WEBVTT - A Good Lil Nugget 0:00:02.400 --> 0:00:08.240 Are you really asking me that? I'm surprised you didn't 0:00:08.280 --> 0:00:12.360 already answer for me. I wouldn't have ever, bitch, please 0:00:12.880 --> 0:00:14.920 one thing about lick. She's gonna be like, because yeah, 0:00:15.040 --> 0:00:18.480 because Drea be, I. 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:20.320 Think you're a lot, but I think it's a ball 0:00:20.400 --> 0:00:23.360 of fun. I am a ball of fun. I like, 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:24.360 but did you die? 0:00:24.480 --> 0:00:24.880 Though? 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:29.200 Like that's all that really matters if we said die? 0:00:30.560 --> 0:00:35.919 I'm I'm I'm still here here. 0:00:58.760 --> 0:00:59.760 What's up y'all? 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:03.600 Show Girl Alex p And it's Sugarl Dre and the Cold. 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:06.720 You are tuned in to another episode of Poor. 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:10.240 Mine, where a drunk mind speaks sober today, I ain't 0:01:10.319 --> 0:01:15.160 got no guests today. We ain't got no guests today. 0:01:15.720 --> 0:01:16.240 You know what? 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:19.839 I had read a comment in the YouTube things this morning, 0:01:19.880 --> 0:01:21.360 and it bade me really happy because it was a 0:01:21.400 --> 0:01:24.480 girl I was like said she was basically like, listen, 0:01:24.560 --> 0:01:26.680 y'all always want to complain. She said something like, y'all 0:01:26.680 --> 0:01:28.640 need to stop complaining when they have guests, because if 0:01:28.680 --> 0:01:31.120 you are a true poor crew member, you like it 0:01:31.160 --> 0:01:33.280 whenever they have guests or not. Period. 0:01:33.440 --> 0:01:36.120 It's that period you ain't that I feel like, And 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:39.360 I've said this before, like I think both episodes eat. 0:01:40.200 --> 0:01:42.600 I think that the guests episodes be good. I think 0:01:42.600 --> 0:01:45.840 that the solo episodes be good. I don't know, like 0:01:45.920 --> 0:01:48.120 I get it though, you know, I think every guest 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:51.520 is not gonna it's not gonna be like Everybody's forte, 0:01:51.840 --> 0:01:54.080 you know. But at the end of the day, I 0:01:54.160 --> 0:01:57.320 still think that even if you aren't a super fan 0:01:57.400 --> 0:01:59.720 of somebody that's a guest, you could find a good 0:01:59.760 --> 0:02:03.880 look niggie or or a good little gym in the episode. Like, 0:02:03.960 --> 0:02:06.520 I still think they'd be good episodes, you know. And 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:08.519 I think that one thing I like about us is 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:11.280 that I think like we kind of bring something out 0:02:11.320 --> 0:02:14.919 of people where people get to really see people's other side. 0:02:15.800 --> 0:02:17.960 Okay, so I'm glad you said that because you remember, 0:02:18.040 --> 0:02:21.040 you know, my nephew O and be ps yeah, b P. 0:02:21.400 --> 0:02:23.960 He has a song that's going viral on TikTok right now. 0:02:24.160 --> 0:02:26.040 Really it's one of his like songs that came out 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:28.679 in like twenty seventeen, and I just love that for 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:29.519 I said. 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:33.760 Go ahead, nephew, yeah few And I seen him at 0:02:33.800 --> 0:02:36.000 the airport. I can't remember if I said that on 0:02:36.280 --> 0:02:37.959 the show, and I I'll see him at the airport 0:02:38.000 --> 0:02:41.760 when I was going to LA and he said so 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:45.880 he was like, hey, I love him, and we like 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:46.919 ran towards ease. 0:02:47.160 --> 0:02:48.000 It was like a movie. 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:52.000 You know what I've always wanted to do in slow motion. 0:02:52.480 --> 0:02:56.120 I've always wanted to like have a dramatic like airport scene. 0:02:56.200 --> 0:02:58.480 I told you, I lived my life like a wrong com. 0:02:58.800 --> 0:03:01.160 And I always pretend like I'm doing something important, Like 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:07.520 even if I'm walking to the bathroom, I'm like, everything 0:03:07.560 --> 0:03:10.200 has to be drama girl. Okay, you know what I'm saying. 0:03:10.919 --> 0:03:12.960 I need somebody to drop me off at the airport 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:14.919 and be like I'll be back. 0:03:15.280 --> 0:03:16.840 I'll be waiting for you, and. 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:19.040 I'm gonna be like I have to go. I just 0:03:19.120 --> 0:03:22.200 let me go, please, I can't do this. 0:03:22.360 --> 0:03:24.200 I definitely feel that way too. I think we talked 0:03:24.200 --> 0:03:27.760 about that on the episode with de Vel. I definitely 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:29.560 feel like I live my life like I'm in a movie. 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:31.760 Yeah, you gotta romanticize things. 0:03:31.760 --> 0:03:33.560 It makes it exciting, Yeah, it does. 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:34.280 I don't know. 0:03:34.320 --> 0:03:37.520 It's just I think main character energy. Okay, that's what 0:03:37.560 --> 0:03:38.600 it is. That's what it is. 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:41.280 More so because it ain't even necessarily a rom com like, 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:43.960 I just always feel like I'm being recorded. Yeah, and 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:47.040 it's just like and I'm just always kind of looking around, waiting, 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:50.960 always trying to make sure you got my best side. 0:03:50.560 --> 0:03:53.520 Just looking like you're doing something, because I do feel 0:03:53.520 --> 0:03:55.720 like that. I feel like when I'm walking through the airport. 0:03:56.320 --> 0:03:58.240 Even if this is why it's hard for me to 0:03:58.320 --> 0:03:59.280 like go out to eat. 0:03:59.080 --> 0:04:01.880 By myself and do things alone. I do do it now. 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:04.200 But I always just feel like people are watching me. 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:07.360 Like I always feel like everybody staring at me. Like 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:09.400 I was at the bar the other day, y'all, and 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:11.200 I'm so dramatic, like I was going through something. So 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:13.120 I'm just sitting at the bar taking shots and I'm 0:04:13.160 --> 0:04:16.840 kind of like, you know it, my father was at 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:23.720 that place, you know, I was was it? 0:04:23.720 --> 0:04:25.960 It wasn't it was bright and early. 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:28.279 We had a bar that night, dude. I still have 0:04:28.360 --> 0:04:30.799 the clips from that. Maybe I'll send it to Hobby 0:04:30.839 --> 0:04:32.440 so he can enter it in the episode so they 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:37.520 can see that was the night of time. So yeah, 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:39.240 I was at the bar and I'm like taking my 0:04:39.240 --> 0:04:42.840 shots and I'm just like wiping my tears and I'm 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:44.760 like somebody's gonna walk up to me and like, hey, beautiful, 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:47.160 Do you need anything? And I was just gonna look 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:51.520 up and it was gonna be like, yes, you know 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:53.839 who it was. That's like, hey, are you okay? I 0:04:53.880 --> 0:04:57.640 looked up. No, somebody really is happy? Yes, yes, absolutely, 0:04:57.680 --> 0:04:58.919 he was like, hey, is everything okay? 0:04:58.920 --> 0:05:01.320 And I was like, it's my moment? 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:03.720 And what happened? Who was he? I looked up? 0:05:04.080 --> 0:05:07.400 There was an all bad white man that could be your. 0:05:08.600 --> 0:05:11.760 You don't get your gass back, that might be your savior? 0:05:11.960 --> 0:05:13.279 Oh well, I was so mad. 0:05:13.360 --> 0:05:20.760 Remember you have some characters, yes we have. 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:23.720 We don't have some characters in our life for real, 0:05:23.839 --> 0:05:26.120 for real, we always had. 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:27.520 But it was fun though. 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:31.000 Like, honestly, I wish sometimes that I could go back 0:05:31.040 --> 0:05:33.960 to being that young and carefree because I feel like, 0:05:34.560 --> 0:05:36.440 don't get me wrong, I do still have like a 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:39.080 certain element of being care free because I just think 0:05:39.120 --> 0:05:41.400 that's who I am, truly, Like, I just don't take 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:46.400 a lot of shit that series. But I just feel 0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:48.680 like when we were younger, we was really living life 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:52.480 on the edge, doing anything and everything, like the first 0:05:52.720 --> 0:05:55.799 to doing nothing in something at the same damn time. 0:05:58.680 --> 0:06:01.840 That's how you know we haven't mental telepathy. 0:06:03.200 --> 0:06:05.120 Oh that was a big one. 0:06:05.160 --> 0:06:05.800 That's a good one. 0:06:05.880 --> 0:06:06.599 I really feel like. 0:06:06.640 --> 0:06:09.279 We do be having telepathy though, because like we always 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:11.080 know we could just look at each other and like 0:06:11.160 --> 0:06:12.200 know what the other person thinking. 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:16.960 We be like we we like the type of friends, 0:06:17.279 --> 0:06:19.880 like we can have a full blown conversation without saying 0:06:19.880 --> 0:06:28.520 without saying nothing, and we not m okay okay okay. 0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:30.800 So but yeah, I like to romanticize my life. I 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:32.960 thought I was finna have my like big moment, have 0:06:33.080 --> 0:06:34.640 like this guy come up to the bar and be 0:06:34.760 --> 0:06:37.800 like you you need saving, and I mean. 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:39.240 He wanted what if he wants? 0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:42.120 He did. He wanted me so bad because I was like, oh, 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:44.200 I'm fine. And then like I got on the phone, 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:45.720 I was like arguing on the phone side like went 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:46.680 up and I got outside. 0:06:46.720 --> 0:06:48.320 I was like going off. And so when I. 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:50.080 Came back, I didn't go sit at the bar again 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:52.280 because it was too many people at the bar. So 0:06:53.440 --> 0:06:55.039 I went and I sat at a table and he 0:06:55.160 --> 0:06:58.440 turned his whole chair around. He was like, I'm just 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:02.280 like he was looking for you. What's that Enrique Glacia's song? 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:07.320 I cann't be he that's what he was seeing. He 0:07:07.400 --> 0:07:08.520 was trying to be your hero. 0:07:09.840 --> 0:07:14.040 I will stand by forever. 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:17.560 He was trying to be your hero, and look what 0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:19.520 if you missed out on your blessing? Do you ever 0:07:19.600 --> 0:07:23.520 think that though? Sometimes like imagine all the niggas you'd uncurved. 0:07:24.200 --> 0:07:27.920 I remember, imagine all the men you'd uncurved, and one 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:29.240 of them was supposed to be my. 0:07:29.240 --> 0:07:31.600 Hood, your man. Can I ask you something now that 0:07:31.680 --> 0:07:33.400 you said that, you know, I think about. 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:35.640 That, all the niggas at the gas station. 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:38.040 I have a Okay, I ain't never seen nothing at 0:07:38.080 --> 0:07:39.280 the gas station I passed up. 0:07:39.320 --> 0:07:41.720 Maybe you have. But let me ask you this, though, 0:07:42.560 --> 0:07:44.280 Say somebody DM you right. 0:07:44.840 --> 0:07:47.720 And he's like a good contender, like somebody you actually 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:50.320 would deal with, but you're not, like you're not trying 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:51.480 to deal with him right now because maybe you're in 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:54.520 a relationship or something else and you're in your relationship, 0:07:54.520 --> 0:07:57.320 you're happy and stay like you know, y'all end up 0:07:57.360 --> 0:08:02.080 not making it. Mm hm. Is there a time limit 0:08:02.080 --> 0:08:03.480 on when you can respond to the DM. 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:07.800 No, you can respond five years later if the spirit 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:08.360 moves you. 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:11.960 Okay, okay, I feel that I feel like whenever. 0:08:13.440 --> 0:08:15.680 Ain't no such thing as missed opportunity. 0:08:16.040 --> 0:08:17.520 So if the DM is still there like you can 0:08:17.600 --> 0:08:19.040 be like, oh, hey, I didn't see it. 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:21.320 Yeah, because I think if something because I feel like 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:23.520 if something is for you, then it's for you. It 0:08:23.520 --> 0:08:27.440 doesn't matter the time frame, Like at that current point 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:29.400 in your life when that person reached out to you, 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:30.920 you wasn't in a space to receive it. 0:08:31.280 --> 0:08:32.839 Like now you in a space to receive it, and 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:35.640 if it's for you, then it's gonna happen. I don't 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:37.880 think it's a time frame, like what if it was 0:08:37.920 --> 0:08:40.160 like January and now we're obviously in Like. 0:08:40.160 --> 0:08:42.200 Do you ever think about all the dudes who have 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:44.560 like three hundred followers who be messaging you, who could 0:08:44.800 --> 0:08:47.160 be my king, who could be your king, and who 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:50.360 could be rich? It's not even about that. It's more 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:54.160 so about it ain't about who. It's not about who rich, 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:58.959 but it is. I think it's not about that, but 0:08:59.520 --> 0:09:02.800 it is at the same time, because like I seen 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:05.520 something the other day that said money is not the 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:08.679 most important thing, but it's up there with oxygen. 0:09:09.400 --> 0:09:12.480 Oxygen is nuts. It is though, I mean I feel 0:09:12.520 --> 0:09:13.520 that I. 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:16.800 Think for me though, it's not even about the amount 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:19.400 of followers you have, because I don't pay attention. 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:21.080 To a lot of DMS. It's about like what you say. 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:23.959 So I cannot remember the last time somebody slid in 0:09:24.000 --> 0:09:26.400 my DMS and was like they said something really good 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:27.760 and I was like, Okay, let me see what he's 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:29.120 talking about. But I feel like. 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:31.520 You definitely don't if you go to a nigga page 0:09:31.600 --> 0:09:34.679 and he following like three thousand people that he got 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:37.160 two hundred followers, he was not as funny you're lying, 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:42.240 You're not gonna respond. Well, I need to know this, Tyler, tyl, 0:09:42.360 --> 0:09:43.600 you wouldn't respond either. 0:09:43.640 --> 0:09:46.080 With you, they can tell you because there's a reason 0:09:46.120 --> 0:09:51.160 why though, why are you following Oprah Winfrey? Like really no? 