WEBVTT - Is Church a Safe Space? 0:00:03.960 --> 0:00:07.080 All right, sauce on the side. What's up. I'm gandhi 0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:09.760 and I am here with Diamond and we have many 0:00:09.760 --> 0:00:12.880 things to discuss. Yes, yeah, why do you look like 0:00:12.880 --> 0:00:16.240 that right now? She looks a smug I'm excited. Okay, 0:00:16.480 --> 0:00:19.480 clearly you've got topics that you would like to address. Sure, yeah, 0:00:19.560 --> 0:00:22.960 I have a couple things I want to address really quickly. 0:00:23.000 --> 0:00:25.479 This is like a completely different thing than we would 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:28.680 ever talk about. But I stayed. I got an airbnb 0:00:28.800 --> 0:00:31.920 when I was home over the holidays because all my 0:00:31.960 --> 0:00:34.360 friends come home, they come from different places, and I 0:00:34.400 --> 0:00:36.159 wanted like a flophouse so that we didn't just have 0:00:36.200 --> 0:00:37.640 to go out to eat every time we wanted to 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:39.680 see each other, and you know, spend a ton of money. 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:41.360 We could just go hang out, watch TV, do whatever 0:00:41.360 --> 0:00:43.159 we want to do. So I have this airbnb. A 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:45.960 weird thing happened with it where I extended it for 0:00:46.000 --> 0:00:48.320 a day and the guy's average response time apparently was 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:52.640 seven hours, and I had requested to extend it. I 0:00:52.720 --> 0:00:55.440 did it twice. The first time it happened immediately, no problem, 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:57.120 so I just assumed that the second time the same 0:00:57.160 --> 0:00:59.720 thing would happen. So I left a ton of stuff there. 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:03.400 I left full bottles of alcohol, all the snacks. We 0:01:03.440 --> 0:01:05.520 had my toothbrush, a hairbrush, like all kinds of stuff. 0:01:05.520 --> 0:01:08.240 It was very evident we hadn't cleaned anything up and 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:11.560 had someone checked. I was coming back. The guy got 0:01:11.560 --> 0:01:15.559 back to me way later in the afternoon and was like, oh, sorry, 0:01:15.600 --> 0:01:18.679 I just saw this. Unfortunately, our cleaning crew already came 0:01:18.800 --> 0:01:22.240 and they threw everything away. No, I'm talking like brand 0:01:22.240 --> 0:01:25.360 new bottles, like unopened bottles of alcohol. Now did they 0:01:25.400 --> 0:01:27.759 actually throw it away or do you think somebody may 0:01:27.760 --> 0:01:28.480 be held onto it? 0:01:28.560 --> 0:01:28.640 Oh? 0:01:28.720 --> 0:01:30.240 They definitely, I would hold onto it. 0:01:30.520 --> 0:01:32.959 I mean it was probably hundreds of dollars worth of stuff. 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:35.399 So he was like, oh, you can extend the stay, 0:01:35.480 --> 0:01:37.040 no problem. But when I went to extend the stay 0:01:37.040 --> 0:01:39.080 again or book a new stay, it was way more 0:01:39.120 --> 0:01:41.360 expensive than had I just extended it. So he did 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:43.800 honor the lower price, which was fine. And then when 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:46.080 I mentioned all the stuff that got tossed, he's like, well, 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:50.040 I already ate that cleaning fee. Well, I didn't tell 0:01:50.040 --> 0:01:52.040 you to send the cleaner over. You did that because 0:01:52.080 --> 0:01:53.920 you hadn't checked your messages yet, right, And it was 0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:55.760 hours and hours before I was supposed to check out 0:01:55.760 --> 0:01:58.280 that I requested it, so we had a little bit 0:01:58.280 --> 0:01:59.600 of a back and forth. It wasn't a bad thing 0:01:59.600 --> 0:02:02.640 because okay, fine, I can see how this could happen. Well, 0:02:02.680 --> 0:02:06.080 a guy came and found me on Instagram and sent 0:02:06.160 --> 0:02:10.520 me a whole rundown of basically like responding to my review. 0:02:10.880 --> 0:02:13.399 I gave him four stars. Still, I didn't give him five, 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:15.520 but I gave him four because there were also some 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:19.240 weird stains on the like the couches and stuff. So 0:02:19.520 --> 0:02:22.280 between the weird stains and the jumping to get us 0:02:22.320 --> 0:02:23.840 out of there and then throwing all my stuff away 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:27.440 without ever contacting, I said, hey, it was pretty good. 0:02:27.440 --> 0:02:30.680 Overall these things happened. He found me on Instagram and 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:34.040 he like responded to everything that I said and was 0:02:34.080 --> 0:02:35.920 basically like, we still have to have a life too, 0:02:36.800 --> 0:02:38.880 so we're not glued to our phones all the time 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:40.720 looking at you know, what people are saying and what 0:02:40.760 --> 0:02:44.040 they're doing and blah blah. The cleaner schedule themselves. We 0:02:44.080 --> 0:02:46.200 don't do that. And he wants me to go change 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:49.720 my review. I'm not gonna do that, Am I wrong? 