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Speaker 1: Like writing in our diaries. We call him blogs Kaylin.

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Speaker 2: Oh, yes, dear blog.

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Speaker 3: So we've talked a lot on this show about how

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Speaker 3: some of us have anxiety going to the doctor's office.

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Speaker 2: Fred will admit that he sometimes.

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Speaker 3: You know, won't tell the full truth because he's ashamed

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Speaker 1: Are you talking about me, Like, I'm not right here?

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm just recapping the ones who are scared because

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Speaker 3: I don't have.

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Speaker 2: That anxiety at the doctor.

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Speaker 3: I am very much of the anxiety of if I

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Speaker 3: don't tell them, I'm going to die.

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Speaker 2: If I don't get this checked out, I will die.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's not, but I just want to be clear.

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Speaker 1: It's not like I'm with holding important symptoms or like

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Speaker 1: hiding It's like if my stomach hurts is something and

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Speaker 1: they're like, well, do you have this symptom and that's.

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Speaker 2: Your bashful and then that's what it is.

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Speaker 3: You had too pretty of a doctor one time, and

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Speaker 3: that also gave you a little.

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Speaker 1: Bit Yeah, I couldn't possibly tell her what was going

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Speaker 1: on with my booty if I had anything going on

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Speaker 1: with my booty at the time, which I didn't, but

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Speaker 1: I was like, I'm just thinking ahead, what if something

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Speaker 1: was wrong with I gotta tell this very attractive doctor lady,

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Speaker 1: who I understand is a professional and doesn't care, but

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Speaker 2: Thing ya is.

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Speaker 1: I don't like talking about myself, like yeah.

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Speaker 2: And that's a common thing.

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Speaker 3: I mean, Rufio wouldn't go to the doctor for the

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Speaker 3: longest time. I mean, it's you know whatever.

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Speaker 2: But I don't have that. But the anxiety I do

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Speaker 2: have is when I speak to the receptionist, okay, because.

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Speaker 3: What gives them the right to ask why I am

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Speaker 3: making an appointment? And how much detail do I give? Okay?

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Speaker 3: Because sometimes it's just, oh, you know, just my annual,

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Speaker 3: which is like very easy to say. But sometimes I

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Speaker 3: don't want to tell a woman who is not my

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Speaker 3: doctor or a man whoever's answering the phone, what's really going.

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Speaker 2: On with me? What's really going on with you? You

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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, what's really going on?

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Speaker 3: Well, first, I mean mine is a little intense, so

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Speaker 2: But sometimes it's embarrassing.

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Speaker 3: You know, people will have self oozing or you know,

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Speaker 2: Oa miss salve. You know, I've heard it all though,

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Speaker 2: you know, I'm saying, like they see the charts.

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Speaker 1: And I think they have to know because they have

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Speaker 1: to know how much time you're gonna need. They have

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Speaker 1: to prep the doctor, like as far as what they

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Speaker 1: might be up against, like because the nurse will come

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Speaker 1: same stuff you have to tell the doctor. And me.

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Speaker 1: I don't like that though, cause it's like, why I

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Speaker 2: I know, but there are nurse like they want to,

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Speaker 2: you know, I just like, I don't know. I just don't.

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's it's it's not then it.

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Speaker 4: I feel you is this And I feel like it's

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Speaker 4: Like before you could just make an appointment, you know whatever,

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Speaker 2: Issue, right, And I'm like, girl, how much time you die?

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Speaker 4: Because let me tell you, you know, Like I feel

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Speaker 2: I don't remember this always being the standard.

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Speaker 1: I just tell people I have a like a sore

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Speaker 1: I'm what I'm told is that, like it's not uncommon

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Speaker 1: so you had allergy, so we you know, here's some clariton.

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Speaker 1: But like, let's talk about Oh, that's an interesting twist.

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Speaker 1: You know. I think it's pretty common.

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Speaker 3: If you're going to the guy no, and it's anything

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Speaker 2: And then you go to the office and she's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't think they I don't think they are for

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Speaker 1: So I don't I don't think that. That's what everyone

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Speaker 3: But are is the reception to receptionists. I can say

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Speaker 1: I don't think you have to be a nurse necessarily,

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Speaker 3: You have to go to school to be a receptionist

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Speaker 4: I don't know what you have to do, but you

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Speaker 4: don't have to just like here. Some of them have

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Speaker 1: This same rules apply. They still have to because they

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Speaker 3: But they might not have the same you know, like

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Speaker 3: my doctor. I'm like, they've seen a million, they've done

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Speaker 3: a million. I'm not the worst.

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Speaker 4: I definitely think they're looking up your Instagram, thanks your name,

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Speaker 4: looking up your Instagram, laughing at your own lunch break.

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Speaker 4: I'm telling you, and I found your boyfriend page. They're

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Speaker 4: telling him what's going on.

