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Speaker 1: The Nick Glazer here's Nicky. Hello. Here I am the

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Speaker 1: Sticky Glazers Nick Glazer Podcast. Welcome to the show. It's Thursday.

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Speaker 1: We are wearing all green today. For what reason I

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Speaker 1: don't know. Andrew and I both showed up wearing green

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Speaker 1: and we decided that Noah should go put on some

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Speaker 1: green too, and that's what she did. That's what kind

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Speaker 1: of show this is, Andrew, You're wearing like an entire

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Speaker 1: master's uniform, like the golf tournament Masters weekend. Does someone

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Speaker 1: send you this the Master's weekend this weekend? My mom

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Speaker 1: got me with these clothes. Interesting fact, my mom has

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Speaker 1: had Master's tickets for the last twenty years. I don't

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Speaker 1: know the exact details of it, but she won a

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Speaker 1: raffle like twenty years ago and we just found out

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Speaker 1: twenty years later that we've had a Master's tickets. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: why don't you go? It's a lun Actually I probably

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Speaker 1: can't get it's a long story. But like the people

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Speaker 1: that also were in, so I believe her friends sign

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Speaker 1: themselves up for this raffle right to win ticket. Then

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Speaker 1: they go, hey, can we double up and have you

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Speaker 1: go in with us. We'll sign your name up just

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Speaker 1: to see maybe we'll give us more of a chance

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Speaker 1: to win, and then she won. But it's like when

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Speaker 1: you tip a lottery ticket and if the person wins,

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Speaker 1: the person is like, actually I bought it. That was

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Speaker 1: just yeah, exactly, you know what I mean exactly. So

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Speaker 1: I used to love that movie where Nicholas Cage tips

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Speaker 1: the latter ticket and then the waitress wins. It could

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Speaker 1: happen to you. I think it's called Oh my God,

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Speaker 1: it was so good. I loved rom coms between um

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Speaker 1: nine um? Why is this very the name? The Masters?

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Speaker 1: Not good, not great, not great, just when it's a

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Speaker 1: sport that's really seems like very white. You know. Also

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Speaker 1: I kind of like, uh, you're just a master of

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Speaker 1: something that could make sense. I guess that's more of

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Speaker 1: what it's about. And they're like, no, it's actually about

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Speaker 1: a slave owner. They're like, yeah, no, that's like the

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Speaker 1: slaves built the court. What is the Masters? For someone

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Speaker 1: who does it? It's like the number one tournament, isn't

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Speaker 1: it It's where golfers get together and make fun of

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Speaker 1: black people. And then is Tiger Woods playing? What is it? Really? No,

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Speaker 1: it's like yes, so Tiger Tiger out in the car wreck.

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Speaker 1: We all know that um and he played with his

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Speaker 1: son and a father's son tournament earlier where he was

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Speaker 1: hitting decent. No one really knew if he'd come back

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Speaker 1: to full on competition, and people tracked his airplane from Jupiter,

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Speaker 1: Florida to Augusta, Georgia. And so he's at the Masters

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Speaker 1: at the Master's right now. We do not know yet.

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Speaker 1: He has not agreed. It's people think he's definitely playing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: why would he? You would never go to Augusta unless

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Speaker 1: you're playing in the Masters. It's the worst place ever.

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Speaker 1: It's the worst town I've ever been to. I guess

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Speaker 1: his argument is he doesn't want to play unless he

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Speaker 1: feels like he can win. That's what people are thinking.

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Speaker 1: So unless he really feels like he can win, he's

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Speaker 1: not going to play. Isn't that everyone who would play

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Speaker 1: if they didn't think they were going to win, someone

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Speaker 1: that hasn't won twenty times already, just to like maybe

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Speaker 1: make a little make a splash. Yeah, Like, I get it.

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Speaker 1: You don't want to be embarrassed. I guess, I mean,

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Speaker 1: is he ready? But I don't know. With like Tom

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Speaker 1: people saw. I feel like I saw that coming, Like

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Speaker 1: it's like the Share reunion, like the farewell tour she has,

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Speaker 1: like so many of them. People are allowed to second

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Speaker 1: guess when they quit, but it just seems I don't.

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Speaker 1: I really liked tom Brady going out being like I'm

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Speaker 1: going out as like the greatest, you know, like like

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Speaker 1: the way Seinfeldt did where I'm going out when I

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Speaker 1: But I think, but I think Tom Brady is hard.

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Speaker 1: He's not there yet. He's not He's still got something

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Speaker 1: not declining. His numbers are just as good as they

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Speaker 1: if not. But you want to go before you even

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Speaker 1: start to decline, even a little smidge, Like you want

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Speaker 1: to go out sincerely on top instead of like, oh,

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Speaker 1: like did he have he didn't have the I mean,

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Speaker 1: go out on a super Bowl, wouldn't you think, Well,

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Speaker 1: is aiming it just didn't feel as complete this time.

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Speaker 1: I just think he thinks he has more left in him.

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Speaker 1: I just think I don't know. I think he likes

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Speaker 1: going back. This kid was like, this is what you wanted. Dad. Like,

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Speaker 1: he's like, I'd rather go hit, but it hit by

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Speaker 1: a three and fifty points Lineman to make out with

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Speaker 1: you boy. Yeah, Well, so you're gearing up for the Masters.

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Speaker 1: You're very excited about it. I so obsessed, you know me,

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Speaker 1: I'm absolutely obsessed with golf right now. And the Masters

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Speaker 1: is you know, a lot of a lot of tournament

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Speaker 1: golf tournaments, they go to different courses, you know what

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Speaker 1: a change of scenery, whatever. This is always the same.

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Speaker 1: It's always the same. It's always constant, is the golf course.

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Speaker 1: Why don't people just play that all year long to

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Speaker 1: get ready for it and never do anything else so

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Speaker 1: that they can just be better than anyone else who's

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Speaker 1: paying all the other ones. That's a good point. So

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Speaker 1: you know all the ins and outs of just one course.

