WEBVTT - Shapearl Wells on A Slight Change of Plans Podcast

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, everyone, It's Alison Flowers from the Somebody podcast. We're

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<v Speaker 1>sharing another special podcast with you this week, A Slight

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<v Speaker 1>Change of Plans, which was just named Apple Podcasts Best

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<v Speaker 1>Show of the Year. Hosted by Maya Schenker, A Slight

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<v Speaker 1>Change of Plans is all about understanding the science of change.

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<v Speaker 1>That understanding, mixed with a healthy dose of compassion, has

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<v Speaker 1>made the show a perfect antidote for the times we're

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<v Speaker 1>living in. Maya has interviewed celebrities like Tiffany Hattish and

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<v Speaker 1>Casey Musgraves, but she's interviewed real life inspirations to people

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<v Speaker 1>who have dealt with cancer diagnoses or the loss of

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<v Speaker 1>a loved one and somehow managed to learn and grow

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<v Speaker 1>from those hard experiences. We challenge you to listen to

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<v Speaker 1>an episode and not be inspired. In this episode, Maya

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<v Speaker 1>talks to Chapel about Courtney's story and Chaparral's continued fight

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<v Speaker 1>for the truth. You can find more episodes of A

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<v Speaker 1>Slight Change of Plans wherever you get your podcasts. I

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<v Speaker 1>remember that night like it was yesterday. I could still

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<v Speaker 1>hear the thunderous beat in my head, and I remember

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<v Speaker 1>being so startled out of my sleep because I've never

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<v Speaker 1>experienced such a bamming at my door, so it shocked me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I knew that something bad had happened. That's Chaparral

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<v Speaker 1>Wells describing the moment when Chicago police officers showed up

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<v Speaker 1>on her doorstep in the middle of the night. Her

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<v Speaker 1>oldest child, her twenty two year old son, Courtney Copeland,

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<v Speaker 1>had been fatally shot. Chaparl needed answers about what had

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<v Speaker 1>happened in Courtney's final moments, but it soon became clear

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't going to get them unless she took matters

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<v Speaker 1>into her own hands. It wasn't by choice that I

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<v Speaker 1>took this journey in investigating my son's murder. I had

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<v Speaker 1>no other option. Chaparral did not know at the time

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<v Speaker 1>that she spent the next five years trying to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what exactly had happened to Courtney. On today's episode,

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<v Speaker 1>a mother channels her grief into justice for her son.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Maya Shankar, and this is a slight change of plants,

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<v Speaker 1>a show about who we are and who we become

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<v Speaker 1>in the face of a big change. Chaparral was grieving

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<v Speaker 1>the loss of her son, Courtney, but her grieving process

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<v Speaker 1>was complicated by the fact there were so many unanswered

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<v Speaker 1>questions surrounding his death. I wanted to hear about her

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<v Speaker 1>psychological journey through all this, how she balanced her dual

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<v Speaker 1>identities as mom and investigator, and importantly, I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>know how all her advocacy may have changed her relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with Courtney's death. I started off our conversation by asking

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<v Speaker 1>Chaperl about the kind of person Courtney was. He was

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<v Speaker 1>such a loving person. I s always come home, like

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<v Speaker 1>from dropping off the kids at school, and he'll be here,

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<v Speaker 1>and he'll come up and he'll be all in my bed.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember even in his team, and when he

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<v Speaker 1>was even grown, he'd be like, can you just rubbed

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<v Speaker 1>on my ears? You know? He was just like so affectionate.

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<v Speaker 1>And I would say one of the best memories I

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<v Speaker 1>have for Courtney is him being the glue. He was

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<v Speaker 1>someone who if there was a conflict or he would

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<v Speaker 1>be the first person to try to resolve it. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, you know we're family. Let's pull it together.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's it doesn't matter what happened. Let's just resolve this

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<v Speaker 1>and move on. I remember Courdney shortly after my mother

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<v Speaker 1>passed away, and Courtney and my grandmother were very close,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said, mom, h Grandma wanted me to keep

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<v Speaker 1>the family together. And Courtney may have been at the

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<v Speaker 1>time that she passed. And I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a huge responsibility, Courtney, I said, but she saw