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:52.400 I'm just shocked that he found you on Instagram. 0:02:52.680 --> 0:02:54.680 I was like, what is this? Oh, I know what 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:55.160 this is. 0:02:55.520 --> 0:02:55.880 Oh. 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:59.280 No, I do kind of feel for him because it 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:02.760 just seemed like overall, it's like a misunderstanding, right, and 0:03:02.840 --> 0:03:06.400 like this could potentially cause people not to well. 0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:08.360 No, you gave him four stars, giving four stars, and 0:03:08.400 --> 0:03:10.320 I said it was overall really good, Say these are 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:12.640 the things that happened. I want to be transparent and 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:14.360 honest about things because one of the things we've been 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:17.320 talking about a lot is so many of us actually 0:03:17.320 --> 0:03:19.880 look at reviews to decide things, whether it's a restaurant 0:03:20.200 --> 0:03:22.040 or an airbnb or whatever. But how many times do 0:03:22.040 --> 0:03:22.880 you actually leave a review? 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:23.640 Yeah? I don't do that. 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:25.480 We're pretty selfish about it, right, so we rely on 0:03:25.480 --> 0:03:27.360 everybody else to do the hard work. So I'm like, 0:03:27.400 --> 0:03:29.560 all leave reviews, and I don't want to be extra 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:31.480 harsh on somebody, especially you know, maybe this is like 0:03:31.520 --> 0:03:33.560 a small business owner. I don't know. Yeah, but I 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:35.800 still gave him four out of the five stars, and 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:38.040 then I said these were the issues overall, and I 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:40.680 would probably still stay there again. Now here's where I 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:44.400 say he could have done better, because I think based 0:03:44.400 --> 0:03:46.560 on the fact that all that stuff was still there 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:51.280 and I had requested hours before he looked at it. 0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:53.800 He could have said, let me give you X amount 0:03:53.840 --> 0:03:56.360 of dollars off or let me take this. You know, No, 0:03:56.560 --> 0:03:58.360 there was none of that, So oh yeah. 0:03:58.200 --> 0:03:59.760 I would have had to I would have waited for 0:03:59.760 --> 0:04:01.600 the cleaning crew on the day that I was supposed 0:04:01.640 --> 0:04:03.240 to leave, and I would say, hey, were you here 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:03.800 the other day? 0:04:03.800 --> 0:04:07.080 Give me my alcohol, please, champagne, the whiskey. All this 0:04:07.120 --> 0:04:08.680 stuff unopened. 0:04:09.120 --> 0:04:12.200 Is crazy, but give me my toothbrush. 0:04:12.240 --> 0:04:15.320 And I like to think if I were an airbnb owner, 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:17.919 which I would someday love to be, that, if I 0:04:18.080 --> 0:04:20.120 had my cleaning crew or hoomever go in, I would 0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:22.040 say to them, hey, if you find things, let me 0:04:22.080 --> 0:04:23.920 know so that we can reach out to the people. 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:25.920 Like what if I had left gold jewelry there were 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:26.680 gonna throw it away? 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:30.520 The things were not thrown away. That's the part that 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:31.039 we're missing. 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:32.920 I don't think they were thrown away either, but oh, 0:04:33.000 --> 0:04:34.400 I mean wait for the cleaning crew. 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:36.480 I would have been like, man, oh, well, you had 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:38.440 to leave. But if I, if I didn't have something 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:40.880 that I needed to do to do, I would wait, hey, 0:04:42.160 --> 0:04:43.440 were you here yesterday? 