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Speaker 1: Who's you ready to do a big show me?

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Speaker 2: Whoa scrubbing an iHeartRadio podcast?

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Speaker 3: Remember when I dreamt I had to play that on

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Speaker 3: the piano and couldn't get it right every time I

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Speaker 3: hear it. Now, Hello, everybody, we're scrubbing in. Gang's all here.

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Speaker 3: I don't know where Amy is. She just doesn't show

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Speaker 4: You know what, It's all right because I got you, babe.

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Speaker 3: And I got you babe. Is that all good? How

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Speaker 3: are you feeling today?

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Speaker 4: I feel great? How are you feeling today?

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Speaker 3: Beca You know, I'm pushing through. I'm saying great, but

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Speaker 3: I don't. It's a little bit of a fudge, you know. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I had a good time last night.

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Speaker 4: Tell me about it.

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Speaker 3: Well, we had the iHeart Awards, which are always a

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Speaker 3: good time.

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Speaker 2: You looked phenomenal, by the way, Thank you, as did you.

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Speaker 3: Your hair was different. We don't see your hair up

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Speaker 4: I was really nervous about it.

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Speaker 2: I was up in a pony and I always run

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Speaker 2: my hair down, so it was really freaking out.

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Speaker 3: She looked amazing as she isn't sitting here. You looked

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Speaker 3: so pretty. You. Yeah, it was a really fun night.

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Speaker 3: I feel like everything through iHeart that I attend is

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Speaker 3: a really good time. It brings out the best in me.

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Speaker 2: I think the best slash.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Last night, you were great when I left you.

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Speaker 3: Well, that was about three drinks after that, which you know,

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Speaker 3: for me is a lot, because I don't drink that

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Speaker 3: often unless I'm at a social event, particularly iHeart.

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Speaker 1: Even What is the status of your mojo?

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Speaker 3: My mojo's pretty good. But I really wanted Tanya to

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Speaker 3: join me in getting mojo together, and she bailed and

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Speaker 3: went home.

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Speaker 1: This seems to be a weekly theme. How did Tanya

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Speaker 1: blow off Becca this week?

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Speaker 3: Wow? You're so right.

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Speaker 2: Well, let me tell you why Tanya blew off Becca

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Speaker 2: this week? Because it was Sunday. I do a morning

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Speaker 2: show that's at five o'clock in the morning when it's

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Speaker 3: You'll start at five this morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm team telling ya on this one started early. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she gets here at five, we're on at six.

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Speaker 3: Oh got it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I did not want to be hungover because

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to be more mature.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. First of all, I know that you've

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Speaker 3: gone out with other friends on a school night and

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Speaker 3: have shown up to work.

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Speaker 4: That's true.

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Speaker 3: It's true.

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Speaker 2: And to be honest, I was honestly so dead because

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Speaker 2: I had worked. I literally worked all day Saturday, and

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Speaker 2: I was up late. I had like adrenaline pumping through me,

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Speaker 2: so I didn't sleep very much on Saturday. So I

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Speaker 2: was like literally on my like last leg of tiredness

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Speaker 3: So like, at what point are you gonna feel like

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Speaker 3: you can go out and get mojo? Like is it

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Speaker 3: have to be like six o'clock on a Friday night?

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Speaker 3: Like I don't know, maybe well.

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Speaker 4: Maybe eight o'clock on Friday night.

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Speaker 1: But did you crash on Friday nights after being up

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Speaker 1: since four in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But like I could still I could push through

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Speaker 3: So like Saturdays, so Friday could work or maybe a Saturday.

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Speaker 4: Fridays and Saturdays are ideal in this situation.

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Speaker 3: I would This is the last thing I'll say about this.

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Speaker 3: The after party was at eight. It's not like it

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Speaker 4: I still had work to do.

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Speaker 3: That was I was by midnight, I.

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Speaker 4: Know, But then I would have to come home and

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Speaker 1: Sheets and stuff i'd send late last night. She did.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah the morning.

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Speaker 4: Can we wait, can we go back to last night?

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Speaker 4: I feel like you didn't finish to what I mean.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so I drink a lot, so there's things are

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Speaker 3: I don't suggest it because I really feel terrible today

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Speaker 3: and I'm always like, well, why didn't someone just be like, hey,

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Speaker 3: because like I just like faded out.

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Speaker 4: Accountability. What accountability?

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Speaker 3: Yeah you weren't there, Wow, like my accountability went home.

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Speaker 4: To be mature to did you meet any guys?

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Speaker 3: I met guy? I met a guy, but I think

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Speaker 3: did you do some cool flirting? No, it was like

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Speaker 3: I was literally I met some of Ari's girls from

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Speaker 4: That's not flirting.

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Speaker 3: It's not but I'm just saying what I was talking.

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Speaker 3: I was like surrounded by them. I was with Ashley.

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Speaker 4: Did you go out after Bungalow or no? You just

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Speaker 3: Oh I got home by midnight. I was I text

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was like, why are you right now? I

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Speaker 4: was not responsible last night, but you were not bathroom Becka.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no no. I was definitely not bathroom Becka.

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Speaker 3: Everything's pretty I can remember things.

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Speaker 4: You're just super hungover.

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Speaker 3: I don't feel great.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, we have to get to this for anything

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Speaker 1: else happens. Okay, because people have been wanting your reaction

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, let me read you this.

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Speaker 1: Email from Heather. I have never been so compelled to

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Speaker 1: email a podcast I listened to. But I'm so heated

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Speaker 1: right now. I just had to this whole Jessica Capshawn

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Speaker 1: I get the whole pairing down the cast thing, but

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Speaker 1: if this is the direct result of Alan Pompeo getting

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Speaker 1: her twenty million dollar deal, that is in no way acceptable.

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Speaker 1: She is the matriarch of the show and all but

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Speaker 1: those two characters should not be the ones that are

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Speaker 1: paired down. April Kaepner is one of the closest true

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Speaker 1: depictions of Christianities today in mainstream media. To get rid

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Speaker 1: of that voice is so sad to me. Arizona is

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Speaker 1: a pillar of the show that should not be so

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Speaker 1: weasily written off. And I would interject, the way you

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Speaker 1: us all. So what were your thoughts when that came out?

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Speaker 3: I'm not kidding. Taylor. Taylor Banks, who verse for E News,

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Speaker 3: this is I'm I'm still like even talking about it.

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Speaker 3: I'm so upset because, first of all, there are so

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Speaker 3: many characters that I could think to be pared down,

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Speaker 3: like any of the interns.

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Speaker 4: Any of the interns.

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Speaker 3: I don't care, I'm over on.

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Speaker 4: There's so many.

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Speaker 3: And I agree, I think that there's something to be

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Speaker 3: but I mean she could do something and spice it up,

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Speaker 2: I did, I did read. I didn't read the article

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Speaker 2: is the headline and it says how will they be written?

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Speaker 2: Insiting to see it, and I did. I did see

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Speaker 2: But I do see that they had concerns about their characters.

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Speaker 3: But it's just like, let's spice up there, I know,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like what the h E double I don't understand. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Me, have nothing to do.

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Speaker 4: But what I'm saying is, no, that didn't.

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Speaker 3: Nothing about that like made sense in that moment. She

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Speaker 2: I I'm really upset about it too, Like I actually

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Speaker 1: I'll watch it down.

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Speaker 3: Here's the thing. I'll watch it until the show's over.

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Speaker 3: But I've barely been able to stay like super interested lately,

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Speaker 1: Where I running out of ways to kill people off.

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Speaker 3: Didn't play but they're like friends on the show, and

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Speaker 1: That, right, I'm trying to I'm trying to give them

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Speaker 1: how many of the old characters that I really missed,

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Speaker 4: I think about it, they're not the ones to go.

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Speaker 1: They're not the ones to go because I think about

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Speaker 1: how much I miss make Dreamy, Like Lexi's a great

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Speaker 1: if there's plenty that I don't miss Callie out of

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Speaker 3: I miss Cali, I miss Christina, miss Christina. I know

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Speaker 3: you don't. But here's the thing. I'm hoping that Arizona

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Speaker 3: may have this moment where she goes back to New York.

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Speaker 1: That's a happy ending, I know, but I'm.

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Speaker 3: Really nervous about the April because she's like spiraling right now.

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Speaker 3: I know, I feel like they're going to do something

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Speaker 3: like sad there that's possible. I don't know, I don't

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Speaker 3: I really don't like talking about it, and I almost

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Speaker 3: wish they wouldn't have said something so far in advance.

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Speaker 4: Well, it's not bar an advance because this season's almost

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Speaker 4: over and they won't be.

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Speaker 1: There's like ten episodes lest they have a lot to

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Speaker 1: go because they've kind of backloaded it. Oh so I

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Speaker 1: think like whereas This is Us is over tomorrow night,

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Speaker 1: which is shocking. I think Grays has a good run.

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Speaker 3: Left, That's what I'm saying. I feel like they could

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Speaker 3: have at least told us like four episodes before.

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Speaker 4: The end, right, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Now when you watch, like I'm just working walking two

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Speaker 3: dead women walk, it might help women have to And

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Speaker 3: why did it have to be on International Women's Day?

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Speaker 3: I was like, wow, this is a dagger?

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Speaker 4: Are some of the men?

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Speaker 3: I really appreciate, Heather, I really appreciate your strongly worded

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Speaker 3: emails that you were heated. I feel the same one.

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Speaker 3: I'm very upset and too.

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Speaker 2: We should make sure that it's a hashtag team Jerzona.

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Speaker 2: This is so funny because I almost tweeted last night

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Speaker 4: Always do my work.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure Alan Pompeoi put in her new contract.

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Speaker 3: I'm never twenty mil and I'm never singing again.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I was really ready to hate it,

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Speaker 1: Alyssa also emailed about she had random thoughts about grades.

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Speaker 2: I think we talked about this, yeah, but it wasn't

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Speaker 4: That's how I feel about you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like you were Just.

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Speaker 4: The inflection of her voice said a lot there.

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Speaker 3: I feel like, yeah, I feel like we like would

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Speaker 4: Oh I'm not good enough for childhood.

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Speaker 3: No, I feel like we were had different interests as children.

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Speaker 3: Like high school we could have come together in our differences,

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Speaker 3: I feel like you were in like princess dresses for sure. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I didn't do that.

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Speaker 3: Overall. And then she went off with her friends, and

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Speaker 1: Tanya was having Barbie parties and princess dresses and you

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Speaker 4: We're in different places in our lives, so you know

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Speaker 2: I feel like my friendship with you is so different

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's a beautiful thing. It's beautiful trying

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Speaker 1: to DM that guy. You should give a little update

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Speaker 3: Discover page.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I found a gout in my Discover feed and

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Speaker 2: I ended up messaging him and there's conversation that's happening.

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Speaker 4: But I mean it's not it's kind of lackluster. I'm

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Speaker 1: It's clicking.

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Speaker 2: It's not it's very like hey, hey, like what do

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Speaker 4: Where do you live?

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Speaker 3: Like kind of like like surface level, not really going.

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Speaker 4: It just doesn't seem like I don't know.

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Speaker 1: There is a journey from stranger to not stranger, and

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Speaker 1: you're on that journey right now. I think it's fine.

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Speaker 1: You're just getting to know the basics. That's the first

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Speaker 1: then there's more potential there.

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Speaker 4: All right.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you should write it off yet.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: My first gut reaction is to be like, oh, that's

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Speaker 2: Wait, we have to tell them about the one guy

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Speaker 2: that messaged me on that dating app and his message

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Speaker 2: all read it and we were like, ow, I couldnt

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Speaker 3: This was actually so funny because the guy did nothing wrong.

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Speaker 3: He said nothing here, I have it here.

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Speaker 2: This is his first message to me and my dating

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Speaker 2: I dare ask what your favorite type of music is?

