WEBVTT - Jocelyn: Homebody Seeks Freak In The Sheets 0:00:04.920 --> 0:00:05.400 Awilli that. 0:00:05.480 --> 0:00:08.200 I know that Netflix and Chill was more of a 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:13.000 popular phrase a few years ago, but is there anything 0:00:13.160 --> 0:00:18.400 better than cuddling up to a special someone and sneaking 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:20.720 in ash moosh while watching a movie. 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:24.239 There is nothing, nothing better at all, So why don't 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:26.560 I just leave now? You can have the show and 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:28.400 I'm gonna go get me some Netflix and chick. 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:35.360 We have to record a podcast. Okay, welcome listeners. This 0:00:35.479 --> 0:00:36.320 is Date my Houri. 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:42.080 The first were our Unparalleledda plays matchmaker for one hopeful 0:00:42.400 --> 0:00:43.240 main data. 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:45.879 She'll meet three lucky contestants before. 0:00:45.720 --> 0:00:47.479 Sending one of them off on a one on one 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:50.560 date with our beautiful main dater. I am your host, 0:00:50.640 --> 0:00:59.160 Vico Ortiz, joined by the ever stunning am. 0:00:56.760 --> 0:00:57.960 I supposed to answer that? 0:00:59.840 --> 0:01:02.120 So glad to be here, and Netflix and Chill can 0:01:02.200 --> 0:01:05.680 wait because I have work to do for our beautiful 0:01:05.760 --> 0:01:06.280 main dater. 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:10.880 Yes you do. Our main dater this week is Jocelyn. 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:16.959 Jocelyn has tried every dating app under the sun, Like 0:01:17.040 --> 0:01:21.280 Aweita exactly, It is passionate about the intersections of dating 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:25.320 and disability. She identifies as a homebody, but doesn't let 0:01:25.400 --> 0:01:29.520 that define her. She's very active and being statnant bores her. 0:01:29.959 --> 0:01:33.640 I feel that ye Jocelyn is a biochemist towel and 0:01:33.720 --> 0:01:37.479 her celebrity crush is doctor Spencer Reed from Criminal Minds. 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:39.160 I love the specificity here. 0:01:39.760 --> 0:01:44.720 Jocelyn's Aulita Hey is her platonic life partner. Anyone she 0:01:44.800 --> 0:01:48.280 dates needs her approval above all else. So let's see 0:01:48.760 --> 0:01:53.320 how Jocelyn feels about introducing more grand motherly approval in 0:01:53.360 --> 0:01:53.919 her life. 0:01:54.000 --> 0:01:56.360 Yeah, I'm so ready to meet Joscelyn. 0:01:56.440 --> 0:02:01.440 Yes to this, me too, Jocelyn. Welcome, Hello, Hello. 0:02:01.280 --> 0:02:04.160 Hi everyone. I'm so excited to be here. I can't 0:02:04.200 --> 0:02:05.760 wait for this new adventure. 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:08.840 Yes, us too, We are so glad that you're here. 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:10.560 On dad my Awalida First. 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:13.960 I also love that you have experience around this, you know, 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:17.600 listening to Alita. But before, tell us a little bit 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:21.680 about yourself. What should Awlida and I know about you. 0:02:22.639 --> 0:02:25.600 I'm very complex. There's a lot of things that I 0:02:25.680 --> 0:02:29.080 love when I'm looking for a partner, and I think 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:32.240 the main thing for me is communication and be able 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:35.480 to sustain a good conversation. If we can't dove into 0:02:35.560 --> 0:02:39.240 a good conversation, we're done. I can't. It has to 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:41.280 be deep for me to get to know you. 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:46.000 Yes, yes, yes, yes, I love that, Awlita. With that said, 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:47.960 what else do you need to know about, Jocelyn. 0:02:48.120 --> 0:02:49.840 What we would like to know right now is a 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:51.840 little bit about your love life. So tell me what 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:53.120 that's been about. 0:02:53.800 --> 0:02:57.600 Oh, my love life is chaotic. The last time I 0:02:57.720 --> 0:03:00.600 head like a meaningful relationship was back in high school. 