1
00:00:01,840 --> 00:00:05,440
Speaker 1: All right. This guy's is from Jay on Facebook. Jay says,

2
00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:08,200
Speaker 1: my seventy two year old mother lives on a fixed income,

3
00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:10,479
Speaker 1: so I help her out with some extra money and

4
00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:13,680
Speaker 1: by paying her mortgage, which is fine since I'm an

5
00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:16,479
Speaker 1: only child and will inherit her home one day. The

6
00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:21,239
Speaker 1: last few weeks, she's needed a busy as well. He's

7
00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:23,040
Speaker 1: helping his mom and the house is going to be

8
00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:25,959
Speaker 1: his anyway, so start paying the mortgage. Now, That's what

9
00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:29,120
Speaker 1: he's basically saying. The last few weeks, she's needed a

10
00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:31,639
Speaker 1: bit of extra cash, so I gave it to her,

11
00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:35,080
Speaker 1: but asked why she's been short. She then tells me

12
00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,800
Speaker 1: that she's been giving money to her ninety something neighbors

13
00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:41,360
Speaker 1: so she can buy groceries. While I appreciate that she's

14
00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:44,600
Speaker 1: helping a friend, I know the neighbor has children and

15
00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:47,760
Speaker 1: wonder why they can't help. Should I intervene in this

16
00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:50,519
Speaker 1: situation to protect my mother? Should I reach out to

17
00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:52,520
Speaker 1: the neighbor's children? Yeah?

18
00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:55,360
Speaker 2: WHOA, this is a good I mean, how much mom

19
00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:57,240
Speaker 2: money is Mama really giving up?

20
00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:02,920
Speaker 1: I mean, let's say, to an elderly person, though that

21
00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:03,640
Speaker 1: is a lot.

22
00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,959
Speaker 2: That's a lot of that is that's a lot of

23
00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:09,039
Speaker 2: money here. But if this is my mama, I just

24
00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:11,600
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm just wanting them. My MoMA can

25
00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:12,559
Speaker 2: have whatever she wants.

26
00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:14,440
Speaker 1: But your mom is giving it.

27
00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:17,880
Speaker 2: That's the way, And I get it.

28
00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:18,679
Speaker 1: I get it.

29
00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:20,440
Speaker 2: But my mom is like that. My mom is a

30
00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:23,920
Speaker 2: helpful person, so she's trying to help somebody. So I

31
00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:26,640
Speaker 2: get it. You just got it. You if you really

32
00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:28,240
Speaker 2: want to go and get it, don't. Don't go in

33
00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:30,440
Speaker 2: and get your mama mad at because you the win

34
00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:32,440
Speaker 2: next door asking him to speak to the nine old

35
00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:34,920
Speaker 2: person kids. Why the hell ain't giving you some money?

36
00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:36,560
Speaker 2: My mamma give it to you, you.

37
00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,959
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying that though, if she's got kids,

38
00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,560
Speaker 1: I mean, he needs to find out if what's going on.

39
00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:44,360
Speaker 1: He does need to find out what's going on. You

40
00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:46,800
Speaker 1: don't think so if she's got kids.

41
00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:47,039
Speaker 2: I do.

42
00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:51,720
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think maybe she's not telling her children that

43
00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:55,320
Speaker 1: she needs the money. But this man is supporting his

44
00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:59,120
Speaker 1: mother and she can't provide who tho? Yeah, who's supporting

45
00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:01,360
Speaker 1: helping to support or at someone else else?

46
00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:01,760
Speaker 2: Yeah?

47
00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:05,280
Speaker 1: Who has grown children who should be helping their mom,

48
00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:06,760
Speaker 1: just like he's helping his mom.

49
00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:10,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I get Tommy's not long term, not long term.

50
00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:13,000
Speaker 2: I understand like not long term?

51
00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:14,160
Speaker 1: What do you mean?

52
00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:17,000
Speaker 3: I get here what he's saying by his mom and everything.

