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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and I heart radio podcast.

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Speaker 1: We're back. I mean, hi, it's Becca and Tanya tany hair.

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Speaker 1: Just making sure you're there. Um, so much has happened

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Speaker 1: this week. It feels like it's been more than just

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Speaker 1: a week, and a lot has happened this week. Wow,

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Speaker 1: what's happened in the past like three days? I know?

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Speaker 1: Actually though it really all started for me Monday night.

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Speaker 1: We'll get that. We'll get to that later. Um. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you and I had like three dates since week or

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Speaker 1: two dates two days this weekend with each other. Not

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Speaker 1: to confuse anyone that we had dates with men, because

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Speaker 1: those are rare, rare occasions, rare birds were. Yeah, we'll

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Speaker 1: start out with that next time, hopefully, But we had

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Speaker 1: for me. I hope that I'm always your plus one

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Speaker 1: and vice versa. Even when you find someone, unless it's

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Speaker 1: something I don't want to go to, you can invite him. No,

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Speaker 1: I you're actually a really great date. I really enjoy

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Speaker 1: having you as a date to things because even though

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Speaker 1: you think you're bad at social situations, you're really good

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Speaker 1: at them. I don't think I'm bad. Oh, you just

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Speaker 1: don't enjoy them. I overthink them. Before I get there.

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Speaker 1: But I'm able to, like I can turn it on

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Speaker 1: and like I know how to behave in a social setting,

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Speaker 1: but internally I have to prepare for it before I

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Speaker 1: get there. Yes, Okay, So I found this very interesting.

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Speaker 1: So I asked Becca to be my date to this

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Speaker 1: brunch on Saturday. I had no idea what we were

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Speaker 1: getting ourselves into. I don't know if I thought it

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Speaker 1: was gonna be like a sit down brunch. And so

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Speaker 1: Becca tells me of her thought process before she goes,

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Speaker 1: and I found it so interesting, So if you could

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Speaker 1: please share. Okay, First of all, I can't be the

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Speaker 1: only one who does this. I there has to be

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Speaker 1: other people who do this, because I think it's something

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Speaker 1: for people who don't like social settings. There's probably a

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Speaker 1: lot of preparation mentally for it. Um. But in my head,

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Speaker 1: I was thinking, we're sitting down at this brunch. Everywhere

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Speaker 1: I go with Tania, everyone knows Tanny and she talks

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Speaker 1: to everyone and I sometimes and I'm fine, like just

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Speaker 1: sitting there. I'm I actually enjoy sitting there and no

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Speaker 1: one talking to me. But I thought I was thinking,

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Speaker 1: if someone sitting on the other side of me and

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Speaker 1: this person? Or would they rather me not? So, like

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Speaker 1: I go through this battle of like I have to

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Speaker 1: take the social cues, like are they are they wanting

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Speaker 1: me to stop asking questions such as where are you from?

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Speaker 1: How many siblings do you have? Because that always comes

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Speaker 1: up for me. You know, it's like do you like

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Speaker 1: Gray's anatomy? This goes through your head, like how much that's?

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Speaker 1: How much time do you spend thinking about It's not

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Speaker 1: it's quick, it's brief. It's like like on a drive

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Speaker 1: over there, right, yeah, sure, But I just love that

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Speaker 1: that went through her head because when we get there,

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Speaker 1: it's very much not a sit it's gonna say hold

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Speaker 1: on here. I would have okay. Once we got in,

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Speaker 1: I liked the set up a lot more. We got

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Speaker 1: There's like a buffet and drink, so that I liked that.

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Speaker 1: But right when we walked up there was a carpet,

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Speaker 1: and I talk about anxiety. I was like, do I

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Speaker 1: have to do this? And Tony kind of like I

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Speaker 1: like we do we need to? It was just a

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Speaker 1: bad That part really stressed me up, I know, but

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Speaker 1: I just thought it was so interesting that you have

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Speaker 1: this whole conversation about how this event is going to

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Speaker 1: has that thought go through their mind? Is this person

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Speaker 1: How do I get out of this? Yeah? Like I

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Speaker 1: don't necessarily want to be asking these questions, but I'm

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Speaker 1: being polite. But are they? Would they rather me just

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Speaker 1: shut up? That's like what my brain. That's everybody thinks, like,

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Speaker 1: is it time for me to get out of here? Well,

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Speaker 1: when you start talking about like playing the saxophone in

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Speaker 1: think I'm reaching for topics there, speaking of saxophone. Do

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Speaker 1: you follow Jennifer Gardner on Instagram? I do not. She's

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Speaker 1: my favorite follow right now and she's walking the chicken. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I've never been indifferent about her, just in different like yeah,

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Speaker 1: via Instagram. Yeah, yeah, I highly suggested anyway she plays.

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Speaker 1: She was like a band geek in high school. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The band geeks are rock stars now the band geeks

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Speaker 1: rule the world. Yeah. Yeah, good to know. I played

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Speaker 1: the saxophone in fifth grade. I don't know if you

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Speaker 1: And it's kind of something that seems impressive, and you were,

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Speaker 1: as someone who's in the music industry, did not seem

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Speaker 1: like I used to play every instrument end of the sun.

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Speaker 1: So like, how well, like I was first chair. That's impressive.

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Speaker 1: How many years did you play too? Fourth and fifth grade?

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Speaker 1: You still play now? I bet it would be like

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Speaker 1: riding a bike. Come right back to me. Can we

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Speaker 1: get a saxophone here? Yeah? I mean like my parents

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Speaker 1: But I got first chair, so someone was there were

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Speaker 1: some skewed lines there. Someone was wrong. It doesn't surprise

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Speaker 1: me that they're good because I feel like you're a

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Speaker 1: really good athlete. Those are not They don't together. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: in fact, nothing doesn't relate more. Okay, that's where my

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Speaker 1: brain goes. That's yeah, that sums you up really nicely. Um,

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Speaker 1: Let's so recorded that. We did the podcast, then I

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Speaker 1: went home and then Ashley I invited me to go

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Speaker 1: to the Justice League premiere. I'm not like a huge superhero,

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Speaker 1: like you know, I've never been interested in the comics

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Speaker 1: or anything. But gal Gado is a wonder Woman and

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Speaker 1: And Ashley and I both have an obsession with gal Gado,

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Speaker 1: and so she was like, do you want to go

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Speaker 1: It was like, we'll stand admire her until it was

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Speaker 1: not a stalker, you know what. There was a lot

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Speaker 1: I just felt like I'd be bothering her. So then

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Speaker 1: you're not working on the batchelor anymore, but what are

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Speaker 1: talking to literally the president of Israel, right right right.