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Speaker 3: Were like, do I Dare? Dare? What type of music?

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Speaker 3: What a loser? I don't know if we said what

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Speaker 3: Totally like no wonder. We're all singing like if a

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Speaker 2: It's so funny because all our initial reaction was that

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Speaker 4: We were like, this is why we.

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Speaker 1: In the old days. Before this, you didn't have every

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Speaker 3: It was just he asked about music. That's like literally

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Speaker 1: A guy said to you you met in person, said

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Speaker 1: respond to him, oh my god, bye bye.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that we realized the error of our ways and

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was like hashtag not meant to be?

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Speaker 3: Oh man, hashtag not meant.

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Speaker 2: To be hashtag and hope he's not listening did you

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Speaker 2: watch the Delicate Oh I think he's with you.

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Speaker 3: No, we weren't together.

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Speaker 4: Oh you're right, You're right, right, right?

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Speaker 1: Okay, we have an email on that as well from Emmy. Hey, ladies, First,

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Speaker 1: you look absolutely stunning tonight. This came Sunday night, so

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Speaker 1: oh thank you. There have been so many things I've

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Speaker 1: To be honest, I never thought this would be my

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Speaker 1: first email to you, and it's pretty off topic, but

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Speaker 1: could we talk about Taylor's Delicate music video? Maybe it's

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Speaker 1: just me, but I was not picturing an awkward ballet

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Speaker 1: similar thoughts on the Delicate video as you, Emmy.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I thought it was actually a really cool video.

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Speaker 2: I just thought it didn't it wasn't appropriate for the song,

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Speaker 4: And I didn't think. I just kind of was like,

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Speaker 1: Yes? It could absolutely go with any song.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but she is not someone to put something out

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Speaker 3: that doesn't have a reason, a very specific reason of

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Speaker 4: So what's the reason.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but I'm just saying like there is

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Speaker 4: I wish she would have told it.

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Speaker 3: That's she doesn't do that. You figure it out and speculate.

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Speaker 3: I just am a Taylor fan, and I no matter

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Becka got the bye bye from Taylor Swift two

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Speaker 4: It's two years at this day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what happened where.

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Speaker 3: It was like Taylor, I warned you?

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Speaker 4: Though, didn't I warn you? I was like, don't go

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And she made eye contact with me and then

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Speaker 3: a child, which that's fair. Kept well, I kept on walking.

447
00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:16,720
Speaker 3: But her dancing is just slightly uncomfortable to what And

448
00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:19,040
Speaker 3: that's the point. I know, that is the point. But

449
00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:22,480
Speaker 3: I'm just saying yeah, and also DJ call it's a

450
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Speaker 3: delicate which was so endears is what.

451
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Speaker 1: She's doing, Like her image has gotten a little bit cold,

452
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Speaker 1: a little bit stiff. This is her way of kind

453
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Speaker 1: of showing that, hey, I'm still the human and yeah

454
00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:42,199
Speaker 1: I'm still me, because she's not that anymore. She's really not.

455
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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, she's not talking oppressed.

456
00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:46,880
Speaker 1: She want that entire reputation albu much. She never did

457
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Speaker 1: one interview the entire time. I don't know if people

458
00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:50,960
Speaker 1: notice that, because we noticed it because we were hoping

459
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,359
Speaker 1: that on our show and she did zero interviews the

460
00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:55,600
Speaker 1: entire time. But then it hurts. I think people feel

461
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Speaker 1: like they know.

462
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Speaker 4: Her less totally.

463
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Speaker 2: I mean she even went above and beyond to make

464
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Speaker 2: sure not one person. She did a cover with Vogue

465
00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:04,359
Speaker 2: or something with a magazine, and she wrote a poem

466
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:06,359
Speaker 2: so that an interviewer couldn't interview her.

467
00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,600
Speaker 4: And then she did her album release party, which normally.

468
00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:12,000
Speaker 2: Like a jocker, DJ will host it, and she did

469
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Speaker 2: it like at a fan listening thing, so that she

470
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Speaker 2: did the whole thing.

471
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Speaker 4: I was like, she went to like lengths for this.

472
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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe she realized that it was a bad move,

473
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Speaker 3: and so she's trying to get back to like I'm

474
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Speaker 3: goofy and like real and ye.

475
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Speaker 1: And I thought it was really fun. I'm also somebody

476
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Speaker 1: like we're talking to our friend Sisini who does the

477
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Speaker 1: Secret Show with us this morning, and she's like, oh,

478
00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:31,760
Speaker 1: I didn't. I've never even known what the lyrics are about.

479
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,080
Speaker 1: So if you just kind of casually know the song

480
00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:36,959
Speaker 1: and don't know the lyric, like Tony obsessively knows the lyrics,

481
00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:38,639
Speaker 1: do it. I think you just think it's a fun video.

482
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 1: But you're right. It's a very powerful, powerfully written song

483
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Speaker 1: and the video doesn'tmagine it at all.

484
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Speaker 3: Right, I love that song. I think it's my favorite one.

485
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Speaker 2: Can I tell you that I'm obsessed with our listeners

486
00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:53,040
Speaker 2: because I posted a photo from the Iheard Awards last

487
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Speaker 2: night and literally so many comments, people being like Tim Tebow,

488
00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:00,840
Speaker 2: snatch your girl. You're crazy if you don't to ask

489
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Speaker 2: her on a date, look like, literally, calm after common,

490
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Speaker 2: I'm like this, seriously, blesses my heart.

491
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Speaker 1: People were so proud of you. That was an interesting

492
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Speaker 1: element of it last night in the Facebook group when

493
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Speaker 1: they saw pictures of you from the awards last night,

494
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Speaker 1: or from the Five Sauce events on Saturday night. They

495
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Speaker 1: just seem very proud of you. And some specifically said,

496
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Speaker 1: I feel so proud when I see her like this

497
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Speaker 1: because they feel like they know you and they feel

498
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Speaker 1: like you're out there doing it and it just makes

499
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Speaker 1: them feel good. And I think that's great. That's such

500
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Speaker 1: as not a reaction I would expect, you know.

501
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Speaker 4: And that's really like nice.

502
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Speaker 3: You are doing it. You're doing it, and you're killing it,

503
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Speaker 3: killing it.

504
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Speaker 1: Your skin look great.

505
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Speaker 3: Oh, your skin is amazing. Also, I would just like

506
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Speaker 3: to say, even in my state, last night, I came

507
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Speaker 3: home because I am obsessive about washing my makeup off,

508
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Speaker 3: washing my face every night before I go to sleep,

509
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Speaker 3: Like no matter if I get home at four am

510
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Speaker 3: and don't know my middle name anymore, I'm washing my face.

511
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Speaker 4: It's a good quality and half.

512
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Speaker 1: What is your middle name?

513
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Speaker 3: Lee?

514
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Speaker 1: L E I G H.

515
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516
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517
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518
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521
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522
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523
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524
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Speaker 2: You know what, Becca, Most people only do one step.

525
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Speaker 2: They wash their face, they put on face cream. That's

526
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527
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528
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529
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530
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531
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532
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535
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536
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538
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547
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Speaker 1: Becca some good emails with dilemmas.

550
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Speaker 3: I love not I don't love that y'all have dilemmas. However,

551
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Speaker 3: I love being able to help solve your dilemma.

552
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Speaker 1: And now with the Facebook group, they are helping each

553
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Speaker 1: other solve dilemmas. For one Tany and Beck are not available.

554
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: I know Anna is stuck in the hookup zone. Oh,

555
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Speaker 1: twenty seven years old. Meta guy. Back in twenty twelve,

556
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:40,679
Speaker 1: we had a few casual hookups, nothing serious. Haven't heard

557
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Speaker 1: from him in years. We've just been dating other people,

558
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Speaker 1: do ring our thing. He lives in Delaware, I live

559
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Speaker 1: in Virginia. He reached out to me back in November

560
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:50,360
Speaker 1: said he was passing through my area thinking about me. Well,

561
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:53,360
Speaker 1: I didn't reply to that restart again in January. We've

562
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:55,920
Speaker 1: been chatting. One thing led to another. Now he's flying

563
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: from Delaware to Atlanta to be my date to a

564
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Speaker 1: wedding this weekend. He got his own room, in his

565
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 1: own airfare, and it's exciting about coming to see me.

566
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:06,199
Speaker 1: He's definitely showing interest towards me and the things that

567
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: he says. He also makes comments about hooking up with

568
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Speaker 1: me again, and I'm definitely not interested in that. I

569
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 1: also feel I made it really clear that's not what

570
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 1: I'm looking for. I feel like I could see potential

571
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:17,400
Speaker 1: with this guy, but I don't want to be seen

572
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,679
Speaker 1: as a casual fling. I'm word of our past will

573
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 1: hinder him from seeing me in a different light. So

574
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 1: what do you think? Is the plane ticket, hotel room,

575
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 1: and daily texting a lot of effort for just a hookup?

576
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,640
Speaker 1: Or is he truly just looking for a one time thing?

577
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 3: A plane ticket in a hotel is a lot of effort.

578
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 4: It's a lot, but like it's not I hate to

579
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 4: say it.

580
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 1: So you think his head is in hookup mode?

581
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well he knows her in that way then yeah, And.

582
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:44,959
Speaker 1: He's going to be really disappointed when he spends all

583
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 1: this money and she's not interested in that.

584
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I don't think she should care.

585
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 1: I think she shouldn't.

586
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:52,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, like, let him spend his money, but don't just do.

587
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 3: It because would you hook up with him?

588
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 4: Not if I didn't want to.

589
00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 3: No, But I get the I feel. Does she want

590
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 3: to hook up with him but she doesn't want to

591
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:05,479
Speaker 3: be the hookup Yeah, but she wants to hook up

592
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:06,120
Speaker 3: she likes him.

593
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 2: I think she's trying to get out of the hookup zone,

594
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:10,439
Speaker 2: so she doesn't want to hook up with him on

595
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:11,919
Speaker 2: this wedding, right.

596
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,160
Speaker 1: She'd like probably liked it. But if she does again,

597
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 1: then she's really the hookup girl because then he goes

598
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: back to Delaware.

599
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's right, don't hook up with him.

600
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 1: I can't. And at a wedding is dangerous though, because

601
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 1: you can dance together, you're gonna drink. You have a

602
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 1: hotel rooms, a couple of hotel rooms to choose, high

603
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 1: probability of hookup here.

604
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've had two guys that were like hook up guys,

605
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:35,399
Speaker 2: and I just could never make the segue, Like I

606
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 2: just could never do it.

607
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 1: You tried, I tried, How failed? How'd you try?

608
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,120
Speaker 2: I would do like kind of cutesy things with them,

609
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Like I would do kind

610
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,640
Speaker 2: of girlfriendly type things like you know, if they mentioned something,

611
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 2: I would like send it to them or like just

612
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 2: like little things like that.

613
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 4: And I never got it back in return.

614
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 1: I was like sweet because you were in the box.

615
00:27:57,880 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: You were in the hookup box and you couldn't get

616
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Speaker 1: out of it. Sad Beck. Have you ever been in

617
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:03,119
Speaker 1: the hookup box?

618
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 3: No? Yeah, I mean I was, but like willingly in there.

619
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Speaker 3: I had a door, you know, I had the key

620
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 3: and I locked myself in and then when I was

621
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 3: ready to get out, I unlocked the door and walked out,

622
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:16,400
Speaker 3: and he.

623
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Speaker 1: Was fine with that.

624
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:17,919
Speaker 3: I don't know.

625
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 1: So he might have been locked in the hook up box.

626
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,640
Speaker 3: Maybe he wasn't Losses, Yeah, he may have been locked

627
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 3: in there.

628
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 1: Maybe he wanted more than that. I don't know. It's tough.