0:04:43.560 --> 0:04:46.040 Because like, Hey, I need want my toothbrush back. 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:46.720 Yeah. 0:04:46.800 --> 0:04:48.800 I actually don't, of all the things, keep the damn 0:04:48.839 --> 0:04:50.680 toothbrush because I don't know what happened to it, but 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:54.800 the other stuff. So anyway, that's where I'm starting. I'm 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:56.240 not really sure how to take this. I think it's 0:04:56.279 --> 0:04:58.039 kind of funny that he found me on Instagram and 0:04:58.040 --> 0:04:59.120 like wrote this whole long thing about it. 0:04:59.160 --> 0:05:02.279 Let me tell you something, these people are moving differently 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:05.839 in twenty twenty six. That's all I have to say. 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:08.040 I might have to think twice about a bad review, 0:05:08.160 --> 0:05:08.880 about a bad. 0:05:08.680 --> 0:05:11.479 Review, but here's I'm never going to light somebody up 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:13.720 for no reason, right, And that's why I do kind 0:05:13.720 --> 0:05:15.479 of laugh sometimes. If we get like a one star, 0:05:15.600 --> 0:05:17.240 zero star review, I don't think you could do zero, 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:19.440 But like a one star review, I'm like, what about 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:23.360 the podcast was so horrific that you had to give 0:05:23.400 --> 0:05:25.480 me one damn star? What about it? I mean, they 0:05:25.520 --> 0:05:29.440 said you're racist and hate men, so I guess all factual, 0:05:33.120 --> 0:05:35.719 but yeah, overall, it's like, damn man, what did a 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:38.040 podcast do to you that that offended you to the 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:40.440 point of leaving me a freaking one star review? Yeah, 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:40.960 that's fine. 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:41.400 I don't care. 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:42.320 I don't look for you. 0:05:42.400 --> 0:05:45.120 Usually, if I don't like something that I hear or see, 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:48.760 I just changed the channel, turn the song off, turn 0:05:48.880 --> 0:05:51.400 the podcast off, or something like that. So I kind 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:53.520 of that you should take it as a compliment, even 0:05:53.560 --> 0:05:56.080 if it is like one star, It's like, Wow, you 0:05:56.120 --> 0:05:57.400 took the time out so. 0:05:57.440 --> 0:06:01.440 Romantic to do this for me, you know, all because 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:03.919 of me. I got under your skins so bad that 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:06.320 you just had to do it. I don't know. I 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:08.480 used to think, and I'm starting to wonder about this, 0:06:08.520 --> 0:06:09.960 but I think I'm gonna hold on to my same thought. 0:06:10.680 --> 0:06:14.960 Most normal, mentally well people do not light other people 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:17.880 up online and fight with them and just like crap 0:06:17.920 --> 0:06:20.640 on a stranger that you don't know. Most I used 0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:24.600 to think that. I'm starting to wonder now if some 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:26.359 normal people are doing these things. 0:06:26.400 --> 0:06:28.320 Now I don't think so. I think there are more 0:06:28.400 --> 0:06:30.880 fake pages, so it seems like there's more people it's 0:06:30.880 --> 0:06:34.720 the same. Yeah, maybe like these people are sick if 0:06:34.760 --> 0:06:38.880 you take the time out to talk shit about someone 0:06:39.120 --> 0:06:41.520 unprovoked personally. 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:42.320 That you don't know like and a person that you 0:06:42.320 --> 0:06:44.400 don't know so stranger, so you're scrolling past and something 0:06:44.440 --> 0:06:47.120 about this stranger that nothing's you and doesn't think about you, 0:06:47.400 --> 0:06:48.920 bugged you to the point of being like you're. 0:06:48.839 --> 0:06:52.480 Fat and ugly, bitch. Yeah, like what, okay, well thank you? 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:54.800 I mean I do look at myself in the mirror. 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:57.839 I get it, Like what do people need these reminders? 0:06:57.960 --> 0:07:00.200 Like and people are already hard on themselves anyway, for 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:04.479 you to say that about somebody else like you're on well, it's. 