speaker 1: doesn't matter to you.

865
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Speaker 3: Right, thank you lady, But.

866
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 6: Future y'all giving up. She drove all the way from

867
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Speaker 6: Cannadi with her fresh silt Press come.

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Speaker 3: On you too, all the way from Connecticut.

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Speaker 6: I mean her self, Press is just out bouncing Okay, wait,

870
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 6: y'all some raise y'all hands.

871
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: If you came from another state, if you don't live here, wow,

872
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 1: my gosh.

873
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:05,799
Speaker 2: If you came from out the country. Who came from

874
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 2: out the country? Who's I can't hear?

875
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 3: From Canada? Wow, that's awesome. What country? Okay, you are

876
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 3: a vacation from turxy CA coast?

877
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 2: Don't count. Okay, because you were from Atlanta. Oh you

878
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 2: from California? From California, that's awesome, that's amazing.

879
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 3: Anybody from Chicago right quick? Hey? Anybody from Maryland? From

880
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 3: where me and Robin a from Maryland? Maryland towers in

881
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:41,280
Speaker 3: the house? Okay, be more silver spring? Yes, Arkansas wants

882
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 3: some love. Chack, give Arkansas some love? All right?

883
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 1: All right, Michelle, you have you have any reasonably shared

884
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:49,400
Speaker 1: this question?

885
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 3: I can answer this too.

886
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 6: Is it reasonable or shady if you brought a bottle

887
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 6: to an event to take it back at the end

888
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 6: at the event if it wasn't open?

889
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 3: Okay, who says it's reasonable? R Raise your head? It's reasonable?

890
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 3: Rache add it's reasonable. Okay, all right, hold on, y'all,

891
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 3: hold on, ye raise your head? It it shady? Rick? Wait?

892
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:15,719
Speaker 1: Wait, I didn't see all right, So this is like

893
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: it's fifty to fifty who says reasonable?

894
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 7: Who?

895
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 6: Okay, it depends, let me tell you who. Can I

896
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:25,280
Speaker 6: tell you why it depends.

897
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 3: It's a whole lot of things that it depends on.

898
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:28,319
Speaker 3: Who has done this before.

899
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 6: I'm gonna tell you why it depends. If it was

900
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 6: a potluck and everybody brings their own stuff, and then

901
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:38,839
Speaker 6: and then you take it back. But if I got

902
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,360
Speaker 6: a nice dinner, then I prepared for you, and the

903
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:44,280
Speaker 6: ship prepared for you, and you didn't pay for nothing,

904
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 6: and I invite you over and you bring a bottle,

905
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 6: it belongs to me?

906
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 3: Okay, you got that right? Yes, Okay.

907
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 2: I also think it depends on is it an expensive

908
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 2: bottle champagne?

909
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 3: Or did you get it from the five and dime?

910
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:03,800
Speaker 3: Like what shelf this bottle from? So it depends. It depends.

911
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 6: There are certain red wines that I like from publics

912
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,759
Speaker 6: that are really really really good, right, and then there

913
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 6: are some that should not come from publics that are

914
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 6: more expensive.

915
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:13,920
Speaker 7: Right.

916
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 3: Yes.

917
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 1: So I actually was faced with this dilemma one day.

918
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 1: My girlfriends and I was probably about eight of us.

919
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 1: We had a dinner party at my girlfriend's house and

920
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:28,880
Speaker 1: if I can remember correctly, we all like chipped in

921
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 1: for the dinner, but the girlfriend that was hosting it

922
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 1: told everyone to bring a bottle, So I brought a

923
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 1: bottle of Tito's. I brought a large bottle of Tito's

924
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: vacuum glue. 'reing the pandemic, and y'all know how expensive

925
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:46,800
Speaker 1: liquor was during the pandemic. So we go there and

926
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 1: there was already a bottle of Tito's that was opened,

927
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:52,720
Speaker 1: so we were we were drinking on that Tito's bottle. Okay,

928
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 1: so wait a minute. So at the end of the night,

929
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Speaker 1: at the end of the night, my bottle was unopened,

930
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 1: and and as I was about to leave. As I

931
00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 1: was about to leave, I'm like walking towards the bottle

932
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 1: to grab it to take it home. And my girlfriend

933
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 1: was like, oh, girl, thanks for the bottle. I love Tito's.

934
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 1: It's my favorite. And I was like, oh, you're welcome,

935
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Speaker 1: and I went and I left.

936
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 3: And I went home.