0:03:00.919 --> 0:03:04.320 I had situationships in college, you could call them. They 0:03:04.360 --> 0:03:08.480 never met my family because I am Mexican, so a 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:11.680 lot of Mexican families are very cheesemo so as you 0:03:11.680 --> 0:03:15.960 could say, pretty curious individuals and they try to pry. 0:03:16.360 --> 0:03:19.240 So when it comes to relationships, unless I know that 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:21.760 it's going to be a long term relationship, I bring 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:24.320 them in. But if not, the no. So college was 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:30.480 a very experimental time for me. I tried different flavors, different. 0:03:30.400 --> 0:03:35.160 Cue out and not only that, Jocelyn, but that wasn't 0:03:35.200 --> 0:03:36.000 too long ago. 0:03:36.520 --> 0:03:39.840 Yeah, I loved college. It was one of the best 0:03:39.840 --> 0:03:41.520 times of my life. If I could go back, I 0:03:41.520 --> 0:03:42.520 would do it all over again. 0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:48.560 So you had an amazing explorative college experience. 0:03:47.840 --> 0:03:49.840 Which is beautiful. I really want to recognize you for that. 0:03:49.920 --> 0:03:50.800 It is an education. 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:53.880 Oh yes, absolutely, So what are you looking for in 0:03:53.920 --> 0:03:56.040 a partner right now based on the things that you've 0:03:56.120 --> 0:03:57.760 learned from those experiences. 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:02.520 I want a partner that's emotion available, beautiful. If my 0:04:02.680 --> 0:04:07.160 partner can't be open about if they're feeling sad, depressed, 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:09.840 if they're feeling anxious, if they can't talk to me 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:12.800 in that level, I don't think we can keep going 0:04:12.880 --> 0:04:15.440 because I feel like those things when it comes to 0:04:15.480 --> 0:04:17.960 mental health is the number one priority when it comes 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:19.159 to communicating with someone. 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:22.520 Absolutely, tell us a little bit about your experience on 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:23.279 the apps. 0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:28.560 The apps are interesting. I've had a lot of other 0:04:28.640 --> 0:04:33.760 people be very weird and creepy in a sense. I've 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:36.679 had a lot of encounters where they made me feel 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:39.279 like my disability was kind of a fetish to them, 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:42.599 and it kind of put me in a really weird 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:45.039 position because it's like, I want to explore it a 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:48.200 little bit more. But the fact that you're only centuring 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:52.440 like a sexual encounter over the way that I sit 0:04:52.600 --> 0:04:54.039 or the way that I look like, or the way 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:56.680 that I'm positioned, it didn't sit right with me. 0:04:57.400 --> 0:05:00.560 No, not acceptable to Awilita. You know I got the life. 0:05:00.600 --> 0:05:02.600 This happens again, I'll be right there for you. 0:05:02.680 --> 0:05:04.840 I mean, you're here to give the chance too. 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:08.080 You know, yes to one of the two of the three. 0:05:10.240 --> 0:05:13.320 You're a Wilita that is your partner in crime. Let's 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:15.760 call her. How old is she? 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:17.039 She is seventy eight. 0:05:17.560 --> 0:05:20.640 I give it, Yah. What is the best advice Yra 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:21.960 Wilita has given you? 0:05:22.760 --> 0:05:25.279 She has given me. An advice that I hold so 0:05:25.400 --> 0:05:29.200 true to myself is if you find a person, don't 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:34.120 let that person overshadow you, because I feel like sometimes 0:05:34.120 --> 0:05:36.440 when you're in a relationship, a lot of the times, 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:39.040 the other person kind of molds to the other person 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:42.480 and their wardrobe starts to change, their antics, start to 0:05:42.560 --> 0:05:45.560 change their attitudes. And I don't want that for me. 0:05:46.120 --> 0:05:48.680 I want to stay true to who Jocelyn is with 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:50.919 the add on of a relationship with the partner. 