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:54.120 But like because what's wrong with people that follow Oprah? 0:09:54.640 --> 0:09:57.960 It just be so random? I am offended. 0:09:58.040 --> 0:10:00.319 No, I'm not saying nothing wrong with Oprah, but it'd 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:04.600 be like some why are you following like Martin Lawrence 0:10:04.640 --> 0:10:05.480 on a Tuesday? 0:10:05.960 --> 0:10:07.280 Just because you feel like following? 0:10:07.360 --> 0:10:08.160 Like it being random? 0:10:08.320 --> 0:10:11.160 Martin Lawrence is what I'm saying. 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:14.959 You following all these like random random people like you 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:17.520 following Martha Stewart. What's going on? 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:19.600 He trying to learn how to guardian? 0:10:19.760 --> 0:10:21.960 I just feel like it'd be a certain like, don't 0:10:21.960 --> 0:10:24.160 get me wrong, I'm not comfortable that I'm fans of 0:10:24.440 --> 0:10:27.640 that I follow, but like you following, Like if I 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:31.520 see your follow listener's like Steve Harvey, Oprah Winfrey, Martha Stewart, 0:10:31.559 --> 0:10:32.160 Martin Law. 0:10:32.120 --> 0:10:38.000 Damn me catching a straight I follow all of those people. No, lie, 0:10:38.640 --> 0:10:41.720 there's nothing with nobody that you said that I don't follow. 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:45.480 There's nothing wrong with it, But I just feel like, 0:10:46.000 --> 0:10:48.120 I don't know if I see you following all these 0:10:48.440 --> 0:10:50.520 people and I don't see you like interacting, or you 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:52.760 don't follow nobody that you know in real life. 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:54.040 Okay, that's what I'm saying. 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:54.959 You follow nothing. 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:56.199 I do follow everybody, I know. 0:10:56.360 --> 0:10:59.120 That's what I'm saying. You follow nothing but celebrities, Like 0:10:59.120 --> 0:11:01.760 why are you following them? You don't even watch housewives? 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:03.280 You know what I'm saying. 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:09.080 Be Cauzanimi is a hoot. I mean, she loves but y'all. 0:11:09.240 --> 0:11:12.280 Was even worse than following like random celebrities is when 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:14.600 he follow a whole bunch of women that don't even 0:11:14.640 --> 0:11:16.840 follow him back, like you thirsty? 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:18.400 You're really thirsty? 0:11:18.559 --> 0:11:22.000 Like you following a whole bunch of women that just 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:26.040 don't What if he just a bad bitch connoisseur. You're 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:28.200 not a bad bitch connoisseur about doing stuff like that. 0:11:28.400 --> 0:11:28.720 You're not. 0:11:28.880 --> 0:11:29.440 I know, I know. 0:11:30.000 --> 0:11:32.240 When I say connoisseur, I just mean, like, what if 0:11:32.280 --> 0:11:34.000 he just is one of them type of men who 0:11:34.000 --> 0:11:41.599 he just like can appreciate a beautiful or boutiful or 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:44.400 a bootiful woman. What's wrong with that? 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:46.120 That is a lot of things wrong with now. I 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:49.760 will say, if you following a whole bunch of booty models, 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:53.080 yeah you horny, Like what are you doing? 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:53.199 You? 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:55.320 The first thing I see? 0:11:56.080 --> 0:12:00.199 You think they got at least five big booty they 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:01.760 follow there? 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:04.760 Yeah, I'm okay. 0:12:04.800 --> 0:12:07.800 And it also depends on how she looks too, because 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:09.680 there's one, you know, that big booty girl. I'll be 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:14.880 talking about that. Bet, I know, I know what, I 0:12:14.960 --> 0:12:16.480 know what toilet hate to see her coming. 0:12:17.720 --> 0:12:20.280 But it's like, if you follow that was very discriminatory. 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:23.520 It's not I'm talking like it because it's come on now, 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:26.640 there's no I promise you her but it's probably about 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:29.400 sixty inches in Her waist is probably like twenty seven inches. 0:12:29.480 --> 0:12:30.640 And I'm not kidding, I'm. 0:12:30.520 --> 0:12:31.320 Not being dramatic. 0:12:31.440 --> 0:12:35.160 Waist snatched so, but if like you follow stuff like 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:37.120 that and it's like the girls that be walking around 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:42.360 Target and be like picking up mayonnaise, maybe like pick 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:45.439 up the mayonnaise, well first and foremost, like if you're 0:12:45.520 --> 0:12:47.880 not at my local Target. 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:48.679 That's what they be doing. 0:12:48.880 --> 0:12:49.760 I've never been. 0:12:49.640 --> 0:12:51.480 To the grocery store and seen nobody doing that. And 0:12:51.520 --> 0:12:53.720 I don't know what I would do if I did 0:12:53.840 --> 0:12:55.160 walk back out and. 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:59.520 I've seen somebody. Can y'all tell me what if you're 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:03.880 saying that I've seen the videos, well I have what 0:13:04.040 --> 0:13:08.640 you do? You know? I'm old off that god damn flouting. 0:13:09.520 --> 0:13:14.880 I'm old now, I be, I be. I don't know. 0:13:15.000 --> 0:13:21.640 I love a Shenan again, I love I love a Shannan. 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:22.360 It's correct. 0:13:22.440 --> 0:13:25.800 I love a little shenanigue. So I might start classing so. 0:13:29.040 --> 0:13:29.640 I don't like that. 0:13:29.840 --> 0:13:31.400 Oh I might start jumping. 0:13:36.160 --> 0:13:40.960 Girl. I ain't at it. I love people who just 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:41.920 don't give a fuck. 0:13:43.720 --> 0:13:44.520 Not giving a fuck. 0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:45.880 You shouldn't give a fuck. 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:47.920 If that's how you walking. 0:13:47.200 --> 0:13:49.800 Around Target and booty short so I can see your 0:13:49.840 --> 0:13:50.440 booty hole. 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:53.199 Okay, but are the people who judging you gonna pay 0:13:53.240 --> 0:13:53.840 your abuse? 0:13:55.120 --> 0:13:57.480 If that's why she paid horine. I don't want your 0:13:57.480 --> 0:13:59.560 booty hole in front of my mayonnaise, not in front 0:13:59.559 --> 0:14:01.840 of myself. It's closed and is sealed. 0:14:02.679 --> 0:14:09.720 No, the aroma, it's the principal why you feel tight, 0:14:10.040 --> 0:14:10.360 y'all know. 0:14:10.960 --> 0:14:13.600 And you walking by what the meat, the meat place, 0:14:13.720 --> 0:14:17.560 the meat be open? You the your twerk Windo made 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:19.720 it over the counter right into that salmon. 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:22.360 Now, I don't know what I'm smelling. You are the salmon. 0:14:22.520 --> 0:14:28.760 You are a salmon, les I hear you. But like, no, 0:14:29.440 --> 0:14:32.040 that's how she paid her. She got a rent dude. 0:14:32.320 --> 0:14:34.120 You that's your favorite saying, rent. 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:36.920 Dude, Rent dooby do. I just think that. 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:50.560 Rent dooby doo. But I just feel like it's just. 0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:53.360 I don't like them. 0:14:53.520 --> 0:14:56.960 I don't like it in thes what. 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:01.280 Okay? 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:04.960 But yeah, that girl has a dookie shooter on her. 0:15:05.680 --> 0:15:07.920 And remember when. 0:15:07.720 --> 0:15:10.560 That man had dm us, I mean, remember when that 0:15:10.600 --> 0:15:11.600 man had emailed us. 0:15:12.320 --> 0:15:13.200 Oh, he emailed me. 0:15:13.640 --> 0:15:14.240 What are you saying? 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:16.600 I remember he asked me to boo boo and he 0:15:16.680 --> 0:15:18.880 asked me to hold the phone a certain way, like. 0:15:19.400 --> 0:15:21.200 The phone a certain way. 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:23.640 Oh my god, I don't know why. That was the 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:24.760 first thing that came to my mind. 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:28.040 When you said dookie shooter. Yeah, yeah, but it's a 0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:30.880 certain you remember him. And he was for real like 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:34.040 he sent examples and everything. Who was the girl that? 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:35.240 And Ry ain't gonna send it. 0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:38.600 Ryan Messy as gonna send it to our group chat, No, 0:15:38.640 --> 0:15:40.040 and damn will I wasn't gonna do this. 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:41.400 She But you know there's a girl I was on 0:15:41.440 --> 0:15:43.160 the internet that was saying that like she does that. 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:44.920 She makes videos like like. 0:15:46.400 --> 0:15:49.160 Shout out to mana mana had did a video recently 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:51.680 and she was like talking to somebody I can't remember. 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:54.720 She interviewed somebody recently and she was talking to them 0:15:54.840 --> 0:15:57.320 and she was just like, I just oh, we're about 0:15:57.320 --> 0:15:58.760 to have her on the show. I'm gonna say who 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:01.080 it is, but we about to have her on the show. 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:02.920 And she was just like, well, I mean, if I 0:16:02.960 --> 0:16:05.960 was gonna doo doo anyways, and he wants me to 0:16:06.120 --> 0:16:07.720 prop the phone up, this is what I was gonna 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:11.760 do at seven am every morning anyways, Well might as 0:16:11.800 --> 0:16:12.880 well do it with the camera. 0:16:13.000 --> 0:16:14.760 If he's trying to pay me a hot six. 0:16:14.560 --> 0:16:18.600 Honey, oh okay, a hot six hundred. I don't know 0:16:18.640 --> 0:16:19.200 if I could do. 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:25.280 That just to doodle It don't require a lot of effort. No, 0:16:25.360 --> 0:16:28.000 I just I think I'll stick to doodo in for free. 0:16:28.680 --> 0:16:31.160 Shay said she would is freaky. 0:16:32.080 --> 0:16:33.240 Shane is very freaky. 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:36.760 I don't think that's freaky. Though I'm not talking about this, 0:16:36.800 --> 0:16:41.400 I'm talking about Shae in general. She'd be like, I 0:16:41.480 --> 0:16:42.360 gotta go T T. 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:48.520 And then but then though that ain't even a bad part. 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:50.400 She always come back and report nothing. 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:56.480 And that's what I'd be about. Shane asked us, crying 0:16:56.520 --> 0:16:58.200 me like, so what you did last night? 0:16:58.280 --> 0:17:03.280 She'd be like, I went home, okay, sh as it's 0:17:03.360 --> 0:17:04.240 funny as fuck. 0:17:04.680 --> 0:17:07.680 Okay, okay, okay. So yeah, so no, you wouldn't do it, 0:17:07.920 --> 0:17:10.600 wouldn't do kie shooting? Nah? 0:17:10.840 --> 0:17:14.760 No, I don't think. I think the price not high. Yeah, 0:17:14.760 --> 0:17:16.879 the price not right enough? Yeah, the price if the 0:17:16.880 --> 0:17:18.719 price maybe maybe maybe this is right. 0:17:18.800 --> 0:17:21.280 But I just it's something in my body that would 0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:24.640 just feel so. But you gotta let out no, because 0:17:24.680 --> 0:17:26.360 you know, when you make a video, you gotta look 0:17:26.400 --> 0:17:27.359 at it to review it. 0:17:27.400 --> 0:17:28.320 I don't want to see that. 0:17:28.440 --> 0:17:31.520 I'm not looking at that. I'm just seeing Okay. 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:33.160 Anyways, what you been up to girl? 0:17:33.200 --> 0:17:33.520 What's new? 0:17:33.560 --> 0:17:35.240 What's see, What's see, What's new. 0:17:36.000 --> 0:17:37.959 I've just been working. I've been working on a lot 0:17:38.000 --> 0:17:40.400 of different things. I have some new products coming out 0:17:41.400 --> 0:17:44.360 we ready. Yeah, I know, I'm excited. 0:17:44.560 --> 0:17:47.720 Yes, they're really really good. I think everybody's. 0:17:47.280 --> 0:17:48.960 Gonna enjoy them. 0:17:49.040 --> 0:17:51.280 And then I also have like so next year, I'm 0:17:51.320 --> 0:17:54.240 really trying to like come out with new products every quarter, 0:17:54.320 --> 0:17:56.520 which is gonna be a light but. 0:17:56.480 --> 0:17:58.360 I think I can do it. I know you can. 0:17:58.560 --> 0:18:02.679 So I'm really expanded outside of just lip products. So 0:18:02.760 --> 0:18:05.520 like I'm coming out with some new products that are 0:18:05.560 --> 0:18:09.960 not lip products this month, and then the first half 0:18:10.000 --> 0:18:11.800 of next year, I'm coming out with some like. 0:18:11.960 --> 0:18:14.960 Eye products the girls already. 0:18:15.640 --> 0:18:19.200 Yeah, I'm excited. So yeah, I've just been working on that, 0:18:22.560 --> 0:18:25.960 spending a lot of time talking to my mom because 0:18:25.960 --> 0:18:27.760 I don't know, she's just getting older and I just 0:18:27.840 --> 0:18:29.600 feel like I need to talk to her more. Plus 0:18:29.640 --> 0:18:32.960 she just cracks me ups. Oh, people t be the 0:18:33.000 --> 0:18:35.920 funniest shit ever because it'd be nosy. But you think 0:18:35.960 --> 0:18:38.119 it is so hot to be warm coke, That's what it. 0:18:38.960 --> 0:18:40.760 But every think it is so hid. 0:18:41.680 --> 0:18:44.840 She swear she's spilling tea everything. I'd be like, you know, 0:18:44.920 --> 0:18:47.880 this right in the senior community. I love your mom 0:18:48.000 --> 0:18:50.800 dad to But yeah, that's really mad. I haven't really 0:18:50.880 --> 0:18:53.399 had nothing too crazy going. Yeah, Like I feel like 0:18:53.440 --> 0:18:57.960 I just been really focused on like work, elevating and stuff. 0:18:58.000 --> 0:19:01.320 We have like really exciting announcement, Like we have a very. 0:19:01.200 --> 0:19:04.920 Big announcement, like crazy, I can't wait to talk about that. 0:19:04.960 --> 0:19:08.520 When we can whenever we can finally announce it. But yeah, 0:19:08.880 --> 0:19:11.439 so I just been kind of basking, and I've been 0:19:11.440 --> 0:19:20.240 feeling very gracious and like basking gratitude Earlier today, like 0:19:20.280 --> 0:19:21.879 I was just like I just feel, you know, so 0:19:21.960 --> 0:19:25.199 much gratitude to God for everything that he's blessed me, 0:19:25.240 --> 0:19:27.840 weed everything he's blessed this week on the. 0:19:27.880 --> 0:19:31.640 Flow, who we would have thought, Yeah, we just got 0:19:31.680 --> 0:19:37.399 honored at the what What's Yeah, we did the Media 0:19:37.440 --> 0:19:41.080 Girls Tour. Shout out to Julie. Yes, it was amazing. 0:19:41.119 --> 0:19:43.760 We did a little panel, we did we got honored. 0:19:43.840 --> 0:19:46.480 So it was really like, okay, a full circle moment. 0:19:46.560 --> 0:19:49.000 That was our first award that we've gotten as a podcast. 0:19:49.359 --> 0:19:51.359 So it was just fun to like mix and mingle 0:19:51.440 --> 0:19:53.919 with everybody who's like movers and shakers in Atlanta in 0:19:54.000 --> 0:19:57.800 this space and to be recognized and people like like, 0:19:57.840 --> 0:19:59.919 oh my god, poor Mine's. Like when we walked in, 0:20:00.000 --> 0:20:01.720 everyone was like, oh my god, poor Minds is here. 0:20:02.560 --> 0:20:04.159 So that'd be a good feeling to like step in 0:20:04.200 --> 0:20:05.959 the room and be one of the people that like 0:20:06.600 --> 0:20:09.359 they consider important, you know, like that's a big deal 0:20:09.520 --> 0:20:12.000 to be among your peers and they'd be like looking 0:20:12.000 --> 0:20:13.840 at you, like, oh my god, lex Andre are here. 0:20:13.920 --> 0:20:15.360 So that was a good feeling. 0:20:16.200 --> 0:20:17.359 What else you have going on? 0:20:17.560 --> 0:20:19.440 Oh gosh, I'm so excited. 