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Speaker 1: You're listening to I Choose Me with Jenny Garle. Hi. Everyone,

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Speaker 1: welcome back to I Choose Me, the podcast about the

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Speaker 1: choices we make and how they shape us. Today, I'm

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Speaker 1: joined by Teresa Caputo, who has touched millions through her

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Speaker 1: extraordinary gift. She has built her life around helping others

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Speaker 1: find out what it really means to trust your own intuition.

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Speaker 1: Teresa is the star of Long Island, Medium and Raising Spirits.

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Speaker 1: She's a best selling author, she's a jewelry designer, you

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Speaker 1: name it. I love her and I know you will too. Teresa,

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Speaker 1: we met recently in Santa Monica when you joined the

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Speaker 1: Quintessential fifty Yes, and I was so happy that you

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Speaker 1: were there being a part of this just amazing group

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Speaker 1: of women who are taken names and kicking ass. Is

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Speaker 1: that how you say that, I guess so yeah, or

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Speaker 1: kicking ass and taken names. I think that's how it

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Speaker 1: is after fifty So you're like the perfect example. I

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Speaker 1: love it how you just keep thriving, keep driving so wonderfully. Okay, So,

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Speaker 1: in addition to your podcast and your tours, which I

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Speaker 1: know are a lot of work, You've also decided to

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Speaker 1: launch your jewelry line on QVC.

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Speaker 2: That just happened, right, amazing, It just happened last week.

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Speaker 1: How did it go?

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Speaker 2: Phenomenal? Really, it was unbelievable.

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Speaker 3: QBC is like very overwhelming, Like you get there, it's

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Speaker 3: a compound.

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Speaker 1: It's in a whole world.

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Speaker 3: You know, you're watching QBC on TV. It is like

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Speaker 3: a compound. And everyone is so lovely and so nice.

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Speaker 3: And the support that you get from everyone there, I

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Speaker 3: love that. I love that the more when you were

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Speaker 3: talking about when we went to the q fifty like women,

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Speaker 3: you know, yeah, they're kicking ass and taking names, but

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Speaker 3: they're also supporting and uplifting.

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Speaker 2: People, Yes, which is so important especially today.

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Speaker 1: I know when I met my friends at QBC and

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Speaker 1: like immersed into that world. Well, first of all, you

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Speaker 1: do you get immersed, like when I go to the

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Speaker 1: work there for three days in a row, like there's

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Speaker 1: nothing else in the world, Like I'm barely checking my phone.

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Speaker 1: It's just really all consuming. So but it's it's the

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Speaker 1: first time in my life that I had that feeling

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Speaker 1: of support from other females. Yes, And I just was like,

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Speaker 1: oh this is nice.

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Speaker 2: I like it really is a beautiful family.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, who was your host for your Solberte

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Speaker 1: ALBERTI I did that, did a couple of live hits

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Speaker 1: with him.

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Speaker 3: I did the TikTok shop right right with the young ladies, okay,

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Speaker 3: and then I did an owl with Mallie fifty fabulous. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: oh yeah, you guys have fantastic Did you get crazy?

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Speaker 2: Oh? My god?

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Speaker 4: Crazy? She's crazy? And then crazy and how crazy with her?

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Speaker 4: Right this kicks in you have to be crazy with her.

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Speaker 4: It makes you feel so good though, it does, it does, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it's just camaraderie. So you had been communicating with spirit

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Speaker 4: since you were four years old?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I didn't realize that four that that what I

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Speaker 3: was doing. I had no idea what I was doing.

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Speaker 3: I just like sensed and felt things that other people didn't.

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Speaker 3: And I would always just say like random odd things.

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Speaker 2: No one ever made a big deal about it.

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Speaker 3: And I would always say to my mom, I don't

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Speaker 3: feel right. I feel different than everyone else. I don't

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Speaker 3: feel like I belong here. And my mom literally said

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Speaker 3: to me one day, She's like, Teresa, you're not adopted.

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Speaker 3: You belong to this family, so stop feeling that way.

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Speaker 5: Like this is you know.

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Speaker 3: And I was always so fearful about a lot of things.

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Speaker 3: And my mom never forced me to do anything, and

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Speaker 3: you know, pushed me like if I didn't want to

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Speaker 2: Yet, and it.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't until I was almost thirty that I realized that

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Speaker 3: not only was I able to communicate with my own

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Speaker 3: departed loved ones, which I believe everyone has that ability

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Speaker 3: to do. Really, yes, I believe in because that's a

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Speaker 3: soul bond that can never be broken. So we all

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Speaker 3: have that connection. Those little things we get, I say,

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Speaker 3: they're little helloes from heaven. Those little signs, symbols or

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Speaker 3: things that just happened that remind you of your loved

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Speaker 2: Know that that's them.

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Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, I'm a true believer in that.

