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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Tyler is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named

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Speaker 2: Jessa who he went on a date with. So in

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Speaker 2: a few minutes we'll call her and see Chattelle's why

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But

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Speaker 2: first let's find out what happened on the date. Tyler,

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Speaker 2: what's up, man? How long has it been since you

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Speaker 2: heard from Jessa?

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Speaker 3: I mean it's been about a week and have not

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Speaker 3: heard anything from her at all?

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Speaker 4: Have you tried? How many times have you reached out

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Speaker 4: to her?

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Speaker 3: Not too much?

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Speaker 5: You don't want to be like aggressively late.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I agree. I just was checking to see

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Speaker 4: where you did.

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Speaker 5: A double text is all I did, you know?

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Speaker 3: Okay, texted a the night after and then I text

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Speaker 3: a couple of days later.

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Speaker 5: That's really all I've done.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to I don't know push her.

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Speaker 4: It was fun.

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Speaker 3: We had a great time, went out to dinner at

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Speaker 3: and then ended up going to a second location, which

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Speaker 3: is always a good you know, good sign you go

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Speaker 3: to a second location that's a drinks. I went really well.

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Speaker 3: We just went a lot of great conversation. I was,

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Speaker 3: you know, I paid for everything. I wanted to make

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Speaker 3: sure she never had enough to worry about it. But

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Speaker 3: I also made it clear there was no obligations. I

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Speaker 3: was just there enjoying my time with her because we

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Speaker 3: really got along well, and I was just really happy

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Speaker 3: with the whole day.

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Speaker 5: Like she was fantastic.

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Speaker 4: So what do you think happened?

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Speaker 6: Then?

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Speaker 4: Why do you think she's ghosting you?

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Speaker 5: I don't I honestly, I honestly don't know. The conversation

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Speaker 5: never lagged.

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Speaker 3: It never she never felt like it never seemed to

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Speaker 3: me like there's any issue I was.

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Speaker 5: I was a little sweaty, I dressed up and we

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Speaker 5: went out somewhere nice. Maybe I don't know.

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Speaker 3: If I don't feel like I hope it wasn't that

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Speaker 3: that seems kind of weird. I did pay for anything.

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Speaker 3: It was expensive, it was like super pricey, So maybe

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Speaker 3: that was too much. I am worried that I put

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Speaker 3: on like too much of an effort, but I really

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Speaker 3: free time, so like I wanted to make the effort

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Speaker 3: because she seemed worth it.

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Speaker 4: That's sweet.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm really not sure.

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Speaker 3: I like, I know this sometimes if you put too

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Speaker 3: much money into it the first day, like, it can

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Speaker 3: turn somebody off. And so I am a little worried

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Speaker 3: that that might be it. But it's it's so hard

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Speaker 3: to tell because I really and in the night, you know,

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Speaker 3: they went really well. Like I said, we had some

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Speaker 3: was really nice out and she looked really beautiful and

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Speaker 3: I asked her if I could give her a kiss

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Speaker 3: and she said yes.

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Speaker 5: So it was just a very nice, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, nice kiss, right, you know, nothing like aggressive. And

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Speaker 3: then she had in her car and I text her

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Speaker 3: and you know, and said I had a great time.

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Speaker 5: And then haven't heard four things.

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Speaker 4: So did you guys kiss on the lips?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I just have a little one though, Like what do

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Speaker 5: you call a church kiss? Like a church weddy kiss?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was trying to be very respectful and you know,

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Speaker 4: Know it's at than a grandma kiss.

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Speaker 1: Well, did it seem like she was really into you? Like,

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Speaker 1: did you guys talk about seeing each other again at.

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Speaker 3: The end, we did, and she seemed amenable to it,

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Speaker 3: and like we talked back and forth, Like I mean,

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Speaker 3: I always didn't want to talk about myself much, so

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Speaker 3: I asked her a lot of questions about herself, and

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Speaker 3: she was very engaging, and like we we told some

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Speaker 3: just little things in and that were fun. You know,

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Speaker 3: this is why if it was a bad day, I

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Speaker 3: can see the ghost I mean, you understand, it happens.

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Speaker 3: But this was a really good one, and I was

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Speaker 3: kind of really invested. Like I said, I'm really busy

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Speaker 3: who knows when the next person might be around that's

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Speaker 3: worth my time. So it's really kind of sad that

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Speaker 3: she ghosted because I was really into her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, did she say anything about wanting another date with you?

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Speaker 3: She seemed to, like I said we should do this again,

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Speaker 3: and she seemed yes, of course, let's look, let's done.

