Speaker 1: Are you really asking me that? I'm surprised you didn't
Speaker 1: already answer for me. I wouldn't have ever, bitch, please
Speaker 1: one thing about lick. She's gonna be like, because yeah,
Speaker 1: because Drea be, I.
Speaker 2: Think you're a lot, but I think it's a ball
Speaker 2: of fun. I am a ball of fun. I like,
Speaker 2: but did you die?
Speaker 3: Though?
Speaker 2: Like that's all that really matters if we said die?
Speaker 3: I'm I'm I'm still here here.
Speaker 2: What's up y'all?
Speaker 3: Show Girl Alex p And it's Sugarl Dre and the Cold.
Speaker 2: You are tuned in to another episode of Poor.
Speaker 3: Mine, where a drunk mind speaks sober today, I ain't
Speaker 3: got no guests today. We ain't got no guests today.
Speaker 2: You know what?
Speaker 3: I had read a comment in the YouTube things this morning,
Speaker 3: and it bade me really happy because it was a
Speaker 3: girl I was like said she was basically like, listen,
Speaker 3: y'all always want to complain. She said something like, y'all
Speaker 3: need to stop complaining when they have guests, because if
Speaker 3: you are a true poor crew member, you like it
Speaker 3: whenever they have guests or not. Period.
Speaker 1: It's that period you ain't that I feel like, And
Speaker 1: I've said this before, like I think both episodes eat.
Speaker 1: I think that the guests episodes be good. I think
Speaker 1: that the solo episodes be good. I don't know, like
Speaker 1: I get it though, you know, I think every guest
Speaker 1: is not gonna it's not gonna be like Everybody's forte,
Speaker 1: you know. But at the end of the day, I
Speaker 1: still think that even if you aren't a super fan
Speaker 1: of somebody that's a guest, you could find a good
Speaker 1: look niggie or or a good little gym in the episode. Like,
Speaker 1: I still think they'd be good episodes, you know. And
Speaker 1: I think that one thing I like about us is
Speaker 1: that I think like we kind of bring something out
Speaker 1: of people where people get to really see people's other side.
Speaker 3: Okay, so I'm glad you said that because you remember,
Speaker 3: you know, my nephew O and be ps yeah, b P.
Speaker 3: He has a song that's going viral on TikTok right now.
Speaker 3: Really it's one of his like songs that came out
Speaker 3: in like twenty seventeen, and I just love that for
Speaker 3: I said.
Speaker 1: Go ahead, nephew, yeah few And I seen him at
Speaker 1: the airport. I can't remember if I said that on
Speaker 1: the show, and I I'll see him at the airport
Speaker 1: when I was going to LA and he said so
Speaker 1: he was like, hey, I love him, and we like
Speaker 1: ran towards ease.
Speaker 2: It was like a movie.
Speaker 3: You know what I've always wanted to do in slow motion.
Speaker 3: I've always wanted to like have a dramatic like airport scene.
Speaker 3: I told you, I lived my life like a wrong com.
Speaker 3: And I always pretend like I'm doing something important, Like
Speaker 3: even if I'm walking to the bathroom, I'm like, everything
Speaker 3: has to be drama girl. Okay, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: I need somebody to drop me off at the airport
Speaker 3: and be like I'll be back.
Speaker 2: I'll be waiting for you, and.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be like I have to go. I just
Speaker 3: let me go, please, I can't do this.
Speaker 1: I definitely feel that way too. I think we talked
Speaker 1: about that on the episode with de Vel. I definitely
Speaker 1: feel like I live my life like I'm in a movie.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta romanticize things.
Speaker 2: It makes it exciting, Yeah, it does.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 2: It's just I think main character energy. Okay, that's what
Speaker 2: it is. That's what it is.
Speaker 1: More so because it ain't even necessarily a rom com like,
Speaker 1: I just always feel like I'm being recorded. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: it's just like and I'm just always kind of looking around, waiting,
Speaker 1: always trying to make sure you got my best side.
Speaker 3: Just looking like you're doing something, because I do feel
Speaker 3: like that. I feel like when I'm walking through the airport.
Speaker 3: Even if this is why it's hard for me to
Speaker 3: like go out to eat.
Speaker 2: By myself and do things alone. I do do it now.
Speaker 3: But I always just feel like people are watching me.
Speaker 3: Like I always feel like everybody staring at me. Like
Speaker 3: I was at the bar the other day, y'all, and
Speaker 3: I'm so dramatic, like I was going through something. So
Speaker 3: I'm just sitting at the bar taking shots and I'm
Speaker 3: kind of like, you know it, my father was at
Speaker 3: that place, you know, I was was it?
Speaker 2: It wasn't it was bright and early.
Speaker 3: We had a bar that night, dude. I still have
Speaker 3: the clips from that. Maybe I'll send it to Hobby
Speaker 3: so he can enter it in the episode so they
Speaker 3: can see that was the night of time. So yeah,
Speaker 3: I was at the bar and I'm like taking my
Speaker 3: shots and I'm just like wiping my tears and I'm
Speaker 3: like somebody's gonna walk up to me and like, hey, beautiful,
Speaker 3: Do you need anything? And I was just gonna look
Speaker 3: up and it was gonna be like, yes, you know
Speaker 3: who it was. That's like, hey, are you okay? I
Speaker 3: looked up. No, somebody really is happy? Yes, yes, absolutely,
Speaker 3: he was like, hey, is everything okay?
Speaker 2: And I was like, it's my moment?
Speaker 3: And what happened? Who was he? I looked up?
Speaker 2: There was an all bad white man that could be your.
Speaker 3: You don't get your gass back, that might be your savior?
Speaker 3: Oh well, I was so mad.
Speaker 2: Remember you have some characters, yes we have.
Speaker 1: We don't have some characters in our life for real,
Speaker 1: for real, we always had.
Speaker 3: But it was fun though.
Speaker 1: Like, honestly, I wish sometimes that I could go back
Speaker 1: to being that young and carefree because I feel like,
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, I do still have like a
Speaker 1: certain element of being care free because I just think
Speaker 1: that's who I am, truly, Like, I just don't take
Speaker 1: a lot of shit that series. But I just feel
Speaker 1: like when we were younger, we was really living life
Speaker 1: on the edge, doing anything and everything, like the first
Speaker 1: to doing nothing in something at the same damn time.
Speaker 1: That's how you know we haven't mental telepathy.
Speaker 3: Oh that was a big one.
Speaker 2: That's a good one.
Speaker 3: I really feel like.
Speaker 1: We do be having telepathy though, because like we always
Speaker 1: know we could just look at each other and like
Speaker 1: know what the other person thinking.
Speaker 3: We be like we we like the type of friends,
Speaker 3: like we can have a full blown conversation without saying
Speaker 3: without saying nothing, and we not m okay okay okay.
Speaker 3: So but yeah, I like to romanticize my life. I
Speaker 3: thought I was finna have my like big moment, have
Speaker 3: like this guy come up to the bar and be
Speaker 3: like you you need saving, and I mean.
Speaker 2: He wanted what if he wants?
Speaker 3: He did. He wanted me so bad because I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: I'm fine. And then like I got on the phone,
Speaker 3: I was like arguing on the phone side like went
Speaker 3: up and I got outside.
Speaker 2: I was like going off. And so when I.
Speaker 3: Came back, I didn't go sit at the bar again
Speaker 3: because it was too many people at the bar. So
Speaker 3: I went and I sat at a table and he
Speaker 3: turned his whole chair around. He was like, I'm just
Speaker 3: like he was looking for you. What's that Enrique Glacia's song?
Speaker 3: I cann't be he that's what he was seeing. He
Speaker 3: was trying to be your hero.
Speaker 4: I will stand by forever.
Speaker 1: He was trying to be your hero, and look what
Speaker 1: if you missed out on your blessing? Do you ever
Speaker 1: think that though? Sometimes like imagine all the niggas you'd uncurved.
Speaker 1: I remember, imagine all the men you'd uncurved, and one
Speaker 1: of them was supposed to be my.
Speaker 3: Hood, your man. Can I ask you something now that
Speaker 3: you said that, you know, I think about.
Speaker 2: That, all the niggas at the gas station.
Speaker 3: I have a Okay, I ain't never seen nothing at
Speaker 3: the gas station I passed up.
Speaker 2: Maybe you have. But let me ask you this, though,
Speaker 2: Say somebody DM you right.
Speaker 3: And he's like a good contender, like somebody you actually
Speaker 3: would deal with, but you're not, like you're not trying
Speaker 3: to deal with him right now because maybe you're in
Speaker 3: a relationship or something else and you're in your relationship,
Speaker 3: you're happy and stay like you know, y'all end up
Speaker 3: not making it. Mm hm. Is there a time limit
Speaker 3: on when you can respond to the DM.
Speaker 1: No, you can respond five years later if the spirit
Speaker 1: moves you.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I feel that I feel like whenever.
Speaker 2: Ain't no such thing as missed opportunity.
Speaker 3: So if the DM is still there like you can
Speaker 3: be like, oh, hey, I didn't see it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I think if something because I feel like
Speaker 1: if something is for you, then it's for you. It
Speaker 1: doesn't matter the time frame, Like at that current point
Speaker 1: in your life when that person reached out to you,
Speaker 1: you wasn't in a space to receive it.
Speaker 3: Like now you in a space to receive it, and
Speaker 3: if it's for you, then it's gonna happen. I don't
Speaker 3: think it's a time frame, like what if it was
Speaker 3: like January and now we're obviously in Like.
Speaker 1: Do you ever think about all the dudes who have
Speaker 1: like three hundred followers who be messaging you, who could
Speaker 1: be my king, who could be your king, and who
Speaker 1: could be rich? It's not even about that. It's more
Speaker 1: so about it ain't about who. It's not about who rich,
Speaker 1: but it is. I think it's not about that, but
Speaker 1: it is at the same time, because like I seen
Speaker 1: something the other day that said money is not the
Speaker 1: most important thing, but it's up there with oxygen.
Speaker 2: Oxygen is nuts. It is though, I mean I feel
Speaker 2: that I.
Speaker 3: Think for me though, it's not even about the amount
Speaker 3: of followers you have, because I don't pay attention.
Speaker 2: To a lot of DMS. It's about like what you say.
Speaker 3: So I cannot remember the last time somebody slid in
Speaker 3: my DMS and was like they said something really good
Speaker 3: and I was like, Okay, let me see what he's
Speaker 3: talking about. But I feel like.
Speaker 1: You definitely don't if you go to a nigga page
Speaker 1: and he following like three thousand people that he got
Speaker 1: two hundred followers, he was not as funny you're lying,
Speaker 1: You're not gonna respond. Well, I need to know this, Tyler, tyl,
Speaker 1: you wouldn't respond either.
Speaker 3: With you, they can tell you because there's a reason
Speaker 3: why though, why are you following Oprah Winfrey? Like really no?
Speaker 2: But like because what's wrong with people that follow Oprah?
Speaker 2: It just be so random? I am offended.
Speaker 3: No, I'm not saying nothing wrong with Oprah, but it'd
Speaker 3: be like some why are you following like Martin Lawrence
Speaker 3: on a Tuesday?
Speaker 2: Just because you feel like following?
Speaker 3: Like it being random?
Speaker 2: Martin Lawrence is what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: You following all these like random random people like you
Speaker 3: following Martha Stewart. What's going on?
Speaker 2: He trying to learn how to guardian?
Speaker 3: I just feel like it'd be a certain like, don't
Speaker 3: get me wrong, I'm not comfortable that I'm fans of
Speaker 3: that I follow, but like you following, Like if I
Speaker 3: see your follow listener's like Steve Harvey, Oprah Winfrey, Martha Stewart,
Speaker 3: Martin Law.
Speaker 1: Damn me catching a straight I follow all of those people. No, lie,
Speaker 1: there's nothing with nobody that you said that I don't follow.
Speaker 3: There's nothing wrong with it, But I just feel like,
Speaker 3: I don't know if I see you following all these
Speaker 3: people and I don't see you like interacting, or you
Speaker 3: don't follow nobody that you know in real life.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: You follow nothing.
Speaker 2: I do follow everybody, I know.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. You follow nothing but celebrities, Like
Speaker 3: why are you following them? You don't even watch housewives?
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Be Cauzanimi is a hoot. I mean, she loves but y'all.
Speaker 3: Was even worse than following like random celebrities is when
Speaker 3: he follow a whole bunch of women that don't even
Speaker 3: follow him back, like you thirsty?
