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Speaker 1: Five, six, seven eight. Welcome back to Good Moms Love Flowers.

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Speaker 1: We're good Moms and we love flowers. I'm your host,

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Speaker 1: Jamila Map.

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Speaker 2: Are you high already, bitch? Not yet. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 2: I love smoking marijuana and flowers. Wait, I mean just flowers,

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Speaker 2: because I think YouTube has ai to read my lips

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Speaker 2: flowers one fifteen seconds or something bullshit like that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe that's about right.

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Speaker 1: I love flowers and mushrooms, which also come from Mama's garden.

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Speaker 2: Shout out to Vintage Souls. We both have on Vintage Souls.

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Speaker 2: Because you have vintage Souls. We're sponsored by the woman

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Speaker 2: owned Los Angeles owned High Luxury. I to put my

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Speaker 2: thumbs in.

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Speaker 3: I think I wore this recently.

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Speaker 2: Thumbs in. I've worn that shirt twenty two times on

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Speaker 2: this show because it's that good.

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Speaker 1: I mean every time I do Good mom'slf flowers that

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Speaker 1: this just sticks out in my closet And now I'm like,

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Speaker 1: how many times?

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Speaker 2: But look at the back? Wait, let me show you

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Speaker 2: all the back of this drop.

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Speaker 1: Please, for the love of flowers, soul shrip, no beginning,

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Speaker 1: no ing.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, you're going to be two k with it.

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Speaker 3: Timblant fat Man, scoop.

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Speaker 2: Guys ex cellulate getting cellulate.

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Speaker 3: Look, I'm a real woman now, is that what qualifies? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You know, if you're not on YouTube, you're really missing

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Speaker 2: this pale five action.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna really get this episode unmonetized, aren't you.

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Speaker 2: I'm just moving my thigh.

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Speaker 3: God, you know that's illegal in YouTube worlds.

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Speaker 2: I know the Internet hates sexy black moms.

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Speaker 1: I realized I had a realization recently that, like, I think,

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Speaker 1: Luna told me she was looking at ASMR. I said

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Speaker 1: this already and I was like, no, why she said what?

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Speaker 1: She was looking at our ASMR video And I was like,

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Speaker 1: She's like, I didn't watch the whole thing. I was like, oh, God,

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Speaker 1: you don't have the ship blocked on her shoe. Don't

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Speaker 1: girl give me.

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Speaker 2: Luna's fucking iPad. She already done seen everything. She better

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Speaker 2: not go.

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Speaker 3: Look, she doesn't care to hear us talk.

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Speaker 2: I just don't need her looking up certain shit that

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Speaker 2: I don't need Ireny know about our family. I don't

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Speaker 2: need I don't need Luna exposing Irin's secret things that

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Speaker 2: she don't know about yet.

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Speaker 1: I don't think they're reading the tabloids. Dead lucky for

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Speaker 1: them or Twitter, because then be in it. We'd have

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Speaker 1: a lot of explaining to do. Lucy, why is give

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Speaker 1: me that phone?

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Speaker 2: Why are you on X? Anyway, Good moms, those flowers.

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Speaker 2: This is a segment on Exclusive to YouTube where we

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Speaker 2: smoke flowers, talk flowers, comment on social culture things.

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Speaker 3: And be delicate like flowers.

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Speaker 2: Be delicate like flowers. These are short, cute episodes. So

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Speaker 2: if you're at home, if you're at the office, go

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Speaker 2: to your car and get your marijuana.

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Speaker 3: This is your cueue.

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Speaker 2: This is time to rolla pause the video. Go get

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Speaker 2: your weed, your wine, whatever your vice is, go get it.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna be smoking Backwood. I don't know if you

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Speaker 2: guys have tried the new true raps from Backwoods, because

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Speaker 2: these are these are made for bitches. True raps are

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Speaker 3: Bitches, blended for the thug.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna just god that it was inspired by us. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: because they said, those bitches keep putting honey on the backwood.

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Speaker 2: Let me just make a delicate rap for them.

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Speaker 3: We're fucking forgot the honey in the office.

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Speaker 2: We don't need honey, because today I'm rolling a good

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Speaker 2: old fashioned blunt. No honey, good old nigga blunt. It's

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Speaker 2: a regular studio in studio shop, Saliva flowers and vibes.

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Speaker 2: Saliva flowers and vibes, can't wait, good old og backwood.

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Speaker 2: But this is the true rap.

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Speaker 1: It's the old school blunt with the new true rap.

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Speaker 1: You know, we're just combining things like you know, good

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Speaker 1: moms were innovative.

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Speaker 3: That's what we do. Old school nude school makes something new.

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Speaker 2: And you know, I like true wraps because they come

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Speaker 2: already done for you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is a this is a game change.

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Speaker 2: There's no guessing because, bitch, you're trying to cut a backwood.

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Speaker 2: It's like a science problem.

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Speaker 1: No, because you're not supposed to cut of just unravel them.

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Speaker 1: But it took us about six months to eighteen you

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Speaker 1: and know you as.

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Speaker 2: You ask multiple people, there's different ways. Some people cut

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Speaker 2: their backwards. They need scissors, like there's a whole operation

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Speaker 2: that needs to happen. But with the true wraps you

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Speaker 2: don't have to do that. It leaves the guessing out

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Speaker 2: of blunt wrapping.