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Speaker 1: You get it all on one course. But that's like

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Speaker 1: what we're talking about. Last episode instead of getting a

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Speaker 1: B and every Also you'd make way less money. But

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Speaker 1: there's a lot of reasons why you write it. But

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Speaker 1: I get what you're saying. There are people that do

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Speaker 1: play it considerably more times. Is it the number one

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Speaker 1: so the that's just the US Open, the British Open,

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Speaker 1: My god, it just reminds me of soft spoken men.

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Speaker 1: And he's teeing up at and his start is really

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Speaker 1: looking good today and it's a beautiful weather, and then

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Speaker 1: people are like, oh, light clap. Yeah yeah. But it's

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Speaker 1: always just reminds me of a SMRs. Very gentlemen speaking

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Speaker 1: Even though they're in a room like far away where

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Speaker 1: they could be like Edie's teeing up Eddie Swift, like

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Speaker 1: full volume, right yeah, even when there's a huge chip

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Speaker 1: mean they could do anything. I mean they could tell

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Speaker 1: Cancer in your neck? Um, it's pretty bad. I've been

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Speaker 1: getting back into SMR so big, Like I've been just

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Speaker 1: like I discovered the community and because it is a discovery,

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Speaker 1: like people that have a SMR, you know, you know

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Speaker 1: Everyone who has a SMR is the same story of

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Speaker 1: like this feeling I got as a child. I knew

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Speaker 1: oddly sexual and I remember I used to watch massage

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Speaker 1: like one of the best compliments I've ever gotten. And um,

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Speaker 1: it isn't we It was it used. It's a lot

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Speaker 1: can't have you. You sound it's like nails on a chick.

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Speaker 1: it's true though, like I never got really I'm trying

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Speaker 1: my mom would like sometimes my parents would like get

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Speaker 1: people who don't know how to communicate and handle their

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Speaker 1: they're just you know, you know New Yorkers, they're loud talkers.

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Speaker 1: They're they're not yelling, they're just talking loud constantly. Yeah

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Speaker 1: yeah yeah, but in your kitchen two ft away from you,

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Speaker 1: telling you pepper. Yeah, Like my dad could get an

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Speaker 1: so my dad. He would like he would yell a lot,

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Speaker 1: like yeah, yeah, you gotta like this kind of voice.

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Speaker 1: the way I am. I get that, but like it's

426
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Speaker 1: it's just nice. I need to be more like that too,

427
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:50,600
Speaker 1: of like just being open to maybe thinking I don't

428
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 1: have it all figured out and like just trying something

429
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:54,919
Speaker 1: new and in that moment to try that, to have

430
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Speaker 1: that uh work is nice. It's an amazing thing to

431
00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:02,400
Speaker 1: know that. Like I still think about when a Meal

432
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 1: picked us up from the airport and drove us an

433
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:09,399
Speaker 1: hour to worry Bloomington and just right away like we

434
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:13,679
Speaker 1: went to subway and just right away having a we

435
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:16,399
Speaker 1: both like we we really loved this kid, Like he

436
00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:21,159
Speaker 1: really was like so like he listened and he was

437
00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:24,719
Speaker 1: so mature beyond like well beyond his years. And then

438
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:26,639
Speaker 1: you gave him a guest set he did so well,

439
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 1: and I don't know, there was just so many things

440
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 1: of like okay, like oh this kid, he doesn't even

441
00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 1: just feel like another stand up. He just I don't know,

442
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,920
Speaker 1: he feels like an old friend somehow and a young kid.

443
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Speaker 1: And I was just so yeah, So I was really

444
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Speaker 1: like when I when I I've been like really like

445
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 1: emotional about him, like doing I don't doing these kinds

446
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 1: of things because like we lived together too, like like

447
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,280
Speaker 1: he is kind of our son, like I lived like

448
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 1: on the road, I sleep next to it. Like you know,

449
00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:03,640
Speaker 1: I freaking make love to this kid boy. You know. No,

450
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 1: I didn't know that, but I'm glad that you're finally

451
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 1: coming out about it and gently kiss each other like

452
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:13,920
Speaker 1: un till the early morning, and like, okay, that's why

453
00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:15,919
Speaker 1: he's not going on tour with us anymore. See he

454
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 1: said there was he was just wanting to work clubs.

455
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 1: But I didn't know it was because you were No.

456
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 1: I wasn't praying on him. Don't put words in his

457
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:29,440
Speaker 1: mouth that he said, don't find my penis in his mouth.

458
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:35,880
Speaker 1: But I really know you're right. He's a special kid,

459
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:37,879
Speaker 1: and like when we first met him, I feel the

460
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:39,640
Speaker 1: same way. It's it is so funny to think of

461
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:41,919
Speaker 1: in any of your friendships. I mean I think back

462
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:43,679
Speaker 1: to like the way you know, we're talking about it

463
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 1: on a couple episodes ago of just like how we

464
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 1: all met and like the first time meeting in your

465
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:50,240
Speaker 1: first impressions, and you know, I just thought he was

466
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 1: just another comic picking us up from the airport. And

467
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 1: he had on like like sixties like fifties doo wop music,

468
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 1: and I was like, how old does he think we are?