Speaker 2: You're really thirsty?
Speaker 3: Like you following a whole bunch of women that just
Speaker 3: don't What if he just a bad bitch connoisseur. You're
Speaker 3: not a bad bitch connoisseur about doing stuff like that.
Speaker 3: You're not.
Speaker 2: I know, I know.
Speaker 1: When I say connoisseur, I just mean, like, what if
Speaker 1: he just is one of them type of men who
Speaker 1: he just like can appreciate a beautiful or boutiful or
Speaker 1: a bootiful woman. What's wrong with that?
Speaker 3: That is a lot of things wrong with now. I
Speaker 3: will say, if you following a whole bunch of booty models,
Speaker 3: yeah you horny, Like what are you doing?
Speaker 5: You?
Speaker 2: The first thing I see?
Speaker 1: You think they got at least five big booty they
Speaker 1: follow there?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm okay.
Speaker 3: And it also depends on how she looks too, because
Speaker 3: there's one, you know, that big booty girl. I'll be
Speaker 3: talking about that. Bet, I know, I know what, I
Speaker 3: know what toilet hate to see her coming.
Speaker 2: But it's like, if you follow that was very discriminatory.
Speaker 3: It's not I'm talking like it because it's come on now,
Speaker 3: there's no I promise you her but it's probably about
Speaker 3: sixty inches in Her waist is probably like twenty seven inches.
Speaker 3: And I'm not kidding, I'm.
Speaker 2: Not being dramatic.
Speaker 3: Waist snatched so, but if like you follow stuff like
Speaker 3: that and it's like the girls that be walking around
Speaker 3: Target and be like picking up mayonnaise, maybe like pick
Speaker 3: up the mayonnaise, well first and foremost, like if you're
Speaker 3: not at my local Target.
Speaker 2: That's what they be doing.
Speaker 3: I've never been.
Speaker 1: To the grocery store and seen nobody doing that. And
Speaker 1: I don't know what I would do if I did
Speaker 1: walk back out and.
Speaker 3: I've seen somebody. Can y'all tell me what if you're
Speaker 3: saying that I've seen the videos, well I have what
Speaker 3: you do? You know? I'm old off that god damn flouting.
Speaker 3: I'm old now, I be, I be. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I love a Shenan again, I love I love a Shannan.
Speaker 3: It's correct.
Speaker 1: I love a little shenanigue. So I might start classing so.
Speaker 3: I don't like that.
Speaker 2: Oh I might start jumping.
Speaker 3: Girl. I ain't at it. I love people who just
Speaker 3: don't give a fuck.
Speaker 2: Not giving a fuck.
Speaker 3: You shouldn't give a fuck.
Speaker 1: If that's how you walking.
Speaker 3: Around Target and booty short so I can see your
Speaker 3: booty hole.
Speaker 1: Okay, but are the people who judging you gonna pay
Speaker 1: your abuse?
Speaker 3: If that's why she paid horine. I don't want your
Speaker 3: booty hole in front of my mayonnaise, not in front
Speaker 3: of myself. It's closed and is sealed.
Speaker 1: No, the aroma, it's the principal why you feel tight,
Speaker 1: y'all know.
Speaker 3: And you walking by what the meat, the meat place,
Speaker 3: the meat be open? You the your twerk Windo made
Speaker 3: it over the counter right into that salmon.
Speaker 2: Now, I don't know what I'm smelling. You are the salmon.
Speaker 1: You are a salmon, les I hear you. But like, no,
Speaker 1: that's how she paid her. She got a rent dude.
Speaker 1: You that's your favorite saying, rent.
Speaker 3: Dude, Rent dooby do. I just think that.
Speaker 2: Rent dooby doo. But I just feel like it's just.
Speaker 3: I don't like them.
Speaker 2: I don't like it in thes what.
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 2: But yeah, that girl has a dookie shooter on her.
Speaker 3: And remember when.
Speaker 1: That man had dm us, I mean, remember when that
Speaker 1: man had emailed us.
Speaker 2: Oh, he emailed me.
Speaker 3: What are you saying?
Speaker 1: I remember he asked me to boo boo and he
Speaker 1: asked me to hold the phone a certain way, like.
Speaker 3: The phone a certain way.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't know why. That was the
Speaker 1: first thing that came to my mind.
Speaker 3: When you said dookie shooter. Yeah, yeah, but it's a
Speaker 3: certain you remember him. And he was for real like
Speaker 3: he sent examples and everything. Who was the girl that?
Speaker 2: And Ry ain't gonna send it.
Speaker 1: Ryan Messy as gonna send it to our group chat, No,
Speaker 1: and damn will I wasn't gonna do this.
Speaker 3: She But you know there's a girl I was on
Speaker 3: the internet that was saying that like she does that.
Speaker 3: She makes videos like like.
Speaker 1: Shout out to mana mana had did a video recently
Speaker 1: and she was like talking to somebody I can't remember.
Speaker 1: She interviewed somebody recently and she was talking to them
Speaker 1: and she was just like, I just oh, we're about
Speaker 1: to have her on the show. I'm gonna say who
Speaker 1: it is, but we about to have her on the show.
Speaker 1: And she was just like, well, I mean, if I
Speaker 1: was gonna doo doo anyways, and he wants me to
Speaker 1: prop the phone up, this is what I was gonna
Speaker 1: do at seven am every morning anyways, Well might as
Speaker 1: well do it with the camera.
Speaker 3: If he's trying to pay me a hot six.
Speaker 2: Honey, oh okay, a hot six hundred. I don't know
Speaker 2: if I could do.
Speaker 3: That just to doodle It don't require a lot of effort. No,
Speaker 3: I just I think I'll stick to doodo in for free.
Speaker 3: Shay said she would is freaky.
Speaker 2: Shane is very freaky.
Speaker 3: I don't think that's freaky. Though I'm not talking about this,
Speaker 3: I'm talking about Shae in general. She'd be like, I
Speaker 3: gotta go T T.
Speaker 1: And then but then though that ain't even a bad part.
Speaker 1: She always come back and report nothing.
Speaker 3: And that's what I'd be about. Shane asked us, crying
Speaker 3: me like, so what you did last night?
Speaker 1: She'd be like, I went home, okay, sh as it's
Speaker 1: funny as fuck.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay. So yeah, so no, you wouldn't do it,
Speaker 3: wouldn't do kie shooting? Nah?
Speaker 1: No, I don't think. I think the price not high. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the price not right enough? Yeah, the price if the
Speaker 1: price maybe maybe maybe this is right.
Speaker 3: But I just it's something in my body that would
Speaker 3: just feel so. But you gotta let out no, because
Speaker 3: you know, when you make a video, you gotta look
Speaker 3: at it to review it.
Speaker 2: I don't want to see that.
Speaker 3: I'm not looking at that. I'm just seeing Okay.
Speaker 2: Anyways, what you been up to girl?
Speaker 3: What's new?
Speaker 2: What's see, What's see, What's new.
Speaker 1: I've just been working. I've been working on a lot
Speaker 1: of different things. I have some new products coming out
Speaker 1: we ready. Yeah, I know, I'm excited.
Speaker 2: Yes, they're really really good. I think everybody's.
Speaker 3: Gonna enjoy them.
Speaker 1: And then I also have like so next year, I'm
Speaker 1: really trying to like come out with new products every quarter,
Speaker 1: which is gonna be a light but.
Speaker 3: I think I can do it. I know you can.
Speaker 1: So I'm really expanded outside of just lip products. So
Speaker 1: like I'm coming out with some new products that are
Speaker 1: not lip products this month, and then the first half
Speaker 1: of next year, I'm coming out with some like.
Speaker 2: Eye products the girls already.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm excited. So yeah, I've just been working on that,
Speaker 1: spending a lot of time talking to my mom because
Speaker 1: I don't know, she's just getting older and I just
Speaker 1: feel like I need to talk to her more. Plus
Speaker 1: she just cracks me ups. Oh, people t be the
Speaker 1: funniest shit ever because it'd be nosy. But you think
Speaker 1: it is so hot to be warm coke, That's what it.
Speaker 3: But every think it is so hid.
Speaker 1: She swear she's spilling tea everything. I'd be like, you know,
Speaker 1: this right in the senior community. I love your mom
Speaker 1: dad to But yeah, that's really mad. I haven't really
Speaker 1: had nothing too crazy going. Yeah, Like I feel like
Speaker 1: I just been really focused on like work, elevating and stuff.
Speaker 2: We have like really exciting announcement, Like we have a very.
Speaker 3: Big announcement, like crazy, I can't wait to talk about that.
Speaker 1: When we can whenever we can finally announce it. But yeah,
Speaker 1: so I just been kind of basking, and I've been
Speaker 1: feeling very gracious and like basking gratitude Earlier today, like
Speaker 1: I was just like I just feel, you know, so
Speaker 1: much gratitude to God for everything that he's blessed me,
Speaker 1: weed everything he's blessed this week on the.
Speaker 3: Flow, who we would have thought, Yeah, we just got
Speaker 3: honored at the what What's Yeah, we did the Media
Speaker 3: Girls Tour. Shout out to Julie. Yes, it was amazing.
Speaker 3: We did a little panel, we did we got honored.
Speaker 3: So it was really like, okay, a full circle moment.
Speaker 3: That was our first award that we've gotten as a podcast.
Speaker 3: So it was just fun to like mix and mingle
Speaker 3: with everybody who's like movers and shakers in Atlanta in
Speaker 3: this space and to be recognized and people like like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, poor Mine's. Like when we walked in,
Speaker 3: everyone was like, oh my god, poor Minds is here.
Speaker 3: So that'd be a good feeling to like step in
Speaker 3: the room and be one of the people that like
Speaker 3: they consider important, you know, like that's a big deal
Speaker 3: to be among your peers and they'd be like looking
Speaker 3: at you, like, oh my god, lex Andre are here.
Speaker 2: So that was a good feeling.
Speaker 3: What else you have going on?
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, I'm so excited.
Speaker 3: So now I'm like winding down the date for the
Speaker 3: love lexp Drop. I know y'all have been waiting, but
Speaker 3: it's been a lot of stuff I've been getting together.
Speaker 3: I'm doing like a whole roll out for y'all. So second,
Speaker 3: you know, you can have something go down the wrong pipe.
Speaker 3: I used to think that was a lie, but it's true.
Speaker 2: It's two pipe. Yeah, it is my sister.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 2: My sister's a respiratory therapist.
Speaker 3: She told me that. Oh yeah. So ever since I
Speaker 3: was a little girl, I've loved being on camera, entertaining
Speaker 3: myself and everybody around me by sharing my thoughts and
Speaker 3: opinions on anything pop culture. For the past few years,
Speaker 3: I've heard your request, but now it's finally.
Speaker 2: Time to deliver.
Speaker 3: Okay, y'all, let's get into the teeth with love lex
Speaker 3: pe tasty. Will we drinking all? I might need another one.
Speaker 2: I do need another one.
Speaker 3: I might take a little shot, another shot. Maybe I'll
Speaker 3: slow down shot girl.
Speaker 2: Do you put the pedal to the metal. Yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Just put a men in my mouth. So excuse me
Speaker 1: if this sounds crazy, but we're gonna call this well,
Speaker 1: since we've been talking about GMS it's going down, we're
Speaker 1: gonna call this going down.
Speaker 3: In the dam right.
Speaker 2: You never know what could come out of that.
Speaker 1: So this one is gonna be you know, fall winter
Speaker 1: kind of themes where we're getting some of those seasonal tastes.
Speaker 2: On the palate.
Speaker 1: We have whatever spirit of choice, a little bit of
Speaker 1: orange liquor. We have some pear juice or pear puree,
Speaker 1: whichever one you can access at home, a little bit
Speaker 1: of pomgran and juice, and just a splash of lemon juice.
Speaker 1: And then for dreas, we topped it with a little
Speaker 1: bit of champagne just to give a little carbonation, little bubble,
Speaker 1: make it cue. You can do like a French seventy five,
Speaker 1: that home type of thing. Then we have rammed the
Speaker 1: cocktail glass with some caramel and garnershit with a pear
Speaker 1: and drizzled some caramel right on top of that.
Speaker 3: Going down, it was did you just pick your fingers?
Speaker 2: That carmel tastes like me? I eat take caramel delight.
Speaker 3: Period. It was good. It is good.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I'll take a shot. I might as well.