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<v Speaker 1>something within you that felt that you could do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Because Courtney was the type of person, he got along

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<v Speaker 1>with everyone, and so he would basically try to host

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<v Speaker 1>family dinners lessons like this person because these are things

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<v Speaker 1>that my grandmother did, especially around holidays like Thanksgiving and Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>She made sure everyone got together. In addition to being

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<v Speaker 1>a family oriented guy, Courtney was also making great strides

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<v Speaker 1>in his professional life. He was a sales wrath and

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<v Speaker 1>he earned a special bonus that allowed him to get

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<v Speaker 1>at Burgundy BMW. And so I remember him pulling up

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<v Speaker 1>in our draw I've way probably around twelve or one

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. He was like, Mom, I did it.

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<v Speaker 1>I did it. I got the car. I got the car.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember him giving me the biggest hug and

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, you gotta come down there and see it.

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<v Speaker 1>And the music was blasting and he was just like

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<v Speaker 1>so excited. His friends were out. I mean, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>literally twelve thirty one o'clock in the morning and he

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<v Speaker 1>had called out his friends over you can't see anything,

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<v Speaker 1>and everybody was just it was like a mini party

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<v Speaker 1>right in the driveway. And this car wasn't just any

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<v Speaker 1>car to Courtney. They had a relationship. He would talk

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<v Speaker 1>to the car every morning like it was his girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning baby, how are you today? I mean, it

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<v Speaker 1>was just that was his life. The car was his

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<v Speaker 1>life for sure. Well, so yeah, I guess it symbolized

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<v Speaker 1>something so meaningful to him about what he had accomplished

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<v Speaker 1>in life and where he was heading. And it did.

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<v Speaker 1>It did. His goals were always to make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't have to work. It's so there didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>to do anything. So once he received that BMW bonus,

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<v Speaker 1>he actually pushed harder and he was working harder, talking

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<v Speaker 1>to more people and trying to get as much as

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<v Speaker 1>he could in the way of excelling his business as possible.

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<v Speaker 1>So one night, you hear a knock on the door

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<v Speaker 1>at two in the morning and it's the police. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you take me back to that moment? Yes, I remember

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<v Speaker 1>that night like it was yesterday. I could still hear

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<v Speaker 1>the thunderous beat in my head. You know, this is

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<v Speaker 1>something that you never forget, these sounds, these moments where

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<v Speaker 1>you were. And I remember being so startled out of

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<v Speaker 1>my sleep because I've never experienced such a obaming at

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<v Speaker 1>my door, So that bamming it shocked me and I

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<v Speaker 1>knew that something bad had happened. And so when I

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<v Speaker 1>got to the door, the officer was like, do you

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<v Speaker 1>know a Courtney Copeland And I said yes, I'm his mother,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he said, well, we come to notify you

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<v Speaker 1>that you need to call Illinois Masignic Hospital. And at

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<v Speaker 1>that moment, the first thing that goes through my mind is, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>my god, my son has been in a terrible accident.

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<v Speaker 1>Something that's happened. And uh so I'm like, for a

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<v Speaker 1>police officer to come to your home, it has to

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<v Speaker 1>be extremely serious. So I remember my husband he had

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<v Speaker 1>jumped out of bed as well. And by this time

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<v Speaker 1>I'm focusing on Okay, I have to go change my

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<v Speaker 1>clothes and get ready because they're telling us that we

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<v Speaker 1>have to go to this hospital. And so my husband

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<v Speaker 1>is talking to them and I was like, well, Brent

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<v Speaker 1>called the hospital, let's see what's happening. And I'm putting

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<v Speaker 1>on my clothes, and they said, we can't tell you

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<v Speaker 1>over the phone. You need to come in. Once that happened,

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<v Speaker 1>once he uttered those words, I remember being in my

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<v Speaker 1>bedroom and just falling to the floor because I just

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<v Speaker 1>felt in my gut that them telling you that they

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<v Speaker 1>can't tell you on the phone, this must be bad.