0:05:51.200 --> 0:05:51.640 I love that. 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:54.800 I love that you want someone who you want to 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:56.159 be championed with. 0:05:56.640 --> 0:05:58.520 You know, like you are your own person. 0:05:58.960 --> 0:06:01.200 This other person is there person as well, and you 0:06:01.200 --> 0:06:04.280 get to champion each other and lean into that vulnerability, 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:08.760 that emotional availability be of support, but also not let 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:12.880 that consume your whole identity. That's really beautiful. 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:13.520 Now. 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:15.280 I love that you put in your bio that you're 0:06:15.279 --> 0:06:17.800 a biochemist. Do you want to open a little bit 0:06:17.800 --> 0:06:19.800 more about that. How did you get into it? Why 0:06:19.880 --> 0:06:22.760 made you passionate about biochemistry? That's so fucking cool. 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:26.480 Actually, I had a really awesome chemistry teacher in high 0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:30.120 school and she really showed me the ways and it 0:06:30.200 --> 0:06:35.120 was really interesting to me how basically everything starts with molecules, 0:06:35.120 --> 0:06:39.680 everything starts in the littlest amount of matter, and it 0:06:39.720 --> 0:06:42.320 was something that I really wanted to explore. There's a 0:06:42.400 --> 0:06:45.440 lot of things that made me want to go into biology, 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:50.360 specifically because it's connected to my disability. You know, I've 0:06:50.400 --> 0:06:54.000 been in the hospital for a long time throughout my 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:57.760 childhood because of surgeries, therapy and all that. So I 0:06:57.839 --> 0:07:01.360 really wanted to in a sense give back to the 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:05.640 structure or the main framework that has assisted me be 0:07:06.320 --> 0:07:07.760 the Joscelyn that I am today. 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:09.720 That's fucking beautiful. 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:10.720 It's so real. 0:07:11.120 --> 0:07:12.440 Now I want to ask you too. 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:15.120 You have such clarity around what is it that you're 0:07:15.120 --> 0:07:18.600 looking for in a partner, and I am curious as well. 0:07:19.280 --> 0:07:21.520 You know, you've done so much work on yourself too. 0:07:22.080 --> 0:07:24.560 Share with us some of that, Like how do you 0:07:25.000 --> 0:07:28.760 show up in a relationship. How do you maneuver around conflict? 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:31.360 How do you show up in these ways? 0:07:31.920 --> 0:07:35.000 I'm very communicative. If I'm not liking something, I will 0:07:35.040 --> 0:07:38.200 tell you right off the bat, and if I like something, 0:07:38.240 --> 0:07:40.240 then I will tell you like hey, like, let's continue 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:43.400 to do this. Communication is key for me. Going to 0:07:43.520 --> 0:07:47.160 therapy and just exploring who I am has really made 0:07:47.160 --> 0:07:49.320 me see the perspective of life. And if you're not 0:07:49.560 --> 0:07:53.240 able to communicate what you're feeling to somebody else that 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:56.000 you care about, how is that relationship going to work, 0:07:56.040 --> 0:08:00.400 whether it's plotonically familiarity or in romantic. 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:05.480 Absolutely, I agree with you. A little producer Birdie whispered 0:08:05.680 --> 0:08:09.080 into my ear that you've mentioned you're a little freaky. 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:10.440 And the reason why I'm. 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:14.520 The reason why I'm the one asking the question is 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:16.320 because I am Almoso a little freaky. 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:18.800 Yes, but I'm learning and. 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:21.120 Does definitely for she's learning. 0:08:21.680 --> 0:08:23.560 Can you share with us a little bit because I'm 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:27.480 just really curious how you're exploring pleasure and sexuality around 0:08:27.560 --> 0:08:29.840 healing and all and ownership and empowerment. 