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Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to another episode of The Black Guy to

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Speaker 3: And we talked about a lot of stuff I forgot to.

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Speaker 2: Yoda, who says thank you for the amazing content multiple

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Speaker 2: Some people might say that I shouldn't care about that,

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Speaker 1: Like Rogerck says, people have lived long enough, and people

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Speaker 1: You know? And people don't really do that, but I

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Speaker 1: It's really easier said than done, particularly if it's something new.

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Speaker 2: I'm just just just guessing here. Okay, Look, maybe I'm wrong.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, we really burn your up to the ground.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe my fan.

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Speaker 2: Base was so vast and ridiculous and so well armed

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Speaker 3: That's just my guess.

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Speaker 1: Yes, they look forward to you being the first person

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying I think we'll be all right. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I guess it's very hard. Please don't always think you

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Speaker 2: want appy your live so she can keep writing these comments. God,

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Speaker 2: I hope these comments will save me in Europe too.

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Speaker 3: I hope.

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Speaker 1: So yes, ma'am.

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Speaker 2: I mean, keep them up. You're doing a good job

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Speaker 2: I was thinking about you being born in Poland. When

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Speaker 3: She said, yes, that's true.

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Speaker 2: Luckily, I don't even know what I consider myself to

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Speaker 2: But in my first twelve years I was told that

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Speaker 2: I'm pro not burning anything to the ground for no reason.

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Speaker 2: No matter who you are, there, you go go ahead.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's go to the next Oh and I'm

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Speaker 2: sorry for the third comment three times. In Italy, unlike

442
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Speaker 2: in the US, you don't need fifty one percent of

443
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Speaker 2: the votes to lead. Your system is the winner, take

444
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Speaker 2: it all. Unlike here, the system is completely different.

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Speaker 3: The right wing party in Italy.

446
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Speaker 2: Only got twenty six percent in twenty twenty two and

447
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Speaker 2: was still the strongest block. With the help of other

448
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Speaker 2: less right wing parties, it was able to build a government. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I guess what I'm saying is no matter what the

450
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Speaker 2: percentage would be, it really would it really doesn't matter,

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Speaker 2: because my point isn't like the vast majority of people

452
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Speaker 2: are conservative and right wing and agree with being homophobic

453
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Speaker 2: and all that stuff. What it doesn't take the vast majority.

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Speaker 2: In America, it's not the majority. It's not the majority.

455
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Speaker 2: Like number one, Republicans lose the popular vote every time, Yes,

456
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Speaker 2: they do. Number two, they have to do a bunch

457
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Speaker 2: of jerry mandarin and and like voter suppression to win.

458
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Speaker 3: But also there's a ton of people that don't vote.

459
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Speaker 2: So even if we counted all the people in America,

460
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Speaker 2: and then we just balance that with voting. You're probably

461
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Speaker 2: talking about a similar percentage of people somewhere between like

462
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Speaker 2: twenty five to thirty percent of people that are actually

463
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Speaker 2: hardcore conservative, hypocrite, bigot motherfuckers.

464
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Speaker 3: That's all it takes.

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Speaker 2: And what I'm saying is that kind of percentage can

466
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Speaker 2: still establish a culture because in addition to their hardcore extremism,

467
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Speaker 2: you have to add in all the people that don't care,

468
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 2: the people that don't vote, the people that don't give

469
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Speaker 2: a fuck what who wins or loses. Those people count

470
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Speaker 2: to me as part of the problem. So while only

471
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Speaker 2: twenty six percent of people may drive the bigotry, they

472
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Speaker 2: can still drive the entire culture if enough people don't

473
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Speaker 2: care and push back. And so I think even with

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Speaker 2: multiple parties, even with them getting twenty six percent, I

475
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Speaker 2: think the point still stands that like the culture that

476
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Speaker 2: gets people hurt and that incentivizes or even not incentivized,

477
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Speaker 2: what's a better word, in flames these.

478
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Speaker 3: Bigoted hate crimes.

479
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Speaker 2: In this environment where you would abuse your own child

480
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Speaker 2: for being gay, I feel like that stuff is in

481
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Speaker 2: the society and not just an individual, Like it's a

482
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Speaker 2: macro and micro thing. It's not only just like these

483
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Speaker 2: two bad eggs or whatever it's they thought they had,

484
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Speaker 2: They thought the coast was clear. When I think about

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Speaker 2: this a lot, when we think about trans women of

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Speaker 2: color in America and how much they get murdered and

487
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Speaker 2: abused disproportionately and sex work and stuff like that, I

488
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Speaker 2: think it's not just the idea of oh, this person

489
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Speaker 2: just happens to be a transsex worker and that's what happens. No,

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Speaker 2: it's in a society where we're pushing the idea of

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Speaker 2: hatred and danger and bigotry towards trans people.

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Speaker 3: Who who's the least protected group?

493
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Speaker 2: In that group, trans women are color more than likely,

494
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Speaker 2: So who's the most likely to suffer the most harsh consequences.

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Speaker 3: From our attitudes in the public.

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Speaker 2: I think it's gonna be the group that's the least

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Speaker 2: protected because people feel like they can get away with it.

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Speaker 2: We've read so many articles where they we just can't

499
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Speaker 2: find who did it. Oh, the person that did it

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Speaker 2: said that it was for this reason that's acceptable in society.

501
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Speaker 2: It was trans panic, it was they tried to trick

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Speaker 2: me or whatever it was, and and and so many

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Speaker 2: people accept those lies. How many people when they when

504
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Speaker 2: they talk to a trans person, they you know, on

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Speaker 2: these radio shows and all, that's the first thing they're

506
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Speaker 2: asking is that you ever trying to trick somebody? But

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Speaker 2: so when do you disclose that you know you still

508
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Speaker 2: you know you you're a trans woman? Like it's a

509
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Speaker 2: very it's an attitude that we've put into the world,

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Speaker 2: whether or not even through legislation, but just through like

511
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Speaker 2: in our justice system, the lack of punishment, the lack

512
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Speaker 2: of police uh taking these serious cases seriously, the police

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Speaker 2: mischging entering the victims in the situation in many of

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Speaker 2: the articles about it in police reports. So all I'm

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Speaker 2: saying is that societal influence adds up, and I don't

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Speaker 2: it doesn't take a majority of people to have the

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Speaker 2: impact on the public sentiment that ends up becoming the

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Speaker 2: dominant culture even without the majority of people.

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Speaker 3: So that's that's what I mean. All right, let's check

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Speaker 3: the let's check the poll.

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Speaker 2: Oh sorry, let me check the comments on YouTube first. Sorry,

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Speaker 2: we got one from a troll that just says Trump

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty four.

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Speaker 3: So we'll be hiding that user from channel Hey, Yes,

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Speaker 3: let's hide.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate a troll and then back to the polls.

527
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Speaker 2: Should we burn Europe down? This is poll Let's find

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Speaker 2: out what our fans think. Eighteen percent yes, eighty two

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Speaker 2: percent no on our website. Now on Spotify they say

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Speaker 2: thirty five percent yes, sixty percent. And you know who

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Speaker 2: I blame. I blame that museum. Okay, they stole them

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Speaker 2: artifacts and they know what they did.

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Speaker 1: I think that's what people. This ain't a personal attacking

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Speaker 1: gains you Oppy, I.

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Speaker 3: Know it's personal too. Anybody over that could get it.

536
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Speaker 2: Can It's so worried about your white feelings every episode,

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Speaker 2: every episode.

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Speaker 3: I know Janie should just be listening shaky right, oh happy?

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Speaker 1: A better pea?

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Speaker 3: Don't know, baby, don't have to.

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Speaker 1: Eat with Karen. Karen, don't be having the same energy.

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Speaker 3: Po feelings is gonna be feelings? So no, no, not

543
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Speaker 3: the po white feelings. Not the white What is gonna happen?

544
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Speaker 1: What is wrong with you?

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00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 3: Gart Let it go? She could take a joke. She

546
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 3: over here with us. We didn't land on German Rock German.

547
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Speaker 3: They laying it on us. Apparently the Q and A was.

548
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Speaker 2: The Q and A was just go Hills because the

549
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Speaker 2: Tarrihos are playing Duke Blue Devils that night, and uh yeah,

550
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 2: we kicked the ass how you're supposed to Okay, I

551
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Speaker 2: don't care.

552
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 3: We lost the game before, in the game after.

553
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 2: It was only one game I care about. I ain't

554
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 2: watched the Mother Games. Bill says, let's go. Aaron says,

555
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Speaker 2: I'm so here for all this good news from your fans. Yeah,

556
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Speaker 2: I love that segment. For doing it for the ground.

557
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Speaker 2: Bianca says, years ago, I was commuting on the train

558
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Speaker 2: over her the story about someone's coworker who would randomly

559
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Speaker 2: pick someone's lunch every day and just take the meat

560
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Speaker 2: off the sandwich.

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Speaker 3: Whoa, nah, fam nah, No gotta kill you. That's just

562
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Speaker 3: that's just the rules. You gotta die for that.

563
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Speaker 1: I don't got them no more. But I thought me

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Speaker 1: one of them lunch box and have one of them

565
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: things that kept the shit cold for hours, and I

566
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Speaker 1: would literally just pack everything in there and be like,

567
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Speaker 1: I'm not putting shit infrigerat them.

568
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 2: Katian says, now that I live in brexit Britain, I

569
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 2: voted yes, so Katie and say burn it down.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, we see you revolutionary sist over there.

571
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Speaker 2: All right, let's go to the next episode. The next

572
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Speaker 2: episode is twenty eight fifty one during Black History Month.

573
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 3: Eight comments. Let's see what we got here.

574
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 2: The first one, I think it's from Senia who says, Hey,

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Speaker 2: your resident lovers and Friends, fast veteran and Las Vegas

576
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 2: local here, Okay, shout out to you in the super.

577
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Speaker 3: Bowl this week. I hope you're having a fun time

578
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 3: me too.

579
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 2: I can't speak on the artists that haven't haven't received

580
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 2: a deposit, but I went to the first Lovers and

581
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 2: Friends Fast and every artist showed up. Also had friends

582
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 2: go to the second one end again no reports of

583
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 2: missing artists. Also, this music festival takes place at this

584
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Speaker 2: venue called the Las Vegas Festival Grounds. There are probably

585
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Speaker 2: about ten stages for all those artists to perform on,

586
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 2: and the festival is literally from twelve pm to twelve am,

587
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Speaker 2: So it's definitely possible for them all to be booked

588
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 2: at the event, just not possible for you want to

589
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 2: see every artist. I cut this music festival some slack

590
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 2: because it's a Las Vegas local. I can attest that

591
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Speaker 2: to the way the Strip resorts did not fuck with

592
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 2: black artists for a long time. Then we got the

593
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Speaker 2: NBA all start in two thousand and seven, and they

594
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 2: saw all them they sayers that flooded the strip and

595
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 2: shit went right back to White's only mode.

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Speaker 3: I remember that. Anyways.

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Speaker 2: I say all that to say it may not seem

598
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Speaker 2: like like it, but this festival happening on the Las

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Speaker 2: Vegastrip is a big deal for black music and culture.

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Speaker 2: I got my ticket. If there is any fuckery foot

601
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Speaker 2: our report back, oh for sure. That's why I said.

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Speaker 2: I know in the past it's went off without a

603
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Speaker 2: hedge naughties complain because you know black Twitter, they would

604
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 2: definitely be complaining and making fun of people. It was

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Speaker 2: just this year seeing the headliners, because I feel like

606
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Speaker 2: this is the biggest Year's even bigger than the last ones.

607
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 2: Because I've always seen the flyers with this is the year.

608
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 2: I was like, damn, they got everybody. And then seeing

609
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Speaker 2: some of the headliners come out and be like I

610
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Speaker 2: ain't I ain't got no check, I was like, oh,

611
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Speaker 2: it's given firefast, No, don't play, don't play because y'all listen.

612
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 2: As as much as I'm pro black and everything, I

613
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Speaker 2: just understand the consequences. We only get one time for

614
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 2: the shit to go wrong, right, and so you know,

615
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 2: I hope it's it's gonna go off without a hitch.

616
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 2: I hope it's great. I hope everybody shows up and

617
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Speaker 2: everybody has a great time. But I just kept thinking like,

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Speaker 2: oh god, man, we ain't gonna get no firefast too,

619
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Speaker 2: like Billy did. It's just gonna be no matter how

620
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Speaker 2: long the festival was happening, it was great. Remember that

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Speaker 2: one time Mary j blij show up and she said

622
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Speaker 2: she ain't get paid and it's just gonna be done.

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Speaker 3: But nah, I hope it goes off, and yeah, report back.

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Speaker 3: Hope you have good time.

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Speaker 2: Apa says, I don't cheat, and I'm married to an

626
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Speaker 2: introvert who doesn't even like tima tios to strangers, probably

627
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Speaker 2: maybe conversations got I don't feel I don't know what

628
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Speaker 2: what timatos two strangers means.

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Speaker 3: That's a pretty big plus when it comes to infections.

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Speaker 2: Maybe talking to strangers, maybe it's talking to And then

631
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Speaker 2: it got outto corrected and shoe Booty responded said, I

632
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Speaker 2: think the point Karen made was that we have to

633
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Speaker 2: get our female junk inspected yearly. Is more to our

634
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Speaker 2: advantage to for screening for things instead of men who

635
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 2: won't notice a soilent infection until that pecker falls off.

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Speaker 2: Even if your husband is an introvert, you can't really

637
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Speaker 2: bank on that as the only reason we want.

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Speaker 3: He won't cheat.

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00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 2: He bagged you, right, he put he put himself out

640
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 2: there for you. Who's to say you never know when someone.

641
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Speaker 3: Catches a wild hair?

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00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 6: Uh?

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Speaker 3: And what the heck? What the heck about Tomatio's? Did

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Speaker 3: I miss something?

645
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Speaker 2: What gets lost in translation from German to English and

646
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 2: makes a left turn to Tomatios?

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Speaker 1: I gotta be outa correct damn it.

648
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 2: Now I want some Enchilado's Verdeschelado's verdes. Yeah, I'm guessing

649
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 2: Tomatio's was talking to He doesn't even like talking to strangers.

650
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 2: And you're right, shoe booty, So yeah, you're absolutely right,

651
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 2: And Christen replies, I agree. Women are more likely to

652
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 2: have al check ups, so these things can be picked up.

653
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 2: I think the biggest point I've noticed from working in

654
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Speaker 2: healthcare is how important it is for all women to

655
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Speaker 2: get tested, fully tested each time, because there's a lot

656
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Speaker 2: of shenanigans going on. Also, I found out because I

657
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 2: do mental health evaluations in the hospital that treatment is

658
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 2: three injections spread out and shots are very painful. So

659
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 2: a lot ends up being spread because a lack of

660
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 2: access to adequate follow ups because you know, America has

661
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 2: such stellar health care. Yeah, like what if you need

662
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,959
Speaker 2: three different injections if at any point you lose your

663
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 2: health care during that thing.

664
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 1: So you just gotta let it go. Wow, ain't it crazy?

665
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 1: And also it's one of those things too, Not all

666
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 1: the times, but a lot of times when it comes

667
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: to people that are like extreme, the extroverted introvert, A

668
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 1: lot of times it's the extrovert that goes I want

669
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 1: you to the introvert type of personality, you know, and

670
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 1: then it moves on from there. You know, not all

671
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 1: the time, but I know kind of my alreayship, you know,

672
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 1: that's kind of what happens. So, you know, even though

673
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 1: the person's an introvert, sometimes they might not always be

674
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 1: the aggressive.

675
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 3: Well, she's just saying that an introverted person.

676
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 2: She's married to an introvert, and she feels like it

677
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 2: puts her at a lower risk of him being out

678
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 2: that she because he doesn't really like talking to anybody,

679
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 2: so people ill and so she you know, she just

680
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 2: thinks it probably reduces her chances. I mean, I understand

681
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 2: that point of view, because I mean as an introvert myself,

682
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 2: but I also just had I can't really tell when

683
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 2: someone's hitting on me anyway. But as an introvert myself,

684
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 2: I definitely don't really flirt or be out there with people.

685
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 1: You know.

686
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 3: It's not that I don't find people attractive or any

687
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 3: of that stuff.

688
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 2: It's just it ain't in me, you know what I mean,

689
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 2: maybe if I was single or something, maybe in the

690
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 2: right environment.

691
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 3: I don't know, it's it's not a thing for me.

692
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,840
Speaker 2: So and you only know from marrying a person or

693
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 2: being around a person what kind of introvert they are.

694
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 2: And yeah, at the same time, it does making it impossible.

695
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 2: I'm sure introverted people cheat all the time because people

696
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 2: cheat all the time, right, and you know, somebody could

697
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 2: just run up on them on some like, hey, I

698
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 2: fucking like you that much, i'ma I'm gonna be on

699
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 2: you the way your wife picked you up.

700
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 3: And but next thing, you know, they cheating too. So

701
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:16,800
Speaker 3: I don't know.

702
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 2: I don't think it's no full proof way of ever

703
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 2: knowing somebody will or won't do some shit. We just

704
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 2: that's what faith and trust and the vows that you

705
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 2: that's what it's about you know, but people do it

706
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 2: all the time. Abbia says, yeah, I go to the

707
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:35,360
Speaker 2: doctor anyway to get my things checked out. Good reminder

708
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 2: to make an appointment for this year. I don't think

709
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 2: that I could be one hundred percent sure to never

710
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 2: get anything, just that I consider myself a low risk

711
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:44,439
Speaker 2: infection because my one partner is only for years.

712
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 3: Lifestyle.

713
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there's one of the reasons that I

714
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 2: don't buy the arguments people would, they like, make the

715
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:55,799
Speaker 2: biological argument to shit on monogamy where they're like, uh,

716
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 2: we just animals, Okay, you just so you telling me

717
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 2: because only a man, because if a woman makes the argument,

718
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 2: it's normally not biological. But let's just say, you know,

719
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 2: in this case, as a dude, it's normally you so man. See,

720
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 2: first of all, I got a lot of sperm, man,

721
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 2: I could do this. Woman don't got one egg, you know,

722
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 2: all that shit. And they try to make a biological

723
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 2: argument as if monogamy is so fucking dumb, and I'm like,

724
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 2: but then, if you're making a biological argument, why doesn't

725
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 2: STDs come into the argument, Because that's a biological issue

726
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:31,319
Speaker 2: as well, and the best way to reduce your risk

727
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 2: for STDs would be to lower the amount of partners

728
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,840
Speaker 2: you have. But no one ever makes that biological argument.

729
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 2: It's only the argument of I would like to fuck

730
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 2: as many women as possible with them fucking as few

731
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 2: women as men as possible, because of course it's all

732
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 2: sis head stick, but it's.

733
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 1: All or you.

734
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:51,880
Speaker 2: Actually, even in that case, they might even be like,

735
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:53,880
Speaker 2: you can fuck other women but not no man. Like

736
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 2: it's a very it's a very interesting argument. And your

737
00:36:57,520 --> 00:37:00,359
Speaker 2: thought made me think of that. I meant he doesn't

738
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 2: want to talk to strangers. But it's funny that spell

739
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 2: check changes to tom of tios. That's pretty funny and

740
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 2: confused me when I saw it now.

741
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: And and also the thing about being a woman is

742
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:14,840
Speaker 1: you have to get literally everything checked. You have to

743
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 1: get your know, you go to that well see that

744
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 1: you say that. But then there's women that skip the yearly,

745
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 1: the annual. Yeah, so like cause men insurance, well for insurance.

746
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 1: So just there's people that feel, you know, it's like

747
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 1: how people don't get mammograms. Like some people feel like

748
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:33,839
Speaker 1: anxiety about it. Some people just don't do it. You're

749
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: very good at making sure you go. I'm saying there's

750
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:40,960
Speaker 1: a I know women that don't go okay, and so

751
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 1: I know people are like, well, women have to do it.

752
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 2: Men are supposed to do annual check up too, so

753
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 2: that like the men don't go as well a lot

754
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 2: of times, but they be checking and they ask you

755
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,280
Speaker 2: do you want an STD test and all that stuff,

756
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 2: so like.

757
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:01,319
Speaker 3: There's not really, uh, there's not it's not really a.

758
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:05,439
Speaker 2: Biological difference on why men shouldn't get the STD test

759
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 2: or go to the doctor every year. It's just men

760
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 2: and patriarchy and and my cheese mowing stupidity. Men feel

761
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 2: like it's something like it's I'm fine, you know, and

762
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 2: that ship. But yeah, both both genders can do it

763
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 2: in that in that binary gender case of how we're talking.

764
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:26,359
Speaker 1: About, Yes, yes I did, I completely understand it. Yeah,

765
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 1: and I and I happen to be, you know, just

766
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: me and my personality, like I want to know what's happening,

767
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: what's going on?

768
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, but yeah, I think you understand you. There are

769
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 3: men like that too.

770
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 2: And also if you they like as part of your

771
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 2: annual they put out your pants, they look at your

772
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 2: your junk, they check your balls, make you cough like

773
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 2: it's so if you go as a man like, they

774
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 2: might not get a speculum out, but point being like,

775
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 2: and then they definitely asked you do you want that

776
00:38:57,320 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 2: STD test? It's you know, it's included and just you know,

777
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 2: just takes a second. So all I'm saying is this

778
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 2: a lot of it. It's the same for men and women.

779
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 2: If all things are equal, it's just that side of

780
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 2: th Men feel like, I don't got to do all

781
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 2: that shit, right and you.

782
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 1: Like you said, you have a percentage of of of

783
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:23,840
Speaker 1: women that feel that way because about you know, strength

784
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:25,760
Speaker 1: women that feel that way, but you do have percentage

785
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:26,919
Speaker 1: of women that won't and don't.

786
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 2: So I understand men can get STDs without knowing it

787
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 2: because they partner cheating and ship like.

788
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 1: Right.

789
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:34,799
Speaker 2: You know we're talking in a very like some very

790
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 2: without data type of terms.

791
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 3: Agree with a lot of stereotypes in it.

792
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 2: But I guess what I'm saying is all things equal

793
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 2: both everybody should just get it. Just you know you're already.

794
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 2: Everyone should go to the doctor. Everyone should get that

795
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 2: that test. It it's just included in it any way,

796
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:55,839
Speaker 2: And I mean, I guess the worst news you find

797
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 2: out somebody gave you a STD without you know which

798
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 2: I mean, it's still kind of good.

799
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:05,359
Speaker 3: News to know whether or not know. And best news is, uh,

800
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 3: you spent you know, you got the test and it

801
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:08,919
Speaker 3: came back fun.

802
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 2: So Shoe Budy says that festival sounds like a lot

803
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:14,760
Speaker 2: my adhd ass would be left.

804
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 3: Spending trying to do and see all the things.

805
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 2: Y'all wonder if I just be like, you know, completely

806
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:22,400
Speaker 2: frozen and some like oh man, but if Genuine's over here,

807
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 2: then Usher's over here?

808
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 3: What oh man? I'm just gonna well, who's one should

809
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:26,320
Speaker 3: I go to?

810
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 1: We Am?

811
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:27,920
Speaker 3: I gonna make it the time and I'll just be

812
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:28,480
Speaker 3: in a lobby.

813
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 2: Ernest I will be all over the place knowing me

814
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:35,800
Speaker 2: Ernest dot com says, I'm sorry, y'all, I know this

815
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:38,120
Speaker 2: isn't the nerd off, but there's something well, honestly, you

816
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:40,800
Speaker 2: know what, because I'm an introvert, I'll probably go to

817
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 2: the stages with the least people at them and be

818
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:45,839
Speaker 2: enjoying the fuck out of like me and six other

819
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:49,719
Speaker 2: people listening to like whoever people didn't show up for,

820
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:52,399
Speaker 2: like the people that got like they were like, why

821
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 2: is anybody at the Tony Rich Project?

822
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:57,440
Speaker 3: Stage. I'm like, cause because six.

823
00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:00,080
Speaker 2: People here and I could spread out, you know, on

824
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 2: a rich Nobody knows it but me, just me, and

825
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 2: I'll be on stage with Tony doing the due as

826
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 2: He's like, you might as well come up here, have

827
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 2: a good time. No no offense, Tony Rich. I know

828
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 2: you probably still sell out stadiums. Ernest says, I'm sorry, y'all.

829
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:15,319
Speaker 2: I know this isn't a nerd off, but there's something

830
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:16,840
Speaker 2: on my heart that I need to let out. Have

831
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 2: y'all played Power World jet I tried it and could

832
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:21,360
Speaker 2: not believe in my eyes they made a game with

833
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 2: cute little characters that are mine in their own business,

834
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 2: and the point of the game is to beat them up,

835
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 2: kidnapped them, and force them to work for you. You

836
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 2: made a cartoon slavery simulator just in time of black history. Mom,

837
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 2: please play the I'm Disgusted clip for me.

838
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:34,359
Speaker 3: Thank you both for your.

839
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,399
Speaker 2: Time, your consideration. Shout out to the chat room. Okay,

840
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 2: I have multiple issues with this. The first one is

841
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 2: why didn't you write into the nerd off? Are you

842
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:44,760
Speaker 2: not premium?

843
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 3: Try to get some.

844
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 1: Free nerd off? Now you think you slick some free

845
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: nerd out?

846
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:52,280
Speaker 3: You think you slick, you don't want to pay the files,

847
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 3: so now you Oh, I'll get him to do a

848
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 3: look nerd off for me. Number. Then you requested the clip,

849
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 3: which I got you. I got you. I guess it's

850
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 3: this one.

851
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 6: I am disgusting.

852
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:10,360
Speaker 1: You know.

853
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 3: It could have been that one, or it could have

854
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:16,480
Speaker 3: been the other disgusting clip. Get disgusted by a lot

855
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 3: of things. I'm very disgusted, to be quite honest with you,

856
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 3: I'm just so disgusted. I can't tell you how disgusted

857
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 3: I am.

858
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 2: I'm disgusted with him right now.

859
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:29,840
Speaker 3: I'm so disgusted. I'm disgusted with it. I'm so disgusted.

860
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 3: I'm so damn disgusted.

861
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 9: I'm just disgusting.

862
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 2: And then the last thing is, how can you be

863
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 2: mad at Power World for this when this is the

864
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:45,359
Speaker 2: premise to Pokemon.

865
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 3: Y that's the same I mean.

866
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 2: It's the same batjime On like, that's like, of all

867
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 2: the things that Power World did that was offensive the animals,

868
00:42:59,880 --> 00:43:02,840
Speaker 2: the Pokemon slavery is the least offensive.

869
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 3: That's the crux of Pokemon.

870
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 2: I caught a wild animal, enslaved it, and forced it

871
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 2: to fucking do dog fights like on Mike Vick like

872
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:15,919
Speaker 2: that's not all that's bad. But I hear you though, Eve,

873
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:18,720
Speaker 2: he says, I just know the people running Sweetly Seasoned

874
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 2: has to be kicking themselves. They could have had lines

875
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:24,360
Speaker 2: for days. They messed it up for themselves. Not giving

876
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 2: those people the money per Keith was wild enough, but

877
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 2: I think it was more egregious that he paid for

878
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 2: people in line and they only gave the first three

879
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 2: people free food. Absolutely, I forgot about that part. Oh great,

880
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 2: great point.

881
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:38,160
Speaker 1: Ev, Because like I said, and maybe it's just me,

882
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 1: I consider that we consider that, oh, this is a blessing,

883
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: did my thing, and be like, I know, but that

884
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 1: is if you know the power of Keith leeve this,

885
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 1: this person may not have you go Okay, yeah, y,

886
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this because I know I'm gonna get

887
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 1: this tenfold, Like like the amount of people just getting

888
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 1: ready to order is gonna be a drop in a

889
00:43:57,760 --> 00:44:01,439
Speaker 1: bucket compared to he already paid for right, So yeah,

890
00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 1: everybody would have got it free.

891
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 2: Now people are scamming in his name in cities he

892
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,000
Speaker 2: has a visitor. Yet y'all saw they were doing it

893
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 2: in Vegas. They were being like there were food influencers

894
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:14,239
Speaker 2: and he had to put a video out about it.

