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Speaker 1: First Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocates dot com.

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Speaker 2: Four years ago, I met this great girl Abby dating

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Speaker 2: for a couple of months. It was great, but I got.

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Speaker 3: Transferred for work.

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Speaker 2: I never told her I go sit her and I

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Speaker 2: want to call her apologize. It should be my Valentine

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Speaker 2: this year.

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Speaker 4: We're calling you today because somebody would like to say

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Speaker 4: hi to you.

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Speaker 5: Go ahead, sir, Hi Abby, Liam, Yes it is.

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Speaker 3: Yes, what is this after four years?

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Speaker 6: What is this?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 2: My heartbreaks that I get it you. I want to

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Speaker 2: show you how I changed. And I'm just asking you

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Speaker 2: for one date just to show you how sorry I

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Speaker 2: am and how much I change. And we could talk

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Speaker 2: about this.

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Speaker 3: You know what, I can go out tonight if you.

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Speaker 5: Want what really you will go out with him again?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Will you guys check in with us tomorrow so tell

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Speaker 4: us about your date please?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like as I'll unblocked your number and you can

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Speaker 3: text me and we'll figure it out all.

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Speaker 4: Right, amazing, amazing, amazing, Okay, And we'll talk to you

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Speaker 4: guys the same time tomorrow to get an update on

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Speaker 4: how it went.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna go great, I know it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll see. I mean, you've got a lot of

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Speaker 3: talking to you.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I know, I know, I'm gonna be ready.

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Speaker 4: That's a clip from yesterday's First Date follow up, and

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Speaker 4: Liam is actually on the phone right now because they

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Speaker 4: had their Valentine's date last night.

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Speaker 5: I guess, yeah, something like that. I'm really kind of

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Speaker 5: anxious to see what happened.

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Speaker 4: Liam. Hey, oh, it doesn't sound like your date went well.

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Speaker 5: What happened?

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Speaker 2: She's ghosted me?

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Speaker 5: What are you serious?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't understand the mind game like

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Speaker 2: we had. I'm like, so I don't. I don't we

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Speaker 2: had planned she texted me, you know, she unblocked me,

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Speaker 2: so texting me a great you know, happy hour at

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Speaker 2: dinner spot, and it's sound of so much fun. So

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Speaker 2: I get there, she's not there, and I wait forty

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Speaker 2: minutes and I'm texting her nothing. We were texting back

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Speaker 2: and forth. I know, it was so great. It was

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Speaker 2: like she was so flirty we you know, I mean

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Speaker 2: even up to like, wait, before I was leaving, she

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Speaker 2: texted me like, oh, I'm getting ready. I got this

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Speaker 2: cutest dress. I think you'll like. She's like, actually, I

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Speaker 2: were on one of our dates four years ago. So

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Speaker 2: let's see if you remember what date. Like, you know,

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Speaker 2: she'd be really blurty blirty, and she said, did you

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Speaker 2: leave yet? I said, I'm about to, and she's like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: me too, came to see you. Hearts all these emoji kisses,

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Speaker 2: you know, and then I get the rest on and

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Speaker 2: she's that was nowhere to be found. I check it

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Speaker 2: like social media, and I'm I'm reblocked. I'm like, so

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Speaker 2: I can't make contact with her?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 6: Know why I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why. I don't understand what the game is.

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Speaker 2: I don't understand the getting back ghost to me. What

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Speaker 2: does that serve? What purpose does that sert?

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Speaker 5: Wow? Okay, I got.

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Speaker 2: There like an idiot.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. You don't even block your phone number.

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Speaker 5: This it's hard to know, right.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean when we when we were texting each other,

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Speaker 2: I said like, yo, can we like we connect on

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Speaker 2: you know, Instagram, and she's like yeah, yeah, from unblocked me.

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Speaker 2: So I like a couple of her pictures, you know,

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Speaker 2: because I haven't seen her at four years, so that

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Speaker 2: kind of scrolling tech, you know. And then so I

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Speaker 2: know she unblocked me and then I can't find a

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Speaker 5: That is weird. Wow.

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Speaker 2: I mean so it's not like she's missing.

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Speaker 3: I mean she got her inch GAM's gone.

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Speaker 5: Like like that was intentional. Yeah about it.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you guys know if you were on Instagram

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Speaker 2: ha and look her up if she's still on well

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Speaker 2: if you know her handle, like let me know.

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Speaker 5: Well, let's try to call her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's even better.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so we'll plays I'll come back and then we'll

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Speaker 4: call her and I guess you can get your actual

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Speaker 4: first day follow up next.

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Speaker 3: Yeah sounds good.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm sorry man, we'll call her right after this. Okay.

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Speaker 1: First date follow up by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online

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Speaker 4: If you're just joining us for today, it's the first

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Speaker 4: date follow up. We talked to Liam yesterday for a

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Speaker 4: first date follo up. He actually goes to this girl

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Speaker 4: named Abby four years ago because he moved out of town.

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Speaker 4: They were dating for a couple of months and he

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Speaker 4: just bounced, and now that he's back, he wanted to

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Speaker 4: ask her if she would go out and be his valentine.

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Speaker 4: So we called her and he was able to explain

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Speaker 4: himself At first she was not very interested in even

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Speaker 4: talking to him because he was blocked on everything. So

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Speaker 4: we actually got her to agree to go out with

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Speaker 4: him last night on a date. And Liam is on

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Speaker 4: the phone right now because what happened?