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Speaker 1: I feel like they're a little bit like a lighter too,

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Speaker 1: like your lighter. With blunts, we're scrubbing, we're dipping in water.

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Speaker 1: You know we're infusing this one. It just is ready

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Speaker 2: No smell it though it also has a lighter scent

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Speaker 3: It does, it does.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we asked our tribe husband to go across the

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Speaker 2: street and get us some hybrid flowers because the one

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Speaker 2: I brought was an indica And we have to record

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Speaker 2: another episode after this, and bitch, we might be sleep.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't gonna happen.

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Speaker 2: But today's cannabis is mimosa. Can we get a Can

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Speaker 2: we get a close up shot of this? In the

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Speaker 2: edit Orlando show?

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Speaker 3: The people lean a little bit more floors.

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Speaker 2: It's beautiful. Oh is it out of focus? Well, maybe

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Speaker 2: I got to do it back here. I get this beautiful.

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Speaker 2: What do you think the censor.

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Speaker 1: Definitely notes of lemon, but it's almost like a is

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Speaker 1: it orange mandarin?

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Speaker 2: It's like a sweet It's not it is like mandarin.

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Speaker 2: It's like a tangerine or something.

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Speaker 3: Well, I guess it's mimosa. It's champagne and orange juice.

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Speaker 2: Baby, m it smells good. This is from our local

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Speaker 2: cannabis store across the street from our recording studio. Speaking

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Speaker 2: of recording studios, if you are a podcaster in the

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Speaker 2: La Area can record it. Good Good Media make sure

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Speaker 2: you follow us at Good Good Media on Instagram. We

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Speaker 2: make podcasting easy for podcasters. All you gotta do is

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Speaker 2: just kind of show up, sit down and be funny

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Speaker 2: or whatever the fuck you do on your podcast, and

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Speaker 2: we'll handle everything else for you, clips, production, editing, all

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Speaker 2: the things.

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Speaker 3: And for twenty Friendly.

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Speaker 2: Hey you get smoke in studio.

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Speaker 1: Mom owned, Black women owned and for twenty Friendly.

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Speaker 2: So I'm gonna roll this blunt and we're gonna chat.

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Speaker 2: But for a roll this blunt, I want to shout

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Speaker 2: out Tanya Tihana. She was our guest a few weeks ago,

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Speaker 2: and this is her little line that she has of

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Speaker 2: these cute little cannabis like end end smokers.

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Speaker 1: They're called filters filters, glass filters, glass filters.

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Speaker 2: And they're really cute and pretty, and I thought it

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Speaker 2: would be adorable in my og blunt. Even though we're

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Speaker 2: still gotta.

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Speaker 3: Make it cute. Gotta add the dick.

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Speaker 2: So it'll really you look at how cute this is.

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Speaker 1: Just got to just make everything should be cute, but

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Speaker 1: she just want to make.

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Speaker 2: Cute little trinkets. Make smoking cute again, for no fucking reason,

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Speaker 2: Make smoking cute again. I don't know if it's ever cute.

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Speaker 2: Make smoking cute now.

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Speaker 3: It can be there.

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Speaker 1: It was cute back in the day when bitches had

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Speaker 1: the long, skinny cigarettes.

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Speaker 3: That's what I want to go back to. Oh this

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Speaker 1: This is my era of cigarette when you can hold

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Speaker 1: it like this and say, what was that, Frankie, what

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Speaker 3: You said?

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Speaker 1: That's when it was sexy, like Marilyn Monroe days. That's

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Speaker 1: when women smoking cigarettes was sexy. Do you remember when that

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Speaker 1: was a thing, like smoking on planes and like sexy

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think we were alive, but I

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Speaker 2: do know we were little people were smoking cigarettes when

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Speaker 2: you're on the plane.

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Speaker 1: No, not that it was sexy, still sexy.

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Speaker 2: You know what we don't have, which was would never

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Speaker 2: have whenever we fucking do this segment a lighter.

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Speaker 1: Then we have the little trinkets, We got tea, we

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Speaker 1: got honey, we got everything.

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Speaker 3: But do we have a lighter?

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Speaker 2: No? Hell no, no lighters here.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's just like that's just like all smoke sessions, right,

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Speaker 1: you have all the tools except the goddamn lighter.

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Speaker 3: Oh we get better than a lighter. You brought our

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Speaker 3: very own special magical pink the wrong way.

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Speaker 1: Pink matches beautiful, they say, manifest with us on the front,

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Speaker 1: Good Vibe.

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Speaker 3: Retreat on the back. Okay, because branding.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys know, but we're branding geniuses,

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Speaker 1: chief branding officers over here at Good Moms, Goodbybe Retreat.

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Speaker 3: Whatever business is do we have?

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Speaker 2: This is not going well. I realized that.

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Speaker 3: You seems like you're we're supposed to put it.

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Speaker 2: After, like you shove it in at the end. I

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Speaker 1: Shove anything at the end. I don't think you's woos

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Speaker 1: to shove anything in.

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Speaker 2: I mean not not not typically in anything else. But

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Speaker 2: I think at and you shove it in.

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Speaker 1: This is typically why I don't roll with I don't

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Speaker 1: roll with filters. Even when I rolled joints. Remember when

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Speaker 1: men lighting your cigarette was like the most romantic gesture

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Speaker 1: you could ever do. Like here, bitch died, like you're

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Speaker 1: in an alleyway and you just like get out a

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Speaker 2: They're like, let me give you cancer today, baby, And.