53
00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:21,239
Speaker 3: But that's not me. This me go ahead, miss Ethel,

54
00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:26,720
Speaker 3: Miss Ethel take another day up down from Lesha, Carroll

55
00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:29,880
Speaker 3: take another. I don't care nothing about your children.

56
00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:35,079
Speaker 2: We're not seeing you, okay, just not out. I don't

57
00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:35,880
Speaker 2: care how he is.

58
00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:38,839
Speaker 3: Won't leave, then get your ass out here.

59
00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:39,480
Speaker 1: Go.

60
00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,359
Speaker 3: You ain't got nobody helping you. What sitting in there?

61
00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:44,399
Speaker 3: What's that that you hear me?

62
00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:45,799
Speaker 2: Come get it out?

63
00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:50,080
Speaker 1: I say you so wrong, I'm not.

64
00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:53,760
Speaker 2: I'm not feelings so many levels. I feel you, junior.

65
00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:54,919
Speaker 1: She's nineties.

66
00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:55,840
Speaker 2: It's not my issues.

67
00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:57,640
Speaker 1: Ain't so fast, it's not.

68
00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:01,200
Speaker 2: Shouldn't have got there to herd it.

69
00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:04,839
Speaker 3: We got feeding you though, My mama gotta eat too.

70
00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:05,600
Speaker 2: Now, coming out of.

71
00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:07,200
Speaker 3: My pocket to give my money?

72
00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:10,240
Speaker 2: You getting it? Tell you right now, I kick your.

73
00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:14,440
Speaker 3: Mailbox offer, I kick it over. Yeah, it's good run.

74
00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:19,959
Speaker 2: You had a good run up the room. Let's go.

75
00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:23,400
Speaker 3: Get there. You're not fit to sit up here and

76
00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:27,080
Speaker 3: do this with you. But you taking my mama money.

77
00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:29,959
Speaker 3: You taking my mama money. I'm telling I have my

78
00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,119
Speaker 3: whole family out here. We'll whoop your ninety your ass

79
00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:37,720
Speaker 3: keep talking. Yeah, yeah, you've been here along whatever they

80
00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:40,440
Speaker 3: motherfucked to hot churity driving up. You never go live

81
00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,480
Speaker 3: your money, that's it. That's your problem. It's not taking hours.

82
00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:47,640
Speaker 2: We're gonna do now, Mama. You go right in the house. Mama,

83
00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:48,280
Speaker 2: I got her.

84
00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:53,280
Speaker 3: Not sitting there.

85
00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:58,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you think you know a person? Yeah, this

86
00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:00,680
Speaker 1: is what I need to do. Okay, tell me you

87
00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:02,560
Speaker 1: stay what you said one more time. Then I want

88
00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:03,480
Speaker 1: your junior.

89
00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:09,120
Speaker 2: Hurry. All I say was all I can was to

90
00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:11,680
Speaker 2: let your mama do what she's doing. You know, let

91
00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:13,520
Speaker 2: your mama have that no money, whatever she giving away.

92
00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:14,160
Speaker 2: That's all I say.

93
00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:18,840
Speaker 3: Then, Joe, miss Etha, Missa, you're not gonna keep taking

94
00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:19,520
Speaker 3: my mama money.

95
00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:25,719
Speaker 2: No, you ain't hating you you night. It's my fault.

96
00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:27,440
Speaker 2: You shouldn't run you on.

97
00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:28,600
Speaker 1: Not a woman's ninety.

98
00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:32,320
Speaker 2: Give her a break. She really shouldn't be eating that

99
00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:33,680
Speaker 2: much though, at lest.

100
00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:36,359
Speaker 1: You turned on miss.

101
00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:39,520
Speaker 2: That was your girl. All right.

102
00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:41,720
Speaker 1: We have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

103
00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:45,440
Speaker 1: up at twenty minutes after right after this. You're listening,

104
00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:47,520
Speaker 1: Harvey morning show,