895
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 2: There were food influencers who were promising Keith Lee would

896
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 2: go to your restaurant if you paid them a certain

897
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:22,840
Speaker 2: amount of fees, and he was gonna show up and

898
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 2: do a review.

899
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:24,879
Speaker 3: He won.

900
00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:27,640
Speaker 2: He doesn't work that way. He never takes money to

901
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 2: do usual and he never tells people he's coming. And

902
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:34,240
Speaker 2: he had to put out a video saying.

903
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 3: That's not me.

904
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,480
Speaker 2: Those people are not doing good business and you can't

905
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 2: trust them. Yeah, there's some griftin ass people.

906
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 4: Man.

907
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 2: Keith Lee has shown me how fucked up the world

908
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 2: is by trying to be a good person. He just

909
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 2: reflected more just how bad people can be. But he's

910
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 2: doing a lot of good small businesses I commended.

911
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 3: Too bad.

912
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:53,320
Speaker 2: There are so many shady people that take advantage of

913
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 2: his generosity. SNL hosted Eli Musty and Dump and Fuli Yanni.

914
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 2: So I'm not surprised that Nicki Haley made a cameo.

915
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 2: Why you ain't give Nicki Haley a nickname? I mean

916
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:08,239
Speaker 2: you said Elon Musty, Dump and Fuola Yanni. Nicki Haley

917
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 2: ain't got no no nickname. You gotta you gotta workshop

918
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 2: that e E something clever put in the bucket list.

919
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 2: We'll joke, make some jokes. At least we were spared

920
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 2: to tear our episode of her unlike the other ones.

921
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 2: Well that's just because of male privileged says okay, sisters

922
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 2: out here doing it for the all right. The comments

923
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,959
Speaker 2: on YouTube, let's see if we had any during Black

924
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 2: History Month. One comment, somebody paid mortgage here said deep

925
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 2: sixty eighty nine. I don't know when we said that,

926
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 2: but I'm sure we said that, and it was probably

927
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 2: very funny. But it's been five days of real life

928
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 2: for us, so I remember, Yeah, I'm so sorry the

929
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 2: Q and A and the pole. So the poe was

930
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 2: Nicki Haley. On snn yay man or nay, nay nay,

931
00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:00,399
Speaker 2: seventy four percent of people say nay, like Karen six

932
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 2: men and zero percent say yay. And then on Spotify,

933
00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 2: let me go to the right episode because that always

934
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 2: helps to look at the right poll.

935
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 3: Uh six percent say yay.

936
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 2: They do want her on there, twenty eight percent say

937
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:21,680
Speaker 2: man and sixty six percent say nay. And I'm not

938
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 2: judging the people that say yay. And the reason I'm

939
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 2: not judging y'all, is because it could be y'all thinking

940
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 2: maybe she can take down Trump, or there has to

941
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 2: be some push to show, like to help her do

942
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 2: went over these motherfucking white voters they losing right now,

943
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 2: to give us some chance that it at.

944
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 3: Least pulls away from Trump's influence.

945
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 2: So it could be that it might not necessarily be

946
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 2: people being like, yeah, because I support Nikki Haley, but

947
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:56,239
Speaker 2: you know the other way I can see that. And

948
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:59,720
Speaker 2: then the Q and A was if us is black culture,

949
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:03,719
Speaker 2: us more grounded in these integral magical nuances of us

950
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:05,839
Speaker 2: would be dominant, Tyree s Gibson.

951
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:09,120
Speaker 3: Rogers says, you forgot the ad.

952
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 2: Pre PhD. Tyler says, what the F does that mean?

953
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:16,840
Speaker 2: Kobe Bryant Kitscher says, boys shut up and sing. The

954
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 2: only culture and race that's dominant is the white patriarchy

955
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 2: and supremacy. Jeff said, damn read and be fundamental. We

956
00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:27,359
Speaker 2: dumber for having pouring knowledge into us Black men.

957
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 1: Whoo.

958
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:32,720
Speaker 2: Jeff In Japan, Sean says, did you see MSNBC special

959
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:34,959
Speaker 2: on black Men? They had black men standing around pool

960
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:37,879
Speaker 2: table hold at pool staks talk about black men things.

961
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:41,440
Speaker 3: Tyree should have been there. I didn't see it. I couldn't.

962
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 3: I can't. It made me, The concept made me man.

963
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 3: I I don't want to get them niggas more oxygen.

964
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 1: You know, just.

965
00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:53,840
Speaker 3: It's clearly not facts.

966
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 2: We look at the pole results, at the results coming

967
00:47:56,719 --> 00:48:00,080
Speaker 2: out of the fucking voting booth. So if they this

968
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:01,800
Speaker 2: is how they get their money and their grift and

969
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 2: and shit, that's what they're gonna do.

970
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 3: And it's if not, there's nothing we can do about it.

971
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 2: I've been as vocal as possible about how adamantly I

972
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 2: feel we should be treating this election cycle and how

973
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,319
Speaker 2: much we should be voting and not sitting it out

974
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:18,280
Speaker 2: or throwing it away or voting Republican.

975
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 3: But that shit ain't gonna make good TV.

976
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 2: It makes good TV to put black men on there

977
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 2: getting their haircut in the barbershop or shooting hoops at

978
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:31,240
Speaker 2: the basketball court or whatever, or playing pool talking.

979
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:32,720
Speaker 3: About why we might not vote.

980
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: Right.

981
00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:41,239
Speaker 3: Toy says, I really want cry Reese to stand down somewhere. Hush, yeah, yeah.

982
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:46,480
Speaker 2: Coach Malik says, dumb niggas say what. Raphael says, they

983
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 2: should never have. Let Tyrese be part of the FNF family.

984
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,920
Speaker 2: Fast furious family. He's now in the multiverse of nonsense.

985
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 2: How you trying to shit on black people with communities

986
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:58,399
Speaker 2: that have black folks in all of them?

987
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 3: Dumb? Right, Phil what Soba says? I am confusion.

988
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 2: I thought I was reading this quote wrong at first. Yeah,

989
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:10,279
Speaker 2: somebody's name. Who's just a bunch of numbers, says girl.

990
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 2: Huh uh A squash says, I let out the deep

991
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:16,160
Speaker 2: best side as soon as you said his name.

992
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 3: Why won't he leave us alone? Yeah? I had to

993
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 3: add him to the coon this this Uh, I am

994
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 3: doing my coat down.

995
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:25,440
Speaker 2: I'm doing the coon countdown, and I did have to

996
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:27,919
Speaker 2: add Tyres in there because this shit was that dumb.

997
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:33,320
Speaker 2: I see, I think it's a say or, as with

998
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 2: the E on the postble thing, I think it's a say, but.

999
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:42,040
Speaker 3: Or I say. Rebel says, I can't believe this model.

1000
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 2: Turned singer, turn actor turns supervillain never shuts up. Even

1001
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 2: when you correct this sentence, it still doesn't make sense.

1002
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:51,359
Speaker 2: Racism is while we aren't dominant, you fool. Candeico says,

1003
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:54,360
Speaker 2: what a dumb ninja? I think he says something that

1004
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 2: sounds profound but only provokes. How ignorant he truly is Ninja.

1005
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 2: You are embarrassing. Jamie Lynn says immediately, no, immediately, no,

1006
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:10,719
Speaker 2: that's that's a bar, alright, that that might be the

1007
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 2: title the show, but yeah, immediately no, Tyrace is a no.

1008
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 2: All right, We're gonna go to the next episode, but

1009
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,000
Speaker 2: I need to play music so we can get this money,

1010
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 2: all right.

1011
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:49,080
Speaker 3: The next episode is twenty eight fifty two.

1012
00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 2: On the Streets, KP Skirt says, as usual, y'all were

1013
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:58,400
Speaker 2: spitting talking about voting. It's the same shit every cycle,

1014
00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 2: and it's sad how people fall for that time. I know,

1015
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 2: I know, AA says I never listened to justin Timberlake

1016
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 2: or Britney because my taste in music was always the

1017
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:09,399
Speaker 2: taste of a sad white boy indie rock, and it's

1018
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:11,359
Speaker 2: now the taste of a person who wants to relax.

1019
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,360
Speaker 3: And does yoga ambient music. Hello Newsy.

1020
00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:16,360
Speaker 2: But he was also a child star. I'm sure he

1021
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 2: also had some shit happened to him. Why did people

1022
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:20,920
Speaker 2: expect him to be a fully formed adult at the

1023
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:21,680
Speaker 2: age of eighteen?

1024
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 3: I wasn't.

1025
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:24,839
Speaker 2: He was super famous, so the stupid shit he did

1026
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:27,440
Speaker 2: was on display. Joe Biden is much better than I

1027
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 2: expected him.

1028
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 1: To be.

1029
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 3: I wish other people were also admit it, yep, yep, all.

1030
00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 2: That stuff, And yeah, I won't even do the full

1031
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 2: Justin Timberlake defense, but I just try to be fair

1032
00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 2: to people, and I think a lot of the situations

1033
00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 2: with Justin Timberlake, I think people are either not being

1034
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:48,720
Speaker 2: fair or they just completely believe some stuff I don't believe.

1035
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:52,960
Speaker 2: And I'm not even a fan of his like that.

1036
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 2: I like those two albums. I don't really like Fuck

1037
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,359
Speaker 2: with Him as music. I didn't even like the boy

1038
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:01,880
Speaker 2: bands stuff he did, just because it wasn't for me.

1039
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 2: Not that it was bad, but that's not what I

1040
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 2: was listening to at the time. I was listening a rap.

1041
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 2: But I do feel like he's a great example of

1042
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 2: how people can take on a narrative and then just

1043
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 2: they need to ride it out no matter what. I

1044
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:22,839
Speaker 2: still remember like they tried to take out of her book,

1045
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 2: like Justin tim Blake piece of shit. He didn't want

1046
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 2: to have a child with her, And I'm like, why

1047
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 2: the fuck? Why do you think he was the one

1048
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 2: who was wrong there? Like what is what has happened

1049
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 2: with with Brittany and her family and her children that

1050
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 2: make you go. Yeah, her and Justin tim Blake definitely

1051
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 2: should have fucking had a baby together. That would have

1052
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 2: been smart for those seventeen year olds. Like, Yeah, it's

1053
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 2: just people are so weirdly unreasonable about all that shit

1054
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 2: and I, you.

1055
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 1: Know, outsides and gender wars and shit like that.

1056
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm just not a huge I just didn't

1057
00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:57,320
Speaker 3: get into all that.

1058
00:52:57,560 --> 00:52:59,120
Speaker 2: I get that it's now taken on the life of

1059
00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:01,879
Speaker 2: his own its own, like like misery industry of hating

1060
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 2: Justin Timberlake, But I don't know. I never really felt

1061
00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:09,720
Speaker 2: that he did anything that was so unreasonable or crazy,

1062
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 2: and he also was in some bad situations throughout that

1063
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:14,839
Speaker 2: the Jennet Jackson thing.

1064
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 3: I to this day still believed that that was a plan.

1065
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:24,680
Speaker 2: They both knew her titty was coming out, and I

1066
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:27,759
Speaker 2: don't think he like set her up and no shit,

1067
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:31,680
Speaker 2: I think what happened was when less Moon Veast said

1068
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:34,840
Speaker 2: to both of them separately, I'm gonna destroy y'all careers.

1069
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:36,800
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do everything in my powers one of the

1070
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 3: most powerful.

1071
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:39,759
Speaker 2: Men in entertainment to make sure you don't work again

1072
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:43,120
Speaker 2: unless you put out an apology. Justin Timberlake folded and

1073
00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:45,800
Speaker 2: said yeah, I apologize because he ain't want that smoke,

1074
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 2: and Jennet Jackson ran with the yeah, I don't.

1075
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:51,399
Speaker 3: I don't know what you're talking about.

1076
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:54,879
Speaker 2: It was all just a wardrobe malfunction and all this shit,

1077
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:58,879
Speaker 2: and I'm just like, yeah, okay, I like that less

1078
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 2: Moonvass seems more like the bad guy in that situation

1079
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 2: in Janet Jackson.

1080
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 3: Yes, And I'll just let people deal with how they

1081
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:06,479
Speaker 3: feel about that shit.

1082
00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:09,640
Speaker 2: And as far as Janet Jackson pulling the titty out

1083
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 2: of the super Bowl, I wanted to see. It wasn't

1084
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 2: the worst thing in the world for me. You could

1085
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 2: barely see it during the live broadcast anyway.

1086
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:17,200
Speaker 1: Right, and shit was quick.

1087
00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:19,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, But at the same time, like.

1088
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:21,839
Speaker 2: That, if you pull your titty out of the super Bowl,

1089
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Speaker 2: it's consequences for that, and it's not, you know, like that.

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00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:28,320
Speaker 2: It is a shocking rock and roll level thing that

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00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:32,279
Speaker 2: you did at the super Bowl. And I think, of

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00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:34,840
Speaker 2: course the world wanted to make her pay, you know,

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00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 2: I remember how angry the vitrio all about that.

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Speaker 3: But it's a very predictable outcome.

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Speaker 2: That being said, I love Jenna Jackson, She's I always

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00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:47,680
Speaker 2: wanted to see them titties anyway, So it was I

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00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 2: appreciated her, and I was still listened and supported the music,

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00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:55,640
Speaker 2: so U But yeah, I understood everyone's point of view

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Speaker 2: in that situation, except, of course, I think less move

1100
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Speaker 2: as who did turn out to be an extremely abusive

1101
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:05,840
Speaker 2: man with the history of abusing women and ended up

1102
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:09,400
Speaker 2: being drummed out of Hollywood and out of the entertainment industry.

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00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:14,319
Speaker 2: Find it amazing that so many people would rather blame

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00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:15,239
Speaker 2: Timberlake than.

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Speaker 1: Him, but it is what it is, right And on

1106
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 1: top of that, for a lot of people, they would

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00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:23,960
Speaker 1: have folded. And you know, because you know of him

1108
00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:26,600
Speaker 1: and his power, his statue at that time, it makes sense.

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00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:31,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, most people would have voted. Agreed, most people would

1110
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,720
Speaker 2: have voted. Janet had to stick with the lie because

1111
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 2: she can't. If she admits I pulled my titty out

1112
00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:40,399
Speaker 2: of the super Bowl on purpose, then you gotta there's

1113
00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 2: another level of fallout for that. So you just go

1114
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,960
Speaker 2: out it was a wardrobe nollfact function and they not

1115
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 2: gonna believe it. I don't believe it, but she gonna

1116
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 2: have to stick with that to the day she died.

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00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:54,080
Speaker 2: She can't be like, yeah, okay, I did put my

1118
00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:56,799
Speaker 2: titty out, and you know it's the super Bowl. It's

1119
00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:00,719
Speaker 2: a big deal, so people gonna be mad. Everybody saw it. Now,

1120
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:02,359
Speaker 2: if you see a titty and that make you mad,

1121
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:04,319
Speaker 2: we're just not the same kind of person and we'll

1122
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 2: never relate to each other. Back to the comments, shoe

1123
00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 2: Booty says, this is never going to There's never gonna

1124
00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:15,640
Speaker 2: be a candidate that is a perfect person who checks

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00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:16,440
Speaker 2: off all the boxes.

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Speaker 3: And we can't afford to throw the baby out with

1127
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:19,480
Speaker 3: the bathwater. People are flawed.

1128
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:21,680
Speaker 2: No one can embody every single idea you hope for it.

1129
00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 2: I agree with all those things, and I just feel

1130
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:28,879
Speaker 2: like it's not even worth engaging folks at this point

1131
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:31,440
Speaker 2: and going back and forth with them because I feel

1132
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:33,920
Speaker 2: like they say that stuff for engagement.

1133
00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 1: Yes they do.

1134
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:39,279
Speaker 2: Like there's a woman on Twitter who goes viral like

1135
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:40,600
Speaker 2: three to four times a year.

1136
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:42,640
Speaker 3: It's so funny.

1137
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:44,759
Speaker 2: It's always the same people that go viral for like

1138
00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:48,759
Speaker 2: the most horrible takes, and then everybody forgets about it

1139
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:51,759
Speaker 2: and they like them for like, you know, a week later,

1140
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 2: and then they go viral again months.

1141
00:56:55,080 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, whatever, whatever.

1142
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 2: I just know that this person every time I see

1143
00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:03,239
Speaker 2: them trending this bad because they said some flagrantly you know,

1144
00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:06,040
Speaker 2: hot take, and clearly they have they're a person that

1145
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 2: must enjoy it or don't care or whatever or gets

1146
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:12,880
Speaker 2: off on it somehow, you know. And the take that

1147
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:15,560
Speaker 2: I saw goo viral like the last couple of days

1148
00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 2: was Joe Biden clearly has dementia and a shame on

1149
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:22,000
Speaker 2: everybody supporting him and all this shit. And of course

1150
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:25,400
Speaker 2: doctors are being like, he doesn't have dementia. People whose

1151
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 2: loved ones died of dementia are like, that's not what

1152
00:57:28,080 --> 00:57:29,000
Speaker 2: dementia looks like.

1153
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:32,200
Speaker 3: It just don't it. These people have.

1154
00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 2: Their own facts, and she clearly wanted the engagement, like

1155
00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 2: she's not gonna say, well, damn, y'all right, I guess

1156
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 2: if a if a fucking doctor that works on this

1157
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 2: for a living is on Twitter, going, you can't diagnose

1158
00:57:45,720 --> 00:57:48,760
Speaker 2: somebody from a little bit of clips and shit that

1159
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:53,080
Speaker 2: you've seen on Twitter. You can't, like I'm telling you,

1160
00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:55,960
Speaker 2: as a person that does this for a living, there's

1161
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:59,000
Speaker 2: no fucking way to tell from what the evidence you're presenting.

1162
00:57:59,560 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 2: And you're right, Nope, I know better than you because

1163
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 2: I'm on Twitter and I decided those people want the engagement,

1164
00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:09,400
Speaker 2: which is why I'm not gonna even go I just

1165
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:11,920
Speaker 2: we talk about it here and then the spaces that

1166
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 2: we have, but I don't even engage with the people

1167
00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 2: to be like, well, so you're waiting on a perfect

1168
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:19,240
Speaker 2: candidate because they don't care.

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00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 3: Everything you said is valid and they won't care.

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00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:24,840
Speaker 1: Right, And there is also one of those things where

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00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:29,560
Speaker 1: you don't have to engage. And back to some of

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00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:33,320
Speaker 1: the things I said before, people are opting to engage,

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00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 1: and then when you engage, it is what it is,

1174
00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:39,560
Speaker 1: and then you get emotionally wrapped up, angry and upset.

1175
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 1: But at the same time, I try funding people don't

1176
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:46,280
Speaker 1: want to take a personal accountability at any period of time.

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00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 1: You can opt out at any period of time. You

1178
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 1: can keep scrolling. You like, you do not have to engage,

1179
00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 1: but there's something within you that causes you to engage,

1180
00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 1: whatever that be.

1181
00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:57,520
Speaker 3: For the record, this person was to talking about engaging

1182
00:58:57,600 --> 00:58:58,160
Speaker 3: I just brought.

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00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm talking about the people that engage the

1184
00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 1: person to actually put up the initial post. Yeah, And

1185
00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:07,920
Speaker 1: nobody wants to do that internal work that would be like, hey,

1186
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:10,000
Speaker 1: why am I engaging? What makes me inflame?

1187
00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:10,479
Speaker 3: Like whatever?

1188
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:14,560
Speaker 1: This is which would actually drim down engagement, but people

1189
00:59:14,560 --> 00:59:15,080
Speaker 1: don't want.

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Speaker 5: To do that.

1191
00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 2: About the Britney Instagram post this from Kristen who she

1192
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:20,520
Speaker 2: says there was a story in her book about how

1193
00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:23,720
Speaker 2: she stopped Justin's ass in basketball and he put an

1194
00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 2: apartment and went home because a girl beat him. Her

1195
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 2: rants are confusing, but always a lesson like Yoda. And second,

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00:59:29,960 --> 00:59:31,960
Speaker 2: in regards to voting, I think the stress for me

1197
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 2: I sent in an email. In the email is that

1198
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:38,360
Speaker 2: the younger generation who are new voters, are chronically online,

1199
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:40,680
Speaker 2: so this discourse could be disheartening for some of them

1200
00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:43,400
Speaker 2: if they don't have people explaining the importance of voting

1201
00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:45,880
Speaker 2: to them, and because they don't understand government and history.

1202
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:49,360
Speaker 3: So there's the stressor Yeah, but it's two things about that.

1203
00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:51,920
Speaker 2: One, you can't do shit about that from worrying about it.

1204
00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 2: Either you get out there and try to educate people

1205
00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:56,920
Speaker 2: you don't right, but you sitting around worrying or sending

1206
00:59:57,000 --> 00:59:58,880
Speaker 2: us the thing to be like y'all worried about it?

1207
00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:00,800
Speaker 3: What the fuck do that matter? It's not gonna help.

1208
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:05,600
Speaker 2: And then the second part of that is that was

1209
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:08,400
Speaker 2: also happening in twenty twenty and those young people turned

1210
01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:12,640
Speaker 2: out and they voted Democrat. So I'm not saying that

1211
01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:16,640
Speaker 2: that will repeat, but just saying that those those are

1212
01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:20,400
Speaker 2: constant things that you've described, not like new things that

1213
01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:24,560
Speaker 2: we're just now dealing with. And so either they'll see

1214
01:00:24,600 --> 01:00:28,040
Speaker 2: the big picture and show up or they won't. And

1215
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 2: there were mixed reports coming out of that election in

1216
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:34,520
Speaker 2: the art and this is one of the problems with

1217
01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 2: confirmation biased. There were a lot of people being like,

1218
01:00:37,680 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 2: the youth won't show up for Joe Biden, and it's

1219
01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 2: because he won't do this, that and the other. And

1220
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:45,280
Speaker 2: then after the election they were like, the youth saved

1221
01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:48,280
Speaker 2: Joe Biden. They showed up for him, and and he

1222
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:49,600
Speaker 2: owes them.

1223
01:00:49,520 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 3: And all this stuff.

1224
01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:52,520
Speaker 2: Now, he did push a lot of legislation that helps

1225
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:56,800
Speaker 2: the youth, you know, the Green New Deal and the

1226
01:00:57,640 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 2: biggest thing he can't be pushed a student law and

1227
01:01:00,360 --> 01:01:02,880
Speaker 2: all that stuff, right, So he did do those things,

1228
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:08,880
Speaker 2: but at the same time and then pushing to stopping

1229
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 2: to stop penalizing like marijuana and stuff, although I'm not

1230
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 2: sure that's just a young people's issue anyway. So he

1231
01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 2: did do a lot of stuff that people said, oh, yeah,

1232
01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:20,280
Speaker 2: this is what the youth want, and this was what

1233
01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:23,960
Speaker 2: they voted for. But it's the Internet. They're gonna always

1234
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:26,760
Speaker 2: find the next thing that the young people should not

1235
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:29,760
Speaker 2: vote for. And so we have to have faith or

1236
01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:35,440
Speaker 2: hope or education and in the young people continuing to

1237
01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 2: be like they were in twenty twenty, because I don't

1238
01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:40,280
Speaker 2: think they thought he was a perfect candidate in twenty twenty.

1239
01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 2: So if it was indeed the youth vote that turned

1240
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 2: out and was heavily influenced and voted for Biden, then

1241
01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 2: I hope we get that again because I think stuff

1242
01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 2: like Roe v. Wade being overturned is still a very

1243
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:58,720
Speaker 2: youth oriented issue that doesn't really have anything to do

1244
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:02,600
Speaker 2: with Joe and specifically, but has everything to do about

1245
01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:05,600
Speaker 2: keeping Republicans like Trump out of office because that's who

1246
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 2: picked those Supreme Court justices And do you want to

1247
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:13,600
Speaker 2: keep going down that path? I agreed, Eve, He says,

1248
01:02:13,640 --> 01:02:15,400
Speaker 2: for the first time in years, I skipped the Grammys

1249
01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:18,040
Speaker 2: in because I'm glad because my anger issues could never

1250
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:19,880
Speaker 2: I heard that none of the Hip Hop awards were

1251
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 2: presented on the live show, which is basically why Will

1252
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:24,880
Speaker 2: Smith boycotted them years ago. The more things changed, the

1253
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:27,080
Speaker 2: more they stay the same. I kind of wonder if

1254
01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:29,120
Speaker 2: the people running the social media account for the Grammys

1255
01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:32,280
Speaker 2: intentionally posted Nicki as the winner to get under her skin.

1256
01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 2: That kind of seems like the type of mistake someone

1257
01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:36,800
Speaker 2: doesn't make. The woman is already having a bad week,

1258
01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:41,080
Speaker 2: this has to enrage her even more. I don't know

1259
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:43,200
Speaker 2: the answer to any of those things. I did listen

1260
01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:47,760
Speaker 2: to Trevor Noah's podcast where he talked about with the

1261
01:02:47,840 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 2: guy who produces the Grammys and a couple other people.

1262
01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 2: They talked about the behind the scenes at the Grammys.

1263
01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 2: They didn't bring up to Nicki Minaj's thing, and they

1264
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:57,520
Speaker 2: didn't bring up Killer m not getting arrested, but they

1265
01:02:57,640 --> 01:03:01,160
Speaker 2: did talk about a lot of the stuff with the

1266
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:05,160
Speaker 2: awards and why the Hip Hop Award wasn't on TV

1267
01:03:05,320 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 2: and stuff, and I thought the reasoning was pretty solid,

1268
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:11,240
Speaker 2: but you know, y'all can check it out for yourself,

1269
01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 2: and the reason it was something to the effect of,

1270
01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:16,480
Speaker 2: they actually can only broadcast ten awards and they give

1271
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:22,240
Speaker 2: out ninety three and they haven't and I believe they

1272
01:03:22,280 --> 01:03:25,720
Speaker 2: have given out the Hip Hop Awards on the live

1273
01:03:25,800 --> 01:03:27,960
Speaker 2: broadcast in the past before, but this year.

1274
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 3: I believe it was a black man who was producing.

1275
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 3: It was like that he wanted to highlight R and B.

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01:03:34,200 --> 01:03:36,800
Speaker 2: Because R and B had a very strong year last

1277
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 2: year with the field full of candidates, and he wanted

1278
01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:43,840
Speaker 2: to highlight you know, Victoria Money and you know, I

1279
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:46,400
Speaker 2: think it was almost all black women too, and so

1280
01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:50,720
Speaker 2: he wanted to highlight those people this year, and so

1281
01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 2: he swapped out the RAP one for the R and

1282
01:03:53,840 --> 01:03:56,440
Speaker 2: B one. But you know, once again, I don't know

1283
01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:59,439
Speaker 2: enough about the wars. I don't watch the show enough.

1284
01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:01,800
Speaker 2: I don't know if there's like some other award that

1285
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:04,040
Speaker 2: people would have swapped out another one and been like,

1286
01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:05,200
Speaker 2: we won't wrap and R and B.

1287
01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 3: I don't know, And I wonder.

1288
01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 1: I know this might sound silly, but I wonder if

1289
01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:13,040
Speaker 1: it's something where they do that and then't have like

1290
01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:15,520
Speaker 1: a longer version that they put online, or they like, Nope,

1291
01:04:15,560 --> 01:04:18,120
Speaker 1: this is the airtime, this is all we get. Okay,

1292
01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:21,240
Speaker 1: I'm just wondering, Gina says.

1293
01:04:21,320 --> 01:04:23,640
Speaker 2: On the South Carolina primary, a friend of mine was

1294
01:04:23,640 --> 01:04:26,120
Speaker 2: approached by a reporter. She said, by the questions they

1295
01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:28,640
Speaker 2: were asking, it was clear the narrative is that we

1296
01:04:28,760 --> 01:04:30,800
Speaker 2: aren't voting and we are at our antibiodin.

1297
01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 3: It's ridiculous.