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Speaker 3: Then they appear in a coat and just a ladder and.

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Speaker 2: I had a strong cigarette phase, did you?

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Speaker 3: Of course?

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Speaker 2: What was your cigarette that you smoked?

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Speaker 3: I don't remember because it was that long ago.

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Speaker 1: Maybe like a Menthol, went a long Menthol because I

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Speaker 1: oh slim, like the Virginia slims.

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Speaker 3: I like skinny and long. Oh my god, what the

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Speaker 3: what idiot?

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Speaker 2: Even then?

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Speaker 1: Wow, I've always liked the long, skinny Sirut. That's only

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Speaker 1: reason I really wanted to smoke it. Danielle's mom used

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Speaker 1: to smoke, and it's oh god, this is.

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Speaker 2: How you know? This is the oj one. You love me.

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Speaker 2: You've exchanged bodily fluids from this before.

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Speaker 3: I don't know about more than that. That's a lot

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Speaker 3: of bodily fluids over there.

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Speaker 2: I'm clean. I got tested recently.

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Speaker 1: I've definitely gotten drunk on many occasions in corner to

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Speaker 1: Erica into a three way case on special occasions.

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Speaker 3: Come on, it's fun. We're best friends. Everybody's doing it.

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Speaker 2: Clean up the three way. It's been a while. I

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Speaker 2: haven't three way kissed you in a long time. I know. Ready,

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Speaker 2: it's the summer thing. Summer's here.

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Speaker 1: I think it's times my birthday, say cases for everyone,

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Speaker 1: you you you, this is where.

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Speaker 2: You've got us fucked up last time.

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Speaker 1: No, don't see this is this is my kiss you

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Speaker 2: We never. I'm just this last time you fucking said

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Speaker 3: Oh screw screwed. It's Alma.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that worked. Okay, We're gonna just yeah,

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Speaker 2: I love you. I don't know with papers.

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Speaker 3: I can tell you that I watched on your.

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Speaker 2: Yout I look on stories and you Orlando are watching

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Speaker 1: We don't watch movies every weekend. I watched three reality

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Speaker 2: Literally were watching Polly whatever, the couple to.

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Speaker 1: Trouble is what I was watching, Okay, and before that,

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Speaker 2: At For any watch Baby Reindeer.

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Speaker 3: That's a movie.

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Speaker 2: That's not a movie.

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Speaker 3: It seemed like a movie to me.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, back to basically, get out of my life, okay,

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Speaker 2: get out of my TV watching. How about that? Stop posting?

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Speaker 1: Once you start watching these things, you want to talk

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Speaker 2: Anyway, Give me a lighter, okay to smoke.

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Speaker 1: God, it can't get my announcement time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, then you burn all you.

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Speaker 3: Burn this alive off that's where you sanitize, get.

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Speaker 2: Burnt away from all those guys in the studio that

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Speaker 3: It's not even the STDs.

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Speaker 2: It's really the the holatosis. They should be considering herpes.

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Speaker 2: There could be herpes on your blunt, but those with those.

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Speaker 3: Breaths, I don't think they're even getting that far.

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Speaker 1: I don't think like the studio rats and stuff like that,

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Speaker 1: Imagine like like the trap studio niggas that like don't

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Speaker 1: leave and they're smoking back to black slobbery backwoods. They're

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Speaker 3: In the inside the studio. I'd like to think.

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Speaker 2: Let me up, baby, I just did I used it

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I've only been fucking one person

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Speaker 1: I mean I really have it.

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Speaker 3: That's a lie. I have been being a ut.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, this is it. Hitting this right here, this

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna bob your head like you're in the studio.

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Speaker 2: Bring up?

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Speaker 3: Are you ready? This is my friend.

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Speaker 1: If you take a very close look this, she has

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Speaker 3: You can tell about her posture.

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Speaker 1: My goodness, they always cut you off guards no matter

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Speaker 2: You know, I think we might need to go. I

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Speaker 3: That's what we do.

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Speaker 2: I know. But sometimes you just got to take it

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Speaker 2: back to the O G time, the O G Ways,

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Speaker 1: If you were on a studio rat and do you

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Speaker 3: Do you prefer studio rat blood goddess blunt? What kind

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Speaker 2: I'm a multifaceted blood smoker variety. Anyway, what were you

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Speaker 1: I was saying I only watched three series this year,

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Speaker 1: and those people are a little bit boring, but I'm gonna.

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Speaker 2: I just want to let you know they're getting paid nothing,

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Speaker 2: do you think so?

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Speaker 3: Because I spent a month in Panama and that really

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Speaker 2: Exactly and they can pay them five hundred dollars an episode,

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Speaker 1: Those motherfucking shows have like twenty episodes, and I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: Then because Literal would do it for twenty k.

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Speaker 1: If me and Orlando got like twenty five each, plus

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Speaker 1: bring my microphone and for thirty days, I'd consider it.

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Speaker 2: And they're gonna exploit your life and possibly cut scenes

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Speaker 2: to make you look.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm too smart and too classy for that. You

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Speaker 3: can You can't even cut me trash they do.

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Speaker 2: This is what they do.

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Speaker 3: You can't even cut me trashy if you tried.

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Speaker 1: I'm too good. A couple of trouble call me. But Peacock,

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Speaker 1: you gotta get your You gotta get your your streaming up.

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Speaker 1: It keeps freezing and.