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:06.680 So mean A little bit. I understand some of the 0:07:06.720 --> 0:07:09.279 political people that like go off about something so oh yeah, 0:07:09.279 --> 0:07:11.600 there's like a post about ice breaking into another house 0:07:11.600 --> 0:07:14.440 without a warrant and someone's like, oh f you and 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:16.200 if your mother and everybody. 0:07:15.920 --> 0:07:16.200 That you know. 0:07:16.480 --> 0:07:19.040 I get that a little bit more then the just 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:22.239 like random somebody's having joy and dancing in their house 0:07:22.320 --> 0:07:23.680 and other people are like, I hope you die? 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:26.040 What, Like, what is wrong with that? What's with me 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:26.960 having a good time? 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:30.000 Apparently a lot if other people are having a good time, 0:07:30.080 --> 0:07:32.120 how dare you present your good time? 0:07:32.320 --> 0:07:36.600 Why that should be something that makes you want to 0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:38.520 have a good time on your own. Like if I 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:40.960 see someone doing something that I want to do or whatever, 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:44.440 I'm like, oh, maybe I should do this like maybe 0:07:44.520 --> 0:07:46.640 cleaning up around the house when I don't really feel 0:07:46.680 --> 0:07:49.320 like it is gonna boost my mood in the time, 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:52.320 like you know, so like why not turn music on 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:53.880 and jump up and down with the vacuum, you know 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:54.240 what I mean? 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:57.960 Dancing is one of the mood boosters, dancing and singing 0:07:58.080 --> 0:08:00.160 when you're in a bad mood. Just try it. You 0:08:00.160 --> 0:08:02.880 you love singing along to stuff I know, but you like. 0:08:02.840 --> 0:08:06.480 A karaoke to what My parents dancing yesterday? They just 0:08:06.480 --> 0:08:07.520 started dancing with each other. 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:09.480 I say, flash back like it was your childhood. 0:08:09.560 --> 0:08:12.160 Well, because they do it all the time, and yesterday 0:08:12.160 --> 0:08:14.240 I was just like, please get out on my feet. 0:08:14.280 --> 0:08:15.960 Do you know how glorious that is that your parents 0:08:16.000 --> 0:08:18.480 still like each other enough to dance and have joy 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:19.640 with you in that house? 0:08:19.720 --> 0:08:23.880 Oh my god? Beautiful? But also please, I'm a hater. 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:26.760 I feel like that was a humble brag about what 0:08:27.360 --> 0:08:30.480 my parents are so happy and just disgusts me how 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:32.400 they dance and sing in the house and make each 0:08:32.440 --> 0:08:35.440 other and what a lovely example of love I've grown 0:08:35.520 --> 0:08:35.760 up with. 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:40.240 I'm like, yeah, you guys are so cute. 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:43.120 They are cute. I encourage parents to make out. I 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:44.280 encourage everyone to make out. 0:08:44.760 --> 0:08:45.760 We don't need to make out. 0:08:46.440 --> 0:08:48.600 No, listen. I was talking to a couple of my 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:52.200 married friends over the weekend about making out, and you know, 0:08:53.120 --> 0:08:55.160 so many of them are like, I can't remember last 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:56.880 time I made out with someone. I'm like, you're married, 0:08:56.920 --> 0:08:58.920 what do you mean I'm making out with your husband? No, 0:08:59.040 --> 0:09:01.440 we don't do that. We don't make out. I'm like, oh, 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:06.120 that's sad. Set another reason why I don't want to 0:09:06.120 --> 0:09:08.240 get married. I will make out till the day I die. 0:09:09.360 --> 0:09:11.640 Making out is so disgusting. 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:15.720 What's wrong with you? What I'm about making out with 0:09:15.800 --> 0:09:18.000 somebody that you love is discussing. 0:09:18.080 --> 0:09:20.280 Well, that's how you know I'm very far off from 0:09:20.360 --> 0:09:23.320 love right now, because it just it's disgusting to me, 0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:26.120 like love Island. When these people are making out with 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:28.760 each other, I think it is so nasty. 