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<v Speaker 1>And then once I arrived to the hospital, UH, I

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<v Speaker 1>told him who I was. I said, I'm here to

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<v Speaker 1>see Courtney Copeland. And then they said, well, we need

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<v Speaker 1>to take you to the family room. And I remember,

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<v Speaker 1>just like it just happened just now, when they said that,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm not going. I'm not going into

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<v Speaker 1>the family room because in that moment, you know that

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<v Speaker 1>your child is gone. And so I said, at that point,

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<v Speaker 1>I started to demand to see Courtney, and they were like,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't allow you to see him. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it was an emotional, emotional moment because everyone

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<v Speaker 1>knew at that moment that Courtney was gone. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as a mom, you want to see that confirmation. You

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<v Speaker 1>want to you want to see your child. And UH,

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<v Speaker 1>they were at first denying us the right to see Courtney,

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<v Speaker 1>and they were denying us, uh, the right to even

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<v Speaker 1>really know a lot of information about him. What was

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<v Speaker 1>the reason they wouldn't let you see Courtney, Well, because

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<v Speaker 1>it was a murder investigation. And so they said that

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<v Speaker 1>the police had already determined that this was a murder

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<v Speaker 1>and that no one is to be able to see him,

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<v Speaker 1>and so they said their protocol is to send them

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<v Speaker 1>directly to the morgue. And so about forty five minutes

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<v Speaker 1>to an hour, the doctor finally comes and tells us

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. And so we're in the family room and

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<v Speaker 1>at this time it's about thirty family members that are

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<v Speaker 1>with us, and his friends, his closest friends, and they

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<v Speaker 1>were like, you know, the doctor came in that your

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<v Speaker 1>son was brought in by ambulance and he was shot,

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<v Speaker 1>and all of us just like shot by who? And

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<v Speaker 1>we all fell to the ground because we couldn't believe.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, because for Courtney to be shot, it was

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<v Speaker 1>just something that was unfathomable about him, of all people

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<v Speaker 1>being shot, he was not, you know violent, he you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if if he saw confrontation, Courtney would leave. So for

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<v Speaker 1>them to tell us that he had been shot, we

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<v Speaker 1>immediately said, by who? Who did this to him? After

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<v Speaker 1>nearly two hours of Pleading with hospital doctors and staff,

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<v Speaker 1>Chapel was finally allowed to see her son. She and

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<v Speaker 1>her family made their way to the trauma ward, where

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<v Speaker 1>Courtney was lying on a hospital bed. I would probably

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<v Speaker 1>say that was probably the hardest moment of my life

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to see him in that state. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember so vividly when we first walked in the room,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, all of my family was there, and

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<v Speaker 1>I can I can remember myself just telling everybody, I

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<v Speaker 1>need to be along with my baby. I need a moment.

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<v Speaker 1>I need him to note that you know, Mommy was

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<v Speaker 1>sorry that she wasn't there. You know, I just imagine

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<v Speaker 1>my son going through all this trauma by himself and

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<v Speaker 1>not having his mom there, and that was hard for me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember touching him and kissing him and his

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<v Speaker 1>his body was still warm, and you know, you know

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<v Speaker 1>those moments you just think about all of the time

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<v Speaker 1>that you had and and and they're rushing back every

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<v Speaker 1>moment from birth and him into this moment where you

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<v Speaker 1>get at him for his final days, his final seconds,

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<v Speaker 1>his final hours, and there's that very final moment when

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<v Speaker 1>you're getting ready to say goodbye. Mm hmm, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>moment at the hospital that night where when you feel

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<v Speaker 1>more than just grief. Yes, after we view Courtney, the

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<v Speaker 1>two detectives that allow us to see him, they begin

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<v Speaker 1>to question us about Courtney in the vehicle. The first

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<v Speaker 1>question they asked was who was the owner of the

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<v Speaker 1>BMW And I said, Courtney. Courtney is owner of the BMW.

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, but he did have a co signer.

