1
00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,599
Speaker 1: This is the Bread Show. Kelly Clark City is returning

2
00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:04,960
Speaker 1: to Las Vegas in twenty twenty six for her studio

3
00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:09,079
Speaker 1: Sessions Las Vegas Residency. You can enter now for a

4
00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:11,080
Speaker 1: chance to win a trip for two to the July

5
00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:14,560
Speaker 1: twenty fourth show, a two night hotel state at Flamingo

6
00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:16,960
Speaker 1: Hotel and Casino in Las Vegas July twenty third through

7
00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:20,799
Speaker 1: the twenty fifth, and round trip airfare. Text Kelly to

8
00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:24,160
Speaker 1: five seven, seven three nine right now for a chance

9
00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:26,880
Speaker 1: to win. A confirmation text will be sent. Standard message

10
00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:29,560
Speaker 1: and data rates may apply. All thanks to Live Nation.

11
00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:35,240
Speaker 1: The best is win something like that happens at a restaurant,

12
00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:37,680
Speaker 1: you know, like some gross happens, and then they're like,

13
00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:41,240
Speaker 1: here's a gift certificate to come back to this place

14
00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:45,680
Speaker 1: this particularly like oh get more hair, Yes, more, They're like,

15
00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:46,720
Speaker 1: we'll bring you another one.

16
00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:48,600
Speaker 2: Good.

17
00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:51,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. It's do I want like I

18
00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:54,040
Speaker 1: had a bad experience? Do I want more of that? Yeah?

19
00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:54,560
Speaker 3: Again?

20
00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:57,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, running back run exactly.

21
00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:02,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm I'm trying to like move past things easier

22
00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:03,160
Speaker 4: these days.

23
00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:05,720
Speaker 1: Really really good? Do you like that? It's really I'm

24
00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:07,679
Speaker 1: so proud of you A little bit like more light

25
00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:11,479
Speaker 1: in my loafers these days. No, but you know shows

26
00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:17,320
Speaker 1: stay No, you know, we said maybe maybe you're a

27
00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:19,800
Speaker 1: little lighter in the loafers now, I think so making

28
00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:23,479
Speaker 1: an active effort. Have you noticed it in me? Listen?

29
00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:25,000
Speaker 3: If something bad happens, I don't.

30
00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:28,520
Speaker 1: Skipping over that, I go, hey, I haven't noticed the thing.

31
00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:30,319
Speaker 1: You don't think I'm at You don't think i'm a

32
00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:35,080
Speaker 1: little bit I do act Verses twenty twenty five. Oh yeah, baby, yeah,

33
00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:37,280
Speaker 1: yes we are. We were in the woods, yeah, out

34
00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,480
Speaker 1: of the woods. Yeah, we were in the trenches.

35
00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:40,240
Speaker 3: I'm proud of you.

36
00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:42,320
Speaker 1: Somebody around here has to be high strung, and it's me.

37
00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:46,720
Speaker 1: I'm proud of you, you know. Man, Hey, Kara, how

38
00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:51,440
Speaker 1: you doing? Kiki? Why are you taking a picture on?

39
00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:53,480
Speaker 1: I'm doing the best I can. Okay, what are you

40
00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:54,280
Speaker 1: taking pictures of?

41
00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,200
Speaker 5: Somebody mess with my camera settings today? I'm very upset.

42
00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:00,000
Speaker 5: So she's her life, Like, what, Carol, why are they

43
00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,000
Speaker 5: come in here and mess with our stuffle? We're not here,

44
00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:03,840
Speaker 5: you know. It's not nice of them. And then we

45
00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:04,120
Speaker 5: come in.

46
00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:05,720
Speaker 1: Here at five o'clock in the morning, and we got

47
00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:09,520
Speaker 1: to figure out how to fix it. Ridiculous. This place

48
00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,400
Speaker 1: is a simulation. Kara, Hi, good morning, Welcome to the show.

49
00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:16,240
Speaker 1: Thanks for having me. What's going on? I need to

50
00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:18,840
Speaker 1: understand your relationship drama here because we get a lot

51
00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:20,880
Speaker 1: of emails, we get a lot of dms and stuff

52
00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:24,839
Speaker 1: Friendship Radio on Instagram, all the different socials freadship radio

53
00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:27,079
Speaker 1: dot com, and people want us to take their situation

54
00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:30,000
Speaker 1: on the air. They want validation. Okay, that's fine, But

55
00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:31,320
Speaker 1: what's going on with your boyfriend?

