WEBVTT - Stop Shaming Single Moms, Sarah 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.480 Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife. 0:00:03.680 --> 0:00:06.560 She cooked, she cleaned, cared for her children and the 0:00:06.600 --> 0:00:08.360 man of the house, and of course she. 0:00:08.440 --> 0:00:12.200 Didn't talk back. She was both obedient and soft by nature. 0:00:12.320 --> 0:00:15.600 She was a good woman who always made good choices. 0:00:16.600 --> 0:00:19.960 That we're good mom's bad choices? Who single mom? Who said? 0:00:20.000 --> 0:00:22.599 But the patriarchy shared all their bad choices and found 0:00:22.640 --> 0:00:23.560 out they were so bad. 0:00:23.600 --> 0:00:26.479 After all, we're experts overhairs and your new vestie. 0:00:26.680 --> 0:00:29.319 Sit back and do the ride. I can do a 0:00:29.400 --> 0:00:35.720 pat I can do on my. 0:00:40.080 --> 0:00:43.000 Welcome back to good mom's bad choices. I'm Erica and 0:00:43.040 --> 0:00:46.320 I'm Meela. And it's Wednesday, bitches. 0:00:46.280 --> 0:00:50.800 It's Hemp Day, but really for us, it's Friday. Have 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:51.760 a four day weekend? 0:00:52.880 --> 0:00:53.560 Oh my god. 0:00:53.880 --> 0:01:00.800 Yeah yeah, it's what's the holiday, you know, Memorial Day? Yeah, 0:01:00.880 --> 0:01:04.120 you know what, this was a great idea to wear 0:01:04.120 --> 0:01:05.440 pajamas just as you. 0:01:05.959 --> 0:01:08.160 Actually, fuck, I was gonna say this is what I'm 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:11.080 gonna be doing all weekend, But that's a fucking lie. Mom. 0:01:11.160 --> 0:01:14.360 Life is calling, and I have my last motherfucking volleyball 0:01:14.400 --> 0:01:19.760 tournament of IRI's club team volleyball, and I cannot. 0:01:19.480 --> 0:01:20.560 Wait for this shit to be over. 0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:23.039 I might be the reason why IRI doesn't progress in 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:28.360 life because I don't like participating and having to drive 0:01:28.480 --> 0:01:31.440 far distances. Shout out to the moms and my mom 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:34.680 who made it happen because I was on like multiple 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:36.720 club teams and shit, I don't know how the fuck 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:39.039 or how or why all for me not to go 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:40.200 to college to play soccer. 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:42.319 Okay, why didn't she curse me the fuck out when 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:43.319 you signed up for this? 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:46.679 I was like, they're gonna be games where it's because 0:01:46.720 --> 0:01:49.760 all county, all the moms are doing it. I was like, 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:51.480 wait in the fuck are you talking about? 0:01:51.600 --> 0:01:55.000 All the moms are driving out of their motherfucking way 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:58.200 to enhance their kids' lives, and I just want to say, what. 0:01:58.240 --> 0:02:03.000 The fuck isn't what college was for? Like that's when 0:02:03.040 --> 0:02:05.040 they start doing you need to get a car, you know. 0:02:05.280 --> 0:02:09.440 Honestly, I realize my parents didn't really show up to shit, 0:02:09.880 --> 0:02:12.200 so I'm biased. I mean, actually I might be able 0:02:12.240 --> 0:02:14.680 to traumatize, but I guess I just car pulled with 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:15.239 other people. 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:16.839 I mean I did a lot of car pulling too, 0:02:16.880 --> 0:02:20.760 because my mom was you know, busy, and also like 0:02:20.880 --> 0:02:24.280 Rory would driving me around like everyone was driving my grandfather. 0:02:24.360 --> 0:02:24.840 Everyone was. 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:26.720 There was a tribe, so it wasn't just on her, 0:02:26.880 --> 0:02:30.200 but like it's and I have a tribe too, for sure, 0:02:30.639 --> 0:02:33.120 but it's like some of my tribe members are not 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:33.960 driving to fucking Earth. 0:02:34.080 --> 0:02:36.040 I was gonna say, I love you and I love Iri. 0:02:36.680 --> 0:02:40.919 I'm not driving to Rarin for anyone. I'm not driving 0:02:40.919 --> 0:02:43.400 to Ervine for Jesus of Nazareth himself. 0:02:43.040 --> 0:02:46.040 Even like I'm collaborating with a mom this weekend and 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:46.919 I'm driving them. 0:02:47.160 --> 0:02:47.880 You need Sunday. 