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<v Speaker 1>So on my mind, I was thinking, maybe, uh, this

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<v Speaker 1>was a traffic stop gone wrong, because why would you

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<v Speaker 1>be questioning you know, I'm thinking detectives. If they're telling

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<v Speaker 1>me that my son was shot and killed by unknowned assailant,

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<v Speaker 1>then the first thing should have been you know, where

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<v Speaker 1>was he going on? Who was he with? What? What

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<v Speaker 1>information do you know? But to question the vehicle it

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<v Speaker 1>made me suspicious of their intent. Maybe they thought that

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<v Speaker 1>Courtney had stolen the vehicle. It was like to me

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<v Speaker 1>they were interrogating Courtney as opposed to trying to find

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<v Speaker 1>out who could have done this to him. So at

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<v Speaker 1>this point, Chaparl, you decide to take matters into your

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<v Speaker 1>own hands and you go int a full investigator mode.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to put myself in your shoes, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to imagine where I'd even begin. Well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't by choice that I took this journey in

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<v Speaker 1>investigating my son's murder. I had no other option. I

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<v Speaker 1>felt that Courtney deserved two have clothosure. I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>was like day in and day out from the moment

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<v Speaker 1>I found out that Courtney had been killed. I needed

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<v Speaker 1>to know why. I still need to know why, and

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<v Speaker 1>I needed to know how, how did these things occur?

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<v Speaker 1>What happened? And so you know, within my being, it

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<v Speaker 1>was just constantly turning all of these unknowns and I

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<v Speaker 1>had to try to uncover whatever I could. I mean, literally,

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<v Speaker 1>we were we were working. We were working on Courtney's case. Seven.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I slept the first week, because I

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<v Speaker 1>would maybe sleep like two to three hours because I

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<v Speaker 1>was constantly going over the timeline. I was recording what

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<v Speaker 1>my thoughts were, any tips, I was putting it in there.

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<v Speaker 1>We were going out in the neighborhood. We were walking,

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<v Speaker 1>uh looking for clues. We were talking to his friends

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<v Speaker 1>that he would have encountered that night. So we were

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<v Speaker 1>literally we had all boots on the streets trying to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out what happened. Mm hmm. You eventually tracked down

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<v Speaker 1>Courtney's hospital records. What did the records say? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>at the time that I actually received the medical records,

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<v Speaker 1>I had already had suspicions that something was wrong. So

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<v Speaker 1>the first page of the medical documents was the Chicago

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<v Speaker 1>Fire Department run sheet, and that particular run sheet, the

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<v Speaker 1>first paragraph of it it states that my son was violent, agitated, combative,

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<v Speaker 1>and a threat to others. And so I knew in

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<v Speaker 1>my heart, because I know my son, that this information

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<v Speaker 1>had to be wrong. As I continued to read, it

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<v Speaker 1>says and the patient was handcuffed. When I saw that

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<v Speaker 1>my son was handcuffed, I lost it. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, why would you handcuffed somebody who who

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<v Speaker 1>was dying and he went to you for help? And

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<v Speaker 1>so none of this made any sense to me, and

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<v Speaker 1>it only hyped my suspicion. You know, you felt a

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<v Speaker 1>little comfort and knowing that at least he was will

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<v Speaker 1>cared for on the scene, but when you find out

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<v Speaker 1>that that was not true, it just crushed me. Throughout

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<v Speaker 1>your investigation, you and members of the community are sharing

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<v Speaker 1>leads with the police, but they seemed to be falling

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<v Speaker 1>on deaf ears. In fact, the police department goes totally

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<v Speaker 1>silent on you for an entire year. What tactics do

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<v Speaker 1>you use to try to keep their attention on Courtney's case. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we actually did rallies outside of the district. We marched

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<v Speaker 1>on the mayor office, and we also canvas the neighborhoods.

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<v Speaker 1>We talk to neighbors who hit video cameras. We requested

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<v Speaker 1>for your information freedom of information acts so that that

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<v Speaker 1>way we can get all the tapes, the audio, the visual,

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<v Speaker 1>the pod cameras, everything that surrounded this case. Chaparral was

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<v Speaker 1>intent on getting access to the footage surrounding Courtney's death

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<v Speaker 1>and began searching the web for potential partners who could

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<v Speaker 1>help her. One night, around two thirty in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>she came across an article about Lakwan McDonald, the seventeen

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<v Speaker 1>year old who was fatally shot by a Chicago police officer.