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Speaker 1: In the wind and the wind chimes anything, Yeah, do

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Speaker 3: I just had this odd thing, like I switched wallets

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Speaker 3: I literally had my healthcare card, my driver's license, a

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Speaker 1: Two twenties and one it was a single die.

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Speaker 2: And that's my grandmother. Yeah, she she always shows me.

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Speaker 2: She always shows me dimes.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was a little as all. We both looked

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Speaker 5: at each other and she was like, op Gram's here.

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Speaker 1: Oh I love that. You just don't. You're not scared

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Speaker 1: by it. You just know except that that's how it

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Speaker 3: I tell you, it was a little scary like when

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Speaker 3: you know. And that's where a lot of like my

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Speaker 3: anxiety had come in growing up, because I feel the

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Speaker 3: way someone passes, so they bring me through their departure.

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Speaker 3: So like I feel very heavy right now in the

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Speaker 3: chest and my head hurts. So that's usually someone passed

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Speaker 3: from something of the chest, heart, lungs, chest or breast,

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Speaker 3: and then the head could be like an aneurysm, brain

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Speaker 2: So they bring me through that departure.

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Speaker 3: So I'd be like out in the food store and

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Speaker 3: this stuff would be happening to me.

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Speaker 2: So when I be freaking out.

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Speaker 1: You're just walking around feeling all the.

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Speaker 3: Feeling way that the way that people have departed, So

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Speaker 3: they only make me feel things if for a reason,

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Speaker 3: like I just don't randomly feel those things, So they

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Speaker 3: would have to be souls that pass to people connected

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Speaker 1: Are you so you're feeling a headache, Well.

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Speaker 3: I got like the head So when I get like

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Speaker 3: a pain, like in the front of my it's different,

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Speaker 3: So I have different symbols.

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Speaker 2: So in the front of the head.

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Speaker 3: Is like aneurysm, brain tumor at Alzheimer's dementia is something

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Speaker 3: But there's two souls, so that passed in that each way.

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Speaker 2: They passed in that way.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Yeah, you're already freaking me out.

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Speaker 3: But like I always say, souls, I always say not

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Speaker 3: everyone wants to or needs to hear from their loved

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Speaker 3: ones that have died. So there's always certain things that

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Speaker 3: souls have to show me. They have to show me

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Speaker 3: like how you knew them. Then they bring me through

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Speaker 3: the departure, which they already did, but then they will

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Speaker 3: onto that might be making you feel better sad about yourself.

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Speaker 3: So there was a young gentleman, so young for me,

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Speaker 2: And I don't know, did you not get to see him.

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Speaker 1: Before he died? Oh? Or we're going there?

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure which one? Well?

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Speaker 3: I felt now cut both of them, but more than male,

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Speaker 3: like I felt like there was I don't know, did

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Speaker 2: You supposed to see him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And then and then he passed and you didn't get

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Speaker 3: Huh Okay, so he would not want you to carry

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Speaker 3: that burden A feeling like I never should have canceled,

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Speaker 2: Does that make sense?

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Speaker 3: Because this is why I do the work that I do.

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Speaker 3: I always say I don't care if people believe in

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Speaker 3: what I do. I want them to believe in an afterlife,

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Speaker 3: and I want them to know that our loved ones

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Speaker 3: do not want us to carry burdens or gils. Did

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Speaker 3: you just feel something like on the side of your cheek,

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Speaker 2: I just watched him kiss you on.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that is just crazy. Yeah, how's he looking?

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't see the way we see here in the

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Speaker 3: showed me something with his shoes, So I don't know

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Speaker 3: if there's something with shoes with him that you.

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Speaker 2: If he liked shoes or if you, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: bought them a pair of shoes. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Usually a father would show me that, or like

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Speaker 2: I don't know what kind of shoe it is.

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Speaker 1: Wow, does this happen? Do you like walking through the airport?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So I could get things, but like I said, a

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Speaker 3: soul has to push me enough to say something, and

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Speaker 3: it's usually of whatever the person is holding onto that

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Speaker 3: Do you have something with handwriting or were you looking

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Speaker 3: at something with someone's handwriting on it.

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Speaker 1: I have a tattoo of my dad's handwriting. Perfect.

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Speaker 2: Oh, okay, perfect.

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Speaker 3: I just wanted to make sure that I was interpreting

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think you're pretty good at this.

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Speaker 2: The filing, I might got something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh gosh, well yeah, it's a lot. I should

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Speaker 1: think about taking this up. Okay, So when you were

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Speaker 1: a little girl and you had to face what I'm

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Speaker 1: sure felt like skepticism or criticism, Well.

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Speaker 3: When I got older, once I got on TV, Okay,

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Speaker 3: that's where all that came from. But I get it,

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Speaker 3: like I respect if someone doesn't. If someone is skeptical,

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Speaker 3: and I always say they don't understand what I do,

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Speaker 3: you know, and I get it and I respect it.

