WEBVTT - We’re Moving! Our Advice For Finding A Great Place To Live #524

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to How the Money. I'm Joel and I am Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>and today we're letting the world know that we're moving

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna give our advice for finding a great

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<v Speaker 1>place to live. I never thought I would utter these words, Joel,

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<v Speaker 1>but we are moving. So we've we've told our our family.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, they've known as we've kind of been going

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<v Speaker 1>through this process, are closer friends, they know, told all

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<v Speaker 1>our neighbors now, but it truly hasn't Like I think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm realizing that it feels real now that we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about it here on the podcast. Podcast not legit, and

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<v Speaker 1>so we talk about it on the show, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the fact is we are moving. But with that both

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<v Speaker 1>of our families, both of our families, so that's at

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<v Speaker 1>the same time. That's the craziest heart no surprise. This

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<v Speaker 1>has been something that's been in the works, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>for or for months and months and months, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>something that Matt and I we've been talking about, our

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<v Speaker 1>families have been discussing together. We've been we call them

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<v Speaker 1>family meetings. You and Emily, when you'll sit down with

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<v Speaker 1>me and Kate and we kind of have some of

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<v Speaker 1>these conversations trying to figure out what our lives are

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<v Speaker 1>gonna look like in the future. And yeah, we we

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<v Speaker 1>have arrived to this point, and I'm really excited to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about us personally, what we're doing, what we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to be up to, but also for our listeners. What

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<v Speaker 1>we realized was that this is a great opportunity for

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<v Speaker 1>us to talk about moving and so discuss the many

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<v Speaker 1>factors that you need to keep in mind when it

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<v Speaker 1>comes time to uproot and move your fing So this

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<v Speaker 1>will be a somewhat personal episode as we talk about

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<v Speaker 1>our own progression in this direction to leaving a neighborhood

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<v Speaker 1>that we love, that we really do love. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>sad part, yeah, because I think anybody who's listening is

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<v Speaker 1>like if you have you listening for any amount of time,

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<v Speaker 1>like Matt ji'l always talk about how they love the

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<v Speaker 1>talk about how your neighborhoods like Mayberry and yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like perfect and in a lot of ways true, it's

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<v Speaker 1>incredibly idyllic. That's why we're certainly sad. But honestly, by

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<v Speaker 1>this point in time, we we've sort of cycled through

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<v Speaker 1>the stages of grief. We have kind of through some

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<v Speaker 1>of this the sadder weeks. But our family at this

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<v Speaker 1>point is so pumped. We're so excited for what lies ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>So I am looking forward to talking about that today.

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<v Speaker 1>At times in this process, I was like, who am

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<v Speaker 1>I? I I feel like I'm losing a sense of my identity.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been in this neighborhood for for thirteen plus years.

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<v Speaker 1>We've made a lot, We've got deep roots, like so

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<v Speaker 1>many connections, like Derek zu Lander looking into the puddle, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>my god, And so I am kind of looking up

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<v Speaker 1>looking around, and I'm like, what is going on? But

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<v Speaker 1>there are a lot of factors, like you'll find out

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<v Speaker 1>in this episode that led to this decision. We will

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<v Speaker 1>discuss more. That's right, man, you have a quick hobby

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<v Speaker 1>you want I wanted to share with you. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't told you what specifically this is, but have you

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<v Speaker 1>heard of magnet fishing before? This is something that the

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<v Speaker 1>algorithm fed to me because they know that this is

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of thing I'm into. Say the past, we've

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<v Speaker 1>talked about how I've kind of got an old soul

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<v Speaker 1>and that pretty soon you're going to find me on

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<v Speaker 1>the beach during vacation with the metal detective sweeping you know,

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<v Speaker 1>combing for lost jewels and other potential treasures. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>came across this thing called magnet fishing, and it's basically

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<v Speaker 1>what it is. It's like this giant, super strong magnet.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like this I don't know, like picture of hockey puck,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe even bigger. But it's got a like a metal

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<v Speaker 1>loop on it, and you tie a rope around it,

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<v Speaker 1>and h typically, you throw it like in a river

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<v Speaker 1>or a lake or something like that. You just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of cast it out there and you drag it back

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<v Speaker 1>to you and you see what cool stuff it's in

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<v Speaker 1>the lake. Uh, but you have not done this yet.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm guessing I have not yet done it. But I

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<v Speaker 1>am this close to buying one of those magnets there.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not that expensive. But specifically in mind, instead of

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<v Speaker 1>walking on the beach with under the hot blazing sun

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<v Speaker 1>with a metal detector, I'm picturing, okay, or just like

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<v Speaker 1>waiting out into the water and kind of throwing it

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<v Speaker 1>out there. You get to stay cool because you got

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<v Speaker 1>the waves washing over you, even if you're like out

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<v Speaker 1>there with the kids. I'm picturing myself being able to

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<v Speaker 1>tie it around my waist and as we slowly as

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<v Speaker 1>the current kind of pushes us down the beach. My

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<v Speaker 1>super strong magnet's just looking for like lost watches or

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<v Speaker 1>jewelry or sunglasses, just whatever might be slightly buried in

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<v Speaker 1>the sand there. How cool is that? It's it's interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right, right, that's for sure. I'm call you Magneto.

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<v Speaker 1>That will totally be my magnet fishing name. I'm super

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<v Speaker 1>excited about the idea. I'm not totally sure actually how

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<v Speaker 1>it works, if it works well at the beach, but

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<v Speaker 1>there are folks out there and they've got accounts dedicated

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<v Speaker 1>to this, and folks have found everything from like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>jewelry to safe that that have been thrown into rivers,

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<v Speaker 1>to like rusty bikes to tools, sunglasses, all sorts of

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<v Speaker 1>crazy stuff. Uh, and so I don't know, I'm fascinated

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<v Speaker 1>by the idea of kind of scavenging with the potential

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<v Speaker 1>to possibly earn a little money on the side. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>any hobby that allows you to actually potentially make some

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<v Speaker 1>money at the same time. It's almost like that, like

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a passive hobby for yea, you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of like you have to be super dedicated

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<v Speaker 1>to It's He's like, let me tossed a few. It's

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<v Speaker 1>sort of like fishing. You don't have to be completely

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<v Speaker 1>dedicated to maybe enjoy the process. We'll try it out

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<v Speaker 1>this summer. Let us know how it goes. Well, I'm curious.

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<v Speaker 1>The first beach trip is going to be ours, and

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<v Speaker 1>so you'll see I mean, if I do this, and

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<v Speaker 1>we will absolutely post pictures. All right, I'm very intrigued.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone wants to see that. And I will say, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're listening and this is something you've tried, let me

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<v Speaker 1>know your tips, because I'm a total nube. All right. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you can always reach out to us how the Money

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<v Speaker 1>Pod at gmail dot com. But Matt, let's mention the

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<v Speaker 1>beer we're having on this episode. This is called Stuck

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<v Speaker 1>Ease Pecan log role by Wild Heaven. I said pecan.

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<v Speaker 1>You can say pecan. I don't know. In the South

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<v Speaker 1>it's peak and pecan, and the South, if you're a

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<v Speaker 1>Southerner it's pecans. I think I did like very Yankee.

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<v Speaker 1>It's I did somewhere in the middle on that pronunciation.

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<v Speaker 1>But we'll give our thoughts on on this one. You're

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<v Speaker 1>always living life in the gray. I am at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the episode. But let's get onto the topic

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<v Speaker 1>at hand. We are talking about the fact that we're moving.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking about how we decided to do that and

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<v Speaker 1>and how you can find a great place to live. Matt.

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<v Speaker 1>For some reason, this made me think of those progressive

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<v Speaker 1>commercials where that that doctor is trying to prevent people

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<v Speaker 1>from becoming like their parents. Have you seen those? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>they're pretty funny. They're pretty funny, and I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's exactly sort of a great way to talk about moving,

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<v Speaker 1>specifically to the burbs. Yeah, and so we are moving

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<v Speaker 1>to the burbs. And as kids growing up, there were

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<v Speaker 1>things I was like, I'm never going to be like

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<v Speaker 1>my parents in this way or that way. Whether it

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<v Speaker 1>was the way that they didn't explain, maybe the reasoning

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<v Speaker 1>behind the decision they were making and they just said

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<v Speaker 1>because I said so, or maybe it was like the

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<v Speaker 1>way they dressed or the way they decided to do

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<v Speaker 1>certain things. It was like, I'm not gonna be like

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<v Speaker 1>my parents in that way, Like I'm never gonna wear

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<v Speaker 1>socks with sandals. Look at you today, just my uncle

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<v Speaker 1>and not my dad. But yes, actually I might actually

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<v Speaker 1>wear socks about sandals. My daughter does. Was this close

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<v Speaker 1>to doing it during date night the other week, but

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<v Speaker 1>Kate talked me out of it. Yeah, well it was wise.

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<v Speaker 1>I was getting ready to make a statement, all right. So,

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<v Speaker 1>uh so we're talking about how for for so many

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<v Speaker 1>of us as we get older and we end up

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<v Speaker 1>adopting some of those things that are that we said

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<v Speaker 1>we never would do. Right. I tell my kids to

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<v Speaker 1>do things just because I said so, And that's something

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<v Speaker 1>I said I would never do. So I am now

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<v Speaker 1>a fraud, I'm a phony. But yeah, as it turns out,

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<v Speaker 1>what we're talking about today, we're talking about taking page

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<v Speaker 1>maybe out of our parents playbook to a certain degree,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, doing something we said we never do. And

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<v Speaker 1>we'll talk about some reasons for that as well as

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully just some helpful ways to think about where you

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<v Speaker 1>might want to live. On the show today, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>list a number of factors and kind of push you

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<v Speaker 1>towards developing a system for how you think about where

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to like live and raise your family and

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<v Speaker 1>exist for a period of time. It doesn't have to

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<v Speaker 1>be forever, but we want to make sure that we're

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about where we live thoughtfully. That's right. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>aside from the fact that this is a topic that

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<v Speaker 1>is incredibly relevant for us these days. We wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about choosing the right place to live because this

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<v Speaker 1>is a huge decision that's going to have massive ripple

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<v Speaker 1>effects in virtually every every area of your life. But

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<v Speaker 1>the fact is, for virtually everyone listening to this episode,

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<v Speaker 1>the cost of housing is likely your number one line

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<v Speaker 1>item on your budget. Uh. This is one of the

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<v Speaker 1>reasons we like house hacking so much, right. Uh, the

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<v Speaker 1>ability to take a top expense and pull like a

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<v Speaker 1>jiu jitsu move on it and all of a sudden

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<v Speaker 1>flip it on its head and it's making you money.

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<v Speaker 1>It's why we love that strategy so much, because putting

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<v Speaker 1>a roof over your head is incredibly expensive. And then

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<v Speaker 1>in addition to that, we've got this insane housing market

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<v Speaker 1>with the astronomical run up in housing prices over the

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<v Speaker 1>past eighteen months or so, and then on top of that,

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<v Speaker 1>ortgage rates they have shot into the stratosphere, just complicating

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<v Speaker 1>the decision even more. And so I believe that's it's

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<v Speaker 1>only appropriate for us to tackle this topic today. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so we'll talk about the money considerations, of course, because

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<v Speaker 1>we're out of money. That you should be making before

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<v Speaker 1>you uproot yourself and you move somewhere new. But we'll

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<v Speaker 1>we'll go beyond that. We'll talk about how where you

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<v Speaker 1>live ends up impacting your quality of life too, because

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the day, right, the entire purpose

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<v Speaker 1>of our show is not purely to focus on financials,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's how but it's how your money can impact

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<v Speaker 1>your quality of life too. And so because at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the day, the entire purpose of our show

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<v Speaker 1>is is to help you achieve the goals live the

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<v Speaker 1>life you want to lead, and money is obviously a

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<v Speaker 1>big part of that. Earning more, investing as much as

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<v Speaker 1>you can, spending less. These are these are just the

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<v Speaker 1>tools and strategies that are going to allow you to

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<v Speaker 1>reach higher degrees of financial freedom. Ultimately, that's not what

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<v Speaker 1>life is all about, though, right having the most money

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<v Speaker 1>in the bank account, you know, how you spend your time,

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<v Speaker 1>the people and the environment you surround yourself in, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>that the experience you're able to participate in. That that

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<v Speaker 1>is what makes life special. And so, yeah, what it

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<v Speaker 1>is that you choose to value, that's up to you.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're hoping to give you some good thoughts on

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<v Speaker 1>how to go about evaluating where you want to live.