0:20:19.680 --> 0:20:22.159 So now I'm like winding down the date for the 0:20:22.240 --> 0:20:25.600 love lexp Drop. I know y'all have been waiting, but 0:20:25.640 --> 0:20:27.280 it's been a lot of stuff I've been getting together. 0:20:27.680 --> 0:20:30.919 I'm doing like a whole roll out for y'all. So second, 0:20:32.080 --> 0:20:34.680 you know, you can have something go down the wrong pipe. 0:20:34.800 --> 0:20:37.200 I used to think that was a lie, but it's true. 0:20:37.280 --> 0:20:39.040 It's two pipe. Yeah, it is my sister. 0:20:39.080 --> 0:20:39.199 You know. 0:20:39.240 --> 0:20:40.600 My sister's a respiratory therapist. 0:20:40.600 --> 0:20:45.520 She told me that. Oh yeah. So ever since I 0:20:45.640 --> 0:20:51.040 was a little girl, I've loved being on camera, entertaining 0:20:51.080 --> 0:20:55.040 myself and everybody around me by sharing my thoughts and 0:20:55.160 --> 0:20:59.960 opinions on anything pop culture. For the past few years, 0:21:00.280 --> 0:21:03.919 I've heard your request, but now it's finally. 0:21:03.600 --> 0:21:04.439 Time to deliver. 0:21:06.880 --> 0:21:10.000 Okay, y'all, let's get into the teeth with love lex 0:21:10.080 --> 0:21:20.760 pe tasty. Will we drinking all? I might need another one. 0:21:21.040 --> 0:21:21.840 I do need another one. 0:21:21.840 --> 0:21:25.800 I might take a little shot, another shot. Maybe I'll 0:21:25.840 --> 0:21:27.160 slow down shot girl. 0:21:27.760 --> 0:21:31.560 Do you put the pedal to the metal. Yeah, yeah, I. 0:21:31.640 --> 0:21:33.199 Just put a men in my mouth. So excuse me 0:21:33.240 --> 0:21:35.679 if this sounds crazy, but we're gonna call this well, 0:21:35.720 --> 0:21:38.720 since we've been talking about GMS it's going down, we're 0:21:38.720 --> 0:21:40.800 gonna call this going down. 0:21:40.600 --> 0:21:41.760 In the dam right. 0:21:41.760 --> 0:21:43.199 You never know what could come out of that. 0:21:44.160 --> 0:21:46.600 So this one is gonna be you know, fall winter 0:21:46.920 --> 0:21:49.959 kind of themes where we're getting some of those seasonal tastes. 0:21:50.040 --> 0:21:50.680 On the palate. 0:21:50.960 --> 0:21:53.919 We have whatever spirit of choice, a little bit of 0:21:53.960 --> 0:21:57.360 orange liquor. We have some pear juice or pear puree, 0:21:57.359 --> 0:21:59.679 whichever one you can access at home, a little bit 0:21:59.680 --> 0:22:03.240 of pomgran and juice, and just a splash of lemon juice. 0:22:03.400 --> 0:22:05.359 And then for dreas, we topped it with a little 0:22:05.359 --> 0:22:08.040 bit of champagne just to give a little carbonation, little bubble, 0:22:08.320 --> 0:22:10.240 make it cue. You can do like a French seventy five, 0:22:10.280 --> 0:22:12.800 that home type of thing. Then we have rammed the 0:22:12.840 --> 0:22:15.960 cocktail glass with some caramel and garnershit with a pear 0:22:16.040 --> 0:22:17.879 and drizzled some caramel right on top of that. 0:22:19.000 --> 0:22:22.800 Going down, it was did you just pick your fingers? 0:22:22.920 --> 0:22:26.919 That carmel tastes like me? I eat take caramel delight. 0:22:27.119 --> 0:22:29.520 Period. It was good. It is good. 0:22:29.960 --> 0:22:31.600 But yeah, I'll take a shot. I might as well. 0:22:31.880 --> 0:22:34.719 Ooh you couldn't know, might as well. We don't got 0:22:34.720 --> 0:22:38.320 shit else to do, all right, Well, yeah nothing. I 0:22:38.359 --> 0:22:40.240 was just gonna say, today is a very chill day. 0:22:40.320 --> 0:22:44.800 Yeah, we're chilling. Today is a very chill day. Oh yeah, 0:22:44.880 --> 0:22:48.119 it's outside and at the end of November it is 0:22:48.560 --> 0:22:49.040 it is. 0:22:49.200 --> 0:22:51.560 But yeah, and I have on like this little outfie. 0:22:51.600 --> 0:22:53.800 Y'all can get it on my LTK period. 0:22:54.800 --> 0:22:57.760 It's real cute. It's like nineteen ninety nine from. 0:22:57.640 --> 0:22:58.520 All of our field. 0:22:58.800 --> 0:23:02.840 Now I'm in find it all many cutes outfits on 0:23:02.960 --> 0:23:06.359 Walmart nineteen ninety nine. Well, you know what, you know, 0:23:06.440 --> 0:23:09.720 we're not supposed to be well you know this before 0:23:09.760 --> 0:23:13.159 that though, Well, Walmart is set up like Amazon, so 0:23:13.200 --> 0:23:15.400 they have individual sellers and stuff on there. 0:23:15.920 --> 0:23:16.359 No they do. 0:23:16.520 --> 0:23:19.080 But I was saying, you know, Walmart supported that men 0:23:21.320 --> 0:23:23.640 come to find out. I mean, honest I bought this 0:23:23.720 --> 0:23:26.480 way before that. But y'all still want to buy it 0:23:26.520 --> 0:23:28.000 out a link Gunvy on malt A. 0:23:28.359 --> 0:23:31.480 But what's crazy about it is, I mean, if we're 0:23:31.480 --> 0:23:33.440 gonna do it like that, we really can't buy shit. 0:23:34.160 --> 0:23:38.119 We all we can wear is music, beauty exactly. 0:23:37.600 --> 0:23:39.920 All were gonna be walking around if we don't ww 0:23:40.160 --> 0:23:43.679 dot M Beauty Collection dot com. That's gonna be the 0:23:43.680 --> 0:23:47.479 only thing we can wear, though not really for the 0:23:47.480 --> 0:23:49.200 most part. 0:23:49.600 --> 0:23:52.280 What about no, because honestly, I'll be getting my hair 0:23:52.320 --> 0:23:54.359 and stuff from overseas. 0:23:54.560 --> 0:23:56.600 But what I'm talking about, like the clothes, Like if 0:23:56.640 --> 0:23:58.720 you want to go shopping at any of these stores 0:23:58.760 --> 0:24:00.440 in the mall are online. 0:24:00.560 --> 0:24:01.520 Nine times out of ten. 0:24:01.520 --> 0:24:04.879 If it's something that is owned here, it's gonna be 0:24:04.920 --> 0:24:06.760 from somebody who supported Trump, you think. 0:24:06.640 --> 0:24:07.159 So, I know. 0:24:07.240 --> 0:24:10.680 So that's why we don't get me started. 0:24:10.720 --> 0:24:12.040 All right, let's get into the person. 0:24:40.600 --> 0:24:42.760 What's up, y'all is your girl XP and it's your 0:24:42.760 --> 0:24:43.720 girls writing a call. 0:24:44.200 --> 0:24:45.879 And we love saving money. 0:24:45.880 --> 0:24:47.800 And I'm gonna tell y'all how we did it using 0:24:47.880 --> 0:24:49.280 Rocket Money dot com. 0:24:49.600 --> 0:24:52.560 Rocket Money is a personal finance app that helps find 0:24:52.600 --> 0:24:56.240 and cancel your unwanted subscriptions, monitors you're spending, and helps 0:24:56.359 --> 0:24:58.800 lower your bills so you can grow your saving. 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Okay, So I wanted to talk 0:25:56.760 --> 0:25:59.120 about this day because I just think it's interesting, because 0:25:59.160 --> 0:26:02.199 I saw a lot of people perspective on it, and 0:26:03.119 --> 0:26:05.400 I just wanted to kind of give let us give 0:26:05.400 --> 0:26:08.160 our two cents. So I want to talk about being 0:26:08.240 --> 0:26:13.680 friends with or dating a contrarian. Now, if you don't 0:26:13.720 --> 0:26:16.800 know what a contrarian is, the definition is a person 0:26:16.840 --> 0:26:22.040 who opposes or rejects popular opinion. Okay, so somebody who 0:26:22.080 --> 0:26:24.960 just kind of goes against the grain, or somebody who 0:26:25.000 --> 0:26:29.960 was just always disagreeing with things that people have to say. So, 0:26:30.080 --> 0:26:34.119 for example, if you get on Twitter and you are like, 0:26:34.320 --> 0:26:38.520 oh my gosh, I really love blueberries. Blueberries are so good, Well, 0:26:38.680 --> 0:26:42.680 actually you really shouldn't eat blueberries because of X y Z, 0:26:43.080 --> 0:26:45.320 and I don't know why you're eating blueberries when strawberries 0:26:45.359 --> 0:26:45.760 are better. 0:26:46.040 --> 0:26:48.959 That's like what a contrarian is, you know what I'm saying. So, 0:26:49.200 --> 0:26:49.879 have I agree? 0:26:49.920 --> 0:26:54.439 Have you ever dated a contrarian or been friends with one? No, no, 0:26:54.600 --> 0:26:54.960 not really. 0:26:54.960 --> 0:26:56.840 I don't think so. I don't think somebody. I think 0:26:56.880 --> 0:26:59.880 people in the comments will say that I'm a contrarian. 0:26:59.520 --> 0:27:02.520 You think absolutely the funk not. I think I just 0:27:02.560 --> 0:27:04.480 don't be agreeing with people. A lot of the time, 0:27:05.000 --> 0:27:08.000 I think stupid shit, like because what you just said 0:27:08.040 --> 0:27:08.800 in some dumbites. 0:27:09.720 --> 0:27:12.240 But that's what I'm saying, Like I think, like, for example, 0:27:12.320 --> 0:27:14.840 I think a contrarian and somebody who don't like Beyonce. 0:27:15.400 --> 0:27:19.919 That's just my opinion, okay, because it's like you want. 0:27:19.840 --> 0:27:23.160 To be so different. Yeah, you know what I mean. 0:27:23.520 --> 0:27:24.880 I think it's people like that. 0:27:24.960 --> 0:27:27.200 But the reason that I said that people will say 0:27:27.200 --> 0:27:29.560 it is because people be like, oh, Drea just always 0:27:29.600 --> 0:27:32.440 want to disagree with Lex, like she's committed to disagree 0:27:32.480 --> 0:27:32.920 with Leix. 0:27:33.240 --> 0:27:34.000 I don't think I'm this. 0:27:34.160 --> 0:27:36.280 I don't think I'm committed to disagree with you, cause 0:27:36.280 --> 0:27:37.840 I think it's a lot of times we could look 0:27:37.920 --> 0:27:39.640 back on Poormonde's history where I have. 0:27:39.640 --> 0:27:44.360 Agreed with you history history we do because it's been 0:27:44.480 --> 0:27:46.280 on for a long time. 0:27:47.080 --> 0:27:50.280 This would be like in television season fourteen. 0:27:50.560 --> 0:27:56.480 Yeah, we definitely Donna like yeah, like Gray's Anatomy, ain't got. 0:27:55.200 --> 0:28:00.760 On us except for the pay the facts. But but yeah, 0:28:00.880 --> 0:28:02.560 like I just feel like, if you look back on 0:28:02.560 --> 0:28:05.760 Pormyane's history, it's a lot of times I agree with 0:28:05.800 --> 0:28:07.720 you because you make valid points a lot of the time, 0:28:07.720 --> 0:28:09.840 and I do be agreeing with you. But when I 0:28:09.920 --> 0:28:13.439 don't agree, I'm very much hard down on me not 0:28:13.560 --> 0:28:15.400 agreeing because that's just how I am. 0:28:15.520 --> 0:28:18.040 It's general, it's not even just a you thing, I think. 0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:20.280 I think it's easy for people to say that when 0:28:20.280 --> 0:28:22.840 they watch us because it's just me and you on 0:28:22.880 --> 0:28:25.080 the college. But I'm like that in real life too, 0:28:25.240 --> 0:28:27.600 Like when I don't agree with shit, I don't agree. 0:28:27.680 --> 0:28:30.120 And maybe it's a tourist in me just being real 0:28:30.160 --> 0:28:34.760 stubborn and like speaking with conviction when it comes to 0:28:34.760 --> 0:28:38.680 my beliefs. But yeah, no, because I feel like if 0:28:38.680 --> 0:28:40.280 something is popular. 0:28:41.040 --> 0:28:42.960 Popular, yeah it's sunger. 0:28:42.720 --> 0:28:45.560 Gunna be passion, I cannot wait. 0:28:45.440 --> 0:28:48.080 To say it's something that is popular and everybody is 0:28:48.120 --> 0:28:48.920 agreeing with it. 0:28:49.040 --> 0:28:51.920 Like I sometimes will agree. 0:28:51.600 --> 0:28:54.360 With stuff too, but then if I don't agree with something, 0:28:54.440 --> 0:28:56.160 I really don't agree with it. 0:28:56.520 --> 0:28:58.680 So this is why I feel like you're not a contrary, 0:28:58.760 --> 0:29:05.520 because I, to me a contrarian is a person who 0:29:05.720 --> 0:29:09.800 listens to speak, and they don't listen to understand. So 0:29:09.880 --> 0:29:13.000 it doesn't matter what you're saying, how many points that 0:29:13.080 --> 0:29:17.840 you're making that are valid, they're not listening because and also, 0:29:18.200 --> 0:29:21.040 I truly believe that when a person is a contrarian, 0:29:21.600 --> 0:29:25.080 they are specific to who they're being a contrarian too. 0:29:26.160 --> 0:29:29.640 I don't think that they're contrarians to everybody. I think 0:29:29.680 --> 0:29:33.920 that if somebody doesn't like you, they're committed to misunderstanding you. 0:29:34.800 --> 0:29:38.600 So like I'll always use online for an example. 0:29:39.240 --> 0:29:41.880 If you never speak to me and you never say 0:29:41.920 --> 0:29:44.600 nothing to me online and the only time you talk 0:29:44.680 --> 0:29:47.160 to me is to disagree with something I have to say, 0:29:47.400 --> 0:29:49.800 it's because you don't like me, and it's because you 0:29:49.840 --> 0:29:51.800 just want to disagree with what I'm saying, just to 0:29:52.200 --> 0:29:55.840 argue with me, because you just don't like me. Versus 0:29:56.040 --> 0:29:58.400 when me and you have conversations, it's not that you 0:29:58.400 --> 0:30:00.600 don't like me, you just probably don't. Lex you wrong, 0:30:00.680 --> 0:30:02.280 or lex I agree with this, or lex I don't. 0:30:02.480 --> 0:30:05.440 We have debates all the time, it's different from literally 0:30:05.520 --> 0:30:10.120 having a debate and literally just fighting everything somebody says. 0:30:10.160 --> 0:30:13.360 And like I said to me, all of that boils 0:30:13.400 --> 0:30:15.400 down to you just don't like that person. 0:30:16.200 --> 0:30:17.880 Yeah, you just don't like that person. 0:30:17.920 --> 0:30:19.920 Because if somebody can say the sky is blue and 0:30:20.000 --> 0:30:22.160 you want to argue with them about it, you just 0:30:22.200 --> 0:30:22.960 don't like that person. 0:30:23.000 --> 0:30:24.760 That'd be hippening in the USMS all. 0:30:24.600 --> 0:30:29.080 The time, all the damn times, start as all the time. 0:30:29.120 --> 0:30:33.440 We could say any fucking thig and they'd be like, actually, no, bitch, somebody, 0:30:33.560 --> 0:30:34.240 that's not true. 0:30:34.320 --> 0:30:36.200 Somebody had kind of tried to start a little something 0:30:36.240 --> 0:30:40.400 something about the deveil episode. They were just like, poor 0:30:40.440 --> 0:30:45.560 Mind's is just not the platform because people can go 0:30:45.560 --> 0:30:50.000 on there and spew misogynistic views and they don't fight back. Well, 0:30:50.120 --> 0:30:51.160 my thing is. 0:30:53.000 --> 0:30:56.960 Is your platform, the platform, invite them on yours. But 0:30:57.040 --> 0:30:59.280 I also just feel that's would I always be wondering, 0:30:59.440 --> 0:31:02.400 like she if you think you can do better. 0:31:02.960 --> 0:31:07.200 I'm not here to change somebody's I'm not a contrarian. 0:31:07.720 --> 0:31:09.960 I'm not here to argue or try to change somebody's 0:31:09.960 --> 0:31:10.840 mind about anything. 0:31:11.040 --> 0:31:13.840 I'm not here to change anybody's mind whom nobody listens 0:31:13.880 --> 0:31:14.800 to anyways. 0:31:14.880 --> 0:31:17.760 Right right, Like a lot of people be saying a 0:31:17.760 --> 0:31:21.040 lot of nothing and nobody cares. Like the only way 0:31:21.080 --> 0:31:24.120 people will even see it or cares if we retweet it. Right, 0:31:24.720 --> 0:31:29.600 So yeah, there's that. But and sometimes I be hating 0:31:29.600 --> 0:31:32.240 to be bitchy like that. But then sometimes I'm glad 0:31:32.280 --> 0:31:34.040 that I'm like that because I feel like one of 0:31:34.120 --> 0:31:41.800 us need to say, give me, one of us need 0:31:41.880 --> 0:31:45.400 to say because people just be having us so fucked up. 0:31:45.480 --> 0:31:47.800 Sometimes. Oh my god, you know what we are? 0:31:49.360 --> 0:31:54.920 We are. We are definitely like Alphaba and Glinda and 0:31:55.080 --> 0:31:59.400 Wicked speaking like we are one hundred percent that Like 0:31:59.440 --> 0:32:01.440 they look at you like the villain, but you really 0:32:01.480 --> 0:32:04.040 are saving the world. You're like Thanos, You're really not 0:32:04.080 --> 0:32:07.920 wrong because Loki, you half of y'all do need to 0:32:07.920 --> 0:32:11.760 be gone. You know what I'm saying, You bitches need 0:32:11.760 --> 0:32:15.000 to be gone. And I'm like, I'm definitely Glinda. I'm like, 0:32:15.320 --> 0:32:19.800 you know, I care about popular. Yeah, you're gonna be popular. 0:32:20.800 --> 0:32:22.560 Yeah that is us to a t. 0:32:22.960 --> 0:32:24.880 It is Oh my god, that is. 0:32:27.520 --> 0:32:31.200 You're different. I think you what, But that's what I 0:32:31.200 --> 0:32:33.520 love about Do I want to shot to Yeah, come on, 0:32:33.600 --> 0:32:34.240 take it with my head. 0:32:34.400 --> 0:32:35.640 I think that's what I love about you. 0:32:35.680 --> 0:32:38.840 Though. I love people like you just when you believe something, 0:32:38.880 --> 0:32:40.400 you stand on business about it. 0:32:40.600 --> 0:32:43.320 I've always said I fuck with people like that. There's 0:32:43.360 --> 0:32:44.280 people on Twitter. 0:32:44.440 --> 0:32:46.120 I won't even shout out right now because y'all will 0:32:46.120 --> 0:32:47.520 probably drag me to the mud. 0:32:47.680 --> 0:32:49.600 But there's certain people on Twitter. 0:32:49.440 --> 0:32:54.240 Or Instagram TikTok that y'all hate because they be saying 0:32:54.280 --> 0:32:54.880 some stupid shit. 0:32:54.920 --> 0:32:56.480 And now do I agree with what they're saying. 