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<v Speaker 1>In the article cited a nonprofit called the Invisible Institute.

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<v Speaker 1>The institute had played a key role in getting footage

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<v Speaker 1>released from Lakwan McDonald's case, and so I said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, I have nothing to lose. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>write to the Invisible Institute to see if I can

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<v Speaker 1>get some help with trying to get the video tapes

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<v Speaker 1>and the audio tapes that we know the police have

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<v Speaker 1>surrounding Courtney's case, because at that point I was only

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<v Speaker 1>looking for someone to listen to me and to hear me,

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<v Speaker 1>because I felt like everything I was saying as a mom,

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<v Speaker 1>it was being misconstrued as I'm just grieving mom and

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<v Speaker 1>none of this have any merit. But what I was

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<v Speaker 1>showing to the world, what I wanted the world to understand,

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<v Speaker 1>that there are a lot of inconsistencies in this case. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so interesting how when you occupy the role of mom,

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<v Speaker 1>there's there's a presumption that emotions bias, all that stuff

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<v Speaker 1>is creeping in when in actuality, you were holding yourself

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<v Speaker 1>to a very rigorous process and you were just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to find the facts. Yes, very early on, my friend Santita,

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<v Speaker 1>she told me, you don't want to come to a conclusion.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to arrive at the conclusion. You want to

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<v Speaker 1>let the evidence lead you to what happened to your son.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that was one of the cruise to advices

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<v Speaker 1>that I received and that I tried to adapt during

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<v Speaker 1>the whole process, that I wanted to naturally allow the

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<v Speaker 1>evidence to tell us what happened to Courdney. I'm wondering

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<v Speaker 1>whether strategies you use to try and gain more credibility

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<v Speaker 1>in the eyes of the police force, giving your status

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<v Speaker 1>as quote mom. You know, I think that they were

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<v Speaker 1>dismissive because I was a mom, They were dismissive because

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<v Speaker 1>I was black, all of these things. And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if they would treat everyone like that, but I

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<v Speaker 1>felt that they treated me very badly. But I I

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<v Speaker 1>believe that they felt that because I'm not um, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't go to law school, I didn't go to the

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<v Speaker 1>police academy, that therefore that my only knowledge about solving

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<v Speaker 1>crimes is uh, Special Victims Unit on Law and Order.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what That's what they basically thought that I was doing.

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<v Speaker 1>And just like I told them, I said, no, this

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<v Speaker 1>is basic information. I mean, you know, I had to

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<v Speaker 1>actually read a lot of terminology. I had to understand

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<v Speaker 1>everything that I was reading in their reports. Some things

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't understand and I had to go and look

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<v Speaker 1>it up. Well what does this mean when they say this?

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<v Speaker 1>What is what does these code me? And police language?

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<v Speaker 1>So in order for me to understand that, I had

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<v Speaker 1>to actually reach out to a couple of police officer

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<v Speaker 1>of friends that I know. Had to reach out to

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<v Speaker 1>so share of people that I know and to try

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out the terminology so I can understand on

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<v Speaker 1>their level. Same with the autopsic reports. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>medical terminology I didn't know, so as a mom I

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<v Speaker 1>had to take off my mom emotional world and put

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<v Speaker 1>on my investigative mode. Had and tried to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>what happened to my son. So I wanted to know

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<v Speaker 1>all the ins and outs, how the bullet travel everything.

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<v Speaker 1>And people were like, this is just too much. It's

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<v Speaker 1>too much, You're doing too much, and I will tell them, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I need to know. I need to know how how

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<v Speaker 1>did my son pass away? I need to know. Together

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<v Speaker 1>with the Invisible Institute, Chapearl continued to advocate for the

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<v Speaker 1>release of footage from Courtney's final moments, and finally the

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<v Speaker 1>police agreed to turn it over. One and a half

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<v Speaker 1>years after Courtney's death, I asked Chaparl what it was

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<v Speaker 1>like to hold those videos in her hands for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time. You know, I remember receiving the videos in

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<v Speaker 1>my mailbox and I had prepared myself all right, came

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<v Speaker 1>up in my room, set up the DVD player, got

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<v Speaker 1>prepared to watch it. I prayed before I loaded it

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<v Speaker 1>because I knew it was going to be hard to

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<v Speaker 1>actually see it. I pop it in and it tells

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<v Speaker 1>me it's in a format that I can't even read.