1298
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:36,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think they have an angle and they want

1299
01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:40,760
Speaker 2: to push that angle. It's a media narrative. It's what

1300
01:04:41,880 --> 01:04:44,800
Speaker 2: makes shows. It's how shows get greenlit, it's how you

1301
01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:49,080
Speaker 2: get your special put on MSNBC on a weekend. You

1302
01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:51,880
Speaker 2: need a point of view, and I don't think the

1303
01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:54,640
Speaker 2: accuracy of the point of view is necessarily what they're

1304
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:55,040
Speaker 2: going for.

1305
01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:57,640
Speaker 3: It's what what drives focus.

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01:04:57,760 --> 01:05:00,439
Speaker 2: And I think people focus their attention on the idea

1307
01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:06,600
Speaker 2: of black people the most loyal, the most most reliable,

1308
01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:10,920
Speaker 2: left leaning demographic in America.

1309
01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:13,080
Speaker 3: They think there's a.

1310
01:05:13,200 --> 01:05:16,600
Speaker 2: Huge story in saying we're we're either no longer left

1311
01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:19,640
Speaker 2: leaning or we're not gonna vote. And here are some

1312
01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 2: examples of the people who aren't gonna vote. And it's

1313
01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:25,200
Speaker 2: been like that for a long time. But I feel

1314
01:05:25,280 --> 01:05:26,840
Speaker 2: like the media is getting.

1315
01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:30,440
Speaker 3: Even worse with the shit and it feels fucked up

1316
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:33,920
Speaker 3: in kind of racist. Why don't y'all you know? Why

1317
01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:34,800
Speaker 3: is it always us?

1318
01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 5: You know?

1319
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:36,880
Speaker 3: Anyway?

1320
01:05:37,480 --> 01:05:39,560
Speaker 2: Also, what are the lines in the white people knew

1321
01:05:39,560 --> 01:05:42,160
Speaker 2: the song at that we might be problematic? I can't

1322
01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 2: understand what comes between that and the Sun's really hard

1323
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:47,520
Speaker 2: on our fragile pink skin. I've been trying to figure

1324
01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:52,520
Speaker 2: out for years now. Well, Gina, at one point my

1325
01:05:52,680 --> 01:05:56,000
Speaker 2: man wrote in and told us what the words were,

1326
01:05:56,680 --> 01:06:00,320
Speaker 2: but I don't think I know he said it, and

1327
01:06:00,440 --> 01:06:03,160
Speaker 2: he says that's what the words are, but honest to God,

1328
01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:05,200
Speaker 2: that's not what I hear when I hear the song.

1329
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:08,000
Speaker 3: So I don't even know what to tell him, but

1330
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:09,480
Speaker 3: that's not what I be singing.

1331
01:06:10,360 --> 01:06:10,480
Speaker 1: Now.

1332
01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 2: I have made up a jingle that kind of makes

1333
01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:17,760
Speaker 2: makes sense, which I can try to play for y'all,

1334
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:21,160
Speaker 2: but this is this is what makes sense to me.

1335
01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:24,480
Speaker 3: Chicken Shack Studios is Rick is the one that did it.

1336
01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:35,160
Speaker 2: So I got white people news, We're bringing egg salad

1337
01:06:35,200 --> 01:06:46,080
Speaker 2: to the barbecue, and I have and what I say

1338
01:06:46,120 --> 01:06:49,600
Speaker 2: in my head is we might be problematic or Looney tunes.

1339
01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:51,960
Speaker 2: The son's really harsh on our factor pink skin. It's

1340
01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:54,360
Speaker 2: white people news. I don't think those are the words,

1341
01:06:54,400 --> 01:06:56,480
Speaker 2: because he wrote it in once with what the words are,

1342
01:06:56,880 --> 01:06:59,040
Speaker 2: and I was like, well, that's not to say to me,

1343
01:06:59,600 --> 01:07:02,480
Speaker 2: and so it'll always be we might be problematic in

1344
01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:04,600
Speaker 2: Looney Tunes, and that's what I'm.

1345
01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:07,520
Speaker 3: Sticking maybe you could say it might be problematic and

1346
01:07:07,600 --> 01:07:10,360
Speaker 3: looney ticks. That'll work as well for me.

1347
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:13,880
Speaker 1: But its I can see that exce.

1348
01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:23,000
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's what I'm rolling with.

1349
01:07:23,720 --> 01:07:25,760
Speaker 2: You don't like it recorded over and give me some

1350
01:07:25,880 --> 01:07:28,400
Speaker 2: better addiction cause uh and he gave it to us

1351
01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:30,919
Speaker 2: for free, so I'm taking what I get. And uh, look,

1352
01:07:31,040 --> 01:07:32,480
Speaker 2: art is not up to the artists when you put

1353
01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:34,560
Speaker 2: it out in the world. It's still a bop yep,

1354
01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:40,880
Speaker 2: all right. The episode comments on YouTube, h B G

1355
01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:43,720
Speaker 2: R Bridget says Karen got in her bag around the

1356
01:07:43,800 --> 01:07:45,840
Speaker 2: one hour and for a minute, Mark poors a drink.

1357
01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:48,920
Speaker 2: Ghost of Zus says, that's what I'm here for. Of

1358
01:07:49,040 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 2: course that was Karen talking about voting. Uh g x

1359
01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:55,080
Speaker 2: N thirty two says, damn rod, Let Karen get all

1360
01:07:55,160 --> 01:08:02,560
Speaker 2: her banter out, all right, I'm bad the Q and

1361
01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:03,440
Speaker 2: A and the polls.

1362
01:08:03,480 --> 01:08:03,800
Speaker 3: All right.

1363
01:08:03,880 --> 01:08:06,560
Speaker 2: So the poe was Jay Z's Grammy speech good look

1364
01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:08,720
Speaker 2: a bad look? Ninety one percent on audience thinks is

1365
01:08:08,760 --> 01:08:11,680
Speaker 2: a good look, ten nine percent things is a bad look,

1366
01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:16,160
Speaker 2: and almost the exact same percentage on Spotify ninety percent.

1367
01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:19,040
Speaker 2: So I think if you get there's very few things

1368
01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:20,760
Speaker 2: in the world, you can get ninety percent of people

1369
01:08:20,800 --> 01:08:23,400
Speaker 2: to go be on your side for so, I think,

1370
01:08:23,640 --> 01:08:25,559
Speaker 2: you know, the vast majority of people thought that shit

1371
01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:28,439
Speaker 2: was a good look, and the reasons why people think

1372
01:08:28,479 --> 01:08:31,400
Speaker 2: it's a bad look can vary. Some people say, oh,

1373
01:08:31,479 --> 01:08:34,400
Speaker 2: you look like you want acceptance. Some people think, why

1374
01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:37,640
Speaker 2: would you go on their stage and embarrass them at

1375
01:08:37,680 --> 01:08:40,320
Speaker 2: their event? And why you gotta be more grateful? So

1376
01:08:41,160 --> 01:08:43,360
Speaker 2: it's I think the detractors are all over the place,

1377
01:08:43,439 --> 01:08:45,360
Speaker 2: but the people that supported I think kind of has

1378
01:08:45,400 --> 01:08:48,840
Speaker 2: some empathy and understanding. Yes, sir, do you want to

1379
01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:50,519
Speaker 2: bring it to the court or will you go home

1380
01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:52,880
Speaker 2: crying to your mom like you did last time?

1381
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:54,479
Speaker 3: I'm not sorry, Brittany.

1382
01:08:55,120 --> 01:08:55,920
Speaker 1: That was the Q and A.

1383
01:08:56,800 --> 01:09:00,360
Speaker 2: Sid says Luke has been crazy about Tracy since Fresh Year,

1384
01:09:00,400 --> 01:09:02,680
Speaker 2: an app that was a highlight for me. Album of

1385
01:09:02,720 --> 01:09:05,040
Speaker 2: the Years beneath Beyonce at this point, they need a

1386
01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:10,519
Speaker 2: transcend Time Award. Honestly, I I really do think they're

1387
01:09:10,560 --> 01:09:14,080
Speaker 2: gonna give Beyonce for sure, some type of lifetime ship

1388
01:09:14,320 --> 01:09:18,400
Speaker 2: at some point. It'll be interesting what her speech is

1389
01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:20,439
Speaker 2: if she don't never win Album of the Year and

1390
01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:23,200
Speaker 2: then they give us some type of icon of the world. Shit,

1391
01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 2: I don't think Beyonce would do a speech like jay

1392
01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:31,120
Speaker 2: did you know she just don't get that energy everything with.

1393
01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:32,480
Speaker 3: Herself prepared.

1394
01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:37,960
Speaker 2: And uh, but I think she seemed to be digging

1395
01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:41,679
Speaker 2: that jay Z did that shit though, And I'm being honest, funk.

1396
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:46,400
Speaker 2: Would everybody else say, If I'm married to Beyonce and

1397
01:09:46,479 --> 01:09:48,439
Speaker 2: I get up there and say something that make her

1398
01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:51,800
Speaker 2: look at me like that, I'll do it a hundred

1399
01:09:51,840 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 2: times out one hundred. Fuck all, y'all she had that look.

1400
01:09:56,560 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 2: I said, Oh yeah, I'll be up. I would have

1401
01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:00,719
Speaker 2: went further than Jay I be out like and suck

1402
01:10:00,840 --> 01:10:08,799
Speaker 2: my dick grammars. Oh, and I'm naming names. That album

1403
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:09,559
Speaker 2: was trash.

1404
01:10:11,240 --> 01:10:13,920
Speaker 1: Y'all ain't never played that back album since.

1405
01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:15,880
Speaker 3: Now Beyond Baby. Let's get out of here.

1406
01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:19,479
Speaker 2: Fuck did I kicked the table over and ship hisssing

1407
01:10:19,560 --> 01:10:23,840
Speaker 2: that coup, Get in, Get in the driver, get in

1408
01:10:23,880 --> 01:10:26,240
Speaker 2: the limo, pull up the partition.

1409
01:10:26,439 --> 01:10:30,880
Speaker 3: Please you don't want to see, y'all say, y'all her knees, nigga, please,

1410
01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:36,519
Speaker 3: no the whole world. Tyler said, what what does this

1411
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:39,080
Speaker 3: sound like? Why does it sound like she's getting ready

1412
01:10:39,120 --> 01:10:39,439
Speaker 3: to dance?

1413
01:10:39,520 --> 01:10:42,840
Speaker 2: Bat on the club or something, right, bringany sounds like

1414
01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:46,200
Speaker 2: she's about to start doing that uh that rap from.

1415
01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:52,880
Speaker 3: Uh what's the name of that that? It's a movie

1416
01:10:52,920 --> 01:10:54,120
Speaker 3: I love when I was a kid, and now I

1417
01:10:54,200 --> 01:10:56,920
Speaker 3: can't think of it. Fuck.

1418
01:10:57,120 --> 01:10:57,240
Speaker 10: Uh.

1419
01:10:57,640 --> 01:10:59,000
Speaker 2: She sounds like she was about to do this white

1420
01:10:59,040 --> 01:11:00,760
Speaker 2: girl rap from this old movie that I used to

1421
01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:02,719
Speaker 2: watch all the time. And now I'm drawing a blank

1422
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:06,799
Speaker 2: in this very moment. But I used to have it memorized.

1423
01:11:07,760 --> 01:11:08,559
Speaker 3: A rap.

1424
01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:12,240
Speaker 2: No, I used to have I've drawn a huge blank, right,

1425
01:11:12,360 --> 01:11:15,320
Speaker 2: no problem? Oh but god, that was my ship. But

1426
01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:17,519
Speaker 2: it was this white girl. It was a rap in

1427
01:11:17,560 --> 01:11:19,760
Speaker 2: the middle of a movie not about rap, and she

1428
01:11:20,000 --> 01:11:23,800
Speaker 2: just stout this rap and it was like an old

1429
01:11:23,920 --> 01:11:26,000
Speaker 2: school like Supicidic comes find a gun?

1430
01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:32,040
Speaker 3: Like, oh, why can I remember it? Anyway? Sandy says, dying.

1431
01:11:32,439 --> 01:11:34,960
Speaker 2: Maybe she meant Court of Twitter with her crazy fans,

1432
01:11:35,720 --> 01:11:39,599
Speaker 2: and young Yogie says Karen. Have you tried Lane Break

1433
01:11:39,680 --> 01:11:43,000
Speaker 2: on Peloton? I was shocked how much I liked that program.

1434
01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:46,080
Speaker 2: It feels very gamery and simple, but I always walk

1435
01:11:46,120 --> 01:11:49,000
Speaker 2: away feeling like great with a good sweat. It's a

1436
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:53,280
Speaker 2: lane break, Lane Break l a nd okay.

1437
01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:55,120
Speaker 1: Write it down.

1438
01:11:56,360 --> 01:12:05,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, uh yeah, I wonder what. Yeah, I haven't.

1439
01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:06,920
Speaker 2: I didn't know there were games on there you could

1440
01:12:06,920 --> 01:12:10,360
Speaker 2: do like that. But Karen, to her credit, did do

1441
01:12:10,439 --> 01:12:12,360
Speaker 2: the peloton a couple of times this week. Now, look,

1442
01:12:12,439 --> 01:12:16,200
Speaker 2: this ain't new, this is the routine. I'll say, you

1443
01:12:16,320 --> 01:12:19,639
Speaker 2: haven't used it in twelve months, maybe we should get

1444
01:12:19,680 --> 01:12:21,840
Speaker 2: rid of it. She protends to want to use it

1445
01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:24,400
Speaker 2: for like a week, and then it goes back to

1446
01:12:24,439 --> 01:12:26,800
Speaker 2: twelve months and not hopping on it. And I'm paying

1447
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:29,240
Speaker 2: fifty dollars every month to not have to just have.

1448
01:12:29,320 --> 01:12:29,920
Speaker 1: It in my house.

1449
01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:35,200
Speaker 2: I've been going to the gym instead and paying my

1450
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:38,280
Speaker 2: membership there and then all this other stuff I'm doing.

1451
01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:41,639
Speaker 2: So we'll see if it continues, you know, just quietly.

1452
01:12:41,760 --> 01:12:43,840
Speaker 2: One day some people show up and get it, and

1453
01:12:44,640 --> 01:12:46,640
Speaker 2: Charent's gonna pretend to be so upset and then never

1454
01:12:46,760 --> 01:12:47,240
Speaker 2: use it again.

1455
01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:52,560
Speaker 1: Somebody said the movie called teen Witch. Yes it was

1456
01:12:52,680 --> 01:12:53,400
Speaker 1: teen Witch.

1457
01:12:53,880 --> 01:12:59,040
Speaker 2: Yes, oh my god, that's what Britney sounded like. She

1458
01:12:59,200 --> 01:13:03,519
Speaker 2: was about to wrap top that, but she'said, do you

1459
01:13:03,600 --> 01:13:05,720
Speaker 2: want to bring it to the court or will you

1460
01:13:05,840 --> 01:13:08,599
Speaker 2: go home to your mom like you did last time.

1461
01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:12,960
Speaker 2: I'm not sorry that seems like that seemed like she

1462
01:13:13,160 --> 01:13:18,240
Speaker 2: was about to drop motherfucking uh uh top that, which

1463
01:13:19,680 --> 01:13:20,640
Speaker 2: was amazing.

1464
01:13:21,120 --> 01:13:22,320
Speaker 3: I gotta look up the lyrics.

1465
01:13:24,680 --> 01:13:28,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, apparently I've looked this up before, because I don't

1466
01:13:28,560 --> 01:13:32,080
Speaker 2: say it really was. It was purple like a motherfucker, like, Yo,

1467
01:13:32,240 --> 01:13:37,519
Speaker 2: this is your ship? Yeah, supericidic idiotic, disconnected and not respected.

1468
01:13:37,800 --> 01:13:40,720
Speaker 2: Who wouldever really want to go on top that? Such

1469
01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:42,320
Speaker 2: a waste of pretty face but hanging out in your know,

1470
01:13:42,360 --> 01:13:42,800
Speaker 2: what's face?

1471
01:13:43,280 --> 01:13:44,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is my ship?

1472
01:13:44,240 --> 01:13:44,719
Speaker 1: Hilarious.

1473
01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:46,639
Speaker 2: Do you really want to go on top that, top

1474
01:13:46,760 --> 01:13:53,200
Speaker 2: that top that? Oh man, I probably get some type

1475
01:13:53,240 --> 01:13:56,479
Speaker 2: of uh copyright striking. We played it on the on

1476
01:13:56,560 --> 01:14:00,240
Speaker 2: the shelf, right, this is my ship, This was my shit,

1477
01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:03,479
Speaker 2: And it just came out of nowhere in that movie.

1478
01:14:03,760 --> 01:14:05,920
Speaker 2: It was like no one was expecting or wanted that,

1479
01:14:06,880 --> 01:14:08,680
Speaker 2: And then she was just rapping and I was like,

1480
01:14:08,920 --> 01:14:09,960
Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm into this.

1481
01:14:12,640 --> 01:14:13,160
Speaker 3: For all right.

1482
01:14:13,280 --> 01:14:16,200
Speaker 2: So then we go to the final episode of the week,

1483
01:14:17,760 --> 01:14:21,479
Speaker 2: Take My l in the Dark six comments, Mary says,

1484
01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:23,960
Speaker 2: I'm not surprised at zoom firing his first firing. This

1485
01:14:24,120 --> 01:14:27,280
Speaker 2: DEI team, our law firm prize itself on being a

1486
01:14:27,400 --> 01:14:30,240
Speaker 2: woke firm but I've not seen the DEI need a

1487
01:14:30,320 --> 01:14:31,680
Speaker 2: move in any substantive way.

1488
01:14:31,800 --> 01:14:32,960
Speaker 3: Even at the George Floyd.

1489
01:14:33,280 --> 01:14:36,880
Speaker 2: Yes, we have a committee, diversity, library, informative lose letters

1490
01:14:36,920 --> 01:14:39,280
Speaker 2: that really out standing in Black History Month lunches, but

1491
01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:41,920
Speaker 2: we do not have more black and brown attorneys. In fact,

1492
01:14:42,200 --> 01:14:44,360
Speaker 2: we usually only have one black attorney at a time,

1493
01:14:44,400 --> 01:14:47,960
Speaker 2: but they eventually leave. Because to make any sustainable change,

1494
01:14:48,000 --> 01:14:50,400
Speaker 2: you have to you must have an infrastructure that fosters

1495
01:14:50,400 --> 01:14:53,280
Speaker 2: a true inclusive environment and demonstrates you are invested in

1496
01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:53,879
Speaker 2: their careers.

1497
01:14:53,960 --> 01:14:56,840
Speaker 3: For us, it's like, well, we hired our one, that's enough.

1498
01:14:57,320 --> 01:14:58,639
Speaker 3: Who would stay? They don't.

1499
01:14:58,720 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 2: In twenty twenty one, a black entertainment attorney who was

1500
01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:03,640
Speaker 2: named one of Hollywood's top one hundred attorneys by The

1501
01:15:03,720 --> 01:15:06,080
Speaker 2: Hollywood Reporter left a prominent boutique.

1502
01:15:05,680 --> 01:15:07,280
Speaker 3: Firm and started his own damn firm.

1503
01:15:07,680 --> 01:15:10,840
Speaker 2: His name is First, and his vision is one of inclusivity,

1504
01:15:10,920 --> 01:15:13,720
Speaker 2: giving back in civic engagement. As his partner says, a

1505
01:15:13,840 --> 01:15:17,040
Speaker 2: firm with a different with different energy. I'm all for

1506
01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:19,960
Speaker 2: it and feel like black and brown folk really just

1507
01:15:20,040 --> 01:15:21,960
Speaker 2: have to make our own because ain't no one coming

1508
01:15:22,000 --> 01:15:25,280
Speaker 2: to save us. I agree, I agree, and it sucks

1509
01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:28,760
Speaker 2: because I mean, I feel like it mostly sucks for

1510
01:15:28,800 --> 01:15:31,840
Speaker 2: the people that believe in these initiatives and shit. But

1511
01:15:32,720 --> 01:15:34,880
Speaker 2: there's such a limit to these initiatives because at the

1512
01:15:35,000 --> 01:15:38,080
Speaker 2: end of the day, when these people start, they go,

1513
01:15:38,280 --> 01:15:39,840
Speaker 2: we want to hear you, we want this, and we

1514
01:15:39,960 --> 01:15:40,320
Speaker 2: want that.

1515
01:15:40,680 --> 01:15:42,679
Speaker 3: But what they really want is for you to say.

1516
01:15:42,680 --> 01:15:46,160
Speaker 2: You're already doing so good, you're perfect, you don't need

1517
01:15:46,240 --> 01:15:48,920
Speaker 2: to change anything. If anything, we put up a couple

1518
01:15:49,040 --> 01:15:52,040
Speaker 2: posters and just about how good you're doing and how

1519
01:15:52,080 --> 01:15:54,439
Speaker 2: good we are, and you go right back to keeping

1520
01:15:54,479 --> 01:15:56,680
Speaker 2: business the way it was. But the second you go

1521
01:15:56,760 --> 01:15:58,479
Speaker 2: in there and be like, well, first thing, y'all need

1522
01:15:58,520 --> 01:15:59,880
Speaker 2: to put some black people in charge of some shit,

1523
01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:00,759
Speaker 2: they're like, whoa, whoa.

1524
01:16:02,479 --> 01:16:03,040
Speaker 9: You fired?

1525
01:16:03,960 --> 01:16:07,360
Speaker 1: Uh shoot what he says, because what happened is they

1526
01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:09,439
Speaker 1: they and they actually a lot of times don't want

1527
01:16:09,439 --> 01:16:15,400
Speaker 1: your opinion. They want your approved presence. They want your presence,

1528
01:16:16,280 --> 01:16:19,639
Speaker 1: and your presence means more to them than to actually

1529
01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:22,519
Speaker 1: giving you power, giving you authority, giving your right to

1530
01:16:22,600 --> 01:16:26,200
Speaker 1: execute shit, your presence because that, to them, that's the

1531
01:16:26,240 --> 01:16:29,840
Speaker 1: part of the diversity, being able to put you in

1532
01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:30,520
Speaker 1: the photo.

1533
01:16:30,360 --> 01:16:33,639
Speaker 2: To say we have a d department right. But also

1534
01:16:33,720 --> 01:16:37,479
Speaker 2: though they want your approval, your presence means approval, like

1535
01:16:37,800 --> 01:16:41,920
Speaker 2: they're here, so we're doing a good job, right, right,

1536
01:16:41,960 --> 01:16:43,839
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. They don't want your actual

1537
01:16:44,040 --> 01:16:46,240
Speaker 2: Like here's the things you need to work on to

1538
01:16:46,320 --> 01:16:47,200
Speaker 2: be doing a good job.

1539
01:16:47,720 --> 01:16:48,960
Speaker 3: They're like, oh, no, that's work.

1540
01:16:49,120 --> 01:16:51,200
Speaker 2: That's stuff we know, and it don't and it's not

1541
01:16:51,320 --> 01:16:53,800
Speaker 2: stuff that necessarily directly impacts the bottom line in the

1542
01:16:53,840 --> 01:16:54,760
Speaker 2: way that we look at it.

1543
01:16:55,320 --> 01:16:56,600
Speaker 3: So why the fuck will we do that?

1544
01:16:57,760 --> 01:16:59,720
Speaker 1: Right? And for a lot of businesses, they go, why

1545
01:16:59,720 --> 01:17:02,080
Speaker 1: would we do it? Because, like I say, you either

1546
01:17:02,160 --> 01:17:04,400
Speaker 1: saving them money or making them money, and in their mind,

1547
01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:07,240
Speaker 1: that's a waste of money for them to actually benefit

1548
01:17:07,360 --> 01:17:09,120
Speaker 1: from it. Years later, they was like, we ain't in

1549
01:17:09,160 --> 01:17:12,320
Speaker 1: the business of trying to benefit from shit years later, like,

1550
01:17:12,520 --> 01:17:15,200
Speaker 1: you know, we do this and maybe, you know, we

1551
01:17:15,360 --> 01:17:18,960
Speaker 1: keep grinding, maybe three to five to ten years from now,

1552
01:17:19,040 --> 01:17:21,040
Speaker 1: we'll see the fruits of the you know, the benefits

1553
01:17:21,080 --> 01:17:23,320
Speaker 1: of our labor. And they're like, we ain't trying to

1554
01:17:23,360 --> 01:17:25,639
Speaker 1: wait that long, and this shit isn't that really important

1555
01:17:25,680 --> 01:17:27,360
Speaker 1: to us? And that's why I said the other day,

1556
01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:32,080
Speaker 1: our companies are not a person and There's a lot

1557
01:17:32,120 --> 01:17:33,800
Speaker 1: of companies that did not do this shit and never

1558
01:17:33,880 --> 01:17:35,240
Speaker 1: had to do with the back last year. But because

1559
01:17:35,240 --> 01:17:36,920
Speaker 1: they would just kept it real. They was like, we're

1560
01:17:36,920 --> 01:17:38,680
Speaker 1: a company, we do business. Shit, we not trying to

1561
01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:39,320
Speaker 1: pretend and.

1562
01:17:39,640 --> 01:17:41,680
Speaker 3: Or front all right.

1563
01:17:42,240 --> 01:17:44,720
Speaker 2: Shoe Booty says, wow, so high mounts a caffeine and

1564
01:17:44,800 --> 01:17:47,840
Speaker 2: stimulus are bad for kids. No shit. My kid is

1565
01:17:48,000 --> 01:17:51,320
Speaker 2: always begging to drink Prime or the Panai Death lemonade,

1566
01:17:51,360 --> 01:17:53,600
Speaker 2: and it's hard no for me. She'll be like, but

1567
01:17:53,760 --> 01:17:56,080
Speaker 2: so and so drinks Prime and he's fine. As a parent,

1568
01:17:56,400 --> 01:17:58,160
Speaker 2: I have some authority over your body and what you

1569
01:17:58,200 --> 01:18:00,280
Speaker 2: can eat and drink for a reason. That shit isn't

1570
01:18:00,280 --> 01:18:02,760
Speaker 2: even good for adults. But we have the decision making

1571
01:18:02,800 --> 01:18:04,519
Speaker 2: skills the way the pros and cons of the garbage

1572
01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:06,360
Speaker 2: were put into our bodies. The fuck does an eight

1573
01:18:06,479 --> 01:18:09,240
Speaker 2: year old need more energy for it? You're made of energy, right.

1574
01:18:09,600 --> 01:18:12,240
Speaker 2: Apia says, exactly. The challenges to get the kids tired

1575
01:18:12,280 --> 01:18:14,400
Speaker 2: in the evening, not to make them even more energetic.

1576
01:18:14,800 --> 01:18:17,120
Speaker 2: I don't get why they would need any energy drinks.

1577
01:18:17,560 --> 01:18:19,599
Speaker 2: I wonder if parents ever use it for the crash

1578
01:18:20,120 --> 01:18:21,720
Speaker 2: where they be like, give them the energy drink. The

1579
01:18:21,800 --> 01:18:24,080
Speaker 2: motherfucker gonna die by the time it's six o'clock.

1580
01:18:24,680 --> 01:18:26,640
Speaker 1: They might neally die with don't so no.

1581
01:18:27,040 --> 01:18:29,639
Speaker 2: Ramsey d Jinga says, I'm not a fan of dal Hughley,

1582
01:18:29,720 --> 01:18:31,679
Speaker 2: but baby, he said what he said about Monique.

1583
01:18:31,680 --> 01:18:35,080
Speaker 3: I've enjoyed all the episodes this week, five stars. Yeah,

1584
01:18:35,600 --> 01:18:35,880
Speaker 3: I know.