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Speaker 1: She compluted my outfit in our makeup. She was like

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Speaker 1: her assistant Katie is she like loves her and was like,

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Speaker 1: I think she really is. She does some like saving

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Speaker 1: the most real celebrity I've ever seen. Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: be friends because you weren't weird, right. I was a

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Speaker 1: but I know you're meeting your hero. Okay, well here's

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Speaker 1: a question for you. If Gal Gadot was next to

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Speaker 1: on your raft, who would you save? Wow? Is Galgado

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Speaker 1: wonder woman or she? She's Gal it's gallant because it's strong,

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Speaker 1: like she could fend off some Like what so you're

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Speaker 1: gonna take out on the float with you? Wait, I

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Speaker 1: feel like and leave Pink to drum. Wait no, I

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Speaker 1: my advantage if I'm stranded. Oh so you take Pink

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Speaker 1: out of the water and like gal drow like you're okay,

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Speaker 1: I hate this game and I don't want to play anymore.

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Speaker 1: How about I just throw myself into the ocean. That's

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Speaker 1: They're good for the world's golf now, I mean, but

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Speaker 1: Mereteth Gray, Yeah, difference story. Yeah, it's a different story. Yeah. Wait.

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Speaker 1: Wait that leads us to leave this to the next

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Speaker 1: conversation about the new person in your life my puppy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's not person person in your life. No, he's just

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Speaker 1: a new like soul. I don't know. He's a living creature,

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Speaker 1: A man. Yeah, speaking of sticking to what you know, Um,

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Speaker 1: Tanya Tebow, it has a beautiful ring to it, you

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Speaker 1: know it really does. I have a question about celebrity

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Speaker 1: crush it because we know Tanya has one on Tim Tebow. Okay,

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Speaker 1: is it infatuation if you haven't met the person? Have

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Speaker 1: you met him? Yeah? Okay, yeah, I have no idea

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Speaker 1: you've met him when like years ago he spoke at

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Speaker 1: a church conference that I went to in Seattle, And actually, hi,

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Speaker 1: I'm Tanya Hi, I'm Tim sparks sparks were flying. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if sparks were flying, but I have recently

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Speaker 1: come back to this. I say, sometimes it's timing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like I don't know why it like hit me. I

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Speaker 1: can't remember. I feel like somebody suggested it to me

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Speaker 1: and I was like, yeah, Tim Tebow is actually really

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Speaker 1: really great. And it turns out that last night, so

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Speaker 1: we went to the amm As and we got invited

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Speaker 1: she's like new mom. And I had work in the morning,

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Speaker 1: so we kind of politely decline, and uh, my girlfriend

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Speaker 1: texted me last night and she is just like a

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Speaker 1: lot of eleven PM. So I'm like out cold, and

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Speaker 1: she goes, I guess who's sitting at the table next

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Speaker 1: to me? And I said this morning. I was like,

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Speaker 1: who is it? And she said it starts the tea

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Speaker 1: and I was like no, and she said, yep. Literally

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Speaker 1: I could have my Jacob knows him, my brother in law,

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Speaker 1: I could have I yeah, I guess what. I was

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Speaker 1: taking my little puppy out for the seventeenth time. To

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Speaker 1: be I really could not believe it. And so I

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking of other ways to reach out because we've

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Speaker 1: tried to get him on the show and it has

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Speaker 1: not happened. So I was going to try and get

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Speaker 1: my number two. I haven't tried that hard to get

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Speaker 1: him on. Okay, Well, I was thinking of different getting

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Speaker 1: different ways because I feel like it's something like I'm

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Speaker 1: getting a lot of um people supporting the cause. People

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Speaker 1: really like supporting this cause. So I'm like, you know what,

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Speaker 1: I should really try this happen. Do we know if

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Speaker 1: he's single or like, do we know anything about interesting

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Speaker 1: and he lives in l A. We think, we think okay,

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Speaker 1: and he is he doesn't go out. There was something

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, he doesn't go out very much. And

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Speaker 1: I was like, is this my guy or is this

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Speaker 1: my guy? Is this a guy or right? I'm all

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Speaker 1: about this. I don't know him, but I'm all about it.

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Speaker 1: From what I hear, he's a great guy. Fantastic guy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and so I feel like, you know, this timing is everything.

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Speaker 1: The timing is right for for Tim and Tanya. That's

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Speaker 1: gonna be as hashtag when you get married. Of Tim

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Speaker 1: Tebow's favorite things here. So let's see how you would

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Speaker 1: match up. Who is your favorite actor? I mean probably

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Speaker 1: got a coptical with Patrick Dempsey on that one. He says,

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Speaker 1: Will Smith, Oh, I enjoy? Yeah, yeah, is your favorite actress?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, what's taking so long? Yeah? I guess

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Speaker 1: I go Galgadote. Well, I bet, I bet your second

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Speaker 1: choice is his. I know who it is. Can I

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Speaker 1: say it? Well, see if she says it, because if

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Speaker 1: she doesn't say it, that it's not meant to be.

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Speaker 1: Who is it? What was your second favorite actress behind Galagadote? Good,

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Speaker 1: there's a there's a soft. It's soft. It's silent, very soft.

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Speaker 1: It's not silent. Jennifer find the audio proof it is

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Speaker 1: Jennifer Aniston. Wait wait, wait, that's wonderful, but let's back

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Speaker 1: it up here for a second. It's good Dote, good Dote.

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Speaker 1: It's a very soft t. She's not French. It's very soft. Becca,

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Speaker 1: you've been using the no it's good. I think it's

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Speaker 1: silent before this interview, before this past. Yeah, that's a

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Speaker 1: big thing. Day. Okay, Hey, keep going, this is fun.

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Speaker 1: Favorite band he lifts two here, one Republic, Rascal Flats,

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Speaker 1: anybody else? Can I say it? Go ahead? I'm going

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Speaker 1: with Old Dominion. Anybody need to breathe? You too? Oh

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Speaker 1: that's a went to their concert and maybe he's not

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Speaker 1: a fan. He's got a ticket. I prefer a man

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Speaker 1: that doesn't enjoy like if if if he liked Demi

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Speaker 1: Lavado as much as I do, I would not enjoy that.