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:50.200 You need to make more friends. You need to make 0:02:50.240 --> 0:02:51.880 more mom friends so that you don't have to drive 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:52.160 at all. 0:02:52.200 --> 0:02:54.120 Well that's what I did. I made one. I always 0:02:54.280 --> 0:02:55.359 might always find one. 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:56.120 You gotta find that. 0:02:56.480 --> 0:02:59.359 I can't guarantee more than that, but shout out to 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:02.160 the one. We're holding each other down. This season have 0:03:02.240 --> 0:03:04.280 been hard. And she's a mom of three and she's 0:03:04.320 --> 0:03:06.239 been doing this shit for three kids. I'm like, bitch, 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:08.680 are you all and it's short. They've all been in 0:03:08.760 --> 0:03:10.960 volleyball club or some sort of club team at some 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:13.600 point in their life, and I'm just like, sometimes your kids, 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:16.720 there's one that's just not going to be like if 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:20.799 your kid is an uncoordinated bitch, don't put just let 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:22.120 them go to art class. 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:26.919 You know, I think we're coming from a like we're 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:30.920 coming from a You should be the first person to 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:33.200 tell your kid when they're not good at something. Don't 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:37.840 pretend like, don't give your don't give your kid delusional confidence. 0:03:38.680 --> 0:03:40.760 Ari told me that she next season she wants to 0:03:40.840 --> 0:03:42.640 join a club team that's by your house. 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:45.680 So I was like, so you want me to pick. 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:47.360 You up from I'll tell you a by my house, 0:03:47.720 --> 0:03:49.520 but then I have to take her there, and then 0:03:49.560 --> 0:03:52.000 I have to drive back. And then some days I'm 0:03:52.040 --> 0:03:53.920 here and I have to go pick you up at 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:55.560 school and then bring you back. 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:58.800 I was just like, my cousin hur kid is sixteen though, 0:03:58.840 --> 0:04:00.880 but he goes and him and his friend's going Weimo 0:04:01.000 --> 0:04:01.480 all the time. 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:01.960 I don't know. 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:03.360 I don't know where you guys are listening from. But 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:06.680 in La Weimo is a fucking driverless car, which hell no, 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:10.880 but yeah, her kids go in Waimo because there's wait. 0:04:11.360 --> 0:04:15.520 Speaking of Waimo and driverless cars and niggas on the internet, 0:04:15.760 --> 0:04:18.680 they're always like waitit wait allmen, allman, have you seen 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:21.680 on Uber there's one for female drivers only. 0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:23.840 Yeah, I'm like they've been had that, I know. 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:27.320 But I'm like everybody's talking like women are delusional. Uber 0:04:27.440 --> 0:04:30.440 literally has a section for women drivers. 0:04:30.000 --> 0:04:31.640 Because they've had so many sexual assaults. 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:33.520 It's because we can't trust niggas. 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:35.599 Yeah, they're disgusting. 0:04:35.680 --> 0:04:38.159 Well I don't, Yeah, I mean well. And also, like 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:39.880 late at night, I feel more. I would feel more 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:44.320 comfortable being driven by a woman or any or nothing, yeah, 0:04:44.400 --> 0:04:48.960 or nothing or empty car. I guess, I guess yes. 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:51.359 But I have yet to be in a waimo just 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:52.320 because I'm it. 0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:53.919 Just you've been you've been in one before? No, no, 0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:55.000 I said, yet to be in one. 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:56.600 I want to go on one one time, and one 0:04:56.600 --> 0:04:58.640 time I only do some research. I just want to 0:04:58.640 --> 0:05:00.880 go on the back and have sex in it, Okay, 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:03.880 because why else would I beat a driverless car unless 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:05.360 I'm in fucking the Jetsons. 