1585
01:18:38,960 --> 01:18:45,800
Speaker 2: The Monique shit is gonna always be extremely polarizing, But

1586
01:18:46,000 --> 01:18:48,960
Speaker 2: in that one instance with Dale Hughley, I just I

1587
01:18:49,240 --> 01:18:52,800
Speaker 2: understand how he's at the place he's at with her,

1588
01:18:53,880 --> 01:18:57,719
Speaker 2: and there's no amount of revisionist history that is gonna

1589
01:18:57,840 --> 01:19:01,680
Speaker 2: change how far she took the shit with her with

1590
01:19:01,840 --> 01:19:03,559
Speaker 2: his daughter and that sexual assault stuff.

1591
01:19:03,600 --> 01:19:06,160
Speaker 1: I'm sorry because people attack towards him.

1592
01:19:06,400 --> 01:19:09,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, people can feel how they feel even with him,

1593
01:19:10,120 --> 01:19:13,519
Speaker 2: like at this point, even if he's making jokes about

1594
01:19:13,560 --> 01:19:15,479
Speaker 2: her wait or something like that, which I think is

1595
01:19:15,720 --> 01:19:18,280
Speaker 2: fucked up, but I understand it's a beef and she

1596
01:19:18,520 --> 01:19:20,920
Speaker 2: was talking about his fucking dead puppy and all this shit,

1597
01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:23,960
Speaker 2: so like both of them are hitting below the belt

1598
01:19:24,040 --> 01:19:31,120
Speaker 2: on purpose, But there's something about I understand, I have,

1599
01:19:31,800 --> 01:19:33,559
Speaker 2: I have understanding for how they've.

1600
01:19:33,400 --> 01:19:36,040
Speaker 3: Reached this point and how he's like, I fuck it,

1601
01:19:36,560 --> 01:19:36,800
Speaker 3: you know.

1602
01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:38,320
Speaker 6: That.

1603
01:19:38,479 --> 01:19:41,760
Speaker 3: Being said, I did go listen to most of I'm

1604
01:19:41,760 --> 01:19:42,240
Speaker 3: still not done.

1605
01:19:42,280 --> 01:19:45,400
Speaker 2: I got like thirty minutes ago because it's like three hours,

1606
01:19:46,040 --> 01:19:47,840
Speaker 2: but I did go listen to most of it I

1607
01:19:47,920 --> 01:19:48,519
Speaker 2: talked about.

1608
01:19:48,400 --> 01:19:49,080
Speaker 3: On the pregame.

1609
01:19:49,160 --> 01:19:51,479
Speaker 2: I actually put the pregame out as I just a

1610
01:19:51,560 --> 01:19:54,519
Speaker 2: tip this week so people want to hear my in

1611
01:19:54,680 --> 01:19:57,880
Speaker 2: depth thoughts about watching it. Karen hadn't watched it justin

1612
01:19:57,960 --> 01:20:01,639
Speaker 2: hadn't watched it in its entirety. But if people want

1613
01:20:01,680 --> 01:20:04,120
Speaker 2: to hear my in depth thoughts about it, that's where

1614
01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:12,519
Speaker 2: they are. I don't feel so hardcore about the like

1615
01:20:12,840 --> 01:20:14,640
Speaker 2: the people that are really out there on some like

1616
01:20:14,800 --> 01:20:17,280
Speaker 2: she just need to shut the fuck up, and she's

1617
01:20:17,360 --> 01:20:19,920
Speaker 2: just making everything worse, and why won't she let this go.

1618
01:20:21,320 --> 01:20:25,519
Speaker 2: Listening to her in the context of that interview, I

1619
01:20:25,960 --> 01:20:31,040
Speaker 2: totally feel different about it at this point in that

1620
01:20:31,920 --> 01:20:37,160
Speaker 2: if she is comfortable with the shit as it is,

1621
01:20:37,560 --> 01:20:41,200
Speaker 2: and whether she is you want to label her as

1622
01:20:41,280 --> 01:20:42,320
Speaker 2: angry bit or whatever.

1623
01:20:42,880 --> 01:20:43,880
Speaker 3: I'm not saying she's not.

1624
01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:47,719
Speaker 2: I'm just saying from her perspective and what she explained,

1625
01:20:47,840 --> 01:20:50,519
Speaker 2: I can see that those things will make somebody anger.

1626
01:20:51,200 --> 01:20:54,040
Speaker 3: The experiences she's had in Hollywood. I can see it out.

1627
01:20:54,040 --> 01:20:55,200
Speaker 3: They will make somebody better.

1628
01:20:55,880 --> 01:20:59,960
Speaker 2: I don't think she's doing this to play the game

1629
01:21:00,640 --> 01:21:03,720
Speaker 2: the best and win, which is what most people on

1630
01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:06,439
Speaker 2: the outside looking in are assuming, which is like, why

1631
01:21:06,479 --> 01:21:08,840
Speaker 2: don't you just do the things that people who play

1632
01:21:08,880 --> 01:21:11,439
Speaker 2: this game and get to the top do, because you

1633
01:21:11,560 --> 01:21:13,920
Speaker 2: have the talent to be at the top. And she

1634
01:21:14,280 --> 01:21:16,760
Speaker 2: and her husband have decided she's gonna play the game

1635
01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:20,120
Speaker 2: her way, and she has to live with her own

1636
01:21:20,200 --> 01:21:23,080
Speaker 2: integrity and truth, and that means doing a bunch of

1637
01:21:23,080 --> 01:21:26,160
Speaker 2: shit nobody else would advise you to do, like saying

1638
01:21:26,200 --> 01:21:27,880
Speaker 2: people's names when you have an.

1639
01:21:27,800 --> 01:21:28,639
Speaker 3: Issue with somebody.

1640
01:21:29,240 --> 01:21:31,599
Speaker 2: Everybody else talks about the issues of Hollywood, but they're

1641
01:21:31,640 --> 01:21:34,920
Speaker 2: pretty vague. It's you know, one time a director had

1642
01:21:35,000 --> 01:21:37,320
Speaker 2: me film a scene and I felt uncomfortable. They don't

1643
01:21:37,320 --> 01:21:39,680
Speaker 2: come out and say and that director was Spike Lee

1644
01:21:40,439 --> 01:21:43,560
Speaker 2: because they know that that's the taboo, that's what you

1645
01:21:43,640 --> 01:21:50,640
Speaker 2: don't do. And on a deeper philosophical level, and this

1646
01:21:50,840 --> 01:21:55,639
Speaker 2: is projection or whatever, like this is me guessing because

1647
01:21:55,680 --> 01:21:59,160
Speaker 2: I don't know, and I've never talked to her, interview her.

1648
01:21:59,320 --> 01:22:01,880
Speaker 2: I don't even know she sees it this way, but

1649
01:22:02,160 --> 01:22:07,360
Speaker 2: I came away from that interview thinking, because I've never

1650
01:22:07,439 --> 01:22:10,120
Speaker 2: really heard her talk about the trauma with her family before,

1651
01:22:11,120 --> 01:22:17,400
Speaker 2: and I think a person who was violated by their brother,

1652
01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:21,040
Speaker 2: I believe, which is a figure in your life that's

1653
01:22:21,040 --> 01:22:24,560
Speaker 2: supposed to protect you and that you should always be

1654
01:22:24,640 --> 01:22:29,479
Speaker 2: able to trust. So somebody violates you as a child

1655
01:22:29,800 --> 01:22:33,360
Speaker 2: for years, and then the other figures in your family

1656
01:22:33,920 --> 01:22:37,920
Speaker 2: don't do anything to really or didn't do enough to

1657
01:22:38,000 --> 01:22:46,200
Speaker 2: protect you. A person existing with that level of trauma

1658
01:22:48,040 --> 01:22:53,120
Speaker 2: is going to have trust issues and has seen some

1659
01:22:53,280 --> 01:22:57,720
Speaker 2: things from a perspective many people have not. And so

1660
01:22:58,320 --> 01:23:03,200
Speaker 2: to get into a business that is as manipulative as

1661
01:23:03,320 --> 01:23:09,080
Speaker 2: Hollywood is, to have a man in Sydney.

1662
01:23:10,280 --> 01:23:16,519
Speaker 3: Who, whether you agree with his methods or not, seems to.

1663
01:23:16,800 --> 01:23:21,840
Speaker 2: At least to her, always put her first and always

1664
01:23:21,920 --> 01:23:25,519
Speaker 2: put her protection first, regardless of how that looks like.

1665
01:23:25,640 --> 01:23:29,320
Speaker 3: Her protection to some may feel unreasonable, like.

1666
01:23:31,160 --> 01:23:35,000
Speaker 2: Protection to him and her is some like, well, if

1667
01:23:35,040 --> 01:23:37,080
Speaker 2: you don't want to do it, you shouldn't have to

1668
01:23:37,160 --> 01:23:38,880
Speaker 2: do it, and that's the end of it. And I'm

1669
01:23:38,880 --> 01:23:42,599
Speaker 2: gonna be the person that's sitting right beside you telling

1670
01:23:42,640 --> 01:23:44,720
Speaker 2: people you ain't doing it. And when the rest of

1671
01:23:44,760 --> 01:23:47,200
Speaker 2: the Hollywood and everybody else that's a third party is like,

1672
01:23:47,360 --> 01:23:48,799
Speaker 2: this is a horrible way to do business.

1673
01:23:49,240 --> 01:23:51,760
Speaker 3: And well, then you know this isn't gonna work.

1674
01:23:51,800 --> 01:23:54,000
Speaker 2: You know this is gonna mess up your further business opportunities.

1675
01:23:54,240 --> 01:23:57,000
Speaker 2: You know there's gonna be consequences for this. He'll sit

1676
01:23:57,120 --> 01:23:59,160
Speaker 2: right there in the fire with you and be like, yeah,

1677
01:24:00,640 --> 01:24:02,800
Speaker 2: she's willing to pay that price, and we'll put all

1678
01:24:02,920 --> 01:24:06,840
Speaker 2: y'all on blast and burn the whole world down to

1679
01:24:07,720 --> 01:24:11,320
Speaker 2: make sure that she feels protected and in this way,

1680
01:24:14,920 --> 01:24:17,080
Speaker 2: in my opinion, like I said, I don't know them,

1681
01:24:17,200 --> 01:24:20,040
Speaker 2: this is our third party conjecture and all that stuff.

1682
01:24:20,080 --> 01:24:22,360
Speaker 2: So except understand that, So you ain't got to write

1683
01:24:22,360 --> 01:24:24,000
Speaker 2: it and be like that's not I'll see it. This

1684
01:24:24,200 --> 01:24:25,960
Speaker 2: is just what I'm me telling you how I found

1685
01:24:26,120 --> 01:24:29,800
Speaker 2: balance with it. I think, whatever the price to pay

1686
01:24:29,920 --> 01:24:32,240
Speaker 2: for having a due like that, do your business and

1687
01:24:32,360 --> 01:24:36,759
Speaker 2: be in the corner. She's willing to pay that price happily,

1688
01:24:37,920 --> 01:24:42,559
Speaker 2: and he's willing to accept her as his only client

1689
01:24:42,640 --> 01:24:48,439
Speaker 2: or whatever. As we're a team, we're a partnership, and we.

1690
01:24:48,520 --> 01:24:51,040
Speaker 3: Don't care how it looks to anybody else.

1691
01:24:53,200 --> 01:24:56,200
Speaker 2: We aren't keeping the secrets we aren't keeping anything private

1692
01:24:56,920 --> 01:25:00,360
Speaker 2: and we aren't letting people off the hook. And I

1693
01:25:00,439 --> 01:25:04,400
Speaker 2: think the biggest thing that really informed my point of

1694
01:25:04,520 --> 01:25:07,960
Speaker 2: view and kind of made me soften my stance on

1695
01:25:08,000 --> 01:25:09,960
Speaker 2: the whole thing was when she talked about working with

1696
01:25:10,080 --> 01:25:12,680
Speaker 2: Lee Daniels again. Now, I know there's two ways to

1697
01:25:12,760 --> 01:25:17,080
Speaker 2: view that as Oh Lee Daniels, you know, apologize and

1698
01:25:17,200 --> 01:25:19,920
Speaker 2: work with her, and she got money and a job

1699
01:25:20,000 --> 01:25:23,320
Speaker 2: out of it, so he basically got manipulated into like

1700
01:25:23,640 --> 01:25:24,320
Speaker 2: helping her out.

1701
01:25:24,360 --> 01:25:26,599
Speaker 3: And if you want to view it that way, you can. That's,

1702
01:25:26,720 --> 01:25:28,600
Speaker 3: you know, that's a valid way for you to view it.

1703
01:25:29,400 --> 01:25:32,559
Speaker 3: But I saw a person that let it go.

1704
01:25:34,120 --> 01:25:38,479
Speaker 2: Like because to me, the whole time, I've always thought like, yeah,

1705
01:25:38,520 --> 01:25:40,760
Speaker 2: she says all this shit, but if these people come

1706
01:25:40,800 --> 01:25:42,719
Speaker 2: to the table and she's doing all that sweet baby

1707
01:25:42,840 --> 01:25:45,720
Speaker 2: love shit and my sweet babies and I love you

1708
01:25:45,840 --> 01:25:48,080
Speaker 2: sister and all that stuff, I'm like, yeah, But if

1709
01:25:48,120 --> 01:25:51,120
Speaker 2: Oprah comes to her and says I'm sorry, and you know,

1710
01:25:51,240 --> 01:25:53,479
Speaker 2: I really like to make amends and what can we do?

1711
01:25:53,880 --> 01:25:55,000
Speaker 3: Can we work something together?

1712
01:25:55,880 --> 01:25:58,080
Speaker 2: To me, I always like, yeah, But then my niques,

1713
01:25:58,280 --> 01:26:00,200
Speaker 2: she'll just move a go post again because she's feel

1714
01:26:00,240 --> 01:26:03,160
Speaker 2: mad at that woman, and there's you know, you can't

1715
01:26:03,280 --> 01:26:07,080
Speaker 2: undo shit that you did just because you apologize. But

1716
01:26:07,760 --> 01:26:10,040
Speaker 2: the way she kind of like talked about Lee Daniels

1717
01:26:10,080 --> 01:26:12,920
Speaker 2: and working with him and how she don't bring up

1718
01:26:12,960 --> 01:26:14,040
Speaker 2: shit with him no more.

1719
01:26:15,479 --> 01:26:17,799
Speaker 3: I mean from what I've seen as facts.

1720
01:26:18,840 --> 01:26:21,200
Speaker 2: So then it made me wonder, like if you were

1721
01:26:21,280 --> 01:26:26,800
Speaker 2: Kevin Hard, Tyler Perry or Oprah, would like.

1722
01:26:29,479 --> 01:26:31,519
Speaker 3: What would happen if you did reach out?

1723
01:26:31,680 --> 01:26:31,840
Speaker 1: You know?

1724
01:26:32,240 --> 01:26:34,680
Speaker 3: But at the and the final thing I'll say too

1725
01:26:34,840 --> 01:26:35,080
Speaker 3: is like.

1726
01:26:36,760 --> 01:26:39,479
Speaker 2: I can't imagine the betrayal you feel because she put

1727
01:26:39,560 --> 01:26:42,160
Speaker 2: Oprah on a pedestal, coming up as like a role

1728
01:26:42,240 --> 01:26:46,280
Speaker 2: model and an icon for her. Tyler Perry seems like,

1729
01:26:46,479 --> 01:26:51,120
Speaker 2: at least if whatever hit, because Oprah and Tyler Perry

1730
01:26:51,120 --> 01:26:52,960
Speaker 2: and Kevin Hart are gonna ever put out their version

1731
01:26:52,960 --> 01:26:56,760
Speaker 2: of events, we have to just assume whatever. We don't

1732
01:26:56,840 --> 01:26:58,880
Speaker 2: know what they would say. My guess is that they

1733
01:26:58,960 --> 01:27:03,920
Speaker 2: all have their own reasoning and possibly even valid perspectives

1734
01:27:03,960 --> 01:27:04,719
Speaker 2: for why they.

1735
01:27:06,000 --> 01:27:07,760
Speaker 3: Feel like they did what they did.

1736
01:27:07,960 --> 01:27:11,759
Speaker 2: I agreed because I really don't think it's we're because

1737
01:27:11,800 --> 01:27:15,559
Speaker 2: she's the only one talking, we're mostly gonna take her aside,

1738
01:27:15,640 --> 01:27:18,040
Speaker 2: especially on a place like Shannon Sharp Show where it's

1739
01:27:18,080 --> 01:27:21,560
Speaker 2: not gonna be much pushback. And also I want to

1740
01:27:21,560 --> 01:27:23,840
Speaker 2: say I have a lot more respect for Shannon Sharp Show,

1741
01:27:23,920 --> 01:27:25,519
Speaker 2: not just because of this episode, but I get it

1742
01:27:26,439 --> 01:27:28,920
Speaker 2: at this point. I don't think he became a better

1743
01:27:29,000 --> 01:27:31,800
Speaker 2: interviewer or had better questions than he did with Kat

1744
01:27:31,840 --> 01:27:33,080
Speaker 2: Williams or any of that shit.

1745
01:27:33,120 --> 01:27:34,280
Speaker 3: I don't think that's true.

1746
01:27:35,240 --> 01:27:38,880
Speaker 2: I really just think here's a place for people to

1747
01:27:39,439 --> 01:27:42,160
Speaker 2: get their truth out and no one's gonna push back

1748
01:27:42,720 --> 01:27:45,640
Speaker 2: and really question it, and it's gonna be like a

1749
01:27:45,840 --> 01:27:48,680
Speaker 2: conversation you over hear at Thanksgiving or something between your

1750
01:27:48,720 --> 01:27:50,479
Speaker 2: uncle and your auntie. And if that's what the fuck

1751
01:27:50,520 --> 01:27:53,200
Speaker 2: it is, that's just what it is. And he ain't

1752
01:27:53,560 --> 01:27:56,200
Speaker 2: put his He never said he was doing something different

1753
01:27:56,240 --> 01:28:00,160
Speaker 2: than that. So it's either you tune in and you

1754
01:28:00,280 --> 01:28:04,280
Speaker 2: hear him be messy and antiquated and act like a

1755
01:28:04,360 --> 01:28:07,280
Speaker 2: bird for three hours with whoever he's talking to, or

1756
01:28:07,360 --> 01:28:07,760
Speaker 2: you don't.

1757
01:28:08,479 --> 01:28:10,600
Speaker 3: But he is not like you can be disappointed. He

1758
01:28:11,320 --> 01:28:12,320
Speaker 3: keeping the same energy.

1759
01:28:13,160 --> 01:28:15,320
Speaker 2: It's not rigorous fact checking, and none of this shit

1760
01:28:15,800 --> 01:28:17,840
Speaker 2: if it was rigorous fact checking at a news show.

1761
01:28:18,240 --> 01:28:20,719
Speaker 2: Same thing with Katwilliams, The same thing with Monique, maybe

1762
01:28:20,800 --> 01:28:22,880
Speaker 2: ten minutes of that shit airs. Because you gotta reach

1763
01:28:22,920 --> 01:28:25,640
Speaker 2: out to all them people. You gotta confirm dates, you

1764
01:28:25,720 --> 01:28:29,960
Speaker 2: gotta get evidence for everything. An audio recording that they

1765
01:28:30,080 --> 01:28:32,240
Speaker 2: say is Tyler Perry. You got to prove something like like,

1766
01:28:32,360 --> 01:28:34,760
Speaker 2: it's a lot of it's a lot of shit that

1767
01:28:35,280 --> 01:28:37,880
Speaker 2: might not have got air, but Shannon gonna let you

1768
01:28:38,120 --> 01:28:40,080
Speaker 2: air it or whatever put it. He gonna put it

1769
01:28:40,120 --> 01:28:42,360
Speaker 2: out there for the folks and let you judge for yourself.

1770
01:28:42,400 --> 01:28:46,800
Speaker 2: And that's important space. But yeah, we'll never hear what Oprah,

1771
01:28:46,840 --> 01:28:48,439
Speaker 2: and they'll probably have to say about it. But I

1772
01:28:48,479 --> 01:28:50,919
Speaker 2: think there's probably valid reasons they can feel.

1773
01:28:50,680 --> 01:28:51,360
Speaker 3: The way they feel.

1774
01:28:51,439 --> 01:28:54,760
Speaker 2: If it was unheard of for somebody who asks for

1775
01:28:54,920 --> 01:28:58,160
Speaker 2: money to do promotion at cons or whatever, if it

1776
01:28:58,240 --> 01:29:01,240
Speaker 2: was unheard of at the time, it's not crazy for

1777
01:29:01,320 --> 01:29:05,600
Speaker 2: them to be like, no, what, why why are you

1778
01:29:05,720 --> 01:29:08,559
Speaker 2: doing this? No one else is doing this. Everyone else

1779
01:29:08,640 --> 01:29:11,679
Speaker 2: is out there promoting their movie except us. We look stupid.

1780
01:29:12,120 --> 01:29:15,240
Speaker 2: The company that Lionsgate looks stupid. You're fucking it up

1781
01:29:15,280 --> 01:29:18,240
Speaker 2: for everybody, and even to some extent, they may feel

1782
01:29:18,520 --> 01:29:20,639
Speaker 2: and you wouldn't do this if I was a white person,

1783
01:29:20,720 --> 01:29:23,000
Speaker 2: you know, we never really heard Monique go in on

1784
01:29:23,200 --> 01:29:27,320
Speaker 2: like the white executives and the actual companies that have

1785
01:29:27,439 --> 01:29:30,920
Speaker 2: put blacklist at her, And you know, it's been Oprah,

1786
01:29:31,080 --> 01:29:34,639
Speaker 2: Tyler Perry's been, Kevin Hardy hasn't been like this motherfucker

1787
01:29:34,680 --> 01:29:35,960
Speaker 2: that work at Miramax or whatever.

1788
01:29:36,120 --> 01:29:38,640
Speaker 3: At least from what we've seen, it doesn't seem to

1789
01:29:38,720 --> 01:29:39,599
Speaker 3: be the same vit y'all.

1790
01:29:40,120 --> 01:29:43,000
Speaker 2: But maybe that's because it don't feel like a betrayal

1791
01:29:43,040 --> 01:29:45,559
Speaker 2: when it's coming from these white folks.

1792
01:29:45,600 --> 01:29:47,840
Speaker 3: Maybe I don't know, or maybe the white folks have

1793
01:29:47,960 --> 01:29:48,559
Speaker 3: been better than her.

1794
01:29:48,920 --> 01:29:50,840
Speaker 2: I don't know, but I think when you're talking about

1795
01:29:50,840 --> 01:29:54,200
Speaker 2: the Parkers and not getting your residuals and your money

1796
01:29:54,240 --> 01:29:57,040
Speaker 2: from the Parkers, that can't just that's not Oprah and

1797
01:29:57,080 --> 01:29:59,599
Speaker 2: Tyler Perry. There's some names that could be named there,

1798
01:29:59,640 --> 01:30:02,360
Speaker 2: I'm sure, or but maybe we just don't know him

1799
01:30:02,400 --> 01:30:05,200
Speaker 2: or whatever. Anyway, I know it's kind of rambling, but

1800
01:30:05,800 --> 01:30:08,559
Speaker 2: I definitely think watching watching it put it in.

1801
01:30:08,640 --> 01:30:09,560
Speaker 3: A different perspective.

1802
01:30:09,680 --> 01:30:11,600
Speaker 2: I have a lot more understanding of her point of

1803
01:30:11,680 --> 01:30:15,920
Speaker 2: view of it, and this is something that I pride

1804
01:30:15,960 --> 01:30:17,960
Speaker 2: myself in. It's something I had to say to Justin

1805
01:30:18,000 --> 01:30:20,680
Speaker 2: because we were doing pregame and he was talking about like,

1806
01:30:21,040 --> 01:30:23,960
Speaker 2: you know, man, well you gotta get over it, you

1807
01:30:24,000 --> 01:30:26,120
Speaker 2: gotta do this, and I was telling I reminded him

1808
01:30:26,200 --> 01:30:29,320
Speaker 2: of a time when he was mad about something with

1809
01:30:29,439 --> 01:30:32,240
Speaker 2: another dude that I knew that we both knew, and

1810
01:30:32,360 --> 01:30:35,000
Speaker 2: I was like, I never told you get over it.

1811
01:30:37,400 --> 01:30:40,160
Speaker 3: I never told you to get over it. You're my friend.

1812
01:30:40,240 --> 01:30:44,200
Speaker 3: You were mad at this person for months, for months.

1813
01:30:43,960 --> 01:30:46,599
Speaker 2: And had you put your foot down, and you said,

1814
01:30:47,240 --> 01:30:50,840
Speaker 2: until this person does this, this and this fucked him,

1815
01:30:52,240 --> 01:30:54,519
Speaker 2: and I'm not. I didn't go, well, shit, I don't

1816
01:30:54,520 --> 01:30:56,160
Speaker 2: think we could be friends, you know what I mean,

1817
01:30:56,360 --> 01:31:00,200
Speaker 2: Like I acknowledged that that's how he worked, and he

1818
01:31:00,360 --> 01:31:03,439
Speaker 2: never held it against me that I was like, I'm

1819
01:31:03,479 --> 01:31:06,080
Speaker 2: not saying fuck that guy, you know what I mean,

1820
01:31:06,320 --> 01:31:09,800
Speaker 2: But I hear what you're saying. I'm but yeah, it's

1821
01:31:10,320 --> 01:31:13,120
Speaker 2: that's I get it, and I get where you're coming from,

1822
01:31:13,400 --> 01:31:17,600
Speaker 2: and yeah it's I'm never gonna push you towards some

1823
01:31:17,720 --> 01:31:21,200
Speaker 2: type of reconciliation or whatever. And eventually that dude did

1824
01:31:21,840 --> 01:31:24,360
Speaker 2: end up apologizing and all the shit, and I wouldn't

1825
01:31:24,360 --> 01:31:26,920
Speaker 2: say they're cool, but you know, Justin was able to

1826
01:31:27,000 --> 01:31:31,920
Speaker 2: let it go a little bit. But you can't push

1827
01:31:32,000 --> 01:31:33,960
Speaker 2: somebody to let something go when they feel like they've

1828
01:31:34,080 --> 01:31:37,680
Speaker 2: validly been slighted and they don't want to get over it,

1829
01:31:37,920 --> 01:31:40,200
Speaker 2: and especially if they know the consequences and they decided

1830
01:31:40,240 --> 01:31:40,640
Speaker 2: to deal with.

1831
01:31:40,680 --> 01:31:42,799
Speaker 1: Them, all right, that's their choice.

1832
01:31:43,040 --> 01:31:46,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, And so I think that's where Monique scenes flat footed.

1833
01:31:46,439 --> 01:31:51,000
Speaker 2: She doesn't seem delusional to me. She recognizes that it's

1834
01:31:51,040 --> 01:31:54,639
Speaker 2: a cost. And I think also when you're immensely talented

1835
01:31:54,680 --> 01:32:00,439
Speaker 2: as she is, especially as an actress, she's she's got

1836
01:32:00,479 --> 01:32:03,880
Speaker 2: what she's at by staying in you know, ten toes down.

1837
01:32:04,840 --> 01:32:06,880
Speaker 2: So now we're telling her not to do it, and

1838
01:32:07,000 --> 01:32:08,840
Speaker 2: I don't think she's gonna do it, because if she

1839
01:32:09,000 --> 01:32:13,360
Speaker 2: was the kind of person that got alone to get along,

1840
01:32:13,439 --> 01:32:15,760
Speaker 2: I don't think she'd even be Monique. I don't think

1841
01:32:16,240 --> 01:32:18,240
Speaker 2: she'd be who she is. She wouldn't be the star

1842
01:32:18,439 --> 01:32:21,080
Speaker 2: she is, or the celebrity or the figure that she is,

1843
01:32:21,720 --> 01:32:24,000
Speaker 2: or have the type of content she has and the

1844
01:32:24,080 --> 01:32:26,439
Speaker 2: talent that she has if she was the person that

1845
01:32:27,479 --> 01:32:28,680
Speaker 2: capitulated you know.

1846
01:32:29,080 --> 01:32:33,000
Speaker 3: So yeah, I and then I'm sorry. One more thing.

