1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this is from Stacy and Lexington. Stacy says, 2 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: I'm having a hard time for giving my husband for 3 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 1: not picking me up from work. I had to get 4 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 1: an uber because he wouldn't tell his boss that he 5 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 1: had to go. He said his company's president was in 6 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:17,639 Speaker 1: town and he could not leave. He has put his 7 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:20,639 Speaker 1: job before me for the last time. He said. I 8 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: don't understand because I'm not in a leadership role. How 9 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 1: is that any different? Am I supposed to overlook how 10 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: he neglected me? 11 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 2: Well, I think you could be overreacting a little bit here. 12 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 2: That could be just a slight overreaction. Your husband's first 13 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:42,919 Speaker 2: obligation is to take care of his family, to provide 14 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 2: and protect. Provision is a huge thing for a man. 15 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 2: If the president is in town, it ain't a good look. 16 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 2: If he puts a personal matter in the front of 17 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 2: taking care of the company business. How else does he 18 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 2: be up for promotion unless he shows dead. Now you 19 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 2: had to get a ride home. I understand you mad, 20 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 2: but it's not him putting the company in front of you. 21 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 2: And if you don't look at it that way, it's 22 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 2: your husband putting his family first in terms of making 23 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 2: sure he's in a provision capacity. He will. 24 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, he got it. 25 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 2: Look, he trying to climb the corporate letter, try to 26 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 2: be the best he can be. 27 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 3: You know now, he. 28 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 2: Probably called you and told you he can just leave 29 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 2: you out on the curve. He probably told you, hey, look, 30 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:38,399 Speaker 2: my boss is in town. I can't leave right now. 31 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 2: Can you get an uber to the house or can 32 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 2: you make another rangers. I'm almost certain that's what he did. 33 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 3: He did. 34 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 2: You wasn't just out because she would have said in 35 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 2: her letter, he left me standing on a curve and 36 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 2: I ended up going home, and then he told me 37 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 2: later he couldn't leave. So that's not the case. I 38 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 2: think it could be a little bit overreaction. Give your 39 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 2: husband a break. He wasn't nowhere playing paddle ball of 40 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 2: shooting pool or work taking care of business, that's right. 41 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. And she was like, she's like, how am I 42 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 1: supposed to overlook how he neglected me? 43 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 3: No, he didn't neglect you. Yeah, come on, how you 44 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 3: fell to. 45 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 2: Look the fact that this man ain't taking care of 46 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 2: business for real? 47 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 3: Yeah? The people I ain't got jobs? Take care man? Please? 48 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 2: He had work, trying to be a better get a 49 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:31,640 Speaker 2: better position up his money. 50 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 3: He didn't do that to neglect you, not at all. 51 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we have time for another one, Steve. 52 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: This is from Miracle in Nashville. Miracle says, I'm messing 53 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: with an older man and he's too large for me. 54 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: But I like him. I can't be intimate with him 55 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 1: as often as he likes. I don't want to mess 56 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: this up because he's an excellent partner. What do I do? 57 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 3: I don't know what and why. You can ask me them. 58 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 2: Fine, to talk to some other women that know some 59 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 2: exercises or something you could do exercise. I don't know 60 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 2: what it is. You got to get out, get in there. 61 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 2: You gotta get in shape. See, you can't be all 62 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 2: out here in the Major League. 63 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 3: You can't. 64 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 2: He Hey, in the majors, we throw ninety mile part 65 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 2: hour fastballs. We ain't got no setting there that little lead. 66 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 2: Maybe you need to get in the little lead leaders. 67 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 2: Old man, Lord, he ain't finna be small. Wow. He 68 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 2: in here bringing it only way he know all of it. 69 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 3: Ain't no little bit. 70 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 2: Now you're gonna have to go somewhere and find yourself 71 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 2: something else to do, or you're gonna get hit better 72 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 2: at what you do. Now I don't need what if 73 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 2: you need to go down to the store and buy 74 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 2: something or have talked to your friends, because I have 75 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 2: seen some stuff in some stores. I don't know how 76 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 2: they using this here, you know, but they got them, 77 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 2: they got them. I'll still behind the lady. One time 78 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 2: she had some in her called I would whoo. I don't. 79 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 3: What it was. I won't. 80 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 1: No, you cannot, I won't. I mean she can be 81 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: intimate with him, but she says not as often as 82 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 1: he likes. 83 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 3: Well, but see, you ain't gonna be keep him in. 84 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, move on, Like I said, call one of your 85 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 2: girls and find out what she did. 86 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 3: Because one of your girls has had this. See, I 87 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 3: don't know that. 88 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 2: Maybe if nothing you do, then you got to go 89 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 2: back and play in the little league. 90 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 3: Come here in the majors with the big boy. You're 91 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 3: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.