56
00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:36,600
Speaker 2: So we Jeff moved in together after like two years

57
00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:37,120
Speaker 2: of dating.

58
00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:41,280
Speaker 1: So that's exciting, yeah, or you know, I thought it was.

59
00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:47,000
Speaker 2: And I honestly like I saw, like our relationship was

60
00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:50,600
Speaker 2: so perfect, and then the second we started living together,

61
00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:52,800
Speaker 2: that's when like everything changed.

62
00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:55,520
Speaker 1: Okay, what started you change?

63
00:02:56,960 --> 00:03:02,040
Speaker 2: Well, Like I feel like he completely stop trying, like instantly,

64
00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:05,320
Speaker 2: Like there was no more dates, no more cute texts.

65
00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:05,720
Speaker 1: Throughout the day.

66
00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,520
Speaker 2: Like it just felt like all of the romance is

67
00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:10,680
Speaker 2: kind of gone.

68
00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:11,600
Speaker 1: In a way.

69
00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:17,360
Speaker 2: Okay, and like so yeah, I did talk to him

70
00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:21,280
Speaker 2: about this and he was like, oh but babe, like

71
00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:23,680
Speaker 2: we're just comfortable with each other now, and like it's

72
00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:25,440
Speaker 2: a good thing. It's a good thing. And he kept

73
00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:27,480
Speaker 2: like trying to tell me that this was a good thing.

74
00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:30,640
Speaker 1: I love him. People impersonate their significant other in the

75
00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:32,880
Speaker 1: course of a story, it always gets a little like

76
00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:36,440
Speaker 1: a little exasperated and a little like like from the stomach,

77
00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:41,320
Speaker 1: you know, it's like boom no, but okay, so he boob.

78
00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:45,440
Speaker 1: But so he's trying to justify. He's like, hey, but

79
00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:47,520
Speaker 1: we hang out all the time now, like we lived together.

80
00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:49,720
Speaker 1: We see each other all the time. So he's sort

81
00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:51,800
Speaker 1: of not doing the thing like where he plans date

82
00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:54,080
Speaker 1: nights or is romantic or gets you a gift or

83
00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:56,240
Speaker 1: buys you flowers or like that kind of stuff is

84
00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:57,160
Speaker 1: gone by the wayside.

85
00:03:57,200 --> 00:04:01,920
Speaker 2: You're saying yeah, because he's claiming like, oh, like why

86
00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,200
Speaker 2: would why should I have to text you if I'm

87
00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,000
Speaker 2: going to see you at home? And like, you know,

88
00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:07,560
Speaker 2: we don't have to go out on a ton of

89
00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:09,920
Speaker 2: dates because I see you twenty four to seven, like

90
00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:14,040
Speaker 2: you know. But to me, that is not the same

91
00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:16,560
Speaker 2: Hanging out at home is not the same as like

92
00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:21,760
Speaker 2: quality time because we barely do anything besides like watching TV.

93
00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:25,240
Speaker 2: And if it's not watching TV together, he's like playing

94
00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:26,839
Speaker 2: video games or off with his friends.

95
00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I guess before when you lived apart, like

96
00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,320
Speaker 1: you kind of had to plan events or it, like

97
00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:35,200
Speaker 1: hey come over, we'll do this, or hey, I'll take

98
00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:37,919
Speaker 1: you here because you lived in different places, so you

99
00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:39,800
Speaker 1: had to kind of schedule these dates. But now you

100
00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,279
Speaker 1: live together, so it's like, well, I don't know, we

101
00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:43,960
Speaker 1: can make dinner together. We can sit here on the

102
00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:45,520
Speaker 1: couch kids, Like, what do I have to plan a date?

103
00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:50,600
Speaker 1: You know, I get it, I get it. No, what

104
00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:52,400
Speaker 1: do you wanted to do? It's like very different.

105
00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:55,919
Speaker 2: I just want him to be like the same kind

106
00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:58,600
Speaker 2: of guy, you know, Like, I mean, I get it,

107
00:04:58,640 --> 00:04:59,719
Speaker 2: I get what you're saying.

108
00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:03,080
Speaker 1: But oh, I'm not justifying it. No, no, no, I'm not

109
00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:06,240
Speaker 1: justifying it. Yeah you still have to try. Yeah, you

110
00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:09,760
Speaker 1: still have to try. But I guess it's one of

111
00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:12,680
Speaker 1: those things where how do you you go to him

112
00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:14,440
Speaker 1: and you have to tell him to try, and like

113
00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:16,920
Speaker 1: that's no fun, you know, to hey, I want you,

114
00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:18,839
Speaker 1: I need you to ask me out to dinner. And

115
00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:20,640
Speaker 1: then he's like, okay, let's go to dinner. It's like

116
00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,240
Speaker 1: that's not very validating, right.