0:09:28.880 --> 0:09:31.120 Okay, so I find Love Island nasty only because it's 0:09:31.160 --> 0:09:32.920 so contrived. And then they make out with someone, I 0:09:33.000 --> 0:09:34.640 have to make out with another person right after, and 0:09:34.679 --> 0:09:36.199 I'm like, oh my god, in the age of flu a, 0:09:36.480 --> 0:09:40.360 I don't think so. But if you're in love with someone, 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:42.880 like when I see couples who clearly are just into 0:09:42.880 --> 0:09:45.160 each other and they're having no PDAs. I'm like, you 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:46.760 get it, I love it, I love love. 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:49.520 Yeah, until you think about the fact that the spit 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:51.680 is being swapped. That's disgusting. 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:54.120 Do you know what you swap doing other things? No? 0:09:54.120 --> 0:10:00.719 No, I just don't think about it, you see it. 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:02.760 It's just like one of those things that's like, okay, 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:03.720 and now I'm done. 0:10:03.960 --> 0:10:12.280 You know, a peck sure, like no, but like tongues yeah, wow, 0:10:12.640 --> 0:10:14.560 ye are right? 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:16.800 Now? Do you know the percentage of people who don't 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:20.360 floss or brush their tongues? Yeah, we're making out. 0:10:22.000 --> 0:10:24.800 Well, hopefully you're with a person who you've had conversations 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:28.480 about dental hygiene. You can, you know, fix those things. Sure, 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:30.800 you don't want to make out with like a toothless crackhead, 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:34.440 all right, if it's your boyfriend, a person that you're dating, 0:10:34.840 --> 0:10:36.200 you don't want to just eat their face? 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:38.640 Sure, I guess you don't. 0:10:38.720 --> 0:10:39.600 That's okay, you don't have to. 0:10:39.720 --> 0:10:41.800 It's just one of those things that the thought of 0:10:41.880 --> 0:10:45.800 spit really bothers me, but the thought of other things 0:10:45.880 --> 0:10:49.040 does not. If I thought long and hard enough about it, 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:52.360 then I think about Yeah. No, that's disgusting. You think 0:10:52.400 --> 0:10:54.920 about the things that we've made normal as a society, 0:10:54.960 --> 0:10:55.920 it's insane. 0:10:55.640 --> 0:11:02.040 Like eating ass, it's insane, like why these things. 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:04.040 Were kept private for a reason in the past, and 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:05.840 now you just see it everywhere. 0:11:06.440 --> 0:11:08.760 No, my favorite is just the shift in culture, even 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:11.679 in like music you remember in maybe like the earlier 0:11:11.760 --> 0:11:15.160 two thousands, especially with reggae music, and they still do it. 0:11:15.240 --> 0:11:16.839 They talk about all the things they won't do, like 0:11:17.000 --> 0:11:20.440 me not eat the pompom Liar, Liar, liar. 0:11:20.720 --> 0:11:23.240 The only person that I'm asking that, the only person 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:26.439 that I actually believe is DJ Khaled, of course, and 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:28.280 that is so sad for him. 0:11:28.320 --> 0:11:31.760 Also, like immediate divorce, absolutely not even just because he 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:33.440 wouldn't do it. Whatever, if you don't do it, you 0:11:33.480 --> 0:11:34.959 want to do, but you gotta tell the whole world 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:36.520 this thing that you won't do. 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:38.440 Get out of here. 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:44.280 He just yuck, yucky on multiple levels. 0:11:44.679 --> 0:11:48.840 He has always confused me, Like when he first became 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:51.480 super famous on like from like TikTok, you know where 0:11:51.520 --> 0:11:53.920 a lot of people started bombing him on TikTok. I 0:11:53.960 --> 0:11:55.800 was happy for him for like a week, and then 0:11:55.960 --> 0:11:58.120 it just went all downhill for me. I'm like, okay, 0:11:58.800 --> 0:12:01.000 enough with this guy. He was the famous before TikTok. 