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Speaker 1: That would be the weirdest thing. Yeah, so I like

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Speaker 1: a little different there about his favorite movie Elf? Elf? Really? Hey,

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Speaker 1: old school terribly? But yes, old school? But no, that's

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Speaker 1: o Um. I'm gonna go with uh remember the Titans.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's a great that's a classic guy. Yeah. So

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Speaker 1: nothing there and everything's fine. You're okay with Brave Heart,

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Speaker 1: Brain School Flats. Jennifer Aniston. All this is going so

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Speaker 1: well so far, we just gotta get you all to

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Speaker 1: meet up. Until this point, we're we're killing it, killing

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Speaker 1: the game. Okay, but here's the deal. Yes, you have

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Speaker 1: an event. You and Tim Tebower dating you're like, I

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Speaker 1: only have one plus a one. I guess who my

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Speaker 1: date is? You. Why I excited is God because of that,

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Speaker 1: because I love you and you're my best friend and

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Speaker 1: you're so fun to take as my date, even with

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Speaker 1: like my weird social anxiety that I totally I like

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Speaker 1: your social anxiety great. I feel very confident in Tim Tebow.

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Speaker 1: I feel secure in our relationship. Think it's I think

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Speaker 1: it's better to like bring your friends as your dates

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Speaker 1: to things instead of you know, like I feel like

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Speaker 1: he's going to be like, no, baby, you go ahead

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Speaker 1: and you go with Becca'll be baby. Yeah, he's gonna

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Speaker 1: call it baby. Go to real life now and after

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Speaker 1: It's real. It's real. We're it's real. We're speaking into existence.

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Speaker 1: That's fine. I'm totally for that, but it's not totally

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Speaker 1: real yet. Just so we all we're on the we're

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Speaker 1: on the cusp. Yeah, we're right on the cusp. Um.

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Speaker 1: of you so you can put them with mine? What's

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Speaker 1: send my thank you notes for my wedding. The things

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Speaker 1: so I didn't even know what a slava was till

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Speaker 1: this weekend. Yes, I like saying it. It's a very

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Speaker 1: significant day in my family's life. Um. It's a day

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Speaker 1: that we celebrate every single year and with a big party. Um.

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Speaker 1: And this year, my mom invited lots of single men

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Speaker 1: real life Tinder where like wherever like she yeah, Like

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Speaker 1: she was like, if you have a son or a

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Speaker 1: nephew or somebody that is single for my daughter, your

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Speaker 1: mom made you the bachelorette for the night for the night. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I would like to say it worked because I'm

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Speaker 1: a really awesome guy. Without getting into the weeds and

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Speaker 1: the details of who he is to my parents, we

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Speaker 1: totally hit it off. And so he's a doctor. I

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Speaker 1: love that he's a doctor. Fully was like, oh no,

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Speaker 1: I go, I think I could scrub it on a

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Speaker 1: certain I watched so much Gray's Anatomy I think I

615
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Speaker 1: could scrub it on the surgery and he was like,

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Speaker 1: oh really, I fully take out my phone. I'm showing

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Speaker 1: him picture the Beck and I in our strips. Wow.

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Speaker 1: Am I the only one in the room wondering where

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Speaker 1: this leaves Tim Tebow like, I don't no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: wait no wait wait wait, but this I like the

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Speaker 1: ending of how things ended that. Yeah, I mean didn't.

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Speaker 1: He didn't get my number anything, but say what he said?

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Speaker 1: It's so good? Are you on Facebook? Oh he's my age? No,

624
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Speaker 1: he's thirty four. That's an old person. I was like, no,

625
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Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not even though I am. I was like, no, okay,

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Speaker 1: this is my favorite part. She said, No, I'm not

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Speaker 1: thinking in that point you Okay, Well can I get

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Speaker 1: your number? And he says Instagram. It's like that's not better.

629
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 1: We need to add this to ask a guy today

630
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 1: because now I'm confused, like, do they not ask for

631
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 1: your number anymore? I think that um To be honest,

632
00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 1: I'm not even counting this as like a strike against him,

633
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 1: because I think you just trying to be respectful. He's

634
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 1: obviously friends with my parents, and I think it was like,

635
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:05,839
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. I'm in your parents home

636
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 1: and I don't want it to be awkward, and I

637
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 1: thought it was like, actually kind of nice. Um, so

638
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not totally ruling it out. I think that, like,

639
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 1: you know, your mom couldn't have handed out your business

640
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 1: card to everyone as they left, and if you'd like

641
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 1: to reach Tanya. My best part, The best part is

642
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 1: my mom was like, we can get his number in

643
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,360
Speaker 1: you and I was like, no, nobody's tracking down his number. Like,

644
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 1: I'm going to do this myself because I'm an adult

645
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 1: and I can figure it out. Can we call him

646
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 1: right now? I don't know his number? Your mom? Your

647
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 1: mom invited a person over for dinner that she doesn't

648
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 1: have their phone? Numb No, my mom has it, but

649
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 1: we are not. I'm not getting I'm gonna I'm gonna

650
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 1: find this man like a normal human being Instagram. Yeah No,

651
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:45,320
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. You got me too excited about Tim Tebow

652
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 1: to be excited about this guy. I know it's fine.

653
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,360
Speaker 1: We're still in the love. I love the doctor aspect.

654
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: So if it comes around full circle and he does

655
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 1: find you on Instagram, slash Facebook, I fully support it.

656
00:37:57,160 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: But I'm team Tim Tebow nicknames, so we can check

657
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: back next week and how things are going. I suggest

658
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:11,360
Speaker 1: Dr Slava. Oh, it kind of sounds like Dr Saliva,

659
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 1: but I like Itva looks pretty good Doctor Slava. Yeah, okay,

660
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 1: I love that too. Um. I want to read some emails.

661
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 1: I want to get into the ones where we like

662
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 1: actually maybe help people. But I also want to read

663
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:30,319
Speaker 1: this one first from Megan asked Tanya if she could

664
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:33,840
Speaker 1: only have twenty budget for a date, what would she do?

665
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 1: And then she says, have a fab leek, eat lots

666
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 1: of junk food and don't work out. Okay, I actually

667
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 1: have a really good suggestion for you, Megan. You go

668
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 1: to the grocery store. You buy twenty dollars worth of

669
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 1: cheese and meats and breads, and you put it in

670
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: a nice little basket and you get a blanket, and

671
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 1: you go down to the beach and you have a

672
00:38:55,840 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 1: wonderful little She lives in Ohio. You go to the park.

673
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 1: It's cold there. You go where she lives or it's

674
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: not one thing that says she lives. Yeah, I know,

675
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 1: but you're assuming we need all options. Cold everywhere a

676
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 1: park or cold everywhere else? What do you do? When

677
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:18,440
Speaker 1: it's cold, though we don't have cold. What if you

678
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 1: get go to the grocery store and you spend the

679
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 1: twins and you go back to somebody's home and you

680
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,319
Speaker 1: make dinner together. Yeah, you make dinner together. I think

681
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 1: going to the grocery store buying groceries and just spending

682
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 1: that time going somewhere and making like a little spread

683
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 1: is cute and festive and fun. Do you like the

684
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 1: idea of a first date being at your house? No?