1847
01:32:33,439 --> 01:32:36,240
Speaker 2: I've never heard about her being unprofessional on a set,

1848
01:32:37,800 --> 01:32:41,719
Speaker 2: So that's another thing that I like, I know, people

1849
01:32:41,840 --> 01:32:44,160
Speaker 2: making comparison there, but like, you know, she brought up

1850
01:32:44,160 --> 01:32:47,040
Speaker 2: Melissa McCarthy as a comparison or whatever. I don't necessarily

1851
01:32:47,120 --> 01:32:51,040
Speaker 2: disagree with that. Talent wise and the ability to do

1852
01:32:51,160 --> 01:32:53,400
Speaker 2: the roles. People act like it's such a different talent level.

1853
01:32:53,439 --> 01:32:55,960
Speaker 2: But but he got, she got the full package of talent.

1854
01:32:56,080 --> 01:32:59,800
Speaker 2: She's she's she really is just a fucking star. But

1855
01:33:01,920 --> 01:33:06,479
Speaker 2: my personal belief, once again projection understand gods the same facts.

1856
01:33:06,520 --> 01:33:08,640
Speaker 2: I don't have no evidence for this other than just

1857
01:33:08,760 --> 01:33:11,560
Speaker 2: anecdotal evidence from just me looking at the shit the

1858
01:33:11,600 --> 01:33:16,280
Speaker 2: way y'all look at it. I personally believe the business

1859
01:33:16,479 --> 01:33:20,519
Speaker 2: end is what fucks shit up. Sidney does the business

1860
01:33:20,600 --> 01:33:26,240
Speaker 2: for her, and whether he's promising things or just say

1861
01:33:26,400 --> 01:33:29,479
Speaker 2: like because you are you, you're gonna get something different

1862
01:33:29,520 --> 01:33:33,519
Speaker 2: than other people, or whether he's like so adamant when

1863
01:33:33,600 --> 01:33:35,760
Speaker 2: she is done, like he's a fighter. She says she

1864
01:33:35,800 --> 01:33:37,720
Speaker 2: got rid of her first people because she needed some

1865
01:33:37,800 --> 01:33:42,040
Speaker 2: fucking fighters. He is a fighter, and that the business

1866
01:33:42,080 --> 01:33:44,439
Speaker 2: seems to beat the part that gets fucked up and

1867
01:33:44,479 --> 01:33:49,920
Speaker 2: turns personal like it's always like the contract isn't understood

1868
01:33:49,920 --> 01:33:52,519
Speaker 2: the right way, you know, like, I don't know if

1869
01:33:52,560 --> 01:33:55,040
Speaker 2: it's not a baller prey contract, it's a specific contract

1870
01:33:55,120 --> 01:33:58,960
Speaker 2: for you, is he not emphasizing enough whatever, But it's

1871
01:33:59,040 --> 01:34:01,559
Speaker 2: always seen to be some money or some contractual shit

1872
01:34:02,360 --> 01:34:04,200
Speaker 2: that he's like, we're not.

1873
01:34:04,360 --> 01:34:06,280
Speaker 3: Doing it the way everybody else does it.

1874
01:34:07,240 --> 01:34:12,880
Speaker 2: And then after that happens, it becomes a he said,

1875
01:34:13,000 --> 01:34:15,439
Speaker 2: she said, and then fuck that person.

1876
01:34:15,960 --> 01:34:16,840
Speaker 3: They did me wrong.

1877
01:34:17,520 --> 01:34:19,640
Speaker 2: And so part of me wonders how much of that

1878
01:34:19,880 --> 01:34:23,240
Speaker 2: is just like on him and the business end, and

1879
01:34:23,760 --> 01:34:26,040
Speaker 2: that's not I'm not taking away her agency. If she

1880
01:34:26,160 --> 01:34:29,720
Speaker 2: says she wants those things and she wants you to

1881
01:34:29,800 --> 01:34:34,040
Speaker 2: contractually negotiate it, and the industry's like, hell no, what,

1882
01:34:34,200 --> 01:34:36,519
Speaker 2: then I guess me and my agent gonna be fighting everybody.

1883
01:34:37,280 --> 01:34:39,639
Speaker 2: That seems to be the cycle that I've seen repeat,

1884
01:34:40,120 --> 01:34:42,920
Speaker 2: at least in those stories she was given. And then

1885
01:34:43,040 --> 01:34:48,920
Speaker 2: once that happened within that industry, man, whether it's Tyler

1886
01:34:49,000 --> 01:34:52,280
Speaker 2: Perry whisper campaign of saying she was difficult to work with,

1887
01:34:54,400 --> 01:34:57,320
Speaker 2: or whether it's white executives being like, shut this shit down.

1888
01:34:57,479 --> 01:34:59,800
Speaker 3: I heard she was difficult to work with. We don't

1889
01:34:59,800 --> 01:35:02,559
Speaker 3: want deal with her agent or whatever. Because the agents

1890
01:35:02,600 --> 01:35:03,360
Speaker 3: play power games.

1891
01:35:03,360 --> 01:35:06,040
Speaker 2: They got their people and shit that they work with

1892
01:35:06,160 --> 01:35:08,519
Speaker 2: in the companies, like it's you know, even though WARS

1893
01:35:08,600 --> 01:35:10,639
Speaker 2: is normally not a merit thing, it's a who pulled

1894
01:35:10,720 --> 01:35:15,040
Speaker 2: the string. So I feel like if all those things

1895
01:35:15,120 --> 01:35:17,559
Speaker 2: I just talked about were happening at the same time,

1896
01:35:17,800 --> 01:35:20,040
Speaker 2: it adds up to what we see in Moneique go through.

1897
01:35:20,479 --> 01:35:22,360
Speaker 2: And that's not me giving her no advice of saying

1898
01:35:22,400 --> 01:35:24,439
Speaker 2: she need to change anything. I saw a person that

1899
01:35:24,600 --> 01:35:31,680
Speaker 2: was resolute, that seemed completely to me, did not seem delusional,

1900
01:35:32,520 --> 01:35:35,840
Speaker 2: did not like she's seen. I know what I'm saying,

1901
01:35:36,040 --> 01:35:38,200
Speaker 2: I know how I feel, I know how it looks,

1902
01:35:39,160 --> 01:35:41,120
Speaker 2: but this is how they did me. And I'm not

1903
01:35:41,240 --> 01:35:42,920
Speaker 2: backing down. And I don't know what to say about

1904
01:35:42,960 --> 01:35:45,920
Speaker 2: that other than okay, good for you, you know. And

1905
01:35:46,000 --> 01:35:49,040
Speaker 2: if y'all like maybe people took different things away from it.

1906
01:35:49,160 --> 01:35:50,560
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people didn't even watch it.

1907
01:35:50,920 --> 01:35:55,400
Speaker 2: I think the clips don't do it justice. But yeah, man,

1908
01:35:55,560 --> 01:35:59,599
Speaker 2: I those are the components of what I think, at

1909
01:35:59,680 --> 01:36:02,160
Speaker 2: least I came away with. This is a person that

1910
01:36:03,040 --> 01:36:07,040
Speaker 2: has a betrayal trauma from a childhood, and.

1911
01:36:07,160 --> 01:36:08,519
Speaker 3: This is how they exists in the world.

1912
01:36:09,479 --> 01:36:13,000
Speaker 2: And if you're not riding or dine with her, then

1913
01:36:13,920 --> 01:36:16,960
Speaker 2: either get out the way or shut the fuck up,

1914
01:36:17,320 --> 01:36:19,799
Speaker 2: because that's how I think her and Sydney been navigating

1915
01:36:19,840 --> 01:36:23,400
Speaker 2: this shit. You know, even the stuff with DL where

1916
01:36:23,439 --> 01:36:26,439
Speaker 2: she's like, he talked about me in the past. The

1917
01:36:26,520 --> 01:36:29,680
Speaker 2: stuff he said to me wasn't inflammatory or crazy like

1918
01:36:29,760 --> 01:36:32,240
Speaker 2: I saw a clip from DJ Vlad or something, but

1919
01:36:32,400 --> 01:36:35,240
Speaker 2: he did talk about her, and I think she's very

1920
01:36:35,320 --> 01:36:39,040
Speaker 2: much like, then, don't talk about me, like, didn't stay

1921
01:36:39,080 --> 01:36:41,080
Speaker 2: the fuck out the way. You know, Steve Harvey tried

1922
01:36:41,120 --> 01:36:43,519
Speaker 2: to help her on this TV show for content, but

1923
01:36:43,640 --> 01:36:45,519
Speaker 2: he tried to help her as a friend and.

1924
01:36:45,520 --> 01:36:49,400
Speaker 3: All this shit, She's already know how she feels.

1925
01:36:49,600 --> 01:36:54,400
Speaker 2: She's not asking for advice on how to be successful.

1926
01:36:54,640 --> 01:36:56,519
Speaker 3: She may be upset.

1927
01:36:56,640 --> 01:37:00,479
Speaker 2: She may feel and be validly feeled, possibly that she

1928
01:37:00,560 --> 01:37:02,320
Speaker 2: ain't get the money and the accolades and the things

1929
01:37:02,360 --> 01:37:05,400
Speaker 2: she deserved from her career because these motherfuckers wouldn't just

1930
01:37:05,439 --> 01:37:06,320
Speaker 2: accept her as she is.

1931
01:37:06,920 --> 01:37:10,240
Speaker 3: She may feel that way. It's not your job to

1932
01:37:10,240 --> 01:37:10,560
Speaker 3: fix it.

1933
01:37:11,840 --> 01:37:13,719
Speaker 2: I think what Shannon did on that couch is important

1934
01:37:13,720 --> 01:37:16,280
Speaker 2: because he never tried to fix it right, And I

1935
01:37:16,320 --> 01:37:18,519
Speaker 2: think that's why they never hit locker heads because he

1936
01:37:18,680 --> 01:37:22,160
Speaker 2: wasn't being like that even though she tried to fix

1937
01:37:22,240 --> 01:37:24,280
Speaker 2: him in his dating you know, but we'll get that's

1938
01:37:24,280 --> 01:37:24,880
Speaker 2: another thing.

1939
01:37:25,120 --> 01:37:25,439
Speaker 3: All right.

1940
01:37:25,880 --> 01:37:29,600
Speaker 2: Sorry Eve egos on and says Vinlin. Soccer was a

1941
01:37:29,640 --> 01:37:31,120
Speaker 2: bit of a struggle for me in some parts with

1942
01:37:31,200 --> 01:37:33,519
Speaker 2: the animation was beautiful. I definitely watched the third season

1943
01:37:33,880 --> 01:37:37,559
Speaker 2: some anime recks. She may enjoys Hell's Paradise and Blue Lock.

1944
01:37:37,840 --> 01:37:40,400
Speaker 2: Those are two of my phase. Yeah, everyone recommends Blue Lock,

1945
01:37:40,439 --> 01:37:43,760
Speaker 2: the soccer one. Hell's Paradise I just added on my

1946
01:37:43,840 --> 01:37:45,760
Speaker 2: country roll, so I'll check that out.

1947
01:37:46,920 --> 01:37:47,880
Speaker 3: I started.

1948
01:37:49,320 --> 01:37:55,080
Speaker 2: Solo leveling today. Oh my Jesus, that shit them first

1949
01:37:55,120 --> 01:37:55,920
Speaker 2: three episodes.

1950
01:37:56,240 --> 01:37:58,559
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Okay, I think they I think they

1951
01:37:58,600 --> 01:37:59,719
Speaker 3: got one of them one sh'all.

1952
01:38:00,720 --> 01:38:02,280
Speaker 2: I know one Piece is a lot to tackle, but

1953
01:38:02,360 --> 01:38:04,439
Speaker 2: they are remaking it without all the filler episodes, and

1954
01:38:04,520 --> 01:38:06,040
Speaker 2: that may be a good time to check it out

1955
01:38:06,080 --> 01:38:07,040
Speaker 2: if you're so inclined.

1956
01:38:07,600 --> 01:38:08,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel I hope.

1957
01:38:08,680 --> 01:38:12,480
Speaker 2: It's kind of like Full Metal Blood, Full Metal Alchemist Brotherhood,

1958
01:38:13,040 --> 01:38:15,320
Speaker 2: where they kind of made it better when they did

1959
01:38:15,479 --> 01:38:18,880
Speaker 2: Brotherhood than the original version in my opinion, So maybe

1960
01:38:18,920 --> 01:38:22,040
Speaker 2: I'll jump on that one Piece. But right now, it's

1961
01:38:22,080 --> 01:38:25,360
Speaker 2: gonna be the name. Though it's such an amazing anime

1962
01:38:25,400 --> 01:38:27,360
Speaker 2: in terms of world building, Tyrese is still a clown.

1963
01:38:28,560 --> 01:38:31,320
Speaker 2: Christian says, I think my theory about the younger generation

1964
01:38:31,439 --> 01:38:33,760
Speaker 2: not having sex in this pandemic aloniness is also a

1965
01:38:33,840 --> 01:38:37,000
Speaker 2: pushback against porn culture and the standards that are expected

1966
01:38:37,040 --> 01:38:38,680
Speaker 2: in sex. I think a lot of boys and men

1967
01:38:38,760 --> 01:38:40,960
Speaker 2: are growing up with insane expectations of what sex is

1968
01:38:41,040 --> 01:38:42,960
Speaker 2: and what is expected in sex. I've seen a lot

1969
01:38:43,000 --> 01:38:46,320
Speaker 2: of women in the younger generation push against pushback against this,

1970
01:38:46,920 --> 01:38:50,639
Speaker 2: Like there's an expectation for casual anal sex, which is wild. Also,

1971
01:38:50,760 --> 01:38:53,479
Speaker 2: there's some more growth and expectations are earning sex for

1972
01:38:53,560 --> 01:38:54,439
Speaker 2: its expected sex.

1973
01:38:54,760 --> 01:38:56,479
Speaker 3: There's a big divide between the genders and.

1974
01:38:56,520 --> 01:38:59,320
Speaker 2: Expectations and needs, which leads to a desire to voice

1975
01:38:59,320 --> 01:39:01,760
Speaker 2: sex in real life. Also, the viow things that some

1976
01:39:01,840 --> 01:39:03,719
Speaker 2: of these men are saying onlines extremely all putting.

1977
01:39:03,720 --> 01:39:04,880
Speaker 3: The in cel culture is rising.

1978
01:39:05,200 --> 01:39:07,640
Speaker 2: That's how we get auto chronically online men laughing at

1979
01:39:07,680 --> 01:39:09,960
Speaker 2: the swift swift rape AI pictures.

1980
01:39:11,880 --> 01:39:13,280
Speaker 3: I don't know you're not, I don't think you're wrong.

1981
01:39:13,360 --> 01:39:16,639
Speaker 2: Those stuff contributes as well, you know, I think pandemic

1982
01:39:16,720 --> 01:39:20,280
Speaker 2: of loneliness is not a generational thing.

1983
01:39:20,360 --> 01:39:22,439
Speaker 3: No, that's not just a young people think. That's everybody.

1984
01:39:22,720 --> 01:39:26,200
Speaker 2: Yes, so, but I would also say the porn culture

1985
01:39:26,240 --> 01:39:27,880
Speaker 2: thing isn't a young people think. I think that's an

1986
01:39:27,920 --> 01:39:32,760
Speaker 2: everybody thing. I don't think these grown ass people that

1987
01:39:33,280 --> 01:39:36,679
Speaker 2: if they think that that is how people have sex

1988
01:39:36,760 --> 01:39:40,599
Speaker 2: and not just like like, thinking porn is how you're

1989
01:39:40,640 --> 01:39:42,960
Speaker 2: supposed to have sex, to me is like thinking wrestling

1990
01:39:43,040 --> 01:39:44,320
Speaker 2: is how you're supposed to fight people.

1991
01:39:45,360 --> 01:39:46,840
Speaker 1: It ain't the same, you know.

1992
01:39:47,200 --> 01:39:51,120
Speaker 2: Like I promise you Jennet Jackman is fucking these seven

1993
01:39:51,200 --> 01:39:55,800
Speaker 2: guys under some pretty like uh, there's a lot of

1994
01:39:55,920 --> 01:39:56,439
Speaker 2: rules and.

1995
01:39:58,160 --> 01:39:58,599
Speaker 1: Environment.

1996
01:39:58,720 --> 01:39:59,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank that's the word.

1997
01:39:59,720 --> 01:40:02,000
Speaker 2: I was like, in a controlled environment with a lot

1998
01:40:02,080 --> 01:40:05,160
Speaker 2: of other stuff that's happening right and some shit go left.

1999
01:40:05,320 --> 01:40:08,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, but people can be like stop cut or just whatever.

2000
01:40:08,680 --> 01:40:10,680
Speaker 2: But if you show up at a seven man gang bang,

2001
01:40:10,720 --> 01:40:13,600
Speaker 2: it's not gonna look like that, Okay, It's gonna be

2002
01:40:13,680 --> 01:40:17,360
Speaker 2: real human people with with roles and and and and

2003
01:40:17,600 --> 01:40:21,960
Speaker 2: and jiggling and uh and getting out of shape and

2004
01:40:22,040 --> 01:40:24,800
Speaker 2: a bunch of shit. It's not so I think, yeah,

2005
01:40:25,120 --> 01:40:28,760
Speaker 2: if people are maybe young people would be impressionable enough

2006
01:40:28,800 --> 01:40:31,760
Speaker 2: to think that's real. But I don't know, man. I

2007
01:40:31,840 --> 01:40:34,680
Speaker 2: think when people say stuff like watching euphoria is like,

2008
01:40:35,160 --> 01:40:37,960
Speaker 2: that's real. That's what kids are going through today. That

2009
01:40:38,080 --> 01:40:42,680
Speaker 2: ain't porn, but it's pretty fucking dark. And if the

2010
01:40:42,800 --> 01:40:45,360
Speaker 2: kids are relating to that, that says a lot about

2011
01:40:45,400 --> 01:40:47,600
Speaker 2: a lot of shit. So yeah, I don't think what

2012
01:40:47,720 --> 01:40:50,800
Speaker 2: you said is not a factor. I think all that

2013
01:40:50,840 --> 01:40:55,719
Speaker 2: stuff adds into it. Comments on the YouTube no comments

2014
01:40:55,760 --> 01:40:56,240
Speaker 2: for this one.

2015
01:40:57,680 --> 01:40:58,320
Speaker 3: Uh the pole.

2016
01:40:58,680 --> 01:41:01,599
Speaker 2: Did you watch all three hours of Monique on Club Sha?

2017
01:41:02,800 --> 01:41:06,720
Speaker 2: Fifty percent say no? Fifty percent say no, basically the

2018
01:41:06,800 --> 01:41:09,360
Speaker 2: same on the well we'll get to Spotify second. Fifty

2019
01:41:09,360 --> 01:41:12,479
Speaker 2: percent say no, twenty three percent watched all of it,

2020
01:41:12,720 --> 01:41:15,760
Speaker 2: three percent watched some of it, twenty three percent just

2021
01:41:15,840 --> 01:41:20,240
Speaker 2: watched the clips that are circulating. That's where I was

2022
01:41:20,320 --> 01:41:22,160
Speaker 2: at first, and I'm glad I watched all of it,

2023
01:41:22,720 --> 01:41:24,599
Speaker 2: well most. I'm still not done, so I guess I'm

2024
01:41:24,640 --> 01:41:26,840
Speaker 2: still at some of it, but I will finish it.

2025
01:41:28,360 --> 01:41:31,479
Speaker 2: But uh, watching it all, it did affect my opinion

2026
01:41:32,880 --> 01:41:36,439
Speaker 2: and I but I guess I never had that hard

2027
01:41:36,479 --> 01:41:39,439
Speaker 2: of an opinion one way or the other this whole time,

2028
01:41:39,560 --> 01:41:43,920
Speaker 2: but affected my opinion somewhat uh. And then similar on

2029
01:41:44,040 --> 01:41:47,080
Speaker 2: Spotify ten well, only ten percent watched all of it,

2030
01:41:47,880 --> 01:41:50,559
Speaker 2: six percent watch some of it, thirty percent watched the clips,

2031
01:41:50,600 --> 01:41:52,400
Speaker 2: and fifty three percent did not watch it at all.

2032
01:41:53,160 --> 01:41:56,560
Speaker 3: And then the Q and A was take my L

2033
01:41:56,680 --> 01:41:58,440
Speaker 3: and I mean, I'm sorry. It was three of negroes.

2034
01:42:00,720 --> 01:42:03,200
Speaker 2: Chris says Team d L. He's one of the smartest

2035
01:42:03,240 --> 01:42:05,960
Speaker 2: comedians as decades in the game. His take on Chris

2036
01:42:06,040 --> 01:42:07,840
Speaker 2: Rock and Will Smith slapping Hi was the only point

2037
01:42:07,840 --> 01:42:11,360
Speaker 2: of view I could tolerate because he knows them both. Yeah,

2038
01:42:11,360 --> 01:42:13,920
Speaker 2: there's a lot of people that love d L, especially

2039
01:42:14,000 --> 01:42:19,559
Speaker 2: in the podcast in social media space, and I tried.

2040
01:42:19,360 --> 01:42:23,679
Speaker 3: To emphasize on this. I'm not that big on DL either.

2041
01:42:23,760 --> 01:42:27,400
Speaker 2: I feel like all these motherfuckers got they flaws, and

2042
01:42:28,360 --> 01:42:32,880
Speaker 2: DL to me is still a very like black man

2043
01:42:34,360 --> 01:42:40,120
Speaker 2: centric dude, and his blind spots are there, Like I

2044
01:42:40,240 --> 01:42:44,760
Speaker 2: remember him defending Columbus Shorts domestic violence against his wife

2045
01:42:44,800 --> 01:42:47,400
Speaker 2: at one point, Like the fact that you.

2046
01:42:47,520 --> 01:42:49,519
Speaker 3: Immediately jumped to that and I don't know what you

2047
01:42:49,600 --> 01:42:50,320
Speaker 3: went through with your.

2048
01:42:50,280 --> 01:42:53,280
Speaker 2: Own wife and family and ex wife and all that shit,

2049
01:42:53,360 --> 01:42:58,760
Speaker 2: but that is telling when that is the thing you

2050
01:42:58,840 --> 01:43:02,280
Speaker 2: think is the point the view to talk about the

2051
01:43:02,360 --> 01:43:05,479
Speaker 2: way he goes in on Kamala Harris feels very much

2052
01:43:05,600 --> 01:43:09,040
Speaker 2: like it's a black woman and and and he has

2053
01:43:09,120 --> 01:43:11,840
Speaker 2: some issues with black women, in my opinion, even the

2054
01:43:11,960 --> 01:43:14,240
Speaker 2: Monique shit. That's why a lot of people are taking

2055
01:43:14,479 --> 01:43:18,280
Speaker 2: Monique side despite how far she went is because it's

2056
01:43:18,720 --> 01:43:21,360
Speaker 2: no longer about balls and strikes right and wrong. It's

2057
01:43:21,479 --> 01:43:25,160
Speaker 2: just I don't like him, and he's said and done

2058
01:43:25,200 --> 01:43:27,840
Speaker 2: fucked up shit in the past, and so I'm not

2059
01:43:28,240 --> 01:43:32,840
Speaker 2: gonna even give him the empathy or humanity about his

2060
01:43:33,080 --> 01:43:34,280
Speaker 2: daughter and and all that.

2061
01:43:34,479 --> 01:43:36,800
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna do it because I don't like him.

2062
01:43:38,360 --> 01:43:39,760
Speaker 3: But I'm just trying to be fair.

2063
01:43:39,920 --> 01:43:42,960
Speaker 2: And I'm not team d L in general, just because

2064
01:43:44,120 --> 01:43:47,479
Speaker 2: team DL implies some level of like this dude is

2065
01:43:47,560 --> 01:43:50,519
Speaker 2: so on point, and I don't find him to be

2066
01:43:50,600 --> 01:43:53,360
Speaker 2: so on point. He's on point sometimes if it's something

2067
01:43:53,400 --> 01:43:55,559
Speaker 2: that's just about racism, he's normally one.

2068
01:43:57,040 --> 01:43:58,519
Speaker 3: Valid and factual agreed.

2069
01:43:58,760 --> 01:44:02,120
Speaker 2: Once you start throwing black women in it, he gets

2070
01:44:02,280 --> 01:44:06,440
Speaker 2: real dicey to me, and I think that is informed

2071
01:44:06,479 --> 01:44:10,600
Speaker 2: by whatever his opinions on black women must be projecting.

2072
01:44:10,800 --> 01:44:12,000
Speaker 3: But that's why I come away with.

2073
01:44:13,160 --> 01:44:16,640
Speaker 2: Magnificent Breeze says, Karen reminds me of my auntie that

2074
01:44:17,000 --> 01:44:19,320
Speaker 2: the way she be saying shitdn't expecting you to understand.

2075
01:44:19,880 --> 01:44:24,639
Speaker 2: Jason Mimosa, Julianki what had me laughing out loud at work.

2076
01:44:26,880 --> 01:44:27,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the thing, y'all.

2077
01:44:28,040 --> 01:44:31,840
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm partially Karen translator on him because

2078
01:44:31,880 --> 01:44:34,599
Speaker 2: she also skipped steps sometimes when she's talking about stuff

2079
01:44:34,640 --> 01:44:38,280
Speaker 2: and jumps past like explaining it, and then I have

2080
01:44:38,400 --> 01:44:41,240
Speaker 2: to be like, Okay, so what she's saying is.

2081
01:44:41,320 --> 01:44:44,040
Speaker 3: This Because I know listeners might be confused by that.

2082
01:44:44,200 --> 01:44:46,320
Speaker 2: Some of y'all might get it, but some for the

2083
01:44:46,560 --> 01:44:48,880
Speaker 2: for the ones that don't, it's like, oh, she's talking

2084
01:44:48,920 --> 01:44:52,800
Speaker 2: about this other movie, so we weren't we weren't talking

2085
01:44:52,800 --> 01:44:57,559
Speaker 2: about that steps Dizzy Lizzy says, yes, Caren, I too

2086
01:44:57,840 --> 01:45:00,120
Speaker 2: like to take most of my l's in silence. I

2087
01:45:00,200 --> 01:45:02,800
Speaker 2: thank god every day that smartphones didn't exist like that

2088
01:45:02,920 --> 01:45:03,880
Speaker 2: in my formative years.

2089
01:45:03,960 --> 01:45:07,200
Speaker 1: Me too. I was out here acting up me too,

2090
01:45:08,680 --> 01:45:12,200
Speaker 1: So glad cell phones wasn't around, particular the ones that recorded.

2091
01:45:12,680 --> 01:45:16,160
Speaker 2: Roger says, oh, no more Spotify for podcaster ass hashtag

2092
01:45:16,240 --> 01:45:17,160
Speaker 2: door black history mom.

2093
01:45:18,000 --> 01:45:19,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, they ended it in four days.

2094
01:45:20,520 --> 01:45:22,439
Speaker 2: No more Spotify. It will still be asked, but you

2095
01:45:22,520 --> 01:45:24,679
Speaker 2: won't be hearing our lovely voices and skitch.

2096
01:45:24,800 --> 01:45:28,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, the ones that we creatively come up with every month. Yeah,

2097
01:45:28,920 --> 01:45:31,360
Speaker 1: that sucks, right, We had a good time putting them together.

2098
01:45:31,600 --> 01:45:34,200
Speaker 2: They should make an exception for us. You know, we

2099
01:45:34,320 --> 01:45:36,800
Speaker 2: were We were probably the only podcast that was doing

2100
01:45:36,880 --> 01:45:41,880
Speaker 2: it creative, right. Everybody else just reads a Spotify for podcasters. Hey,

2101
01:45:42,040 --> 01:45:45,000
Speaker 2: would you like that we were out here giving y'all art?

2102
01:45:47,840 --> 01:45:49,840
Speaker 2: We were artist acting.

2103
01:45:51,320 --> 01:45:55,920
Speaker 3: All right, y'all. We gotta get into the voicemails. So

2104
01:45:56,040 --> 01:45:56,840
Speaker 3: let's do that.