629
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Speaker 1: It's tough when you're in that box because it is

630
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:30,200
Speaker 1: hard to get out of it. But the big I

631
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 1: think the first step is to have a great night

632
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 1: together and not hook up and see where it goes.

633
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:35,160
Speaker 1: Because if he's a jerk about that.

634
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:36,639
Speaker 3: Well that's very telling.

635
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 1: That's very telling. And if he's cool with it and

636
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 1: wants to see you again soon, then there's potential there.

637
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 1: But the key not hook up.

638
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 3: The key is to hold the key to the hookup

639
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 3: box the door. No, that's not the trick. Wo, what's

640
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 3: the trick?

641
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 4: Just not do it?

642
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 3: If you want a relationship, That's what I'm saying.

643
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,719
Speaker 1: What's what is she allowed to do? Could you kiss him?

644
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 3: Yeah? I would kiss like us he's leaving. Maybe not

645
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 3: like because if you're not going to go into a

646
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 3: hotel room and kiss. No, if you put that, yeah,

647
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 3: don't go in.

648
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 4: Yeah.

649
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 1: So it's at the elevator.

650
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 3: That's sweet and romantic if you want if you want that,

651
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 3: and it's leading to that.

652
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 1: So Ali's been with a boyfriend for over two years,

653
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 1: and the last year his parents have become unbearable. I

654
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 1: can be with him for maybe two hours before I

655
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 1: start to get super annoyed. He has two half sisters,

656
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 1: but they're way older than him. He's basically raised as

657
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 1: an only child. His mother is very possessive. His dad

658
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 1: is very opinionated and kind of a hypocrite. He knows

659
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: I'm not a fan of them, but he doesn't know

660
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 1: to what extent and I don't think it's appropriate for

661
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 1: me to tell him. They're a very close family and

662
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 1: this is causing a huge strain between us. We have

663
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 1: a great relationship otherwise. I can't help but think when

664
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Speaker 1: you marry someone, you marry their family too. I don't

665
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 1: want to cause any strain between his relationship with his family.

666
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 1: But I'm not sure where to go from here. Any advice,

667
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 1: I'd love to hear what you guys think.

668
00:29:55,760 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 3: Ali, family problems are so rough? Do you have good

669
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 3: in laws? Mark?

670
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 1: I have great in laws and I love them all,

671
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 1: and we spend a lot of time together and it's wonderful.

672
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: So I'm very lucky in that regard. This is a

673
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 1: tough situation to be in because really, and we had

674
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 1: some of these last week where the mother in law,

675
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 1: we didn't get to them. Unfortunately, I was trying to

676
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: book my actual mother in law. She was not available.

677
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 1: She was on another podcast. But the issue is that

678
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 1: he is going to have to step in here at

679
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 1: some point. I think, Now, maybe I'm wrong, and maybe

680
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 1: this is old fashioned or something, but I feel like

681
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 1: in this situation, or if you don't get along with

682
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 1: his mother at some point, not that you have to choose,

683
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 1: but he's going to have to ask his mom to

684
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: cool it, or he's going to ask his parents. In

685
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 1: this situation, I think he's going to have to help

686
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: kind of transition the two of you together.

687
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,719
Speaker 3: This is the thing. This is my opinion. He's going

688
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 3: to have to decide who his lead woman is in

689
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 3: his life. Yes, and you can't have you too. I

690
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 3: know it is, but at some point when you decide

691
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 3: if he's going to marry this girl and have his

692
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 3: family with her, she's she is the one that he

693
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 3: should put majority of his focus into. And his mom's

694
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 3: always going to be his mom. But there has to

695
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 3: be respect. If he has to be able to stand

696
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 3: up for his girlfriend maybe potential wife, if they're gonna

697
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:17,719
Speaker 3: get married. I mean, that's a terrible place for her

698
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 3: to feel uncomfortable every time she's This.

699
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 1: Is why the mother in law the mother in law

700
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: daughter in law relationship is such a strange one because

701
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 1: the mother feels like she's losing her son and the

702
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 1: mother's son relationship is interesting too because to most mothers,

703
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 1: their son walks on water, and so for another woman

704
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 1: to kind of take him away so that she knows

705
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 1: the mother believes her son walks on water. The wife

706
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 1: knows all too well her husband does not walk on it.

707
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 1: She knows every flaw that he has all too well.

708
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:49,480
Speaker 1: But he's got to choose the wife because the mom

709
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 1: will always be there, and the mom's gonna have to

710
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 1: get over any issues that she has. The wife has

711
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 1: to be the focus.

712
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 3: But they're not married, So, like, what is the move

713
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 3: when your boyfriend and.

714
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 4: Girlfriend for a long time though, I mean, well.

715
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 3: Two years, yeah, but I mean.

716
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 4: If you're talking engagement and things like that, totally.

717
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 3: I mean I think I think he needs to make

718
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 3: step up and this he.

719
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:15,479
Speaker 1: Is an only child then, like it's he isn't an

720
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 1: only child, but he was raised as an only child

721
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: because his two half sisters are way older than you

722
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: were in a relationship. Yeah, and the other parents weren't

723
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 1: thrilled with you. Is that accurate?

724
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 2: The mom loved me, okay, yeah, I never really knew.

725
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 2: I think they both liked me. I don't know, but.

726
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 1: There was issues with the background and yeah, being the

727
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 1: type of the type of woman they saw their son with.

728
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 2: Correct, Yeah, and it was it was a little bit

729
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 2: of an issue. I remember we were like looking at

730
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 2: houses and things like that and the houses that I liked,

731
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 2: his mom didn't necessarily like.

732
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 4: But it was never like it was never like an issue.

733
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 1: You were looking at houses to buy together.

734
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 3: Well, he was going to.

735
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 4: Buy it, but I was going to move into it.

736
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 3: Yeah wow, why does should you have an opinion on

737
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 3: the house?

738
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 4: Well, I mean, are you kidding? Every mom has an

739
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 4: opinion on everything.

740
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's kind of true. Oh but I know, stuck

741
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 1: in the middle of that situation, it sounds like to me,

742
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 1: he went towards the parents.

743
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 4: Well he just broke up with me.

744
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 1: Well, okay, do.

745
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 3: We tell her? Yeah?

746
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, so he broke with me. So I don't know

747
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 2: what he ended up buying or but yeah, it was No.

748
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 2: He was actually really receptive to like me saying, you know, but.

749
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 1: If a disagreement happened between you and his mother, he

750
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 1: would side with you. No mom, Okay, that's what I'm saying.

751
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's a long term issue.

752
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, because like my brother in law, my sister,

753
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 3: when if there was ever like anything between his mom

754
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 3: and my sister, he is very loyal to my sister

755
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 3: because he made that decision. He loves his mom like

756
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 3: they're super close, but in certain situations. It's like you

757
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 3: have to be able to stand up for who you

758
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 3: choose to marry, like to bring into this family because

759
00:33:59,920 --> 00:34:02,040
Speaker 3: you're you're kind of I hate to say the word,

760
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 3: exposing them to it, but you're putting them in a

761
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 3: position of where they're not super comfortable. And so it's

762
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 3: his job to make her feel like she is important

763
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:18,319
Speaker 3: in matter. So Allie, you might tell you might need

764
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 3: to tell him that he needs to build a bridge.

765
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 4: Get over it.

766
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 3: No, not get over it, bring them together.

767
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 1: But build a bridge. Yes, I agree, I think he

768
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:27,880
Speaker 1: needs to step up.

769
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 3: I knew you were going to say it over Oh.

770
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:31,919
Speaker 3: I got that like in my head before you even

771
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:32,359
Speaker 3: said it.

772
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:33,920
Speaker 4: Wait, I like to see one from Lexi.

773
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 3: Lexi Sloan w Yeah, it's come along.

774
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 1: I wanted to hear your thoughts on something. Raven from

775
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 1: Next Season tweeted. During the Bachelor finale, she tweeted, I

776
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 1: have a theory that's very hard for men to be

777
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,919
Speaker 1: with a strong woman that has her stuff together. They

778
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:52,360
Speaker 1: say they want it, but they don't. Lexi is happening.

779
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:54,400
Speaker 1: She graduated high school in the top ten percent of

780
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,399
Speaker 1: her class, got to a great university, got her degree

781
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:58,640
Speaker 1: in four years at a nationally ranked program, working two

782
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:01,399
Speaker 1: jobs at interning a dream job working in the music

783
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 1: industry right out of college. She's twenty three. She lives

784
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 1: in LA She completely provides for her self, loved every

785
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 1: minute of her job, but guys seem very uninterested when

786
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 1: it comes to her professional life. Recently, a friend set

787
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:15,320
Speaker 1: me up with someone who never once asked me about

788
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 1: my job or career in a two hour date, even

789
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,840
Speaker 1: though I asked plenty about his, so saying that you

790
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 1: two are successful girls. Have you found the guys are

791
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:26,399
Speaker 1: intimidated by your drive and success? Also, I'm only twenty three.

792
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:29,319
Speaker 1: Does this get better with time and do guys begin

793
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 1: to embrace hashtag girl bosses? Or am I just finding

794
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: guys that, for whatever reason are uninterested in me having

795
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: a career.

796
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:41,239
Speaker 3: I have not been on enough dates or had to

797
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 3: have these conversations enough to feel like it's been a problem.

798
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 3: But I mean, it was never a thing with Robert.

799
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:52,239
Speaker 3: I think it's I don't know, like I definitely I'm

800
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 3: not saying that I'm not successful in what I do

801
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:57,879
Speaker 3: or whatever, but it's not like I have It's not

802
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 3: like I have that type of story already where I

803
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:03,920
Speaker 3: graduated the top of my class and became you know, like,

804
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 3: I feel like, I genuinely feel like you have You're

805
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 3: like a girl boss in the sense that you have

806
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 3: you're a hashtag. You're a hashtag girl.

807
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 4: Boss, You're a hashtag girl.

808
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 3: But I'm just saying, like you worked towards your like

809
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 3: this has been like you moving up and you're kind

810
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 3: of built your name in this industry that you've kind

811
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 3: of fought for it, and so I think it's different.

812
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 3: This is like I haven't had to have that conversation

813
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 3: because I don't even know how to explain what I do.

814
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 3: I think I say what I do, and people are like,

815
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:34,919
Speaker 3: I don't know what that means. So I'm not gonna

816
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 3: ask a follow up question. So maybe that's like the

817
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 3: best situation. I'm like, oh, I am a dentist, so yeah.

818
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:54,280
Speaker 2: Your blogger, your social influencer, Oh, no, blogger, the term

819
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 2: is digital influencer.

820
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 3: But I can every time someone asks me, I'm like,

821
00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 3: I do stuff on social media, and then it's just

822
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,879
Speaker 3: it's terrible. It's not terrible. It's now I just say

823
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:06,320
Speaker 3: I have a podcast.

824
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 1: Show. Yeah.

825
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 4: I do think that this is a thing.

826
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 2: I think especially too, when I was like, when you're

827
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 2: younger and you're like still in the like working towards

828
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:20,840
Speaker 2: it phase and you have a lot of drive and ambition.

829
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 2: I do think it's a hard thing because I remember

830
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 2: I couldn't do things because I, you know, I had

831
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 2: work commitments, so I couldn't always be there for things,

832
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 2: and that was really important to me, you know, like

833
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,840
Speaker 2: works like even like this weekend, I worked all weekend

834
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 2: and didn't have a social life, And if I had

835
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 2: a boyfriend, I'd have to have somebody that like actually

836
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 2: really understood that, you know. And I do think it

837
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:42,359
Speaker 2: is it's challenging, and it is something that comes up.

838
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 2: I think when you're older it does get better, and

839
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 2: I think when you date older men it gets better.