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:06.360 Yeah, I don't know. 0:05:06.720 --> 0:05:09.040 Only to have sex in the buck I got, so, 0:05:09.640 --> 0:05:11.280 I don't know. It's not only of appeal and it's 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:12.800 not on the top of my list, But if I 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:14.479 was going to do it, that's the only way I 0:05:14.520 --> 0:05:14.760 do it. 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:16.000 But the fucked up part is like. 0:05:15.960 --> 0:05:18.840 But they're watching you. There's way you know, our friend Nerlyn, 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:20.520 she has a friend that works for weymo. They have 0:05:20.560 --> 0:05:21.760 all the camera I heard. 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:23.200 But then I was like, I'm not going to renew 0:05:23.200 --> 0:05:25.360 my subscription. I just want to do this one thing, 0:05:25.360 --> 0:05:28.080 this one time. But the sad part is is like, 0:05:28.200 --> 0:05:30.839 are we at that part of humanity where we'd rather 0:05:30.960 --> 0:05:34.679 be reliant on an empty driver than a human? 0:05:35.279 --> 0:05:37.360 Yes? Yes we are, and we're at that part of humanity. 0:05:37.480 --> 0:05:38.839 We're part of my resistance for it. 0:05:38.839 --> 0:05:40.160 I'm like, why do I want to be driven by 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:43.799 nothing like a not reactive non human. 0:05:44.240 --> 0:05:47.000 It sounds insane. I don't want to drive with a 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:50.080 robot that I don't know. No, I don't like it. 0:05:50.680 --> 0:05:53.000 I know I'm resistant to the ais and the mechanicals 0:05:53.000 --> 0:05:53.880 and the technological. 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:57.320 But anyway, back to. 0:05:57.279 --> 0:06:00.640 Your volleyball, I just thought, wow, if you're just tuning 0:06:00.640 --> 0:06:03.040 in and you're watching on YouTube, we're actually wearing our 0:06:03.080 --> 0:06:06.520 pajamas because Jamila's daughter suggested we have pajama day today 0:06:06.520 --> 0:06:08.120 on the episode, so we said, you know what. 0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:09.200 Yes, let's do that. 0:06:09.640 --> 0:06:11.760 Although Mela said let's do it, and then I came 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:13.920 with all my pajamas and she said, oh, I didn't 0:06:13.920 --> 0:06:15.880 know you were going to bring your pajamas, Like, bitch, 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:16.760 what you said? 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:19.560 It's pajama Day is the only outfit I fucking brought. 0:06:20.560 --> 0:06:22.679 You know, sometimes my brain is a little delayed. 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:26.520 Mela's wearing my pajamas. Great, you might not get these back. 0:06:27.279 --> 0:06:27.440 You know. 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:28.120 I don't own a lot. 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:29.920 I don't do a lot of pajama ring at my house. 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:32.200 I don't really either, but I've somehow been invited to 0:06:32.200 --> 0:06:35.440 like multiple pajama parties, so I have like silky pajamas. 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:36.800 I'm like, do I need to put jama party? Every 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:38.400 time I put silky pajamas on? Even though this is 0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:41.280 probably a poly blend from Amazon, I think I don't 0:06:41.320 --> 0:06:45.560 go chase. No, No, that's the wrong one. Creep and creep. 0:06:46.160 --> 0:06:51.000 Yeah, I like to keep it. I'm down, though. Have 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:54.240 you forgave and Chili yet? Have you forget it? Been 0:06:54.320 --> 0:06:57.760 Chili for liking the Magi shit? Did we talk about that? Yeah? 0:06:57.800 --> 0:06:58.200 We did. 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:00.760 She's going to a constant. They're going on concert. I 0:07:00.760 --> 0:07:02.679 would haven't even about tickets because Chili was chirping. 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:05.000 I mean, we're still gonna go. People are still going 0:07:05.080 --> 0:07:07.160 to go, Chili I'm not really need you to hold 0:07:07.160 --> 0:07:07.400 it down. 0:07:07.440 --> 0:07:09.400 There's only two TLC left, and I'm gonna need you 0:07:09.480 --> 0:07:12.760 not to be a Magis supporter. Okay, just for TLC, 0:07:12.880 --> 0:07:14.440 just for left Eye, Like, come on, I know you're 0:07:14.480 --> 0:07:17.280 dating old boy from Boy Meets World, and I mean. 