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Speaker 2: It says Cold of Guard?

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Speaker 3: Does it really?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? What a box does?

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Speaker 1: I'd like to think maybe it's more private than that.

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Speaker 1: They don't put the brand name on the outside of it,

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Speaker 1: because that is what you're doing. That you're walking in

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Speaker 2: That's to think. I can't be like, how insulated is that?

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Speaker 2: That's what I need to know.

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Speaker 1: You you got to think that they figured this out.

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Speaker 1: It's been out for a while, you know, multiple multiple bags.

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Speaker 1: Has anyone done this? Has anyone done the Cold of

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Speaker 2: It says the logo is visible.

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Speaker 3: Would they do that to you? Why would they do

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Speaker 2: They can send like discrete stuff to your house, That's

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Speaker 4: Then what like adult toy stores, like they know how

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Speaker 1: Shoe and shows up in a normal box, like normal box,

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Speaker 1: And if it's if colon cancer is found early, then

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Speaker 1: And my mom's like, why don't you just go now?

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Speaker 1: Like why did I just wait a year? Forty five

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Speaker 1: and having cameras stuck places at on. You've had one,

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Speaker 1: I'd get one today if they had time. They do

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, you yourself no, it's.

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Speaker 3: It's a webcam.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, I've done that.

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Speaker 1: You know what, We're probably not far from it. Honestly,

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Speaker 3: Good morning? So you've done the colon garden? Yes I have,

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Speaker 1: You should not refuse to do it. Now here's a

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Speaker 1: but you should. You should not refuse it, because what

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Speaker 3: Nina, we need you. You only have thirteen listeners.

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Speaker 6: Well they can check my poopy for that.

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Speaker 10: All right, let's get into the courtroom. The gavel has

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Speaker 1: You've spent money to put me into school, and you

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00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:06,000
Speaker 1: know you were part of that, and that's all fair,

440
00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:08,560
Speaker 1: but like, why am I acknowledging you when two other

441
00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:11,480
Speaker 1: people did all the work exactly And so I wasn't

442
00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:13,879
Speaker 1: comfortable with that, and it was a bad spot to

443
00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:16,359
Speaker 1: be in because it's like, how about look at this

444
00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:19,879
Speaker 1: and say, maybe I should have been more involved in

445
00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:22,720
Speaker 1: the process if I expect to be acknowledged. But no,

446
00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:25,119
Speaker 1: it was well, I'm so and so, so I get it,

447
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,000
Speaker 1: and that's just the way it is. And it's like, no,

448
00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 1: I think we earn our place in other people's lives

449
00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,920
Speaker 1: and we have to continue earning it, whether we're entitled

450
00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:37,680
Speaker 1: enough because we created them or not. That's my ted

451
00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:38,280
Speaker 1: talk for the day.

452
00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:40,160
Speaker 2: You're not wrong, though, You're really not wrong.

453
00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:43,160
Speaker 10: Just because we have blood ties or whatever, that doesn't

454
00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:45,040
Speaker 10: mean that you were an actual parent to me. That

455
00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,600
Speaker 10: just means you made me, and that doesn't mean you

456
00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:49,720
Speaker 10: get to celebrate all of my wins that you played

457
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,919
Speaker 10: no part in helping me achieve. And so that's I

458
00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:54,720
Speaker 10: feel like it should be up to the kid to

459
00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 10: kind of decide. And I understand how the stepfather can feel.

460
00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:00,600
Speaker 10: He can feel upset, but I don't think you're wrong

461
00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:02,560
Speaker 10: for choosing the people that were important to you.

462
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:05,040
Speaker 4: I would love to know has he tried talking to

463
00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,800
Speaker 4: the stepdad like before this or was it this big

464
00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:09,840
Speaker 4: like gotcha moment and the step dad had no idea

465
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,240
Speaker 4: like I guess. I would love to know if he said, hey,

466
00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:15,000
Speaker 4: you know, I'm having issues with you in this department

467
00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 4: or that department, or even confided in his mom.

468
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:20,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like he just he said they coexist.

469
00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:22,960
Speaker 10: You know that the stepfather is not supportive of his

470
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 10: aspirations to go do music and go to school for music.