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<v Speaker 1>So I remember feeling this, this horrible, horrible feeling like

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<v Speaker 1>they're playing with me, They're playing with my emotions. They

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<v Speaker 1>knew that they sent me a format that I couldn't read,

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<v Speaker 1>so I remember just crying out and I called the

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<v Speaker 1>Invisible Institute to ask them if they can decode it.

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<v Speaker 1>So the moment that we get the video tape decoded,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember the Invisible Institute being with me, and all

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<v Speaker 1>I could see is my son just like reaching up

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<v Speaker 1>on his knees, begging them to help, begging. He surrounded

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<v Speaker 1>by eight to ten cops and my son is begging

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<v Speaker 1>to be helped. And then the video cuts away and

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<v Speaker 1>focuses on the police station for two minutes, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what is happening to my son? I'm panicking

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't even know what's happening at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would the video just automatically turn away from the

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<v Speaker 1>scene into we're watching the police station. And then the

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<v Speaker 1>next frame is when they aggressively picked up my son

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<v Speaker 1>off the ground, throw him against the police car and

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<v Speaker 1>then onto the gurney as if he was a ragged

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<v Speaker 1>out And that's why I often tell people, it's so hard,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so hard to even imagine the emotions that my son.

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<v Speaker 1>I just know my son was just so confused, like

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<v Speaker 1>police are supposed to be here to serve and protect you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm shocked, I'm scared what's happening. And this is

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<v Speaker 1>what his final moments were, and he was by himself.

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<v Speaker 1>And I told people all the time that's like the

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<v Speaker 1>hardest thing for me as a mom to know that

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<v Speaker 1>he endured all this by himself, and there was nobody

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<v Speaker 1>there who cared enough for him to help him through

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<v Speaker 1>this and to comfort him in these moments. Not a

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<v Speaker 1>soul was there. Yeah, we'll be back in a moment

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<v Speaker 1>with a slight change of plans. Over the next several years,

0:24:57.480 --> 0:25:01.240
<v Speaker 1>Chapel Wells continued to push for further charity around what

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<v Speaker 1>actually happened to her son, Courtney Copeland. In September, she

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<v Speaker 1>received some news from the City of Chicago. Chaparral's advocacy

0:25:10.560 --> 0:25:13.920
<v Speaker 1>had paid off. The Office of the Inspector General, an

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<v Speaker 1>independent watchdog agency, had decided to launch a formal investigation

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<v Speaker 1>into Courtney's case. The investigation is currently under way. Where

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<v Speaker 1>do you go from here, Chaparral. A lot of people say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, don't put too much stock and what this

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<v Speaker 1>report shows m hm. But I think that what happened

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<v Speaker 1>to Courtney has to be addressed on all levels of

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<v Speaker 1>city government, state government, federal government, because I feel that

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<v Speaker 1>these incidents occur far more frequently than police shootings, but

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<v Speaker 1>they don't get the highlight and the notoriety because it's

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<v Speaker 1>not the police pulling the trigger or a beat down

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<v Speaker 1>or a knee on the neck. But these type of

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<v Speaker 1>incidents of racial profiling and the police accountability need to

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<v Speaker 1>be addressed. So I'm looking for more legislative changes to

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<v Speaker 1>see if the Inspector General kid make UH policy changes

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<v Speaker 1>that would change the policy from they can intervene until

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<v Speaker 1>they must intervene to help to save more lives. Because

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<v Speaker 1>the reality is is that, like I said, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that Courtney was shot, it was the lack

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<v Speaker 1>of urgency to his care. You know, recently, UH Offers

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<v Speaker 1>of French was shot in Chicago and she was killed.

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<v Speaker 1>I listened to that traffic on the police scanner that day,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was listening in real time. I saw how

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<v Speaker 1>they move heaven and earth to get her to the

0:27:06.760 --> 0:27:11.199
<v Speaker 1>nearest trauma center as they should. As they should, But

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<v Speaker 1>that same care that they put for offers of French

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<v Speaker 1>should go for every citizen in Chicago in the United States.