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Speaker 2: Shit, I gotta get your Peacock password.

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Speaker 3: I don't know who I have, but maybe it is mine.

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Speaker 3: You can have it.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: They show tits on there.

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Speaker 2: Damn my phone died.

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Speaker 3: God damn you didn't send it to Good Mom's.

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Speaker 2: They showed take me Saved on Good mom Maybe that's

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: We have some things to talk about. Where should I look?

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Speaker 2: I don't know what to look. We have some things

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Speaker 2: The first thing is, well, I wanted to pull up

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Speaker 3: The fun call them.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to tell the people before we show.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know what I'm searching ams, look at

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Speaker 2: I don't know how to do that. Here just said,

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Speaker 3: I'm a marketing genius. Verbally, okay, I tell the people.

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Speaker 3: The idea is that they get it together. I didn't

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Speaker 3: I'm Jamila Mapp, Executive of Unique Partnerships.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I got it. It's right here. Okay, okay, you're ready.

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Speaker 2: So I saw this on the internet and the comments were,

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm talking about. I'm a bitch. Also,

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Speaker 2: Just put it on here.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what happened.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna show you to be.

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Speaker 4: A follow bonti than a leader, right, Okay, I'm not

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Speaker 5: Likes to use physical discipline.

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Speaker 4: Come may, you're gonna learn today, girl, No physical discipline. Mom,

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Speaker 4: don't momy No, you had your learning, you had your chance.

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Speaker 3: I told you to listen.

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Speaker 4: I told you stop disobeying my rules. I told you

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Speaker 4: being cute ain't shit if.

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Speaker 2: You have no education.

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Speaker 4: I told you stop disobeying me. I told you to

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Speaker 3: You're supposed to.

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Speaker 4: I told you to do good in school.

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Speaker 2: I told you to.

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Speaker 4: Do your daily routine, and you yet to even do

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Speaker 2: And I was not coming to cut this hair off.

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Speaker 4: You're sadly mistaken because you thought being pretty was so

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Speaker 4: much better than being educated or listening to your mom.

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Speaker 3: Right, Yes, this is what happens when you don't listen

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Speaker 2: You don't think she should have cut her daughter. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so it's a child abuse. It's crazy, it's child abuse.

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Speaker 2: It's absolutely child abuse.

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Speaker 1: You don't have the right to touch anybody like no,

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Speaker 1: if you don't believe I know, no, no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: The fact that it's on, it's on live, it's being recorded.

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Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck what the little girl did.

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Speaker 1: I'm not cutting off my kid's hair on fucking live period.

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Speaker 2: But if she's been extremely disrespectful on the internet, I mean,

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Speaker 2: I'm just thinking, what at what point.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest? This is not a popular opinion.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna beat your ass before i'm gonna cut your

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Speaker 2: But that's less violent than cutting the hair off. Why

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Speaker 2: is hair have more value than I just don't think

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Speaker 2: I just beating a child.

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Speaker 1: I don't think changing your appearance and putting a permanent

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Speaker 2: Hair grows, it does grow back. Eating your ass is

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Speaker 1: That will be just I just honestly, my mind doesn't

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Speaker 1: less vain. I don't think i'd think that way, but

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Speaker 1: but I don't know. I'm not a teenage mom yet.

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Speaker 1: Would you cut IRA's hair off. Because you see all

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Speaker 2: I am shocked because I've seen how you've said, I'm

446
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Speaker 2: an beat your ass, and I thought this was the

447
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,199
Speaker 2: better solution, the beating ass, so I thought this was

448
00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:35,360
Speaker 2: more the better solution. It is more permanent. But hair

449
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 2: grows back, and sometimes kids need to I don't know,

450
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:40,639
Speaker 2: I feel like that kid they need something severe. And

451
00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:44,680
Speaker 2: sometimes obviously I'm assuming, I don't know that this mom

452
00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:47,880
Speaker 2: I'm hoping has has tried every single thing.

453
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Speaker 1: And that's another thing I have to say, a lot

454
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Speaker 1: of these moms be fucking nutshit like thatshit crazy lomas.

455
00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:53,359
Speaker 3: Be jealous of their daughters.

456
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:57,119
Speaker 1: You know, there's a plets of things like absolutely, I

457
00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,520
Speaker 1: didn't have a great relationship with my mom was a teenager,

458
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Speaker 1: and it wasn't cause I was a terrible teenager, like

459
00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:03,479
Speaker 1: I probably could have been better, but I just, I mean,

460
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 1: I honestly don't think either of those methods work.

461
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:07,160
Speaker 3: Beating ass or cutting hair.

462
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,040
Speaker 1: I think those are neither of the solutions that I

463
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Speaker 1: would be my first.

464
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:12,880
Speaker 2: Are you a soft pair? Are you soft? Parent? Life? Now?

465
00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 1: I'm just not a fucking psycho. I'm gonna infringe trauma

466
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:18,440
Speaker 1: my kid if I can help it. Bitch, I'm gonna

467
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:19,880
Speaker 1: take you to the therapist because and I'm gonna take

468
00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:20,720
Speaker 1: all your electronics.

469
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:22,200
Speaker 3: We're gonna go to church camp.

470
00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:22,560
Speaker 2: We're not.

471
00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 3: I'm not cutting your hair off.

472
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 2: I might cut your hair off.

473
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Speaker 3: Wow, if I recalled me to my mom cutting ha off,

474
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Speaker 3: I might fight you. Listen, but listen, I would come

475
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Speaker 3: over and beat your afterwards.