0:08:29.960 --> 0:08:33.200 So please, Yes, I was wondering when you guys were 0:08:33.200 --> 0:08:36.640 gonna bring that up, Like I said, I'm a biochemist, 0:08:36.760 --> 0:08:39.520 so if we're trying to figure something out, we're gonna 0:08:39.520 --> 0:08:42.920 test it out. We're gonna research it. So I'm an 0:08:42.960 --> 0:08:46.000 avid reader and I love to read, and a lot 0:08:46.040 --> 0:08:48.680 of the times there's a lot of spicy things going 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:51.560 on in books, so I love to test them out. 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:54.000 I'm like, let's see how this is gonna work out with, 0:08:54.640 --> 0:08:59.200 you know, my disabled body, and see if it's worth continuing. 0:08:59.720 --> 0:09:02.880 But I think the main reason why I'm very like 0:09:03.040 --> 0:09:05.960 freaky and not like vanilla, I call it vanilla sex, 0:09:05.960 --> 0:09:10.440 which is like, you know, missionary. It's because it's harder 0:09:10.440 --> 0:09:13.640 for me to do that position with my disability, so 0:09:14.040 --> 0:09:16.720 I've had to get creative to do that part of 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:17.840 just being a woman. 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:21.600 What kind of response do you get from males? Are 0:09:21.640 --> 0:09:25.440 they kind to you? Do they ask you questions? Are 0:09:25.440 --> 0:09:26.280 they supportive? 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:26.760 Yeah? 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:29.080 Usually they asked me a lot of questions. They're like, 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:31.600 are you sure, like let me know if this is 0:09:31.640 --> 0:09:33.200 too much, or how far you can. 0:09:33.160 --> 0:09:34.720 Go or and you go bring it. 0:09:36.160 --> 0:09:36.760 Yeah. 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:40.320 No, though, that before I even consider having sex with 0:09:40.360 --> 0:09:42.360 a person, I have to really get to know the 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:45.079 person and if they're caring enough to help me think 0:09:45.240 --> 0:09:46.840 regular mundane things. 0:09:46.880 --> 0:09:48.880 Then, yeah, it's about trust. 0:09:49.040 --> 0:09:50.959 Absolutely, what a beautiful soul you have? 0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:53.440 I love, I love. How do you feel out? 0:09:53.760 --> 0:09:56.600 Do you think we got we can find a trustworthy 0:09:56.800 --> 0:09:58.839 doctor Spencer read look alike? 0:09:59.160 --> 0:10:03.680 Absolutely? I love Spencer Reed. He is adorable. He's such 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:04.880 a smart young man. 0:10:05.120 --> 0:10:07.560 Okay, Well, with that said, I think it's time to 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:10.240 meet the contestants because yeah, that's ready. 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:18.560 We'll be back after the break. Welcome back today, Malani. 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:23.240 The first, thank you all for joining us today. We 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:27.079 got a great group of people, So let's start with Ian. 0:10:28.000 --> 0:10:31.560 Ian is a twenty nine year old Gemini who enjoys 0:10:31.600 --> 0:10:36.320 being creative in any way he can possibly make happen. 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:40.720 He's written a book about what he calls rom com syndrome, 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:44.760 Very Intrigued by That, and a feature film advocating for 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:50.040 universal healthcare, and also performs regularly on his improv team 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:54.040 he can sometimes. He considered a series of walking contradictions fame, 0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:59.120 describing himself as both ambitious and chill, emotionally trustworthy and 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:03.120 sardonic and funny and down to earth, honestly a human being. 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:05.640 We're so happy to have. 0:11:07.240 --> 0:11:10.600 Thank you for having me my first time dating so 0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:11.800 I'm very excited. 0:11:11.880 --> 0:11:14.640 Well, let me let me tell you my need. We're 0:11:14.679 --> 0:11:17.880 not gonna take it that far. I will find you 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:19.160 someone along the way. 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:21.960 Unless you have an uncle or a grandpa. 