469
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:03,120
Speaker 1: And he was just so conversational and so um. It's

470
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 1: just there's some comics you meet that you're just like,

471
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,199
Speaker 1: this person really is funny and cares about it, but

472
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 1: they're That's the best part about comedy is like the

473
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 1: friends I've made, because I think it does attract really smart,

474
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:18,479
Speaker 1: like emotional men, and I think that that's why I

475
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 1: love so many of the male friends that I've made

476
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 1: through comedies, because you guys. You know, as Pat Allen

477
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 1: told me on the phone one she was like, you know,

478
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 1: I was worried about like, oh my god, I'm masculine

479
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 1: energy or I'm like, I'm feminine energy and I want

480
00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 1: to find or I'm masculine energy and probably you know,

481
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 1: because I do stand up, That's what she said. And

482
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 1: she was like, and I was like, oh, I have

483
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 1: a crush on this comedian at the time. I did,

484
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 1: and she was like, oh, well, that's fine because male

485
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 1: comics are uh, feminine energy because that for a woman

486
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 1: to do that, it takes masculine energy for a man

487
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:50,639
Speaker 1: to do it. It's very emotional to do stand up

488
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:52,959
Speaker 1: and to talk up there and like share yourself and

489
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 1: I think that that's what I see, and like a

490
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,439
Speaker 1: meal and you is like men who are willing to

491
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 1: get a little bit deeper and talk realer things. And

492
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: I just appreciate that so much. So let's get to

493
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 1: the funny would be if he bombed, Like we're talking

494
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:07,679
Speaker 1: about this because I had so much fun and then

495
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 1: we watched the said and we watched it, we're like,

496
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: oh my god. Um, all right, before we get to

497
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 1: fan trax, do you guys want to plug some tour dates? Yeah,

498
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,680
Speaker 1: let's plug some tour dates coming up. We have Texas

499
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 1: next week starting on Thursday, I'm going to be in Austin,

500
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 1: Texas two shows at the Paramount Theater, and then we

501
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 1: are doing Irving, Texas on Friday night that is like

502
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 1: Houston area, and then on Saturday, Dallas. I'm sorry, Irving

503
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,639
Speaker 1: is Dallas. I'm so sorry about that. And then on Saturday,

504
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 1: we will be in Houston, Texas. And yeah, so it's

505
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 1: a Texas it's a Texas Texas week next week. And

506
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:48,680
Speaker 1: then I is just announced I'm going on a little

507
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 1: mini tour with Bert Kreisher this summer. Um and tickets

508
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 1: are available and Mark Norman and other comedians. There's a

509
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 1: video that came out. It's not out yet as we're

510
00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: taping this, but it's out now as you're hearing it,

511
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:05,880
Speaker 1: and um, it is called the fuck what is it called? Uh,

512
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,640
Speaker 1: you can get tickets at one second. Hold on, let

513
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 1: me just look at this really quickly. Okay, we're doing

514
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: We're doing like stadiums and or like small stadiums, amphitheaters,

515
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:19,679
Speaker 1: and it is Oh my godware is and I'm so sorry.

516
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 1: Kiser likes Nikki Glazer's Legs tour. I did put my

517
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 1: legs in the video for it that I've made for

518
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 1: him because I did like a little promotional video. So, um,

519
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 1: it is called the fully Loaded Festival. So you can

520
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 1: go to fully Loaded Festival dot com to checkout tickets there.

521
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 1: We're doing arenas, race ways and minor league stadiums and amphitheaters.

522
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 1: Me Bert Kreisher and a handful of other like really

523
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 1: great comics. But I would actually love for you to

524
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,359
Speaker 1: come see me alone too, So whatever you can do.

525
00:26:53,160 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 1: All right, let's get to fathers. All right, let's get

526
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,120
Speaker 1: to it. Uh what are what are the bust you saying?

527
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:12,120
Speaker 1: They're saying all sorts of things, but let's start with Danny, Hi,

528
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 1: Nicky Andrew No, uh, um, this is Danny. I'm calling

529
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 1: from a New York City, UM, and I have a

530
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:22,640
Speaker 1: kid to report. Um. I was waiting for the subway

531
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 1: this morning on the platform and I saw multiple people

532
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 1: walking around with those like fucking tinfoil blankets that they

533
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 1: give you after you're on a marathon. And I don't know,

534
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 1: I think this is pretty cut. It's kind of like, hey, guys,

535
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 1: I ran a marathon, Like we get it, you know

536
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:40,360
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, I don't think you need that?

537
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 1: Do you need that? I really don't think you need that. Um. Anyways,

538
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 1: that's my kid, and um Jedge Jack Jack Jack Jack Jack,

539
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:56,919
Speaker 1: and Drew. I love that I was melodic. Um. Yeah,

540
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,880
Speaker 1: runners are. Um. We know that you're runner because you

541
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 1: look sick, and we know that you ran a marathon

542
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 1: because you look like very thin and wobbly and tired

543
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 1: and dehydrated, and your nipples are bleeding. Like, I get it,

544
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 1: you're wearing a metal around your neck. I know that

545
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 1: some people get annoyed when people when runners wear they're

546
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 1: like metals all weekend after a Marazon, let them have

547
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 1: that day. But the blanket, no, no one needs that.

548
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 1: If I have a run a Marazon, will I be

549
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 1: supporting a blanket? You're damn right I will. But it

550
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 1: is it is look at me, it is yea. And

551
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,199
Speaker 1: it also looks like you're showing off in front of

552
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 1: a homeless persons. Do you like that? Yeah, look at this.

553
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 1: I need it for an hour. I need it for

554
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 1: an hour? Is that cool? Oh? You need it? Are

555
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 1: you cold? But I just ran feter bleeding because I

556
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 1: ran twenty six miles while are your feet bleeding? Oh?

557
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: Because you don't have shoes and you haven't been allowed

558
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 1: to bathe? And I make like three million a year,

559
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 1: But I say, like, I like, I like raise like

560
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 1: thirty eight dollars for St. Jude, So so like I'm

561
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 1: better than you, and I'm like warm, I'm actually too warm?

562
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 1: You want one of my I have like three blankets.

563
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 1: Those blankets seem so like it kind of makes me go,

564
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 1: like like when I think about cotton being pulled apart,

565
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 1: or nails on the chalkboard, like putting on a plastic

566
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 1: blanket on your sweaty skin, Like I want something, I

567
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 1: want a towel. Why not a towel? Because I think

568
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 1: they they I think what it is the right, right,

569
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 1: there's a reason. Well, yes, I do think it's and

570
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:40,480
Speaker 1: they all act, but that is the only day that

571
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 1: people really get to be celebrities when your city is

572
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: doing a marathon and the people that have run it

573
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 1: get to like limp around and they wear their their

574
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 1: number all day. The number were in performing in the

575
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: Chicago marathon was the same weekend you remember, yes, yes,

576
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: catching our flight. They were all like camped out around

577
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 1: just like sharing each other's times and like talking about

578
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 1: pictures of each other. And I'm like, I was actually impressed,

579
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 1: Like I'm impressed by anyone who can run that much.