0:27:20.520 --> 0:27:23.680
<v Speaker 1>There should be no respect of person because of their title.

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<v Speaker 1>But everybody deserves a fighting chance. And so if we

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<v Speaker 1>make these legislative changes to ensure that everyone has the

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity at life, then that would be justice for Courtney.

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<v Speaker 1>M hm. Did you ever find your relationship at the

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<v Speaker 1>police changing throughout this process? I mean, how you approach

0:27:50.200 --> 0:27:55.439
<v Speaker 1>that change in any way? Well, I would say we

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<v Speaker 1>still have a contentious relationship. I would say that I

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<v Speaker 1>still have no faith in them that they would actually

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<v Speaker 1>solve Courtney's murder. But I'm hoping that we can come

0:28:09.200 --> 0:28:15.000
<v Speaker 1>to a clear understanding that Coordinate deserves justice. This was

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<v Speaker 1>not for me um an investigation on the police to

0:28:20.520 --> 0:28:23.040
<v Speaker 1>try to entrap them or to make them look like

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<v Speaker 1>the bad guy. I wanted justice for my son. It

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<v Speaker 1>didn't matter if it was the police. If it was

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<v Speaker 1>a stranger whoever did this to Courtney, they deserved to

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<v Speaker 1>be prosecuted and convicted of this crime. So that was

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<v Speaker 1>my only goal, and I was always telling them, I

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<v Speaker 1>want you to treat my son as if it was yours.

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<v Speaker 1>How would you go about handling this investigation if it

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<v Speaker 1>was your child on that slab instead of mine? Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm curious to know how having clarity around Courtney's death

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<v Speaker 1>will impact your life on a personal level. Aside from

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<v Speaker 1>the advocacy part. I know there's nothing I could do.

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<v Speaker 1>I know as a mother, I cannot change what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know if me being there would have

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<v Speaker 1>been any different. But for me, the clarity I have

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<v Speaker 1>is more introspective about life and how fragile it is,

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<v Speaker 1>and how that you live every moment as if it's

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<v Speaker 1>your last, and you love harder and you love more freely.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's the clarity I've learned. And all of this

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<v Speaker 1>is to make sure you tell everyone that you love them,

0:29:51.760 --> 0:29:55.200
<v Speaker 1>because I didn't know that I wasn't going to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to tell my son that, and I only can

0:29:58.680 --> 0:30:04.640
<v Speaker 1>tell him and actions and my continuous fight for him.

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<v Speaker 1>But I wish I had that moment to say that

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<v Speaker 1>for him to hear it. Do you think this reflects

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<v Speaker 1>a change and how you how you thought about your

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<v Speaker 1>goals throughout, which is at the beginning, you're seeking clarity

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<v Speaker 1>around the facts, and actually now it's it's also clarity

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<v Speaker 1>around how you plan to live the rest of your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's what you ended up getting from it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that. It's this poem that I often quote.

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<v Speaker 1>The hardest thing was hearing that my son had passed away,

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<v Speaker 1>But now it's the hardest thing is going on and

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<v Speaker 1>living without him. Now that I've heard that, and and

0:30:45.400 --> 0:30:49.080
<v Speaker 1>that is that is the truth? How do you? How

0:30:49.080 --> 0:30:52.960
<v Speaker 1>do you continue to move forward and go on? And

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that what the world gathers from Courtney, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just the love, just to love, to show the love

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<v Speaker 1>and not be afraid to show how you feel about someone.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the greatest things about Courtney that I learned

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<v Speaker 1>and his death is that he had this keen ability

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<v Speaker 1>to make everyone feel special, to make everyone feel loved.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you ask any of his friends, they'll say,

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<v Speaker 1>Courtney was my best friend. Usually we only get one,

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<v Speaker 1>but he made everyone feel like they were his best friend,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I'm learning from him those qualities of making

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<v Speaker 1>myself vulnerable and to show love more often has telling

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<v Speaker 1>Courtney's story, including the story of how well he lived