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:03.079 You know that, well, yes, but I mean like like 0:12:03.480 --> 0:12:06.960 I knew him. We clearly listened to his music and stuff, 0:12:07.000 --> 0:12:09.640 but like there was like a resurgence or like a 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:14.679 new popularity from TikTok. I'm not TikTok Snapchat, That's what 0:12:14.720 --> 0:12:16.040 it is. I was like TikTok was. 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:17.560 No, I'm bugging out. 0:12:17.720 --> 0:12:20.800 Okay, I'm bugging out and I'm about to edit edit. 0:12:20.920 --> 0:12:21.680 No, I'm just kidding. 0:12:21.760 --> 0:12:23.680 No, We'll just leave it. Yeah, it's so much. 0:12:23.559 --> 0:12:28.080 Easier to not edit these podcasts. Let me tell you Jesus. 0:12:27.320 --> 0:12:30.200 Funnier how people will be in their cars like TikTok. 0:12:30.960 --> 0:12:33.520 No, I don't think anyone's really going to challenge you 0:12:33.559 --> 0:12:35.800 too much on that one. Really, I don't think so. 0:12:36.240 --> 0:12:38.480 I'd have been like it was Snapchat twenty sixteen. 0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:41.640 Okay, you Snapchat twenty sixteen. Simon wants everybody to know, 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:43.520 do you still use Snapchat? Yeah, I'm back. 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:44.040 I'm back. 0:12:44.240 --> 0:12:47.400 I've never left it. I don't actually snap very much. 0:12:47.559 --> 0:12:49.959 I just use the camera because even the camera without 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:52.800 any filters on Snapchat is so much better. I don't 0:12:52.840 --> 0:12:56.600 understand why, Like, hello iPhone people, if you're listening, you 0:12:56.640 --> 0:12:58.560 can't just make that the camera for everything. 0:12:58.840 --> 0:12:59.240 What the hell? 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:02.000 What is it about Snapchat that is because it's like 0:13:02.040 --> 0:13:06.360 lower rest. Yeah, the flip thing too. It's not exactly 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:08.400 the mirror image. I don't know, Like Snapchat is the 0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:11.080 mirror image, so that's what I'm used to looking like 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:14.199 is seeing that, but either of it do the dirtiest 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:14.960 work on Snapchat? 0:13:15.000 --> 0:13:17.439 You know all of my okay, you know all of 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:23.319 my favorite people from Love Island, UK they use Snapchat. 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:24.559 Is that why you're there? 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:27.240 Yeah, that's the only reason I'm there. 0:13:27.440 --> 0:13:28.800 How long is your longest streak? 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:29.520 Oh? 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:31.520 I don't. I don't do that. I just watched their. 0:13:32.040 --> 0:13:34.400 I open messages and then I forget to reply to 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:35.760 them and then they don't come back. So I'm like, okay, 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:39.679 by people message you on Snapchat? Yeah, uh, lots of 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:42.240 people really, No, I mean I think I have like 0:13:42.240 --> 0:13:45.000 thirty followers, but all thirty of them do oh wow. 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:46.600 You know a lot of people are making a lot 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:47.600 of money off Snapchat. 0:13:47.679 --> 0:14:06.559 I've heard, like, I'm like, okay. 0:13:58.280 --> 0:13:59.800 A lot of people are making a lot of money 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:01.480 off a lot of things that you, and I just 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:04.839 really need to get in on the only fans feet 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:06.880 page at the very least, or feet find or whatever 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:08.360 it is. My parents are okay with it. 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:12.400 Nobody wants to see these toes. But also, I don't know, 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:13.120 what did you do? 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:13.320 No? 0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:16.280 I just don't like No, I just don't like toe. 0:14:16.400 --> 0:14:17.120 But what if I. 0:14:17.080 --> 0:14:19.200 Said to you your toes could make you a million 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:20.080 dollars a year. 0:14:20.040 --> 0:14:24.440 I would, I would indulge, But yeah, try, I don't know. 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:29.360 One's just gonna give you a million dollars. Not right now. 0:14:29.440 --> 0:14:32.200 I need my toes done seriously, seriously. 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:33.120 This is bad. 0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:34.080 This is bad. 