0:32:56.560 --> 0:32:58.480 No, But I fuck with how they staying in the 0:32:58.720 --> 0:33:04.480 shit and be like, yeah, I said it. Yeah, I'll 0:33:04.520 --> 0:33:09.640 be saying and ship yo, yeah you do. Yeah. Sometimes 0:33:09.720 --> 0:33:12.640 you'll be saying something I'll be like, bro, shut up, 0:33:12.720 --> 0:33:14.760 and you be like and I said it, I don't 0:33:14.760 --> 0:33:19.040 give a fuck, And I'd be like, bro, but hey 0:33:19.160 --> 0:33:21.480 on Twitter, yes, but you standing in that ship and 0:33:21.560 --> 0:33:23.520 I like it. It'd be cracking me up because you 0:33:23.520 --> 0:33:25.800 don't give a fuck. And I love that about you. 0:33:26.280 --> 0:33:28.320 That's probably one of the main things I really do 0:33:28.360 --> 0:33:31.000 love about you. Like you be like you. 0:33:30.960 --> 0:33:35.680 Don't give a fuck. That's commit That's like I'll be like. 0:33:35.880 --> 0:33:44.120 Commendable, Yeah, yeah, drug because I would because when it 0:33:44.160 --> 0:33:47.240 gets too much, because when it gets he'll be like 0:33:47.280 --> 0:33:51.480 hold on, hold, get hold on, get drug because nus. 0:33:51.760 --> 0:33:53.960 I mean, but I'm saying though, but like I know. 0:33:54.000 --> 0:33:58.320 Like well, because I just I just really feel like 0:33:59.000 --> 0:34:01.960 it's not even that I feel sad for people. I 0:34:01.960 --> 0:34:05.280 I genuinely though, do feel bad for people who care 0:34:05.360 --> 0:34:09.319 that much about other people's like opinions of what they 0:34:09.360 --> 0:34:11.399 think or what they have to say, because that has 0:34:11.440 --> 0:34:14.480 to be exhausting to like live your life based off 0:34:14.520 --> 0:34:17.880 of what you think other people think. Like I'm gonna 0:34:17.880 --> 0:34:19.560 say whatever the fuck I want to say. It's a 0:34:19.560 --> 0:34:21.880 lot of shit. I feel like I don't have like 0:34:22.080 --> 0:34:23.839 super offensive opinions. 0:34:23.920 --> 0:34:27.840 I just don't have. I don't do you do you think. 0:34:27.719 --> 0:34:29.719 I have super offensive opinions. I don't think you have 0:34:29.960 --> 0:34:32.239 that I speak of that I speak about publicly. I 0:34:32.280 --> 0:34:35.400 don't think you have super offensive opinions. I just think 0:34:36.880 --> 0:34:38.640 the life people don't. 0:34:38.480 --> 0:34:40.760 Understand the life you have lived. 0:34:41.400 --> 0:34:46.480 So a lot of times you are looking through the 0:34:46.520 --> 0:34:49.160 glasses of Dre and the cole and you've lived this 0:34:49.360 --> 0:34:53.040 a certain type of life, and people y'all will never 0:34:53.120 --> 0:34:53.759 understand that. 0:34:54.520 --> 0:34:57.320 Unfortunately, some people just aren't relatable. 0:34:57.360 --> 0:35:00.719 And that's okay, you know what I'm saying. Like people 0:35:00.800 --> 0:35:04.320 use this comparison all the time. Beyonce and Rihanna, Yeah, 0:35:04.400 --> 0:35:08.520 Beyonce and Rihanna are both amazing artists, amazing business women. 0:35:08.560 --> 0:35:10.000 They're extremely successful. 0:35:10.360 --> 0:35:12.719 Beyonce has made it this far and she is not 0:35:12.840 --> 0:35:16.360 relatable and that's not a bad thing. That's she's just 0:35:16.480 --> 0:35:19.400 she's been famous. I mean she she was fifteen. I 0:35:19.440 --> 0:35:20.480 tweeted this the other day. 0:35:20.480 --> 0:35:23.160 I retweeted her because somebody was saying they were trying 0:35:23.160 --> 0:35:25.359 to argue that she was relatable when she came out 0:35:25.400 --> 0:35:28.560 with Upgrade You, and so I retweeted the tweet and 0:35:28.600 --> 0:35:30.959 I just was like, oh, and they because somebody else 0:35:31.080 --> 0:35:34.160 retweeted it and was like and they posted a clip 0:35:34.200 --> 0:35:36.600 of the video and they were like, y'all were trying 0:35:36.600 --> 0:35:39.520 to say this woman was relatable because obviously she was 0:35:39.520 --> 0:35:42.480 talking about like expensive ass. She like we didn't know 0:35:42.520 --> 0:35:45.640 about vaccine. And so I retweeted it and I was like, 0:35:45.680 --> 0:35:51.160 I'll never understand people obsession with exceptional people being relatable, 0:35:51.239 --> 0:35:51.879 right see. 0:35:51.960 --> 0:35:55.560 And then on the other end, there's Rihanna. Because Rihanna 0:35:55.640 --> 0:35:58.839 is more relatable to me, I don't think, well, let 0:35:58.840 --> 0:36:01.200 me say, because you're using upgrade You as an example, 0:36:01.200 --> 0:36:03.359 but Rihanna has always been seeing It's like I checked 0:36:03.400 --> 0:36:05.960 in a real all the girls were. 0:36:06.120 --> 0:36:09.799 Hang you on my disease. We sad, but we. 0:36:10.400 --> 0:36:12.480 Talks about but she cut all her hair off and 0:36:13.840 --> 0:36:15.440 she went to a mental breakdown. 0:36:15.640 --> 0:36:17.680 No, I get it. But what I'm saying is Briyonce, 0:36:17.840 --> 0:36:19.480 don't talk to us, which is. 0:36:19.440 --> 0:36:21.840 Not No, it's not an issue. Rian gonna talk to y'all. 0:36:21.840 --> 0:36:25.360 She used to hell yeah y'all. Yeah yeah, but at 0:36:25.440 --> 0:36:26.319 least we can get to it. 0:36:26.360 --> 0:36:28.880 Though. I love Rihanna though, because I always say I 0:36:28.920 --> 0:36:33.200 feel like I'm more Rihanna, I will cuss go as off. 0:36:33.400 --> 0:36:36.680 Out Their experience is your life experiences? Like it gives 0:36:36.719 --> 0:36:40.920 like a Beyonce like you like don't know her, Mariah 0:36:41.000 --> 0:36:46.080 Carey even mm like you're like the the old school diva. 0:36:47.040 --> 0:36:49.600 You think, yeah, you're like the old school. Like when 0:36:49.640 --> 0:36:54.320 we when we are at the pinnacle of poor minds, 0:36:54.320 --> 0:36:57.000 which we're nowhere near, but when we get to that 0:36:57.160 --> 0:37:00.120 to where we're like, okay, this is this is serious, 0:37:00.680 --> 0:37:05.600 it's definitely gonna give like you been been that girl, 0:37:06.160 --> 0:37:08.120 because I mean, you've been that girl. So That's what 0:37:08.160 --> 0:37:11.600 I'm saying. But I think people need to understand it's okay, 0:37:11.719 --> 0:37:15.920 not everybody is relatable, but are you nice. But the truth, 0:37:15.960 --> 0:37:18.840 that's what I think matters. The true essence of intelligence 0:37:19.040 --> 0:37:22.239 is understanding people that are not like you and understanding 0:37:22.280 --> 0:37:24.840 people that you necessarily don't understand. 0:37:25.760 --> 0:37:28.040 Well, what I was gonna say is to me being 0:37:28.400 --> 0:37:31.680 not being relatable, it's like not really the issue. I 0:37:31.719 --> 0:37:34.200 think it's more about who you are at your core 0:37:34.440 --> 0:37:36.200 as a person, Like are you a nice person? 0:37:36.320 --> 0:37:36.560 Right? 0:37:36.719 --> 0:37:38.760 Do you care about people? Are you a decent person? 0:37:38.800 --> 0:37:40.200 Do you treat people with kindness? 0:37:40.280 --> 0:37:42.120 Do you write new twenty one questions? 0:37:43.840 --> 0:37:47.239 I'm I'm just saying seriously, but I don't know, Like 0:37:47.320 --> 0:37:51.200 I think that's the stuff that should more so matter 0:37:51.520 --> 0:37:55.040 than anything else. But going back to my initial question 0:37:55.120 --> 0:37:57.440 that I asked you, you think I have offensive opinions? 0:37:58.120 --> 0:38:00.520 I think there's times that where you said things and 0:38:00.640 --> 0:38:02.600 I get where you're coming from because I know you, 0:38:02.960 --> 0:38:06.880 but i'd be like friend, no, no. 0:38:07.880 --> 0:38:07.960 M. 0:38:09.680 --> 0:38:13.280 But I also feel like you relate more to the masses. 0:38:14.440 --> 0:38:18.640 So I think you have that. You know, but that's okay, 0:38:18.880 --> 0:38:20.799 Like nothing is wrong with that. But I think that 0:38:20.880 --> 0:38:24.279 there's definitely always people who agree with you, And then 0:38:24.320 --> 0:38:26.120 I think it's people who agree with me a lot 0:38:26.120 --> 0:38:29.600 of the time. But I think that majority of people 0:38:29.719 --> 0:38:32.160 agree with you because I think you always kind of 0:38:32.200 --> 0:38:34.640 have like the popular opinion. 0:38:34.719 --> 0:38:35.239 Popular. 0:38:36.640 --> 0:38:38.960 Yeah, I think you always want to have the popular opinion. 0:38:39.000 --> 0:38:42.040 I think I kind of always I don't want to 0:38:42.080 --> 0:38:45.600 say challenge people's thought process, but sometimes it's just kind 0:38:45.600 --> 0:38:47.160 of like why do you feel that way? 0:38:47.239 --> 0:38:48.319 Or like why do you think that way? 0:38:48.320 --> 0:38:50.839 And I think that's why people could think I'm a contrrian, 0:38:50.880 --> 0:38:53.239 because I be really trying to understand, like, well, what 0:38:53.360 --> 0:38:54.000 makes you think that? 0:38:54.440 --> 0:38:56.360 Well? I always try to look at things from everybody's 0:38:56.360 --> 0:38:58.160 point of view. So I'll give you an example of 0:38:58.200 --> 0:39:01.640 something that you said one time somebody, and this is 0:39:01.640 --> 0:39:04.040 actually gonna get into our second topic. Okay, so let's 0:39:04.040 --> 0:39:06.359 take our shot before I say what I gotta say, 0:39:07.000 --> 0:39:12.600 because it's gonna lead into the second topic. Pop gun. 0:39:14.840 --> 0:39:16.480 I feel like I don't never get this drunk because 0:39:16.480 --> 0:39:19.879 I do when to my dream no matter where I go, 0:39:20.920 --> 0:39:23.480 time have me messed up at OURMANI baby shower. 0:39:26.120 --> 0:39:27.719 I believe it shout out to our money. 0:39:29.760 --> 0:39:39.440 Who Okay, yeah, all right, what's that have to say? 0:39:40.160 --> 0:39:42.840 Sorry? So what I was gonna say was there was 0:39:42.880 --> 0:39:45.280 a time that somebody had tweeted and I'm not quoting 0:39:45.280 --> 0:39:48.160 it word for word, bar for bar, but somebody had 0:39:48.200 --> 0:39:54.320 said something like, ladies, stop thinking that you're gonna get 0:39:54.800 --> 0:39:58.839 the beautiful rich man that has all these things, that's 0:39:58.880 --> 0:40:00.719 gonna take care of you and you live in a 0:40:00.719 --> 0:40:04.239 soft life. It's not happening. That's what she said. And 0:40:04.280 --> 0:40:05.319 then you have retweeted and. 0:40:05.440 --> 0:40:08.200 Was like, why are y'all. 0:40:07.880 --> 0:40:10.719 Projecting on people because it can very much happen. Just 0:40:10.760 --> 0:40:14.800 say it can't happen for you. Yeah, I still agree 0:40:14.840 --> 0:40:17.200 with it. Right, So what I'm saying is I see 0:40:17.200 --> 0:40:23.520 where both energy is coming from. But if we're being realistic, 0:40:24.440 --> 0:40:28.759 the amount of men in this world that are, you know, 0:40:30.640 --> 0:40:33.759 making money look good, are gonna treat you right? Like 0:40:33.880 --> 0:40:37.200 essentially like what every woman wants. The likelihood of the 0:40:38.320 --> 0:40:41.239 average woman having that happen to them and a man 0:40:41.280 --> 0:40:44.719 coming to save them or help them investing them. I mean, 0:40:44.920 --> 0:40:47.719 if we're being honest and real it's not gonna happen. 0:40:47.600 --> 0:40:50.200 Right, But then who's to say, who's it gonna like? 0:40:50.320 --> 0:40:54.320 Who it's not gonna happen to? So, like, you're putting 0:40:54.360 --> 0:40:57.440 this out there into the world because you've accepted that 0:40:57.440 --> 0:41:01.000 these won't happen for you, but like it will happen 0:41:01.120 --> 0:41:05.600 unfortunately or somebody. But the percentage of it is I 0:41:05.719 --> 0:41:08.279 understand what you're saying. As far as percentages that A 0:41:08.400 --> 0:41:11.359 hundred percent friend, I one hundred percent get you, Like 0:41:11.680 --> 0:41:12.279 I get that. 0:41:12.480 --> 0:41:13.880 I think I just hate. 0:41:14.440 --> 0:41:17.400 Negative ass people like people like that get on my 0:41:17.480 --> 0:41:19.719 nerves because they be the people where it's like, okay, 0:41:19.840 --> 0:41:23.120 like life has dealt me bad cards and life is unfair, 0:41:23.360 --> 0:41:25.440 it's gonna have ever happened and this could never happen 0:41:25.480 --> 0:41:27.360 for me, so it's gonna happen for all of y'all. 0:41:27.480 --> 0:41:29.560 Stop making people stop Like I. 0:41:29.480 --> 0:41:31.640 Think that as a woman, as long as you are 0:41:31.760 --> 0:41:36.000 really working on reaching your own goals and you have 0:41:36.200 --> 0:41:38.239 somewhat of a plan and you have a plan and 0:41:38.280 --> 0:41:40.600 you have things that you are trying to do for yourself, 0:41:41.400 --> 0:41:44.040 if that's still something that you think could happen. 0:41:43.880 --> 0:41:45.000 For you, that's okay. 0:41:45.560 --> 0:41:48.280 Like why are you trying to kill people's hopes and dreams? 0:41:48.360 --> 0:41:51.239 Like I hate That's why I hate. That's why I 0:41:51.280 --> 0:41:56.120 hate Twitter, Loki for real or X that this shit 0:41:56.200 --> 0:41:57.960 and should have been named X a long time ago. 0:41:58.040 --> 0:42:02.200 They did to X this shit out, but no, it's 0:42:02.320 --> 0:42:06.120 like why are you getting online being so negative? Like 0:42:06.160 --> 0:42:08.960 it's like, yeah, that did not happen for you. Just 0:42:09.000 --> 0:42:11.600 like we've talked about this before on the show. We 0:42:11.719 --> 0:42:14.960 had somebody I said this on another episode comment, oh 0:42:15.160 --> 0:42:17.840 y'all need to have kids in the next two years, 0:42:17.960 --> 0:42:20.080 or like y'all should just not have any Why when 0:42:20.160 --> 0:42:23.399 bitches is out here having kids at forty three, forty five, 0:42:23.400 --> 0:42:26.320 I'm not saying that that's gonna be me, because personally 0:42:26.480 --> 0:42:29.440 I don't want to have a kid at all, right, right, 0:42:29.520 --> 0:42:33.279 but at the end of the day, it's women out 0:42:33.320 --> 0:42:38.160 here that are doing it, so you're projecting, okay, you know, 0:42:38.280 --> 0:42:40.320 and then they'd be like I even somebody left the 0:42:40.360 --> 0:42:42.759 comment under one of our videos and they under that 0:42:42.880 --> 0:42:46.600 video it was a club and they were like, cause, realistically, 0:42:46.680 --> 0:42:48.799 most of the time, when you have a child in 0:42:48.840 --> 0:42:51.319 your forties, you're not even gonna live to see them 0:42:51.320 --> 0:42:54.600 be twenty. My mom and my dad adopted My mom 0:42:54.640 --> 0:42:57.360 and my dad adopted me. My mom was forty one 0:42:57.560 --> 0:43:00.399 and I think my dad was thirty nine. My mom 0:43:00.480 --> 0:43:04.120 is still alive. My mom is seventy five. So it's like, 0:43:04.520 --> 0:43:08.400 y'all you didn't eat that, Like y'all are projecting. 0:43:07.920 --> 0:43:09.520 Because my mom had me at twenty. 0:43:09.280 --> 0:43:15.279 And she died sex you know, like you know, I'm 0:43:15.320 --> 0:43:18.759 not and I'm not for no, no, and I'm not 0:43:19.560 --> 0:43:20.439 not that I'm not. 0:43:21.320 --> 0:43:23.400 But I even said that in the comments as a 0:43:23.440 --> 0:43:27.560 rebuttal because it's like, you never know, Yeah, somebody can 0:43:27.960 --> 0:43:28.760 not laughing. 0:43:29.040 --> 0:43:31.880 I'm not laughing, but I'm saying what you're right, Yeah. 0:43:31.840 --> 0:43:34.640 Y'all know what I'm say because you never know when 0:43:34.640 --> 0:43:37.040 someone can pass away. Your mom can have you at 0:43:37.120 --> 0:43:40.560 twenty and not live to see you be thirty or four, 0:43:40.680 --> 0:43:42.360 like it happens all the time. 0:43:42.440 --> 0:43:44.959 So rude, age, rude. 0:43:45.320 --> 0:43:51.560 Yeah it was me, mama, Oh how you gonna check 0:43:51.560 --> 0:43:52.080 out like this? 0:43:53.200 --> 0:43:57.800 Like like what about me? What about to day. 0:44:00.480 --> 0:44:01.719 Or any that had enough. 0:44:03.080 --> 0:44:07.680 Said the good? Okay, but no, for real, y'all. 0:44:07.760 --> 0:44:11.200 I was just saying that to say, like again, to me, 0:44:11.280 --> 0:44:15.279 it's just always projection, and that's what I don't like. 0:44:15.480 --> 0:44:16.000 That's why I. 0:44:15.920 --> 0:44:17.879 Feel like, maybe I mean shit, bitch, maybe I am 0:44:17.920 --> 0:44:19.919 a contrary and a little bit because I just feel 0:44:19.920 --> 0:44:20.560 like pitting y'all. 0:44:20.680 --> 0:44:21.200 Fucking weck. 0:44:21.239 --> 0:44:24.640 It's fugged y'all be having some stupid ass opinions and 0:44:24.840 --> 0:44:27.759 just because it did not happen for you does not 0:44:27.960 --> 0:44:30.160 mean that it can't happen for the next person. 0:44:30.320 --> 0:44:31.600 Like, I just think that's such. 0:44:31.400 --> 0:44:34.920 A negative you even if you do feel that way, 0:44:35.960 --> 0:44:37.560 keep me to yourself, okay, But. 0:44:37.520 --> 0:44:39.279 Bring in the second topic though, because it kind of 0:44:39.280 --> 0:44:43.880 ties into you know, what you were saying, Oh wow, 0:44:44.000 --> 0:44:46.279 because I don't think so, but I bring it in. Yeah. 0:44:46.280 --> 0:44:47.319 Well, I just feel like. 0:44:50.520 --> 0:44:52.640 Certain things and I don't want to say that it's 0:44:52.680 --> 0:44:55.360 about like equal or not, but I just feel like 0:44:55.800 --> 0:44:58.400 certain things are ordained for certain people. 0:44:58.520 --> 0:45:00.160 I think so yeah, so so. 0:45:00.480 --> 0:45:03.319 Not every woman is going to marry a man who's 0:45:03.360 --> 0:45:06.080 a millionaire. That's beautiful in this and xyz, But that 0:45:06.080 --> 0:45:08.880 doesn't mean you can't personally be a millionaire, that you 0:45:08.920 --> 0:45:11.680 can't have all these amazing things. You may not just 0:45:11.800 --> 0:45:15.680 have a partner. And I just feel like everybody's path 0:45:16.400 --> 0:45:20.719 is different. But when we're talking about this specific specifically 0:45:21.280 --> 0:45:24.560 with dating you know, men who are well off, that 0:45:24.640 --> 0:45:28.279 kind of leads into the topic of the likelihood of 0:45:28.320 --> 0:45:32.320 it happening. Do you think that delusion is a good 0:45:32.760 --> 0:45:33.520 trait to position? 0:45:33.600 --> 0:45:36.239 It depends on what you're being delusional about. I like, 0:45:36.560 --> 0:45:37.719 what I've learned. 0:45:38.920 --> 0:45:41.960 The way my mind has changed so much in adulthood. 0:45:42.000 --> 0:45:46.320 I'm so I'm loving getting older, like for real, because 0:45:47.000 --> 0:45:48.160 the wisdom. 