476
00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:38,679
Speaker 2: I'm gonna feel embarrassed. I could. I could understand as

477
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Speaker 2: a parent if you have like been going after your

478
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Speaker 2: kid for for a whole year, well, however long the

479
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 2: time is they've been disrespectful. I don't know, like you've

480
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 2: tried every single thing. Sometimes you have to take sever

481
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,439
Speaker 2: your measures. To me, hair is gonna grow back. She

482
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,000
Speaker 2: might look cute a little short haircut.

483
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Speaker 3: She's just a beautiful face to you, you know. Not

484
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Speaker 3: the point.

485
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Speaker 1: It's just not how we choose to That's not how

486
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Speaker 1: we teach our children to resolve problems.

487
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 2: I understand that, I understand that is the correct and.

488
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 3: Then have a granddaughter she goes and cuts her life.

489
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:09,919
Speaker 2: That is the correct and reasonable thing to do, and

490
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 2: that is the PC and respectable way to parent for me, it's.

491
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Speaker 3: Not even being PC. I just don't think that's the first

492
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:19,119
Speaker 3: thing that would come to mind. I have I've had traumatized.

493
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Speaker 2: Then what is beating your ass? Me too? I said,

494
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 2: that's the.

495
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:22,720
Speaker 1: Probably not the best solution either. I said, I probably

496
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Speaker 1: wouldn't go to that either. I think it would be

497
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Speaker 1: more in my front the front of the frame of

498
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:27,960
Speaker 1: my mind, probably because my mom beat my ass. That's

499
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 1: just how we work. We inherit the way we react sometimes.

500
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,120
Speaker 1: But if I thought sat still and thought it through,

501
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:37,159
Speaker 1: neither of those options would be my my route.

502
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 2: So then saying it is the threat.

503
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 1: No, not even saying it, I said therapy, because taking

504
00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:45,639
Speaker 1: away electronics, if it's about you being vain, you're not

505
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 1: doing anything else. It's like you have you taken away

506
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 1: every other every other option.

507
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 3: Have you taken every other privilege?

508
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:52,879
Speaker 1: Like I'm a firm believer, I'll put your house on

509
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 1: punishment for a long time, you know what I mean.

510
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:58,360
Speaker 1: And I also believe in conversation because like if you're

511
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Speaker 1: deliberately just going again.

512
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 3: Like I'm just I'm let you go live with your grandma.

513
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 1: I'm one of those like, I'm just gonna resolve my

514
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 1: hands of the situation because I'm gonna show you you're

515
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:09,160
Speaker 1: gonna go live with your grandma.

516
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 2: I can't resolve your hands of the situation as the parent.

517
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 2: I mean you can, but that's but that's also not

518
00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 2: good parenting that.

519
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:17,879
Speaker 1: That daughter is going to fucking hate her mom for

520
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:19,159
Speaker 1: at least like a decade.

521
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,919
Speaker 2: I mean, I maybe not honestly, I mean to be

522
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 2: I mean, this is not gonna be a popular statement,

523
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 2: but we've endured worse as black people. Like when I

524
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:32,400
Speaker 2: hear about even my father talk about lovingly about his

525
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,359
Speaker 2: mother who raised him. He always tells the story about,

526
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,680
Speaker 2: you know, my mom, I rolled my eyes at her

527
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 2: and she pulled a gun on me and chased me

528
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:41,879
Speaker 2: down the street, and he laughs about that. Now, that's

529
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 2: not that's also child abuse, for sure, and that's not great.

530
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:49,199
Speaker 2: But I just feel like, Babe, I just feel like

531
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 2: sometimes drastic measures need to be taken sometimes when you've

532
00:24:55,560 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 2: tried every single thing, your child needs to understand permanent

533
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:04,120
Speaker 2: repercussions in the world. And if cutting your hair off

534
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 2: is the thing that's gonna get it, it might not. And

535
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 2: I'm saying, like I could understand how your anger could

536
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 2: get you to this reactionary moment, just like I can

537
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:14,439
Speaker 2: understand how parents have hit their kids and be like,

538
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 2: oh shit, I hit my kid because they've gotten to

539
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 2: that point. I've gotten to that point. When I was

540
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 2: a kid, I fucking hit her and I was like,

541
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 2: this shit hurt. And I saw her reaction, I felt

542
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 2: her reaction. I was still angry in that moment, but

543
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 2: there was of course, shame and guilt are surrounding that.

544
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 2: But I feel like parents cross the line all the time. Yeah,

545
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:42,560
Speaker 2: physically literally imposing pain onto their child and cutting your

546
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 2: hair to me, doesn't seem I think I'm gonna seem

547
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 2: that crazy.

548
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:47,399
Speaker 3: I think it's emotionally harming.

549
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 1: And also, these kids are soft, baby, These kids ain't

550
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 1: our parents who are getting hit by switches.

551
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,120
Speaker 3: These kids will call the police. And of course these kids,

552
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:55,920
Speaker 3: she's probably got the police called.

553
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,159
Speaker 2: She for sure, she's dealing with some shit right now,

554
00:25:58,200 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 2: for sure.

555
00:25:58,440 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 5: For this.

556
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Speaker 1: That's why from the internet, I mean, speaking of something

557
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 1: like this, think of I mean, and some of these kids,

558
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: some of these kids.