117
00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:25,599
Speaker 2: I'm like, you know, I know he still feels the

118
00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:29,880
Speaker 2: same about me, but you know, I don't know, they're

119
00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:33,120
Speaker 2: not trying, Like nothing's changed since I've spoken to him,

120
00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:37,560
Speaker 2: and like it's starting to feel like this is our

121
00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:39,680
Speaker 2: new normal and I don't really love it.

122
00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:42,240
Speaker 1: See, I think this is what happens, Kara, Like I

123
00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:45,520
Speaker 1: always ask the question when people are dating for a

124
00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:47,560
Speaker 1: long time and then maybe they live together for a

125
00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:50,119
Speaker 1: long time, even before they get married, and then people

126
00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,360
Speaker 1: get married and everything falls apart, and I always ask

127
00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:55,880
Speaker 1: the question, like, how does that happen? Like nothing actually changed.

128
00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:59,040
Speaker 1: I would understand if you didn't live together and then

129
00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:00,839
Speaker 1: you get engaged in mayor and then you move in

130
00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:02,600
Speaker 1: together and you realize, oh my god, this is I

131
00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:06,039
Speaker 1: can't live with this person, or like something fundamentally changes.

132
00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:08,360
Speaker 1: But it's the people like you, guys who you dated

133
00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:10,240
Speaker 1: for a while and everything's great, you move in together

134
00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:12,520
Speaker 1: and everything's okay, and then you get married, And I

135
00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:14,400
Speaker 1: think that's what it is. I think it's complacency. I

136
00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:17,839
Speaker 1: think people just stop trying and they stop dating. And

137
00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:19,800
Speaker 1: I hate to be like the relationship coach here because

138
00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:21,559
Speaker 1: I'm in no position to give any kind of advice,

139
00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,280
Speaker 1: but I do hear people say all the time that

140
00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:26,520
Speaker 1: you should never stop dating because like in the dating phase,

141
00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:29,080
Speaker 1: everybody's trying real hard. And I think when you get

142
00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:32,560
Speaker 1: together and you're together every day and that the idea

143
00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:35,719
Speaker 1: is you're not going anywhere because you can't really unless

144
00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:37,680
Speaker 1: you move out and break up with me, I don't

145
00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:40,320
Speaker 1: have to try as hard. And then having to remind

146
00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:42,919
Speaker 1: someone or encourage them to try hard, well that's no fun.

147
00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:44,520
Speaker 1: So I don't know what you do. I mean, I

148
00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:46,560
Speaker 1: guess you have to say something, but I also don't

149
00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:48,640
Speaker 1: know how many times you say something before you're like, dude,

150
00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:51,159
Speaker 1: this guy's just lazy and he's going to have to

151
00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:53,800
Speaker 1: try harder. I know, right, Like, do you.

152
00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:55,160
Speaker 2: Want to tell him that sounded pretty good?

153
00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:57,880
Speaker 1: Not rightly? I mean I kind of just did. I

154
00:06:57,880 --> 00:06:59,719
Speaker 1: don't know if he's listening, But let me take some

155
00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:01,680
Speaker 1: full on this, cause I'd love to know what. I

156
00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:04,240
Speaker 1: know other people have been in this situation before, and

157
00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:06,000
Speaker 1: I wonder if it changes. I wonder if you just

158
00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:08,280
Speaker 1: give him a little reminder like, hey, it would mean

159
00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:10,520
Speaker 1: a lot to me if you would do this, and

160
00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:12,440
Speaker 1: then you walk away, and maybe that's like a light

161
00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:14,520
Speaker 1: bulb moment for him where he can go Okay, I

162
00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:17,000
Speaker 1: need to Oh wow, I've really gotten away from that stuff,

163
00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:20,360
Speaker 1: or maybe he's like, I don't intend to change, and

164
00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:22,280
Speaker 1: then if he doesn't, then you go on a date

165
00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:26,120
Speaker 1: with another man. Well that's maybe not the best advice,

166
00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:29,720
Speaker 1: but I yes, sure, why not? Cara would keep the

167
00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:31,400
Speaker 1: radio on to the iHeart app or whatever, and we're

168
00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:33,120
Speaker 1: gonna take some phone calls. We'll see what happens. I

169
00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:36,000
Speaker 1: have a good day, and thanks for sharing. Thank you

170
00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:37,400
Speaker 1: you too. Yeah, what do you do if you're in

171
00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:40,400
Speaker 1: Kara's position? You know, you date for a while, everyone's

172
00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:42,920
Speaker 1: trying hard, you move in together, and the effort seems

173
00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:44,680
Speaker 1: to stop, and you don't want to have to be

174
00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:46,920
Speaker 1: the person who's like, hey, can you try hard? Please?