580
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 1: It's really insane. My little brother ran one in like

581
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 1: three hours and forty five minutes, which is pretty fucking solid. Wow,

582
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 1: I'm surprised that I'm going to act like that's good

583
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 1: or not, because I really don't know. Yeah, I mean,

584
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: when you break it down, it's that is good. I

585
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 1: think under four hours is pretty damn good. Yeah yeah,

586
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 1: I mean, but you're obsessed, like you have to run

587
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 1: like twenty miles a week before. Like it's I ran

588
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 1: two miles yesterday in the park. I felt pretty good

589
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: about that. Hell yeah, dude, I mean you got to start.

590
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 1: Some park is such a fucking great place to run.

591
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 1: It's hilly, it's more hilly beautiful. Do you have a

592
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 1: run app because they'll tell you how much you how

593
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 1: many hills you climb. I find it to be pretty

594
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 1: flat based on I do Nike, the Nike Run app,

595
00:30:57,360 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: which I really recommend, because they do this thing at

596
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: that of your runs that is so fucking condescending. There's

597
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 1: this one that's like hey girl, It's like, hey, it's

598
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 1: Jane from Nike Run. Listen. Every run is just a

599
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 1: little change in the piggy bank and someday it's gonna

600
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: cash in, or it'll be like and I'll be like, bitch,

601
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: I just ran four miles for the first time in

602
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 1: six months, and I clocked an eight ten per month,

603
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 1: Like give me some credit. And they're like, wow, whoa, Hey,

604
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 1: it's Rodney from Nike Run girl, you better slow down.

605
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:37,600
Speaker 1: I'm getting intimidated. I can't keep up with you here

606
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 1: in my rear view mirror, and I'm like, don't talk

607
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: to me, like I have a five year old who

608
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 1: just got new shoes that you're like, wow, you're bass.

609
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: Like it's so condescending. I cannot believe it. It's I

610
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 1: always screen record at the end of my run so

611
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 1: I can catch them being condescending, and whenever i'm recording,

612
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 1: I swear to God, it'll just be like good job,

613
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 1: and I'm like, come on, saying what God ascending? It's

614
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 1: really fun. What So you just type in like I

615
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 1: want to run three miles and I'll do like a

616
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: circle for you. Yeah, that's cool. No, you just you

617
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 1: type in three miles and then you start running in

618
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 1: when you hit one mile to go, one mile, two

619
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,000
Speaker 1: miles to go, and that two miles, it'll be like

620
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: one mile left, I give you wherever you're at the Yeah,

621
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 1: I think it's called my my runner, But like, just

622
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 1: go go and running in Forest Park and just run.

623
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 1: I know my problem is those I'll run and then

624
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 1: I'll be like funk, I went to I can't. But

625
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 1: that's why you need the thing because as soon as

626
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 1: it goes one mile, you just turn around and go back.

627
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's a good point. Yeah, you know it's

628
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 1: a good point. Next fan tracks, okay, next one is

629
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 1: from Nicole, Hi, Nikki Andrew and no Uh. Um, I

630
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 1: was just listening to this is Nicole Calling from Salt

631
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 1: Lake City, and I was just listening to the episode

632
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 1: where you were talking about lip tattoo you would get.

633
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 1: Noah said that she would get pointless but without the

634
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 1: vowels so pte n t l s S, and uh,

635
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: it reminded me of I think I was in fifth

636
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:14,479
Speaker 1: grade and I really wanted to be like different, you know,

637
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 1: show how I wasn't like I was not like the

638
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 1: other girls. That was like a cool different girl. And

639
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 1: so when I was choosing my screen name, um, I

640
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 1: wanted to have my screen name reflect that, and so

641
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 1: I made it normal people scare me but too long.

642
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 1: So just like Noah, I took out the vowels so

643
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: in r mL PPL sc r m E, so it

644
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 1: just kind of looked like normal people normally. And uh, yeah,

645
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 1: it was really embarrassing nickname. I also think or embarrassing

646
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 1: screen name. And I think first screen name or most

647
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:55,479
Speaker 1: embarrassing screen name is just a fun prompt. It's one

648
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 1: of my when I love the pod, love you guys.

649
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 1: I normal people scare me. It's so good because you're

650
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 1: trying to be like, I'm so different that like, I mean,

651
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:09,840
Speaker 1: it's the kiss thing, but it's so cute because it's

652
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 1: how cute she is, and and normal people scream. I

653
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 1: just I mean, I love it. I love everything about it,

654
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 1: and it's such a good prompt. What were your guys

655
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: first great names? It's a good question. Thank you so

656
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 1: much for that, Nicole, I'm too old for I didn't

657
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 1: really have an A. I amn't I had one, but

658
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:28,839
Speaker 1: I wasn't like a you know, whine I'm dying, I'm

659
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 1: sixty nine, I'm kind of thing. It was more like,

660
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:35,719
Speaker 1: I don't know, Andrew is a man. I don't know

661
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 1: like Andrew Collin O four seven. You know, I'm sorry.

662
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:45,319
Speaker 1: Do you remember any of yours? I think my very

663
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:52,360
Speaker 1: first one was freaking sixty nine? Yeah, sixty nine, like

664
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 1: like f R G G E N O nine? Why

665
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 1: sixty nine? Because you were just like no, because I

666
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 1: wanted to be as obnoxious as possible. Oh so is ironic.