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<v Speaker 1>We're all going to come down, uh, in different places

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<v Speaker 1>based on this methodology. Not everyone prioritizes the same things

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<v Speaker 1>the same way. Not everybody prioritizes craft beer like that's right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how close are you to a few great breweries that

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<v Speaker 1>might be important on Matt and I scale, but maybe

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<v Speaker 1>not as much on yours. Yeah, And this is a

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<v Speaker 1>topic that has likely been on the minds of a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people over the past couple of years. Specifically,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like like many folks who had never considered

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<v Speaker 1>moving to Montana or to Idaho, they suddenly found themselves

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<v Speaker 1>dreaming of a different kind of life. Some folks want

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<v Speaker 1>that big sky country seriously. Yeah, Yeah, I think there

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<v Speaker 1>are a lot of folks who absolutely loved living in

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<v Speaker 1>a dense urban locale. They decided that it wasn't what

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<v Speaker 1>they wanted anymore. We're seeing some some seismic shifts and

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<v Speaker 1>how and where it is that people want to live,

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<v Speaker 1>largely in response to the pandemic and just this repriorities

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<v Speaker 1>nation that has taken place in our lives. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think we definitely fall into that camp. But a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of rural towns are are seeing an influx of folks

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<v Speaker 1>who are looking to change things up. They're looking to

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<v Speaker 1>lower the cost of living. So it's top of mind

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. That is another reason that we wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about this today. Yeah, it's been interesting to see

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<v Speaker 1>where people are moving because you're right, Idaho, Montana or

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<v Speaker 1>high on that list, but even small towns that are

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<v Speaker 1>like an hour and a half outside of Nashville that

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<v Speaker 1>you would never have expect is on the radar of

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<v Speaker 1>a young millennial or gen Z or like those. Those

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<v Speaker 1>Some of those towns are popping too, and largely because

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<v Speaker 1>the work from any Anywhere climate has created a surge

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<v Speaker 1>of interest in cheap living in some of these small

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<v Speaker 1>towns that are close enough to the big city but

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<v Speaker 1>still have a lot of natural beauty to offer. And

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<v Speaker 1>so we're gonna talk about this in a holistic way.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll share the different reasons when a move makes sense,

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<v Speaker 1>as well as how to do it affordably. Matt, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of rip offs that that can and do

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<v Speaker 1>happen in the moving industry. We're gonna cover those later,

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<v Speaker 1>how people can make sure they don't fall victim. But

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<v Speaker 1>really we're gonna talk about is developing a system when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to choosing where you're going to live. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a good thing to have an idea about what

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<v Speaker 1>region of the country you'd like to live in, even

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<v Speaker 1>a specific city, but then zeroing in on a few

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<v Speaker 1>neighborhoods where you'll start house hunting. That's a solid tactic

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<v Speaker 1>whether you're renting or buying, and if you're moving to

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<v Speaker 1>a completely new place. You know, we always always recommend

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<v Speaker 1>running for at least six months. This really helps you

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<v Speaker 1>get a feel for the specific location where you prefer

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<v Speaker 1>to live. You know, just in that brief period of exploration,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna find maybe even down to a specific street

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<v Speaker 1>level or small neighborhood where you exactly want to be

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<v Speaker 1>the best place for you and your family. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot to consider, obviously, but we're gonna try to break

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<v Speaker 1>it down to the high points, like the most important

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<v Speaker 1>things that should that should be on your radar as

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<v Speaker 1>you're kind of thinking about where you want to live.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, and they're definitely the factors that went through

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<v Speaker 1>our minds as we you know, ran this decision through

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<v Speaker 1>the gauntlets of our of our decision making process, um

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<v Speaker 1>and so this wouldn't be how the money, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>if we didn't consider the financial implications. So let's kick

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<v Speaker 1>it off. We got to mention that one of the

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<v Speaker 1>ways that you might narrow in on a specific group

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<v Speaker 1>of states or even cities is to consider the cost

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<v Speaker 1>of living. Most folks know that it's it's likely going

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<v Speaker 1>to cost a lot more to live in California than

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<v Speaker 1>Alabama or Mississippi. But you should dig into the numbers

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<v Speaker 1>and see what the cost of living looks like in

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<v Speaker 1>specific cities or towns even within that state. Seen in money,

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<v Speaker 1>they actually have a great cost of living calculator that

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<v Speaker 1>will help you to see how much more or honestly

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<v Speaker 1>even how much less everything will cost in specific cities.

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<v Speaker 1>Will make sure to link to that in our show notes.

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<v Speaker 1>But as a general rule of FuMB, you can always

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<v Speaker 1>count on the cost of living being higher in more

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<v Speaker 1>urban and more metropolitan areas versus more rural areas out

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<v Speaker 1>in the country. Yeah, so let's keep talking about the

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<v Speaker 1>money portion matt of how you make a decision, because

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<v Speaker 1>you have cost of living is huge part of what

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<v Speaker 1>influences the cost of living is how much you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>pay in taxes and you know, obviously it would be

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<v Speaker 1>ridiculous to solely base your decision around where you move

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<v Speaker 1>based on taxes. It sounds like something Matt and Joel

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<v Speaker 1>would do. No, it doesn't at all. Actually, I think

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<v Speaker 1>some people might pigeon holes, and I think they get

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<v Speaker 1>like that might be like the knee jerk reaction. But

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<v Speaker 1>we truly are thinking about so much more than just

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<v Speaker 1>the cost of living, even though that is something that

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<v Speaker 1>is sway our decisions slightly. For sure, we're gonna save

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<v Speaker 1>money ultimately in this move. We're moving to a place

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to be a little bit cheaper for us

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<v Speaker 1>and for our family. But when it comes to taxes,

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<v Speaker 1>like to say, more affordable, more affordable, yeah, and so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>when we're talking about taxes, that is an important decision maker,

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<v Speaker 1>right because let's say you live in California, but you

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<v Speaker 1>decide to move to Tennessee or Florida, you are going

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<v Speaker 1>to save a boatload every single year on your state

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<v Speaker 1>income tax bill. That's right, Florida, Texas, Tennessee. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>number of states where you don't have to pay any

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<v Speaker 1>income tax. You do not pay state taxes. I believe

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<v Speaker 1>Washington State is another no income tax state. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's one of those things where sure it's nice

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<v Speaker 1>to note that, and you might add a slight waiting

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<v Speaker 1>to some of those locations because of that, because yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the discrepancy in state income tax can be a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>It can add up. But yeah, similarly, it's it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a bad idea to look up where your new state

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<v Speaker 1>ranks when it comes to property taxes, because you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to look at just income taxes. There are different ways,

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<v Speaker 1>and and even sales tax to Matt because you know

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<v Speaker 1>where we live now that the sales taxes right in

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<v Speaker 1>the nine percent range, and some states have a zero

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<v Speaker 1>sales tax when you're buying things. So those are all

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<v Speaker 1>things you're gonna want to keep in mind. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're leaving behind a great community or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>close family relationships, the money you save isn't going to

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<v Speaker 1>be worth the trade off when you're talking about reducing

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<v Speaker 1>your your tax burden. Taxes are not a good reason

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<v Speaker 1>to uproot your family, but it's also not an insignificant

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<v Speaker 1>factor when we're talking about, you know, why we decide

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<v Speaker 1>where we live. Cost of living in taxes are important

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<v Speaker 1>monetary considerations when we're thinking about where we're gonna end up.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. And tax Foundation dot org they actually have

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of different charts. They've got a map where

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<v Speaker 1>they show your state income tax. They've got a map

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<v Speaker 1>that shows how much your map. Yeah, literally, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>colored where you can easily see the states where you

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<v Speaker 1>are paying more in taxes. So we'll make sure to

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<v Speaker 1>link to that as a quick little reference. But Joel,

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<v Speaker 1>we've got tons of other factors to consider, uh, and

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<v Speaker 1>not just money factors. There are a number of lifestyle

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<v Speaker 1>considerations before you make that move, and so we'll get

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<v Speaker 1>to all of those right after this. All right, that

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<v Speaker 1>we are back, and yes, there are a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>lifestyle considerations that you have to take into account, including

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<v Speaker 1>you know, how many breweries per capita, crap breweries are

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<v Speaker 1>nearby where you're planning to move to. I was a

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<v Speaker 1>part of the reason that we were very interested in

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<v Speaker 1>moving to North Carolina. Yes, it's like home. Maybe we

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<v Speaker 1>should go to Raley. Looks how many berries there are there.

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<v Speaker 1>But before we get to those lifestyle considerations, there is

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<v Speaker 1>one more financial consideration that's ridiculously important when we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about where you end up. And that is where the

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<v Speaker 1>job's at. Because if there is not a robust amount

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<v Speaker 1>of jobs where you're looking to move, that could massively

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<v Speaker 1>influence your decision. You know, we we actually mentioned the

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<v Speaker 1>resurgence of small towns just a little bit ago. You

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<v Speaker 1>know that this has largely been made possible because of

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<v Speaker 1>full time work from home becoming a reality for tens

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<v Speaker 1>of millions of folks. They didn't have the luxury three

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<v Speaker 1>years ago of leaving their big town and moving somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>less expensive because they had to be where their employer was.

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<v Speaker 1>But because of these changes in the fact that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of folks don't have to be in the

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<v Speaker 1>city where their employer is, people are leaving, they're moving.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's like a diaspora where people are moving all

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<v Speaker 1>across the country into towns that nobody was even considering

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<v Speaker 1>just a few years ago. And and so yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>being said, city centers still offer the best access to

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<v Speaker 1>the highest paying jobs, especially if you're starting out in

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<v Speaker 1>your career or if you're looking to move up the

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<v Speaker 1>ladder more quickly. We would suggest looking for locations where

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have more choice when it comes to where

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<v Speaker 1>you work or what you do. And so a recent

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<v Speaker 1>wallet hub study actually found that the best places to

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<v Speaker 1>start a career are Salt Lake City, Orlando, Atlanta, Austin,

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<v Speaker 1>and Seattle. And those are all pretty major markets, right there,

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<v Speaker 1>pretty big places. And so where you live has certainly

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit less to do with the kind of

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<v Speaker 1>job you're going to be able to get, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>still an important factor, and especially if you're the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of person who isn't planning on working from home, taking

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<v Speaker 1>stock of the job scene before you like start to

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<v Speaker 1>plant your roots is really important, that's right. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>it's not just about the cost of living, how much

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<v Speaker 1>money you are spending every single month, but the amount

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<v Speaker 1>of money that you might be earning the future potential

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<v Speaker 1>two of the money that you might be earning over

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<v Speaker 1>the years. Yeah. I think our fine city of Atlanta

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<v Speaker 1>was number three on that list. Which there's just so

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<v Speaker 1>so many great employers here. I was just talking to

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<v Speaker 1>someone the other day who works at the new Microsoft

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<v Speaker 1>office in Atlantic Station, and there's just there's so many

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<v Speaker 1>fortune companies. There's so much opportunity for people to move

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<v Speaker 1>with the ladder, to find gainful employment and to earn

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<v Speaker 1>more money here. That's right, Yeah, so join us down

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<v Speaker 1>here in the great city of Atlanta. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not moving. We're not even the greater Atlanta areas,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's just the run. Yeah. Just in case folks

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<v Speaker 1>were thinking that we might be like moving to Washington,

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<v Speaker 1>like you said or something like that, that is not

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<v Speaker 1>the case. Uh. But of course money is not the

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<v Speaker 1>only factor to consider when deciding where to live. You'll

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<v Speaker 1>definitely want to consider how much space that you're gonna need.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're talking about square footage of the house itself,

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<v Speaker 1>how that square footage is allocated, how usable the spaces,

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<v Speaker 1>but also we're talking about how big the lot is,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, what sort of ability you'll have to

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<v Speaker 1>plan a garden, order to have a basketball goal for

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<v Speaker 1>some of those one on one games. You know, As

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<v Speaker 1>a culture, I think we've placed too much importance on

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<v Speaker 1>just having quote unquote like more space. It's always more

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<v Speaker 1>and more and more. We don't like that. But but

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<v Speaker 1>having a good idea of how much and what kind

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<v Speaker 1>of space that you'll need, I think that will help

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<v Speaker 1>a ton and picking a great place to live. This

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<v Speaker 1>is absolutely one of the top reasons that folks move

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<v Speaker 1>because they're oftentimes looking for not just more space, but

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<v Speaker 1>a space is going to suit them better. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>like what you said about how that square footage is allocated.