937
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 1: So and just to give y'all, I wanted my bottle back,

938
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:34,400
Speaker 1: but I was just like, okay, So she was, but

939
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 1: that was nice of you rapping for it, but she

940
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:38,759
Speaker 1: should have given it back to me.

941
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Speaker 3: No, Robin, you bought it to her house.

942
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 7: No.

943
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 1: I think if that was me, if it was my

944
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 1: house and everyone chipped in and her and the bottle

945
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Speaker 1: was unopened, I would be like, oh.

946
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:51,719
Speaker 2: Girl, we don't open your bottle. You want to take

947
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 2: it back? I think it depends. No, it depends on

948
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 2: how close you are with the person. Like, if it's

949
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 2: my sister, I'm taking a bottle back. If it's people

950
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 2: I don't really know that, well, I'm gonna let it.

951
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you have it.

952
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 3: The bottle expensive. This is real quick, it's real quick.

953
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:10,839
Speaker 3: This is a little tea.

954
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 2: So you know how if you watch housewives, any housewives,

955
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 2: if you watch our show in particular, when we go

956
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 2: to each other's house, typically we bring a bottle of something.

957
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 2: Karen always says, give me my bottle back. After we're

958
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 2: done filming. She's done that to me three times. She's like,

959
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 2: give me my bottle back.

960
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 1: So we do.

961
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 3: It's a joke. It's a running joke.

962
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:34,200
Speaker 1: But anyways, like recycling bottles, it's like she brings it

963
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 1: to one event.

964
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:39,319
Speaker 6: And I mean, we don't want to belabor the topic,

965
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 6: but if you invite me to your home for a

966
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 6: nice dinner, and all I have to do is show up.

967
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:45,840
Speaker 6: The nice thing to do is you bring a bottle,

968
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 6: so you present it as a gift. I don't want

969
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:50,840
Speaker 6: it back, Like I said, if it was like a

970
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 6: pot look situation, you know how you take a little

971
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:56,360
Speaker 6: three bean potato salad back home that you made, and

972
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:58,720
Speaker 6: you take you a little RC or seven up bottle

973
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 6: that you brought, you take your if it was a

974
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 6: pot look type situation.

975
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:04,400
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, all right, we got on one of my

976
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:07,440
Speaker 2: We gotta move on. But it is now time for

977
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:13,840
Speaker 2: you guys to ask us anything. And whoever is asking

978
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 2: us something, you're gonna keep it.

979
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 3: PG. Thirteen.

980
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 1: Tell us your names. Tell us your name where you're from. Hey, y'all,

981
00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: my name is Deniseha. I'm from Charlotte, North Carolina.

982
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 3: Oh can you hear me?

983
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, I have a quick question for Jaselle. So

984
00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: I just finished Ultimate Girl's Trip. What was your reaction

985
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 1: after you found out what really happened to your bottle?

986
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:40,839
Speaker 3: I'm so happy you're asking me that question.

987
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna get For those of y'all who don't

988
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 2: know what she's talking about. I was on a show

989
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 2: called Ultimate Girl's trip. It was a bunch of different housewives,

990
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 2: some different shows. It's on Peacock and I had a

991
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:56,920
Speaker 2: fit because someone took my bottle of tequila. Okay, so

992
00:48:57,160 --> 00:49:00,719
Speaker 2: and all of y'all have DMed me your bottle and

993
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:02,840
Speaker 2: to say that y'all found it, which is so hilarious.

994
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 2: At the end, the producers, the Salt Lake City Girls,

995
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:10,960
Speaker 2: we're joking that the bottle was in the shower, the

996
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 2: outside shower.

997
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:14,280
Speaker 3: That was a joke. The Salt Lake Girls.

998
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:19,320
Speaker 2: Don't have it. Leah from New York had a bottle

999
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 2: that she brought in her confessional and she was like, Oh,

1000
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 2: I got yourselves bottle. She's joking too. The truth is,

1001
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 2: we have no idea what a bottle is. But I

1002
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 2: know who has the bottle. Okay, I know who took

1003
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 2: the bottle. But the truth is we don't know does.

1004
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:38,799
Speaker 3: The does the name? I know, does the name start

1005
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 3: with a sea? And starts with a sea? Okay? And

1006
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 3: it ends with the ass No, it ends with a yeah.

1007
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:50,359
Speaker 3: All right, what's the next question? Guys?

1008
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 2: Hey, y'all, I'm Toya from Little Rock, Arkansas, the Arkansaw

1009
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 2: and the Building. I have a podcast called the Spiel Podcast.

1010
00:49:59,560 --> 00:49:59,880
Speaker 3: It's the ma.