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:18.520 Is that what happened? Is that why? 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:20.880 I think she's always been funny acting. Apparently if you 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:26.080 pay attention, she's always been a little uh in black denial. 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:28.880 Really I didn't like, well she said she's not black. 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:31.560 There was another clip that surfaced about someone calling her 0:07:31.600 --> 0:07:33.840 like chocolate and she's like, I'm not chocolate or something. 0:07:33.920 --> 0:07:37.560 Some are car Something's fucking ridiculous. You know, you know 0:07:37.600 --> 0:07:40.400 how it feel about black people and their self hate. 0:07:40.760 --> 0:07:42.320 The man has done a hell of a job. And 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:45.000 apparently not even Chili's exempt. 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:46.920 Damn well. 0:07:46.960 --> 0:07:49.080 Speaking of bad choices, I think we have a bad 0:07:49.200 --> 0:07:52.320 choice of the week from somebody that is actually pretty 0:07:52.320 --> 0:07:53.240 fucking hilarious. 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:57.680 Bad mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom 0:07:57.800 --> 0:07:58.640 so good. 0:08:03.400 --> 0:08:06.680 And she's a OG tribe member. Yes, I wrote it. 0:08:06.680 --> 0:08:08.800 I read it out loud today this morning and I 0:08:08.840 --> 0:08:12.280 was like, this is hilarious, and also this is very 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:16.160 much sunny, where is it? 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:18.960 If you have a bad choice you want to submit 0:08:19.000 --> 0:08:21.160 to the show, make sure you go to our website, 0:08:21.160 --> 0:08:24.120 Good Mom's Bad Choices dot Com and click the contact 0:08:24.240 --> 0:08:27.480 us and write in your bad choices, write in your 0:08:27.520 --> 0:08:31.600 horror stories, and write in your advice questions. Because we 0:08:31.640 --> 0:08:34.680 are smart and we are your friends, and we can help. 0:08:35.240 --> 0:08:35.800 I think, I. 0:08:35.800 --> 0:08:41.079 Hope please join Discord. We only have four thousand like 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:44.600 the channels to talk okay. We have ladies love discounts. 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:47.240 We have you any Power xxx that's the sexy one 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:50.000 for the women only. We have birth stories, we have 0:08:50.040 --> 0:08:52.880 good Reads, we have smoke break, we have girl Guess What. 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:55.120 We have pleasure rituals. We have vent, we have need Advice, 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:58.040 we have horries. Okay, I can't find bad choices. 0:08:58.360 --> 0:08:59.320 Sometimes they disappear. 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:03.920 Why I hope bad choices really do disappear. 0:09:04.960 --> 0:09:05.200 There? 0:09:05.440 --> 0:09:09.839 Okay, thanks, thanks for that, you know, I mean technology. Okay, 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:13.520 bad choice of the week. I needed a new plug 0:09:13.559 --> 0:09:15.800 for shroomies now that organics are in season. I have 0:09:15.840 --> 0:09:18.440 a business partner I get everything from and he just 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:22.280 doesn't love as many hippie things as I do. So 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:24.559 he hooked me up with his link and I had 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:27.480 to go by myself about sixty miles away up in 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:30.319 the desert mountains. But he said, you and her will click. 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:33.200 She's you in twenty years. I wasn't nervous or anything, 0:09:33.320 --> 0:09:35.520 just interested to see what this encounter was about to be. 0:09:35.640 --> 0:09:38.680 Like ha ha ha ha. I put it in order 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:40.679 for a pound. If you know, you know that's a. 0:09:40.640 --> 0:09:43.840 Lot pound, bitch, When do you moving weight? Basically, we're 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:45.240 going to we're going to your house. 0:09:45.280 --> 0:09:46.040 Don't do mushroom. 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:47.839 It's gonna have a pound of I don't know, but 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:49.120 we mushrooms are very light. 