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Speaker 2: But that's why I have spirit validate.

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Speaker 3: Things with such unique things, things that you would never

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Speaker 1: Wow, okay, I'm getting the whole divinely guided messaging of

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Speaker 3: Oh so we did the posies because it's that little

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Speaker 3: I always say things because I always I That's why

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Speaker 3: Well, my kids were like, yeah, my dad's an Italian importer,

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Speaker 3: He goes, Ma, he goes, I don't know who you're

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Speaker 3: So I so gifts, I believe are very abilities are

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Speaker 2: You have to do what I do, because it is

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Speaker 2: And I say the same thing about my brother.

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Speaker 3: My brother is a physical therapist and everyone that goes

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Speaker 2: They're like, I've never been to a physical therapist like that.

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Speaker 3: Your brother has magic hands because my brother's a healer.

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Speaker 3: And then as he saw people coming to the house

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00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:49,880
Speaker 3: and then seeing people and seeing how people would say,

445
00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:54,280
Speaker 3: you know, your wife changed my life, that was huge,

446
00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:57,080
Speaker 3: and then he just like jumped on the on the bandwagon.

447
00:20:57,119 --> 00:21:00,720
Speaker 3: He's like, Okay, she talks to dead people. But it's

448
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:09,800
Speaker 3: so interesting. And even my ex husband's parents very devout Catholics, right,

449
00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:15,920
Speaker 3: My mother in law's brother was a priest, and they always.

450
00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:16,640
Speaker 2: Embraced what I did.

451
00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:21,280
Speaker 1: Really yes, yeah, hm, that's really interesting.

452
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:26,240
Speaker 3: Because I think we all feel it, right, yeah, and

453
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:28,680
Speaker 3: we believe it in afterlife, right.

454
00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:31,680
Speaker 1: I was going to ask you, so you think there's

455
00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:33,920
Speaker 1: an afterlife? Absolutely without a doubt.

456
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:37,720
Speaker 3: Listen, I say this to people. If there is nothing,

457
00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 3: we're not going to know about it, so it doesn't matter, right.

458
00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:42,480
Speaker 1: I was going to ask you, what do you think

459
00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:44,520
Speaker 1: happens when our hearts.

460
00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:48,199
Speaker 3: Just I believe and my spirit has shown me this

461
00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:50,919
Speaker 3: because they will describe. I mean, I'll be reading someone

462
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,560
Speaker 3: and they will say to me, I reached up and

463
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,879
Speaker 3: I was calling for my husband, that my husband was

464
00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 3: coming from me, that I was going to go with him.

465
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:01,960
Speaker 2: And the people will say, yeah, that's exactly what happened.

466
00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:04,840
Speaker 3: My mother didn't speak for weeks, and she was calling

467
00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:08,320
Speaker 3: my father's name, and my father had passed years before her,

468
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 3: and she said that.

469
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:12,720
Speaker 2: He was in the room, and then she passed.

470
00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:17,360
Speaker 3: So I can't make these things up right, No, And

471
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:21,280
Speaker 3: these are experiences that people have. I know that when

472
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 3: we leave the physical world, we are greeted by our

473
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 3: loved ones that have gone on before us, and that

474
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 3: those left here in the physical world are going to

475
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:30,880
Speaker 3: miss us terribly.

476
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:33,480
Speaker 1: Do you believe that we come back?

477
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:35,760
Speaker 2: I do believe in past lives.

478
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:40,199
Speaker 3: I do believe that I've done past life regressions, and

479
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 3: in one of them, I was shown that this is

480
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 3: my last lifetime here. Let my soul won't come back

481
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:48,200
Speaker 3: in the physical world again.

482
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 1: How did that make you feel?

483
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:51,240
Speaker 2: I'm okay with it.

484
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:55,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, because the past lives that I was brought through

485
00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 3: were not very good ones.

486
00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,560
Speaker 2: And I always say I have Champagne problems.

487
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:01,879
Speaker 5: Is that I don't mean to.

488
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:06,479
Speaker 3: I mean, everyone has things, right, everyone has stuff, but

489
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 3: you know what I really and yeah, there have been

490
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:12,360
Speaker 3: hard things. I mean I've had family members suffer from

491
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 3: addiction and pass away. But I have the most amazing family,

492
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:21,879
Speaker 3: very close family, and I was very very blessed to

493
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 3: have the life.

494
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 2: That I have.

495
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,359
Speaker 1: Like you've fat, you've gotten to that point where you've

496
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:28,880
Speaker 1: lived your best life, living my best life.