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<v Speaker 1>It because sometimes a square foot house can serve you

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<v Speaker 1>better than square foot house just because of the way

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<v Speaker 1>the space is laid out. And I've seen some really efficient,

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<v Speaker 1>really incredible designs on some of those smaller homes that

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<v Speaker 1>make a lot of sense for the way like our

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<v Speaker 1>family lives, whereas some bigger homes just it's like an

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<v Speaker 1>inefficient use of space. It feels like a waste. But yes,

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<v Speaker 1>so the space is obviously an important consideration. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to move your family of six into eight d

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<v Speaker 1>square feet And we actually has a family five lived

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<v Speaker 1>in nine hundred square feet for a minute and that

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<v Speaker 1>was too tight. We realized that we don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>do that again. Well, yeah, you knew there was a

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<v Speaker 1>temporary deal, but even that, I don't think you would

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<v Speaker 1>sign up for even a temporary gig one week maybe

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<v Speaker 1>thatt if you had a choice, No, I would not.

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<v Speaker 1>So another another top reason, according to multiple surveys, is

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<v Speaker 1>that folks that folks often move has to do with relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, makes tons of sense, right, you know, similar

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<v Speaker 1>to needing more space potentially oftentimes, you know, wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>be closer to family is the impetus that causes as

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<v Speaker 1>someone to move or moving across the country because of

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<v Speaker 1>a budding relationship. And you know, we love our family,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's no wonder that we'd want to be closer

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<v Speaker 1>to them if at all possible. And that is actually

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<v Speaker 1>part of the reason for our move where our family

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be closer to my parents. And so

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't have to be a twelve hour drive away,

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<v Speaker 1>well then maybe it's time to move. And so don't

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<v Speaker 1>discount your relationships. Don't discount platonic relationships as well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as as we get not just family, but like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>your friends, Yeah, being closer to friends, moving back to

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<v Speaker 1>a city maybe where you have more roots, especially if

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<v Speaker 1>it's like coming back home or something like that. Especially

0:20:35.240 --> 0:20:37.440
<v Speaker 1>let's say you're starting a family, you've got young kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Being closer to folks who you have deep relationship with

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<v Speaker 1>your family or friends or both is something that makes

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<v Speaker 1>a big difference when it comes to quality of life.

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<v Speaker 1>And as besties, I can say that this is one

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<v Speaker 1>area that we can really speak to because I mean

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<v Speaker 1>with us moving together. This makes it tremendously easier. I mean,

0:20:54.000 --> 0:20:56.280
<v Speaker 1>we've been friends for over a decade now. I would

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<v Speaker 1>say that we've been besties for the majority of that time,

0:20:58.480 --> 0:21:00.600
<v Speaker 1>but that as you and me are, why are best friends,

0:21:00.640 --> 0:21:02.679
<v Speaker 1>Our kids are best friends. So we were doing this

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<v Speaker 1>separately and moving through different places, my gosh, it would

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<v Speaker 1>be hard. Yeah, it would be incredibly hard. And I

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<v Speaker 1>wonder if just folks think that we're just like like

0:21:08.520 --> 0:21:11.560
<v Speaker 1>we pretend to be friends, like like on TV, but

0:21:11.600 --> 0:21:14.040
<v Speaker 1>we we truly are and this wee's been listening for

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<v Speaker 1>any length the time. They know that this is an

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<v Speaker 1>important factor when this is why we had so many

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<v Speaker 1>of those meetings to kind of talk through the details

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<v Speaker 1>of us because it's incredibly complicated, but it was also

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<v Speaker 1>really important to make sure that we were doing this right.

0:21:25.880 --> 0:21:28.680
<v Speaker 1>It's even more complicated when we run a business together

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<v Speaker 1>and we have a podcast and so we have to

0:21:30.600 --> 0:21:33.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's a lot like that whole side of it. Yeah, exactly.

0:21:33.160 --> 0:21:37.200
<v Speaker 1>We've already talked about the job aspect of you know, moving. Granted,

0:21:37.240 --> 0:21:40.159
<v Speaker 1>being podcasters, we weren't necessarily tied to a location. That

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<v Speaker 1>was one of the things I will say that actually

0:21:41.760 --> 0:21:43.840
<v Speaker 1>made it easier to pull the trigger on this. This

0:21:43.920 --> 0:21:46.520
<v Speaker 1>move was you and I don't We can work from

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<v Speaker 1>wherever we want exactly, so because I've been wanting to

0:21:49.080 --> 0:21:52.119
<v Speaker 1>kind of do that for a while because even you know,

0:21:52.119 --> 0:21:54.399
<v Speaker 1>back in the day with photography, I wasn't necessarily beholding

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<v Speaker 1>to a specific location. But it's like, oh man, but

0:21:56.720 --> 0:21:59.000
<v Speaker 1>we're here in this neighborhood. It's like Mayberry, we love

0:21:59.040 --> 0:22:02.000
<v Speaker 1>it here. Uh seven. Still, you were in Atlanta, photographer,

0:22:02.040 --> 0:22:04.000
<v Speaker 1>and so you couldn't have moved too far away, exactly

0:22:04.200 --> 0:22:05.879
<v Speaker 1>unless you wanted to start from a lot of people

0:22:06.119 --> 0:22:08.959
<v Speaker 1>commute in for for shoots once a week, and you know,

0:22:09.160 --> 0:22:11.119
<v Speaker 1>once a week commute where you're driving an hour. I mean,

0:22:11.160 --> 0:22:12.800
<v Speaker 1>that's I'm not going to say that that's ideal, but

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<v Speaker 1>for a lot of folks, it's uh, definitely doable given

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<v Speaker 1>the cost of living where they where they do live.

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<v Speaker 1>But as we're talking about relationships, and it also makes

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<v Speaker 1>me think about empty nesters, because that's a way that

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<v Speaker 1>relationships change. You might be like a six bedroom house,

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<v Speaker 1>not that you or I are getting homes that are

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<v Speaker 1>that big, but if you are an empty nester, your

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<v Speaker 1>kids are no longer there. You might realize that, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>we actually don't need to be bouncing around this this

0:22:35.160 --> 0:22:37.919
<v Speaker 1>house that's made for a growing family. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned that because for our older listeners, I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>definitely a great reason to consider moving to downsize. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we toured, actually met a few homes that were in

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<v Speaker 1>that five thousand plus square foot range, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>I was just not having any of it. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>is it a warehouse? I know? And then the basement

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<v Speaker 1>was so big and I'm like, well, I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know what we do with the space. No, please show

0:22:56.760 --> 0:22:59.480
<v Speaker 1>me things that are, you know, in the square foot range.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's what we said, don't on to something that's

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<v Speaker 1>very normal in size. But I just, I mean, I

0:23:04.240 --> 0:23:06.080
<v Speaker 1>don't know what people do. Do you send your kids

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<v Speaker 1>to the east wing of the house like when you

0:23:08.720 --> 0:23:10.480
<v Speaker 1>don't want to speak to them or something like? It

0:23:10.520 --> 0:23:13.600
<v Speaker 1>felt it felt too big for for me. Absolutely. Yeah.

0:23:13.600 --> 0:23:16.000
<v Speaker 1>So community that is another big part of making a

0:23:16.080 --> 0:23:19.360
<v Speaker 1>place that you land feel like home. But it can

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<v Speaker 1>be hard to assess what the community vibe is going

0:23:22.280 --> 0:23:24.880
<v Speaker 1>to be like before you move in. And so one

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<v Speaker 1>way that you can get at least an inkling is

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<v Speaker 1>by seeing how many public spaces exist in the neighborhood

0:23:30.200 --> 0:23:32.320
<v Speaker 1>that you're interested in. So the more parks or the

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<v Speaker 1>more playgrounds and trails that you encounter, I think, the

0:23:35.440 --> 0:23:39.080
<v Speaker 1>more likely you are to see your neighbors. How much

0:23:39.200 --> 0:23:41.520
<v Speaker 1>life is being lived in the front yards as opposed

0:23:41.560 --> 0:23:44.240
<v Speaker 1>to the basements of those five thousands were foot homes, Joel,

0:23:44.240 --> 0:23:46.760
<v Speaker 1>where you don't see anyone. The more sidewalks you see,

0:23:47.000 --> 0:23:49.320
<v Speaker 1>the more likely you are to bump into new neighbors

0:23:49.359 --> 0:23:51.480
<v Speaker 1>and and old friends on an evening walk. I mean,

0:23:51.480 --> 0:23:53.840
<v Speaker 1>it's amazing in our current neighborhood that we're leaving. Just

0:23:53.920 --> 0:23:56.359
<v Speaker 1>having a church with a great parking lot in a

0:23:56.359 --> 0:23:58.680
<v Speaker 1>playground in the center of the neighborhood, it just has

0:23:58.720 --> 0:24:01.920
<v Speaker 1>fostered so many her hangs and in a significant way,

0:24:01.960 --> 0:24:05.600
<v Speaker 1>it's it's sort of like the heart geographically speaking of

0:24:05.640 --> 0:24:08.320
<v Speaker 1>the neighborhood. And so spaces like that truly do matter.

0:24:08.600 --> 0:24:10.560
<v Speaker 1>And the sidewalks. We've got sidewalks on both sides of

0:24:10.560 --> 0:24:13.480
<v Speaker 1>the street, basically on every street around here. And so

0:24:13.920 --> 0:24:16.040
<v Speaker 1>what did neighbors do They walk? And so I see

0:24:16.080 --> 0:24:17.640
<v Speaker 1>people out all the time when I'm on my bike

0:24:17.680 --> 0:24:20.119
<v Speaker 1>or when I'm walking with my kids, and it just

0:24:20.480 --> 0:24:26.199
<v Speaker 1>it creates impromptu community community conversations that are honestly just

0:24:26.280 --> 0:24:28.960
<v Speaker 1>as good, if not better than some of the planned conversations.

0:24:28.960 --> 0:24:31.360
<v Speaker 1>And the plan hangs on a back porch or from

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<v Speaker 1>ports or something. And sometimes that spontaneousness that's what you

0:24:33.720 --> 0:24:35.360
<v Speaker 1>need in your life. Man, that's right. So so much

0:24:35.359 --> 0:24:37.840
<v Speaker 1>of our lives are already planned and on the calendar.

