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Speaker 1: Subject my man moves mysteriously. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a

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Speaker 1: forty two year old woman and I've been in a

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Speaker 1: relationship with a forty five year old man for three years.

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Speaker 1: For the past two years, he's been living with me

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Speaker 1: because he needed some house repairs done around Christmas time

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Speaker 1: last year. I caught him at his own house one

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Speaker 1: Saturday when he was supposed to be visiting his parents

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Speaker 1: in South Carolina. I pulled up in his driveway and

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Speaker 1: he met me at the door, and he told me

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Speaker 1: that it was a dusty mess inside like a construction site,

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Speaker 1: and I didn't need to come in He also didn't

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Speaker 1: hug or kiss me and said he was too dirty

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Speaker 1: from working all day. I never questioned him about not

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Speaker 1: telling me he was still in town because I never

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Speaker 1: want to be a nagger like his ex wife. He

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Speaker 1: did not come home that night. The next morning, he

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Speaker 1: came home and he had shaved and he had on

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Speaker 1: dress pants. He said he went to church because his

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Speaker 1: coworker got baptized. This man threw me into a lot

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Speaker 1: within into a lot within twenty four hours, and I

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Speaker 1: still didn't nag or ask him any questions. For the

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Speaker 1: next few months, he would leave the house and wouldn't

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Speaker 1: say where he was going. I would ride by his house,

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Speaker 1: but the garage was always down, so if he was

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Speaker 1: in there, I couldn't tell. Last month, he said he

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Speaker 1: was finished with his house and he was selling it.

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Speaker 1: He said he felt like he was wearing out his

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Speaker 1: welcome with me and he might go stay with his

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Speaker 1: parents until he finds a new house. I told him

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Speaker 1: I wanted to see how he renovated his house, and

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Speaker 1: he said that there's a tenant renting it now.

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Speaker 2: I had a look of.

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Speaker 1: Confusion, and he went off on me for not believing him.

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Speaker 1: So much is going on with him, and I don't

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Speaker 1: know if I should believe him. He still says he

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Speaker 1: loves me and we still have sex, So why is

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Speaker 1: he keeping me in the dark?

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Speaker 2: What's he up to?

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Speaker 1: Well, there's nothing too mysterious about him, there really is,

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Speaker 1: and it's just a lot of lies. He's up to something,

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Speaker 1: for sure, and everything that comes out of his mouth

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Speaker 1: is a lie. I mean, I'll admit that house repairs

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Speaker 1: can take a very long time, but he's been living

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Speaker 1: with you for the last two years, so please don't

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Speaker 1: believe anything he says. He could have had a whole

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Speaker 1: house built in two years or less. Okay, anyway, all

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Speaker 1: the clues are there. First, not telling you he was

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Speaker 1: still in town when he was, then preventing you from

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Speaker 1: going in the house when you were in the driveway,

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Speaker 1: not hugging, not kide you when he saw you, because

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Speaker 1: I'm sure that's what he normally does. Who do you

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Speaker 1: think is in that house that he's supposedly selling right now?

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Speaker 1: Is it a wife in there?

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Speaker 2: Is it his kids?

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Speaker 1: Think? Think Think you're worried about not being a nag,

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Speaker 1: but you're worried about the wrong things. You still have

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Speaker 1: to ask questions. You obviously can't take his word for anything,

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Speaker 1: and you're feeling it. You know something isn't quite right.

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Speaker 1: You definitely need receipts when he tells you things. Okay, Now,

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Speaker 1: he's moving out because he thinks he's worn out. He's

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Speaker 1: welcome with you. No, you didn't tell him that. He

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Speaker 1: thinks that you may be on to him, and he

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Speaker 1: knows he's wrong.

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Speaker 2: That's why he's leaving.

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Speaker 1: I know you think he loves you and you're confused,

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Speaker 1: but please, love has nothing to do with this relationship. Nothing.

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Speaker 1: There's really no mystery at all about him. Like I

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Speaker 1: said earlier, I think you should break up with this

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Speaker 1: comes clean. And that's not going to happen.

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Speaker 3: Steve, Wow, where are these women who write these letters?

