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Speaker 4: Everybody knows about obviously what you know has been transpiring

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Speaker 4: with Diddy, but I think it's a larger conversation one

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Speaker 4: of the bigges people that trolling him with fifty cents

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Speaker 4: and last week he actually got brought up on accusations

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Speaker 4: we see Vince McMahon. This is like a common theme

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Speaker 4: It's some have actually ruined businesses and some are still

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Speaker 2: There's just like a variety of different people that have been,

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Speaker 1: I think for too long, men that have had power

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Speaker 1: And I don't think men are taught properly how to

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Speaker 1: when it's time to back away some of it, which, honey,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure in some of the cases, yes, but I

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Speaker 1: I think it's a good idea if you get permission

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Speaker 1: the books. You can't have all these heinous actions in

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Speaker 1: But and also too, it's another lesson and be careful

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Speaker 2: I think it's a few lessons for.

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Speaker 4: But in this environment and just in life in general,

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Speaker 4: Like now I'm saying never, I'm never gonna go out

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Speaker 4: And this is why they have like training and all

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Speaker 4: it's like there's a lot of negatives that come with that, right,

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Speaker 4: Right, it's not wholy at all, And there's benefits that

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Speaker 4: Everybody wants us to talk about Diddy and make memes,

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Speaker 4: that what's being portrayed on social media is to get

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Speaker 4: it's like, now a full story has to be told,

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Speaker 4: But bigger than that, it's just a life lesson that

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Speaker 4: I think that you know, a lot of people are

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Speaker 4: They want to chastat somebody. Your chastisement doesn't mean anything

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Speaker 4: So look at the situation objectively. You don't know these people,

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Speaker 4: Like it's not okay to make somebody do something that

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Speaker 3: I think you kind of alluded to end. With great

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Speaker 2: But I'll just add to what Shoddy.

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Speaker 3: It's important to have somebody, like you said, when something

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Speaker 2: Need to check that now.

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Speaker 3: Because number one, it's not indicative of who you are, right.

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Speaker 3: So that's why the integrity part is important, but not

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Speaker 2: In that moment.

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Speaker 1: There's an entertainment industry a playground for this though. Like

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Speaker 4: I don't agree with like, you know, physically just beating

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Speaker 1: What's what I'm rolling around right now? They won't put

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So instead of you worrying about a celebrity, worry

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Speaker 2: Fellas, no means no.

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Speaker 4: To a clue, that's chapter that's chapter one. Well, mental

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Speaker 4: If you got daughters, you gotta teach your daughters to yeah,

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Speaker 4: so you know this is real. They got to you know, know,

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Speaker 4: the different type of environments so they can go too hours,

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Speaker 2: So be mindful, ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 1: And some of y'all just need to start getting beat

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