497
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 3: So but I feel like I always have, you know,

498
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 3: even with all maybe my struggles with anxiety and you know,

499
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 3: being a mom right for the first time and those

500
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 3: struggles too, but I always felt so loved and supported

501
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 3: you know, and I always felt very blessed for that

502
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 3: because I realize I thought everyone I thought, you have

503
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 3: to realize. I thought everyone saw someone standing at the

504
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 3: foot of their bed at night. I heard people speak

505
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 3: to them in a room and there was no one

506
00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 3: else in the room but themselves. I thought that everyone

507
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:04,679
Speaker 3: had grandparents who loved them like their own children, and

508
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,919
Speaker 3: would have sleepovers and go away on camping trips, and

509
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 3: had parents that would do anything that My mom asked me,

510
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 3: I'm going to say maybe about ten years ago. She

511
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,920
Speaker 3: was like, and I said, Mom, we were talking about

512
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 3: something and I said, she said, I said, Mom, I go,

513
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:21,400
Speaker 3: I never felt like we were poor, like.

514
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,679
Speaker 2: We didn't have anything. I said, there was never a

515
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,119
Speaker 2: moment in my life that I ever felt that I

516
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 2: didn't have what I wanted or needed. And my mom

517
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 2: cried and she says that, you know, it was. It

518
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 2: was tough at times, you know.

519
00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 3: And my brother feels the same exact way, like we

520
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 3: never felt that we were doing without.

521
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:44,080
Speaker 1: That sounds like a really nice way to live your life.

522
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, I am.

523
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,399
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm a little sad here.

524
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 5: This is it for you?

525
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:52,439
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm not. I mean, I don't know.

526
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:54,680
Speaker 3: I'll find out, that's what you know. Who knows, I'll

527
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 3: find out when I get there.

528
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:56,960
Speaker 1: If anyone knows, it's you.

529
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 2: So well, I don't know anything. I just talked to

530
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 2: dead people.

531
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you were you when that movie came

532
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 1: out where the little kid said I talked to dead people?

533
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 3: So the sixth sense was literally like, I watched that

534
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 3: movie and I knew right off the bat that Bruce

535
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 3: Willis was dead, and I ruined the movie for everyone.

536
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,680
Speaker 3: I'm like, why he's dead, and they're like, Trisa, what

537
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 3: are you talking about.

538
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:21,400
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm the guy's dead.

539
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: Oh god, Okay, note to self, don't watch it.

540
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 5: Don't watch movies, and I like to watch movies with me.

541
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 5: When I saw I forgot where I was.

542
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 2: It was what is that song? Lady Gaga just did

543
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 2: the movie?

544
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:36,679
Speaker 1: I mean, oh yeah, yeah, the with the singers. Yeah,

545
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 1: what's that called Star is Born? Star is Born?

546
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 2: Yes?

547
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,160
Speaker 3: Yes, So I never saw the movie before we all

548
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 3: was we had a day off on tour. We all

549
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,920
Speaker 3: went to the movie and they showed the point where

550
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,360
Speaker 3: the guy goes in the garage and go, oh, he's

551
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 3: gonna kill himself. I literally yelled it out in the.

552
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 5: Movie theater, you yeah, do that?

553
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 3: And yet these two women turned around and looked at me.

554
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 5: And then every month.

555
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 3: My old crew was like, I think you ruined the movie.

556
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:04,199
Speaker 3: After it happened, they're like, you ruined the movie for

557
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 3: every single person in this movie theater. We need to

558
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:08,439
Speaker 3: leave now, get out.

559
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 2: But I was like, how could you not know that?

560
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm gonna be honest, I kind of knew

561
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 1: it was gonna happen. But I think that's.

562
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,640
Speaker 2: Because I never saw the movie before.

563
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 1: I never saw the movie before either. But the guy

564
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 1: goes into the garage and he's really miserable.

565
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 2: Well, sometimes people cuts around in the garage basically men.

566
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 2: You know.

567
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well I don't know. Maybe I have maybe you

568
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 1: might have had a little forgift yourself. Yeah.

569
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 2: People don't like to watch movies with me.

570
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 1: No, I Can'tno, Dan, how do you stay connected with

571
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 1: your spirit when you're constantly being taken by other people's spirits, emotions,

572
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,880
Speaker 1: energies like how do you touch in with Teresa?

573
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 2: Oh that's hard.

574
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 3: So I a lot of times it's like most women do.

575
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 3: I think we put ourselves on the back burner, right,

576
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 3: But I've learned, especially in my fifties. I really started

577
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 3: in my forties to really take care of myself. That's

578
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 3: certain things weren't luxuries or pampering or selfish or bougie.

579
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,880
Speaker 3: They were they were necessities for me. So like a massage,

580
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 3: massage is it's great for me because and a lot,

581
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:15,879
Speaker 3: like most of us, we carry so much stress on

582
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,679
Speaker 3: our shoulders and in our lower back, especially for me

583
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 3: with the energy and things like that. So and going

584
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,399
Speaker 3: to the gym working out, I need to sometimes sweat

585
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 3: it out.