175
00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:49,040
Speaker 5: You have to though you can't. You know, you can't

176
00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:51,120
Speaker 5: expect your partner to read your mind. You have to

177
00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:54,080
Speaker 5: communicate clearly what you're feeling and give them the opportunity

178
00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:57,320
Speaker 5: to change. Once that opportunity is given, if they don't change,

179
00:07:57,320 --> 00:07:58,960
Speaker 5: then you have a decision to make. Either you're going

180
00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,040
Speaker 5: to deal with what you you have? Are you going

181
00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:02,360
Speaker 5: to go out and find you a new man?

182
00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:05,240
Speaker 1: Well? Hey, Victoria, how you doing?

183
00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:06,800
Speaker 5: Hi?

184
00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:07,240
Speaker 1: Guys?

185
00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:07,760
Speaker 4: Hi?

186
00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:11,000
Speaker 1: You heard the story of what it can you relate

187
00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:12,480
Speaker 1: to this. I mean, is this something you've been through.

188
00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:16,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, about two years ago, I moved in with

189
00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:20,600
Speaker 6: my now fiance previously then boyfriend and kind of same thing.

190
00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:24,080
Speaker 6: Things just changed immediately. It was to the point that

191
00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:27,360
Speaker 6: I was like, holy cow, did we make a mistake?

192
00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:31,840
Speaker 6: Like should we have moved in together? But then I

193
00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:34,680
Speaker 6: also think, and this is a bit of a generalization,

194
00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:37,080
Speaker 6: I think men just kind of default to like when

195
00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:40,040
Speaker 6: they see their partner and like it's outside of you know,

196
00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:43,000
Speaker 6: their house and they're just dating. And then when you

197
00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:46,000
Speaker 6: move in together, it like defaults to roommates again, and

198
00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:47,840
Speaker 6: then you just have to kind of reset that and

199
00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:51,040
Speaker 6: then also like a little bit of like resetting my

200
00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:54,320
Speaker 6: own expectations, because yeah, like I do love a good date.

201
00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:58,240
Speaker 6: I do love like intentional time together, but that also

202
00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:01,360
Speaker 6: has gone down because you know, like the frequency of

203
00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:03,760
Speaker 6: that has gone down too, because like it's just not

204
00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:06,679
Speaker 6: peaceful all the time because now there's more dishes to do,

205
00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:08,680
Speaker 6: there's more chores to do. But we make it fun

206
00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:11,960
Speaker 6: together anyways, and now we're engaged and like he's my

207
00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:13,360
Speaker 6: best friend and we figured it out.

208
00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:17,040
Speaker 1: Well, congratulations, And I mean I think it's probably unfair

209
00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:19,040
Speaker 1: to think that it will always be like it was

210
00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:21,240
Speaker 1: in the beginning, right, But I mean I don't think

211
00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:25,080
Speaker 1: it's unfair to want some of that, you know, day

212
00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:28,920
Speaker 1: in and day out, or some some regular effort. But yeah, okay,

213
00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:31,800
Speaker 1: thank you, Victoria. I have a good day. Yeah glad.

214
00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:34,320
Speaker 1: You call a lot of people saying go and and

215
00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:36,959
Speaker 1: I don't know about that. I'm with Kiki. Yeah, I

216
00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:38,560
Speaker 1: mean before you go out and cheat, I mean, let's

217
00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:41,040
Speaker 1: have it. Let's have a conversation. You know, I'm just kidding.

218
00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:44,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I mean, like dates are expensive, obviously, and

219
00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:46,400
Speaker 4: so it doesn't have to be that, but like those

220
00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:48,280
Speaker 4: good morning texts or like texts in the middle of

221
00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:50,520
Speaker 4: the day or you know, when she comes home, maybe

222
00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:53,760
Speaker 4: have dinner made or something like other ways it doesn't

223
00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:55,680
Speaker 4: have because I know, date nights can be a little much.