Speaker 1: Ooh you couldn't know, might as well. We don't got
Speaker 1: shit else to do, all right, Well, yeah nothing. I
Speaker 1: was just gonna say, today is a very chill day.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're chilling. Today is a very chill day. Oh yeah,
Speaker 3: it's outside and at the end of November it is
Speaker 3: it is.
Speaker 1: But yeah, and I have on like this little outfie.
Speaker 1: Y'all can get it on my LTK period.
Speaker 3: It's real cute. It's like nineteen ninety nine from.
Speaker 2: All of our field.
Speaker 1: Now I'm in find it all many cutes outfits on
Speaker 1: Walmart nineteen ninety nine. Well, you know what, you know,
Speaker 1: we're not supposed to be well you know this before
Speaker 1: that though, Well, Walmart is set up like Amazon, so
Speaker 1: they have individual sellers and stuff on there.
Speaker 3: No they do.
Speaker 1: But I was saying, you know, Walmart supported that men
Speaker 1: come to find out. I mean, honest I bought this
Speaker 1: way before that. But y'all still want to buy it
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Speaker 3: But what's crazy about it is, I mean, if we're
Speaker 3: gonna do it like that, we really can't buy shit.
Speaker 1: We all we can wear is music, beauty exactly.
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Speaker 3: only thing we can wear, though not really for the
Speaker 3: most part.
Speaker 1: What about no, because honestly, I'll be getting my hair
Speaker 1: and stuff from overseas.
Speaker 3: But what I'm talking about, like the clothes, Like if
Speaker 3: you want to go shopping at any of these stores
Speaker 3: in the mall are online.
Speaker 2: Nine times out of ten.
Speaker 3: If it's something that is owned here, it's gonna be
Speaker 3: from somebody who supported Trump, you think.
Speaker 2: So, I know.
Speaker 3: So that's why we don't get me started.
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Speaker 3: about this day because I just think it's interesting, because
Speaker 3: I saw a lot of people perspective on it, and
Speaker 3: I just wanted to kind of give let us give
Speaker 3: our two cents. So I want to talk about being
Speaker 3: friends with or dating a contrarian. Now, if you don't
Speaker 3: know what a contrarian is, the definition is a person
Speaker 3: who opposes or rejects popular opinion. Okay, so somebody who
Speaker 3: just kind of goes against the grain, or somebody who
Speaker 3: was just always disagreeing with things that people have to say. So,
Speaker 3: for example, if you get on Twitter and you are like,
Speaker 3: oh my gosh, I really love blueberries. Blueberries are so good, Well,
Speaker 3: actually you really shouldn't eat blueberries because of X y Z,
Speaker 3: and I don't know why you're eating blueberries when strawberries
Speaker 3: are better.
Speaker 2: That's like what a contrarian is, you know what I'm saying. So,
Speaker 2: have I agree?
Speaker 3: Have you ever dated a contrarian or been friends with one? No, no,
Speaker 3: not really.
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think somebody. I think
Speaker 1: people in the comments will say that I'm a contrarian.
Speaker 3: You think absolutely the funk not. I think I just
Speaker 3: don't be agreeing with people. A lot of the time,
Speaker 3: I think stupid shit, like because what you just said
Speaker 3: in some dumbites.
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying, Like I think, like, for example,
Speaker 1: I think a contrarian and somebody who don't like Beyonce.
Speaker 1: That's just my opinion, okay, because it's like you want.
Speaker 3: To be so different. Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: I think it's people like that.
Speaker 1: But the reason that I said that people will say
Speaker 1: it is because people be like, oh, Drea just always
Speaker 1: want to disagree with Lex, like she's committed to disagree
Speaker 1: with Leix.
Speaker 3: I don't think I'm this.
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm committed to disagree with you, cause
Speaker 1: I think it's a lot of times we could look
Speaker 1: back on Poormonde's history where I have.
Speaker 3: Agreed with you history history we do because it's been
Speaker 3: on for a long time.
Speaker 1: This would be like in television season fourteen.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we definitely Donna like yeah, like Gray's Anatomy, ain't got.
Speaker 1: On us except for the pay the facts. But but yeah,
Speaker 1: like I just feel like, if you look back on
Speaker 1: Pormyane's history, it's a lot of times I agree with
Speaker 1: you because you make valid points a lot of the time,
Speaker 1: and I do be agreeing with you. But when I
Speaker 1: don't agree, I'm very much hard down on me not
Speaker 1: agreeing because that's just how I am.
Speaker 3: It's general, it's not even just a you thing, I think.
Speaker 1: I think it's easy for people to say that when
Speaker 1: they watch us because it's just me and you on
Speaker 1: the college. But I'm like that in real life too,
Speaker 1: Like when I don't agree with shit, I don't agree.
Speaker 1: And maybe it's a tourist in me just being real
Speaker 1: stubborn and like speaking with conviction when it comes to
Speaker 1: my beliefs. But yeah, no, because I feel like if
Speaker 1: something is popular.
Speaker 3: Popular, yeah it's sunger.
Speaker 2: Gunna be passion, I cannot wait.
Speaker 1: To say it's something that is popular and everybody is
Speaker 1: agreeing with it.
Speaker 3: Like I sometimes will agree.
Speaker 1: With stuff too, but then if I don't agree with something,
Speaker 1: I really don't agree with it.
Speaker 3: So this is why I feel like you're not a contrary,
Speaker 3: because I, to me a contrarian is a person who
Speaker 3: listens to speak, and they don't listen to understand. So
Speaker 3: it doesn't matter what you're saying, how many points that
Speaker 3: you're making that are valid, they're not listening because and also,
Speaker 3: I truly believe that when a person is a contrarian,
Speaker 3: they are specific to who they're being a contrarian too.
Speaker 3: I don't think that they're contrarians to everybody. I think
Speaker 3: that if somebody doesn't like you, they're committed to misunderstanding you.
Speaker 2: So like I'll always use online for an example.
Speaker 3: If you never speak to me and you never say
Speaker 3: nothing to me online and the only time you talk
Speaker 3: to me is to disagree with something I have to say,
Speaker 3: it's because you don't like me, and it's because you
Speaker 3: just want to disagree with what I'm saying, just to
Speaker 3: argue with me, because you just don't like me. Versus
Speaker 3: when me and you have conversations, it's not that you
Speaker 3: don't like me, you just probably don't. Lex you wrong,
Speaker 3: or lex I agree with this, or lex I don't.
Speaker 3: We have debates all the time, it's different from literally
Speaker 3: having a debate and literally just fighting everything somebody says.
Speaker 3: And like I said to me, all of that boils
Speaker 3: down to you just don't like that person.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you just don't like that person.
Speaker 3: Because if somebody can say the sky is blue and
Speaker 3: you want to argue with them about it, you just
Speaker 3: don't like that person.
Speaker 2: That'd be hippening in the USMS all.
Speaker 3: The time, all the damn times, start as all the time.
Speaker 1: We could say any fucking thig and they'd be like, actually, no, bitch, somebody,
Speaker 1: that's not true.
Speaker 3: Somebody had kind of tried to start a little something
Speaker 3: something about the deveil episode. They were just like, poor
Speaker 3: Mind's is just not the platform because people can go
Speaker 3: on there and spew misogynistic views and they don't fight back. Well,
Speaker 3: my thing is.
Speaker 1: Is your platform, the platform, invite them on yours. But
Speaker 1: I also just feel that's would I always be wondering,
Speaker 1: like she if you think you can do better.
Speaker 3: I'm not here to change somebody's I'm not a contrarian.
Speaker 3: I'm not here to argue or try to change somebody's
Speaker 3: mind about anything.
Speaker 2: I'm not here to change anybody's mind whom nobody listens
Speaker 2: to anyways.
Speaker 1: Right right, Like a lot of people be saying a
Speaker 1: lot of nothing and nobody cares. Like the only way
Speaker 1: people will even see it or cares if we retweet it. Right,
Speaker 1: So yeah, there's that. But and sometimes I be hating
Speaker 1: to be bitchy like that. But then sometimes I'm glad
Speaker 1: that I'm like that because I feel like one of
Speaker 1: us need to say, give me, one of us need
Speaker 1: to say because people just be having us so fucked up.
Speaker 2: Sometimes. Oh my god, you know what we are?
Speaker 3: We are. We are definitely like Alphaba and Glinda and
Speaker 3: Wicked speaking like we are one hundred percent that Like
Speaker 3: they look at you like the villain, but you really
Speaker 3: are saving the world. You're like Thanos, You're really not
Speaker 3: wrong because Loki, you half of y'all do need to
Speaker 3: be gone. You know what I'm saying, You bitches need
Speaker 3: to be gone. And I'm like, I'm definitely Glinda. I'm like,
Speaker 3: you know, I care about popular. Yeah, you're gonna be popular.
Speaker 3: Yeah that is us to a t.
Speaker 2: It is Oh my god, that is.
Speaker 3: You're different. I think you what, But that's what I
Speaker 3: love about Do I want to shot to Yeah, come on,
Speaker 3: take it with my head.
Speaker 2: I think that's what I love about you.
Speaker 3: Though. I love people like you just when you believe something,
Speaker 3: you stand on business about it.
Speaker 2: I've always said I fuck with people like that. There's
Speaker 2: people on Twitter.
Speaker 3: I won't even shout out right now because y'all will
Speaker 3: probably drag me to the mud.
Speaker 2: But there's certain people on Twitter.
Speaker 3: Or Instagram TikTok that y'all hate because they be saying
Speaker 3: some stupid shit.
Speaker 2: And now do I agree with what they're saying.
Speaker 3: No, But I fuck with how they staying in the
Speaker 3: shit and be like, yeah, I said it. Yeah, I'll
Speaker 3: be saying and ship yo, yeah you do. Yeah. Sometimes
Speaker 3: you'll be saying something I'll be like, bro, shut up,
Speaker 3: and you be like and I said it, I don't
Speaker 3: give a fuck, And I'd be like, bro, but hey
Speaker 3: on Twitter, yes, but you standing in that ship and
Speaker 3: I like it. It'd be cracking me up because you
Speaker 3: don't give a fuck. And I love that about you.
Speaker 3: That's probably one of the main things I really do
Speaker 3: love about you. Like you be like you.
Speaker 2: Don't give a fuck. That's commit That's like I'll be like.
Speaker 3: Commendable, Yeah, yeah, drug because I would because when it
Speaker 3: gets too much, because when it gets he'll be like
Speaker 3: hold on, hold, get hold on, get drug because nus.
Speaker 2: I mean, but I'm saying though, but like I know.
Speaker 1: Like well, because I just I just really feel like
Speaker 1: it's not even that I feel sad for people. I
Speaker 1: I genuinely though, do feel bad for people who care
Speaker 1: that much about other people's like opinions of what they
Speaker 1: think or what they have to say, because that has
Speaker 1: to be exhausting to like live your life based off
Speaker 1: of what you think other people think. Like I'm gonna
Speaker 1: say whatever the fuck I want to say. It's a
Speaker 1: lot of shit. I feel like I don't have like
Speaker 1: super offensive opinions.
Speaker 2: I just don't have. I don't do you do you think.
Speaker 3: I have super offensive opinions. I don't think you have
Speaker 3: that I speak of that I speak about publicly. I
Speaker 3: don't think you have super offensive opinions. I just think
Speaker 3: the life people don't.
Speaker 2: Understand the life you have lived.
Speaker 3: So a lot of times you are looking through the
Speaker 3: glasses of Dre and the cole and you've lived this
Speaker 3: a certain type of life, and people y'all will never
Speaker 3: understand that.
Speaker 2: Unfortunately, some people just aren't relatable.
Speaker 3: And that's okay, you know what I'm saying. Like people
Speaker 3: use this comparison all the time. Beyonce and Rihanna, Yeah,
Speaker 3: Beyonce and Rihanna are both amazing artists, amazing business women.
Speaker 2: They're extremely successful.
Speaker 3: Beyonce has made it this far and she is not
Speaker 3: relatable and that's not a bad thing. That's she's just
Speaker 3: she's been famous. I mean she she was fifteen. I
Speaker 3: tweeted this the other day.
Speaker 1: I retweeted her because somebody was saying they were trying
Speaker 1: to argue that she was relatable when she came out
Speaker 1: with Upgrade You, and so I retweeted the tweet and
Speaker 1: I just was like, oh, and they because somebody else
Speaker 1: retweeted it and was like and they posted a clip
Speaker 1: of the video and they were like, y'all were trying
Speaker 1: to say this woman was relatable because obviously she was
Speaker 1: talking about like expensive ass. She like we didn't know
Speaker 1: about vaccine. And so I retweeted it and I was like,
Speaker 1: I'll never understand people obsession with exceptional people being relatable,
Speaker 1: right see.