586
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,439
Speaker 2: Listen, who likes going to the gym? Let's face it.

587
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm tired, Like I don't want to be

588
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,479
Speaker 3: getting up at six thirty in the morning to go

589
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,880
Speaker 3: to pilates or go to the gym because it's when

590
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 3: I'm out on the road.

591
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 2: I like to run.

592
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 3: I sprint because I want to sweat out, like case

593
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,159
Speaker 3: if I have anything attached or things like that.

594
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 2: So there are things that are that aren't are necessities.

595
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:49,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do believe that. Yeah, because sometimes people see

596
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 1: the concept of I choose me, and I talk about

597
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,479
Speaker 1: it so much, then there are people that are like, well,

598
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 1: that just sounds like she's really selfish. She's talking about

599
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 1: telling other people to be selfish too. But I don't

600
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:01,640
Speaker 1: feel that way at all.

601
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 2: No, you're not. You're not being selfish.

602
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:05,400
Speaker 1: When you take care of yourself.

603
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 2: Think about it. What do they tell you when you're

604
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 2: on an aeroplane.

605
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:11,199
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, you got to put the mask on yourself

606
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 3: first so you can help others.

607
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 1: That's why don't we apply that.

608
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 2: In our everyday life.

609
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 3: You have to take care of yourself so you can

610
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 3: be one hundred percent for the people around you, whether

611
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 3: it's your children, friends of markers.

612
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:28,680
Speaker 1: Right, I talk about it every day all day long.

613
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: I've built my business around Yeah, it's my life. Yes,

614
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: And just this morning, I did not practice what I preach.

615
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: I didn't put I didn't I was taking care of

616
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 1: someone else when I knew I needed to be taken

617
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 1: care of, and then I ended up not feeling great

618
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 1: from it, and so it was like duck knock knock hellou.

619
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 5: Yeah.

620
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 3: I mean there are times, but like so like for me,

621
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 3: it's very important. Like when I get up in the morning,

622
00:28:55,640 --> 00:29:00,160
Speaker 3: I choose to get up a full hour before or

623
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 3: I would start my day with anything, because I like

624
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 3: to have my cup of coffee, I say my rosary,

625
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 3: I say my prayers, and I take that time. I

626
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 3: sometimes and then read. So I take that hour that's

627
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 3: what I do, and then I read.

628
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 2: I became into how do I say this?

629
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 3: I would say reading is new to me because I

630
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,480
Speaker 3: was never a big reader, and I've learned how to

631
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 3: still like kind of quiet myself enough to do that.

632
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: Does that help your brain? Yes, kind of like check

633
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 1: out for a little bit and go yah.

634
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I get so into it, and so I take

635
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 3: that time for myself in the morning every single morning today,

636
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 3: I didn't read, but I read on the plane. But

637
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 3: you know, there are certain things that I will not

638
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 3: give up that I have to do.

639
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 1: Okay, So say, like, for example, this morning, you got

640
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: up at two.

641
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 2: I got up at my alarm went off at two am.

642
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 1: Two am.

643
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 3: I got up, I went in the shower, I went downstairs,

644
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 3: I made my coffee, I said my rosary and said

645
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 3: my daily prayers, and then I started to get ready.

646
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 5: So I didn't read.

647
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 1: You didn't read, okay, So that one sid that day, okay,

648
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 1: but I read.

649
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 3: I read on the plane for a little bit. What

650
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 3: about exercise, I did not exercise.

651
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 1: So it's so hard when you're traveling all the time.

652
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 3: It's very, very hard. And sometimes I also realized that

653
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 3: sometimes meditating and being still and sleeping an extra hour

654
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,719
Speaker 3: is more beneficial for me at the age of fifty

655
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 3: eight than it would be pushing myself to go to

656
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 3: the gym because it was just too I just had

657
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 3: too much.

658
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 2: Like when I went home, I had all.

659
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 3: My plates classes scheduled, but I ended up having to

660
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 3: cancel them because I was like, I'm not doing myself

661
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 3: any good because I'm either going to hurt myself or

662
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 3: I'm not going to feel good.

663
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 1: So I love that.

664
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 3: So I chose I chose me in a different way,

665
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 3: Like I realized, like what was more important staying in

666
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 3: bed for an extra hour or just doing something else.

667
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 3: I spent time with my grandson instead.

668
00:30:54,120 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 1: So you know, tell me about your grandson. You have

669
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 1: these years telling me you have three grandchildren.

670
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 2: Grandchildren.

671
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 3: So the first thing was that my daughter and my

672
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 3: son in law lived with me for the first two

673
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 3: years of their marriage and they had Michelina. So she

674
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 3: lived with me until she was like almost a year

675
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 3: and a half.

676
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's the best time for her to

677
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 1: live with you.

678
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 3: So I made a joke saying when my daughter in

679
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 3: law my son had Nico, I said, you know, Nico's

680
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 3: got to live with grandma for a year.