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Speaker 1: They'll take a can over here. So the girl this

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Speaker 3: But then I'm like, okay, well, just I talked myself,

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Speaker 3: and then it's like I over shared the last time

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Speaker 3: I made the appointment, which was the direct opposite of

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Speaker 3: what I wanted to do.

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Speaker 2: I just kept talking and she just kept letting me. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I figured out that's how you get a quicker appointment

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Speaker 4: to the worst. Like when she asked me, my grandma, almost,

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Speaker 4: did I think I am dying? You said, it's not

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Speaker 4: to January. I'm I feel like I'm gonna die right now.

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Speaker 4: She's like, we're going in today, so.

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't think my buckle can hang out

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's fine, okay.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's uncommon to mask the real cause,

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Speaker 1: you know, here we go and we're about to get verification. Here, Hi, Victoria,

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Speaker 1: how you doing?

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Speaker 4: I'm done?

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Speaker 2: How are you Victorias?

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Speaker 1: So yeah, very well, thanks for calling, thanks for listening.

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Speaker 1: So you're saying it's true, people like me and like Caitlin,

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Speaker 1: we lie about it, but the real cause of the

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Speaker 1: issue until we actually get to the doctor.

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Speaker 5: Yes, one hundred percent. Like I work in a hospital

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Speaker 5: and I'll go in and see my patients in the

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Speaker 5: morning and I'm like, are you in any pain? Are

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Speaker 5: you nauseous? Like what's going on? They're like, no, we're fine,

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Speaker 5: We're fine. And then the doctor comes and finds me

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Speaker 5: and they're like this patient said this, this, this and this,

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Speaker 5: And then I'm like, no, it looks like I'm not

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Speaker 5: even doing my job, Like why didn't you just tell

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Speaker 5: the doctor or tell me so I could tell the

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Speaker 5: doctor how anytimes? And I'm just like stupid, and I'm like,

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Speaker 5: why don't you want to tell me what's wrong with you?

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Speaker 5: But no, it's so true.

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Speaker 1: See, like people are texting. I need my schedulers to

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Speaker 1: get the info so I can prep for patients someone else.

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Speaker 1: I'm a nurse practitioner in GI and most people are

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Speaker 1: still uncomfortable talking about their bowel movements. Again, I am,

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Speaker 1: I don't like talking about that stuff, Like I don't

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Speaker 1: I'll do it one time and even then, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I can't look at any eye. And I understand I'm

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Speaker 1: the one who has the problem. Everybody else. I get

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Speaker 1: it all you guys who do this every day. It's like, oh, whatever,

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Speaker 1: We've seen worse than this, so it's fine, though, this

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Speaker 1: is whatever's happening to me is the worst thing that

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Speaker 5: It's so true. But sometimes it's just so embarrassing because

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Speaker 5: sometimes most of the time they come and check in

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Speaker 5: with the nurse first and be like, hey, what's going

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Speaker 5: on with this bed? And we tell them, and then

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Speaker 5: they come out of the room and they're like, they

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Speaker 5: just told me all this stuff, and I'm just like, and.

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Speaker 3: Then you have to go back in there after the

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Speaker 3: doctor's I'll be like, why did you lie?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Boy on fire your pants?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fun, Victoria, thank you have a good day.

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Speaker 2: He does too.

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Speaker 1: I know I'm the weirdo. I guess Caitlyn is too.

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Speaker 1: I mean I don't like, like, I don't mind telling

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Speaker 1: the whatever, the reception is, all that stuff, But then

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Speaker 1: when you get to the doctor's office, they give you

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Speaker 2: I gotta fill this all out, like I told you everything,

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Speaker 2: Like why do I got to check all eight hundred

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Speaker 2: more boxes? You didn't listen to me?

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Speaker 1: And I also wonder how like when they ask you

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Speaker 1: questions about like drinking, like, no one tells the truth

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Speaker 1: about drinking. No one tells them. Yeah, a couple drinks

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Speaker 1: a week, a couple drinks a minute per week, you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean like no, yeah, And I just I wonder,

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Speaker 1: like they ask all those like how many partners have

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Speaker 1: you had? New partner? All this, it's like how many

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Speaker 1: people are you're supposed to tell the truth because they

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Speaker 1: But like most people I think are probably lying, you know,

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Speaker 1: because they don't want to be judged, or they don't

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Speaker 1: they feel like they're being judged. And really all the

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Speaker 1: doctors trying to do is his or her job. But

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Speaker 1: it's like, em, I don't really feel like him. So

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Speaker 1: I'm a virgin. What I tell them?

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Speaker 2: According to you young, yeah, I'm a virgin.

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Speaker 1: But my butt is falling out and someone needs to

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Speaker 1: fix this immediately. There going next