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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO, our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. You ready, Steve clo O day Okay, this

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Speaker 1: is from Harlow and Saginaw. Harlow writes, I'm twenty seven

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Speaker 1: years old and my fiance is thirty four. At our

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Speaker 1: engagement party, my fiance joked about how he snuck around

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Speaker 1: to date when I was a freshman in college, how

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Speaker 1: we snuck around to date. Now my dad thinks he's

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Speaker 1: a pervert. How do I change my dad's perception of

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Speaker 1: my fiance?

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Speaker 2: Four?

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Speaker 3: So that's seven years so he was out in college eighteen,

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Speaker 3: he was twenty five.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he was out of college.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well you know that's what shouldn't have told the story,

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Speaker 3: that's all sometimes just shut your mouth.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, who's that the engagement party?

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I guess you thought it was funny. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I want to do Yeah, that's what it does.

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Speaker 1: Hell, all right, So how does she change her dad's perception?

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Speaker 2: You ain't. You ain't.

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Speaker 1: Dad will never like him.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yess, why you tell that story? Dog? I mean,

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Speaker 2: just come on, it's all good, girl, Then tell the

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Speaker 2: story her. Yeah that's what he did.

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Speaker 3: The girl is right, Yeah, he thought it thought it

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Speaker 3: was funny, don't.

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Speaker 2: That's why you did it? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to joy in Little Rock, Joyce says, my

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Speaker 1: marriage is very open, but not by choice. I could

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Speaker 1: either accept that my husband has other women, or I

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Speaker 1: could leave him and start from scratch. I haven't worked

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Speaker 1: in eight years, so it may not be wise to

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Speaker 1: leave him. We do still have sex, but he wears protection.

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Speaker 1: Should I stay and let him continue to take care

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Speaker 1: of me?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 2: He asked, Wow, you have protection with your wife? Dog?

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Speaker 2: What you out here? You tripping?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So you ain't worked in eight years, so you don't

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Speaker 3: think you ought to leave? But you know he you

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Speaker 3: in an open marriage and it's not by your choice,

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Speaker 3: but he got a lot of other women. And when

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Speaker 3: y'all do have sex, you have protection. That's the life

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Speaker 3: you want. When you were saying your vows? Is that

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Speaker 3: what you was thinking when you was growing up as

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Speaker 3: a little girl wanting to get married? Is this what

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Speaker 3: you were thinking? Okay? If I ain't worked in eight years, man, hey,

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Speaker 3: listen to me. You still ain't got to work.

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Speaker 2: Hear what you do? Get you some proof that he cheating,

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Speaker 2: get you a divorce, and get half refirm I like it.

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Speaker 1: I like it.

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Speaker 2: That works, that's how it worked.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because she thinks she has no option, who ain't

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Speaker 1: got no.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you y'all something.

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Speaker 3: A woman always has an option. Good, you're breaking it

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Speaker 3: down because a woman has all. Right, let me see

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Speaker 3: how I can particip A woman has an item. A

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Speaker 3: woman has an item.

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Speaker 2: That is so valuable, perfect, it's so.

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Speaker 3: Need pressure, more precious than gold.

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Speaker 2: Silver, cattle on a thousand heels.

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Speaker 3: M It gives so many things joy, it has heal

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Speaker 3: and power, It brings folth life awful. Yeah, lord him mercy.

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Speaker 3: We'll go to the next one.

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Speaker 2: Shirley for I think I should call it big.

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Speaker 1: Alan Charleston says, I thought I met my soulmate until

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Speaker 1: I made her mad and she cursed me out in public.

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Speaker 1: She's not remorseful at all, and even had the nerve

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Speaker 1: to say she bets I won't ever make her that

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Speaker 1: mad again? Is this forgivable? Does she get a one

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Speaker 1: time passed?

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Speaker 2: You really like her?

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Speaker 3: B Yeah, bro, cussed you out in public, not remorseful.

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Speaker 3: I said, bet you won't make her that mad. Akin

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Speaker 3: y'all not married?

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Speaker 4: Uh huh, Yes, I'm out, Yeah, I'm out.

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Speaker 2: I'm out.

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Speaker 3: Let me get on out of here now, because that

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Speaker 3: ain't the first time you can get cussed out, because

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Speaker 3: she gonna she already know if that didn't get it

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Speaker 3: at level two?

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Speaker 1: But what if he did something so bad that she

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Speaker 1: just couldn't hold it?

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Speaker 2: What if that I got that? I got that, I

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Speaker 2: got that. Yeah. See he made her mad. That's obvious.

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Speaker 2: But that's your reaction in public though. And they're not married.

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Speaker 2: Man By, you ain't getting chance number two in me.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, so By, So unless you want to

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Speaker 4: marry an evil, sadistic soul mate, I suggest you reconsider.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, big al all right, big Alan Charleston.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Moving on last one. This is Roberta and Omaha.

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Speaker 1: Roberta writes, I'm dating a drunk. He drinks so much

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Speaker 1: wine that it doesn't phaze him anymore. He can work,

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Speaker 1: drive and have a logical conversation with me after drinking

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Speaker 1: a whole bottle of wine. It's normal for him. Her

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Speaker 1: question is should I stop bothering him about drinking? That's

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Speaker 1: what she wants to know.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's wine, right, so it has a lower alcohol

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Speaker 3: content than liquor. Yeah, you can drink a whole bottle

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Speaker 3: of one and it don't do nothing to you. Eventually

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Speaker 3: you're gonna want it to do something to you.

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Speaker 2: So you're gonna drink another.

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Speaker 3: Or you're gonna try something else. You could be she

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Speaker 3: dated or marriage to him.

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Speaker 1: She's dating him, she's she's saying, I'm dating or drunk.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, now you're dating a drunk. That's what you're gonna

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Speaker 3: marry an alcoholic. This is where it is going.

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Speaker 2: O goodness, dating a drunk.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he drinks so much wine that it doesn't even

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Speaker 1: base him anymore.

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Speaker 3: He said, oh yeah, yeah, he's a functioning alcoholic. Possibly,

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Speaker 3: but if you're dating or drunk, you will marry an alcoholic.

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Speaker 2: Yes, sir, you need to call the you need to

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Speaker 2: go with the dude in Charleston. It just got crushed out.

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Speaker 1: That's probably big al.

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Speaker 2: Let them get together.

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Speaker 1: All right, ready to love you better match me, c.

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Speaker 2: You know that's what he did. Sweet newt know what

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Speaker 2: they do.

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