681
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:27,959
Speaker 2: And a half.

682
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 3: Well, be careful what you wish for, Jenny, because now

683
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 3: they bought the house on one house away from me,

684
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 3: so it's my parents I live. I still live next

685
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 3: door to my parents where I grew up. So it's

686
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 3: my parents, me, my neighbor, and now Larry and Leah.

687
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 3: So they just moved in with me because they're going

688
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 3: to start renovation on their house.

689
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 2: There.

690
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 3: You go, so they're going to be there at least

691
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 3: a year and a half.

692
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 1: I love that. Wait, you just said you have to

693
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 1: be careful what you asked for. Do you see that

694
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: for other people? Do you see that for yourself? Because

695
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 1: you can just be really general and say I want

696
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 1: to be sick successful. But success comes in so many

697
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 1: different ways for everybody.

698
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 2: Oh absolutely, yeah.

699
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 3: But you know what, I don't think I ever wished

700
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 3: for you know, I don't think I've ever wished for success.

701
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 2: Does that make sense? Like I didn't.

702
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 3: I didn't wake up one morning and say, you know,

703
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 3: I think I'm going to talk to dead people for

704
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 3: a living. It seems like a really good career choice.

705
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 3: So I think because my intention was always to help people,

706
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 3: and it really was never about the money. You know,

707
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 3: there's a lot of things that people don't know and

708
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 3: realize about me, about the work that I do, how

709
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 3: much we give back, what my fan club is really about.

710
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 3: And you know, so people that are on my podcast,

711
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 3: they don't pay for their reading. You know, I don't

712
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 3: charge people for their readings.

713
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 2: You know. So it was never about the money or

714
00:32:58,040 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 2: right success.

715
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 1: And they say that that's true success when it's coming

716
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: from a place of love and a passion, a purpose

717
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 1: inside that you just can't keep in. Then yeah, it

718
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 1: grows into this.

719
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 3: I can't imagine doing anything else. Like it's the most normal,

720
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 3: Like I feel normal now. Once I embraced my gift,

721
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 3: I felt complete. So I feel because I don't think camera,

722
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 3: you know, having cameras in your face all the time,

723
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 3: even whether doing a live show or being around people, and.

724
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 2: Just that's to me, that's normal.

725
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 3: That feels normal to me, And I think to the

726
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 3: average person, it's not.

727
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, what would Theresa Caputo be if she

728
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:42,959
Speaker 1: weren't who she is?

729
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 3: Like what, I don't know, who would you do? I

730
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 3: wanted to be a legal secretary.

731
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 1: That sounds funny.

732
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that sounds fun I want to be one of

733
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 2: those stenographers.

734
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I wanted to be the grocery store checkout girl.

735
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 2: I wanted to be a Dallas cowgirl cheerleader. That was

736
00:33:58,280 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 2: my number one dream.

737
00:33:59,080 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: Oh I can see that.

738
00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want it to be that, but that never happens.

739
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:09,919
Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't know. I don't think. I feel

740
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:13,279
Speaker 3: like I really did do everything except be a cheerleader.

741
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 3: But I feel like I'm my own cheerleader, so and

742
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 3: I'm a cheerleader for everyone else around me. I feel

743
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 3: like I really did achieve everything that I wanted to.

744
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 1: What about like normal people, like just real people, every

745
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: day people us. Yeah, but no, yeah we are. We

746
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,720
Speaker 1: are all the same, Yes we are. But what about people?

747
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 1: How how can you help people listen to their own instincts?

748
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 3: Well, that's what I want people to do when whatever

749
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 3: it is, maybe it's someone listening to your podcast right now.

750
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,799
Speaker 3: I am not asking anyone to believe in mediums. That's

751
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 3: not what this is about. I want them to believe

752
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 3: in themselves and an afterlife. That's it to Like, no

753
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 3: one can tell someone. I can't tell someone how to

754
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 3: connect with their loved ones. That's something that you have.

755
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 3: That's your connection, your soul bond. You'll know it, you'll

756
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 3: feel it.

757
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 2: And I want people to embrace that. Is that what

758
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:07,439
Speaker 2: you were kind of hey?

759
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:09,880
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah? Like to get them to tune in to

760
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 1: themselves a little bit more.

761
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 2: Just be aware, just.

762
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 3: Be open to the possibility of an afterlife, you know,

763
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 3: because there's also that other side, Jenny of people that

764
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 3: they could be the most faithful person, right, such strong faith,

765
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 3: so spiritual and then they lose a loved one and

766
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 3: all of that goes out the window. And I always say,

767
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 3: my gift is so much more than just communicating with

768
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:37,320
Speaker 3: people that have died. My gift and channeling the souls

769
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 3: of the departed has restored people's faith and has even

770
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 3: brought families back together. So I can't I wouldn't trade

771
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 3: what I do for anything here in the physical world.