0:45:47.719 --> 0:45:48.640 That I have Now. 0:45:48.719 --> 0:45:51.360 If I had this wisdom at twenty four, do you 0:45:51.640 --> 0:45:54.839 know how bad I would have already done took over 0:45:54.840 --> 0:45:56.480 the world the way I'm about to take over in 0:45:56.480 --> 0:45:59.200 twenty twenty five is already about to be nuts because 0:45:59.200 --> 0:46:01.239 I have the wisdom. But y'all are so lucky that 0:46:01.280 --> 0:46:03.959 I didn't get to this place at twenty four, because 0:46:04.000 --> 0:46:08.040 y'all gonna be tired of seeing me. So I say 0:46:08.080 --> 0:46:13.280 all that to say, you gotta be delusion about delusional 0:46:13.320 --> 0:46:15.719 about positive things that no matter the outcome is gonna 0:46:15.719 --> 0:46:15.920 be good. 0:46:16.000 --> 0:46:19.000 Like I'm delusive, Yeah I'm, but but someone be. 0:46:19.040 --> 0:46:21.920 Like, Oh, don't be delusional about a man, don't be 0:46:22.000 --> 0:46:26.160 delusional about a relationship, be delusional about where you can 0:46:26.200 --> 0:46:28.080 go in life. You cannot tell me that I'm not 0:46:28.080 --> 0:46:30.399 gonna win an Oscar one day. You cannot tell me 0:46:30.719 --> 0:46:32.000 that I'm not gonna. 0:46:31.800 --> 0:46:33.240 I know you gonna win an Oscar. 0:46:33.280 --> 0:46:39.440 That's why I got weeks. You cannot tell me Channel 0:46:39.520 --> 0:46:42.719 is not gonna reach a billion subscribers. You cannot tell 0:46:42.760 --> 0:46:44.760 me that we're not gonna be paid, Like, you cannot 0:46:44.800 --> 0:46:47.320 tell me nothing about anything that I'm doing career wise, 0:46:47.360 --> 0:46:51.000 because I know how fucking good I am and I've 0:46:51.040 --> 0:46:53.239 only scratched, like y'all have only seen this much of 0:46:53.280 --> 0:46:53.800 my talent. 0:46:54.560 --> 0:46:57.520 So I think it's good to be delusional about certain things. 0:46:57.760 --> 0:46:58.480 You know what I'm saying. 0:46:58.560 --> 0:46:59.960 I think it's great to be delusion. 0:47:00.719 --> 0:47:04.880 I think that everybody who is successful is delusional. I 0:47:04.880 --> 0:47:07.960 would love to have a panel one day, I tell like, 0:47:07.960 --> 0:47:10.080 we gonna get there, though, I would love to have 0:47:10.160 --> 0:47:12.360 Oprah on a panel, Jay Z on a panel. But 0:47:12.400 --> 0:47:15.319 I'm like, I'm serious, you cannot tell me that Jeff Bezos, 0:47:15.560 --> 0:47:18.880 all of these like successful ass people, because I really 0:47:18.920 --> 0:47:23.000 feel like it takes a certain level of the audacity. 0:47:22.840 --> 0:47:26.080 The audacity that you think that like it's gonna be you, 0:47:26.760 --> 0:47:29.160 that you're gonna get there, you can make this. 0:47:29.120 --> 0:47:31.600 Type of money, you can reach this pinnacle of success. 0:47:32.000 --> 0:47:33.600 Is Yeah, I think it's a great thing. 0:47:34.080 --> 0:47:36.840 But I said that to say that's going back to 0:47:36.880 --> 0:47:39.000 what I was just saying. That's why I don't like 0:47:39.080 --> 0:47:41.560 people like that, because it's like, let people be delusional, 0:47:41.600 --> 0:47:43.120 even if you feel like a bitch is delusional. 0:47:43.160 --> 0:47:46.239 Let it be delusional. 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There's a lot 0:50:31.600 --> 0:50:34.680 of women who are perfect compliments of broke men. All 0:50:34.800 --> 0:50:38.200 women are not created this should be shouldn't be treated 0:50:38.560 --> 0:50:42.880 equally code, And so the topic I wanted to talk 0:50:42.920 --> 0:50:46.600 about is like, all women are not created equal. 0:50:47.400 --> 0:50:50.520 Hmm Okay, this shot got me stuttering. 0:50:50.719 --> 0:50:55.040 Yeah, so I would say this before we start this conversation. Y'all, 0:50:55.280 --> 0:50:58.400 don't take shit to heart. These are just in our opinions. 0:50:59.040 --> 0:51:02.520 So the reason that I feel like this is kind 0:51:02.520 --> 0:51:04.760 of right, but also they gonna take it the heart. 0:51:05.280 --> 0:51:07.399 This is right and kind of wrong because first of all, 0:51:07.880 --> 0:51:11.920 I believe that all people men are men are woman. 0:51:12.160 --> 0:51:14.640 If you're a good person. If you're a good person, 0:51:14.719 --> 0:51:16.279 you're putting good energy in the world. I don't care 0:51:16.280 --> 0:51:17.960 how much money you make or not. You deserve to 0:51:18.000 --> 0:51:21.560 be treated with decency, bare minimum. So that I have 0:51:21.640 --> 0:51:24.799 to say that about that because she did say you 0:51:24.840 --> 0:51:27.320 deserve to be treated good. Everybody deserves to be treated 0:51:27.360 --> 0:51:28.640 good if you're a good person. 0:51:28.880 --> 0:51:29.760 That's what I believe. 0:51:30.480 --> 0:51:37.160 And but to say that every person deserves, you know 0:51:37.960 --> 0:51:39.319 this dream. 0:51:39.080 --> 0:51:41.000 Man that's a millionaire, I won't. 0:51:41.120 --> 0:51:42.960 I don't like to use the word deserve, but I 0:51:42.960 --> 0:51:44.799 feel like there's somebody for everybody. 0:51:45.360 --> 0:51:48.800 And going back to some old tea, that's why when. 0:51:48.640 --> 0:51:50.239 The lady came on the show and she was like, 0:51:50.360 --> 0:51:52.879 if you make under fifty thousand dollars, you shouldn't date, 0:51:53.400 --> 0:51:56.080 that was the stupides shit I've ever heard. Because there's 0:51:56.160 --> 0:52:01.919 people for like, there's somebody for everybody. So there's some 0:52:02.000 --> 0:52:05.080 women who may not even want a millionaire because they 0:52:05.080 --> 0:52:06.960 don't want to do the things that it takes to 0:52:07.640 --> 0:52:09.520 do all that. They want to work and they want 0:52:09.640 --> 0:52:11.360 There is a lot of women out there who like 0:52:11.480 --> 0:52:12.359 that partnership. 0:52:12.719 --> 0:52:14.360 They want to go fifty to fifty. 0:52:14.960 --> 0:52:20.319 Stop shaming them now, see taa. 0:52:18.760 --> 0:52:24.000 Ta see what see you see? 0:52:24.800 --> 0:52:28.280 But but you said, I always say, came relate. Okay, 0:52:28.280 --> 0:52:30.520 But what I'm saying is there's nothing wrong with that. 0:52:30.560 --> 0:52:33.120 If there's a woman who wants to do fifty to fifty, 0:52:33.360 --> 0:52:35.879 there's a man out there for her and they can 0:52:35.920 --> 0:52:38.759 have a happy relationship and be happy. Oh yeah, So 0:52:38.880 --> 0:52:43.360 there's somebody for everybody. Do I certainly believe that every 0:52:43.480 --> 0:52:47.040 good woman and every good man deserves a good partner. 0:52:47.680 --> 0:52:49.600 But the reality of. 0:52:49.600 --> 0:52:53.359 It is not every person is going to end up 0:52:53.360 --> 0:52:56.399 with somebody who's extremely successful. Even these men out here, 0:52:56.960 --> 0:52:59.160 a lot of these men, they want a successful woman, 0:52:59.200 --> 0:53:02.120 they want a dress, the call, they want alex Pe. 0:53:02.880 --> 0:53:07.359 The likelihood is very slim for them as well. It's 0:53:07.400 --> 0:53:11.040 just slim. It's hard. It's hard. It's like this to 0:53:11.200 --> 0:53:14.799 find Andrea, to find alex or to find a man. 0:53:15.239 --> 0:53:18.080 Whatever men y'all want to use for an example, it's hard. 0:53:18.760 --> 0:53:25.480 So I mean, she's not right, but she's not wrong. Yeah, 0:53:26.239 --> 0:53:26.920 how you feel. 0:53:30.239 --> 0:53:32.520 I think life ain't fair, and I feel like people 0:53:32.520 --> 0:53:36.480 should just start recognizing that number one because people want 0:53:36.560 --> 0:53:38.719 to believe like, oh, if you got a woman who 0:53:38.719 --> 0:53:42.319 work at the peakly Weekly, she's twenty five or she's 0:53:42.320 --> 0:53:44.439 twenty six and she worked at the peakly Weekly, ain't 0:53:44.480 --> 0:53:45.040 no way she. 0:53:45.040 --> 0:53:46.919 Ever gonna meet a millionaire and be with him. 0:53:47.400 --> 0:53:52.319 It'd be happening, though, ask Ambarrose. I don't want to 0:53:52.360 --> 0:53:56.920 really ask her and nothing. But all I'm saying is 0:54:00.120 --> 0:54:08.000 all I'm saying is like, yeah, you said it. I 0:54:08.080 --> 0:54:13.439 concur that's that shot. It's it's a shot, a shot. 0:54:13.560 --> 0:54:17.280 Just blame it on time. It's not like we wiz. 0:54:18.520 --> 0:54:21.759 It ain't even about Wiz. It's about so many other things. 0:54:21.800 --> 0:54:24.080 I just said because he sat on the couch with us. 0:54:24.080 --> 0:54:26.839 Oh okay, yeah yeah, it's about so many other things though. 0:54:27.120 --> 0:54:32.480 But yeah, I think that people even with that tweet, 0:54:32.640 --> 0:54:35.400 like it's like, oh, it's so many women who align 0:54:35.520 --> 0:54:37.799 with broke me in. They do, but they still be 0:54:37.880 --> 0:54:41.040 getting them, they still be catching them. One like I 0:54:41.480 --> 0:54:43.960 don't know, Like, I think life just isn't fair. And 0:54:43.960 --> 0:54:47.960 I think when people let go of this idea of fairness, oh, 0:54:48.440 --> 0:54:49.520 they'll be more. 0:54:49.360 --> 0:54:51.680 Accepting when it comes to life. I'm not going. 0:54:51.920 --> 0:54:55.080 I think they'll reach a new level of enlightenment when 0:54:55.080 --> 0:54:58.560 you realize that, like life just ain't fair, Like shit 0:54:58.719 --> 0:55:02.680 happens because whatever you believe in, whether it's the universe, 0:55:03.760 --> 0:55:09.240 whether it's the Lord, everything happens the way it's supposed 0:55:09.239 --> 0:55:12.759 to happen. Your path is your path, and nothing that 0:55:12.880 --> 0:55:17.560 happens is accidental, nothing that happens is by chance. Everything 0:55:17.600 --> 0:55:19.799 happens because it's supposed to happen that way. And I 0:55:19.840 --> 0:55:22.520 think once people let go of the idea of fairness, 0:55:23.120 --> 0:55:25.759 they'll stop being so upset about a lot of things. 0:55:25.800 --> 0:55:27.839 But I think that's what holds so many people back, 0:55:27.960 --> 0:55:30.359 is that, like even what you were just talking about earlier, 0:55:30.400 --> 0:55:32.960 I think that's why people be feeling like sometimes the 0:55:32.960 --> 0:55:35.600 way they be feeling about things that I say, because 0:55:35.640 --> 0:55:38.000 people think everything is supposed to be fair. And I 0:55:38.000 --> 0:55:41.160 think I speak from a place of like, shit ain't fair. 0:55:41.360 --> 0:55:43.439 That is a bar that you said, though I want 0:55:43.440 --> 0:55:46.960 to talk about that, that's a fucking bar what you 0:55:47.160 --> 0:55:49.640 have to accept the unfairness of life. 0:55:49.800 --> 0:55:52.200 Yeah, life is not fair. Nobody ever said it was 0:55:52.200 --> 0:55:55.680 supposed to be fair. Do you feel like it's fairness 0:55:55.960 --> 0:55:58.480 or entitlement that people are feeling though? Like, do you 0:55:58.480 --> 0:56:02.759 feel like people feel in titled to receive blessings or 0:56:02.840 --> 0:56:05.120 these good things or just receiving all the things that 0:56:05.239 --> 0:56:07.600 maybe y'all received but I received. Do you feel like 0:56:07.600 --> 0:56:10.080 people feel entitled to that? I think it's a mixture 0:56:10.120 --> 0:56:13.920 of boat. I think it's a mixture of fairness and entitlement. 0:56:14.040 --> 0:56:16.640 It took for me to really have a deep conversation 0:56:16.760 --> 0:56:20.640 with my therapies to really realize that, like, people feel 0:56:20.680 --> 0:56:23.920 like life is supposed to be fair? Who promised you that? 0:56:24.960 --> 0:56:26.920 Who told you that? Like, I'm not trying to be funny, 0:56:26.920 --> 0:56:29.040 even when you read the Bible? Who told you like 0:56:29.600 --> 0:56:30.879 life is supposed to be. 0:56:30.880 --> 0:56:33.560 Same red revelations? Yeah, that's why we're here. 0:56:33.760 --> 0:56:36.360 She gets ugly. It's getting sticken. 0:56:36.680 --> 0:56:40.640 No for real, But it's like cool, But it's like 0:56:40.800 --> 0:56:44.320 who told you? Who made you feel like that's the truth? 0:56:44.600 --> 0:56:48.360 Everybody's opportunities are supposed to be equal. Even in the Bible, 0:56:48.480 --> 0:56:50.759 it was people who were poverty streaking, and it was 0:56:50.760 --> 0:56:51.680 people who were rich. 0:56:51.800 --> 0:56:54.239 It was kings and it was servants, Like you. 0:56:54.200 --> 0:56:59.359 Know it was kings, Okay, I don't know, but seriously though, 0:56:59.400 --> 0:57:01.720 it was kings. It with servants even in the Bible, 0:57:01.840 --> 0:57:05.000 So it's like that just goes It was slaves and 0:57:05.040 --> 0:57:07.839 it was pharaohs, Like it just goes to show you, 0:57:07.880 --> 0:57:12.600 like life is not life is not fair, and it's 0:57:12.640 --> 0:57:13.839 an unfortunate thing. 0:57:14.200 --> 0:57:16.360 You know, it's not fair. 0:57:16.840 --> 0:57:19.200 But that's just the way the cookie crumples a lot 0:57:19.200 --> 0:57:22.000 of the time. And I do think it's entitlement as well. 0:57:22.160 --> 0:57:26.040 Like people will look at somebody else and they'll be like, oh, 0:57:26.160 --> 0:57:27.720 they've reached this level of success. 0:57:27.840 --> 0:57:30.400 I'm doing the same thing. I'm in the same lane. 0:57:30.800 --> 0:57:34.880 Why haven't I gotten the same praise or the same 0:57:34.960 --> 0:57:37.280 accolades or whatever the case may be. But like, the 0:57:37.360 --> 0:57:39.480 crazy thing about shit like that is And I talked 0:57:39.520 --> 0:57:41.200 to one of my friends about this the other day 0:57:41.920 --> 0:57:44.400 because I was talking to her about something personal, and 0:57:44.480 --> 0:57:46.280 she was just like, you have to stop looking at 0:57:46.320 --> 0:57:48.640 other people online and like. 0:57:50.240 --> 0:57:51.240 Feeling some type of. 0:57:51.160 --> 0:57:55.360 Way about certain things, because you have to remember people 0:57:55.440 --> 0:57:59.400 only posting a good shit. So it's like even with us. 0:58:00.120 --> 0:58:02.560 People look at us, they see how far we came. 0:58:02.760 --> 0:58:07.880 They seen everything that we're doing. Awards we get in opportunities. 0:58:07.160 --> 0:58:11.160 That award you push me, award. 0:58:10.880 --> 0:58:15.320 Bitch, I'm menifesting, i'mfesting. I'm claiming it exactly. But they 0:58:15.360 --> 0:58:18.720 see the things that we're doing, and then they feel like, oh, 0:58:18.880 --> 0:58:21.160 they didn't work that hard to get here, Like why 0:58:21.160 --> 0:58:21.960 do they deserve this? 0:58:22.040 --> 0:58:22.480 And I don't know. 0:58:22.480 --> 0:58:24.280 I've been doing this for ten years. They only been 0:58:24.280 --> 0:58:27.000 doing it for five or six. But you don't know 0:58:27.040 --> 0:58:29.480 what went on behind the scene, don't know my. 0:58:29.560 --> 0:58:34.400 Struggle, so you can't feel my hustle. Boosie said a 0:58:34.440 --> 0:58:37.880 word non he ate that. That's the truth. He did. 0:58:38.400 --> 0:58:40.760 I'm just saying that's real. It is real. 0:58:40.840 --> 0:58:43.560 But I was saying that to say like facts though, 0:58:43.720 --> 0:58:46.800 like people don't know everything we went through behind the scenes, 0:58:46.880 --> 0:58:49.120 and like not even trying to be funny, because I 0:58:49.120 --> 0:58:50.800 feel like we say this all the time on the show, 0:58:50.840 --> 0:58:53.680 but like some of the things I feel like I've 0:58:53.720 --> 0:58:56.000 been through in the past six years, most people would 0:58:56.000 --> 0:58:58.800 have folded and crumbled and would have and would not 0:58:58.880 --> 0:59:01.840 have been able to continue you and carry on in 0:59:01.920 --> 0:59:04.240 their career and do the things that they needed to do. 0:59:04.600 --> 0:59:07.120 But like that just goes to show you sometimes things 0:59:07.160 --> 0:59:11.720 are just ordained and so people be hating on it 0:59:11.840 --> 0:59:13.840 or be feeling some type of way about it, but 0:59:13.960 --> 0:59:17.840 like this is my pad. That's why your feelings and 0:59:17.920 --> 0:59:20.760 however you feeling or whatever you got going on internally, 0:59:20.840 --> 0:59:24.600 can't stop what's going on outwardly with me because this 0:59:24.760 --> 0:59:26.760 was already ordained and it was already a part of 0:59:26.800 --> 0:59:32.320 my path. And unfortunately, to play Devil's advocates, sometimes they 0:59:32.400 --> 0:59:34.360 just ain't a part of your pads. That's why it 0:59:34.360 --> 0:59:38.280 haven't happened for some people. And maybe it's something else 0:59:38.320 --> 0:59:41.640 you should be doing that you haven't found purpose, your purpose, 0:59:41.880 --> 0:59:44.960 your calling, and that's why it hasn't happened. And that's 0:59:44.960 --> 0:59:47.880 why I want to say, like I feel like everybody 0:59:47.880 --> 0:59:48.560 has a purpose. 0:59:49.520 --> 0:59:51.400 It's a blessing to find what your purpose is. 0:59:51.520 --> 0:59:56.040 Yeah, I truly, truly I realized this on the first 0:59:56.120 --> 0:59:59.600 tour we went on. I truly realized my purpose on 0:59:59.640 --> 1:00:04.520 this earth is to make people realize, like stick it out, yeah, 1:00:04.680 --> 1:00:09.600 keep going, laugh, entertain people, make people feel good. Because 1:00:09.800 --> 1:00:11.880 I can be having the worst day of my life. 1:00:12.040 --> 1:00:15.000 This happens every time, which is crazy. I be having 1:00:15.000 --> 1:00:17.440 the worst day and I'll be like, what is the point? 1:00:17.520 --> 1:00:19.520 What is the purpose? And then I don't get like 1:00:19.520 --> 1:00:22.560 a loan paragraph or somebody telling us how we change 1:00:22.560 --> 1:00:24.560 their life and how we make them laugh and how 1:00:24.560 --> 1:00:29.040 we so like you said, like I truly believe, like 1:00:29.080 --> 1:00:32.120 God has showed me, like, hey, Lex, you're supposed to 1:00:32.160 --> 1:00:33.040 entertain these people. 