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:27.480 Then filled breathing, Yeah, Next, we have Joshua. 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:31.680 Joshua is a twenty eight year old Sopal local with 0:11:31.840 --> 0:11:35.400 a real go with the flow kind of vibe. He 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:38.080 can be an introvert, but when he goes out, he 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:40.680 makes sure everyone has a great time and is often 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:45.040 considered the life of a Zepp party. Joshua is also 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:49.240 a huge Disney and Star Wars fan, and he values 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:53.679 long term relationships, maintaining many decades plus long close friendships. 0:11:53.840 --> 0:11:57.040 Say hello, Joshua, how's it going, how's it going? 0:11:58.120 --> 0:12:02.800 Amazing? And final, we have Anthony. Anthony is a twenty 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:05.960 seven year old Los Angeles native with a big heart 0:12:06.040 --> 0:12:07.560 and even bigger lave. 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:08.360 Can we hear it? 0:12:08.559 --> 0:12:12.120 Yeah, He's got a teddyver a vibe and a passion 0:12:12.160 --> 0:12:14.319 for theater and live performance. 0:12:14.360 --> 0:12:16.920 Say hello, Anthony, Hi, thanks so. 0:12:16.960 --> 0:12:18.480 Much for having me. I'm excited to be here. 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:20.680 Hello us too. 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:23.679 You know I have a feeling that you're all my 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:24.760 favorite group. 0:12:26.800 --> 0:12:31.040 You're saying that about every group Look, it's great. 0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:33.240 I put all those ages together. I have a husband. 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:38.080 With that said, time to get to. 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:42.800 Know you all a little bit better with our first game, 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:51.760 homebody Vibe. Our main dater loves a cuddly, cozy night, Anne, 0:12:52.120 --> 0:12:55.120 and we'd love to see how you might fit. 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:58.160 Into that lifestyle. The game is very simple. 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:01.959 We'll give you three types of home body activities and 0:13:02.200 --> 0:13:05.160 you'll let us know which one is the closest to 0:13:05.200 --> 0:13:06.320 your personal vibe. 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:11.479 Anything that happens at home is my vibe. Oh, especially 0:13:11.520 --> 0:13:14.559 in the bedroom. Okay, especially when it comes to sex. 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:16.679 Okay. Oh, we're getting more specific. Do you want to 0:13:16.679 --> 0:13:18.600 get I was like. 0:13:20.440 --> 0:13:24.000 So, which one of these three stay at home activities 0:13:24.120 --> 0:13:28.520 seems most of your alley Netflix and chill, bake a 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:32.520 cake and gossip, or get high and do a lego? E. 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:35.359 What's your homebody vibe out of these three activities? 0:13:35.840 --> 0:13:38.360 I mean, I love Netflix and chill like that. It's 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:42.440 definitely a very tempting option. But I feel like you know, 0:13:42.559 --> 0:13:45.280 early on in a relationship, I want something where you 0:13:45.320 --> 0:13:47.240 can talk a little bit more. So I'm going to 0:13:47.320 --> 0:13:52.080 go with Get high and lego because it's a collaborative thing. 0:13:52.200 --> 0:13:53.680 You're gonna have to do it together. 0:13:54.320 --> 0:13:56.800 I feel like it would be weird for me, wouldn't 0:13:56.800 --> 0:13:59.440 be anything too crazy. And it just puts you in 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:02.520 a headspace where you're you're laughing, you're having fun, you're 0:14:02.520 --> 0:14:05.440 working together, you can talk about other things while you're 0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:08.920 doing it. And when I was a kid, I absolutely 0:14:09.080 --> 0:14:10.560 loved me some legos. 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:14.040 So he was gonna say, love me some weed, which 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:15.640 it's okay. 0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:19.560 I don't know, maybe it's not okay. I'm like, I 0:14:19.560 --> 0:14:24.720 don't know, what's the age I was five? I love this. 0:14:24.920 --> 0:14:29.120 Thank you for that. Ian Anthony, what's yours? 