471
00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:28,359
Speaker 2: He makes fun of it and the mom.

472
00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:30,920
Speaker 10: You know, I understand the mom backing up her husband,

473
00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:33,119
Speaker 10: but even she goes you know he could do he

474
00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 10: put a roof over your head when your father couldn't, Like, well,

475
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,840
Speaker 10: my father died, Like, it's not like my father chose

476
00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:39,280
Speaker 10: not to be in the picture, right, you know.

477
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:40,880
Speaker 2: He did make that point.

478
00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:43,000
Speaker 4: And the kid didn't ask for any of that, you know,

479
00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 4: So that's unfair.

480
00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:45,920
Speaker 2: Why did would you say you don't stand with the mother?

481
00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:47,840
Speaker 1: No, I think the mom used to back up her

482
00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:50,399
Speaker 1: kid or at least be sympathetic to both sides.

483
00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:52,879
Speaker 3: For sure, I would be so upset.

484
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,800
Speaker 1: I think if my mom was watching all this happen

485
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:58,000
Speaker 1: and knew there was a disconnect, because for me, for

486
00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:00,840
Speaker 1: the stepdad, this feels like optics. Now I don't know

487
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,520
Speaker 1: if he's a bad guy or good guy. I don't know,

488
00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:05,119
Speaker 1: but now he's not being included is something everybody else is,

489
00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:06,760
Speaker 1: and he won't be there, and the question will be

490
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:08,440
Speaker 1: why isn't he there?

491
00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:09,640
Speaker 3: And that's about him.

492
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,960
Speaker 1: Maybe he should have considered that when there was no relationship,

493
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,200
Speaker 1: because now all of a sudden, there's not much relationship

494
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 1: and he's not being included in this intimate moment and

495
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 1: people are going to ask the question, and it's kind

496
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:21,480
Speaker 1: of like sour grapes it's like, well.

497
00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 3: I didn't invest in the process.

498
00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:24,679
Speaker 1: Not only that, I made fun of the kid for

499
00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 1: the process they were experiencing. And now all of a sudden,

500
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:29,160
Speaker 1: and maybe that stuff's going to come up and it's

501
00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:31,159
Speaker 1: going to make him feel bad and look bad, and

502
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:33,400
Speaker 1: maybe he should have thought of that the same way

503
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:35,199
Speaker 1: that you know, in my example, it's like, well, how

504
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:38,000
Speaker 1: about being involved in the process and not just the

505
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,480
Speaker 1: you know, the accolade part of it, and then maybe

506
00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:43,560
Speaker 1: we don't find ourselves here. But usually people like that

507
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,359
Speaker 1: don't see it that way. Oh no, it's more what

508
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 1: they deserve.

509
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 3: And I don't know.

510
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:50,439
Speaker 1: I think, especially when it comes to parents and kids

511
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:55,199
Speaker 1: and adults and kids, I think it's our responsibility, especially

512
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 1: if they're your kids or you're responsible as a step party,

513
00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,440
Speaker 1: it's your responsibility to continue to invest in them.

514
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:04,119
Speaker 4: Yes, in that relationship her son and like him be

515
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:04,879
Speaker 4: in a good house.

516
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, Hey Jennifer, Yeah, Hi, Hey Kiky score

517
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 1: what say you? You guys are the jury?

518
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:14,639
Speaker 11: I totally agree with Kiki. And at the end of

519
00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 11: the day, she invited her grandmother who's the mother of

520
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,920
Speaker 11: her father. That you know, at the end of the day,

521
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:25,919
Speaker 11: and like she was saying, you know, to disconnect the

522
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,440
Speaker 11: laughing at her about you know, what she wants to do,

523
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 11: and and the mother is totally wrong. Like I said before,

524
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 11: you know that she didn't ask for that. And to

525
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 11: say he put a roof over her head, well, you

526
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,920
Speaker 11: guys are married. You put the roof over her head

527
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,200
Speaker 11: as well, and you shouldn't put that on her.

528
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:45,439
Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough, thank you, Jennifer, So yes, thank you.