559
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:08,400
Speaker 3: Need the streets.

560
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,640
Speaker 1: I don't know, but like, for instance, our your acquaintance

561
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,439
Speaker 1: whose kid was acting up and is now like not

562
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: in her care. Like I can't even fucking fantom that,

563
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But I don't know, Like

564
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 1: I said, I'm not Wait, did your mom do anything

565
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 1: to you that you were like, I'm so happy she

566
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: did that. Did you have any like extreme parenting things

567
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 1: from your mom that now you look back and like

568
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 1: that was probably not the right way to deal with that,

569
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,360
Speaker 1: And I could, I probably would have responded differently had

570
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 1: she reacted calmer, it wasn't.

571
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 2: The right way or or it was extreme, and now

572
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 2: I understand it either way both. It was. Yeah, I

573
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 2: mean I was just I was got really mouthy with

574
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 2: my mom. She slapped the shit out of me and

575
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:50,119
Speaker 2: low key like I deserved it and it and it

576
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 2: literally was like oh shit, you know. And I'm not

577
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 2: saying I'm not again, I'm not here saying condoning that

578
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 2: kind of parenting. But did I hate my mom for

579
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 2: twelve months because of it? No? That was I mad? Absolutely?

580
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:07,680
Speaker 2: Was it right? No? But it happened, and I still

581
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 2: love her and I understand her, And it didn't paint

582
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 2: it didn't paint her whole parenting as she's now a

583
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 2: bad mom. She's a terrible parent. My mom was an

584
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 2: excellent parent, you know. But like every person, every human

585
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:23,679
Speaker 2: has their limit. And you think about animals and the

586
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 2: way they have. You seen animals, how they rear their

587
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 2: how they rear their young. They slapped the shit out

588
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 2: of them when they do some fucked up shit.

589
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 3: There's definitely a level.

590
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,879
Speaker 2: I feel like there's an animalistic nature. I feel like

591
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:38,000
Speaker 2: our society has become so fucking delicate, and I understand that.

592
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 2: I understand that certain things have to go and they're

593
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 2: not they're not constructive. But I also think animalistically as

594
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 2: as humans and just primally. It's not out of it's

595
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,959
Speaker 2: not crazy that that sometimes is the first reaction of

596
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:00,919
Speaker 2: us when when they when we get pushed to a

597
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 2: certain limit, or when we are trying to protect and

598
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 2: show our children, hey, let me do this shit here,

599
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 2: because the world is not gonna be kind. The world

600
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 2: is not going to give a fuck about you. She's

601
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 2: not going to cut your hair off, bitch, She's going

602
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 2: to stab you in the back for real.

603
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:17,719
Speaker 1: I definitely agree that children have to understand the repercussions

604
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 1: of their actions in the household, because, like so many

605
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 1: of us have heard, once you get in trouble outside,

606
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 1: if here's something I can do for you, and I

607
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 1: agree with that, but just especially because of the history

608
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:31,120
Speaker 1: of black people and physical abuse, and I also think

609
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:35,480
Speaker 1: this is a very much so case by case scenario. Absolutely,

610
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:37,679
Speaker 1: there are parents that are just the fuck crazy. There

611
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 1: are parents that have not dealt with their own trauma

612
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: and they're inflicting that on their children and it's going

613
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: to be traumatizing them, and then the cycle continues. And

614
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 1: I've seen it, and like in my household, my mom

615
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 1: beat my ass. My mom was verbally abusive in ways,

616
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:52,479
Speaker 1: like said crazy shit to me that I'll never forget.

617
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 1: And we did not have a relationship where I felt

618
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: like we could talk, and I think had we had,

619
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 1: we probably would have had much different relationship. And to

620
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 1: be honest, a lot of that I have held on to,

621
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 1: not held on to this day, but to the point

622
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 1: where I recognize certain flaws in her as an adult

623
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: that she's still working through that when I was under

624
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 1: her care and responsibility, it was not maybe of her

625
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 1: like consciously, but she took that shit out on me.

626
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

627
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 1: And so I have a different I think I have

628
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 1: a different view of it. Do I respect my parents

629
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 1: and think they did the best that they could. Absolutely,

630
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 1: am I like traumatize and abuse, No, but I see

631
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:34,200
Speaker 1: how sometimes especially for moms, but this is not spoken

632
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 1: about often either. It's like when you see your child

633
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 1: embodying things that are different than who you have embodied

634
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: or what you've been allowed to especially because of generational differences,

635
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: we are doing things that our moms would never have imagined,

636
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: talking about sex and being you know, super up friend

637
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 1: and transparent about things, and so it's things that they

638
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: don't understand. And I think that that can that causes

639
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 1: like language barriers, you know what I mean, in ways,

640
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: but I think there are ways to communicate with your

641
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 1: kids absolutely that can like change the cycles thereafter. And

642
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 1: I think that it's we should normalize adults and parents

643
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 1: checking their own trauma so that they're not in the

644
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 1: position to raise children and still be traumatized by their

645
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 1: own their own experiences and then that overflows onto their kids. Absolutely,

646
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 1: And I recognized that's some more thought out answer. And

647
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 1: in the moment, had you had a badass kid that's

648
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 1: consistently repid remanding you, at what point do you say

649
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 1: there's not anything I could.

650
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 2: Do about it? But this, you know, may and I don't,

651
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 2: and I'm not here to say I'm maybe she did it.