840
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 2: So I think that would be my suggestion to Lexi.

841
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 2: But I do think it's definitely a thing. I do

842
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 2: think it makes even though they probably say it's not

843
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:58,360
Speaker 2: doesn't make them uncomfortable, I think it does because I

844
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 2: think a lot of men want you to be attentive

845
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 2: to them at all times.

846
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I was gonna say maybe even if you're

847
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:07,400
Speaker 3: dating guys who not necessarily like even if you're like

848
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 3: in your career making more money or more successful. But

849
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 3: if you have a if they have the same drive

850
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 3: and passion that you have for your job, I think

851
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,880
Speaker 3: that makes a difference because if it's if it's a

852
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 3: guy who just has a great job to be successful,

853
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 3: but he doesn't want to hear about you, right, then

854
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:25,280
Speaker 3: he doesn't appreciate like the drive and ambition it takes

855
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 3: to be in that spot totally.

856
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 4: Like it's not even about money.

857
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:29,359
Speaker 2: It's like for me, I didn't go out Friday night

858
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 2: because I wanted to prep for this thing I had

859
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 2: on Saturday. So I was just like in my own world,

860
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 2: you know, And I think that you do need a

861
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 2: partner that is at the same kind of level mentally,

862
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 2: that makes sense.

863
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: Did you also clean your makeup rushes on Friday night?

864
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:47,000
Speaker 2: No, that's part of the regular right, Yeah, I was

865
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 2: in full on five seconds side.

866
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 4: Yeah.

867
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 1: From a guy's perspective, I think that the twenty three

868
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 1: year olds you go out with, if you go with

869
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 1: younger guys, it's intimidating only in the sense that it

870
00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 1: makes them to think that they are It makes them

871
00:38:57,480 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 1: feel insecure. It makes them think, oh, I don't have

872
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 1: any of my stuff together. What am I doing? I'm

873
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: making eleven bucks an hour or whatever it is. It

874
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 1: just it just makes them feel self conscious about all

875
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 1: they're not doing with their lives at that age. Embrace it,

876
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 1: enjoy it, and you need to find maybe guys who

877
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: are a little bit older or be patient with these

878
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: guys that you're seeing now. Yeah, Easton, No, I agree

879
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: with you.

880
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 6: And I was thinking back to when I was twenty three.

881
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 6: I was very unhappy with my position in life, and

882
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 6: when I would go on dates with women that were

883
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 6: much more successful in me, I would put all the

884
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 6: focus on that because I felt it very motivating, and

885
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 6: I don't know, I thought that was a more interesting

886
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 6: part of the of the night, was getting to know

887
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 6: what she was up to in her life, you.

888
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 3: Know, So you found it more like an encouraging or

889
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 3: like motivating. Yeah, motivating, and gave you like a sense

890
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:43,359
Speaker 3: of like a drive to do more.

891
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 4: Exactly exactly.

892
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,840
Speaker 1: One more email from anonymous. I love anonymous emails. And

893
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: there is another tough situation. Her friend who's twenty one,

894
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: got married a few months ago. I was at their

895
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 1: house recently and her husband complained most of the time.

896
00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 1: He complained that she had made the coffee That morning,

897
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:01,560
Speaker 1: he complained about her cooking. He told her that what

898
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 1: he wanted is she packed his lunch for work the

899
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 1: next morning, et cetera. After the fifth comment or so

900
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 1: about her cooking, which was great, I made a comment.

901
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 1: I said, well, why don't you make dinner some time

902
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: if you don't like it? I said in the joking,

903
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,720
Speaker 1: playful manner, because I was feeling uncomfortable and quite frankly,

904
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:18,799
Speaker 1: very frustrated. He treats it so rudely, so I didn't

905
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 1: know what to do well. She ended up texting me

906
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: saying my comments really bothered her and she thought they

907
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 1: were disrespectful. I apologize for making the comments. I won't

908
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 1: make anymore again. I understand what she's saying to a degree,

909
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 1: but she also doesn't understand that he does not treat

910
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 1: her well. Do you have any thoughts on this? I

911
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 1: know Mark's the only married one, any suggestions. I just

912
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 1: don't even know what to think or how to respond

913
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 1: to her.

914
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 3: Easton is married.

915
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,440
Speaker 6: I've been married for nearly six months, and I have

916
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 6: a lot to say.

917
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 1: You going to start this one.

918
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 6: This is a toxic couple and you need to not

919
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 6: be their friend anymore.

920
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 1: Cut him out completely. No, no, not kint him out completely.

921
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:53,919
Speaker 1: But you're not.

922
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 6: Going to be able to change this. I'm saying if

923
00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:00,120
Speaker 6: you make that comment and she's she got mad, and

924
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 6: she got mad about that, and she wasn't kind of

925
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:02,880
Speaker 6: on board with me.

926
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:04,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's something else going.

927
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 6: On, and it's not really your responsibility or your place

928
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,839
Speaker 6: to be interfering in that. But there's something bad going

929
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:12,360
Speaker 6: on there, and I would see her clear.

930
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 1: It all worries me. She's twenty one and married to

931
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: a guy. Seems like a jerk. Yeah, and that's I

932
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 1: don't that's so sad, and I feel like she's trapped

933
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 1: and I don't know what the deal is there. I

934
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:24,240
Speaker 1: feel like there's more to this story.

935
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 2: She reminds me of that episode of Sex and the City.

936
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 2: Everything reminds me of Sex and huh. But you remember

937
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 2: when Carrie was at her friend's house and like her

938
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 2: husband is like always yelling at her being so crazy,

939
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 2: and Carrie like said something and then they ended up

940
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 2: like getting divorced as all, like Carrie's fault.

941
00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, bad, just bad. But I feel like this her

942
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 3: friend is like not in a good situation, Like maybe

943
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 3: she needs to get out of there. There needs to

944
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 3: be some something maybe.

945
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,240
Speaker 1: But she doesn't seem open to that, not at all,

946
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:00,799
Speaker 1: or helps receiving help.

947
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 3: I'm with Easton, though, I don't think this is her.

948
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 3: I mean, she obviously did what she thought she could

949
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 3: do and kind of set in a playful way. And

950
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,880
Speaker 3: if that went did not go over well, then yikes.

951
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 1: I mean, if he's this jerky, I don't know how

952
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 1: old he is. Actually, I'm assuming he's also quite young.

953
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 1: And if that's the case, boy, I don't see that

954
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 1: getting better Over the years. Life just gets more stressful

955
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 1: and worse.

956
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 3: And if he says that in front of a friend,

957
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 3: what is he doing when no one's around?

958
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:32,240
Speaker 1: Bec beca lee?

959
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 3: Wow, Yeah, that's unfortunate.

960
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:38,399
Speaker 6: You know, we've been we just bought a house, We've

961
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 6: been cooking a lot more, we haven't been going out

962
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 6: as much, and uh, and I also makes some really

963
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 6: great meals, really really the fantastic and I always tell

964
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 6: you that, And she keeps saying every other guy she

965
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,759
Speaker 6: was with never ever said that, and she because of that,

966
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 6: she thought she wasn't good at cooking. It turns out

967
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 6: she has this treasure trove of recipes that she was

968
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,399
Speaker 6: like nervous to bring up in front of me and uh,

969
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 6: they're great and I'm loving it.

970
00:42:58,080 --> 00:42:59,400
Speaker 1: Oh it makes me sad.

971
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,799
Speaker 3: Though I know you're you like made her feel good

972
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:05,440
Speaker 3: about it again, Like, that's such, that's what. That's what

973
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 3: a partner is supposed to lift you up, not tearing

974
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:09,319
Speaker 3: it down.

975
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 1: Don't go out with a guy who treats you like

976
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 1: this or takes advantage of stuff like this, or takes

977
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:17,359
Speaker 1: for granted stuff like this. Don't do it because it's

978
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 1: a bad sign.

979
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:21,359
Speaker 3: And there's there are good guys and girls out there

980
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 3: who there's so many people in the world to settle

981
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 3: for someone like that.

982
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe what the friend should do is she should

983
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 2: just send her the link to this podcast so she

984
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 2: can hear it for herself.

985
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'd be like, Hey, I have this amazing pop yeast.

986
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 4: I think I like it.

987
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 1: Maybe that's fine.

988
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:40,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, anonymous, And.

989
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 1: By the way, suggesting what did you make dinner? Sometimes

990
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:44,919
Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with that. That's not a bad thing.

991
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 3: Yeah. I think I would do the same thing if

992
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 3: I were like my good friend then her husband was

993
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 3: doing that. Like, if I was at Tanya's house and

994
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:54,360
Speaker 3: her husband talking like that, I'd be like Hey, Tim,

995
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:56,800
Speaker 3: why don't you make dinner sometime?

996
00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:00,799
Speaker 2: I love you because you literally just said his name,

997
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 2: just threw it in there and didn't even you didn't

998
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 2: even flench for a second.

999
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:12,880
Speaker 4: That was That is friendship. Yeah, that's four friendship.

1000
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:13,799
Speaker 3: Tell me.

1001
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 1: You're not as good as some transitions can I.

1002
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna tell you what she was trying to

1003
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 3: transition into thread Up. That's friendship. Yes, tell me how

1004
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:28,400
Speaker 3: it relates to friendship.

1005
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:36,799
Speaker 4: Because you know, uh, we are women's because we are

1006
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 4: women and we wear clothing.

1007
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:41,040
Speaker 1: You don't.

1008
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 6: That's There's a little story called the Sisterhood of the

1009
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 6: Traveling Pants. Wow, that ties together a group of young

1010
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 6: ladies through one pair of pants. And what if that

1011
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:49,759
Speaker 6: pair of pants ended up at thread Up and then

1012
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:51,720
Speaker 6: I bought the pants? Now we're all friends.

1013
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 3: Wow. Easton a bit of a stretch, no again, stretch

1014
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:59,359
Speaker 3: women who were women who wear pants or clothes And

1015
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:02,719
Speaker 3: that was your Easton. That was fantastic And I love

1016
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 3: Sister Heard of the Traveling Pants me too.

1017
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:05,879
Speaker 4: The book and the movie very good.

1018
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:08,359
Speaker 3: I would love to find those pants on thread Up.

1019
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 3: We got to figure out the brand. Yeah, okay, So

1020
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 3: thread app is an online thrift store, and I personally

1021
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 3: most of the shopping I do is online because I

1022
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:19,800
Speaker 3: don't love going to stores. In general.

1023
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 2: I say, like ninety percent of the things you do

1024
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:23,320
Speaker 2: are online.

1025
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 3: Yeah it's true, but especially shopping. Yeah, thrift stores really

1026
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 3: stressed me out going in and like searching and you know,

1027
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 3: you kind of wonder where did they come from? What

1028
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:36,280
Speaker 3: condition are they in? Every item that's on the site

1029
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 3: goes through a twelve point inspection process, so you know

1030
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:41,600
Speaker 3: what you're getting is high quality, and they have over

1031
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:44,840
Speaker 3: thirty five thousand brands that are up to ninety percent

1032
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 3: off the original retail value.

1033
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 4: That's amazing, amazing.

1034
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:52,479
Speaker 3: They're lets go ahead and say it, what are they doing.

1035
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:59,360
Speaker 2: They're basically reinventing the secondhand clothing industry and inspiring a

1036
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,439
Speaker 2: new generation consumers to think secondhand, but.

1037
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 1: First secondhand first.

1038
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, like think secondhand, but think that first.

1039
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:07,799
Speaker 1: I like that.

1040
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:10,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, let that be your first thought exactly.

1041
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 3: But honestly, finding a good deal is a very exciting,

1042
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:18,960
Speaker 3: a very exciting thrill when you're searching online. True, I'm

1043
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 3: not good at digging through clothing racks at any stores.