2105
01:46:08,479 --> 01:46:30,120
Speaker 2: Up, bro, Bro, all right, got four voicemails. Let's check

2106
01:46:30,200 --> 01:46:32,120
Speaker 2: them out. Blue Wave Riders first.

2107
01:46:33,520 --> 01:46:37,000
Speaker 4: Hey, is this w R O D Radio ride riding

2108
01:46:37,120 --> 01:46:40,479
Speaker 4: Karen in the evening time? Listen up, I'm calling to

2109
01:46:40,560 --> 01:46:43,439
Speaker 4: make a request seeing us how it's Black History Month.

2110
01:46:44,160 --> 01:46:46,320
Speaker 4: Do you think that sometime for the month is out

2111
01:46:46,400 --> 01:46:49,400
Speaker 4: you could hit us up with that Chadwick Boseman tribute

2112
01:46:50,160 --> 01:46:52,120
Speaker 4: since he played all the black roles.

2113
01:46:51,920 --> 01:46:52,880
Speaker 3: On all the black movies.

2114
01:46:53,560 --> 01:46:54,559
Speaker 8: That would be really cool.

2115
01:46:55,640 --> 01:46:58,800
Speaker 3: Thanks by all right, I got y'all.

2116
01:46:59,080 --> 01:47:02,800
Speaker 2: Let me see if I can. This is okay, So

2117
01:47:03,640 --> 01:47:05,960
Speaker 2: I got it. This is the thing for those that

2118
01:47:06,080 --> 01:47:09,960
Speaker 2: haven't been listening. Back when Chadwick was still with us

2119
01:47:11,120 --> 01:47:14,439
Speaker 2: twenty sixteen, I had a running joke about how Chadwick

2120
01:47:14,479 --> 01:47:17,480
Speaker 2: Boseman was always playing.

2121
01:47:17,280 --> 01:47:18,559
Speaker 3: Black historical figures.

2122
01:47:18,600 --> 01:47:23,080
Speaker 2: He played Jackie Robinson, then he played Thurgood Marshall, and

2123
01:47:23,320 --> 01:47:27,439
Speaker 2: so my joke was, Chadwick Bosy should play everybody in

2124
01:47:27,600 --> 01:47:28,320
Speaker 2: black history.

2125
01:47:28,600 --> 01:47:31,000
Speaker 3: And then I think I was doing his voice as

2126
01:47:31,160 --> 01:47:32,080
Speaker 3: like the Black Panther.

2127
01:47:32,960 --> 01:47:37,040
Speaker 2: This is not a great impression of Chadwick Boseman, but

2128
01:47:37,160 --> 01:47:38,760
Speaker 2: it was very fun for me to do.

2129
01:47:39,520 --> 01:47:43,519
Speaker 9: So here we go, in a world with black history

2130
01:47:43,680 --> 01:47:51,880
Speaker 9: is outlawed. One man has to be all the historical

2131
01:47:52,080 --> 01:47:59,320
Speaker 9: black people throughout time to teach his class what it

2132
01:47:59,520 --> 01:48:09,160
Speaker 9: means to have black history. Starring Chadwick Boseman as Martin

2133
01:48:09,240 --> 01:48:14,400
Speaker 9: Luther King Junior. I Have a Tread and Chadwick Boseman

2134
01:48:14,560 --> 01:48:19,160
Speaker 9: is George Washington Carver Behold the Peanut, also starring Chadwick

2135
01:48:19,240 --> 01:48:23,479
Speaker 9: Boseman as Harriet Tubman I Can't Die but Once, and

2136
01:48:23,640 --> 01:48:28,479
Speaker 9: also starring Chadwick Boseman. That's so Johnny truth, Ain't I

2137
01:48:28,680 --> 01:48:33,400
Speaker 9: a woman? Introducing Chadwick Boseman as Malcolm Mack.

2138
01:48:33,600 --> 01:48:35,360
Speaker 3: We didn't land on Plymouth Rock.

2139
01:48:35,240 --> 01:48:41,240
Speaker 9: Starring Chadwick Boseman as Rosa Parks No featuring Chadwick Boseman

2140
01:48:42,040 --> 01:48:45,760
Speaker 9: as Leon Robinson in the Five Heartbeats, Don't you want

2141
01:48:45,800 --> 01:48:50,200
Speaker 9: to hang with Old Eddie Kane Lawren, Chadwick Boseman as

2142
01:48:50,320 --> 01:48:51,400
Speaker 9: Michael Jordan.

2143
01:48:51,320 --> 01:48:53,680
Speaker 3: I don't take pictures with niggers.

2144
01:48:53,400 --> 01:48:57,800
Speaker 9: And also Chadwick Boseman as oprah Winfley. You get a car,

2145
01:48:59,240 --> 01:49:05,240
Speaker 9: then Chadwick Boseman as Little Richard a wapopper loop Hoplap

2146
01:49:05,280 --> 01:49:10,360
Speaker 9: Bell Boom, Chadwick Boseman as Mary and Barry Bitch Set

2147
01:49:10,479 --> 01:49:14,679
Speaker 9: me up Cold, starring Chadwick Boseman as Beyonce.

2148
01:49:14,960 --> 01:49:16,400
Speaker 3: You must not know about me?

2149
01:49:17,320 --> 01:49:22,320
Speaker 9: Introducing Chadwick Boseman as Lebron James. I'm taking my talents

2150
01:49:22,360 --> 01:49:26,880
Speaker 9: to self be Chadwick Boseman. We'll also have to be

2151
01:49:27,080 --> 01:49:31,800
Speaker 9: Snoop Dogg for shizl from Chadwick Boseman as that one

2152
01:49:31,920 --> 01:49:34,800
Speaker 9: nigga who badged your groceries down at the grocery store.

2153
01:49:34,920 --> 01:49:37,000
Speaker 3: Will that be paper or plastic?

2154
01:49:37,160 --> 01:49:41,880
Speaker 9: Then Chadwick Boseman will be Queen Latifa, who you calling up?

2155
01:49:42,000 --> 01:49:42,280
Speaker 1: Bitch?

2156
01:49:43,040 --> 01:49:46,599
Speaker 9: And as a revelation coming to the screen as only

2157
01:49:46,760 --> 01:49:50,439
Speaker 9: Chadwick Boseman can do it. He'll also be Karen Marrow,

2158
01:49:50,520 --> 01:49:56,000
Speaker 9: we need empathy and sympathy. Finally, Chadwick Boseman will be

2159
01:49:56,240 --> 01:49:59,120
Speaker 9: you damn this nigga and everything coming to b E

2160
01:49:59,320 --> 01:50:05,400
Speaker 9: t this. Make sure you watch Black History, the movie

2161
01:50:06,160 --> 01:50:06,960
Speaker 9: Black History.

2162
01:50:11,880 --> 01:50:15,360
Speaker 3: I forgot how hilarious that was. I honestly did too.

2163
01:50:18,880 --> 01:50:23,680
Speaker 3: Oh man, all right, let's go to the next voice. Man,

2164
01:50:25,000 --> 01:50:25,719
Speaker 3: this toy.

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01:50:29,040 --> 01:50:32,679
Speaker 8: Hey, Rod and Karen love you guys. Show. It's toy.

2166
01:50:33,360 --> 01:50:37,800
Speaker 8: So I'm calling because in your last episode you were

2167
01:50:37,840 --> 01:50:42,360
Speaker 8: talking about the victim assistance programs and stuff, and you know,

2168
01:50:42,400 --> 01:50:45,439
Speaker 8: I'm getting my masters in public administration. I just got

2169
01:50:45,520 --> 01:50:49,040
Speaker 8: an egg on my paper on a case study about

2170
01:50:49,080 --> 01:50:53,720
Speaker 8: the victim's assistance program in Chicago, and you're absolutely right

2171
01:50:53,800 --> 01:50:56,800
Speaker 8: that it's definitely biased. It's in a part of their

2172
01:50:56,880 --> 01:51:00,360
Speaker 8: bylaws and the rules that if the big them who

2173
01:51:00,479 --> 01:51:04,280
Speaker 8: was killed or harmed had any past criminal history, doesn't

2174
01:51:04,320 --> 01:51:08,920
Speaker 8: matter what it was, they automatically disqualified from getting any

2175
01:51:08,960 --> 01:51:12,840
Speaker 8: assistance for like funeral costs. But the other thing that

2176
01:51:12,920 --> 01:51:16,880
Speaker 8: I thought was very interesting is the families only get

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01:51:17,000 --> 01:51:21,400
Speaker 8: reimbursed up to five thousand dollars and it's reimbursed. So

2178
01:51:21,479 --> 01:51:25,519
Speaker 8: the families have to come up with the money to bury, cremate,

2179
01:51:25,720 --> 01:51:27,479
Speaker 8: you know, whatever they decide to do to honor their

2180
01:51:27,479 --> 01:51:31,120
Speaker 8: family members first. Then they submit the receipts in the

2181
01:51:31,160 --> 01:51:36,000
Speaker 8: paperwork and then maybe just maybe they'll get the money

2182
01:51:36,040 --> 01:51:37,840
Speaker 8: back or they'll get reimbursed. But a lot of them

2183
01:51:37,880 --> 01:51:42,599
Speaker 8: are being denied. And you know, I did this case

2184
01:51:42,640 --> 01:51:46,479
Speaker 8: study in Chicago. We know how you know, how many

2185
01:51:46,520 --> 01:51:48,800
Speaker 8: people are dying in Chicago do the gun violence and

2186
01:51:48,840 --> 01:51:52,160
Speaker 8: stuff like that. So you know, these families are putting

2187
01:51:52,240 --> 01:51:55,679
Speaker 8: money on credit cards and fries and go for these

2188
01:51:56,160 --> 01:51:58,760
Speaker 8: and hoping that they're gonna be able to get the

2189
01:51:58,800 --> 01:52:00,720
Speaker 8: money back, and then they're being and like pretty much

2190
01:52:00,800 --> 01:52:04,960
Speaker 8: automatically denied. So it's definitely true, and it's definitely unfair

2191
01:52:05,400 --> 01:52:05,600
Speaker 8: and a.

2192
01:52:05,600 --> 01:52:06,320
Speaker 5: Bunch of bullshit.

2193
01:52:06,680 --> 01:52:08,479
Speaker 8: Love you guys doing what you're doing.

2194
01:52:08,720 --> 01:52:10,120
Speaker 1: Bye, Thanks Toy.

2195
01:52:10,800 --> 01:52:14,840
Speaker 2: Yeah toy works in that in that whole environment. And yeah,

2196
01:52:14,880 --> 01:52:19,760
Speaker 2: it's it's interesting too because there was something in there

2197
01:52:19,840 --> 01:52:21,800
Speaker 2: even and it made me wonder when we read it.

2198
01:52:21,880 --> 01:52:23,560
Speaker 2: I was like, why did they bring up to go

2199
01:52:23,800 --> 01:52:26,519
Speaker 2: fund me? But I guess they're saying like, if you

2200
01:52:26,640 --> 01:52:29,519
Speaker 2: have a go fund me, and we done. Gave you

2201
01:52:29,640 --> 01:52:32,439
Speaker 2: some money or something, you gotta pay that back, Like

2202
01:52:32,600 --> 01:52:34,920
Speaker 2: we we gave you five thousand dollars, but then your

2203
01:52:34,960 --> 01:52:36,519
Speaker 2: go fund me raised six thousand dollars.

2204
01:52:36,560 --> 01:52:39,080
Speaker 3: You always five thousand dollars. That's crazy.

2205
01:52:39,640 --> 01:52:42,080
Speaker 2: And yeah, the fact that it's diproportunately affecting black people

2206
01:52:42,240 --> 01:52:44,440
Speaker 2: not surprising, but very disgusting.

2207
01:52:45,320 --> 01:52:47,759
Speaker 3: A mon left us two voicemails.

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01:52:50,320 --> 01:52:54,519
Speaker 6: Hey Ron, Hey Karen, and Celn. I'm just listening to

2209
01:52:54,880 --> 01:52:59,880
Speaker 6: a very old feck show back from January, I think

2210
01:53:00,280 --> 01:53:03,360
Speaker 6: etween eight forty six. But I just wanted to call

2211
01:53:03,400 --> 01:53:06,360
Speaker 6: in and say I appreciate it's really push track. He

2212
01:53:06,479 --> 01:53:10,000
Speaker 6: was just like you were just stating, resaying what you're

2213
01:53:10,080 --> 01:53:13,920
Speaker 6: talking about with the whole Joy Koy and Oscar situation

2214
01:53:14,240 --> 01:53:18,400
Speaker 6: and him quote unquote bombing and that, and the person

2215
01:53:18,439 --> 01:53:20,920
Speaker 6: who called him was like, oh, he's not funny, And

2216
01:53:21,600 --> 01:53:26,120
Speaker 6: to me, I was just like, uh, I don't know. Yeah,

2217
01:53:26,160 --> 01:53:26,960
Speaker 6: I took a bit of it.

2218
01:53:27,080 --> 01:53:28,679
Speaker 8: I was like, no, he is funny.

2219
01:53:28,720 --> 01:53:31,559
Speaker 6: I was just like just saying, he's not your brain

2220
01:53:31,680 --> 01:53:33,840
Speaker 6: of his band comedy, he's not your cup of tea.

2221
01:53:34,280 --> 01:53:36,519
Speaker 6: I was like, I don't understand why more people don't

2222
01:53:36,600 --> 01:53:39,599
Speaker 6: say that when it comes to comedian instead of just saying, oh,

2223
01:53:39,680 --> 01:53:42,200
Speaker 6: they're not funny, just say I didn't particularly find that

2224
01:53:42,400 --> 01:53:47,439
Speaker 6: joke funny or or their comedy just isn't my cup

2225
01:53:47,479 --> 01:53:49,600
Speaker 6: of tea, because it's like you people can say that

2226
01:53:49,720 --> 01:53:52,960
Speaker 6: about any in every comedian under the Sun's like, there's

2227
01:53:53,040 --> 01:53:57,160
Speaker 6: plenty of comedians who my husband finds twenty and I'm

2228
01:53:57,240 --> 01:53:59,760
Speaker 6: just like, I don't particularly find them funny. It's like,

2229
01:53:59,840 --> 01:54:02,160
Speaker 6: and that's okay that you trying this funny because it's

2230
01:54:02,240 --> 01:54:04,519
Speaker 6: like I just wouldn't go to their show. It's like

2231
01:54:04,600 --> 01:54:06,719
Speaker 6: we have mugged to go back and forth about certain

2232
01:54:06,760 --> 01:54:09,400
Speaker 6: people all the time, like no, they're just not franks me,

2233
01:54:09,600 --> 01:54:13,320
Speaker 6: or yeah they're frank to me, just like I don't

2234
01:54:13,320 --> 01:54:17,639
Speaker 6: know why people don't just say that, but yeah, that's

2235
01:54:17,680 --> 01:54:22,360
Speaker 6: all I'm called in for. But I appreciate you reitererating

2236
01:54:22,720 --> 01:54:25,120
Speaker 6: the point of it's not about whether you find them

2237
01:54:25,120 --> 01:54:29,439
Speaker 6: fire or night. It's about a bigger picture thing around comedy.

2238
01:54:29,600 --> 01:54:32,120
Speaker 6: All right, love you guys, bye, thank you.

2239
01:54:32,560 --> 01:54:34,920
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, I appreciate that because I just try to

2240
01:54:34,960 --> 01:54:39,040
Speaker 2: call balls and strikes and funny is subjective, and I

2241
01:54:39,200 --> 01:54:41,200
Speaker 2: just think we've gotten to a point. Now, nobody agrees

2242
01:54:41,200 --> 01:54:44,480
Speaker 2: on what's funny. Everybody's got their take, and everybody's got

2243
01:54:44,520 --> 01:54:45,440
Speaker 2: their point of view.

2244
01:54:46,280 --> 01:54:47,680
Speaker 3: Uh and partially because we.

2245
01:54:47,680 --> 01:54:52,120
Speaker 2: Don't have as many gatekeepers what your specific point of

2246
01:54:52,200 --> 01:54:54,760
Speaker 2: view is all that matters to funny because there's so

2247
01:54:54,880 --> 01:54:58,560
Speaker 2: much content. Yes, you know, I don't know anybody that

2248
01:54:58,640 --> 01:55:01,200
Speaker 2: thinks the same shit is funny any more. I Uh,

2249
01:55:01,440 --> 01:55:04,440
Speaker 2: sometimes I hit up Jail Covd because, uh, you know,

2250
01:55:04,760 --> 01:55:06,560
Speaker 2: he's always He's one of the few people I know

2251
01:55:06,640 --> 01:55:08,840
Speaker 2: that still watches a lot of specials, And normally if

2252
01:55:08,880 --> 01:55:11,920
Speaker 2: I've watched a special, he will at least have watched

2253
01:55:11,960 --> 01:55:14,720
Speaker 2: it or heard about it, right, And I'll hit him

2254
01:55:14,760 --> 01:55:17,200
Speaker 2: up when I think something is funny, and sometimes when

2255
01:55:17,240 --> 01:55:19,720
Speaker 2: something isn't funny, And you know, I have a lot

2256
01:55:19,720 --> 01:55:22,280
Speaker 2: of respect for his comedic opinion. But even we don't

2257
01:55:22,320 --> 01:55:27,040
Speaker 2: always agree, you know, because it's like there's every it's

2258
01:55:27,120 --> 01:55:30,480
Speaker 2: subjective to everybody. Everyone's looking at it for different things.

2259
01:55:30,600 --> 01:55:36,520
Speaker 2: I thought Pete Davison's special was funny, but also I

2260
01:55:37,440 --> 01:55:40,320
Speaker 2: don't live in a world where like Pete Davison is

2261
01:55:40,400 --> 01:55:43,040
Speaker 2: being treated as like a wonder kid that you know,

2262
01:55:43,320 --> 01:55:46,240
Speaker 2: that that that is you know, like blowing past everybody

2263
01:55:46,320 --> 01:55:47,240
Speaker 2: else's career.

2264
01:55:47,160 --> 01:55:49,560
Speaker 3: Because it's that, you know, I'm just looking at it.

2265
01:55:49,560 --> 01:55:50,440
Speaker 3: That's not a thing for me.

2266
01:55:50,760 --> 01:55:52,560
Speaker 2: I just was like I showed up. I would like

2267
01:55:52,680 --> 01:55:54,800
Speaker 2: to laugh, and I thought he said the things that

2268
01:55:54,880 --> 01:55:58,040
Speaker 2: made me laugh. And I don't know if people are

2269
01:55:58,120 --> 01:56:00,000
Speaker 2: treating it like it's transcendent or any I don't know

2270
01:56:00,200 --> 01:56:04,560
Speaker 2: anything about that shit, don't care. But I also used

2271
01:56:04,560 --> 01:56:09,960
Speaker 2: to laugh, like I thought Adam Sandler's comedy albums, you

2272
01:56:10,120 --> 01:56:14,440
Speaker 2: could not tell me there was anything funnier than this motherfucker.

2273
01:56:14,440 --> 01:56:16,880
Speaker 2: And I know if I go back and listen to him,

2274
01:56:16,880 --> 01:56:18,640
Speaker 2: I'll be like, well, I must have just been nineteen

2275
01:56:18,760 --> 01:56:23,240
Speaker 2: or whatever. But I have that shit memorized, you know

2276
01:56:23,280 --> 01:56:26,080
Speaker 2: what I mean? Like I had that shit memorized me

2277
01:56:26,160 --> 01:56:29,160
Speaker 2: and my friends would act out those skits whenever we

2278
01:56:29,280 --> 01:56:30,840
Speaker 2: saw each other. I still have a friend that calls

2279
01:56:30,880 --> 01:56:33,520
Speaker 2: me up to this day and does Fatty McGee walking

2280
01:56:33,600 --> 01:56:36,720
Speaker 2: up the stairs and we both cry, real tears come

2281
01:56:36,760 --> 01:56:37,480
Speaker 2: out of our eyes.

2282
01:56:38,440 --> 01:56:42,280
Speaker 3: But I feel like it's so subjective now that.

2283
01:56:43,920 --> 01:56:47,880
Speaker 2: I need to exist in a level of reality as

2284
01:56:47,960 --> 01:56:51,160
Speaker 2: I'm always fighting to do, And so I don't y'all

2285
01:56:51,200 --> 01:56:51,920
Speaker 2: hear it on the show.

2286
01:56:52,080 --> 01:56:54,120
Speaker 3: I don't say shit like Kevin Hard ain't funny.

2287
01:56:54,240 --> 01:56:56,920
Speaker 2: I don't say shit like that because I really be

2288
01:56:57,000 --> 01:57:01,000
Speaker 2: thinking to myself, like, if I don't like this, that's fine.

2289
01:57:01,160 --> 01:57:02,760
Speaker 3: I'm not even saying I don't like it. Stand up.

2290
01:57:02,840 --> 01:57:05,240
Speaker 3: But let's say I don't like it. Stand up. There's

2291
01:57:05,280 --> 01:57:06,800
Speaker 3: a fucking stadium of people.

2292
01:57:07,800 --> 01:57:08,120
Speaker 1: What am I?

2293
01:57:08,360 --> 01:57:10,880
Speaker 2: What am I trying to prove that I'm better than

2294
01:57:10,920 --> 01:57:14,000
Speaker 2: the stadium of people. It's either reality or not. It's

2295
01:57:14,080 --> 01:57:17,160
Speaker 2: like I don't like Chris Cross basketball style. I don't

2296
01:57:17,200 --> 01:57:18,960
Speaker 2: come on here and be like he ain't good. That's

2297
01:57:19,000 --> 01:57:21,840
Speaker 2: how I feel like people are now. Chris Rock was

2298
01:57:21,960 --> 01:57:24,640
Speaker 2: fucking Chris Rock, and I have people he was never funny.

2299
01:57:25,160 --> 01:57:27,920
Speaker 2: That's an insane thing to say to me. You don't

2300
01:57:27,960 --> 01:57:30,480
Speaker 2: have to like it, but that's he was that nigga

2301
01:57:30,920 --> 01:57:34,320
Speaker 2: at the top of the game. He was it just

2302
01:57:34,520 --> 01:57:38,720
Speaker 2: it was what it was, right, Eddie Murphy, you know

2303
01:57:38,920 --> 01:57:42,120
Speaker 2: now people now, I think people like The Specials because

2304
01:57:42,120 --> 01:57:45,320
Speaker 2: of what it says about them. And I think that's

2305
01:57:45,360 --> 01:57:47,800
Speaker 2: the part I drawed I pull up short on because

2306
01:57:47,840 --> 01:57:51,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, I never liked the I never liked the

2307
01:57:51,400 --> 01:57:53,360
Speaker 2: comedian because of what it said I'm not saying that's

2308
01:57:53,360 --> 01:57:55,480
Speaker 2: what this person that wrote in said, but I never

2309
01:57:55,680 --> 01:57:57,520
Speaker 2: liked the comedian because of what it said about me.

2310
01:57:59,000 --> 01:58:01,480
Speaker 1: I just to me, you just give props for they'll

2311
01:58:01,520 --> 01:58:05,600
Speaker 1: do yes, And I think I know I view comedy

2312
01:58:05,760 --> 01:58:09,640
Speaker 1: very differently. I do not think comedians have to say

2313
01:58:09,760 --> 01:58:12,520
Speaker 1: jokes and save shit in the premises that every fiber

2314
01:58:12,640 --> 01:58:14,680
Speaker 1: of my being has to be one hundred percent in

2315
01:58:14,840 --> 01:58:17,480
Speaker 1: lock with you. You know you can joke about shit

2316
01:58:17,600 --> 01:58:19,640
Speaker 1: that I don't have to be please. You do the

2317
01:58:19,760 --> 01:58:21,600
Speaker 1: job right, And the job at the end of the

2318
01:58:21,680 --> 01:58:23,360
Speaker 1: day for me is to make me laugh. I don't

2319
01:58:23,400 --> 01:58:27,640
Speaker 1: have all these extra things happening and all these well.

2320
01:58:27,520 --> 01:58:29,880
Speaker 2: I'll take it further, not just to make me laugh,

2321
01:58:30,400 --> 01:58:35,840
Speaker 2: to make people laugh, right, because I might not laugh. Agree,

2322
01:58:35,960 --> 01:58:39,760
Speaker 2: But if I look around everybody else laughing, you did

2323
01:58:39,840 --> 01:58:41,000
Speaker 2: the job and I can't.

2324
01:58:41,360 --> 01:58:43,480
Speaker 3: All I can say is I don't like it. I can't.

2325
01:58:43,600 --> 01:58:45,640
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say you're not funny.

2326
01:58:45,400 --> 01:58:47,960
Speaker 2: Right, I say, no, my jam, I don't subscribe to that.

2327
01:58:48,080 --> 01:58:50,240
Speaker 2: You can't punch down shit because it's not true.

2328
01:58:50,400 --> 01:58:51,000
Speaker 1: It's not true.

2329
01:58:51,160 --> 01:58:53,880
Speaker 3: See niggas punch down and people loved it.

2330
01:58:54,080 --> 01:58:57,160
Speaker 2: Yes, sir, we've seen. We've all seen it, so why

2331
01:58:57,200 --> 01:58:59,160
Speaker 2: am I gonna pretend that it's not real? You know?

2332
01:59:00,360 --> 01:59:03,000
Speaker 2: But yeah, you might not feel Joe Coy, I feel you.

2333
01:59:03,200 --> 01:59:05,160
Speaker 2: I haven't checked out a stand up like that. I'm

2334
01:59:05,200 --> 01:59:07,800
Speaker 2: not telling you you gotta like it. But I remember

2335
01:59:08,280 --> 01:59:10,760
Speaker 2: other comedians that I saw. This happened to Russell Peters

2336
01:59:10,880 --> 01:59:13,800
Speaker 2: was one where I heard his stand up album and

2337
01:59:14,040 --> 01:59:16,320
Speaker 2: was like, this nigga is funny.

2338
01:59:17,160 --> 01:59:19,000
Speaker 3: And then once I saw.

2339
01:59:19,160 --> 01:59:22,280
Speaker 2: People on the internet they hate him, and I'm like, well,

2340
01:59:23,240 --> 01:59:25,920
Speaker 2: you can't tell by his fucking bank account if you

2341
01:59:26,000 --> 01:59:27,160
Speaker 2: hate him, you know.

2342
01:59:27,560 --> 01:59:32,400
Speaker 3: So any you know my man Fluffy, you know, Iglacias like.

2343
01:59:32,800 --> 01:59:36,680
Speaker 1: Making a fucking killing all across the He'd been doing

2344
01:59:36,760 --> 01:59:37,960
Speaker 1: tours and all types of shit.

2345
01:59:38,080 --> 01:59:40,800
Speaker 3: Man, It's just you know, and I guess that's part

2346
01:59:40,840 --> 01:59:41,240
Speaker 3: of the game.

2347
01:59:41,360 --> 01:59:43,600
Speaker 2: You get big enough as an institution, people feel like

2348
01:59:43,720 --> 01:59:45,760
Speaker 2: they could take shots at you, and it should be

2349
01:59:45,840 --> 01:59:48,840
Speaker 2: fine because you're already institution. So like me, not liking

2350
01:59:48,920 --> 01:59:51,920
Speaker 2: George Lopez ain't hurting his pockets in no way. If

2351
01:59:52,280 --> 01:59:54,000
Speaker 2: that's the kind of person I am, I don't like

2352
01:59:54,120 --> 01:59:56,840
Speaker 2: him or whatever, But yeah, for me, I think I

2353
01:59:56,960 --> 01:59:59,920
Speaker 2: look at I still kind of look at comedy almost

2354
02:00:00,000 --> 02:00:02,960
Speaker 2: the way I look at sports, where I can begrudgingly

2355
02:00:03,000 --> 02:00:05,400
Speaker 2: give somebody their things and be like, yeah, you packed

2356
02:00:05,440 --> 02:00:08,960
Speaker 2: out that room and you made those people laugh, and

2357
02:00:09,560 --> 02:00:10,560
Speaker 2: I gotta give it up to you.