652
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 2: I know if I got to that point, because I

653
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 2: think about the point where where I actually spank Diary,

654
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 2: and like, I never thought i'd get to that point.

655
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 2: I thought I was so patient, you know, and she

656
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 2: obviously got to another point. I know personally I would

657
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 2: feel embarrassed. I would feel ashamed. How am I going

658
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 2: to explain this to people that I lost my temper

659
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 2: so bad that she at some point, I'm gonna have

660
00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:59,719
Speaker 2: to like acknowledge the wrong that I did, and I'm

661
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:01,440
Speaker 2: gonna have to come to my child, and I'm gonna

662
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 2: have to apologize, period, And that's just parenting. And I

663
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Speaker 2: don't know if that's what happened in this case. I

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Speaker 2: hope that it did. I hope that they are able

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Speaker 2: to figure it out. But I also know these kids

666
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Speaker 2: don't fucking listen sometimes, and that.

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Speaker 3: She don't apologize.

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Speaker 2: She don't. She did not apologize.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, anyway, on to more Oh my god, what do

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Speaker 2: you guys think? Leave a comment? Should she have cut

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Speaker 2: her hair? Why should gentle parenting have been executed?

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Speaker 1: There's someone whose mom cut their hair, and I want

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Speaker 1: to know with their long their overall response us just

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Speaker 1: my phone.

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Speaker 3: God, I just got so high. I can't find it.

677
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Speaker 2: I have your phone. I haven't.

678
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Speaker 3: Losing shit.

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Speaker 2: Damn, I didn't roll this backwood very well, guys. I'm

680
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Speaker 2: I told Neil that I wanted to roll at this

681
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 2: time because she always rolls it. And then this is

682
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Speaker 2: what happened.

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Speaker 1: Listen, you gotta start somewhere, honey. Okay, So I found

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Speaker 1: I found it Instagram to show you this one.

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Speaker 3: I wait, where is it?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 3: Here it is? God, where is it?

688
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Speaker 1: So there's this black woman who obviously remarried a white husband, right,

689
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Speaker 1: but look at this fish, just.

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00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 2: Got new teeth. She's ocean frame.

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Speaker 1: So the well, the caption of the thing in the

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Speaker 1: video says, uh, I guess what are you doing?

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Speaker 3: Oh nothing?

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Speaker 1: Just a black man's baby mama, a white man spoiled,

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00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 1: married and moved to Hawaii.

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Speaker 3: And a lot of her page is about like her.

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Speaker 2: Date now, having a black I mean a white man

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Speaker 2: who's taking care of her. Yes.

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Speaker 1: In the in the bio, it says blended inter racial,

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Speaker 1: blended interracial family, you know, and I support whoever you like,

701
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 1: you know, love who you want to love. I don't really,

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's necessary to be like a black

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00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 1: man's baby mama, you know, has been rescued by a

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Speaker 1: white king and now we beach front at the Hawaii because.

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Speaker 2: My black maybe daddy couldn't do this.

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Speaker 1: And then she's another picture of like her and like

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Speaker 1: other pictures of white husbands with other black friends, white

708
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Speaker 1: black wives, and she's like, get one, come down, come

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Speaker 1: down to Arizona and.

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Speaker 3: Gets you one.

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Speaker 1: Or it's almost like come get a cookie. These are

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Speaker 1: the best ones on the shelf.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah. I mean, listen, people do a lot of

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Speaker 2: things for a clicks and likes, and maybe there's some

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Speaker 2: self hate there. Maybe there's a lot of trauma. Maybe,

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Speaker 2: you know, listen, as black women, we've experienced a lot

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Speaker 2: of trauma at the hands of black men. Period. We're

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Speaker 2: still giving y'all grace, but it's just a fact of

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Speaker 2: life we have. And sometimes that shows up as a

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Speaker 2: black woman at her limit and now she's in Hawaii

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Speaker 2: with her white husband making Instagram profiles, and you know,

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Speaker 2: that's just what happened here, and that's okay with me.

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Speaker 2: There's worse things that could be happening there are worse

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Speaker 2: things that are happening. I have Palestine. I hope that she.

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Speaker 1: Lets that go and Rick, you know, and enjoys her

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Speaker 1: her reels. And you know what, I'm not mad at her.

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Speaker 1: She seems like a very nice woman with lots of reels,

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Speaker 1: lots of successful reels. She's a second Instagram star, her

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Speaker 1: and her family. She's very happy. I don't live in

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Speaker 1: Hawaiian and I'm pissed. Do you have anything else you wanted.

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Speaker 3: To share any more? Very important news?

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Speaker 2: Well, there's news. There's news that Rihanna dropped Oh whoa, whoa, Sorry,

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Speaker 2: Rihanna dropped her hairline. You know, but I saw the

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Speaker 2: announcement and listen before y'all, Rihanna people come for me.

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Speaker 2: I love Rihanna. I literally love Rihanna. But when I

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Speaker 2: said hairline, I thought maybe wigs. I thought, for sure,

737
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Speaker 2: wigs or I don't know shit for I don't know,

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Speaker 2: not natural hair. I wasn't going for it didn't ever

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Speaker 2: occurred natural hair, because have you ever seen Rihanna wear

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Speaker 2: her natural hair?

741
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 3: So the product is specifically for natural hair.