1011
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 2: My question, Hey sorr Jisellah, excuse my question is for

1012
00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:09,320
Speaker 2: the beautiful Michelle Williams. I absolutely love your podcast. I

1013
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:12,800
Speaker 2: have a segment on my podcast called Mutual Chicken to

1014
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:15,920
Speaker 2: where my spillers, my peers, whom ever is on my

1015
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 2: show have to do a mental check in. When you

1016
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:21,400
Speaker 2: are doing that or just coming up with your podcast,

1017
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:25,320
Speaker 2: was it hard to be extremely vulnerable? I did counseling,

1018
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 2: I did therapy, and it's something that I feel like

1019
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:31,360
Speaker 2: everybody should of course look into. But when you started

1020
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 2: your podcast to you know, just focus on that, was

1021
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 2: it challenging Because I'm like shy, but I'm talkative, but

1022
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:41,760
Speaker 2: I don't like being vulnerable.

1023
00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 6: But I'm super vulnerable and sometimes to a fall.

1024
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:46,840
Speaker 3: So how do you handle the.

1025
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 6: Ups and down the bat? Thank you for asking and

1026
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 6: congratulations on your podcast. Amazing. So I've learned on my

1027
00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 6: mental health journey. We all have mental health, but everybody

1028
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 6: does not have mental illness. So let's know the two

1029
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 6: mental health is like your cardiovascular health reproductive hell, we

1030
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:10,360
Speaker 6: all have that, right. So what I learned on my

1031
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:12,439
Speaker 6: journey is there is a difference. I think I spoke

1032
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 6: to you all about the difference between being transparent and

1033
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 6: being vulnerable. I'm an open book. I can be transparent,

1034
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 6: but vulnerable is when you in that transparent moment is

1035
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:26,720
Speaker 6: when you say how something feels, how it made you feel,

1036
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 6: and you allow yourself in that moment. If you're still

1037
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:35,520
Speaker 6: angry or sad about that moment, you acknowledge it and

1038
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 6: you literally feel your feelings. So when I talked about,

1039
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 6: like one time my father passing away or a moment

1040
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:44,400
Speaker 6: where something happened, I believe it was something maybe with

1041
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 6: police brutality. I allowed myself to cry on the podcast

1042
00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 6: or to get choked up. That's me being vulnerable, then

1043
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 6: me just reading off my personal moment that I had

1044
00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 6: this week. I think we all can be open books,

1045
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:03,280
Speaker 6: but it's hard to be vulnerable and cry about something

1046
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 6: or be like, bro, it hurt my feelings when you

1047
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:10,279
Speaker 6: said this, or when you talk to me this way.

1048
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:13,920
Speaker 6: This is how it makes me feel. That's being vulnerable

1049
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:17,400
Speaker 6: all right, then being just then instead of being just

1050
00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:18,879
Speaker 6: a transparent hot head.

1051
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that. I'm like giving it a title.

1052
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 2: You hurt my feelings when you did X, as opposed

1053
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 2: to just yelling at the person or responding to the person.

1054
00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 3: I like that, Mitchell, I'm gonna use that well.

1055
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 6: Well, when a person is yelling that, anger is a

1056
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:44,480
Speaker 6: secondary emotion. So let's unpack that. I'm angry because I'm

1057
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 6: angry because I feel overlooked. I'm angry because I feel

1058
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:50,879
Speaker 6: like you ignored me when I told you. I don't

1059
00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:53,560
Speaker 6: like when you do this, so if I gotta tell

1060
00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:57,400
Speaker 6: you again, I might blow up. Anger is what's come second.

1061
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 6: Being feeling out, feeling talked about, feeling betrayed, feeling abandoned.

1062
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 6: That's the first emotion. But when it festers, when it

1063
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:11,840
Speaker 6: seems unseen or unheard, that's when anger comes in.

1064
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I love that. And that's also that's.

1065
00:53:14,000 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 1: Also communication, you know, using your communication skills.

1066
00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:19,800
Speaker 3: It's hard to communicate those feelings sometimes.

1067
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 6: Why is this so hard to communicate being vulnerable? But

1068
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:26,919
Speaker 6: we can communicate the anger, right, that's true.

1069
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 3: We all working on that. We work in progress. Yes, indeed,

1070
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:31,799
Speaker 3: I know. I am all right. We got another question

1071
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 3: two minutes left. Y'all.

1072
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 1: Hi, my name is Leah. I live in Orlando. I

1073
00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:38,919
Speaker 1: have a podcast called Adoptees Crossing Lines. I'm a black

1074
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:41,440
Speaker 1: adoptee and I host it with two other black adoptees,

1075
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:43,279
Speaker 1: and we're pretty vulnerable on our show.