Speaker 3: And then on the other end, there's Rihanna. Because Rihanna
Speaker 3: is more relatable to me, I don't think, well, let
Speaker 3: me say, because you're using upgrade You as an example,
Speaker 3: but Rihanna has always been seeing It's like I checked
Speaker 3: in a real all the girls were.
Speaker 2: Hang you on my disease. We sad, but we.
Speaker 1: Talks about but she cut all her hair off and
Speaker 1: she went to a mental breakdown.
Speaker 3: No, I get it. But what I'm saying is Briyonce,
Speaker 3: don't talk to us, which is.
Speaker 2: Not No, it's not an issue. Rian gonna talk to y'all.
Speaker 2: She used to hell yeah y'all. Yeah yeah, but at
Speaker 2: least we can get to it.
Speaker 1: Though. I love Rihanna though, because I always say I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm more Rihanna, I will cuss go as off.
Speaker 3: Out Their experience is your life experiences? Like it gives
Speaker 3: like a Beyonce like you like don't know her, Mariah
Speaker 3: Carey even mm like you're like the the old school diva.
Speaker 3: You think, yeah, you're like the old school. Like when
Speaker 3: we when we are at the pinnacle of poor minds,
Speaker 3: which we're nowhere near, but when we get to that
Speaker 3: to where we're like, okay, this is this is serious,
Speaker 3: it's definitely gonna give like you been been that girl,
Speaker 3: because I mean, you've been that girl. So That's what
Speaker 3: I'm saying. But I think people need to understand it's okay,
Speaker 3: not everybody is relatable, but are you nice. But the truth,
Speaker 3: that's what I think matters. The true essence of intelligence
Speaker 3: is understanding people that are not like you and understanding
Speaker 3: people that you necessarily don't understand.
Speaker 1: Well, what I was gonna say is to me being
Speaker 1: not being relatable, it's like not really the issue. I
Speaker 1: think it's more about who you are at your core
Speaker 1: as a person, Like are you a nice person?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 1: Do you care about people? Are you a decent person?
Speaker 1: Do you treat people with kindness?
Speaker 2: Do you write new twenty one questions?
Speaker 1: I'm I'm just saying seriously, but I don't know, Like
Speaker 1: I think that's the stuff that should more so matter
Speaker 1: than anything else. But going back to my initial question
Speaker 1: that I asked you, you think I have offensive opinions?
Speaker 3: I think there's times that where you said things and
Speaker 3: I get where you're coming from because I know you,
Speaker 3: but i'd be like friend, no, no.
Speaker 5: M.
Speaker 1: But I also feel like you relate more to the masses.
Speaker 1: So I think you have that. You know, but that's okay,
Speaker 1: Like nothing is wrong with that. But I think that
Speaker 1: there's definitely always people who agree with you, And then
Speaker 1: I think it's people who agree with me a lot
Speaker 1: of the time. But I think that majority of people
Speaker 1: agree with you because I think you always kind of
Speaker 1: have like the popular opinion.
Speaker 3: Popular.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you always want to have the popular opinion.
Speaker 1: I think I kind of always I don't want to
Speaker 1: say challenge people's thought process, but sometimes it's just kind
Speaker 1: of like why do you feel that way?
Speaker 2: Or like why do you think that way?
Speaker 1: And I think that's why people could think I'm a contrrian,
Speaker 1: because I be really trying to understand, like, well, what
Speaker 1: makes you think that?
Speaker 3: Well? I always try to look at things from everybody's
Speaker 3: point of view. So I'll give you an example of
Speaker 3: something that you said one time somebody, and this is
Speaker 3: actually gonna get into our second topic. Okay, so let's
Speaker 3: take our shot before I say what I gotta say,
Speaker 3: because it's gonna lead into the second topic. Pop gun.
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't never get this drunk because
Speaker 1: I do when to my dream no matter where I go,
Speaker 1: time have me messed up at OURMANI baby shower.
Speaker 2: I believe it shout out to our money.
Speaker 1: Who Okay, yeah, all right, what's that have to say?
Speaker 3: Sorry? So what I was gonna say was there was
Speaker 3: a time that somebody had tweeted and I'm not quoting
Speaker 3: it word for word, bar for bar, but somebody had
Speaker 3: said something like, ladies, stop thinking that you're gonna get
Speaker 3: the beautiful rich man that has all these things, that's
Speaker 3: gonna take care of you and you live in a
Speaker 3: soft life. It's not happening. That's what she said. And
Speaker 3: then you have retweeted and.
Speaker 2: Was like, why are y'all.
Speaker 3: Projecting on people because it can very much happen. Just
Speaker 3: say it can't happen for you. Yeah, I still agree
Speaker 3: with it. Right, So what I'm saying is I see
Speaker 3: where both energy is coming from. But if we're being realistic,
Speaker 3: the amount of men in this world that are, you know,
Speaker 3: making money look good, are gonna treat you right? Like
Speaker 3: essentially like what every woman wants. The likelihood of the
Speaker 3: average woman having that happen to them and a man
Speaker 3: coming to save them or help them investing them. I mean,
Speaker 3: if we're being honest and real it's not gonna happen.
Speaker 1: Right, But then who's to say, who's it gonna like?
Speaker 1: Who it's not gonna happen to? So, like, you're putting
Speaker 1: this out there into the world because you've accepted that
Speaker 1: these won't happen for you, but like it will happen
Speaker 1: unfortunately or somebody. But the percentage of it is I
Speaker 1: understand what you're saying. As far as percentages that A
Speaker 1: hundred percent friend, I one hundred percent get you, Like
Speaker 1: I get that.
Speaker 3: I think I just hate.
Speaker 1: Negative ass people like people like that get on my
Speaker 1: nerves because they be the people where it's like, okay,
Speaker 1: like life has dealt me bad cards and life is unfair,
Speaker 1: it's gonna have ever happened and this could never happen
Speaker 1: for me, so it's gonna happen for all of y'all.
Speaker 3: Stop making people stop Like I.
Speaker 1: Think that as a woman, as long as you are
Speaker 1: really working on reaching your own goals and you have
Speaker 1: somewhat of a plan and you have a plan and
Speaker 1: you have things that you are trying to do for yourself,
Speaker 1: if that's still something that you think could happen.
Speaker 2: For you, that's okay.
Speaker 3: Like why are you trying to kill people's hopes and dreams?
Speaker 1: Like I hate That's why I hate. That's why I
Speaker 1: hate Twitter, Loki for real or X that this shit
Speaker 1: and should have been named X a long time ago.
Speaker 1: They did to X this shit out, but no, it's
Speaker 1: like why are you getting online being so negative? Like
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, that did not happen for you. Just
Speaker 1: like we've talked about this before on the show. We
Speaker 1: had somebody I said this on another episode comment, oh
Speaker 1: y'all need to have kids in the next two years,
Speaker 1: or like y'all should just not have any Why when
Speaker 1: bitches is out here having kids at forty three, forty five,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that that's gonna be me, because personally
Speaker 1: I don't want to have a kid at all, right, right,
Speaker 1: but at the end of the day, it's women out
Speaker 1: here that are doing it, so you're projecting, okay, you know,
Speaker 1: and then they'd be like I even somebody left the
Speaker 1: comment under one of our videos and they under that
Speaker 1: video it was a club and they were like, cause, realistically,
Speaker 1: most of the time, when you have a child in
Speaker 1: your forties, you're not even gonna live to see them
Speaker 1: be twenty. My mom and my dad adopted My mom
Speaker 1: and my dad adopted me. My mom was forty one
Speaker 1: and I think my dad was thirty nine. My mom
Speaker 1: is still alive. My mom is seventy five. So it's like,
Speaker 1: y'all you didn't eat that, Like y'all are projecting.
Speaker 2: Because my mom had me at twenty.
Speaker 3: And she died sex you know, like you know, I'm
Speaker 3: not and I'm not for no, no, and I'm not
Speaker 3: not that I'm not.
Speaker 1: But I even said that in the comments as a
Speaker 1: rebuttal because it's like, you never know, Yeah, somebody can
Speaker 1: not laughing.
Speaker 2: I'm not laughing, but I'm saying what you're right, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Y'all know what I'm say because you never know when
Speaker 1: someone can pass away. Your mom can have you at
Speaker 1: twenty and not live to see you be thirty or four,
Speaker 1: like it happens all the time.
Speaker 3: So rude, age, rude.
Speaker 1: Yeah it was me, mama, Oh how you gonna check
Speaker 1: out like this?
Speaker 3: Like like what about me? What about to day.
Speaker 2: Or any that had enough.
Speaker 3: Said the good? Okay, but no, for real, y'all.
Speaker 1: I was just saying that to say, like again, to me,
Speaker 1: it's just always projection, and that's what I don't like.
Speaker 3: That's why I.
Speaker 1: Feel like, maybe I mean shit, bitch, maybe I am
Speaker 1: a contrary and a little bit because I just feel
Speaker 1: like pitting y'all.
Speaker 2: Fucking weck.
Speaker 1: It's fugged y'all be having some stupid ass opinions and
Speaker 1: just because it did not happen for you does not
Speaker 1: mean that it can't happen for the next person.
Speaker 2: Like, I just think that's such.
Speaker 1: A negative you even if you do feel that way,
Speaker 1: keep me to yourself, okay, But.
Speaker 3: Bring in the second topic though, because it kind of
Speaker 3: ties into you know, what you were saying, Oh wow,
Speaker 3: because I don't think so, but I bring it in. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well, I just feel like.
Speaker 3: Certain things and I don't want to say that it's
Speaker 3: about like equal or not, but I just feel like
Speaker 3: certain things are ordained for certain people.
Speaker 2: I think so yeah, so so.
Speaker 3: Not every woman is going to marry a man who's
Speaker 3: a millionaire. That's beautiful in this and xyz, But that
Speaker 3: doesn't mean you can't personally be a millionaire, that you
Speaker 3: can't have all these amazing things. You may not just
Speaker 3: have a partner. And I just feel like everybody's path
Speaker 3: is different. But when we're talking about this specific specifically
Speaker 3: with dating you know, men who are well off, that
Speaker 3: kind of leads into the topic of the likelihood of
Speaker 3: it happening. Do you think that delusion is a good
Speaker 3: trait to position?
Speaker 2: It depends on what you're being delusional about. I like,
Speaker 2: what I've learned.
Speaker 3: The way my mind has changed so much in adulthood.
Speaker 3: I'm so I'm loving getting older, like for real, because
Speaker 3: the wisdom.
Speaker 2: That I have Now.
Speaker 3: If I had this wisdom at twenty four, do you
Speaker 3: know how bad I would have already done took over
Speaker 3: the world the way I'm about to take over in
Speaker 3: twenty twenty five is already about to be nuts because
Speaker 3: I have the wisdom. But y'all are so lucky that
Speaker 3: I didn't get to this place at twenty four, because
Speaker 3: y'all gonna be tired of seeing me. So I say
Speaker 3: all that to say, you gotta be delusion about delusional
Speaker 3: about positive things that no matter the outcome is gonna
Speaker 3: be good.
Speaker 2: Like I'm delusive, Yeah I'm, but but someone be.
Speaker 3: Like, Oh, don't be delusional about a man, don't be
Speaker 3: delusional about a relationship, be delusional about where you can
Speaker 3: go in life. You cannot tell me that I'm not
Speaker 3: gonna win an Oscar one day. You cannot tell me
Speaker 3: that I'm not gonna.
Speaker 2: I know you gonna win an Oscar.
Speaker 3: That's why I got weeks. You cannot tell me Channel
Speaker 3: is not gonna reach a billion subscribers. You cannot tell
Speaker 3: me that we're not gonna be paid, Like, you cannot
Speaker 3: tell me nothing about anything that I'm doing career wise,
Speaker 3: because I know how fucking good I am and I've
Speaker 3: only scratched, like y'all have only seen this much of
Speaker 3: my talent.
Speaker 2: So I think it's good to be delusional about certain things.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I think it's great to be delusion.
Speaker 1: I think that everybody who is successful is delusional. I
Speaker 1: would love to have a panel one day, I tell like,
Speaker 1: we gonna get there, though, I would love to have
Speaker 1: Oprah on a panel, Jay Z on a panel. But
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm serious, you cannot tell me that Jeff Bezos,
Speaker 1: all of these like successful ass people, because I really
Speaker 1: feel like it takes a certain level of the audacity.