0:24:38.200 --> 0:24:40.800
<v Speaker 1>It's good to have these avenues that exist to foster

0:24:40.880 --> 0:24:43.679
<v Speaker 1>that kind of relationship. Yeah, I love that. So another

0:24:43.720 --> 0:24:46.439
<v Speaker 1>thing that, of course we think is important is walkability

0:24:46.480 --> 0:24:49.520
<v Speaker 1>and bike ability, whether you're renting or you're buying a

0:24:49.520 --> 0:24:51.560
<v Speaker 1>place that That's another thing we haven't really talked about

0:24:51.600 --> 0:24:53.639
<v Speaker 1>much here, Matt, is you don't necessarily have to be

0:24:53.640 --> 0:24:55.680
<v Speaker 1>buying a house in order to be thoughtful about where

0:24:55.680 --> 0:24:57.560
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna live. You can be a thoughtful renter and

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<v Speaker 1>you can decide to uproot and move somewhere else and

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<v Speaker 1>find a new place to land to as someone who

0:25:04.119 --> 0:25:06.439
<v Speaker 1>is still signing let's say, a year long lease, I

0:25:06.440 --> 0:25:08.400
<v Speaker 1>think most of what we've talked about so far today,

0:25:08.440 --> 0:25:10.639
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's it's universal, right, and like it applies

0:25:10.680 --> 0:25:12.320
<v Speaker 1>to you if you're looking to rent or if you're

0:25:12.320 --> 0:25:14.520
<v Speaker 1>looking to buy exactly, and and so walk ability bike

0:25:14.560 --> 0:25:17.440
<v Speaker 1>ability apply to everyone too. We think those are both

0:25:17.760 --> 0:25:20.960
<v Speaker 1>worthy things to prioritize. And so whether that means being

0:25:21.000 --> 0:25:24.199
<v Speaker 1>able to bike to your actual place of work, or

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<v Speaker 1>just like a couple of great brewers and restaurants that

0:25:26.920 --> 0:25:28.359
<v Speaker 1>you love that you feel like you're going to frequent

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<v Speaker 1>a lot because that's the kind of life you're living

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<v Speaker 1>right now, that's great, Or whether it's walking distance to

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<v Speaker 1>a playground for your kids. I mean finding something you

0:25:35.880 --> 0:25:38.000
<v Speaker 1>can you can't be you can't be walking distance or

0:25:38.040 --> 0:25:40.600
<v Speaker 1>biking distance to everything. But as long as you've got

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<v Speaker 1>a few things that you can consistently hit up that

0:25:42.480 --> 0:25:46.080
<v Speaker 1>are meaningful, prioritizing some proximity to some of those things

0:25:46.119 --> 0:25:48.960
<v Speaker 1>that you value is is important. And maybe it's just

0:25:49.080 --> 0:25:50.720
<v Speaker 1>nature right that you want to be closer to, like

0:25:51.040 --> 0:25:54.400
<v Speaker 1>a national or a state park. You know, there's actually evidence,

0:25:54.440 --> 0:25:57.639
<v Speaker 1>Matt that that living closer to nature reduces stress and

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<v Speaker 1>increases happiness. So I like that kind of an Those

0:26:00.680 --> 0:26:02.400
<v Speaker 1>are the kind of studies that I look for. Yeah,

0:26:02.680 --> 0:26:04.800
<v Speaker 1>just back up my current way of thinking then, and

0:26:04.960 --> 0:26:07.080
<v Speaker 1>I like it. Cherry picking a little bit here for sure,

0:26:07.320 --> 0:26:09.320
<v Speaker 1>But that again was something that you and I discussed.

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<v Speaker 1>Being in town Atlanta, there are a decent number of

0:26:13.320 --> 0:26:16.159
<v Speaker 1>parks and trees, but still we weren't close enough to

0:26:16.200 --> 0:26:19.080
<v Speaker 1>some of the nature things that we were wanting. And

0:26:19.119 --> 0:26:22.359
<v Speaker 1>so where we're moving, just twenty five minutes away, gives

0:26:22.400 --> 0:26:24.080
<v Speaker 1>us access to some of that. Yeah, but even if

0:26:24.080 --> 0:26:26.280
<v Speaker 1>getting outside, if that's not your thing, focus on whatever

0:26:26.440 --> 0:26:27.760
<v Speaker 1>it is that's going to move the needle for you.

0:26:27.760 --> 0:26:29.880
<v Speaker 1>You're like, no, I'm playing Xbox twelve hours a day.

0:26:29.920 --> 0:26:33.439
<v Speaker 1>I don't need that nature the metaverse, So focus on

0:26:33.560 --> 0:26:36.240
<v Speaker 1>whatever it is that that you enjoy the most. Uh.

0:26:36.480 --> 0:26:40.760
<v Speaker 1>But speaking of kids and playgrounds, schools, they are something

0:26:40.760 --> 0:26:43.239
<v Speaker 1>else that you're gonna want to consider, honestly, even if

0:26:43.280 --> 0:26:45.480
<v Speaker 1>you don't, you know, have kids or even plan on

0:26:45.560 --> 0:26:48.399
<v Speaker 1>having kids, because how good the schools are where you

0:26:48.480 --> 0:26:52.040
<v Speaker 1>end up moving is going to inevitably affect the value

0:26:52.080 --> 0:26:54.080
<v Speaker 1>of your home. You know. I think this probably applies

0:26:54.119 --> 0:26:56.400
<v Speaker 1>a little bit more to the homeowners to the home

0:26:56.440 --> 0:26:58.880
<v Speaker 1>buyers out there. But you can find helpful school rankings

0:26:58.960 --> 0:27:02.240
<v Speaker 1>on Great School School Digger are both sites out there

0:27:02.280 --> 0:27:04.520
<v Speaker 1>that helped to compare apples to apples when it when

0:27:04.560 --> 0:27:06.840
<v Speaker 1>it comes to schools, but I mentioned this one because

0:27:06.840 --> 0:27:09.320
<v Speaker 1>this is a factor that Kate and I didn't consider

0:27:09.440 --> 0:27:12.160
<v Speaker 1>at all when we bought our first home. That being said, kay,

0:27:12.200 --> 0:27:13.720
<v Speaker 1>now we I think we kind of lucked out and

0:27:13.760 --> 0:27:16.280
<v Speaker 1>we did happen to fall in a zone or a

0:27:16.359 --> 0:27:19.720
<v Speaker 1>district for a school that is highly rated, that is

0:27:19.800 --> 0:27:21.960
<v Speaker 1>rated well, that is highly sought after. But keep that

0:27:21.960 --> 0:27:25.320
<v Speaker 1>in mind because not only is it going to affect resale,

0:27:25.320 --> 0:27:27.680
<v Speaker 1>but even if you're going to keep that property, uh,

0:27:27.720 --> 0:27:30.159
<v Speaker 1>if you are going to consider renting that, that is

0:27:30.200 --> 0:27:32.280
<v Speaker 1>also going to have an impact on the rents that

0:27:32.280 --> 0:27:34.000
<v Speaker 1>you're going to be able to bring in because folks

0:27:34.200 --> 0:27:36.200
<v Speaker 1>they want to live in this in the neighborhood where

0:27:36.240 --> 0:27:37.800
<v Speaker 1>we live because they want their kids to be able

0:27:37.920 --> 0:27:39.960
<v Speaker 1>to get into that school. So aside from the fact

0:27:40.000 --> 0:27:42.000
<v Speaker 1>that this is more of a lifestyle thing where your

0:27:42.040 --> 0:27:43.679
<v Speaker 1>kids might end up going to school, if it's not,

0:27:44.000 --> 0:27:46.680
<v Speaker 1>it'll at least come around, uh, and it will influence

0:27:46.760 --> 0:27:49.560
<v Speaker 1>the finances and it could go and probably should go

0:27:49.640 --> 0:27:51.600
<v Speaker 1>without saying, but I'm a saying anyway. Also, when the

0:27:51.600 --> 0:27:54.119
<v Speaker 1>school district that you end up in, if you have kids,

0:27:54.200 --> 0:27:56.200
<v Speaker 1>it's gonna turn where they go to school. For the

0:27:56.240 --> 0:27:59.560
<v Speaker 1>most part, unless you live in municipality or a state

0:27:59.560 --> 0:28:02.600
<v Speaker 1>where they're is greater access to school choice, which is

0:28:02.600 --> 0:28:06.520
<v Speaker 1>a great thing. Uh, you are typically bound to the

0:28:06.520 --> 0:28:09.560
<v Speaker 1>nearest school to where you live, and so the type

0:28:09.560 --> 0:28:13.280
<v Speaker 1>of education that your kids receive is largely determined based

0:28:13.320 --> 0:28:15.720
<v Speaker 1>on the kind of school. Even maybe even just the

0:28:15.720 --> 0:28:18.640
<v Speaker 1>the academic approach of that school can differ. It might

0:28:18.680 --> 0:28:20.639
<v Speaker 1>not even be that it's rated higher, but you might

0:28:20.680 --> 0:28:22.879
<v Speaker 1>just say I really like the methodology. That that's the

0:28:22.960 --> 0:28:25.639
<v Speaker 1>differences style of school instead, And that can be a

0:28:25.640 --> 0:28:29.359
<v Speaker 1>big difference maker in where and why you decide to move.

0:28:29.760 --> 0:28:32.080
<v Speaker 1>So that makes me think that maybe we should divulge

0:28:32.200 --> 0:28:34.880
<v Speaker 1>a little bit more about why we're deciding to move,

0:28:34.880 --> 0:28:37.160
<v Speaker 1>because we've covered a bunch of those factors that are

0:28:37.200 --> 0:28:40.240
<v Speaker 1>worth considering. There's some financial factors, there are some lifestyle

0:28:40.240 --> 0:28:43.520
<v Speaker 1>considerations that you really should take into account before you

0:28:43.560 --> 0:28:46.800
<v Speaker 1>decide to pull the trigger higher the moving company and

0:28:46.960 --> 0:28:49.240
<v Speaker 1>just peace out and move across the state lines or

0:28:49.280 --> 0:28:51.360
<v Speaker 1>even just up the road within your state to a

0:28:51.400 --> 0:28:55.120
<v Speaker 1>new neighborhood. We'll talk more about our decision for moving,

0:28:55.160 --> 0:28:57.120
<v Speaker 1>and we'll talk about how you can move without getting

0:28:57.200 --> 0:29:09.240
<v Speaker 1>ripped off right after this, alright, we're back from the break,

0:29:09.480 --> 0:29:12.640
<v Speaker 1>and now that we've discussed the framework for picking an

0:29:12.680 --> 0:29:14.880
<v Speaker 1>awesome place to live, let's go ahead and like you said,

0:29:14.880 --> 0:29:17.840
<v Speaker 1>you let's get personal. Let's uh discuss our move here

0:29:17.880 --> 0:29:20.440
<v Speaker 1>for a second. And so, how do many listeners If

0:29:20.440 --> 0:29:22.640
<v Speaker 1>you've been listening to the podcast, for those who have

0:29:22.720 --> 0:29:26.240
<v Speaker 1>sharp ears, you may have heard recently me talking about

0:29:26.240 --> 0:29:27.959
<v Speaker 1>the fact that we did purchase a home. And if

0:29:27.960 --> 0:29:30.760
<v Speaker 1>you've got really sharp ears, you may have even remembered

0:29:30.840 --> 0:29:35.240
<v Speaker 1>me talking about potentially even like moving someplace that has mountains.