0:14:30.160 --> 0:14:32.600 I think I have to go with bacon gossip. I 0:14:32.680 --> 0:14:35.800 tend to do that already, just naturally in my life. Yes, 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:38.640 And there's nothing like having something, you know, hot and 0:14:38.680 --> 0:14:41.720 fresh out of the oven, like some cookies, something nice, 0:14:41.880 --> 0:14:47.000 you know. And gossip isn't that bad if you if 0:14:47.040 --> 0:14:47.480 you do it. 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:50.920 Right, right, correct, Absolutely, just the conversation. 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:58.200 And I love this, Joshua, what's your homebody activity? 0:14:58.400 --> 0:15:01.040 See, it's a toss up between the the Netflix and 0:15:01.120 --> 0:15:04.360 chill and then the baking and gossip because it depends 0:15:04.360 --> 0:15:07.720 on the Netflix movie. But I'm also quite a foodie. 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:10.480 I'm gonna combine yours and just be like you have 0:15:10.560 --> 0:15:13.760 Netflix in the background, and then you're just like bacon 0:15:13.840 --> 0:15:14.480 and gossiping. 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:19.680 Oh yeah, oh yeah, bakers are welcomed in my home. Yeah, anytime. 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:23.320 Absolutely, I read that. What are your homebody activities? 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:28.120 Which movie makes you most excited to snuggle up? The Exorcist, 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:31.080 Legally Blonde or Shreke Too. 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:32.760 These are excellent. 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:34.960 I love them all, Anthony. 0:15:35.520 --> 0:15:37.960 I can't do the Exorcist for sure. I'm kind of 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:40.400 a scaredy cat, so that's a no thank you for me. 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:45.320 But Legally Blond and Trek two are fantastic pieces of cinema. 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:46.520 So either of those. 0:15:46.360 --> 0:15:47.360 I'm in gorgeous. 0:15:47.400 --> 0:15:51.160 Gorgeous, Joshua, what's your snuggle up movie? 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:55.320 I mean, you can't go bad with a classic animated movie. 0:15:55.520 --> 0:15:59.560 It's gotta be Strike Too, all the way adorable. 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:01.840 What is your snuggle up movie? 0:16:02.160 --> 0:16:04.600 You know, if it was og Shrek, I might go 0:16:04.720 --> 0:16:07.920 with that, But I'm a fan of the sequels. I mean, 0:16:08.040 --> 0:16:10.120 I Shrek it is a great movie. I just sequels 0:16:10.120 --> 0:16:12.080 in general I don't like as much, so I'll go 0:16:12.120 --> 0:16:15.080 with Legally Blonde. I feel like with Reese Weatherspoon you 0:16:15.080 --> 0:16:15.800 can never hear wrong. 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:18.600 Here, here, here, here, I agree with all you know 0:16:18.680 --> 0:16:21.600 the I mean the ox Orcist. The Exorcist is a 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:23.440 tough one to watch. 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:26.680 I watched The Exorcist when I was thirteen years old. 0:16:27.000 --> 0:16:30.720 I had a copy Dan Theater on Hollywood Boulevard. 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:34.760 Noted in the eighteen hundreds copy that absolutely Okay, I 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:35.600 have the last one. 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:40.239 Which dinner are you most likely to make your significant 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:45.640 other on a night in boxed mac and cheese, steak 0:16:45.680 --> 0:16:48.440 and mashed potatoes, or a garden salad. 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:51.000 I want to hear from Anthony first. 0:16:51.320 --> 0:16:53.480 If I'm looking to impress, I'll go with the steak 0:16:53.480 --> 0:16:56.520 and mashed potatoes. But I will be stressed because cooking 0:16:56.600 --> 0:16:57.560 meat stresses me. 0:16:57.520 --> 0:16:59.600 Out to get that perfect. 0:16:59.280 --> 0:17:01.160 Yeah, that makes me medium. 0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:04.520 Joshua, what's your dinner? 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:07.920 See, it's a toss up. You got two good ones, 0:17:07.960 --> 0:17:10.240 which is the mac and cheese and then the steak dinner. 0:17:10.600 --> 0:17:12.960 The steak dinner, I would say, is more for special 0:17:12.960 --> 0:17:16.679 occasions anniversaries. You know, the mac and cheese can be 0:17:16.720 --> 0:17:17.760 an everyday thing. 