529
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:47,639
Speaker 1: And somebody said putting a roof over your head, this

530
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:50,159
Speaker 1: is a text. And feeding you every day makes you involved.

531
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:55,640
Speaker 1: Kids are so entitled and unappreciative again, is that yeah?

532
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 3: I mean you can't.

533
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 1: You can't say that's not I don't know about the

534
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,159
Speaker 1: entitled unappreciate part in this example. I mean, this is

535
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 1: a person who actively told this young young man, right, yeah,

536
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 1: told this young told this young man that what you know,

537
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: the music path and the path he was on that

538
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,639
Speaker 1: he's of which he's now accomplished in graduating from was

539
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 1: He wasn't supportive.

540
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,679
Speaker 10: He wasn't supportive, he was dismissive. They just coexist. He

541
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 10: made those points, and I think you know, as a parent,

542
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 10: that's your obligation to at least provide for your child

543
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 10: and feed them, but about them, supporting them emotionally and

544
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 10: you know, to caring about their mental health. That is

545
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:31,359
Speaker 10: something different. And if you don't do that, then you

546
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 10: don't get to be at situations like that. You don't

547
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,400
Speaker 10: go to graduations like this, Like that's crazy.

548
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,679
Speaker 1: Would I would argue the entitlement might be on the

549
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: stepdad's side. Yes, to say, well I did all this,

550
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 1: so I should get to I should get to be there.

551
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 1: It's like, well, maybe you should have been more supportive

552
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:51,119
Speaker 1: along the way. Hey, Stacy, I think we also forget

553
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 1: we're talking about kids. Even at seventeen eighteen, you're still

554
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,640
Speaker 1: a kid and grown ups. Yes, we're talking about children

555
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 1: and grown ups, so we have to take that in consideration.

556
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 3: Stay, see what do you want to say?

557
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 1: Hi?

558
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 6: Guy?

559
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 3: I love you guys. Morning.

560
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 2: So I was this child and I currently have a child.

561
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 5: In high school and she has a stepfather part of

562
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:12,920
Speaker 5: her life currently.

563
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:15,200
Speaker 7: So just being that.

564
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 2: Child and having that parent.

565
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 5: That this current child and we're speaking about that does

566
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:23,879
Speaker 5: have I also had a very rocky relationship, and I agree,

567
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,439
Speaker 5: I don't think that this person is obligated to go

568
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 5: if if I didn't feel that my stepdad needs to go.

569
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 5: I wasn't gonna invite him, and I didn't invite him

570
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 5: to be honest with you. Now we have a better relationship.

571
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 5: He has been helpful with my kids currently and things

572
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,440
Speaker 5: of that nature. Maybe that will change, Maybe that will

573
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 5: set something within the stepparents, be like, maybe I should

574
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 5: step up, maybe I should do better, Maybe I should

575
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:49,200
Speaker 5: be more supportive of this person, as opposed to being like, oh, no,

576
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 5: I need to be there. That's not fair. And if

577
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 5: that was to be a current situation in my life

578
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 5: where my child didn't feel like my husband is supportive

579
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 5: of her, then I would totally agree with my child

580
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 5: and be like, no, well she doesn't want you there,

581
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,639
Speaker 5: then you don't need to be there, you know. But

582
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 5: my husband has been very supportive.

583
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 1: Okay, but Stacy, thank you for Sharon. I have a

584
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:12,680
Speaker 1: good day you too, and thank you for listening.

585
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 3: Jose. How you doing, Jose, Good morning, Jose guy, Let's

586
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:18,880
Speaker 3: have good morning.

587
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:19,160
Speaker 5: Yeah?

588
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 3: Hi, what do you want to say?

589
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:20,400
Speaker 9: Go ahead?

590
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 2: Please?

591
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 8: Man?

592
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 9: Look, you know I grew up with a stepdad and

593
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 9: you know he was never dead like for me when

594
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,640
Speaker 9: I was playing soccer and stuff. But WoT I would

595
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:30,360
Speaker 9: have wanted him that man, because you don't even though

596
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:32,919
Speaker 9: he wasn't there, he was a provider, you know, And like,

597
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 9: I mean, it's okay that like this guy, like the

598
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 9: child is you know, he's still growing up and stuff.