1076
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 3: My question is for you, Michelle.

1077
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 1: I'm wondering how you take care of yourself when you're,

1078
00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 1: you know, talking about all these different things constantly and

1079
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 1: just sharing your life, sharing your story. How do you

1080
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 1: take care of yourself afterwards or in between shows?

1081
00:53:57,520 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 6: In between shows depending on the topic. If it's something

1082
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:02,839
Speaker 6: I know I've already walked through and I've healed from,

1083
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 6: I can go eat a bag of chips afterwards. But

1084
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:11,239
Speaker 6: when it's something that seems still a little fresh, there

1085
00:54:11,239 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 6: are little things that can calm the nervous system down.

1086
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:18,920
Speaker 6: You gotta take a walk, go let some water, sit

1087
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,320
Speaker 6: in the pool if you can. But just taking a

1088
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:24,719
Speaker 6: walk and getting away and separating yourself from the situation

1089
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 6: or the topic is really the best thing. Because us,

1090
00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:32,400
Speaker 6: when we host podcasts, we have to research some heavy,

1091
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:36,440
Speaker 6: heavy stuff, or you could be walking through something heavy,

1092
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 6: but you still gotta host a guest and beat upbeat.

1093
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1094
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:43,800
Speaker 2: I also say take a drive when we do reasonably shady,

1095
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:46,359
Speaker 2: I do it at Robin. We do it at Robin's house,

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Speaker 2: and I have to drive. Maybe it's about thirty five

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Speaker 2: minutes away. So that drive home, I like decompress and

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Speaker 2: get my mind right because when I hit the door

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Speaker 2: with my kids, I gotta be I gotta be ready

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Speaker 2: for that.

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Speaker 3: Right for sure. Okay, we have time about one more questions.

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Speaker 3: Let's get a learning question.

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Speaker 6: Y'all, God bless you, Oh yes, it's God.

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Speaker 7: I just want to say, each one of you ladies

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Speaker 7: look like full rid scholarships to IVY League. HBCUs. Keep

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Speaker 7: these ladies around the applause but looking so goddamn good.

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Speaker 7: Thank you, And to end the questions, I just want

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Speaker 7: to know is it reasonable or shady? It's Sunday, right,

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Speaker 7: so I just want to know from Michelle when Jesus

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Speaker 7: say what.

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Speaker 3: I just want how to sing the reply.

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Speaker 7: When Jesus say what, nobody can't say what?

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Speaker 3: I mean?

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Speaker 6: They paid me to top d Come on, but it's Michelle,

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Speaker 6: what y okay?

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Speaker 3: Kip my question?

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Speaker 7: Man?

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Speaker 3: All right? All right?

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Speaker 6: When Jesus say yes, nobody can't say no.

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Speaker 3: When Jesus nobody saying no, all right, bye, love you.

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Speaker 3: I want to try to ask nobody can say no?

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Speaker 3: Just say nobody can say no.

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Speaker 6: Giselle will be leaving praise and worship at new Birth

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Speaker 6: tomorrow morning.

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Speaker 3: And give it up for the right.

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Speaker 6: Reverend Jamal Brain is in the bell day.

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Speaker 1: Are y'all.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for having us. Thank y'all for

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Speaker 2: being a part of our show. It is Reasonably Shady.

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Speaker 3: Check it in. Oh my gosh, I hope y'all enjoyed it.

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Speaker 3: We'll see you next time.

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Speaker 1: Yes, the podcast festival was so fun. Black effected did

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Speaker 1: their thing. We can't wait till the next one.

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Speaker 2: We're actually on vacation. We just were coming in and say, Hi,

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Speaker 2: see how y'all doing.

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Speaker 3: Letting y'all know. It's the summer time and it's time

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Speaker 3: to be outside.

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Speaker 1: Yes, y'all be safe and enjoy your summer. Every time

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Speaker 1: summer comes, I'm like, I'm going to be out all

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Speaker 1: the time, right, and then the summer ends and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: damn it, you're.

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Speaker 3: Out one day. Yeah, So don't be like me, y'all Okay,

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Speaker 3: and don't forget to live your life either. Reasonable shape Dude.

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Speaker 2: Reasonably Shady is a production of the Black Effect podcast Network.

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Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

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Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite

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Speaker 2: Shows and you can connect with us on social media

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Speaker 2: at Robin Dixon, ten Giselle Bryant, and reasonably shady