667
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:09,880
Speaker 1: Oh my, how old were you? That's cool? I think, um,

668
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:13,360
Speaker 1: maybe I was like fifteen or sixteen. Oh my God,

669
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:17,280
Speaker 1: was like, uh yeah, it was yours. Glaze eighty four

670
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 1: I think was my first one because born in eighty

671
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:21,759
Speaker 1: four and Glaze obviously, And then I remember for a

672
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 1: while I was Dave Matthews is hot, but that just

673
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 1: looks like Dave Matthews I shot, which is also something

674
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,839
Speaker 1: that I maybe could have done at that age because

675
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:35,280
Speaker 1: I was so it's a wild fan. So we also,

676
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 1: my friends and I used to do this thing I

677
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 1: don't know if I talked about on the show before,

678
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 1: but we used to go in a O L chats

679
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 1: a lot and there was this chat that we found

680
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 1: that was people doing wolf role plays where they would

681
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 1: be wolf. It was like a wolf chat. I don't

682
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 1: understand it. It was people that like, we're we're wolves.

683
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 1: Their names were all wolves, and we used to go

684
00:35:57,640 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 1: in there and act as one of them. And you

685
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 1: used to be able to like kind of recreate how

686
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:07,240
Speaker 1: will so I don't under They would be like pause

687
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:12,319
Speaker 1: her young cubs like screeches into the moonlight, and it

688
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 1: would be like sniffs her ear, cuddles up next to

689
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,879
Speaker 1: NCT Lopez. Like they would all just like fuck each

690
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: other and like have cubs and like roam around in

691
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 1: packs and howl in the moon. And it was just

692
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 1: so much of people pretend to be wolves. And you

693
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: would do a double call, like you would do you know,

694
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 1: the colon sign, like the two dots. You would do

695
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 1: colon colon and then whatever the action was, and then

696
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 1: colon colon and that would be the action and then

697
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,240
Speaker 1: whatever you right outside of that is what the wolf

698
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:40,399
Speaker 1: says or house or whatever. But we used to like

699
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 1: troll and harass these wolf chats for like that was

700
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:47,760
Speaker 1: our hobby, was just seeing how weird these wolf people

701
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,439
Speaker 1: were and then bugging them and like to the point

702
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 1: where they would block us and when you make new names,

703
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:53,799
Speaker 1: and then we would harass them again. Like we were

704
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:57,840
Speaker 1: like little cyber bullies to these wolf communities. But I

705
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 1: remember one of the people names not the Lupus, and

706
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 1: we were like obsessed. We think that guy, yeah, freaking

707
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: I wouldn't see his band. Oh my god, my favorite

708
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 1: the boy that I liked so much, Doug receu Race

709
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 1: is what we called him, but he um his screen name.

710
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 1: I'll never forget it. Was so cool. It was Marley fan,

711
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 1: but fan was spelled pH because he liked fish. And

712
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 1: when I used to hear that little that little door

713
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 1: open on that AI, M my god, that was the

714
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 1: best sound ever was it would be Marley fan and

715
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I would just like wait all night

716
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 1: for him to come in the room. Oh my god.

717
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 1: That was a different time. That was so exciting. All right,

718
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:54,399
Speaker 1: one more Fan Trax before finally, Yeah, Fan Trax married now,

719
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 1: I think so I haven't been able to find him

720
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 1: often in my dreams. Hi held on felt like anyway

721
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 1: did too. I was like someone's in our chat. Hi Nikki,

722
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 1: Hi Noah, Hi Andrew calling in with love from Austin, Texas.

723
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be seeing Nikki in a few weeks here

724
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 1: in Austin. I'm so excited and I'm dragging my boyfriend Nicky.

725
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 1: We're sitting in front row. UM calling it today with

726
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:28,240
Speaker 1: a mispronunciation or maybe just like a learning lesson and

727
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 1: a and a misunderstanding. I think I developed as a child.

728
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 1: But Um. I used the phrase lobe of corn l

729
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 1: O b E that's lobe of corn at a dinner

730
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 1: party this weekend and was absolutely roasted no pun intended. Um,

731
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:52,239
Speaker 1: so learned from my mistakes. Um, lobe of corn is

732
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:56,319
Speaker 1: not something people say. I'm twenty five years old, Hi,

733
00:38:56,760 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 1: my god. Ear and then low, Yeah, an ear of corn.

734
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: I don't know why people don't say low. It makes sense.

735
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:07,799
Speaker 1: It looks like an ear lobe. It's long. I think

736
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:12,280
Speaker 1: people should start saying that. Um. Anyways, love you guys.

737
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 1: Girl got you a huge bestie here. I get what

738
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:18,800
Speaker 1: you do the best. You're so cute. I feel like

739
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 1: I know her. That voice is so familiar. I love

740
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 1: her voice. She that's exactly what she did. She didn't

741
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 1: say ear of corn, she said, but she's very This

742
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 1: girl is a smart person because she's making connections and

743
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 1: she just picked the wrong thing. But it's like that

744
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:35,879
Speaker 1: is just but it sounds so weird, but you see

745
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 1: how she got there. And to say it looks like

746
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 1: a lobe, like a colonel looks like a lobe. Yeah,

747
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm trying to Why is it called

748
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 1: Why is it called corn? Um? I don't know why

749
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 1: it's called an ear of corn? Um. Did you ever

750
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 1: put those things in the side of the corn? Just

751
00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:01,359
Speaker 1: hold them? Yeah? I did that. You did that? Your

752
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 1: family had those like tortured and corn. It does feel

753
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 1: good to like use those and knock at your fingers

754
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:10,840
Speaker 1: all buttery, But god damn is corn good? All right? Um?

755
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 1: I loved that one so much. I want more of

756
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:15,439
Speaker 1: those like that, where you just sunk up the word

757
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:17,840
Speaker 1: because you think you just I mean, that's happened to

758
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 1: me so many times. I wish I could remember one

759
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 1: of them, but I can't. Okay, let's did you do

760
00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 1: you know the difference between reoccurring and recurring? And do

761
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 1: you know that there's two different words. I learned this today.

762
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 1: I learned this today. Tell me well, I thought I

763
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,799
Speaker 1: was misspelling reoccurring, and then recurring showed up, and then

764
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:39,400
Speaker 1: I go, has it been recurring the whole time? Is

765
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 1: there no reoccurring the whole time? The whole time the

766
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 1: whole time? But they're both, but they're both different words.