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Speaker 3: I didn't know that you could be this gullible. I

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Speaker 3: just really didn't. Man, it doesn't it just almost doesn't

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Speaker 3: make any sense.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: I'm starting to think that women, women would rather be

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Speaker 3: a real relationship.

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Speaker 2: Of some kind.

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Speaker 3: I think it's you keep holding on to these relationships

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Speaker 3: that aren't rewarding and are not fulfilling. To you, just

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Speaker 3: so you can say you in one because this don't

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Speaker 3: make no decisions. You forty two, he forty five. You've

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Speaker 3: been in a relationship for three years. Past two years

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Speaker 3: we've been he's been living with you because he needed

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Speaker 3: some house repairs done two years. Okay, around Christmas time

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Speaker 3: last year, I caught him a his own house one

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Speaker 2: I pulled up in his driveway. He met me at

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Speaker 3: Told me it was dusty, messing side and construction site.

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Speaker 3: I didn't need to come in. He also didn't hug

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Speaker 3: or kiss me. He said he was too dirty from

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Speaker 3: working all day.

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Speaker 2: And that's all he had to tell you.

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Speaker 3: Go up to the house. It's too dirty here now,

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Speaker 3: but it's too dirty for you. He don't hug or

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Speaker 3: kiss you because he too dirty. That's all he had

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: I never questioned him about telling me oh he was

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Speaker 3: still in town, because I never want to be a

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Speaker 3: nagger like his ex wife. Okay, so now you're being pleased,

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Speaker 3: you're getting played. You're actually creating the perfect scenario and

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Speaker 3: excuse that he needs to do whatever he needs to do,

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Speaker 3: and that's all you do it. So now you've created

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Speaker 3: the atmosphere for him to thrive in and tell you

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Speaker 3: along with. I don't want to be a nagger like

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Speaker 3: his ex wife. Well why was she nagging? Hell, you

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Speaker 3: got to understand something, now, most women don't nag for

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Speaker 3: no reason.

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Speaker 2: They've been given a reason. That are some women who do.

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Speaker 3: But most women that nag you about something is because

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Speaker 3: you gave him a reason too.

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Speaker 2: And I think he gave the ex a reason. Thought.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hold that well that part two of Steve's response

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters subject is my man moves mysteriously. We'll get

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: My man moves mysteriously.

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Speaker 3: This lady right here is so gullible in this letter.

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Speaker 3: Like I said, it just makes me think that women

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Speaker 3: would rather have some relationship than a real relationship. And

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Speaker 3: your real relationship meaning that you're rewarded, you're fulfilled, you're complete.

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Speaker 3: So you deal with all these inconsistencies, and it don't

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Speaker 3: make no sense.

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Speaker 2: You've been dating this man three years. Years ago.

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Speaker 3: He moved in your house because he was doing some

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Speaker 3: house repairs for two years. You went over his house

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Speaker 3: one Saturday when he said he was going to see

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Speaker 3: his mama in South Carolina. You go over his house

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Speaker 3: and he supposed to be empty. He's standing in there working.

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Speaker 3: He meets you at the door, don't let you in

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Speaker 3: because he's say it's a construction site, is messing his dirty.

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Speaker 2: He don't hug and kiss.

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Speaker 3: You at the door, And he said the reason he

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Speaker 3: all day.

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Speaker 2: You stupid, So you let him tell you that.

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Speaker 3: Then you said, I never questioned him about telling me

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Speaker 3: he was still in town because I never want to

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Speaker 3: be a nagger like his ex wife.

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Speaker 2: His ex wife was nagging for something. Yes, she nagged him.

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Speaker 3: And now you're starting to see why I'm telling you

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Speaker 3: right now, most women don't nag for no reason. Some

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Speaker 3: them a reason to turn into this nagging. Okay, ready

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Speaker 3: for this. He did not come home that night, Well,

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Speaker 3: he didn't come home. He told you he was at

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Speaker 3: his mama's house in South Carolina. You go over to

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Speaker 3: his house and he at that house, he don't let

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Speaker 3: you in. You drive off here. The best one I've

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Speaker 3: ever heard in my life. He did not come home

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Speaker 3: that night. The next morning he came home and said,

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Speaker 3: He said he went to church because his coworker got baptized.