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:37.320 I threw a I won't say I threw a fit, 0:14:38.240 --> 0:14:40.520 but I was getting a pedicure the other day. When 0:14:40.560 --> 0:14:42.040 I was in I went to Miami with a couple 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:45.800 of my friends. Affront nervous when we're celebrating a birthday. 0:14:45.840 --> 0:14:47.080 It was a ball by the way. 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:47.720 We could get to that. 0:14:47.720 --> 0:14:49.320 In a minute. But we had so much fun in 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:51.920 Miami and we were like, oh, let's go get pedicures. 0:14:51.920 --> 0:14:54.800 So we scheduled pedicures and massages. The place online looked amazing, 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:58.880 I have pretty pretty good reviews. We go there and 0:14:58.920 --> 0:15:00.640 we go to sit in the pedicure and there was 0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:03.280 like some sort of schmutz on the chair and I 0:15:03.320 --> 0:15:05.000 got so hung up on it. She's like, oh, no, 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:07.320 sit in another chair. So we sat another chair. As 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:09.520 she's doing my feet. I swear to god, this woman 0:15:09.640 --> 0:15:12.840 was trying to kill me, like my toe was bleeding. 0:15:12.880 --> 0:15:15.440 I said stop, you have got like I actually told 0:15:15.440 --> 0:15:17.480 her top. I was like, enough, this is enough. I 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:19.480 will take it from here. Do not do anymore. I 0:15:19.480 --> 0:15:21.760 don't understand what you're doing to my foot. And my 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:23.320 friend the same thing was happening to her, and I 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:24.800 was like, is this a joke? So then we canceled 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:27.960 the massages because absolutely yeah. Finished the pedicure and I 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:30.040 went home and immediately just like put neosporn and so 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:31.880 because you know some of those places are like yeah 0:15:31.960 --> 0:15:35.640 ick yes with the foot stuff. Yeah, you get an infection? 0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:36.160 Could die? 0:15:36.240 --> 0:15:38.080 Mm hmm are we being dramatic? 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:38.640 Could you die? 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:39.120 Well? 0:15:39.200 --> 0:15:41.200 No, you could because you get an infection. One of 0:15:41.200 --> 0:15:43.960 my friends, uh, you to lose a toe. They like 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:46.800 cut her really bad. And I felt bad because I 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:50.560 recommended the place. No, but it was it was infected 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:52.680 really bad and if she wouldn't have taken care of it. 0:15:52.680 --> 0:15:54.920 She went, she had to go to the doctor, and 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:56.960 I mean, who knows her life. 0:15:57.680 --> 0:15:59.080 That's why I would like to shut out my people 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:02.080 in Jersey City nail Tech because I told you how 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:04.320 I snapped my fingernail in the worst place, like halfway 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:06.320 down the nail, and I went to them because I 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:07.880 was like, I just wanted them to fix it. And 0:16:07.920 --> 0:16:09.800 as soon as they saw it, they're like, no, I'm 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:12.240 not going to fix that. That is an open wound, ma'am. 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:15.400 You are gonna get infected. Let that thing. He'll come 0:16:15.440 --> 0:16:15.960 back in a week. 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:18.000 So that's okay. Is this the same place that was 0:16:18.040 --> 0:16:19.080 closed for some reasons? 0:16:19.440 --> 0:16:23.040 No, that was my massage place. Oh yeah, I don't 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:24.640 know if we ever talked about that. Do we talk 0:16:24.680 --> 0:16:25.760 about that on the podcast? 0:16:26.680 --> 0:16:27.359 Yeah? 0:16:27.600 --> 0:16:30.320 Okay, In case you haven't heard it, I had a 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:33.400 massage place that was incredible. I had heard some sketchy 0:16:33.440 --> 0:16:34.960 things about it, and then one day I called to 0:16:35.000 --> 0:16:38.120 make an appointment and I got the voicemail. I really 0:16:38.160 --> 0:16:39.640