0:29:35.440 --> 0:29:38.440
<v Speaker 1>Was sometime last year, I remember talking about moving out

0:29:38.440 --> 0:29:40.200
<v Speaker 1>to Boise. I think we had actually we had a

0:29:40.240 --> 0:29:42.680
<v Speaker 1>listener who was in Boise and I told you Boise

0:29:42.800 --> 0:29:46.880
<v Speaker 1>is way too expensive, and it is actually so is Denver.

0:29:47.080 --> 0:29:50.160
<v Speaker 1>These were all locations that Kate and I that we've

0:29:50.200 --> 0:29:52.680
<v Speaker 1>always sort of dreamed about moving to because of the

0:29:52.720 --> 0:29:55.760
<v Speaker 1>proximity to mountains into nature. We always, for instance, we

0:29:55.800 --> 0:29:57.560
<v Speaker 1>always thought we would end up in sort of the

0:29:57.560 --> 0:30:01.120
<v Speaker 1>wester or North Carolina area. We both worked up around Asheville.

0:30:01.160 --> 0:30:02.800
<v Speaker 1>I used to live in Black Mountain for a little

0:30:02.840 --> 0:30:05.680
<v Speaker 1>bit back in the day. But given the many factors

0:30:05.720 --> 0:30:07.560
<v Speaker 1>that we just talked through, it was gonna mean that

0:30:07.600 --> 0:30:10.280
<v Speaker 1>we're further from family. It was gonna mean that we

0:30:10.280 --> 0:30:14.000
<v Speaker 1>were potentially going to rupture relationships that we have with

0:30:14.040 --> 0:30:16.040
<v Speaker 1>your family, not to mention the business as well. And

0:30:16.080 --> 0:30:18.640
<v Speaker 1>so we started thinking, Okay, where is somewhere that we

0:30:18.680 --> 0:30:20.680
<v Speaker 1>can at least be a little bit closer to nature.

0:30:20.880 --> 0:30:22.840
<v Speaker 1>And so that is what kept us closer to home,

0:30:22.880 --> 0:30:25.160
<v Speaker 1>closer to where we are right now, to where we're

0:30:25.160 --> 0:30:28.920
<v Speaker 1>actually recording this episode, but still much closer to uh

0:30:28.920 --> 0:30:30.760
<v Speaker 1>a state you know, state and national parks where we

0:30:30.760 --> 0:30:34.000
<v Speaker 1>can literally hike from our house and start hiking, versus

0:30:34.080 --> 0:30:36.800
<v Speaker 1>commuting in the van on the weekends, which is what

0:30:36.840 --> 0:30:38.840
<v Speaker 1>we typically do to drive somewhere to go hiking. And

0:30:38.880 --> 0:30:40.840
<v Speaker 1>you're not going to spend that time basically every weekend.

0:30:40.920 --> 0:30:43.400
<v Speaker 1>And so yeah, to think that this new mountain, you know,

0:30:43.600 --> 0:30:46.360
<v Speaker 1>right around the corner, literally walking distance from your house,

0:30:46.480 --> 0:30:49.239
<v Speaker 1>is your new playground, is so so big for your

0:30:49.240 --> 0:30:51.400
<v Speaker 1>famis it's a huge. And I mean, of course not

0:30:51.440 --> 0:30:53.760
<v Speaker 1>only that schools. We kind of touched on that earlier

0:30:53.920 --> 0:30:56.560
<v Speaker 1>before the break as well. That's something that was it

0:30:56.600 --> 0:30:58.960
<v Speaker 1>wasn't important when we bought our first home, but then

0:30:58.960 --> 0:31:01.840
<v Speaker 1>we quickly it kind of quickly rose and rank as

0:31:01.880 --> 0:31:04.040
<v Speaker 1>to how much importance and how much stress we put

0:31:04.040 --> 0:31:06.640
<v Speaker 1>on that. And as we've grown our family though, as

0:31:06.680 --> 0:31:09.320
<v Speaker 1>we've had more kids, it's become more and more of

0:31:09.320 --> 0:31:11.160
<v Speaker 1>a priority. And so work with you having four kids

0:31:11.160 --> 0:31:13.640
<v Speaker 1>that need to get educated, me having three, the school

0:31:13.680 --> 0:31:16.880
<v Speaker 1>decision makes even more of an impact on how we

0:31:17.000 --> 0:31:19.760
<v Speaker 1>view it, at least at this point in time. And Matt,

0:31:19.800 --> 0:31:21.280
<v Speaker 1>you mentioned that the school our kids go to, it's

0:31:21.320 --> 0:31:23.280
<v Speaker 1>highly rated, highly sought after, it's been a good place.

0:31:23.520 --> 0:31:26.959
<v Speaker 1>But then I talked about how different styles of education

0:31:27.040 --> 0:31:29.120
<v Speaker 1>can make a difference, and so that was actually one

0:31:29.280 --> 0:31:32.880
<v Speaker 1>of the major reasons to precipitate us moving. And as

0:31:32.960 --> 0:31:36.040
<v Speaker 1>any parent knows who has had virtual school and all

0:31:36.080 --> 0:31:39.840
<v Speaker 1>that stuff, it has shed some light on how the

0:31:39.960 --> 0:31:42.240
<v Speaker 1>inner workings maybe of the school that that your kid

0:31:42.280 --> 0:31:44.680
<v Speaker 1>goes to, and it's maybe made you think a little

0:31:44.680 --> 0:31:46.960
<v Speaker 1>bit differently about how you want their education to go

0:31:46.960 --> 0:31:49.400
<v Speaker 1>in the future. It certainly did for for the two

0:31:49.440 --> 0:31:51.800
<v Speaker 1>of us, Matt, for our fans, and and so that

0:31:51.880 --> 0:31:53.600
<v Speaker 1>was that definitely factored in. But but there's a lot

0:31:53.640 --> 0:31:55.440
<v Speaker 1>of these things where the things that you and I

0:31:55.520 --> 0:31:59.000
<v Speaker 1>that we prioritize the most highly about the neighborhood where

0:31:59.040 --> 0:32:03.160
<v Speaker 1>we currently live, the community aspect that is so ingrained

0:32:03.200 --> 0:32:05.760
<v Speaker 1>in the fabric of this place where we live. We

0:32:05.840 --> 0:32:08.760
<v Speaker 1>wanted to find a similar place that had maybe some

0:32:08.800 --> 0:32:10.959
<v Speaker 1>of these other characteristics that we love. We didn't want

0:32:11.000 --> 0:32:12.760
<v Speaker 1>to give it all up, and we didn't want to

0:32:12.760 --> 0:32:14.280
<v Speaker 1>give up some of the city vibes, and so we're

0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:16.360
<v Speaker 1>able to keep actually I think a lot of that

0:32:16.360 --> 0:32:19.600
<v Speaker 1>where we're moving to just minutes away, and so, um,

0:32:19.680 --> 0:32:21.920
<v Speaker 1>these are the kind of things where it's a tough

0:32:21.960 --> 0:32:24.760
<v Speaker 1>decision in there's trade offs because there's always gonna my

0:32:24.800 --> 0:32:26.920
<v Speaker 1>favorite breakfast place. I'm leaving it behind. I'm gonna miss

0:32:26.960 --> 0:32:29.800
<v Speaker 1>homegrowing like like it's my job, that place of place,

0:32:29.840 --> 0:32:31.520
<v Speaker 1>the best one of our favorite breweries with the best

0:32:31.560 --> 0:32:33.920
<v Speaker 1>merch in the entire country. That's right, We're not gonna

0:32:33.920 --> 0:32:36.479
<v Speaker 1>be able to bike there anymore. So there's definitely some

0:32:36.560 --> 0:32:39.000
<v Speaker 1>things like that we're sad about, but there's a lot

0:32:39.000 --> 0:32:41.320
<v Speaker 1>that we're excited about too. So. But again, the fact

0:32:41.400 --> 0:32:44.040
<v Speaker 1>that we're able to do this together, Like honestly, that's

0:32:44.040 --> 0:32:45.920
<v Speaker 1>what sort of sealed the deal. Like that was going

0:32:46.000 --> 0:32:49.240
<v Speaker 1>to be so difficult, and that's why we wanted to highlight,

0:32:49.280 --> 0:32:51.880
<v Speaker 1>Like you said, Joe Thos, platonic relationships because as you know,

0:32:51.920 --> 0:32:54.080
<v Speaker 1>as we get older, I think it's just it's not

0:32:54.200 --> 0:32:57.440
<v Speaker 1>it's really hard to maintain closer relationships, especially as men.

0:32:57.800 --> 0:33:00.840
<v Speaker 1>As we get older oftentime, we're not going out of

0:33:00.880 --> 0:33:03.040
<v Speaker 1>our way to make new friendships. And so if we

0:33:03.080 --> 0:33:07.120
<v Speaker 1>don't intentionally foster and nurture the relationships that you do have,

0:33:07.240 --> 0:33:09.000
<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of times folks find themselves in

0:33:09.080 --> 0:33:12.240
<v Speaker 1>middle age alone, you know, with that without friends. And

0:33:12.240 --> 0:33:14.560
<v Speaker 1>that's certainly something that you and I we never talked

0:33:14.560 --> 0:33:16.400
<v Speaker 1>about this on our show. On the show actually friendship

0:33:16.760 --> 0:33:19.160
<v Speaker 1>and how important that is. We should we totally should

0:33:19.240 --> 0:33:20.640
<v Speaker 1>literally say best friends out at the end of every

0:33:21.080 --> 0:33:25.120
<v Speaker 1>We have talked about the declining American friendship because the

0:33:25.160 --> 0:33:27.040
<v Speaker 1>average person used to have something like three and a

0:33:27.080 --> 0:33:30.200
<v Speaker 1>half close friends and now have like one point six

0:33:30.280 --> 0:33:32.120
<v Speaker 1>or one point seven. We have talked close friends, and

0:33:32.160 --> 0:33:34.720
<v Speaker 1>so there is a decline, I think. And and so

0:33:34.800 --> 0:33:37.760
<v Speaker 1>this community that the focus in the spotlight we shine

0:33:37.800 --> 0:33:42.800
<v Speaker 1>on community and friendship, we think is crucial. That that's

0:33:42.840 --> 0:33:46.880
<v Speaker 1>true wealth right there is having close community, close family. Uh,

0:33:46.920 --> 0:33:49.280
<v Speaker 1>the more you can foster that, the richer you're gonna

0:33:49.280 --> 0:33:52.400
<v Speaker 1>feel even if your bank account is just you know,

0:33:52.920 --> 0:33:56.000
<v Speaker 1>even if financially actually you're broke. Yeah, we watch it

0:33:56.080 --> 0:33:59.000
<v Speaker 1>up both ultimately, but like that, that's even more important

0:33:59.000 --> 0:34:01.280
<v Speaker 1>really in our book. That's right man. All right. So,

0:34:01.800 --> 0:34:04.040
<v Speaker 1>once you've decided that you are going to make the move,

0:34:04.040 --> 0:34:07.400
<v Speaker 1>you know you've determined specific city or better yet, maybe

0:34:07.440 --> 0:34:10.640
<v Speaker 1>you've determined a specific neighborhood. Uh, let's let's talk about

0:34:10.640 --> 0:34:13.200
<v Speaker 1>what's next. Because you might be saying, well, the supply

0:34:13.239 --> 0:34:15.160
<v Speaker 1>of homes where I want to live is low. How

0:34:15.800 --> 0:34:18.440
<v Speaker 1>can I find the right place for me in this market? Well,

0:34:18.480 --> 0:34:21.040
<v Speaker 1>it's crucial to make sure that you have an agent

0:34:21.280 --> 0:34:23.680
<v Speaker 1>who specializes in the area where you want to live.