772
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:48,759
Speaker 3: I can't even imagine myself doing anything else.

773
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 1: I cannot either. I'm curious. Are there things sometimes that

774
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 1: come through that you hold back on telling the person no,

775
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 1: Like if you get a message that's you know it's

776
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 1: going to be upsetting, or you know, because.

777
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 3: Okay, so let me let me I always deliver things

778
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 3: with dignity and grace, so I might have to find

779
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:12,360
Speaker 3: a way how to say.

780
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 2: Something, but I will never.

781
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:16,279
Speaker 3: If spirituals me something, I have to say it and

782
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 3: to show I'm gonna This just happened probably about two

783
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 3: years ago, was doing a live show. I was channeling

784
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 3: someone's loved one of me, and all of a sudden,

785
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 3: I turned and I looked at this woman and I

786
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 3: said to her, just this came right out of my mouth.

787
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 3: I said, God took your child. And I then said

788
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 3: to myself, I literally that. I put my hand over

789
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 3: my mouth and I was like, what did you just

790
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 3: say to this woman? And the woman looked at me,

791
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:43,799
Speaker 3: hysterical crying, and she said, I've been carrying this.

792
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 2: For thirty years.

793
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 3: She says, I was raped by my uncle and I

794
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,680
Speaker 3: became pregnant and my family did not believe me, and

795
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,759
Speaker 3: they were forcing me to have this baby, and I

796
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 3: prayed to God to take my baby, and that night

797
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 3: I miscarried my child, she said.

798
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 2: And I felt guilty for that for thirty years. Like

799
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,280
Speaker 2: who says that to someone?

800
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: Teresa Computo, Yeah, I guess.

801
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 3: But like there's something that I also like, I trust

802
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 3: the souls. I have to trust them knowing that what

803
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:20,399
Speaker 3: they're going to have me say is going to help

804
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:29,839
Speaker 3: this person. And something like that was very I didn't

805
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 3: even have time to think about. It just came out

806
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:33,919
Speaker 3: of my mouth. But that's exactly what she needed to hear.

807
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 3: She had actually sent an email to my fan club

808
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 3: after that saying on how that changed her life. I

809
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 3: bet because she was so afraid and she felt so guilty.

810
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:46,880
Speaker 1: I'm much shame. I'm sure so much. Yeah.

811
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:49,439
Speaker 3: And then she said to me. She goes, and I'm

812
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 3: gay on top of it. So she says, so, now

813
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 3: I'm really going down below. I said, listen, I go,

814
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 3: I talk to dead people. So if there is a hell,

815
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 3: we're going together and a handbasket.

816
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:01,959
Speaker 1: Do you think there's help?

817
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 3: Spirits never said to me that it's hot down here,

818
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:06,319
Speaker 3: so I go with that there is no help, right, I.

819
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 1: Would think it would have come up.

820
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:12,319
Speaker 3: Do I think there's a level, a lower level, yes,

821
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 3: because I've seen that you have. So, like I told

822
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 3: you earlier, I only want to channel souls in God's

823
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 3: white life. I don't want to know anything else. And

824
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 3: I know that I can only lower my I can't.

825
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 3: This is the only way that I can explain to

826
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 3: I lower my vibration. Sometimes I raise my vibration. I

827
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 3: can only lower my level so low. And how I

828
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:37,040
Speaker 3: know this for a fact is one time I was

829
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:42,280
Speaker 3: childing a woman's daughter and the young lady had me say,

830
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 3: please tell my mom that he is remorseful and that

831
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 3: he's sorry for taking me from her and for killing me.

832
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 3: So this young girl, her boyfriend had killed her and

833
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 3: then killed himself, and I could see the soul below her.

834
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 3: But I couldn't hear anything from him, I couldn't feel anything.

835
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,480
Speaker 3: She was channeling for him. And the mother looked at

836
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 3: me and she says, that's why I came here. I

837
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 3: wanted to know if he was remorseful and if he

838
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 3: knew what he did to my life and to me

839
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:16,360
Speaker 3: by killing my daughter.

840
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:18,399
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I.

841
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 3: Would not think that that's why someone would come right.

842
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,399
Speaker 3: And this was in like a theater of like four

843
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 3: thousand people.

844
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 1: And interesting that you couldn't see him, but you could

845
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 1: couldn't hear because she was in a higher life.

846
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 3: So what they also say is that souls can lower

847
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 3: their vibration to help other souls channel or to be

848
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 3: with them to channel, but that soul here cannot raise

849
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 3: that vibration until the soul learns lessons. Lessons so like,

850
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 3: so like, let's just say you had someone that wasn't

851
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 3: very nice to you, right, okay, and then they pass.

852
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 3: They if they say and they say, I'm sorry for

853
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 3: my choices, actions, decisions, the pain that accors you.

854
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. That's my sign that that person had.