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:53.440 We're coming over. Wow, a pound is wild off. But 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:55.400 you know she's sober, so I mean, you know, like 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:56.280 she's a drink so. 0:09:58.000 --> 0:09:59.280 Some sort of business bitch. 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:04.080 So that's a lot loll So I get I don't know, 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:05.679 I'm only one who says lol lol. So I get 0:10:05.760 --> 0:10:09.160 up to the place. She was so nice to meet me, sweet, 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:12.000 So I get, sorry, can you read, bitch, I'm trying 0:10:12.000 --> 0:10:15.040 to read, discord. I put it in an order for 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:17.240 a pound. If you know you know that's a lot? 0:10:17.400 --> 0:10:17.959 Yes, it is. 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:19.960 So I get up to the place she was so 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:22.400 nice to me. She said she heard a lot about me. 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:25.520 We both are queer and this style of business. So 0:10:25.559 --> 0:10:28.199 we chatted a bit about being a female plug. She 0:10:28.240 --> 0:10:31.040 shared some horror stories about back in her day. We 0:10:31.120 --> 0:10:33.120 did the exchange, and then she said, hey, would you 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:34.920 give me a ride down the hill to the casino. 0:10:35.120 --> 0:10:36.959 I agreed. Then, while in the. 0:10:36.920 --> 0:10:38.959 Car, she asked me if I would try a micro 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:43.480 mushroom choco. She had been working on Choco Choco, maybe chocolate. 0:10:44.640 --> 0:10:48.720 It's in short form Erica, Okay, it's discord, get with 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:54.880 it with her knowledge around the mush she's it's sunny. 0:10:54.920 --> 0:10:58.280 She's writing in fucking abbreviations. Can you write full? 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:00.680 Wait, I'm gonna write it. I just thow she read 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:04.480 it with her knowledge around the mushies. I agreed, and 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:07.560 we pulled up to the casino. She gets out and says, oh, 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:09.920 did I say micro? I actually gave you the macro? 0:11:10.480 --> 0:11:11.000 Have fun? 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:12.520 Thanks for the ride. 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:14.719 I laughed at first, and then realized I better get 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:15.720 my ass home asap. 0:11:15.800 --> 0:11:16.360 Ha ha ha. 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:18.280 I knew I had about thirty minutes before I had 0:11:18.320 --> 0:11:20.520 start to feel the effects, but I was an hour 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:21.200 away from home. 0:11:21.360 --> 0:11:23.240 Laugh out loud, I just kept driving. 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:25.319 Once the trip started I pulled over and sat in 0:11:25.360 --> 0:11:27.360 the back of my truck for a while. I was 0:11:27.400 --> 0:11:30.400 in the desert area, so it was peaceful, not too hot, 0:11:30.840 --> 0:11:33.040 and just vibed off of nature for a while. I 0:11:33.080 --> 0:11:35.880 wouldn't say the trip was macro, but I definitely had 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:37.600 to call my wife to pick up arkid loll. I 0:11:37.600 --> 0:11:40.480 didn't get home till tennish after tripping in the desert. 0:11:40.520 --> 0:11:44.000 Ha ha ha. I got cold and went home. All 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:47.120 in all, great bad decision. The shroomies were great, organic, 0:11:47.160 --> 0:11:48.200 and I met a new friend. 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:53.559 Ha ha ha. You're getting you're vetoed from reading out loud. 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:57.040 First of all, Lola home. 0:11:58.040 --> 0:12:00.600 First of all, I'm reading it like it was in bitch. 0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:02.400 I can read just fine. You're not gonna try and 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:07.640 play me on live podcasting. I wrote a book that 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:11.520 is I can read, goddamn it. You know there's a 0:12:11.600 --> 0:12:14.040 literacy issue in America. Well, it's not with me. 0:12:15.640 --> 0:12:18.280 First of all, I'm First of all, I'm not sixty percent. 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:20.440 I can read very well. I'm in publish author. Okay, 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:21.840 don't play with me, relax. 