0:34:24.040 --> 0:34:25.920
<v Speaker 1>Joel Unite. We we both have a killer agent who

0:34:25.960 --> 0:34:29.879
<v Speaker 1>has helped us both by multiple properties in town where

0:34:29.880 --> 0:34:33.160
<v Speaker 1>we currently live everything from the homes. Uh we live

0:34:33.200 --> 0:34:36.680
<v Speaker 1>into the homes that our investment properties. But honestly, we

0:34:36.680 --> 0:34:39.640
<v Speaker 1>didn't even consider using her at all for purchasing our

0:34:39.680 --> 0:34:42.720
<v Speaker 1>homes out in the bourbs. It's it's a completely different

0:34:42.760 --> 0:34:45.320
<v Speaker 1>market out there, and we wanted an expert who lives

0:34:45.440 --> 0:34:48.399
<v Speaker 1>and who breathes the exact place we were hoping to land,

0:34:48.400 --> 0:34:50.640
<v Speaker 1>and it's a completely different market out there, and we

0:34:50.680 --> 0:34:53.280
<v Speaker 1>wanted an expert who lives and breathe the exact place

0:34:53.320 --> 0:34:55.719
<v Speaker 1>that we were hoping to land. We want somebody who

0:34:55.840 --> 0:34:59.000
<v Speaker 1>knows your target neighborhood inside. And now, can I just

0:34:59.040 --> 0:35:01.080
<v Speaker 1>say to by the way, you keep saying the burbs,

0:35:01.080 --> 0:35:02.600
<v Speaker 1>and I think I've mentioned it too, and we are

0:35:02.760 --> 0:35:06.560
<v Speaker 1>moving to somewhere that's not that's heart of the city, right,

0:35:06.920 --> 0:35:09.680
<v Speaker 1>But it's also there's a difference I think between where

0:35:09.680 --> 0:35:13.680
<v Speaker 1>we're moving and just complete suburbia. I don't know, maybe

0:35:13.680 --> 0:35:16.640
<v Speaker 1>not because it still has soul. That's part of the

0:35:16.680 --> 0:35:19.440
<v Speaker 1>identity I was talking about, and that made it so

0:35:19.480 --> 0:35:21.839
<v Speaker 1>difficult to move. We're moving into like actually a mid

0:35:21.840 --> 0:35:24.920
<v Speaker 1>century house in an older neighborhood that is not too

0:35:24.960 --> 0:35:28.160
<v Speaker 1>far from a suburban towntown. Sure. Yeah, so let's put

0:35:28.160 --> 0:35:30.000
<v Speaker 1>this out there for the record. We're not moving into

0:35:30.080 --> 0:35:32.520
<v Speaker 1>McMansion that are all cookie cutter, and not that there's

0:35:32.520 --> 0:35:34.440
<v Speaker 1>anything against that, but that that is not what we

0:35:34.440 --> 0:35:36.439
<v Speaker 1>were looking for, either one of us. What we're looking

0:35:36.440 --> 0:35:38.560
<v Speaker 1>for in the type of that we were looking We

0:35:38.560 --> 0:35:41.200
<v Speaker 1>have sung the praises about our super old bungalows and

0:35:41.239 --> 0:35:44.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm excited to be moving into an old house again,

0:35:44.160 --> 0:35:47.120
<v Speaker 1>because I just have an affinity for old houses, even

0:35:47.120 --> 0:35:49.799
<v Speaker 1>if they cost you more in the long run. And yeah,

0:35:49.800 --> 0:35:52.600
<v Speaker 1>we're talking about an agent. Matt, the agent we went with,

0:35:52.800 --> 0:35:54.560
<v Speaker 1>He does just that, right. He lives in the same

0:35:54.560 --> 0:35:58.479
<v Speaker 1>neighborhood basically that you're moving to. Literally, yeah, and he great.

0:35:58.520 --> 0:36:02.080
<v Speaker 1>Local real estate agents often have a network that impacts

0:36:02.120 --> 0:36:05.160
<v Speaker 1>their ability to find you a home, sometimes that they're

0:36:05.160 --> 0:36:07.480
<v Speaker 1>able to get you into a property even before it

0:36:07.760 --> 0:36:10.239
<v Speaker 1>hits the market. That happened in your case, didn't it

0:36:10.239 --> 0:36:12.759
<v Speaker 1>match that He was able to say, like, listen, I

0:36:12.800 --> 0:36:15.160
<v Speaker 1>know these folks they're about to sell. They told me

0:36:15.160 --> 0:36:16.680
<v Speaker 1>about it, and you know what, if you want to

0:36:16.680 --> 0:36:19.160
<v Speaker 1>take a look, you get first DIBs. Exactly. Yeah, I

0:36:19.160 --> 0:36:21.120
<v Speaker 1>mean so yeah, Literally, that happened for us, and it

0:36:21.120 --> 0:36:23.400
<v Speaker 1>can be you at least have first crack at it, right,

0:36:23.440 --> 0:36:25.799
<v Speaker 1>And I think that's just especially given the market that

0:36:25.800 --> 0:36:27.480
<v Speaker 1>we've had. It does seem like things are starting to

0:36:27.520 --> 0:36:30.000
<v Speaker 1>cool off a little bit, But the competition was fierce

0:36:30.160 --> 0:36:33.560
<v Speaker 1>this pass spring, and the ability, like I don't necessarily

0:36:33.800 --> 0:36:36.760
<v Speaker 1>think we're getting a killer deal because we were needing

0:36:36.760 --> 0:36:38.880
<v Speaker 1>to pay a premium for them to not list the

0:36:38.880 --> 0:36:40.560
<v Speaker 1>house on the market, right, And so in some in

0:36:40.560 --> 0:36:44.400
<v Speaker 1>one sense, maybe we slightly overpaid because who knows, we

0:36:44.440 --> 0:36:46.440
<v Speaker 1>never got to see what the competition was gonna look like.

0:36:46.600 --> 0:36:49.600
<v Speaker 1>But on the other hand, we also didn't get to

0:36:49.600 --> 0:36:51.600
<v Speaker 1>see what the competition was gonna look like, which meant

0:36:51.719 --> 0:36:54.000
<v Speaker 1>that more than likely I think we were able to

0:36:54.040 --> 0:36:56.840
<v Speaker 1>slightly under pay for what that home would have gone for.

0:36:57.239 --> 0:36:59.840
<v Speaker 1>But either way, having somebody who knows the specific area

0:36:59.840 --> 0:37:02.400
<v Speaker 1>and knows of not just pocket listings, but listings that

0:37:02.480 --> 0:37:05.520
<v Speaker 1>may not even be listings yet, you know, like like

0:37:05.560 --> 0:37:06.960
<v Speaker 1>these are folks who are just like you know, we've

0:37:06.960 --> 0:37:10.279
<v Speaker 1>been thinking about moving. That's why souch, you can take

0:37:10.320 --> 0:37:12.160
<v Speaker 1>care of you. Yeah. And if we had used our agent,

0:37:12.160 --> 0:37:15.200
<v Speaker 1>who was a great agent, but she doesn't know, Yeah,

0:37:15.680 --> 0:37:17.520
<v Speaker 1>for this part of town, it would have been, it

0:37:17.520 --> 0:37:19.359
<v Speaker 1>would have been, it would have worked out the same way.

0:37:19.600 --> 0:37:21.520
<v Speaker 1>And and okay, one other thing I wanted to mention too,

0:37:21.560 --> 0:37:23.880
<v Speaker 1>and can you talk about your guerilla marketing campaign to

0:37:23.920 --> 0:37:26.640
<v Speaker 1>try to buy a house. And you you identified some

0:37:26.680 --> 0:37:30.000
<v Speaker 1>specific homes and properties and some specific lots that you

0:37:30.040 --> 0:37:32.360
<v Speaker 1>fell in love with the most, and so you started

0:37:32.360 --> 0:37:35.840
<v Speaker 1>writing letters sticking in mailboxes, talking to neighbors. You weren't

0:37:35.880 --> 0:37:38.600
<v Speaker 1>just content to pull up Zillo every day and see

0:37:38.600 --> 0:37:41.080
<v Speaker 1>what popped up exactly. You were kind of like attacking

0:37:41.520 --> 0:37:43.640
<v Speaker 1>the market to try to find what you wanted specifically.

0:37:43.680 --> 0:37:45.239
<v Speaker 1>That I think that's why it's so helpful to know

0:37:45.320 --> 0:37:47.799
<v Speaker 1>exactly where you're hoping to land right, because you can

0:37:47.880 --> 0:37:50.479
<v Speaker 1>go literally it's a specific homes, which is what we did,

0:37:50.880 --> 0:37:52.759
<v Speaker 1>and we got to meet and even though it didn't

0:37:52.760 --> 0:37:55.839
<v Speaker 1>work out right in the end, we actually ended up

0:37:55.840 --> 0:37:58.120
<v Speaker 1>purchasing a home that we hadn't specifically targeted, but it's

0:37:58.160 --> 0:38:00.799
<v Speaker 1>still an awesome house in this right neighborhood that we're

0:38:00.840 --> 0:38:02.520
<v Speaker 1>hoping to land in. But even though it didn't pan

0:38:02.560 --> 0:38:04.600
<v Speaker 1>out for you know, for those specific homes that we targeted,

0:38:04.680 --> 0:38:06.560
<v Speaker 1>we're still we're at least friends with those folks and

0:38:06.560 --> 0:38:09.720
<v Speaker 1>they are now our neighbors, and we have, like we've already,

0:38:09.719 --> 0:38:11.839
<v Speaker 1>we've still been in touch with them. But the fact is,

0:38:12.000 --> 0:38:15.040
<v Speaker 1>were they on the brink of considering to move or not,

0:38:15.280 --> 0:38:16.960
<v Speaker 1>I think there's a good chance that we may have

0:38:17.120 --> 0:38:19.600
<v Speaker 1>been able to to do a similar off market deal.

0:38:19.719 --> 0:38:22.800
<v Speaker 1>And basically that's a tactic that real estate and message

0:38:22.920 --> 0:38:25.600
<v Speaker 1>use all the time, like they're they're farming the market,

0:38:25.640 --> 0:38:28.880
<v Speaker 1>they're on door, they're sending out flyers trying to find

0:38:29.280 --> 0:38:31.839
<v Speaker 1>that one percent of people who are willing to sell

0:38:31.880 --> 0:38:34.360
<v Speaker 1>them the house based on getting that in their mailbox.

0:38:34.480 --> 0:38:35.879
<v Speaker 1>And you were looking for the same thing, but as

0:38:36.360 --> 0:38:39.560
<v Speaker 1>a primary homeowner. And I think that's actually really interesting

0:38:39.560 --> 0:38:41.480
<v Speaker 1>tactic that that some people who are looking for a

0:38:41.520 --> 0:38:44.680
<v Speaker 1>specific kind of property can use. It's not always going

0:38:44.719 --> 0:38:47.200
<v Speaker 1>to work, but it's it's worth a shot. Let's talk

0:38:47.239 --> 0:38:49.600
<v Speaker 1>about moving for a second map, because when we're talking

0:38:49.640 --> 0:38:52.120
<v Speaker 1>about finding a place that you want to live, moving

0:38:52.400 --> 0:38:56.200
<v Speaker 1>is clearly a part of the hassle. And it can

0:38:56.200 --> 0:38:59.239
<v Speaker 1>be expensive to using your own vehicle or a U haul,

0:38:59.320 --> 0:39:01.360
<v Speaker 1>asking for a few friends to help you move in

0:39:01.400 --> 0:39:04.160
<v Speaker 1>exchange for like pizza and beer. That works really well

0:39:04.280 --> 0:39:07.959
<v Speaker 1>in your twenties and not so much as you get older.