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Speaker 3: There was not any she didn't shut down, and I

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Speaker 3: mean we didn't make actual plans, but you know, she

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Speaker 4: Tyler.

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Speaker 1: When you said earlier that you were sweaty, Like how sweaty?

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Speaker 3: We're not talking like you know, buckets, but I mean

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Speaker 3: it was, it was kind of sweaty.

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Speaker 5: It's just you know, I think I overdressed a little

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Speaker 3: The restaurant had her heat on, so yeah, just a

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Speaker 3: little bit of you know, forehead sweat. But I'm not like,

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Speaker 3: just enough that I was worried about it. I was

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Speaker 3: probably more sub conscious than anyone.

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Speaker 2: All Right, well, we'll play a song, come back, and

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Speaker 2: then call her and see if she'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting you, and maybe get to another date. Okay,

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Speaker 2: be fantastic, all right, Plus i'll come back get your

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Speaker 2: first day follow up next if you're just joining us

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Speaker 2: for today's first date follow up. Tyler is on the

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Speaker 2: phone and Tyler is getting ghosted by Jessa. It's been

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Speaker 2: about a week now and he hasn't heard from her.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call her and

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Speaker 2: see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Tyler, why don't you

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Speaker 2: catch everybody up on your situation with Jessa.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just how I went out on our first day

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Speaker 3: to it was a really nice, nice time, really kind

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Speaker 3: of expensive restaurant. They went off for drinks afterwards. I

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Speaker 3: paid for everything, and then we really got along. Well,

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Speaker 3: I kissed you goodbye and haven't heard from her since,

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Speaker 3: and I'm kind of worried. Maybe because I paid too

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Speaker 4: All right, well, are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Please?

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go. Hello, I'm i as speaking

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Speaker 2: to Jessa. Please speak Hey Jessa, how are you? My

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Speaker 2: name is Jewbell and I host a radio show. It's

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Speaker 2: called The Jewbell Show. Hi, Jessa, I mean also on

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Speaker 2: the show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, a lot of you.

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Speaker 4: Hi. Yeah, what's up? How are you doing today?

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Speaker 7: I'm okay? What what's going on?

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Speaker 2: We do a segment on the show it's called the

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Speaker 2: first Date follow Up. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 2: on a date with somebody and then you ghost them,

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Speaker 2: that person can ask us to get you on the

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Speaker 2: phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got

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Speaker 2: an email about you from somebody.

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, well, I mean I am on a dating app,

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Speaker 7: so this could be going a couple times.

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Speaker 4: All okay, wait to put yourself out there. Well, I'll

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Speaker 4: tell you who it is. Okay, Okay, his name is Tyler.

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Speaker 8: Oh okay, that's a recent one.

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Speaker 7: Okay, because the thing does happen.

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Speaker 8: To me where somebody will ghost me for like months,

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Speaker 8: I had a guy reach out to me, went on

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Speaker 8: one date ten months ago.

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Speaker 7: He stopped talking to me and then was like, you're

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Speaker 7: gonna so okay, no, this is very recent. Okay, I'm

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Speaker 7: with you, Tyler.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it's been a week since you talked to him. Yeah,

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I mean honestly, like the date, like there was nothing.

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Speaker 7: Like bad that happened or anything. He just I don't know.

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Speaker 8: It kind of feels like maybe our our lives aren't

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Speaker 8: going to match up, like he did seem really tired

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Speaker 8: He might be like a workaholic, and it just didn't

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Speaker 7: So I just kind of was like I'll just cut

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Speaker 8: It's in one date, so like you know, it's easier

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Speaker 8: to ghost people than to like be like your life

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Speaker 8: isn't you know what I mean, It's just like it's awkward.

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Speaker 7: It just it just didn't feel like it was gonna

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Speaker 8: He worked like all the time, Like I feel like

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Speaker 8: even going on this date with me was like they

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Speaker 8: feel like you know, I mean, he made it work obviously, but.

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Speaker 6: It just didn't feel like he's gonna have Okay, that's

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Speaker 7: Like it's nothing crazy like it was.

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Speaker 8: you know that's a deal breaker, but.

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Speaker 6: Like okay, it just it just like didn't feel like it.

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Speaker 8: Was gonna work out, Like I really I want, like

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Speaker 8: I'm looking for that like fairytale romance, you like want

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Speaker 7: After one date.

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Speaker 8: But it just didn't feel like it was gonna.

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Speaker 7: I was gonna get what I wanted out of it.

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Speaker 6: So yeah, I did post him.