Speaker 1: The audacity that you think that like it's gonna be you,
Speaker 1: that you're gonna get there, you can make this.
Speaker 3: Type of money, you can reach this pinnacle of success.
Speaker 3: Is Yeah, I think it's a great thing.
Speaker 1: But I said that to say that's going back to
Speaker 1: what I was just saying. That's why I don't like
Speaker 1: people like that, because it's like, let people be delusional,
Speaker 1: even if you feel like a bitch is delusional.
Speaker 3: Let it be delusional. But that's why I said I
Speaker 3: wanted to talk about this because sometimes y'all delusion, the
Speaker 3: energy and the effort has to match the delusion as well.
Speaker 2: Though you do like you gotta be.
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Speaker 1: Anyways, Okay, so I saw a tweet it's like actually
Speaker 1: a few months ago, but I thought it was a
Speaker 1: good topic to talk about. So it said, one of
Speaker 1: the worst lives social media fed black women is that
Speaker 1: they all deserve good and or the same quality of
Speaker 1: men simply because they have a vagina. There's a lot
Speaker 1: of women who are perfect compliments of broke men. All
Speaker 1: women are not created this should be shouldn't be treated
Speaker 1: equally code, And so the topic I wanted to talk
Speaker 1: about is like, all women are not created equal.
Speaker 2: Hmm Okay, this shot got me stuttering.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I would say this before we start this conversation. Y'all,
Speaker 3: don't take shit to heart. These are just in our opinions.
Speaker 3: So the reason that I feel like this is kind
Speaker 3: of right, but also they gonna take it the heart.
Speaker 3: This is right and kind of wrong because first of all,
Speaker 3: I believe that all people men are men are woman.
Speaker 3: If you're a good person. If you're a good person,
Speaker 3: you're putting good energy in the world. I don't care
Speaker 3: how much money you make or not. You deserve to
Speaker 3: be treated with decency, bare minimum. So that I have
Speaker 3: to say that about that because she did say you
Speaker 3: deserve to be treated good. Everybody deserves to be treated
Speaker 3: good if you're a good person.
Speaker 2: That's what I believe.
Speaker 3: And but to say that every person deserves, you know
Speaker 3: this dream.
Speaker 2: Man that's a millionaire, I won't.
Speaker 3: I don't like to use the word deserve, but I
Speaker 3: feel like there's somebody for everybody.
Speaker 2: And going back to some old tea, that's why when.
Speaker 3: The lady came on the show and she was like,
Speaker 3: if you make under fifty thousand dollars, you shouldn't date,
Speaker 3: that was the stupides shit I've ever heard. Because there's
Speaker 3: people for like, there's somebody for everybody. So there's some
Speaker 3: women who may not even want a millionaire because they
Speaker 3: don't want to do the things that it takes to
Speaker 3: do all that. They want to work and they want
Speaker 3: There is a lot of women out there who like
Speaker 3: that partnership.
Speaker 2: They want to go fifty to fifty.
Speaker 3: Stop shaming them now, see taa.
Speaker 5: Ta see what see you see?
Speaker 3: But but you said, I always say, came relate. Okay,
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is there's nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 3: If there's a woman who wants to do fifty to fifty,
Speaker 3: there's a man out there for her and they can
Speaker 3: have a happy relationship and be happy. Oh yeah, So
Speaker 3: there's somebody for everybody. Do I certainly believe that every
Speaker 3: good woman and every good man deserves a good partner.
Speaker 2: But the reality of.
Speaker 3: It is not every person is going to end up
Speaker 3: with somebody who's extremely successful. Even these men out here,
Speaker 3: a lot of these men, they want a successful woman,
Speaker 3: they want a dress, the call, they want alex Pe.
Speaker 3: The likelihood is very slim for them as well. It's
Speaker 3: just slim. It's hard. It's hard. It's like this to
Speaker 3: find Andrea, to find alex or to find a man.
Speaker 3: Whatever men y'all want to use for an example, it's hard.
Speaker 3: So I mean, she's not right, but she's not wrong. Yeah,
Speaker 3: how you feel.
Speaker 1: I think life ain't fair, and I feel like people
Speaker 1: should just start recognizing that number one because people want
Speaker 1: to believe like, oh, if you got a woman who
Speaker 1: work at the peakly Weekly, she's twenty five or she's
Speaker 1: twenty six and she worked at the peakly Weekly, ain't
Speaker 1: no way she.
Speaker 3: Ever gonna meet a millionaire and be with him.
Speaker 1: It'd be happening, though, ask Ambarrose. I don't want to
Speaker 1: really ask her and nothing. But all I'm saying is
Speaker 1: all I'm saying is like, yeah, you said it. I
Speaker 1: concur that's that shot. It's it's a shot, a shot.
Speaker 1: Just blame it on time. It's not like we wiz.
Speaker 2: It ain't even about Wiz. It's about so many other things.
Speaker 2: I just said because he sat on the couch with us.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, yeah yeah, it's about so many other things though.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think that people even with that tweet,
Speaker 1: like it's like, oh, it's so many women who align
Speaker 1: with broke me in. They do, but they still be
Speaker 1: getting them, they still be catching them. One like I
Speaker 1: don't know, Like, I think life just isn't fair. And
Speaker 1: I think when people let go of this idea of fairness, oh,
Speaker 1: they'll be more.
Speaker 2: Accepting when it comes to life. I'm not going.
Speaker 1: I think they'll reach a new level of enlightenment when
Speaker 1: you realize that, like life just ain't fair, Like shit
Speaker 1: happens because whatever you believe in, whether it's the universe,
Speaker 1: whether it's the Lord, everything happens the way it's supposed
Speaker 1: to happen. Your path is your path, and nothing that
Speaker 1: happens is accidental, nothing that happens is by chance. Everything
Speaker 1: happens because it's supposed to happen that way. And I
Speaker 1: think once people let go of the idea of fairness,
Speaker 1: they'll stop being so upset about a lot of things.
Speaker 1: But I think that's what holds so many people back,
Speaker 1: is that, like even what you were just talking about earlier,
Speaker 1: I think that's why people be feeling like sometimes the
Speaker 1: way they be feeling about things that I say, because
Speaker 1: people think everything is supposed to be fair. And I
Speaker 1: think I speak from a place of like, shit ain't fair.
Speaker 3: That is a bar that you said, though I want
Speaker 3: to talk about that, that's a fucking bar what you
Speaker 3: have to accept the unfairness of life.
Speaker 1: Yeah, life is not fair. Nobody ever said it was
Speaker 1: supposed to be fair. Do you feel like it's fairness
Speaker 1: or entitlement that people are feeling though? Like, do you
Speaker 1: feel like people feel in titled to receive blessings or
Speaker 1: these good things or just receiving all the things that
Speaker 1: maybe y'all received but I received. Do you feel like
Speaker 1: people feel entitled to that? I think it's a mixture
Speaker 1: of boat. I think it's a mixture of fairness and entitlement.
Speaker 1: It took for me to really have a deep conversation
Speaker 1: with my therapies to really realize that, like, people feel
Speaker 1: like life is supposed to be fair? Who promised you that?
Speaker 1: Who told you that? Like, I'm not trying to be funny,
Speaker 1: even when you read the Bible? Who told you like
Speaker 1: life is supposed to be.
Speaker 2: Same red revelations? Yeah, that's why we're here.
Speaker 3: She gets ugly. It's getting sticken.
Speaker 1: No for real, But it's like cool, But it's like
Speaker 1: who told you? Who made you feel like that's the truth?
Speaker 1: Everybody's opportunities are supposed to be equal. Even in the Bible,
Speaker 1: it was people who were poverty streaking, and it was
Speaker 1: people who were rich.
Speaker 2: It was kings and it was servants, Like you.
Speaker 1: Know it was kings, Okay, I don't know, but seriously though,
Speaker 1: it was kings. It with servants even in the Bible,
Speaker 1: So it's like that just goes It was slaves and
Speaker 1: it was pharaohs, Like it just goes to show you,
Speaker 1: like life is not life is not fair, and it's
Speaker 1: an unfortunate thing.
Speaker 3: You know, it's not fair.
Speaker 1: But that's just the way the cookie crumples a lot
Speaker 1: of the time. And I do think it's entitlement as well.
Speaker 1: Like people will look at somebody else and they'll be like, oh,
Speaker 1: they've reached this level of success.
Speaker 2: I'm doing the same thing. I'm in the same lane.
Speaker 1: Why haven't I gotten the same praise or the same
Speaker 1: accolades or whatever the case may be. But like, the
Speaker 1: crazy thing about shit like that is And I talked
Speaker 1: to one of my friends about this the other day
Speaker 1: because I was talking to her about something personal, and
Speaker 1: she was just like, you have to stop looking at
Speaker 1: other people online and like.
Speaker 2: Feeling some type of.
Speaker 1: Way about certain things, because you have to remember people
Speaker 1: only posting a good shit. So it's like even with us.
Speaker 1: People look at us, they see how far we came.
Speaker 1: They seen everything that we're doing. Awards we get in opportunities.
Speaker 3: That award you push me, award.
Speaker 1: Bitch, I'm menifesting, i'mfesting. I'm claiming it exactly. But they
Speaker 1: see the things that we're doing, and then they feel like, oh,
Speaker 1: they didn't work that hard to get here, Like why
Speaker 1: do they deserve this?
Speaker 2: And I don't know.
Speaker 1: I've been doing this for ten years. They only been
Speaker 1: doing it for five or six. But you don't know
Speaker 1: what went on behind the scene, don't know my.
Speaker 3: Struggle, so you can't feel my hustle. Boosie said a
Speaker 3: word non he ate that. That's the truth. He did.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying that's real. It is real.
Speaker 1: But I was saying that to say like facts though,
Speaker 1: like people don't know everything we went through behind the scenes,
Speaker 1: and like not even trying to be funny, because I
Speaker 1: feel like we say this all the time on the show,
Speaker 1: but like some of the things I feel like I've
Speaker 1: been through in the past six years, most people would
Speaker 1: have folded and crumbled and would have and would not
Speaker 1: have been able to continue you and carry on in
Speaker 1: their career and do the things that they needed to do.
Speaker 1: But like that just goes to show you sometimes things
Speaker 1: are just ordained and so people be hating on it
Speaker 1: or be feeling some type of way about it, but
Speaker 1: like this is my pad. That's why your feelings and
Speaker 1: however you feeling or whatever you got going on internally,
Speaker 1: can't stop what's going on outwardly with me because this
Speaker 1: was already ordained and it was already a part of
Speaker 1: my path. And unfortunately, to play Devil's advocates, sometimes they
Speaker 1: just ain't a part of your pads. That's why it
Speaker 1: haven't happened for some people. And maybe it's something else
Speaker 1: you should be doing that you haven't found purpose, your purpose,
Speaker 1: your calling, and that's why it hasn't happened. And that's
Speaker 1: why I want to say, like I feel like everybody
Speaker 1: has a purpose.
Speaker 2: It's a blessing to find what your purpose is.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I truly, truly I realized this on the first
Speaker 3: tour we went on. I truly realized my purpose on
Speaker 3: this earth is to make people realize, like stick it out, yeah,
Speaker 3: keep going, laugh, entertain people, make people feel good. Because
Speaker 3: I can be having the worst day of my life.
Speaker 3: This happens every time, which is crazy. I be having
Speaker 3: the worst day and I'll be like, what is the point?
Speaker 3: What is the purpose? And then I don't get like
Speaker 3: a loan paragraph or somebody telling us how we change
Speaker 3: their life and how we make them laugh and how
Speaker 3: we so like you said, like I truly believe, like
Speaker 3: God has showed me, like, hey, Lex, you're supposed to
Speaker 3: entertain these people.
Speaker 2: You're supposed to make them feel good.
Speaker 3: You're supposed to show them that this is what you
Speaker 3: can do if you don't stop, and you keep focusing
Speaker 3: and you keep grinding, you keep working. Because I truly
Speaker 3: believe that everything is possible. Anything is possible. But not
Speaker 3: everybody has that mind frame. It's hard when your brain.
Speaker 3: Your brain is like it's an organ, it's a muscle.