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:19.920 Dang every day mac and cheese. 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:23.200 Yeah, but I'm so sad that nobody cares about their 0:17:23.240 --> 0:17:24.760 health and their vegetables. 0:17:25.200 --> 0:17:28.120 Hellas going on here? No sound for any of us 0:17:28.720 --> 0:17:30.760 Ian what's your dinner? 0:17:31.080 --> 0:17:35.200 Well, to be as honest as possible, please, I would 0:17:35.240 --> 0:17:37.879 be in the steak category. But what I actually like 0:17:37.960 --> 0:17:40.800 to make is this slow cooker beef from broccoli recipe. 0:17:40.880 --> 0:17:43.840 So it is beef, there's no potato in it. But 0:17:44.400 --> 0:17:46.080 what I like about it is you don't have to 0:17:46.080 --> 0:17:48.199 worry about overtooking it. You just throw it in the 0:17:48.240 --> 0:17:51.119 slow cooker, You come back four hours later, you do 0:17:51.160 --> 0:17:52.920 a little bit more, and then a half hour later 0:17:53.000 --> 0:17:56.520 it's all done. It's really easy and it's delicious. It's 0:17:56.520 --> 0:18:00.760 honestly my favorite thing to eat, even including restaurants. 0:18:00.800 --> 0:18:01.840 I make it all the time. 0:18:02.119 --> 0:18:03.800 I love it, I love it, I love it. 0:18:04.640 --> 0:18:08.120 Oh my goodness, these are great responses. Should we move 0:18:08.200 --> 0:18:09.280 on to the next game? 0:18:09.840 --> 0:18:11.600 I don't know. Can I cuddle up with them? 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:12.719 Oh? 0:18:12.760 --> 0:18:14.520 You want to cuddle up with one of the before 0:18:15.040 --> 0:18:16.120 with all of them? 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:18.280 You are all so cute, but of course, like a 0:18:18.359 --> 0:18:21.040 grandma grandson thing, you know, hey. 0:18:21.040 --> 0:18:25.600 Sure sure, sure, sure sure, And we're talking freaky, Remember my. 0:18:25.560 --> 0:18:28.960 God, it's just a horny show. Let's just call it one. 0:18:28.960 --> 0:18:34.520 It is our main dator has a secret favorite genre 0:18:34.960 --> 0:18:37.160 of reading, romance novels. 0:18:37.640 --> 0:18:41.640 In this game of smut, did she say, we'll give 0:18:41.640 --> 0:18:41.960 you the. 0:18:41.920 --> 0:18:46.000 Beginning of a smut and you'll need to finish it 0:18:46.640 --> 0:18:49.359 fill in the blank. You know, she just wanted to 0:18:49.600 --> 0:18:51.320 clarify the finishing process. 0:18:51.800 --> 0:18:54.199 I want need that will will you beat the reader? 0:18:55.280 --> 0:19:00.560 Listen, finish this one. Her fingers caressed my legs. I 0:19:00.800 --> 0:19:07.640 shiver with antssipation. Our eyes lock and I take it away. 0:19:07.480 --> 0:19:15.480 Joshua, and I touched my toes and curled up in 0:19:15.560 --> 0:19:17.920 a nice, warm bath. 0:19:18.720 --> 0:19:21.800 Nicely, lovely, lovely anthony. 0:19:22.560 --> 0:19:26.080 Her fingers caress my leg I shiver with antssipation. 0:19:26.320 --> 0:19:27.720 Our eyes lock and I. 0:19:29.000 --> 0:19:32.920 And I ask, do you have an earthquake readiness plan 0:19:33.720 --> 0:19:41.560 and prepared that is non perishable? We live an earthquake country, 0:19:41.640 --> 0:19:43.439 and I need to know that we're ready to go. 0:19:45.920 --> 0:19:52.360 Fucking beautiful, honestly, but Ian, what's what's your wing? Our 0:19:52.440 --> 0:19:55.840 eyes lock and I. 0:19:55.840 --> 0:19:59.920 I kissed the nape of her neck as we unbuttony 0:20:00.040 --> 0:20:05.040 each other's clothes with the eagerness of teenagers. 0:20:05.240 --> 0:20:08.520 Okay, okay, okay, okay. 0:20:08.720 --> 0:20:12.119 Show is this again? Oh my good. 0:20:12.280 --> 0:20:12.960 I do the next one. 0:20:13.000 --> 0:20:16.160 I'll do the next one. Okay, she smells like dale 0:20:16.160 --> 0:20:16.920 old roses. 0:20:17.560 --> 0:20:22.240 I smell like motor oil and tobacco, but together we 0:20:22.280 --> 0:20:29.280 smell like Ian. Take it away, Heaven, gorgeous, Anthony, take 0:20:29.320 --> 0:20:30.040 it away. 0:20:30.240 --> 0:20:32.800 The four oh five at three pm on Friday. 0:20:33.720 --> 0:20:37.320 I love this Joshua at. 0:20:37.240 --> 0:20:42.480 The back of a restaurant in times of crisis, during 0:20:42.520 --> 0:20:43.000 that fire. 0:20:43.560 --> 0:20:46.680 That was truly, truly beautiful. 0:20:47.000 --> 0:20:52.000 This man amazing, This is incredible. These are yeah, yeah, good, 0:20:52.000 --> 0:20:52.639 you do yours? 0:20:52.640 --> 0:20:56.480 No, check it out. Now we embrace and I can 0:20:56.560 --> 0:20:58.359 feel her heartbeat. 0:20:57.840 --> 0:21:02.240 Of lining with mine. Today is now forever. 0:21:03.280 --> 0:21:08.000 I pull away, but she pulls me back and. 0:21:07.080 --> 0:21:12.480 Ian as I climax, she comes to and we are 0:21:12.800 --> 0:21:14.560 forever one. 0:21:14.840 --> 0:21:18.120