685
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 1: I mean I hate it. But she didn't say first date.

686
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 1: I just I threw that out there is like her

687
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,799
Speaker 1: bonus a stranger or first date with someone you've known

688
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 1: for like a really long time stranger. I think it's

689
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 1: different if you end up at somebody's house, But like

690
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 1: starting off out, I think is the way to go,

691
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 1: like the safe route. You don't know where this tender

692
00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 1: dude came from. Totally the only date people I know,

693
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 1: and I pre for my house. No, not the house

694
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 1: is not the move. This is also something you know

695
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:08,320
Speaker 1: we should talk to at some point on this podcast.

696
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 1: Is my roommate Rachel Grossman, Because that girl is a

697
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: dating machine. Yeah, and she like crushes it and leaves

698
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 1: the house guys fall in love with her. I'm like,

699
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: what is going on at the same time, like we

700
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 1: don't even put her, Like we to each other as

701
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 1: our dates, to everything, we go with each other's dates,

702
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 1: and then we turned down the opportunity to go out

703
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 1: and go to like a social dinner afterwards. Like it's

704
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 1: not like, oh, we're putting ourselves out there, nothing's happening.

705
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 1: It's like we're not. It's so true. But we should

706
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:41,799
Speaker 1: call her anyway, because I do feel like she really

707
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:43,800
Speaker 1: kills the dating game. She really does. She could have

708
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 1: some good advice for our listeners, I think, and for us,

709
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 1: which is basically like get out of the house, like

710
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 1: get out of your sweatpans and actually try dating app

711
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, um, did you watch Gray's Anatomy? No? I

712
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 1: actually did, not telling you that we're done with her,

713
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:07,719
Speaker 1: You're not. This is the last episode until yeah, oh no,

714
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: there's a new one on. Thanks. Yeah, I'm going to

715
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:15,400
Speaker 1: soap this out for a while. We only have one

716
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 1: episode until January. Are you gonna watch it? Like halfway through?

717
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 1: Like what do you? I'm still I'm still rationing out

718
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 1: stranger things because I don't want that to be I

719
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:25,879
Speaker 1: can't talk about Grays and do you know everyone, does

720
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:29,360
Speaker 1: anybody else do that? Always to watch the finale of

721
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:34,560
Speaker 1: Gilmore Girls, because I just can't do it, y'all. My

722
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:38,319
Speaker 1: podcast is talking about Gray's anatomy is one of our

723
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 1: main things, and I can't even discuss this last episode

724
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:45,320
Speaker 1: with you. I might wait until January to watch it.

725
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 1: No one's gonna care, like want to know our opinion

726
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:52,759
Speaker 1: on it anymore. I don't want it to be over

727
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:57,880
Speaker 1: until January. Watch it again, come January. Fine, tell me

728
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 1: what happens. I can't. It's so good, you can tell me. No,

729
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 1: it was good. Spoiler alert. Okay, we can talk about this. Okay.

730
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 1: It was the best episode this season, the season, I

731
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: think so, from as far as me being like into

732
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 1: it and when it was over being like that hour

733
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 1: flew by. This is high praise coming from beck at

734
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 1: Tilly who has been the past. Don't you don't have

735
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:29,439
Speaker 1: like the feelings of like, oh my gosh, like my heart,

736
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 1: but it's like it's like intense, yeah, and the cliffhanger is, yeah,

737
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,959
Speaker 1: what's the hager? You're you have to watch it today

738
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 1: and then text me spoiler alert, just say it. No,

739
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 1: I don't want to. It's so good. Also, I'm we

740
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 1: can talk about this. Jackson and Maggie has to end

741
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 1: and is that stole thing they're trying to and it

742
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 1: is so not there. I've never been less interested in

743
00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:04,760
Speaker 1: a couple in my entire existence with in real life anything, anything.

744
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:08,479
Speaker 1: I just cannot with the two of them. Um, yeah,

745
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: that is just it. It's not even there's no chemistry,

746
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:17,759
Speaker 1: there's no like good storyline. It's weird because they're like

747
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 1: kind of somewhat intertwined and related or something like that.

748
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 1: Weird Brady Bunch. Wait, let's give some advice to these

749
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 1: no I like people. From Abby. It's kind of interesting. Okay,

750
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 1: I like Abby, and then maybe do Samantha next. Okay,

751
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 1: So from Abby, Hi Becca, I have a question for you. Recently,

752
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 1: my boyfriend and I broke up after two years due

753
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 1: to him snapchatting my younger sister some very inappropriate things.

754
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:42,399
Speaker 1: I've vented a lot to my best friend and ended

755
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 1: up finding out that she told everything I told her

756
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:47,840
Speaker 1: to her boyfriend. Her boyfriend then told my ex everything

757
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 1: that I had said. Her and I are no longer

758
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 1: on speaking terms. She has recently tried to reach out

759
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 1: but I'm just not sure if I'm willing to be

760
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:59,439
Speaker 1: friends with her again. Well, first of all, yeah, yeah,

761
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 1: can somebody like where do we start notes for me?

762
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:03,799
Speaker 1: Why do I have a hard time following that her

763
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 1: boyfriend screwed her with her sister and her best friend

764
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 1: screwed her over Yeah, so her best friend her best friend,

765
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:13,840
Speaker 1: she like vented to her best friend about it, and

766
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:17,320
Speaker 1: then his best friend told the boyfriend told her boyfriend,

767
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 1: who was friends with the boyfriend who did inappropriate? Why

768
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 1: would he snapchat her sister? That's like the one thing

769
00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:30,320
Speaker 1: you don't do that is so creepy, like in my

770
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:32,800
Speaker 1: sister's if I was like, like if Robert was like

771
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 1: creepily snapchatting my sister's and like's so gross? Can you not?

772
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 1: You know what? This is actually good thing? I was

773
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 1: gonna say, like, maybe you get a fresh start from

774
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 1: the people, Abby, But I think you have to be

775
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 1: careful who you share information with, right because you have

776
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:54,880
Speaker 1: to think ahead to the chain that could develop, true

777
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 1: because you got to know whoever you vent to is

778
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,479
Speaker 1: going to tell their partner and the is that okay

779
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: with you? Because if it's not, you shouldn't tell them.

780
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:05,320
Speaker 1: But what's interesting is that if if that's if my

781
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 1: boyfriend and I broke up for that reason, and then

782
00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 1: I vented to my best friend and said anything about him,

783
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,279
Speaker 1: whether it's bad, the ugly, whatever, and he found out,

784
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:15,719
Speaker 1: I'd be like, good, I hope you know it right.