Speaker 3: It's gonna do its own things. So you have to
Speaker 3: have the power over it to control it. So I
Speaker 3: do agree with you on that, though I do like
Speaker 3: certain things, like the path is already there, God has
Speaker 3: that path? Are you gonna follow it? Are you gonna
Speaker 3: pay attention to what's going on? I think whatever is
Speaker 3: meant for you, nobody can stop it. I think that's
Speaker 3: why I don't really live my life in fear. Like,
Speaker 3: obviously it's times in my life where I've been anxious,
Speaker 3: and I think that's a normal emotion that everybody can
Speaker 3: you know, identify with.
Speaker 1: I have definitely been anxious at times in my life
Speaker 1: because you just don't know. Like the crazy thing about
Speaker 1: life is you just never know what's gonna happen next.
Speaker 3: And that's really scary. It's scariest about it.
Speaker 1: But I think that if you if you really hone
Speaker 1: in on having a good relationship with a higher power,
Speaker 1: and it's like, I don't be you know, I obviously
Speaker 1: am a Christian and I believe in God, but I'm
Speaker 1: not really big on trying to push that on our
Speaker 1: platform because I just feel like, you know, like people
Speaker 1: have to, yeah and have their own beliefs, and I
Speaker 1: don't ever want that to be a reason why people
Speaker 1: think they can't listen to us too, because we just
Speaker 1: can't trying to always.
Speaker 2: Push religion on them.
Speaker 1: But like, I just think that if you have a
Speaker 1: relationship with a higher power, with God, whoever you praise
Speaker 1: or whatever, like you gotta always know that things are
Speaker 1: going to get better and things are going.
Speaker 2: To work out in your favor. So do you believe
Speaker 2: all women are created equal.
Speaker 3: No, but I think for different reasons than most people think.
Speaker 1: Though, right, You think it's the mindset. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: it's your mindset. Like I think people be looking at
Speaker 1: surface level stuff like, oh, she work here, she don't
Speaker 1: make this kind of money that this man makes, so
Speaker 1: why would he be attracted to her?
Speaker 2: That doesn't have anything to do with anything.
Speaker 1: That's why you see all the time so many women
Speaker 1: who come from low income, poverty, stricten families, who we
Speaker 1: end up bagging them a multi million dollar men. It
Speaker 1: has a lot to do with so many different factors.
Speaker 1: I don't think all women are created equal. I don't
Speaker 1: necessarily think anybody is created equal. I think God's put
Speaker 1: different strengths and weaknesses in everybody.
Speaker 2: So and I agree to a certain state.
Speaker 3: Like I said, I think all people are created equal,
Speaker 3: but I think people have different paths, and people be
Speaker 3: trying to drive another people lane, and that's where you
Speaker 3: be fucking up at everybody. To me, everybody is created equal.
Speaker 3: But your path for you is over here and it's
Speaker 3: a blessing and.
Speaker 2: It's a great path.
Speaker 3: But you so you can't eat off your plate because
Speaker 3: you're looking at mind you want to do what lex
Speaker 3: P doing.
Speaker 2: You can't do what Lexp do.
Speaker 3: Baby, this ain't for you. You ain't lying, come on now.
Speaker 3: So that's what I'm saying. I think everybody is created equal.
Speaker 3: But social media and the way the world is.
Speaker 2: Now, you like, oh, well look what Drea gott I want.
Speaker 2: That is that what you want?
Speaker 3: Or you just want it because you see where Dre's
Speaker 3: life is at, and that's you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So that's how I mean. You and you could probably
Speaker 1: have it, but you got us. You shouldn't compare yourself
Speaker 1: to me.
Speaker 3: But it's but what I'm saying is you can probably
Speaker 3: have it, but that's probably not even what you really
Speaker 3: deep down inside, won't the want. Everybody's wants are different,
Speaker 3: and that's what I'm saying. But I think sometimes people
Speaker 3: want the same thing they do. But sometimes you want
Speaker 3: something just because another person has it, and then when
Speaker 3: you get it, you're not happy still.
Speaker 2: Because that's not what you really wanted.
Speaker 3: Right, You were trying to do something because you're looking
Speaker 3: at your plate and you need to look at your own.
Speaker 2: What you think, tied? Do you think all women are
Speaker 2: created equal?
Speaker 1: I don't think everyone's created equal. I think that's my earth,
Speaker 1: and I think that starts. I think it starts young too.
Speaker 1: The way you're raised, the people around you, your environment,
Speaker 1: how that shapes informs your opinion, your perspective, your actions,
Speaker 1: your character, and then from there you determine the energy
Speaker 1: you put out the path that I think people can
Speaker 1: choose their own path. Do things happen that you can't
Speaker 1: control and contain, But with those situations, it's about how
Speaker 1: you power through and how you move forward going through that.
Speaker 1: We've lost parents, that didn't stop us. Right right now,
Speaker 1: I've been fired from a corporate job. I got a
Speaker 1: new you know what I'm saying, I've not had money,
Speaker 1: got money, getting more money, So it's like you got.
Speaker 1: It's about, like I said, how the way you start,
Speaker 1: the way your character is formed, the way your mindset
Speaker 1: is built when you're younger.
Speaker 2: I think that also determines.
Speaker 1: How you end up in the world and how you
Speaker 1: put yourself out there.
Speaker 3: I'm interested to see y'all's opinion on this, so y'all
Speaker 3: let us know in the comments, because this is a
Speaker 3: good topic.
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Speaker 1: About about a bow bow. It's make up sex real.
Speaker 1: Are you using sex to cover up the issue?
Speaker 3: I think that a lot of times people use sex
Speaker 3: to cover up the issue.
Speaker 1: I do, yeah, because it's like when you have sex,
Speaker 1: all of those endorphins are released, and I think momentarily
Speaker 1: you think.
Speaker 3: You feel like the problem is gone, but the problem
Speaker 3: still it is still there. You was just horny. And
Speaker 3: that's why I think it's so important to deal with
Speaker 3: a man and be a woman who doesn't let sex
Speaker 3: control you. So if you and your man are going
Speaker 3: through a tough time, I think it's very important to
Speaker 3: back away and be like, stop having sex, because things
Speaker 3: will come a lot more clear to you when you're
Speaker 3: not riding that dick. Because when I ride that dick,
Speaker 3: I don't care about nothing. When I'm riding that dick,
Speaker 3: I'm finna. I know I don't care.
Speaker 1: Well, I don't care momentarily, but I'm not that lie momentarily.
Speaker 1: But as soon as as soon as it's over, I'd
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, cause back to.
Speaker 2: The Yes, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is like, no, because it said
Speaker 1: it's makeup six, are you using it to cover up
Speaker 1: the issue. I don't be using it to cover up
Speaker 1: the issue. It's just like we both horny list go
Speaker 1: ahead that well. Mario said on that song the damn.
Speaker 3: Thing, okay, see you that's no more.
Speaker 2: No, I don't know it.
Speaker 3: What song.
Speaker 2: No, you're trying to get me canceled?
Speaker 3: That is all up on to see baby shown me
Speaker 3: another sexist stuff. Yeah, we're not finna do that. We're
Speaker 3: not finna bump bump bump nothing. They was, they was
Speaker 3: like that, but you didn't do that. They's gonna bump
Speaker 3: bump bump back that child support payment. No, no, no,
Speaker 3: I'm not. I'm getting privy to what's going on. But
Speaker 3: you don't even know nothing about this.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is I but I've dealt with
Speaker 3: the man who like, oh, I'm gonna shut her up
Speaker 3: because I'm a I'm anna, I'm American.
Speaker 2: Blow your mind.
Speaker 3: He thought he was gonna dig me down and make
Speaker 3: me forget what was going on.
Speaker 2: And what was going on.
Speaker 3: It was a lot of bullshit going on. But well
Speaker 3: that I've learned, it's important when you and your man,
Speaker 3: I don't care what nobody says. It's not now there's
Speaker 3: a difference. It's not about punishing your man. I do
Speaker 3: not believing like, oh he not acting right. I'm not
Speaker 3: feinna fuck him. It's not about that. But if you
Speaker 3: were going through a tough time with the person that
Speaker 3: you're dealing with, sometimes it's okay to step back from
Speaker 3: the sexual that's going on, so you can think, right,
Speaker 3: we need getting veritized, the men be getting pussimatized.
Speaker 2: Everybody just.
Speaker 3: It's too much. It's too much. You gotta step back
Speaker 3: and get a clear more tie, you know.
Speaker 2: But am I not right though?
Speaker 1: I just want to go to the bathroom at this point,
Speaker 1: I have to take a break.
Speaker 3: What because that was all right? I'll be right here.
Speaker 3: I'll be right here. I'll be waiting on you.
Speaker 2: I'm not done. I'm not done. This is what I
Speaker 2: have to say. I truly believe that.
Speaker 3: A lot of but we don't like to talk about
Speaker 3: this though. A lot of women they be like wanting
Speaker 3: to use their vagina too, for that. Just like men
Speaker 3: like to use their penis to do things, we like
Speaker 3: to weaponize our vaginas as well. I know that that's
Speaker 3: things that I've done in the past. But I think
Speaker 3: as I get older, I have realized makeup sex isn't
Speaker 3: real unless the conversation has already been had. Yes, So
Speaker 3: if me and you are going through a tough time
Speaker 3: and we haven't talked about it, and you want to
Speaker 3: sweet things under rug and you want.
Speaker 2: To invite me over.
Speaker 3: You got Tito's sitting on the counter, the lights is dimmed,
Speaker 3: You got a pot of beans on the stoves. Them
Speaker 3: chipn't because them chili beans. You know what I do
Speaker 3: off them chili beans? N Then he has sex after
Speaker 3: the beans. Hey, stomach made of steel? Now it okay?
Speaker 3: But I'm saying you showing up with all these good things,
Speaker 3: but we still haven't talked about the issue. Because one
Speaker 3: thing I can say is that people love to throw
Speaker 3: the rug over the dust. They like to sweep shit
Speaker 3: under the rug. And sex is the main thing that
Speaker 3: I feel like people used to manipulate. Sex is a weapon.
Speaker 3: Sex has started wars. Sex is a reason behind a
Speaker 3: lot of times why people are getting murdered. Y'all know,
Speaker 3: I watch a lot of true crime. I watch a
Speaker 3: lots of true crime. Nine times out of ten, somebody
Speaker 3: is getting murdered over some dick, over some pussy. You
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. So I truly believe that makeup
Speaker 3: is a myth that needs to be stopped. Stop trying
Speaker 3: to like cover up the issues by sucking dick, because
Speaker 3: let me tell you, as soon as that man nut
Speaker 3: and you stop, you still gonna want to talk about it.
Speaker 2: You're finna get up on it.
Speaker 3: You're finna take them balls out your mouth, lay on
Speaker 3: his chest and be like.
Speaker 2: So like, did you really like her?
Speaker 3: Or was it like make oh come back. I wasn't done.
Speaker 2: Come on, come on, beautiful, I was.
Speaker 3: It's all right because this is a this is a
Speaker 3: solo episode. We can do what we want. I wasn't
Speaker 3: saying shit. I was just saying, how when you suck
Speaker 3: the dick to cover up the real shit, that ain't
Speaker 3: gonna be it.
Speaker 2: You feel me, you can't do that. You can't do that.
Speaker 3: This is coming from somebody who was like.
Speaker 2: Put it on film.
Speaker 3: Now I gotta turn this niggat so he know, I
Speaker 3: don't know nobody see ty, I'm telling you it's that
Speaker 3: caramel delight. It's real. Though, Oh, what was you saying? No,
Speaker 3: I was saying the same thing we were talking about.
Speaker 3: I was saying, like, sex literally just covers up things.
Speaker 3: It literally just covers up things. Oh yeah, and I
Speaker 3: think that women also, because I like to get on
Speaker 3: the women as much as we get on the men.
Speaker 3: Men weaponize their penis, but women weaponize that. Coachie, you
Speaker 3: be like, oh, I'm gonna put it on this nigga.
Speaker 3: He ain't gonna be mad at me no more.
Speaker 1: No, I be definitely thinking, my nigga, I'll still be
Speaker 1: mad because I'll be on bullshit? Are you really asking
Speaker 1: me that? I'm surprised you didn't already answer for me.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have ever bach please one thing about lex
Speaker 1: She's gonna be like, because yeah, because dre Be, I.
Speaker 2: Think you're a lot. But I think it's a ball
Speaker 2: of fun. I am a ball of fun. I like,
Speaker 2: but did you die?