1044
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 3: It's exhausting to me. So thread up makes it really

1045
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 3: easy to find the brands you love. You can you

1046
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 3: can select like designer brands. They have designers on there,

1047
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 3: so you can really specify it to your size, what

1048
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 3: you're looking for, what kind of brands you're looking for.

1049
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 3: It's it makes they make it very easy and very customized.

1050
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:43,879
Speaker 3: Some of the brands that they have, they have free

1051
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 3: people dresses for ten dollars, Kate Spade handbags for thirty dollars.

1052
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:53,040
Speaker 3: Those are like one hundred dollars. Typically one hundred dollars items. Yeah,

1053
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:56,320
Speaker 3: and like I said, everything goes through a quality inspection process.

1054
00:46:56,320 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 3: It's just it makes shopping secondhand so easy and feel good.

1055
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 1: Imagine walking into a thrift store and what's your first tiet?

1056
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:04,239
Speaker 1: Where do I begin?

1057
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:04,879
Speaker 3: Where do I begin?

1058
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 1: So much to dig through? Imagine if you could just

1059
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:08,360
Speaker 1: close your eyes and just say, I only want to

1060
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 1: see stuff, these designers, these sizes and these prices. Yeah,

1061
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 1: and then it all comes right to you right here.

1062
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 1: That's a thread up is exact.

1063
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 3: Thank you, Mark, you summed it right off.

1064
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:19,719
Speaker 1: I'm excited, thank you.

1065
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:22,600
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1066
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1067
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:30,120
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1068
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Speaker 3: D up dot com slash Becca for thirty percent off

1069
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 3: today one more time. Tony is like smiling so big,

1070
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:42,440
Speaker 3: she's so ready to say, get an extra thirty percent

1071
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:45,120
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1072
00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:48,520
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1073
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 3: up dot com slash Becca.

1074
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 1: Friendship Quiz Friendship Quiz.

1075
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:57,440
Speaker 3: Friendship Quiz, Okay, quiz.

1076
00:47:57,600 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 1: I'm trying to come up with a friendship quiz that

1077
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:02,360
Speaker 1: we can actually have a winner. Okay. So we're going

1078
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:04,239
Speaker 1: to have one of you leave the room. Okay, I'm

1079
00:48:04,239 --> 00:48:07,279
Speaker 1: going to ask the other one four questions and when

1080
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:08,880
Speaker 1: they come when you come back in, we'll see if

1081
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:09,760
Speaker 1: you match the questions.

1082
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:12,800
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, Yeah, who wins?

1083
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: The winner is going to be whoever knows their friend

1084
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 1: the best. So in the first round, Tanya's going to

1085
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 1: leave the room. Oh will answer questions about Tanya. Becka

1086
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 1: will earn the points. There are different questions in each round.

1087
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:29,280
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, Friendship Cliz, friendship quiz.

1088
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 1: Here we go with the friendship queer. All right, Tanya's

1089
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:34,479
Speaker 1: leaving by Tanya Tanya? Okay, Tanya's not going to be listening.

1090
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:36,440
Speaker 1: We were at a sound Prift studio. Yes, we're going to

1091
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:38,400
Speaker 1: ask back four questions about Tanya, and she's going to

1092
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:41,320
Speaker 1: write down her answers on a card. You can also

1093
00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:43,759
Speaker 1: tell us what your answer is, aware of it?

1094
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 3: Okay, all right?

1095
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 1: Question number one? What is Tanya's middle name? We learned

1096
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 1: earlier today. Your middle name is Lee L E I

1097
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 1: G H. Tanya's middle name? Write it down? And what

1098
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 1: are you writing?

1099
00:48:57,760 --> 00:48:58,839
Speaker 3: I don't think she has one?

1100
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:03,400
Speaker 1: Okay? What is Tanya's go to alcoholic beverage? Or I

1101
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:05,879
Speaker 1: should phrase it? What will Tanya say is her go

1102
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:07,440
Speaker 1: to alcoholic beverage?

1103
00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm gonna go Last night she drank vodka water,

1104
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 3: but her normal thing is tequila water. Okay, is it

1105
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 3: right now?

1106
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 1: Or however she will answer the question what is your

1107
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:25,320
Speaker 1: go to alcoholic But.

1108
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:26,919
Speaker 3: That's she's on this weird diet thing.

1109
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 1: Oh that's true.

1110
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna say what she got last night, and

1111
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 3: then when she if she argues me, then I'm gonna say.

1112
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:33,959
Speaker 1: You're saying what vodka water?

1113
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:36,160
Speaker 3: Voda water? Okay?

1114
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:40,640
Speaker 1: When Tanya travels, name one thing you will always find

1115
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 1: in her suitcase.

1116
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm gonna go with what does she always a

1117
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:51,359
Speaker 3: sweater or jacket of some sort because she gets cold? Yeah?

1118
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:54,240
Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead, write that down, a sweater or jacket

1119
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 1: of some sort to regulate her temperature. And finally, and

1120
00:49:58,200 --> 00:49:59,960
Speaker 1: these gets harder as we go, which I try to

1121
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:03,960
Speaker 1: keep the easier ones towards the beginning. And finally, what

1122
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:06,560
Speaker 1: will Tanya's first child probably be named?

1123
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 3: Oh? Easy, Oh, okay, it's going to be a boy

1124
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 3: and his name will be Gray?

1125
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:17,319
Speaker 1: Gray? Okay, right, you know, I understand. Okay, does our

1126
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:17,879
Speaker 1: face down?

1127
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 3: Yep?

1128
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:20,480
Speaker 1: Okay, great, all right, let's get Tanya back in.

1129
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 3: The room here, Tanya, don't let me down on these answers.

1130
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 1: These are points for Becca. If Tanya gets the answers

1131
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 1: them the same way back of predicted she would, that's

1132
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 1: a point for Becca.

1133
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:32,760
Speaker 3: Is there any wiggle room, like any like we're.

1134
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 1: You know, maybe maybe we'll take it on a case

1135
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 1: by case basis. Okay, all right, Tanya, question number one,

1136
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 1: I'm confused.

1137
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 4: Okay, go ahead, So down does she leave? And I answer?

1138
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 3: After we do this?

1139
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:46,360
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, Oh they're different questions, Yeah, got it.

1140
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. So the first question we asked

1141
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:51,880
Speaker 1: Becca about you is what is your middle name? What

1142
00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 1: is your middle name? I do not have a medal,

1143
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:55,359
Speaker 1: and Beca you said doesn't have one?

1144
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:58,680
Speaker 3: All right, I'm so bad. I'm like, I don't know

1145
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 3: her middle name, and I'm like, I think she has

1146
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 3: a little I don't know.

1147
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 1: That's a point, Tanya. What is your go to alcoholic beverage?

1148
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:09,360
Speaker 2: Well, okay, there's a wiggle room because it used to

1149
00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 2: be tequila and is currently.

1150
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:12,960
Speaker 1: So what is your answer? Though? I need one answer?

1151
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 4: Did you do current? Okay? Vodka?

1152
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:16,920
Speaker 1: Water?

1153
00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 3: This is so great.

1154
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: I hope they're going to get harder. Tanya. What is

1155
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:26,399
Speaker 1: something when you travel that you always have in your

1156
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:29,680
Speaker 1: suitcase when you travel? This thing is always in your suitcase?

1157
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 2: What is it my devotional I'm sorry, jacket or sweater?

1158
00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:43,279
Speaker 1: I would have said gas X. And finally, what will

1159
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 1: your first child probably be named?

1160
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:47,839
Speaker 4: I don't even know that.

1161
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 1: Well, it's a she had an answer. So what do

1162
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:55,400
Speaker 1: you think you've thought of the name? I have it.

1163
00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 4: If it's a girl, I'm thinking Grace or Faith.

1164
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:05,800
Speaker 1: Okay, that's girl. Okay, boy, I need one answer.

1165
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:07,760
Speaker 4: Okay, Grace.

1166
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 1: Oh.

1167
00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 3: I literally thought shower for a boy? I said gray. Oh,

1168
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 3: like Meredith, but like I literally thought she was about saying,

1169
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, wow, we're so InSync. This is crazy, all right?

1170
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:26,960
Speaker 4: So that was like I don't even know that they

1171
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 4: start easy.

1172
00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:28,879
Speaker 1: And they get harder, all right, So that was two

1173
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 1: points for Becca. Now Becca's gonna leave the room. We'll

1174
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 1: ask tiny questions about Becca and see how that was hard.

1175
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:35,000
Speaker 4: That I would I wouldn't even know what do you

1176
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:35,799
Speaker 4: want to name your kids?

1177
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 1: I don't even know something with Gray's probably always.

1178
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:43,799
Speaker 4: And she threw Phoebe in there. With Phoebe, I was like, friends, all.

1179
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 1: Right, here we go, ready? Yeah, if you and Becca

1180
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 1: went out for frozen yogurt, what flavor would Becca get?

1181
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:52,040
Speaker 4: Are you kidding me?

1182
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:58,360
Speaker 1: No? What's her flavor of ice cream? This seems like

1183
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:00,399
Speaker 1: something friends would know about each other, the ice cream

1184
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:01,799
Speaker 1: flavor that they would get.

1185
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:05,359
Speaker 4: Well, like, we go to freeze. Okay, okay, why don't

1186
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 4: we say can we say freeze?

1187
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:09,360
Speaker 1: It's not a flavor freeze?

1188
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,360
Speaker 4: She gets chocolate, chocolate, chocolate freeze.

1189
00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:13,239
Speaker 1: Chocolate is the answer.

1190
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 4: Okay, chocolate freeze.

1191
00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 1: But if she just says chocolate, you win. So I'm

1192
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:19,160
Speaker 1: trying to help you here. Anything chocolate, you win.

1193
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 4: Well, I don't know if it would. Yeah, I say,

1194
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:26,719
Speaker 4: h double.

1195
00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:32,120
Speaker 1: In an hour. Okay, next question, get the vanilla freeze.

1196
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:33,760
Speaker 1: You're sticking with chocolate.

1197
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:34,920
Speaker 3: Why don't we just.

1198
00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:37,719
Speaker 4: Say freeze because telling them our friendship, because that's where

1199
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:39,359
Speaker 4: we go. That's what can I do?

1200
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 1: Flavor? Okay, you have to pick chocolate and vanilla or

1201
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:45,720
Speaker 1: something else, but it's got to be a flavor.

1202
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 2: It's like we don't eat ice cream because I'm lactose.

1203
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 1: I understand frozen yogurt.

1204
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 4: Why can't you just let me do freeze?

1205
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:56,799
Speaker 1: Freeze is in the same family as these things. I

1206
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:58,720
Speaker 1: think it's it's fine, but it needs to be a flavor.

1207
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:02,160
Speaker 4: Okay, vanilla vanilla free vanilla.

1208
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:04,880
Speaker 1: Changing it to vanilla sucks.

1209
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 4: I hate that was the easy one. I was struggling.

1210
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 1: Well, this one is another one. You might be able

1211
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:11,239
Speaker 1: to get this one. What is Becca's mother's first name?

1212
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:11,960
Speaker 4: Nancy?

1213
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 1: Okay? Good? All right, so there you go. Feel confident

1214
00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:14,680
Speaker 1: about that one.

1215
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay.

1216
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:19,279
Speaker 1: Some people think they have nice eyes. Some love how

1217
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 1: their hands look. What part of Becca's body is her favorite?

1218
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:25,360
Speaker 1: Some people think they have great feet, like Amy. Amy

1219
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:27,279
Speaker 1: Sugarman thinks she has the best feet she could be

1220
00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:27,960
Speaker 1: a foot model.

1221
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:29,759
Speaker 2: I know it's so funny because Becca's not one to

1222
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:36,400
Speaker 2: be like, I love my abs, I love my arms, eyes, hair, lips,

1223
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 2: maybe smile, smiles.