785
00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:20,400
Speaker 1: Excellent points by the both of you. Let's recap Mark said,

786
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:23,359
Speaker 1: which I'm going to pay attention to. If you tell

787
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:27,440
Speaker 1: someone something, no, they're going to tell their significant Becca

788
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,360
Speaker 1: is also accurate and saying who cares that the this

789
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 1: dude went to her ex boyfriend because what he was

790
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:38,800
Speaker 1: doing was so creepy. Yeah, so yeah, Abby, you win. Yeah, Abby,

791
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 1: I think you're the winner out of all this. And

792
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,240
Speaker 1: I know, just I'll be getting some new friends because

793
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 1: maybe she she could forgive the best friend. I'm toying

794
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:51,360
Speaker 1: with that. If she's like a great best friend, and

795
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 1: maybe she just was so upset. We don't know. We're

796
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:56,800
Speaker 1: not in the weeds on this. Maybe she was so upset,

797
00:45:56,880 --> 00:46:01,920
Speaker 1: like I cannot believe Mike was snapchatting Mary's sister, Happy's sister.

798
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 1: I mean, she's so upset that she tells her boyfriend

799
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 1: and and says to Bob or whoever, how dare you

800
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:13,719
Speaker 1: what I'm saying about? Dude? You know, Yeah, I'm going

801
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 1: to forgive the friends. Okay, I could get I could

802
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 1: get nice. It is more than saying it makes me

803
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 1: think of that one Taylor song. What did she say

804
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 1: because forgiveness? Because forgiveness it's a nice way to do.

805
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 1: I cann't say that. Okay, this is what we can't

806
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 1: have nice things. I don't say because forgiveness is a

807
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:47,719
Speaker 1: nice thing to do. I can't even say the straight fan. Wait,

808
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:50,880
Speaker 1: is that I'm on the song? Yeah? Also, saying forgiveness

809
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 1: is kind of overrated. Yeah, so Taylor Swift, we solved

810
00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 1: Abby's problem. Yeah, let's go to Samantha. Samantha, Okay, you

811
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 1: can read. Okay, I need advice. I'm a single mother.

812
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 1: My son is five years old, so I have a

813
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 1: crush on a coworker of mine. He is two years

814
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,880
Speaker 1: younger than me, super nice and a good guy. He

815
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 1: told me he's liked me. Wait, he told me he

816
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 1: liked me has as well and agreed we should hang out,

817
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 1: but has never set up a day. Also, how can

818
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:23,440
Speaker 1: I tell if he likes me the way I like

819
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 1: him without asking a lot of questions? There Okay, where

820
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 1: do we begin. Do you want me to just well, yeah,

821
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 1: she needs to mark you tell me what you think

822
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:38,959
Speaker 1: some sort of an orchestrated group situation, like, hey, Beck

823
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:42,360
Speaker 1: and I are going to see Rascal Flats? Do you

824
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: want to come with us? Back to Tim Tebow, that's

825
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 1: my best go to on that. I like, I'm all

826
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:51,919
Speaker 1: about that group setting. He's not going to ask you out,

827
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 1: and it's not because he's not into you, because you

828
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 1: established here on this show another podcast. Guys are very

829
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:01,360
Speaker 1: hesitant to do that because it's afraid of rejection. Nowadays

830
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,399
Speaker 1: we're just afraid. And also the coworker thing is part

831
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 1: of it. So yes, she needs to take the lead,

832
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 1: but not in an aggressive way. This scare him off,

833
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:11,359
Speaker 1: create some sort of social interaction. I agree with Amy.

834
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 1: I like a good group setting to figure out to

835
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 1: like feel out the situation. But you know what, over

836
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:22,359
Speaker 1: the like b s and we're all tiptoeing around. Let's

837
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 1: do a group thing. If you like the guy freaking

838
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 1: ask him, I'm like, let's go come with me. I

839
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 1: have I had you need a date for this? You

840
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 1: want to come with me? If he says no, he

841
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:34,799
Speaker 1: says no, then you know if he says yes, then

842
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 1: he's your date and it's great and you can make

843
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 1: out and start a nice, loving relationship. Thank you. Over

844
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 1: the b s of this, it's like we're waiting for

845
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 1: the guys, blah blah blah. Ask him, let's him get

846
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 1: direct the move? You have the direct message. I mean

847
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 1: Tanya's basically asked him out. She's put this on the

848
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 1: air on multiple show, every show she works on. It

849
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 1: will get to Tim Tebow and then it's your move. Sister.

850
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 1: I told Ryan he should d M him, and he

851
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 1: was like, I'd rather have him come in the show,

852
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 1: come in here. That just to me went against everything

853
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 1: you just said. No, no, because the thing is with

854
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:25,040
Speaker 1: direct message is possibly like who checks their direct messages?

855
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:28,360
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't check their direct messages and

856
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 1: then it just sits there in an empty in box.

857
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: Did you know that Pink proposed to her husband? I

858
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 1: love that. Do you remember the story about do you

859
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:42,359
Speaker 1: know actually how the girl that did my makeup yesterday? Pink?

860
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 1: She was at this her parents on like a motorcycle company,

861
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:48,480
Speaker 1: and so she was at the a race where Carrie

862
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 1: Hart was racing, and she saw Pink and went up

863
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:52,840
Speaker 1: and asked her for a photo, and she was like,

864
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 1: hold on, and she held up a sign that as

865
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,520
Speaker 1: he passed by and said will you marry me? And

866
00:49:57,640 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: then she put the sign down. She's like, okay, do

867
00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 1: you want to pick sure? And she's all, you're just

868
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:07,320
Speaker 1: proposed to you Like, I love that. I love that.

869
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 1: You know what, Samantha, I say, make the move, make

870
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 1: the moves know then you move on. Okay, So what's

871
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:19,600
Speaker 1: the new? Give her some more, like, um, let's see

872
00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 1: what's coming up. Maybe there's a Christmas party coming up,

873
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 1: Maybe she has a friend's giving coming up. Maybe she

874
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 1: has some work. Maybe she got an extra ticket to

875
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 1: maybe you can buy two tickets to a concert. She

876
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 1: has an extra ticket and she says, hey, I need

877
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:40,279
Speaker 1: a date for the whatever concert? Sam Smith concert? Do

878
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:43,880
Speaker 1: you want to come? Boom? If he says no, then

879
00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 1: you move on and you bring a front and you

880
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:47,879
Speaker 1: have a good time. And if he says yes, it's

881
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 1: cutting out all the bs. I like it. I like,

882
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,440
Speaker 1: I need a date date you say I need a

883
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:56,759
Speaker 1: date for this? Would you want to come? Because it