2358
02:00:10,920 --> 02:00:13,400
Speaker 3: And that was because that's hard as fuck to do.

2359
02:00:13,960 --> 02:00:15,920
Speaker 2: And that's why I don't even talk about industry plants

2360
02:00:15,920 --> 02:00:18,600
Speaker 2: and shit, because you can't plant a motherfucker in the

2361
02:00:18,720 --> 02:00:21,600
Speaker 2: industry and make everybody in the world go, I'm gonna

2362
02:00:21,600 --> 02:00:24,800
Speaker 2: go ahead and get these tickets, Like, if you don't

2363
02:00:24,840 --> 02:00:26,720
Speaker 2: funny to me, I'm never buying a ticket for your show.

2364
02:00:26,760 --> 02:00:28,320
Speaker 2: And it don't matter if the truth, It don't matter

2365
02:00:28,400 --> 02:00:31,120
Speaker 2: how many people tell you that this nigga's great. I

2366
02:00:31,640 --> 02:00:34,040
Speaker 2: think people think these people are funny, and we just

2367
02:00:34,120 --> 02:00:36,480
Speaker 2: need to deal with how do you feel about that?

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Speaker 2: You know it bothers me how funny some people think

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Speaker 2: Dave Chappelle's transhit is cause I'm like, I mostly find

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Speaker 2: the jokes to be beneath even him, like just cause

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Speaker 2: I don't find them to be clever or funny.

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Speaker 3: It sound like open mic jokes.

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Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna sit up here and be like,

2374
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Speaker 2: he's not a successful comedy, he's not a great comedian.

2375
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Speaker 3: And all that shit, because I'd be lying to you.

2376
02:00:58,160 --> 02:00:59,840
Speaker 2: I would be lying to you to tell you they

2377
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Speaker 2: give him twenty million dollars a fucking special to be,

2378
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Speaker 2: you know, because nobody want to watch it.

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Speaker 3: That's just not facts. She did, calling again, so I

2380
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Speaker 3: see what she said.

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Speaker 6: Yes, it's me again. I actually know another thing because

2382
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Speaker 6: I just thought I was thinking about. It's like, don't

2383
02:01:17,640 --> 02:01:20,160
Speaker 6: let Jail COVID blow up. It's like, because the moment

2384
02:01:20,280 --> 02:01:23,960
Speaker 6: something goes wrong, people are gonna be on the show

2385
02:01:24,200 --> 02:01:27,920
Speaker 6: calling in writing. Well, yeah, I never thought Jail was funny.

2386
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Speaker 6: I don't even understand why.

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Speaker 3: Y'all have more of the show.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, you are liars. You're liars. It's like, there

2389
02:01:33,000 --> 02:01:35,600
Speaker 6: are people who are funny, some people find them funny.

2390
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Speaker 6: They blow up sometimes, folks. It's like every comedian has

2391
02:01:39,480 --> 02:01:42,800
Speaker 6: a night where they borrow sometimes. It's like his main

2392
02:01:42,880 --> 02:01:46,440
Speaker 6: thing is that he definitely should not have just the writers,

2393
02:01:46,480 --> 02:01:49,600
Speaker 6: because every comic usually needs writers at some point in

2394
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Speaker 6: time because it's hard. It's hard to be funny, like

2395
02:01:53,040 --> 02:01:55,920
Speaker 6: around the clock all the time. It's like sometimes it

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02:01:56,080 --> 02:01:59,600
Speaker 6: just a jokes. It doesn't work out. But okay, all right,

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Speaker 6: I'm like I'm gonna like alone, all right, love you guys.

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Speaker 2: By Yeah, And comedy is just a hard job anyway,

2399
02:02:09,640 --> 02:02:12,640
Speaker 2: because everybody's always telling somebody day funny, and comedians are

2400
02:02:12,680 --> 02:02:14,440
Speaker 2: obsessed with the people that don't think they're funny.

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Speaker 3: I was trying to win one hundred percent of every

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02:02:16,640 --> 02:02:18,560
Speaker 3: room just about and that's impossible.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it does a lot to your brain. Man

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Speaker 2: uh Allego of US three voicemails.

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Speaker 5: Okay, hello Rod and Karen. It is alegra I am

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02:02:31,840 --> 02:02:36,480
Speaker 5: calling just randomly because I felt like I needed to

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Speaker 5: share a thought and the best place to share it

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Speaker 5: in My immediate thought was to you guys. I'm listening

2409
02:02:46,560 --> 02:02:48,960
Speaker 5: to I'm catching up on my episodes of The Daily

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Speaker 5: and I'm on the one dated January twenty fourth, which

2411
02:02:52,120 --> 02:02:56,120
Speaker 5: is talking about the GOP nomination. The title of it

2412
02:02:56,280 --> 02:03:00,080
Speaker 5: is the GOP Nomination is All but Over and and

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Speaker 5: it's talking about New Hampshire and how Nicki Haley did

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Speaker 5: very poorly there, and something struck for me. They're interviewing

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Speaker 5: people in New Hampshire and I'm going to make the assumption,

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Speaker 5: which I feel like is a fair one. Is it

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Speaker 5: predominantly white space or at least the people being interviewed were.

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Speaker 5: And one of the interviewees said something that really struck

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Speaker 5: for me, which was, I'm going to write in Biden

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Speaker 5: on my ballot because Nicki Haley didn't ask for my vote,

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Speaker 5: meaning the way that she campaigned over New Hampshire was

2422
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Speaker 5: basically half as you know, all these these folks do this.

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Speaker 5: They pick the states that they know they need the

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Speaker 5: most impact, and then they really go hard on that

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02:03:50,320 --> 02:03:54,160
Speaker 5: instead of focusing on the country at large. And I

2426
02:03:54,200 --> 02:03:57,240
Speaker 5: get it, I know, you know the details, Religiustics. I

2427
02:03:57,320 --> 02:03:58,960
Speaker 5: was going to get into a whole story about my

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02:03:59,160 --> 02:04:03,200
Speaker 5: history with voting, being a in the bubble privileged Californian

2429
02:04:03,800 --> 02:04:06,480
Speaker 5: born and raised, but that will be a story for

2430
02:04:06,520 --> 02:04:11,200
Speaker 5: another time. But it struck for me because it was like,

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02:04:12,520 --> 02:04:14,920
Speaker 5: this is a whole other perspective. This is such a

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02:04:15,160 --> 02:04:17,600
Speaker 5: white privileged thing. I mean, I'm glad that the person

2433
02:04:17,720 --> 02:04:21,400
Speaker 5: is voting for Biden rather than Trump, but like it's

2434
02:04:21,480 --> 02:04:24,040
Speaker 5: a whole like you have to ask.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I got off.

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Speaker 5: I mean, it's a leger. You know this anyway to

2437
02:04:31,680 --> 02:04:35,480
Speaker 5: my point, and it just it struck me the whole

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Speaker 5: asking for vote because our history as black people and

2439
02:04:39,760 --> 02:04:42,760
Speaker 5: our ancestors who fought for that vote are still fighting

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Speaker 5: for the fucking vote. We have to fight. No one's

2441
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Speaker 5: fucking really asking us like they do in this half

2442
02:04:49,920 --> 02:04:53,280
Speaker 5: assed we need the black people kind of way. And

2443
02:04:53,440 --> 02:04:57,400
Speaker 5: perhaps it's the same method as they do with white people,

2444
02:04:57,440 --> 02:05:00,680
Speaker 5: but for some reason, it just hit me hard when

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02:05:00,720 --> 02:05:02,880
Speaker 5: I heard the ask for the vote thing. It was

2446
02:05:03,000 --> 02:05:06,000
Speaker 5: kind of like, what, this is the thing that that

2447
02:05:06,440 --> 02:05:09,720
Speaker 5: you this interestific duty, this is the thing you know,

2448
02:05:09,880 --> 02:05:12,880
Speaker 5: you should be considering. And what if he was considering

2449
02:05:12,960 --> 02:05:17,040
Speaker 5: to voting for Trump because Trump asked for a vulte.

2450
02:05:17,360 --> 02:05:22,080
Speaker 5: I mean like, clearly this is me taking a pill

2451
02:05:22,320 --> 02:05:26,240
Speaker 5: for a headache that's not there. I mean again, the

2452
02:05:26,320 --> 02:05:28,680
Speaker 5: person's voting for Joe Biden or writing it in on

2453
02:05:28,800 --> 02:05:34,240
Speaker 5: his salad, which we all know cannot make good results.

2454
02:05:34,320 --> 02:05:38,040
Speaker 5: But whatever, it was just frustrating and I just so

2455
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Speaker 5: I just went down this whole ancestry like life and

2456
02:05:41,760 --> 02:05:48,280
Speaker 5: my ancestors flashed before my eyes and I was like yeah,

2457
02:05:48,440 --> 02:05:52,560
Speaker 5: and it just made me think about how fervent thesiaism

2458
02:05:52,800 --> 02:05:56,080
Speaker 5: are and I love that energy and I love that passion,

2459
02:05:57,000 --> 02:06:03,160
Speaker 5: and yeah, it just made me feel very like it

2460
02:06:03,360 --> 02:06:09,000
Speaker 5: just struck white privilege to me, that's all. I can't

2461
02:06:09,000 --> 02:06:10,200
Speaker 5: wait to hear what you guys have to say.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, as she called back with more time, it's.

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Speaker 5: A leger again. Sorry, I just wanted to make my

2464
02:06:19,880 --> 02:06:22,560
Speaker 5: thought more concise. I realized what I was truly angry

2465
02:06:22,600 --> 02:06:25,400
Speaker 5: about was what you guys have been saying all along

2466
02:06:25,600 --> 02:06:29,320
Speaker 5: is it's about feelings rather than about who the candidate

2467
02:06:29,560 --> 02:06:33,440
Speaker 5: is and whether they're worthy, or whether they're qualified, or

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Speaker 5: whether they're good.

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Speaker 10: For the people at large. Voting is about feelings, and

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02:06:39,160 --> 02:06:42,280
Speaker 10: that's what it struck me when they when that inter

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02:06:42,600 --> 02:06:46,520
Speaker 10: person being interviewed said they didn't ask for my vote.

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Speaker 5: I'm just kind of like, yeah, but like what do

2473
02:06:50,840 --> 02:06:51,160
Speaker 5: you do?

2474
02:06:53,160 --> 02:06:57,440
Speaker 10: Like, why does that matter? You want to use your

2475
02:06:57,560 --> 02:07:01,240
Speaker 10: civic duty to get the right person for the people

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02:07:02,240 --> 02:07:06,640
Speaker 10: in office. It's not about your fucking feelings. It's about

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02:07:06,720 --> 02:07:10,280
Speaker 10: what's good for the community, the community at large, which

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02:07:10,400 --> 02:07:13,560
Speaker 10: is the United States of America. Okay, that's really all.

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Speaker 3: I love you guys.

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02:07:16,240 --> 02:07:19,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with everything you said. I really don't

2481
02:07:19,760 --> 02:07:23,280
Speaker 2: have anything to add to it. It's that's exactly how

2482
02:07:23,320 --> 02:07:26,000
Speaker 2: I feel, and.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, it's always kind of rained white to me.

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02:07:31,000 --> 02:07:36,120
Speaker 2: The privilege of being like, I don't need to it

2485
02:07:36,280 --> 02:07:39,640
Speaker 2: needs to be about my feelings completely. This whole process

2486
02:07:40,760 --> 02:07:43,680
Speaker 2: it always felt like a very I don't know how

2487
02:07:43,720 --> 02:07:45,160
Speaker 2: to put it other than a white way to a

2488
02:07:45,280 --> 02:07:49,120
Speaker 2: very privileged, privileged not white, a very privileged way to

2489
02:07:49,320 --> 02:07:53,240
Speaker 2: view electoral politics is well, if it's not, if my

2490
02:07:53,360 --> 02:07:59,440
Speaker 2: feelings aren't completely satiated, there's no reason to truly acknowledge

2491
02:08:00,400 --> 02:08:02,280
Speaker 2: the dire peril that the world is going to be in.

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02:08:03,000 --> 02:08:05,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, so, there's a In my opinion, there's

2493
02:08:05,880 --> 02:08:10,839
Speaker 1: a lot of factors. Social media, just society has changed.

2494
02:08:10,920 --> 02:08:13,000
Speaker 1: You have the Internet, like, it's a lot of things

2495
02:08:13,040 --> 02:08:15,640
Speaker 1: that has happened over the course of the many, many,

2496
02:08:15,680 --> 02:08:21,440
Speaker 1: many decades of voting. You have, you know, people at

2497
02:08:21,520 --> 02:08:28,640
Speaker 1: different economic levels who do not associate you put out this.

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02:08:28,720 --> 02:08:31,480
Speaker 1: You have people that are privileged and in their quote

2499
02:08:31,560 --> 02:08:35,480
Speaker 1: unquote privileged perspective, they can think of things that are

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02:08:35,640 --> 02:08:38,720
Speaker 1: bigger than the economy and actually stick to those points

2501
02:08:38,800 --> 02:08:41,520
Speaker 1: and not really care about the consequences and the repercussions

2502
02:08:41,560 --> 02:08:44,320
Speaker 1: other than those things. Then you have people that their

2503
02:08:44,360 --> 02:08:47,640
Speaker 1: everyday life is directly impacted by the decisions that are

2504
02:08:47,760 --> 02:08:50,680
Speaker 1: impacted in the economy. And so their thing is how

2505
02:08:50,840 --> 02:08:52,800
Speaker 1: is the economy doing? And that will make and break

2506
02:08:52,880 --> 02:08:55,360
Speaker 1: and determine how they vote. And you literally have these

2507
02:08:55,440 --> 02:08:59,400
Speaker 1: two subsections of people voting in addition with social media,

2508
02:08:59,480 --> 02:09:01,680
Speaker 1: and addition when people finding their homes and finding their

2509
02:09:01,760 --> 02:09:04,480
Speaker 1: clique and being in their delusions on both sides on

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02:09:04,640 --> 02:09:09,280
Speaker 1: what they think the important things are. And also the

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02:09:09,440 --> 02:09:11,760
Speaker 1: cameras and the phones and shit point at us now.

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02:09:12,160 --> 02:09:14,760
Speaker 1: And so everything has told us that we are the

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02:09:14,880 --> 02:09:18,200
Speaker 1: most important thing that matters. And so if everybody thinks

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02:09:18,240 --> 02:09:21,960
Speaker 1: that they are the most important thing that matters, everything

2515
02:09:22,120 --> 02:09:25,560
Speaker 1: about me is the most important thing. The sun revolves

2516
02:09:25,640 --> 02:09:29,240
Speaker 1: around me as an individual person. So for a lot

2517
02:09:29,280 --> 02:09:31,440
Speaker 1: of the people, a lot of people, if they're not

2518
02:09:31,560 --> 02:09:34,720
Speaker 1: aware of it, they're impacted by this. If somebody comes

2519
02:09:34,760 --> 02:09:36,680
Speaker 1: to say I want your vote, a lot of people

2520
02:09:36,720 --> 02:09:39,000
Speaker 1: gonna be like, well, why why do you want my vote?

2521
02:09:39,080 --> 02:09:41,440
Speaker 1: You need to prove to me. You need to make

2522
02:09:41,520 --> 02:09:44,400
Speaker 1: me feel that since I think I'm the most important

2523
02:09:44,440 --> 02:09:47,680
Speaker 1: thing on the planet, you need to make me feel

2524
02:09:47,800 --> 02:09:51,160
Speaker 1: as though if I vote for you, that my vote

2525
02:09:51,320 --> 02:09:55,680
Speaker 1: means quote unquote means something. Versus looking at the totality,

2526
02:09:55,840 --> 02:09:59,600
Speaker 1: like she said of society, as a whole and a

2527
02:09:59,680 --> 02:10:03,960
Speaker 1: mayor ya as a populist is no, it's about me,

2528
02:10:04,520 --> 02:10:07,080
Speaker 1: And so you have a lot of people who think

2529
02:10:07,160 --> 02:10:08,880
Speaker 1: it is only about them. And also I heard the

2530
02:10:08,920 --> 02:10:10,760
Speaker 1: episode that she was talking about on the daily and

2531
02:10:10,840 --> 02:10:12,480
Speaker 1: not tally funny. These are people that are voting in

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02:10:12,520 --> 02:10:16,080
Speaker 1: the caucus. Most people do not vote in Caucasus. I

2533
02:10:16,080 --> 02:10:17,920
Speaker 1: don't mean no harm. Most people don't. They just do

2534
02:10:18,080 --> 02:10:20,360
Speaker 1: not vote in them. They vote on like general elections

2535
02:10:20,360 --> 02:10:21,960
Speaker 1: and shit like this. They do not take you time

2536
02:10:22,080 --> 02:10:24,520
Speaker 1: to go and vote in Caucasus. So for people that

2537
02:10:24,680 --> 02:10:26,600
Speaker 1: vote in these things, people that have voted in these

2538
02:10:26,640 --> 02:10:31,240
Speaker 1: things for decades, particularly in the place where the caucases start,

2539
02:10:31,680 --> 02:10:34,480
Speaker 1: these people really think they're the most fucking important people

2540
02:10:34,600 --> 02:10:37,720
Speaker 1: in the whole world, because they go, we're Republicans, and

2541
02:10:37,880 --> 02:10:41,840
Speaker 1: everything starts with us, and we're up a place where

2542
02:10:41,880 --> 02:10:44,120
Speaker 1: the rest of the country actually looks at us. Media

2543
02:10:44,200 --> 02:10:47,840
Speaker 1: is here, everything is about us. So, of course, not

2544
02:10:47,960 --> 02:10:49,880
Speaker 1: tally funny. Of course, a lot of these people feel

2545
02:10:49,960 --> 02:10:51,720
Speaker 1: like you need to ask for my vote, You need

2546
02:10:51,800 --> 02:10:54,280
Speaker 1: to tell me why my vote is the fucking most

2547
02:10:54,320 --> 02:10:56,919
Speaker 1: important if I'm gonna cast my vote for you, Particularly

2548
02:10:56,960 --> 02:10:58,560
Speaker 1: in the caccus type of situation.

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02:11:00,080 --> 02:11:03,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree with everything you just said. All right,

2550
02:11:04,160 --> 02:11:05,400
Speaker 3: it's one last segment.

2551
02:11:06,400 --> 02:11:09,240
Speaker 2: Know what it is. We gotta talk about the emails.

2552
02:11:38,520 --> 02:11:41,880
Speaker 2: One of my favorite beats, Heart Too is the name

2553
02:11:41,920 --> 02:11:48,320
Speaker 2: of that beat. All right, let's talk about the emails. Hi,

2554
02:11:48,920 --> 02:11:53,040
Speaker 2: Rod and Carrie. I'm tasked my first time writing. Oh

2555
02:11:53,120 --> 02:11:55,520
Speaker 2: my fucking god, I love you too. I've been listening

2556
02:11:55,560 --> 02:11:57,840
Speaker 2: to you to uh for about a year now. I

2557
02:11:58,000 --> 02:11:59,760
Speaker 2: listen to you guys on the way to work every

2558
02:11:59,840 --> 02:12:02,640
Speaker 2: day a day, faithfully, even on my off days.

2559
02:12:03,160 --> 02:12:05,560
Speaker 3: Lol. My kids even know when they in the car

2560
02:12:05,720 --> 02:12:06,960
Speaker 3: it's Rod and Karen's time.

2561
02:12:08,960 --> 02:12:11,280
Speaker 1: Hey, kids, how y'all doing. I know y'all like what's

2562
02:12:11,320 --> 02:12:11,920
Speaker 1: happening here?

2563
02:12:12,240 --> 02:12:15,400
Speaker 3: But okay, so you know it's Black History Month. I'm

2564
02:12:15,400 --> 02:12:15,760
Speaker 3: a server.

2565
02:12:15,920 --> 02:12:19,080
Speaker 2: One of my coworkers, white women, had a two hundred

2566
02:12:19,120 --> 02:12:21,120
Speaker 2: dollars walkout and they was black. But one of the

2567
02:12:21,200 --> 02:12:24,360
Speaker 2: black services said, as a joke, well, it is Black

2568
02:12:24,480 --> 02:12:28,640
Speaker 2: History Month. Maybe they're time they're getting their reparations. Sorry,

2569
02:12:28,800 --> 02:12:31,520
Speaker 2: it was funny, but the white woman said, while y'all

2570
02:12:32,280 --> 02:12:35,240
Speaker 2: need to fuck folks, y'all need to fuck it. I

2571
02:12:35,520 --> 02:12:37,600
Speaker 2: get the fuck over it by now. It's been a

2572
02:12:37,680 --> 02:12:38,480
Speaker 2: thousand years.

2573
02:12:39,000 --> 02:12:42,440
Speaker 3: I'm in my head right, I'm in my right right.

2574
02:12:45,000 --> 02:12:45,680
Speaker 1: The nerves.

2575
02:12:46,080 --> 02:12:49,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, how cool are y'all? How cool?

2576
02:12:49,360 --> 02:12:49,920
Speaker 1: How you cool?

2577
02:12:49,920 --> 02:12:52,440
Speaker 3: Are y'all with this white server? Because I feel like, uh,

2578
02:12:53,000 --> 02:12:53,800
Speaker 3: you know that could be.

2579
02:12:57,760 --> 02:13:01,800
Speaker 2: But she said, I'm in my head thinking, I've been

2580
02:13:01,840 --> 02:13:03,880
Speaker 2: with this company for ten years, getting paid two dollars

2581
02:13:03,960 --> 02:13:05,640
Speaker 2: and thirty three cents an hour with tips.

2582
02:13:06,160 --> 02:13:08,240
Speaker 3: They make you step down from a shift.

2583
02:13:08,040 --> 02:13:10,440
Speaker 2: Lead to a server and you getting paid fifteen dollars

2584
02:13:10,480 --> 02:13:13,560
Speaker 2: an hour and tips and been here six years, maybe

2585
02:13:13,600 --> 02:13:14,120
Speaker 2: even less.

2586
02:13:14,520 --> 02:13:16,160
Speaker 3: But I need to get over it. I just want

2587
02:13:16,200 --> 02:13:18,880
Speaker 3: to know, what do you think about this? What I think?

2588
02:13:19,000 --> 02:13:23,880
Speaker 3: I think? Yeah, I think I'm with you. I be

2589
02:13:24,000 --> 02:13:27,880
Speaker 3: mad if all you too. She got white privilege. It's suck.

2590
02:13:27,960 --> 02:13:29,880
Speaker 2: She had a two hundred dollars walkout. I hope y'all don't.

2591
02:13:29,920 --> 02:13:31,680
Speaker 2: Aren't a place where y'all have to pay for the

2592
02:13:31,760 --> 02:13:33,839
Speaker 2: people that walk out, because I always feel like that's.

2593
02:13:34,320 --> 02:13:35,000
Speaker 3: Beyond the pair.

2594
02:13:35,120 --> 02:13:38,400
Speaker 2: I quit, yes, sir, and shit, yeah I'm not. I'm

2595
02:13:38,440 --> 02:13:40,440
Speaker 2: not giving y'all tw hundred dollars because of these motherfucker.

2596
02:13:40,440 --> 02:13:42,440
Speaker 2: I'm not security, nigga. I just bring the food to

2597
02:13:42,520 --> 02:13:46,040
Speaker 2: the tape, right, but uh, I don't know she's sound racist.

2598
02:13:46,560 --> 02:13:49,560
Speaker 3: It was a hundred you know what I mean?

2599
02:13:50,080 --> 02:13:52,320
Speaker 1: Your car race? Yeah, what do you think can I'm sorry,

2600
02:13:52,920 --> 02:13:56,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm one hundred in agreeance and you know,

2601
02:13:56,640 --> 02:14:00,800
Speaker 1: and not to me funny suvage 'all and things like this.

2602
02:14:01,880 --> 02:14:04,400
Speaker 1: It's kind of a weird thing because they don't it's

2603
02:14:04,560 --> 02:14:07,400
Speaker 1: a quote unquote job. But it's not like corporate America

2604
02:14:07,400 --> 02:14:10,360
Speaker 1: and shit like this, where you could where there's consequences

2605
02:14:10,400 --> 02:14:13,400
Speaker 1: of repercussions for just outlandishly saying shit like this. That's

2606
02:14:13,440 --> 02:14:15,320
Speaker 1: why they felt like they could say it because they

2607
02:14:15,360 --> 02:14:18,600
Speaker 1: knew there would be no repercussions behind the words coming

2608
02:14:18,640 --> 02:14:20,600
Speaker 1: out of their mouths. But you know, you cannot say

2609
02:14:20,600 --> 02:14:23,160
Speaker 1: that in corporate America because somebody will be like, hey, bitch,

2610
02:14:23,240 --> 02:14:26,040
Speaker 1: the fuck you talking about? You know? And so it's

2611
02:14:26,240 --> 02:14:29,960
Speaker 1: it's it's a different than this is why me personally,

2612
02:14:30,680 --> 02:14:33,680
Speaker 1: anybody's talked about this fucking get rid of tips and

2613
02:14:33,800 --> 02:14:39,000
Speaker 1: then just pay your people, just pay people flat out. Uh,

2614
02:14:39,360 --> 02:14:41,360
Speaker 1: not that you gonna get rid of racism, but you know,

2615
02:14:41,480 --> 02:14:43,120
Speaker 1: it's it's still one of them things. It's just it's

2616
02:14:43,200 --> 02:14:46,080
Speaker 1: just a fucked up industry in my opinion all together.

2617
02:14:48,160 --> 02:14:50,440
Speaker 1: And Yeah, the reason why they said that because they

2618
02:14:50,480 --> 02:14:52,440
Speaker 1: knew it would be no consequences because of their actions,

2619
02:14:52,480 --> 02:14:54,000
Speaker 1: and they know that most of the time they could

2620
02:14:54,080 --> 02:14:56,760
Speaker 1: just say that shit and won't nobody fucking bolly wop

2621
02:14:56,840 --> 02:14:57,720
Speaker 1: them across the floor.

2622
02:14:58,080 --> 02:15:00,720
Speaker 2: Also, because y'all were joking, She's gonna say I was

2623
02:15:00,800 --> 02:15:03,120
Speaker 2: just making a joke too. I don't know why y'all

2624
02:15:03,160 --> 02:15:06,000
Speaker 2: take yourself personal. If y'all could joke like that, why

2625
02:15:06,080 --> 02:15:08,120
Speaker 2: can't I? And probably sound like this if you.

2626
02:15:08,120 --> 02:15:11,280
Speaker 1: Confront her to turn around and say, I ain't racist?

2627
02:15:12,200 --> 02:15:13,440
Speaker 6: What's it going to do with me?

2628
02:15:14,080 --> 02:15:14,960
Speaker 5: I'm okay?

2629
02:15:15,280 --> 02:15:18,840
Speaker 1: How can I be racist about anybody? How can I

2630
02:15:19,000 --> 02:15:25,360
Speaker 1: be racist about anybody or anything in my life? Yeah,

2631
02:15:25,480 --> 02:15:27,240
Speaker 1: and not to find the nerve of you saying this,

2632
02:15:27,360 --> 02:15:29,080
Speaker 1: We'll not tying funny bitch. You need the job too,

2633
02:15:29,080 --> 02:15:29,920
Speaker 1: Why else is you here?

2634
02:15:31,680 --> 02:15:33,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, probably would say, uh.

2635
02:15:34,000 --> 02:15:38,720
Speaker 4: Come down or not and look like a petty little

2636
02:15:38,800 --> 02:15:44,080
Speaker 4: brat by tweeting and Facebook keyness just to open up dialogue.

2637
02:15:43,600 --> 02:15:47,800
Speaker 3: So we can have a conversations in America.