1:00:33.320 --> 1:00:34.440 You're supposed to make them feel good. 1:00:34.480 --> 1:00:37.800 You're supposed to show them that this is what you 1:00:37.880 --> 1:00:40.720 can do if you don't stop, and you keep focusing 1:00:40.960 --> 1:00:43.520 and you keep grinding, you keep working. Because I truly 1:00:43.560 --> 1:00:47.840 believe that everything is possible. Anything is possible. But not 1:00:47.960 --> 1:00:51.200 everybody has that mind frame. It's hard when your brain. 1:00:51.680 --> 1:00:55.040 Your brain is like it's an organ, it's a muscle. 1:00:55.080 --> 1:00:57.280 It's gonna do its own things. So you have to 1:00:57.320 --> 1:00:59.640 have the power over it to control it. So I 1:00:59.680 --> 1:01:02.240 do agree with you on that, though I do like 1:01:03.560 --> 1:01:07.880 certain things, like the path is already there, God has 1:01:07.920 --> 1:01:10.080 that path? Are you gonna follow it? Are you gonna 1:01:10.080 --> 1:01:14.160 pay attention to what's going on? I think whatever is 1:01:14.200 --> 1:01:16.320 meant for you, nobody can stop it. I think that's 1:01:16.360 --> 1:01:18.840 why I don't really live my life in fear. Like, 1:01:18.960 --> 1:01:22.040 obviously it's times in my life where I've been anxious, 1:01:23.160 --> 1:01:26.480 and I think that's a normal emotion that everybody can 1:01:28.000 --> 1:01:28.960 you know, identify with. 1:01:29.920 --> 1:01:32.880 I have definitely been anxious at times in my life 1:01:32.920 --> 1:01:35.920 because you just don't know. Like the crazy thing about 1:01:35.920 --> 1:01:39.120 life is you just never know what's gonna happen next. 1:01:39.680 --> 1:01:42.120 And that's really scary. It's scariest about it. 1:01:42.160 --> 1:01:44.920 But I think that if you if you really hone 1:01:44.960 --> 1:01:49.600 in on having a good relationship with a higher power, 1:01:49.720 --> 1:01:52.920 and it's like, I don't be you know, I obviously 1:01:54.760 --> 1:01:57.720 am a Christian and I believe in God, but I'm 1:01:57.760 --> 1:02:00.360 not really big on trying to push that on our 1:02:00.400 --> 1:02:02.720 platform because I just feel like, you know, like people 1:02:02.800 --> 1:02:07.000 have to, yeah and have their own beliefs, and I 1:02:07.000 --> 1:02:08.880 don't ever want that to be a reason why people 1:02:08.920 --> 1:02:10.880 think they can't listen to us too, because we just 1:02:10.960 --> 1:02:12.480 can't trying to always. 1:02:12.040 --> 1:02:13.640 Push religion on them. 1:02:13.680 --> 1:02:16.200 But like, I just think that if you have a 1:02:16.240 --> 1:02:21.160 relationship with a higher power, with God, whoever you praise 1:02:21.280 --> 1:02:25.760 or whatever, like you gotta always know that things are 1:02:25.840 --> 1:02:28.480 going to get better and things are going. 1:02:28.240 --> 1:02:31.800 To work out in your favor. So do you believe 1:02:32.000 --> 1:02:33.600 all women are created equal. 1:02:33.760 --> 1:02:38.600 No, but I think for different reasons than most people think. 1:02:38.400 --> 1:02:42.320 Though, right, You think it's the mindset. Yeah, I think 1:02:42.360 --> 1:02:44.480 it's your mindset. Like I think people be looking at 1:02:44.480 --> 1:02:47.000 surface level stuff like, oh, she work here, she don't 1:02:47.000 --> 1:02:49.320 make this kind of money that this man makes, so 1:02:49.400 --> 1:02:50.720 why would he be attracted to her? 1:02:51.080 --> 1:02:52.560 That doesn't have anything to do with anything. 1:02:52.560 --> 1:02:54.880 That's why you see all the time so many women 1:02:54.920 --> 1:02:58.560 who come from low income, poverty, stricten families, who we 1:02:58.640 --> 1:03:02.280 end up bagging them a multi million dollar men. It 1:03:02.360 --> 1:03:06.160 has a lot to do with so many different factors. 1:03:06.360 --> 1:03:09.479 I don't think all women are created equal. I don't 1:03:09.520 --> 1:03:12.439 necessarily think anybody is created equal. I think God's put 1:03:12.480 --> 1:03:15.440 different strengths and weaknesses in everybody. 1:03:17.920 --> 1:03:20.040 So and I agree to a certain state. 1:03:20.120 --> 1:03:22.560 Like I said, I think all people are created equal, 1:03:22.840 --> 1:03:25.720 but I think people have different paths, and people be 1:03:25.760 --> 1:03:28.520 trying to drive another people lane, and that's where you 1:03:28.600 --> 1:03:32.520 be fucking up at everybody. To me, everybody is created equal. 1:03:32.920 --> 1:03:35.880 But your path for you is over here and it's 1:03:35.920 --> 1:03:37.120 a blessing and. 1:03:37.120 --> 1:03:38.200 It's a great path. 1:03:38.640 --> 1:03:40.919 But you so you can't eat off your plate because 1:03:40.920 --> 1:03:43.120 you're looking at mind you want to do what lex 1:03:43.160 --> 1:03:43.520 P doing. 1:03:43.560 --> 1:03:44.720 You can't do what Lexp do. 1:03:44.840 --> 1:03:51.200 Baby, this ain't for you. You ain't lying, come on now. 1:03:51.640 --> 1:03:54.320 So that's what I'm saying. I think everybody is created equal. 1:03:54.640 --> 1:03:57.400 But social media and the way the world is. 1:03:57.360 --> 1:04:00.320 Now, you like, oh, well look what Drea gott I want. 1:04:00.400 --> 1:04:02.640 That is that what you want? 1:04:02.720 --> 1:04:04.960 Or you just want it because you see where Dre's 1:04:05.000 --> 1:04:06.840 life is at, and that's you know what I'm saying. 1:04:08.120 --> 1:04:10.360 So that's how I mean. You and you could probably 1:04:10.480 --> 1:04:13.160 have it, but you got us. You shouldn't compare yourself 1:04:13.240 --> 1:04:13.440 to me. 1:04:13.720 --> 1:04:16.360 But it's but what I'm saying is you can probably 1:04:16.400 --> 1:04:18.520 have it, but that's probably not even what you really 1:04:18.560 --> 1:04:24.000 deep down inside, won't the want. Everybody's wants are different, 1:04:24.120 --> 1:04:27.120 and that's what I'm saying. But I think sometimes people 1:04:27.160 --> 1:04:30.080 want the same thing they do. But sometimes you want 1:04:30.120 --> 1:04:32.440 something just because another person has it, and then when 1:04:32.480 --> 1:04:34.760 you get it, you're not happy still. 1:04:35.080 --> 1:04:36.520 Because that's not what you really wanted. 1:04:37.000 --> 1:04:39.200 Right, You were trying to do something because you're looking 1:04:39.240 --> 1:04:41.439 at your plate and you need to look at your own. 1:04:42.920 --> 1:04:44.520 What you think, tied? Do you think all women are 1:04:44.520 --> 1:04:45.160 created equal? 1:04:45.320 --> 1:04:49.560 I don't think everyone's created equal. I think that's my earth, 1:04:51.760 --> 1:04:54.240 and I think that starts. I think it starts young too. 1:04:54.320 --> 1:04:57.640 The way you're raised, the people around you, your environment, 1:04:57.760 --> 1:05:02.120 how that shapes informs your opinion, your perspective, your actions, 1:05:02.160 --> 1:05:06.680 your character, and then from there you determine the energy 1:05:06.720 --> 1:05:09.600 you put out the path that I think people can 1:05:09.680 --> 1:05:12.560 choose their own path. Do things happen that you can't 1:05:12.600 --> 1:05:16.400 control and contain, But with those situations, it's about how 1:05:16.960 --> 1:05:20.040 you power through and how you move forward going through that. 1:05:20.080 --> 1:05:23.600 We've lost parents, that didn't stop us. Right right now, 1:05:23.680 --> 1:05:26.120 I've been fired from a corporate job. I got a 1:05:26.160 --> 1:05:29.360 new you know what I'm saying, I've not had money, 1:05:29.520 --> 1:05:32.560 got money, getting more money, So it's like you got. 1:05:32.600 --> 1:05:35.280 It's about, like I said, how the way you start, 1:05:35.280 --> 1:05:37.440 the way your character is formed, the way your mindset 1:05:37.600 --> 1:05:39.400 is built when you're younger. 1:05:39.440 --> 1:05:41.440 I think that also determines. 1:05:41.360 --> 1:05:43.120 How you end up in the world and how you 1:05:43.160 --> 1:05:44.720 put yourself out there. 1:05:45.120 --> 1:05:48.360 I'm interested to see y'all's opinion on this, so y'all 1:05:48.440 --> 1:05:50.600 let us know in the comments, because this is a 1:05:50.640 --> 1:05:51.080 good topic. 1:05:51.320 --> 1:05:51.560 Was it? 1:05:51.680 --> 1:05:54.040 What's up? Y'all? Is your girl XP and it's your 1:05:54.040 --> 1:05:56.520 girls ran a call and y'all do not forget to 1:05:56.600 --> 1:05:59.320 call our shot line. I know you've heard of a hotline, 1:05:59.360 --> 1:06:02.120 but this is the poor mind's shot line. Yeah, we 1:06:02.200 --> 1:06:03.160 love to hear from y'all. 1:06:03.240 --> 1:06:05.520 Y'all need to call in y'all, And this is not 1:06:05.640 --> 1:06:07.760 necessarily for questions. You know, we just want to hear 1:06:07.800 --> 1:06:09.760 from y'all if we want to know y'all, feedback, y'all, 1:06:09.800 --> 1:06:11.920 thoughts on the show, or just what's going on in 1:06:11.960 --> 1:06:14.360 your life. So you can always call six seven eight 1:06:14.800 --> 1:06:17.200 eight two seven one eight two seed. 1:06:17.520 --> 1:06:20.080 Yes, and y'all know, keep it short and cute. Don't 1:06:20.120 --> 1:06:22.439 be calling and letting us know about your baby daddy, 1:06:22.440 --> 1:06:24.880 says a brother, cousin boyfriend. Okay, well I want to 1:06:24.880 --> 1:06:27.040 hear about that. Actually, well you know they can let 1:06:27.040 --> 1:06:28.480 a little some, but you know, we want to keep 1:06:28.520 --> 1:06:31.480 it cute and short. Like she said, this is not questions, 1:06:31.720 --> 1:06:33.880 This is not pour your heart out. So just call 1:06:34.000 --> 1:06:35.960 give us a little feedback what you want to see 1:06:35.960 --> 1:06:38.640 on the show, any suggestions, what you think about the show, 1:06:38.680 --> 1:06:40.680 if you just want to simply give us our flowers, 1:06:40.920 --> 1:06:43.120 you know, or any it could be anything. What's bothering 1:06:43.160 --> 1:06:44.880 you this week? What got on your nerves this week, 1:06:45.000 --> 1:06:46.680 if you just want to vent and get some things 1:06:46.680 --> 1:06:49.880 off your chest, pull the shot line again. The number 1:06:50.000 --> 1:06:54.080 is six seven eight eight two seven one eight too 1:06:54.160 --> 1:06:59.160 six some. Now it's time to get into the big bow. 1:07:00.280 --> 1:07:06.680 About about a bow bow. It's make up sex real. 1:07:08.880 --> 1:07:10.920 Are you using sex to cover up the issue? 1:07:15.400 --> 1:07:20.080 I think that a lot of times people use sex 1:07:20.160 --> 1:07:21.600 to cover up the issue. 1:07:22.120 --> 1:07:24.440 I do, yeah, because it's like when you have sex, 1:07:24.480 --> 1:07:28.000 all of those endorphins are released, and I think momentarily 1:07:28.080 --> 1:07:28.600 you think. 1:07:28.600 --> 1:07:32.200 You feel like the problem is gone, but the problem 1:07:32.320 --> 1:07:36.680 still it is still there. You was just horny. And 1:07:36.720 --> 1:07:38.560 that's why I think it's so important to deal with 1:07:38.600 --> 1:07:41.120 a man and be a woman who doesn't let sex 1:07:41.120 --> 1:07:43.680 control you. So if you and your man are going 1:07:43.720 --> 1:07:49.000 through a tough time, I think it's very important to 1:07:49.080 --> 1:07:51.880 back away and be like, stop having sex, because things 1:07:51.920 --> 1:07:54.440 will come a lot more clear to you when you're 1:07:54.480 --> 1:07:57.520 not riding that dick. Because when I ride that dick, 1:07:59.280 --> 1:08:01.960 I don't care about nothing. When I'm riding that dick, 1:08:02.040 --> 1:08:03.439 I'm finna. I know I don't care. 1:08:03.920 --> 1:08:07.640 Well, I don't care momentarily, but I'm not that lie momentarily. 1:08:07.680 --> 1:08:10.320 But as soon as as soon as it's over, I'd 1:08:10.320 --> 1:08:12.479 be like, yeah, cause back to. 1:08:12.400 --> 1:08:16.920 The Yes, that's what I'm saying. 1:08:17.479 --> 1:08:19.840 But what I'm saying is like, no, because it said 1:08:20.800 --> 1:08:24.120 it's makeup six, are you using it to cover up 1:08:24.120 --> 1:08:26.280 the issue. I don't be using it to cover up 1:08:26.320 --> 1:08:29.840 the issue. It's just like we both horny list go 1:08:29.880 --> 1:08:35.720 ahead that well. Mario said on that song the damn. 1:08:35.479 --> 1:08:42.880 Thing, okay, see you that's no more. 1:08:46.960 --> 1:08:49.439 No, I don't know it. 1:08:50.800 --> 1:08:51.360 What song. 1:08:57.600 --> 1:08:59.240 No, you're trying to get me canceled? 1:09:00.439 --> 1:09:04.639 That is all up on to see baby shown me 1:09:05.720 --> 1:09:10.400 another sexist stuff. Yeah, we're not finna do that. We're 1:09:10.400 --> 1:09:14.840 not finna bump bump bump nothing. They was, they was 1:09:15.720 --> 1:09:19.320 like that, but you didn't do that. They's gonna bump 1:09:19.360 --> 1:09:23.960 bump bump back that child support payment. No, no, no, 1:09:24.720 --> 1:09:28.640 I'm not. I'm getting privy to what's going on. But 1:09:28.720 --> 1:09:30.240 you don't even know nothing about this. 1:09:30.520 --> 1:09:30.920 I don't. 1:09:30.920 --> 1:09:32.920 But what I'm saying is I but I've dealt with 1:09:32.960 --> 1:09:36.080 the man who like, oh, I'm gonna shut her up 1:09:36.560 --> 1:09:39.440 because I'm a I'm anna, I'm American. 1:09:39.520 --> 1:09:40.320 Blow your mind. 1:09:40.320 --> 1:09:43.840 He thought he was gonna dig me down and make 1:09:43.920 --> 1:09:46.160 me forget what was going on. 1:09:46.120 --> 1:09:47.240 And what was going on. 1:09:47.400 --> 1:09:51.400 It was a lot of bullshit going on. But well 1:09:51.560 --> 1:09:53.840 that I've learned, it's important when you and your man, 1:09:53.840 --> 1:09:56.120 I don't care what nobody says. It's not now there's 1:09:56.160 --> 1:10:00.080 a difference. It's not about punishing your man. I do 1:10:00.200 --> 1:10:02.680 not believing like, oh he not acting right. I'm not 1:10:02.680 --> 1:10:05.680 feinna fuck him. It's not about that. But if you 1:10:05.720 --> 1:10:07.880 were going through a tough time with the person that 1:10:07.920 --> 1:10:10.840 you're dealing with, sometimes it's okay to step back from 1:10:10.840 --> 1:10:14.280 the sexual that's going on, so you can think, right, 1:10:14.439 --> 1:10:19.080 we need getting veritized, the men be getting pussimatized. 1:10:19.560 --> 1:10:20.519 Everybody just. 1:10:27.120 --> 1:10:32.639 It's too much. It's too much. You gotta step back 1:10:32.720 --> 1:10:37.519 and get a clear more tie, you know. 1:10:38.040 --> 1:10:40.040 But am I not right though? 1:10:40.360 --> 1:10:42.880 I just want to go to the bathroom at this point, 1:10:43.520 --> 1:10:44.759 I have to take a break. 1:10:44.920 --> 1:10:51.000 What because that was all right? I'll be right here. 1:10:52.040 --> 1:10:55.320 I'll be right here. I'll be waiting on you. 1:10:58.800 --> 1:11:06.200 I'm not done. I'm not done. This is what I 1:11:06.280 --> 1:11:11.519 have to say. I truly believe that. 1:11:11.960 --> 1:11:14.080 A lot of but we don't like to talk about 1:11:14.080 --> 1:11:18.160 this though. A lot of women they be like wanting 1:11:18.200 --> 1:11:21.120 to use their vagina too, for that. Just like men 1:11:22.040 --> 1:11:25.400 like to use their penis to do things, we like 1:11:25.439 --> 1:11:28.760 to weaponize our vaginas as well. I know that that's 1:11:28.840 --> 1:11:30.880 things that I've done in the past. But I think 1:11:30.920 --> 1:11:35.759 as I get older, I have realized makeup sex isn't 1:11:35.800 --> 1:11:40.000 real unless the conversation has already been had. Yes, So 1:11:40.720 --> 1:11:42.840 if me and you are going through a tough time 1:11:43.320 --> 1:11:46.240 and we haven't talked about it, and you want to 1:11:46.240 --> 1:11:47.920 sweet things under rug and you want. 1:11:47.720 --> 1:11:48.679 To invite me over. 1:11:49.160 --> 1:11:53.200 You got Tito's sitting on the counter, the lights is dimmed, 1:11:53.479 --> 1:11:59.479 You got a pot of beans on the stoves. Them 1:11:59.560 --> 1:12:01.760 chipn't because them chili beans. You know what I do 1:12:01.840 --> 1:12:04.479 off them chili beans? N Then he has sex after 1:12:04.520 --> 1:12:09.400 the beans. Hey, stomach made of steel? Now it okay? 1:12:11.200 --> 1:12:15.559 But I'm saying you showing up with all these good things, 1:12:15.600 --> 1:12:18.720 but we still haven't talked about the issue. Because one 1:12:18.760 --> 1:12:24.320 thing I can say is that people love to throw 1:12:25.040 --> 1:12:28.360 the rug over the dust. They like to sweep shit 1:12:28.479 --> 1:12:30.760 under the rug. And sex is the main thing that 1:12:30.840 --> 1:12:36.320 I feel like people used to manipulate. Sex is a weapon. 1:12:37.240 --> 1:12:41.479 Sex has started wars. Sex is a reason behind a 1:12:41.479 --> 1:12:44.280 lot of times why people are getting murdered. Y'all know, 1:12:44.320 --> 1:12:47.680 I watch a lot of true crime. I watch a 1:12:47.880 --> 1:12:51.799 lots of true crime. Nine times out of ten, somebody 1:12:51.840 --> 1:12:56.040 is getting murdered over some dick, over some pussy. You 1:12:56.120 --> 1:12:59.759 know what I'm saying. So I truly believe that makeup 1:13:00.439 --> 1:13:03.240 is a myth that needs to be stopped. Stop trying 1:13:03.240 --> 1:13:07.040 to like cover up the issues by sucking dick, because 1:13:07.120 --> 1:13:10.080 let me tell you, as soon as that man nut 1:13:10.800 --> 1:13:13.439 and you stop, you still gonna want to talk about it. 1:13:13.560 --> 1:13:14.479 You're finna get up on it. 1:13:15.200 --> 1:13:18.400 You're finna take them balls out your mouth, lay on 1:13:18.479 --> 1:13:21.000 his chest and be like. 1:13:21.640 --> 1:13:25.280 So like, did you really like her? 1:13:26.160 --> 1:13:31.040 Or was it like make oh come back. I wasn't done. 1:13:31.439 --> 1:13:38.440 Come on, come on, beautiful, I was. 1:13:40.439 --> 1:13:43.000 It's all right because this is a this is a 1:13:43.040 --> 1:13:46.840 solo episode. We can do what we want. I wasn't 1:13:46.880 --> 1:13:51.280 saying shit. I was just saying, how when you suck 1:13:51.479 --> 1:13:55.479 the dick to cover up the real shit, that ain't 1:13:55.479 --> 1:13:56.040 gonna be it. 1:13:58.880 --> 1:14:02.240 You feel me, you can't do that. You can't do that. 1:14:02.280 --> 1:14:04.679 This is coming from somebody who was like. 1:14:05.240 --> 1:14:06.400 Put it on film. 1:14:06.520 --> 1:14:11.120 Now I gotta turn this niggat so he know, I 1:14:11.200 --> 1:14:20.920 don't know nobody see ty, I'm telling you it's that 1:14:21.080 --> 1:14:26.760 caramel delight. It's real. Though, Oh, what was you saying? No, 1:14:26.840 --> 1:14:28.280 I was saying the same thing we were talking about. 