884
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:58,759
Speaker 1: kind of takes some freshure off. It's not like I

885
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 1: love you when you go out with me, it's like

886
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:02,040
Speaker 1: I need a day would you want to go? And

887
00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:03,840
Speaker 1: be like if it sounds like fun to him, I

888
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 1: think I'll say yes, yeah, okay. But here's this is

889
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 1: where I was going to ask what you thought about

890
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 1: the date, because would you just be like, hey, I

891
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 1: have an extra ticket, would you want to go with me? Hey,

892
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,239
Speaker 1: I need a date? All phrasing, and how you casually

893
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 1: throw it away If you say, well, you please go

894
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 1: on a date with me. He's heading for the hills,

895
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: but I need a date for this thing you want

896
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:24,359
Speaker 1: to go, he'd be like, oh, yeah, it was like fun,

897
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:25,759
Speaker 1: I want to go. It could be so fun if

898
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:28,440
Speaker 1: it's a concert, it's not like if it's an event

899
00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 1: or something you need like a plus one or a day. Yeah.

900
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 1: That's why I'm hoping she has some sort of Christmas party,

901
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving something not Thanksgiving it the family, but like friends

902
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 1: giving your parents, um, but something like that where you

903
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:43,319
Speaker 1: need a date. Date I think is the better way.

904
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, in case she doesn't have any

905
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 1: of those things coming up, a concert is also a

906
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: good Yeah, but you don't need a date for a concert,

907
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 1: is what I'm saying. Right, But Becca I'm just saying

908
00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 1: I like it, Samantha, do it? I said, I do

909
00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:01,879
Speaker 1: agree with being bold. I applaud you for that. Thank you. Yeah,

910
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:04,040
Speaker 1: But I just don't know if i'd be more like,

911
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 1: if I have a concert, be like, hey, I have

912
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:07,840
Speaker 1: an extra ticket to this concert, would you like to go?

913
00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:12,200
Speaker 1: Or throw out like I need a date well for

914
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:17,799
Speaker 1: this concert that I bought two tickets for. We're gonna

915
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:20,320
Speaker 1: go more with the holiday party or rank giving. So

916
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 1: if you have something where you need a plus one,

917
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:26,440
Speaker 1: you say, hey, I need a date casual It's fine. Hey,

918
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:29,320
Speaker 1: a group of us are going to Olive Garden. Do

919
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 1: you want to come? I'm so supportive Olive Garden. But

920
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 1: I do think if she wants to figure out directly

921
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:42,840
Speaker 1: right then and there, I guess what you have to

922
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 1: know that he might say no, okay, move on and

923
00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 1: you have another day and you're like, this is so fun.

924
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 1: I don't even need this. I love Tanya your strength

925
00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:54,399
Speaker 1: on this. I've done this, yes, except that there's also

926
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 1: been plenty of tears from Tanya, like you're coming across.

927
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:00,440
Speaker 1: I'm proud of you for coming across, Like I am

928
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:03,240
Speaker 1: a woman hear me roar, oh yeah, you're also a human.

929
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:05,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I get my feelings her all the time.

930
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:09,239
Speaker 1: People listening to know that too, because we all take

931
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:12,840
Speaker 1: our lumps. Oh I cry like a baby. I'm like,

932
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:17,359
Speaker 1: I'm like an onion, but we all don't cry, don't. Yeah,

933
00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:19,960
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, they have layers, but they make

934
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:22,719
Speaker 1: you cry, but they don't cry. I like have an

935
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 1: onion in my pocket at all times. I'm like miss

936
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:27,439
Speaker 1: water Works. I get my feelings her all the time.

937
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 1: But you know what, it doesn't keep me down. I'm

938
00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:30,960
Speaker 1: still on the horse and I'm gonna keep going. It's like,

939
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:32,759
Speaker 1: do you guys think you really could do that? If

940
00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 1: you're Samantha, Hey, Mike, let's go be my date. I

941
00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 1: would just I do because I've done it. I've done it.

942
00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 1: How did it go? He couldn't go? And guess what?

943
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:45,840
Speaker 1: I moved right along. I will say that even if Tanny,

944
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:48,960
Speaker 1: even if Tanny gets her feelings hard or she gets upset,

945
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:52,600
Speaker 1: she literally when she says she doesn't let it get

946
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 1: her down for long, It's true. She'll have the moment

947
00:53:57,120 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 1: and then she's back at it, back on the horse,

948
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:05,799
Speaker 1: on the horse, and then I bring yeah, and then

949
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:08,359
Speaker 1: it always comes back to a soft spot to land

950
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:11,920
Speaker 1: the guy that she asked doesn't work out. She she

951
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 1: has me a football is your icon, but I didn't

952
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:19,399
Speaker 1: pick that. Oh I'm like, okay, wow, I'm really getting

953
00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 1: into this tem debot thing. She was like, a football

954
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:26,279
Speaker 1: is her icon to log into her computer. Yeah, this

955
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:30,240
Speaker 1: is not my own choosing. Okay, but maybe should leave it. Okay.

956
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:33,359
Speaker 1: So the holidays are coming up. My skin changes during

957
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 1: this time of year, and last year actually during this

958
00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 1: time is when my skin like freaked out and I

959
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 1: was in full panic mode. Ya. I remember this vividly.

960
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,840
Speaker 1: Um So actually felt really bad because I think, like,

961
00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:48,759
Speaker 1: your skin is something and it's like your face. I

962
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 1: always thought people were being dramatic when they're like I

963
00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:54,080
Speaker 1: didn't even want to leave the house, but I really

964
00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:58,359
Speaker 1: did get him, like so much. I think about it. Yeah,

965
00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:00,359
Speaker 1: and you think everybody that's out there staring out when

966
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:02,400
Speaker 1: really they're not. But there that's all you can think

967
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 1: about totally. Um So. Bio Clarity is something I've been using.

968
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 1: It's something that used twice daily. It's a three steps

969
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970
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Speaker 1: gluten free, imparabin free and anything that is like natural

971
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:22,040
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972
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973
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974
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Speaker 1: the restore Gell is the green one has the chlorophyll

975
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Speaker 1: product in it that takes out the redness. It's like

976
00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:38,920
Speaker 1: very soothing and calming. And then, um, that's my favorite

977
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:40,320
Speaker 1: part of it, just because I feel like when my

978
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:43,879
Speaker 1: skin gets so dry, That's that's what I wanted. Yeah,

979
00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:45,320
Speaker 1: you know where I feel like they would sell this

980
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:49,160
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981
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:55,560
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986
00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 1: always talk about it, I know, but it's so good.