2638
02:15:47,960 --> 02:15:52,400
Speaker 2: You should be ashamed, So I guess you see, Yeah,

2639
02:15:52,400 --> 02:15:55,320
Speaker 2: it work tomorrow. Doug says the sex scene convo in

2640
02:15:55,440 --> 02:15:58,240
Speaker 2: the episode twenty eight to fifty three reminded me of

2641
02:15:58,320 --> 02:16:00,800
Speaker 2: a recent episode of Bitches on Common. The link to

2642
02:16:00,920 --> 02:16:03,880
Speaker 2: the relevant conversation, which I won't try to summarize with

2643
02:16:03,920 --> 02:16:05,040
Speaker 2: the whole episode's.

2644
02:16:04,640 --> 02:16:08,800
Speaker 3: Grave you have time. I saved it in my uh Spotify.

2645
02:16:08,920 --> 02:16:12,160
Speaker 2: It seems to be episode one seventy seven, so if

2646
02:16:12,240 --> 02:16:14,760
Speaker 2: you guys want to hear that conversation, you can listen

2647
02:16:14,760 --> 02:16:19,000
Speaker 2: to it. And Mandy says Grammys, Dear Rod and Karen,

2648
02:16:20,240 --> 02:16:23,280
Speaker 2: I feel perplexed about the speech jay Z gave at

2649
02:16:23,320 --> 02:16:26,560
Speaker 2: the Grammys. He is right, the Grammys need to get

2650
02:16:26,560 --> 02:16:28,640
Speaker 2: it right because they always got it wrong, like not

2651
02:16:28,840 --> 02:16:31,880
Speaker 2: giving artists like Diana Ross, Holling old Snoop Dog, et

2652
02:16:31,920 --> 02:16:35,080
Speaker 2: Cetera an award and to keep Taylor's four Album of

2653
02:16:35,120 --> 02:16:37,360
Speaker 2: the Year Grammys and not another artist like Sizza.

2654
02:16:37,480 --> 02:16:39,440
Speaker 3: But his speech was very arrogant.

2655
02:16:40,840 --> 02:16:44,800
Speaker 2: I compare it to like someone comes to someone's house

2656
02:16:45,360 --> 02:16:48,040
Speaker 2: that is giving them a special dinner, but to disrespect

2657
02:16:48,080 --> 02:16:50,199
Speaker 2: the host by talking down to them and complaining about

2658
02:16:50,280 --> 02:16:53,160
Speaker 2: not getting the pie when you wanted the cake. Y'allta

2659
02:16:53,200 --> 02:16:55,200
Speaker 2: be thankful if someone thought of you, invited you to

2660
02:16:55,240 --> 02:16:57,960
Speaker 2: their house and honored. They could have given that to

2661
02:16:58,040 --> 02:17:00,400
Speaker 2: a rapper like Curtis Blow or someone that can out

2662
02:17:00,440 --> 02:17:02,600
Speaker 2: during the beginning of the rap He has like twenty

2663
02:17:02,640 --> 02:17:05,640
Speaker 2: four Grammys in Beyonce has thirty two, and he is

2664
02:17:05,720 --> 02:17:07,880
Speaker 2: complaining about her not receiving an Album of the Year.

2665
02:17:08,560 --> 02:17:10,400
Speaker 2: I get it that Beyonce should have won Album of

2666
02:17:10,440 --> 02:17:13,720
Speaker 2: a Year for Lemonade, but she never went home empty handed.

2667
02:17:13,840 --> 02:17:14,680
Speaker 3: Never yet.

2668
02:17:14,800 --> 02:17:17,840
Speaker 2: I always know that no black woman has not win

2669
02:17:17,959 --> 02:17:19,879
Speaker 2: the Album of the Year since Lawnce Hill since nineteen

2670
02:17:19,959 --> 02:17:24,720
Speaker 2: ninety nine, no rap album has one that since Outcast

2671
02:17:24,800 --> 02:17:27,320
Speaker 2: in two thousand and four. I get it, but he

2672
02:17:27,360 --> 02:17:30,119
Speaker 2: could have been humble in this speech. I wonder if

2673
02:17:30,200 --> 02:17:33,040
Speaker 2: he's was talking about Killer Mike when he said some

2674
02:17:33,240 --> 02:17:37,800
Speaker 2: of you should not have been nominated in any category. Well, now,

2675
02:17:37,879 --> 02:17:39,640
Speaker 2: he didn't say some of you should not have been

2676
02:17:39,720 --> 02:17:43,200
Speaker 2: nominated in any category. He said in the category and

2677
02:17:43,600 --> 02:17:46,040
Speaker 2: he definitely wasn't talking about Killer Mike then, because Killer

2678
02:17:46,120 --> 02:17:50,039
Speaker 2: Mike won Rap Album Grammys, not like I.

2679
02:17:50,080 --> 02:17:51,960
Speaker 3: Think he was talking more. I was talking to be

2680
02:17:52,120 --> 02:17:53,240
Speaker 3: up to a BOSSI about this.

2681
02:17:54,000 --> 02:17:56,400
Speaker 2: I don't think he was dissing any artists for being

2682
02:17:56,480 --> 02:17:59,840
Speaker 2: nominated in the wrong category. He's dissing the Grammys for

2683
02:18:00,160 --> 02:18:02,960
Speaker 2: putting artists in the wrong categories like they did with

2684
02:18:03,080 --> 02:18:05,640
Speaker 2: Tyler the Creator a couple of years ago when he

2685
02:18:05,800 --> 02:18:08,160
Speaker 2: made an album that was an alternative album and they

2686
02:18:08,200 --> 02:18:10,720
Speaker 2: still put him in the rap category. And Tyler the

2687
02:18:10,800 --> 02:18:12,960
Speaker 2: Creator came out and said that was a rap that

2688
02:18:13,080 --> 02:18:15,280
Speaker 2: was not a rap album. So I think that's what

2689
02:18:15,400 --> 02:18:18,280
Speaker 2: jay Z's talking about. So still pointing that the Grammys

2690
02:18:18,360 --> 02:18:21,720
Speaker 2: not individual artists. He basically just other artists in the Grammys.

2691
02:18:21,760 --> 02:18:25,040
Speaker 2: But he wouldn't have that same heat for the NAACP Awards. No,

2692
02:18:25,120 --> 02:18:29,400
Speaker 2: the BT Awards. Yeah, because the BT Awards probably would

2693
02:18:29,600 --> 02:18:34,400
Speaker 2: not have Not the BT Awards, I'm sure have given

2694
02:18:34,640 --> 02:18:36,560
Speaker 2: Beyonce Album of the Year and all that shit. B

2695
02:18:36,760 --> 02:18:39,680
Speaker 2: T Awards gets the black stuff right for the most part.

2696
02:18:39,760 --> 02:18:42,760
Speaker 2: The stuff they don't get right is the alternative black

2697
02:18:42,840 --> 02:18:48,760
Speaker 2: stuff like rock and roll and other genres of blackness

2698
02:18:48,800 --> 02:18:52,800
Speaker 2: that aren't rap. Gospel, and R and B seem to

2699
02:18:52,840 --> 02:18:54,840
Speaker 2: be on the fringes of the BT Awards. So they

2700
02:18:54,879 --> 02:18:57,000
Speaker 2: have a different issue that I don't think jay Z

2701
02:18:57,120 --> 02:18:59,480
Speaker 2: would necessarily bring up, But if one of those artists

2702
02:18:59,520 --> 02:19:01,680
Speaker 2: brought it up, I wouldn't be mad if Lenny Kravitz

2703
02:19:01,879 --> 02:19:05,560
Speaker 2: went to the BT Awards or got nominated for like

2704
02:19:06,160 --> 02:19:09,240
Speaker 2: Rock and Music Icon, and he gave a speech about

2705
02:19:09,240 --> 02:19:11,040
Speaker 2: how they been doing rock and roll wrong at the

2706
02:19:11,120 --> 02:19:14,240
Speaker 2: BT Awards for over twenty thirty forty years. I'd be like,

2707
02:19:14,440 --> 02:19:16,959
Speaker 2: that's a valid speech. I wouldn't feel the way you feel.

2708
02:19:16,959 --> 02:19:19,080
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be like, why is it he being humble?

2709
02:19:19,160 --> 02:19:22,279
Speaker 2: But some people would like to see him be humble

2710
02:19:22,360 --> 02:19:26,400
Speaker 2: and gracious, even if you know he had misgivings. I

2711
02:19:26,480 --> 02:19:28,880
Speaker 2: think once you get that stage, that show minute or

2712
02:19:28,920 --> 02:19:33,360
Speaker 2: whatever to give your speech, that's what it is. You know,

2713
02:19:33,640 --> 02:19:37,080
Speaker 2: can't be worried about. If you want to speak that truth,

2714
02:19:37,200 --> 02:19:39,240
Speaker 2: sometimes you got to. You gotta take the hit for it.

2715
02:19:39,480 --> 02:19:41,280
Speaker 2: Some people not gonna like it, Like you didn't seem

2716
02:19:41,320 --> 02:19:44,199
Speaker 2: to like his speech, but ninety percent of our audience

2717
02:19:44,240 --> 02:19:44,480
Speaker 2: said it.

2718
02:19:44,600 --> 02:19:45,120
Speaker 3: They liked it.

2719
02:19:45,440 --> 02:19:48,560
Speaker 2: So you just concentrate on the ninety percent. Let the

2720
02:19:48,600 --> 02:19:52,720
Speaker 2: ten percent be mad or non plus uh. In life,

2721
02:19:52,760 --> 02:19:53,320
Speaker 2: you can't get.

2722
02:19:53,240 --> 02:19:54,080
Speaker 3: Everything every time.

2723
02:19:54,200 --> 02:19:56,760
Speaker 2: And him showing to his daughter this type of behavior,

2724
02:19:57,200 --> 02:19:59,600
Speaker 2: you are to be arrogant and disrespectful to get recognition.

2725
02:19:59,640 --> 02:20:03,920
Speaker 3: It's not good. I don't think he. I didn't.

2726
02:20:04,680 --> 02:20:07,640
Speaker 2: I never picked up him him being arrogant and disrespectful.

2727
02:20:08,600 --> 02:20:11,360
Speaker 2: So I think that's a matter like that's how you

2728
02:20:11,560 --> 02:20:14,520
Speaker 2: took it, that's your perception of it. I thought when

2729
02:20:14,560 --> 02:20:17,360
Speaker 2: he talked about being nervous when he held her hand,

2730
02:20:18,240 --> 02:20:22,840
Speaker 2: that's not arrogance to me. That's not giving me. Uh,

2731
02:20:24,280 --> 02:20:27,800
Speaker 2: that's not giving me disrespect. That that meant something that

2732
02:20:27,959 --> 02:20:28,920
Speaker 2: was very human to me.

2733
02:20:30,200 --> 02:20:30,600
Speaker 3: I don't know.

2734
02:20:30,760 --> 02:20:33,360
Speaker 2: Guys, just wonder, like, why be disrespectful yet show up

2735
02:20:33,400 --> 02:20:36,480
Speaker 2: to Distogrammys that gave you the Mass Awards If you

2736
02:20:36,520 --> 02:20:38,800
Speaker 2: don't like their metrics, he or any artists can always

2737
02:20:38,879 --> 02:20:42,600
Speaker 2: choose to not have the album or song submitted for consideration.

2738
02:20:42,879 --> 02:20:46,360
Speaker 1: Like I said, And you have the right to feel

2739
02:20:46,400 --> 02:20:50,360
Speaker 1: like you do. But also this for a lot of people,

2740
02:20:51,120 --> 02:20:54,920
Speaker 1: this is their where they get their accolades, Like they

2741
02:20:55,040 --> 02:20:57,200
Speaker 1: work hard, and this is the stage where they get

2742
02:20:57,240 --> 02:21:01,400
Speaker 1: rewarded for their hard work amongst them peers and coworkers

2743
02:21:01,480 --> 02:21:06,120
Speaker 1: and shit like that. And my thing is is I

2744
02:21:06,160 --> 02:21:09,440
Speaker 1: did not feel like it was disrespectful. Uh. I didn't

2745
02:21:09,440 --> 02:21:12,240
Speaker 1: have a problem with it at all. Uh. And I

2746
02:21:12,640 --> 02:21:15,600
Speaker 1: understand why you do, but but I don't feel that way.

2747
02:21:15,760 --> 02:21:19,840
Speaker 1: I feel like and like I say, just like you're projecting,

2748
02:21:19,879 --> 02:21:21,320
Speaker 1: I'm getting ready to project to un just you know,

2749
02:21:21,320 --> 02:21:23,640
Speaker 1: I'm get ready to project to Why is it that

2750
02:21:24,680 --> 02:21:26,920
Speaker 1: when it comes to black and brown people, we are

2751
02:21:27,000 --> 02:21:29,440
Speaker 1: always actual to be humble, We're always actually shut up,

2752
02:21:29,879 --> 02:21:32,600
Speaker 1: we are always asked to fold ourselves down, we are

2753
02:21:32,600 --> 02:21:35,840
Speaker 1: always asked to be small, we are always actually behave right.

2754
02:21:36,240 --> 02:21:38,280
Speaker 1: We are always asked to do the right thing in

2755
02:21:38,320 --> 02:21:40,160
Speaker 1: front of these white people and don't make them feel

2756
02:21:40,200 --> 02:21:42,279
Speaker 1: bad or with shame about the bullshit and the actions

2757
02:21:42,320 --> 02:21:45,680
Speaker 1: that they've done to us and the injustices that they've done,

2758
02:21:45,920 --> 02:21:48,440
Speaker 1: because like, like I said, this is just me and

2759
02:21:48,560 --> 02:21:50,320
Speaker 1: how I'm feeling about it. So I don't have a

2760
02:21:50,360 --> 02:21:52,880
Speaker 1: problem with this. And the thing is, jay Z. I

2761
02:21:53,000 --> 02:21:56,000
Speaker 1: feel like jay Z is talking from a place of privilege.

2762
02:21:56,280 --> 02:21:58,600
Speaker 1: And I don't think it's arrogance. It's privilege. Why I

2763
02:21:58,640 --> 02:22:01,480
Speaker 1: say it's privilege, It's because he has won the awards.

2764
02:22:01,520 --> 02:22:03,240
Speaker 1: He has played the game. That's the thing. He has

2765
02:22:03,400 --> 02:22:04,199
Speaker 1: played the game.

2766
02:22:04,520 --> 02:22:04,800
Speaker 3: All this.

2767
02:22:05,160 --> 02:22:07,880
Speaker 1: Be quiet and be humble and don't say shit. He

2768
02:22:08,120 --> 02:22:10,960
Speaker 1: has done that. He's done it for decades. And so

2769
02:22:12,080 --> 02:22:15,240
Speaker 1: for him him saying this, he has no consequences and

2770
02:22:15,520 --> 02:22:18,520
Speaker 1: or repercussions to speaking out. Unlike other people, there are

2771
02:22:18,600 --> 02:22:22,240
Speaker 1: consequences of repercussions to speaking out and speaking your truth

2772
02:22:22,320 --> 02:22:25,040
Speaker 1: and telling your truth and things like that. And he

2773
02:22:25,160 --> 02:22:28,480
Speaker 1: understands this, and he knows this, and BEYONCEA is his wife,

2774
02:22:28,520 --> 02:22:31,000
Speaker 1: and he has the right to say, Hey, I see

2775
02:22:31,040 --> 02:22:32,760
Speaker 1: the bullshit that y'all did to my wife. I got

2776
02:22:32,800 --> 02:22:34,360
Speaker 1: the right to talk about it. It did not come

2777
02:22:34,400 --> 02:22:37,160
Speaker 1: from Beyonce's mouth. This is the things that he chose

2778
02:22:37,280 --> 02:22:42,000
Speaker 1: to do on that stage with his time. And like

2779
02:22:42,120 --> 02:22:45,440
Speaker 1: I said, maybe it's just me. I just really get

2780
02:22:45,560 --> 02:22:48,200
Speaker 1: sick and tired of people always trying to tell other

2781
02:22:48,240 --> 02:22:50,640
Speaker 1: people how they should act and behave when it's their

2782
02:22:50,720 --> 02:22:53,720
Speaker 1: time to shine with these situations like this, Like I

2783
02:22:53,800 --> 02:22:56,440
Speaker 1: do understand there are people, Yes, there is a time

2784
02:22:56,480 --> 02:22:58,240
Speaker 1: where I do think people are ervicans and blah blah

2785
02:22:58,280 --> 02:22:59,760
Speaker 1: blah blahlah bah. I don't think that this was the time.

2786
02:23:00,000 --> 02:23:03,040
Speaker 1: I don't think his speech was a very arrogant type

2787
02:23:03,080 --> 02:23:06,600
Speaker 1: of speech. You know that he was giving like a

2788
02:23:06,720 --> 02:23:07,920
Speaker 1: fuck you, fucking middle finger.

2789
02:23:08,200 --> 02:23:11,279
Speaker 2: I did not get agree, especially especially when he stops

2790
02:23:11,840 --> 02:23:14,200
Speaker 2: to say we love y'all five times in a row.

2791
02:23:14,879 --> 02:23:18,280
Speaker 2: That's not that's not arrogance in disrespect to me. He said,

2792
02:23:18,320 --> 02:23:20,000
Speaker 2: we love y'all, We want you all to get it right.

2793
02:23:20,160 --> 02:23:21,240
Speaker 3: He never said that.

2794
02:23:21,760 --> 02:23:24,240
Speaker 2: My main issue is, like Mandy says some stuff that

2795
02:23:24,320 --> 02:23:26,520
Speaker 2: he didn't say, Like she's like, if you think they

2796
02:23:26,640 --> 02:23:28,200
Speaker 2: never get it right, then why did you even go

2797
02:23:28,440 --> 02:23:29,840
Speaker 2: He never said they never got it right.

2798
02:23:30,600 --> 02:23:31,320
Speaker 3: He never said that.

2799
02:23:31,920 --> 02:23:35,960
Speaker 2: He said you don't always get it right. He said,

2800
02:23:36,040 --> 02:23:39,080
Speaker 2: we love y'all as an organization, Like he didn't say this.

2801
02:23:40,879 --> 02:23:41,080
Speaker 10: You know.

2802
02:23:41,280 --> 02:23:43,640
Speaker 3: So there's some not just projection, but.

2803
02:23:45,320 --> 02:23:50,680
Speaker 2: Falsehoods that you just put out there that you know,

2804
02:23:50,959 --> 02:23:54,400
Speaker 2: if you're gonna criticize the speech and be like, if

2805
02:23:54,440 --> 02:23:56,280
Speaker 2: you're gonna be in on it, I feel like you

2806
02:23:56,440 --> 02:23:59,400
Speaker 2: have to be accurate and don't just go with like,

2807
02:24:00,040 --> 02:24:02,960
Speaker 2: oh he said this, did he or did he not

2808
02:24:03,600 --> 02:24:03,920
Speaker 2: say that?

2809
02:24:04,160 --> 02:24:06,840
Speaker 3: You know what I mean? He also gave the.

2810
02:24:08,400 --> 02:24:11,160
Speaker 2: Initiative that they started with the like for black art

2811
02:24:11,200 --> 02:24:14,119
Speaker 2: and black music. He gave them credit when it started.

2812
02:24:16,200 --> 02:24:18,360
Speaker 2: So I think, you know, there's some.

2813
02:24:20,240 --> 02:24:23,440
Speaker 3: I don't know. There's some like whether purposeful or not personal,

2814
02:24:23,560 --> 02:24:24,000
Speaker 3: I don't know.

2815
02:24:24,200 --> 02:24:27,640
Speaker 2: But we all acknowledge that there's racial bias in the Grammys.

2816
02:24:27,959 --> 02:24:30,280
Speaker 2: And all these white award shows, we all acknowledge that,

2817
02:24:30,720 --> 02:24:31,560
Speaker 2: we all acknowledge it.

2818
02:24:31,600 --> 02:24:32,440
Speaker 3: They fall short.

2819
02:24:33,320 --> 02:24:35,760
Speaker 2: I don't know why we're demanding that the people that

2820
02:24:36,280 --> 02:24:42,360
Speaker 2: are the most affected by it are.

2821
02:24:43,879 --> 02:24:46,760
Speaker 3: The artists that have their careers and stuff affected by it,

2822
02:24:47,800 --> 02:24:49,880
Speaker 3: are the ones who shouldn't.

2823
02:24:51,640 --> 02:24:54,760
Speaker 2: Say anything Like we're at home saying the same thing

2824
02:24:54,879 --> 02:24:57,920
Speaker 2: that he's saying. We're like, well, you you showed up,

2825
02:24:58,000 --> 02:25:02,560
Speaker 2: don't don't mention it. So at this point, if he

2826
02:25:02,760 --> 02:25:06,120
Speaker 2: can't say it, who can? I agreed because what you

2827
02:25:06,280 --> 02:25:08,800
Speaker 2: What I also saw that wasn't acknowledged a lot was

2828
02:25:08,879 --> 02:25:11,600
Speaker 2: a lot of artists agreeing with them, a lot of

2829
02:25:11,640 --> 02:25:14,160
Speaker 2: black artists agreeing with him. That won't have to take

2830
02:25:14,240 --> 02:25:18,879
Speaker 2: the hit reputationally that he will, that he can withstand.

2831
02:25:18,640 --> 02:25:20,640
Speaker 1: Yes, because people still going to work with him. Nobody's

2832
02:25:20,640 --> 02:25:22,560
Speaker 1: gonna blackbout him, nobody's gonna write him out.

2833
02:25:22,480 --> 02:25:24,600
Speaker 2: Right, He'll he'll still be up for Grammys and all

2834
02:25:24,640 --> 02:25:27,320
Speaker 2: that stuff. Also, I never heard him say he didn't

2835
02:25:27,320 --> 02:25:30,720
Speaker 2: want to win Grammys. He laughed at his own boycott.

2836
02:25:31,320 --> 02:25:33,080
Speaker 2: So you can't even say, like, why show up? He

2837
02:25:33,200 --> 02:25:36,400
Speaker 2: told you why, because you have to admit that Grammys

2838
02:25:36,440 --> 02:25:39,520
Speaker 2: are bigger than you, right, that that they are bigger

2839
02:25:39,560 --> 02:25:41,560
Speaker 2: than you, that it is a thing you want, and

2840
02:25:41,640 --> 02:25:43,800
Speaker 2: when you don't show up but still watch it on TV,

2841
02:25:43,959 --> 02:25:46,920
Speaker 2: you're acknowledging that this thing has a gravity to it

2842
02:25:47,800 --> 02:25:49,200
Speaker 2: that still pulls you in.

2843
02:25:50,080 --> 02:25:54,840
Speaker 3: So, you know, he I feel like he you know,

2844
02:25:55,560 --> 02:25:56,160
Speaker 3: I don't. I don't.

2845
02:25:56,280 --> 02:25:59,240
Speaker 2: I guess I just don't agree with your characterization of it,

2846
02:25:59,600 --> 02:26:02,320
Speaker 2: he said, She says, last part of previous emails signed

2847
02:26:02,320 --> 02:26:04,000
Speaker 2: of contradictory. What I meant to say is that if

2848
02:26:04,000 --> 02:26:06,119
Speaker 2: he feels the Grammys never gets it right numerous times,

2849
02:26:06,320 --> 02:26:07,920
Speaker 2: I or just have an option to not submit to

2850
02:26:07,959 --> 02:26:09,199
Speaker 2: work for Grammys consideration.

2851
02:26:09,360 --> 02:26:09,800
Speaker 3: Once again.

2852
02:26:09,920 --> 02:26:13,080
Speaker 2: He never said that, you know, they never get it right,

2853
02:26:15,360 --> 02:26:17,800
Speaker 2: but but he said, you know, we want you to

2854
02:26:17,840 --> 02:26:19,960
Speaker 2: get it right, or at least get it close to right.

2855
02:26:22,440 --> 02:26:24,720
Speaker 2: And so yeah, I don't know. I didn't have a

2856
02:26:24,760 --> 02:26:27,200
Speaker 2: problem with it. Yeah, st our opinion, that's kind of

2857
02:26:27,240 --> 02:26:31,440
Speaker 2: how I feel. It's you know, uh, coming away from it.

2858
02:26:31,440 --> 02:26:36,440
Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, that makes sense. My browser

2859
02:26:36,600 --> 02:26:38,760
Speaker 2: is freezing. But we're at the end anyway. That was

2860
02:26:38,800 --> 02:26:43,560
Speaker 2: the last email. So yeah, that's it for this episode.

2861
02:26:43,760 --> 02:26:46,480
Speaker 2: Thanks for listening. Give me a second. I'm gonna have

2862
02:26:46,520 --> 02:26:48,480
Speaker 2: to like hop off of this one and hop into

2863
02:26:48,560 --> 02:26:51,440
Speaker 2: another session. It might take a second. I'm sorry, everybody,

2864
02:26:52,840 --> 02:26:56,960
Speaker 2: let me see if I can hop back on here.

2865
02:26:59,040 --> 02:27:00,960
Speaker 2: I know it was like right when it was like

2866
02:27:01,120 --> 02:27:06,160
Speaker 2: Mandy's email fucked everything up, it was like, nah, we

2867
02:27:06,440 --> 02:27:08,720
Speaker 2: we we not we we we agree.

2868
02:27:08,760 --> 02:27:11,000
Speaker 3: It was disrespectful, Rod, you can't even be on camera.

2869
02:27:11,000 --> 02:27:13,920
Speaker 1: I got to refresh the game and it turned out

2870
02:27:13,959 --> 02:27:15,680
Speaker 1: it was like it was like, I'm like, disrespect you

2871
02:27:15,879 --> 02:27:19,480
Speaker 1: on camera? Right, Oh, you think it's about when you

2872
02:27:19,560 --> 02:27:20,160
Speaker 1: got Mandy.

2873
02:27:20,520 --> 02:27:24,840
Speaker 3: You don't want to look they humbling me. I can't

2874
02:27:24,840 --> 02:27:25,440
Speaker 3: even say.

2875
02:27:25,320 --> 02:27:29,480
Speaker 1: Shit, man, It's like it's like I'm a humble ride

2876
02:27:29,560 --> 02:27:30,480
Speaker 1: right on off the mic.

2877
02:27:31,040 --> 02:27:33,240
Speaker 3: Yeah all right, well I'm back on the thing.

2878
02:27:33,520 --> 02:27:36,920
Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, Like I said, I think we just

2879
02:27:37,040 --> 02:27:38,280
Speaker 2: kind of feel differently about it.

2880
02:27:38,440 --> 02:27:40,200
Speaker 1: Right, We just see it differently, you know.

2881
02:27:40,800 --> 02:27:41,440
Speaker 3: I think.

2882
02:27:43,160 --> 02:27:45,760
Speaker 2: You know, but I get your question, and I just

2883
02:27:45,840 --> 02:27:47,520
Speaker 2: want you to know I don't think you're like out

2884
02:27:47,560 --> 02:27:50,960
Speaker 2: to lunch. I think a lot of people feel that way.

2885
02:27:51,200 --> 02:27:53,560
Speaker 2: A lot of white people, especially agree with what you're

2886
02:27:53,600 --> 02:27:57,080
Speaker 2: saying though, Like what then, why why would you disrespect

2887
02:27:57,200 --> 02:27:59,280
Speaker 2: the people that are even honoring you? Should be lucky

2888
02:27:59,320 --> 02:28:01,960
Speaker 2: to even be here and all that stuff. And I

2889
02:28:02,040 --> 02:28:06,040
Speaker 2: think a lot of black people we hear that, you know,

2890
02:28:06,160 --> 02:28:08,600
Speaker 2: when we think about that, it's such a loaded way

2891
02:28:08,640 --> 02:28:12,400
Speaker 2: of presenting it that we immediately rejected. And uh yeah,

2892
02:28:12,520 --> 02:28:14,400
Speaker 2: So I think that's where we're at. But we'll be

2893
02:28:14,520 --> 02:28:17,000
Speaker 2: back throughout the week and stuff. Thanks for listening, everybody.

2894
02:28:17,000 --> 02:28:18,000
Speaker 2: We appreciate y'all.

2895
02:28:18,560 --> 02:28:24,000
Speaker 3: Until next time, Black History, I love you a