1:14:28.280 --> 1:14:30.719 I was saying, like, sex literally just covers up things. 1:14:31.479 --> 1:14:34.240 It literally just covers up things. Oh yeah, and I 1:14:34.280 --> 1:14:36.960 think that women also, because I like to get on 1:14:36.960 --> 1:14:38.360 the women as much as we get on the men. 1:14:38.520 --> 1:14:43.640 Men weaponize their penis, but women weaponize that. Coachie, you 1:14:43.760 --> 1:14:45.040 be like, oh, I'm gonna put it on this nigga. 1:14:45.040 --> 1:14:46.280 He ain't gonna be mad at me no more. 1:14:47.479 --> 1:14:50.080 No, I be definitely thinking, my nigga, I'll still be 1:14:50.080 --> 1:14:55.360 mad because I'll be on bullshit? Are you really asking 1:14:55.439 --> 1:15:01.160 me that? I'm surprised you didn't already answer for me. 1:15:01.640 --> 1:15:05.479 I wouldn't have ever bach please one thing about lex 1:15:05.600 --> 1:15:10.280 She's gonna be like, because yeah, because dre Be, I. 1:15:10.240 --> 1:15:12.160 Think you're a lot. But I think it's a ball 1:15:12.200 --> 1:15:15.200 of fun. I am a ball of fun. I like, 1:15:15.320 --> 1:15:16.240 but did you die? 1:15:16.280 --> 1:15:21.000 Though? Like that's all that really matters if we said die, 1:15:22.360 --> 1:15:27.559 I'm I'm I'm still here here. 1:15:28.640 --> 1:15:29.360 Okay, let's move on. 1:15:29.439 --> 1:15:32.880 Let's move on for if you're still here, then let's 1:15:32.920 --> 1:15:36.040 keeping like I do be cutting up. 1:15:36.320 --> 1:15:38.080 That's it. I ain't even say nothing. 1:15:38.640 --> 1:15:42.200 God damn, Okay, go ahead. 1:15:42.200 --> 1:15:44.240 That's why you should have kept the cameras roll. I 1:15:44.240 --> 1:15:44.760 thought it was. 1:15:45.800 --> 1:15:48.639 I literally said, I'm going to the bathroom. 1:15:48.680 --> 1:15:50.840 But but yeah, no, no, go ahead. 1:15:50.880 --> 1:15:52.559 And you know how you be peeing and you think 1:15:52.560 --> 1:15:55.639 it's about to stop it some more if you like 1:15:55.640 --> 1:16:00.240 like you be thinking that, it's like, oh God, so that. 1:16:00.240 --> 1:16:01.479 Likup be different. 1:16:01.960 --> 1:16:06.880 And once you break the seal, you're fucking cooking. You're okay, 1:16:06.920 --> 1:16:07.960 So add what else you want to act? 1:16:08.120 --> 1:16:11.720 I was just saying, like, I just no, I don't 1:16:11.720 --> 1:16:13.760 think makeup six is real. I don't think that's a 1:16:13.840 --> 1:16:20.000 real thing. I think that you and that nigga are horny, yep, 1:16:20.160 --> 1:16:23.960 y'all fine, and y'all attracted to each other, and it's like, 1:16:24.040 --> 1:16:26.120 this is my man, this is my girl. 1:16:26.800 --> 1:16:29.679 I love you. Let's fuck period. 1:16:30.120 --> 1:16:35.240 But after we're done, we still we still Yeah, don't 1:16:35.280 --> 1:16:35.639 do it. 1:16:36.120 --> 1:16:37.240 I'm still about to tustle. 1:16:37.240 --> 1:16:41.960 The problem is still there, and I think sometimes not 1:16:42.040 --> 1:16:43.799 sometimes all of the time, you just shouldn't. 1:16:43.880 --> 1:16:45.640 But you know what's crazy, Me and my man we 1:16:45.680 --> 1:16:49.479 done took like sabbaticals. Yeah, we have. 1:16:49.760 --> 1:16:53.120 We've taken like two months from from having six and 1:16:53.200 --> 1:16:54.000 we still. 1:16:55.320 --> 1:17:01.160 The problem. I fucking wait. 1:17:02.080 --> 1:17:04.360 Sometimes for us sex do be healing? 1:17:06.600 --> 1:17:08.800 Be glad? I'm really not. 1:17:09.400 --> 1:17:12.880 Actually I love you so actually I take back what 1:17:12.960 --> 1:17:16.960 I said. Sometimes make them sex do be working? 1:17:17.160 --> 1:17:17.360 Yeah? 1:17:17.560 --> 1:17:19.600 No, no, no, no, you have to have sex in 1:17:19.680 --> 1:17:20.200 two months? 1:17:20.200 --> 1:17:20.680 What y'all mean? 1:17:20.800 --> 1:17:22.280 Like if y'all cause, like I said, me and my 1:17:22.360 --> 1:17:24.920 man be we really be taking like real like break 1:17:25.520 --> 1:17:27.679 when we be mad at each other. If you didn't 1:17:27.720 --> 1:17:29.639 have sex for two months and then you finally get 1:17:29.680 --> 1:17:35.680 that they couldie, do you be ready? It's like the frustration, 1:17:36.160 --> 1:17:39.880 gotta let it out. It's like the natural animalistic it is. 1:17:39.960 --> 1:17:42.840 But like I said, I think it very much carnivores 1:17:44.040 --> 1:17:47.519 but a lexus right though, Like you need to make 1:17:47.560 --> 1:17:50.599 sure that it's because she had a monologue about it, 1:17:50.880 --> 1:17:51.719 like you have. 1:17:51.680 --> 1:17:52.759 To make glad. 1:17:52.760 --> 1:17:56.400 I mean that the issue is addressed, addressed, and that's 1:17:56.439 --> 1:17:56.840 the point. 1:17:56.960 --> 1:17:58.640 Like at the end of the day, it feels good 1:17:58.680 --> 1:18:01.120 in that moment, but a week later we're gonna be 1:18:01.240 --> 1:18:04.479 arguing about the same thing. I don't have a clear 1:18:04.520 --> 1:18:08.000 mind after I nut, I don't why not? 1:18:08.320 --> 1:18:12.839 I just don't like that's when you have the clearest clarity. 1:18:13.280 --> 1:18:14.920 I'm like this, remember that shre. 1:18:16.520 --> 1:18:22.800 No, I don't I be snow white walking through the 1:18:22.840 --> 1:18:27.120 forest with my seven dwarfs going. 1:18:26.840 --> 1:18:29.559 To get that dick feeling good. 1:18:29.920 --> 1:18:31.280 I'll bite that apple. 1:18:31.760 --> 1:18:35.599 I'll die and wake up and bite it again. That's 1:18:35.640 --> 1:18:40.320 how good that dick be feeling. I don't need that. 1:18:41.040 --> 1:18:44.920 I need a clear MoInd deck is hypnotizing, That's what 1:18:45.000 --> 1:18:45.559 I'm saying. 1:18:46.280 --> 1:18:49.599 I have to I've learned that about myself, though. This 1:18:49.680 --> 1:18:50.960 is something new that I've learned. 1:18:51.760 --> 1:18:53.240 But you're an dipmatizer. 1:18:54.920 --> 1:18:55.519 What is that? 1:18:56.720 --> 1:18:59.920 You can like you be getting digmatized. 1:19:00.040 --> 1:19:02.800 But you know what it is though, I get digmatized 1:19:02.840 --> 1:19:07.280 because it be it goes both ways, how cause I 1:19:07.400 --> 1:19:09.880 be pussimatizing them and we both just. 1:19:09.840 --> 1:19:16.559 Be in this hypnosis state of morning. You know, we 1:19:16.680 --> 1:19:18.479 both be fucked up. We both be. 1:19:18.600 --> 1:19:24.880 Skipping through the forest biting that apple, both of both of. 1:19:27.280 --> 1:19:32.640 M Okay, So now we're gonna get into after that, 1:19:32.800 --> 1:19:33.719 what do you say. 1:19:34.000 --> 1:19:35.679 We gonna get so let us know how y'all feel 1:19:35.680 --> 1:19:37.760 about makeup six. So we're gonna get into the item 1:19:37.800 --> 1:19:40.280 of the week. I'm so excited about this what's the 1:19:40.320 --> 1:19:41.920 email for the item of the week. If you want 1:19:42.160 --> 1:19:46.479 your product featured on the show, please email us. We'll 1:19:46.479 --> 1:19:48.479 put it right here. How we're gonna hook us up. 1:19:50.120 --> 1:19:55.000 So y'all, I'm so excited to talk about this. We 1:19:55.080 --> 1:19:58.840 have a package from the North Side Princess aka the 1:19:58.840 --> 1:20:00.839 One and Only six Red. 1:20:01.000 --> 1:20:03.960 Get it Sexy, Get it Sexy? 1:20:04.120 --> 1:20:09.360 So she sent us her It says, we thought you 1:20:09.520 --> 1:20:11.040 needed new lip. 1:20:12.080 --> 1:20:15.080 We thought th h o T you need a new lip? 1:20:15.160 --> 1:20:17.479 So Sexy Red has a lip loss line and it 1:20:17.600 --> 1:20:20.559 don't drop until November twenty nine. 1:20:20.800 --> 1:20:23.479 But this, well this probably drops the same weekend. Maybe 1:20:23.479 --> 1:20:25.000 I don't know. Oh yeah, yeah yeah. 1:20:25.080 --> 1:20:29.080 But first and foremost the girl after my own heart, 1:20:29.439 --> 1:20:33.439 because them are my favorite snacks. LEX know my felt 1:20:33.439 --> 1:20:36.080 yours first. This is my favorite candy ever. This is 1:20:36.120 --> 1:20:38.479 my I love that probably hummy worm you do and 1:20:38.560 --> 1:20:38.920 I love it. 1:20:38.960 --> 1:20:41.960 But you love the berries, the berry I do like. 1:20:41.920 --> 1:20:44.960 The berry ones bitter, but yes, another butter I'm about 1:20:44.960 --> 1:20:45.200 to eat. 1:20:45.360 --> 1:20:49.280 I love butters. And then them. 1:20:49.760 --> 1:20:51.120 I don't know he's flavored. 1:20:51.560 --> 1:20:54.400 I don't know, but they seem a little small, they 1:20:54.600 --> 1:20:57.280 very small. I don't know if I latex condoms are 1:20:57.280 --> 1:21:03.320 intended to prevent pregnancy, HIV, A, and other sexually transmitted infections. 1:21:03.479 --> 1:21:08.320 Okay, hold on, Oh yeah, put it up to Mike. 1:21:09.720 --> 1:21:16.479 You gotta hold on. Go ahead, what's up? 1:21:16.520 --> 1:21:19.280 My friends say six. 1:21:22.040 --> 1:21:24.600 Up and make you feel like the baby you is 1:21:24.640 --> 1:21:30.400 my personal favorite and blue brows, but she really all 1:21:30.479 --> 1:21:32.800 love me if you me enjoy. 1:21:32.840 --> 1:21:35.120 Thanks for supporting me and my kids. 1:21:36.040 --> 1:21:40.959 I'm weak and exciting kids. Mama sexy red period, Thank. 1:21:40.760 --> 1:21:44.680 You girl, I'm you sexy Red. So sexy Red has 1:21:44.720 --> 1:21:47.559 her lip gloss line. I'm not gonna try them on 1:21:47.720 --> 1:21:50.840 right now because I don't feel like taking them out. 1:21:51.439 --> 1:21:52.719 You need to you. 1:21:52.720 --> 1:21:54.400 You only got no loop gloss nowhere. 1:21:54.560 --> 1:21:56.320 I know, I know, I don't, so let me just 1:21:56.400 --> 1:22:00.160 read the soul. These are the names of her lip glosses. 1:22:00.840 --> 1:22:01.519 Are you ready? 1:22:01.880 --> 1:22:02.800 Can I ask you a question? 1:22:02.840 --> 1:22:03.120 First? 1:22:03.320 --> 1:22:04.680 How did you come up with the names for your 1:22:04.720 --> 1:22:05.280 lip glosses? 1:22:05.320 --> 1:22:05.360 Like? 1:22:05.400 --> 1:22:09.120 What was the process you went through? I don't know, 1:22:09.240 --> 1:22:11.000 I don't even know. I feel like I was high. 1:22:12.240 --> 1:22:15.559 That's interesting, Yeah, come back, which I never smoked weed, right, 1:22:15.880 --> 1:22:17.400 but I was hot when I came up with the 1:22:17.760 --> 1:22:19.519 I like that names of my lip glosses. 1:22:19.560 --> 1:22:21.120 I was okay, say for. 1:22:21.439 --> 1:22:24.040 Moment, I like that. That's actually a good story. 1:22:24.280 --> 1:22:28.479 Yeah. The names of her lip glosses are I think 1:22:28.520 --> 1:22:32.600 it starts from I don't know which way. Oh oh oh. 1:22:32.720 --> 1:22:35.080 If you don't read the god damn okay. So is 1:22:35.160 --> 1:22:45.360 coochie juice, booty whole brown, this is nut, this is 1:22:46.200 --> 1:22:57.680 pussy hoole, pink yellow discharge, gonorrhea, blue balls. 1:22:58.800 --> 1:23:05.880 And sex on my period. Now let me see booty 1:23:05.880 --> 1:23:06.479 whole brown. 1:23:07.200 --> 1:23:09.479 Booty hoole brown is the second one. It's given like 1:23:09.520 --> 1:23:12.000 a light. But let me say this. I'm not gonna lie. 1:23:12.040 --> 1:23:16.439 I don't like blue balls it's given or era of 1:23:16.520 --> 1:23:19.160 the lipstick. I don't think colored lipstick is anymore. I 1:23:19.160 --> 1:23:22.439 don't know how they show up. Let me try pussy juice. 1:23:22.640 --> 1:23:24.679 That's booty whole brown. Yeah, I want to try body 1:23:24.720 --> 1:23:27.360 hoole brown. But I will say I like the package 1:23:27.479 --> 1:23:30.000 in my tribe. I like the packaging. 1:23:30.280 --> 1:23:36.599 It's giving, like look how influencers do. It's given like. 1:23:39.080 --> 1:23:43.400 I feel my bootyhole brown. 1:23:43.400 --> 1:23:46.559 It's cute though, y'all see it's cute. It's given like 1:23:46.600 --> 1:23:48.400 the beauty salon, the beauty. 1:23:48.080 --> 1:23:51.080 Store of Liveloss, which I love, and it's male good 1:23:51.600 --> 1:23:57.200 it does tastes good too, it doesn't. I'm sorry, flavor, 1:23:57.400 --> 1:24:00.519 this is what it does. It smells really really good, y'all. 1:24:00.560 --> 1:24:03.799 I'm not gonna lie, and he goes on real juicy. 1:24:04.720 --> 1:24:05.720 Yeah you like it. 1:24:06.720 --> 1:24:08.600 Oh, I'm saying. 1:24:09.760 --> 1:24:11.720 It's not a deep color. It really is just so 1:24:11.960 --> 1:24:14.200 it's more like it is more of a gloss. 1:24:14.840 --> 1:24:18.800 I'm not mad at this. I love it. Get it. 1:24:18.960 --> 1:24:22.920 Sexy kid is sexy. Okay, this is cute. 1:24:22.960 --> 1:24:25.519 Yeah it's cute. I like Couchie. I like Coochie Juice, 1:24:26.120 --> 1:24:27.760 Couchie Juice. I'm taking this home for sure. 1:24:28.160 --> 1:24:29.800 Not gotten a rig can stay here. 1:24:31.080 --> 1:24:34.080 You know you are funny as hell for these names Sexy, 1:24:34.120 --> 1:24:35.920 But I'm not mad. I think your I think your 1:24:35.960 --> 1:24:38.400 lip gloss line will do well. I don't want drop 1:24:38.439 --> 1:24:39.640 my lid, but. 1:24:39.680 --> 1:24:40.880 Yeah, I like Coochie Juice. 1:24:40.920 --> 1:24:41.400 It's clear. 1:24:42.240 --> 1:24:45.160 I like to keep it on the safe side. 1:24:45.439 --> 1:24:47.919 So yeah, thank you, Thank you. Sexy. 1:24:48.400 --> 1:24:50.120 Come on the show now we waiting up, y'all. 1:24:50.120 --> 1:24:52.960 Is your Girl XP and is Sugarl Drey and the call. 1:24:53.360 --> 1:24:55.920 Y'all know we have a segment on Poor Minds called 1:24:55.960 --> 1:24:57.920 Item of the Week. But do you have a product 1:24:58.000 --> 1:24:59.479 or something that you want to promote and you want 1:24:59.479 --> 1:25:03.320 it featured on Poor Minds, your opportunity is here period. 1:25:03.760 --> 1:25:05.839 If you have an item or you have a business 1:25:05.840 --> 1:25:07.880 and you want to get it promoted. We are now 1:25:07.920 --> 1:25:11.240 having flats available on the Poor Minds episode. 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Now it's time to get into the 1:25:50.320 --> 1:25:58.439 bop a bow, y'all. 1:25:58.760 --> 1:26:00.720 Hobby gonna have to do so much editing. 1:26:01.320 --> 1:26:03.840 Not that much. We're having a ball. 1:26:03.880 --> 1:26:05.639 This is a good I'm having a ball. 1:26:06.600 --> 1:26:10.920 Fiery. My favorite artist dropped another song. Who is your 1:26:10.960 --> 1:26:13.640 favorite or? And I always used to talk about her, 1:26:13.920 --> 1:26:16.240 but she hasn't dropped in a while, so it was 1:26:16.320 --> 1:26:20.479 hurting my feelings. But she she dropped Tiana Major nine 1:26:21.720 --> 1:26:25.160 dropped a single called alone. I just love her. I 1:26:25.200 --> 1:26:26.960 want to give her all the support and love. She's 1:26:27.000 --> 1:26:30.400 just an amazing artist. Her songwriting skills. I don't know 1:26:30.439 --> 1:26:33.160 if it's her songwriting or she has a team. Keep 1:26:33.200 --> 1:26:36.200 this team around and just keep dropping fire music. 1:26:36.360 --> 1:26:39.800 So Tiana Major nine alone. 1:26:40.240 --> 1:26:42.960 It's just a I love relatable music because we all 1:26:43.000 --> 1:26:46.000 be going through it in these relationships with these men. 1:26:46.280 --> 1:26:48.760 So yeah, that's my bop of the week. Tiana Major 1:26:48.840 --> 1:26:54.280 nine alone period. Okay, so Mini is Lama, she had. 1:26:55.000 --> 1:26:59.000 Go ahead girl, that that's fire she got. She dropped 1:26:59.000 --> 1:27:02.320 a good Yeah. So she drops ev. 1:27:03.680 --> 1:27:06.920 With three songs. But heart song Dick is my song. 1:27:07.880 --> 1:27:09.439 I really really liked this song alike. 1:27:09.560 --> 1:27:10.280 What was the song she got? 1:27:10.400 --> 1:27:12.040 She said, you better get you one of these. 1:27:12.680 --> 1:27:15.479 It's called one of these. That's the song eight. 1:27:15.920 --> 1:27:17.479 Yeah, So shout out to Lma. 1:27:17.960 --> 1:27:19.519 Yeah, I like her because you know what she had 1:27:19.560 --> 1:27:22.519 disappeared though, Yeah, she got her. She got her a 1:27:22.520 --> 1:27:25.759 big fish. I like when the girls do that shout 1:27:25.760 --> 1:27:29.759 out to elevate. All right, so we are going into 1:27:30.360 --> 1:27:32.320 pour your heart out. If you want your question answered 1:27:32.320 --> 1:27:34.080 on the show, and make sure you email us at 1:27:35.000 --> 1:27:38.000 ask poor minds at gmail dot com. If you're a 1:27:38.080 --> 1:27:40.680 Patreon member, make sure you put that in the headline. 1:27:42.320 --> 1:27:47.000 All right, So question number one, Hey girls, I dated 1:27:47.040 --> 1:27:49.519 a toxic man for eight years. Within the eight years, 1:27:49.520 --> 1:27:52.120 I found out that he dated my older cousin two 1:27:52.200 --> 1:27:55.160 years within the relationship, when they were in high school. 