1224
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:38,719
Speaker 1: Great.

1225
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 4: Okay.

1226
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:43,839
Speaker 1: Finally, for this one, we're looking for a number as

1227
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:44,919
Speaker 1: in first, second, third.

1228
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:45,400
Speaker 4: Okay.

1229
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: If Becca were to become pregnant, Tanya would be the

1230
00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:51,080
Speaker 1: blank person she would tell first, second, third.

1231
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 2: Fourth, Well, this she'ld probably call her parents, so that'd

1232
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:55,319
Speaker 2: be one.

1233
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 1: One, two. I'm saying which person wish you would tell?

1234
00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:01,319
Speaker 1: So he's saying mom, dad.

1235
00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 2: She has so many siblings, Okay, so I guess Caroline three,

1236
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:13,919
Speaker 2: Hannah four, Katie five. I guess Jake, her brother in law,

1237
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:16,399
Speaker 2: and maybe Chris, her brother's probably.

1238
00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 1: Seven, eighth okay, eighth, No, but that makes sense the

1239
00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 1: way you lay it out.

1240
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:25,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, you gotten there.

1241
00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 4: She would tell Phoebe before me.

1242
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:29,680
Speaker 1: That doesn't count. Not a person. Okay, all right, you

1243
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:30,400
Speaker 1: got ready to go.

1244
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:30,719
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1245
00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:34,319
Speaker 2: Wait, these are like way harder than the ones now

1246
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:34,840
Speaker 2: they are.

1247
00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 4: These were not fair.

1248
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 1: This is fun.

1249
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:40,760
Speaker 4: This one was not. These are terrible questions.

1250
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 1: It's not there, they're they're they're basically the same question. Okay, Okay, Becca,

1251
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 1: welcome back. This is the points for Tanya. Now, if

1252
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:49,640
Speaker 1: she was able to predict your answers to these questions.

1253
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 3: That took a while, by the way.

1254
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 1: It did if you and Becca went out for frozen yogurt. So,

1255
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:57,480
Speaker 1: if the two of you went out for frozen yogurt,

1256
00:55:57,480 --> 00:55:59,840
Speaker 1: what flavor would Becka get? That was question number.

1257
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 3: One, Plain tart.

1258
00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:03,960
Speaker 1: That's a great answer and a very quick answer. Tanya

1259
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:08,360
Speaker 1: went back and forth for an hour about chocolate, vanilla, freezes, freeze.

1260
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:09,800
Speaker 4: I said, we go to get freeze.

1261
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:15,239
Speaker 3: Oh, well, freeze is not frozen yoga. Correct, But if

1262
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:18,839
Speaker 3: I go, if I got freeze, I'd get vanilla with strawberry,

1263
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 3: chocolate chips and cacal drizzle.

1264
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:25,759
Speaker 1: Not a correct answer. You're you're the reason they have

1265
00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 1: plain tart in those places. I've always wondered who gets

1266
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:28,759
Speaker 1: the plain tart?

1267
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I can't believe they have other flavors,

1268
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:35,280
Speaker 3: like pinkberry. Original was just a plain tart, Yes.

1269
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:37,279
Speaker 1: I remember, and I was happy when they changed that

1270
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:40,640
Speaker 1: up a little bit. I'm all right, what is Becca's

1271
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:41,759
Speaker 1: mother's first name?

1272
00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 3: Nancy?

1273
00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 1: What did you say, Tanya? Hold up the car, She said, Nancy,

1274
00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:47,280
Speaker 1: They're good that's a point for Tanya.

1275
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:49,000
Speaker 4: That one's the only easy one.

1276
00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 3: I was like, that shouldn't be hard.

1277
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 1: Well, they're gonna get harder now. Some people think they

1278
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:55,360
Speaker 1: have nice eyes. Some love how their hands. Look, what

1279
00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:58,360
Speaker 1: part of your body is your favorite? Becca? And I

1280
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:00,279
Speaker 1: used Amy as an example. She loves her feet.

1281
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:02,319
Speaker 4: Yeah. I was like, Becca's not really a person to like.

1282
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:04,319
Speaker 1: Be like I love Okay, Tanya, that's enough.

1283
00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:06,120
Speaker 3: Becca, probably my teeth.

1284
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:11,319
Speaker 1: That's very good.

1285
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:13,359
Speaker 4: I was gonna say teeth too, which is really.

1286
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:15,560
Speaker 1: Funny, but I was like, very good, all right, And

1287
00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:18,440
Speaker 1: now for this one, we're looking for a number, as

1288
00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 1: in first, second, third, that sort of thing. Think about this,

1289
00:57:20,960 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 1: if becha, if Becca were to become pregnant, Tanya would

1290
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:27,760
Speaker 1: be the blank person She would tell first, second, third, fourth,

1291
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 1: and so on. You want to take us through the order.

1292
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm trying to think, well my parents, so or

1293
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:37,240
Speaker 3: is that one and two? I mean you gotta think

1294
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 3: I have I have seven people or yeah, seven people

1295
00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 3: that I would tell.

1296
00:57:44,960 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 1: Okay, so Tanya would be.

1297
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 3: Wait, hold on, think it through. I am. I am.

1298
00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: If Becker to become pregnant, Tanya would.

1299
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:57,480
Speaker 3: Be the I'm gonna say tenth.

1300
00:57:57,320 --> 00:58:05,240
Speaker 7: Person she would Oh, well, this is the only reason

1301
00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 7: I said this was because I was thinking about my grandparent, Like,

1302
00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 7: I'm thinking of hell, I would have to in my family.

1303
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:12,880
Speaker 3: I think you'd be the first outside of family.

1304
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:14,920
Speaker 1: Okay, so grandparents, Yeah, you did not.

1305
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 4: They went through the whole family. I was like, she

1306
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:23,280
Speaker 4: called her mom, her dad, she o Katie and Jakes.

1307
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:27,320
Speaker 1: And it's funny because you did say I have seven people.

1308
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:29,320
Speaker 1: I'm not sure you were going to say a. I

1309
00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 1: know you got grandparents. So we have a tie two

1310
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 1: to two. Luckily I have a tie breaker. Oh, you

1311
00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:36,640
Speaker 1: can both write down your answer to this. Don't show

1312
00:58:36,640 --> 00:58:38,640
Speaker 1: the other one what you're writing down, including this one.

1313
00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:42,320
Speaker 1: How many episodes of scrubbing in have you two done together?

1314
00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 1: That's a very good question, Mark, Thank you very much.

1315
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 1: I admire that. Okay, you have your answers.

1316
00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:49,600
Speaker 3: Wait, it's today included?

1317
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:53,040
Speaker 1: Today is included? All right? She's still thinking, doing some

1318
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 1: mental maths adding it up. How many months has it been?

1319
00:58:57,440 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 1: How many weeks in the months. Becky's going to great

1320
00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:02,440
Speaker 1: physical lengths to keep tany from seeing what's going to

1321
00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:03,320
Speaker 1: my answer?

1322
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:06,840
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm so unnecessary.

1323
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:08,880
Speaker 1: She's one of those kids in school that would not

1324
00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:10,120
Speaker 1: let anyone over her show.

1325
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 2: She would create like a barrier with the hands she

1326
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 2: wasn't writing with. She was one of those people. I

1327
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:16,320
Speaker 2: was the one that like left my page open, like

1328
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:17,320
Speaker 2: you can cheat off me.

1329
00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:20,160
Speaker 4: Feel free, feel free. I am barely passing this spot.

1330
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 3: I feel like you are trying to distract me from telling.

1331
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:25,160
Speaker 4: Right now, go Aheaday, don't look at mine.

1332
00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 3: This will be whoever can Jason, George, Lonnie doctor out.

1333
00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:33,640
Speaker 1: And if there's a tie, the person who goes over loses,

1334
00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:39,640
Speaker 1: but it's whoever's close. No, Tanya, don't change your answer.

1335
00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:44,200
Speaker 1: You're good. Don't listen to Becca's thinking. Okay, all right, Tanya,

1336
00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:49,240
Speaker 1: you can reveal first twenty twenty. Becca, you're saying nineteen.

1337
00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 1: All right, this is our current episode is number twenty six. However,

1338
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:57,880
Speaker 1: Tanya was not in the first three. Therefore you have

1339
00:59:57,920 --> 00:59:59,520
Speaker 1: done twenty three together.

1340
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 3: Is the winner? Yeah? It was when Jason George was on,

1341
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:13,120
Speaker 3: and then Lonnie was on and then doctor Mike.

1342
01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:16,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, those are the three. Episode four Beca's friend Tanya

1343
01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:20,440
Speaker 1: stopped by and the rest is history.

1344
01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:22,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, what did I win?

1345
01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:24,320
Speaker 1: You know we didn't decide that actually.

1346
01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:27,160
Speaker 3: So I can't I don't think we didn't decide that.

1347
01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 3: I would have tried harder.

1348
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 4: That's blown.

1349
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:34,080
Speaker 3: I would have didn't. I would have written grace on

1350
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 3: my page had I known that that.

1351
01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 4: Was the that was closed.

1352
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:39,400
Speaker 1: Gray was closed.

1353
01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 3: I know when you were like Gray, I was like.

1354
01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 1: Some quikies here before we what what quikies?

1355
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:47,240
Speaker 4: I get the text from your phone.

1356
01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:53,200
Speaker 1: I was never agreed you we're determining who's the better friend.

1357
01:00:55,640 --> 01:01:00,520
Speaker 3: Knew that, but well, in in like standard friends terms,

1358
01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 3: if you were reading it on paper, Tony's a better friend.

1359
01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:07,760
Speaker 4: But my soul really yeah, why does it get bragging?

1360
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:07,960
Speaker 3: Right?

1361
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:08,880
Speaker 1: Do you get right?

1362
01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 3: Congrats on that?

1363
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:11,920
Speaker 1: I can't keep doing the texting.

1364
01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 4: I was so ready to text Brett Eldridge.

1365
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:17,760
Speaker 3: You can text Brett Eldridge from my phone if you want.

1366
01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 3: You don't have to win anything. It's like mind game.

1367
01:01:22,720 --> 01:01:24,600
Speaker 3: I play mind games of people.

1368
01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:28,440
Speaker 1: Just some quickies. Julia is going to start doing accountability

1369
01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:31,800
Speaker 1: coaching thanks to you. What is your best piece of

1370
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:34,080
Speaker 1: advice going in? How did you make time to work

1371
01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:36,760
Speaker 1: out daily with your big, busy schedule, and what was

1372
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:39,120
Speaker 1: the biggest sacrifice you had to make the commit when

1373
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 1: you committed to accountability coaching. So basically, Tany has a

1374
01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 1: coach named Teddy who make sure that she exercises and

1375
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:47,560
Speaker 1: eats properly and stays on the plan to become the

1376
01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:48,440
Speaker 1: person she wants to be.

1377
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:52,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd say the biggest challenge is getting out of

1378
01:01:52,080 --> 01:01:54,680
Speaker 2: your own way. When I first started with her, I

1379
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 2: kept saying, like, exactly the same thing. I have such

1380
01:01:57,400 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 2: a busy schedule. I work really hard. Some days I

1381
01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 2: go for six am to six pm, Like I can't

1382
01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:04,400
Speaker 2: work out every day, and guess what I've done for

1383
01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:05,480
Speaker 2: the past four months.

1384
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:07,200
Speaker 4: She worked out every day.

1385
01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:09,640
Speaker 2: Minus there are you are going to have exceptions and

1386
01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:11,720
Speaker 2: you just have to like be real with yourself. I

1387
01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:16,000
Speaker 2: think I've missed three days three months, wow, because I

1388
01:02:16,080 --> 01:02:20,160
Speaker 2: was either traveling or something. So I think you have

1389
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 2: to get out of your own way, because I think

1390
01:02:21,520 --> 01:02:23,160
Speaker 2: we make our own excuses in our head.