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<v Speaker 1>his life, helped you heal in ways that you couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have anticipated. I would say, yes, Um, as a parent,

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<v Speaker 1>you grow up to cheen your children, the morals guidance.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you're still you're instilling so much into them,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like, I want, I hope these kids are

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<v Speaker 1>listening to me. And what what what I found out

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<v Speaker 1>in his death is that he was the way I

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<v Speaker 1>raised him is the way that he was living. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I find so much comfort and so much joy

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<v Speaker 1>and hearing other people talk about my son the way

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<v Speaker 1>that he made them feel. I recall, uh, the weekend

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<v Speaker 1>that Courtney had passed away, I opened my home to

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<v Speaker 1>the public because it was just so much outpouring of

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<v Speaker 1>grief and they were grieving with me, grieving for me,

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<v Speaker 1>and we were all united in this great loss of

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<v Speaker 1>Courtney Copeland. And I had opened my house to anyone

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<v Speaker 1>who wanted to come and pay their respects. And I

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<v Speaker 1>remember gentleman walking into my home and he told me,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, you don't know me, and I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know your son, but I saw his photo on the

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<v Speaker 1>TV that he had been killed. And he handed me

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<v Speaker 1>this koran. And he hands me this koran. He said, ma'am,

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<v Speaker 1>your son came into my restaurant about a month ago

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<v Speaker 1>and he saw me. He was sitting with his girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>He saw me. He said, I was in so much

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<v Speaker 1>pain that day, and he said, your son saw the

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<v Speaker 1>anguish in my face. And he walked over to me

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<v Speaker 1>and he said, Sir, I don't know you, but I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to encourage you today. I want to give

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<v Speaker 1>you some hope and tell you that whatever it is

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<v Speaker 1>that you're going through, that God is going to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to help you. He started crying. He said, because

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<v Speaker 1>your son came to me in that day and he

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<v Speaker 1>gave me those words of encouragement and told me to

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<v Speaker 1>keep going and whatever I was going through it was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be okay. I'm here today. And he turned around,

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<v Speaker 1>he walked out, and I just like, oh my God,

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<v Speaker 1>And you have so much You have so much joy

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<v Speaker 1>and sadness at the same time. But you as a parent,

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<v Speaker 1>you said, my child has been listening in there and

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<v Speaker 1>they're validating you as a parent. And so I thought

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<v Speaker 1>that was just like so profound that we wanted him

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<v Speaker 1>to grow up and treat people with dignity and respect,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's the way I would want him to have

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<v Speaker 1>been treated as well. Yeah. Yeah, there's an update to

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<v Speaker 1>chapel story that I wanted to share with you. When

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<v Speaker 1>she and I initially spoke, the Inspector General's investigation was

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<v Speaker 1>still under way, but Chaparl was recently notified that the

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<v Speaker 1>investigation has wrapped up and a final report has been

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<v Speaker 1>sent to the City of Chicago. The report is slated

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<v Speaker 1>to be released to the public in the coming months.

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<v Speaker 1>For more details on the evolution of Courtney's case, you

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<v Speaker 1>can listen to the podcast Somebody, which was named a

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<v Speaker 1>finalist for a Pullit Surprise this past year. Hey, thanks

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<v Speaker 1>so much for listening to A Slight Change of Plans

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<v Speaker 1>Slight Change family, We're wishing you a peaceful and RESTful holiday.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see you in the new year. A Slight Change

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<v Speaker 1>you just quickly share the story of finding out what

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<v Speaker 1>Courtney named you on his phone? You know, we're going

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<v Speaker 1>through his phone and we're looking at all the messages.

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<v Speaker 1>It says, oh, whose number is this? And the blow

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<v Speaker 1>and behold it's my number, and I'm like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as any bother as He's like, here should go again. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>but he would also call me mama bear. He would

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<v Speaker 1>like Mama Bear, Mama Bear. And I think that that

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<v Speaker 1>that is just it and Mama Bear is fighting for him,

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<v Speaker 1>and he knew that whatever situation, whether it was oh,

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<v Speaker 1>Mama Bear, I was gonna be somebody that's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>determined to find out what happened to him.