Speaker 3: Though? Like that's all that really matters if we said die,
Speaker 3: I'm I'm I'm still here here.
Speaker 2: Okay, let's move on.
Speaker 1: Let's move on for if you're still here, then let's
Speaker 1: keeping like I do be cutting up.
Speaker 3: That's it. I ain't even say nothing.
Speaker 5: God damn, Okay, go ahead.
Speaker 3: That's why you should have kept the cameras roll. I
Speaker 3: thought it was.
Speaker 1: I literally said, I'm going to the bathroom.
Speaker 2: But but yeah, no, no, go ahead.
Speaker 1: And you know how you be peeing and you think
Speaker 1: it's about to stop it some more if you like
Speaker 1: like you be thinking that, it's like, oh God, so that.
Speaker 2: Likup be different.
Speaker 3: And once you break the seal, you're fucking cooking. You're okay,
Speaker 3: So add what else you want to act?
Speaker 1: I was just saying, like, I just no, I don't
Speaker 1: think makeup six is real. I don't think that's a
Speaker 1: real thing. I think that you and that nigga are horny, yep,
Speaker 1: y'all fine, and y'all attracted to each other, and it's like,
Speaker 1: this is my man, this is my girl.
Speaker 3: I love you. Let's fuck period.
Speaker 1: But after we're done, we still we still Yeah, don't
Speaker 1: do it.
Speaker 2: I'm still about to tustle.
Speaker 1: The problem is still there, and I think sometimes not
Speaker 1: sometimes all of the time, you just shouldn't.
Speaker 2: But you know what's crazy, Me and my man we
Speaker 2: done took like sabbaticals. Yeah, we have.
Speaker 1: We've taken like two months from from having six and
Speaker 1: we still.
Speaker 3: The problem. I fucking wait.
Speaker 2: Sometimes for us sex do be healing?
Speaker 3: Be glad? I'm really not.
Speaker 1: Actually I love you so actually I take back what
Speaker 1: I said. Sometimes make them sex do be working?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, you have to have sex in
Speaker 2: two months?
Speaker 3: What y'all mean?
Speaker 1: Like if y'all cause, like I said, me and my
Speaker 1: man be we really be taking like real like break
Speaker 1: when we be mad at each other. If you didn't
Speaker 1: have sex for two months and then you finally get
Speaker 1: that they couldie, do you be ready? It's like the frustration,
Speaker 1: gotta let it out. It's like the natural animalistic it is.
Speaker 1: But like I said, I think it very much carnivores
Speaker 1: but a lexus right though, Like you need to make
Speaker 1: sure that it's because she had a monologue about it,
Speaker 1: like you have.
Speaker 2: To make glad.
Speaker 1: I mean that the issue is addressed, addressed, and that's
Speaker 1: the point.
Speaker 3: Like at the end of the day, it feels good
Speaker 3: in that moment, but a week later we're gonna be
Speaker 3: arguing about the same thing. I don't have a clear
Speaker 3: mind after I nut, I don't why not?
Speaker 1: I just don't like that's when you have the clearest clarity.
Speaker 2: I'm like this, remember that shre.
Speaker 3: No, I don't I be snow white walking through the
Speaker 3: forest with my seven dwarfs going.
Speaker 2: To get that dick feeling good.
Speaker 3: I'll bite that apple.
Speaker 2: I'll die and wake up and bite it again. That's
Speaker 2: how good that dick be feeling. I don't need that.
Speaker 1: I need a clear MoInd deck is hypnotizing, That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying.
Speaker 3: I have to I've learned that about myself, though. This
Speaker 3: is something new that I've learned.
Speaker 2: But you're an dipmatizer.
Speaker 3: What is that?
Speaker 2: You can like you be getting digmatized.
Speaker 3: But you know what it is though, I get digmatized
Speaker 3: because it be it goes both ways, how cause I
Speaker 3: be pussimatizing them and we both just.
Speaker 2: Be in this hypnosis state of morning. You know, we
Speaker 2: both be fucked up. We both be.
Speaker 3: Skipping through the forest biting that apple, both of both of.
Speaker 2: M Okay, So now we're gonna get into after that,
Speaker 2: what do you say.
Speaker 3: We gonna get so let us know how y'all feel
Speaker 3: about makeup six. So we're gonna get into the item
Speaker 3: of the week. I'm so excited about this what's the
Speaker 3: email for the item of the week. If you want
Speaker 3: your product featured on the show, please email us. We'll
Speaker 3: put it right here. How we're gonna hook us up.
Speaker 3: So y'all, I'm so excited to talk about this. We
Speaker 3: have a package from the North Side Princess aka the
Speaker 3: One and Only six Red.
Speaker 1: Get it Sexy, Get it Sexy?
Speaker 3: So she sent us her It says, we thought you
Speaker 3: needed new lip.
Speaker 2: We thought th h o T you need a new lip?
Speaker 1: So Sexy Red has a lip loss line and it
Speaker 1: don't drop until November twenty nine.
Speaker 3: But this, well this probably drops the same weekend. Maybe
Speaker 3: I don't know. Oh yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: But first and foremost the girl after my own heart,
Speaker 1: because them are my favorite snacks. LEX know my felt
Speaker 1: yours first. This is my favorite candy ever. This is
Speaker 1: my I love that probably hummy worm you do and
Speaker 1: I love it.
Speaker 2: But you love the berries, the berry I do like.
Speaker 1: The berry ones bitter, but yes, another butter I'm about
Speaker 1: to eat.
Speaker 3: I love butters. And then them.
Speaker 2: I don't know he's flavored.
Speaker 3: I don't know, but they seem a little small, they
Speaker 3: very small. I don't know if I latex condoms are
Speaker 3: intended to prevent pregnancy, HIV, A, and other sexually transmitted infections.
Speaker 5: Okay, hold on, Oh yeah, put it up to Mike.
Speaker 5: You gotta hold on. Go ahead, what's up?
Speaker 3: My friends say six.
Speaker 1: Up and make you feel like the baby you is
Speaker 1: my personal favorite and blue brows, but she really all
Speaker 1: love me if you me enjoy.
Speaker 3: Thanks for supporting me and my kids.
Speaker 1: I'm weak and exciting kids. Mama sexy red period, Thank.
Speaker 3: You girl, I'm you sexy Red. So sexy Red has
Speaker 3: her lip gloss line. I'm not gonna try them on
Speaker 3: right now because I don't feel like taking them out.
Speaker 3: You need to you.
Speaker 2: You only got no loop gloss nowhere.
Speaker 3: I know, I know, I don't, so let me just
Speaker 3: read the soul. These are the names of her lip glosses.
Speaker 3: Are you ready?
Speaker 2: Can I ask you a question?
Speaker 3: First?
Speaker 2: How did you come up with the names for your
Speaker 2: lip glosses?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 3: What was the process you went through? I don't know,
Speaker 3: I don't even know. I feel like I was high.
Speaker 1: That's interesting, Yeah, come back, which I never smoked weed, right,
Speaker 1: but I was hot when I came up with the
Speaker 1: I like that names of my lip glosses.
Speaker 3: I was okay, say for.
Speaker 2: Moment, I like that. That's actually a good story.
Speaker 3: Yeah. The names of her lip glosses are I think
Speaker 3: it starts from I don't know which way. Oh oh oh.
Speaker 3: If you don't read the god damn okay. So is
Speaker 3: coochie juice, booty whole brown, this is nut, this is
Speaker 3: pussy hoole, pink yellow discharge, gonorrhea, blue balls.
Speaker 2: And sex on my period. Now let me see booty
Speaker 2: whole brown.
Speaker 3: Booty hoole brown is the second one. It's given like
Speaker 3: a light. But let me say this. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 3: I don't like blue balls it's given or era of
Speaker 3: the lipstick. I don't think colored lipstick is anymore. I
Speaker 3: don't know how they show up. Let me try pussy juice.
Speaker 3: That's booty whole brown. Yeah, I want to try body
Speaker 3: hoole brown. But I will say I like the package
Speaker 3: in my tribe. I like the packaging.
Speaker 2: It's giving, like look how influencers do. It's given like.
Speaker 3: I feel my bootyhole brown.
Speaker 2: It's cute though, y'all see it's cute. It's given like
Speaker 2: the beauty salon, the beauty.
Speaker 1: Store of Liveloss, which I love, and it's male good
Speaker 1: it does tastes good too, it doesn't. I'm sorry, flavor,
Speaker 1: this is what it does. It smells really really good, y'all.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, and he goes on real juicy.
Speaker 3: Yeah you like it.
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It's not a deep color. It really is just so
Speaker 1: it's more like it is more of a gloss.
Speaker 3: I'm not mad at this. I love it. Get it.
Speaker 2: Sexy kid is sexy. Okay, this is cute.
Speaker 3: Yeah it's cute. I like Couchie. I like Coochie Juice,
Speaker 3: Couchie Juice. I'm taking this home for sure.
Speaker 2: Not gotten a rig can stay here.
Speaker 3: You know you are funny as hell for these names Sexy,
Speaker 3: But I'm not mad. I think your I think your
Speaker 3: lip gloss line will do well. I don't want drop
Speaker 3: my lid, but.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like Coochie Juice.
Speaker 3: It's clear.
Speaker 2: I like to keep it on the safe side.
Speaker 3: So yeah, thank you, Thank you. Sexy.
Speaker 2: Come on the show now we waiting up, y'all.
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Speaker 3: Not that much. We're having a ball.
Speaker 2: This is a good I'm having a ball.
Speaker 3: Fiery. My favorite artist dropped another song. Who is your
Speaker 3: favorite or? And I always used to talk about her,
Speaker 3: but she hasn't dropped in a while, so it was
Speaker 3: hurting my feelings. But she she dropped Tiana Major nine
Speaker 3: dropped a single called alone. I just love her. I
Speaker 3: want to give her all the support and love. She's
Speaker 3: just an amazing artist. Her songwriting skills. I don't know
Speaker 3: if it's her songwriting or she has a team. Keep
Speaker 3: this team around and just keep dropping fire music.
Speaker 2: So Tiana Major nine alone.
Speaker 3: It's just a I love relatable music because we all
Speaker 3: be going through it in these relationships with these men.
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's my bop of the week. Tiana Major
Speaker 3: nine alone period. Okay, so Mini is Lama, she had.
Speaker 2: Go ahead girl, that that's fire she got. She dropped
Speaker 2: a good Yeah. So she drops ev.
Speaker 1: With three songs. But heart song Dick is my song.
Speaker 1: I really really liked this song alike.
Speaker 3: What was the song she got?
Speaker 2: She said, you better get you one of these.
Speaker 3: It's called one of these. That's the song eight.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So shout out to Lma.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like her because you know what she had
Speaker 3: disappeared though, Yeah, she got her. She got her a
Speaker 3: big fish. I like when the girls do that shout
Speaker 3: out to elevate. All right, so we are going into
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Speaker 1: All right, So question number one, Hey girls, I dated
Speaker 1: a toxic man for eight years. Within the eight years,
Speaker 1: I found out that he dated my older cousin two
Speaker 1: years within the relationship, when they were in high school.
Speaker 1: I continue to talk to him because I was already
Speaker 1: in love and they were teenagers. Plus my cousin and
Speaker 1: gave me the go ahead, but she never told me
Speaker 1: about their relationship and I never asked. My relationship with
Speaker 1: him was abusive and toxic. It ended back in twenty
Speaker 1: twenty three. Fast forward to present day, my grandma recently
Speaker 1: passed away and me and my cousin finally got to
Speaker 1: talk about it. She told me that the dude was
Speaker 1: at my mom's funeral with her back in two thousand
Speaker 1: and one. I was six years old at that time,
Speaker 1: and he never told me. I was mad at her
Speaker 1: for not telling me this because it would have never
Speaker 1: been because it would have been over. I don't play
Speaker 1: about my mama. But throughout the years, du went up
Speaker 1: to my mom's gravesite and everything with me and never
Speaker 1: mentioned that. I'm just not sure how to feel about that.
Speaker 1: What would y'all do even if you don't answer on
Speaker 1: the show, just answer it on here. Please love you girls. Well, girl,
Speaker 1: you said that y'all broke up back in twenty twenty three,
Speaker 1: So I just wouldn't even sayning no more because I
Speaker 1: just feel like when something if it's a toxic and
Speaker 1: abusive relationship, you said you woke up with him in
Speaker 1: twenty twenty three. At this point, it's about to be
Speaker 1: twenty twenty five. I'm assuming it was.