987
00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:14,640
Speaker 1: I know, That's what I'm saying. It's the same feeling

988
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:16,800
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989
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:20,520
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990
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:24,440
Speaker 1: so don't forget. It's bioclarity dot com and the code

991
00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:29,600
Speaker 1: is Becca that's b c A. You really like came

992
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 1: in with me on those today. Thank you like really

993
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:35,520
Speaker 1: pushed me along. Yeah, well, pep in the step. Hey,

994
00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:40,040
Speaker 1: everyone loved Janel last week? Yeah, yeah, that's not I know.

995
00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:42,800
Speaker 1: I mean it was just really I feel like she

996
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 1: was just open, like an open book and really flowed

997
00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 1: with us. It was fun. Okay, Dean, we need you

998
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 1: right now. We're doing it. Ask a guy question and

999
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:55,000
Speaker 1: normally we do colors, but we have you live in studio,

1000
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 1: live in the flesh. You know, Dean is such a

1001
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:03,800
Speaker 1: beautiful man. Remember when we were friends. How are you? So?

1002
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:07,160
Speaker 1: For the record, I've sent Becca probably like six consecutive

1003
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 1: messages on Instagram and have gotten one response. I got

1004
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:12,879
Speaker 1: my first response today. Are you sick? By the way,

1005
00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 1: I'm a little nasily, so I'm sorry for the boys.

1006
00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 1: I won't be kissing you today at all. It carries

1007
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 1: over to every other day. I'm very sassy today too

1008
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 1: because I'm a little uh, he's not, he's under the weather.

1009
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:27,760
Speaker 1: The weather. So I'm gonna be say, I'm just gonna

1010
00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:29,760
Speaker 1: get straight to the point. Then we won't waste any

1011
00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 1: of your times or your voice. Um. Okay, So we

1012
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 1: have an email from Jessica, and it says, what does

1013
00:57:34,840 --> 00:57:36,840
Speaker 1: it mean when a guy send you flowers after they

1014
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:39,040
Speaker 1: break up with you? Is it just a friendly form

1015
00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:42,080
Speaker 1: of closure. I've asked several of my girlfriends and guy friends,

1016
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:44,920
Speaker 1: and they are all puzzled by his intentions. Interesting, Well,

1017
00:57:44,960 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: every breakup is different, so obviously you can't say, um, certainly,

1018
00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:50,000
Speaker 1: but I've done that before. I've sent flowers to a

1019
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:52,960
Speaker 1: girl that I've recently broken up with. UM, it depends

1020
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 1: on it. I don't know how how you maybe want

1021
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:56,600
Speaker 1: to negotiate the breakup. Some people want to break up

1022
00:57:56,600 --> 00:58:00,160
Speaker 1: and never have conversations or anything again with that person. Uh.

1023
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:02,440
Speaker 1: I personally like to value like friendships and all that

1024
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 1: kind of stuff after relationships. So you know, say it's

1025
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 1: an ext girlfriend's birthday, if you guys are still friends,

1026
00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 1: I think it's a nice jess you're to send that

1027
00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 1: person flowers because at the end of the day, like

1028
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 1: you still value their friendship. Did you break up with her?

1029
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 1: I'm sure that yes, Yeah, I guess. Is that kind

1030
00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 1: of like leading someone on though? I guess yeah, because

1031
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 1: it was your decision to end it, and so like

1032
00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:28,320
Speaker 1: you're sending flowers that were just like that whole getting

1033
00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:30,840
Speaker 1: flowers is so nice anyway, Gosh, i'd feel like he

1034
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 1: wants to get back to you. Yeah, he's probably going

1035
00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:35,840
Speaker 1: to propose me next year. I mean two weeks ago,

1036
00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:38,560
Speaker 1: I came into the studio and gave Amy flowers because

1037
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 1: I value her as a producer and as a friend.

1038
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 1: That's a I mean, that's a good point. So to

1039
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:47,840
Speaker 1: answer this girl's question, I think that he's probably trying

1040
00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 1: to keep her on her string. That's thank you, That's

1041
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 1: what I wanted to say. And she should confront him

1042
00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:55,640
Speaker 1: and be like, what the hell is the meaning of

1043
00:58:55,680 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 1: these flowers and answers now talk again? Or is the

1044
00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 1: move to just not even acknowledge the flowers and just

1045
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 1: be like I would put them on my table and

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00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 1: like not even Instagram story then don't snapchat story that

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00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:12,080
Speaker 1: don't even acknowledge that they happen. Yeah, oh that's the move. Huh?

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00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 1: Would that drive you nuts if I don't know how

1049
00:59:14,400 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 1: she feels about him? Yeah, I would drive me nuts

1050
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 1: for sure. He's an exp reason girl, don't go back, Jessica.

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00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 1: There's another possibility here, especially if it's smaller town or

1052
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:25,680
Speaker 1: smaller group. Maybe it's college It could be image control,

1053
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 1: because when you break up, she's gonna go to everybody

1054
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:30,560
Speaker 1: she knows. Oh, he's the worst. I can't stand that guy.

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00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:32,880
Speaker 1: He's the worst. She gets flowers. Well, maybe he's not

1056
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:35,720
Speaker 1: that bad, and if there's somebody else in her world

1057
00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 1: that he wants to, maybe maybe he's interested in. He

1058
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 1: doesn't want his image tarnished, and flowers are helping that situation.

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00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 1: That's so interesting. I wish we knew more details, like

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00:59:44,040 --> 00:59:48,520
Speaker 1: who where they're from after he broke up with her. Yeah, interesting,

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00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:51,000
Speaker 1: I think Mark. I think Mark's making Mark makes an

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00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:55,240
Speaker 1: incredible point too. But what about closure? Like closure such

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00:59:55,280 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 1: an interesting thing to know. You have to get closure

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00:59:57,320 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 1: on your own. Yeah, that's exactly right. I know this

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01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:07,959
Speaker 1: because I lived at you guys, Because you can't see

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01:00:08,040 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 1: someone that you once had these emotional feelings for and

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01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:14,480
Speaker 1: get you know, you're never gonna get closure by talking

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01:00:14,600 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 1: to the other person. It has to just everybody should

1069
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 1: write that, sang that. Say it again. You'll never get

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01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 1: closure by talking to them. You have to get it

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01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:27,960
Speaker 1: on your own. Wow, describe that more. What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Dean, it's so obvious. Take a closure

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01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 1: with talking to them break up a personal things to

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01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:38,920
Speaker 1: personal thing, because because I was searching for years for

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01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:44,360
Speaker 1: my closure of this relationship, I guess what it's Even

1076
01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:46,160
Speaker 1: if I talked to him now, I would never get

1077
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:48,920
Speaker 1: the closure that I needed from him. It was closure