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Speaker 5: Liam? She goes to me, you never showed up, She

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Speaker 5: didn't show up.

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Speaker 2: No, I was there for almost an hour and nothing,

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Speaker 2: no text, nothing. All right, block me again on everything.

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Speaker 5: Maybe somebody got into her head.

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Speaker 3: Ooh you know. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if this is my games or whatever,

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Speaker 2: but I want to get to the bottom of this

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Speaker 2: because it is well.

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Speaker 5: I mean, you did bounce on her four years ago.

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Speaker 5: At there a couple of ye.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I apologize.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: All right, man, Well call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 4: tell us what happened.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yes, please, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hey, Abby, Hey,

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Speaker 5: how are you?

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, is this a Jubil show?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 2: It is.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 5: Hi, how are you good? So we're calling to check

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Speaker 5: in about your date last night with Liam. How'd it go?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Well, you know, it didn't go.

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Speaker 5: It didn't go. We didn't go.

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Speaker 3: What happened was, well, it's really caught off guard the

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Speaker 3: other day when you called and I really didn't know

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Speaker 3: what to think. I thought about it, and I really remembered,

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Speaker 3: you know, the original dates that we had four years ago.

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Speaker 3: We had a really good time, right.

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Speaker 5: You guys were dating for a couple of months and.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, and he goes to me and I was

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Speaker 3: fifty sad. Yeah, and you know I thought about it

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Speaker 3: in like about an hour before a date. I decided

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Speaker 3: to make him feel like I did four years ago.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I mean obviously we did talk to Liam

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Speaker 4: before we called you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, you know.

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Speaker 3: I was planning on texting him after a few days.

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Speaker 5: But you know, you work for it.

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Speaker 3: Oh you know he ghosted me four years ago without

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Speaker 3: saying a word, and I, I don't know. I just

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Speaker 3: couldn't go out with him again and get him another

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Speaker 2: Like this is so messed up. I understand, you know

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Speaker 2: what happened. I go to do and you're trying to

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Speaker 2: get me back, but it's pretty messed up. Like I called,

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Speaker 2: you know, apologized, I manned up. I just don't understand

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Speaker 2: like you were texted me just like a game, like

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Speaker 2: did you what you like? Why did you go a game?

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Speaker 3: It is get me back? It's it's it sounds like

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Speaker 3: a game.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I get it. And I already apologize to you,

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Speaker 2: So I don't understand why you have to like scab

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Speaker 2: me in the back or the stomach or whatever, you know,

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Speaker 2: after I apologize, like I said, I'm sorry, and you know,

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Speaker 2: I mean when you said you were going to go

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Speaker 2: on another day with me, I was so excited, like

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Speaker 2: relationship that we had and you know, it was amazing.

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Speaker 2: And you know, just to like sideline me and just

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Speaker 2: to get me back is so really hurtful. And I

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Speaker 3: One second way from just whistling.

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Speaker 5: This is just hurtful.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it is hurtful.

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Speaker 6: I just wanted you to understand how much it sucks

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Speaker 6: to get you you're excited to see, you know what

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Speaker 6: I'm talking It sucks to get ghosted by someone that

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Speaker 3: So I wanted you to understand that. And if you

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Speaker 3: to work for it. It's kind of in your court now, Abby.

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Speaker 2: I do want to see you, like I want. I

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Speaker 2: really want to make this work. It's so special to me,

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Speaker 2: and I understand you just got you know, let's forget about.

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Speaker 3: This ghosting stuff. Like I gooes to you, you got

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Speaker 3: me back, like, move on to the thing.

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Speaker 5: And I really just want to go on.

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Speaker 2: A date with you to show you I changed.

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Speaker 3: I am the right person for you, and you know.

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Speaker 2: And I know that you said you're busy in Valentine's

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Speaker 2: Day and I get it. I don't want to overstep,

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Speaker 2: but I do want to see you, and you know,

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Speaker 2: I want to go on a date this weekend. I'm

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Speaker 2: up for anything, you know, as long as you both

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Speaker 2: show up. And like you know, even though I won't

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Speaker 2: see you on Valentine's Day, you're still my Valentine.

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Speaker 3: So if you want to.

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Speaker 2: I could wait a couple of days to see you

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Speaker 2: and you can still be my Valentine's Day. I literally

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Speaker 2: waited for years because every day I'm with you would

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Speaker 2: be like Valentine's Day to May.

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Speaker 3: Oh so actually, Leanne, no, I don't have many friends

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Speaker 3: tonight I kind of wanted to see what you would

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Speaker 3: do if you try and get in touch with me

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Speaker 3: and see if it was important enough to you. So

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Speaker 3: I made reservations for us for tonight just in case.

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Speaker 3: Are you serious?

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Speaker 5: This is not a job, right, You're not.

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Speaker 7: A can't this is not a w and I will

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Speaker 7: show up kind of test you. Okay, I'm talking.

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Speaker 5: Excitement. I can feel it.

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Speaker 3: Go ahead, go ahead, Okay, just don't interrupt me this time. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So okay, do you let me talk?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, sorry, I can't keep it. I just want

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Speaker 2: to I just want to skip a good Okay, Well.

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Speaker 3: I guess I'll just I'll text you where i'll be

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