Speaker 3: Over a year ago.
Speaker 1: You just need to let that shit die. You just
Speaker 1: need to let that be what it is. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: even feel no need to rehash a conversation with him
Speaker 1: about anything that has to do with my mom because
Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, yeah, he went to your mom's funeral
Speaker 1: when she died when you was younger.
Speaker 3: I guess maybe he.
Speaker 1: Could have told you about that situation, because I'm assuming
Speaker 1: he's way older than you. But if I'm trying to
Speaker 1: heal and move on, it's nothing for me and him
Speaker 1: to talk about. I don't care. Like I think I
Speaker 1: think I've said this before on the show. Closure is
Speaker 1: a scam to me, Like you don't need closure, it's
Speaker 1: more of like an ego thing. In my opinion, it's
Speaker 1: not even closure. You just need your ego to be strokes.
Speaker 1: You want somebody to try to make you feel better
Speaker 1: or give you, like a resolve to something that you
Speaker 1: feel bad about.
Speaker 2: Just let it go.
Speaker 1: See, I agree with that you and him over it
Speaker 1: was toxic. Ke's to put his hands on you. I'm
Speaker 1: assuming it ain't living for me and any.
Speaker 3: Of us putting his hands on me.
Speaker 5: Oh sorry, I was go ahead, m hm m hmm, yeah,
Speaker 5: m hmm.
Speaker 3: Read the next question reading. Okay, I'm a twenty seven
Speaker 3: year old woman with no Why would you say that?
Speaker 3: I don't know why, I don't. I can't help, I
Speaker 3: can't stop. I tried, I tried. Why would you say that? Thought?
Speaker 3: I was sitting there the whole time, and I stopped
Speaker 3: myself and it just came out.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, go ahead, Okay.
Speaker 3: I'm a twenty seven year old woman with no kids.
Speaker 3: My best friend is a twenty eight year old woman
Speaker 3: with four kids.
Speaker 2: We've been best friends twenty eight.
Speaker 3: Exactly.
Speaker 2: Not everybody shook.
Speaker 3: We've been best friends for eight years. I probably should
Speaker 3: mention that we live in different states and we haven't
Speaker 3: seen each other in person since twenty twenty, the last
Speaker 3: two years of our friendship. It just seems like she
Speaker 3: doesn't make time for our friendship.
Speaker 2: Probably don't know what to do.
Speaker 3: I always try to be considerate because she's a single
Speaker 3: mom who does everything on her own. As of lately,
Speaker 3: I've been noticing how she's been moving and it's starting
Speaker 3: to piss me off. One part of me wants to
Speaker 3: say we just grew apart, and then the other is saying,
Speaker 3: give her grace because she's doing it all alone. My
Speaker 3: thing is we are supposed to be best friends, and
Speaker 3: when she texts me, my first instinct is to text
Speaker 3: her back immediately because I'm thinking, dang, when am I
Speaker 3: going to be able to talk to her again?
Speaker 2: Because she's busy.
Speaker 3: I just saw maybe two days ago that she's active
Speaker 3: on social media. She changed her profile picture to her
Speaker 3: and this dude, which confused me because we both know
Speaker 3: we both know that the man is gay. I said
Speaker 3: that to say I be peeping that she makes time
Speaker 3: to talk to.
Speaker 2: Dudes and go on dates.
Speaker 3: But when I tell her, hey, we need to FaceTime,
Speaker 3: she agrees, but it never happens. But yet sometimes she
Speaker 3: comes out the blue with tea, or she asks to
Speaker 3: borrow money. But when it's my turn to text her
Speaker 3: about advice or tea, she leaves me on red for days,
Speaker 3: sometimes weeks at a time. I care about her friendship
Speaker 3: and I don't want it to end, but like she's
Speaker 3: not doing anything that says she still cares as much
Speaker 3: as I care about it. We've had conversations before about
Speaker 3: our friendship and she admits she feels like she's a
Speaker 3: bad friend. But it's becoming old and making me feel
Speaker 3: disconnected to where if she texts me, I'm not gonna respond.
Speaker 3: What do y'all think? Stop being friends with the hoe? Yeah?
Speaker 3: I just don't think she your friend like that. But
Speaker 3: I also think that she's just in a different space.
Speaker 3: She has four kids and you have none. Her life
Speaker 3: on a day to day basis lets completely different.
Speaker 2: It don't have to be bad blood.
Speaker 3: I think sometimes people just need to realize, Hey, we're
Speaker 3: not aligning.
Speaker 1: But I feel like I agree with you if she
Speaker 1: wasn't like takes the hood to be missy at times.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like if.
Speaker 1: You just had a lot going on and so I'm
Speaker 1: not really hearing you from you because you.
Speaker 3: Dealing with life and you dealing with them, You them kids, mama. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: but you got to being cool.
Speaker 1: But you got time to text me about tea. You
Speaker 1: got time to respond when you want to every three weeks.
Speaker 3: That's why I said, no, y'all not aligning. I would say,
Speaker 3: leg go the' from Bye Bookie. But stop stretching y'allself
Speaker 3: out over people. Let her go.
Speaker 2: Mmm what you didn't say? I agree, she doesn't sound
Speaker 2: like she's your friend anymore, or.
Speaker 3: She checked out and it's convenient for her to talk
Speaker 3: to you. What it sounds like to me? Like I said,
Speaker 3: y'all are just living two different lives. She got four
Speaker 3: kids and you have none. That's just completely different, Like
Speaker 3: y'all literal.
Speaker 1: I was not being friends with hood any way, because
Speaker 1: if she ever asked me to watch them kids, it's
Speaker 1: really gonna be a problem, because let me tell you
Speaker 1: who ain't never watching four kids?
Speaker 2: Her kids is kind of crazy.
Speaker 1: Ever, like a long night movie night. But yeah no,
Speaker 1: that niece's nephew. Oh me by myself. Yeah, if I
Speaker 1: had a friend to have four kids, Yeah, you thinking
Speaker 1: I'm gonna watch your four kids at one time?
Speaker 2: It's nuts because this is never happening.
Speaker 3: That's a lot.
Speaker 2: Where's your nianny, where's your mother?
Speaker 3: Where's your father?
Speaker 2: Where's the father?
Speaker 1: Where's the grandmama, the grandmother, the grandmama, the Niemi period,
Speaker 1: the t T.
Speaker 3: Need to like, where's everybody? I just y'all live in
Speaker 3: two different states.
Speaker 2: Gotta be your last resort?
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then I feel like y'all live in different staates.
Speaker 3: Obviously this is not making you feel good. We have
Speaker 3: to learn how to walk away from things that don't
Speaker 3: make us feel good. Would you have four kids? No?
Speaker 3: I mean you're gonna have one? If would you ever add?
Speaker 3: I will watch your one? Hid?
Speaker 2: I mean, who's gonna who else gonna watch you?
Speaker 3: Girl? Fuck you? Who else gonna watch you? It's gonna
Speaker 3: be between you and my baby daddy. I ain't finna
Speaker 3: be with them. I got shit to do.
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, I'm gonna be were you egg
Speaker 1: so who they about to be with?
Speaker 3: For real, y'all gonna have to take you and my
Speaker 3: baby daddy gonna have to take turn. No, absolutely night, Well,
Speaker 3: y'all gonna figure.
Speaker 2: Out he just gonna have a turn.
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Speaker 3: It's p O. You are underscore in my nds. Y'all
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Speaker 3: at poor minds with no underscore, that is at fake page,
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Speaker 3: and the poor Minds page on both. So we only
Speaker 3: have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok It is p O,
Speaker 3: you are underscore in my nds I and.
Speaker 1: We gotta hell a fake Facebook page the Facebook page
Speaker 1: it's our face. The crazy thing is our Facebook page
Speaker 1: actually have the least amount of filet.
Speaker 3: So if you're on Facebook one that's ours, got the
Speaker 3: least amount of file, but one that's not us got
Speaker 3: like two hundred and.
Speaker 2: Fifty thous' follows.
Speaker 3: Make if you actually look at the content, because the
Speaker 3: caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English? Because
Speaker 3: they're captains are like mamba claude?
Speaker 2: Should men?
Speaker 3: Should men pay bill?
Speaker 2: Should men pay bill?
Speaker 3: Yes? No?
Speaker 1: Check answer below block block pull like that's literally with
Speaker 1: the captions.
Speaker 3: I'm like you, what would that? DG is bumba claude?
Speaker 3: Wamba claude? All right, Drayon say give it to him.
Speaker 3: Drayon say we warming up for the Christmas performance.
Speaker 1: Bring me alarm, I've been through this too long. Would
Speaker 1: I be damned if I see another cheek on his arm?
Speaker 1: I said, bring me alarm. I've been through this too long.
Speaker 1: Would I be damned if I see another treek on
Speaker 1: his own?
Speaker 3: I'll be rocking to your little colds. If I let you.
Speaker 4: Go, get in the house, off the codes. If I
Speaker 4: let you go, she gonna take everything I own. If
Speaker 4: I let you Oh, I can't let you go.
Speaker 3: Damn.
Speaker 4: If I let you go, she gonna wrap them baby
Speaker 4: here stones I left you go in.
Speaker 3: The back of the roles.
Speaker 4: If I let you go, she gonna prop it everything
Speaker 4: I told her.
Speaker 3: If I let you go, I can't let you go. Dan.
Speaker 3: If I let you go, tell me how should I feel?
Speaker 1: When I know wan to know, and my female intuition
Speaker 1: is telling me, you will tell people? Tell me about
Speaker 1: the flames. I couldn't stay through the smoke. When I
Speaker 1: need instant accusations, You mean you can go.
Speaker 6: Show you can't stay. You gotta go. Ain't no chick
Speaker 6: spinning your dough, taking the toe the way you thirty
Speaker 6: of phones not the picture for every for me, hear me.
Speaker 6: One should have saw you rocking to the goals. I
Speaker 6: let get in the house, stup go, I let you go.
Speaker 6: She gonna take everything I own.
Speaker 3: If I let you go. I can't let your go. Damn.
Speaker 4: If I let you go, she gonna ruck the baby
Speaker 4: is thought. If I let you go, be in the
Speaker 4: back of the road. If I let you go, she's
Speaker 4: gonna talking everything I thought. If I let you go,
Speaker 4: I can't let you go. Then if I let you go.
Speaker 1: I said, bringing your law, I would I be damn
Speaker 1: if I see another chick on his own, I.
Speaker 2: Said, bringing your long.
Speaker 6: Let me damned if I see another chick on his
Speaker 6: arm tell me how should I feel when your name
Speaker 6: is below and I thought of you just touch a nurse?
Speaker 2: What I thought, I'm gonna want you?
Speaker 3: But I let it because I can't let it go
Speaker 3: to know you give it to it like you gave
Speaker 3: me to come on. Why I just.
Speaker 6: Right?
Speaker 3: We gotta pring it back?
Speaker 4: You go, David, I let She gonna pay everything if
Speaker 4: I let you go.
Speaker 3: He let you go.
Speaker 4: If I let you go, maybe your stones. If I
Speaker 4: let you go in the back of the rother. If
Speaker 4: I let you go, she's gonna pay everything. If I
Speaker 4: let you go, I can't let you go. If I
Speaker 4: let you hit and Dre, I say, bring along.
Speaker 1: Oh, how can you look at me? And I see
Speaker 1: all the things that I kept on leave just for you?
Speaker 1: Why would you risk your babies? That the price that
Speaker 1: I paid? But this is my show and I won't
Speaker 1: let you go, and this time be paid for and
Speaker 1: it's mine? How could you give me? And I see
Speaker 1: y'all the things she'll been rocking just to look over.
Speaker 1: If I let you go in the house, off the coat.
Speaker 1: If I left you go.
Speaker 2: She's gonna take everything I own.
Speaker 4: If I let you go, I can't let you go.
Speaker 3: Damn if I let you.
Speaker 2: Go, She's gonna let them be the stone.
Speaker 3: If I let you go and Ima go go everything
Speaker 3: I ow.
Speaker 1: If I let you got your gout, Damn if I
Speaker 1: let your go, I said, ringing along, I've been through
Speaker 1: this too long, and not be damned if I see
Speaker 1: another shick on his arm, I said, ringing along, I've
Speaker 1: been through this too long. Would I be damned if
Speaker 1: I see another check on his unbles?
Speaker 3: I'm mad? Period?
Speaker 2: Damna fuck it
Speaker 3: Got me