855
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 3: To relive their life through your eyes, so they had

856
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 3: to feel what it was like for you, for their

857
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,399
Speaker 3: choices and decisions, and then that's how the soul. It's

858
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:20,879
Speaker 3: like a life review. The soul goes through a life

859
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 3: review and it learns lessons and then the soul grows,

860
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:25,839
Speaker 3: I say, closer to God.

861
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:27,840
Speaker 1: That's really cool.

862
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 3: So you know, people will also that's the other thing

863
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:34,280
Speaker 3: that I love, like spirit will validate and acknowledge. They'll

864
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:37,279
Speaker 3: show me like that their soul actually moved through their

865
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 3: loved one's physical body after they died. So usually when

866
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 3: they show me the holding of the hand and the

867
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 3: whispering of the ear, it means nothing was left unsaid.

868
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:49,799
Speaker 3: Then I actually feel like this wave of emotion that

869
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 3: runs right through me, and then the person will most

870
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 3: likely get like a goose bump. That's my symbol for

871
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 3: that they felt the soul leave the physical body and

872
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 3: knowing that they did get the opportunity to say goodbye.

873
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 1: I want to know. I want to go back to

874
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,879
Speaker 1: the beginning of this. Yeah, and I want to know

875
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 1: what you're hearing, what you're feeling.

876
00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:13,479
Speaker 2: Well, what I just said to you about I heard

877
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 2: you say goodbye. I felt that was free.

878
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, yeah, that was definitely for me.

879
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 2: See, I can do things with dignity and grace.

880
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 1: Uh huh.

881
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:22,320
Speaker 2: This is how I always say.

882
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:25,440
Speaker 3: It doesn't always I will sit I will even at

883
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 3: my life shows. I'll say to people, I'll stand here

884
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 3: and make it look like I don't know what I'm

885
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 3: talking about, but I know the person that I'm standing

886
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,239
Speaker 3: in front of and the things that I'm saying is

887
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 3: healing them. This isn't about me getting it right right,

888
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:39,840
Speaker 3: That's not what it's about.

889
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. What a gift you have. And I'm so happy

890
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 1: to get to sit down and talk to you. And

891
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 1: I was so.

892
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 3: Excited because I know we could have done this over

893
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 3: zoom yeah, and I was like, after meeting you at

894
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 3: the Q fifty, I was like, no, I want to

895
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:52,800
Speaker 3: do this in person.

896
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 2: I love that. Yeah, so much better.

897
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, it really is, And especially when you're in someone's

898
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:00,080
Speaker 3: energy as so beautiful as you.

899
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 1: So yeah.

900
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

901
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 1: Oh wait. I have one last question. What This is

902
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,799
Speaker 1: the question that I ask everyone. Theresa, you know, what

903
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 1: was your last I choose me a moment?

904
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know. I choose myself every day. You

905
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 2: that's it, you have to I am I think I do,

906
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:21,240
Speaker 2: I really do. I feel like I do. I choose

907
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:24,720
Speaker 2: me and at the smallest moments every day.

908
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 1: So it's not like big.

909
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 2: I have a big well, I.

910
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 3: Think because I learned that. I learned that it's important

911
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 3: for me to choose me. And I think I learned

912
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 3: that through embracing my gift.

913
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 2: And also I.

914
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:44,400
Speaker 3: Think more so with you know, my divorce. You know,

915
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 3: I never thought in a million years that I would

916
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 3: ever get divorced, right, And I even say it today.

917
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 3: I didn't want to get divorced, so I had to.

918
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Speaker 3: And I'm even going to also say, for like, we

919
00:42:56,640 --> 00:43:01,879
Speaker 3: chose ourselves in that moment, right, So I think when

920
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 3: you go through something like that, for me, that was

921
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 3: where I chose myself. That was the biggest where I chose,

922
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 3: I choose me.

923
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:15,360
Speaker 1: You said you didn't want to get divorced.

924
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:16,920
Speaker 5: No.

925
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:22,359
Speaker 3: I I love Larry still, but we're just not good

926
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 3: together anymore. We're better friends, if you want to say,

927
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,439
Speaker 3: you know, we're able. We have family gatherings, were still

928
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 3: together for family.

929
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 1: Yeah that's good. Yeah, I can see because we're still a.

930
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 3: Family even though we're not married, we're still a family.

931
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 3: So and here and for me, here was someone that

932
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 3: I was really afraid of, my own shadow, couldn't leave

933
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:53,840
Speaker 3: my home and to be independent and to be on

934
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 3: my own.

935
00:43:56,760 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 1: Yeah huge, that is trusted. Yeah, the universe, the God, whatever,

936
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 1: the spirit. But I still live next door to my

937
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 1: parents so well, I've loved having you here. Thank you,

938
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:12,840
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you for choosing me to you on

939
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Speaker 1: your podcast.