1078
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:51,240
Speaker 1: I needed on my end. That makes sense. Well, so

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01:00:51,360 --> 01:00:53,200
Speaker 1: here's my thing too. Whenever I break up with someone

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01:00:53,320 --> 01:00:55,320
Speaker 1: or someone breaks up with me, I don't carry those

1081
01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:58,160
Speaker 1: feelings very like I don't hold grudges very long. So

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01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:00,640
Speaker 1: say I get dumped by a girl three weeks later,

1083
01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:02,600
Speaker 1: if she's like, hey, I want to be friends, I'd

1084
01:01:02,600 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 1: be like, all right, that's fine. So maybe this guy

1085
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:08,120
Speaker 1: is the same way to where he's like I I

1086
01:01:08,160 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 1: don't know. I was thinking without without what that means

1087
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:16,960
Speaker 1: you've never had true heartache? Yeah, oh, I for sure

1088
01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 1: have had true heartache. But then if you've had true heartache,

1089
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 1: how can you just be friends with the person. It's

1090
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:25,720
Speaker 1: like stabbing yourself every day because I'm resilientous, this is

1091
01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:35,439
Speaker 1: this is a clean Okay. I think that's the guy's

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01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:37,560
Speaker 1: perspective on it is the guy A guy maybe is

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01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:39,600
Speaker 1: able to move on very quickly, and so that might

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01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:42,680
Speaker 1: just be a gesture of either image control, or he

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01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:45,560
Speaker 1: just wants to express that he's still cares about that person,

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01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:47,440
Speaker 1: because you don't have to date that person to to

1097
01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:50,960
Speaker 1: still care about them, right. But I I had a

1098
01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:53,360
Speaker 1: guy friend who every time he broke up with a

1099
01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 1: girl was like cold, like did not talk to her.

1100
01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 1: Like he was like, I know, it's much easier for her,

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01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 1: and so in his mind he was like, I I

1102
01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:03,640
Speaker 1: just like have cut it off. As she texts me,

1103
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:06,080
Speaker 1: I don't respond because I know it's harsh, but I

1104
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:08,480
Speaker 1: know it's better for her. I think that's the nicest

1105
01:02:08,520 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 1: thing anybody could ever do. Like, and I know that

1106
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:13,000
Speaker 1: that sounds so cruel, but I think it's the nicest

1107
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:15,280
Speaker 1: thing that you can do, because I I know from experience,

1108
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:17,280
Speaker 1: if somebody breaks up with you and then they're texting

1109
01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:19,280
Speaker 1: you constantly and like setting you photos like oh this

1110
01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:21,479
Speaker 1: this like made me think of you. It's like why,

1111
01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 1: like stop talking to me, please, like let me get

1112
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,120
Speaker 1: to the point where you were like two months ago.

1113
01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:28,920
Speaker 1: But then let's say that Let's say that you and

1114
01:02:29,000 --> 01:02:31,000
Speaker 1: that person are in like a similar friend group or something.

1115
01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:33,720
Speaker 1: So in Los Angeles, you and this X are bound

1116
01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:35,880
Speaker 1: to see each other at you know, common times that

1117
01:02:35,920 --> 01:02:37,840
Speaker 1: you share with your friends. Then I feel like that

1118
01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:39,440
Speaker 1: kind of adds a dynamic to where you almost have

1119
01:02:39,480 --> 01:02:42,680
Speaker 1: to be friendly with them because you're not gonna Yeah,

1120
01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:44,520
Speaker 1: if you're with a group, you don't have to sit

1121
01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:47,280
Speaker 1: and talk in the corner with that person, right, Dean,

1122
01:02:48,280 --> 01:02:50,880
Speaker 1: so good to you. I feel like the exception, not

1123
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:55,760
Speaker 1: the rule. Sassy today too. He has like a vibe

1124
01:02:55,800 --> 01:03:04,600
Speaker 1: about him. Yeah yeah, d xbo like, yeah, thanks for

1125
01:03:04,680 --> 01:03:10,439
Speaker 1: having me. That was good though I liked. I liked

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01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 1: both of those. I liked marks about the flowers. I

1127
01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 1: thought that was smart. One of the theory if he

1128
01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:19,080
Speaker 1: cheated on her and he feels guilty about that, flowers

1129
01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:23,680
Speaker 1: are not enough then but she doesn't know. Oh, it's

1130
01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:30,880
Speaker 1: his own guilt guilty that gave me like more feelings.

1131
01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:43,400
Speaker 1: And Gray's Anatomy has the last like season. You know, Oh,

1132
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:47,400
Speaker 1: I feel like there's other things we didn't cover today.

1133
01:03:47,880 --> 01:03:50,800
Speaker 1: There's always It's always that way. Guess what the beauty is.

1134
01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 1: We'll be backing back. I'm going to write it down

1135
01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:55,320
Speaker 1: because I just remember, I know I need to write

1136
01:03:55,360 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 1: my notes, things that I think about. Let's wrap it

1137
01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:00,200
Speaker 1: up with one more thing, because our communication, we need

1138
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:04,480
Speaker 1: to work on our communication the pronunc name. Hello, my

1139
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:10,920
Speaker 1: name is Mark. You're such a winner. I hate being

1140
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:14,360
Speaker 1: a loser, but like I accept defeat. Yeah. I actually

1141
01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:16,560
Speaker 1: knew Mark was right the whole time because we had

1142
01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:18,760
Speaker 1: to do it for wonder Woman. We had to say

1143
01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:22,280
Speaker 1: it right. Yeah. Great, Well someone lied me because I wouldn't.

1144
01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:24,560
Speaker 1: I would have been like, that's gal gat it, like

1145
01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:28,640
Speaker 1: if I just read it. Someone told me the wrong

1146
01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:33,040
Speaker 1: thing at one point. UM, thank you to sweet little

1147
01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:37,920
Speaker 1: deany baby for stopping by. I hope you feel better. Um,

1148
01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:40,040
Speaker 1: thank you for listening. I feel like we all there's

1149
01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:42,600
Speaker 1: always things that we need to talk about and we forget.

1150
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:45,320
Speaker 1: But the good news is we will be back next week. Sure. Well,

1151
01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:47,480
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1153
01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:55,680
Speaker 1: time we have a new episode. My mama, my grandma

1154
01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:58,360
Speaker 1: wanted to ask where she can watch us, so we

1155
01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 1: had a little lesson. UM, leave us a review. We

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01:05:02,240 --> 01:05:05,440
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01:05:08,560 --> 01:05:11,880
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1159
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Speaker 1: We'll be back next week. And until then time of

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Speaker 1: death one pm. Yeah.