1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: Unholy, Sam Smith and Kim Petris here on. Okay, it's 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: number one at music station. It's one oh two point 3 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 1: seven kiss f um all right, let's get to um 4 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 1: this here. So Chinese asked the question training report question, 5 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: how do you see yourself? How do other people see you? 6 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 1: And do they line up? Yes? Sometimes I think about that. 7 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: It's an interesting practice and I think that you should 8 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:34,879 Speaker 1: do it because you know when somebody gives you a compliment, 9 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: like oh, like your jacket or your sweater and you 10 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 1: oh this thing. I got it at you know, Target 11 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 1: two years ago, and like we can't accept compliments, and 12 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: I think it all has it's all kind of like related. 13 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: Well let me answer. I see myself as a four. 14 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:51,560 Speaker 1: Maybe you'll see me as a six. Numbers well, Ryan's 15 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: taking it that way. Yeah. I mean like if you say, hey, 16 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: you look great today, I see a four. You might 17 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: have seen it six, and I prefer it that way. 18 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 1: I see you more like an eight wow wow eight? Yeah, 19 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 1: Like I see you as the full package. Do you 20 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 1: see yourself as the full package? Well, I see is 21 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 1: a full package, but like the five and a half 22 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: full package, you know, but I take the eight. I 23 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 1: appreciate the eight. So the number scale, Yeah, it could 24 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 1: be where it's whatever. It's like whatever. You know, people 25 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 1: sometimes maybe they'd say, oh my gosh, what do you 26 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: see yourself as like that? Well, it's not aligned with 27 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: the way we see it, So what's the story? So 28 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: it got me thinking because I feel like, so there 29 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 1: are very few celebrities that are universally beloved. I feel 30 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: like Kiana Reeves is one of those people. You don't 31 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: remember Kuna Reeves. Like every there was like this huge 32 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 1: Kiunter Reeves movement. No, I was just even listening. I 33 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: was just leaving at tubs as an Okay, Zenda is 34 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,559 Speaker 1: one of those. Well The Rock is one of those people. 35 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: And Jennifer Coolidge is definitely on that list. And she's 36 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: kind of been the A girl since she got cast 37 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: in The White Lotus season one, and she said at 38 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: the Golden Globes this year that, um, she supported herself 39 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: over the last twenty years with little jobs and then 40 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 1: in she got the White Lotus won her first Globe 41 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:19,959 Speaker 1: plus an Emmy last year, and in an interview with 42 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: Page six, she was asked why she views herself differently 43 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: than her fans do, and she said, oh, I don't know. 44 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: I mean my dating life. I've never found anyone quite 45 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: right for me. I haven't found the love of my life. 46 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 1: I think I made bad decisions. It makes you insecure 47 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: and you don't think you're great. And I thought that 48 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 1: was so heartbreaking to hear, because we all see her 49 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: as this queen and this amazing queen, and just because 50 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 1: she hasn't found her life partner, she feels a certain 51 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 1: way about herself. She has these insecurities, and so I 52 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: just found it. It's an interesting conversation because people looking 53 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: in from the outside might see you as something and 54 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: then but there's there's definitely I think everybody has a securities, 55 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 1: no matter how even toughs things. He's at ten, but 56 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 1: I'm sure there's things inside him that he's insecure about. 57 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:15,639 Speaker 1: And so no, absolutely not Well Jennifer Coolidge, so her 58 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 1: and I have difficult time separating fiction from like from 59 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 1: the people she was. The character was annoying, but I 60 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:28,519 Speaker 1: love her at all these awards shows. When she's making 61 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: her speeches, I know, But then I also thought about 62 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: I put myself in her shoes. She's sixty one, imagine, 63 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: you know, and it sounds like finding a life partner, 64 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: something that she desires in her heart, and imagine dating 65 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: for that long and just not finding the right one. Like, 66 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: how disheartening is that we should have her on the show. 67 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 1: I would love to see yourself as Tanya. Um. I 68 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 1: see myself as I definitely have some insecurities. Um, but 69 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: I see myself as confident and happy and uh positive person. 70 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: Can we do numbers? Okay? Um? Sure? I see myself 71 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: as a solid eight? And what do you think everyone 72 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 1: else sees you at? I don't know. I don't know, 73 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 1: maybe about the same sis. What do you see yourself as? 74 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 1: Let's play numbers. I see myself as a somewhere between 75 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: like a seven and eight? Seven? What do you think 76 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 1: everyone else sees you as? Probably a ten? Yeah? When 77 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 1: you and tub should hang out later, I think they do. 78 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:37,239 Speaker 1: Stand in front of him, you know. I think people 79 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:39,159 Speaker 1: look at my life and they think, oh my god, 80 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:40,840 Speaker 1: she has it all this, this is that, but they 81 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 1: don't see the nitty gritty and the insecurities and the 82 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:46,799 Speaker 1: stuff that you deal with behind closed doors and stuff 83 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 1: like that. That's what I'm all right. I see myself 84 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 1: as a seven, but without my shirt of five. Other 85 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:57,600 Speaker 1: people see you probably as a ten. That's what I'm saying. 86 00:04:57,640 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 1: I think people, I think that everyone sees that it's 87 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 1: as a ten, and everyone thinks like, oh my gosh, 88 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 1: this we live these perfect lives, but no one's life 89 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: is perfect. Perfect lives. Have you heard this show? You 90 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: know what I mean. I'm like, I've cried quite a 91 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 1: few times. Healthy, Oh not for the reasons we cried, Darling, Honey, 92 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: let it go all right, listen, you tend, you take 93 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: a break, and I'll take the rest from here. Flippers 94 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 1: are playing the Spurs next weekend at Krypto. Tickets are 95 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:29,480 Speaker 1: next