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Speaker 1: We'll give him a call for you to ask them why. Today,

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Speaker 1: we've got Wayne on the phone. Wayne, how are you?

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Speaker 1: What's up man? How are you doing? I'm all right?

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Speaker 1: So you went out on a date. What's the girl's name?

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Speaker 1: By the way, her name's Meredith, all right? Is she ninety? Oh? Come,

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Speaker 1: this is a pretty old name. Again, it's an old name,

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Speaker 1: all right. Anyway, so you went out with Meredith? What

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Speaker 1: So it was going great and we ended up like

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Speaker 1: making out and then exactly what happened? Of course? Uh

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Speaker 1: you ask me. Yeah, so you you made out for

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Speaker 1: but the point is it was like it was really sexy.

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Speaker 1: just leave right after? Right? Well exactly, I thought maybe

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Speaker 1: me with this problem as jew bl Oh, yeah, that

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Speaker 1: you work, but they should give you a raise, that's

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Speaker 1: all I know. I feel like you understand women. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's the second worst does women. So

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Speaker 1: we're gonna call it right after this and ask her why. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you, And you're prepared that this could bring some

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Speaker 1: sort of HR violation against you. I hope not. Yes,

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Speaker 1: today's second date update. I'm hoping that nobody gets fired over.

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Speaker 1: Wayne went out with his co worker Meredith. They ended

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Speaker 1: find out why. Wayne, you're ready to call her? Yeah, man,

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Speaker 1: I can't do anymore. I'm only getting right now here. Hey, Meredith,

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Speaker 1: Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. Okay,

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Speaker 1: well let me stop you us to hear. Um, I

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Speaker 1: this thing we do on our show called Second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: You went out with Wayne? You guys kind of messed

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Speaker 1: And we just helped the process along. So why don't

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Speaker 1: good because I think that the date went well. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you guys were just making out. He said. This is

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Speaker 1: for that. Way. Wait, I know what's happening. You're you're

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Speaker 1: I know what's happening. You're you're a virgin. I know

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Speaker 1: to respect that right Wayne. Actually at the fact that

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Speaker 1: like to ask Meredith if she would like to go

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Speaker 1: on a date with me a second time, completely on me. Okay, awesome,

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Speaker 1: that saves us money. Meredith, that's so sweet. Um, that

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Speaker 1: was really a great guy. If if it's I mean,

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Speaker 1: will see take him up on the second day. That's

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Speaker 1: what I say. Go out and see if he's legit. Okay,

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