767
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 1: We'll find out more when we get back from this break.

768
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 1: We're back. Reoccurring with an oh means the guests just

769
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 1: came back once, right. Recurring is a constant keeps coming back. Oh, okay,

770
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 1: I like it. Reoccurring is like it's the one time

771
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 1: it happened again and recurring. Yes, it sounds like you're

772
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 1: just trying to say reoccurring and you're being lazy, Like

773
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 1: it sounds like recurring came out of you. Sound like

774
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 1: a tattoo and Noah's lip regular. We're all the same,

775
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 1: we really are green. Oh my god, I always said that. Okay, alright,

776
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 1: now next father, All right, let's do a quick mispronunciation

777
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 1: from Okay, Today my boyfriend said comole instead of came

778
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:48,319
Speaker 1: a meal. I mean that person. I felt like that

779
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 1: was come on, camole. I'll play it again. Yeah, one

780
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 1: more time. Today my boyfriend said comole instead of cam

781
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 1: a meal. Wait, can I do an impression of her

782
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: something today? This impression? Can you see my boyfriend said

783
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 1: guaco meal instead of guacamole. Today my boyfriend said guacamole

784
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 1: instead of guacamole. And that is not me shipping like

785
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 1: her voice is so crispy, it was. It was made

786
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 1: me want to do it because I didn't do a

787
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 1: good job. It made it sound like I was making

788
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:28,360
Speaker 1: fun of her voice, but I am very I was.

789
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 1: That was a crunchy voice. Yes, it was really really

790
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 1: good and I love that. Just short like I'm just

791
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:46,360
Speaker 1: gonna tell I'm getting to the point. Uh kamole. I

792
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 1: just love that she was just I I want to

793
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 1: hear how she responded to it. She goes, she'd be like,

794
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 1: what did you just say? Pulled on one second and

795
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:56,240
Speaker 1: then she pulls up our Instagram is like she's sitting

796
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,759
Speaker 1: across from him going like she's staring him down and

797
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 1: my boy, a front just said. And then she sets

798
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 1: on the phone and no, she throws it in the

799
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: ice bucket like Jennifer Ranson when she goes and that

800
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:09,719
Speaker 1: is what you call closure. But that's what you know

801
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:11,760
Speaker 1: that friends reference. And then the phone looks even better

802
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:22,800
Speaker 1: like Gid's face. Two episodes one who Knows Anymore? Okay,

803
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 1: here's another one from Bianca. Wo Hi, Nikki, Andrew and Noah.

804
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:33,360
Speaker 1: This is Fianca from Philadelphia. UM. I have been losing

805
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,799
Speaker 1: sleep because a few episodes ago that you've said that

806
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 1: the way bartenders shake a dream is cut, and UM

807
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 1: that hurts me because I'm a bartender and I am

808
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:51,520
Speaker 1: also three months right now as of today, sober from alcohol. UM,

809
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 1: so I know that alcohol is cut and I know that, Um,

810
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 1: that's just the way it is. I work at Zero

811
00:43:56,680 --> 00:44:01,399
Speaker 1: Proof Bar in Philadelphia all zero proof liquors. But there

812
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 1: is a purpose to shaking, and like how you shake,

813
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 1: and I know it is cup and it sounds good,

814
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:11,279
Speaker 1: but there is a certain way to shake, and you

815
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 1: do kind of have to be obnoxious with it. I

816
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 1: know that some bartenders can be extra, but I would

817
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: just be um excluded from that community. If I could

818
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 1: please have be granted that past, that would be really

819
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:27,400
Speaker 1: appreciated to the community. Able and shake my cocktails and

820
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 1: not think from being cut because it is haunting me

821
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 1: every time. I love you guys so so so much.

822
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,239
Speaker 1: I can't wait till you in May, when you come

823
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 1: back to the Philadelphia area. Tears will be shed um

824
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,359
Speaker 1: and I can't be to hug you. It'll be very

825
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 1: in my life anyway. Have a wonderful day, month, etcetera.

826
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 1: Love you, Love you lots, and don't be Cup, and

827
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 1: don't let me thank you. I would never you have

828
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,879
Speaker 1: total past to shake those drinks as much as you want,

829
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 1: because if it does serve a purpose with what I don't,

830
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 1: I'm just spouting things, so I don't. I've never shaken

831
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 1: a drink. I've never been a bartender. I just know

832
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 1: that some as you said, Bianca, like you get that

833
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 1: so much of a drinking culture is so k and

834
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:14,439
Speaker 1: I just think that sometimes bartenders, like it's more male

835
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 1: bartenders to be honest with you, like they're just trying

836
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: to like get it, like being like rattling something really loud.

837
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 1: Like sometimes they just you just look over and you go,

838
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 1: this guy knows that everyone's looking at him, and he

839
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: loves it. And it's a little bit KI. But if

840
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:30,880
Speaker 1: it does serve a purpose, I take it back. I

841
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 1: think that's what they're doing. I think a lot of

842
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 1: bartenders are muscular. A lot of times they're like always lifting. Yeah,

843
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 1: they're showing their biceps through the drink, you know what

844
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 1: I mean, like my fucking arm. Like you flex your

845
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 1: muscles a lot. You like your ups to be seen?