224
00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:57,559
Speaker 1: And if you live together, it's like, okay, well there

225
00:09:57,600 --> 00:10:01,920
Speaker 1: you are, but there you are again, you are every

226
00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:04,959
Speaker 1: time I open that door. Nicole, how you doing. You've

227
00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:07,480
Speaker 1: been in a situation, Yes, I.

228
00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:08,520
Speaker 6: Have good morning guys.

229
00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:11,320
Speaker 1: So I think she's doing right things. She has to

230
00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:14,520
Speaker 1: keep communicating. And for the first situation I.

231
00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:16,160
Speaker 4: Was in, so I kept saying it over and over

232
00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:17,559
Speaker 4: and over and over, and eventually I just.

233
00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:19,440
Speaker 3: Got sick of it and broke up with him because

234
00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:20,240
Speaker 3: he wasn't listening.

235
00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:23,439
Speaker 1: So you just have to be open to that as well,

236
00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:25,679
Speaker 1: Like you might get so sick of the same conversation

237
00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:26,360
Speaker 1: over and over.

238
00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:28,480
Speaker 3: And over that you just got to do it for you.

239
00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:31,280
Speaker 1: And then the second time it happened again.

240
00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:34,120
Speaker 6: Different guy obviously, but you know, kind of doing the

241
00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:35,600
Speaker 6: whole same conversation over and over.

242
00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:39,360
Speaker 3: The differences he listened, So it can change with different

243
00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:41,760
Speaker 3: people as long as you guys are like both trying

244
00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:43,320
Speaker 3: and both communicating.

245
00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:45,440
Speaker 1: So yeah, I just don't know how many times I

246
00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,880
Speaker 1: would ask before. It's like, now, depending on what you're

247
00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:50,280
Speaker 1: you got to be fair about your expectations to everyone

248
00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:53,079
Speaker 1: else's point here. But at the same time, like, I'm

249
00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:54,960
Speaker 1: not going to ask you one hundred times to like

250
00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:57,480
Speaker 1: try to be in a relationship with me before it's like, Okay,

251
00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:00,200
Speaker 1: this is not a priority to you, So I don't

252
00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:01,960
Speaker 1: want to ask because that's no fun when you have

253
00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:03,040
Speaker 1: to ask exact.

254
00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:08,280
Speaker 5: Eventually, you guys that you're asking the wrong person.

255
00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:10,960
Speaker 1: You know, we got to be fair. I do think

256
00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:12,280
Speaker 1: you have. I do think you have to be you

257
00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:12,920
Speaker 1: got to be reaching.

258
00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:13,640
Speaker 6: Change the man.

259
00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:19,000
Speaker 1: Changed the man that was deep right here on this radio.

260
00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:21,000
Speaker 1: And so if you can't change the woman, change the woman,

261
00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:28,160
Speaker 1: people picketing downstairs and protesting not saying that, sonya, how

262
00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:28,600
Speaker 1: you doing?

263
00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:30,280
Speaker 3: I'm great?

264
00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:32,360
Speaker 1: How are you guys? Sonya? Good morning. You're on the

265
00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:34,360
Speaker 1: same wavelength here where you got to keep dating?

266
00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:38,040
Speaker 3: Right? Well, First of all, I want to say, how

267
00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:40,800
Speaker 3: fast does the mas come off when they're comfortable and

268
00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:42,120
Speaker 3: they know they got you right?

269
00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:45,000
Speaker 1: Like, this is who he is. He's showing who he is.

270
00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:45,800
Speaker 4: Believe him, girl.

271
00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:49,800
Speaker 3: But I might comment to even married people should still

272
00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,679
Speaker 3: be dating having day that it's like they're just moving

273
00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:54,520
Speaker 3: in and she's deemed like this.

274
00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:57,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I don't. Yeah, I don't think the

275
00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,600
Speaker 1: future is looking bright. If this is already where we are,

276
00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:02,199
Speaker 1: I mean, I would think it would almost reignite the relationship.

277
00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:04,240
Speaker 1: When you first move in together, it's like you're playing

278
00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:06,320
Speaker 1: housing now, it's like everything's new and fresh and fun.

279
00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,560
Speaker 1: If he's already not trying, then what do you expect

280
00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:10,800
Speaker 1: when when you're you know, put a ring on it

281
00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:12,360
Speaker 1: and you actually get married? Then what.

282
00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:15,640
Speaker 2: Totally entitled and relaxed.

283
00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:17,840
Speaker 1: Yeah all right, sonya, thank you. Have a good day

284
00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,360
Speaker 1: you too. Look at you guys. Can't change the man,

285
00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:22,120
Speaker 1: Change the man.