1:27:55.439 --> 1:27:57.519 I continue to talk to him because I was already 1:27:57.520 --> 1:28:00.240 in love and they were teenagers. Plus my cousin and 1:28:00.280 --> 1:28:02.840 gave me the go ahead, but she never told me 1:28:02.880 --> 1:28:06.000 about their relationship and I never asked. My relationship with 1:28:06.080 --> 1:28:09.120 him was abusive and toxic. It ended back in twenty 1:28:09.160 --> 1:28:13.439 twenty three. Fast forward to present day, my grandma recently 1:28:13.479 --> 1:28:15.640 passed away and me and my cousin finally got to 1:28:15.680 --> 1:28:17.680 talk about it. She told me that the dude was 1:28:17.720 --> 1:28:20.000 at my mom's funeral with her back in two thousand 1:28:20.040 --> 1:28:22.400 and one. I was six years old at that time, 1:28:22.680 --> 1:28:25.040 and he never told me. I was mad at her 1:28:25.040 --> 1:28:27.200 for not telling me this because it would have never 1:28:27.240 --> 1:28:29.720 been because it would have been over. I don't play 1:28:29.760 --> 1:28:33.280 about my mama. But throughout the years, du went up 1:28:33.320 --> 1:28:36.080 to my mom's gravesite and everything with me and never 1:28:36.160 --> 1:28:38.600 mentioned that. I'm just not sure how to feel about that. 1:28:38.680 --> 1:28:41.080 What would y'all do even if you don't answer on 1:28:41.120 --> 1:28:44.519 the show, just answer it on here. Please love you girls. Well, girl, 1:28:47.040 --> 1:28:49.639 you said that y'all broke up back in twenty twenty three, 1:28:49.840 --> 1:28:52.720 So I just wouldn't even sayning no more because I 1:28:52.800 --> 1:28:55.320 just feel like when something if it's a toxic and 1:28:55.400 --> 1:28:58.880 abusive relationship, you said you woke up with him in 1:28:58.880 --> 1:29:01.360 twenty twenty three. At this point, it's about to be 1:29:01.400 --> 1:29:03.920 twenty twenty five. I'm assuming it was. 1:29:03.920 --> 1:29:04.880 Over a year ago. 1:29:05.560 --> 1:29:10.280 You just need to let that shit die. You just 1:29:10.320 --> 1:29:12.240 need to let that be what it is. I wouldn't 1:29:12.240 --> 1:29:15.880 even feel no need to rehash a conversation with him 1:29:16.240 --> 1:29:18.840 about anything that has to do with my mom because 1:29:18.880 --> 1:29:22.160 it's like, Okay, yeah, he went to your mom's funeral 1:29:22.200 --> 1:29:23.719 when she died when you was younger. 1:29:23.960 --> 1:29:24.760 I guess maybe he. 1:29:24.720 --> 1:29:27.240 Could have told you about that situation, because I'm assuming 1:29:27.280 --> 1:29:32.720 he's way older than you. But if I'm trying to 1:29:32.760 --> 1:29:35.120 heal and move on, it's nothing for me and him 1:29:35.120 --> 1:29:38.680 to talk about. I don't care. Like I think I 1:29:38.760 --> 1:29:40.960 think I've said this before on the show. Closure is 1:29:40.960 --> 1:29:43.519 a scam to me, Like you don't need closure, it's 1:29:43.560 --> 1:29:46.920 more of like an ego thing. In my opinion, it's 1:29:46.920 --> 1:29:50.160 not even closure. You just need your ego to be strokes. 1:29:50.720 --> 1:29:52.719 You want somebody to try to make you feel better 1:29:52.840 --> 1:29:55.320 or give you, like a resolve to something that you 1:29:55.439 --> 1:29:56.920 feel bad about. 1:29:58.120 --> 1:29:58.680 Just let it go. 1:29:58.840 --> 1:30:02.360 See, I agree with that you and him over it 1:30:02.479 --> 1:30:04.880 was toxic. Ke's to put his hands on you. I'm 1:30:04.920 --> 1:30:07.439 assuming it ain't living for me and any. 1:30:07.280 --> 1:30:09.640 Of us putting his hands on me. 1:30:12.120 --> 1:30:24.160 Oh sorry, I was go ahead, m hm m hmm, yeah, 1:30:24.760 --> 1:30:25.080 m hmm. 1:30:25.840 --> 1:30:31.040 Read the next question reading. Okay, I'm a twenty seven 1:30:31.120 --> 1:30:33.200 year old woman with no Why would you say that? 1:30:34.280 --> 1:30:36.920 I don't know why, I don't. I can't help, I 1:30:36.960 --> 1:30:41.080 can't stop. I tried, I tried. Why would you say that? Thought? 1:30:41.200 --> 1:30:44.479 I was sitting there the whole time, and I stopped 1:30:44.479 --> 1:30:48.920 myself and it just came out. 1:30:50.840 --> 1:30:52.599 Okay, Okay, go ahead, Okay. 1:30:52.920 --> 1:30:55.120 I'm a twenty seven year old woman with no kids. 1:30:55.240 --> 1:30:57.639 My best friend is a twenty eight year old woman 1:30:57.720 --> 1:30:58.799 with four kids. 1:30:59.000 --> 1:31:01.400 We've been best friends twenty eight. 1:31:02.880 --> 1:31:03.280 Exactly. 1:31:03.320 --> 1:31:05.400 Not everybody shook. 1:31:07.280 --> 1:31:10.400 We've been best friends for eight years. I probably should 1:31:10.439 --> 1:31:12.679 mention that we live in different states and we haven't 1:31:12.720 --> 1:31:15.559 seen each other in person since twenty twenty, the last 1:31:15.600 --> 1:31:18.439 two years of our friendship. It just seems like she 1:31:18.520 --> 1:31:20.200 doesn't make time for our friendship. 1:31:20.280 --> 1:31:21.759 Probably don't know what to do. 1:31:23.560 --> 1:31:26.160 I always try to be considerate because she's a single 1:31:26.200 --> 1:31:28.960 mom who does everything on her own. As of lately, 1:31:29.000 --> 1:31:31.240 I've been noticing how she's been moving and it's starting 1:31:31.280 --> 1:31:33.800 to piss me off. One part of me wants to 1:31:33.800 --> 1:31:36.240 say we just grew apart, and then the other is saying, 1:31:36.280 --> 1:31:39.000 give her grace because she's doing it all alone. My 1:31:39.160 --> 1:31:41.640 thing is we are supposed to be best friends, and 1:31:41.680 --> 1:31:44.439 when she texts me, my first instinct is to text 1:31:44.439 --> 1:31:47.040 her back immediately because I'm thinking, dang, when am I 1:31:47.080 --> 1:31:48.519 going to be able to talk to her again? 1:31:48.800 --> 1:31:49.759 Because she's busy. 1:31:50.200 --> 1:31:52.479 I just saw maybe two days ago that she's active 1:31:52.520 --> 1:31:55.519 on social media. She changed her profile picture to her 1:31:55.560 --> 1:31:58.400 and this dude, which confused me because we both know 1:31:59.280 --> 1:32:02.240 we both know that the man is gay. I said 1:32:02.240 --> 1:32:04.880 that to say I be peeping that she makes time 1:32:04.920 --> 1:32:05.439 to talk to. 1:32:05.479 --> 1:32:06.679 Dudes and go on dates. 1:32:06.920 --> 1:32:09.160 But when I tell her, hey, we need to FaceTime, 1:32:09.479 --> 1:32:12.640 she agrees, but it never happens. But yet sometimes she 1:32:12.760 --> 1:32:15.680 comes out the blue with tea, or she asks to 1:32:15.720 --> 1:32:18.599 borrow money. But when it's my turn to text her 1:32:18.800 --> 1:32:22.080 about advice or tea, she leaves me on red for days, 1:32:22.439 --> 1:32:25.680 sometimes weeks at a time. I care about her friendship 1:32:25.720 --> 1:32:28.000 and I don't want it to end, but like she's 1:32:28.040 --> 1:32:30.639 not doing anything that says she still cares as much 1:32:30.640 --> 1:32:34.160 as I care about it. We've had conversations before about 1:32:34.200 --> 1:32:36.760 our friendship and she admits she feels like she's a 1:32:36.800 --> 1:32:39.599 bad friend. But it's becoming old and making me feel 1:32:39.640 --> 1:32:43.280 disconnected to where if she texts me, I'm not gonna respond. 1:32:43.640 --> 1:32:49.519 What do y'all think? Stop being friends with the hoe? Yeah? 1:32:49.960 --> 1:32:52.559 I just don't think she your friend like that. But 1:32:52.640 --> 1:32:54.559 I also think that she's just in a different space. 1:32:54.800 --> 1:32:57.559 She has four kids and you have none. Her life 1:32:57.680 --> 1:33:00.360 on a day to day basis lets completely different. 1:33:00.600 --> 1:33:02.479 It don't have to be bad blood. 1:33:02.880 --> 1:33:04.960 I think sometimes people just need to realize, Hey, we're 1:33:04.960 --> 1:33:05.600 not aligning. 1:33:05.720 --> 1:33:07.800 But I feel like I agree with you if she 1:33:07.960 --> 1:33:11.160 wasn't like takes the hood to be missy at times. 1:33:12.120 --> 1:33:14.040 Yeah, like if. 1:33:13.960 --> 1:33:15.960 You just had a lot going on and so I'm 1:33:15.960 --> 1:33:18.960 not really hearing you from you because you. 1:33:19.080 --> 1:33:22.760 Dealing with life and you dealing with them, You them kids, mama. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 1:33:23.240 --> 1:33:24.240 but you got to being cool. 1:33:24.280 --> 1:33:26.080 But you got time to text me about tea. You 1:33:26.120 --> 1:33:28.599 got time to respond when you want to every three weeks. 1:33:28.680 --> 1:33:32.160 That's why I said, no, y'all not aligning. I would say, 1:33:32.240 --> 1:33:34.759 leg go the' from Bye Bookie. But stop stretching y'allself 1:33:34.840 --> 1:33:37.519 out over people. Let her go. 1:33:38.640 --> 1:33:43.040 Mmm what you didn't say? I agree, she doesn't sound 1:33:43.080 --> 1:33:44.439 like she's your friend anymore, or. 1:33:44.400 --> 1:33:48.320 She checked out and it's convenient for her to talk 1:33:48.360 --> 1:33:51.000 to you. What it sounds like to me? Like I said, 1:33:51.040 --> 1:33:53.040 y'all are just living two different lives. She got four 1:33:53.120 --> 1:33:57.559 kids and you have none. That's just completely different, Like 1:33:57.720 --> 1:33:58.280 y'all literal. 1:33:58.360 --> 1:34:00.559 I was not being friends with hood any way, because 1:34:00.560 --> 1:34:02.880 if she ever asked me to watch them kids, it's 1:34:03.000 --> 1:34:05.880 really gonna be a problem, because let me tell you 1:34:05.880 --> 1:34:07.800 who ain't never watching four kids? 1:34:08.280 --> 1:34:09.920 Her kids is kind of crazy. 1:34:10.560 --> 1:34:14.320 Ever, like a long night movie night. But yeah no, 1:34:14.439 --> 1:34:17.800 that niece's nephew. Oh me by myself. Yeah, if I 1:34:17.840 --> 1:34:20.400 had a friend to have four kids, Yeah, you thinking 1:34:20.400 --> 1:34:22.280 I'm gonna watch your four kids at one time? 1:34:22.280 --> 1:34:25.599 It's nuts because this is never happening. 1:34:25.640 --> 1:34:26.160 That's a lot. 1:34:26.280 --> 1:34:28.599 Where's your nianny, where's your mother? 1:34:29.200 --> 1:34:30.040 Where's your father? 1:34:30.600 --> 1:34:31.479 Where's the father? 1:34:32.000 --> 1:34:37.160 Where's the grandmama, the grandmother, the grandmama, the Niemi period, 1:34:37.560 --> 1:34:38.040 the t T. 1:34:40.040 --> 1:34:44.160 Need to like, where's everybody? I just y'all live in 1:34:44.160 --> 1:34:44.840 two different states. 1:34:45.640 --> 1:34:47.320 Gotta be your last resort? 1:34:47.479 --> 1:34:50.719 Yeah, and then I feel like y'all live in different staates. 1:34:50.720 --> 1:34:52.600 Obviously this is not making you feel good. We have 1:34:52.640 --> 1:34:54.240 to learn how to walk away from things that don't 1:34:54.280 --> 1:34:57.080 make us feel good. Would you have four kids? No? 1:34:57.680 --> 1:35:01.840 I mean you're gonna have one? If would you ever add? 1:35:01.880 --> 1:35:03.120 I will watch your one? Hid? 1:35:03.800 --> 1:35:06.000 I mean, who's gonna who else gonna watch you? 1:35:06.000 --> 1:35:09.880 Girl? Fuck you? Who else gonna watch you? It's gonna 1:35:09.880 --> 1:35:13.040 be between you and my baby daddy. I ain't finna 1:35:13.080 --> 1:35:16.200 be with them. I got shit to do. 1:35:16.320 --> 1:35:18.080 Well, first of all, I'm gonna be were you egg 1:35:18.520 --> 1:35:19.880 so who they about to be with? 1:35:20.000 --> 1:35:21.439 For real, y'all gonna have to take you and my 1:35:21.479 --> 1:35:25.280 baby daddy gonna have to take turn. 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The crazy thing is our Facebook page 1:36:45.479 --> 1:36:47.400 actually have the least amount of filet. 1:36:47.479 --> 1:36:50.120 So if you're on Facebook one that's ours, got the 1:36:50.200 --> 1:36:52.840 least amount of file, but one that's not us got 1:36:52.880 --> 1:36:53.680 like two hundred and. 1:36:53.600 --> 1:36:54.799 Fifty thous' follows. 1:36:54.960 --> 1:36:56.680 Make if you actually look at the content, because the 1:36:56.760 --> 1:36:59.800 caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English? Because 1:36:59.800 --> 1:37:01.880 they're captains are like mamba claude? 1:37:01.880 --> 1:37:02.320 Should men? 1:37:02.479 --> 1:37:03.599 Should men pay bill? 1:37:04.800 --> 1:37:05.800 Should men pay bill? 1:37:05.960 --> 1:37:06.280 Yes? No? 1:37:07.560 --> 1:37:13.400 Check answer below block block pull like that's literally with 1:37:13.520 --> 1:37:14.080 the captions. 1:37:14.240 --> 1:37:16.679 I'm like you, what would that? DG is bumba claude? 1:37:16.920 --> 1:37:21.080 Wamba claude? All right, Drayon say give it to him. 1:37:21.160 --> 1:37:25.320 Drayon say we warming up for the Christmas performance. 1:37:27.640 --> 1:37:29.960 Bring me alarm, I've been through this too long. Would 1:37:29.960 --> 1:37:32.400 I be damned if I see another cheek on his arm? 1:37:32.600 --> 1:37:35.040 I said, bring me alarm. I've been through this too long. 1:37:35.120 --> 1:37:37.360 Would I be damned if I see another treek on 1:37:37.400 --> 1:37:37.720 his own? 1:37:37.920 --> 1:37:40.160 I'll be rocking to your little colds. If I let you. 1:37:40.160 --> 1:37:42.400 Go, get in the house, off the codes. If I 1:37:42.520 --> 1:37:45.120 let you go, she gonna take everything I own. If 1:37:45.120 --> 1:37:47.400 I let you Oh, I can't let you go. 1:37:47.520 --> 1:37:47.760 Damn. 1:37:47.800 --> 1:37:49.920 If I let you go, she gonna wrap them baby 1:37:49.960 --> 1:37:52.160 here stones I left you go in. 1:37:52.240 --> 1:37:53.439 The back of the roles. 1:37:53.439 --> 1:37:55.759 If I let you go, she gonna prop it everything 1:37:55.800 --> 1:37:56.280 I told her. 1:37:56.280 --> 1:37:58.960 If I let you go, I can't let you go. Dan. 1:37:59.120 --> 1:38:01.759 If I let you go, tell me how should I feel? 1:38:02.000 --> 1:38:04.639 When I know wan to know, and my female intuition 1:38:04.720 --> 1:38:07.000 is telling me, you will tell people? Tell me about 1:38:07.040 --> 1:38:09.080 the flames. I couldn't stay through the smoke. When I 1:38:09.120 --> 1:38:10.960 need instant accusations, You mean you can go. 1:38:11.120 --> 1:38:16.360 Show you can't stay. You gotta go. Ain't no chick 1:38:16.400 --> 1:38:19.519 spinning your dough, taking the toe the way you thirty 1:38:19.560 --> 1:38:21.840 of phones not the picture for every for me, hear me. 1:38:21.880 --> 1:38:24.519 One should have saw you rocking to the goals. I 1:38:24.600 --> 1:38:27.960 let get in the house, stup go, I let you go. 1:38:28.200 --> 1:38:29.840 She gonna take everything I own. 1:38:29.920 --> 1:38:32.680 If I let you go. I can't let your go. Damn. 1:38:32.760 --> 1:38:34.840 If I let you go, she gonna ruck the baby 1:38:35.040 --> 1:38:37.320 is thought. If I let you go, be in the 1:38:37.360 --> 1:38:39.599 back of the road. If I let you go, she's 1:38:39.600 --> 1:38:41.960 gonna talking everything I thought. If I let you go, 1:38:42.439 --> 1:38:44.880 I can't let you go. Then if I let you go. 1:38:45.320 --> 1:38:48.679 I said, bringing your law, I would I be damn 1:38:48.760 --> 1:38:50.920 if I see another chick on his own, I. 1:38:50.840 --> 1:38:52.080 Said, bringing your long. 1:38:53.600 --> 1:38:55.880 Let me damned if I see another chick on his 1:38:56.040 --> 1:38:58.360 arm tell me how should I feel when your name 1:38:58.439 --> 1:39:00.920 is below and I thought of you just touch a nurse? 1:39:00.960 --> 1:39:02.680 What I thought, I'm gonna want you? 1:39:02.760 --> 1:39:04.439 But I let it because I can't let it go 1:39:04.720 --> 1:39:06.479 to know you give it to it like you gave 1:39:06.640 --> 1:39:14.760 me to come on. Why I just. 1:39:19.200 --> 1:39:19.320 Right? 1:39:19.400 --> 1:39:20.280 We gotta pring it back? 1:39:22.400 --> 1:39:26.040 You go, David, I let She gonna pay everything if 1:39:26.080 --> 1:39:27.000 I let you go. 1:39:27.760 --> 1:39:28.439 He let you go. 1:39:28.760 --> 1:39:31.680 If I let you go, maybe your stones. If I 1:39:31.840 --> 1:39:34.400 let you go in the back of the rother. If 1:39:34.439 --> 1:39:37.240 I let you go, she's gonna pay everything. If I 1:39:37.320 --> 1:39:40.000 let you go, I can't let you go. If I 1:39:40.080 --> 1:39:42.400 let you hit and Dre, I say, bring along. 1:39:42.560 --> 1:39:45.519 Oh, how can you look at me? And I see 1:39:45.560 --> 1:39:48.000 all the things that I kept on leave just for you? 1:39:48.720 --> 1:39:51.200 Why would you risk your babies? That the price that 1:39:51.320 --> 1:39:56.080 I paid? But this is my show and I won't 1:39:56.160 --> 1:39:58.240 let you go, and this time be paid for and 1:39:58.320 --> 1:40:01.720 it's mine? How could you give me? And I see 1:40:01.760 --> 1:40:05.200 y'all the things she'll been rocking just to look over. 1:40:05.240 --> 1:40:08.040 If I let you go in the house, off the coat. 1:40:08.080 --> 1:40:09.080 If I left you go. 1:40:09.240 --> 1:40:10.840 She's gonna take everything I own. 1:40:10.920 --> 1:40:13.360 If I let you go, I can't let you go. 1:40:13.479 --> 1:40:14.559 Damn if I let you. 1:40:14.560 --> 1:40:16.519 Go, She's gonna let them be the stone. 1:40:16.560 --> 1:40:21.719 If I let you go and Ima go go everything 1:40:21.760 --> 1:40:22.040 I ow. 1:40:22.160 --> 1:40:25.280 If I let you got your gout, Damn if I 1:40:25.360 --> 1:40:28.360 let your go, I said, ringing along, I've been through 1:40:28.439 --> 1:40:30.479 this too long, and not be damned if I see 1:40:30.520 --> 1:40:33.559 another shick on his arm, I said, ringing along, I've 1:40:33.600 --> 1:40:35.760 been through this too long. Would I be damned if 1:40:35.760 --> 1:40:38.439 I see another check on his unbles? 1:40:38.720 --> 1:40:41.679 I'm mad? Period? 1:40:41.840 --> 1:40:43.400 Damna fuck it 1:40:45.120 --> 1:40:45.400 Got me