846
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:53,880
Speaker 1: Is that K? Yes for sure? Okay, yeah you're not

847
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:58,879
Speaker 1: gonna get an argument here. Yeah. I mean, like I've

848
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 1: I've had I'm so much of the time it's like insane,

849
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 1: Like I I think that I'm maybe anything. I mean

850
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 1: because to find by anything you do that you wouldn't

851
00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:12,799
Speaker 1: do unless people were watching you, and to give a

852
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:16,239
Speaker 1: perception that you're cooler than you are. But here's the thing,

853
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:19,520
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm cool because I like flex. I

854
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: think it's just like I don't know. I don't know

855
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 1: what it is because I'll do it alone too, I'll

856
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,239
Speaker 1: flex in a mirror towards myself. So I don't think

857
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 1: that's because that don't you're trying to convince yourself that

858
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:32,919
Speaker 1: you're cool. I don't even think it's about being cool though,

859
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,400
Speaker 1: for real, Like does Bretta like muscles? Does she like

860
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 1: does she get really excited when there's like a new

861
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 1: one that she feels? Like? Do you get what kind

862
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 1: of when we're talking about like positive reinforcement in terms

863
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:45,680
Speaker 1: of like accomplishments and our partner saying the right thing

864
00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:49,399
Speaker 1: and stuff like, do you It's harder to know though,

865
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 1: when your partners like changing their body, Like if you're

866
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 1: around them every day, you don't really see the gains

867
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:55,719
Speaker 1: as much as if you took like a month off

868
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 1: and then you're like, wow, you look different. Um, does

869
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 1: she notice? And do you get like you asked her to, like,

870
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:03,360
Speaker 1: hey feel this like look what I did? Uh? Not

871
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 1: that much? I have done that before. I I honestly

872
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:12,400
Speaker 1: feel like I'm really lifting now less about aesthetic stuff

873
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 1: and more about functionality and my mental health and those

874
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 1: are those are honestly the two. First thing. It makes

875
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:22,840
Speaker 1: you feel really good when people say look at you,

876
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:26,760
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna lie. I was banging it out

877
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 1: and I looked at my own body and got more

878
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 1: turned on because I knew that it was hot hotter

879
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 1: for her potentially to look at this but spin it.

880
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:40,920
Speaker 1: That's why I did, because you because you were like,

881
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 1: you got hotter for your when she saw yourself. You

882
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: got hotter because you knew that she was maybe hotter

883
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:48,319
Speaker 1: for you, because well that was part of it. I'm

884
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 1: just saying part of it. But the other part of

885
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 1: it was literally I was looking at my own body

886
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:54,759
Speaker 1: being like, wow, you know what, You've worked really hard

887
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 1: and it looks like I look like the way you

888
00:47:57,600 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: wanted to. Yeah. Yeah, And I think that Yes, good totally.

889
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 1: And I think a lot of times like I think, Noah,

890
00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:06,359
Speaker 1: one day you asked me like, do you ever like

891
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,880
Speaker 1: masturbate like in the mirror? So there's something kind of

892
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: like mere question of like do you ever turn yourself on?

893
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 1: And I think a lot of girls are allowed to

894
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 1: do that and be like turning themselves on, um, but

895
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:18,279
Speaker 1: men when they do it, it's just a little bit

896
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 1: like you're not allowed to be that vain. It's that's so,

897
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:24,359
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you feel that way about yourself. That's nice.

898
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 1: I think that I love I'm not into muscles and like,

899
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 1: I've never really been like I want my man to

900
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:33,840
Speaker 1: be must It's never been something that has ever occurred

901
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 1: to me like I would want or like I'm lacking.

902
00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:40,479
Speaker 1: But it is exciting when it's exciting when there's ever

903
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:44,200
Speaker 1: a change that is obviously for the better, like like

904
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:46,120
Speaker 1: when you feel like a new muscle pop out, or

905
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:48,680
Speaker 1: you're like what is this back? Like who is this person?

906
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 1: Like it just it almost feels novel, like you're with

907
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 1: someone new. So I think there's something about that that

908
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 1: I like, yeah, final thought. I just think that I

909
00:48:57,200 --> 00:49:04,200
Speaker 1: don't know, I'm im there's something about like when you're

910
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 1: we're talking this about this before, when your partner shaves,

911
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 1: when you're like when you have anything like new, you

912
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:10,839
Speaker 1: get a new haircut, you do something like it's like, oh,

913
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 1: there's a new person. I'm thinking about getting wigs. I

914
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:16,719
Speaker 1: just found out that Billie Eilish wore a wig to

915
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:19,600
Speaker 1: the Grammys one year she had she bought a Billie

916
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:22,880
Speaker 1: Eilish Wig on Amazon and wore it over her bleached

917
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:25,399
Speaker 1: blond locks that she had not debuted, and I was like,

918
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 1: that looks so real, Like it would be fun to

919
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:29,800
Speaker 1: just like start wearing wigs and I don't know what

920
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: kind of role playing doing fun stuff like that or

921
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 1: like just like to spice it up. I I almost

922
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:40,880
Speaker 1: there's something that I like about. Um. There's something that

923
00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:45,360
Speaker 1: I'm very turned on by with whoever I'm with, to

924
00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:50,360
Speaker 1: hear about how they are with women in their past

925
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:53,880
Speaker 1: where it was like new. There's something about newness and

926
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 1: like hooking up for the first time or like you know,

927
00:49:57,280 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 1: you know, sweeping someone off their feet, or like the

928
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 1: awkwardness or like how smooth they can be. Like my

929
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: boyfriend now, I'm just like sometimes I just love to

930
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 1: hear like about um his past experiences because I'm just like,

931
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:16,040
Speaker 1: oh my god, you're such a sexual man, like you're

932
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 1: like I mean, not that he does anything that that's

933
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 1: that that wild, but I just love hearing about how

934
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:29,799
Speaker 1: he has like desires and like has been like I

935
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 1: don't know, like there's something about men that are they're

936
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:36,359
Speaker 1: so like controlled and they know what they like and

937
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 1: they're measured about things, and Chris is very like organized

938
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:44,320
Speaker 1: and he's uh driven, and and it's just so funny

939
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 1: like when men are just like get like kind of

940
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:48,880
Speaker 1: like bedazzled by a woman and they're like kind of

941
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 1: like just like disarmed and they do something charming. I

942
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 1: don't know, it's just like such a sexy vibe, and

943
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 1: I think you lose that when you're in a relationship,

944
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:58,840
Speaker 1: that like newness, and I'm I crave seeing that in

945
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:03,640
Speaker 1: my partner. I think that's I I want, Like sometimes