1391
01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 4: And when you really, when.

1392
01:02:24,120 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 2: It really comes down to it, like you can like

1393
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 2: I'll even if it goes a whole day and I

1394
01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:29,760
Speaker 2: haven't worked out, I'll text Becca and be like and

1395
01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:30,320
Speaker 2: to going to walk?

1396
01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:31,200
Speaker 4: Will you going to walk with me?

1397
01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:33,560
Speaker 2: You know, like there is there there's a way to

1398
01:02:33,600 --> 01:02:36,200
Speaker 2: do it every single day. Now to the level ten.

1399
01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 2: I don't work out it. I don't like do crazy

1400
01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:39,160
Speaker 2: stuff every day.

1401
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:41,480
Speaker 3: But that's not what you're it's just doing something.

1402
01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 4: Okay.

1403
01:02:42,160 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 1: And Becca, you had talked about getting in touch with Teddy.

1404
01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 1: Did you ever do that?

1405
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 3: I met her last night. Yeah, so, uh I got

1406
01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:54,720
Speaker 3: in touch with her. It's like one time I wrote

1407
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:57,760
Speaker 3: I like texted her because I couldn't remember the three

1408
01:02:57,800 --> 01:03:00,320
Speaker 3: steps she gave us into was on the podcast like

1409
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:03,560
Speaker 3: easy Ways. It was like, drink a cup of water

1410
01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 3: right when you wake up, don't eat after eight No,

1411
01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:10,040
Speaker 3: it was like three hours before you go to sleep

1412
01:03:10,200 --> 01:03:12,400
Speaker 3: something like that, and then do at least one hour

1413
01:03:12,440 --> 01:03:14,240
Speaker 3: of exercise a day. So I was like writing her

1414
01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 3: asking those and then the next day I woke up

1415
01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:18,240
Speaker 3: and I had a really sore throat, and so I

1416
01:03:18,280 --> 01:03:20,240
Speaker 3: was like, oh, I was gonna try to start eating

1417
01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:22,000
Speaker 3: better today, but I woke up with the sore throat

1418
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 3: and all I want is a slurpy and all she wrote.

1419
01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 3: She tweeted me and was like Hi Becca. I'm like

1420
01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:29,240
Speaker 3: it was so scary, Like my stomach dropped. I'm like,

1421
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:32,880
Speaker 3: I've been paying her to do this. Why she's talking

1422
01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:33,080
Speaker 3: to me?

1423
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:34,840
Speaker 4: So my advice is get out of your own way.

1424
01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:37,120
Speaker 1: I think that's good advice. Yeah, great, Cassidy. As the

1425
01:03:37,200 --> 01:03:39,280
Speaker 1: question for you, where do you get your blanket pants?

1426
01:03:39,960 --> 01:03:41,400
Speaker 1: I'm very much like you, and I love to be

1427
01:03:41,440 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 1: on the couch watching Grays or whatever show I'm currently

1428
01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:47,400
Speaker 1: loving while also being cozy. I'm assuming blanket pants are

1429
01:03:47,400 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 1: at the real name because I googled them and I

1430
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:50,400
Speaker 1: couldn't find them. Please share where you get them?

1431
01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:55,240
Speaker 3: Oh man, what share where you got them? This is

1432
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:57,440
Speaker 3: gonna make me look even worse than I do in

1433
01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:02,760
Speaker 3: this situation. Robert had the blanket pants specially made for me.

1434
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:07,720
Speaker 3: Sweet He's like yeah, and so he, I guess, went

1435
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:09,840
Speaker 3: to downtown LA and found someone.

1436
01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:10,760
Speaker 4: Like the coziest.

1437
01:04:10,760 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 3: Fact, well, my original pair that I first discovered these pants.

1438
01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:17,240
Speaker 3: They were from Coal's and they no longer sell them.

1439
01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:19,440
Speaker 3: I've searched high and low, and Robert knew that, and

1440
01:04:19,480 --> 01:04:23,000
Speaker 3: so he for my birthday went and took somehow got

1441
01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:26,240
Speaker 3: my sister to bring him the original blanket pants, took

1442
01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:29,000
Speaker 3: them down and got like four pairs made for me,

1443
01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 3: and they say they say Beck's brand on them. I

1444
01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:36,840
Speaker 3: also liked Robert's photo the other night of him like

1445
01:04:37,160 --> 01:04:39,320
Speaker 3: he was like my date, my wedding date, and it

1446
01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:41,600
Speaker 3: was an empty chair next to him, and everyone on

1447
01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:44,120
Speaker 3: the Facebook group was like that was the most passive

1448
01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:51,200
Speaker 3: aggressive like of all time because I liked it. I

1449
01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:52,439
Speaker 3: just wanted to let him know I'm.

1450
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:56,200
Speaker 1: A guy that made you your own blanket, and I

1451
01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:58,960
Speaker 1: just to add to like a little salt in the wound.

1452
01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 4: Wasn't that after you guys have broken up? Yeah, yeah,

1453
01:05:02,240 --> 01:05:02,520
Speaker 4: I know.

1454
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 3: I know what a guy I know. This is why.

1455
01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:10,360
Speaker 3: This is why when't like when people tell their story

1456
01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 3: about like getting over someone or like being out of

1457
01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:15,840
Speaker 3: a relationship, getting out of a situation. My situation is

1458
01:05:15,840 --> 01:05:19,160
Speaker 3: so different because he was everything, you know, like he

1459
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:26,240
Speaker 3: had it all. Listen. I'm learning things about myself through this,

1460
01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:29,760
Speaker 3: so sometimes it takes time.

1461
01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:32,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's all timing.

1462
01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 1: It's all timing. There's a glimmer there for me personally too.

1463
01:05:37,360 --> 01:05:40,960
Speaker 1: And then Megan has a story about seeing Tim Tebow

1464
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:43,040
Speaker 1: on an airplane back in twenty fifteen.

1465
01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:45,800
Speaker 4: Where was I in twenty fifteen, I don't.

1466
01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:48,720
Speaker 1: Know, but they're on this flight to Texas and he

1467
01:05:48,800 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 1: was in the row in front of me across the island.

1468
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:52,080
Speaker 1: I was trying to keep make composure of My family

1469
01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 1: are huge Broncos fans and he was a quarterback for

1470
01:05:54,600 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 1: the Broncos.

1471
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:56,480
Speaker 4: My dad's name is Bronco. No big deal.

1472
01:05:56,640 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 1: Perfect, So she's stalked in the baggage clam and asked

1473
01:05:58,800 --> 01:06:00,120
Speaker 1: if he could take a video of him get having

1474
01:06:00,160 --> 01:06:03,240
Speaker 1: a shout out to the family. Well as an opposite

1475
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:06,640
Speaker 1: of what Taylor Swift did to Becca. She only expected

1476
01:06:06,680 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 1: him to give a few words, but he proceeded to

1477
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:10,240
Speaker 1: tell my family that I was an awesome girl and

1478
01:06:10,280 --> 01:06:12,880
Speaker 1: that he hoped to meet them someday. I just thought

1479
01:06:12,880 --> 01:06:14,720
Speaker 1: it was so impressive because he didn't have to agree

1480
01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 1: to do a video at all, and then he didn't

1481
01:06:16,440 --> 01:06:18,320
Speaker 1: have to say the nice things that he did. Tani

1482
01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 1: needs to make her move on Tim asap. You're not

1483
01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:21,640
Speaker 1: going to find a nicer guy.

1484
01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:24,760
Speaker 4: Just go for it, girl, Oh girl, I'm trying.

1485
01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:28,480
Speaker 1: Love your podcast, Love y'all and ps di, Becca totally

1486
01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 1: creep down your brother. After y'all talked about him a

1487
01:06:30,720 --> 01:06:33,520
Speaker 1: few podcasts ago, and I noticed some of his recent

1488
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:36,000
Speaker 1: tweets showed his location as Midland, Texas, and that's where

1489
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:38,960
Speaker 1: I live. So hook a sistuf up whoa actually a

1490
01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:41,240
Speaker 1: number of comments about your brother in the emails this week.

1491
01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:44,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, we get him in here when he's in LA.

1492
01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:44,959
Speaker 1: He would be a good guest.

1493
01:06:45,240 --> 01:06:46,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, so hilarious.

1494
01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:49,400
Speaker 1: Who else is on our list of guests? Brad Goreski,

1495
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:50,360
Speaker 1: he's coming, Oh.

1496
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:51,760
Speaker 4: We're supposed to come today.

1497
01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:56,720
Speaker 2: But so he styles Jenna Duwan Tatumduwan Tatum and it's

1498
01:06:56,720 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 2: like she only has two days left of this show

1499
01:06:58,920 --> 01:07:00,400
Speaker 2: that she's doing, so he would have had to make.

1500
01:07:00,280 --> 01:07:03,000
Speaker 3: A quick quick We don't want him to be rushed.

1501
01:07:03,080 --> 01:07:05,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like, I think it'd be funner, if more

1502
01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 2: fun if I could just hang out and not have

1503
01:07:07,520 --> 01:07:08,240
Speaker 2: to like rush.

1504
01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:08,680
Speaker 4: Out, said.

1505
01:07:08,840 --> 01:07:11,080
Speaker 3: I saw him last night. You know, he was like,

1506
01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:13,640
Speaker 3: I love your dress. Feel great, which coming from him,

1507
01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 3: I was like, that means a lot, thank you. I

1508
01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:16,360
Speaker 3: love you.

1509
01:07:16,560 --> 01:07:19,680
Speaker 1: He's good, He'll be good, He'll be great.

1510
01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:22,040
Speaker 3: I love my brother. I want Matthew Hussey on here.

1511
01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:24,600
Speaker 5: Now.

1512
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:27,280
Speaker 3: We need Matthew, especially.

1513
01:07:26,800 --> 01:07:28,000
Speaker 1: Now because he's dating Cam.

1514
01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:29,600
Speaker 3: Like, I don't care about that. I want him to

1515
01:07:29,640 --> 01:07:33,160
Speaker 3: get most advice. I want I want him, we need him.

1516
01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:33,920
Speaker 1: He's just great.

1517
01:07:34,040 --> 01:07:37,440
Speaker 3: He's I feel good about this, Like, I feel like

1518
01:07:37,480 --> 01:07:38,280
Speaker 3: we can make this.

1519
01:07:39,080 --> 01:07:41,800
Speaker 4: I saw him last night but I can't. No, you can't.

1520
01:07:41,840 --> 01:07:43,880
Speaker 1: I met him and I was like, oh man, you're great.

1521
01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:47,520
Speaker 2: And it's really funny because he told me last night

1522
01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:50,280
Speaker 2: he's like, I didn't hear her. I was like, I

1523
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:54,720
Speaker 2: totally forgot that you were dating Camila, you know. And

1524
01:07:54,720 --> 01:07:56,760
Speaker 2: and even though and.

1525
01:07:56,680 --> 01:07:58,240
Speaker 4: He's like, yeah, I'm surprised. He's like I have all

1526
01:07:58,320 --> 01:07:59,320
Speaker 4: the people that reach out to me.

1527
01:07:59,360 --> 01:08:01,200
Speaker 2: He's like, I would have expected it because it's like

1528
01:08:01,280 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 2: it's both your world's.

1529
01:08:02,240 --> 01:08:03,120
Speaker 4: Combined, you know.

1530
01:08:03,160 --> 01:08:05,240
Speaker 2: And I was like, well, yeah, it's so awkward to

1531
01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:10,400
Speaker 2: be like, hey, some Tom Razzi dating Camilla cool, you know.

1532
01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:11,520
Speaker 4: So weird.