0:12:21.920 --> 0:12:24.760 You're very intelligent. You are the smartest people I know, Jamil. 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:28.040 Don't give me that fucking patronizing asshoice. 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:32.480 Even anyway bad choice of the week that was funny and. 0:12:33.880 --> 0:12:34.439 Hilarious. 0:12:34.559 --> 0:12:36.680 I would have freaked out, So shout out to you 0:12:36.720 --> 0:12:37.400 for keeping calm. 0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:38.960 I wouldn't have I mean, I don't. 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:41.199 I can't take I could never even take a micro 0:12:41.320 --> 0:12:43.920 and decide to drive because I just never know what's 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:44.400 going to happen. 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:46.199 It actually reminds me of one time when you went 0:12:46.200 --> 0:12:48.720 to San Diego with one of those that Scammer Bay, 0:12:48.880 --> 0:12:51.280 and you guys took mushrooms at the beach and then 0:12:51.440 --> 0:12:53.199 like then it ended, and. 0:12:52.880 --> 0:12:54.280 No one knew where to go or where to do. 0:12:54.360 --> 0:12:56.080 I remember this. I wasn't there, but I remember you 0:12:56.160 --> 0:12:58.320 calling me like I was so mad. 0:12:58.360 --> 0:12:59.199 He had no plan. 0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:01.280 I was like, so let me get the shake. I 0:13:01.320 --> 0:13:03.319 sicked mushrooms at the beach. 0:13:03.080 --> 0:13:07.640 And then that was and then he cried that sounds 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:09.000 about Scammer Bay. 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:11.680 Yeah, I remember. No, I don't remember that. 0:13:11.840 --> 0:13:15.679 Really, he went to San Diego and he didn't have 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:17.040 a plan anywhere passed. 0:13:16.840 --> 0:13:18.600 Like a plan in San Diego or a plan after 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:20.720 the mushrooms, plan after the mushrooms? What kind of plans 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:21.360 was I hoping for? 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:22.920 I don't know, like to get from point A to 0:13:23.000 --> 0:13:24.600 point by hotel. 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:25.040 I don't know. 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:27.680 I do not know how to be more to the story, 0:13:27.720 --> 0:13:29.240 I didn't do a lot of traveling with scammer Bay 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:31.120 because I knew he was a scammer very early on 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:35.880 by his face. But that's a different story. 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:37.880 For a different day. 0:13:38.080 --> 0:13:40.280 Yeah, that was I think I've tried to erase that 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:43.960 time from my mind. Only fragments of it exist still, 0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:49.160 teeth and teeth and his obsession with different types of 0:13:49.200 --> 0:13:54.360 bacon and I do your roommate relationship and Erica. 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:56.600 The dentist story of him will never ever. 0:13:56.640 --> 0:13:58.840 I hope tell that story every year for the rest 0:13:58.880 --> 0:14:03.160 of podcasting life, because the fuck is he was insane. 0:14:04.160 --> 0:14:06.960 You should listen to me. We knew he was a nuts. 0:14:08.640 --> 0:14:11.559 Yeah, well, Erica's scammer Bay stole. 0:14:12.880 --> 0:14:16.000 Eric's scammra Bay asked her for her dentist, her black 0:14:16.120 --> 0:14:17.960 dentist contact. I don't care if you've heard this before, 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:18.600 we're hearing it again. 0:14:18.640 --> 0:14:20.720 Shout out to doctor Thompson. If you're looking for a 0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:22.640 black dentist in Los Angeles, he's your guy. 0:14:22.720 --> 0:14:23.440 But don't do this. 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:29.600 But maybe don't tell him I sent you because from 0:14:29.640 --> 0:14:31.960 Eric He's probably mad at me too, because I went 0:14:32.000 --> 0:14:34.040 in to get in visi line and he took molds 0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:35.720 of my teeth and I think I never came back. 