946
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:05,319
Speaker 1: in a relationship, I'm like, oh, I want to open

947
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 1: it up because I just want to. I want to

948
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 1: unleash that kind of part of them that is like

949
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: corn up for something new. I don't know, I get

950
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 1: what you're saying. There's something fun about like either seeing

951
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 1: like a secret talent or like something you didn't even

952
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:23,120
Speaker 1: know the person was really interested in, because you're like, oh,

953
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 1: this is like a whole different person. It's like you're

954
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 1: almost having sex with her, with their twin or something

955
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:31,880
Speaker 1: that you never even met yet. Um Like Brenna, like

956
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:36,359
Speaker 1: we were driving and she like I don't know, like

957
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 1: the rap came on, like like newer rap that I

958
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 1: don't really know. And she knew every word but not

959
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 1: just like kind of like really talented of like her

960
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 1: memory like her member And I don't know, it just

961
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 1: turned me on. It turned me on to see her

962
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 1: like just like really and like and like that came

963
00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:59,359
Speaker 1: out of nowhere for you. Yeah, And I think that's

964
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:02,319
Speaker 1: like anything. I think when any if your partner has

965
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:05,080
Speaker 1: like a newfound confidence in whatever it is, whatever new

966
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:08,160
Speaker 1: hobby they're doing or passion they have, it's hot because

967
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 1: you know that it brings them happiness. And I think

968
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: that turns you on. You know, I don't know, I agree.

969
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,920
Speaker 1: I think that that really it makes like one time

970
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 1: I found out that Chris used to love legos as

971
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 1: a child. I was like, you love Lego? Like even

972
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:23,640
Speaker 1: that it's just like so cute that you were like

973
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 1: you cared about like you would play legos. Like just

974
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:30,040
Speaker 1: hearing someone like I don't like that they just had

975
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:32,880
Speaker 1: this whole life without you and that they And I

976
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:34,920
Speaker 1: think that when you discover like a new skill or

977
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 1: a new thing they know or like oh yeah, I

978
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 1: used to really be into anime or something, you're like what,

979
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:42,879
Speaker 1: like there's a part of you that goes I don't know,

980
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:47,439
Speaker 1: you fully and that's very mysterious, and now who's this guy?

981
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 1: And like, maybe I don't have you figured out, and

982
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:52,439
Speaker 1: there's something that makes me feel a little bit maybe

983
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 1: uneasy about that and maybe like I don't have it

984
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:57,640
Speaker 1: all figured out and makes me want to like figure

985
00:52:57,680 --> 00:53:01,160
Speaker 1: it out, and um, they feel it makes me like

986
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:02,680
Speaker 1: a little more hard to get because I'm like, I

987
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:04,719
Speaker 1: think I have him pegged. I know exactly what he likes.

988
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:07,399
Speaker 1: And I'm like, wait, you like you really are into

989
00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 1: do Alipa. What Like the other day Chrismas on radio

990
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:13,960
Speaker 1: and he was saying, like, you know, I'm just I

991
00:53:14,000 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 1: got do Alipa. There's something about her, and I just

992
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:19,400
Speaker 1: wrote him do a Lipa. I was like me too, dude,

993
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: Like I don't even I don't know what it is.

994
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:24,400
Speaker 1: She is not someone that like aesthetically, I am usually

995
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:27,280
Speaker 1: that attracted to. But whenever I see me and Chris agreed,

996
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:29,560
Speaker 1: whatever you see Dualipa. First of all, you don't even

997
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 1: recognize her most of the time because she's such a

998
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 1: shape shifter. But I'm always wanting more. I will click

999
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 1: on whatever do Alipa picture I see to zoom in

1000
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 1: on it because she's fascinating and Chris and I like,

1001
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 1: I just love that. I'm like you like, like, oh

1002
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:47,880
Speaker 1: little CUTEI what do you like about to Alipa? Do

1003
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:50,440
Speaker 1: you like her music? And it's like he does. He's like,

1004
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:54,680
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't like he's like typed in

1005
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 1: the word like d you a like it's so cute

1006
00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:59,319
Speaker 1: that he was like I want to see more of do?

1007
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:03,520
Speaker 1: I just thought it was really cute. It's like the

1008
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 1: legos of people. Yeah, I just I think it's so

1009
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 1: cute when like someone that you love like has an

1010
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 1: interest where you're like, what the I don't know, I

1011
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 1: wouldn't think of like more, is there anything about that

1012
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: comes to mind for av that you're like, wait what

1013
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 1: we just had a moment like this, I think yester

1014
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 1: or the day before. But I think it was something

1015
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 1: that I did that he didn't know about. But I can't.

1016
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:32,920
Speaker 1: I think I remember finding out that Chris had watched

1017
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 1: is like an avid watcher of the Good Doctor, and

1018
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:39,719
Speaker 1: I was like the good guy, like, I know, I

1019
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:42,799
Speaker 1: really like it. I'm like wait a second, like what

1020
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 1: in what world would you stop and watch The Good Doctor?

1021
00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:47,799
Speaker 1: Like it's just I know people watch this show but

1022
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:50,680
Speaker 1: not my Chris. It's just it's so cute that he's

1023
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 1: invested in this like medical drama about an autistic doctor.

1024
00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 1: It's just so adorable to me. Yellow yellow mustard, and

1025
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,160
Speaker 1: I have a fin any for yellow. I'm more of

1026
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 1: a Mannager, we know, but I love like a yellow

1027
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:07,240
Speaker 1: mustard way more than a spicy mustard. And it's just something,

1028
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 1: yes like that. I don't know, it's so cheesy. All Right,

1029
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: we gotta go. Thank you for listening to the show

1030
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 1: this week. I will be back in St. Louis next week.

1031
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:18,880
Speaker 1: I can't wait to be there in person. Uh, don't

1032
00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 1: you know, shake all the drinks you want to this week.

1033
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,880
Speaker 1: Just and don't worry, You're not gonna be don't be

1034
00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:27,800
Speaker 1: cut and jee down.