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Speaker 4: What's that?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 4: What's that saying? Though?

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Speaker 1: People will always make time for what it is that

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Speaker 1: they want to make time for for the people that

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Speaker 1: they want to spend time with. I don't know, just

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Speaker 1: kind of feels like maybe it was a a little

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Speaker 1: slow down, like he needs to slow down.

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Speaker 8: I mean, I feel like he needs to slow down.

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Speaker 8: I mean I get it, like I work a lot too,

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Speaker 8: But yeah, I don't know. I mean, that's really it,

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Speaker 8: Like maybe that's not a good enough reason to go somebody.

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Speaker 7: But like when you're on the app, it's such a.

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Speaker 8: Like I don't know if we can curse, but it's

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Speaker 6: Yeah you got us.

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Speaker 8: Sometimes just get in and out and move on, because

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Speaker 8: you know, you wait ten months and he might hit

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Speaker 4: Yeah you know. I mean, who are we to tell

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Speaker 4: you why you should or shouldn't got people? Yeah, I

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Speaker 4: mean he didn't even wait ten months. He waited a week.

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Speaker 7: He waited a week. We're still in the statute of limitations.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for being honest with us, Appreciate that. Yeah, sure,

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Speaker 2: I should let you know that he's actually on the

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Speaker 6: Talk to you.

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Speaker 8: Oh Am, I in trouble now.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: You know what. Hi.

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Speaker 7: Hi, oh hey Tyler, So how's it going.

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Speaker 5: Well? You know, I think you said it's more awkward

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Speaker 5: but this is probably more awkward.

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Speaker 7: Well, yeah, this is a little awkward.

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Speaker 5: Now I'm sorry. So yeah, I'm sorry about that. But yeah, no,

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Speaker 5: you know, I do.

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Speaker 3: I do work a lot, and I was tired, but

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Speaker 3: like when something does matter to me, I do make

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Speaker 3: the effort for it. I do put in the effort

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Speaker 3: to make space when things are important to me. And

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Speaker 3: so I want you to know that that that is

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Speaker 3: something that I'm working working on.

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Speaker 5: But also I'm already aware of. And I did make

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Speaker 5: the time for our date because it was important.

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Speaker 3: To me because I think we got along really well

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Speaker 3: and I could tell we're really go well, and I

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Speaker 3: Like I like my work, but I also like having

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Speaker 5: And then you know, I love that a little bit

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Speaker 8: Okay, so you think you're going to be able to

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Speaker 8: like loose a little bit, maybe.

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Speaker 5: A little bit. Somebody who's willing to be like, hey,

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Speaker 5: let's go do.

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Speaker 3: Something, or give me a little encouragement to stop working

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Speaker 3: for a bit, because it's hard when you work from home.

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Speaker 3: It's really hard to stop working. You're just constantly working.

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Speaker 3: And so if I have somebody that I'm like, hey,

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Speaker 3: let's go that, I want to spend time with it, and

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Speaker 3: that's a good intensive for me to stop working. So

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Speaker 3: I'm one hundred percent willing to work on that and

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Speaker 3: talk about it and everything.

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Speaker 5: But I want to talk about it.

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Speaker 3: I'd like to be able to, you know, actually talk

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, honestly, I didn't know that. I mean,

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Speaker 8: I guess I didn't know you had any kind of

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Speaker 6: But that is good and refreshing to hear.

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Speaker 7: So I guess I'm glad I answered the phone this time.

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Speaker 5: Me too, Me too. And obviously you have all the

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Speaker 3: To go on a second date, I would love to,

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Speaker 3: but I would lead a few to maybe text.

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Speaker 5: Me privately later on. I don't want I don't. I

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Speaker 5: don't want you to feel pressure if you don't want to.

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Speaker 8: You know what, actually this is, this is going well, so.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I feel good about it.

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Speaker 6: We can we can give it another shot, especially.

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Speaker 8: If you're you know, open about the time issue and

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Speaker 8: more time for each other.

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Speaker 4: Then yeah, so you'll go on another date with Tyler.

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Speaker 4: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, even better?

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Speaker 4: Sure so Tyler doesn't have a problem spending money. But

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Speaker 4: I love Congratulations Tyler, you got another date.

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Speaker 5: Thank you so much. I'm so glad. Okay, great, well,

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Speaker 5: I'm so excited, just so thank you. I prob this

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Speaker 5: next time. I won't be like so.

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Speaker 4: Sweaty what so sweaty what.

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Speaker 7: I mess them? Okay, all right, okay, I'll let it go.

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Speaker 4: First date fallow up.