0:39:08.000 --> 0:39:09.759
<v Speaker 1>You know, you and me, we were knocking on the

0:39:09.800 --> 0:39:12.720
<v Speaker 1>door forty and so we had to budget more for

0:39:12.800 --> 0:39:15.720
<v Speaker 1>our move. Especially, by the way, if you're not staying local,

0:39:16.000 --> 0:39:18.279
<v Speaker 1>it's it's gonna cost more. And and I actually like

0:39:18.440 --> 0:39:20.000
<v Speaker 1>the idea of running your own U haul and then

0:39:20.080 --> 0:39:23.240
<v Speaker 1>hiring someone actually you hall has a moving help service.

0:39:23.280 --> 0:39:26.360
<v Speaker 1>That's great for finding local folks. I've done that myself,

0:39:26.719 --> 0:39:29.879
<v Speaker 1>and you can get a few people to come help

0:39:29.920 --> 0:39:33.920
<v Speaker 1>you move relatively inexpensively, and you rent the truck yourself.

0:39:33.960 --> 0:39:35.160
<v Speaker 1>And you did that a couple of times in the

0:39:35.200 --> 0:39:38.120
<v Speaker 1>past few years and multiple times. And here's the thing.

0:39:38.200 --> 0:39:40.920
<v Speaker 1>Finding a good mover for a bigger trip, especially one

0:39:40.920 --> 0:39:43.600
<v Speaker 1>that's taking you to a new state, is actually something

0:39:43.600 --> 0:39:45.839
<v Speaker 1>that can be fraught with peril. Though, So if you're

0:39:45.920 --> 0:39:50.560
<v Speaker 1>hiring movers, professional movers, make sure they are certified pro

0:39:50.719 --> 0:39:55.080
<v Speaker 1>movers at moving dot org. This this certification is awarded

0:39:55.120 --> 0:39:58.360
<v Speaker 1>by the American Trucking Association to companies who have to

0:39:58.360 --> 0:40:01.520
<v Speaker 1>pass like a rigorous set of standards and so ethical

0:40:01.600 --> 0:40:04.600
<v Speaker 1>standards as well. Right, Yeah, and so there's uh. Plus,

0:40:04.640 --> 0:40:07.000
<v Speaker 1>they look at the history of the moves they've done,

0:40:07.040 --> 0:40:09.920
<v Speaker 1>they talked to previous customers. They are thorough, and so

0:40:09.960 --> 0:40:12.560
<v Speaker 1>if you find a moving company who is a vetted

0:40:12.719 --> 0:40:17.759
<v Speaker 1>pro mover, you can know with relative certainty that this

0:40:17.840 --> 0:40:19.480
<v Speaker 1>is a company you want to do business with. Matt,

0:40:19.520 --> 0:40:22.040
<v Speaker 1>you and I, we of course prioritize that we found

0:40:22.280 --> 0:40:25.839
<v Speaker 1>high quality, certified pro movers who happen to be really

0:40:25.840 --> 0:40:29.359
<v Speaker 1>affordable and are helping us move up relatively inexpensively. So

0:40:29.760 --> 0:40:31.279
<v Speaker 1>I just want to put that out there. If you're

0:40:31.280 --> 0:40:33.719
<v Speaker 1>looking to hire a mover, it's easy to get taken

0:40:33.760 --> 0:40:37.960
<v Speaker 1>advantage of, but just only confining your search to pro

0:40:38.080 --> 0:40:41.000
<v Speaker 1>movers is one way that you're going to ensure that

0:40:41.040 --> 0:40:43.640
<v Speaker 1>you're doing business with the good guys. And by the

0:40:43.640 --> 0:40:46.359
<v Speaker 1>way movers are, it seems like they're thrilled to give

0:40:46.400 --> 0:40:49.160
<v Speaker 1>you estimates, but you want to make sure that you

0:40:49.200 --> 0:40:52.600
<v Speaker 1>get a binding estimate, and because this actually protects you

0:40:52.640 --> 0:40:56.320
<v Speaker 1>from extreme deviations that can occur if a mover only

0:40:56.400 --> 0:41:00.279
<v Speaker 1>provides a non binding estimate. But by doing that that

0:41:00.320 --> 0:41:02.399
<v Speaker 1>puts you in the best position. And don't ever pay

0:41:02.680 --> 0:41:05.400
<v Speaker 1>a down payment to a mover for their services. This

0:41:05.480 --> 0:41:08.279
<v Speaker 1>is a big, big red flag as well. And one

0:41:08.280 --> 0:41:10.160
<v Speaker 1>other thing worth mentioning when it comes to your move

0:41:10.239 --> 0:41:12.080
<v Speaker 1>is that you should try to purge as much as

0:41:12.120 --> 0:41:15.560
<v Speaker 1>possible before you leave. Joel, I think this folks might

0:41:15.600 --> 0:41:18.040
<v Speaker 1>also other sharp listeners out there might be may have

0:41:18.080 --> 0:41:19.760
<v Speaker 1>picked up on the fact that we have been selling

0:41:20.000 --> 0:41:21.920
<v Speaker 1>a good amount of stuff that you've basically meant to

0:41:21.960 --> 0:41:25.400
<v Speaker 1>sell yourself. Challenge and I kind of reverse half for

0:41:25.480 --> 0:41:28.160
<v Speaker 1>myself because I was like, Okay, we have to start

0:41:28.239 --> 0:41:30.239
<v Speaker 1>unloading things because I don't want to be in a

0:41:30.320 --> 0:41:32.759
<v Speaker 1>situation where we're either donating things to charity, which is

0:41:32.760 --> 0:41:34.480
<v Speaker 1>totally fine, but I would rather see it to go

0:41:34.520 --> 0:41:37.080
<v Speaker 1>to someone who's willing to pay me a small fee

0:41:37.280 --> 0:41:40.280
<v Speaker 1>where they're really excited to have that item and cash

0:41:40.360 --> 0:41:42.520
<v Speaker 1>to charity instead. Man, that is true, but this can

0:41:42.560 --> 0:41:44.640
<v Speaker 1>be a perfect chance to donate and sell that old

0:41:44.640 --> 0:41:47.920
<v Speaker 1>stuff that can help even pay for this move. Fewer

0:41:47.960 --> 0:41:51.400
<v Speaker 1>boxes means a less expensive move overall, and since the

0:41:51.400 --> 0:41:55.440
<v Speaker 1>average move it costs something around, cutting that bill down

0:41:55.560 --> 0:41:58.120
<v Speaker 1>in any way that you can is wise. But definitely

0:41:58.160 --> 0:42:00.719
<v Speaker 1>don't sell your stuff in order to buy all new

0:42:00.760 --> 0:42:02.680
<v Speaker 1>stuff when you get to your new place, and that

0:42:02.719 --> 0:42:06.520
<v Speaker 1>would probably be far worse from a money standpoint. Try

0:42:06.640 --> 0:42:09.040
<v Speaker 1>as much as possible to keep your old stuff that

0:42:09.120 --> 0:42:11.319
<v Speaker 1>is still in good working order. We just want you

0:42:11.360 --> 0:42:14.480
<v Speaker 1>to resist the urge to just completely upgrade by all

0:42:14.480 --> 0:42:17.279
<v Speaker 1>new furniture. We're gonna get this room to deliver like

0:42:17.400 --> 0:42:19.400
<v Speaker 1>brand new house where new people now. That is that

0:42:19.480 --> 0:42:21.000
<v Speaker 1>is what we want you to try to avoid. Well,

0:42:21.000 --> 0:42:23.399
<v Speaker 1>that's one of the downsize of those much larger homes Matt.

0:42:23.480 --> 0:42:25.160
<v Speaker 1>That's why I like the fact that we're staying in

0:42:25.200 --> 0:42:27.440
<v Speaker 1>a very similar square footage because it's like, there's not

0:42:27.920 --> 0:42:30.399
<v Speaker 1>much need for us to buy anything else. We kind

0:42:30.400 --> 0:42:32.919
<v Speaker 1>of have all the stuff that we've got, the beds

0:42:32.920 --> 0:42:35.000
<v Speaker 1>and the couches and chairs and all that stuff already.

0:42:35.200 --> 0:42:37.759
<v Speaker 1>We don't need to upgrade anything that you don't have

0:42:37.800 --> 0:42:41.120
<v Speaker 1>those How are we going to outfit the west wing? Questions?

0:42:41.640 --> 0:42:43.759
<v Speaker 1>Or the basement that is the size of my current home, Like,

0:42:43.920 --> 0:42:46.080
<v Speaker 1>when are we gonna put down there? I have no idea.

0:42:46.560 --> 0:42:48.640
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I think that's a that's a good A

0:42:48.640 --> 0:42:51.680
<v Speaker 1>good call is is selling things that you can so

0:42:51.719 --> 0:42:54.200
<v Speaker 1>that you're moving less overall, so it's gonna cost you less.

0:42:54.520 --> 0:42:57.040
<v Speaker 1>And so let's talk about moving to matt in a

0:42:57.080 --> 0:43:01.440
<v Speaker 1>hot market when prices are high. They have been rents,

0:43:01.560 --> 0:43:03.880
<v Speaker 1>rents have gone up to and I've even seen people

0:43:04.040 --> 0:43:06.960
<v Speaker 1>talk about bidding wars for certain homes when it comes

0:43:06.960 --> 0:43:10.560
<v Speaker 1>to renting. So people are just that desperate for for

0:43:10.640 --> 0:43:14.600
<v Speaker 1>certain houses in certain areas, and so it's I will

0:43:14.640 --> 0:43:18.919
<v Speaker 1>say this was a massive needle that our families had

0:43:18.920 --> 0:43:21.960
<v Speaker 1>to thread over a series of of multiple months, or

0:43:22.080 --> 0:43:23.960
<v Speaker 1>a tiny needle we had a thread. It was the

0:43:24.000 --> 0:43:27.600
<v Speaker 1>smaller the needle, the harder. That's that's a good point, yeah,

0:43:27.840 --> 0:43:29.440
<v Speaker 1>and thank you for that. So, yeah, there was a

0:43:29.440 --> 0:43:32.520
<v Speaker 1>lot of uncertainty along the way as we were moving forward,

0:43:33.000 --> 0:43:35.200
<v Speaker 1>and you might actually be thinking that maybe we've lost

0:43:35.400 --> 0:43:37.759
<v Speaker 1>our how the money cred because we seem like you're

0:43:37.800 --> 0:43:40.080
<v Speaker 1>buying at the wrong time. I bought homes at the

0:43:40.120 --> 0:43:42.680
<v Speaker 1>peak of the market. Maybe. But a couple of things

0:43:42.719 --> 0:43:45.120
<v Speaker 1>to note on that front is, well, who knows whether

0:43:45.360 --> 0:43:47.000
<v Speaker 1>this is the peak or if we're going to see

0:43:47.040 --> 0:43:50.359
<v Speaker 1>home prices continue to climb maybe for the next few

0:43:50.400 --> 0:43:53.000
<v Speaker 1>years or even the next decade. It's tough to know.