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Speaker 2: Or the best one I ever heard. That's a good one.

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Speaker 2: That boy. You're proud. I got my chest out on this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I shaved and got on dress pants because

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Speaker 3: I went to church because my coworker got baptized. Here's

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Speaker 3: something you can't find out if it's true or not.

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Speaker 3: I don't get what type of research you do?

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Speaker 2: What church? What coworker? What job was he referring to?

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Speaker 3: You ain't gonna be researchers. Best lie I've ever heard.

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Speaker 3: Co worker got baptized. Then she say, this man threw

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Speaker 3: me into a lot the last twenty four hours. That

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Speaker 3: lie right there, my coworker got baptized. That's the best

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Speaker 2: It ain't freedom enough. I'm gonna have to write a

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Speaker 3: And so this man threw me into a lot the

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Speaker 3: last twenty four hours. I still don't nag or ask

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Speaker 3: him any questions. Lady, okay, so now you're just gunnable.

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Speaker 2: You just going along with it.

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Speaker 3: If you don't question your relationship on him, you just

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Speaker 3: going along with whatever he says. For the next few months.

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Speaker 3: He would lead a house and wouldn't say where it

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Speaker 3: was going. Who can do that? Who in the relationship

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Speaker 3: has to freedom to come and go and never say

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Speaker 3: where you're going or when you're coming back now. I

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Speaker 3: would ride by his house, but the garage was always down,

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Speaker 3: so if he was there, I couldn't tell. Last month,

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Speaker 3: he said he was finished with his house and he's selling.

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Speaker 2: All right. Now here we go.

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Speaker 3: He said he felt like he was wearing out his

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Speaker 3: welcome with me, and he might go stay with his

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Speaker 3: parents until he finds a new house.

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Speaker 2: What wait a minute, you leaving me?

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Speaker 3: You're gonna go live with your mama, dim because you

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Speaker 3: wear out your wealth and you're gonna go stay with your.

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Speaker 2: Parents to you find a new house. I told him, mom,

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Speaker 2: I wanted to see how it renovated. His house.

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Speaker 3: Ready for this, he said, there's a tenant renting it

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Speaker 3: right now.

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Speaker 2: Another good life. You gotta be proud this boy right here.

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Speaker 2: I love this boy right here. So I can't let

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Speaker 2: you in it because the tenant rented it right now.

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Speaker 2: I had a look of confusion.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and he went off on me for not believing him.

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Speaker 2: Remember this best defense is a good offense.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so when you look confused, Oh, I'm lying up. Yeah, dog,

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Speaker 3: she living there, has she been living there? And you're

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Speaker 3: not finna go to your mama's house. You're finna go

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Speaker 3: over there. So telling you that there's a renter in

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Speaker 3: there looking for him no more. And right after he

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Speaker 3: told you he was gonna put it on the market

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Speaker 3: and sell it. If you're gonna put the market on

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Speaker 3: the selling, why you got a tendant in that right now?

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Speaker 3: Already so much is going on with him. I don't

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Speaker 3: know if I should believe him. He still says he

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Speaker 3: loves me and we still have sex. That's cause you

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Speaker 3: let him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So why is he keeping me in the dark?

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Speaker 2: What is he up to? So you want to know.

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Speaker 3: Why he's keeping you in the dark because you don't

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Speaker 3: seem to have a problem being in the dark. This

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Speaker 3: is why he don't bring you into the light, because

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Speaker 3: don't question him about nothing, ask you wait, going what

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Speaker 3: is wor about?

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Speaker 2: You?

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Speaker 3: Like being in the dog? So now that you and

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Speaker 3: the dog, But I'm lighting it up for you. There's

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Speaker 3: a woman living in the house that he's seeing. He

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Speaker 3: gonna go live over there, and he ain't moving in

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Speaker 3: with his mama. Why would he move in with the

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Speaker 3: mama when he could sleep with you all with her?

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Speaker 3: Lady shut up.

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