742
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 2: I think it's for an array of things, but that

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00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 2: was the product that she debuted with the natural hair. Well,

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00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:14,479
Speaker 2: it was a selection, but I think it was She's

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00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,839
Speaker 2: aiming towards people's hair and it's coming out of their

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Speaker 2: head naturally.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 2: And I couldn't help a thing, because you know, everyone's

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Speaker 2: always trying to pair Rihanna with Beyonce Sacred and right.

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00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,439
Speaker 2: I'm always coming at not coming out each other, book,

751
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 2: launching things at similar times. Whatever. And then I saw

752
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 2: Rihanna come outside with her natural hair.

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00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 3: Don't choot talk what do they call it?

754
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:39,800
Speaker 5: The navy?

755
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 3: And listen, read, reread navy.

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00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 2: Everyone has a look that works for them.

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Speaker 3: Navy, what is it? Listen?

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Speaker 2: I don't think this works, so I don't think this

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00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:53,880
Speaker 2: is This is not Rihanna's best look.

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Speaker 1: As an black woman of the short hair. She knows

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Speaker 1: what she's just getting. She's getting it together. She's trying

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00:35:58,120 --> 00:35:59,879
Speaker 1: to get the products together, she's trying to get the text,

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Speaker 1: the curl pattern together.

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Speaker 3: Just give her some time.

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00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 2: She had time, she'd been known, she's about to launch

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00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 2: the ship. She had time. I shaved her whole ass

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00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 2: head and grow a whole new head of hair. But also,

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00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 2: I just feel like it's happening here as my natural

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00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 2: hair gets stuck with this microphone because I'm talking about

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Speaker 2: the queen Rihanna. I just also saw and this is

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00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:25,800
Speaker 2: also a bit on the internet because I'm a Rihanna

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00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 2: stan I want to be clear and I get fed.

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00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 2: Rihanna adds a lot because she's fine as hell. But

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00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 2: they were mad because in the video she was washing

775
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:40,440
Speaker 2: or in the picture for the promo of her brand,

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00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 2: she's has getting her hair washed in the bowl and

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00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:44,759
Speaker 2: it's a it's for sure a wig.

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00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 3: It's for sure a rigors. It just like her hair

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00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 3: turned with the foam on it, like.

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00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:48,800
Speaker 2: It's a wig.

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00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 3: I mean, because here's the other thing, it.

782
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:52,879
Speaker 2: Is a full I wish I could have been at

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00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 2: the shoot with them.

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Speaker 3: You think that's how I think.

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Speaker 1: There's no way, There's no way they put Champona Orlando.

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00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 2: We gotta we gotta put the picture up. And then

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Speaker 2: I need you comments. I need you to comment.

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Speaker 1: Her hair, her hair and when she wore her short hair,

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00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 1: that was her hair. Mostly celebrities were wigs. They're doing

790
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 1: a lot of moving around. Everybody needs to wash their

791
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 1: real hair, though natural or not permed.

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00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:22,399
Speaker 2: In the comments, put fake.

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00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 3: I need to see the picture again.

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00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:26,839
Speaker 2: Well, it's probably in the dams. My phone is dead,

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00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 2: so I can't show you, but it's all over the internets.

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00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 3: I was surprised she launched a hair care product.

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00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 2: In general, I mean, I'm gonna buy it what I

798
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 2: would buy. I'm gonna buy hers over. I didn't even

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00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:40,360
Speaker 2: Boughy Beyonce. It's some gonna buy hers.

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00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 3: The hypocrisy.

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00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,720
Speaker 2: I love Rihanna, but you know, not every not everything

802
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:46,720
Speaker 2: is gonna make sense.

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00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 1: Not our debut is it's gonna do well. It's gonna

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Speaker 1: go crazy culture commentators. But it's not out yet.

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00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 2: I don't know. I think it's on pre I don't

806
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:55,880
Speaker 2: know if it's on pre order. If it's all the

807
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 2: way out, I think it's out. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Speaking of Rihanna, who I love also, she was interviewed

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Speaker 1: recently and she made a state a comment about how

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00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 1: like if they had she had regrets or would make

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Speaker 1: any changes, and she said that she would change all

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00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 1: like the uh like kind of stuff. And I was like,

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00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,720
Speaker 1: I was like a she high she was. I thought

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Speaker 1: I was ashamed. I thought a good mom bad choices.

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Speaker 2: I just I saw the same thing. I tried to

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00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 2: erase it from my memory, and I made you wish

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00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:27,919
Speaker 2: you didn't bring it up right now because ever since

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00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:29,360
Speaker 2: I ran into her in real life and her nipples

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00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 2: were out like that's they were, and she was she

820
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 2: made a statement, Rihanna Lilan did she needed to come

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Speaker 2: back and sit on this couch.

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00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 3: She's been in the house with Rocky too long. He's like,

823
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 3: you gotta put those nipples in and pay Rocky is

824
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:43,359
Speaker 3: on that ship.

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00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,840
Speaker 2: It might be her Barbados family members. That's about the

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Speaker 2: island at the Islands, like your mother.

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Speaker 1: Now, we gotta get off because we had just shamed islanders.

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Speaker 3: Rihanna herself, I'm a shamer.

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Speaker 2: I was the same.

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Speaker 3: We've agreed that we've made maybe a little bit abuse

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Speaker 3: our kids.

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Speaker 2: No God, I'm just here to say everything that we

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Speaker 2: say on this show is for entertainment purposes. Only YEP

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Speaker 2: show is anyway. I'm high Zell. Thank you for joining

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