0:43:53.080 --> 0:43:55.760
<v Speaker 1>And we've talked about the underlying demographics and the housing

0:43:55.800 --> 0:43:59.600
<v Speaker 1>shortage that we think they're there. We're not. We're definitely

0:43:59.600 --> 0:44:01.919
<v Speaker 1>not in how bubble, but it's hard to know whether

0:44:01.960 --> 0:44:03.680
<v Speaker 1>home prices are going to come down in the near

0:44:03.719 --> 0:44:06.600
<v Speaker 1>future or not. And the other thing is we're fortunate

0:44:06.680 --> 0:44:08.919
<v Speaker 1>enough to already own our own homes and that means

0:44:08.920 --> 0:44:12.279
<v Speaker 1>that we have the ability to take advantage of the

0:44:12.280 --> 0:44:15.000
<v Speaker 1>hot housing market. On the flip side of the equation, yeah,

0:44:15.200 --> 0:44:16.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean, we're we're having to pay a premium, right

0:44:17.280 --> 0:44:19.000
<v Speaker 1>to get our homes, but we're also getting a premium

0:44:19.040 --> 0:44:21.440
<v Speaker 1>so for I mean us specifically, like we're we we

0:44:21.480 --> 0:44:23.960
<v Speaker 1>sold our home, we are under contract, were pending, and

0:44:24.000 --> 0:44:27.879
<v Speaker 1>so we're we're kind of swapping one seemingly overpriced home

0:44:27.960 --> 0:44:31.040
<v Speaker 1>for another. Even though that being said, we are moving

0:44:31.080 --> 0:44:34.520
<v Speaker 1>to a more affordable location, so we're actually paying less

0:44:34.520 --> 0:44:37.080
<v Speaker 1>overall four our housing costs. And I'm doing the crazy

0:44:37.120 --> 0:44:39.200
<v Speaker 1>thing and trying to rent out our current home so

0:44:39.800 --> 0:44:42.120
<v Speaker 1>at all ending another unit to my rental portfolio. So

0:44:42.360 --> 0:44:44.560
<v Speaker 1>it's one of those things where we're trying to make

0:44:44.760 --> 0:44:48.280
<v Speaker 1>lemonade out of lemons with the hot housing market, and

0:44:48.480 --> 0:44:51.200
<v Speaker 1>it's it's certainly a hard time to move. It's a

0:44:51.239 --> 0:44:53.080
<v Speaker 1>really hard time to try to get two families to

0:44:53.120 --> 0:44:56.440
<v Speaker 1>move within a relatively uh short distance of each other.

0:44:56.880 --> 0:44:59.840
<v Speaker 1>But unreal we pulled it on somehow. It Yeah, we

0:45:00.040 --> 0:45:02.360
<v Speaker 1>you have been able to manage it wild maintaining our friendship,

0:45:02.640 --> 0:45:07.520
<v Speaker 1>uh the podcast and continuing to release good content. So

0:45:07.600 --> 0:45:09.239
<v Speaker 1>I mean, picking the right place to live. It's it's

0:45:09.280 --> 0:45:11.680
<v Speaker 1>more of an art honestly than a science. Um. But

0:45:11.800 --> 0:45:14.560
<v Speaker 1>that being said, if you're a type a person, you

0:45:14.719 --> 0:45:17.520
<v Speaker 1>might even want to create something a little nerdy or

0:45:17.560 --> 0:45:19.719
<v Speaker 1>something like a weighted scale that considers all of these

0:45:19.760 --> 0:45:24.040
<v Speaker 1>factors to help you to numerically represent which communities and

0:45:24.080 --> 0:45:27.080
<v Speaker 1>which specific houses make sense to you. And remember, money

0:45:27.160 --> 0:45:30.279
<v Speaker 1>is an important factor in deciding where to live. Of course,

0:45:30.320 --> 0:45:32.480
<v Speaker 1>we don't want you to rent or buy somewhere that's

0:45:32.480 --> 0:45:34.879
<v Speaker 1>going to bust your monthly budget, but money is not

0:45:35.000 --> 0:45:37.879
<v Speaker 1>the most important reason to move or to stay put.

0:45:38.080 --> 0:45:39.399
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna be moving here in a couple of weeks,

0:45:39.440 --> 0:45:41.960
<v Speaker 1>and it's it's kind of a stressful time moving. It's

0:45:42.000 --> 0:45:44.680
<v Speaker 1>widely considered to be one of the most stressful life events.

0:45:44.680 --> 0:45:46.040
<v Speaker 1>It's up there, I think, with the loss of a

0:45:46.080 --> 0:45:49.080
<v Speaker 1>loved one. And so here's to hoping we don't move

0:45:49.120 --> 0:45:51.880
<v Speaker 1>again anytime soon. And for those out there who are

0:45:51.920 --> 0:45:54.360
<v Speaker 1>also looking to move in the near future, we wish

0:45:54.360 --> 0:45:57.080
<v Speaker 1>you the best of luck in finding a home and

0:45:57.120 --> 0:46:00.680
<v Speaker 1>specifically in finding a community where you your family can

0:46:00.719 --> 0:46:03.760
<v Speaker 1>thrive as well. Yep, so hopefully we dished enough personal

0:46:03.800 --> 0:46:06.040
<v Speaker 1>information and also gave you a lot to think about

0:46:06.040 --> 0:46:09.319
<v Speaker 1>when it comes to buying or renting and when where

0:46:09.320 --> 0:46:11.200
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna end up. And I think, Matt, more people

0:46:11.560 --> 0:46:13.400
<v Speaker 1>have been thinking about it, and more people will continue

0:46:13.440 --> 0:46:15.960
<v Speaker 1>to think a little more deeply about why they live

0:46:16.000 --> 0:46:18.000
<v Speaker 1>where they live. They'll start to question is this is

0:46:18.000 --> 0:46:20.040
<v Speaker 1>actually this is actually where I want to be, Or

0:46:20.239 --> 0:46:22.440
<v Speaker 1>do I actually want to live in a small town

0:46:22.800 --> 0:46:24.759
<v Speaker 1>on the edge of a national forest, or do I

0:46:24.840 --> 0:46:26.680
<v Speaker 1>want to live in the heart of downtown in a

0:46:26.719 --> 0:46:30.600
<v Speaker 1>studio apartment because I'm walking distance to three great craft breweries.

0:46:30.640 --> 0:46:33.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean like, it's all going to be individualized and

0:46:33.480 --> 0:46:35.720
<v Speaker 1>everyone's going to have a different take, which is great.

0:46:36.200 --> 0:46:38.560
<v Speaker 1>But factor these things in for yourself. We'll we'll have

0:46:38.600 --> 0:46:40.160
<v Speaker 1>a list in our show notes on how to money

0:46:40.160 --> 0:46:42.799
<v Speaker 1>dot Com of all the factors that we mentioned, so

0:46:42.880 --> 0:46:44.520
<v Speaker 1>you can kind of come up with a chart for

0:46:44.560 --> 0:46:46.920
<v Speaker 1>yourself as you're making these assessments. But Matt, let's get

0:46:46.920 --> 0:46:49.320
<v Speaker 1>back to the beer that we had on this episode.

0:46:49.640 --> 0:46:52.040
<v Speaker 1>This is called Stuck Ease Pecan log Roll by a

0:46:52.040 --> 0:46:54.600
<v Speaker 1>Wild Heaven. What were your thoughts on this beer. I'll

0:46:54.640 --> 0:46:56.919
<v Speaker 1>say it was pretty tasty. It's a fairly unique beer.

0:46:56.960 --> 0:46:58.440
<v Speaker 1>Like they don't say on the can what type of

0:46:58.440 --> 0:47:00.320
<v Speaker 1>beer it is, but if I had to just cry it,

0:47:00.360 --> 0:47:03.719
<v Speaker 1>I would say like it has more brown ale characteristics,

0:47:04.360 --> 0:47:06.040
<v Speaker 1>uh than than a stout because it doesn't have some

0:47:06.080 --> 0:47:08.480
<v Speaker 1>of those big, robust flavors that come with a stout.

0:47:09.000 --> 0:47:10.560
<v Speaker 1>Drinks more like a brown ale to me, like a

0:47:10.840 --> 0:47:15.600
<v Speaker 1>light nutbrown ale, you know that's true. And I feel

0:47:15.600 --> 0:47:17.200
<v Speaker 1>like it kind of has a fluffy nous to it,

0:47:17.239 --> 0:47:19.360
<v Speaker 1>like it almost tastes like there's a little bit of marshmallow.

0:47:19.719 --> 0:47:23.520
<v Speaker 1>A lot of times marshmallow can be added to stouts,

0:47:23.520 --> 0:47:25.319
<v Speaker 1>typically as an adjunct, to kind of give it some

0:47:25.360 --> 0:47:27.759
<v Speaker 1>of that white fluff flavor. And it makes sense too

0:47:27.760 --> 0:47:30.280
<v Speaker 1>specifically for this beer because this is so stuck ease.

0:47:30.760 --> 0:47:32.319
<v Speaker 1>It's like a gas station. It's like a truck stop

0:47:32.360 --> 0:47:35.640
<v Speaker 1>chain that originated down in South Georgia, and they have

0:47:35.800 --> 0:47:39.200
<v Speaker 1>these pecan log rolls that you could buy there at

0:47:39.200 --> 0:47:41.879
<v Speaker 1>those gas stations. And so this is actually a collaboration

0:47:42.200 --> 0:47:45.680
<v Speaker 1>with Stucky specifically in Wild Heaven, to create this beer

0:47:45.800 --> 0:47:48.239
<v Speaker 1>that makes it taste like you just pulled over in

0:47:48.280 --> 0:47:51.120
<v Speaker 1>South Georgia. I guess it got a snack and got

0:47:51.120 --> 0:47:55.200
<v Speaker 1>a log roll from the gas station, which I don't

0:47:55.239 --> 0:47:56.799
<v Speaker 1>even know if I've ever even had one of these.

0:47:56.880 --> 0:48:00.560
<v Speaker 1>I think I have. You have seen them before, did yeah? Right?

0:48:00.680 --> 0:48:03.120
<v Speaker 1>Just to be a true Georgian, we would always if

0:48:03.160 --> 0:48:05.040
<v Speaker 1>I was ever wanted, like the splurge when I was

0:48:05.040 --> 0:48:07.240
<v Speaker 1>growing up was if my parents got one of the

0:48:07.280 --> 0:48:09.719
<v Speaker 1>deep fried apple pies like in the wax paper. That

0:48:09.719 --> 0:48:12.760
<v Speaker 1>sounds good, dude. Those were my jam and I still

0:48:12.960 --> 0:48:15.400
<v Speaker 1>love those to this day. It's why my favorite donut

0:48:15.480 --> 0:48:17.840
<v Speaker 1>is an apple fritter, because you get that deep fried

0:48:17.920 --> 0:48:21.120
<v Speaker 1>with the apple flavors and the cinnamon. So I can't

0:48:21.160 --> 0:48:24.399
<v Speaker 1>imagine myself going for the pecan roll pecon log roll

0:48:24.760 --> 0:48:27.080
<v Speaker 1>over a deep fried apple pie. But the next time

0:48:27.080 --> 0:48:28.799
<v Speaker 1>I see what, I'm gonna have to get one just too.

0:48:28.800 --> 0:48:30.640
<v Speaker 1>I give it a shot, no doubt. Yeah, I thought

0:48:30.640 --> 0:48:34.080
<v Speaker 1>this one was was tasty and pecans they're a classic

0:48:34.320 --> 0:48:38.080
<v Speaker 1>Georgia staple, and so is on this episode where we're

0:48:38.080 --> 0:48:41.560
<v Speaker 1>staying put in Georgia. It's only appropriate migrating a little

0:48:41.560 --> 0:48:44.080
<v Speaker 1>bit north. Uh, it was only appropriate, I agree. So

0:48:44.360 --> 0:48:46.440
<v Speaker 1>that's gonna do it for this episode. For folks who

0:48:46.440 --> 0:48:48.480
<v Speaker 1>want the show notes and links to some of the

0:48:48.480 --> 0:48:50.879
<v Speaker 1>things we mentioned in this episode, you can find those

0:48:50.920 --> 0:48:53.200
<v Speaker 1>on our website at how to money dot com. That's right,

0:48:53.239 --> 0:48:55.440
<v Speaker 1>So that's gonna be it for this episode, Joel. Until

0:48:55.480 --> 0:49:06.680
<v Speaker 1>next time, Best Friends Out, Best Friends Out, m