1533
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Speaker 1: I like to do that voice.

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01:08:12,720 --> 01:08:15,840
Speaker 3: I know, it's like who is that? That's her? No

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01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:17,439
Speaker 3: middle name? Self?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, uh, when I mentioned last week that we

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01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 1: were going to keep these to forty minutes, people, so

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01:08:23,920 --> 01:08:25,680
Speaker 1: clearly we're not going to do that. So you can

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01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 1: stop your hateful comments on Facebook saying no, no, no, no, no,

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01:08:29,200 --> 01:08:32,439
Speaker 1: don't worry. We're uh, well past forty minutes today.

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01:08:32,880 --> 01:08:38,320
Speaker 3: But don't say it. Don't say it. Don't say it.

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01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:41,000
Speaker 1: If there's anybody would like us to co host, by

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01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:41,880
Speaker 1: the way, let us know.

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01:08:42,120 --> 01:08:45,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yes, and in your suggestions. We could probably

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01:08:45,400 --> 01:08:49,040
Speaker 3: get Taylor Swift like probably yeah, Tim would probably come

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01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:53,960
Speaker 3: on by Patrick, Oh yeah, LM Pompeo an now I would.

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01:08:54,120 --> 01:08:56,280
Speaker 3: I feel like we could get Sarah dor or Jessica

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01:08:56,400 --> 01:08:59,240
Speaker 3: Capsule once they don't have anything going on. They like

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01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:01,920
Speaker 3: to want to come. You want to come on the podcast.

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01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:05,280
Speaker 1: We would take anybody who's ever done Gray's Anatomy.

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01:09:05,479 --> 01:09:06,280
Speaker 3: I'll take an extra.

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01:09:06,840 --> 01:09:10,640
Speaker 1: You're an extra played a dead body. That's fine. I

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01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:13,000
Speaker 1: have questions, yes, I have so many. How do they

1554
01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:14,160
Speaker 1: not breathe for whole scenes?

1555
01:09:14,200 --> 01:09:18,080
Speaker 3: Wait, my sister worked or works or something with a guy.

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01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:20,720
Speaker 3: Do you remember the young guy who was covered in

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01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:24,200
Speaker 3: cement and he had the crush on she works with? That?

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01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:26,439
Speaker 4: That was an episode I know.

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01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:31,200
Speaker 3: Thank you for the emails. Thank y'all for being so nice,

1560
01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:34,080
Speaker 3: kind and kind to us and to each other on

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01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:38,040
Speaker 3: the Facebook group. Keep doing that, keep requesting to be

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01:09:38,080 --> 01:09:41,439
Speaker 3: a part, because I am accepting people on a rapid

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01:09:41,560 --> 01:09:42,160
Speaker 3: daily basis.

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01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 1: You made me an admin, and so I've been trying

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01:09:43,880 --> 01:09:45,120
Speaker 1: to pick up some slack there.

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01:09:45,400 --> 01:09:53,040
Speaker 3: Great Tanya doesn't do anything administration. You just hit approval, tried.

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01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 3: Thank you. That's the same with Postmates.

1568
01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:02,600
Speaker 1: And I don't know how to do that.

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01:10:03,160 --> 01:10:05,679
Speaker 2: Try it's the easiest thing to try once with Postmates

1570
01:10:05,720 --> 01:10:08,320
Speaker 2: and it was so hard, But I realized that it

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01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:09,880
Speaker 2: was the restaurant that I.

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01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:11,480
Speaker 4: Was ordering from that was difficult.

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01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 1: I see.

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01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:12,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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01:10:13,280 --> 01:10:14,640
Speaker 4: The second time I did, I was like, this is

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01:10:14,680 --> 01:10:15,200
Speaker 4: really easy.

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01:10:15,280 --> 01:10:17,439
Speaker 1: Somebody said to me recently, Oh, I I don't want

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01:10:17,439 --> 01:10:20,040
Speaker 1: to do venmo. I don't understand how all that stuff works. Oh,

1579
01:10:20,080 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 1: come on, it's the easiest thing in the world.

1580
01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:24,400
Speaker 3: Take some time, two seconds.

1581
01:10:23,920 --> 01:10:25,360
Speaker 1: Two seconds, and then it's so fun.

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01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:26,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, so fun to send money.

1583
01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:29,000
Speaker 1: Money makes fun to send money.

1584
01:10:31,280 --> 01:10:36,719
Speaker 3: Keep emailing us that scrubbing in at iHeartMedia dot com.

1585
01:10:36,800 --> 01:10:41,160
Speaker 3: The Facebook group is scrubbing in Facebook group. Thank you

1586
01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:44,360
Speaker 3: to our sponsors, thread up and bio Clarity.

1587
01:10:46,160 --> 01:10:48,280
Speaker 1: What else this week? Anything?

1588
01:10:48,439 --> 01:10:50,080
Speaker 3: Congrats some being a better friend than me?

1589
01:10:50,600 --> 01:10:52,240
Speaker 4: Thank you, Thank you very much.

1590
01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:56,240
Speaker 3: I hope you do a lot with that victory. Will do?

1591
01:10:56,400 --> 01:10:58,040
Speaker 1: Are you guys gonna go out at anytime soon?

1592
01:10:58,120 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 3: Get your mojo back so much happy JoJo's in town

1593
01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:02,280
Speaker 3: this week she.

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01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:04,760
Speaker 4: Is I'm going down to my parents' house this weekend. No,

1595
01:11:04,880 --> 01:11:06,120
Speaker 4: this weekend, okay, this.

1596
01:11:06,120 --> 01:11:08,559
Speaker 3: Week she's she's here today or she gets here tonight,

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01:11:08,600 --> 01:11:11,320
Speaker 3: I think, so we can go do something there.

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01:11:11,320 --> 01:11:14,160
Speaker 1: It is the fifth time five ye five, it's.

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01:11:14,080 --> 01:11:15,880
Speaker 3: My favorite number. So I was gonna get a fifth

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01:11:15,920 --> 01:11:16,200
Speaker 3: in there.

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01:11:16,360 --> 01:11:18,120
Speaker 1: Oh, that would have been good for the friendship quiz.

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01:11:18,200 --> 01:11:21,679
Speaker 3: What is back his favorite five? Yeah? Definitely not interesting

1603
01:11:22,439 --> 01:11:24,519
Speaker 3: because your favorite number.

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01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:27,320
Speaker 4: I always wonder what the five was for.

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01:11:28,320 --> 01:11:36,400
Speaker 3: Your favorite number is probably I'm gonna guess sixteen incorrect?

1606
01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:37,160
Speaker 3: What is it?

1607
01:11:37,560 --> 01:11:37,840
Speaker 4: Three?

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01:11:38,280 --> 01:11:41,639
Speaker 3: Oh? I was gonna say four. I would have been closed. Three.

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01:11:41,760 --> 01:11:43,720
Speaker 2: I was Bobcat number three, And it's just like I've

1610
01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:44,479
Speaker 2: had good numbers.

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01:11:44,560 --> 01:11:45,040
Speaker 1: What does that mean?

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01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:46,320
Speaker 3: Bobcat numbers?

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01:11:46,560 --> 01:11:49,000
Speaker 2: I was an honorary in college and we were the

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01:11:49,000 --> 01:11:50,639
Speaker 2: Bobcats and there's thirteen of us.

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01:11:51,200 --> 01:11:52,360
Speaker 1: This makes any sense to me?

1616
01:11:52,600 --> 01:11:53,040
Speaker 3: Me? Neither.

1617
01:11:53,200 --> 01:11:54,280
Speaker 1: What do you mean an honorary?

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01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:57,320
Speaker 4: What it's like a senior honorary in college?

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01:11:57,960 --> 01:12:00,080
Speaker 3: Did you guys? What are you being any like? What

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01:12:00,160 --> 01:12:01,280
Speaker 3: are you honored the club?

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01:12:02,280 --> 01:12:03,000
Speaker 1: You're in a club?

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01:12:03,080 --> 01:12:03,240
Speaker 3: Oh?

1623
01:12:03,280 --> 01:12:04,920
Speaker 4: I can't with you, guys, just call time of death.

1624
01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:07,519
Speaker 3: And it was called Bobcat and you were a Bobcat

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01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:08,360
Speaker 3: number three.

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01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:10,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you were honored for like good grades.

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01:12:11,160 --> 01:12:13,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like hard to get into the thirteen

1628
01:12:13,240 --> 01:12:14,559
Speaker 2: and the entire senior class.

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01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:15,679
Speaker 1: Grades were so good.

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01:12:16,360 --> 01:12:19,520
Speaker 2: Oh, my grades were okay, but my personality was just extraordinary.

1631
01:12:19,560 --> 01:12:20,760
Speaker 2: Got me straight in there.

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01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:23,080
Speaker 3: That sounds very made up.

1633
01:12:23,200 --> 01:12:25,120
Speaker 1: What were the benefits of being in this club?

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01:12:25,840 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 4: I don't know.

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01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:29,439
Speaker 2: It's like a it's like a sorority. It's like a

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01:12:29,560 --> 01:12:32,880
Speaker 2: fraturnity sorority because there's like you can be older Bobcats

1637
01:12:32,880 --> 01:12:34,960
Speaker 2: that live in Arizona that can help hook you up

1638
01:12:34,960 --> 01:12:36,000
Speaker 2: with jobs after college.

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01:12:36,040 --> 01:12:36,599
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

1640
01:12:36,880 --> 01:12:38,320
Speaker 1: No, this is.

1641
01:12:38,680 --> 01:12:42,719
Speaker 3: We're Please if you are familiar with this Bobcat group,

1642
01:12:42,880 --> 01:12:45,439
Speaker 3: please email us or like tell us on the Facebook

1643
01:12:45,439 --> 01:12:46,320
Speaker 3: group because I'm.

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01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:48,000
Speaker 6: I'm on the website and it looks like you got

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01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:49,560
Speaker 6: some pretty cool uniforms there.

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01:12:49,640 --> 01:12:52,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, really cool. Is that a red tie? It's a

1647
01:12:52,200 --> 01:12:53,200
Speaker 4: red vest anti?

1648
01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:53,719
Speaker 3: Wow?

1649
01:12:54,160 --> 01:12:59,400
Speaker 4: Do you know the motto oh live Moss? No, that's.

1650
01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:02,680
Speaker 3: Well, how do you even know that?

1651
01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:05,439
Speaker 4: It was part of my thing on Saturday? I'm telling

1652
01:13:05,479 --> 01:13:07,000
Speaker 4: you I have not slept all weekend.

1653
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:09,000
Speaker 1: Oh what's eternal Vigilant?

1654
01:13:09,040 --> 01:13:09,160
Speaker 3: Oh?

1655
01:13:09,200 --> 01:13:10,000
Speaker 4: Eternal Vision EV?

1656
01:13:10,120 --> 01:13:10,320
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1657
01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:11,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, Eve not lives.

1658
01:13:11,840 --> 01:13:15,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm Bobcat number five. I just made that up

1659
01:13:15,439 --> 01:13:20,679
Speaker 3: for myself too. Why is your favorite Bobcat number? Five. Okay,

1660
01:13:21,080 --> 01:13:23,000
Speaker 3: there's five people in my family. It was my dad's

1661
01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:25,719
Speaker 3: number in sports. I just took it on my number

1662
01:13:25,720 --> 01:13:26,240
Speaker 3: in sports.

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01:13:26,479 --> 01:13:30,599
Speaker 4: Five people in your family five kids, not five people?

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01:13:31,280 --> 01:13:35,160
Speaker 3: All right? We really drug out this Goodbye Time of

1665
01:13:35,200 --> 01:13:41,000
Speaker 3: Death twelve fifty two. You said that was too much math,

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01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:48,080
Speaker 3: just normal coming