599
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 9: He's going to figure this out later on in time.

600
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 9: But maybe being a generous right now or just taking

601
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 9: it to a consideration might be okay as well, because

602
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 9: he's going to teach him a better lesson now than

603
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:52,720
Speaker 9: later on. You know, holding that grudge, holding that judgment

604
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 9: and stuff like that, that ain't cool.

605
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I hear you, Jose And thanks for calling. Man.

606
00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 9: Have a good day, are you too?

607
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,439
Speaker 1: I mean you're asking you're asking a kid to be

608
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: the bigger person. It's like, yeah, I mean maybe I'm

609
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,400
Speaker 1: sure you know what this is going to cause this

610
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: is a ripple effect here. It's obviously you know, upset

611
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: in the Apple cards. So you could just invite the

612
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:14,919
Speaker 1: guy and you know, and he knows that there's not

613
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 1: much you know, support there or synergy.

614
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 3: But yeah, this this.

615
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 1: I may not want a negative influence there either if

616
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 1: I did the thing that you told me that I

617
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:30,400
Speaker 1: shouldn't or couldn't do. Amanda, Hi, Hi, how are you, Hey,

618
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 1: good morning, what do you want to say?

619
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 3: Welcome?

620
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 7: Thank you? Usually so usually with graduation do you get

621
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 7: I mean, four tickets max to most of these graduations.

622
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 7: So it may not necessarily be that he doesn't appreciate

623
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 7: or they don't appreciate everything this stepfather's done for him.

624
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 7: But maybe it's just these other people that he's decided

625
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:53,879
Speaker 7: to come watch him and play the bigger role in

626
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:58,159
Speaker 7: his life. It may not necessarily, you know, be that

627
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:01,439
Speaker 7: he doesn't have a good relationship where they don't have

628
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,640
Speaker 7: a good relationship. It may just be, hey, this, these

629
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 7: other people have just meant more to me throughout my life,

630
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 7: and those are the ones that I want to see.

631
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,159
Speaker 7: Because I have my nephews graduating high school in a

632
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 7: couple of weeks. And again he got four tickets and

633
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 7: he's having someone come his mom, but she's never really

634
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 7: been in his life and I kind of helped raise

635
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 7: him as a kid. So I was upset, but I'm like,

636
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,680
Speaker 7: you know what, again, it's his choice. And if that

637
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:33,160
Speaker 7: too he chooses to have walked, you know, watch him walk,

638
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 7: I'll be there in spirit. So kind of you kind

639
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 7: of have to sometimes think like, hey, it may not

640
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 7: be personal to that person. You just say, hey, maybe

641
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 7: these people have just met more to him or sit

642
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 7: aside him more. And at the end of the day,

643
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 7: these graduations you get like three or four tickets rights

644
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 7: And it's a tough situation that he's a kid.

645
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 1: I commend you though, that you're not going to penalize

646
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 1: the child for the fact that you believe that you

647
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 1: deserve to be there. But he's made a different choice,

648
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 1: I mean, and that's that's his right. But yet I

649
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 1: know your love and your support of him will not change.

650
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 1: You can be disappointed, but again, this is the choice

651
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 1: he's making today and it doesn't negate what you've done.

652
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 7: Absolutely, and like you said, he's eighteen.

653
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 11: He is a child.

654
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 7: Like it's not going to change my views on him.

655
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 7: I know he loves me, I love him, but absolutely

656
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 7: he's a child. Let's not you know, got to be

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Speaker 7: the bigger people sometimes.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he's out of the will completely. But other

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Speaker 1: than that, I mean, it's you know, I don't know

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Speaker 1: who's going to pay for college now. But other than that, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: there'll be no repercussion.

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Speaker 3: A man. Have a good day.

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Speaker 11: Thanks so much.

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Speaker 3: I'm glad you.

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Speaker 1: Called the Entertainment Report, will do it next, Headlines, the

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Speaker 1: biggest stories of the day after that, and fun fact,

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Speaker 1: all coming up in the next fifteen minutes.

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Speaker 3: On The Red Show,