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:37.800 But he was too far. 0:14:38.400 --> 0:14:43.400 Erica gave her scammer boyfriend her black dentist contact. This 0:14:43.520 --> 0:14:48.320 fucking scammer goes there, gets his fucking Veneers shaved down 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:54.160 for Veneers, proceeds after the procedure to go to the bathroom, 0:14:54.640 --> 0:14:57.480 locks the key in the bathroom, and just doesn't come back. 0:14:58.400 --> 0:15:01.840 He tried to run off with his like he tried 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:05.400 to dine and dash at the dentist, I know, which 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:08.360 is crazy work. And then the dumb ass had to 0:15:08.400 --> 0:15:11.560 come back because Veneers take two steps. First, you shave 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:13.320 him down and get them fitted, and then you come 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:15.520 back and get the permanent ones. So this nigg is 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:18.800 scamming all around LA with fucking temporary teeth from a 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:22.000 black doctor, talking about he supports black businesses, and the 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:25.080 poor doctor is fucking calling around Erica. 0:15:24.640 --> 0:15:27.120 But you know what, asking her why the fuck would 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:29.040 he let him come back. He let him come back. 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:31.840 He let that nigga come back. He's a cancer. 0:15:32.880 --> 0:15:35.960 The dentist, Yeah, because what the fuck he has to 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:39.440 be a cancer doctor. Thompson, Thompson, where's your birthday? I 0:15:39.520 --> 0:15:42.280 need to know, because I can't believe you got got twice? 0:15:42.360 --> 0:15:44.600 Did he pay the second time? I don't. I think he. 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:47.120 I don't know, girl, he probably had to. He had 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:48.160 to pay the second time. 0:15:50.480 --> 0:15:50.880 I don't know. 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:53.000 It doesn't Actually he doesn't have had to do anything. 0:15:53.040 --> 0:15:53.880 He didn't do a lot of weird. 0:15:54.840 --> 0:15:56.760 A grown man who is bold enough to go to 0:15:56.800 --> 0:16:00.920 his girlfriend's dentist who is black, who he supposedly openly 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:04.800 supports black businesses, only to intentionally lock the key in 0:16:04.840 --> 0:16:08.760 the bathroom and run is in. That is insane work. 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:11.320 That is a ballsy move. I would never like, I 0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:14.120 would feel too bad, but apparently sociopath. 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:15.640 No, that's insane. That's crazy. 0:16:15.680 --> 0:16:17.040 But if you're gonna dine and dash, I mean you 0:16:17.080 --> 0:16:19.240 might as well dine on the big big things. Man, 0:16:19.320 --> 0:16:21.800 dash on the big things. Well, I'm not gonna dash 0:16:21.800 --> 0:16:24.480 it Deaddy's I wanted to dash, dash on these mother teeth. 0:16:24.520 --> 0:16:27.200 I dash up Step two. You need to dash when 0:16:27.200 --> 0:16:28.240 this ship's not jack. 0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:31.240 Step one required payment. So that was the problem. 0:16:31.440 --> 0:16:33.560 Well he should have dash his ass to Columbia like everybody. 0:16:33.600 --> 0:16:35.520 The fuck else and got those big chick lay teeths. 0:16:36.480 --> 0:16:39.840 The fuck I cannot stand him? Oh my god. 0:16:40.240 --> 0:16:42.200 Yeah, I know, he's an interesting fellow. 0:16:42.800 --> 0:16:46.120 We each had at least one to three boyfriends that 0:16:46.400 --> 0:16:50.480 were lovers of each other's that we absolutely fucking couldn't stand. 0:16:50.760 --> 0:16:54.440 That's true. That's a fact, because I could think of. 0:16:54.400 --> 0:16:57.280 Yours is only one that I couldn't stand thein the 0:16:57.280 --> 0:16:59.400 ones I knew weren't your niggers, but I I wouldna 0:16:59.400 --> 0:17:00.000 say I can't stay. 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:02.280 Yeah, yeah, yeah, but that one. You couldn't stand. That 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:06.680 one with the dog our friendship almost when I moved 0:17:06.720 --> 0:17:07.159 the dog in. 0:17:08.400 --> 0:17:09.240 Yeah, that was bad. 0:17:10.560 --> 0:17:12.440 Oh god, I'm so happy we're not in the Hinge 0:17:12.440 --> 0:17:13.240 streets anymore. 0:17:14.480 --> 0:17:17.879 Is not what you wanted to talk about, Hinge. No, 0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:20.080 just where we were, then where we are, and then 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:23.119 where we are now. Yeah I did because. 0:17:24.640 --> 0:17:27.040 I started the podcast when I was twenty nine and 0:17:27.080 --> 0:17:30.520 I will be thirty eight next month. That is crazy work. 0:17:30.760 --> 0:17:33.000